WEBVTT - Ep87: Trans Women, Queerness, and Erections Feat Dustin Ross and Jaemy Paris 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:04.040 Hi, This is Wheezy, and I'm sad because I didn't 0:00:04.040 --> 0:00:07.680 get to make it to the recording today. But I 0:00:07.760 --> 0:00:09.920 have a message for you guys, okay, because who would 0:00:09.960 --> 0:00:12.400 I be if I didn't use my platform for something 0:00:12.400 --> 0:00:14.640 other than my pussy. So we have a lot of 0:00:14.640 --> 0:00:17.239 listeners in Texas and Florida and Georgia. And why is 0:00:17.239 --> 0:00:19.680 it important? Because we have one more fucking day to 0:00:19.800 --> 0:00:21.960 exercise our right to vote in this midterm election. This 0:00:22.040 --> 0:00:24.320 is gonna be the first midterm election I've ever voted in, 0:00:24.520 --> 0:00:26.400 and we all know how important this is. All right, 0:00:26.560 --> 0:00:31.040 So Texas, butte Rourke, he's running against Ted Cruise for Senate. 0:00:31.120 --> 0:00:33.960 Check him out, Stacy Abrahams. And Georgia would be the 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:37.240 first woman governor, black woman governor, excuse me? All right? 0:00:37.479 --> 0:00:39.879 And we know what black girl magic does? We need her. 0:00:40.159 --> 0:00:42.320 And the last, but not least, Andrew Gillum. You've probably 0:00:42.360 --> 0:00:45.040 heard his name. He's been super popular all over the news. 0:00:45.120 --> 0:00:47.519 But something amazing about Andrew. He's going to try to 0:00:47.560 --> 0:00:51.720 reappeal that standard ground law which got George Zimmerman off 0:00:51.720 --> 0:00:54.240 in the Tray Von Martin case. So important to a 0:00:54.240 --> 0:00:55.840 lot of us. So I want you guys to go 0:00:55.920 --> 0:00:59.920 and vote and other than that, This Sunday coming up 0:01:00.160 --> 0:01:03.480 stage in sex Study Hall with Amelia or Tease either real. 0:01:03.560 --> 0:01:05.760 I'm so excited. It's gonna be super intimate. We have 0:01:05.800 --> 0:01:08.479 like ten or fifteen tickets left. Um. I can't wait 0:01:08.480 --> 0:01:10.440 to meet you, guys. There's gonna be me and Greed after. 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:12.920 But for the duration of our class, no phones or 0:01:13.000 --> 0:01:17.000 you get a spanking. Miami Zozo talk on eleven seventeen, 0:01:17.040 --> 0:01:21.600 I'll see you soon and Atlanta December eight, I'll see 0:01:21.640 --> 0:01:23.440 y'all too. Thank you New York for selling us out. 0:01:23.440 --> 0:01:25.640 We had an amazing time with you. For tickets, go 0:01:25.720 --> 0:01:28.160 check out the link in my bio at Wheezy w TF. 0:01:28.400 --> 0:01:34.200 Enjoyed this week's episode, I'm sure it's gonna be amazing. Hi, guys, 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:38.360 welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions. This is your girl, 0:01:38.400 --> 0:01:40.920 Mandy b a k A full corpos ak a man 0:01:41.000 --> 0:01:46.160 dizzle niz that bitch ak the Booty bandit aka the 0:01:46.200 --> 0:01:49.760 Booty Warrior. Um. I am here in the flesh with 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:53.800 some beautiful motherfucking guests. Um Again. As y'all know, we've 0:01:53.800 --> 0:01:56.880 had just some conflicting schedules lately, but y'all gonna get 0:01:56.920 --> 0:02:00.920 this next month to um solo episodes with myself and 0:02:01.040 --> 0:02:04.240 two solo episodes with Wheezy with some super super super 0:02:04.280 --> 0:02:06.600 dope guests. I guess we can go ahead and have 0:02:06.640 --> 0:02:11.560 our guests introduced themselves today. UM, we'll start ladies first, 0:02:11.800 --> 0:02:13.880 So let's go ahead and let the listeners know who 0:02:13.880 --> 0:02:16.720 you are. Well, I'm Jamie Paris. What's that bit? Just 0:02:21.080 --> 0:02:23.840 and that about sums it up. So there you I 0:02:23.840 --> 0:02:30.120 don't have the ak okay Jamie or Paris or j J. 