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Speaker 1: Hello, beautiful people, Welcome to another episode and the first

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Speaker 1: one of the new year of The Truth after Dark.

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Speaker 4: I am your host, zar Faara Day.

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Speaker 2: I am your boy, Paul Anthony The Truth Piers. Hey man,

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Speaker 2: it's been a great year. We're coming back for the

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Speaker 2: new year even bigger and better. Make sure y'all continue

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Speaker 2: to support us. We appreciate y'all. We're almost at one

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Speaker 4: February of last year, twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 4: So anyways, this story is super crazy.

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Speaker 1: So a woman finally said yes to her man after

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Speaker 1: People in the comments are clowning him, saying that he's

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Speaker 2: What are your thoughts?

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Speaker 1: Should he get props for being patient? Or is this

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Speaker 2: This is the worst decision. Can he's making it his life?

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Speaker 4: Now, let me ask you this.

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Speaker 1: If a woman you proposed to him right now and

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Speaker 2: I'm leaving her? Like what else is there? I decided

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Speaker 2: to take the next step. We're together, right, yeah, you

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Speaker 2: want to be with me? Obviously we're together. You're telling

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Speaker 2: would man, you know what I would do. I would

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Speaker 2: we're gonna walk down that aisle. I'm out of there.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna yeah, because you was petty forty three goddamn time.

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Speaker 2: I wanna be petty once now.

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Speaker 1: So is that equivalent to a woman being pregnant and

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Speaker 4: What's the difference? Should she leave that man?

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Speaker 2: Do wait? Say that again?

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Speaker 1: So like if you're saying, oh, a man proposed and

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Speaker 4: What are we supposed to be together? What's the problem?

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Speaker 1: So if a man, if a woman gets pregnant by

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Speaker 4: She should leave him? Because what's the difference?

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Speaker 2: That is not equivalent to that?

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Speaker 4: How is it not?

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Speaker 1: Because people think that having marriage is a bigger commitment

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Speaker 4: But I don't agree with that.

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Speaker 2: She should leave him if he say I'm not ready.

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Speaker 1: To have that what's the difference of saying I'm not

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Speaker 2: Plan the kid because we plan. We can plan the

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Speaker 4: No, but you can.

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Speaker 1: But the point is is you can plan an engagement

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Speaker 4: You pop the question just like I popped out pregnant.

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Speaker 1: I'm not ready for this engagement right now because I

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Speaker 2: That's why on both cases it should be a breakup.

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Speaker 1: So you think it should be a breaking for the

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Speaker 2: It's the other way around. If he gets her pregnant

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Speaker 2: and she doesn't want it, like, and he's like, what

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Speaker 2: why want equivalent? That's equivalent to what.

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Speaker 1: You So why does it matter if the woman wants

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Speaker 2: Most of the time the woman wants it.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that's not true.

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Speaker 2: That is true. I don't think that's true. Like if

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Speaker 2: Like you know what I'm saying, like like damn, like

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Speaker 2: what like if she says I'm not no, Like that's

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Speaker 2: equivalent to that. If the woman says no, yes, it is.

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Speaker 2: It makes more sense that way, because that's not because

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Speaker 4: The woman.

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Speaker 1: When a man says no, he doesn't want to have

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Speaker 2: But I'm telling you that's what that The equivalent of

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Speaker 4: So d d G's sister proposed to her man.

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Speaker 2: She proposed she should That's what I think it should be.

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Speaker 1: I am blown away by any woman proposing to please

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Speaker 1: I'm never getting on a need to.

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Speaker 4: Propose to a man that.

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Speaker 2: Anyway.

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Speaker 4: Listen to what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: As a woman, I don't think you should propose to

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Speaker 4: An imbalance in the relationship.

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Speaker 1: And I think that it's just like as a woman,

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Speaker 1: you should I don't want a man who says I'm

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Speaker 4: Making a big life decision to propose.

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Speaker 2: Masculine women find do that.

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Speaker 1: I don't care because I'm not going to be masculine

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Speaker 1: I think that that is out of pocket and out

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Speaker 2: I don't have that out of pocket because of like society.

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Speaker 1: No, it's not about society. It's about the imbalance of

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry, I don't understand. The point is.

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Speaker 4: And I believe that.

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Speaker 1: So if you're telling me, I'm getting on knees to

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Speaker 4: This, you tell me that.

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Speaker 1: I'm not telling you that we about to make a

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Speaker 4: I'm not doing that.

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Speaker 1: You tell me about that, you tell me when to

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Speaker 2: Then are the first to get on the knee, But

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Speaker 2: then women are the first to give you them papers.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I could agree with that.

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Speaker 2: So what's wrong with a woman getting on that knee

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Speaker 2: because she's gonna adventure to give you the papers too,

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Speaker 2: So do both.

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Speaker 4: I'm not getting on that knee.

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Speaker 2: You might as well get she might as well do both.

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Speaker 1: Then I'm not getting on that knee. Ever, my dad

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Speaker 2: You can stand up and give it.

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Speaker 4: I'm not I'm not proposed.

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Speaker 1: I'm not standing up. I'm not proposing to a man.

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Speaker 1: I'm not nothing, and my dad would be disgraced with

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Speaker 1: me as a seventy seven year old man.

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Speaker 4: He will, he will blow him.

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Speaker 1: I'm never doing that. I don't care if you want

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Speaker 2: Three or four years, and he was like that, if

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Speaker 1: Marry you, I'll married that's blowing me. Why are we

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying like I'm asked you a question. If

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Speaker 2: I don't believe in marriage, but like, if you ask

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Speaker 1: Well, if you don't believe in me mar rich, we

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Speaker 2: Why people believed it. And they said, I don't believe

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Speaker 2: it no more. In the relationship, things change and.

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Speaker 4: We shouldn't be together. Then that's okay.

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Speaker 2: We all together, like I want to marry you, and

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Speaker 2: if you ask me to marry I'll marry you.

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Speaker 1: Well, we're not getting married then, and I'm not going

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Speaker 4: It's not my ego.

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Speaker 1: The fact that what kind of man if you asked

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Speaker 5: Be like such a feminine thing.

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Speaker 1: If you asked you to marry me, if you asked

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Speaker 4: Ill, No, that's nasty. I don't like a man. That's like,

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Speaker 4: if you tell me what to do, I'll do it.

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Speaker 4: That's giving.

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Speaker 2: That's not giving.

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Speaker 4: I don't care.

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Speaker 1: That's what it will sound like me to be in

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Speaker 1: I'll do it. No, I'm not asking you, and I

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Speaker 2: If you get on one me right now, I'll marry you.

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Speaker 4: Bye.

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Speaker 2: There you saying by yeah, you're blowing, you'll break breaking.

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Speaker 4: You're blowing me.

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Speaker 2: I will be a disgrace.

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Speaker 4: I can't even take you home with my family want

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Speaker 2: So then when you go to your family and you

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Speaker 2: ten things. But now because of that, that's a deal breaker.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to say that I will break up,

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Speaker 1: I don't know because I'm not in a position. But

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Speaker 1: I will not ask you to marry me. I will

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Speaker 1: not ask the man to marry me, period point. Like,

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Speaker 1: I'm just not doing that. Like, I believe in traditional

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Speaker 1: the man is the head of the household. To me,

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Speaker 1: the man runs the decisions. I will ask my man like,

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Speaker 1: is it okay?

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Speaker 4: If I go?

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Speaker 1: Is okay if I do this? Like I'm cool with that.

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Speaker 1: I believe in that I like you that you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Absolutely.

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Speaker 1: I believe that I should clean up. I believe that

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Speaker 1: I should cook. I believe that if my man is like,

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Speaker 1: comes on, three ones on'ce have sex?

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Speaker 4: We could do it.

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Speaker 1: You want a sandwich, y'all get up? Like, I'm not

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Speaker 1: doing none of that. I think that's weird. That's how

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Speaker 1: I was raised, That's how my sisters are with their husband,

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Speaker 1: That's how my dad is with my mom. Like, I

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Speaker 1: to where I'm making big decisions for our relationship. I

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Speaker 1: always have our little things we're gonna say, but for

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Speaker 1: I want him to make the big decisions when we're

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Speaker 1: Like I don't want that. I just don't want that,

442
00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:49,120
Speaker 1: Like that's weird to me. And whoever wants to do that,

443
00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:51,359
Speaker 1: that's cool. I feel like the newer generation is with

444
00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:54,280
Speaker 1: some whole freaky stuff. They've been on some different little

445
00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:58,600
Speaker 1: items cool, get into that vibe. I am just old

446
00:21:58,640 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 1: school values like that.

