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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you, thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 1: Ryan Air with a Ryan Seacrest, it's calm down this morning. Down,

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Speaker 1: that's on the team den morning. That's the worst thing

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Speaker 1: someone can say, Calm down. Worst two things that like

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Speaker 1: two unbad word, bad words, Calm down, relax, calm down,

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Speaker 1: that's three calm down? Right. But when Rema says it,

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Speaker 1: is it okay? Well, Redmond doesn't say it, they sing it.

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Speaker 1: It's a song. Selena says it technically, well, whatever the

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Speaker 1: vibe in that song is so sad, I'm fine with it.

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Speaker 1: But when someone says, hey, right, calm down, Oh oh really?

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Speaker 1: Or relax relax? I don't know. Like I almost rather

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Speaker 1: be told to f off then relax. No, that's worse,

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Speaker 1: is it? I think so? I think any profanity or

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Speaker 1: someone cussing at you is worse. I don't like to

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Speaker 1: I don't like to be cussed at. That's that's a fine,

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Speaker 1: but still those are bad. Those are anyway. I don't

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Speaker 1: know why that's cute little Henley today? What's a Henley's

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Speaker 1: sure you're wearing? Oh? Is that a proper name for

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Speaker 1: a such as a collared shirt or button down? I

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Speaker 1: think a Henley looks like a Henley from I don't

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Speaker 1: know what Henley is confirm or denied, but this is

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Speaker 1: a sweater with the collar. Oh, do you have a caller? Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's not a Henley. What is a Henley? Just so

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Speaker 1: we can all based on what you're wearing with like

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Speaker 1: then no collar. Imagine I can't see you describe it.

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Speaker 1: It's buttons, like four buttons from the top and no collar. No,

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Speaker 1: that definitely has a collar. All right, So a krewnack

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Speaker 1: with buttons is a Henley, Yes, exactly. Oh yeah, I

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Speaker 1: buy those from Maxin all the time. Yeah, they're so cute.

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Speaker 1: I love Henley's. They love great four and five year olds.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to dress like a six year old. I

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Speaker 1: like them on forty five year olds. Robbie, he's forty four,

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Speaker 1: but essentially, yeah, when is his birthday? Each passed in February? Member,

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Speaker 1: I just sent him a gift for a Yeah. I

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Speaker 1: was so sweet of you. Did you guys work your

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Speaker 1: way through all that? Not all of it, but we worked.

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Speaker 1: We took one of the bottles with us away for

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Speaker 1: the weekend and drink it whine and cheese. Yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: what book are you reading? By the way, Tanya, right now,

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Speaker 1: it's Jetty's Eight Rules of Love. Oh, this guy's coming

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Speaker 1: on today. No, I know about the Pyramid of Intimacy. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: talk about the Pyramid of Intimacy. Yeah, that's after seven o'clock.

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Speaker 1: I have been very excited about this. I don't realize

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Speaker 1: that you had the book in front of you. I

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Speaker 1: have a signed coffee. She's like a student. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: obsessed with I'm more of like that guy that wings it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm a winger too, Like, yeah, I know this guy's

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Speaker 1: coming on Eight Rules about Love. I've got some questions. Well,

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Speaker 1: let me go. Can I tell you something. I went

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Speaker 1: on his podcast and he was promoting my book, and

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Speaker 1: he was so he had things like this in the

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Speaker 1: in my book. He knew all about it, he read it.

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Speaker 1: He'd asked me all these questions about it. And I

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Speaker 1: took the time to really digest it. And so you

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Speaker 1: did the same thing. But you don't do it for everybody.

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Speaker 1: I must point out you did it because he did

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Speaker 1: do that when who what? But for Kelly Rippo when

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Speaker 1: privy to an advanced reader's copy of her book. Here whatever,

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Speaker 1: I'm down with the authors now if I respect okay,

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Speaker 1: fair weather researcher. Hey, you didn't do and James Patterson

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Speaker 1: in James Patterson's book and he was on. He wasn't on.

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Speaker 1: You should read a James Patterson Obama right right right,

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Speaker 1: Huh See. Now we're in a good move. Everybody's everybody's

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Speaker 1: in a good move. That's all. Takes a little coffee

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Speaker 1: see it where you are? No rain today? Partly Sunday

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Speaker 1: So it's not it's not it's not going away. But

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Speaker 1: trying to think, let's do this. I'm gonna grab Cliff

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Speaker 1: for a second. Clifford calin us before seven o'clock, can't

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Speaker 1: So Cliff in La. I was talking about this a

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Speaker 1: how you get through a breakup? You would look at

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Speaker 1: get inside, it's Korean karaoke and so it typically just

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Speaker 1: people want to go through a break up. That's that's fun. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm one of my only friends I think that's married

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Speaker 1: like the support guy. Cliff. We'll keep your number. Thanks

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Speaker 1: mean karaoke is always fun. Honestly, the way he described it,

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Speaker 1: that's tricky because if they get back together, then you're

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Speaker 1: If my friends going through a breakup. We put our

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Speaker 1: because no one wants staff tworking videos going around. Don't

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Speaker 1: need to see tubs moving his jiu jitsu hips. All right, guys,

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Speaker 1: Eat alone, eat with zero people, you'll eat less. If

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Speaker 1: I am Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday. In most Thursdays, they're not romantic, right,

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Speaker 1: written this book about love. Write that down tops write

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Speaker 1: it all right? Life gets better? This is for your

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Speaker 1: bare minimum you've been offered is not what you deserve.

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Speaker 1: Get the bare minims knacks out headlines well. Thousands of

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Speaker 1: LAUSD employees are expected to go on a three day

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Speaker 1: issue devices and equipment. The vote to approve the ban

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Speaker 1: that your wheelhouse? Yeah? That's that's me. Just so couldn't

422
00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 1: another app do the same thing TikTok does? Yeah? I

423
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 1: mean Instagram's already doing it too, so they just take over.