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:34.720 You know that's it. And she is sitting next to 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:43.280 the lovely go ahead? Is Dustin? You know that's really 0:02:43.320 --> 0:02:47.000 It's not Harris, It just kind of is what it is. 0:02:47.080 --> 0:02:48.880 You know what I'm saying. I'm so excited to have 0:02:49.000 --> 0:02:51.480 both of you as my guest today. That is Dustin 0:02:51.520 --> 0:02:53.280 from the Friends. Don't fuck you you want to be 0:02:53.360 --> 0:02:57.440 humbling ship stop that, Um, but I'm excited to have you. 0:02:57.480 --> 0:03:00.240 Got you on. If you guys were in Atlanta, Anna, 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:03.400 you may have met Dustin and I at the Black 0:03:03.440 --> 0:03:08.200 East Atlanta love Letter promo run at Georgia State University. UM, 0:03:08.240 --> 0:03:11.239 I'm now with you. UM I wanna again shout out 0:03:11.240 --> 0:03:14.240 everyone who was there. You met quite a bit of people. Um. 0:03:14.240 --> 0:03:17.440 A lot of people love your jokes. While everyone covered 0:03:17.480 --> 0:03:19.839 their ears when I spoke because I was saying some ship. 0:03:20.360 --> 0:03:22.200 You know, they wanted too. They probably not looking at 0:03:22.200 --> 0:03:25.520 as yet. Um. But we had a great conversation about love, 0:03:25.560 --> 0:03:28.640 sex and relationship alongside Black. If you haven't yet, please 0:03:28.639 --> 0:03:31.480 pick up his album. It is amazing as well as 0:03:31.520 --> 0:03:35.480 he is a fucking amazing And so we're gonna go 0:03:35.480 --> 0:03:38.560 ahead and start off this show. Um. And I like 0:03:38.720 --> 0:03:41.080 to you know, kind of education, sean kind of open 0:03:41.160 --> 0:03:45.480 up conversation. I always like starting the conversation, um. And 0:03:45.560 --> 0:03:48.920 so the Vanilla Ship for this episode, I wanted to 0:03:49.000 --> 0:03:54.040 speak on Kaylani, who I love and who just announced 0:03:54.040 --> 0:03:57.600 her pregnancy and I'm so happy because I absolutely love 0:03:57.640 --> 0:04:01.440 her music. UM. And what's crazy is it was a 0:04:01.480 --> 0:04:05.480 normal fucking I'm pregnant picture and it started this whole 0:04:05.560 --> 0:04:09.160 last conversation around who the father is. Y'all know she 0:04:09.240 --> 0:04:12.560 dated with you know, Kyrie Irving, and although I was 0:04:12.600 --> 0:04:14.760 hoping he was the father because I think he's a 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:18.680 beautiful black man, Um, she actually ended up getting pregnant 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:21.680 with one of her best friends. This may not seem 0:04:21.760 --> 0:04:27.000 like she did. She is pregnant. They didn't end up. 0:04:27.400 --> 0:04:35.040 They actually, you know, so this seems very normal. Y'all 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:37.159 are like, so what the fun? She pregnant? Who cares? 0:04:37.160 --> 0:04:39.680 It's the best friend is nothing serious. But the conversation 0:04:39.760 --> 0:04:42.320 surrounding it is that she recently came out as a 0:04:42.400 --> 0:04:45.720 queer woman, and so they were like, wait, queers can 0:04:45.760 --> 0:04:48.799 have children, and wait is a queer lesbian? And wait? 0:04:49.160 --> 0:04:53.000 Then it also came out that her best friend, her partner, 0:04:53.240 --> 0:04:58.200 her baby daddy um is also queer slash possibly bisexual. 