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Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions. This is your girl,
Speaker 1: Mandy b a k A full corpos ak a man
Speaker 1: dizzle niz that bitch ak the Booty bandit aka the
Speaker 1: Booty Warrior. Um. I am here in the flesh with
Speaker 1: some beautiful motherfucking guests. Um Again. As y'all know, we've
Speaker 1: had just some conflicting schedules lately, but y'all gonna get
Speaker 1: this next month to um solo episodes with myself and
Speaker 1: two solo episodes with Wheezy with some super super super
Speaker 1: dope guests. I guess we can go ahead and have
Speaker 1: our guests introduced themselves today. UM, we'll start ladies first,
Speaker 1: So let's go ahead and let the listeners know who
Speaker 1: you are. Well, I'm Jamie Paris. What's that bit? Just
Speaker 1: and that about sums it up. So there you I
Speaker 1: don't have the ak okay Jamie or Paris or j J.
Speaker 1: You know that's it. And she is sitting next to
Speaker 1: the lovely go ahead? Is Dustin? You know that's really
Speaker 1: It's not Harris, It just kind of is what it is.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I'm so excited to have
Speaker 1: both of you as my guest today. That is Dustin
Speaker 1: from the Friends. Don't fuck you you want to be
Speaker 1: humbling ship stop that, Um, but I'm excited to have you.
Speaker 1: Got you on. If you guys were in Atlanta, Anna,
Speaker 1: you may have met Dustin and I at the Black
Speaker 1: East Atlanta love Letter promo run at Georgia State University. UM,
Speaker 1: I'm now with you. UM I wanna again shout out
Speaker 1: everyone who was there. You met quite a bit of people. Um.
Speaker 1: A lot of people love your jokes. While everyone covered
Speaker 1: their ears when I spoke because I was saying some ship.
Speaker 1: You know, they wanted too. They probably not looking at
Speaker 1: as yet. Um. But we had a great conversation about love,
Speaker 1: sex and relationship alongside Black. If you haven't yet, please
Speaker 1: pick up his album. It is amazing as well as
Speaker 1: he is a fucking amazing And so we're gonna go
Speaker 1: ahead and start off this show. Um. And I like
Speaker 1: to you know, kind of education, sean kind of open
Speaker 1: up conversation. I always like starting the conversation, um. And
Speaker 1: so the Vanilla Ship for this episode, I wanted to
Speaker 1: speak on Kaylani, who I love and who just announced
Speaker 1: her pregnancy and I'm so happy because I absolutely love
Speaker 1: her music. UM. And what's crazy is it was a
Speaker 1: normal fucking I'm pregnant picture and it started this whole
Speaker 1: last conversation around who the father is. Y'all know she
Speaker 1: dated with you know, Kyrie Irving, and although I was
Speaker 1: hoping he was the father because I think he's a
Speaker 1: beautiful black man, Um, she actually ended up getting pregnant
Speaker 1: with one of her best friends. This may not seem
Speaker 1: like she did. She is pregnant. They didn't end up.
Speaker 1: They actually, you know, so this seems very normal. Y'all
Speaker 1: are like, so what the fun? She pregnant? Who cares?
Speaker 1: It's the best friend is nothing serious. But the conversation
Speaker 1: surrounding it is that she recently came out as a
Speaker 1: queer woman, and so they were like, wait, queers can
Speaker 1: have children, and wait is a queer lesbian? And wait?
Speaker 1: Then it also came out that her best friend, her partner,
Speaker 1: her baby daddy um is also queer slash possibly bisexual.
Speaker 1: So now the converse possibly bisexual alleged. Right, I don't
Speaker 1: want to, you know, just put a title on him.
Speaker 1: But this conversation came about because me and my friends
Speaker 1: were talking like, wait, so bisexual dudes still have sex
Speaker 1: with women and still can produce babies. And then you
Speaker 1: have a woman identifying as queer, and they're like, wait,
Speaker 1: queers can get pregnant? People just stupid people stupid like
Speaker 1: you don't stop reproducing because you have sex with the
Speaker 1: same Hello, Hello, Hello, which one I don't know? And
Speaker 1: so I wanted to have this question, this you know, conversation,
Speaker 1: because I'm not gonna lie I was one of those
Speaker 1: that I know of the lgbt Q. I know Q
Speaker 1: is queer, but then it's like, what is queer? Because
Speaker 1: I thought I was questioning. Really, that's why I until
Speaker 1: five seconds ago. Really I thought it was like, let's gay.
Speaker 1: What is the else? Lesbian, leian, gay, bisexual? Trender and
Speaker 1: question shinning. Well that's a that's a newer definition. Initially
Speaker 1: when the queue was added, their did represent queer, and
Speaker 1: now it is questioning, really, question, so I want to say.
Speaker 1: She went on to Twitter to respond and said, imagine
Speaker 1: thinking queer means lesbian and either means unable to have babies.
Speaker 1: In April, the singer opened up about her sexuality on Twitter.
Speaker 1: Because I keep getting asked I'm queer, she began in
Speaker 1: a series of tweets, not by not straight, I'm attracted
Speaker 1: to women, men, really attracted to queer men, non binary people,
Speaker 1: intersects people, trans people, little polypan sexual poppy, Hello, good morning.
Speaker 1: Does that answer your question? And when I was reading
Speaker 1: her being queer and seeing all the things she was saying,
Speaker 1: I do identify as bisexual, but I have questions recently
Speaker 1: because I know I wouldn't be in a relationship with
Speaker 1: a woman. I just be wanting to fun, that's it,
Speaker 1: And I think they'be no one that's not to me, Like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm wanted to go to the movies. I wich, I
Speaker 1: don't want to take you to the movies. I don't
Speaker 1: want to date you. I just want to funk. And
Speaker 1: so I've been questioning, am I really? Bo? Jamie is
Speaker 1: like who are you? But when I read that, I
Speaker 1: was like, am I queer? Am I to where? Okay?
Speaker 1: Because I'm now accepting that queer to me made it
Speaker 1: seem like she accepted her partners also being as openly
Speaker 1: fluid as herself. I don't know, do you? How would
Speaker 1: you guys do the questioning or the queer, Like how
Speaker 1: do you identify those? Like those people? I not just
Speaker 1: ask them what they want to be called. I guess
Speaker 1: it's a title thing. Huh are you asking what does
Speaker 1: queer means? Yeah? Like I guess everything she said to
Speaker 1: the sense or where is anything that's not like heterosexual
Speaker 1: or sister gender? Right? So it's like it's like that
Speaker 1: it's it's an overall term and that is what all
Speaker 1: the way he means just with a C means that
Speaker 1: you are the gender you are assigned, you identify as
Speaker 1: the gender you are assigned as birth. So if you
Speaker 1: are born a woman, you identify as a woman. Oh
Speaker 1: that's it, that's just the opposite. Talking so much about
Speaker 1: hetero assistsment on on Twitter, then people are stupid because
Speaker 1: they are make sense ignorant. Part of y'all don't understand
Speaker 1: anything else. Well, I'm not gonna say that. You want
Speaker 1: to make sure the same thing that you would apply
Speaker 1: to conversations you would have with your home girls about niggas.
Speaker 1: That's a lot of the same talk you see about
Speaker 1: quote unquote hetero assist. Man, you know what I'm saying. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: you breaking it's just like the websters. Yeah. He came
Speaker 1: over the table ever so gently. Yeah, you know you
Speaker 1: got you got to get you and your point of
Speaker 1: you know, goddamn Okay, all right, trying to tell you
Speaker 1: we're gonna learn on blood and ass outfits. So I
Speaker 1: didn't even realize what it was gonna be like on camera,
Speaker 1: I'm wearing yellow. I don't even know what this means.
Speaker 1: Waits just look, I just like yellow. I don't I'm
Speaker 1: just cheese today. So we are going to get now
Speaker 1: into our kink of the week. This is one where
Speaker 1: if you've come to our live shows, this is one
Speaker 1: that was really hard to say. So it's probably I'm
Speaker 1: not probably saying it right, So just um, but it's
Speaker 1: gonemum arnemum, tophilia. You say it because I just want
Speaker 1: you all to know. I never know how to read
Speaker 1: um this top word. Please read it for the listeners, please. Okay,
Speaker 1: so hold on, have hesitation because your motherfucker's ain't gonna
Speaker 1: get me. So on one second, try it. Guy named
Speaker 1: a metaphilia. Oh look, not the slamdown of the phone
Speaker 1: that you can't say to you know, metaphilia. Oh I
Speaker 1: said it, like aphila. Metaphilia, God damn man, metaphilia. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you turned into a round. Okay, look it kind of
Speaker 1: sounds like gynecologists. There you go to maybe, no, no,
Speaker 1: it wasn't. So this actually refers to a sexual preference
Speaker 1: for male assigned people who look like, act like or
Speaker 1: our women, including cross dressed men and trans women. Don't
Speaker 1: point at me. Yeah, right. So I wanted to bring
Speaker 1: this in because it deals with the heterosis attraction to
Speaker 1: transgender women. Furthermore, got guyna me metophilia. Okay, So I
Speaker 1: wanted to bring this up because furthermore into reading it,
Speaker 1: it says that there are a sis people whose primary
Speaker 1: sexual attraction is to trans people. I've seen this described
Speaker 1: as trans oriented or trans attracted, and many such people
Speaker 1: self identify as trans admirers. Unfortunately, a great many admirers
Speaker 1: demonstrate misogyny and trans transmisogyny when these badly behaved admirers
Speaker 1: actively seek out trans partners and conflict their disrespectful nonsense
Speaker 1: on us all and then it goes in so they're
Speaker 1: called chasers essentially. So I brought this up because, Um,
Speaker 1: this specific kink is something in which I feel like
Speaker 1: I'm dealing with, um, certain hetero CIS men who identifies
Speaker 1: hetero cis in my phone, but have this attraction to
Speaker 1: trans women and they're not open or even accepting of it.
