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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey got a radio show today, folks. I just

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Speaker 1: it here. It is. Did you know that there is

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Speaker 1: a life for you that's greater than you could have

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Speaker 1: And did you know that there was a life for

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Speaker 1: you much bigger than the one you wanted? And lastly,

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Speaker 1: did you know that what I just said it's true?

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Speaker 1: Did you know that? Did you know that the things

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Speaker 1: I just said are available to you? It's not just

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Speaker 1: you two. It's for you who didn't get your high

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Speaker 1: you who have two strikes. It's for you who've been

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Speaker 1: It's for you who have an illness. It's for you

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Speaker 1: this life I'm talking about, it's for you. Did you

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Speaker 1: the one you saw for yourself. There's a better life

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Speaker 1: for you? See, here's let me give you the secret

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Speaker 1: is for you. Now, you got to fight through the doubts.

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Speaker 1: You got to fight through the will of Satan. Because

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Speaker 1: the devil is busy man. The devil wants you to

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Speaker 1: think that is hopeless. The devil wants you to think

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Speaker 1: that ain't no more to it. The devil wants you

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Speaker 1: to think that this applies to other people. But you, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you've been dealt the worst hand of them all, which

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Speaker 1: So you gotta fight through. Now. You gotta fight through

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Speaker 1: to get to what I just said is available for you.

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Speaker 1: But what else you got to do? You ain't doing

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Speaker 1: nothing else, might as well fight? Why just wake up

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Speaker 1: and just let it be? Why would you wake up

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Speaker 1: every day and just exist when there's a chance for

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Speaker 1: Then the weekend gets in. You got to mow the lawn,

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Speaker 1: the people that believe that are looking for something else,

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Speaker 1: and try it your way. Go see, write me, email me,

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Speaker 1: to him for real and tell him, hey, you know what,

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Speaker 1: I want you to go ahead and take over from here.

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Speaker 1: a cool thing about it. When I made that decision,

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Speaker 1: don't take he because all the stuff he sent you through,

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Speaker 1: Do that, y'all, and you can have what you want.

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Speaker 1: You're listening, ladies and gentlemen, let's get to it. Today

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Speaker 1: But know this as long as it takes to get successful.

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Speaker 1: Must I remind you all there is joy in the journey.

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Speaker 1: You have got to stop along the way, man, and

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Speaker 1: But thank god, I ain't where I was. See you steps,

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Speaker 1: And sometimes people don't even get joy in the steps. Man,

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Speaker 1: eight years ago, hen last summer that started a new year. See,

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Speaker 1: and there's joy in the journey, but you got to

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Speaker 1: This is Steve Harbin Martin show man what yes it

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Speaker 1: is and thank you guys. Coming up at thirty two

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Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. The nephew is here to run

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Speaker 1: for us new you can't come back your church. You

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Speaker 1: can't come back to church saying hey, hey, I understand

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Speaker 1: you and the Lord got a relationship, but over here

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Speaker 1: all you gotta do is try to get this five

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Speaker 1: turn into fifteen and bam you in a healthy marriage.

424
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Speaker 1: We're good because that's just because the bride stuff and

425
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 1: kissing on the forehead is pretty good deal. After why

426
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:19,200
Speaker 1: who's at that? Now? If you just want to just

427
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 1: be in there doing ringling brother activities, then you got

428
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 1: to go with this dude you had the fan with.

429
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:30,159
Speaker 1: But you're wrong, and this whole thing can probably backfire

430
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: on you. I would suggest talking to your husband about

431
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:39,040
Speaker 1: them five minutes. See if you can't stretch it out

432
00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:41,600
Speaker 1: a little bit more than that. Twenty eight, she's been

433
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:43,879
Speaker 1: married for five years, she's been married since she was

434
00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 1: twenty three. Wow, that's you, you know, if you can

435
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:54,720
Speaker 1: get a strong twelve in yeah, yeah, compromise I'm talking

436
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:59,720
Speaker 1: about Hella though, I'm talking about about Hella. Yeah, I'm

437
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:07,639
Speaker 1: talking you know what I'm saying, I'm doing. Wow, all right,

438
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:12,400
Speaker 1: thank you as always, o cl we love you. You're

439
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:18,719
Speaker 1: listening to show. People are getting ready for work right now,

440
00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 1: probably and uh, maybe they're making their own lunch. You

441
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,480
Speaker 1: know people do that at home. Well, Steve, it turns

442
00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 1: out that eighteen percent of people have admitted to eating

443
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 1: someone else's lunch at the office. One worker's live tweeting

444
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:34,600
Speaker 1: of the mystery of a co worker stolen shrimp fried

445
00:28:34,680 --> 00:28:40,200
Speaker 1: rice was retweeted over one hundred and seventy three thousand times. Okay,

446
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 1: uh And while you may think it's funny, and it

447
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 1: is kind of funny, I mean when you think about it, um,

448
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 1: you know, getting away with eating someone else's meal, it

449
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 1: actually could have some serious consequences on the job. People

450
00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 1: don't forget stuff like this, and you see these people

451
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 1: every single day. This is according to a human resource expert,

452
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:04,040
Speaker 1: it becomes a trust issue. So Steve, I have to

453
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 1: ask you, I know you did it. He didn't do it. Off, No,

454
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 1: I have never in my life taking somebody's food because

455
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 1: I ain't that way. I don't lie. I don't know you.

456
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:19,680
Speaker 1: Oh so you don't know what kind of home they have?

457
00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 1: But how clean? Right now, two things I have done,

458
00:29:23,520 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 1: I've had mine taken. Yeah, I've called a person what happened?

459
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 1: And I've had I've seen a person taking a person's line. Okay,

460
00:29:34,880 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 1: well what happened when someone took? Both these is now

461
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 1: situations I used to my advantage. Yeah, see not, you

462
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: don't want this out, So now I need a couple

463
00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 1: of favors. You the mom, No, dog, I mean, look,

464
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 1: I saw you because I'm real observing. Y'all know that

465
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:58,760
Speaker 1: about me. I'm extremely observing. So I'm watching this dude

466
00:29:59,160 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 1: steal this dude food and the dude food he was stilling.

467
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 1: He's deceased. His name is James Paradise, and we worked

468
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:08,120
Speaker 1: at General Electric and this dude was taking Jared Jane

469
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 1: paradig leca Jameeka cook his ass off, and he was

470
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 1: just eating James lunch every night and then and I

471
00:30:13,000 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 1: caught him. Now, if I tell this to James Paradise, dog,

472
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 1: I'm talking about you've been to get drug out in

473
00:30:20,440 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 1: the parking lot, and when you come back in, you're

474
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 1: gonna need to show the people that to do your id.

475
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 1: You know, like sandwiches. You know James cook ribs, he

476
00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 1: take his ribs. You know he made pork shoulders sandwich.

477
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 1: You should bring it in to work for everybody. He

478
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 1: stole his pork shoulders sandwich and James getting upset. So

479
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 1: I saw him take James stuff. It was his young

480
00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:47,320
Speaker 1: white dude that was still in the food because he

481
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 1: was single, and you know he wouldn't bring no lunch.