0:04:59.200 --> 0:05:04.320 So now the converse possibly bisexual alleged. Right, I don't 0:05:04.320 --> 0:05:06.200 want to, you know, just put a title on him. 0:05:06.600 --> 0:05:10.520 But this conversation came about because me and my friends 0:05:10.560 --> 0:05:14.400 were talking like, wait, so bisexual dudes still have sex 0:05:14.400 --> 0:05:17.560 with women and still can produce babies. And then you 0:05:17.600 --> 0:05:20.080 have a woman identifying as queer, and they're like, wait, 0:05:20.160 --> 0:05:25.440 queers can get pregnant? People just stupid people stupid like 0:05:26.000 --> 0:05:28.560 you don't stop reproducing because you have sex with the 0:05:28.600 --> 0:05:34.280 same Hello, Hello, Hello, which one I don't know? And 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:37.320 so I wanted to have this question, this you know, conversation, 0:05:37.320 --> 0:05:39.719 because I'm not gonna lie I was one of those 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:43.720 that I know of the lgbt Q. I know Q 0:05:44.000 --> 0:05:46.000 is queer, but then it's like, what is queer? Because 0:05:46.000 --> 0:05:49.960 I thought I was questioning. Really, that's why I until 0:05:50.120 --> 0:05:54.760 five seconds ago. Really I thought it was like, let's gay. 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:59.320 What is the else? Lesbian, leian, gay, bisexual? Trender and 0:05:59.720 --> 0:06:03.839 question shinning. Well that's a that's a newer definition. Initially 0:06:03.839 --> 0:06:06.400 when the queue was added, their did represent queer, and 0:06:06.440 --> 0:06:11.360 now it is questioning, really, question, so I want to say. 0:06:11.440 --> 0:06:14.520 She went on to Twitter to respond and said, imagine 0:06:14.560 --> 0:06:18.440 thinking queer means lesbian and either means unable to have babies. 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:21.599 In April, the singer opened up about her sexuality on Twitter. 0:06:21.920 --> 0:06:24.680 Because I keep getting asked I'm queer, she began in 0:06:24.720 --> 0:06:28.440 a series of tweets, not by not straight, I'm attracted 0:06:28.480 --> 0:06:32.880 to women, men, really attracted to queer men, non binary people, 0:06:33.000 --> 0:06:37.440 intersects people, trans people, little polypan sexual poppy, Hello, good morning. 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:41.840 Does that answer your question? And when I was reading 0:06:42.640 --> 0:06:45.839 her being queer and seeing all the things she was saying, 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:50.760 I do identify as bisexual, but I have questions recently 0:06:50.800 --> 0:06:52.719 because I know I wouldn't be in a relationship with 0:06:52.760 --> 0:06:54.680 a woman. I just be wanting to fun, that's it, 0:06:55.040 --> 0:06:56.599 And I think they'be no one that's not to me, Like, no, 0:06:56.839 --> 0:06:58.400 I'm wanted to go to the movies. I wich, I 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:00.000 don't want to take you to the movies. I don't 0:07:00.000 --> 0:07:02.400 want to date you. I just want to funk. And 0:07:02.440 --> 0:07:05.520 so I've been questioning, am I really? Bo? Jamie is 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:10.760 like who are you? But when I read that, I 0:07:10.800 --> 0:07:15.240 was like, am I queer? Am I to where? Okay? 0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:18.360 Because I'm now accepting that queer to me made it 0:07:18.360 --> 0:07:21.720 seem like she accepted her partners also being as openly 0:07:21.760 --> 0:07:25.720 fluid as herself. I don't know, do you? How would 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:28.800 you guys do the questioning or the queer, Like how 0:07:28.840 --> 0:07:32.720 do you identify those? Like those people? I not just 