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Speaker 2: I found spicy pictures of a woman on my husband's Snapchat.

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Speaker 2: He said, my pregnancy hormones are just make him crazy.

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Speaker 3: You're pregnant, I'm crazy. It is what it is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, I think that happens a lot with pregnancy.

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Speaker 2: You just may or randomly see some snapchat. You know, spiciness,

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Speaker 2: it happens.

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Speaker 1: Here goes.

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Speaker 2: I've been with my husband for five years, married for

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Speaker 2: one and a half. I've never once doubted his fidelity.

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Speaker 2: He's great, super smart, funny, handsome, and I thought loyal.

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Speaker 2: I thought, it's never given me a reason to doubt

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Speaker 2: him or be suspicious. By the way this comes from

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Speaker 2: a little girl is on a wire And if you

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Speaker 2: Okay Storytime. So I thought it was kind of odd

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Speaker 2: when he downloaded Snapchat, kind of weird, strange what you

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Speaker 2: doing over there?

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Speaker 1: By?

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Speaker 2: What person do you know that's over the age of

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Speaker 2: like fourteen that's downloading Snapchat?

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Speaker 1: Riley and you have snapchat.

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Speaker 4: Uh no, no, no, no, But first, what snapchat is?

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Speaker 4: He's basically you guys take a picture and you send

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Speaker 4: it to someone and then after a little bit, it

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Speaker 4: goes away and you can never get it back.

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Speaker 2: I have, you know, back in high school, I was

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Speaker 2: using snapchats before you even born.

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying that on air.

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Speaker 2: He's not big on social media. I have one, but

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Speaker 2: I'm not very active. We rarely snap at each other.

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Speaker 2: He said his friends were really active and he liked

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Speaker 2: it better than Facebook. So that's why I had the

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Speaker 2: losing combination of social Snapchat and Facebook. Honestly, true, dude,

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Speaker 2: who's using Snapchat and Facebook? I feel like you're straddling

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Speaker 2: the social media's. At that point, you got like the

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Speaker 2: dinosaur old social media and then you got the new

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Speaker 2: fangled kid on the block. Bottom of Choose a lane.

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Speaker 2: Chose a lane?

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 2: May One says I have snapped chat. Don't use it though, good?

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Speaker 2: No one clip what I said before. By the way,

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Speaker 2: please don't don't. It's for the members only, only.

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Speaker 4: Put on the bitch gentnal.

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Speaker 2: So I thought nothing of it. This morning, my husband

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Speaker 2: was in the shower and left his phone on my

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Speaker 2: night stands half asleep when his phone started chirping, woke

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Speaker 2: me up. We've all known the same phone and ring

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Speaker 2: tone for text messages. Not knowing that he had put

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Speaker 2: his phone on my nightstand for whatever reason, I thought

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Speaker 2: it was my phone in my half asleep state, despite

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Speaker 2: his black phone case minus green and even notice I looked.

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Speaker 1: Who texted it? Said? Mom? Mommy said mommy, Oh that

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Speaker 1: could be bad.

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Speaker 2: Recently watched this little Instagram reel which he's like, don't

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Speaker 2: call me baby, call me mummy, mummy or mommy solta

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Speaker 2: that is what?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, mommy, No, that's spicy texting.

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Speaker 4: I need to make a call real quick.

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Speaker 1: You do under her after saying that? Or is that?

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Speaker 1: Is that? Is that the call?

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Speaker 2: I didn't even notice and I looked at it. Who

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Speaker 2: it texteds that?

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Speaker 1: Mom?

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Speaker 2: Okay, my mom texted me? All right, I can ignore

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Speaker 2: that until I'm actually awake. But under with a snapchat

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Speaker 2: notification snap from someone named Roxy.

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Speaker 1: That's his mom's name. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: She's got two accounts.

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Speaker 2: I don't know name fits though. Definitely someone's rocks are

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Speaker 2: getting off. That's right with Roxy. I was sorry, apologize

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Speaker 2: to anyone named Roxy right now, beautiful name.

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Speaker 3: I don't just had that apologizing, and.

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Speaker 2: I was like, who the f is Roxy and why

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Speaker 2: is she snapchatting me? I opened it a b it's

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Speaker 2: a picture of the cat and not the meyowing kind

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Speaker 2: with four legs and a tail. The captain said, I

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Speaker 2: want your tongue inside me again.

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Speaker 1: The first time that one word it was already horrendous,

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Speaker 1: but that one word just took it out of the

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Speaker 1: out of the solar system. Yeah, pretty bad, pretty bad.

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Speaker 2: The again is the that's that's the chopping already already

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Speaker 2: all right, so before we keep going, is there any

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Speaker 3: Wrong number? Wrong handle.

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Speaker 2: Also, back when I had snapchat, back in the day

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Speaker 2: when I was a wee lad, there were a lot

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Speaker 2: of people dming me, oh, I'm a hot single in

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Speaker 2: your area, and it was it was not actually a

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Speaker 1: It was a robot.

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Speaker 2: So many yeah, so many, so many MILFs.

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Speaker 3: In my area.

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Speaker 1: It was honestly crazy. I guess, you know, if op

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Speaker 1: is to go further, but then she has to I

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Speaker 1: think snap back bottom.

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Speaker 3: Naw, that's the question.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, do you like roosters or conk?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: I immediately thought it was a mistake, but I was

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Speaker 2: on alert now. After being awoken by a volva, I

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Speaker 2: pretty quickly realized that this was my husband's phone, and

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Speaker 2: I felt like I was going to crap the bed

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Speaker 2: and started to sweat. I looked at his contacts on

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Speaker 2: Snapchat and she had a yellow heart next door name.

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Speaker 2: I looked up what the f that means, and it

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Speaker 2: means they are best friends.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, unless they went into the settings and they

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Speaker 4: changed the emojis based on their interaction at times.

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Speaker 2: That's is a thing you can do.

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Speaker 4: That is the thing you can do. But the default

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Speaker 4: is if you're yellow, you are best friends.

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Speaker 1: You know so much about Snapchat, that's crazy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because I grew up with a surprise. You didn't

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Speaker 2: I stopped using it in like midway through college.

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Speaker 1: You know, when you use something so much, I mean

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Speaker 1: just like you need to just like sometimes take a

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Speaker 1: pause and just like put it down, you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean? Like college, a college college people go crazy.

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Speaker 1: It's okay, it's in college.

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Speaker 2: And there's there's definitely a picture floating around.

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Speaker 3: Maybe really don't tell Chat that.

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Speaker 1: Don't tell Chat that.

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Speaker 2: But no, like like regular old pictures, discord if you

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Speaker 1: Subscription coming to you, just kidding, get you a butt.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I'm going to be sick. I don't

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Speaker 2: do any other snooping because honestly, I know what I'll find.

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Speaker 2: I just don't understand how he could do this. We're happy,

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Speaker 2: at least I thought we were happy. We have spicy

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Speaker 2: sleep at least four times a week, respectable, respectable. How

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Speaker 2: many years have they've been married? Are they married? They're married?

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Speaker 2: How old are they? I feel like that's that's that's

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Speaker 2: a good amount of time.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's a good amount of time.

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Speaker 2: That's good. I've been with my husband for five years,

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Speaker 2: married for one and a half.

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Speaker 1: That's allids so good numbers. Yeah, you're putting yourself in

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Speaker 1: the hot seat, Riley.

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Speaker 2: But Riley, you like only exactly the amount of times

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Speaker 2: that you see?

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Speaker 1: Are like?

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Speaker 2: Do some mental math of like times per sessions?

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Speaker 1: Mm?

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Speaker 3: So that's why Riley's.

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Speaker 2: Okay, here's the real punter Reddit. I'm almost twelve weeks

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Speaker 2: pregnant with our first child.

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Speaker 1: Classic pregnant cheater. Round them up round the moment, send

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Speaker 1: them off.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, like we know this is true. If

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Speaker 2: you're a long time fan of the show. You know,

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Speaker 2: the most likely second that cheating happens is during pregnancy.

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Speaker 1: Unfortunately, interminal illness and terminal.

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Speaker 3: I can't our old for in terminal illness.

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Speaker 4: I found a new statistic. I was watching this YouTube

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Speaker 4: and men are six hundred and twenty four percent more

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Speaker 4: likely to leave their partner over terminal illness than woman will.

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Speaker 2: Wow, six hundred and twenty four percent.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's those are not favorable odds. Wow, that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: He's sitting in the recliner about twenty feet from me,

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Speaker 2: and I just can't find the words to confront him.

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Speaker 2: How do I say what I need to say? There

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Speaker 2: is no way I am somehow overreacting or misreading the

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Speaker 2: situation is there? I'm heartbroken and don't know what to do?

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Speaker 2: And there is an update? But chat, what do you

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Speaker 2: think we should do? What should happen here? Is it

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Speaker 2: like you know, cut, cut and dry? Is is this

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Speaker 2: one cheating? Is it maybe a little bot that's sneaking

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Speaker 2: in there? I'm still holding out. I hope, I'm still

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Speaker 2: holding out. Hope that's so. I just hope the boy,

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Speaker 2: But yeah, what what are you thinking?

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Speaker 1: I mean, dude, the evidence is pretty pretty strong so

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Speaker 1: far back in pretty strong, so far again again?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, bots don't say again. That's the thing. The

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Speaker 3: moms in your area don't say again.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they say like for the first time, it's gonna

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Speaker 1: Actual yeah, So like the evidence is looking real bad.