447
00:22:00,040 --> 00:22:00,720
Speaker 4: I don't want that.

448
00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:03,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, old school, yeah, older older.

449
00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:07,600
Speaker 4: I'm an older woman, so for me, raised.

450
00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:10,000
Speaker 2: A certain way and that, but you got to stand

451
00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,320
Speaker 2: on that then I'm standing on it.

452
00:22:12,359 --> 00:22:13,320
Speaker 4: Tan tos down that.

453
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:16,640
Speaker 2: Very one like the old school values.

454
00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 4: I like an old school value.

455
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:19,720
Speaker 2: I don't care.

456
00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,320
Speaker 1: That's the thing, And that's why I like women be

457
00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:27,080
Speaker 1: like it's control, you're controlling. But for me personally, I

458
00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:29,320
Speaker 1: like a little bit of control. I like a person

459
00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:31,159
Speaker 1: to be like I'm making decisions. I'm telling you what

460
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:34,160
Speaker 1: to do. All right, Cool, I'm cool with that. I've

461
00:22:34,200 --> 00:22:36,159
Speaker 1: always been cool with that. I don't have a problem

462
00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 1: with anything. I don't even have a problem with the man.

463
00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:39,919
Speaker 1: It's like, I don't change that. Outfit is to this

464
00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:42,280
Speaker 1: like I have been in it. I'm like, all right, cool,

465
00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:44,760
Speaker 1: I promise like tan To's down, I'm on that. I

466
00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:48,159
Speaker 1: don't I don't care about that. So anyways, this is

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Speaker 4: So the question.

472
00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 1: Of the day is there's a clip online of a

473
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:11,920
Speaker 1: news station talking about men and women having backup plans

474
00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:13,320
Speaker 1: within their relationships.

475
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:14,960
Speaker 4: My question for you is, do.

476
00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:20,120
Speaker 1: You think there's more women or more men with backup options? Oh?

477
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 2: I think it's more women with backup options you think so, yeah,

478
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 2: because I don't know, dog, that's a good one. I am.

479
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:34,600
Speaker 2: I never had no backup options. Okay, I never had

480
00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:38,120
Speaker 2: backup options in a relationship. I think that's a woman thing.

481
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,040
Speaker 2: They gonna keep a man in the back pocket because

482
00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:45,040
Speaker 2: a man don't with women and other men. The women

483
00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:47,680
Speaker 2: don't got to talk to the man as much as

484
00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:52,280
Speaker 2: the man gotta talk to keep it cool. Yeah, I

485
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:54,119
Speaker 2: can see I'm saying, because like if you're dealing with

486
00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:58,240
Speaker 2: somebody else, you gotta text them, call them every other

487
00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 2: day or every couple of days. Where woman she might

488
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 2: not talk to him for a week or two, or

489
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:05,199
Speaker 2: you know, y'all got to schedule, or it's something crazy.

490
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:07,240
Speaker 2: You're telling them meet me at the trash can in

491
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:11,560
Speaker 2: this alley, like y'all, y'all, A man will be there too, yeah,

492
00:24:11,800 --> 00:24:13,360
Speaker 2: just for a five minute conversation.

493
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:17,680
Speaker 1: Whereas or women a lot, I feel like they are

494
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:20,520
Speaker 1: more inclined to like have a man that they'll talk

495
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 1: to just emotionally and it won't be about anything, Like

496
00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 1: you don't have to see the man, you just call him. Oh,

497
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 1: this is how I'm feeling, Like da da da da,

498
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:31,640
Speaker 1: And just like emotionally dump on him, because I feel

499
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:34,520
Speaker 1: like there's a lot of men who are so enamored

500
00:24:34,520 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 1: by like a woman's beauty or her vibe and they

501
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 1: just don't care.

502
00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 4: They'll just be in her life or whatever.

503
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:41,399
Speaker 1: Like, as long as you can just call me, I'll

504
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 1: always answer, I'll be available.

505
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:45,159
Speaker 4: There are men like that.

506
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:48,600
Speaker 2: But the men are natural like hunters. Yeah. So like

507
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:52,639
Speaker 2: if a man feel like he can take another man's prey,

508
00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:56,000
Speaker 2: he don't care how long it take. He gonna sit

509
00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:58,359
Speaker 2: back in the weeds and the bushes and be waiting

510
00:24:58,400 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 2: on that.

511
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:01,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, man, for sure.

512
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:04,439
Speaker 1: Like I think that there's men that will check on

513
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 1: a woman periodically to see, like you still in your relationship,

514
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,160
Speaker 1: or check your Instagram to see because there's a big

515
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:15,119
Speaker 1: viral meme that what's his name Speedy, I think his

516
00:25:15,200 --> 00:25:15,520
Speaker 1: name is.

517
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:17,240
Speaker 2: He's a famous interviewer.

518
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,920
Speaker 1: He has a thing where he's like when I see

519
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:21,760
Speaker 1: she took her man's pictures.

520
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 4: Off the page, I'm like, whoa.

521
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 1: And it has like a million likes, and men are like, yeah,

522
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,600
Speaker 1: as soon as that man is off that page, I'm

523
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:30,120
Speaker 1: in the DMS, Like, or if that man is not

524
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 1: on that page, I'm in the DS like if she

525
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 1: physically don't have no man, cool because I feel like

526
00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 1: men are more respectful.

527
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 4: You'll be surprised of women in relationships.

528
00:25:39,560 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 2: I've noticed that.

529
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:42,760
Speaker 1: Like, man, if you tell them like I'm in a relationship,

530
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 1: they will literally be like oh for shore, like but

531
00:25:46,720 --> 00:25:49,119
Speaker 1: they see that relationship fall apart. They are on that

532
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 1: ass see this, I feel.

533
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:54,360
Speaker 2: How do you feel about being a relationship and posting

534
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 2: your partner though, Like I feel that just give him,

535
00:25:58,080 --> 00:25:59,760
Speaker 2: I give the internet more, ammo?

536
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:03,480
Speaker 1: I feel yeah, I could see that just like oh

537
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, damn, I'm.

538
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:08,440
Speaker 2: Gonna be on her. He what like when y'all post

539
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:11,159
Speaker 2: a lot, but unless you ain't, unless you're posting the

540
00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 2: thirst try pictures and he ain't on there, Like if

541
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 2: you ain't doing all that and you ain't posting your man,

542
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 2: but then when you post your man, it's gonna be

543
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:21,480
Speaker 2: or you post your girl, it's gonna be more eyes

544
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 2: on her now yeah, more eyes on him now. Wow. Torn.

545
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 2: I'm so torn with that, especially like for me, like

546
00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:34,560
Speaker 2: I've never been a big poster of my relationships. Yeah,

547
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 2: like never, And I like it that way because it

548
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 2: just it's just it's annoying because mother is just say anything.

549
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, they want to drag you. I posted.

550
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:49,719
Speaker 1: I'll be honest, Like I've posted my relationships on Instagram before,

551
00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:52,439
Speaker 1: like my axe, you know, like he had me on

552
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:53,080
Speaker 1: his page.

553
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:54,879
Speaker 4: I had him on his page, like people knew we

554
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:55,399
Speaker 4: were together.

555
00:26:57,920 --> 00:27:00,359
Speaker 1: I'm not a big poster in general, like I'll be

556
00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:03,200
Speaker 1: all over the world and barely post anything, like that's

557
00:27:03,240 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 1: the thing about me as a content creator. I should

558
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 1: do better, But I don't post a lot. And I

559
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 1: remember my last AX will be like post this of us,

560
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 1: Like what I don't like that I'm not being pressed

561
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 1: to post nothing, like no, why don't she spost it us?

562
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 4: Like you're thirsty.

563
00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:22,120
Speaker 1: I don't want to have to post if I don't

564
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,679
Speaker 1: want to, like or whatever. But it's not like I'm

565
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,680
Speaker 1: sitting here posting the dinners and everything. But I don't

566
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 1: post the man like I don't post nothing half the time.

567
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,439
Speaker 1: And that's the thing about me. But yeah, I have

568
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,240
Speaker 1: done that before. And you know what I hate is

569
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 1: like the idea of like taking that down, like I've

570
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:40,600
Speaker 1: done that and had to sit there and be like,

571
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,639
Speaker 1: let me take these pictures down down because we go together,

572
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: and then going to his page and he took them

573
00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 1: pictures down and then it's like everyone knows, like, oh shit,

574
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:51,160
Speaker 1: y'all are not together anymore.