424
00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:33,120
Speaker 1: They have it with, right, so if it goes away,

425
00:22:33,160 --> 00:22:35,640
Speaker 1: it's your reels. Yeah right, I mean I'm not sweating too,

426
00:22:35,680 --> 00:22:37,480
Speaker 1: me too, Yeah, you're right? Are you sweating? You got

427
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:39,719
Speaker 1: up every morning sweatness. No, no, I can I can

428
00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:42,120
Speaker 1: live without TikTok Yeah, but he's what are you generation? Why?

429
00:22:42,320 --> 00:22:44,359
Speaker 1: I'm a millennial? Is that that where you say it

430
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:46,119
Speaker 1: like that? Because I feel like you think I'm gen Z?

431
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:53,600
Speaker 1: So here millenial. You're not a millennial. But what am i?

432
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:59,080
Speaker 1: You're You're like a boomer X my parents are boomers.

433
00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:02,440
Speaker 1: I'm jen X millennial cos Yeah, what are you? Ruby?

434
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,320
Speaker 1: And Mcha what are you? Michael in the back room,

435
00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:07,639
Speaker 1: I'm a millennial. I'm thought you were a gen Z

436
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 1: as well? Zen? Can I have a gen Z please?

437
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:16,000
Speaker 1: Mariana a gen Zana gen Z come here, Mariana gen Z.

438
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:21,920
Speaker 1: She's here right now. Whoever is close, I'm close. Hello,

439
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,000
Speaker 1: I'm gen Z. That's what a gen Z sounds like.

440
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:29,000
Speaker 1: Z So I thought operas. Listen to him, he sounds

441
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:34,479
Speaker 1: like a gen Zer. Listen wait what So? Could you

442
00:23:34,520 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 1: live without TikTok u currently right now? No? Listen. I

443
00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 1: know everyone's like Instagram reels, but Instagram reels are basically

444
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:45,119
Speaker 1: just TikTok reposted. So if there's no TikTok to repost, like,

445
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 1: what are we gonna do? But could you breathe? If

446
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 1: you had to use reels. It's not the same. It's

447
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 1: not literally like people will like that's so funny. People

448
00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:59,199
Speaker 1: will send me reels and I'm like, I saw this

449
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 1: on TikTok like six months ago, Like, so that's sort

450
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:12,640
Speaker 1: of the vise. Yeah, it's hard being the youngest person

451
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 1: in the office, guys. I mean, you know, it's funny.

452
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 1: It used to be me. Used to be used to

453
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:24,360
Speaker 1: be me. I mean, it's not that much to laugh at,

454
00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:27,880
Speaker 1: but it used to be me. Laugh really hard at that. Yes,

455
00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:32,639
Speaker 1: it was like a guttural return. Man. Well, bottom line,

456
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:36,160
Speaker 1: it doesn't look like it's gonna get banned anytime soon.

457
00:24:36,400 --> 00:24:39,680
Speaker 1: So TikTok away, scroll away. I think we can all

458
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 1: calm down. Oh no, don't say calmed down down. Relax, okay, relax,

459
00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:53,119
Speaker 1: calm down. It's time for Ryan's roses several times a

460
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 1: week here one or two point seven kissm. So listen

461
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 1: to this, tanias to say, dear Ryan and tisny. I

462
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:00,919
Speaker 1: grabbed my husband's phone to go google something quickly and

463
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 1: saw saying it made my stomach drop. That's a worse

464
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:06,159
Speaker 1: feeling when you think you found something and you're just

465
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:09,199
Speaker 1: gut turns upside down. So on the search page it

466
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 1: says shared with you, and then under that it said

467
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:15,960
Speaker 1: from Tara or Tara is a terror Tara tr It

468
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 1: depends on the person. Yeah, all right, one of the two.

469
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:21,160
Speaker 1: I know a Tara and I know a Tera. Well

470
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:24,359
Speaker 1: then we're covered. And the link was for a site

471
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 1: that sells really raunchy, raunchy lingerie. So I think he

472
00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:33,359
Speaker 1: saw how stunned I was when he came in the

473
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:38,360
Speaker 1: room and grabbed his phone. I checked it again yesterday.

474
00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 1: Oh now he's got a password on it, passcode. All right,

475
00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:45,880
Speaker 1: So Diana, thank you for coming on. I appreciate it. Yeah,

476
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,600
Speaker 1: thank you for having I mean that feeling you had

477
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 1: in your stomach. I can only imagine that, just that

478
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:57,959
Speaker 1: punch of the gut. Right, it's just so weird. Yeah,

479
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,160
Speaker 1: I mean we've never really been killed about our phone

480
00:26:00,040 --> 00:26:01,879
Speaker 1: and we just like set them down or whatever. Like

481
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,240
Speaker 1: I wasn't like even like looking for something. I was

482
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 1: a snow thing, you know, and I was just looking

483
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 1: something up. And when I saw this link, I just

484
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:13,919
Speaker 1: like my heart, like I was just like a saying,

485
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:17,119
Speaker 1: I was, do you do you know who Tara or

486
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 1: Tara is? No? I just I have no idea. I've

487
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,679
Speaker 1: like sort of like looked through his Instagram friends and

488
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:28,119
Speaker 1: like I've sort of like looked on his email just

489
00:26:28,119 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 1: to see if I can find anything, and I haven't

490
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 1: really been able to find anything. So I don't know,

491
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 1: all right, So I just make sure I understand it

492
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 1: and sitsy a tiny feel, you know, feel free to