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Speaker 1: I guess OP has to asked the question she hasn't

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Speaker 1: told us yet. Is this one of her personal kind

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Speaker 1: of like instant hardline deal breakers. We've seen this with

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Speaker 2: Like ah, yes, you know. And then also like and

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Speaker 2: how deep is it go? Is it just sending messages

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Speaker 2: or have they have they have? Well, I guess he

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Speaker 2: said she said stick it in again?

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Speaker 3: That again. The word again is.

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Speaker 1: Just like.

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Speaker 2: Definitely got physical. But you know, maybe some people's book

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Speaker 2: oral is is.

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Speaker 3: Two people they want in their relationships.

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Speaker 2: True, but I can't imagine they've decided that that was okay.

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Speaker 1: But uh yeah, maybe.

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Speaker 3: Paul Samuel daughters snap for more.

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Speaker 1: Here we go, Here we go.

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Speaker 2: Maybe he accidentally like shot it into this person like

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Speaker 2: it was just like you know, ship and it fell

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Speaker 2: like oh no, and then he was trying to like

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Speaker 2: sket out so he wouldn't get a there wouldn't be

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Speaker 2: another pregnancy.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of like, it's like when it might have

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Speaker 1: been the craziest hypothetical scenario you've ever said uttered in

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Speaker 1: the history of this show, in the history of this.

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Speaker 2: Homie gets like bit by a snake, you know, and.

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Speaker 4: There's a movie about that.

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Speaker 1: It's like that. What movies?

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Speaker 3: You haven't seen that?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, it's like it's egg plant. That's literally it's

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Speaker 1: called yeah, yeah, it's called the Eggplant. The box, the box?

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Speaker 4: What's the You and I watched it together on Netflix?

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Speaker 1: Right? I don't think we watch it together.

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Speaker 2: Ezekiel says, Kissing above the equator is cheating. Kissing below

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Speaker 2: the equator is not cheating.

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Speaker 4: Interesting, No I read that wrong.

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Speaker 2: How it's kissing below the equator not cheating? Yeah yeah, no,

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Speaker 2: you know, you know, you never know. Two people can

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Speaker 2: create whatever kind of vibe they want, but this does

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Speaker 1: Please?

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Speaker 2: How about you just read my oh get direct? Yes?

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Speaker 2: So update first and foremost, thank you all for your

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Speaker 2: So husband knows something is up. I don't know if

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Speaker 2: be asking twenty.

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Speaker 1: Four to seven.

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Speaker 3: The ratio is too high.

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Speaker 2: Brother told him my sister was having a hard time today. Ironically,

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Speaker 2: she just broke up with her boyfriend. Why guess why, John.

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Speaker 1: Don't tell me cheating? Cheating?

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Speaker 3: Where were the tongues? Where are the tongues? That's the question.

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Speaker 2: I want to know where every tongue is. I want

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Speaker 3: The under the no free sponsor verse.

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Speaker 2: Since I hired TUG and I was going over to

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Speaker 2: My sister is twenty and a whiz at the social

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Speaker 2: She is listed as a receptionist at my husband's friend's

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Speaker 2: law firm. Also really quick. You know, I'm not a

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Speaker 1: If she's just going straight crotch shot and like you

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Speaker 2: Oh she's like hey, like like hey, directions, tongue right here,

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Speaker 1: That's what she said.

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Speaker 2: Well, my husband works a couple of blocks from the

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Speaker 2: I mean I feel like that's that's pretty Uh, that's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, any more defense for our boy over here?

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Speaker 1: I don't got much. I don't got much. What is it?

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Speaker 1: Benjamin Franklin, Right, he was like the original person that, like,

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Speaker 2: Franklin was the original mistress man of America. Oh exactly,

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Speaker 2: and honestly I do too. But I'm going to address

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Speaker 2: All right, I love this. I love this. There's not

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Speaker 2: You know, taking the high shame you know, yeah, exactly,

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Speaker 2: I've already contacted him and asked if we could discuss

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Speaker 2: some potential legal issues. Didn't specify what yet feels like

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Speaker 2: I will try to update as much as I can.

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Speaker 2: From the bottom of my heart. Thank you all again,

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Speaker 2: Internet strangers. But the's more. Oh, we got some comments,

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Speaker 2: we got some updates. This juice is just juice.

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Speaker 3: In it's unfortunately very juicy.

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Speaker 2: It's it's juicy, it's juicy, it's wet. We're lapping it up.

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Speaker 2: We're putting our heads down and we're going to get

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Speaker 1: Sam. Look, I know you like reminiscing on your Snapchat

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Speaker 2: Here, Like, yeah, tell me about the brass. What do

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Speaker 2: I mean the high road is is I think divorce?

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Speaker 2: You know, very high road is divorce.

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Speaker 3: Do we do we confront him and be like yo,

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Speaker 2: end to this update, I would just turn to him

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Speaker 2: and say, so, Roxy has an interesting looking kitty cat

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Speaker 2: and just watch his face or say you were thinking

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Speaker 3: Oh that's great, that's really good.

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Speaker 1: That's really good.

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Speaker 2: Another comment says he thinks you're too sid to figure

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Speaker 2: If she says she wants his tongue in her cat again,

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Speaker 2: please don't put up with this crap. Get mad and

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Speaker 2: hang on to your anger. You deserve better. Comment three

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Speaker 2: Did the snap have his name on it or in it?

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Speaker 2: Does he have that same person on Facebook or Instagram?

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Speaker 2: Many adult models slash stars have Snapchat and send snaps

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Speaker 2: but we already have that update of Roxy working at

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Speaker 2: the yellow heart on Snapchat means she snaps him back

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Speaker 1: We haven't even got to the part where we've confronted

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Speaker 2: We're not even there yet.

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Speaker 1: Oh man, yeah we're but we're on our way.

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Speaker 3: Let's go.

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Speaker 1: We're on our way.

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Speaker 2: So again, I am overwhelmed by the support and the

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Speaker 2: So my husband cheated. He has been since maybe two

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Speaker 2: He said that she works with his friend and they

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Speaker 2: she sends a lot of inspirational snaps on being healthy

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Speaker 2: You gotta eat healthy and you know, you know, you

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Speaker 2: He said that every once in a while he'll send

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Speaker 1: Not like an not like it.

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Speaker 2: But she probably took it down. She probably took it down.

443
00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:03,600
Speaker 2: But it does happen. It does happen, It does. I

444
00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:06,240
Speaker 2: don't think this is true. A Karina Karina says, I've

445
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:09,520
Speaker 2: done that. It was so embarrassing. Yeah, it happens. It

446
00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:14,000
Speaker 2: happens that sometimes people accidentally send the wrong snapchats to

447
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:14,720
Speaker 2: the wrong people.

448
00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:15,199
Speaker 1: Oh.

449
00:21:15,200 --> 00:21:17,440
Speaker 2: Avery from the Swan says, Sam, I did that once

450
00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:19,239
Speaker 2: and it was up for like an hour, and I

451
00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:24,360
Speaker 2: was in a sorority. Yeah big yikes. Yeah, but imagine

452
00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:28,840
Speaker 2: it being up for eight hours. Yeah eight hours is so.

453
00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:30,160
Speaker 1: Long, so lowly.

454
00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:32,600
Speaker 2: Then he had the nerve to say something along the

455
00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:35,560
Speaker 2: lines of I feel like I'm on trial here. People

456
00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:38,439
Speaker 2: warned me that you'd get crazy when you're pregnant, but

457
00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:42,399
Speaker 2: I never thought it would be this bad. Oh, the

458
00:21:42,520 --> 00:21:45,200
Speaker 2: gas lighting has begun, ladies and gentlemen.

459
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Speaker 1: God.

460
00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:49,840
Speaker 2: Now, as some of you mentioned in my last post

461
00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:53,399
Speaker 2: seems amazing that I'm able to keep such a level head.

462
00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,159
Speaker 2: That is because I was raised by mother who always

463
00:21:56,160 --> 00:21:58,560
Speaker 2: told me that you never accomplish anything with anger.

464
00:21:58,720 --> 00:21:59,560
Speaker 1: I messed with Opie.

465
00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:02,520
Speaker 2: Great that you can be emotional, passionate, upset, et cetera

466
00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:06,840
Speaker 2: without ever raising your voice. Messages received quietly and concisely

467
00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:09,960
Speaker 2: are just as loud and clear as messages received through

468
00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:10,880
Speaker 2: yelling and screaming.

469
00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:15,120
Speaker 1: Honestly great, I like that, great mom ward.

470
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,640
Speaker 2: That is how I lived my life for twenty six years,

471
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:20,320
Speaker 2: with the exception of a few blow ups. I am human,

472
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:23,600
Speaker 2: but this moment was an exception. I didn't exactly yell

473
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:26,480
Speaker 2: and scream, but I became furious for him to try

474
00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:31,200
Speaker 2: to blame this on me being pregnant. How unoriginal and offensive.

475
00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:32,400
Speaker 1: Long story short.

476
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:35,200
Speaker 2: He said he'd never seen me this crazy, and I

477
00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:38,480
Speaker 2: told him that I'd never seen a picture of another

478
00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:43,400
Speaker 2: girl's kitty kat on my husband's snapchat before he came

479
00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:46,240
Speaker 2: back with that I shouldn't have looked at his snapchat.

