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Speaker 1: First Date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Kai is on the phone today for our first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Evie.

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Speaker 3: We went on a date with and really liked.

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Speaker 2: So in a second we'll call her and see if

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Speaker 2: she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get

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Speaker 2: him another day for first Kai, how long as the

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Speaker 2: bench as you were from Evie?

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Speaker 4: Hi, guys, it's been about two weeks I've heard from Evie.

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Speaker 4: We usually are.

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Speaker 5: Very friendly inmplirtatious to everyone that goes to our constant gym.

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Speaker 5: We've been certing back and forwards a little bit. But

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Speaker 5: then we decided that we go and grab a smoothie

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Speaker 5: after our workout, so we want to grab a smoothie

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Speaker 5: and that went really well, So then we decided we'd

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Speaker 4: Able proper date. So we went to this new topics

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Speaker 6: We ended up chatting with each other and we got

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Speaker 6: the paia and while we went on the pie to

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Speaker 6: come out, we decided to after we ordered, we decided

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Speaker 6: to sit on the same side of the booth and

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Speaker 6: we go through each other's phones, and we were talking

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Speaker 6: about pictures and videos that we were.

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Speaker 4: Talking about, especially with our family members, and then there

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Speaker 4: was a kiss, which was pretty awesome. So I think

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Speaker 4: everything was going to Quarner plan. But then I have

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Speaker 4: an art.

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Speaker 6: Doctor, and I think it's because I know the shrimp

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Speaker 6: out of the pie.

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Speaker 3: The shrimp.

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Speaker 7: Okay, wait wait wait wait wait, So let's talk about

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Speaker 7: the kiss.

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Speaker 6: Then.

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Speaker 7: Was that mutual?

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Speaker 1: Like, did you feel like she was given that energy back?

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Speaker 4: Definitely? Definitely, I kissed her to kiss it back.

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Speaker 7: So then where does the shrimp come in?

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Speaker 4: I was.

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Speaker 5: Mainly a few of the protein content, my majority of

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Speaker 5: the Yeah, shrimp from the pie.

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Speaker 4: I think that she made.

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Speaker 2: Why do you think that that's the thing that she

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Speaker 2: say something about it?

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Speaker 4: She would give me a look the entire time.

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Speaker 1: So is it that you ate all the shrimper? Is

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Speaker 1: that because you left the girl starving?

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Speaker 4: That's that's that's why I called you guys.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: You reach out to her and she just said nothing.

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Speaker 7: Well what was your last interaction? So what did you

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Speaker 7: say to her?

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Speaker 1: So basically you sent her a text and said I

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Speaker 1: had a great time and then she responded saying thanks

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Speaker 1: for dinner. And it wasn't the energy that you were

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Speaker 4: So I taxed after dinner, I said, a really great time,

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Speaker 4: and I looking for the next day.

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Speaker 6: And she just responded with, you know, thank you for

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Speaker 6: dinner with the period you know, Hanlo.

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Speaker 4: Energy you would kind of response. So I haven't done

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Speaker 4: everything from her since then.

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Speaker 3: Okay, have you seen her CrossFit?

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Speaker 6: Just acting not really, not really you know, long home competition,

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Speaker 3: So you're getting curved, all right, Well we'll see why.

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Speaker 2: We'll plays on come back and then call her and

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Speaker 2: see if it tell us why she's ghosting you, maybe

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Speaker 2: get you another date. Okay, all right, plus i'll come back,

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Speaker 2: get your first DAFE follow up next. Right in the

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Speaker 2: middle of your first date follow up and if you're

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Speaker 2: just joining us, Kai is on the phone and he's

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Speaker 2: getting ghosted by a girl named Evie that he really likes.

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Speaker 2: He met her at CrossFit and they went out on

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Speaker 2: a date and he thinks he's not getting a call

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Speaker 2: piea that they ordered, and she also needs her protein

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Speaker 2: because you know, crossfits absolutely, So we'll see if that's

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Speaker 2: the reason. All right, kay, are you ready to give

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Speaker 2: her a call? Okay, man, here we go. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 2: I speak to ev Please listen. Hey Evie, how are you?

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Speaker 2: My name is Jebel. I'm calling from a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called the Jubil Show. Hi, Ev, I'm Nina also

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Speaker 2: on the show.

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Speaker 7: Hi, and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 3: Okay, how are you?

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Speaker 7: It's a radio shown.

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Speaker 1: Sure.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever listened to The Jebel Show before?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Again?

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Speaker 3: Okay, sweet? Thank you? Are you familiar with what a

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Speaker 3: first date follow up is?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Okay, okay, okay, cool.

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Speaker 2: Well that's the segment where if you ghost somebody, they

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Speaker 2: can email us to get you on the show and

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Speaker 2: ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an email

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Speaker 2: about you from somebody. You have any idea who that

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Speaker 2: would be?

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Speaker 8: Well, I've only gone on one first date recently, so

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Speaker 8: I have this feeling I might know who it is.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, who is that.

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Speaker 4: Is it?

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Speaker 6: Kai?

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Speaker 7: Yes?

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Speaker 3: It is.

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Speaker 2: He told us about your date and he wants to

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Speaker 2: know why you're not calling him back or why you're

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Speaker 2: ghosting him?

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Speaker 3: Would you mind telling us?

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Speaker 7: Well?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean, so like we had a we were

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Speaker 8: having like a pretty.

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Speaker 4: Good night.