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:35.000 ask them what they want to be called. I guess 0:07:35.000 --> 0:07:37.360 it's a title thing. Huh are you asking what does 0:07:37.440 --> 0:07:40.160 queer means? Yeah? Like I guess everything she said to 0:07:40.200 --> 0:07:43.200 the sense or where is anything that's not like heterosexual 0:07:43.480 --> 0:07:46.800 or sister gender? Right? So it's like it's like that 0:07:46.880 --> 0:07:55.440 it's it's an overall term and that is what all 0:07:55.440 --> 0:08:01.440 the way he means just with a C means that 0:08:01.640 --> 0:08:04.560 you are the gender you are assigned, you identify as 0:08:04.600 --> 0:08:06.720 the gender you are assigned as birth. So if you 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:10.200 are born a woman, you identify as a woman. Oh 0:08:10.240 --> 0:08:12.840 that's it, that's just the opposite. Talking so much about 0:08:12.840 --> 0:08:16.760 hetero assistsment on on Twitter, then people are stupid because 0:08:16.760 --> 0:08:27.480 they are make sense ignorant. Part of y'all don't understand 0:08:27.520 --> 0:08:31.920 anything else. Well, I'm not gonna say that. You want 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:35.360 to make sure the same thing that you would apply 0:08:35.960 --> 0:08:39.000 to conversations you would have with your home girls about niggas. 0:08:39.440 --> 0:08:41.320 That's a lot of the same talk you see about 0:08:41.400 --> 0:08:45.600 quote unquote hetero assist. Man, you know what I'm saying. Okay, yeah, 0:08:45.800 --> 0:08:50.680 you breaking it's just like the websters. Yeah. He came 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:53.480 over the table ever so gently. Yeah, you know you 0:08:53.559 --> 0:08:55.720 got you got to get you and your point of 0:08:56.000 --> 0:08:59.280 you know, goddamn Okay, all right, trying to tell you 0:08:59.320 --> 0:09:01.959 we're gonna learn on blood and ass outfits. So I 0:09:02.760 --> 0:09:04.920 didn't even realize what it was gonna be like on camera, 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:09.600 I'm wearing yellow. I don't even know what this means. 0:09:09.880 --> 0:09:15.280 Waits just look, I just like yellow. I don't I'm 0:09:15.320 --> 0:09:17.880 just cheese today. So we are going to get now 0:09:18.720 --> 0:09:22.920 into our kink of the week. This is one where 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:25.880 if you've come to our live shows, this is one 0:09:25.920 --> 0:09:28.319 that was really hard to say. So it's probably I'm 0:09:28.320 --> 0:09:33.480 not probably saying it right, So just um, but it's 0:09:33.679 --> 0:09:40.520 gonemum arnemum, tophilia. You say it because I just want 0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:42.439 you all to know. I never know how to read 0:09:43.240 --> 0:09:53.360 um this top word. Please read it for the listeners, please. Okay, 0:09:53.440 --> 0:09:58.959 so hold on, have hesitation because your motherfucker's ain't gonna 0:09:58.960 --> 0:10:08.040 get me. So on one second, try it. Guy named 0:10:08.080 --> 0:10:12.400 a metaphilia. Oh look, not the slamdown of the phone 0:10:12.440 --> 0:10:16.840 that you can't say to you know, metaphilia. Oh I 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:26.920 said it, like aphila. Metaphilia, God damn man, metaphilia. Yeah, 0:10:27.080 --> 0:10:31.680 you turned into a round. Okay, look it kind of 0:10:31.720 --> 0:10:38.839 sounds like gynecologists. There you go to maybe, no, no, 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:44.160 it wasn't. So this actually refers to a sexual preference 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:49.400 for male assigned people who look like, act like or 0:10:49.520 --> 0:10:54.560 our women, including