WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: A Knife In The Back

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<v Speaker 1>aren't many things that can make a date go from

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<v Speaker 1>great to horrible in a matter of seconds. Maybe a

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<v Speaker 1>poorly worded compliment, an ex lover showing up a milkshake

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<v Speaker 1>that's been laced with Fiagra. Wow, my mom would do

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<v Speaker 1>that to me all the time, I'm knowing God. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners had his date completely ruined by

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<v Speaker 1>an extremely unfortunate experience, in fact, that almost cost him

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<v Speaker 1>his life. You'll find out what happened in your second

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<v Speaker 1>date update right now, Brooking Jewels Second date Update. Whenever

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<v Speaker 1>you meet somebody online and you go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with them, there's always a little part of you

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<v Speaker 1>that has to fear for your life a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because you don't really know him that Well,

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<v Speaker 1>why are you who dating? Because you're meeting people on

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<v Speaker 1>the internet? Well, all right, exactly, okay, I'll give it

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<v Speaker 1>to you on that one. Steve, who's on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>today for a second eight update? Legit had to fear

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<v Speaker 1>for his life on his first date. Though. It's a

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<v Speaker 1>crazy story, and he'll tell us in just a second.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Steve, How are you big guys? How's it going? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty good. Glad you're alive. To tell us the story,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like yeah, and oh my gosh. Before we

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<v Speaker 1>get into the craziness that you described in your email,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us a little bit about the girl you want

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<v Speaker 1>to call today. What's her name? Her name is Cecilia, Cecilia,

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<v Speaker 1>all right? And where did you meet Cecilia? I met

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<v Speaker 1>her on tender all right? And was there any red

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<v Speaker 1>flags from the beginning that things would get a little

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<v Speaker 1>out of hand with her? I mean, I'll tell you.

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<v Speaker 1>The biggest thing was, like, you know, every once in

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<v Speaker 1>a while you see somebody where you just like, there's

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<v Speaker 1>no way this girl's be interested in me, But I'll

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<v Speaker 1>try it anyway, And then you don't expect to get

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<v Speaker 1>like a flight back totally, but get okay. So that

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<v Speaker 1>either means she thought you were equally attractive, or it

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<v Speaker 1>means that she's nuts and no one else will date her, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, either one of those could apply. You never

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<v Speaker 1>know how long had you guys talked before you actually

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<v Speaker 1>went out. We didn't talk long before I took a

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<v Speaker 1>chance to answer out because I'm like, this girl is

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<v Speaker 1>not going to stay alone for very long. I've got

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<v Speaker 1>to take a chance when I get it. Okay. My

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<v Speaker 1>whole thinking is like, I'm not the best looking guy

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<v Speaker 1>in the world, but I know my personality is good.

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<v Speaker 1>If I can just meet them once, I usually can

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<v Speaker 1>win them over. I feel you on that one. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I'm a I'm a slow burn. Yeah. Yeah, women,

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<v Speaker 1>it will give you more of a chance based on

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<v Speaker 1>things other than looks than guys. Yeah. That's a nice

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<v Speaker 1>part about being a dude is you could be a troll.

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<v Speaker 1>As long as you're kind of funny, you can get

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<v Speaker 1>dates with very, very attractive women. Yeah, exactly. So what

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys do when you went out? We went

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<v Speaker 1>to an outdoor concert. That's a great first date. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>it was awesome. She was just as hot as she

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<v Speaker 1>was in her pictures. But she was also really sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's great. So she had a beautiful personality. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, it was amazing. But we know how those

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<v Speaker 1>outdoor concerts are. If you stand back far enough, you

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<v Speaker 1>can hear the music. But then you can still talk

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<v Speaker 1>to each other. Yeah, that's always nice because if you

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<v Speaker 1>go to a concert or a up or something like that,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of times you can't even really talk. You

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<v Speaker 1>can kind of hear what they're saying, and then you

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<v Speaker 1>throw out an answer that you think is on topic,

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<v Speaker 1>but really you both of you have no idea what

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking about. Yeah, and the next thing you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you're wearing a pirate shirt. Right. I just don't understand