575
00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 4: And then as soon as that happened, every man is like,

576
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 4: what's that? What's that like first right, because we're not

577
00:27:57,760 --> 00:27:58,439
Speaker 4: together anymore?

578
00:27:58,560 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean.

579
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 1: I'm not against posting my partner, but I feel like

580
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,399
Speaker 1: posting your partner to me, I'll never post a man

581
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 1: until me and this man is engaged married. Like my

582
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,239
Speaker 1: best friend she was like, I'm never posting a man

583
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:11,879
Speaker 1: ever getting my life until I'm engaged.

584
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:15,920
Speaker 4: And her her, she got engaged.

585
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,160
Speaker 1: And she posted him when they got engaged, Like that's

586
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:19,840
Speaker 1: all I'm posting when we get engaged.

587
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 2: Cool.

588
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 1: Other than that, I'm not looking stupid no more in

589
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 1: this life, Like I don't want to be showing all

590
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:27,240
Speaker 1: of that and like dah dah da da da. But

591
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:30,040
Speaker 1: as a woman, I will say, there's a reason that

592
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 1: you do post your man though, to be honest with you,

593
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 1: because it does stop all the dms going crazy because

594
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:37,560
Speaker 1: like every day are you single?

595
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 2: What's that? What's good?

596
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 1: This person following me, this person, this celebrity, Like it's

597
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 1: sewing a lot that you just want to sometimes be like,

598
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, publicly, I'm not available. Don't hit me up

599
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:49,920
Speaker 1: like sometimes you do want to do that as a woman,

600
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:54,440
Speaker 1: because it's overwhelming. It's a lot like you would be surprised,

601
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 1: and it's just like I want less of that and

602
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 1: more of leave me alone.

603
00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:03,080
Speaker 2: It's good to get that, just to know you still

604
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:04,280
Speaker 2: got it throwing not cooked.

605
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:06,240
Speaker 4: I don't need to know that. I told you. I

606
00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 4: already know that I got it pure, point blank. Baby.

607
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 2: It ain't nothing like you look at the comments you

608
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 2: like to be feeling.

609
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:18,440
Speaker 1: Like, nah, I don't think that that does anything for me.

610
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 1: I think it's like how you're famous and when you

611
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 1: go while people are like Paul, Paul, can I get

612
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: a picture? After a while, you're like, it's cool. Someone

613
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:26,880
Speaker 1: else will thinking, I bet you he loves that. It's

614
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 1: boosting his ego. After a while, you don't give a damn.

615
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 1: That's how I feel about the men I've had every

616
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 1: man try to talk. Why do I care anymore? It's

617
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:37,160
Speaker 1: not doing nothing at this point, leave me alone, Like

618
00:29:37,240 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 1: at this point, you're talking to yourself in the DM

619
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 1: thirty times.

620
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 4: I'd rather just have more, and for me, I'm focused

621
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 4: on like.

622
00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 1: More women followers, more women all my stuff, Like I

623
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 1: don't want to.

624
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 4: Post something as all men, like oh what's up? Are

625
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 4: you seeing? Are you this?

626
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 1: Are you that?

627
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 4: Are you that?

628
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 1: Every day I get that from every type of man

629
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 1: you can imagine, Like leave me alone, right, you know

630
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

631
00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 2: But whatever, It's like, a beautiful woman is the same

632
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:03,120
Speaker 2: thing as being a celebrity. What's the difference.

633
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 4: Like a lot of things.

634
00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 2: No, it's like you got people coming at you.

635
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 4: Yeah you do.

636
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like what's the difference? Like you a beautiful woman

637
00:30:12,720 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 2: is the same as celebrity. You got everybody hitting you

638
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 2: up anytime you go to the thing, everybody trying to

639
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 2: talk to you.

640
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 4: All this, Like it's like no different, And that's what.

641
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 2: The thing is. Everybody don't want to take a picture,

642
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 2: but they always on you.

643
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's why it's hard even when like you

644
00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 1: want to post a picture as a woman sometimes like

645
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:33,800
Speaker 1: I don't post like extra out like thirst track, but

646
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 1: like a face picture.

647
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 4: Or a little thing where you're vibing, you want.

648
00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:38,920
Speaker 1: To post that, but I know like as soon as

649
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: I post that, it's going crazy, Like you're getting so

650
00:30:43,280 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 1: many hit ups of like damn, you're so beautiful. What's

651
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 1: Up follows false falls like I don't know if they

652
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 1: sending it to each other what's up?

653
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 4: But it's like it goes crazy.

654
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 1: So sometimes I get why women be like, I'm in

655
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 1: a relationship.

656
00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 2: You should one day on Truth after Dark post the

657
00:30:58,360 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 2: Vince Carter.

658
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 4: No, I'm not doing that. I already know what you mean,

659
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:05,160
Speaker 4: but I don't even know who that is.

660
00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 1: No, I don't, but I know exactly what you're saying

661
00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 1: because you said it true at the Dark Carter. No,

662
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:14,560
Speaker 1: I'm not posting nothing about my body, like and and

663
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Speaker 1: and Yeah, we'll talk about it on the episode, because

664
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Speaker 1: there's actually something that a man said recently. No, I'm

665
00:31:23,360 --> 00:31:26,120
Speaker 1: not doing none of you. And they say that in

666
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 1: the comments on the YouTube all the time. You turn around,

667
00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 1: like just someone said, let us end o your year, right, yeah,

668
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 1: the year? Why not?

669
00:31:37,560 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 2: I'm not that's gonna boost the followers.

670
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 4: Don't solicit my body.

671
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 2: Solictening is getting paid for something. Yeah, you talk about

672
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 2: this to do that.

673
00:31:49,800 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 4: Anyways.

674
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678
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Speaker 1: the segment, moving on, moving on? What to you are

679
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 1: the signs that a relationship is over, Like, for example,

680
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 1: Cardi B. She said that her past relationship was over

681
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 1: when she would walk past her man and he wouldn't

682
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: smack her ass. That was given like you don't even

683
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 1: care no more, You're not even as always doing that,

684
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 1: like because a woman loves doing a man of smacking

685
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 1: ass when you walk by, because it's like, okay, you

686
00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: will have ass, Like how you not grab my ass?

687
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 4: And you know I have ass.

688
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 3: Right in the kitchen cooking exactly.

689
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 4: How grabbing my ass knowing I have ass?

690
00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 2: Is blowing girls with flat cheeks like they as I

691
00:32:57,840 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 2: don't have flat? Do you think?

692
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:00,840
Speaker 4: Probably?

693
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 1: Yeah? Grab a little slatchy like grab a titty, grab

694
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 1: something baby, a stomach, a titty, a ass, what what

695
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 1: you got a lego?

696
00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 4: She just because you have.

697
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I do know a woman wants

698
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:20,480
Speaker 1: to feel that, Like you're walking by me, smack a

699
00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 1: little ass, do a little grab, get a little cracking

700
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 1: like you know what I'm saying.

701
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 2: I like that?

702
00:33:27,120 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you like that so what do you

703
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 1: feel like you know, like, is there any signs when

704
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 1: you know, like a relationship beause over a lot of

705
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 1: women say they know when a man is done with you,

706
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 1: when he starts being really mean to you and like

707
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,840
Speaker 1: always super annoyed by you. It's like, oh, he must

708
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:49,840
Speaker 1: have another woman. That's like cool, but it's like also

709
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: it's hard to tell because sometimes there's men that are

710
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 1: just moody men. So it's like you give the advice

711
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 1: of like, if he's annoyed by you, then he doesn't

712
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:57,479
Speaker 1: want you.

713
00:33:57,520 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 4: But then what if you're with someone who's just moody?

714
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:02,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think when it's starting to disrespect.

715
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 4: Start kicking in, okay, and what does that look like?

716
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 2: Well, just like I ain't doing that, like what like Dan,

717
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 2: can you make me a play baby? I'm good? Like damn,

718
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:20,320
Speaker 2: like real, that's crazy, Damn. It's just a certain tone

719
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 2: in their voice that you start hearing that you ain't

720
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 2: really heard before, and it's just like disrespectful. Yeah, I

721
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:29,799
Speaker 2: can see that. It's just like a certain you can

722
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 2: hear the tone of their voice, like then start to roll.

723
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 2: The rolling of the eyes is more common, and that

724
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 2: start kicking in. This is just my experience. Yeah, just

725
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 2: disrespectful little comments and you know it's just little stuff

726
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:47,799
Speaker 2: that you It ain't little, it's big. It's just like,

727
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 2: you know, I ain't I ain't rolling, you know what.