cross dressed men and trans women. Don't 0:10:54.559 --> 0:11:01.440 point at me. Yeah, right. So I wanted to bring 0:11:01.480 --> 0:11:06.000 this in because it deals with the heterosis attraction to 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:14.200 transgender women. Furthermore, got guyna me metophilia. Okay, So I 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:17.000 wanted to bring this up because furthermore into reading it, 0:11:17.000 --> 0:11:19.320 it says that there are a sis people whose primary 0:11:19.360 --> 0:11:23.239 sexual attraction is to trans people. I've seen this described 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:27.240 as trans oriented or trans attracted, and many such people 0:11:27.320 --> 0:11:33.160 self identify as trans admirers. Unfortunately, a great many admirers 0:11:33.200 --> 0:11:40.640 demonstrate misogyny and trans transmisogyny when these badly behaved admirers 0:11:40.720 --> 0:11:46.000 actively seek out trans partners and conflict their disrespectful nonsense 0:11:46.120 --> 0:11:48.280 on us all and then it goes in so they're 0:11:48.320 --> 0:11:53.680 called chasers essentially. So I brought this up because, Um, 0:11:53.679 --> 0:11:57.040 this specific kink is something in which I feel like 0:11:57.120 --> 0:12:01.760 I'm dealing with, um, certain hetero CIS men who identifies 0:12:01.800 --> 0:12:04.760 hetero cis in my phone, but have this attraction to 0:12:05.320 --> 0:12:08.880 trans women and they're not open or even accepting of it. 0:12:09.160 --> 0:12:13.520 This is a kink. You are normal. Trans people are normal. 0:12:13.679 --> 0:12:16.040 So here's where we get into kind of this. I 0:12:16.080 --> 0:12:18.080 wanted to speak on this because if you guys have 0:12:18.160 --> 0:12:20.520 not noticed, if you're watching on YouTube, Jamie is beautiful 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:23.760 first off, beautiful as fun and she is in a 0:12:23.760 --> 0:12:26.040 little sweaty. Does anybody have a napp? Bitch? Because you're 0:12:26.080 --> 0:12:28.160 dressed like you got the rocket walk wrong because it 0:12:28.480 --> 0:12:31.839 was it was I don't want to. I don't want 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:35.160 to have to. The tador touts out, hello, we can. 0:12:37.960 --> 0:12:41.600 We got a water bottom gets some water for you, 0:12:41.880 --> 0:12:44.320 and we get some napkins for you because I'm a 0:12:44.320 --> 0:12:49.160 little greasy bit. Yes, but our lovely Jamie Paris is 0:12:49.200 --> 0:12:54.160 a trans woman, a beautiful one who openly identifies. Is 0:12:54.240 --> 0:12:57.440 this so like um, if you guys listen to the 0:12:57.679 --> 0:13:02.720 trans man episode, he was not as fully open as 0:13:02.760 --> 0:13:06.000 to who he was when he first met people. He 0:13:06.040 --> 0:13:09.960 was very private about this. Love. We had a trans 0:13:10.000 --> 0:13:13.320 man on the on our show before um, and so 0:13:13.360 --> 0:13:16.200 we had that conversation. And I wanted to bring this 0:13:16.320 --> 0:13:21.960 up again because of the uncomfortablelity that these heterossessment have 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:26.960 admitting this and then seeing the excitement when literally I'm 0:13:27.000 --> 0:13:31.480 open to it, high the excitement of of that. So 0:13:31.520 --> 0:13:33.680 I wanted to talk to you. I went to Fairy 0:13:33.679 --> 0:13:36.079 Tales looking for you. Oh my god, really you weren't there. 