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Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions. This is your girl,

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Speaker 1: was there was like, oh, I know what my favorite

420
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 1: color is? I know, like whatever, I know that I'm

421
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 1: a girl. So there was never like a question. It

422
00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:35,639
Speaker 1: was more so a conflict with like me feeling how

423
00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:37,280
Speaker 1: I felt, and people telling me, oh no, you you're

424
00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:39,840
Speaker 1: supposed to like trucks. You're not supposed to like barbies.

425
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:42,199
Speaker 1: Oh no, you can't wear So it was like, but

426
00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 1: this is what I feel like, you know. So once

427
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,879
Speaker 1: I was like fourteen, what happened was I used to

428
00:24:47,880 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 1: buy my hormones on the internet and like me, you

429
00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:58,280
Speaker 1: were still on me. I was born. I had to

430
00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,800
Speaker 1: dialogue hormone but my mother, my mother was not at work,

431
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 1: so when I was on the computer, I wasn't worried

432
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 1: about how trying to use the phone, so it worked

433
00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:07,439
Speaker 1: out for me. So everything worked out. And she had

434
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,239
Speaker 1: the little sprint silver flip phone. How that ship how

435
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,399
Speaker 1: we all had to flip So, um, I had like

436
00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of hormones and she found them. She

437
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 1: called my doctor and um, they basically told, like, you know,

438
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:22,480
Speaker 1: if she doesn't monitor these things, that could cause cancer

439
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,240
Speaker 1: or something. So yogur calls cancer. By the way, you'll

440
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:30,440
Speaker 1: play yoga her day. It's I'm just gross. It's milk.

441
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 1: So like how if you eat it, maybe you got

442
00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:43,120
Speaker 1: what you deserves. It's like like y yo play Dannon ill.

443
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 1: Even lactate is gross. The lactose doesn't want to it's

444
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 1: the milk itself crushed up some almonds at some water

445
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 1: called today. So by the time you could start being

446
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,879
Speaker 1: like mommy, daddy, no, I don't want this during school

447
00:25:55,880 --> 00:26:01,080
Speaker 1: clothes shopping. I want a dress, my life, my whole life. Um, everybody,

448
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 1: you know when you were in you're very feminine. Growing up,

449
00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 1: people automatically he's going to grow to be gay or whatever.

450
00:26:05,520 --> 00:26:07,640
Speaker 1: And I never felt like I was gay because I

451
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 1: was I'm a woman who likes men. So that was

452
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:12,840
Speaker 1: just like you don't know we're talking about. But you know,

453
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 1: once I was fourteen, Um, I discovered the incident. I

454
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:20,160
Speaker 1: discovered green Dot prepaid credit cards, and I was able

455
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 1: to green yeah, because I was able to just put

456
00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: money on it myself and I didn't have to go

457
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 1: to my mom. So whatever. So she found my my

458
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 1: statue of hormones, called the doctor. Doctor advised her to

459
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 1: get me to endo chronologists. And so she's the one

460
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 1: who like forced me to go to doctors to make

461
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 1: sure I was doing it the right way. And she

462
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 1: was like every well you want to be a girl out.

463
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 1: So we're gonna take all your boy clothes and we're

464
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 1: gonna play some of a girl clothes because you're not

465
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:44,960
Speaker 1: gonna borrow my stuff. So I was like, okay, she was,

466
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 1: so you didn't have the issue of her not I

467
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 1: didn't have that, Like I don't have that traditional dad

468
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 1: like my family, my friends. I was homeless, like that

469
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:58,880
Speaker 1: was that's not my story. I feel bad if that happens,

470
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:01,679
Speaker 1: but I was fortunate enough that that didn't happen to me.

471
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,159
Speaker 1: Um and I I think it's because I had a

472
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:06,639
Speaker 1: gay uncle, UM growing up, and he passed away when

473
00:27:06,680 --> 00:27:10,680
Speaker 1: I was in fourth grade. Um, and everybody loved him.

474
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:13,320
Speaker 1: So I guess they didn't want to be like hypocrites

475
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:14,919
Speaker 1: and we're like not accepting of me when they were

476
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 1: accepting of him. So I feel like that's kind of

477
00:27:17,520 --> 00:27:18,919
Speaker 1: where it came from. And it's like a lot of

478
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 1: lesbians and my family, like both my cousins a game

479
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:28,320
Speaker 1: actually like your family very open your ethnicity, Okay, okay,

480
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:32,359
Speaker 1: but I'm racially ambiguous. There was I could play again.

481
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 1: I could be black. You give me the right wig

482
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 1: and the lighting. Maybe I could be white. I don't know.

483
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:44,639
Speaker 1: I don't know. No, bro, I'm not I'm not doing it.

484
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:48,639
Speaker 1: I am not at the age. So you're now wearing

485
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:54,240
Speaker 1: women's clothes. Well done, Well fourteen, Well we're not going

486
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:57,960
Speaker 1: We're going back to fourteen. Now you're getting into now

487
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:02,680
Speaker 1: what high school? At this point, they're probably the most

488
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 1: high schoolers are the most not like we just really

489
00:28:05,920 --> 00:28:09,480
Speaker 1: think we know everything and don't know ship. So what

490
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 1: was high school? High school for you? First of all,

491
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:15,439
Speaker 1: everybody loves me because I'm an amazing person. I can

492
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: already say like everybody ever yea, everybody gets that I'm

493
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 1: already sweat and because what um, so, everybody like gravitates

494
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,480
Speaker 1: towards me. I'm funny, I'm obnoxious, and you know, I

495
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 1: make you want to be my friend. So I never

496
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 1: had any bad experiences in school because, like people would

497
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 1: make fun of me, I would make them laugh. So,

498
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:37,360
Speaker 1: like humor was always my defense mechanism, so I never

499
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 1: had to deal with problems. Um. In high school, I

500
00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 1: was actually in a new school, so it was just freshman.

501
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 1: There was like a hundred students in the whole I

502
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 1: went to Evans High School in Orlando, and there was

503
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 1: a ninth grade center, so they separated ninth grades. They

504
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 1: separated ninth graders from the tenth, eleventh, and twelfth graders.

505
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,360
Speaker 1: That was a whole another campus. Florida, we have land.

506
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 1: I know you may not experience that in New York City.

507
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 1: Maybe I grew up in Michigan, Okay, because like Green

508
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 1: Green Pass. Yeah, but we pull the ninth graders right.

509
00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: But it wasn't an entire building. It was a New Yorkers.

510
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:19,080
Speaker 1: This is New York so a lot of times we

511
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:23,840
Speaker 1: share buildings in schools. Didn't write school. They all just

512
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 1: freshman freshman year. Ninth grade on my my school, we

513
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 1: were held at the pl on Webster that's in the Bronx,

514
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 1: which the police whatever there you go there, you know,

515
00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,400
Speaker 1: exact shot a movie at the Webster Presents. They threw

516
00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 1: a toaster out the window, as I said, And from

517
00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:44,720
Speaker 1: that day on, the police was like there every day.

518
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 1: But I wasn't scared and ship. It was just like

519
00:29:50,600 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 1: what y'all doing? You know? It was like funny but yeah,

520
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 1: projects and New York connections. Here here we go. We

521
00:29:57,000 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 1: was in Webster, So our ninth grade, we was just

522
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 1: all at the pl Um. Then when we I guess

523
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 1: when my grade was moving to the tenth grade. That's

524
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 1: when now we had tenth graders, so there was no

525
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 1: other grade. It was just freshman. So now when we

526
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 1: were sophomore and now we allowed freshman to come in,

527
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,080
Speaker 1: so it was just you know whatever. Anyway, I was

528
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:17,880
Speaker 1: cool with everybody. Everybody fun with me, so I thought, okay,

529
00:30:17,880 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 1: well I'm a transition. I remember telling um. The first

530
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 1: person I told my sister Evie, well, my sister from

531
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 1: another misstaf okay. At school, we were sitting on the

532
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 1: swings and I was like, oh, I'm gonna transition whatever whatever.

533
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:31,760
Speaker 1: She just looks and she was You're not gonna kill me,

534
00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 1: are you. I'm like no, I just I'm gonna kill

535
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 1: my my old self. And then um, I told like

536
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:38,479
Speaker 1: my friends in high school, I was like, I think

537
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just drop out because I really don't feel

538
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 1: like dealing with people like picking on me and talking

539
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 1: ship because at that age I used to like to

540
00:30:46,080 --> 00:30:48,520
Speaker 1: fight because I was a very angry individual. So I

541
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 1: was like, I don't want to deal with that. So

542
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 1: all my friends, the girls and the guys, because I

543
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 1: was done with the popular kids. There was like listen,

544
00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 1: ivery anybody works at you they getting sucked up. So

545
00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:00,280
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, So I just transition and I

546
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 1: came to school and everything was good, like that's the

547
00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 1: only issue that I had was the bathroom situation, Like

548
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:11,959
Speaker 1: that's relatively in the media. Yeah, I'm in high school.