Speaker 1: This is a kink. You are normal. Trans people are normal.
Speaker 1: So here's where we get into kind of this. I
Speaker 1: wanted to speak on this because if you guys have
Speaker 1: not noticed, if you're watching on YouTube, Jamie is beautiful
Speaker 1: first off, beautiful as fun and she is in a
Speaker 1: little sweaty. Does anybody have a napp? Bitch? Because you're
Speaker 1: dressed like you got the rocket walk wrong because it
Speaker 1: was it was I don't want to. I don't want
Speaker 1: to have to. The tador touts out, hello, we can.
Speaker 1: We got a water bottom gets some water for you,
Speaker 1: and we get some napkins for you because I'm a
Speaker 1: little greasy bit. Yes, but our lovely Jamie Paris is
Speaker 1: a trans woman, a beautiful one who openly identifies. Is
Speaker 1: this so like um, if you guys listen to the
Speaker 1: trans man episode, he was not as fully open as
Speaker 1: to who he was when he first met people. He
Speaker 1: was very private about this. Love. We had a trans
Speaker 1: man on the on our show before um, and so
Speaker 1: we had that conversation. And I wanted to bring this
Speaker 1: up again because of the uncomfortablelity that these heterossessment have
Speaker 1: admitting this and then seeing the excitement when literally I'm
Speaker 1: open to it, high the excitement of of that. So
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk to you. I went to Fairy
Speaker 1: Tales looking for you. Oh my god, really you weren't there.
Speaker 1: I'm always late, but I took an ex who is
Speaker 1: one of these guys I'm talking about, just to show
Speaker 1: him how comfortable I was. And I had been following you,
Speaker 1: so I was like asking for Jamie. Then bitch was like,
Speaker 1: she ain't here yet, so I was like, okay, she's
Speaker 1: never coming, um, But they said that that's the clients
Speaker 1: hele in there often. So I wanted to maybe have
Speaker 1: you speak on your feelings when men open up to you,
Speaker 1: about this being a key for them and not that
Speaker 1: they're actually open with themselves, that this is what they like.
Speaker 1: Just charge them all like that's it, that's it. I mean,
Speaker 1: guys usually they kind of just tell you and they
Speaker 1: I mean, first of all, I work at a club.
Speaker 1: I hosted a transparting, right, so they don't have to
Speaker 1: tell me what they're into. I know where you're here,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, you're in the library. Are
Speaker 1: you looking for a movie? So here we are, we're
Speaker 1: the books. So like, I kind of get it. But
Speaker 1: a lot of times guys do come in with their girlfriends.
Speaker 1: Just usually the guy who brings the girl. I brought
Speaker 1: him to open him up, So that's that's different. But
Speaker 1: I feel like whatever, like you know how the homegirl
Speaker 1: is just talking about Peggy and stuff. It's kind of
Speaker 1: like that. But you know, we don't have to bring
Speaker 1: the toy. I'm just I had to buy mine. I
Speaker 1: had to ask him like, well, is this isn't okay? Well,
Speaker 1: I guess you can't say is this bigger? Small enough
Speaker 1: for you? It is what it is, what you're coming with.
Speaker 1: He got to get outside. Yeah, yeah, that's pick it out.
Speaker 1: So that was exciting for me. You know, I didn't
Speaker 1: just get to But now I feel like my dick big.
Speaker 1: So when I talk about my dick in my closet,
Speaker 1: just know it's a big one. It's large. Um, so
Speaker 1: you meet me now. But speaking of strap on, o't
Speaker 1: my way here? You know? Who try to cut me
Speaker 1: off on the highway? Young ma, young man bitch. I
Speaker 1: just saw her the Halloween party and I told all
Speaker 1: that she was on the same outfit swea to god
Speaker 1: she had on the same outfit up and I was like, oh, ship,
Speaker 1: I thought she was. And I was nervous because she
Speaker 1: in a popping studio, y'all. I was. I was nervous,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, is she gonna pull out the strap?
Speaker 1: And then I told about which one? You know, so
Speaker 1: I didn't really know how to feel. But I was
Speaker 1: just like, oh, this is kind of cool. Like I'm late,
Speaker 1: but I have a story to tell, you know, And
Speaker 1: I'll tell you that's awesome. Young and may got a
Speaker 1: big strap. I feel that she better. She can dress
Speaker 1: her ass off, because this is like really seriously, this
Speaker 1: is like the fourth time that we had a bit
Speaker 1: stow my little moment, and so that is like just
Speaker 1: fashion goals and you're so happy, so so happy. Oh
Speaker 1: so the girlfriends normally approach you. I guess I'll ask
Speaker 1: this before we get into just even a deeper conversation.
Speaker 1: Are you into men and women or men specifically? I'm yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm more into guys, like I feel like girls and
Speaker 1: more just like, you know, we could make god for
Speaker 1: each other up, but I don't want to take it
Speaker 1: to the movies. No, like you're kind of not you specifically,
Speaker 1: but like a girl. I guess we call me to
Speaker 1: because you know whatever, girl. But no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: already saw An, I'm thank you. Um. But yeah, like, um,
Speaker 1: I just feel like the girls. I don't know, I
Speaker 1: don't know. So you're just watching the girls. So when
Speaker 1: they're in the club and they're coming to you, it's
Speaker 1: mostly for the guy though. Yeah, they're usually kind of like, well,
Speaker 1: my boyfriends into this or whatever, and it's like, well,
Speaker 1: all right, like do you want to lap dance? So whatever,
Speaker 1: Like there's of course girls they're you know, debble and
Speaker 1: dabble and well area area, so yeah, but they're usually
Speaker 1: like kind of just I guess the girls are just
Speaker 1: so interested in it because they're trying to figure out
Speaker 1: what the guy's position. And it's crazy because then that
Speaker 1: leads to the conversation, now you know, why are they Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: and it's kind of like I guess because they right,
Speaker 1: I don't listen, it's an open look. Dustin was like,
Speaker 1: y'all not gonna listen, not even I just think it's
Speaker 1: so dumb, because what the fun never mind, go ahead, like, Okay,
Speaker 1: people are attracted. There's men that are attracted to trans women.
Speaker 1: That's just what the funk it is. That's what they're
Speaker 1: attracted to. You know what I'm saying. There's there's trans women.
Speaker 1: You just sit here and said that you would you know,
Speaker 1: you find some women attractive, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It's just what the funk it is. And it's just
Speaker 1: so frustrating to me that it leads to a bigger
Speaker 1: conversation because it's bigger, right, a bigger conversation, like what
Speaker 1: the funk. If the nigga was gay, he would tell you, baby,
Speaker 1: I want to guy the conversation and not even gay
Speaker 1: bisexual because he's still sucking you. So there goes the time.
Speaker 1: It just comes with like the whole being trans and
Speaker 1: thinking about the genitals, and they're like, well, if this
Speaker 1: is what they were born with, then it becomes them.
Speaker 1: But it's like, well, what do you call somebody that
Speaker 1: likes hermaphrodite? It's like, is that the same thing? Where
Speaker 1: we haven't even used on the show, they still say hermaphrodite?
Speaker 1: Am I going to get s? Yeah? Allegedly? I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: What is a hermaphrodite when you have a penis and
Speaker 1: a vagina or something that looks like both at the
Speaker 1: same time, so like the literal total package. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: got both so you could have a baby. And no,
Speaker 1: that's the thing. A lot of hermaphrodites are sterile because
Speaker 1: they have both right, so they're like they have the
Speaker 1: physical deformities, whereas trans people it's our brain, so like
Speaker 1: intersex or hermaphrodites, they have like maybe an extended clearterists
Speaker 1: and like external ovaries, but not really like a full
Speaker 1: form penis. Maybe they still could be penetrated, maybe they
Speaker 1: can't be penetrated, but it's like it's a physical deformity.
Speaker 1: But that for you know, that's easy to understan for
Speaker 1: people to understand, because it's like you see someone in
Speaker 1: a wheelchair, you know, the disabled. When you hear the
Speaker 1: conversation of trans people to what do you mean your
Speaker 1: brain doesn't match your body? So well, look at this
Speaker 1: penis and vagina hybrid. It's like that's but in here,
Speaker 1: you know, And that's just what it that's just what
Speaker 1: it comes down. So but it's like, what do you
Speaker 1: why do you? Why do you have to have like
Speaker 1: a name for what you like? Like women just straight,
Speaker 1: if you're like the same sex, you're gay? Why does
Speaker 1: it have to be all these like extra all these
Speaker 1: names and identifying chase or ship? That's the ship I'm
Speaker 1: talking about. And that's why people that's why it's so
Speaker 1: problematic and something that people decide to be secretive about
Speaker 1: or you know, be careful with the information because people
Speaker 1: respond to it a certain way. Is kind of sucked
Speaker 1: up of course, you know, you almost vilify a person
Speaker 1: for having a physical attraction, because that's really what it is.