728
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:56,319
Speaker 2: I ain't rolling with this. No, I can't do this. Yeah.

729
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 1: When a woman starts to disrespect the man or lose respect,

730
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:00,399
Speaker 1: the relationship is pretty much over.

731
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:01,120
Speaker 4: I'll be honest.

732
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:04,399
Speaker 1: I feel like for me, I've had that experience where

733
00:35:04,400 --> 00:35:06,880
Speaker 1: it's just like the cheating and the lies and the

734
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 1: weird stuff is just like I.

735
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 2: Can't respect you. I remember on instant. I don't know

736
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 2: why this would never leave my head. It was just

737
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:18,719
Speaker 2: like in my relationship. We was getting in the car

738
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 2: going somewhere, met her and her friend, and so I

739
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 2: was in the house. So the friend is she driving?

740
00:35:28,120 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 1: M hm.

741
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 2: So I come out. The friend is in the front seat,

742
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 2: so I come in. I open up the front seat

743
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:39,600
Speaker 2: like like I shouldn't even have to say nothing, right yeah,

744
00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 2: And then she was like just getting the back. I

745
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:48,200
Speaker 2: was like what what I felt like? That was so disrespectful?

746
00:35:48,840 --> 00:35:53,440
Speaker 2: Like we going somewhere you or your friend and you

747
00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:58,120
Speaker 2: tell me getting the back? Like are you serious? Right now?

748
00:35:58,280 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 2: That's not even a question.

749
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, that's crazy. I have a question for you though.

750
00:36:03,360 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 2: Crazy to me.

751
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 1: Do you think like, let's say a man has a sister, right,

752
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 1: and like his sister's in town or something, and like

753
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 1: she's around y'all, she might be the.

754
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:16,080
Speaker 2: Older a man has a sister, Yeah.

755
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:16,880
Speaker 4: All right.

756
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:18,440
Speaker 1: Do you feel like the sisters is sh in the

757
00:36:18,440 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 1: front seat and the woman should get in the back.

758
00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:23,839
Speaker 2: No, my lady is in the front seat every time.

759
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:28,239
Speaker 2: That's not even a question. My girl, you're not even

760
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,640
Speaker 2: here getting the my mom get in the back. Yeah.

761
00:36:31,680 --> 00:36:34,360
Speaker 1: See, I'm accustomed to, like, if it was someone's mom,

762
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 1: the mom is saying in the front.

763
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 4: I'm crazy.

764
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,360
Speaker 2: She say no, she's gonna have to say.

765
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:41,600
Speaker 4: I'm saying no. The mom is getting no.

766
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:44,400
Speaker 2: No, no, But you're you're gonna have to say, here, missus,

767
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 2: get in the front. Yeah, that's my wife and my

768
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 2: girl is in the front.

769
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 1: See, I'm accustomed to, like my dad is old to

770
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:54,759
Speaker 1: like for me, it'd be like, get in the back.

771
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 1: If it's someone older than you, if it's your elder

772
00:36:57,440 --> 00:37:00,440
Speaker 1: pier point blank, Like I feel like, okay, if.

773
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 2: It's your girl, she in the back. But if it's

774
00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:05,760
Speaker 2: your wife, she in the front. Okay, I still wife

775
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:11,480
Speaker 2: is in the front, Mom's is in the back, girlfriend

776
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:14,960
Speaker 2: is in the back. Moms is in the front. Yeah

777
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:19,839
Speaker 2: that's how I should go. Yeah, I think that's how

778
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:23,919
Speaker 2: I should go. Wife is in the front because she's

779
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:26,319
Speaker 2: making decisions with her every day. You gotta live with her.

780
00:37:26,360 --> 00:37:31,880
Speaker 1: Your mom is visiting the girls the same things of the.

781
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:34,759
Speaker 2: Good girls like, it's okay, mom getting the front, but

782
00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 2: most of them is gonna give that to them. And

783
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:39,799
Speaker 2: that's what we want as men, for y'all to do that.

784
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:44,000
Speaker 2: But we gonna validate you in the front. I can

785
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:46,080
Speaker 2: see that, you know what I'm saying. I think that's

786
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:48,319
Speaker 2: how I should go. But if she a good girl,

787
00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:49,879
Speaker 2: she gonna be like, go ahead, mam, get in the front.

788
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:52,359
Speaker 4: I could never just let the moms in the back.

789
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:56,800
Speaker 2: That's mean. But me as the husband, I'm never sitting

790
00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 2: in the back seat.

791
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:00,280
Speaker 4: No, because you're a man.

792
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 2: I done bought this goddamn car.

793
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:06,239
Speaker 4: What if? What if? What if it's her dad like

794
00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:09,359
Speaker 4: Sev and he's tall as hell and.

795
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 2: Getting the truck, then you need some leg space.

796
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:13,239
Speaker 4: So you're letting the dad get in the back.

797
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,919
Speaker 2: For sure. I'm never getting in the back. Man, lay

798
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:17,319
Speaker 2: down there.

799
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:20,959
Speaker 4: That's so crazy, old man, that's like.

800
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 2: Eighty yeah, get in the back, old man, you'd had

801
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 2: your front seat days. That's that's not blowing you. I'm

802
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:30,480
Speaker 2: the husband, I should.

803
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 4: Okay, So, but as a boyfriend, you get in the.

804
00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:34,839
Speaker 2: Back the back of his boyfriend. I'm just a boyfriend, yes,

805
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 2: your daddy, okay, okay, because as a husband, I'll take

806
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:40,200
Speaker 2: care of you, and I take care of this car.

807
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 4: But what if you feel like as a boyfriend you

808
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 4: did that too.

809
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,279
Speaker 1: You're like, oh, I've been your man for this, I

810
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 1: done bought you this car, all of this, you still

811
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 1: get in the back.

812
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 2: Let's let's let's talk about it, like what do we

813
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 2: live together?

814
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 4: That you live together or yeah, you live together, we

815
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:56,760
Speaker 4: have kids?

816
00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 2: No, no kids.

817
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:01,360
Speaker 4: You bought the car though, and you take care of

818
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 4: the person.

819
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:09,080
Speaker 2: Of the person. Yeah, I'm in the front. Yeah this is.

820
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 4: Me so anyways, okay, so you're in the front seat.

821
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:15,239
Speaker 2: I'm in the front. So me as a boyfriend, as

822
00:39:15,440 --> 00:39:16,440
Speaker 2: I'm in the front seat.

823
00:39:16,840 --> 00:39:18,480
Speaker 4: But the woman has a girlfriend, she's in the back.

824
00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:22,359
Speaker 2: Yeah.

825
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,600
Speaker 1: So men don't really respect girlfriends. If you're your wife,

826
00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 1: you get respected on the left.

827
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:28,800
Speaker 4: But if you're a girlfriend, it's.

828
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 2: Kind of like a girl because you could be gone tomorrow.

829
00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:32,080
Speaker 2: My mama is still my.

830
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,000
Speaker 4: Mama, right But a wife can divorce you as well.

831
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:36,800
Speaker 2: Okay, but you're my wife right now.

832
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:41,800
Speaker 1: Okay, so a girlfriend, So do you feel as if

833
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:44,239
Speaker 1: because this is what when we had poor minds on

834
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 1: the episode, they said, if you're not married, you're single technically.

835
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 4: Do you feel that?

836
00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:52,600
Speaker 2: Do you have a girlfriend?

837
00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 1: But yeah, like I'm saying, you have a relationship, girlfriend

838
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:59,080
Speaker 1: and boyfriend. But if you're not married, you're technically single.

839
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:03,839
Speaker 2: Do you believe that? Album? But what the technically single mean?

840
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 2: That means you can talk to other people?

841
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:08,360
Speaker 1: I don't know what that means when she said that,

842
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 1: and I guess it means like.

843
00:40:11,000 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 2: You are single when you write on that application married

844
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 2: or yeah that's what she.

845
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:18,640
Speaker 1: Was saying, So you're single. Yeah, so what does that mean?

846
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:20,680
Speaker 1: So do you believe that to where it's like, okay,

847
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:21,800
Speaker 1: you can talk to other people?