0:13:36.600 --> 0:13:39.880 I'm always late, but I took an ex who is 0:13:39.920 --> 0:13:42.080 one of these guys I'm talking about, just to show 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:44.200 him how comfortable I was. And I had been following you, 0:13:44.240 --> 0:13:46.320 so I was like asking for Jamie. Then bitch was like, 0:13:46.320 --> 0:13:48.040 she ain't here yet, so I was like, okay, she's 0:13:48.040 --> 0:13:51.960 never coming, um, But they said that that's the clients 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:54.640 hele in there often. So I wanted to maybe have 0:13:54.800 --> 0:13:58.679 you speak on your feelings when men open up to you, 0:13:58.720 --> 0:14:01.040 about this being a key for them and not that 0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:04.360 they're actually open with themselves, that this is what they like. 0:14:05.160 --> 0:14:10.040 Just charge them all like that's it, that's it. I mean, 0:14:12.600 --> 0:14:16.920 guys usually they kind of just tell you and they 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:18.520 I mean, first of all, I work at a club. 0:14:18.559 --> 0:14:22.400 I hosted a transparting, right, so they don't have to 0:14:22.440 --> 0:14:24.320 tell me what they're into. I know where you're here, 0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:26.720 you know what I mean, you're in the library. Are 0:14:26.720 --> 0:14:30.320 you looking for a movie? So here we are, we're 0:14:30.320 --> 0:14:33.200 the books. So like, I kind of get it. But 0:14:33.280 --> 0:14:35.400 a lot of times guys do come in with their girlfriends. 0:14:35.720 --> 0:14:38.680 Just usually the guy who brings the girl. I brought 0:14:38.800 --> 0:14:41.960 him to open him up, So that's that's different. But 0:14:42.320 --> 0:14:45.520 I feel like whatever, like you know how the homegirl 0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:47.640 is just talking about Peggy and stuff. It's kind of 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:49.200 like that. But you know, we don't have to bring 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:52.880 the toy. I'm just I had to buy mine. I 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:54.960 had to ask him like, well, is this isn't okay? Well, 0:14:55.000 --> 0:14:57.240 I guess you can't say is this bigger? Small enough 0:14:57.240 --> 0:14:58.680 for you? It is what it is, what you're coming with. 0:14:59.120 --> 0:15:01.560 He got to get outside. Yeah, yeah, that's pick it out. 0:15:01.720 --> 0:15:04.120 So that was exciting for me. You know, I didn't 0:15:04.120 --> 0:15:06.240 just get to But now I feel like my dick big. 0:15:06.560 --> 0:15:08.440 So when I talk about my dick in my closet, 0:15:08.520 --> 0:15:10.960 just know it's a big one. It's large. Um, so 0:15:12.360 --> 0:15:15.600 you meet me now. But speaking of strap on, o't 0:15:15.640 --> 0:15:18.320 my way here? You know? Who try to cut me 0:15:18.360 --> 0:15:21.960 off on the highway? Young ma, young man bitch. I 0:15:22.000 --> 0:15:23.840 just saw her the Halloween party and I told all 0:15:23.840 --> 0:15:26.480 that she was on the same outfit swea to god 0:15:26.560 --> 0:15:30.360 she had on the same outfit up and I was like, oh, ship, 0:15:30.600 --> 0:15:32.400 I thought she was. And I was nervous because she 0:15:32.480 --> 0:15:35.240 in a popping studio, y'all. I was. I was nervous, 0:15:35.280 --> 0:15:36.920 and I'm like, is she gonna pull out the strap? 0:15:36.920 --> 0:15:38.960 And then I told about which one? You know, so 0:15:39.000 --> 0:15:41.040 I didn't really know how to feel. But I was 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:42.920 just like, oh, this is kind of cool. Like I'm late, 0:15:42.960 --> 0:15:44.840 but I have a story to tell, you know, And 0:15:45.000 --> 0:15:47.080 I'll tell you that's awesome. Young and may got a 0:15:47.080 --> 0:15:49.640 big strap. I feel that she better. She can dress 0:15:49.680 --> 0:15:53.200 her ass off, because this is like really seriously, this 0:15:53.240 --> 0:15:55.800 is like the fourth time that we had a bit 0:15:55.880 --> 0:16:00.320 stow my little moment, and so that is like just 0:16:00.520 --> 0:16:08.960 fashion goals and you're so happy, so so happy. Oh 0:16:10.840 --> 0:16:13.800 so the girlfriends normally approach you. I guess I'll ask 0:16:13.880 --> 0:16:16.479 this before we get into just even a deeper conversation. 