1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,720 Speaker 1: I'm deserting my grandmother for her birthday because what she 2 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:05,560 Speaker 1: did to me was way worse. Am I the ahole? 3 00:00:05,720 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 2: You are done having birthdays? It's my time? The shine 4 00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:09,360 Speaker 2: old lady. 5 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:13,200 Speaker 1: So I am female, seventeen and have a grandmother sixty 6 00:00:13,200 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: one who is turning sixty two very soon. I love 7 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:19,080 Speaker 1: my grandma very much and overall respect her. Until recently 8 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 1: a few. 9 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 3: Months she's just an old hunk of phones. 10 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:26,119 Speaker 1: Now she's just a fat sack of lord waiting to die. 11 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:26,759 Speaker 3: Now. 12 00:00:26,880 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: A few months before this, she never sided with me 13 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: or understood where I was coming from when she was 14 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:34,760 Speaker 1: all moody and whatnot. But when this happened, it didn't 15 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: really bother me. I always seemed to ignore it and 16 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:39,480 Speaker 1: just let it go, and I knew she would always 17 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:42,600 Speaker 1: love me. But here's the backstory. What's the backstory. About 18 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 1: two months ago I turned seventeen. My mother begged me 19 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:48,160 Speaker 1: to spend time with my grandma on my birthday, which 20 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 1: I did not want to do. 21 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:52,559 Speaker 2: I want to do cool seventeen year olds. I go 22 00:00:52,640 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 2: to the mall. Yeah, watch a movie. Oh, that's what 23 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 2: the kids are doing. I wanted to spend my weekend. 24 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 1: How I wanted to say, spend it with a friend 25 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 1: because it was my birthday and it was on the weekend, 26 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:05,960 Speaker 1: so I'd have school the next day. That's completely fair, 27 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 1: So totally with all her nagging, I finally decided to 28 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:12,959 Speaker 1: go to my grandmother's house. Anyways, worst mistake I've ever made. 29 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 2: It smelled like death prune juice. 30 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:20,960 Speaker 1: That day. I was supposed to get an Apple Watch, 31 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 1: the one I wanted for my birthday. I don't want 32 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 1: to be in the car for much longer because I 33 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: get car sick. But again, my mother was nagging me 34 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 1: to go over to hang out with my grandma. 35 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 3: I feel like that's just what parents do, you know. 36 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 2: They nag like they nag, and they also like it 37 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 2: wants you to have a connection to your your grandparents, 38 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:38,960 Speaker 2: like my parents like all the time. 39 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:41,320 Speaker 3: You should, like, really, you know, hang out with your grandparents. 40 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 2: You know. 41 00:01:41,520 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 3: I like that there's not going to. 42 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 2: Be like they're they're old is as heck, and they're 43 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 2: not going to be around much longer, so spend time 44 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 2: with them if you can. 45 00:01:48,040 --> 00:01:49,800 Speaker 1: That's good advice if I've ever heard it is it 46 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 1: is the worst part about all of this is that 47 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: I've just gotten my period that it sucks, like in 48 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: terms of like for the first time, I don't think 49 00:01:57,120 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 1: for the first time, but in general in general. After 50 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 1: being in the car much longer than I anticipated, I 51 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 1: started crying and saying that I didn't feel well. Then 52 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:09,120 Speaker 1: after my grandma came back, my mom told her my 53 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 1: grandma was mad at me the whole day after that 54 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: made it all about her, how I betrayed her, and 55 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 1: that I am. 56 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 3: It's her birthday, yo. 57 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 2: I feel like with all her grandma old wisdom, she 58 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 2: would know not. 59 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:25,520 Speaker 3: To be a Well you think that's bad. 60 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 1: Opie says that the grandma then said that she is 61 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:31,200 Speaker 1: no longer her grandchild. 62 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 3: This seems like a disgusting overreaction. 63 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 1: It's just a thousand out of ten over here. 64 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,120 Speaker 3: Wow, just way over the line. 65 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:39,640 Speaker 2: Wow. 66 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:43,919 Speaker 1: Mind you. The reason why we originally deviated from getting 67 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 1: the Apple Watch was to find something for her that 68 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,240 Speaker 1: she was missing. So the car this is kind of like. 69 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:51,160 Speaker 3: Grammy. 70 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 2: So it's like, not only is op not getting the 71 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 2: present that she wanted, but she not even get to 72 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:56,919 Speaker 2: celebrate how she wanted. 