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<v Speaker 1>how you into an outdoor concert and you almost died. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So the whole night was going really well. It was

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<v Speaker 1>like he was really a tense but then it kind

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<v Speaker 1>of became what I like to say, unexpected, because I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, do you want to like get away from

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<v Speaker 1>this and go for a walk and go to a

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<v Speaker 1>bar or something like that, you know, because at this

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<v Speaker 1>point things are going so well, like I got to

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<v Speaker 1>try and get this girl, you know, as far away

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<v Speaker 1>from other people as possible. Wait, hold on, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>understand why you want to take her far away from people. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean at this point I was thinking about maybe

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<v Speaker 1>trying to steal a kiss or something. Oh okay, you

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to make out a little more privacy yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean it sounded like you were going to put her

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<v Speaker 1>in the trunk of a car the way you described it,

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<v Speaker 1>So I just wanted to make sure we were on

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<v Speaker 1>the same page. No, that's a second day thing. And

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<v Speaker 1>what happened next, So, like we walk away from the

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<v Speaker 1>park and we start coming to this really dark area,

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<v Speaker 1>like right if you get to the park, the sun

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<v Speaker 1>going down a little bit, and there's like bridges and

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<v Speaker 1>stuff there. So we start walking through there and all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden, this dude jumps out with a knife.

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<v Speaker 1>With a knife. Oh yeah, he's got a knife. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh. And you ran and left her there to

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<v Speaker 1>deal with it. Well, here's the thing. I have done

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<v Speaker 1>some self defense courses, so like I just sort of

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<v Speaker 1>jumped into like protection mode and I jumped in front

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<v Speaker 1>of Cecilia and I told her to get out of there,

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<v Speaker 1>and she did. And then, like, I know this is

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<v Speaker 1>gonna sound it's gonna be tough to believe that being

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<v Speaker 1>this guy like we fought, but you battle the dude

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<v Speaker 1>in the park with a knife. Yeah, what don't you

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<v Speaker 1>think the better idea would be to run? Why are

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<v Speaker 1>you fighting dudes's knife strain? I mean, look, if anything's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna impress this girl, it's gonna be jumping in front

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<v Speaker 1>of a guy with a knife. That's true. Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>saved her life by being dude that jumped out of

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<v Speaker 1>the bushes with a knife. I think that would score

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<v Speaker 1>you a second date. And you can't be honestly still

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about the date when a guy with a knife

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<v Speaker 1>is in front of you. Yeah, so honestly, it was

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of instinct. So what wait, what happened in

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<v Speaker 1>the fight? He dropped a knife. I got cut a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, but not nothing, nothing more than superficial. But

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<v Speaker 1>eventually I guess he just thought it wasn't worth it anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>because I got the knife out of his hand, it

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<v Speaker 1>fell and then he ran away. Okay, okay, okay. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you meet up with her after that? Well? I turned around,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously she was gone, and it had been a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of minutes, so she was probably far down the road.

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<v Speaker 1>And then all of a sudden she texted me and

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<v Speaker 1>asked this I was okay, I said yeah, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I said, well, hey, why don't we meet it like

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<v Speaker 1>Starbucks in twenty minutes? So I went Starbucks, clean myself

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<v Speaker 1>up a little bit, and she never showed up. I've

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<v Speaker 1>been texting her ever since and not getting a reply

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<v Speaker 1>at all, pretty much. I know, hold on, why do

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<v Speaker 1>you want to call a girl they won't call you

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<v Speaker 1>back after that incident? Like you always hear that those

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<v Speaker 1>things bring people closer together. Yeah, my first thought is

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she was just freaked out on life, really shaken

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<v Speaker 1>up by and I don't know. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be like traumatizing her or anything by reminding her, but

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<v Speaker 1>also like I want to make sure that she's all right,

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<v Speaker 1>and honestly I want to go out again. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>could have just been a super scary thing for her,

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<v Speaker 1>and like now she just doesn't want to call you

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<v Speaker 1>back because she just has a bad memory associated with

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<v Speaker 1>it or something. Yeah, right, I don't know, man. I