480
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,399
Speaker 4: What he's just mad he got caught.

481
00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:54,160
Speaker 1: Well, maybe if he didn't have eyeballs like human, you'd

482
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:54,920
Speaker 1: be Okay.

483
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:55,560
Speaker 3: That's what you sound like?

484
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:57,680
Speaker 2: That is a stinky man right there. You freaking the

485
00:22:58,640 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 2: level through the roof. He you can smell it down

486
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:04,399
Speaker 2: the block. You could say it is it is the

487
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:07,359
Speaker 2: garbage pile that goes to the center of the Earth

488
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:11,080
Speaker 2: into the magma outside the other center, and then there's

489
00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:13,119
Speaker 2: a space elevator on the other side of the world

490
00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:18,080
Speaker 2: that is taking that garbage pile pylon into space. Keep

491
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 2: going past the Moon, past the Moon, past Jupiter, into

492
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:26,600
Speaker 2: the or cloud, Ye, into the or cloud. There it is.

493
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:30,119
Speaker 2: He's done, good night. That is that level stink. The

494
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 2: stink is thick, and we don't like smelling it. We don't,

495
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:35,679
Speaker 2: but we're gonna keep going. Came back with that it

496
00:23:35,720 --> 00:23:38,239
Speaker 2: was an accident, but even if it hadn't been, there

497
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,679
Speaker 2: shouldn't be any reason he's receiving snapchats like that for

498
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:42,879
Speaker 2: me to see accidentally or not in the first place.

499
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 2: I told him that I may be pregnant, but I'm

500
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 2: also an intelligent parson, big brain, and I am his wife,

501
00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,879
Speaker 2: so I knew he was lying and I deserve to

502
00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:54,080
Speaker 2: know the truth. I asked if I could see his

503
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 2: text messages to see if he's been texting Roxy. He said, sure,

504
00:23:57,560 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 2: no messages.

505
00:23:58,640 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 4: Because they're on Snapchat.

506
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 2: Then I asked to see his Facebook messages and he

507
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:06,639
Speaker 2: looked like a kid caught with his hand in the

508
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:07,240
Speaker 2: cookie jar.

509
00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:09,440
Speaker 1: Oh, his hand was in night cookie jar, just among

510
00:24:09,520 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 1: other things there to try some cookie jar.

511
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 3: You really did a full visual right there.

512
00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:19,240
Speaker 1: You did a full for any of you audio listeners

513
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 1: out there. You may or may not want to go

514
00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 1: to the video version on YouTube.

515
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:32,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, into the cookie jar, throwing in there cookie shot.

516
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,560
Speaker 3: Oh man, he really wants that cookie.

517
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:41,399
Speaker 2: It's been a while. What's that from what he told me? No,

518
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:44,640
Speaker 2: I asked why. He finally broke and started to cry.

519
00:24:44,920 --> 00:24:47,160
Speaker 2: Told me he couldn't let me see the messages because

520
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,639
Speaker 2: they would hurt me because they were inappropriate. Then it

521
00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 2: all came out. They did the spicy sleep in the

522
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:56,439
Speaker 2: backseat of her car the first night they met. This

523
00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 2: is already long, so I'll spare you all the detail,

524
00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 2: but it's been going on for months. No, they did

525
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 2: not always use protection, although I was recently screened for

526
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:13,000
Speaker 2: sti's and I'll be getting checked again in light of

527
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 2: this information.

528
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,159
Speaker 1: Oh no, oh, that's an update I'm not looking forward to.

529
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:19,159
Speaker 4: You'd be doing the little miss Debbie the first.

530
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 1: Night they met many they had They.

531
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 3: Really don't waste any time in anything.

532
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:31,120
Speaker 1: It's like my car, we're screwing now your tongue, my cat? Now, wow,

533
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 1: that was so quick for real geez.

534
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 2: My uncle already assured me that if he was unfaithful,

535
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 2: we would cream him in court like he creamed in

536
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 2: the backseat of that car. Really, the only thing I'm

537
00:25:43,040 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 2: willing to fight him tooth and nail for is our home.

538
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 2: Put a lot of effort and money into making this

539
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:52,359
Speaker 2: home my dream space. I won't be seeking spouse of support,

540
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:55,959
Speaker 2: but I will seek child support. I'm obviously heartbroken and

541
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 2: told him to go stay in a hotel or with

542
00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:01,280
Speaker 2: Roxy for all. I cared in front of him last night.

543
00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 2: My mom's sister stayed with me last night, let me

544
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 2: sob all over them for hours. Right now, I'm sort

545
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,640
Speaker 2: of numb, but I'm also thinking very clearly. Good, good,

546
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 2: I know what my next ten moves are. Freaking go

547
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:17,479
Speaker 2: some freaking Magnus Carlson out here. You know, ten steps ahead,

548
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:21,880
Speaker 2: big brains. If anyone's on chess chess streams with or

549
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:26,960
Speaker 2: without the buzzer, Maxis Carlson doesn't need no buzzer. You

550
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 2: don't need no buzzer.

551
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:28,879
Speaker 4: That's right.

552
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 2: The guy, the guy that that beat him once. He's

553
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:36,919
Speaker 2: the one accused of buzzing up a storm. Oh I

554
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 2: really don't know what to do here, guys. I'm lost

555
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 2: watching chess like that. So I know the guy vaguely.

556
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, So the guy is the best and he

557
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,960
Speaker 4: played against a guy that had significantly less Chess IQ

558
00:26:53,119 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 4: than him, and they spectatd that he won is because.

559
00:26:58,040 --> 00:27:02,960
Speaker 2: He had a button vibrator that Morse code the chess

560
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:06,160
Speaker 2: moves move.

561
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:07,199
Speaker 3: Is there video of this?

562
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:13,159
Speaker 1: I think it would be like wow, I mean, you

563
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:14,920
Speaker 1: gotta give it to him. That's a brilliant way to

564
00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 1: cheat a chess I mean the same. And that's just

565
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 1: love of the game right there. You just freaking love

566
00:27:21,359 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 1: the game so freaking awards and anything else, Like you

567
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 1: ever stopped playing chess, dude? I love chess, dude. Imagine

568
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 1: like we love the game so much. Riley's like, all right, guys,

569
00:27:32,200 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 1: here's this thing. We don't need to tell a prompter anymore,

570
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 1: you know, Like here it is. You're like, I don't

571
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 1: know if I.

572
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 3: Love the game that much.

573
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 1: Morse code stories.

574
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 4: Imagine not having to read stories anymore, you just feel them. Wow.

575
00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 3: Man, dedication, That's all I'm saying. Stay dedicated.

576
00:27:50,240 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 2: Na Wait, I missed something who had the butt vibrator.

577
00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:56,120
Speaker 2: The guy there was a chess tournament, tournament between Magnus Carlson,

578
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 2: the champion of the world, and this guy who was

579
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:00,879
Speaker 2: much worse. The guy who was much worse one and

580
00:28:01,160 --> 00:28:04,240
Speaker 2: the working theories had a butt vibrator to tell in

581
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 2: the chess moves it would be like and that would

582
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:13,760
Speaker 2: be like D seven anyway, respect and so she knows

583
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:15,560
Speaker 2: ten moves in advance, and I feel s important secure

584
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 2: in my decision to leave him and keep my baby.

585
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 2: A few things I just wanted to clarify. My husband

586
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 2: is not a lawyer. His good friend is. There was

587
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,879
Speaker 2: some concern for my success in court if my husband

588
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:28,080
Speaker 2: is a lawyer. His friend is an environmental lawyer. So

589
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:30,400
Speaker 2: while I'm sure he can provide some advice, he will

590
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 2: not be my husband's divorce lawyer. There were suggestions of

591
00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 2: me terminating my pregnancy. I fully support the right to choose,

592
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 2: and I would probably terminate the pregnancy if I was

593
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:42,160
Speaker 2: in a different financial position and lacked a support system. However,

594
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 2: I work as a marketing manager for a large company.

595
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,920
Speaker 2: Not only does this allow the privilege of working from

596
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,200
Speaker 2: home about fifty percent of the time, but it also

597
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:52,480
Speaker 2: grants me financial independence. I do not rely on my

598
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 2: husband for money, and I really never had.

599
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 1: He works.

600
00:28:56,080 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 2: Just thinking of a stream where we Riley controls are

601
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 2: butt plugs.

602
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 1: That is bro. What's the donut goal for that that?

603
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 1: Put it on the wheel? Put it on the wheel, dude,

604
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 1: that's bro. That's a high price that dude, that's that's crazy.

605
00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:13,280
Speaker 4: One hundred and twenty five bucks.

606
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 1: That's one hundred and twenty six bucks. We sit it out.

607
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 1: Oh oh go good.

608
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 4: Oh, I know where they sit every day.

609
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 2: I do not rely on my husband for money, and

610
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 2: I never really have. He works in dug so while

611
00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 2: he makes a good salary, I will not need him

612
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 2: for spousal support. I have a phenomenal support system. This

613
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 2: baby will be loved so dearly by so many. Yes,

614
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 2: I will have to deal with my husband for the

615
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 2: rest of my life. If I have this child. It'll

616
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 2: make future relationships more difficult, but it is worth it.