482
00:30:50,240 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 1: Had to time this stupid ass boy. So I told him,

483
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 1: I say, hey, man, you know if Jane found out

484
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:58,480
Speaker 1: you want taking his lunch, man, you know what's gonna

485
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 1: happen to you? Cheese? Wait, what come on? Cheese? Yeah,

486
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 1: that's what I need. See. Once I hear that fear

487
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:14,720
Speaker 1: in your voice, then I got your ass because all geez,

488
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 1: it's not a hood turn. He said. Ah. I said,

489
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:24,160
Speaker 1: look hold on, this ain't got to gonna wear no.

490
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 1: Look the distant stay right here. But I'm need a

491
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 1: couple of favors. Man. Now, I'm gonna leave early Wednesday.

492
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 1: I need you to cover my job for me. See see,

493
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 1: it's not a problem with me, Steve, it's mister Harvey. Harvey.

494
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,240
Speaker 1: No now, you're gonna put some speck on my name.

495
00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:53,600
Speaker 1: I was the original birds man you were, So you're

496
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 1: gonna put some speck on my name. And so I

497
00:31:56,640 --> 00:32:01,120
Speaker 1: had him cover cover my job three times for that.

498
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 1: Then I saw a dude take my lunch. This is

499
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 1: a black dude had it just got hired, and he

500
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 1: would hadn't completed his ninety day probation. Now if I

501
00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 1: report this, you ain't gonna get the job. Oh man,

502
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I thought it was mine. Out of hell.

503
00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 1: Your name ain't Steve Gregory, it's Gregory. Now your name Frederick,

504
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 1: Fredi Stev get confused with Frederick, right right, So I said,

505
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 1: so Frederick, look here, man, I'm just need a couple

506
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:40,720
Speaker 1: of favors from it. Now. I'm gonna come in late.

507
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:43,840
Speaker 1: I need you to punch my time clock when you

508
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 1: get at the gate, punch my time clock from me.

509
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 1: Hit me in. Oh that's that's not a problem. Now

510
00:32:51,200 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 1: listen to me. They have a camera aimed at the

511
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 1: time clock, so you gotta put your back to the camera.

512
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 1: So he did it the first time. How do you

513
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:05,760
Speaker 1: know all of this? Come on, no, no, no, excuse me,

514
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 1: excuse me time Hulo, I was never thug. Hula hulam

515
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 1: was crime with a purpose with respect to thugs just

516
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 1: out here doing stuff. Thus crimes with a purpose, and

517
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:27,240
Speaker 1: it was always to better uplift one self. Yes, the

518
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:31,680
Speaker 1: expensive Yeah, And so that's what I had him do

519
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 1: so I could leave early. Caused it a little white dude,

520
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 1: and I could come in late black cause of Frederick Wow.

521
00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 1: So I had him a nice little set up. And

522
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 1: then meanwhile at school he was you know, hall passes huzzling. Yeah,

523
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 1: y'all need passes to be late in this hallway? Who

524
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 1: name you put on it? There? See? My name was

525
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:57,080
Speaker 1: never on a hall pass, So I ain't need you

526
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 1: talking about You got it from Steve because I ain't

527
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 1: got no hall pass because I had told her back

528
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 1: off my locker anyway, Yeah, and so I kept my stuff.

529
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 1: I told her back off my locker. I don't get that.

530
00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 1: I had bent down and I put on my step behind.

531
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:16,719
Speaker 1: So if you owe my locking ship, I ain't never

532
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 1: had nothing. Oh I okay, Yeah, So Steve gave you

533
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:25,719
Speaker 1: a har How the hell I got hall passed? I'm

534
00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 1: in class, not learning. I'm here, mister days in high school,

535
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:37,919
Speaker 1: two cut days. All I ever did man. Oh wow,

536
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:41,600
Speaker 1: see if your life has been incredible, been wonderful, it

537
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:45,399
Speaker 1: really really has really thank you? And look at you now?

538
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 1: Look at you now? I mean still hustle are you?

539
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:52,680
Speaker 1: Are you still a hoodler? No? I no, I don't

540
00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:57,120
Speaker 1: do crime. I had a little running and I had

541
00:34:57,120 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 1: a little running in that kind of straighted me out.

542
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 1: You're listening to show all right? Time now, guys, for

543
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 1: would you rather here we go? Would you rather be

544
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 1: the ugliest person in the room? Or would you rather

545
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: or would you rather be the least funny person in

546
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 1: the room? There you go? There you go, Tommy, I'm

547
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 1: gonna gonna be like that. I'm here with y'all. That's

548
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:33,400
Speaker 1: what I thought you've been over here. The only confusion

549
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:36,360
Speaker 1: is in your mind what you want to be a

550
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:39,359
Speaker 1: R b ugliest person in the room or the least

551
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 1: funniest person in the room. What you want to be?

552
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be here first. That's not an option. Okay,

553
00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:49,359
Speaker 1: all right, I think we're clear on that one. Would

554
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:51,840
Speaker 1: you rather have dinner with your ex or live in

555
00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 1: a tiny house? Would they be in a tiny house

556
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 1: on the corner of the the tiny house? With that point,

557
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:07,279
Speaker 1: you the only thing I got to sit on. Yeah,

558
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 1: put me in there and shut the dopp What about you, Junior,

559
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:19,879
Speaker 1: I send in the tiny house with no windows. You're

560
00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:21,800
Speaker 1: all in the tiny house, all right, We'll go to

561
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:29,439
Speaker 1: tiny jail, Shirley, some little tiny handcuffs, Shirley, I live

562
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:39,440
Speaker 1: in a tiny tiny house house. Would you rather take

563
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 1: cold showers for three months? Or would you rather connect

564
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 1: your phone in the car? You know, when you're when

565
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:48,799
Speaker 1: you're with your gonna be shriveled up every day looking

566
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 1: like a prone Oh day, I'm prone. Baby, I'm gonna

567
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 1: connect my phone. Yeah, I ain't up to nothing. I'm good. Yeah,

568
00:36:56,840 --> 00:36:59,400
Speaker 1: Oh I can connect it. But I'd rather shribble up

569
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 1: on your phone. Hey, dog, But I'm gonna tell you

570
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 1: I got some partners that call where I go. Dog,

571
00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 1: I'm on speak in the car with my girl. I

572
00:37:13,600 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 1: have to tell him that you have to immediately, got

573
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:18,360
Speaker 1: some partners where I have to say that too. I

574
00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 1: have to say that too, all right, And it beat

575
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 1: the random thought because I gotta go ahead short. Would

576
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:25,719
Speaker 1: you guys rather a sixteen hour road trip in an

577
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 1: RV or a four hour flight on Spirit Airline. I'm

578
00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:34,040
Speaker 1: gonna see the sights on that RV. Gonna we're gonna

579
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,000
Speaker 1: get on this road for sixty I'm gonna geting in

580
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 1: that RV for sixteen hours, stopping at truck stops, all

581
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:45,840
Speaker 1: that car. You're only on Spirit for four hours, got

582
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 1: a fight for five We're getting you know who else

583
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,880
Speaker 1: on that plane? Though? That's the probably Spirit, it's the

584
00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 1: other customers. Yeah, it's four hours of that. Especially me

585
00:37:57,040 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 1: sitting back there. I don't think what I've seen you

586
00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:04,800
Speaker 1: on a few. All right, we'll have more of the

587
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:08,880
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up right after this. You're listening,

588
00:38:12,680 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 1: all right? Yahoo is reporting, guys, a new pole that

589
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:21,360
Speaker 1: finds fifty nine percent of couples say that they suspected

590
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:24,479
Speaker 1: their partner of cheating. If they suspected them, they would

591
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 1: discuss the matter with them rather than jumping to conclusions.