Speaker 1: It's a physical attraction, you know what I'm saying, just
Speaker 1: like you have a physical attraction to anybody, right, So
Speaker 1: I just it's just frustrating. I think it's frustrating. But
Speaker 1: even this whole idea, maybe not in public right now. Maybe,
Speaker 1: I mean thing, somebody just got arrested for jerking off
Speaker 1: on somebody in the train, So maybe not. Yeah, maybe
Speaker 1: in public, especially not on the MT. I don't want
Speaker 1: to just look in my book back and like, oh wow,
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Speaker 1: our whole decision, and the whole decision is going to
Speaker 1: move further into Miss Jamie Buddy and how you know,
Speaker 1: I kind of like that you might have to go
Speaker 1: ahead when you start making money off that. So I
Speaker 1: wanted to talk to you further on this conversation um
Speaker 1: of you dating, you being a powerful trans woman, which
Speaker 1: you may get from society, the backlash. You're very opinionated.
Speaker 1: You were featured on Viceland. Oh no, you weren't on Viceland.
Speaker 1: Well you posted something from Vice. It was your friend
Speaker 1: shout out up real quick, my friend that I don't
Speaker 1: know your name. Hold on, that's fine. There you go there,
Speaker 1: you know Instagram friend, we all got those, we all
Speaker 1: got those. Well on her page. There was just everything
Speaker 1: about empowerment of trans women. You speak your piece, I
Speaker 1: see you in bed. She has very cute bad videos,
Speaker 1: by the way, talking her ship about y'all niggas acting
Speaker 1: up because y'all act up with everybody apparently. Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: glad we're on the same thing like that. So there
Speaker 1: we go. Let's bring that. But I want to bring
Speaker 1: up you dating you being empowering, the stigmas, and I
Speaker 1: want to go ahead and help our audience know how
Speaker 1: fucking dope you are. First off, y'all can look at
Speaker 1: her if you guys are on one of our YouTube viewers.
Speaker 1: She's fucking beautiful. I want to see here and kind
Speaker 1: of debug some of the myths, the stereotips, and kind
Speaker 1: of how you feel about how you're treating in today's
Speaker 1: day and age. So I guess let's start that. At
Speaker 1: what point were you comfortable with being you and expressing
Speaker 1: you for you? Goddamnit, I was like fourteen seven now,
Speaker 1: so I was like fourteen and um like from my
Speaker 1: earliest memory, I knew I was a girl. So there
Speaker 1: was there was like, oh, I know what my favorite
Speaker 1: color is? I know, like whatever, I know that I'm
Speaker 1: a girl. So there was never like a question. It
Speaker 1: was more so a conflict with like me feeling how
Speaker 1: I felt, and people telling me, oh no, you you're
Speaker 1: supposed to like trucks. You're not supposed to like barbies.
Speaker 1: Oh no, you can't wear So it was like, but
Speaker 1: this is what I feel like, you know. So once
Speaker 1: I was like fourteen, what happened was I used to
Speaker 1: buy my hormones on the internet and like me, you
Speaker 1: were still on me. I was born. I had to
Speaker 1: dialogue hormone but my mother, my mother was not at work,
Speaker 1: so when I was on the computer, I wasn't worried
Speaker 1: about how trying to use the phone, so it worked
Speaker 1: out for me. So everything worked out. And she had
Speaker 1: the little sprint silver flip phone. How that ship how
Speaker 1: we all had to flip So, um, I had like
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of hormones and she found them. She
Speaker 1: called my doctor and um, they basically told, like, you know,
Speaker 1: if she doesn't monitor these things, that could cause cancer
Speaker 1: or something. So yogur calls cancer. By the way, you'll
Speaker 1: play yoga her day. It's I'm just gross. It's milk.
Speaker 1: So like how if you eat it, maybe you got
Speaker 1: what you deserves. It's like like y yo play Dannon ill.
Speaker 1: Even lactate is gross. The lactose doesn't want to it's
Speaker 1: the milk itself crushed up some almonds at some water
Speaker 1: called today. So by the time you could start being
Speaker 1: like mommy, daddy, no, I don't want this during school
Speaker 1: clothes shopping. I want a dress, my life, my whole life. Um, everybody,
Speaker 1: you know when you were in you're very feminine. Growing up,
Speaker 1: people automatically he's going to grow to be gay or whatever.
Speaker 1: And I never felt like I was gay because I
Speaker 1: was I'm a woman who likes men. So that was
Speaker 1: just like you don't know we're talking about. But you know,
Speaker 1: once I was fourteen, Um, I discovered the incident. I
Speaker 1: discovered green Dot prepaid credit cards, and I was able
Speaker 1: to green yeah, because I was able to just put
Speaker 1: money on it myself and I didn't have to go
Speaker 1: to my mom. So whatever. So she found my my
Speaker 1: statue of hormones, called the doctor. Doctor advised her to
Speaker 1: get me to endo chronologists. And so she's the one
Speaker 1: who like forced me to go to doctors to make
Speaker 1: sure I was doing it the right way. And she
Speaker 1: was like every well you want to be a girl out.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna take all your boy clothes and we're
Speaker 1: gonna play some of a girl clothes because you're not
Speaker 1: gonna borrow my stuff. So I was like, okay, she was,
Speaker 1: so you didn't have the issue of her not I
Speaker 1: didn't have that, Like I don't have that traditional dad
Speaker 1: like my family, my friends. I was homeless, like that
Speaker 1: was that's not my story. I feel bad if that happens,
Speaker 1: but I was fortunate enough that that didn't happen to me.
Speaker 1: Um and I I think it's because I had a
Speaker 1: gay uncle, UM growing up, and he passed away when
Speaker 1: I was in fourth grade. Um, and everybody loved him.
Speaker 1: So I guess they didn't want to be like hypocrites
Speaker 1: and we're like not accepting of me when they were
Speaker 1: accepting of him. So I feel like that's kind of
Speaker 1: where it came from. And it's like a lot of
Speaker 1: lesbians and my family, like both my cousins a game
Speaker 1: actually like your family very open your ethnicity, Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: but I'm racially ambiguous. There was I could play again.
Speaker 1: I could be black. You give me the right wig
Speaker 1: and the lighting. Maybe I could be white. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know. No, bro, I'm not I'm not doing it.
Speaker 1: I am not at the age. So you're now wearing
Speaker 1: women's clothes. Well done, Well fourteen, Well we're not going
Speaker 1: We're going back to fourteen. Now you're getting into now
Speaker 1: what high school? At this point, they're probably the most
Speaker 1: high schoolers are the most not like we just really
Speaker 1: think we know everything and don't know ship. So what
Speaker 1: was high school? High school for you? First of all,
Speaker 1: everybody loves me because I'm an amazing person. I can
Speaker 1: already say like everybody ever yea, everybody gets that I'm
Speaker 1: already sweat and because what um, so, everybody like gravitates
Speaker 1: towards me. I'm funny, I'm obnoxious, and you know, I
Speaker 1: make you want to be my friend. So I never
Speaker 1: had any bad experiences in school because, like people would
Speaker 1: make fun of me, I would make them laugh. So,
Speaker 1: like humor was always my defense mechanism, so I never
Speaker 1: had to deal with problems. Um. In high school, I
Speaker 1: was actually in a new school, so it was just freshman.
Speaker 1: There was like a hundred students in the whole I
Speaker 1: went to Evans High School in Orlando, and there was
Speaker 1: a ninth grade center, so they separated ninth grades. They
Speaker 1: separated ninth graders from the tenth, eleventh, and twelfth graders.
Speaker 1: That was a whole another campus. Florida, we have land.
Speaker 1: I know you may not experience that in New York City.
Speaker 1: Maybe I grew up in Michigan, Okay, because like Green
Speaker 1: Green Pass. Yeah, but we pull the ninth graders right.
Speaker 1: But it wasn't an entire building. It was a New Yorkers.
Speaker 1: This is New York so a lot of times we
Speaker 1: share buildings in schools. Didn't write school. They all just
Speaker 1: freshman freshman year. Ninth grade on my my school, we
Speaker 1: were held at the pl on Webster that's in the Bronx,
Speaker 1: which the police whatever there you go there, you know,
Speaker 1: exact shot a movie at the Webster Presents. They threw
Speaker 1: a toaster out the window, as I said, And from
Speaker 1: that day on, the police was like there every day.