493
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:38,720
Speaker 1: fill me in if I've got to, Saan. But so

494
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 1: you think Tara Tara was telling him to go by

495
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 1: lingerie at this place. Yeah, so it came in as

496
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:50,360
Speaker 1: just like like shared link basically, and it was like

497
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: from Tara and it's just like shared with you, and

498
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:56,919
Speaker 1: then it was just just like really launch launchy like

499
00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 1: Lauer like. So basically, if someone text you a link

500
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:05,199
Speaker 1: and then you click on it, it brings it up

501
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:08,359
Speaker 1: in your web browser or whatever, it'll tell you on

502
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:11,760
Speaker 1: the top who sent it to said, we like shared

503
00:27:11,840 --> 00:27:15,639
Speaker 1: from Tanya or shared from Ryan, but we don't know

504
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 1: who she is, like for all we know, I mean

505
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:20,159
Speaker 1: not that this would be an appropriate assistant. Yeah, So

506
00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:21,560
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, like what if it is, like what

507
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:26,120
Speaker 1: if he's buying it for you? I mean that's the thing.

508
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 1: I just don't know, Like things happened really great between

509
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,959
Speaker 1: us lately, Like we did this little weekend in Palm

510
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 1: Springs a few weeks ago, and we you know, we

511
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:36,919
Speaker 1: have a two year old and she's really sweet. But

512
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 1: we've really been trying to like stay connected during this time.

513
00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:43,719
Speaker 1: So like, I just it feels so weird, but like

514
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 1: things have been going well, So I don't, like, I

515
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 1: don't want to like mess it out. If it's not Diana,

516
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 1: this could go okay. Actually, I mean, justn't every good point,

517
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,439
Speaker 1: Like if this, if this shared link came from a

518
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:59,760
Speaker 1: sales rep for somebody where he her husband is trying

519
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 1: to her. She calls it raunchy lingerie and her name

520
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:06,119
Speaker 1: is Tara, then it all sort of checks out. But basically,

521
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:08,480
Speaker 1: Diana found a shared link from a woman named Tarry

522
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:12,320
Speaker 1: in his phone and it was a link to buy lingerie,

523
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:15,280
Speaker 1: and then next day his phone to lock likes a locked.

524
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:17,199
Speaker 1: Now it's locked. That's the tricky part is that he

525
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,400
Speaker 1: did get kind of sketch afterwards and locked his phone.

526
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,359
Speaker 1: The lock sketches a little bit, but let's see what

527
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 1: we can find out, trying to make it a seeker

528
00:28:22,880 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 1: or surprise. If it's a surprise, he may be locking

529
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 1: you out for this surprise and maybe maybe one of

530
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:28,919
Speaker 1: you know the twelve Days of Christmas or something. Right, So,

531
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:32,120
Speaker 1: do you have a birthday coming up or an anniversary?

532
00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 1: Not really, no, Diane, I need you to say Ryan,

533
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 1: you have my permission to call, and then his name,

534
00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:42,440
Speaker 1: your husband's name on Kiss FM. Go ahead, Yeah, Ryan,

535
00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 1: you have my permission to call. All right, We're gonna

536
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 1: do that. Now, stay very quiet. Let's see what we

537
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: can find out. Okay, let's see what we can find

538
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 1: out and see if he mentions Tara or anybody else

539
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 1: in this call or you sending him the roses, right,

540
00:28:59,320 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 1: Assistan's going to do that. Now, be very quiet. In

541
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 1: here we go. Good luck? Who Hi? Can I speak

542
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: to Jeel? Please? Yes, let's see Hi Jeel. My name

543
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:23,719
Speaker 1: is Ellie. I'm calling from the fancy floor. Ast. How

544
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 1: you doing this morning? I'm sorry, I'm trying to get

545
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:29,479
Speaker 1: out the door here. I look, this will just take

546
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 1: two seconds. We're actually we're on the corner of Mission

547
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 1: Drive in Rose medi Catty, corner of like the in

548
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 1: and out, new to the area, and we're offering local

549
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 1: residents a promotion of three dozen red roses. They are free.

550
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 1: You can send them to anybody that you'd like. Um,

551
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 1: is there anybody that you you would want to send free

552
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 1: flowers to? M h yeah, babe, babe? Do you want

553
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:56,480
Speaker 1: three flowers? Okay? So, so how did this work? I

554
00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:58,600
Speaker 1: just need the name of the person you want to

555
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 1: send them too. We can start there. Okay, Yeah, I'd

556
00:30:02,400 --> 00:30:06,400
Speaker 1: like to send him to Tara. Okay, and what would

557
00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:09,880
Speaker 1: you like to put on the note? I just like

558
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: to say that your your wish is my command. Your

559
00:30:14,120 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 1: wish is my command, Joel. It's Ryan Seacrest. Your voice

560
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: to be broadcast on the radio right now. Who's Tara?

561
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 1: Joel stayed on the line for us. Just need a

562
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 1: couple of answers here. You've just sent roses to Tara.

563
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 1: Your wish is my command? Was the card? What's going

564
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,760
Speaker 1: on with you and Tara? Why would you say that

565
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 1: on a card? I gotta go. I'm sorry, Joel. You

566
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:44,240
Speaker 1: shouldn't go because your wife dianas on the phone and

567
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:49,240
Speaker 1: she has found the link of you buying lingerie for Tara.

568
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 1: Tara's asking for it, You're going to get it. You're

569
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 1: sending her roses and now you're saying your wish is

570
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:59,400
Speaker 1: my command. So you're cheating on your wife Diana? She

571
00:30:59,480 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 1: now knows who's it. Tell her what's going on? Come clean, bro,

572
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 1: you guys got me. There's nothing I can say. Okay, Well,

573
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 1: what's happening Diana? Please say Diana? Hi? What is going on?