549
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,920
Speaker 1: So when we moved to UM, I think we moved

550
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 1: to some of public schools like elementary, middle school and

551
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 1: then us. Yeah, so there was a bathroom by the

552
00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:25,280
Speaker 1: gym that we actually had to share, and U I

553
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 1: would go to the girls bathroom because it was like, well,

554
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:28,719
Speaker 1: that's why if I go to the boys bathroom there,

555
00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 1: like Jamie, what are you doing in here? So it

556
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 1: was like okay, whatever, So I would just go to

557
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 1: the girls bathroom UM. And their their reasoning was, oh,

558
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:38,719
Speaker 1: you know, if a little girl walks in there, she

559
00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 1: could say you try to touch her or they would

560
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 1: know I was That was what they were concerned about. Bill.

561
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: That's so as because because people are men are apparently

562
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:57,480
Speaker 1: just like dec insatiable, like sexual animals, that we will

563
00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:02,520
Speaker 1: turn into women to rape your children because we're we're

564
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 1: just we need it. So it's like that's that's that's it.

565
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 1: That's why I'm here today. I'm So that's that's my

566
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 1: pert never the kids of SpongeBob and I'm like, hey,

567
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 1: who lives in the fine Sea? You know, that's that's

568
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:23,720
Speaker 1: where it is. That's what it is. It's like, I'm

569
00:32:23,760 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 1: just here for your children, Like, fuck my identity, I

570
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 1: want the kids. I'm willing to do this. That's it.

571
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 1: I'm cutting up my body, I'm getting surgery. I'm out

572
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 1: here dipping and doing it for your babies in the

573
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 1: makeup chair, like your babies, let's start that. I'm spending

574
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 1: all this money on the Lacey unit for your baby.

575
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 1: That's the fact that that literally is the mentality. That's

576
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 1: why they have an issue with which but you know what,

577
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 1: you know what kills me and the media they always

578
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 1: want to depict it as a man dressing up as

579
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:58,479
Speaker 1: a woman to go into women's bathroom, and why they

580
00:32:58,480 --> 00:33:01,280
Speaker 1: never say women dressing up like in the rape of husbands.

581
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 1: I guess that's not a problem, you know what I

582
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 1: mean when most of like the big wigs are men.

583
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 1: So it's like, oh, yeah, it's stupid, that's what it is.

584
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,280
Speaker 1: It's like that that literally is the conversation. Then this

585
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:15,479
Speaker 1: was coming from no, this was coming from my gym teacher.

586
00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:17,000
Speaker 1: She was the only real person who had an issue

587
00:33:17,040 --> 00:33:18,960
Speaker 1: with that. She's the one who brought it to the principle. Yes,

588
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 1: my teacher, My gym teacher looked just like Richard Simmons,

589
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: but she was a woman, and everybody thought she was

590
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 1: a lesbian. And it's like you got a lot of

591
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 1: nerve homegirls to be upon out me. I do want

592
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:35,440
Speaker 1: to ask you, other people in the LGBTQ community, do

593
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:41,120
Speaker 1: you sense that divide in that absolutely? Because I mean

594
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 1: the way a lot of people see it as like

595
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:46,479
Speaker 1: once gays got the right to marry over, it's like, oh,

596
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 1: that's it the battle though, and it's not. You know,

597
00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 1: We've always been a very kind of like small subculture

598
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 1: within the LGBT community, like people like um Marcy Bowers.

599
00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry, not Marcia uh, Marsha, UM's Johnson

600
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 1: her and Sylvia Rivera like these are these are the

601
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:11,839
Speaker 1: people who were involved in like that. Go ahead, let's

602
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 1: let's get it. Marsha, I know it's Marsha p Okay

603
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:20,960
Speaker 1: Rivera with the Stonewall riots and all that. Okay, So

604
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:23,840
Speaker 1: it's always been trans women of color who kind of

605
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 1: like are like the the voices of the community, and

606
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 1: we kind of like fight for the community, but the

607
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:32,239
Speaker 1: community doesn't really fight for us. Like even like back

608
00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 1: when they had gate clubs and stuff like that, like

609
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 1: they would still kick women out trans women. You know,

610
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:39,480
Speaker 1: if you ever saw the show Posed, they actually covered

611
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:41,799
Speaker 1: that where they showed trans women going into a gay

612
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 1: bar and the gay guys was like, oh, well, yeah,

613
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 1: you can't be here because you're justsed as women. And

614
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 1: actually I think in the seventies or something, there was

615
00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:51,440
Speaker 1: a law like if you were dressed like a woman

616
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: and you didn't have like at least three articles of

617
00:34:53,680 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 1: mail clothing on, it was again they would arrest you,

618
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 1: like it was against the law in New York. You know.

619
00:34:58,719 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 1: So it's like so we we we are still kind

620
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,120
Speaker 1: of getting our rights, Like right now, they don't even

621
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 1: want us to have whatever says on our I D

622
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:08,440
Speaker 1: you know, they wanted to be like, oh, no, you're

623
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 1: a born a man, you're a man to be with

624
00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:12,799
Speaker 1: a pussy, like that's what you are now regards that's

625
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 1: what they want to do. So let me ask you this,

626
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 1: because you identify as a trans woman, what differentiates between

627
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 1: a trans woman, a dry queen, and a cross dress

628
00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:26,040
Speaker 1: A cross dresser is somebody who a lot of times

629
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:29,239
Speaker 1: does it for sexual kinks. Um. Uh, we've had a

630
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:31,800
Speaker 1: cross dresser on. It could be any it could be

631
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,240
Speaker 1: a male or female. They just like wearing the clothes.

632
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 1: Like I guess young and may could be a cross

633
00:35:36,239 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 1: dresser maybe whereas men's clothes. I don't know, maybe, but

634
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 1: you know, like that's that's kind I've always kind of seen.

635
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:48,920
Speaker 1: Know I'm saying, I'm really because a lot of times

636
00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 1: young cross dress he could be That's what could be

637
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,759
Speaker 1: a cross dresser too, because if you're wearing clothes that

638
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 1: are assigned to the opposite gender, you are cross dressing.

639
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:03,560
Speaker 1: So when you are a woman who's like butch or

640
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 1: whatever the correct term is, and you want to wear

641
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:08,759
Speaker 1: men's clothing, you are cross dressing. So you may not

642
00:36:08,880 --> 00:36:11,440
Speaker 1: be you may not call yourself across dressing, but you

643
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 1: are in fact cross cross dressing. Um. And then a

644
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 1: drag drag queen is somebody who does it for entertainment purposes,

645
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:21,080
Speaker 1: So they get dressed up, they perform their lip sync

646
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:25,080
Speaker 1: a song if they know the words, and then right

647
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:28,239
Speaker 1: water think for you, this isn't you putting on an

648
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 1: Actors no, no, no, no, no no. This is just

649
00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:33,880
Speaker 1: like you know, you look in the mirror, you know

650
00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:35,880
Speaker 1: you Puerto Rican, you know you got black here. You

651
00:36:35,960 --> 00:36:38,600
Speaker 1: know you're a woman. Like that's it. So I just

652
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 1: one of those things that you just know about yourself.

653
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:41,920
Speaker 1: It's not like I'm going to become a woman to

654
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 1: take your kids and your husband like I just both

655
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 1: and I just want to I just want to get

656
00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:49,759
Speaker 1: them nice little deals from Fashion Nova. I feel nice,

657
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 1: Like that's all I want to put the check. We're

658
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 1: waiting use my coaching paris a person off. You're welcome.

659
00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:59,640
Speaker 1: So you brought up which I actually liked, and I

660
00:36:59,680 --> 00:37:01,320
Speaker 1: didn't even and you know how I was going to

661
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 1: segue into this, but you brought up butch and didn't

662
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:07,720
Speaker 1: know if that was the right terminology when it comes

663
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 1: to transgender man or woman? What is okay to ask you, like,

664
00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 1: as far as your identity the words? Because I went

665
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 1: to fairy Tales and the night was called trainy Thursdays.

666
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:26,399
Speaker 1: But some people have a pen that word. The word

667
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 1: is on a flyer. There's beautiful trans women coming. Clearly

668
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:34,400
Speaker 1: this is okay in the community, Like, what is the

669
00:37:34,480 --> 00:37:37,919
Speaker 1: goddamn word? So where I don't. I didn't even transperson

670
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 1: trans what the fund? Can I say? You can't just

671
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:44,480
Speaker 1: call me by my name like that? Like I can't.

672
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 1: I can't speak for everybody. I feel like it's not

673
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:49,800
Speaker 1: what they call you, it's what you respond to. And

674
00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:54,319
Speaker 1: if somebody asks if you're a training and you say yes,

675
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:56,759
Speaker 1: then you're a trainy. If somebody says, hey, are you

676
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 1: a trainee, say no, I'm a trans woman, you correct them,

677
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 1: then that's it. You know. The word training is kind

678
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 1: of like trainy thursdays like fag of Fridays. It's like,

679
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:07,320
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, It's like a word like

680
00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 1: maybe it's not like politically correct, but it doesn't offend everybody.

681
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:13,560
Speaker 1: I guess it depends on the term. Like when I

682
00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:17,920
Speaker 1: was of fourteen fifteen, hanging on the village, that was

683
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 1: just a word like oh, yeah, I'm a training like

684
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:22,319
Speaker 1: people will call themselves that, you know. So I didn't

685
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 1: grow up with it thinking, oh, that's like a disrespectful word,

686
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:26,920
Speaker 1: like I know, fagg it was a bad word, but

687
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 1: I never thought training was a bad word. And then

688
00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 1: like I'm like twenty two, twenty three and hearing people say, oh, well,

689
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 1: we shouldn't say tranny because it's derogatory, and it's like, well,

690
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:39,320
Speaker 1: what do you want me to call you? Like, I'm sorry,

691
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:42,760
Speaker 1: you know, like me, I'm just I like the umbrella

692
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:47,880
Speaker 1: term trans, so I here transgender, transsexual, general, not conforming.