Speaker 1: But I wasn't scared and ship. It was just like
Speaker 1: what y'all doing? You know? It was like funny but yeah,
Speaker 1: projects and New York connections. Here here we go. We
Speaker 1: was in Webster, So our ninth grade, we was just
Speaker 1: all at the pl Um. Then when we I guess
Speaker 1: when my grade was moving to the tenth grade. That's
Speaker 1: when now we had tenth graders, so there was no
Speaker 1: other grade. It was just freshman. So now when we
Speaker 1: were sophomore and now we allowed freshman to come in,
Speaker 1: so it was just you know whatever. Anyway, I was
Speaker 1: cool with everybody. Everybody fun with me, so I thought, okay,
Speaker 1: well I'm a transition. I remember telling um. The first
Speaker 1: person I told my sister Evie, well, my sister from
Speaker 1: another misstaf okay. At school, we were sitting on the
Speaker 1: swings and I was like, oh, I'm gonna transition whatever whatever.
Speaker 1: She just looks and she was You're not gonna kill me,
Speaker 1: are you. I'm like no, I just I'm gonna kill
Speaker 1: my my old self. And then um, I told like
Speaker 1: my friends in high school, I was like, I think
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just drop out because I really don't feel
Speaker 1: like dealing with people like picking on me and talking
Speaker 1: ship because at that age I used to like to
Speaker 1: fight because I was a very angry individual. So I
Speaker 1: was like, I don't want to deal with that. So
Speaker 1: all my friends, the girls and the guys, because I
Speaker 1: was done with the popular kids. There was like listen,
Speaker 1: ivery anybody works at you they getting sucked up. So
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, So I just transition and I
Speaker 1: came to school and everything was good, like that's the
Speaker 1: only issue that I had was the bathroom situation, Like
Speaker 1: that's relatively in the media. Yeah, I'm in high school.
Speaker 1: So when we moved to UM, I think we moved
Speaker 1: to some of public schools like elementary, middle school and
Speaker 1: then us. Yeah, so there was a bathroom by the
Speaker 1: gym that we actually had to share, and U I
Speaker 1: would go to the girls bathroom because it was like, well,
Speaker 1: that's why if I go to the boys bathroom there,
Speaker 1: like Jamie, what are you doing in here? So it
Speaker 1: was like okay, whatever, So I would just go to
Speaker 1: the girls bathroom UM. And their their reasoning was, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, if a little girl walks in there, she
Speaker 1: could say you try to touch her or they would
Speaker 1: know I was That was what they were concerned about. Bill.
Speaker 1: That's so as because because people are men are apparently
Speaker 1: just like dec insatiable, like sexual animals, that we will
Speaker 1: turn into women to rape your children because we're we're
Speaker 1: just we need it. So it's like that's that's that's it.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm here today. I'm So that's that's my
Speaker 1: pert never the kids of SpongeBob and I'm like, hey,
Speaker 1: who lives in the fine Sea? You know, that's that's
Speaker 1: where it is. That's what it is. It's like, I'm
Speaker 1: just here for your children, Like, fuck my identity, I
Speaker 1: want the kids. I'm willing to do this. That's it.
Speaker 1: I'm cutting up my body, I'm getting surgery. I'm out
Speaker 1: here dipping and doing it for your babies in the
Speaker 1: makeup chair, like your babies, let's start that. I'm spending
Speaker 1: all this money on the Lacey unit for your baby.
Speaker 1: That's the fact that that literally is the mentality. That's
Speaker 1: why they have an issue with which but you know what,
Speaker 1: you know what kills me and the media they always
Speaker 1: want to depict it as a man dressing up as
Speaker 1: a woman to go into women's bathroom, and why they
Speaker 1: never say women dressing up like in the rape of husbands.
Speaker 1: I guess that's not a problem, you know what I
Speaker 1: mean when most of like the big wigs are men.
Speaker 1: So it's like, oh, yeah, it's stupid, that's what it is.
Speaker 1: It's like that that literally is the conversation. Then this
Speaker 1: was coming from no, this was coming from my gym teacher.
Speaker 1: She was the only real person who had an issue
Speaker 1: with that. She's the one who brought it to the principle. Yes,
Speaker 1: my teacher, My gym teacher looked just like Richard Simmons,
Speaker 1: but she was a woman, and everybody thought she was
Speaker 1: a lesbian. And it's like you got a lot of
Speaker 1: nerve homegirls to be upon out me. I do want
Speaker 1: to ask you, other people in the LGBTQ community, do
Speaker 1: you sense that divide in that absolutely? Because I mean
Speaker 1: the way a lot of people see it as like
Speaker 1: once gays got the right to marry over, it's like, oh,
Speaker 1: that's it the battle though, and it's not. You know,
Speaker 1: We've always been a very kind of like small subculture
Speaker 1: within the LGBT community, like people like um Marcy Bowers.
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry, not Marcia uh, Marsha, UM's Johnson
Speaker 1: her and Sylvia Rivera like these are these are the
Speaker 1: people who were involved in like that. Go ahead, let's
Speaker 1: let's get it. Marsha, I know it's Marsha p Okay
Speaker 1: Rivera with the Stonewall riots and all that. Okay, So
Speaker 1: it's always been trans women of color who kind of
Speaker 1: like are like the the voices of the community, and
Speaker 1: we kind of like fight for the community, but the
Speaker 1: community doesn't really fight for us. Like even like back
Speaker 1: when they had gate clubs and stuff like that, like
Speaker 1: they would still kick women out trans women. You know,
Speaker 1: if you ever saw the show Posed, they actually covered
Speaker 1: that where they showed trans women going into a gay
Speaker 1: bar and the gay guys was like, oh, well, yeah,
Speaker 1: you can't be here because you're justsed as women. And
Speaker 1: actually I think in the seventies or something, there was
Speaker 1: a law like if you were dressed like a woman
Speaker 1: and you didn't have like at least three articles of
Speaker 1: mail clothing on, it was again they would arrest you,
Speaker 1: like it was against the law in New York. You know.
Speaker 1: So it's like so we we we are still kind
Speaker 1: of getting our rights, Like right now, they don't even
Speaker 1: want us to have whatever says on our I D
Speaker 1: you know, they wanted to be like, oh, no, you're
Speaker 1: a born a man, you're a man to be with
Speaker 1: a pussy, like that's what you are now regards that's
Speaker 1: what they want to do. So let me ask you this,
Speaker 1: because you identify as a trans woman, what differentiates between
Speaker 1: a trans woman, a dry queen, and a cross dress
Speaker 1: A cross dresser is somebody who a lot of times
Speaker 1: does it for sexual kinks. Um. Uh, we've had a
Speaker 1: cross dresser on. It could be any it could be
Speaker 1: a male or female. They just like wearing the clothes.
Speaker 1: Like I guess young and may could be a cross
Speaker 1: dresser maybe whereas men's clothes. I don't know, maybe, but
Speaker 1: you know, like that's that's kind I've always kind of seen.
Speaker 1: Know I'm saying, I'm really because a lot of times
Speaker 1: young cross dress he could be That's what could be
Speaker 1: a cross dresser too, because if you're wearing clothes that
Speaker 1: are assigned to the opposite gender, you are cross dressing.
Speaker 1: So when you are a woman who's like butch or
Speaker 1: whatever the correct term is, and you want to wear
Speaker 1: men's clothing, you are cross dressing. So you may not
Speaker 1: be you may not call yourself across dressing, but you
Speaker 1: are in fact cross cross dressing. Um. And then a
Speaker 1: drag drag queen is somebody who does it for entertainment purposes,
Speaker 1: So they get dressed up, they perform their lip sync
Speaker 1: a song if they know the words, and then right
Speaker 1: water think for you, this isn't you putting on an
Speaker 1: Actors no, no, no, no, no no. This is just
Speaker 1: like you know, you look in the mirror, you know
Speaker 1: you Puerto Rican, you know you got black here. You
Speaker 1: know you're a woman. Like that's it. So I just
Speaker 1: one of those things that you just know about yourself.
Speaker 1: It's not like I'm going to become a woman to
Speaker 1: take your kids and your husband like I just both
Speaker 1: and I just want to I just want to get
Speaker 1: them nice little deals from Fashion Nova. I feel nice,
Speaker 1: Like that's all I want to put the check. We're
Speaker 1: waiting use my coaching paris a person off. You're welcome.
Speaker 1: So you brought up which I actually liked, and I
Speaker 1: didn't even and you know how I was going to
Speaker 1: segue into this, but you brought up butch and didn't
Speaker 1: know if that was the right terminology when it comes
Speaker 1: to transgender man or woman? What is okay to ask you, like,
Speaker 1: as far as your identity the words? Because I went
Speaker 1: to fairy Tales and the night was called trainy Thursdays.
Speaker 1: But some people have a pen that word. The word
Speaker 1: is on a flyer. There's beautiful trans women coming. Clearly
Speaker 1: this is okay in the community, Like, what is the
Speaker 1: goddamn word? So where I don't. I didn't even transperson
Speaker 1: trans what the fund? Can I say? You can't just
Speaker 1: call me by my name like that? Like I can't.
Speaker 1: I can't speak for everybody. I feel like it's not
Speaker 1: what they call you, it's what you respond to. And
Speaker 1: if somebody asks if you're a training and you say yes,
Speaker 1: then you're a trainy. If somebody says, hey, are you
Speaker 1: a trainee, say no, I'm a trans woman, you correct them,
Speaker 1: then that's it. You know. The word training is kind
Speaker 1: of like trainy thursdays like fag of Fridays. It's like,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, It's like a word like
Speaker 1: maybe it's not like politically correct, but it doesn't offend everybody.