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<v Speaker 1>think she's a woman that just left you in the

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<v Speaker 1>woods with a guy with a knife and then say

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<v Speaker 1>you a text to check on you to leave. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you did say you protect her, and it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you did. It's just weird that she wouldn't at least

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<v Speaker 1>answer anymore or your texts, like even just talk to

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<v Speaker 1>you a little bit, And that's weird. Yeah, so she

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't answered you at all since asking you if you're okay. No,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I want to do this second date

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<v Speaker 1>update thing. I want try and get her on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and see what's going on. Okay, cool, Well, then

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back and call her and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update. Okay, awesome, thank you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, hang up brooking jubil in the morning. When

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<v Speaker 1>you think of superheroes, you think of Superman. Yeah, Batman. Steve,

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<v Speaker 1>that's right. If you missed the first part of today's

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<v Speaker 1>second eight updates. Steve is on the phone with us

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<v Speaker 1>and he wants to call a girl named Cecilia. They

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<v Speaker 1>met on Tender. They went to an outdoor concert and

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<v Speaker 1>as they were leaving the concert, some dude jumped out

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<v Speaker 1>at them with a knife. Steve then told her to

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<v Speaker 1>run and ended up fighting the guy off. But the

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<v Speaker 1>problem is he never saw Cecilia again. Yeah. After that,

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<v Speaker 1>she texted to see if he was okay. He said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and let's meet at a Starbucks. She never showed up

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<v Speaker 1>to the Starbucks and now she won't answer any of

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<v Speaker 1>us texts or phone calls, so we don't really know

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<v Speaker 1>what's going on. And we're about to call it right

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<v Speaker 1>now and see if we can get the answer. Steve,

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<v Speaker 1>are you ready to go? Yeah? Man, I'm ready. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>You're always ready, Steve. I mean, have you thought like

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<v Speaker 1>she did text you to check in to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that you're okay? Right? Yeah, maybe she didn't really enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>the date prior to the knife fight. I mean, she

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<v Speaker 1>seemed like she was. I mean, I think I'm pretty

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<v Speaker 1>good at figuring that kind of stuff out, So it'd

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<v Speaker 1>be a surprise if she wasn't enjoying her Okay, it'd

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<v Speaker 1>be more surprising than the guy with the knife. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>not more surprising than that. I'll be bad if that's

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<v Speaker 1>the best part of her date. She's like, yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty boring. There was one exciting part, but I

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<v Speaker 1>just I don't feel like calling him back. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get any better than that. Yeah, all right, Well

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna doll her phone number right now. Here we go. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>all I was looking for Cecilia. This is Cecilia. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Hi, Hi Cecilia. How are you? I'm fine?

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<v Speaker 1>How how are you? I'm not too bad? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really tire lately. Also a lot of heartburn lately. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't understand why, Cecilia you have any heartburn problems or

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<v Speaker 1>it's just me right now? Who is this again? This

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<v Speaker 1>is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show. Okay, Can I help you? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know if you can help us, but you

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<v Speaker 1>can help somebody who emailed us about you? Someone emailed

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<v Speaker 1>you about me. Yes, we do a segment on our show.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called the Second Date Update. And you went out

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<v Speaker 1>to an outdoor concert with a dude named Steve a

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<v Speaker 1>little while ago. Oh god, Steve, that's what this is about. Yep.

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<v Speaker 1>Steve said that he really had a good time with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and he told us about the date, even the part

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<v Speaker 1>where you guys got ambushed by some crazy dude with

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<v Speaker 1>a knife and then Steve ended up like fighting him off,

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<v Speaker 1>and Steve's wondering why you won't text him or call

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<v Speaker 1>him back? Is that really what Steve told you? Yep,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what he told us. Does not sound right to you?

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<v Speaker 1>I no, no, that's not That's not right at all.

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<v Speaker 1>Wad are you saying that the knife fight didn't happen?

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<v Speaker 1>Or I mean, I'm not saying that. I'm just saying

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<v Speaker 1>that there's way more to the story than he apparently

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<v Speaker 1>told you, and I would love to fill you in

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<v Speaker 1>on what actually happened. Oh perfect, you know what he did.