693
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 1: Let's just you're just trans. And I think that makes

694
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 1: it easier for people's trans because it's like all these

695
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:57,160
Speaker 1: names for what. I like to hear that from you,

696
00:38:57,360 --> 00:38:59,839
Speaker 1: because I feel like it's the straight people that's that's

697
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 1: There's gonna be some advocate out there that's gonna see

698
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:05,560
Speaker 1: this aga. But like Jamie Partrish, it's problematic to the

699
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 1: trans commar all the and it's gonna be like I'm sorry,

700
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 1: like not the boy hello, she she already knows what

701
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 1: type of person. I don't. Yeah, but loud and wrong.

702
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 1: I love other girls and other girls are cond for

703
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 1: the record, I love other girls and other girls are can.

704
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:24,279
Speaker 1: But you just go by what you want to be

705
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:27,760
Speaker 1: called by me. I like, I don't get like unless

706
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:29,840
Speaker 1: you call me a he or a he she or

707
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:32,880
Speaker 1: something stupid like that he she is that you get

708
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 1: punched in a throat because I'm only five four so

709
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:37,240
Speaker 1: I may not reach your face. But it's gonna connect.

710
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:40,359
Speaker 1: It's going to be a connect form. Okay, Okay, I've

711
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 1: never we've never even mentioned he she I didn't even

712
00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:49,280
Speaker 1: think that's like, that's like Noah's Yeah, I don't believe

713
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 1: you say to insult the trans woman trans man. That's

714
00:39:54,719 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 1: where you go with those kind of statements, because it's

715
00:39:57,760 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 1: kind of like I'm playing like you don't know what

716
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 1: you are. It's like I nobody or it's also highlighting

717
00:40:02,120 --> 00:40:04,719
Speaker 1: the fact that obviously this was something that was monumentally

718
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:08,520
Speaker 1: your life, your transition, and so reminding you of something

719
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,960
Speaker 1: that are using something that was so heavy in your life.

720
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,320
Speaker 1: They're using it against you, like they know obviously like

721
00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 1: you're a trans woman. So if I insult you and

722
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:18,799
Speaker 1: call you a man, you know what I mean, it's

723
00:40:18,840 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 1: just a direct insult for sure. That's what you're talking about.

724
00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 1: That okay, all right, So I wanted to gear this

725
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 1: conversation to kind of our male listeners for advice. So, um,

726
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:36,840
Speaker 1: I'm done. I was going to try to hit on you,

727
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:40,400
Speaker 1: but you don't take me to the movies, so we're

728
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:45,480
Speaker 1: gonna turn this off. You said that first I used

729
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 1: it against you. You see what happened? You did con

730
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:50,239
Speaker 1: you can't take it what you want to go to

731
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 1: corn No, But I wanted to get into the conversation

732
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 1: of you said you only date men when you finally

733
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:02,400
Speaker 1: are whether it's in a relationship, whether you're dating someone

734
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 1: you know that they're interested in you, but now maybe

735
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 1: you get to where you're realizing they're keeping it a secret.

736
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 1: Maybe they're experience, you know, experimenting. When I was a

737
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 1: bigger girl, I felt fetish sized because of my size.

738
00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:19,719
Speaker 1: I just had an episode on Patreon check it out

739
00:41:19,760 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 1: if you haven't yet, but I talked about how I

740
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:24,279
Speaker 1: felt fetish sized because of my weight. Um, and I

741
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:27,880
Speaker 1: know that trends. Women are often fetish fetish size and

742
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:30,920
Speaker 1: this is something that it's kept private from their families,

743
00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:34,480
Speaker 1: their friends, and sometimes they're coping with it and don't

744
00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:36,839
Speaker 1: know how to respond. What are that sucks to be them?

745
00:41:36,880 --> 00:41:38,759
Speaker 1: I've never dealt with that, and I love that. What

746
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:41,520
Speaker 1: are the conversations that you have, Like when a man

747
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:44,239
Speaker 1: says they're not comfortable but they really like you, that

748
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 1: is the last conversation. One thing I will say for me,

749
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 1: I did not go through arguing which bathroom to use,

750
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 1: saving up money to get my tips done, and whatever

751
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:57,560
Speaker 1: else that got done, dealing with the arguments for my

752
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:00,880
Speaker 1: family having to correct my grandmother every fucking Thanksgiving, Like

753
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:02,840
Speaker 1: I'm not going through all of that so that you

754
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:06,879
Speaker 1: could go home and be like that's not happening. I'm sorry,

755
00:42:06,880 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 1: that don't work for me, So like this are these

756
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 1: are conversations that like I don't know this before we

757
00:42:11,600 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 1: get serious, like I'm not like no, and you keep

758
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:17,719
Speaker 1: like maybe like you eat your bookers, you could keep

759
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 1: that a secret, Like I'm not a fucking secret. And

760
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:21,919
Speaker 1: if that's how you feel, then we're here from tens

761
00:42:21,920 --> 00:42:23,200
Speaker 1: to four. You can come get a lap dance with

762
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:25,560
Speaker 1: one of the Levely girls, like that's it, Like I'm

763
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 1: not gonna date you, Like yeah, I'm gonna be a

764
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:30,480
Speaker 1: have you felt fetish sized where they've come to you

765
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:32,880
Speaker 1: not not to even be with you, but just to

766
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:35,360
Speaker 1: have sex with you? Um, yes? And what I do

767
00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 1: is I make it lucrative for me because it's like, hey,

768
00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:42,360
Speaker 1: you just want one thing. I just want one thing,

769
00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 1: so and it's not true, So you know, Okay, that's it.

770
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:49,839
Speaker 1: That's why I work at a bar where we could

771
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 1: give lap dances and stuff like that, so that men

772
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 1: who do have these like I want to just experience

773
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:55,960
Speaker 1: kind of It's like, okay, well we could get a

774
00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:57,880
Speaker 1: lap dance and see the girls dancing on the bar

775
00:42:58,040 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 1: or whatever. You be uncomfortable because I'm not gonna do

776
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 1: Like a lot of times guys were like, hey, you

777
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 1: want to cover and smoke, Like I'm not going to

778
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:08,800
Speaker 1: your house. First of all, let me just put this

779
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 1: out there, not this conversation. Not no, no, no no,

780
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:15,800
Speaker 1: that's the biggest thing. Like listen, when I smoke a blunt,

781
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:18,520
Speaker 1: I don't get horny and want to fuck. I want

782
00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 1: to smoke another blond and maybe another blond and then

783
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 1: maybe I'm gonna take a nap after that. E Like

784
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 1: you ever try sucking dick with a dry mouth. Don't work?

785
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:28,800
Speaker 1: So why are you trying to get me hot? And

786
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna come and gotta it's been out because they

787
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 1: do it. Yeah, because well you guess what wrong, bit

788
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:39,960
Speaker 1: wrong bish, I'll smoke that whole ef and be gone,

789
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:43,279
Speaker 1: be gone, like starting my lifts outside one, I all

790
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:48,919
Speaker 1: down and ship no talk. I know that's right. That's

791
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:52,160
Speaker 1: how I am. I smoking and then to be eleven o'clock,

792
00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 1: twelve o'clock I just want to smoke. No, I'm good,

793
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:57,479
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go to sleep, or I have let someone

794
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:59,720
Speaker 1: come over. And because he knew he wasn't getting no pussy.

795
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:01,560
Speaker 1: But let me tell you how the trick real quick,

796
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 1: real quick. Because this nigga thought he was real slick.

797
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:05,400
Speaker 1: I told him, I don't really want to suck you,

798
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 1: but you can come over. We can be friends. Like,

799
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 1: if I'm in the mood to funk, I'll fun, but

800
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:10,879
Speaker 1: you can't just be calling my phone when you won't

801
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 1: pussy and think I'm gonnaive you pussy. That's pretty much

802
00:44:12,640 --> 00:44:14,719
Speaker 1: how I did it. So he was like, cool, I'll

803
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 1: come over. We don't have to funk, but I'll come over.

804
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:18,759
Speaker 1: We could just smoke it out and we could chill.

805
00:44:19,520 --> 00:44:24,560
Speaker 1: This nigga came over literally for seventeen minutes, smoked the blunt.

806
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 1: It was like, cool, all right, hit you up tomorrow.