0:16:16.680 --> 0:16:20.600 Are you into men and women or men specifically? I'm yeah, 0:16:21.040 --> 0:16:23.120 I'm more into guys, like I feel like girls and 0:16:23.200 --> 0:16:25.200 more just like, you know, we could make god for 0:16:25.280 --> 0:16:26.800 each other up, but I don't want to take it 0:16:26.840 --> 0:16:31.440 to the movies. No, like you're kind of not you specifically, 0:16:31.480 --> 0:16:33.120 but like a girl. I guess we call me to 0:16:33.200 --> 0:16:37.320 because you know whatever, girl. But no, no, no, no, no, 0:16:37.440 --> 0:16:41.600 already saw An, I'm thank you. Um. But yeah, like, um, 0:16:41.640 --> 0:16:45.080 I just feel like the girls. I don't know, I 0:16:45.120 --> 0:16:48.200 don't know. So you're just watching the girls. So when 0:16:48.200 --> 0:16:50.680 they're in the club and they're coming to you, it's 0:16:50.720 --> 0:16:54.040 mostly for the guy though. Yeah, they're usually kind of like, well, 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:56.720 my boyfriends into this or whatever, and it's like, well, 0:16:57.000 --> 0:17:00.280 all right, like do you want to lap dance? So whatever, 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:02.880 Like there's of course girls they're you know, debble and 0:17:03.000 --> 0:17:11.680 dabble and well area area, so yeah, but they're usually 0:17:11.720 --> 0:17:15.240 like kind of just I guess the girls are just 0:17:15.280 --> 0:17:17.360 so interested in it because they're trying to figure out 0:17:17.440 --> 0:17:20.679 what the guy's position. And it's crazy because then that 0:17:20.760 --> 0:17:24.480 leads to the conversation, now you know, why are they Yeah, yeah, 0:17:24.560 --> 0:17:26.680 and it's kind of like I guess because they right, 0:17:26.760 --> 0:17:30.000 I don't listen, it's an open look. Dustin was like, 0:17:30.080 --> 0:17:32.560 y'all not gonna listen, not even I just think it's 0:17:32.560 --> 0:17:39.960 so dumb, because what the fun never mind, go ahead, like, Okay, 0:17:39.960 --> 0:17:43.320 people are attracted. There's men that are attracted to trans women. 0:17:43.359 --> 0:17:45.440 That's just what the funk it is. That's what they're 0:17:45.480 --> 0:17:48.680 attracted to. You know what I'm saying. There's there's trans women. 0:17:48.720 --> 0:17:50.399 You just sit here and said that you would you know, 0:17:50.480 --> 0:17:52.560 you find some women attractive, you know what I'm saying. 0:17:52.720 --> 0:17:54.239 It's just what the funk it is. And it's just 0:17:54.280 --> 0:17:57.159 so frustrating to me that it leads to a bigger 0:17:57.200 --> 0:18:07.760 conversation because it's bigger, right, a bigger conversation, like what 0:18:07.800 --> 0:18:09.840 the funk. If the nigga was gay, he would tell you, baby, 0:18:09.880 --> 0:18:14.200 I want to guy the conversation and not even gay 0:18:14.240 --> 0:18:18.000 bisexual because he's still sucking you. So there goes the time. 0:18:18.040 --> 0:18:21.560 It just comes with like the whole being trans and 0:18:21.680 --> 0:18:23.840 thinking about the genitals, and they're like, well, if this 0:18:23.920 --> 0:18:25.879 is what they were born with, then it becomes them. 0:18:25.880 --> 0:18:27.520 But it's like, well, what do you call somebody that 0:18:27.560 --> 0:18:30.520 likes hermaphrodite? It's like, is that the same thing? Where 0:18:30.600 --> 0:18:33.800 we haven't even used on the show, they still say hermaphrodite? 