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<v Speaker 1>Normally we have to to convince you will tell us,

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<v Speaker 1>but the floor is all yours. What happened. It sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like he basically told you what happened. But when this

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<v Speaker 1>guy jumped out, I was obviously scared of a dude

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<v Speaker 1>with a knife in the woods, and I saw them fighting,

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<v Speaker 1>so I ran away and I felt like I got

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<v Speaker 1>far enough away to be safe, and then I started

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about Steve and he was still there with that guy,

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<v Speaker 1>so I was frantically texting him, trying to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that he was okay, and he wasn't responding to me.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was just freaking out, trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>what to do. Call the cops, like that's who I

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<v Speaker 1>would call nine one one. I know, I didn't call

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<v Speaker 1>the cops. I mean, everything was just happening so fast,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was just panicking, so I didn't really like

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<v Speaker 1>think about it in that moment. I just wanted Steve

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<v Speaker 1>to text me back, and I waited and waited and waited,

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<v Speaker 1>and when he didn't. I got really worried, so I

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<v Speaker 1>went back because I wanted to make sure he wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>just like lying on the ground stabbed with no one

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<v Speaker 1>around him. And I walked that close to where it happened,

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<v Speaker 1>and I see Steve and I see the guy with

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<v Speaker 1>the knife, and they're just talking, chatting, yep, just chatting

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<v Speaker 1>and smoking a cigarette. They were like laughing together. Oh

0:11:17.000 --> 0:11:20.959
<v Speaker 1>my god. Oh. Sometimes if you fight somebody, you're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>are we cool? You know, you pull a knife on

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<v Speaker 1>me out, We're still we're bros. Right, nice to meet you. Yeah, No,

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<v Speaker 1>not with a stranger. So I agree. It's weird. So

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<v Speaker 1>you think that he set it up? Is that what

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<v Speaker 1>you're accusing him up? I mean, I don't know if

0:11:36.960 --> 0:11:39.960
<v Speaker 1>he set it up, but somebody was definitely off. There

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<v Speaker 1>was just something not right about the whole situation. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I wouldn't be laughing with somebody who just

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<v Speaker 1>tried to attack me with a knife. Yeah, no, that

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<v Speaker 1>would make me angry, even if you were a good

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<v Speaker 1>friend of mine. You're taking me with an if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>probably not gonna talk anymore. Do you know what you do?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you pop out of the woods? Were like Hey, surprise,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here too now, Like, no, no, I just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of put two and two together and I got really

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<v Speaker 1>mad and just realized that he was a bad guy

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<v Speaker 1>and something was going on and I wasn't being told everything.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just decided to put my hands up and

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<v Speaker 1>walk away. I was like, I don't even want to

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<v Speaker 1>deal with this anymore. That is awful to make someone

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<v Speaker 1>feel that amount of fear. Yeah, I was completely terrified.

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<v Speaker 1>And so when I walked away, you know, Steve finally

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<v Speaker 1>texted me and was like, oh, hey, like, do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to meet at Starbucks? And in my mind, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just like, no, no, of course I don't. Like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even know what just happened, so I just didn't respond. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that is weird. I would love to figure out why

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<v Speaker 1>he was sitting there talking and laughing with the dude

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<v Speaker 1>who just try to stab him. Yeah, me too. Oh cool,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do that then, because Steve is actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>other line listening to this phone call and wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. Wait what yeah, unless he hung up, Steve,

0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:56.679
<v Speaker 1>are you still there? Oh my god? Um, yeah, I'm here, hey, Sephilia, Man,

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<v Speaker 1>what was that? I don't I don't even know what

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<v Speaker 1>to say here. It's okay, Um, here's the thing, it's

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<v Speaker 1>I really really liked you, So I really did. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought you were really sweet. Well are you going into

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<v Speaker 1>explaining that you are? You? Okay, okay, okay. So while

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<v Speaker 1>we were talking before we actually went on the day,

0:13:20.400 --> 0:13:22.880
<v Speaker 1>she said that it's so great going out with someone