Speaker 1: I guess it depends on the term. Like when I
Speaker 1: was of fourteen fifteen, hanging on the village, that was
Speaker 1: just a word like oh, yeah, I'm a training like
Speaker 1: people will call themselves that, you know. So I didn't
Speaker 1: grow up with it thinking, oh, that's like a disrespectful word,
Speaker 1: like I know, fagg it was a bad word, but
Speaker 1: I never thought training was a bad word. And then
Speaker 1: like I'm like twenty two, twenty three and hearing people say, oh, well,
Speaker 1: we shouldn't say tranny because it's derogatory, and it's like, well,
Speaker 1: what do you want me to call you? Like, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: you know, like me, I'm just I like the umbrella
Speaker 1: term trans, so I here transgender, transsexual, general, not conforming.
Speaker 1: Let's just you're just trans. And I think that makes
Speaker 1: it easier for people's trans because it's like all these
Speaker 1: names for what. I like to hear that from you,
Speaker 1: because I feel like it's the straight people that's that's
Speaker 1: There's gonna be some advocate out there that's gonna see
Speaker 1: this aga. But like Jamie Partrish, it's problematic to the
Speaker 1: trans commar all the and it's gonna be like I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: like not the boy hello, she she already knows what
Speaker 1: type of person. I don't. Yeah, but loud and wrong.
Speaker 1: I love other girls and other girls are cond for
Speaker 1: the record, I love other girls and other girls are can.
Speaker 1: But you just go by what you want to be
Speaker 1: called by me. I like, I don't get like unless
Speaker 1: you call me a he or a he she or
Speaker 1: something stupid like that he she is that you get
Speaker 1: punched in a throat because I'm only five four so
Speaker 1: I may not reach your face. But it's gonna connect.
Speaker 1: It's going to be a connect form. Okay, Okay, I've
Speaker 1: never we've never even mentioned he she I didn't even
Speaker 1: think that's like, that's like Noah's Yeah, I don't believe
Speaker 1: you say to insult the trans woman trans man. That's
Speaker 1: where you go with those kind of statements, because it's
Speaker 1: kind of like I'm playing like you don't know what
Speaker 1: you are. It's like I nobody or it's also highlighting
Speaker 1: the fact that obviously this was something that was monumentally
Speaker 1: your life, your transition, and so reminding you of something
Speaker 1: that are using something that was so heavy in your life.
Speaker 1: They're using it against you, like they know obviously like
Speaker 1: you're a trans woman. So if I insult you and
Speaker 1: call you a man, you know what I mean, it's
Speaker 1: just a direct insult for sure. That's what you're talking about.
Speaker 1: That okay, all right, So I wanted to gear this
Speaker 1: conversation to kind of our male listeners for advice. So, um,
Speaker 1: I'm done. I was going to try to hit on you,
Speaker 1: but you don't take me to the movies, so we're
Speaker 1: gonna turn this off. You said that first I used
Speaker 1: it against you. You see what happened? You did con
Speaker 1: you can't take it what you want to go to
Speaker 1: corn No, But I wanted to get into the conversation
Speaker 1: of you said you only date men when you finally
Speaker 1: are whether it's in a relationship, whether you're dating someone
Speaker 1: you know that they're interested in you, but now maybe
Speaker 1: you get to where you're realizing they're keeping it a secret.
Speaker 1: Maybe they're experience, you know, experimenting. When I was a
Speaker 1: bigger girl, I felt fetish sized because of my size.
Speaker 1: I just had an episode on Patreon check it out
Speaker 1: if you haven't yet, but I talked about how I
Speaker 1: felt fetish sized because of my weight. Um, and I
Speaker 1: know that trends. Women are often fetish fetish size and
Speaker 1: this is something that it's kept private from their families,
Speaker 1: their friends, and sometimes they're coping with it and don't
Speaker 1: know how to respond. What are that sucks to be them?
Speaker 1: I've never dealt with that, and I love that. What
Speaker 1: are the conversations that you have, Like when a man
Speaker 1: says they're not comfortable but they really like you, that
Speaker 1: is the last conversation. One thing I will say for me,
Speaker 1: I did not go through arguing which bathroom to use,
Speaker 1: saving up money to get my tips done, and whatever
Speaker 1: else that got done, dealing with the arguments for my
Speaker 1: family having to correct my grandmother every fucking Thanksgiving, Like
Speaker 1: I'm not going through all of that so that you
Speaker 1: could go home and be like that's not happening. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: that don't work for me, So like this are these
Speaker 1: are conversations that like I don't know this before we
Speaker 1: get serious, like I'm not like no, and you keep
Speaker 1: like maybe like you eat your bookers, you could keep
Speaker 1: that a secret, Like I'm not a fucking secret. And
Speaker 1: if that's how you feel, then we're here from tens
Speaker 1: to four. You can come get a lap dance with
Speaker 1: one of the Levely girls, like that's it, Like I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna date you, Like yeah, I'm gonna be a
Speaker 1: have you felt fetish sized where they've come to you
Speaker 1: not not to even be with you, but just to
Speaker 1: have sex with you? Um, yes? And what I do
Speaker 1: is I make it lucrative for me because it's like, hey,
Speaker 1: you just want one thing. I just want one thing,
Speaker 1: so and it's not true, So you know, Okay, that's it.
Speaker 1: That's why I work at a bar where we could
Speaker 1: give lap dances and stuff like that, so that men
Speaker 1: who do have these like I want to just experience
Speaker 1: kind of It's like, okay, well we could get a
Speaker 1: lap dance and see the girls dancing on the bar
Speaker 1: or whatever. You be uncomfortable because I'm not gonna do
Speaker 1: Like a lot of times guys were like, hey, you
Speaker 1: want to cover and smoke, Like I'm not going to
Speaker 1: your house. First of all, let me just put this
Speaker 1: out there, not this conversation. Not no, no, no no,
Speaker 1: that's the biggest thing. Like listen, when I smoke a blunt,
Speaker 1: I don't get horny and want to fuck. I want
Speaker 1: to smoke another blond and maybe another blond and then
Speaker 1: maybe I'm gonna take a nap after that. E Like
Speaker 1: you ever try sucking dick with a dry mouth. Don't work?
Speaker 1: So why are you trying to get me hot? And
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come and gotta it's been out because they
Speaker 1: do it. Yeah, because well you guess what wrong, bit
Speaker 1: wrong bish, I'll smoke that whole ef and be gone,
Speaker 1: be gone, like starting my lifts outside one, I all
Speaker 1: down and ship no talk. I know that's right. That's
Speaker 1: how I am. I smoking and then to be eleven o'clock,
Speaker 1: twelve o'clock I just want to smoke. No, I'm good,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to sleep, or I have let someone
Speaker 1: come over. And because he knew he wasn't getting no pussy.
Speaker 1: But let me tell you how the trick real quick,
Speaker 1: real quick. Because this nigga thought he was real slick.
Speaker 1: I told him, I don't really want to suck you,
Speaker 1: but you can come over. We can be friends. Like,
Speaker 1: if I'm in the mood to funk, I'll fun, but
Speaker 1: you can't just be calling my phone when you won't
Speaker 1: pussy and think I'm gonnaive you pussy. That's pretty much
Speaker 1: how I did it. So he was like, cool, I'll
Speaker 1: come over. We don't have to funk, but I'll come over.
Speaker 1: We could just smoke it out and we could chill.
Speaker 1: This nigga came over literally for seventeen minutes, smoked the blunt.
Speaker 1: It was like, cool, all right, hit you up tomorrow.
Speaker 1: It made it seem like because he finally came over
Speaker 1: and we didn't funk in the seventeen minutes he was
Speaker 1: at my house. That then tomorrow we could go back
Speaker 1: to the regularly stantial because tomorrow it's another day. He
Speaker 1: was gonna be like, okay, this which want me to
Speaker 1: just come over and hang out, all right, let me
Speaker 1: show her not the thing too, Like, Yo, my thing
Speaker 1: is this. I could smoke blunts, I could smoke. Oh,
Speaker 1: I could drink and smoke and watching effects in my
Speaker 1: own house. So now you want me to go to
Speaker 1: your house and rich you over to mine. So now
Speaker 1: I'm doing the same things I could have been doing
Speaker 1: by myself. And I gotta have a nigger in my
Speaker 1: face trying to suck me. Right, No, we can face
Speaker 1: time and then when the blood is done. So it's
Speaker 1: this conversation and that's it, snapchat me whatever. Right, But
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna have to get dressed and I'll hang
Speaker 1: out with some of that. I don't really want to
Speaker 1: have sex left, even don't want to have sex with
Speaker 1: If that's how you're throwing it at me, I don't
Speaker 1: want it, right. I was about to say, it's more
Speaker 1: of the art of the deal. I'm saying, like any
Speaker 1: nigga that's hitting you up, like, oh, you just want
Speaker 1: to come smoke like that's like it's not like, hey,
Speaker 1: you want to pay Nintendo. I was like, funk, yeah,
Speaker 1: I want to play Nintendo. And then maybe my pants
Speaker 1: is off because that's it. That's it. But now for
Speaker 1: something smoking no good for you? Feel stupid? Are you naked?
