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Speaker 1: time for your brand new second date update. And there

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Speaker 1: aren't many things that can make a date go from

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Speaker 1: great to horrible in a matter of seconds. Maybe a

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Speaker 1: that to me all the time, I'm knowing God. Well,

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Speaker 1: one of our listeners had his date completely ruined by

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Speaker 1: an extremely unfortunate experience, in fact, that almost cost him

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Speaker 1: his life. You'll find out what happened in your second

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Speaker 1: date update right now, Brooking Jewels Second date Update. Whenever

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Speaker 1: you meet somebody online and you go out on a

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Speaker 1: you know, because you don't really know him that Well,

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Speaker 1: why are you who dating? Because you're meeting people on

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Speaker 1: today for a second eight update? Legit had to fear

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Speaker 1: What's up, Steve, How are you big guys? How's it going? Oh?

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Speaker 1: it sounds like yeah, and oh my gosh. Before we

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Speaker 1: all right? And where did you meet Cecilia? I met

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Speaker 1: How how are you? I'm not too bad? I don't

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Speaker 1: is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning. It's

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Speaker 1: Steve said that he really had a good time with you,

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