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<v Speaker 1>who's not a muscle bound do bag like the guys

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<v Speaker 1>that she's used to dating. You just seem like a

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<v Speaker 1>really sweet guy. And so I'm thinking, all right, I've

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<v Speaker 1>been here before, I've heard that kind of thing before,

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<v Speaker 1>and what always happened is I end up being in

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<v Speaker 1>the friend zone. You're an idiot, so well you could

0:13:42.080 --> 0:13:47.960
<v Speaker 1>think that, but listen, I arranged for the guy to

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<v Speaker 1>attack us with the knife. I knew no one was

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<v Speaker 1>going to be I knew no one was going to

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<v Speaker 1>get hurt. But here's the thing. I needed to show

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<v Speaker 1>you that I could protect you. And if that happened

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<v Speaker 1>in real life, I would absolutely do the same thing. Ye. Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a lot easier when it's one of your buddies

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<v Speaker 1>holding a knife than just actually a random maniac d

0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:10.440
<v Speaker 1>they're loving. But that is so messed up. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>know what you made her feel. Don't you put her

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<v Speaker 1>through you know how like I felt when I keep

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<v Speaker 1>getting rejected by women the same Like your life is

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<v Speaker 1>on the line because you don't know how to close

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<v Speaker 1>a deal in a relationship. That's disgusting. I was literally

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<v Speaker 1>telling you that I liked that you were sweet and

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<v Speaker 1>not like these other guys. So if I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>those other guys because they did stuff like that, why

0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:34.120
<v Speaker 1>I like you doing. But you know what that means,

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<v Speaker 1>any seak, That means that you're a sweet guy and

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<v Speaker 1>I like you, and I'll never like like you speak.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no such thing as women speak. It's all just

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<v Speaker 1>the English language, so like that. Yes, they're so sa

0:14:45.160 --> 0:14:47.560
<v Speaker 1>as women speaking. Why have I hurt that so many times?

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<v Speaker 1>And it's become the friend? Are you seriously trying to

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<v Speaker 1>blame the steak mugging on me like I said something

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<v Speaker 1>and that you you're really gonna blame me? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>not you individually, just women in general. Oh all women

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<v Speaker 1>for you setting up your friend trying to step you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? You know what I mean? No,

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<v Speaker 1>you are so lucky you're on the phone right now

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<v Speaker 1>and not in real life. According to Steve you'd be

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<v Speaker 1>able to protect himself against you. Oh. I mean, here's

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<v Speaker 1>the thing, what are you supposed to do. If a

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<v Speaker 1>girl thinks you're weak? You've got to stand up and

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<v Speaker 1>show her that you're not. And you know, I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>depend that somebody would just accidentally mugg us. I never

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<v Speaker 1>said you were a weak Steven episode you'd only dated

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<v Speaker 1>muscle bound guys. What was I supposed to think? Maybe

0:15:31.360 --> 0:15:33.560
<v Speaker 1>they didn't work out? What those guys I'm looking for

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<v Speaker 1>something completely different. Yeah, and just because those guys have

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<v Speaker 1>muscles doesn't mean they're weak. Like the strongest men I

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<v Speaker 1>know are actually comfortable with who they are and don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to prove anything. I'm comfortable with who I am.

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<v Speaker 1>You're setting up muggings in the woods because you don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that you're a strong enough man on your own.

0:15:50.840 --> 0:15:52.880
<v Speaker 1>I do. I know I'm a strong enough man. I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to show her how strong I was. You're so confident, Steve, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>have you done this with other women before, like set

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<v Speaker 1>up fake muggings? No? But you know what, none of

0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:04.600
<v Speaker 1>the other girls I've ever day. They kept throwing at

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<v Speaker 1>my face that I'm not muscular enough for that. I

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<v Speaker 1>was never saying anything like that. I was answer your

0:16:10.280 --> 0:16:13.040
<v Speaker 1>questions about what my exes were like, not because women

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<v Speaker 1>don't say what they really mean. They've always got stub tech.