Speaker 1: Oh great? You know what I mean? Maybe his dick
Speaker 1: isn't as nice as you thought it was gonna look
Speaker 1: a lot? Did you? Did you photoshop those pictures? It
Speaker 1: seems like you want to be for that part of
Speaker 1: the experience. What you mean if you look down there
Speaker 1: and seeing something that you wouldn't expect him, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? You want to be high? That might
Speaker 1: be a good kind adore the shot because I laugh,
Speaker 1: giddy and laughing weird naked? Of course I'm gonna laugh.
Speaker 1: The first time you have sex is awkward anyway, So
Speaker 1: it's like, now you have a weird little dick, like,
Speaker 1: oh god, why am I here? Mom? Sex to your
Speaker 1: friend like, oh my god, my dog died? Im no
Speaker 1: no no. So moving into your adulthood, now, what has
Speaker 1: been something that has fully affected you negatively and that
Speaker 1: you are pushing with your loud voice because I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I love your videos. I love what you're saying.
Speaker 1: What is the change that you would like to see
Speaker 1: in the people you're dating and how families respond to
Speaker 1: trans women and the process. What are the things that
Speaker 1: you genuinely want to change and don't understand why it's happening,
Speaker 1: how it's happened. I wish people would just stop trying
Speaker 1: to put people in boxes and trying to figure out
Speaker 1: what does this make you? What does this mean? You know, like,
Speaker 1: I don't mind if people ask me questions, because you
Speaker 1: can't learn if you don't ask questions. So I'm never
Speaker 1: offended when people say if I say I'm trans, and
Speaker 1: they're like, well, what does that mean? That means he
Speaker 1: was born a man? It's like, now, I was I
Speaker 1: was born a baby, but um, I was born with
Speaker 1: a penis, which I guess makes me a male at birth.
Speaker 1: But this is what identify as and blah blah blah.
Speaker 1: But some people get so offended that they don't want
Speaker 1: to have that conversation. And I feel like, as as
Speaker 1: trans people, anybody in the LGBT community, I feel like,
Speaker 1: don't be afraid to answer the same questions a thousand times,
Speaker 1: you know why, because it's annoying. But if you don't
Speaker 1: correct them, how they're going to know how to come
Speaker 1: at you. And a lot of times with all of this,
Speaker 1: if you like transforming as a man, it means you're gay.
Speaker 1: And I feel like the reason and a lot of
Speaker 1: guys keep it a secret is because a lot of
Speaker 1: cister gender women put that on though, like, oh that's
Speaker 1: what you like, that's a man, you're a fagged let
Speaker 1: it out, but don't have a problem pegging their boyfriend
Speaker 1: or something. And it's like what you do and it's
Speaker 1: like and it's like, and that's another thing. A lot
Speaker 1: of times for some reason, men you can only be
Speaker 1: gay or straight, like women are like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I got drunk last night. I mean I we're a
Speaker 1: bad guy, and like it was great not let a
Speaker 1: guy be like yo me and Brandon. If you're like gay,
Speaker 1: you know, it's like a whole another thing. And it's
Speaker 1: like why can't men want to be like why you
Speaker 1: can't want to dip in and do it? My only women?
Speaker 1: Because it's it's we live in a male dominant society.
Speaker 1: What do men think it's sexy to women? Fucking if
Speaker 1: it was run by women, maybe they'll be gay porn
Speaker 1: more popular than lesbian point. I don't know, because it does. Yeah, man,
Speaker 1: I can speak for that ship mostly the Hey coach.
Speaker 1: For straight women, they feel like if you like a
Speaker 1: trans woman you're getting because they take it as a
Speaker 1: personal like insult or or yeah, like an assault on
Speaker 1: their femininity. I guess you know what I'm saying, or
Speaker 1: they look at them is not being enough. So like
Speaker 1: that's where that ship comes from. And yeah, I do
Speaker 1: want to speak on that specifically. I've gone on to
Speaker 1: other podcasts and said that, Um, a lot of the
Speaker 1: issue that we have is with us, even black women,
Speaker 1: specifically to the black community and the black man. That's
Speaker 1: all I can speak for. That's all I've ever had
Speaker 1: inside of me. Um. And UM. I mean there's been
Speaker 1: there's been mixed breeds in there, but all black, um. Nonetheless.
Speaker 1: And so I will say that having these men put
Speaker 1: so much trust in me to open up the fear
Speaker 1: that so many of them have and sharing this with
Speaker 1: their wives, with their girlfriends, with the people they're dating with,
Speaker 1: the people they're having casual sex with, with their mothers,
Speaker 1: their sisters. They fear telling a woman this, and so
Speaker 1: a lot of people are confiding in me because I
Speaker 1: do come on this platform and I'm open with whoever
Speaker 1: the fun come my way. I'm trying to get to
Speaker 1: behold my god damn self. Um. And I got I
Speaker 1: bought it. It's in the closet. I don't come equipped
Speaker 1: but hello. But I say to our to our lady listeners,
Speaker 1: to our women who are dating heterosis men, bisexual men, um,
Speaker 1: fuck the labels. We as women need to start being
Speaker 1: more accepting of men with their kinks, because I think
Speaker 1: that's where we get into where now we have this
Speaker 1: hate against sex workers because my man is coming to you.
Speaker 1: We're not being accepting of what these men like. So
Speaker 1: now we have a whole d L community. We have
Speaker 1: that term because don't feel like the same way us
Speaker 1: women don't want to communicate our freaky kinks because now
Speaker 1: we're gonna be looked at as a whole or less than.
Speaker 1: We can't sit here and do the same thing to
Speaker 1: our men to where they feel like they can't open
Speaker 1: up to us because now we're judging them. Now we're
Speaker 1: going to the word exposed. That's what the fun they
Speaker 1: all say. Now we're in the fucking snap grab era
Speaker 1: and pictures and I get whole as videos what them
Speaker 1: bent over with their fingers and their booties. So the
Speaker 1: amount of trust that they have with me, Oh, it's
Speaker 1: so safe. Aska saday ask A side. Um, I sent
Speaker 1: them all over to him. Let me stop, but Maddy
Speaker 1: f smell like Booty realized stop. But I want to.
Speaker 1: I just wanted to bring kind of this ps A
Speaker 1: to our women listeners that while we're sitting here trying
Speaker 1: to take this fight for women to move forward in
Speaker 1: our whole ways, our whole phase and everything the fun
Speaker 1: in between, we need to allow these men to do
Speaker 1: the same. Yeah, they'd be sucking everything, that's the whole phase.
Speaker 1: But in terms of their kinks and what they like
Speaker 1: in bed specifically, are black men be a little bit
Speaker 1: more open to allow them to express that to you?
Speaker 1: Otherwise we ain't gonna go nowhere and we're gonna just
Speaker 1: have a whole deal community. Everything is just gonna keep
Speaker 1: being in the closet. We already have a whole deal community.
Speaker 1: It's our hair, It's already there. It's gonna keep growing.
Speaker 1: And the thing is, it's like you can't keep trying
Speaker 1: to make somebody want to keep something a secret. Like
Speaker 1: it's like, just be honest with me, Just be honest
Speaker 1: with me. If you tell me just and then I'm
Speaker 1: honest with you, and you're like, wow, out of my house?
Speaker 1: What is that? But for right, right, right, you know,
Speaker 1: not with this is my sorry for two thousand four
Speaker 1: and I'm just trying to figure out what did I
Speaker 1: do wrong? No, you're right, You're right. That's fucked up,
Speaker 1: you know, And it happens. It happens a lot. And
Speaker 1: it's like, if you want me like to accept you
Speaker 1: for your bullshit, accept me for my bulls. If you
Speaker 1: could tell me that she may not have one of
Speaker 1: your girlfriends in college, why is it bad that one
Speaker 1: of my homeboys like my dick. It's the same thing
Speaker 1: where were not, literally because kissing a second dick is
Speaker 1: very different, similar process. But I digress to I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I say it all the all the time
Speaker 1: I taught the guys. Maybe the dicks wasn't as big
Speaker 1: as I liked, but that honesty is another type of
Speaker 1: turn on. So when you finally get that truck, what
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean the dick was it wasn't a person.
Speaker 1: You just open the discussion with may but if you
Speaker 1: want to come inside. But he was nice in the
Speaker 1: motherfucker I did. I was a little mad, but okay,
Speaker 1: he was a little mad. He aroused me. He aroused
Speaker 1: me in other ways because honestly, shut the funk up.
Speaker 1: Was it his oral scales? There were other things that, yeah,
Speaker 1: but he opened those kinks to me. So yes, we
Speaker 1: were able to do other ship. Okay, So it wasn't
Speaker 1: all about me being aroused with penetration, even though I
Speaker 1: like big dicks. I was being aroused and a lot.
Speaker 1: I'm a size queen like that. I'm such a size queen.
Speaker 1: Before we get out, we're gonna go ahead and read
Speaker 1: one wholemail. This is we're gonna get off this conversation.