807
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 1: It made it seem like because he finally came over

808
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 1: and we didn't funk in the seventeen minutes he was

809
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:33,799
Speaker 1: at my house. That then tomorrow we could go back

810
00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:39,200
Speaker 1: to the regularly stantial because tomorrow it's another day. He

811
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:40,759
Speaker 1: was gonna be like, okay, this which want me to

812
00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 1: just come over and hang out, all right, let me

813
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 1: show her not the thing too, Like, Yo, my thing

814
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,480
Speaker 1: is this. I could smoke blunts, I could smoke. Oh,

815
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 1: I could drink and smoke and watching effects in my

816
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:52,800
Speaker 1: own house. So now you want me to go to

817
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:54,520
Speaker 1: your house and rich you over to mine. So now

818
00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 1: I'm doing the same things I could have been doing

819
00:44:56,000 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 1: by myself. And I gotta have a nigger in my

820
00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 1: face trying to suck me. Right, No, we can face

821
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 1: time and then when the blood is done. So it's

822
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:09,360
Speaker 1: this conversation and that's it, snapchat me whatever. Right, But

823
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:11,759
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna have to get dressed and I'll hang

824
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:12,880
Speaker 1: out with some of that. I don't really want to

825
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: have sex left, even don't want to have sex with

826
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:16,279
Speaker 1: If that's how you're throwing it at me, I don't

827
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: want it, right. I was about to say, it's more

828
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:20,359
Speaker 1: of the art of the deal. I'm saying, like any

829
00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 1: nigga that's hitting you up, like, oh, you just want

830
00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 1: to come smoke like that's like it's not like, hey,

831
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:29,759
Speaker 1: you want to pay Nintendo. I was like, funk, yeah,

832
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:31,879
Speaker 1: I want to play Nintendo. And then maybe my pants

833
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 1: is off because that's it. That's it. But now for

834
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:45,760
Speaker 1: something smoking no good for you? Feel stupid? Are you naked?

835
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:50,040
Speaker 1: Oh great? You know what I mean? Maybe his dick

836
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 1: isn't as nice as you thought it was gonna look

837
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 1: a lot? Did you? Did you photoshop those pictures? It

838
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,080
Speaker 1: seems like you want to be for that part of

839
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:02,480
Speaker 1: the experience. What you mean if you look down there

840
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 1: and seeing something that you wouldn't expect him, you know

841
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:06,239
Speaker 1: what I mean? You want to be high? That might

842
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:09,399
Speaker 1: be a good kind adore the shot because I laugh,

843
00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:15,879
Speaker 1: giddy and laughing weird naked? Of course I'm gonna laugh.

844
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 1: The first time you have sex is awkward anyway, So

845
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:20,800
Speaker 1: it's like, now you have a weird little dick, like,

846
00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:25,040
Speaker 1: oh god, why am I here? Mom? Sex to your

847
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:27,640
Speaker 1: friend like, oh my god, my dog died? Im no

848
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:36,000
Speaker 1: no no. So moving into your adulthood, now, what has

849
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:39,680
Speaker 1: been something that has fully affected you negatively and that

850
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:42,480
Speaker 1: you are pushing with your loud voice because I'm not

851
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:44,439
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I love your videos. I love what you're saying.

852
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:47,399
Speaker 1: What is the change that you would like to see

853
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:51,120
Speaker 1: in the people you're dating and how families respond to

854
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 1: trans women and the process. What are the things that

855
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:58,320
Speaker 1: you genuinely want to change and don't understand why it's happening,

856
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:02,399
Speaker 1: how it's happened. I wish people would just stop trying

857
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:05,040
Speaker 1: to put people in boxes and trying to figure out

858
00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 1: what does this make you? What does this mean? You know, like,

859
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,239
Speaker 1: I don't mind if people ask me questions, because you

860
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 1: can't learn if you don't ask questions. So I'm never

861
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:16,200
Speaker 1: offended when people say if I say I'm trans, and

862
00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 1: they're like, well, what does that mean? That means he

863
00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 1: was born a man? It's like, now, I was I

864
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:22,040
Speaker 1: was born a baby, but um, I was born with

865
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:25,800
Speaker 1: a penis, which I guess makes me a male at birth.

866
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:28,799
Speaker 1: But this is what identify as and blah blah blah.

867
00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 1: But some people get so offended that they don't want

868
00:47:31,680 --> 00:47:34,399
Speaker 1: to have that conversation. And I feel like, as as

869
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 1: trans people, anybody in the LGBT community, I feel like,

870
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:43,560
Speaker 1: don't be afraid to answer the same questions a thousand times,

871
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:47,399
Speaker 1: you know why, because it's annoying. But if you don't

872
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 1: correct them, how they're going to know how to come

873
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:53,880
Speaker 1: at you. And a lot of times with all of this,

874
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 1: if you like transforming as a man, it means you're gay.

875
00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:01,360
Speaker 1: And I feel like the reason and a lot of

876
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:04,360
Speaker 1: guys keep it a secret is because a lot of

877
00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:09,799
Speaker 1: cister gender women put that on though, like, oh that's

878
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 1: what you like, that's a man, you're a fagged let

879
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:17,040
Speaker 1: it out, but don't have a problem pegging their boyfriend

880
00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 1: or something. And it's like what you do and it's

881
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 1: like and it's like, and that's another thing. A lot

882
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:25,200
Speaker 1: of times for some reason, men you can only be

883
00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,640
Speaker 1: gay or straight, like women are like, oh my god,

884
00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 1: I got drunk last night. I mean I we're a

885
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:31,560
Speaker 1: bad guy, and like it was great not let a

886
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:35,359
Speaker 1: guy be like yo me and Brandon. If you're like gay,

887
00:48:36,200 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 1: you know, it's like a whole another thing. And it's

888
00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:42,640
Speaker 1: like why can't men want to be like why you

889
00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:45,120
Speaker 1: can't want to dip in and do it? My only women?

890
00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:48,440
Speaker 1: Because it's it's we live in a male dominant society.

891
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: What do men think it's sexy to women? Fucking if

892
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:53,839
Speaker 1: it was run by women, maybe they'll be gay porn

893
00:48:54,280 --> 00:49:00,400
Speaker 1: more popular than lesbian point. I don't know, because it does. Yeah, man,

894
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:02,640
Speaker 1: I can speak for that ship mostly the Hey coach.

895
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:04,920
Speaker 1: For straight women, they feel like if you like a

896
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 1: trans woman you're getting because they take it as a

897
00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:12,920
Speaker 1: personal like insult or or yeah, like an assault on

898
00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:15,120
Speaker 1: their femininity. I guess you know what I'm saying, or

899
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:17,640
Speaker 1: they look at them is not being enough. So like

900
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:21,920
Speaker 1: that's where that ship comes from. And yeah, I do

901
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:24,320
Speaker 1: want to speak on that specifically. I've gone on to

902
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:28,320
Speaker 1: other podcasts and said that, Um, a lot of the

903
00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:31,680
Speaker 1: issue that we have is with us, even black women,

904
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 1: specifically to the black community and the black man. That's

905
00:49:34,640 --> 00:49:36,359
Speaker 1: all I can speak for. That's all I've ever had

906
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 1: inside of me. Um. And UM. I mean there's been

907
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 1: there's been mixed breeds in there, but all black, um. Nonetheless.

908
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:48,920
Speaker 1: And so I will say that having these men put

909
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 1: so much trust in me to open up the fear

910
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:54,920
Speaker 1: that so many of them have and sharing this with

911
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:58,480
Speaker 1: their wives, with their girlfriends, with the people they're dating with,

912
00:49:58,560 --> 00:50:01,200
Speaker 1: the people they're having casual sex with, with their mothers,

913
00:50:01,239 --> 00:50:06,000
Speaker 1: their sisters. They fear telling a woman this, and so

914
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 1: a lot of people are confiding in me because I

915
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:10,960
Speaker 1: do come on this platform and I'm open with whoever

916
00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 1: the fun come my way. I'm trying to get to

917
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 1: behold my god damn self. Um. And I got I

918
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:17,840
Speaker 1: bought it. It's in the closet. I don't come equipped

919
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 1: but hello. But I say to our to our lady listeners,

920
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:29,960
Speaker 1: to our women who are dating heterosis men, bisexual men, um,

921
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:32,920
Speaker 1: fuck the labels. We as women need to start being

922
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:36,399
Speaker 1: more accepting of men with their kinks, because I think

923
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 1: that's where we get into where now we have this

924
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 1: hate against sex workers because my man is coming to you.

925
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:46,360
Speaker 1: We're not being accepting of what these men like. So

926
00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 1: now we have a whole d L community. We have

927
00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:55,040
Speaker 1: that term because don't feel like the same way us

928
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 1: women don't want to communicate our freaky kinks because now

929
00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:01,319
Speaker 1: we're gonna be looked at as a whole or less than.

930
00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:04,160
Speaker 1: We can't sit here and do the same thing to

931
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 1: our men to where they feel like they can't open

932
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:10,399
Speaker 1: up to us because now we're judging them. Now we're

933
00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 1: going to the word exposed. That's what the fun they

934
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:17,160
Speaker 1: all say. Now we're in the fucking snap grab era

935
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:20,839
Speaker 1: and pictures and I get whole as videos what them

936
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 1: bent over with their fingers and their booties. So the

937
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:26,279
Speaker 1: amount of trust that they have with me, Oh, it's

938
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:30,839
Speaker 1: so safe. Aska saday ask A side. Um, I sent

939
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:35,680
Speaker 1: them all over to him. Let me stop, but Maddy

940
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:41,960
Speaker 1: f smell like Booty realized stop. But I want to.

941
00:51:42,040 --> 00:51:44,200
Speaker 1: I just wanted to bring kind of this ps A

942
00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:48,719
Speaker 1: to our women listeners that while we're sitting here trying

943
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 1: to take this fight for women to move forward in

944
00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:54,640
Speaker 1: our whole ways, our whole phase and everything the fun

945
00:51:54,800 --> 00:51:57,880
Speaker 1: in between, we need to allow these men to do

946
00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:00,479
Speaker 1: the same. Yeah, they'd be sucking everything, that's the whole phase.