848
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 2: No, it's like you like the thing about relationships. When

849
00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 2: you're not married, you have a girlfriend, you have a boyfriend,

850
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:33,719
Speaker 2: you're going steady, you have a an agreement with each other, like, hey,

851
00:40:34,040 --> 00:40:37,319
Speaker 2: I'm exclusive with you, right, you know, let's see if

852
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 2: this turns into not single. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you know,

853
00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:43,920
Speaker 2: And that's what relationships are, and you know, we do

854
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:46,840
Speaker 2: a lot of different relationships because that's a life decision

855
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:49,799
Speaker 2: you make when you marry somebody. Yeah, you gotta figure, like, hey,

856
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 2: if I decide to marry you, my idea, my mind

857
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:55,200
Speaker 2: is like I'm going to be the rest of my

858
00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:57,720
Speaker 2: life with you, and so that's not a quick decision,

859
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 2: you know, so dating and girlfriends and boyfriends, that's I

860
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:05,399
Speaker 2: gotta give me some time to make that decision. But

861
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 2: like that, don't give me the we're exclusive right now,

862
00:41:08,480 --> 00:41:10,399
Speaker 2: and I made you exclusive because I want to see

863
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 2: if this is heading toward that direction. Now, if it

864
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:15,439
Speaker 2: don't work out, we just break up and I'll see

865
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 2: what the next girl talking about.

866
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:18,880
Speaker 4: I'm crying. And that's where women too, you know.

867
00:41:19,120 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's for women are.

868
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 4: Like, all right, cool if this doesn't work out.

869
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 1: And I think that that goes back into women having

870
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:27,960
Speaker 1: backup plans because they're like, Okay, if you're not marrying,

871
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 1: then we're technically single. That means technically you have these

872
00:41:32,680 --> 00:41:35,359
Speaker 1: people in place that are like, oh, like I will

873
00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:36,799
Speaker 1: marry you I want to be with you. I want

874
00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 1: to do these things with you, but they're your first option.

875
00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:46,840
Speaker 2: If you live together for three years and you not

876
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 2: have no marriage plans, it should be okay to have

877
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:55,480
Speaker 2: a backup plan. Okay, well think if the listen to

878
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 2: what I say, if you live together, I hear it

879
00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:00,840
Speaker 2: two to three years, I think you should have a

880
00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:01,560
Speaker 2: backup plan.

881
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 1: But when we were on Poor Minds, you said, if

882
00:42:03,480 --> 00:42:05,759
Speaker 1: you're over thirty three and you live together for more

883
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 1: than one year, then it's not given that marriage.

884
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 2: Shit. Yeah, over thirty three is different though for a

885
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 2: woman because because y'all are like at that borderline to

886
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 2: where it's like you're still thinking kids and marriages are like,

887
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:25,400
Speaker 2: because like you can't waste three years. Yeah, you know

888
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:27,839
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So that's different. You know what I'm saying.

889
00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:30,359
Speaker 2: You ain't got three years to be the smallfugerly like damn,

890
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 2: I White said, three goddamn years. And this is a

891
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 2: critical age to where you know where you're still looking

892
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 2: to do the whole family because you know, you know,

893
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:43,560
Speaker 2: So that's that's different. Yeah, that's true.

894
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 1: I think that women have men that really like are

895
00:42:47,640 --> 00:42:49,839
Speaker 1: good guys, but they just don't want to be with them,

896
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 1: and they're willing to like marry them and have a

897
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:55,360
Speaker 1: kid and do all of this, and they're like, Okay,

898
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 1: I could be with that person, you know what I mean,

899
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 1: because there are those men, but I feel like women

900
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:03,800
Speaker 1: are not attracted to those men a lot of the time,

901
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:05,319
Speaker 1: even if they're attractive.

902
00:43:06,000 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 4: It's just like you're not my vibe, really, but you

903
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:13,680
Speaker 4: got my vibe, but see me, I can't do that.

904
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 1: I have to vibe out with you or I just

905
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 1: don't love it. Like I've had that to where it

906
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 1: was like the perfect man, handsome, rich, every I couldn't

907
00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 1: even think about something without him having it for me,

908
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:27,800
Speaker 1: like I'll think about something one time it's there like whoa,

909
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 1: And it was just everything and everyone was like he's perfect,

910
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:33,720
Speaker 1: he's the best man. But I couldn't get into the vibe,

911
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:35,239
Speaker 1: and so I had to let it go, like I

912
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 1: can't do this and I can't wait for.

913
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:41,200
Speaker 2: You. Can't he broke up with him, or he broke

914
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 2: up with you.

915
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 4: I broke up with him, and I just was like

916
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:46,720
Speaker 4: what was the reason? Though the reason was.

917
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 1: Like crazy because it was just like I couldn't even

918
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,399
Speaker 1: go I felt so bad, you know what I'm saying.

919
00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 1: But it was like I just was like, unfortunately, I

920
00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:57,480
Speaker 1: just am not in the space to want to have

921
00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 1: a relationship. Because he was pressing on some line are

922
00:44:00,640 --> 00:44:02,720
Speaker 1: we together all together? I could be like, we're not together,

923
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 1: We're not in a relationship, like I'm telling you that

924
00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 1: right now.

925
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:07,800
Speaker 2: Wait, no, what I'm saying. You were in a relationship

926
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:09,160
Speaker 2: with him?

927
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 1: Like it felt like I was devoted into a relationship though,

928
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:14,120
Speaker 1: because I kept being like, I don't want to be

929
00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:15,879
Speaker 1: in a relationship, and then it was like we're together,

930
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:17,799
Speaker 1: We're together, and then it was just like, oh god,

931
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:20,840
Speaker 1: we're together. And I just felt so crazy because I'm like,

932
00:44:20,960 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 1: I'm still and I would be transparent like I just

933
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 1: don't know right.

934
00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:25,120
Speaker 4: Now, I'm figuring this out.

935
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know, And he was just

936
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 1: like what, like but mind you perfect on paper, very handsome, tall.

937
00:44:32,040 --> 00:44:34,560
Speaker 4: Like women want him. I just felt like.

938
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:39,000
Speaker 1: It was long on me, like successful career, like music

939
00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 1: all that, and I just felt like I couldn't get

940
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 1: into the vibe. So I finally just was like.

941
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:47,239
Speaker 2: What's y'all having sex? Yeah?

942
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 4: We had sex like twice or three.

943
00:44:49,840 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 2: Times, and y'all were together.

944
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:56,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, how long the relationship was?

945
00:44:56,960 --> 00:45:00,000
Speaker 2: Like three weeks?

946
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:03,560
Speaker 4: No, like it was like it was like it was

947
00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 4: a minute.

948
00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 2: It was a minute. I started.

949
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:08,480
Speaker 4: God, the relationship wasn't.

950
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:14,080
Speaker 2: Somebody left more than three weeks like that? Crazy? No

951
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 2: it was and it was a year.

952
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 1: It wasn't a year, but it was like it was

953
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 1: longer than it should have been. But also to remember this,

954
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 1: we weren't together. We were talking for this period of time,

955
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:27,879
Speaker 1: and a lot of the chunk of it, for six

956
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 1: months of it, I was like, no, I don't want

957
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:34,480
Speaker 1: to be in a relationship because I actually enjoyed him.

958
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:37,960
Speaker 4: He was cool, but I just was like I enjoy him,

959
00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:40,600
Speaker 4: not like that though it was too it.

960
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 2: Was too manyistic? Was it what opportunist?

961
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:47,320
Speaker 1: No, it wasn't opportunistic at all, because it was just

962
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:50,359
Speaker 1: like I really wanted to be with him, as far

963
00:45:50,440 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 1: as like I wish I could be with you.

964
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 4: I want to try to make this work so bad

965
00:45:56,000 --> 00:45:58,239
Speaker 4: because you would not cheat on me. You're like a

966
00:45:58,440 --> 00:45:59,720
Speaker 4: good person.

967
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:01,640
Speaker 2: So what was it?

968
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:08,640
Speaker 4: It was just not I couldn't click. It just didn't click.

969
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:09,440
Speaker 4: I just couldn't.

970
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 1: I was like damn, and everyone knew And then when

971
00:46:12,280 --> 00:46:14,279
Speaker 1: people around me saw me with the next person I

972
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,360
Speaker 1: was with, it were like, oh my god, it's so different.

973
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: You're vibing, you're loving this man, like it was so

974
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:23,320
Speaker 1: different to be with this person and then that person

975
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:25,840
Speaker 1: and even my best friend in her like fiance, was

976
00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 1: like this is crazy, like you were not feeling this

977
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 1: mad and they even had a conversation with me like

978
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:34,320
Speaker 1: it feels forced on your end and it feels like

979
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:38,239
Speaker 1: somethingtimes men pressure you into things and you're like, yo,

980
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 1: like I'm not feeling it, And to me, I felt

981
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 1: like he knew I wasn't feeling it, like he knew it,

982
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 1: but you're still pressuring it, pressuring it, pressuring it.