617
00:29:57,040 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 2: I've wanted this baby since day one, and I am

618
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 2: I'm her mother, which means that I am strong enough

619
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 2: to raise her alone, because I have to be strong enough.

620
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 2: Here's to hoping for a speedy divorce. I'm ready to

621
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 2: be done with this marriage, which is crazy because just

622
00:30:11,560 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 2: a few days ago I thought my life was as

623
00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 2: close to perfect as you can get. And there is

624
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 2: an update. There is an update.

625
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 3: This, This is the gift that just keeps on giving.

626
00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 2: There is an update, which I imagine we're going to

627
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 2: get some some interesting information from divorce court.

628
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 1: Could be divorced, could be the you know the spicy

629
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:32,960
Speaker 1: spicy diseases.

630
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, well she doesn't have one, right so far?

631
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 1: Yeah? So far? Yeah, we don't know. There it is.

632
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:42,440
Speaker 1: What are you seeing? All right?

633
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 2: What I what I spy with my little eye?

634
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 1: What can you see? All right? Look? What eyes? What

635
00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 1: I spy with my little eye? Is?

636
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 2: I think the divorce is going to go smoothly for her,

637
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 2: But maybe he pulls out like a really good lawyer

638
00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 2: pulls out.

639
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 3: You should have done that before. I should have never entered.

640
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 1: Thank god. But update. Hey, it's Sam, your og host. Here.

641
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 2: We're gonna get back to the stories. But here's three

642
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:16,840
Speaker 2: minutes of ads from our sponsors. I know it's been

643
00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 2: only a short time since I posed this update, but

644
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 2: I need to tell you all how amazing you are.

645
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 1: Wow. The support great.

646
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 2: I wish I could reply to all the comments and messages,

647
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:28,920
Speaker 2: but because of the volume, I'm just going to say

648
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 2: thank you from the bottom of my heart to each

649
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 2: and every one of you read my posts who commented,

650
00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 2: thought of me, wish my baby and me the best

651
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 2: message me and anything else. I'm currently at my parents' condo,

652
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 2: sitting outside of their pool, sunbathing my little baby Boom

653
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 2: and reading each and every one of your amazing and

654
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 2: empowering comments. I just want you all to have the

655
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 2: image that you have made me happy and content in

656
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 2: at time when I am short on both. This is

657
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:57,880
Speaker 2: proof that love exists, even if it doesn't within my

658
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 2: now over relationship, and the love is a powerful thing.

659
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:02,840
Speaker 2: I loved you all, by the way. We love you

660
00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 2: all so much and are telling you right now that

661
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 2: you should listen to our podcast Okay story Time. Wherever

662
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Speaker 2: you listen to podcasts. It could be Spotify, it could

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Speaker 2: be out the Podcast, it'd be some one of the

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Speaker 2: one of the weird ones. I listen to my podcast

665
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Speaker 2: on Audible. That's not a sponsor, but Gobblegook Gobbable there

666
00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 2: it is, but you can listen while you're doing other stuff,

667
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 2: so freaking do it. But yeah, there's another relevant update.

668
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:25,960
Speaker 2: Should I just should I just freaking.

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Speaker 3: Let's dive right in.

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Speaker 2: I will leave you with this, deariators. My dad and

671
00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:34,480
Speaker 2: I were up late talking last night, and as usual,

672
00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 2: he had the perfect thing to say to me. He

673
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 2: told me that weak people are afraid of strong people.

674
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 2: He told me to keep on terrifying the weak ones

675
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 2: that way. The only people who won't fear you are

676
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:48,479
Speaker 2: the bravest, strongest of people, and those are people who

677
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 2: are worthy of you.

678
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:50,760
Speaker 1: He said.

679
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,480
Speaker 2: My husband is a spineless herd who wouldn't punt it

680
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 2: with the strongest woman in the world. Just thought i'd

681
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 2: leave you with that and encourage everyone to be terrifying

682
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:03,040
Speaker 2: by being strong and not standing for nonsense.

683
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 1: Show.

684
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 2: This is the last I will post in the matter.

685
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:08,479
Speaker 2: I have a lot ahead of me with everything, and

686
00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 2: will probably go quiet on Reddit for a while time

687
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 2: to get ready for court and be terrifying. Thank you,

688
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:16,440
Speaker 2: thank you, Thank you again. Love to all of you.

689
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 2: And there are some comments with some legal advice. While

690
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 2: this is not legal advice, I have a divorce attorney,

691
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 2: though here are my thoughts. You need to find yourself

692
00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 2: an awesome therapist asap. When you pop that baby out.

693
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 2: It's going to be so hard to coparent. Look into

694
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:35,400
Speaker 2: reconstituting your estate. Unfortunately, nowadays, cheating is common occurrence and

695
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 2: family court. The best way to come bat it is

696
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:41,480
Speaker 2: recouping all the money he may have spent on that chick.

697
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 2: Ask for an entire Facebook download in discovery. It will

698
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 2: show all his messages he has ever sent. Anyone use

699
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 2: it as leverage. Most cheaters don't like to go to

700
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 2: court to air out their laundry. This gives you a

701
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:56,000
Speaker 2: stepping stool, and another comment says, really, the only thing

702
00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 2: I'm willing to fight him tooth and nail for is

703
00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:00,480
Speaker 2: our home. You should also do custody for your I'm

704
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:02,040
Speaker 2: sure your uncle is on top of this, but it's

705
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 2: worth mentioning since your post is operating on the assumption

706
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:08,799
Speaker 2: you'll be a custodial parent, which is not guaranteed. And

707
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 2: OP replies, what the husband did was wrong, but there's

708
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:14,400
Speaker 2: no reason to keep him away from his child unless

709
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 2: he is unfit. Fifty to fifty should be the defaults.

710
00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 2: He endangered the life of his child when he f't

711
00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:22,720
Speaker 2: his mistress without protection. This is a reply and another

712
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:25,359
Speaker 2: reply as well. It shouldn't be except in cases where

713
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 2: one parent is unfit. Both parents should be equal custody.

714
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:32,680
Speaker 2: Infidelity has no bearing on someone's ability to parents. What

715
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 2: do you guys think about that last one? Does infidelity

716
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,120
Speaker 2: have any bearing on someone's ability to parent?

717
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 3: Disagree? Hard disagree.

718
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 1: I feel like it's it's such a leading indicator of like,

719
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:45,840
Speaker 1: if those are your morals that you live by, a

720
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 1: what example are you setting for your kid? And then

721
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:51,560
Speaker 1: be like your other thoughts and other things? And I

722
00:34:51,719 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 1: just know I don't.

723
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you can't commit to that marriage and be

724
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 2: truthful with your partner, how are you going to be

725
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 2: able to do the same for you child?

726
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 1: Especially when he reacts and did what he did, Like

727
00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 1: he's clearly not trying to learn or have growth or

728
00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 1: any sort of remorse.

729
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:11,880
Speaker 3: He's just like, well, I have to dude.

730
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 2: But imally, I think it's like one thing to be like, yes,

731
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:17,680
Speaker 2: that's an indicator he's probably gonna be a worse dad

732
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 2: than someone who could be faithful. But does that fully

733
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:24,840
Speaker 2: mean he should have no access to his children?

734
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 1: I'm not saying no access I do disagree with like,

735
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:30,640
Speaker 1: don't fully take away, but I do think that like

736
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 1: fifty one percent plus can go to mom because she's

737
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 1: proven that she is a more fit parent.

738
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Speaker 2: But yeah, let us know what you think. We'd love

739
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 2: to know. But that's where that story ends. But we

740
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Speaker 2: got more stories for you. Get a whole host of them,

741
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Speaker 2: just for you, right for your ear holes, because we

742
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Speaker 2: love you and we'll see you right now.

743
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Speaker 3: We got it, baby, let's go.

744
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:54,719
Speaker 1: My boyfriend cheated on me with my step siblings, so

745
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:57,160
Speaker 1: I exposed him to his mother. Exposed him? What way?

746
00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 4: Oh?

747
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:01,279
Speaker 2: Because one way would not be good? Hopefully not snapchat?

748
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:06,120
Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh Sam? Sweet. So when I was around seventeen,

749
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:09,000
Speaker 1: I started dating a guy nineteen I'll call him Jake

750
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,279
Speaker 1: for the sake of the post. Also the age of

751
00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 1: consent where I live at sixteen, so nothing legal was

752
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: happening here. We got on well, spent a lot of

753
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:17,799
Speaker 1: time together, and cared for each other a lot. We

754
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:21,080
Speaker 1: even started talking about living together once we both moved out.

755
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:24,959
Speaker 1: We were a perfectly happy couple. Wor word is were

756
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:25,640
Speaker 1: there they are?

757
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 2: Probably That is always a concerning little little sentence. We

758
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 2: were or so I thought, it's always in a soh

759
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,360
Speaker 2: or so I thought, or were or so I thought,

760
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:37,719
Speaker 2: all yeah, they're always always like.

761
00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:40,480
Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from Mikey Audrey Meyers and

762
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Speaker 1: if you want to send in your story, go to

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Speaker 1: our slash. Okay, start time, supparate it set him in.

764
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Speaker 1: We'll read them. You see. After we'd been dating for

765
00:36:45,920 --> 00:36:48,640
Speaker 1: a few months, something in Jake changed. He was getting

766
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:50,879
Speaker 1: a lot more distant. Whenever he was with me, he'd

767
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 1: be checking his phone constantly. We stopped spending as much

768
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 1: time together, and he started to get really funny about

769
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:59,160
Speaker 1: public affection, regarding things like handholding and stuff.