947
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 1: But in terms of their kinks and what they like

948
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 1: in bed specifically, are black men be a little bit

949
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 1: more open to allow them to express that to you?

950
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:11,719
Speaker 1: Otherwise we ain't gonna go nowhere and we're gonna just

951
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:14,759
Speaker 1: have a whole deal community. Everything is just gonna keep

952
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:17,840
Speaker 1: being in the closet. We already have a whole deal community.

953
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:22,759
Speaker 1: It's our hair, It's already there. It's gonna keep growing.

954
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:26,439
Speaker 1: And the thing is, it's like you can't keep trying

955
00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 1: to make somebody want to keep something a secret. Like

956
00:52:28,719 --> 00:52:31,320
Speaker 1: it's like, just be honest with me, Just be honest

957
00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 1: with me. If you tell me just and then I'm

958
00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:37,319
Speaker 1: honest with you, and you're like, wow, out of my house?

959
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:41,719
Speaker 1: What is that? But for right, right, right, you know,

960
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:44,440
Speaker 1: not with this is my sorry for two thousand four

961
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:47,759
Speaker 1: and I'm just trying to figure out what did I

962
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:52,719
Speaker 1: do wrong? No, you're right, You're right. That's fucked up,

963
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:55,920
Speaker 1: you know, And it happens. It happens a lot. And

964
00:52:56,000 --> 00:53:00,880
Speaker 1: it's like, if you want me like to accept you

965
00:53:00,960 --> 00:53:03,759
Speaker 1: for your bullshit, accept me for my bulls. If you

966
00:53:03,840 --> 00:53:05,080
Speaker 1: could tell me that she may not have one of

967
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:06,840
Speaker 1: your girlfriends in college, why is it bad that one

968
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 1: of my homeboys like my dick. It's the same thing

969
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 1: where were not, literally because kissing a second dick is

970
00:53:11,719 --> 00:53:18,160
Speaker 1: very different, similar process. But I digress to I'm not

971
00:53:18,239 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 1: gonna lie. I say it all the all the time

972
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:22,239
Speaker 1: I taught the guys. Maybe the dicks wasn't as big

973
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:24,320
Speaker 1: as I liked, but that honesty is another type of

974
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 1: turn on. So when you finally get that truck, what

975
00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:32,239
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean the dick was it wasn't a person.

976
00:53:33,239 --> 00:53:37,400
Speaker 1: You just open the discussion with may but if you

977
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:39,800
Speaker 1: want to come inside. But he was nice in the

978
00:53:39,920 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 1: motherfucker I did. I was a little mad, but okay,

979
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:50,320
Speaker 1: he was a little mad. He aroused me. He aroused

980
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:53,719
Speaker 1: me in other ways because honestly, shut the funk up.

981
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 1: Was it his oral scales? There were other things that, yeah,

982
00:53:58,120 --> 00:54:00,560
Speaker 1: but he opened those kinks to me. So yes, we

983
00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 1: were able to do other ship. Okay, So it wasn't

984
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 1: all about me being aroused with penetration, even though I

985
00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:09,000
Speaker 1: like big dicks. I was being aroused and a lot.

986
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:13,080
Speaker 1: I'm a size queen like that. I'm such a size queen.

987
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:14,879
Speaker 1: Before we get out, we're gonna go ahead and read

988
00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:18,320
Speaker 1: one wholemail. This is we're gonna get off this conversation.

989
00:54:18,360 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 1: We're gonna delve into kind of titles and another sense

990
00:54:22,920 --> 00:54:26,880
Speaker 1: relationship titles. Um. And so that's the question that we

991
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:31,040
Speaker 1: have today. Hey guys, I would oh wait, no, let's

992
00:54:31,040 --> 00:54:33,080
Speaker 1: not do this. This is one sex with new people.

993
00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:35,719
Speaker 1: We're not gonna do that one because I want to

994
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:40,600
Speaker 1: do the relationship with y'all one moment if I can

995
00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:45,840
Speaker 1: motherfucking find it. No, I can't find it. Wait, we

996
00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:48,080
Speaker 1: we just talked about size queens. We're gonna go into

997
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:51,120
Speaker 1: sized queens conversation because now I can't find it, and

998
00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 1: I thought I saved it. So it says. So I

999
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:56,799
Speaker 1: began to work my way backwards from episode eighty one

1000
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 1: and now I'm at episode nine and felt compelled to

1001
00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:02,799
Speaker 1: chime on Mandy's comment about a waste of a good dick.

1002
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:06,280
Speaker 1: This past summer, I finally decided to explore the wheezy

1003
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:09,560
Speaker 1: white options and met a Jewish white guy. He was nerdy,

1004
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,080
Speaker 1: red haired, and scrawny and reminded me of Mark Goldman

1005
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:18,680
Speaker 1: from Family Guy. Oh what the fuck? Um? Although he

1006
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:20,960
Speaker 1: was the absolute opposite of the type of men I'm

1007
00:55:21,080 --> 00:55:24,120
Speaker 1: used to, which are black and Caribbean. I decided to

1008
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:26,879
Speaker 1: try this guy out because he was weak and easy

1009
00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:30,000
Speaker 1: to dominate him and to buy me everything, but also

1010
00:55:30,120 --> 00:55:33,520
Speaker 1: had a monster cock. Yes, Mandy, I know, cock ill,

1011
00:55:34,080 --> 00:55:37,080
Speaker 1: but that's precisely what it was. It had to be

1012
00:55:37,280 --> 00:55:40,839
Speaker 1: at least ten inches with amazing thickness. Anger So girl,

1013
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 1: I was excited, especially since everywhere we went he was

1014
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:46,680
Speaker 1: eager to show me how rock hard it would get

1015
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:53,160
Speaker 1: and how much he wanted me so now. So now

1016
00:55:53,400 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 1: he finally gets to have me, and it's half hard

1017
00:55:56,320 --> 00:55:58,560
Speaker 1: and he has two double handed to put it inside him.

1018
00:56:00,000 --> 00:56:03,600
Speaker 1: Really pissed, I didn't come, but I don't tell him

1019
00:56:03,680 --> 00:56:06,319
Speaker 1: that or show him my disappointment because I'm assuming it's

1020
00:56:06,400 --> 00:56:09,680
Speaker 1: nerves and was willing to have him try again. The

1021
00:56:09,760 --> 00:56:13,719
Speaker 1: second time and third time thereafter he would try again

1022
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:17,360
Speaker 1: and nothing but his half heard dissatisfying mess of a

1023
00:56:17,480 --> 00:56:22,279
Speaker 1: monster cock of shit. On this third and last time,

1024
00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:24,800
Speaker 1: it got to the point I couldn't take it anymore

1025
00:56:24,880 --> 00:56:28,960
Speaker 1: and burst into tears and finally told him he couldn't

1026
00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:34,120
Speaker 1: he could just go home. Why are you crying over

1027
00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:38,360
Speaker 1: the dick? Literally literally crying? Why don't you want to?

1028
00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:42,640
Speaker 1: He couldn't explain it, so I instantly felt it was

1029
00:56:42,800 --> 00:56:45,720
Speaker 1: me and my self esteem went to help. We're simply

1030
00:56:45,800 --> 00:56:49,040
Speaker 1: friends now and don't exchange it anything but text, but

1031
00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:51,520
Speaker 1: can't help but feel like it was all due to

1032
00:56:51,640 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 1: his lack of attraction towards me. What do I do

1033
00:56:55,360 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 1: with this feeling? Don't cry? Love back to black? Um.

1034
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:06,720
Speaker 1: I wanted to bring this up because when I write people,

1035
00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:09,880
Speaker 1: I did want to talk about this quickly because it

1036
00:57:09,960 --> 00:57:14,400
Speaker 1: actually fits something close to my friend right now. Listen, right,

1037
00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:18,240
Speaker 1: that's my friend right now. Is she's having casual sex,

1038
00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:21,640
Speaker 1: but she too is having an issue with a guys

1039
00:57:21,920 --> 00:57:26,520
Speaker 1: staying hard, getting hard um or coming too fast um.

1040
00:57:26,640 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 1: And these are all issues that know, they're all different.