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Speaker 8: Tapas and then like we had this like really good kids, right,

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Speaker 8: and then he got up went to the bathroom, and

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Speaker 8: while he was there, his phone just kept getting messages

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Speaker 8: from someone ing v and it was like egg plant

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Speaker 8: emojis and uh like teach emoji's and tell emojis and

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Speaker 8: I'm at least five just in the time that he

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Speaker 8: was in the bathroom. So like, I don't know Louvie is,

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Speaker 8: but it sounds like he's kind of got something going

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Speaker 8: on already, and I just I felt.

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Speaker 4: So uncomfortable after that.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, and then he just didn't mention them, like I

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Speaker 8: don't know, it felt like he just left his phone

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Speaker 4: The film when he came back kind of thing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, he thought, the reason you're not calling him back

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Speaker 2: is because he hate all the shrimp out of the

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Speaker 2: paa Oh.

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Speaker 8: I mean yeah, he did do.

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Speaker 3: That, and that was dumb.

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Speaker 2: But like, okay, so it said he was getting texts

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Speaker 2: that seemed like from another girl, I mean five, Yeah,

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Speaker 8: Of egg plant emojis.

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Speaker 3: A lot.

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Speaker 2: We should ask him about that, don't you think you Yeah.

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Speaker 8: Oh, that's right, he's here.

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Speaker 3: Right, Yes, he is guy's on the phone and wants

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Speaker 3: to talk to you.

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Speaker 4: Hey, Hey, maybe this is kind of awkward, but I'm

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Speaker 4: I'm a little.

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Speaker 6: Bit mortified and I'm going to kill my friend, the

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Speaker 4: Setting all the emoji text messages Jim to my friend Vick.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he's he was. Basically, he knew that I was

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Speaker 5: in ev for a while and he was trying to

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Speaker 5: be encouraging by sending those messages in order to let

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Speaker 5: me know exactly what I should do, and atomically speaking,

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Speaker 5: everything goes well on the dates. But I uh, not

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Speaker 5: that I don't appreciate his input, but I kind of

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Speaker 5: already knew how to do that anyways, but.

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Speaker 4: His own way, he was trying to at least at

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Speaker 4: I don't I don't think he knew that she was

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Speaker 4: going to see the messages from him. Uh, Okay, I'm

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Speaker 4: going to kill him the next time I see him.

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Speaker 4: But it was nothing sexual between and somebody else. It

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Speaker 4: was mainly sexual between me and me and my buddy.

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Speaker 8: So what you're saying is it wasn't another girl, but

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Speaker 8: it was your friend, like convinced we were going to

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Speaker 8: hook up, Like, is that why you went out with me?

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Speaker 4: Because we were like sure we were going to hook up.

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Speaker 4: I wasn't going out with you because I was students,

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Speaker 4: we're going to cut I was going out because I

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Speaker 4: wanted to go out with you. That the whole walking

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Speaker 4: up thing is just a bonus. You're the main You're the.

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Speaker 5: Main goal here is to is to go and have

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Speaker 5: a good time with you, because I have come into.

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Speaker 4: You a goal.

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Speaker 8: Come on, like a guy like you at the gym

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Speaker 8: only has one agenda and friends.

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Speaker 3: Just like the r VIC or whatever his name is.

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Speaker 8: I knew you were too good to be true when

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Speaker 8: I went out right, like, if that's all your interest, Like, that's.

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Speaker 3: Not what I'm here for.

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Speaker 5: That's not all I'm interested in you. That's just my

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Speaker 5: friends and dumb idiots. And he's decided to send very

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Speaker 5: very dumb text messages when I wasn't.

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Speaker 4: At the table. But I am not into you.

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Speaker 5: For that, that's just a bonus.

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Speaker 9: I'm into you for everything that you are and everything

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Speaker 9: that you can be, and especially all the conversation that

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Speaker 4: So yes, I can understand that you might.

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Speaker 5: Be a little upset and confused by the messages, but that's.

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Speaker 9: The last thing on my mind.

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Speaker 4: And you're also your your squad game.

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Speaker 10: Is like insane, like you can squat so much and

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Speaker 10: I think it's really hot, So it's it's also that's

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Speaker 10: not a bonus, but you have a child bearing enjoy

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Speaker 10: it at some point in time after after an apology dinner,

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Speaker 10: what you possibly see about no potentially.

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Speaker 4: Doing something on those lines scream after two. And also

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Speaker 4: you get to eat all the shrimp tonight. You get

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Speaker 4: all the shrimp, and.

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Speaker 6: Wherever we go, I will make sure that they feed

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Speaker 6: you at least eat extra shrimp, just to make sure

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Speaker 6: that I have to make it for the last time.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if it is like out there. Would

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Speaker 2: you like to go on another date with Kaile? We'll

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Speaker 2: pay for it.

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Speaker 8: I don't know if I totally believe you yet, but

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Speaker 8: you can buy me shrimp in yes, yes, I will.

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Speaker 4: Go on a second date, but you are on probation.

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Speaker 7: It sounds like you said yes to shrimp.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, congratulations Kyle, you got another date.

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Speaker 4: Yea, this is exactly and I appreciate all that help.

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Speaker 4: This was well exactly how I thought it would joke.

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Speaker 4: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 7: Let's just tell Victor exence.

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Speaker 8: Okay, okay, yeah, I want to see those texts, though, I.

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Speaker 4: Will definitely show them too. I'm gonna do a little

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Speaker 4: bit of editing that way to not as graphic as well,

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Speaker 4: but I will make sure that you see them.

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Speaker 7: Juble's first date follow up