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<v Speaker 1>You were disgusting. Its lows my mind that you think

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<v Speaker 1>that you have to do this kind of stuff to

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<v Speaker 1>impress girls. To blow my mind, but you don't get

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<v Speaker 1>that women want a strong guy. You don't get that

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<v Speaker 1>women want Seriously, dude, stop with a man's winning. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>man's leinn us. What women want? Is that what you

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<v Speaker 1>want to tell us what we want? Cecilia. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I know what women want, and women want another date

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<v Speaker 1>with Steve? Would you with Steve on a second date?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it. Maybe you could go on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with that fake nice guys. So you have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot to talk about. So what you're saying is

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<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't want to go out with me again. What

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<v Speaker 1>in the world makes you think that I would ever

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<v Speaker 1>in my mind think about saying yes. I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>being honest with you. Oh my god, he really doesn't

0:17:02.520 --> 0:17:05.600
<v Speaker 1>get it, Cecilia. That's the most delusional thing anybody has

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<v Speaker 1>ever said. Yeah, you don't know what a little delusional

0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:10.400
<v Speaker 1>is a fact that women always say they want the nice,

0:17:10.400 --> 0:17:12.560
<v Speaker 1>funny guy, and then they never go for him. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, they just don't go for you, Steve, because

0:17:14.560 --> 0:17:20.560
<v Speaker 1>you're crazy. Even if it was fake, you didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>what stake at the time. And I've never even got

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<v Speaker 1>to thank you. Good point doesn't thank somebody for saving

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<v Speaker 1>their life. Shut you know what, Steve, I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>the one who dodged a bullet on this one. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she is rude. Broken Jewel in the Morning pretty much

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<v Speaker 1>all the text in at seven eighty five to nine

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<v Speaker 1>two thinks Steve as a douchebag. Yes, broken jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Talking about today's second eight update if you

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<v Speaker 1>missed it, Steve wanted to call this girl named Cecilia.

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<v Speaker 1>They met on tender and they went to a concert

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<v Speaker 1>and as they were leaving, they were confronted by a

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<v Speaker 1>dude with a knife. Steve told her to run while

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<v Speaker 1>he fought the guy off hero Afterwards, he was confused

0:18:01.040 --> 0:18:03.520
<v Speaker 1>why she wasn't calling him back, so we called her

0:18:03.640 --> 0:18:05.919
<v Speaker 1>and she told us that after she ran away, she

0:18:06.040 --> 0:18:08.399
<v Speaker 1>came back to check on Steve and found him laughing,

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out with the mugger, and she was extremely weirded

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<v Speaker 1>out that the two guys were laughing together after the

0:18:15.040 --> 0:18:16.920
<v Speaker 1>guy just came up to him and threatened her stab

0:18:16.960 --> 0:18:20.119
<v Speaker 1>him and everything else. Yeah, Steve admitted that he staged

0:18:20.280 --> 0:18:22.880
<v Speaker 1>a fake mugging with a friend to make himself look

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<v Speaker 1>brave because he wanted to show Cecilia that he could

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<v Speaker 1>protect her. I was totally shocked by that, and I

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<v Speaker 1>believe how many people texted in before we found that

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<v Speaker 1>out and we're like, he staged it. I'm like, how

0:18:34.840 --> 0:18:37.399
<v Speaker 1>jaded are we that we think that this guy staged it.

0:18:37.400 --> 0:18:39.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh my god, they're right. People were texting

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<v Speaker 1>in they both ways saying he staged it and then

0:18:41.640 --> 0:18:43.760
<v Speaker 1>being like she staged it. They just wanted to rob

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<v Speaker 1>him both ways. So no matter what, nobody believes anything anymore.

0:18:47.600 --> 0:18:53.360
<v Speaker 1>Well maybe they shouldn't obviously, Yeah, for good reason. It's like, yeah, right,

0:18:53.640 --> 0:18:58.919
<v Speaker 1>sure out she did not want to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>Steve again after that, it's no second date. Remember, if

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<v Speaker 1>you want to do a second date update, all you

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<v Speaker 1>have to do is email the show and we will

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<v Speaker 1>call the person who didn't call you back. Rookie