592
00:38:28,400 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 1: I'm going to say that again for the lateies. Okay,

593
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 1: fifty nine of couples say that if they suspected their

594
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 1: partner of cheating, they would discuss the matter with them

595
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 1: rather than jumping to conclusions. Okay, cool. Let me ask

596
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 1: you a questions. Shirley and Calum, Now, let me ask

597
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 1: you a question. Just listen, to this question. If you

598
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 1: suspected your husband of cheating and it was not on

599
00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 1: the internet, nobody knew, none of your co workers, it

600
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:04,120
Speaker 1: was not it wasn't made public. If you suspected your

601
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 1: husband of cheating, would you bring it up calmly? Would

602
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:12,240
Speaker 1: you bring it up with anger? How would you do it? Probably?

603
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 1: All of the above for me, without the calm though

604
00:39:18,160 --> 00:39:24,960
Speaker 1: you're already nowhere. I'm coming bigger, all of it. All

605
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:27,879
Speaker 1: of the above for me, without the calm. Anger. If

606
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 1: I suspected that not yet? No, well, I mean, if

607
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:34,839
Speaker 1: you had suspicious you ain't have no proof. You ain't

608
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 1: you ain't heard nothing, you ain't got no pictures, ain't no,

609
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:41,800
Speaker 1: ain't on internet, and none of that. But Steve, you

610
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:47,319
Speaker 1: know we have intuition. You know we have intuition. I'm

611
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 1: disappointing to you, mister Harvey. I don't know. I'm just

612
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:53,839
Speaker 1: trying to see what y'all would do. I don't really

613
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:57,880
Speaker 1: And the word discussion I have a problem with. There

614
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 1: will be no discussion. Are you gonna just find out

615
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:05,200
Speaker 1: on your own? First? Liked little CUSI let me ask

616
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:11,719
Speaker 1: your question. Suppose you discovered that you were wrong about him,

617
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:16,839
Speaker 1: and that he wasn't cheating. What happens at that point? Oh,

618
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:20,160
Speaker 1: then I'm apologizing and begging to his forgiveness, begging for

619
00:40:20,280 --> 00:40:22,960
Speaker 1: his forgiveness and threatening him he better not do it.

620
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:30,640
Speaker 1: You see what happens? Yeah, God in the heart, you

621
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:33,520
Speaker 1: gotta do that. Yeah, you apologize for your wrong doing,

622
00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:39,800
Speaker 1: but you know, make it up to him. You know that. Wow,

623
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:44,520
Speaker 1: that's amazing. Any more questions, We're here for it. No,

624
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 1: y'all's answers shorty and truthful, and there's no one. There's

625
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:54,239
Speaker 1: no one in between, ain't no. You know that's I

626
00:40:54,280 --> 00:40:57,800
Speaker 1: don't like talking to y'all if we are. You expecting

627
00:40:57,920 --> 00:41:00,360
Speaker 1: something else. I don't know what I expected, but that

628
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 1: wasn't it. You've obviously been through this before. I'll tell

629
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:09,080
Speaker 1: you what I found out, though, Uh what, I'm fine out.

630
00:41:09,080 --> 00:41:12,360
Speaker 1: I ain't fired up to have a discussion once they

631
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:16,439
Speaker 1: find out I'll cheat this. It's old. You're uglass sitting

632
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:22,040
Speaker 1: up here. Got the cheat? No you get, But Junior,

633
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 1: don't you know that money changes things? Yeah? How you

634
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:30,759
Speaker 1: get the nerves that was before? Look at you now?

635
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:33,919
Speaker 1: But see Tommy saying dang Junior, like you can't believe

636
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: Junior called itself ugly, Tommy, you're ugly. No, I am

637
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:41,360
Speaker 1: not am not gonna let you bring stop doing that.

638
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 1: You go listen twenty eighteen. You're not gonna do this.

639
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:47,560
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm gonna tell the truth in two thousand

640
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 1: and eighteen. Are you fine, Tommy? No, I'm not no fine,

641
00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:52,800
Speaker 1: and I'm not out, but I ain't just gonna be

642
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 1: ugly though. No, I'm not doing this. Dog, You're not

643
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:59,279
Speaker 1: fine and I'm not ugly. But listen to me. If

644
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 1: you're not fine, then by a long ship, what you

645
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:07,479
Speaker 1: think that is? Why did you do that to him? Steve?

646
00:42:08,680 --> 00:42:10,840
Speaker 1: I don't know why. Tommy keep thinking he cute, but

647
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 1: you're not cute. I didn't say I was cute. I'm

648
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 1: just saying I'm not. Listen to me. Listen to me.

649
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:23,279
Speaker 1: You look strang I'm decent. I don't look strang man,

650
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 1: You do not looks crazy. To get a mirror and

651
00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 1: look at yourself from the side, you're strange. Look I

652
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 1: am not strange. Don't tell me you are. You look

653
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 1: strange all everybody, all the men in our family, we're

654
00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:50,040
Speaker 1: strange looking from the side. Look't have fun with the time,

655
00:42:50,040 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 1: and when you accept it Tommy, he's never going to

656
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 1: accept that. You guys know that I'm not I'm not

657
00:42:56,320 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 1: doing it. Speaking of to break with your strange you're

658
00:43:02,239 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 1: listening to show coming up at the top of the hour,

659
00:43:08,200 --> 00:43:10,759
Speaker 1: right about four minutes after it's my Strawberry letter for

660
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 1: today's subject, his ex wife is willing to share him

661
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 1: with me. His ex wife is willing to share him

662
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:25,040
Speaker 1: with me. All right, we'll get into that. She might be,

663
00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:29,239
Speaker 1: but I'm not thank you right now. We'll get into

664
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 1: it right now. The nephew's here with today's prank phone call.

665
00:43:32,520 --> 00:43:36,279
Speaker 1: What you got for is after your wife is in

666
00:43:36,400 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 1: the limo, let's go care dog. Your wife is in

667
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:42,600
Speaker 1: a limo. Hello. Hello, I'm trying to I'm trying to

668
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 1: read Rob Robert, Robert, what's up us? Hey? Hey, how

669
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:51,399
Speaker 1: you doing? Hey? Hey, listen, man, my name is Field. Dog.

670
00:43:51,920 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 1: I know you threw some other people. Your brother, right, Yeah,

671
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:59,720
Speaker 1: that's my brother. Yeah, what's that? Listen, man, I'm calling

672
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:06,799
Speaker 1: you cause little something bad. First of all, everything, my brother, right,

673
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:10,800
Speaker 1: you need this ain't no, he ain't no trouble is it? No? No? No, no, no,

674
00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:16,239
Speaker 1: no no straight man, just a no. You're married to right, Yes,

675
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 1: that's my wife's boss. Okay, we'll see. Man. What I'm trying,

676
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:22,360
Speaker 1: little man? Um? I mean stood out? What's happened about?

677
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 1: Listen what I'm trying to explain to you? Once getting

678
00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 1: my name for you? Because for a time I drive

679
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 1: Limos and uh I'm actually driving right now. Okay, what's up? Well?