1041
00:57:31,200 --> 00:57:34,320
Speaker 1: That's why I say casual pay masters. Depends they're pay

1042
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 1: masters this car. This could go either way because if

1043
00:57:37,320 --> 00:57:42,680
Speaker 1: they're nothing too fast, she might you know, have that right,

1044
00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:45,000
Speaker 1: but if they're not even able to get there, then

1045
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 1: she might have Well that's what I'm saying. So there's

1046
00:57:47,320 --> 00:57:51,560
Speaker 1: these are three multiple like different problems that we as

1047
00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 1: women sometimes attached to ourselves in sex when there could

1048
00:57:56,520 --> 00:58:01,320
Speaker 1: be other issues involved. So for the for the guys

1049
00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:04,520
Speaker 1: that she was dealing with that couldn't stay hard in

1050
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:08,560
Speaker 1: a condom, they were also married. So those guys I

1051
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:10,320
Speaker 1: like to get them theF of the doubt. You just

1052
00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 1: like raw pussy. So there's that issue. But then there's

1053
00:58:13,400 --> 00:58:17,280
Speaker 1: also the issue of a rectile dysfunction. There's the issue

1054
00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 1: of the maybe he's a bottom. Well there you go

1055
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:23,440
Speaker 1: to maybe he's not into that, or to me, I

1056
00:58:23,560 --> 00:58:25,160
Speaker 1: go back into the mental state that a lot of

1057
00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:29,360
Speaker 1: us don't look at darn sex. There's arousal levels. Maybe

1058
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 1: he's so nervous he can't get hard. Maybe he's so

1059
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 1: drunk he can't get up. Maybe he went into the

1060
00:58:34,480 --> 00:58:36,360
Speaker 1: bathroom and you didn't know this, and he sniffed a

1061
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:38,479
Speaker 1: line and that ship is just a gummy bear. Maybe

1062
00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:41,480
Speaker 1: he's still high, you know. Maybe so she had a

1063
00:58:41,520 --> 00:58:50,920
Speaker 1: hole in her sick. It might even be want to

1064
00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:53,440
Speaker 1: nobody laying up in the vile no dirty yet first

1065
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 1: of all, don't wear white sox period. It might have

1066
00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:01,840
Speaker 1: been that maybe her baby Tonio wouldn't parlay started the

1067
00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:03,360
Speaker 1: way and maybe he just is like, you know what,

1068
00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:06,040
Speaker 1: you couldn't even make the effort to you know what.

1069
00:59:06,880 --> 00:59:08,960
Speaker 1: You know what, that's true because I had lads of

1070
00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:10,240
Speaker 1: the other day and I've been looking at this one

1071
00:59:10,280 --> 00:59:12,000
Speaker 1: patch of head that's grown back right, and I'm like,

1072
00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:15,000
Speaker 1: maybe a guy will not like this right. So it

1073
00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 1: could be little things like things like this, but you know,

1074
00:59:20,080 --> 00:59:21,880
Speaker 1: I don't look at it now. But I wanted to

1075
00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:25,080
Speaker 1: bring that up because so many of us we put

1076
00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:29,520
Speaker 1: the pressure on women to please these men. So as

1077
00:59:29,600 --> 00:59:32,040
Speaker 1: women to sit there, like she said, she burst into tears.

1078
00:59:32,080 --> 00:59:35,680
Speaker 1: First off, that's funny as fu um. It is sad.

1079
00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:39,040
Speaker 1: But to have the mentality that he's not getting hard

1080
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:43,480
Speaker 1: because I'm not doing something. Sis. Listen, I've dealt with

1081
00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:45,720
Speaker 1: a similar situation with two different guys, and I'm gonna

1082
00:59:45,720 --> 00:59:47,520
Speaker 1: break it down to you, really down. And this is

1083
00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:50,480
Speaker 1: my personal experience. So if I didn't cry, just for

1084
00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:54,360
Speaker 1: the record. Um. So there was this one guy. Um,

1085
00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:56,840
Speaker 1: none of the guys that I date I have anything

1086
00:59:56,880 --> 01:00:00,480
Speaker 1: in common really like some assure, some at tall whatever. Um.

1087
01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:02,560
Speaker 1: So there was this one guy that I was dating

1088
01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:04,080
Speaker 1: and I had a question for a long time. He

1089
01:00:04,160 --> 01:00:07,360
Speaker 1: was all fine, nice body. So the first time we

1090
01:00:07,440 --> 01:00:09,440
Speaker 1: had sex, it was great. It was you know, it

1091
01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:13,480
Speaker 1: was a Valentine's Day treat for him. Um, so yeah,

1092
01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:15,520
Speaker 1: it was. Yeah, it was great. You know, it didn't

1093
01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 1: last as long as I expect. It wasn't as long

1094
01:00:17,240 --> 01:00:19,320
Speaker 1: as I expect that. It was just a short story

1095
01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 1: all around. But um, you know, we did have We

1096
01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:25,800
Speaker 1: did have sex. But he was good with his tongue,

1097
01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:27,360
Speaker 1: so I was like, oh, this is made for it.

1098
01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:29,840
Speaker 1: So it made up for so the four play was amazing, right,

1099
01:00:30,200 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 1: the dick was good, stood hard the first time whatever.

1100
01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:34,760
Speaker 1: Then like the second and third time we had sex,

1101
01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:39,040
Speaker 1: I felt like it wasn't as hard or it wouldn't

1102
01:00:39,040 --> 01:00:42,320
Speaker 1: stay hard, and I'm like is it me? Is it

1103
01:00:42,440 --> 01:00:46,160
Speaker 1: the patch? Like is it me? And then I'm like, okay,

1104
01:00:46,320 --> 01:00:49,080
Speaker 1: well it can't be me because he keeps caught like

1105
01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:52,600
Speaker 1: I don't. I didn't hit him up because I I

1106
01:00:52,800 --> 01:00:55,120
Speaker 1: didn't really have fun that much, but you know, to

1107
01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:57,360
Speaker 1: keep my numbers down, I said, all right, you know,

1108
01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:04,320
Speaker 1: welcome back to the palace. Um. So the second and

1109
01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:07,400
Speaker 1: third time it didn't it wasn't as as hard, it

1110
01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:09,160
Speaker 1: didn't stay hard whatever. So I thought it was me

1111
01:01:10,160 --> 01:01:14,920
Speaker 1: And it's not me. It's it's obviously him. Um So

1112
01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:16,960
Speaker 1: I just did you talk to him about it? No?

1113
01:01:17,240 --> 01:01:20,240
Speaker 1: I just stopped having sex with him because I'm like,

1114
01:01:22,000 --> 01:01:25,440
Speaker 1: I don't have time. I mean, we are still friends. Hey, baby,

1115
01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:28,000
Speaker 1: if you're watching this, we're still friends. But he just

1116
01:01:28,200 --> 01:01:31,520
Speaker 1: he's just not for me. But also I've heard maybe

1117
01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:33,880
Speaker 1: he's maybe what we did sexually it's not what he likes.

1118
01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:39,720
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe he's versatile, Maybe he likes somebody who's more assertive. Maybe, um,

1119
01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:43,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know, but um, I just

1120
01:01:43,800 --> 01:01:46,120
Speaker 1: was like, it can't be me, because if it was,

1121
01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:48,680
Speaker 1: if it was me that wasn't turning you on, you

1122
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:51,680
Speaker 1: wouldn't be calling me. You know, you're still calling it

1123
01:01:51,760 --> 01:01:53,560
Speaker 1: like and it's not like to this day. This was

1124
01:01:53,600 --> 01:01:56,520
Speaker 1: like four years ago. Still you know what I mean.

1125
01:01:56,640 --> 01:01:58,600
Speaker 1: And it's like, okay, well, it can't be me. Obviously

1126
01:01:58,680 --> 01:02:02,280
Speaker 1: he dick works, but maybe maybe he's just doing drugs

1127
01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:05,160
Speaker 1: and something right now. Whatever. Then the other nigga that

1128
01:02:05,160 --> 01:02:11,040
Speaker 1: I started with, he is like everything that I could

1129
01:02:11,080 --> 01:02:14,479
Speaker 1: ever have dreamt of, you know, one of those six

1130
01:02:14,600 --> 01:02:18,919
Speaker 1: for three. Why do I like you? Pete Davidson kind

1131
01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:21,280
Speaker 1: of like what's wrong with you? But I love you?

1132
01:02:21,480 --> 01:02:23,360
Speaker 1: Kind of a thing like you look stupid, but I

1133
01:02:23,480 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 1: want you inside of me. You know? So whatever? Boy? Nonetheless,

1134
01:02:28,360 --> 01:02:33,240
Speaker 1: aren't they all allegedly? Um so, we we was dipping

1135
01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:36,080
Speaker 1: and doing it. But his thing was he would never

1136
01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:39,680
Speaker 1: come right, and it was like we would, but my

1137
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:42,040
Speaker 1: thing was still like after like an hour or two hours,

1138
01:02:42,080 --> 01:02:44,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, I gotta go. I'm off this

1139
01:02:44,680 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 1: like the caucus. So he like we would just be fucking.

1140
01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:51,040
Speaker 1: But the thing is he was a heavy drinker. So

1141
01:02:51,200 --> 01:02:54,560
Speaker 1: he was like drinking and drinking and smoking mad cigarettes

1142
01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:57,000
Speaker 1: and he just wouldn't come. Then one day I sucked

1143
01:02:57,040 --> 01:02:59,280
Speaker 1: his dick and it was over like two seconds. But

1144
01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:02,360
Speaker 1: guess what, he wasn't drunk. It was the morning after

1145
01:03:02,440 --> 01:03:05,360
Speaker 1: we spent the night, woke up, you know, just yes,

1146
01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 1: it was like okay, I got a fat Yes. I

1147
01:03:07,560 --> 01:03:09,720
Speaker 1: was like at first, I thought, oh it might be

1148
01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:12,120
Speaker 1: maybe maybe I'm a lucy goose and I don't even

1149
01:03:12,160 --> 01:03:16,760
Speaker 1: realize it, you know, But I was like, you talk

1150
01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:18,440
Speaker 1: to me, guys. I could grip a pen right now,

1151
01:03:19,120 --> 01:03:25,360
Speaker 1: not a fucking pen in it right now. So with

1152
01:03:25,680 --> 01:03:32,160
Speaker 1: that being said, I want to bring right now we

1153
01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:34,959
Speaker 1: call that ship. About fifty two seconds late. You said

1154
01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:39,680
Speaker 1: a pen. You say, if you could grip a pen,

1155
01:03:40,160 --> 01:03:44,320
Speaker 1: you know thing? Can you hear me now? That a pen? Hello? Pen?