770
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:02,880
Speaker 2: What you I don't want my hands to be sweaty.

771
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:06,719
Speaker 1: We'll get them claim hands. He also seemed to start

772
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 1: caring less and less about my feelings.

773
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 3: That's not a good trend.

774
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 1: Insults started to seep into our everyday life. He'd pick

775
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 1: on my appearance a lot. Bring up my family. Wow,

776
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:16,719
Speaker 1: I was dealing with a lot of family issues at

777
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 1: the time. Bring up the fact that I slept around

778
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:20,840
Speaker 1: before we started dating, a sort of rebellion caused by

779
00:37:20,920 --> 00:37:23,360
Speaker 1: the family issues, et cetera. If I got upset by it,

780
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 1: he would just leave the room and let me cry

781
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:27,840
Speaker 1: by myself. I started to feel like it was my fault.

782
00:37:27,840 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 1: Our relationship was falling apart. Maybe I just wasn't good

783
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 1: enough for him.

784
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 2: It sounds like he's trying to get you to break

785
00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:36,319
Speaker 2: up with him because he doesn't have the callness to

786
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:37,480
Speaker 2: do it himself.

787
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:40,839
Speaker 1: That is astute observation.

788
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:44,320
Speaker 3: And his cojones are mere.

789
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:52,319
Speaker 2: Molecules, you know what, No, Adams, I'm not even gonna

790
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:54,800
Speaker 2: give him a molecule. You know, it can't get smaller

791
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 2: than you know what? No, it can electrons, electrons, you

792
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:03,520
Speaker 2: know what? Quark, cork, no string, It's just is the

793
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 2: base of freaking matter, interdimensionally invisible. Yes, yeah, I like that.

794
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 3: That's what you feel like.

795
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:19,359
Speaker 2: That's a cool screen name inter dimensionally that is kind

796
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:21,280
Speaker 2: of a cool screen. But it's like a cool screen

797
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:23,439
Speaker 2: my name for someone who's like like, oh, like, I'm

798
00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 2: just I'm just I'm just interventionally visible like you. But

799
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:29,480
Speaker 2: then but then we noticed you and they're like, oh wait,

800
00:38:29,480 --> 00:38:33,839
Speaker 2: maybe I'm cool. I'm actually maybe yeah, then you win,

801
00:38:33,960 --> 00:38:35,279
Speaker 2: someone grab that it's out there now.

802
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,040
Speaker 1: I knew deep down that he was cheating on me,

803
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 1: and that was confirmed when I got a message from

804
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:43,359
Speaker 1: a guy David on Facebook telling me that he'd been

805
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 1: sleeping with Jake. Oh boy, I'm sorry. Sorry. He apologized

806
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 1: profusely and told me that he broke things off with

807
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:54,359
Speaker 1: Jake as soon as he found out that he had

808
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:56,839
Speaker 1: a boyfriend. I couldn't be mad at David. It wasn't

809
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 1: his fault. I'm guessing the affair partner. We spoke for hours,

810
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:01,719
Speaker 1: and I reassure David that it wasn't his fault and

811
00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 1: that he'd done nothing wrong. David also helped me to

812
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:07,120
Speaker 1: stop making excuses for Jake's attitude and the way he'd

813
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:07,800
Speaker 1: been acting.

814
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:13,280
Speaker 2: He was a godsense conspiracy theory. Conspiracy theory. David knew

815
00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:16,640
Speaker 2: that there was a boyfriend, and then said, oh, I

816
00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 2: didn't realize I was cheating on you with your boyfriend,

817
00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 2: but actually wants Ope the whole time, and so is

818
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:24,839
Speaker 2: using this to get close to Op and has got

819
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 2: a relationship Hop to Op. Boom, wow boom, that was

820
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:33,400
Speaker 2: your conspiracy you just cooked? Yeah, that's wow. Oh yeah,

821
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:34,879
Speaker 2: now I'm afraid. Oh god.

822
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, the thing that truly broke me happened not

823
00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:40,280
Speaker 1: too long after the cheating was discovered.

824
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:42,279
Speaker 3: We'd been arguing a heck of a lot more. Then

825
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 3: he decided to.

826
00:39:42,960 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 1: Do something absolutely forgivable. You see, I had a strained

827
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 1: relationship with my father for years. He cheated on my

828
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:50,959
Speaker 1: mother constantly, and eventually he settled down and had kids

829
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 1: with a girl that he'd be seeing behind her back.

830
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 1: He did try to have some sort of relationship with

831
00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 1: me until I was about thirteen fourteen ish, and then.

832
00:39:57,960 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 3: He decided that he just didn't love me as much

833
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:02,839
Speaker 3: as the kids, and we stopped any and all contact.

834
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:03,800
Speaker 1: This is rough.

835
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 3: Barney's a piece of work. This guy, this guy sucked.

836
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:10,600
Speaker 2: You guys, Some guys just some guys are just born

837
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:18,080
Speaker 2: on this earth, just born with dimensionally invisible gonus, born to.

838
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Speaker 3: Or put them together. It all works.

839
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:27,000
Speaker 2: I will those cohonas until they're interdimensionally invisible.

840
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:28,920
Speaker 1: I mean you might be are trying to do them

841
00:40:28,920 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 1: a favor or teach them a teaching a lesson.

842
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 2: I will be like the mentor and that soul. Oh

843
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:39,479
Speaker 2: well you heard it here first, say you twenty five?

844
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 2: Harry Potter three goated it always, it always goes it

845
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 2: hits Harry Potter four makes me smile most.

846
00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:48,880
Speaker 1: That one. That's great. I can't I'm about to get

847
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 1: him to a ranking. I can't go there, Guys, I

848
00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:50,719
Speaker 1: can't go there.

849
00:40:51,200 --> 00:40:53,359
Speaker 2: What's your Harry Potter ranking? Put put your answers below.

850
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:55,319
Speaker 1: I want to know, yes, and compare it with mine,

851
00:40:55,320 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 1: and then I'll roast you. But it broke me and

852
00:40:57,800 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 1: it still hurts to think about it to this day.

853
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 1: And ways Jake went out of his way to find

854
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:05,440
Speaker 1: one of my step siblings online and slept with them.

855
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 1: Ho he slept with one of op step siblings. I

856
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 1: mean when you find it type they're not.

857
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 4: Related when you want to keep it in the family.

858
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:18,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're not related, but they have like they probably.

859
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:20,440
Speaker 3: Similar environ exactly.

860
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:21,600
Speaker 1: They have like SAME's.

861
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 2: It's like it's like, you know, you like what I

862
00:41:24,880 --> 00:41:27,799
Speaker 2: can of Campbell's soup, and you're like, all right, well

863
00:41:27,880 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 2: let me try this other flame. It's the Alfredo, Yeah,

864
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:33,440
Speaker 2: with the Alfraido, Like, oh, I'll probably I like Campbell's

865
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:34,439
Speaker 2: chicken noodle soup.

866
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:38,919
Speaker 1: So the other one, you know. Well, he bragged about

867
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:41,320
Speaker 1: it the next day, and my step siblings actually posted

868
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:43,399
Speaker 1: online about what had happened, and I received a bunch

869
00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 1: of messages from their friends town why.

870
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 2: Would you post online about that?

871
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:50,400
Speaker 1: Telling me how I had deserved it what This was

872
00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:53,280
Speaker 1: probably the lowest point in my life, and I hated myself,

873
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 1: partly for allowing it to happen and partly because I

874
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:58,320
Speaker 1: had started to believe what they were saying. My only

875
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:01,320
Speaker 1: solace during this time was David. I didn't want to

876
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 1: burden my friends with problems, and David was the only

877
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 1: was the only person who knew firsthand what Jake was like.

878
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 1: We spoke for a few weeks, and eventually talk turned

879
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:11,320
Speaker 1: to revenge. I had tried calling things off about a

880
00:42:11,360 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 1: couple of months prior due to Jake's awful behavior, but

881
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:16,360
Speaker 1: he started with the apologies and telling me he didn't

882
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 1: mean it, he'd never do it again.

883
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:22,440
Speaker 2: Bro, man's working his way through like the whole town

884
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:25,759
Speaker 2: right now, while you're in a relationship, your whole family. Yeah,

885
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:29,960
Speaker 2: you're a whole family. I don't think this guy deserves

886
00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:32,840
Speaker 2: a break. No, Well, I mean he should take a

887
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 2: break from working his way through your family, But you

888
00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 2: don't need to give him a break in terms of

889
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:37,960
Speaker 2: the relationship.

890
00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, bro, if he's not taking a break, then.

891
00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 2: You know, to break his kneecaps. That's what you need

892
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 2: to do. Break caps, you know, that'd be fun.

893
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 4: Breaking kneecaps.

894
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:51,759
Speaker 2: Breaking some kneecaps be disgusting. Okay, Like if you didn't

895
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:55,680
Speaker 2: have empathy for other humans and you're just like, yeah,

896
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:58,319
Speaker 2: you're all right, you're a psychopath, you're in the mob fun.

897
00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 1: No, it's just gross. You're but you're a psychopath. It's

898
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 1: still gross. You'd be a bad psychopath. I would I do.