73 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:57,799 Speaker 1: And she's and she's sick. 74 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, and she's stuck with her old last grandma and 75 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 2: that's a period. 76 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, noints. 77 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 1: I was so confused. I was crying. I didn't understand 78 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 1: why she was so mad. Then they told me that 79 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:11,519 Speaker 1: she was missing something, so we went to the store 80 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: to go find it. I didn't listen to the conversation 81 00:03:14,320 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 1: because I had my AirPods on the whole day of 82 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: my birthday. She didn't really want to spend time with 83 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 1: me or come to an understanding with me, which left 84 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 1: me heartbroken. 85 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:24,080 Speaker 3: And I can never forgive her for that. 86 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm not saying what grandma did was right, but 87 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 2: it's really hard to have a conversation with a moody 88 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 2: teenager who has their AirPods in. It really is the yeah, yeah, 89 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 2: how do you know? My grandma might have been like, Berry, 90 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 2: are you okay? And you're just jamming a blink one 91 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 2: eighty two. This is where the revenge comes in. My 92 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 2: grandmother is turning sixty two soon. Her birthday's coming up. 93 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 2: My and her birthday is not that far apart, and 94 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 2: me and my family like to spend our birthday together. 95 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 2: And you know what, I'm gonna make it all about me. 96 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:56,000 Speaker 2: I'm gonna go out and pretend like it's my birthday. 97 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 2: I couldn't enjoy my birthday because she wanted to ruin 98 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 2: it for selfish reasons. So I'm going to ignore her 99 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 2: the whole time, and if anyone stops me a reminder 100 00:04:04,040 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 2: of what she did on my birthday, I'm going to 101 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 2: bring a cake of my own and light it with 102 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 2: the number eighteen on it. I love how petty this is. 103 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 2: This is classic teenage like angsty revenge and. 104 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 1: This this this last part is like the like THEO 105 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:23,040 Speaker 1: the on the on the box there. Even though I 106 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 1: don't feel any emotional attachment to her, I do feel bad. 107 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 3: No emotional attachment to your grandma, damn. 108 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 2: Even it's a low keyro like like grandma like daughter 109 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 2: Like Grandma's like I'm cutting you out, yeah, and then 110 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 2: daughter would like Granddaughter's. 111 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 3: Like yeah, I'm cutting you out too. 112 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 1: The apple did not fall far home there. Even still, 113 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: I do feel bad for doing this. What do you 114 00:04:45,920 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 1: feel bad? So? 115 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 3: How about that last sence where you're like, I don't 116 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 3: feel bad at all? Hmmm? 117 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 1: How about that? What do you say? Is this too 118 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:55,359 Speaker 1: petty revenge or not? I need to know what you 119 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: all think about the pettiness, if it's too far or not? 120 00:04:59,360 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 3: Sam what do you think. I think it's a little far. 121 00:05:02,360 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 3: I think both are a little. 122 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:05,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think like like I would say both 123 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:07,560 Speaker 2: are a little bit the a whole. I think, well, 124 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:10,719 Speaker 2: Grandma is way more the a hole because it's should 125 00:05:10,760 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 2: know better, She should know better on seventeen year old 126 00:05:13,440 --> 00:05:15,160 Speaker 2: turning eighteen, like you know. 127 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:16,839 Speaker 1: And why does she have to be in the car, 128 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 1: Like I believe it was her mom and the grandma, 129 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 1: So it's like, why does she have to be there 130 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:23,240 Speaker 1: in the car when she gets car sick? 131 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:23,880 Speaker 3: It doesn't make it. 132 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't make any sense. And also, you know, 133 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 2: it's like her birthday, Like let her have her birthday. 134 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 2: Come on, she can hang out with grandma any other 135 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 2: time exactly. Yeah, i'd say grandma a whole, granddaughter a hole, 136 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:38,360 Speaker 2: but a little less because it's like a retaliation a hole, yes, 137 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 2: you know, And I think like a retaliation a hole 138 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:43,040 Speaker 2: is like maybe like seventy percent of a real a hole. 139 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 2: Like that's a conversion factor. Yeah, the a whole ratio, 140 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 2: A whole ratio. But yeah, let me know what you think. 141 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 2: Put in the comments and we'll see you soon.