680
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:37,120
Speaker 1: I had seen your wife, you know, I knew you

681
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 1: were a little brother. You know. I was like, Okay,

682
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 1: this this right here ain't cool. Hold on, No, what

683
00:44:44,040 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 1: you seen my wife? What do you mean? My wife?

684
00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:47,839
Speaker 1: How do you know? What are you talking about? Okay,

685
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,400
Speaker 1: we'll live. Okay, okay, Rob, let me ask you. Is

686
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 1: your wife there right now? Love? Was? My wife's been gone, man,

687
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:55,440
Speaker 1: she was out with us in her home. Girl. Man,

688
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 1: they've been gone. What are you trying to get that? Man? Okay?

689
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:02,280
Speaker 1: I got he Hey, I understand. Just listen to me. Man, listen,

690
00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:04,799
Speaker 1: hey man, I'd have been dog got a many times

691
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 1: about some ladies. You know what I'm saying. I just

692
00:45:06,600 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 1: hate to see brothers get done wrong. I'm like, whoa

693
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:12,360
Speaker 1: where are you coming from? Dog? Listen? Down? You go ahead?

694
00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:18,200
Speaker 1: And he stood out the oldest revenue. I get the drive, drive,

695
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:21,800
Speaker 1: I drive limousine. And what I'm trying to say to

696
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 1: you is what you're trying to say. Man, spit it all.

697
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 1: Your wife is in the back of the limousine and

698
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:32,360
Speaker 1: I'm driving right now. She and the back though. What

699
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:36,960
Speaker 1: what the girls out? And and like that? What y'all? No, man,

700
00:45:37,120 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 1: if it was a bunch of girls out, I wouldn't

701
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:42,160
Speaker 1: even be calling you, bro. Your wife is in the

702
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 1: fact that it's limousine with a man. What the man?

703
00:45:47,360 --> 00:45:51,799
Speaker 1: What the band? Hey y'all step about, Hey, y'all, step

704
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 1: about the room from any man, step about the room

705
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,200
Speaker 1: from it, step about the room. Just hold on, hold

706
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 1: on by step about the room from me to man,

707
00:45:58,320 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 1: step about the room. Hello, uh si, yeah, Hey, hey,

708
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:04,759
Speaker 1: look man, you need to come collect man because this

709
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 1: ain't gonna matter. White here, dog, you're saying that my wife.

710
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 1: You you got my wife in the back of the

711
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:13,239
Speaker 1: limits and you're driving. Man, she got other dog? What

712
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 1: she got on? What card? It is that she got

713
00:46:15,520 --> 00:46:19,880
Speaker 1: on a black trans with white lines? Ain't it what

714
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:23,839
Speaker 1: I'm trying I'm trying to hey, hey, hey, hey, Rob,

715
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:26,440
Speaker 1: I'm trying to make sure I got the right person.

716
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:30,680
Speaker 1: What she had on? You know, my brother, you ain't

717
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 1: got that accomplished. And you said that you got my

718
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 1: wife what she is? The house? We're talking about this?

719
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 1: This look cute? This listen, I wasn't starting this look cute?

720
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:44,200
Speaker 1: And you said, he it back for your car. Where

721
00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:46,399
Speaker 1: are you driving that dog? Where are you driving that? Man?

722
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 1: That's all I need to know about you. You need

723
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:56,200
Speaker 1: to have that. Who are college? Look? Who the dog? Who? Okay? Dogs? Listen, man, Well,

724
00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say this to you. See though, I've

725
00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 1: been around hunting on this road. You know my hell, man,

726
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 1: you know what I'm looking. I did tell me this

727
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 1: man out to you. It's it's it's the wrong that's

728
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:08,839
Speaker 1: sitting in the back. She got the curls coming down

729
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:10,520
Speaker 1: on the side. That's all I need to know. Do

730
00:47:10,640 --> 00:47:12,960
Speaker 1: she got the curls that dangling on the side. You

731
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:15,440
Speaker 1: know I can't hear you, boss, I can't hear you.

732
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:18,680
Speaker 1: Speak up, man, I said, yeah, Man, I can't talk. Man,

733
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:22,240
Speaker 1: they're in the bag. I can't look. Man. You calling

734
00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:25,040
Speaker 1: me though, and this isn't he You're gonna call it.

735
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:27,319
Speaker 1: You're trying to make it straight, right, so you bring

736
00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:29,400
Speaker 1: it only over to where I'm at, boss, dog I

737
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:31,960
Speaker 1: can't do that, man, I can't bring what you do

738
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 1: that you're gonna ask crazy crazy, I'm saying what you

739
00:47:39,640 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 1: ain't me a look? Do you call me? Put her

740
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 1: on the phone. Put it on the phone. I can't

741
00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:47,600
Speaker 1: put get a phone to her. Dog, get a phone

742
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 1: over here. You need to drive where I'm at, boss,

743
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:53,200
Speaker 1: flying where I'm at boss, because this is gonna be

744
00:47:53,280 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 1: hamble right now. I just got I said, I want

745
00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:01,279
Speaker 1: you going back to my hole. Hold up, hold ups,

746
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 1: damn me, man, I can't hear you. Dog you you listen,

747
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 1: listen all this whichmanes. You need to need to stop

748
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:10,280
Speaker 1: the car and say you need to some stand outside

749
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 1: the car and tell me where the others I can

750
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:15,400
Speaker 1: come meet you whenever the lust or you need to

751
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:18,719
Speaker 1: do around to tell huh this. You gotta take a

752
00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:22,919
Speaker 1: desour the dog because you go, okay, you gotta calm

753
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:26,319
Speaker 1: calm man. You don't even know me. Man, you will

754
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:29,239
Speaker 1: list with the room. Dog, So listen about it's the

755
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:31,400
Speaker 1: thing box. Look, I used to gonna find out what

756
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 1: little zas over the rither. You drive and I'm gonna

757
00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:37,439
Speaker 1: find y'all or you're gonna have to come find me. Dog.

758
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:39,279
Speaker 1: You don't mess with the wrong one. Put on the

759
00:48:39,320 --> 00:48:44,120
Speaker 1: phone box. Put them on the phone and they push

760
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 1: the phone. Many, ain't got selling to be, ain't look

761
00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:49,160
Speaker 1: looking up and you helped me out. Appreciate the call man,

762
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 1: put up the phone. Wait wait wait wait wait wait

763
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:55,320
Speaker 1: wait wait wait wait wait wait Rob, Rob? What's that? Man? Okay,

764
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 1: listen man, you say this is a game. Man, I'm

765
00:48:57,160 --> 00:49:05,520
Speaker 1: gonna come first. Don't want I'm just to go out. Hey.

766
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 1: All I know is they're gonna stop at the hotel

767
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:17,200
Speaker 1: for a minute, man and change. Tell what this play? Hey?

768
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 1: Look here you had wrote me out. Do you come

769
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 1: on my way? I'm on the way. Tell dog, come on, man,

770
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:28,319
Speaker 1: don't don't act like what ship at all. Don't act

771
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:30,839
Speaker 1: like that. Man. Hey, look, you got one more time

772
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:33,680
Speaker 1: to be trying to tell me how to act. Cret Okay,

773
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:35,719
Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you man to listen to me.