574
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 1: I got nothing? I mean, you're you're great in all,

575
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 1: but I don't know. I'm terrible. You're great and all.

576
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 1: This is your wife, right, is your wife, Diana? You're

577
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 1: great and all? You got nothing, You got no reason.

578
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 1: You guys got me, really we got you? Do you

579
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 1: have any sort of emotion here? I'm still in shock?

580
00:31:43,000 --> 00:31:47,360
Speaker 1: Is this real? You guys? Are you cheating with Tara?

581
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 1: Answer yes or no? I am okay? For how long?

582
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:55,960
Speaker 1: It's just been a couple of weeks now? And how

583
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 1: come you don't care? You have zero care in your body? Right?

584
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 1: I mean I care? But I mean you guys caught

585
00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 1: me off guard here. I didn't even know what to say.

586
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:07,360
Speaker 1: I shouldn't have just I should have answered the phone.

587
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 1: My god, but you're you're so happy, go lucky about

588
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:12,400
Speaker 1: all of it. You've got a wife and a toddler

589
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 1: on the phone, and you just don't care, respect or

590
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 1: think about their feelings or or what this might do

591
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:21,320
Speaker 1: for them and to them. I kind of like to

592
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:23,480
Speaker 1: keep things separate, you know what I mean? So keep

593
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:27,880
Speaker 1: things separate. Joe, are you, like, what is going on

594
00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:31,840
Speaker 1: with you? Diane? Do you Diane, did you want to

595
00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 1: say anything to your husband? I'm like stunned right now.

596
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 1: I I'm stunned. He loves this morning for a breakfast

597
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 1: meeting at five thirty am, and this is I'm finny,

598
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 1: this is actually going on. Hey, I don't even whoa Joel.

599
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 1: Do you have any sort of feelings for your wife? No?

600
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 1: I love my wife. But I'm just saying sometimes he's

601
00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 1: just it's just can't steak every day. Yeah, uh oh,

602
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, Danny, is this truly your husband? Like?

603
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 1: This is the guy? This is the guy. I just

604
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:14,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, sorry, I'm gonna freaking out. Um, this is insane,

605
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 1: all right, Joe, I'm gonna hang up on you. Dan,

606
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 1: It's just us. I've just let him go. I've just

607
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 1: closed that line. I don't I really don't have any

608
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:30,240
Speaker 1: word to understand how I'm processing how he's how he's

609
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:34,840
Speaker 1: his reaction is right like almost with a smile on

610
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 1: his face. It's very very bizarre and maybe just like

611
00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 1: putting him on the spot, but I used that was

612
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 1: not what I was expecting to have happened right now.

613
00:33:47,000 --> 00:33:49,480
Speaker 1: I mean he's acting like, Okay, yeah I admitted to it.

614
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: Yeah I'm doing it, but whatever, right like a couple

615
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:54,880
Speaker 1: of weeks and I love you. I mean, that's what's

616
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: your reaction to that? I mean, I just I think

617
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 1: I have a lot about right now. Wow, I knew

618
00:34:04,600 --> 00:34:07,800
Speaker 1: something was up, and like if this is the weirdest

619
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: confirmation of that, it's very clear that something is happening.

620
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:15,560
Speaker 1: Nothing's up, it's happening. So you should think about it

621
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:17,560
Speaker 1: long and hard and how you want to deal with

622
00:34:17,600 --> 00:34:19,919
Speaker 1: this for the long term, considering everything that's on your plate.

623
00:34:19,960 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 1: And Diana, thank you for reaching out. Good luck. This

624
00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:26,919
Speaker 1: was the most casual reaction, as if I'm doing nothing wrong.

625
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:29,880
Speaker 1: This guy Joel had that I've heard in a long time,

626
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 1: if at all Joel and Diana married, Joel is buying

627
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:40,920
Speaker 1: raunchy lingerie for Tara. He sends the red roses to Tara.

628
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 1: Tara is not his wife. Diana is his wife. And

629
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 1: then when we asked him, he said in a fairy's

630
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 1: like yeah, you caught me. So I've been two weeks.

631
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 1: I'd like to have my cake and eat it too.

632
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 1: What's the big deal? Basically, that's what he said with

633
00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 1: his wife on the line, as if this is going

634
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:57,360
Speaker 1: to be standard operating procedure. And he's got a toddler

635
00:34:57,400 --> 00:35:00,799
Speaker 1: and they're married, and he acts like yeah, he says

636
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:03,759
Speaker 1: he actually says, she's like you're great, I'm not do

637
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 1: we say yeah? He's like, I can't eat steak every day? Yeah,

638
00:35:07,120 --> 00:35:10,640
Speaker 1: so he's having an affair with another woman. Yeah, one

639
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 1: eight hundred and five two one to two seven. But

640
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 1: it was the carelessness in his reaction that was the

641
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:22,240
Speaker 1: worst affair. But how about feeling a little remark bad responsibility?

642
00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:29,840
Speaker 1: None zero, psychopathic? You caught me? Psychopathic? Julia, good morning

643
00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 1: and wittier you heard that? What what what did you

644
00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:36,919
Speaker 1: get out of it? Hey? Yeah, I mean obviously he's

645
00:35:37,160 --> 00:35:40,440
Speaker 1: totally busted. Um, I can't believe that. Like she was

646
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 1: in the next room and he's like, hey, babe, like

647
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:46,400
Speaker 1: do you want three flowers? But like so that was

648
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 1: just like oh my god. But also like she didn't

649
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:53,880
Speaker 1: like the wife didn't really seem to tear that much either,

650
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:56,960
Speaker 1: like I would have been ripping his face off through

651
00:35:57,000 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 1: the phone, and she just was kind of like, I

652
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 1: don't know, maybe she was just a total shock, but yeah,

653
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 1: these two should have never gone on a second date,

654
00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:09,480
Speaker 1: let alone get married, let alone have a children like

655
00:36:09,560 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 1: a child. So like, yeah, it's it's it's frighteningly bizarre.