1156
01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:46,400
Speaker 1: Because if you can't grip, if you could grip a pen,

1157
01:03:47,040 --> 01:03:51,280
Speaker 1: you could grip anything. I mean, Jesus, he does your

1158
01:03:51,320 --> 01:03:54,720
Speaker 1: dick have to be? You know? But no, I'm just

1159
01:03:54,760 --> 01:03:57,560
Speaker 1: walking around. I wanted to bring this up because Dustin

1160
01:03:57,680 --> 01:04:01,040
Speaker 1: got a dick. So we're gonna talk about your dick

1161
01:04:01,040 --> 01:04:03,360
Speaker 1: a little bit. If you don't mind. You thought you

1162
01:04:03,440 --> 01:04:06,920
Speaker 1: was gonna get out of here, escape free. No, now

1163
01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:08,880
Speaker 1: we're about to talk about Dustin's dick, y'all For all

1164
01:04:08,920 --> 01:04:11,560
Speaker 1: of you who really came for Dustin's dick. Hey, we're

1165
01:04:11,560 --> 01:04:15,200
Speaker 1: at the part of the show for Instagram page Dustin's Justin's. Yeah,

1166
01:04:15,240 --> 01:04:18,480
Speaker 1: we're gonna get one. We're gonna start one, damn. But

1167
01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:21,720
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk to you, um and talk about

1168
01:04:21,760 --> 01:04:26,720
Speaker 1: look and about the different ways that your feelings, your moods,

1169
01:04:26,760 --> 01:04:32,840
Speaker 1: your state of mind, all of those things. Yes, yeah, so, um,

1170
01:04:33,760 --> 01:04:35,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think I only have sex when

1171
01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:37,840
Speaker 1: I'm in a when I'm horny and in a sexy mood.

1172
01:04:38,480 --> 01:04:40,800
Speaker 1: So for me, I don't have I've never been like

1173
01:04:40,840 --> 01:04:43,000
Speaker 1: about the funk, and my dick didn't get hard. If

1174
01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:45,080
Speaker 1: I was about the funk, I was excited to have sex.

1175
01:04:45,680 --> 01:04:47,680
Speaker 1: I think a lot of that. Some of that plays

1176
01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:51,400
Speaker 1: into it when people just put themselves in situations un

1177
01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:54,920
Speaker 1: necessarily sometimes to be so excited at the prospect that

1178
01:04:55,040 --> 01:04:56,640
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, you say yes to everything,

1179
01:04:56,720 --> 01:04:59,600
Speaker 1: but maybe you shouldn't. Sorry to be tired, ship, Sorry

1180
01:04:59,680 --> 01:05:02,000
Speaker 1: to you know, not tonight the motherfucker. You know what

1181
01:05:02,040 --> 01:05:05,720
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Sorry you have tomorrow type ship, you know,

1182
01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:09,120
Speaker 1: But sometimes sex wakes you up when you're tired, you

1183
01:05:09,160 --> 01:05:11,400
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. So if you are tired, sometimes

1184
01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:13,600
Speaker 1: it's good to have sex. I think everybody knows their

1185
01:05:13,640 --> 01:05:16,600
Speaker 1: body and their agency, so you know, you know, when

1186
01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:19,080
Speaker 1: you know, all systems are gone, and that's the thing,

1187
01:05:19,200 --> 01:05:22,000
Speaker 1: like people know their bodies, but you have to realize

1188
01:05:22,040 --> 01:05:24,680
Speaker 1: they might not know it under certain drugs. They may

1189
01:05:24,760 --> 01:05:29,000
Speaker 1: not know it under certain alcoholic beverages. Do that stuff

1190
01:05:29,040 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 1: before you fuck, yeah, because you're drunk. You're so excited,

1191
01:05:32,960 --> 01:05:36,120
Speaker 1: but it's too excited, right, and then it affects other

1192
01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:38,320
Speaker 1: parts of the body. And the same for women. If

1193
01:05:38,400 --> 01:05:41,240
Speaker 1: maybe you know you're super horny, but maybe you realize

1194
01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:43,240
Speaker 1: you're not getting as wet as you thought you would be.

1195
01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:45,000
Speaker 1: I know I've judged myself like, oh, I almost really

1196
01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:47,360
Speaker 1: not not like this nigga, because my pussy wasn't as wet.

1197
01:05:47,760 --> 01:05:50,960
Speaker 1: And we had a conversation where sometimes depending on your cycle,

1198
01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:54,000
Speaker 1: your pussy might not get as wet, depending on your

1199
01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:57,520
Speaker 1: stress levels, your hormones. Like you know, I really would

1200
01:05:57,640 --> 01:05:59,880
Speaker 1: sometimes think if my pussy didn't get wet, maybe I

1201
01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:03,040
Speaker 1: really didn't like you like that. And so I want

1202
01:06:03,960 --> 01:06:08,000
Speaker 1: the women who think that with dicks, not Justin's dick,

1203
01:06:08,160 --> 01:06:10,080
Speaker 1: but the dicks that you're taking, whether in your mouth,

1204
01:06:10,160 --> 01:06:14,560
Speaker 1: your ass, all three holes. You know, ears matter, No,

1205
01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:23,760
Speaker 1: no one's sucking ears. You think that's a king, You

1206
01:06:23,840 --> 01:06:28,960
Speaker 1: think dicks are fair. Not you earlier said here, I

1207
01:06:28,960 --> 01:06:31,080
Speaker 1: ain't even gonna go up to that, but you know, no,

1208
01:06:31,280 --> 01:06:35,200
Speaker 1: you missed so an upcoming guys. We justoke. She was

1209
01:06:35,240 --> 01:06:37,880
Speaker 1: saying a lot. You're right, you're right. I'm gonna say

1210
01:06:37,920 --> 01:06:40,080
Speaker 1: you're right. I don't like when I'm kissing a guy

1211
01:06:40,120 --> 01:06:42,120
Speaker 1: and they licked my ear. I'm not feel like that.

1212
01:06:42,200 --> 01:06:46,240
Speaker 1: It's so gross to me. You don't like it. That's

1213
01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:48,520
Speaker 1: the thing. Anything you do with your mouth, Like when

1214
01:06:48,520 --> 01:06:50,560
Speaker 1: you're kissing somebody, you shouldn't have a lot of spit. No,

1215
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:54,320
Speaker 1: that's nasty. But like licking ears that turns people along

1216
01:06:54,640 --> 01:06:56,680
Speaker 1: might be okay, I give you sucking dick. It should

1217
01:06:56,680 --> 01:07:01,200
Speaker 1: be sloppy down us to do with. Yeah, yeah, but

1218
01:07:01,320 --> 01:07:03,800
Speaker 1: like if you kiss them, like, I don't like people

1219
01:07:03,880 --> 01:07:05,680
Speaker 1: kiss somebody because I feel like you put when you

1220
01:07:05,720 --> 01:07:07,040
Speaker 1: put your tongue about and you hear that weird, Like

1221
01:07:07,800 --> 01:07:10,640
Speaker 1: it's like, oh god, what is that? I don't like?

1222
01:07:10,840 --> 01:07:12,720
Speaker 1: Am I gonna get an ear infection? I don't. I

1223
01:07:12,920 --> 01:07:15,440
Speaker 1: don't like it. I don't like it. That's not sexy

1224
01:07:15,440 --> 01:07:17,560
Speaker 1: to me. And but I'm also a stupid a little

1225
01:07:17,560 --> 01:07:19,760
Speaker 1: bit because I'm never like, you know, I don't like it.

1226
01:07:19,880 --> 01:07:23,280
Speaker 1: I'm kind of just like whar And I'm just like,

1227
01:07:23,720 --> 01:07:25,240
Speaker 1: when did I get to this point in my life?

1228
01:07:25,320 --> 01:07:27,120
Speaker 1: And we well, we talked about that a lot to

1229
01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:30,120
Speaker 1: a communication. Since if you're nigga, like getting in your

1230
01:07:30,200 --> 01:07:32,160
Speaker 1: ear and you don't like this, you tell him like,

1231
01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:35,520
Speaker 1: I don't like that ship on behalf of the Nigger Council,

1232
01:07:35,800 --> 01:07:38,440
Speaker 1: on behalf of the Nigger Brethren. I'm speaking for us all.

1233
01:07:38,640 --> 01:07:41,320
Speaker 1: Tell us if you don't like that ship that same

1234
01:07:41,480 --> 01:07:44,640
Speaker 1: just how vocal you are just now, Jamie Parris, you

1235
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:47,320
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, speak on it, like, speak up,

1236
01:07:47,400 --> 01:07:49,680
Speaker 1: said niggas ain't playing itself, you know what I'm saying.

1237
01:07:50,160 --> 01:07:53,480
Speaker 1: And because sex is supposed to be enjoyable for everybody involved.