774
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:38,400
Speaker 1: I want to tell you one more thing, man, what

775
00:49:38,640 --> 00:49:40,640
Speaker 1: because they ain't got time for no more one more things.

776
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:42,239
Speaker 1: One more thing you need to be telling me is

777
00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 1: when you hit dog, we'ret man. This is nephew Tom

778
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 1: May from the Steve Harvey Martin Show. You just got

779
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 1: prayed for your wife. Now, man, man, what do you

780
00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:10,560
Speaker 1: te tell me? Man? My bad man? You got my man?

781
00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:16,719
Speaker 1: You got my man? God Man, before we go Rob,

782
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:22,360
Speaker 1: what is man? The baddest radio show man Steve The

783
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:30,760
Speaker 1: Morning Show with Nephew Time is crazy. I will prank

784
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 1: that ass. You know that. I do it. I do it. Yeah,

785
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:36,719
Speaker 1: I say it like that, say it again. I don't

786
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 1: even know if that went with what was I will

787
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 1: exactly took it too far? Tim me with the good Hey,

788
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:49,000
Speaker 1: your wife up in this litmo getting busy. But I'm

789
00:50:49,040 --> 00:50:51,480
Speaker 1: just trying to let you know. Oh you play so much.

790
00:50:52,840 --> 00:50:56,759
Speaker 1: Oh man, I'm trying to I'm trying to figure out

791
00:50:56,840 --> 00:51:00,840
Speaker 1: my next list. You know who where I wants to

792
00:51:00,920 --> 00:51:04,719
Speaker 1: go in? How about I prank Will Smith Will? But

793
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:08,320
Speaker 1: you can't talk about it because he's probably listening. He

794
00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 1: listens to the show. Well, now you need something else.

795
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:21,840
Speaker 1: Don't say that, do you, Jazzy Jeff instead, Tommy? How

796
00:51:21,840 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 1: about l L how about l L? Who? That would

797
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:27,560
Speaker 1: be Oh that would be good. That would be good.

798
00:51:27,719 --> 00:51:29,799
Speaker 1: If you lick your lips one more time, onna beat

799
00:51:29,840 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 1: your head if you will. If you boy, I'm gonna

800
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:39,719
Speaker 1: whoop you over half. You beat your little lick your

801
00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:42,800
Speaker 1: little one more time, and I'm I'm tired of my

802
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:45,320
Speaker 1: wife looking at the TV that that TV show you

803
00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:48,239
Speaker 1: on licking your lib a. You why you gotta be

804
00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 1: a police officer? Licking your lips? Tommy, where you're gonna

805
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 1: drop l l Yeah, all right, looking coming out next.

806
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:02,759
Speaker 1: It is a Strawberry Letter. Subject his ex wife is

807
00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:05,040
Speaker 1: willing to share him with me. We'll get into it

808
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show

809
00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 1: time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

810
00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:18,000
Speaker 1: advice on dating, sex, work, parenting, relationships and more. Please

811
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:20,879
Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and click

812
00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:25,759
Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live

813
00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:27,839
Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're gonna read this one

814
00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:34,439
Speaker 1: right here, right now. Okay, buggle up, hold on tight,

815
00:52:34,480 --> 00:52:37,160
Speaker 1: We got it for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter,

816
00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:40,799
Speaker 1: all right. Subject his wife is willing to share him

817
00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:44,120
Speaker 1: with me. Dear Stephen Shirley. I was in a relationship

818
00:52:44,160 --> 00:52:46,759
Speaker 1: with a man for six months, but we fell in

819
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:50,080
Speaker 1: love quickly and we were living together. He is thirty

820
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 1: six and I'm thirty one. He's going through a divorce

821
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:56,959
Speaker 1: when he met me, so I made him wait until

822
00:52:56,960 --> 00:52:59,839
Speaker 1: the papers were signed before we had sex. He told

823
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:02,880
Speaker 1: me that his wife divorced him because he cheated on

824
00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:06,880
Speaker 1: her multiple times. He told me that he cheated simply

825
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 1: because his wife had stopped having sex with him. He

826
00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:11,880
Speaker 1: often went to his old house to get more of

827
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:14,200
Speaker 1: his things so he could fully move in with me.

828
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:18,120
Speaker 1: Two weeks ago, he went over, and when he came back,

829
00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 1: he was quiet and wouldn't look me in the eye.

830
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:24,880
Speaker 1: After I kept asking him what was wrong and accusing

831
00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:27,320
Speaker 1: him of messing with his ex wife, he admitted that

832
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:30,400
Speaker 1: he did. We cried and tried to work through it,

833
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 1: but the next day he told me that he had

834
00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:35,439
Speaker 1: talked to his ex wife and told her he would

835
00:53:35,480 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 1: move back in because he's ashamed of how he left her.

836
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 1: A couple of days later, he left me and moved

837
00:53:41,560 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 1: back into his home with her. I was an emotional wreck.

838
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:47,360
Speaker 1: He came over to see me a few times to

839
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:49,439
Speaker 1: see if I was all right, and we made love.

840
00:53:49,640 --> 00:53:53,919
Speaker 1: Each time. I told him I want him to come back.

841
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 1: He said that it was a possibility if I were to,

842
00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:01,279
Speaker 1: If I were open to have a relationship with him,

843
00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:05,799
Speaker 1: despite him being with his wife, He said he told

844
00:54:05,880 --> 00:54:08,719
Speaker 1: his ex about me and how he had fallen in love.

845
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:11,359
Speaker 1: He said his ex wife was willing to let him

846
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:15,800
Speaker 1: continue to see me if I was okay with the arrangement.

847
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:19,960
Speaker 1: I'm so love sick. I entertained this crazy notion for

848
00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:23,480
Speaker 1: a day or two he came over. But he came

849
00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:26,200
Speaker 1: over to my house last night and he smelled like

850
00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 1: her perfume, and I lost it. I love him so

851
00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:31,800
Speaker 1: much and I don't want him to go, but I

852
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:34,239
Speaker 1: don't think I can be a third wheel. It's having

853
00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:37,919
Speaker 1: part of a man better than no man nowadays. Wow,

854
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 1: you really drink the kool Ai, didn't you? I mean,

855
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:43,800
Speaker 1: all the time he was going over to his house,

856
00:54:44,160 --> 00:54:46,920
Speaker 1: supposedly to get things to bring over to your house. Yes,

857
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:49,440
Speaker 1: he was sleeping with his wife, just like he sleeps

858
00:54:49,480 --> 00:54:52,239
Speaker 1: with you when he comes over your house. And the

859
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:55,520
Speaker 1: question is having part of a man better than no

860
00:54:55,719 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 1: man nowadays. That's unacceptable any day, you know, and it

861
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:05,120
Speaker 1: should be unacceptable to you unless you're, like I mean,

862
00:55:05,280 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 1: just unbelievably desperate, which it sounds like you are. You

863
00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:12,200
Speaker 1: just want to settle for anything. Come on, now, why

864
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:14,480
Speaker 1: would you want to do that? Let this man go

865
00:55:14,719 --> 00:55:18,239
Speaker 1: back to his wife and stay there so they can

866
00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:22,120
Speaker 1: keep their little you know, threesome, more open marriage arrangement

867
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:27,120
Speaker 1: they got going on to themselves. And his wife is

868
00:55:27,160 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 1: stupid too if she thinks the only way she can

869
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:33,480
Speaker 1: keep him is to invite you into their marriage. But

870
00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:36,040
Speaker 1: I think they do this. It almost sounds like it's

871
00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:38,520
Speaker 1: some sort of game. I think you should stand your

872
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 1: ground and not become the third wheel, as you say,

873
00:55:42,760 --> 00:55:45,680
Speaker 1: in all of this craziness. I think you won't know better,

874
00:55:45,760 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 1: though I think you do in your heart. You just

875
00:55:47,840 --> 00:55:49,600
Speaker 1: think that you're in love with this guy. You're not

876
00:55:49,760 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 1: in love with him, and what do you really have

877
00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:57,759
Speaker 1: with him anyway? Didn't don't you remember that he told

878
00:55:57,800 --> 00:56:02,320
Speaker 1: you he cheated on his wife multiple multiple times, multiple times.