983
00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 4: And it got to the point where I just was like, yo,

984
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 4: you're smoked, like I feel. They're like it's too much.

985
00:46:54,280 --> 00:46:56,680
Speaker 4: I need space, I need a minute, Like you're pressuring

986
00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:58,919
Speaker 4: me into like having a kid, wanted to be married,

987
00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 4: having this lifestyle. No, it wasn't No, I wasn't big

988
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 4: at all. I was just not big, and so I

989
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:10,280
Speaker 4: was looking good, like I was looking.

990
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:12,800
Speaker 1: Good, and he was looking good, like he's hitting, like

991
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:16,400
Speaker 1: he's cool, like cool, like women.

992
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:18,279
Speaker 4: Want him, like he's a hot commodity and it just

993
00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:21,440
Speaker 4: wasn't me, like honestly, like women, he was cracking.

994
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 1: No, I haven't seen him man since we broke it down. No,

995
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:29,480
Speaker 1: I don't follow him on instagramer nothing, We don't follow him.

996
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:32,719
Speaker 1: If I looked him up, yeah, but I'm not looking

997
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:33,880
Speaker 1: him up on Instagram.

998
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:35,880
Speaker 2: No, I'm not doing that.

999
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 4: I feel bad. I feel genuinely bad, and I just

1000
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 4: really hope we should.

1001
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:42,800
Speaker 2: No.

1002
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 1: I think he probably he probably has another Like he's cool,

1003
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:47,279
Speaker 1: like people want to be with him.

1004
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 2: Like even his ex was.

1005
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:50,759
Speaker 4: Still on his bumper, Like you know what I'm saying,

1006
00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:53,840
Speaker 4: Like you ain't no buster, but you just wasn't for.

1007
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 1: No, he was not.

1008
00:47:56,239 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 2: He was not a buster.

1009
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:58,319
Speaker 4: He's a cool man.

1010
00:47:58,440 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 2: It just didn't connect with me.

1011
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:01,399
Speaker 1: Have you ever don the woman who had a lot

1012
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:03,960
Speaker 1: of traits and attributes like how Tyrene was saying, they

1013
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 1: checked the list, but it just is not clicking for you,

1014
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 1: Like it's not clicking for me.

1015
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:10,839
Speaker 4: I just don't.

1016
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:13,880
Speaker 1: Or like a girl that you was dealing with and

1017
00:48:13,960 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 1: you're like, I wish this was cool because you are dope,

1018
00:48:16,719 --> 00:48:18,360
Speaker 1: but you're just not vibing with me.

1019
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:21,320
Speaker 4: You never had a way of it. It's just like

1020
00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 4: you're nope, but I just can't get into it in what.

1021
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:28,120
Speaker 2: Type of way you mean, Like with them, I just

1022
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:33,839
Speaker 2: don't never had a girl that I ing to see.

1023
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:36,600
Speaker 1: I think it's a woman thing because women feel like

1024
00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 1: the man that I'm vibing with is just like I

1025
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:42,279
Speaker 1: don't want to vibe with that type of Sometimes women

1026
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 1: say they have to change their type to be with

1027
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:48,800
Speaker 1: a man who's for real, like married, kids, actually have family,

1028
00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 1: you're actually gonna do Sometimes you have to change the

1029
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 1: type of man you're into, you know what I mean.

1030
00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:54,960
Speaker 1: And it's like women go through that phase where you

1031
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:57,480
Speaker 1: either decide to do that and be like, cool, I'm

1032
00:48:57,520 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 1: gonna marry this man because I could have married this man,

1033
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:02,560
Speaker 1: had a kid with this man everything, and it would

1034
00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:05,160
Speaker 1: have had like a house of things, everything like would

1035
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 1: have been chilling, fool blowne taking care of everything.

1036
00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:10,200
Speaker 4: For a fact, never would have left me.

1037
00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:13,480
Speaker 1: You can decide to do that as a woman, or

1038
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 1: you can be like, I'm not doing that and I'm

1039
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:18,560
Speaker 1: not going for that because I can't live a life

1040
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 1: with someone that I'm truly unhappy with. I just I'm

1041
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:23,200
Speaker 1: not going for that. I don't care what you can

1042
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 1: offer me. But a lot of women take that. They

1043
00:49:26,080 --> 00:49:29,120
Speaker 1: take that bait because it's like it's cool, you're taking

1044
00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 1: care of your good period. I'm not taking the bait though,

1045
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:37,359
Speaker 1: and I don't want to tell exactly. So anyways, there

1046
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:41,560
Speaker 1: is a viral meme that says, no woman is getting

1047
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:43,640
Speaker 1: a BBL and staying faithful to a man.

1048
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 4: The entire point of that procedure.

1049
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:47,400
Speaker 2: Is to be a whole Damn.

1050
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 4: A woman said this too.

1051
00:49:50,760 --> 00:49:56,320
Speaker 2: What are your thoughts on that? Damn? I thought the

1052
00:49:56,440 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 2: procedure was to just get a get like to keep

1053
00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:07,040
Speaker 2: up with the Joneses, because like, oh, that's the woman

1054
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:07,440
Speaker 2: said that.

1055
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:09,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, she said, no woman is getting to be able

1056
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 1: to say faceful to a man. The entire point of

1057
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:12,959
Speaker 1: that procedure is to be a hope.

1058
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:15,880
Speaker 2: It looked like it depends on what you look like

1059
00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 2: before that. I got to see y'all before and after,

1060
00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:22,239
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, because yeah, like if you

1061
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:27,120
Speaker 2: getting that you trying to you want that attention. It

1062
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:29,920
Speaker 2: depends on which one you get to. You get level A,

1063
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:33,240
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying, You get level C. Okay,

1064
00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:37,279
Speaker 2: just you can just you know, for your damn. I

1065
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:41,760
Speaker 2: wonder this though, like if a woman is in a relationship,

1066
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:44,480
Speaker 2: do she consult her man on that? And what if

1067
00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:47,160
Speaker 2: he say no and you do it anyway? Should he

1068
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 2: be pissed? I'll be pissed. I don't like that.

1069
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think you should for sure consulting man.

1070
00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:55,200
Speaker 2: I don't like that. That happened to me, and I

1071
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:56,279
Speaker 2: wasn't I wasn't feeling it.

1072
00:50:56,560 --> 00:50:59,400
Speaker 4: You gotta for sure consult your man about that.

1073
00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 2: But you just come home one day like, yeah, look,

1074
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:04,719
Speaker 2: now that's crazy.

1075
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 4: You gotta for sure consult your partner bout any surgical

1076
00:51:09,120 --> 00:51:11,800
Speaker 4: procedures that change your look or change your anything.

1077
00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 1: Right, I'm consulting my man about a haircut, bob, like

1078
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:19,720
Speaker 1: you should be consulting your man or your partner in general.

1079
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 4: Like, hey, I'm doing this, Now, what you think can

1080
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 4: I do this?

1081
00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 1: Like I believe in that one hundred But like I'm

1082
00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:30,839
Speaker 1: not gonna say because I have friends who's had bbl's

1083
00:51:31,040 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 1: and I would not consider them a hole in any way,

1084
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:34,359
Speaker 1: shape or form.

1085
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 4: I don't necessarily think that that is what.

1086
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 1: It makes you a hole automatically, Like some people have

1087
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:44,800
Speaker 1: genetically a really messed up shape, and it's just like

1088
00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:48,080
Speaker 1: you have nobody you have a bigger upperbody, you're so

1089
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:52,719
Speaker 1: disproportioned that you need to run that BBL procedure. I

1090
00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 1: don't know because I never had this issue. And I

1091
00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:58,360
Speaker 1: don't want to sit here and be like, oh, you

1092
00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:00,239
Speaker 1: shouldn't get a bb D d D dah be because

1093
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:03,279
Speaker 1: it's not fair coming from someone who naturally has had

1094
00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:03,720
Speaker 1: a big.

1095
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 2: But I'm gonna tell you what the BBL is like.

1096
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:13,240
Speaker 2: It's like that one nigga that get to the league

1097
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:15,760
Speaker 2: and he just start having girls. He didn't have girls before,

1098
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:19,439
Speaker 2: so now he popping. It's like that girl.

1099
00:52:19,680 --> 00:52:23,200
Speaker 4: She didn't get that attention that it's a different type

1100
00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:24,719
Speaker 4: of attention with now you like.