656
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 1: So your Diana, I mean, it's it's a it's a

657
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 1: it's the most difficult move. But how do you let

658
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:26,680
Speaker 1: this guy come back into your life and your kid's

659
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:29,280
Speaker 1: life when you treat you with zero respect and takes

660
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 1: no responsibility, like violation without responsibility. That is so cowardly.

661
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 1: So and I'm just like laughing about it, just just

662
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:42,880
Speaker 1: I know, it's almost I'm trying to think to my like,

663
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 1: are you for real? Dude? All right, Julian, thank you

664
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:47,799
Speaker 1: very much for coming on, Thank you for listening to us.

665
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:53,399
Speaker 1: Thank you guys. Have a great day. Oh lower back

666
00:36:53,480 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 1: pain from that call lower back Pain on air with

667
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 1: Ryan Secret. Did we ever find out you brought me

668
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:06,080
Speaker 1: that training report the other day? Does Harry Styles have

669
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 1: a finsta? Was it ever authenticated? Oh? Yes, wait he did.

670
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:14,919
Speaker 1: He brought it up on stage at one of his shows.

671
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:18,439
Speaker 1: But he didn't say finsta. He basically acknowledged, like, oh,

672
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:22,000
Speaker 1: and sometimes you accidentally post a picture and delete it

673
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 1: on your Instagram, but he didn't mention if you had

674
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 1: a finta. All right, there's a bonus report. Now let's

675
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:28,960
Speaker 1: get to this training report. So he said, when people

676
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:31,239
Speaker 1: have kids, a lot of people like to judge you

677
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:33,239
Speaker 1: on how you actually parent those kids, and if you

678
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 1: don't have kids, people like to judge you for not

679
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:39,080
Speaker 1: having kids. Is that right? Totally. It's like when people

680
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 1: have kids, they are so judged, especially online, on how

681
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:44,400
Speaker 1: they parent their kids, and then people who don't have

682
00:37:44,520 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 1: kids are always judged because they chose not to have kids.

683
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:52,320
Speaker 1: So Sissony, you deal with the judgment, you know. And

684
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 1: I got it a lot, especially when the twins were babies.

685
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 1: I think people were trying to be nice or helpful,

686
00:37:59,280 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 1: you know, like the car seats were in their straps

687
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:05,920
Speaker 1: were not properly adjusted correctly, or you're doing the bottles

688
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 1: are wrong or whatever it is. You know, there's always

689
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 1: something and you're just judged. And I get it. On

690
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 1: the other side, I was literally at dinner over the

691
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:15,840
Speaker 1: weekend and someone said to me, we need little Ryan's

692
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:18,400
Speaker 1: oh my godness, right, And I was like, we don't

693
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 1: need them. And it's like they're trying to be cute

694
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:22,879
Speaker 1: and funny, but you're like, but it's also they're trying

695
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 1: to push some agenda onto you. They're projecting onto you,

696
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 1: and it's like, but what if you don't want that?

697
00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 1: And that's your prerogative. It really rubs me up. Bill

698
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 1: Seth Rogan is standing up for the dinks of our society.

699
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:38,360
Speaker 1: Double income, no kids, double income, no kids and that,

700
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:41,360
Speaker 1: and it is actually his choice not to have kids.

701
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:44,560
Speaker 1: He says that it has helped him succeed, like in

702
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:47,400
Speaker 1: his career. He said, some people want kids, some people

703
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 1: don't want kids. Honestly, you're just told you go through life,

704
00:38:50,600 --> 00:38:52,960
Speaker 1: you get married, you have kids, that's what happens. And

705
00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:55,359
Speaker 1: me and my wife neither of us were like that.

706
00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:57,720
Speaker 1: And he said the older we get, the more happy

707
00:38:57,800 --> 00:39:00,759
Speaker 1: and reaffirmed that we are with our choice voice. And

708
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 1: I love that Seth is talking about this because I

709
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:04,800
Speaker 1: do feel like people judge if you don't have a

710
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:08,759
Speaker 1: kid by a certain age, But why does everybody need

711
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:11,479
Speaker 1: to be a parent? And so we're made to feel

712
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:13,880
Speaker 1: like something is missing or lacking in our lives and

713
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:16,280
Speaker 1: when in reality, it's just it's not a one shoe

714
00:39:16,320 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 1: fits all type of situation. And I think that I

715
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,799
Speaker 1: know another friend of mine that chose not to have kids,

716
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:26,239
Speaker 1: her and her husband, and they're very, very happy with

717
00:39:26,280 --> 00:39:29,919
Speaker 1: their lives, but it's like the judgment is constant on them,

718
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:32,399
Speaker 1: like why are you not? You should? You should? You should?

719
00:39:32,440 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 1: It's gonna make your life so much better. And it's

720
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:37,440
Speaker 1: just like can we live? Can you just can? Can

721
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 1: we all just live our lives well? And then I

722
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 1: get well, what are you gonna leave by you? I

723
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:45,880
Speaker 1: can't believe people say this to you to my face,

724
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 1: and people I don't know, by the way, what people

725
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 1: I know and people I don't know, like strangers will

726
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:53,320
Speaker 1: say and people I don't know, Oh no, just the

727
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 1: other dates And one said when as they were leaving

728
00:39:55,200 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 1: from the interview, remember like what are you getting married? Teres? Yeah? Yeah,

729
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:04,279
Speaker 1: I always about to come over for pasta and tell

730
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:05,719
Speaker 1: I was like, wait a minute, what am I What

731
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:14,960
Speaker 1: didn't work out so well for you? She remarried? But yeah, okay, then,

732
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:18,920
Speaker 1: by the way, if you are divorced, you should not

733
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 1: be campaigning for me. You know, I know, I know,

734
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:26,080
Speaker 1: but I actually don't care. That's what's funny. I don't

735
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 1: know why. Maybe there's something with me that I don't

736
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:30,880
Speaker 1: care when she's honestly, when she says that, or someone

737
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 1: goes into the judgment thing my kids, I actually don't care.