879
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:05,160
Speaker 1: He's a cheater and that's why he was in trouble

880
00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:10,120
Speaker 1: with his wife, all right, So do you think he

881
00:56:10,160 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 1: wouldn't cheat on you? Okay, that's what I'm saying if

882
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:14,879
Speaker 1: he came to stay with you. Let me just say

883
00:56:14,920 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 1: this to you. Every man who wants to cheat and

884
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:19,879
Speaker 1: get with someone one else, they always say that their

885
00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:23,399
Speaker 1: wife doesn't have sex with them and they're unhappy. That's

886
00:56:23,440 --> 00:56:26,560
Speaker 1: like the standard line. So don't get sucked into that.

887
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:29,000
Speaker 1: I mean, please just let him stay over there. Do

888
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:32,480
Speaker 1: not consider being in a three summer with them. This

889
00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 1: is craziness right here. This is you don't want to

890
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:37,520
Speaker 1: do this. Let that man go back to his wife

891
00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:44,680
Speaker 1: and stay Steve. This whole damn letter don't make no

892
00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:48,320
Speaker 1: damn sense. As a matter of fact, as I was

893
00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 1: listening to surely read the letter, I kept saying, through

894
00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:56,040
Speaker 1: the whole letter, what so? What I'm calling this letter

895
00:56:56,239 --> 00:56:58,920
Speaker 1: is the subject is his wife is willing to share

896
00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:01,960
Speaker 1: me with him. But I'm gonna call this the letter

897
00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:06,719
Speaker 1: call what? Because there is so many what moments in

898
00:57:06,880 --> 00:57:10,360
Speaker 1: this damned letter that I can't read it without saying what.

899
00:57:11,120 --> 00:57:13,839
Speaker 1: Here we go. I'm in a relationship with a man

900
00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:16,360
Speaker 1: for six months. We fell in love quickly, living together.

901
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 1: He thirty six and I'm thirty one. He was going

902
00:57:20,040 --> 00:57:22,360
Speaker 1: through a divorce when we met, so I made him

903
00:57:22,440 --> 00:57:25,040
Speaker 1: wait until the papers were signed before we had sex.

904
00:57:25,400 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 1: What What didn't you just say? I was in a

905
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:35,280
Speaker 1: relationship with a man for six months, but we fell

906
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:40,040
Speaker 1: in love quickly, and we were living together. Y'all live together,

907
00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:43,480
Speaker 1: they have sex? He thirty six, he was going through

908
00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:46,000
Speaker 1: divorce when we met, so I made him wait until

909
00:57:46,040 --> 00:57:49,400
Speaker 1: the papers were signed before we had sex. What here

910
00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 1: we go again. He told me that his wife divorced

911
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:56,000
Speaker 1: him because he cheated on her multiple time. Wait a minute,

912
00:57:56,400 --> 00:58:02,520
Speaker 1: he told you that. See that was a setup. He

913
00:58:02,800 --> 00:58:05,080
Speaker 1: told you to read him and his wife because he

914
00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:07,400
Speaker 1: cheated on her several times. He told me that he

915
00:58:07,520 --> 00:58:11,760
Speaker 1: cheated simply because his wife had stopped having sex with him.

916
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:16,040
Speaker 1: What He often went to his old house to get

917
00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:18,160
Speaker 1: more of his things so he could fully move in

918
00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:20,400
Speaker 1: with me. Now you just said y'all was living together,

919
00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:23,960
Speaker 1: But now you're saying so he could fully move in

920
00:58:24,120 --> 00:58:27,840
Speaker 1: with you. And two weeks ago he came back and

921
00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:30,200
Speaker 1: he was quiet and wouldn't look me in the eye.

922
00:58:30,760 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 1: After I kept asking what was wrong and accused him

923
00:58:33,240 --> 00:58:36,000
Speaker 1: and messing with his ex wife, he admitted that he did.

924
00:58:36,720 --> 00:58:43,280
Speaker 1: What Why did you do that? Because he couldn't look

925
00:58:43,320 --> 00:58:47,360
Speaker 1: you in the eye? What all right, Steve? Hang on?

926
00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:51,880
Speaker 1: Where on? What when we come back? Well? That part

927
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:54,600
Speaker 1: tim Steve's response coming up at twenty three minutes after

928
00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 1: the hour Today's Strawberry Letters subject to his ex wife

929
00:58:57,320 --> 00:59:00,000
Speaker 1: is willing to share him with me. We'll get back.

930
00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:04,640
Speaker 1: I can do it right after this. You're listening show?

931
00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:07,919
Speaker 1: All right? Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

932
00:59:08,200 --> 00:59:11,800
Speaker 1: His ex wife is willing to share him with me.

933
00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:15,280
Speaker 1: You renamed it the letter of what, the letter of what,

934
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:17,800
Speaker 1: and there's so many whats in this letter. Let's quickly

935
00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 1: go over what we found out. Um been with this

936
00:59:22,080 --> 00:59:24,760
Speaker 1: relationship with a man for six months, fell in love quickly.

937
00:59:24,800 --> 00:59:27,040
Speaker 1: He thirty six, thirty one. He was going through a

938
00:59:27,080 --> 00:59:29,400
Speaker 1: divorce when we met, so I made him wait till

939
00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:34,560
Speaker 1: the papers were signed before we had sex. What y'all?

940
00:59:34,640 --> 00:59:36,919
Speaker 1: He moved in with you, y'all living together? Y'all ain't

941
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:40,640
Speaker 1: having sex till the papers get signed. Okay, letty right.

942
00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:43,600
Speaker 1: He told me his wife divorced him because he cheated

943
00:59:43,680 --> 00:59:48,920
Speaker 1: on her multiple times. He told you that said, Come on?

944
00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 1: What he told me that he cheated simply because his

945
00:59:54,280 --> 01:00:00,040
Speaker 1: wife has stopped having sex with him. What you I

946
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:02,480
Speaker 1: mean after she found out you were screwing everybody else,

947
01:00:02,560 --> 01:00:04,400
Speaker 1: she could have a sect with you so you wouldn't

948
01:00:04,400 --> 01:00:08,120
Speaker 1: screw a few more people. That's what you did, okay, bro.