1101
00:52:24,800 --> 00:52:27,239
Speaker 2: Oh damn, I'm popping, and you don't know what to

1102
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:28,920
Speaker 2: do with this attention. So I could kind of see

1103
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:31,319
Speaker 2: what she's saying, like, oh, you're getting that VBL. Now

1104
00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 2: you became a home because before you couldn't because it

1105
00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:35,400
Speaker 2: wasn't given that.

1106
00:52:36,880 --> 00:52:39,239
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, But it's like this this this though

1107
00:52:39,760 --> 00:52:42,680
Speaker 1: people assume like, oh, I lost weight and now I

1108
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:45,640
Speaker 1: look how I look and I'm a home and that's

1109
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 1: not true. But plus I was never looking like that

1110
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:49,960
Speaker 1: my whole life though, so maybe it's different. Because I

1111
00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 1: always looked good and then I gained wait for a

1112
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:53,480
Speaker 1: little bit, and then I looked good again.

1113
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:58,120
Speaker 4: The doors for some of these well because he said,

1114
00:52:58,239 --> 00:52:59,800
Speaker 4: Ben don't care about a face.

1115
00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 2: So you just say that you gave you see disrupt

1116
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 2: the word. I say, men don't care about the.

1117
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:09,120
Speaker 4: Face, but you gave the ultimating But over a face.

1118
00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 2: You gave me the ultimatum. Do I take olive oil

1119
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:14,239
Speaker 2: with a pretty face or ugly face with the with

1120
00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:17,480
Speaker 2: the body, and I choose ugly.

1121
00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:18,080
Speaker 4: Face with the body.

1122
00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:21,319
Speaker 1: So when men say stuff like that, it influences women

1123
00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:23,880
Speaker 1: to get a body. I could be ugly, but I

1124
00:53:23,920 --> 00:53:26,280
Speaker 1: could have a booty in a body, and I'm cracking.

1125
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:28,000
Speaker 1: Women are removing ribs.

1126
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:29,160
Speaker 4: This is how real.

1127
00:53:29,200 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 2: It's giddy.

1128
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:31,960
Speaker 4: Yeah to have an hour glass shape.

1129
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:34,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, you got more men saying that that's why women

1130
00:53:34,719 --> 00:53:37,360
Speaker 2: are putting so much emphasis on their looks and spending

1131
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:39,200
Speaker 2: that money. And if people won't spend that money on them,

1132
00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 2: they're gonna do it.

1133
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:44,120
Speaker 1: They say that bbls are a sign of you being

1134
00:53:44,160 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 1: an auntie because it's a certain eraror generation of women

1135
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 1: that have them, and they're saying that it's an auntie.

1136
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 1: Look now, that's like all the end ups say, like

1137
00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 1: BBOs is giving Auntie okay, And that's what they're saying because.

1138
00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 2: All the girls now getting old.

1139
00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:01,919
Speaker 4: All the girls, Yeah, they looking crazy and they.

1140
00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 2: Telling me the new generation ain't getting bbls.

1141
00:54:04,600 --> 00:54:07,400
Speaker 1: They probably are, but I think the procedures have gotten

1142
00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:10,440
Speaker 1: better and they're looking more natural, so it doesn't you

1143
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:11,359
Speaker 1: can't tell as much.

1144
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 4: They're getting a little bit here here here here.

1145
00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:15,440
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you all this, and I'm gonna look

1146
00:54:15,480 --> 00:54:18,160
Speaker 2: at the camera and say this, and we could tell

1147
00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:21,000
Speaker 2: you got that BBL When them legs you order that

1148
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 2: ass and them legs don't come with it and they

1149
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:27,840
Speaker 2: don't match. Man, that I need to come out with

1150
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 2: a procedure where I'm giving out matching legs. Yeah, is

1151
00:54:31,640 --> 00:54:34,160
Speaker 2: that a thing? Because when the legs, make sure you

1152
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:37,000
Speaker 2: do it where it matches the legs, like they be

1153
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 2: looking crazy when the legs don't match. You over here

1154
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:44,040
Speaker 2: looking all crazy, when them skinny old legs and you

1155
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:47,400
Speaker 2: got this big old but that looks crazy, y'all. I

1156
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:50,800
Speaker 2: don't know what y'all see. Y'all, y'all stop looking, but

1157
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:54,800
Speaker 2: that look when them legs don't match, we look crazy.

1158
00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:56,120
Speaker 4: It looks like a little ants.

1159
00:54:56,960 --> 00:54:59,840
Speaker 2: No, it's looking like SpongeBob. You know our SpongeBob body.

1160
00:55:00,520 --> 00:55:01,759
Speaker 4: Thumb Jo, don't have no ass.

1161
00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:04,440
Speaker 2: I'm just saying his body, go with them legs. They

1162
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 2: don't match his body, don't match his legs. And that's

1163
00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:11,800
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, all here looking like SpongeBob that. I

1164
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:13,719
Speaker 2: don't know if the girls can see it too, because

1165
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:14,560
Speaker 2: they just roll with it.

1166
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 4: I don't know what's going on. I don't know if

1167
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:20,120
Speaker 4: people don't see what's going on with They look and.

1168
00:55:20,320 --> 00:55:22,480
Speaker 2: They don't see it. They don't see the oversized lips.

1169
00:55:22,520 --> 00:55:26,320
Speaker 2: They think the overside. Yeah, their face looked like a

1170
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:32,840
Speaker 2: big mac or something. It looks crazy. Oh my god,

1171
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:35,040
Speaker 2: that'd be looking crazy. Man. I'm good.

1172
00:55:35,239 --> 00:55:37,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like n so.

1173
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 1: So this guy went online and he said, and I've

1174
00:55:42,480 --> 00:55:45,080
Speaker 1: seen this a few times now, he said, females be

1175
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:46,759
Speaker 1: naked so much online.

1176
00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 4: I'd be like, damn, I bet you look good in

1177
00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:51,400
Speaker 4: the sweater, he said. I'm so tired.

1178
00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 1: He said, at this point, I could see butt titties

1179
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:56,480
Speaker 1: every time I scroll. He said, it don't even phasee

1180
00:55:56,560 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 1: me no more. I just scroll past it, like whatever.

1181
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:02,160
Speaker 1: What happened to mystery, what happened to secrecy?

1182
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:05,120
Speaker 4: What happened to a visioning a woman naked?

1183
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:07,760
Speaker 1: He's like, you can't even do that no more because

1184
00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:11,800
Speaker 1: all these women are half naked or naked on the instagrams.

1185
00:56:12,200 --> 00:56:15,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, because they trying to get followers. They're trying to

1186
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:18,720
Speaker 2: use that to monetize. They look, I mean, ain't nobody

1187
00:56:18,880 --> 00:56:22,279
Speaker 2: working no more? Everybody trying to monetize. They look, they

1188
00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:25,400
Speaker 2: influence and if they can give some If your body

1189
00:56:25,520 --> 00:56:27,160
Speaker 2: is influential, what.

1190
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:27,640
Speaker 4: Does that mean?

1191
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:32,399
Speaker 5: Your body is influential, that your body is your body

1192
00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:34,719
Speaker 5: and your face is influential because you got so many

1193
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:37,360
Speaker 5: flower followers and so many likes because of your body

1194
00:56:37,400 --> 00:56:37,759
Speaker 5: and face.

1195
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:42,160
Speaker 2: It ain't nothing you doing out here. But and if

1196
00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:44,279
Speaker 2: you can monetize that, that's the word we live in.

1197
00:56:44,360 --> 00:56:46,560
Speaker 2: Because you look at the examples of all these girls

1198
00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:50,160
Speaker 2: who are who are just showing they ass and face

1199
00:56:50,400 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 2: and selling clothes and god and driving traffic. They making money.

1200
00:56:55,640 --> 00:56:58,279
Speaker 2: So that inspires other people say, hey, I can do that.

1201
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:02,680
Speaker 2: Why can't I make some money with my influential body

1202
00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:05,600
Speaker 2: and face? And so that's just the world we live in,

1203
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:07,799
Speaker 2: and they're getting paid for it. So why not give

1204
00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:09,480
Speaker 2: it a look? Why not give it a try. I'm

1205
00:57:09,520 --> 00:57:12,320
Speaker 2: not even mad at those those girls who are doing that.

1206
00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:15,719
Speaker 2: If somebody say, you want to give me some millions

1207
00:57:15,880 --> 00:57:20,120
Speaker 2: or some free stuff or advertisement or you know whatever,

1208
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 2: it is for me to take these exotic picks that

1209
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:26,720
Speaker 2: don't cross the line. But it's sexy and I look

1210
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:28,440
Speaker 2: that way to where people want to look at my

1211
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:30,760
Speaker 2: page and follow me, and good for you.