738
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 1: It's always fascinating to hear that, like which thing they'll

739
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:39,800
Speaker 1: bring up or say or why, But it doesn't really

740
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:41,840
Speaker 1: get me, like I do not leave or get to

741
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 1: bed and at night thinking about it. Really, yeah, it

742
00:40:45,160 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 1: doesn't like are you judging me for nothing? Iota? I

743
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,320
Speaker 1: don't know. I think also with our with our jobs,

744
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:55,880
Speaker 1: we have thick skin. I do at least, so maybe

745
00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:58,880
Speaker 1: it's different. I don't really have thick skin. I have

746
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,880
Speaker 1: very thin skin. But I still don't let it bother

747
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 1: me because I don't know I have that. I have

748
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 1: a piece about it, like if I decide to do

749
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:08,279
Speaker 1: it or if it happened, but at whatever, right right right,

750
00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:11,359
Speaker 1: But it's not where I don't put pressure on myself. Yeah,

751
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 1: sometimes I feel like people just think they have to

752
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 1: say something and that's just the first thing that comes

753
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 1: to their I understand, but that's just the conversation they

754
00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 1: think they need to have. Someone told me when I

755
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 1: was praying with the twins. They're like, someone's always going

756
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 1: to say something that's inappropriate. And so when I was

757
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:29,160
Speaker 1: pregnant with the twins, or and they're like, oh, that's

758
00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:31,560
Speaker 1: gonna be double trouble, or it's gonna be not a

759
00:41:31,560 --> 00:41:33,920
Speaker 1: lot of work, and it's just it's gonna rub you

760
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:35,239
Speaker 1: the wrong way, but just let it go. It's just

761
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:39,520
Speaker 1: people don't understand that it's rude. You know why. Please

762
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:43,920
Speaker 1: don't ever ask me how's your heart? Like that is

763
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 1: the most uncomfortable conversation to having passed. Some friends have

764
00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:49,800
Speaker 1: actually told me they love when I asked that heart.

765
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,839
Speaker 1: Stick to those people with that question, how's your heart?

766
00:41:53,640 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 1: That's your heart this morning? I think it's okay. I

767
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 1: don't want to know. I don't. I don't, I don't.

768
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 1: It's a different way of saying, how are you doing

769
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:08,880
Speaker 1: all right? Next? Really, how's your heart? Well, it's beating.

770
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:13,560
Speaker 1: How's yours? Mine is beating doing fine? Disneyland tickets they

771
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 1: have a special Disney one hundred Charol. I don't know

772
00:42:15,600 --> 00:42:17,480
Speaker 1: if you've seen their son. It's rolled in cherry sugar.

773
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 1: I googled it drizzled with white icing and topped with

774
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 1: purple and silver pearls. Come on, did your research? I'm

775
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 1: not because I'm kind of get into this hundred of

776
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 1: years thing. All right, guys, I'm gonna need some help

777
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:30,759
Speaker 1: on this when Sarah's calling it one eight hundred and

778
00:42:30,760 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 1: five two one or two seven? Hey? What in your phone?

779
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:37,120
Speaker 1: Is this name? What is Michael under in the contacts?

780
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 1: Babe with a heart? Chany in your phone? What is

781
00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 1: Robbie under in the contacts? My heart? Like with the

782
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:46,879
Speaker 1: heart emogi? My love just says my m y heart,

783
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:50,439
Speaker 1: m y and then a heart, yeah, like the emogis

784
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:57,880
Speaker 1: What is mining in your contact? Rodney Rodney se Turtle?

785
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 1: Rodney check up, it's under Rodney sea Turtle. Yeah? Is

786
00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:07,560
Speaker 1: that my adult film name? What is that? I find

787
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:11,840
Speaker 1: that to be weird name, just an alias because I

788
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:13,720
Speaker 1: don't want someone to if I ever lost my phone

789
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:16,560
Speaker 1: and then I think they're going to connect Rodney Sea

790
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 1: Turtle to me, I don't think so, no way. I mean,

791
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:25,440
Speaker 1: you're right, maybe I should change your name in my phone. Actually,

792
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:27,400
Speaker 1: oh so I want to see what Rodney Sea Turtle

793
00:43:27,440 --> 00:43:31,759
Speaker 1: looks like, his voice and everything. Anyway. The reason I

794
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 1: bring this up, Sarah, Sorry, I got sidetracked by that.

795
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:38,840
Speaker 1: So you don't like your the name that your boyfriend

796
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:42,839
Speaker 1: is put into his contacts for you, Sarah, is that right? Exactly?

797
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:46,880
Speaker 1: Like I love what y'all do, right, and like for me, um,

798
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:48,759
Speaker 1: my name is Sarah right, so in his neck in

799
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 1: his phone, my contact is Sarah and then in parentheses

800
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:58,000
Speaker 1: it's Hinge because that's where we met. So like, oh yeah,

801
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 1: and it's like literally but yeah, so it's messed up, right,

802
00:44:01,200 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 1: Like I have to defend him for a second. I

803
00:44:05,280 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 1: have had contacts in my phone and Tanya as well

804
00:44:08,160 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 1: where we met people. When we were saying them, we're like,

805
00:44:10,800 --> 00:44:18,880
Speaker 1: you know, blank name Vegas guy, right, yeah, right exactly.