0:18:34.400 --> 0:18:38.119 Am I going to get s? Yeah? Allegedly? I'm sorry. 0:18:38.119 --> 0:18:40.440 What is a hermaphrodite when you have a penis and 0:18:40.480 --> 0:18:43.159 a vagina or something that looks like both at the 0:18:43.200 --> 0:18:45.960 same time, so like the literal total package. Yeah, you 0:18:46.040 --> 0:18:49.919 got both so you could have a baby. And no, 0:18:50.119 --> 0:18:54.960 that's the thing. A lot of hermaphrodites are sterile because 0:18:55.000 --> 0:18:58.919 they have both right, so they're like they have the 0:18:58.960 --> 0:19:02.439 physical deformities, whereas trans people it's our brain, so like 0:19:02.520 --> 0:19:06.600 intersex or hermaphrodites, they have like maybe an extended clearterists 0:19:06.640 --> 0:19:09.360 and like external ovaries, but not really like a full 0:19:09.400 --> 0:19:11.719 form penis. Maybe they still could be penetrated, maybe they 0:19:11.720 --> 0:19:14.360 can't be penetrated, but it's like it's a physical deformity. 0:19:14.800 --> 0:19:17.720 But that for you know, that's easy to understan for 0:19:17.720 --> 0:19:19.600 people to understand, because it's like you see someone in 0:19:19.600 --> 0:19:21.840 a wheelchair, you know, the disabled. When you hear the 0:19:21.840 --> 0:19:23.679 conversation of trans people to what do you mean your 0:19:23.720 --> 0:19:26.639 brain doesn't match your body? So well, look at this 0:19:26.680 --> 0:19:29.560 penis and vagina hybrid. It's like that's but in here, 0:19:29.960 --> 0:19:32.480 you know, And that's just what it that's just what 0:19:32.560 --> 0:19:33.919 it comes down. So but it's like, what do you 0:19:34.440 --> 0:19:36.520 why do you? Why do you have to have like 0:19:36.520 --> 0:19:40.159 a name for what you like? Like women just straight, 0:19:40.400 --> 0:19:42.520 if you're like the same sex, you're gay? Why does 0:19:42.560 --> 0:19:44.360 it have to be all these like extra all these 0:19:44.480 --> 0:19:49.400 names and identifying chase or ship? That's the ship I'm 0:19:49.440 --> 0:19:52.159 talking about. And that's why people that's why it's so 0:19:52.240 --> 0:19:55.600 problematic and something that people decide to be secretive about 0:19:55.760 --> 0:19:58.720 or you know, be careful with the information because people 0:19:58.720 --> 0:20:00.680 respond to it a certain way. Is kind of sucked 0:20:00.760 --> 0:20:03.359 up of course, you know, you almost vilify a person 0:20:03.440 --> 0:20:06.359 for having a physical attraction, because that's really what it is. 0:20:06.400 --> 0:20:08.919 It's a physical attraction, you know what I'm saying, just 0:20:08.960 --> 0:20:11.840 like you have a physical attraction to anybody, right, So 0:20:11.920 --> 0:20:17.399 I just it's just frustrating. I think it's frustrating. But 0:20:17.680 --> 0:20:21.320 even this whole idea, maybe not in public right now. Maybe, 0:20:22.600 --> 0:20:26.360 I mean thing, somebody just got arrested for jerking off 0:20:26.400 --> 0:20:28.480 on somebody in the train, So maybe not. Yeah, maybe 0:20:29.280 --> 0:20:38.240 in public, especially not on the MT. 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You're very opinionated. 0:23:05.960 --> 0:23:09.760 You were featured on Viceland. Oh no, you weren't on Viceland. 0:23:09.960 --> 0:23:14.120 Well you posted something from Vice. It was your friend 0:23:14.160 --> 0:23:17.160 shout out up real quick, my friend that I don't 0:23:17.160 --> 0:23:23.239 know your name. Hold on, that's fine. There you go there, 0:23:23.320 --> 0:23:25.960 you know Instagram friend, we all got those, we all 0:23:25.960 --> 0:23:30.560 got those. Well on her page. There was just everything 0:23:30.680 --> 0:23:34.000