899
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:04,759
Speaker 1: I wouldn't be.

900
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 3: I don't even like getting shots. Man, I can't handle.

901
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:13,760
Speaker 3: That's too much for me. But he kept aside. Opie says.

902
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:16,040
Speaker 1: He even spoke to some of my family members, who

903
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:19,080
Speaker 1: unknowingly pressured me to get back together with him because

904
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:20,400
Speaker 1: we were such a sweet couple.

905
00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 3: I hadn't wanted to tell.

906
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:23,840
Speaker 1: Them the real reason that we'd broken up, so I

907
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:26,359
Speaker 1: kept the details pretty vague, though I'm pretty sure some

908
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 1: of them had seen my step siblings post and knew

909
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: why I didn't want to be with him. After weeks

910
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:33,840
Speaker 1: of talking and planning, I had finally had enough and

911
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 1: decided to do something about it. My father wasn't exactually

912
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:39,239
Speaker 1: a rich man, but he worked a pretty well paying

913
00:43:39,320 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: job and earned enough money to live fairly comfortably. He

914
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:44,439
Speaker 1: had begun spreading rumors around when I was younger, during

915
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:46,680
Speaker 1: a custody battle with my mother, that he had set

916
00:43:46,719 --> 00:43:48,279
Speaker 1: up a trust fund for me and that there was

917
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:50,440
Speaker 1: enough money there to get me set up in my

918
00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 1: own place when I was eighteen, plus a bit extra.

919
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 1: But you see, I knew this was absolute bs. He

920
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:58,560
Speaker 1: tried to get out of paying child support all the time.

921
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 1: Of course he'd never set up trust fund for me. Again,

922
00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 1: this is the same dad that at thirteen fourteen was.

923
00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 2: Like, eh no, yeah, I don't love you, dipping out,

924
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 2: I don't love you. I'll just go spreading that rumor

925
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 2: for cloud probably clout rumor.

926
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 4: Yeah.

927
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:12,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's like he's he. I feel like he's.

928
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:17,240
Speaker 1: Addicted to the attention, to the satisfaction of like ruining

929
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 1: people's lives and like just just terrorizing.

930
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:23,640
Speaker 2: Dude, I like, I you know, it's my biggest red

931
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 2: flag is that I just like don't believe people lie.

932
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 3: You do try so hard to give the benefit of

933
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:29,359
Speaker 3: the dat.

934
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:32,359
Speaker 2: I just don't believe people lie. Just like in general, he.

935
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:33,760
Speaker 4: Just looks for the best and everything.

936
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, he looks for the best that everyone guys.

937
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 2: I see, I just I believe too implicitly.

938
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 1: Listen, we could all use more of that, you know.

939
00:44:40,040 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 1: Some people made an honest mistake. Some people said to

940
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 1: their thirteen year old kid, I don't love.

941
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 2: You, you know, but things like this happen. But we keep looking,

942
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 2: we keep we keep moving, and keep we keep moving

943
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 2: and grooving.

944
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,440
Speaker 1: Okay, now we've never spoken about it, but he'd heard

945
00:44:54,480 --> 00:44:56,879
Speaker 1: the rumors, and I'd always just say what I told

946
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,800
Speaker 1: my folks. My father was an appalling parent who grudged

947
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:02,799
Speaker 1: for my mother's child support, so why the heck would

948
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 1: he set up a trust fund?

949
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 2: But Jake wouldn't listen.

950
00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:06,839
Speaker 1: He didn't even do his own research into what type

951
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 1: of job my father worked and came up with an

952
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 1: estimate of how much he thought my father was earning.

953
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:14,359
Speaker 1: Bros Bro's busting out the spreadsheets for this rumor. He's

954
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:18,680
Speaker 1: eighty four, he was committed to that's unlocked core memories. Yeah,

955
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 1: du oh goodness. Though to his credit, he did drop

956
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:25,200
Speaker 1: the subject whenever I asked him to for a while. Anyways,

957
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:26,719
Speaker 1: I mean, he should have never brought up in the

958
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:28,799
Speaker 1: first place, so he gets no credit. Ah, So I

959
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 1: decided to use this to my advantage. Jake and I

960
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 1: were still dating, though I avoided him at any chance

961
00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:37,640
Speaker 1: I got. Wait, Jake and I were still dating. Why

962
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:39,680
Speaker 1: are you still so I avoided him at any chance

963
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:43,399
Speaker 1: I got. So it's like they're they're dating but separated. Okay, op,

964
00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 1: we we gotta have a sit down with you. So

965
00:45:46,520 --> 00:45:50,480
Speaker 1: they're separated, but they're not like fully in.

966
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:52,440
Speaker 2: In the relationship. I don't know what that even means.

967
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:55,359
Speaker 2: I guess they just haven't broken up. Ye should break up?

968
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 2: You should have that conversation.

969
00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:59,839
Speaker 1: That's I mean, he has absolutely reached a point. I mean,

970
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:03,839
Speaker 1: comments just absolutely obliterate me. Send me to the ort

971
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:07,560
Speaker 1: if I'm wrong. But the does this guy deserve to

972
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 1: be broken up with? Yeah?

973
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, chat chat.

974
00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 1: Tell me pull pull pull pull.

975
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:16,200
Speaker 3: Okay, this better be one hundred percent.

976
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:18,920
Speaker 1: You you freaking one percenters out there, don't don't do it,

977
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:23,880
Speaker 1: you sneaky little people break up to stay together? What

978
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:25,760
Speaker 1: do we got? Let us know? Chat, let us comments?

979
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 1: Go ahead, tell me what you think, give me paragraphs. Hey,

980
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 1: it's John, you og host here. We're gonna get back

981
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:31,640
Speaker 1: to the stories. But here's a quick three minute break

982
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:34,000
Speaker 1: of ass from our sponsors. But Jake and I were

983
00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:36,080
Speaker 1: still dating at the time, though I avoided him at

984
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 1: any chance I got until one night where I sat

985
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:39,880
Speaker 1: him down and told him that since I'd be turning

986
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 1: eighteen in a couple of weeks, I'd started thinking about

987
00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:44,400
Speaker 1: us getting our own place with the trust fund my

988
00:46:44,440 --> 00:46:46,720
Speaker 1: father had set up for me, I think there's some

989
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:50,800
Speaker 1: some mischievary foot He immediately cheered up at this, and honestly,

990
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:52,760
Speaker 1: I think that night was the first time in months

991
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:55,280
Speaker 1: that he'd said anything nice to me when we weren't

992
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:57,719
Speaker 1: in public or with friends slash family. This is very

993
00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 1: nearly made me want to call the whole thing off off.

994
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 1: But I spoke with David later that night, but he

995
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:04,400
Speaker 1: reminded me that Jake would go back to his usual

996
00:47:04,440 --> 00:47:06,760
Speaker 1: degrading attitude in note.

997
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:09,400
Speaker 2: Yes, I mean Jake has proven who he is.

998
00:47:09,680 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. For literally, you told him like, hey, I'll help

999
00:47:12,680 --> 00:47:14,359
Speaker 1: you get a place to live, and he's like, oh,

1000
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 1: you're the best.

1001
00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:15,759
Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, of.

1002
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 1: Course he's gonna say you're the best, like he's you know,

1003
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean in that for one minute of being

1004
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 1: good that.

1005
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:25,160
Speaker 2: He's Yeah, come on, anyone can be good for a minute.

1006
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:27,879
Speaker 1: Anyone can be good for a minute, anyone at all,

1007
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:28,839
Speaker 1: name him. I won't.

1008
00:47:28,920 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 3: We started looking at apartments, though.

1009
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:33,120
Speaker 1: Jake was kind enough to let me have the final

1010
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:36,480
Speaker 1: say and handle the paperwork, because how could he possibly

1011
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 1: go out and cheat on me if he had to

1012
00:47:38,120 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 1: sort out the paperwork for an apartment. I was a

1013
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 1: little surprised by this, to be very honest, as I'd

1014
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 1: always thought he'd wont his name on the paperwork and everything,

1015
00:47:44,760 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 1: so I couldn't punt him out.

1016
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:47,080
Speaker 2: Mm hmmm.

1017
00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:50,920
Speaker 1: But by this point he had slept with my step sibling,

1018
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:55,440
Speaker 1: degraded me, smashed my self confidence into pieces, and cheated

1019
00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:58,319
Speaker 1: on me regularly. I think by now he thought that

1020
00:47:58,360 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 1: I wouldn't punt him out no matter what he did. Anyways,

1021
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 1: I started taking extra shifts at work to try and

1022
00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 1: save up enough money to actually move out. Not with Jake, though,

1023
00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:09,319
Speaker 1: oh no, oh no. I was moving in with my

1024
00:48:09,440 --> 00:48:11,799
Speaker 1: friend Emma. We had both been thinking about moving out

1025
00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 1: for a while anyways, and thought why not just be roommates.

1026
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:16,840
Speaker 1: We found a cute, little one bedroom apartment that was

1027
00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,320
Speaker 1: close to our college and work and started getting stuff

1028
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:21,239
Speaker 1: sorted to move in. I also didn't want to bring

1029
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:23,640
Speaker 1: any trouble to my mother's door if Jake showed up

1030
00:48:23,719 --> 00:48:26,720
Speaker 1: punting up a fuss. Emma had no issues with clawing

1031
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:28,960
Speaker 1: the face off of him if need be, and told

1032
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 1: me not to worry about him coming to our front door.