Speaker 1: We're gonna delve into kind of titles and another sense
Speaker 1: relationship titles. Um. And so that's the question that we
Speaker 1: have today. Hey guys, I would oh wait, no, let's
Speaker 1: not do this. This is one sex with new people.
Speaker 1: We're not gonna do that one because I want to
Speaker 1: do the relationship with y'all one moment if I can
Speaker 1: motherfucking find it. No, I can't find it. Wait, we
Speaker 1: we just talked about size queens. We're gonna go into
Speaker 1: sized queens conversation because now I can't find it, and
Speaker 1: I thought I saved it. So it says. So I
Speaker 1: began to work my way backwards from episode eighty one
Speaker 1: and now I'm at episode nine and felt compelled to
Speaker 1: chime on Mandy's comment about a waste of a good dick.
Speaker 1: This past summer, I finally decided to explore the wheezy
Speaker 1: white options and met a Jewish white guy. He was nerdy,
Speaker 1: red haired, and scrawny and reminded me of Mark Goldman
Speaker 1: from Family Guy. Oh what the fuck? Um? Although he
Speaker 1: was the absolute opposite of the type of men I'm
Speaker 1: used to, which are black and Caribbean. I decided to
Speaker 1: try this guy out because he was weak and easy
Speaker 1: to dominate him and to buy me everything, but also
Speaker 1: had a monster cock. Yes, Mandy, I know, cock ill,
Speaker 1: but that's precisely what it was. It had to be
Speaker 1: at least ten inches with amazing thickness. Anger So girl,
Speaker 1: I was excited, especially since everywhere we went he was
Speaker 1: eager to show me how rock hard it would get
Speaker 1: and how much he wanted me so now. So now
Speaker 1: he finally gets to have me, and it's half hard
Speaker 1: and he has two double handed to put it inside him.
Speaker 1: Really pissed, I didn't come, but I don't tell him
Speaker 1: that or show him my disappointment because I'm assuming it's
Speaker 1: nerves and was willing to have him try again. The
Speaker 1: second time and third time thereafter he would try again
Speaker 1: and nothing but his half heard dissatisfying mess of a
Speaker 1: monster cock of shit. On this third and last time,
Speaker 1: it got to the point I couldn't take it anymore
Speaker 1: and burst into tears and finally told him he couldn't
Speaker 1: he could just go home. Why are you crying over
Speaker 1: the dick? Literally literally crying? Why don't you want to?
Speaker 1: He couldn't explain it, so I instantly felt it was
Speaker 1: me and my self esteem went to help. We're simply
Speaker 1: friends now and don't exchange it anything but text, but
Speaker 1: can't help but feel like it was all due to
Speaker 1: his lack of attraction towards me. What do I do
Speaker 1: with this feeling? Don't cry? Love back to black? Um.
Speaker 1: I wanted to bring this up because when I write people,
Speaker 1: I did want to talk about this quickly because it
Speaker 1: actually fits something close to my friend right now. Listen, right,
Speaker 1: that's my friend right now. Is she's having casual sex,
Speaker 1: but she too is having an issue with a guys
Speaker 1: staying hard, getting hard um or coming too fast um.
Speaker 1: And these are all issues that know, they're all different.
Speaker 1: That's why I say casual pay masters. Depends they're pay
Speaker 1: masters this car. This could go either way because if
Speaker 1: they're nothing too fast, she might you know, have that right,
Speaker 1: but if they're not even able to get there, then
Speaker 1: she might have Well that's what I'm saying. So there's
Speaker 1: these are three multiple like different problems that we as
Speaker 1: women sometimes attached to ourselves in sex when there could
Speaker 1: be other issues involved. So for the for the guys
Speaker 1: that she was dealing with that couldn't stay hard in
Speaker 1: a condom, they were also married. So those guys I
Speaker 1: like to get them theF of the doubt. You just
Speaker 1: like raw pussy. So there's that issue. But then there's
Speaker 1: also the issue of a rectile dysfunction. There's the issue
Speaker 1: of the maybe he's a bottom. Well there you go
Speaker 1: to maybe he's not into that, or to me, I
Speaker 1: go back into the mental state that a lot of
Speaker 1: us don't look at darn sex. There's arousal levels. Maybe
Speaker 1: he's so nervous he can't get hard. Maybe he's so
Speaker 1: drunk he can't get up. Maybe he went into the
Speaker 1: bathroom and you didn't know this, and he sniffed a
Speaker 1: line and that ship is just a gummy bear. Maybe
Speaker 1: he's still high, you know. Maybe so she had a
Speaker 1: hole in her sick. It might even be want to
Speaker 1: nobody laying up in the vile no dirty yet first
Speaker 1: of all, don't wear white sox period. It might have
Speaker 1: been that maybe her baby Tonio wouldn't parlay started the
Speaker 1: way and maybe he just is like, you know what,
Speaker 1: you couldn't even make the effort to you know what.
Speaker 1: You know what, that's true because I had lads of
Speaker 1: the other day and I've been looking at this one
Speaker 1: patch of head that's grown back right, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: maybe a guy will not like this right. So it
Speaker 1: could be little things like things like this, but you know,
Speaker 1: I don't look at it now. But I wanted to
Speaker 1: bring that up because so many of us we put
Speaker 1: the pressure on women to please these men. So as
Speaker 1: women to sit there, like she said, she burst into tears.
Speaker 1: First off, that's funny as fu um. It is sad.
Speaker 1: But to have the mentality that he's not getting hard
Speaker 1: because I'm not doing something. Sis. Listen, I've dealt with
Speaker 1: a similar situation with two different guys, and I'm gonna
Speaker 1: break it down to you, really down. And this is
Speaker 1: my personal experience. So if I didn't cry, just for
Speaker 1: the record. Um. So there was this one guy. Um,
Speaker 1: none of the guys that I date I have anything
Speaker 1: in common really like some assure, some at tall whatever. Um.
Speaker 1: So there was this one guy that I was dating
Speaker 1: and I had a question for a long time. He
Speaker 1: was all fine, nice body. So the first time we
Speaker 1: had sex, it was great. It was you know, it
Speaker 1: was a Valentine's Day treat for him. Um, so yeah,
Speaker 1: it was. Yeah, it was great. You know, it didn't
Speaker 1: last as long as I expect. It wasn't as long
Speaker 1: as I expect that. It was just a short story
Speaker 1: all around. But um, you know, we did have We
Speaker 1: did have sex. But he was good with his tongue,
Speaker 1: so I was like, oh, this is made for it.
Speaker 1: So it made up for so the four play was amazing, right,
Speaker 1: the dick was good, stood hard the first time whatever.
Speaker 1: Then like the second and third time we had sex,
Speaker 1: I felt like it wasn't as hard or it wouldn't
Speaker 1: stay hard, and I'm like is it me? Is it
Speaker 1: the patch? Like is it me? And then I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: well it can't be me because he keeps caught like
Speaker 1: I don't. I didn't hit him up because I I
Speaker 1: didn't really have fun that much, but you know, to
Speaker 1: keep my numbers down, I said, all right, you know,
Speaker 1: welcome back to the palace. Um. So the second and
Speaker 1: third time it didn't it wasn't as as hard, it
Speaker 1: didn't stay hard whatever. So I thought it was me
Speaker 1: And it's not me. It's it's obviously him. Um So
Speaker 1: I just did you talk to him about it? No?
Speaker 1: I just stopped having sex with him because I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't have time. I mean, we are still friends. Hey, baby,
Speaker 1: if you're watching this, we're still friends. But he just
Speaker 1: he's just not for me. But also I've heard maybe
Speaker 1: he's maybe what we did sexually it's not what he likes.
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe he's versatile, Maybe he likes somebody who's more assertive. Maybe, um,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know, but um, I just
Speaker 1: was like, it can't be me, because if it was,
Speaker 1: if it was me that wasn't turning you on, you
Speaker 1: wouldn't be calling me. You know, you're still calling it
Speaker 1: like and it's not like to this day. This was
Speaker 1: like four years ago. Still you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: And it's like, okay, well, it can't be me. Obviously
Speaker 1: he dick works, but maybe maybe he's just doing drugs
Speaker 1: and something right now. Whatever. Then the other nigga that
Speaker 1: I started with, he is like everything that I could
Speaker 1: ever have dreamt of, you know, one of those six
Speaker 1: for three. Why do I like you? Pete Davidson kind
Speaker 1: of like what's wrong with you? But I love you?
Speaker 1: Kind of a thing like you look stupid, but I
Speaker 1: want you inside of me. You know? So whatever? Boy? Nonetheless,
Speaker 1: aren't they all allegedly? Um so, we we was dipping
Speaker 1: and doing it. But his thing was he would never
Speaker 1: come right, and it was like we would, but my
Speaker 1: thing was still like after like an hour or two hours,
Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, I gotta go. I'm off this
Speaker 1: like the caucus. So he like we would just be fucking.