806
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:22,359
Speaker 1: And then when you meet somebody, do first put their

807
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 1: name in your phone? Sometimes you put a tagline like

808
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:27,080
Speaker 1: that and you just don't go back to fixing it.

809
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:29,239
Speaker 1: So maybe that's how he met you. He just needs

810
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 1: an updated right. I don't think he's trying to offend you.

811
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 1: How long you guys been together. We've been together for

812
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:36,879
Speaker 1: over a year now. We just had our anniversary. It's

813
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:39,400
Speaker 1: time to update it. But I had I have to

814
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 1: tell you I had the name Prince Chapasa in mine

815
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:46,560
Speaker 1: and it was very close to her mother's name, and

816
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 1: I ended up I actually texting her mother all the

817
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 1: time stuff. I was trying to text her oh my gosh, yeah,

818
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:57,240
Speaker 1: any photos. No, I don't know. I didn't text photos,

819
00:44:57,239 --> 00:45:00,319
Speaker 1: but I was dangerous sometimes where you'd be like, yeah,

820
00:45:00,320 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 1: I trying to be romantic. I'll say he said it

821
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 1: to her mom. She'd be like, yeah, hah, wrong number.

822
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 1: So maybe he needs I updated. So it's all now

823
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:10,759
Speaker 1: easy to identify. But maybe he's just updated, Like I

824
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:12,239
Speaker 1: think that's cool. I don't think he's trying to like,

825
00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 1: you know, turn you. That's such a good point, thank you,

826
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:18,120
Speaker 1: because like I've tried to talk to him about it.

827
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:20,040
Speaker 1: It's sort of like yeah, but you know, at this

828
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:22,000
Speaker 1: point it's funny like he's just been that way in

829
00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:24,439
Speaker 1: my phone and I'm like, yeah, but like your name

830
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 1: has emotions next to it in your contact, so yeah,

831
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:30,360
Speaker 1: I haven't put new news Sarah. Yeah, or you just

832
00:45:30,400 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 1: go in there and change it yourself. I love it.

833
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 1: Thank you, go basive. Well, they've been thinking it for

834
00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 1: over a year. What's what's his name? In your phone?

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Speaker 1: Ryan was funnily enough, not no like connection, but like

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Speaker 1: with a whole bunch of hearts next to it, and

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Speaker 1: like he eagerly likes like horses, and it was like

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00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:51,399
Speaker 1: a horse and stuff. So yeah, I like horses too.

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Speaker 1: How do you know it's not me calling? Wow? Well

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00:45:55,520 --> 00:45:58,080
Speaker 1: then changed her name and your phone, Ryan, She's trying

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Speaker 1: to tell you something. Who what change me? I'm very confused.

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00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:06,319
Speaker 1: Everything's fine in my phone. Sorry, thank you for calling,

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00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:09,440
Speaker 1: and I love him for you, all right, take care

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00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:12,080
Speaker 1: of right. It's true when you first meet somebody you

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00:46:12,120 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 1: put like something in there too. I'm mind you how

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Speaker 1: you met and then if you don't go back and

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Speaker 1: fix it's very funny years later, Like Derek coff is

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Speaker 1: still Dancing with the Stars winner in my phone. I

849
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Speaker 1: think that's fine. I'll have his name at all. It's

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Speaker 1: just as DWTS Winner. Yeah you were Sisney kiss FM

851
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Speaker 1: for a while. Still checks out how many Sisny's used,

852
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Speaker 1: because there's a few of them. I put everybody from

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Speaker 1: Kiss FM with Kiss FM on the side of it,

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00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 1: and I think, you know, like, um, yeah, when you

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Speaker 1: have Jojo on the radio, it's pretty obvious and cisy

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00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:52,880
Speaker 1: pretty obvious. No, I think I had Jojo kiss FM too,

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Speaker 1: you know, you know Sisney from Wells Fargo, the one

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Speaker 1: always helps me out in my bank. Well, it was

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Speaker 1: actually sis which is even more confused. Yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: it could be my sister Meredith. You don't know. I

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00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:06,319
Speaker 1: think free food, Like what do you want to win?

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Speaker 1: Money to pay your bills and free food? It's pretty

863
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:13,719
Speaker 1: like universal, can you do you think? Right? Yeah, so

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00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:16,399
Speaker 1: I have the free money for you bills in just

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Speaker 1: a second. Right now, I'm gonna walk you into some

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00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:21,040
Speaker 1: free food from Postmates. But I thought it's always fun

867
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Speaker 1: to highlight something specific because you could use the place

868
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Speaker 1: that I highlight on Postmates where you can get something else.

869
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Speaker 1: But I just love some of our local places here,

870
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Speaker 1: and we sent Ruby out to pursue all of these

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00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:42,600
Speaker 1: where are you postmade options? And all right, so Ruby,

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00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 1: this Dialogue cafe we're talking about today. Yeah, so it's

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00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:49,399
Speaker 1: on Holloway, just off Sunset Strip and we home. Um

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00:47:49,440 --> 00:47:52,439
Speaker 1: it's a family owned cafe, super cute. They have really

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00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:57,279
Speaker 1: great coffee, third Wave Coffee, which maybe today can break

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00:47:57,320 --> 00:48:00,399
Speaker 1: down what that means for us. Um, but yeah, owned

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00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 1: by you know, family owned. They have great food, farm

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00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 1: to table dishes, smoked salmon, brisket, ved the breakfast burrito

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00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 1: and also a honeyoat cappuccino that's really delicious. His name

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00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:14,839
Speaker 1: is Today. Is Today one of the family founders. Yes,

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00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,360
Speaker 1: he is the owner. Okay, Toddie, let me bring today

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Speaker 1: now and from Dialog Cafe in West Hollywood Today, thanks

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00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:23,279
Speaker 1: for coming on. How are you hey? How you doing? Ryan?