1033
00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 1: Then came the next part of the plan. I waited

1034
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:35,600
Speaker 1: till a week or so before Jake and I were

1035
00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 1: supposedly moving into our own apartment and stole his phone

1036
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:40,759
Speaker 1: for a few minutes. He stopped caring about leaving his

1037
00:48:40,760 --> 00:48:43,960
Speaker 1: phone unattended and would sometimes flat out brag how lucky

1038
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 1: he was to be able to sleep with whoever he

1039
00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:49,240
Speaker 1: wanted and come home to a little witch who would

1040
00:48:49,239 --> 00:48:49,840
Speaker 1: make him dinner.

1041
00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 2: Why are you still with this guy?

1042
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1043
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:56,239
Speaker 2: We need this dude needs to be put in the

1044
00:48:56,239 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 2: gladiator ring.

1045
00:48:57,400 --> 00:49:00,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, real quick. So, like there's more to this, there's

1046
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 1: much more to the story. But Opie is like plotting

1047
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 1: up this whole elaborate revenge thing. And granted, Opie's like

1048
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:09,480
Speaker 1: just turning eighteen, you know at the time, but like,

1049
00:49:10,200 --> 00:49:12,439
Speaker 1: get this thing guy out of your life. Just get

1050
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:14,320
Speaker 1: him out of your life, because think about it. Every

1051
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:17,239
Speaker 1: moment he's saying that to you while you're still quote

1052
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:20,800
Speaker 1: unquote in this relationship, that is absolutely.

1053
00:49:20,160 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 2: It's gonna hurt yourself. It's gonna hurt. It's gonna hurt

1054
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 2: your your mental peace. Like the you trying to get

1055
00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:30,839
Speaker 2: revenge is making you more unhappy exactly.

1056
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:32,960
Speaker 1: And that's like the at the end of the day,

1057
00:49:33,040 --> 00:49:35,560
Speaker 1: Like it's honestly like it's interesting because it's the antithesis

1058
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:37,919
Speaker 1: of the story we just read right where it's like, hey,

1059
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:40,239
Speaker 1: let me try to take the high road, because you

1060
00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:42,880
Speaker 1: know that's you know, the best I can do for myself,

1061
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 1: that's the best I can do for other people. And

1062
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 1: this is like, okay, let me just like stay in

1063
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:50,000
Speaker 1: the gutter and just freaking swimming. Get out of the gutter.

1064
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:54,440
Speaker 1: What are you doing? Get the gutter's not good sweat,

1065
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:56,279
Speaker 1: Climb on out, Climb on out, or.

1066
00:49:56,280 --> 00:49:57,960
Speaker 2: You know, make a little boat and then get you

1067
00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 2: spatula as a as a paddle and then get splashed

1068
00:50:03,000 --> 00:50:04,920
Speaker 2: down and then you know what you find? What you

1069
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:07,879
Speaker 2: find a cookbook on whose is it but your childhood

1070
00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 2: hero Gusto. And then you realize that you've been on

1071
00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:13,600
Speaker 2: Paris this whole time, and you could use the gutters

1072
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:16,080
Speaker 2: to get to your dream life. You know, sometimes you

1073
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:18,720
Speaker 2: got to start the gutter as a rat who loves

1074
00:50:18,760 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 2: to smell things to get to the restaurant as a

1075
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:23,800
Speaker 2: rat who loves to cook things.

1076
00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:25,440
Speaker 4: Wow, and you'll be on top forever.

1077
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:27,839
Speaker 1: After that, we'll be on ye. Truer words have never

1078
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 1: been spoken. So there you go, the blueprint, the blueprint

1079
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 1: be a rat in the gutters. Okay. So now that

1080
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:36,239
Speaker 1: day when we went for a shower, he wasn't all

1081
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 1: too bothered about taking his phone with him. Perfect. I

1082
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:41,640
Speaker 1: went to his phone, deleted my number from his contacts,

1083
00:50:41,640 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 1: and changed the name of his mom's contact as mine. Hmmm. Pleased.

1084
00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:49,920
Speaker 3: I went to the kitchen smashed one of the plates.

1085
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:52,399
Speaker 1: Oh man, it was my mother's, but it was cheap

1086
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 1: one from a local shop, and I did replace it

1087
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 1: as soon as possible. Okay, this is just getting worse

1088
00:50:57,120 --> 00:50:58,239
Speaker 1: and worse. I left for.

1089
00:50:58,200 --> 00:51:01,640
Speaker 2: Work, Opie. This person deserves the worst. But I think

1090
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:03,719
Speaker 2: everything you're doing is gonna make your life worse.

1091
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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's it's literally making you more unhappy. Yeah,

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00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:09,640
Speaker 1: bringing more problems to your doorstep.

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Speaker 2: You know, this is like classic. I feel like eighteen

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00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 2: year old I need revenge behavior. But oh p this

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00:51:14,560 --> 00:51:16,640
Speaker 2: is not going to solve your problems. It's gonna add more.

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Speaker 2: It's only going to add to it.

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Speaker 1: My friend. Now, I left for work once everything was done.

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Speaker 1: My mother had left work a couple of hours prior,

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Speaker 1: so she was safe. I just needed a reason for

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00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 1: him to get pissed off, And oh boy, did he

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00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:28,840
Speaker 1: get pissed off. His first reaction was to text me,

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00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:31,520
Speaker 1: calling me all the disgusting names under the sun. Except

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00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:35,520
Speaker 1: it wasn't me, he texted, it was his mom. Okay, again,

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00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 1: not the moves you want to do, But I mean brilliant.

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Speaker 1: I mean, technically it's him making him expose himself in

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Speaker 1: the plate, smashing it. It's still too much. It's still

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Speaker 1: too much. But I will say, while I don't agree

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Speaker 1: with the with the methods, the madness is fun to

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Speaker 1: look at. The madness is fun to look at. And

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Speaker 1: there at least was him getting exposed, you know what.

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Speaker 2: So so basically, OPI broke a plate and then the

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Speaker 2: guy just like went ballistic and then like texted ope

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00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:10,160
Speaker 2: or thinking, but then texted the mom.

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Speaker 3: He had switched the contacts before he even broke the plate.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean TLDR for Danny Nicole. Basically, OP

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00:52:17,040 --> 00:52:19,760
Speaker 2: is in a relationship with a total tur that's cheating

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Speaker 2: on him. Twenty four to seven they're now living together.

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Speaker 3: Uh, they were looking for a place together.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and then OP broke one of the plates that

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Speaker 2: they co owned.

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Speaker 3: I think it was I think it was his plate.

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Speaker 3: I think it was Jake's place.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So they OPI breaks one of Jake's plates, and

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Speaker 2: then Jake freaks out and then texts we thinks is OP,

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Speaker 2: but it's actually Jake's mom.

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Speaker 1: It's Mama.

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Speaker 2: And so now Jake's exposing how awful he's being to

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Speaker 2: his mom.

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Speaker 1: And it's like you bleep, blee bleep, blee bleep, Like

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Speaker 1: mom thinks she's calling him that. Yeah. Well, so I

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00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 1: had texted her in advance and told her that I

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Speaker 1: hoped she'd forgive me, but she had to see what

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00:52:57,239 --> 00:52:59,520
Speaker 1: her son was really like. She'd never tried to defend

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00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 1: him as much as she just hadn't quite known how

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Speaker 1: bad his behavior was. She actually called him out a

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Speaker 1: couple of times where he'd slipped up and been harsh

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Speaker 1: with me when he was there.

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Speaker 3: She went apecraft.

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Speaker 1: I never found out exactly how their argument went, as

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Speaker 1: she phoned him to scream at him and call him

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00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:18,160
Speaker 1: out for his crappy behavior. Finally seeing how horrible her

1142
00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 1: son was. It didn't help that she'd been sent screenshots

1143
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:23,440
Speaker 1: of some of the times where he'd admitted to cheating.

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00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:26,280
Speaker 1: She was absolutely disgusted by her son's behavior and phoned

1145
00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:28,759
Speaker 1: me to apologize. On Jake's behalf. It wasn't her fault,

1146
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:30,480
Speaker 1: though he's old enough to know how to act like

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00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:32,879
Speaker 1: a dang adult. He wound up telling me his mom

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00:53:33,040 --> 00:53:36,000
Speaker 1: essentially that her opinion didn't matter, as he'd be moving

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00:53:36,040 --> 00:53:39,880
Speaker 1: in with me anyways. Yeah, right, because OPI, that was

1150
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:42,279
Speaker 1: the other part of Obie's plan. He's setting up all

1151
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:45,200
Speaker 1: of these appointments and stringing him along to then just.

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Speaker 3: I mean, this is well planned.

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00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:50,239
Speaker 1: I'll give you that, OPI is a This is a plan.

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Speaker 1: Needless to say that, when he called me on Facebook

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00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:55,000
Speaker 1: after I deleted my number from his phone, I took

1156
00:53:55,040 --> 00:53:57,760
Speaker 1: some satisfaction in telling him that we weren't moving in together.