949
01:00:10,120 --> 01:00:12,640
Speaker 1: He often went to his old house to get more

950
01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:15,000
Speaker 1: of his things, so he could fully move in with me,

951
01:00:15,360 --> 01:00:18,120
Speaker 1: so you he was living with you, But he kept

952
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:20,600
Speaker 1: going back over there and get some more things, and

953
01:00:20,760 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 1: you kept unlocking the door. What what Two weeks ago

954
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:27,480
Speaker 1: he went over there and when he came back, he

955
01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:29,520
Speaker 1: was quiet, and he wouldn't look me in the eye.

956
01:00:29,760 --> 01:00:31,920
Speaker 1: After I kept asking him what was wrong in accusing

957
01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:34,240
Speaker 1: me of a messing with his ex wife? He admitted

958
01:00:34,320 --> 01:00:39,800
Speaker 1: that he did. What Why did he tell you that

959
01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:44,800
Speaker 1: he this dude couldn't look you in your eye? He

960
01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:47,800
Speaker 1: bit screwing up. He been looking you in your eye

961
01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:51,680
Speaker 1: just this one night he couldn't do it. He admitted

962
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:54,880
Speaker 1: that he did. He go the next line. We cried

963
01:00:55,000 --> 01:01:00,840
Speaker 1: and tried to work through it. Whatever hell is he

964
01:01:01,120 --> 01:01:06,960
Speaker 1: crying fault? He's screwing everybody? What is he crying fault?

965
01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:10,760
Speaker 1: We cried and tried to work through it. But the

966
01:01:10,960 --> 01:01:14,000
Speaker 1: next day, right after that, he told me he had

967
01:01:14,040 --> 01:01:16,800
Speaker 1: talked to his ex wife and told her he would

968
01:01:16,880 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 1: move back in because he was ashamed of how he

969
01:01:19,360 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 1: left her. What right? So what was it crying fault?

970
01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:29,000
Speaker 1: Because he knew what he was gonna tell your stupid

971
01:01:29,080 --> 01:01:33,200
Speaker 1: ass tomorrow, So he cried, here, gonna leave? What I

972
01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:35,600
Speaker 1: wuna hear you the mom if we try to wait,

973
01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:41,280
Speaker 1: I don't want to have sexual him. She keeps putting

974
01:01:41,280 --> 01:01:47,280
Speaker 1: it in my face. Yeah. A couple of days later,

975
01:01:47,920 --> 01:01:52,200
Speaker 1: he left me and moved back into his home with her.

976
01:01:54,080 --> 01:01:58,600
Speaker 1: I was an emotional wreck. Yeah. Oh wait a minute,

977
01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:01,080
Speaker 1: Oh wait, this is the woman that he was cheating

978
01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:03,720
Speaker 1: on because she wouldn't have sex with him. When did

979
01:02:03,840 --> 01:02:09,040
Speaker 1: she start having sex with him after he left him?

980
01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:14,280
Speaker 1: For you? Just the story you're going with, okay, lady.

981
01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:17,280
Speaker 1: He left me and moved back into his home with her.

982
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:19,840
Speaker 1: I was an emotional wreck. He came over to see

983
01:02:19,920 --> 01:02:22,520
Speaker 1: me a few times to see if I was all right.

984
01:02:24,040 --> 01:02:27,760
Speaker 1: We may love each time. What of course he did?

985
01:02:30,200 --> 01:02:33,840
Speaker 1: What then? When he was just an emotional wreck, he

986
01:02:34,080 --> 01:02:37,200
Speaker 1: just left you. He told you why he was leaving you.

987
01:02:37,640 --> 01:02:39,920
Speaker 1: He told you why he left his wife the first time.

988
01:02:39,960 --> 01:02:42,680
Speaker 1: He because he kept screwing around. He'd been going over

989
01:02:42,760 --> 01:02:46,480
Speaker 1: that picking up socks and stuff, bringing slowly packing the drawer.

990
01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:52,240
Speaker 1: He probably ain't got a whole drawing show house. I

991
01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:55,040
Speaker 1: told him I wanted him to come back. He said

992
01:02:55,080 --> 01:02:58,520
Speaker 1: it was a possibility if I was open to have

993
01:02:58,680 --> 01:03:02,200
Speaker 1: a relationship with him. Despite him being with his wife.

994
01:03:03,400 --> 01:03:07,560
Speaker 1: What Steve, Wait a minute, that's what you're doing now?

995
01:03:08,120 --> 01:03:10,400
Speaker 1: He back with his wife. He keeps coming on that

996
01:03:10,520 --> 01:03:13,920
Speaker 1: screwing you. You already in that. He just checking with

997
01:03:14,080 --> 01:03:17,919
Speaker 1: you to make sure you still cool with it. How

998
01:03:18,240 --> 01:03:24,439
Speaker 1: stupid are you? He said? He told his ex wife

999
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:28,240
Speaker 1: about me and how we had fallen in love. She said,

1000
01:03:28,360 --> 01:03:30,640
Speaker 1: his ex wife was willing to let him continue to

1001
01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:37,040
Speaker 1: see me if I was okay with the arrangement. So

1002
01:03:37,240 --> 01:03:42,080
Speaker 1: you really think that. This man then told his ex wife,

1003
01:03:42,320 --> 01:03:44,560
Speaker 1: who he had to move back in with, that he

1004
01:03:44,720 --> 01:03:47,400
Speaker 1: in love with you, and he asked her could he

1005
01:03:47,600 --> 01:03:50,919
Speaker 1: still see you? And she said, as long as it's

1006
01:03:51,000 --> 01:03:55,800
Speaker 1: okay with you, you should call her ask her if

1007
01:03:55,840 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 1: that's what she's say because I can promise you. I'll

1008
01:03:59,120 --> 01:04:03,240
Speaker 1: promise you. Just comes name head. She said, I'm so

1009
01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:06,800
Speaker 1: love sick. I entertained this crazy notion for a day

1010
01:04:06,920 --> 01:04:15,040
Speaker 1: or two. What entertained it? But he came over to

1011
01:04:15,200 --> 01:04:18,640
Speaker 1: my house last night and he smelled like her perfume,

1012
01:04:18,720 --> 01:04:22,840
Speaker 1: and I lost it. What you're mad? Phone, he's sleeping

1013
01:04:23,040 --> 01:04:25,760
Speaker 1: back with her. He didn't move back in with her.

1014
01:04:26,360 --> 01:04:28,400
Speaker 1: That's who gonna be on him when he come over

1015
01:04:28,480 --> 01:04:33,840
Speaker 1: your house is huh, you better be lucky. It was perfume.

1016
01:04:33,960 --> 01:04:39,680
Speaker 1: You was smelling? Hello? What why didn't he shower? I

1017
01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:42,000
Speaker 1: love him so much and I don't want him to go,

1018
01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:44,680
Speaker 1: but I don't think I could be a third whill. No, no,

1019
01:04:44,880 --> 01:04:48,560
Speaker 1: you are the third wheel. You've been the third wheel.

1020
01:04:48,640 --> 01:04:50,840
Speaker 1: What is hell you thinking? You can't be that phone?

1021
01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:54,439
Speaker 1: No more, you are the third wheel. It's having part

1022
01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:57,640
Speaker 1: of man better than no man. Nowadays, he loves sick.