Speaker 1: But the thing is he was a heavy drinker. So
Speaker 1: he was like drinking and drinking and smoking mad cigarettes
Speaker 1: and he just wouldn't come. Then one day I sucked
Speaker 1: his dick and it was over like two seconds. But
Speaker 1: guess what, he wasn't drunk. It was the morning after
Speaker 1: we spent the night, woke up, you know, just yes,
Speaker 1: it was like okay, I got a fat Yes. I
Speaker 1: was like at first, I thought, oh it might be
Speaker 1: maybe maybe I'm a lucy goose and I don't even
Speaker 1: realize it, you know, But I was like, you talk
Speaker 1: to me, guys. I could grip a pen right now,
Speaker 1: not a fucking pen in it right now. So with
Speaker 1: that being said, I want to bring right now we
Speaker 1: call that ship. About fifty two seconds late. You said
Speaker 1: a pen. You say, if you could grip a pen,
Speaker 1: you know thing? Can you hear me now? That a pen? Hello? Pen?
Speaker 1: Because if you can't grip, if you could grip a pen,
Speaker 1: you could grip anything. I mean, Jesus, he does your
Speaker 1: dick have to be? You know? But no, I'm just
Speaker 1: walking around. I wanted to bring this up because Dustin
Speaker 1: got a dick. So we're gonna talk about your dick
Speaker 1: a little bit. If you don't mind. You thought you
Speaker 1: was gonna get out of here, escape free. No, now
Speaker 1: we're about to talk about Dustin's dick, y'all For all
Speaker 1: of you who really came for Dustin's dick. Hey, we're
Speaker 1: at the part of the show for Instagram page Dustin's Justin's. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're gonna get one. We're gonna start one, damn. But
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk to you, um and talk about
Speaker 1: look and about the different ways that your feelings, your moods,
Speaker 1: your state of mind, all of those things. Yes, yeah, so, um,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think I only have sex when
Speaker 1: I'm in a when I'm horny and in a sexy mood.
Speaker 1: So for me, I don't have I've never been like
Speaker 1: about the funk, and my dick didn't get hard. If
Speaker 1: I was about the funk, I was excited to have sex.
Speaker 1: I think a lot of that. Some of that plays
Speaker 1: into it when people just put themselves in situations un
Speaker 1: necessarily sometimes to be so excited at the prospect that
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, you say yes to everything,
Speaker 1: but maybe you shouldn't. Sorry to be tired, ship, Sorry
Speaker 1: to you know, not tonight the motherfucker. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Sorry you have tomorrow type ship, you know,
Speaker 1: But sometimes sex wakes you up when you're tired, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So if you are tired, sometimes
Speaker 1: it's good to have sex. I think everybody knows their
Speaker 1: body and their agency, so you know, you know, when
Speaker 1: you know, all systems are gone, and that's the thing,
Speaker 1: like people know their bodies, but you have to realize
Speaker 1: they might not know it under certain drugs. They may
Speaker 1: not know it under certain alcoholic beverages. Do that stuff
Speaker 1: before you fuck, yeah, because you're drunk. You're so excited,
Speaker 1: but it's too excited, right, and then it affects other
Speaker 1: parts of the body. And the same for women. If
Speaker 1: maybe you know you're super horny, but maybe you realize
Speaker 1: you're not getting as wet as you thought you would be.
Speaker 1: I know I've judged myself like, oh, I almost really
Speaker 1: not not like this nigga, because my pussy wasn't as wet.
Speaker 1: And we had a conversation where sometimes depending on your cycle,
Speaker 1: your pussy might not get as wet, depending on your
Speaker 1: stress levels, your hormones. Like you know, I really would
Speaker 1: sometimes think if my pussy didn't get wet, maybe I
Speaker 1: really didn't like you like that. And so I want
Speaker 1: the women who think that with dicks, not Justin's dick,
Speaker 1: but the dicks that you're taking, whether in your mouth,
Speaker 1: your ass, all three holes. You know, ears matter, No,
Speaker 1: no one's sucking ears. You think that's a king, You
Speaker 1: think dicks are fair. Not you earlier said here, I
Speaker 1: ain't even gonna go up to that, but you know, no,
Speaker 1: you missed so an upcoming guys. We justoke. She was
Speaker 1: saying a lot. You're right, you're right. I'm gonna say
Speaker 1: you're right. I don't like when I'm kissing a guy
Speaker 1: and they licked my ear. I'm not feel like that.
Speaker 1: It's so gross to me. You don't like it. That's
Speaker 1: the thing. Anything you do with your mouth, Like when
Speaker 1: you're kissing somebody, you shouldn't have a lot of spit. No,
Speaker 1: that's nasty. But like licking ears that turns people along
Speaker 1: might be okay, I give you sucking dick. It should
Speaker 1: be sloppy down us to do with. Yeah, yeah, but
Speaker 1: like if you kiss them, like, I don't like people
Speaker 1: kiss somebody because I feel like you put when you
Speaker 1: put your tongue about and you hear that weird, Like
Speaker 1: it's like, oh god, what is that? I don't like?
Speaker 1: Am I gonna get an ear infection? I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't like it. I don't like it. That's not sexy
Speaker 1: to me. And but I'm also a stupid a little
Speaker 1: bit because I'm never like, you know, I don't like it.
Speaker 1: I'm kind of just like whar And I'm just like,
Speaker 1: when did I get to this point in my life?
Speaker 1: And we well, we talked about that a lot to
Speaker 1: a communication. Since if you're nigga, like getting in your
Speaker 1: ear and you don't like this, you tell him like,
Speaker 1: I don't like that ship on behalf of the Nigger Council,
Speaker 1: on behalf of the Nigger Brethren. I'm speaking for us all.
Speaker 1: Tell us if you don't like that ship that same
Speaker 1: just how vocal you are just now, Jamie Parris, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, speak on it, like, speak up,
Speaker 1: said niggas ain't playing itself, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: And because sex is supposed to be enjoyable for everybody involved.
Speaker 1: So if you don't like something, speak up. I don't
Speaker 1: like being bit. Don't be bribing my nipples and and
Speaker 1: sh like get the going. I don't like that. That hurts,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Don't do that ship Somebody
Speaker 1: trying to slap me at one time? You call a
Speaker 1: little bit. But I don't like to guess. I don't
Speaker 1: like speaking. You don't like speaking? You know, I only
Speaker 1: like it when I asked for it, Like yeah, that's
Speaker 1: the only when I like it. When I just out
Speaker 1: of nowhere, then it's like, wait, I don't think I've
Speaker 1: really like, why just just slap me? So? And now
Speaker 1: we're fighting right right, the fucking fighting, a all of
Speaker 1: it in between. Well, I hope that you guys took
Speaker 1: so much from this episode. I don't listen because it
Speaker 1: was a mouthful goddamn but I love so now you're
Speaker 1: going back to the bigger pause. Oh wait, you know
Speaker 1: what I was just thinking to hold on. Maybe his
Speaker 1: dick was so big it couldn't get fully hard. Na
Speaker 1: said he had been sporting it, showing her like when
Speaker 1: it was super hardy. I think it was. I'm wrong
Speaker 1: with her. I'm just gonna say it probably was. I
Speaker 1: could say when think now we ended with after it
Speaker 1: was her because I like guys bite their nails. That
Speaker 1: turns me off. So maybe the way she was sucking
Speaker 1: his dick, he didn't enjoy it, and he didn't vocalize it.
Speaker 1: We're going to get down to that, Like it's not
Speaker 1: make it seem like you just heard. Maybe he wasn't
Speaker 1: communicative and what wasn't turning him on? She had a
Speaker 1: big old As Family re union t shirt. What did
Speaker 1: she have on with the white sop with the whole
Speaker 1: y'all really don't like shirt. Ship. If it's a cute
Speaker 1: T shirt, it got to be acute. Fact that it's
Speaker 1: a big T shirt don't make you sexy. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: think it has. He even a guy's T shirt like
Speaker 1: your man T shirt, he might think it's sexy. But
Speaker 1: for him to just come home and it's like, oh
Speaker 1: who shirts that I just want to just be sitting around,
Speaker 1: like why are you wearing your grandmother's walk this shirt?
Speaker 1: Like that's not sex. It's all faded and ship. So
Speaker 1: when they say you got your T shirt the panties on,
Speaker 1: he wanted to be his Shores T shirt and your
Speaker 1: panties that you pick the T shirt that he left
Speaker 1: on the floor where he took it off to that
Speaker 1: still kind of smelled like that little Jean Paul Goltier,
Speaker 1: that little Arrows so that you know Paco roband stiffs
Speaker 1: like lingering on it or if if you really got money,
Speaker 1: bond number nige, you know, like aba, That's what I'm
Speaker 1: saying because Arrows is always on sale. But that is
Speaker 1: a good choice. That is a good choice, and sometimes
Speaker 1: you get the box that that comes of the free
Speaker 1: water ladies. You free game, right, free game, You're welcome
Speaker 1: talk to me nice. That's why we started charging ship.
Speaker 1: This needs to be charged. You good bit, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: need you come back. I'm a frugal bitch. Well, before
Speaker 1: we go ahead and sign out again, I appreciate both
Speaker 1: the offer coming on having this conversation. Hope you guys
Speaker 1: enjoyed this episode. Where can our listeners find the two
Speaker 1: of you? We're gonna start once again, ladies. First, well,
Speaker 1: you could find me on Instagram and Snapchat. Is Jamie
Speaker 1: Paris spell j A E M y Paris p A
Speaker 1: r s. If you don't know how that swell Paris
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