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Speaker 1: Doing well? Bro? Great? I want to burn about I'm

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Speaker 1: a massive one of things that struck me about. This

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00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:34,319
Speaker 1: is your third wave coffee. I'm a massive coffee advocate

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Speaker 1: and enthusiast. Okay, so what is third wave coffee? It's

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Speaker 1: the third wave We definitely well, we are roasting the

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00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:48,239
Speaker 1: beans for the cafe. We emphasize the region that they're

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Speaker 1: actually coming from, so they're all roasted independently and you know,

891
00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:58,040
Speaker 1: specifically for the cafe. We do a blend of multiple

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00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:02,879
Speaker 1: regions to bring a lot more complexity to our espresso. Um,

893
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:06,480
Speaker 1: you know, enhances the flavor and it really gives you,

894
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:09,319
Speaker 1: you know, a drink that's the most important part of

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Speaker 1: your day. Right where where the beans coming from? So

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Speaker 1: right now, Sumatra we have a Sumatra, Brazilian an Ethiopian

897
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Speaker 1: that we put in our espresso. Bland. Today's on with

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Speaker 1: us here we're talking about some pre postmas. We've got

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Speaker 1: to give away here in a second. But if you're

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Speaker 1: in West Hollywood in that area, you're work in there,

901
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Speaker 1: you're live in there. Dialogue Cafe, it's become a spot man,

902
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:32,719
Speaker 1: it's what is the signature there? What do people love

903
00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:36,600
Speaker 1: to come in order at Dialogue Cafe today. It's evolved

904
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Speaker 1: over time, but we definitely are known for our breakfast burritos. Um.

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Speaker 1: We have a couple of different ones, but you know,

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00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 1: it was an evolution of time. Um. We source really

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00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 1: good ingredients. I was a big coffee person, and then

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00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:54,720
Speaker 1: we started expanding our menu and we really focused on quality.

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Speaker 1: So we bring some really amazing eggs, we make our

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00:49:58,680 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 1: hash browns and house Um. You know, right now we

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00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 1: have the Dialogue Breakfast burrito that has called Boss of Sausage,

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00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 1: a Housemaid catchup and cheese and we grill it all

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Speaker 1: up together. Um. And we even have a secret venu

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Speaker 1: one that we just added on UM called the Kyle

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Speaker 1: Breakfast Burrito that's definitely um doing really well. And that

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Speaker 1: one has bacon, aptid and chid. Oh my goodness, that's

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Speaker 1: how do you get up? Kyle. Kyle was actually a

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Speaker 1: neighboring business. He was one of the original uh testers

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Speaker 1: for the Tinder apphant like, that's a great gig. I'm

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Speaker 1: one of the testers for dinner. What do you got?

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Speaker 1: I'm a hinge tester. Thought he had an amazing It

922
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Speaker 1: was such a and he was such a great person.

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Speaker 1: I think he fit the role really well. But he's uh.

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Speaker 1: He came in, he goes, you know, I created this.

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Speaker 1: He's like, he had these substituteans on it. He goes, hey, um,

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Speaker 1: you know what is it going to take to get

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Speaker 1: my name on the on the menu. And this is

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Speaker 1: right at the beginning when I first started doing the

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Speaker 1: breakfast program, and I said, Kyle, if you order five

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Speaker 1: hundred breakfast burritos Kyle style, I will add it to

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Speaker 1: will add it to the menu. And he got up

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Speaker 1: to about three hundred or so, and then he threw

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Speaker 1: a Tinder party and ordered the remaining and catering. I thought, man,

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Speaker 1: this guy has earned his strength at the dialog. Is

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Speaker 1: he single? He is single? Story has no payoff today.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for coming on. It's on Holloway

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00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:45,879
Speaker 1: just off Sunset stripped there and who if you want

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Speaker 1: to go use your Postmates gift card. I might give

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Speaker 1: you check out today and get that third Wave coffee

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Speaker 1: one eight hundred five two one or two seven A

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Speaker 1: kids seven guy was born on Christmas Eve as well. Yep,

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Speaker 1: he's a Capricorn. Capricorn yep. And you can actually order

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Speaker 1: from Dialog Cafe on Postmates right now. Hey, if you

944
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:07,960
Speaker 1: still listen today, what would it take for me to

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00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 1: get a burrito on the menu? Oh what would you

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Speaker 1: bring in that burrito? There'd be no tortilla. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: not a brito exactly. That's why it's on a secret

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Speaker 1: menu menu. Whites um heading out. It's a flat for

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Speaker 1: tide inside out breakfast brito exact deconstructed breakfast burrito air

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Speaker 1: on air with Ryan Secrets All guys, that's it Kiss

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Speaker 1: FM for us. Sisty, you're gonna take it to eleven?

952
00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:43,359
Speaker 1: I sure am? I Why I check with you every

953
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Speaker 1: day because you do it every day. I have Lego

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Speaker 1: Land tickets too, I sure do with Floorma. We like those.

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00:52:51,040 --> 00:52:54,320
Speaker 1: My little niece she would you can't win that. You

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00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:59,120
Speaker 1: can't win them. You should buy them Legoland. We're coming

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Speaker 1: in all right. You have a great day, guys, to

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Speaker 1: talk to you in the morning. Thanks for listening to

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Speaker 1: On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make sure to subscribe and

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Speaker 1: we'll talk to you again tomorrow.