1157
00:53:57,840 --> 00:54:00,239
Speaker 1: The trust fund wasn't real. I'd already told him in

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Speaker 1: the past. He just refused to listen, and that I

1159
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:05,320
Speaker 1: moved in with Emma. I was called all the salutes

1160
00:54:05,400 --> 00:54:07,959
Speaker 1: and oars under the sun. His voice sort of turned

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00:54:07,960 --> 00:54:11,480
Speaker 1: into white noise after a while. What op now falls

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00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:14,560
Speaker 1: asleep to his greatest pleasure in life. I told him

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00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:16,600
Speaker 1: we were all over and hung up and blocked him

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Speaker 1: on everything. He had to run back to his mom

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00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:20,440
Speaker 1: and dad, tail in between his legs, and they took

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00:54:20,520 --> 00:54:22,480
Speaker 1: him back for a little while, though after a bit

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00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:25,359
Speaker 1: the arguments became too much and his parents punted him

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00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:27,480
Speaker 1: out of there. He stayed with a couple of friends

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00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:29,319
Speaker 1: for a few months before he managed to get his

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Speaker 1: own place.

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Speaker 3: I thought bro was going to the streets.

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Speaker 2: I want him to go to the streets. I mean

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00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:36,960
Speaker 2: Loki wanted to go to the sewer, bailed himself up,

1174
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:39,520
Speaker 2: get in there, start smelling some moldy cheese.

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Speaker 1: His parents, especially his mother, have been not the same

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Speaker 1: with him since I still talked to his mom on occasion. Lastly,

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Speaker 1: David and I took the liberty of sending screet shots

1178
00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:50,360
Speaker 1: of Jake's abuse as many people as he'd been hooking

1179
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:52,560
Speaker 1: up with as possible, which remember.

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00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:54,240
Speaker 3: Is like the whole town in Opie's family.

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00:54:54,320 --> 00:54:56,560
Speaker 1: A couple of sleepless nights were spent trying to track

1182
00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:58,440
Speaker 1: people down on Facebook. Part of it was to get

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00:54:58,480 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 1: back of Jake, but most of it was to me

1184
00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:01,880
Speaker 1: make sure that none of them got roped into a

1185
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:04,279
Speaker 1: full relationship with him and had to deal with the

1186
00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:06,959
Speaker 1: crap I'd gone through. By the way, if you want

1187
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:10,280
Speaker 1: something that helps you avoid going through these crappy situations

1188
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:12,239
Speaker 1: having someone do this to you, or you know what,

1189
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 1: getting caught up in the anger to do this, revenge

1190
00:55:14,520 --> 00:55:16,600
Speaker 1: yourself right to completely avoid it, got get caught up.

1191
00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:20,760
Speaker 1: We have two thousand episodes full of good goofy advice.

1192
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 1: If you go to Apple podcast, Spotify your favorite podcast

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Speaker 1: app search, Okay, storytime two thousand episodes too.

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Speaker 2: Right there, that's a lot of episodes, a lot of advice,

1195
00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:30,600
Speaker 2: a lot of goof That's a lot of episodes.

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00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 1: But Sam, we are we still got a little bit left.

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00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:35,120
Speaker 1: But what are we thinking at this point?

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Speaker 2: I mean, Op I think has finally done it, finally

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Speaker 2: pushed Jake away, which should have happened way earlier. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but I'm glad OPI is finally getting away. I don't

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00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:48,040
Speaker 2: know about this method of all this or revenge. I

1202
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:50,240
Speaker 2: think it's a little bit too much, but hey, maybe

1203
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 2: it's the lesson Jake needed to right his wrong.

1204
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Speaker 1: I am curious because Ope brought up a good point.

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00:55:57,200 --> 00:56:00,160
Speaker 1: Comments out there, when do you think it's appropriate it

1206
00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:02,799
Speaker 1: or what situations have you seen where someone should go

1207
00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:06,080
Speaker 1: and out the cheater or the bad partner, where you

1208
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:09,359
Speaker 1: actively go I'm curious of your thoughts and opinions in

1209
00:56:09,400 --> 00:56:09,960
Speaker 1: the comments.

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00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:13,600
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, it's like I've heard the argument before where

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00:56:13,600 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 2: it's like, oh, you need to break the story before

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00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:20,359
Speaker 2: they do, you know, right, Yeah, but that feels like

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00:56:20,719 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 2: that feels like, uh, what's the thing where it's like

1214
00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:26,279
Speaker 2: it feels like cold war politics, you know yeah, where

1215
00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:28,319
Speaker 2: it's like we need to bomb them before they bomb us.

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00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:30,920
Speaker 2: It's like it's like an aggressive defense.

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Speaker 1: I generally feel like especially not like marriages where there's

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00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:38,000
Speaker 1: divorce involved, like just like breaking up a non marriage

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00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:42,239
Speaker 1: relationship generally, not like life isn't like every rite of

1220
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:44,680
Speaker 1: story we read, you know, like it generally will work

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00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:47,120
Speaker 1: out okay, and you don't need to freaking just sing

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00:56:47,200 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 1: to the hills. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And I think also like character speaks, speaks louder than words, yes,

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Speaker 2: And so the person who's like trying to defame you,

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00:56:57,760 --> 00:57:01,399
Speaker 2: maybe some people believe them, but the like like there

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00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:04,160
Speaker 2: their true character will come out, and so it's usually

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00:57:04,200 --> 00:57:08,080
Speaker 2: not even worth trying to like defame them first. I

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00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:11,360
Speaker 2: think that some of just like, as a rule, the

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00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:15,640
Speaker 2: worst atrocities and most hurtful things that have happened in

1230
00:57:15,680 --> 00:57:18,960
Speaker 2: the world come from a side saying we need to

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00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:21,160
Speaker 2: do it to them before they do it to us.

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00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:26,240
Speaker 2: History and uh and I think, okay, it's try could

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00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:28,440
Speaker 2: kind of bean. Yeah, so I think generally not a

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00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 2: good move.

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Speaker 3: I agree, But if you disagree with us, give it

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Speaker 3: to me.

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00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 2: Let us in comments. Don't answers in the comments. Give

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00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:37,000
Speaker 2: me your parents are very vocal.

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00:57:36,720 --> 00:57:37,680
Speaker 1: When you disagree with us.

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00:57:37,760 --> 00:57:43,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and we love it, We love it.

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00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:46,600
Speaker 1: Please. Anyways, let's finish the story. So there it is,

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00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:49,000
Speaker 1: my little story of pro revenge. I wasn't ever planning

1243
00:57:49,000 --> 00:57:50,600
Speaker 1: on posting my story here, but I was scrolling through

1244
00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:52,800
Speaker 1: Facebook the other day and one of Jake's new accounts

1245
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:55,600
Speaker 1: popped up on the people you may know section. After

1246
00:57:55,640 --> 00:57:58,040
Speaker 1: talking with them about it, she suggested posting it here.

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00:57:58,160 --> 00:57:59,760
Speaker 1: I hope it fits the subreddit.

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Speaker 3: Bye and quick edit.

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Speaker 1: First of all, thank you for all the comments and awards.

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00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:04,360
Speaker 1: I'm doing a lot better now. This happened a few

1251
00:58:04,440 --> 00:58:07,120
Speaker 1: years ago and I haven't had to deal with Jake since. Secondly,

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00:58:07,240 --> 00:58:09,640
Speaker 1: I saw a few people confused about the plate part,

1253
00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:12,000
Speaker 1: thinking that I was still in the house, so why

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00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:13,800
Speaker 1: would he text me. I left for work by the

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00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 1: time he gotten out of the shower, so he couldn't

1256
00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:17,080
Speaker 1: really yell at me. Also, my mother was at work,

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Speaker 1: so I didn't leave with him. Don't worry. I edited

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00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:21,640
Speaker 1: this in my general post to clear things up for people,

1259
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:23,600
Speaker 1: just in case, by chance you didn't see that. I

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00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:24,480
Speaker 1: hope that helps.

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Speaker 3: Last week ed it, I saw a lot of people

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00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:28,080
Speaker 3: were confused by comments about my gender. I'm a buy mail.

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Speaker 3: Jake is also by I hope is cleared.

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00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:32,040
Speaker 1: Up any confusion. I don't know why I had written

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00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:33,360
Speaker 1: it before. And that's cool.

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Speaker 3: That's it. That's that's all we got on that story.

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Speaker 2: Oh I think that story gets three big booms from me.

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Speaker 1: Rang no boom.

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Speaker 2: But you know, I still have never seen an actual video.

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Speaker 2: I've just only seen people doing that. I haven't seen

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00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:50,680
Speaker 2: an actual video. Over theirs i've.

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00:58:50,520 --> 00:58:51,600
Speaker 3: Seen, I've seen very few.

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Speaker 1: Is it good?

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00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:52,400
Speaker 4: Kids?

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00:58:52,800 --> 00:58:53,360
Speaker 1: Like? Is it good?

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00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:55,560
Speaker 2: Why are people into it? I mean, obviously people into.

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00:58:55,440 --> 00:58:57,160
Speaker 4: It friendly type of content.

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00:58:57,520 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 1: I think it's not the content, well it is the content,

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00:58:59,560 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 1: but it's like it's it's fun to like make fun of,

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00:59:01,800 --> 00:59:04,560
Speaker 1: like a meme. Now yeah, it's like it's a meme noted.

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00:59:05,600 --> 00:59:08,760
Speaker 2: But I think that's where this episode ends. So if

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00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:11,720
Speaker 2: you love us, make sure to subscribe you and see

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Speaker 2: the borrow