1238
01:07:53,840 --> 01:07:55,600
Speaker 1: So if you don't like something, speak up. I don't

1239
01:07:55,640 --> 01:07:58,920
Speaker 1: like being bit. Don't be bribing my nipples and and

1240
01:07:59,000 --> 01:08:01,480
Speaker 1: sh like get the going. I don't like that. That hurts,

1241
01:08:01,880 --> 01:08:04,200
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Don't do that ship Somebody

1242
01:08:04,320 --> 01:08:07,720
Speaker 1: trying to slap me at one time? You call a

1243
01:08:07,760 --> 01:08:09,680
Speaker 1: little bit. But I don't like to guess. I don't

1244
01:08:09,680 --> 01:08:13,240
Speaker 1: like speaking. You don't like speaking? You know, I only

1245
01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:17,240
Speaker 1: like it when I asked for it, Like yeah, that's

1246
01:08:17,320 --> 01:08:19,479
Speaker 1: the only when I like it. When I just out

1247
01:08:19,479 --> 01:08:21,960
Speaker 1: of nowhere, then it's like, wait, I don't think I've

1248
01:08:22,040 --> 01:08:27,920
Speaker 1: really like, why just just slap me? So? And now

1249
01:08:27,960 --> 01:08:32,600
Speaker 1: we're fighting right right, the fucking fighting, a all of

1250
01:08:32,640 --> 01:08:36,200
Speaker 1: it in between. Well, I hope that you guys took

1251
01:08:36,360 --> 01:08:39,680
Speaker 1: so much from this episode. I don't listen because it

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01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 1: was a mouthful goddamn but I love so now you're

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Speaker 1: going back to the bigger pause. Oh wait, you know

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Speaker 1: what I was just thinking to hold on. Maybe his

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01:08:51,280 --> 01:08:54,720
Speaker 1: dick was so big it couldn't get fully hard. Na

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01:08:55,320 --> 01:08:57,720
Speaker 1: said he had been sporting it, showing her like when

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Speaker 1: it was super hardy. I think it was. I'm wrong

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01:09:00,400 --> 01:09:03,200
Speaker 1: with her. I'm just gonna say it probably was. I

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Speaker 1: could say when think now we ended with after it

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01:09:06,040 --> 01:09:12,960
Speaker 1: was her because I like guys bite their nails. That

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Speaker 1: turns me off. So maybe the way she was sucking

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Speaker 1: his dick, he didn't enjoy it, and he didn't vocalize it.

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01:09:19,720 --> 01:09:21,200
Speaker 1: We're going to get down to that, Like it's not

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01:09:21,280 --> 01:09:23,280
Speaker 1: make it seem like you just heard. Maybe he wasn't

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01:09:23,280 --> 01:09:27,200
Speaker 1: communicative and what wasn't turning him on? She had a

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01:09:27,240 --> 01:09:30,400
Speaker 1: big old As Family re union t shirt. What did

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Speaker 1: she have on with the white sop with the whole

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Speaker 1: y'all really don't like shirt. Ship. If it's a cute

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Speaker 1: T shirt, it got to be acute. Fact that it's

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Speaker 1: a big T shirt don't make you sexy. Yeah, I

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01:09:42,520 --> 01:09:44,600
Speaker 1: think it has. He even a guy's T shirt like

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01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:47,400
Speaker 1: your man T shirt, he might think it's sexy. But

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Speaker 1: for him to just come home and it's like, oh

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01:09:49,479 --> 01:09:51,759
Speaker 1: who shirts that I just want to just be sitting around,

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01:09:51,840 --> 01:09:55,200
Speaker 1: like why are you wearing your grandmother's walk this shirt?

1276
01:09:55,240 --> 01:09:58,120
Speaker 1: Like that's not sex. It's all faded and ship. So

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01:09:58,320 --> 01:10:00,640
Speaker 1: when they say you got your T shirt the panties on,

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01:10:01,000 --> 01:10:03,519
Speaker 1: he wanted to be his Shores T shirt and your

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01:10:03,560 --> 01:10:05,720
Speaker 1: panties that you pick the T shirt that he left

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01:10:05,800 --> 01:10:08,320
Speaker 1: on the floor where he took it off to that

1281
01:10:08,360 --> 01:10:11,240
Speaker 1: still kind of smelled like that little Jean Paul Goltier,

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01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:14,759
Speaker 1: that little Arrows so that you know Paco roband stiffs

1283
01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:16,960
Speaker 1: like lingering on it or if if you really got money,

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01:10:17,040 --> 01:10:22,280
Speaker 1: bond number nige, you know, like aba, That's what I'm

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01:10:22,320 --> 01:10:24,400
Speaker 1: saying because Arrows is always on sale. But that is

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Speaker 1: a good choice. That is a good choice, and sometimes

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Speaker 1: you get the box that that comes of the free

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Speaker 1: water ladies. You free game, right, free game, You're welcome

1289
01:10:34,600 --> 01:10:36,760
Speaker 1: talk to me nice. That's why we started charging ship.

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01:10:37,160 --> 01:10:39,160
Speaker 1: This needs to be charged. You good bit, I'm gonna

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01:10:39,200 --> 01:10:43,439
Speaker 1: need you come back. I'm a frugal bitch. Well, before

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Speaker 1: we go ahead and sign out again, I appreciate both

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01:10:45,479 --> 01:10:47,439
Speaker 1: the offer coming on having this conversation. Hope you guys

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01:10:47,520 --> 01:10:50,920
Speaker 1: enjoyed this episode. Where can our listeners find the two

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01:10:50,960 --> 01:10:54,439
Speaker 1: of you? We're gonna start once again, ladies. First, well,

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Speaker 1: you could find me on Instagram and Snapchat. Is Jamie

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Speaker 1: Paris spell j A E M y Paris p A

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Speaker 1: r s. If you don't know how that swell Paris

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Speaker 1: sucks to be you, um, and that is the same

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Speaker 1: thing on my Snapchat, So like share, kind of follow,

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Speaker 1: and if you guys are in New York City, you're

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Speaker 1: feel free to hit me up or the Black Sicken couple,

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Speaker 1: the Swinger couple that we had on They're the ones

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Speaker 1: who told me about fairy tales. I'm so excited to

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Speaker 1: be in a city like New York City where this

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Speaker 1: is an option. Um, you may need to research. If

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Speaker 1: you're in smaller cities or smaller towns, this may not

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Speaker 1: be you know, available for you. But in New York City,

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Speaker 1: they're a place called fairy Tales, look it up. I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna give you all the address because follow me

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Speaker 1: on finow me on Instagram, and y'all know where all

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Speaker 1: the transgender parties are. Where we've got some hot chicks

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Speaker 1: and a lot of them got dicks. Oh so you're welcome, yes, absolutely?

1314
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Speaker 1: And where can they find you? My beautiful, lovely Dustin.

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Speaker 1: Um so, now all my social media is look at Dustin.

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Speaker 1: You know where the funk I'd be here at dust

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01:12:00,560 --> 01:12:03,120
Speaker 1: Look at Dustin, look at dust It started because that

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01:12:03,200 --> 01:12:05,679
Speaker 1: was my Instagram. I felt like, that's my name, Dustin.

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01:12:05,760 --> 01:12:07,160
Speaker 1: You look at pictures of me on there, So it

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01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:12,560
Speaker 1: made sense. Yeah, started. Not only that, do you have

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01:12:12,760 --> 01:12:16,080
Speaker 1: any more tour dates coming up? Where? Ye? So I

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Speaker 1: will be in Orlando November seventeen, seven, dog right here

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Speaker 1: getting the check brain. I will be in November. I

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01:12:29,960 --> 01:12:33,479
Speaker 1: can say it though. So November seventeen you can catch

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Speaker 1: me on tour with McDonald's at the Florida Blue Classic.

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Speaker 1: I think is it Florida Blue Class? That Classic Fami versus. Yeah,

1327
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Speaker 1: you're going out there for the clay. You're gonna be

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Speaker 1: it's so ratcheous. Oh my Alabama. This was meant to

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Speaker 1: be because McDonald's red and yellow. Hello, I'm loving that

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Speaker 1: ship remixing and what else? So after you're going d

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Speaker 1: in December, Um, you can watch me on Grown man Ship.

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Speaker 1: I'm talking to you to the camera right here. You

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Speaker 1: can catch me on Grown man Ship on cash This

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Speaker 1: Life dot com. Um the Friends on podcast every Wednesday. Um.

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Speaker 1: It's available on all your platforms, so Apple Podcasts, Um,

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Speaker 1: Spotify if that's your thing. Title, you know what I'm saying, Um, Stitcher,

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Speaker 1: whatever you you know, wherever you can find it, you

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Speaker 1: can catch us there. Um what else? What else? Baby?

1339
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Speaker 1: I can find dusting on YouTube. I do want to

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Speaker 1: shout out once again all of our YouTube viewership. Also

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Speaker 1: dropping a third bonus. I'm a busy ass bitch. I

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Speaker 1: don't know if I have time to but until y'all

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Speaker 1: can get me to quit my motherfucking job, we may

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Speaker 1: have to hold off on that. What. UM. I appreciate

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Speaker 1: all of you who support the brand UM. We are

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Speaker 1: here in these streets. Hopefully twenty nineteen you see more

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