1212
00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:34,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna be like on some shit where it's

1213
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 1: like not judgmental, but it is going to come judgmental.

1214
00:57:38,720 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 1: I don't like it because I feel like we're just

1215
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:46,880
Speaker 1: overexposed as a society, and I feel like it makes

1216
00:57:46,960 --> 00:57:50,439
Speaker 1: the value as a woman go down, where like back

1217
00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:52,720
Speaker 1: in the day, it was so amazing to see a

1218
00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:55,760
Speaker 1: naked woman, it was like, whoa, this is cracking.

1219
00:57:56,360 --> 00:57:58,960
Speaker 4: Now I feel like everything is all over the internet.

1220
00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:02,000
Speaker 1: And I do believe that mystery should still live on,

1221
00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:05,160
Speaker 1: and I believe that women should still value the fact

1222
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:07,440
Speaker 1: that we have something that's powerful.

1223
00:58:08,360 --> 00:58:10,000
Speaker 4: Power of the p U s s y.

1224
00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 2: Oh.

1225
00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:13,360
Speaker 1: You feel what I'm saying And I feel like it

1226
00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:16,400
Speaker 1: no because it's true and I feel like I'm we're.

1227
00:58:16,280 --> 00:58:21,440
Speaker 2: Just talking about photos it's just you know, but.

1228
00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:22,680
Speaker 4: You think it stops at that.

1229
00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:25,320
Speaker 1: If you're willing to do that, you're willing to do

1230
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:30,800
Speaker 1: more because you're selling your soul in my opinion or followers. Yeah,

1231
00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:35,919
Speaker 1: but it's not an excuse. Yeah, and that's crazy. That's

1232
00:58:36,000 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 1: like really like the devil's work.

1233
00:58:37,960 --> 00:58:41,000
Speaker 2: Other skill in life, and you don't have nothing else

1234
00:58:41,160 --> 00:58:42,960
Speaker 2: going for you, and they're saying, hey, you can make

1235
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:44,360
Speaker 2: money this way. People are going to do it.

1236
00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:48,040
Speaker 1: I understand that, and I understand that people walking the

1237
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:49,280
Speaker 1: straw for a long time.

1238
00:58:49,400 --> 00:58:50,280
Speaker 2: It's not nothing new.

1239
00:58:50,720 --> 00:58:54,200
Speaker 1: But I just wish that, you know, people value themselves

1240
00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 1: more to understand that there's more to life than that.

1241
00:58:56,840 --> 00:58:59,240
Speaker 1: And it's like a dark lifestyle living like that. And

1242
00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:01,880
Speaker 1: I hate the fact that everything is naked. I don't

1243
00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:03,439
Speaker 1: even like it. It's like I don't want to see

1244
00:59:03,560 --> 00:59:06,880
Speaker 1: you have naked every day either, like let me see

1245
00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:10,720
Speaker 1: some let me see you put some ship on, right period,

1246
00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 1: Like put some ship on and look fly in something.

1247
00:59:14,480 --> 00:59:17,360
Speaker 1: But whatever, it's modern day prostitution, and that's all right.

1248
00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:21,200
Speaker 2: Playboy I call it playboy because that's what Playboy was.

1249
00:59:21,320 --> 00:59:23,560
Speaker 2: It was like the clothes on, but it gave you

1250
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:24,160
Speaker 2: a little.

1251
00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:26,120
Speaker 4: This and that it's not a little. It's a lot

1252
00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:27,160
Speaker 4: going on, a.

1253
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 2: Little more than usual, was going on since the beginning.

1254
00:59:30,040 --> 00:59:33,680
Speaker 4: Though, right, And that's what I'm saying. But it's over exposed.

1255
00:59:33,760 --> 00:59:35,640
Speaker 2: Anybody can be in Playboy now.

1256
00:59:36,360 --> 00:59:38,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's over exposed now and a lot of y'all

1257
00:59:39,360 --> 00:59:43,280
Speaker 1: need to hang it up. So before we wrap it up,

1258
00:59:43,320 --> 00:59:45,480
Speaker 1: we're gonna say, we're gonna just I'm gonna ask you

1259
00:59:45,560 --> 00:59:48,640
Speaker 1: some questions and you have to answer yes.

1260
00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:51,919
Speaker 4: Have you ever stayed with someone knowing it wouldn't last?

1261
00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:56,360
Speaker 2: Yes or no? It's rapid fire questions. You gotta answer it.

1262
00:59:56,440 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 4: It's not no nothing, yes or no, it's this is

1263
01:00:00,080 --> 01:00:03,640
Speaker 4: a rapid question. Yes, okay. Have you ever ignored a

1264
01:00:03,720 --> 01:00:07,280
Speaker 4: red flag because you were attracted? Is I'm busy.

1265
01:00:07,160 --> 01:00:11,959
Speaker 2: Usually a lie? No? Have you ever go to someone

1266
01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:12,880
Speaker 2: who didn't deserve it?

1267
01:00:14,240 --> 01:00:14,280
Speaker 1: No?

1268
01:00:15,520 --> 01:00:17,600
Speaker 4: Is silence a form of manipulation?

1269
01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:21,880
Speaker 2: No? Yes? It is who cheaps more?

1270
01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:23,240
Speaker 4: And when unhappy? Men or women?

1271
01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:26,960
Speaker 2: Women? Who is more forgiving? Men or women?

1272
01:00:27,840 --> 01:00:28,000
Speaker 5: Men?

1273
01:00:29,200 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 4: That's true? Who loves harder? Men or women?

1274
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 2: Men?

1275
01:00:32,360 --> 01:00:32,800
Speaker 4: That's a lie?

1276
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:38,400
Speaker 2: Women? Men love you. We already talk about this. Women

1277
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:39,760
Speaker 2: love who loves harder?

1278
01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:41,880
Speaker 4: That was who loves harder man or women.

1279
01:00:41,960 --> 01:00:44,560
Speaker 2: No, men love for real, women love on conditions.

1280
01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:47,680
Speaker 1: Okay, why is the wood to getting into it really quick?

1281
01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:50,160
Speaker 1: What do you mean who leaves mentally?

1282
01:00:50,320 --> 01:00:50,600
Speaker 4: First?

1283
01:00:52,040 --> 01:00:52,320
Speaker 2: Women?

1284
01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:55,240
Speaker 4: Does good sex make people stay longer than they should?

1285
01:00:56,200 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 2: Yes?

1286
01:00:56,720 --> 01:00:59,960
Speaker 4: Is body count relevant or just insecure?

1287
01:01:00,680 --> 01:01:01,360
Speaker 2: Insecurity?

1288
01:01:02,760 --> 01:01:09,480
Speaker 1: Would you stay in a relationship with bad sex? H Yes,

1289
01:01:11,800 --> 01:01:15,880
Speaker 1: it's sexual compatibility compatibility. You could get sex from someone

1290
01:01:15,960 --> 01:01:18,840
Speaker 1: else else, so you're just gonna cheat.

1291
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:20,120
Speaker 4: This is crazy.

1292
01:01:22,400 --> 01:01:25,600
Speaker 1: It's sexual compatibility more important than emotional compatibility.

1293
01:01:25,680 --> 01:01:26,880
Speaker 2: No emotional compatibility.

1294
01:01:27,160 --> 01:01:30,560
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, thank you guys so much. I hope you

1295
01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:32,200
Speaker 1: guys have an incredible year.

1296
01:01:33,080 --> 01:01:35,240
Speaker 2: Here he is twenty twenty six. We're kicking it off.

1297
01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:38,200
Speaker 2: We're kicking it off right. We love y'all. We appreciate

1298
01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:40,680
Speaker 2: y'all support, continue support us. This year is gonna be

1299
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:44,600
Speaker 2: amazing year. Tune into our live shows coming up. We're

1300
01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 2: gonna have some dope ass guests and continue support. We

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01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:48,080
Speaker 2: appreciate y'all.

1302
01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:49,160
Speaker 4: Thank you, guys.

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01:01:49,200 --> 01:01:52,040
Speaker 1: I wish you a glorious twenty twenty six. I hope

1304
01:01:52,080 --> 01:01:54,720
Speaker 1: that everything that you want comes to you tenfold.

1305
01:01:55,920 --> 01:02:22,920
Speaker 2: Peace. This sister taking over the game. All right, everybody

1306
01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:25,840
Speaker 2: Welcome to truth after Dark.

1307
01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:31,080
Speaker 4: Do you think that men or women are more toxic