1023
01:04:58,200 --> 01:05:00,919
Speaker 1: He moved back in with her, which he never really

1024
01:05:01,040 --> 01:05:03,600
Speaker 1: left anyway, because he was just packing the drool at

1025
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:08,600
Speaker 1: your house. He never did have a close one pair

1026
01:05:08,640 --> 01:05:13,800
Speaker 1: of Nikes, Thank you. Poster comments on You're done Today's

1027
01:05:13,800 --> 01:05:17,200
Speaker 1: Strawberry letter at Steve Harvey FM, on Instagram and Facebook

1028
01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:21,200
Speaker 1: coming up at forty six minutes and extras. It's easy

1029
01:05:21,240 --> 01:05:27,000
Speaker 1: to get ant. You're listening to morning show. All right, guys,

1030
01:05:27,560 --> 01:05:31,800
Speaker 1: it is time for ask Steve. We have a question? Yeah,

1031
01:05:32,040 --> 01:05:37,880
Speaker 1: now listen to this, yeah a one question one yeah, yeah,

1032
01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:41,200
Speaker 1: this from well, this is from a twenty two year old.

1033
01:05:41,240 --> 01:05:44,320
Speaker 1: This is from a millennial. So um and and his

1034
01:05:44,480 --> 01:05:47,720
Speaker 1: name is also Steve, your namesake, He says, Hi, mister Harvey,

1035
01:05:47,840 --> 01:05:50,480
Speaker 1: I work full time and I'm currently in school to

1036
01:05:50,560 --> 01:05:54,720
Speaker 1: become a psychiatric mental health nurse. My faith is strong

1037
01:05:55,080 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 1: and I know that with God, anything is possible. So

1038
01:05:58,000 --> 01:06:00,880
Speaker 1: my question to you is, on your path to become

1039
01:06:00,920 --> 01:06:04,440
Speaker 1: an entertainer, did you ever doubt yourself, think your dream

1040
01:06:04,600 --> 01:06:07,480
Speaker 1: was too big or think about giving up? And how

1041
01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:10,240
Speaker 1: did you strengthen your connection to God and never lose

1042
01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:12,919
Speaker 1: hope that your prayers and hard work would pay off.

1043
01:06:13,080 --> 01:06:17,160
Speaker 1: That's a great question. Well, you know, look, no matter

1044
01:06:17,240 --> 01:06:21,080
Speaker 1: who you are, we're human and you're gonna have moments

1045
01:06:21,120 --> 01:06:25,880
Speaker 1: of doubt because it's so difficult to make a success

1046
01:06:25,960 --> 01:06:29,080
Speaker 1: of yourself. So that's gonna be times. Man, what you're

1047
01:06:29,080 --> 01:06:31,480
Speaker 1: gonna be faced with the man that I make the

1048
01:06:31,600 --> 01:06:34,560
Speaker 1: right move? Man? It's this working? Man? Is it ever?

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01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:37,880
Speaker 1: Is it gonna change? Is it gonna get better? I mean,

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01:06:37,880 --> 01:06:39,920
Speaker 1: you know I'm living in that calm going Man. Is

1051
01:06:39,920 --> 01:06:42,720
Speaker 1: it gonna get better? Man? Did I make the right move? Man?

1052
01:06:43,200 --> 01:06:45,600
Speaker 1: Should I go back home? Man? I mean, you know

1053
01:06:45,680 --> 01:06:49,880
Speaker 1: you're gonna have doubts along the way. Sometimes you're gonna

1054
01:06:49,960 --> 01:06:53,120
Speaker 1: doubt it. Or let me say it to you this way.

1055
01:06:53,520 --> 01:06:56,800
Speaker 1: It's gonna be so daunting at times. That you're gonna

1056
01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:59,400
Speaker 1: be faced with some things that appear to be insurmountable.

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01:07:00,320 --> 01:07:04,480
Speaker 1: But here's what I always had to do. Whenever I

1058
01:07:04,600 --> 01:07:09,080
Speaker 1: got to moments like that, I thought of the ultimate

1059
01:07:09,240 --> 01:07:13,640
Speaker 1: dream that I had for myself and my family. What

1060
01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:18,720
Speaker 1: am I really shooting for? And I think what people

1061
01:07:18,840 --> 01:07:21,360
Speaker 1: have to do is you have to be conscious of

1062
01:07:21,520 --> 01:07:25,840
Speaker 1: the size of your dreams. You have to have dreams

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01:07:26,560 --> 01:07:31,960
Speaker 1: so big that not getting your dream is unacceptable because

1064
01:07:32,040 --> 01:07:37,000
Speaker 1: the consequence, the alternative, the alternative to not receiving your dreams,

1065
01:07:37,440 --> 01:07:40,959
Speaker 1: is unacceptable. And you've just got to dreams so big

1066
01:07:41,160 --> 01:07:44,959
Speaker 1: that your dreams are bigger than whatever problem you're having.

1067
01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:50,320
Speaker 1: So dreaming big is not the problem because God is

1068
01:07:50,400 --> 01:07:52,800
Speaker 1: all out there in them big dreams. God is in

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01:07:52,920 --> 01:07:55,320
Speaker 1: to make your dream come true. Business, So I want

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01:07:55,360 --> 01:07:58,480
Speaker 1: you to just stay. You have to stay prayerful man,

1071
01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:02,840
Speaker 1: throughout the journey. Prayer changes things, and prayer gives you

1072
01:08:02,960 --> 01:08:05,440
Speaker 1: a relationship with your creator that allows you to have

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01:08:05,600 --> 01:08:08,720
Speaker 1: the strength that you don't have in your weakest moments,

1074
01:08:09,080 --> 01:08:11,920
Speaker 1: allows you to be your strongest because it connects you

1075
01:08:12,320 --> 01:08:15,440
Speaker 1: closer to him. Your weakness is where He gives you

1076
01:08:15,560 --> 01:08:19,200
Speaker 1: the strength. Hey man, go ahead, all right, Steve, all right,

1077
01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:21,880
Speaker 1: coming up next more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show

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01:08:22,040 --> 01:08:30,160
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening. Is your relationship so good?

1079
01:08:30,320 --> 01:08:33,200
Speaker 1: Guys that sometimes you wish you and your spouse would

1080
01:08:33,400 --> 01:08:46,599
Speaker 1: argue more? Huh? If youre good? So if one argument,

1081
01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:49,880
Speaker 1: just one argument, could save your marriage, that is it.

1082
01:08:50,320 --> 01:08:53,679
Speaker 1: But this husband cooked, clean, swept and loved his wife

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01:08:53,720 --> 01:08:58,480
Speaker 1: passionately completely. She in turn felt choked by his affection

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01:08:58,840 --> 01:09:01,800
Speaker 1: and now wants to do divorced him. The woman sought

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01:09:01,920 --> 01:09:05,839
Speaker 1: divorce from her husband in a city in the United

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01:09:05,920 --> 01:09:08,880
Speaker 1: Arab Emirates because his love was too much for her

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01:09:08,960 --> 01:09:12,760
Speaker 1: to bear. He never yelled at me or turned me down.

1088
01:09:12,920 --> 01:09:15,759
Speaker 1: The woman told the court, I was choked by extreme

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01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:19,000
Speaker 1: love and affection. He even helped me clean the house.

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01:09:19,479 --> 01:09:21,880
Speaker 1: The court ordered the adjournment of the case to give

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01:09:21,920 --> 01:09:26,160
Speaker 1: a couple a chance at reconciliation. So, guys, here's a

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01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:28,679
Speaker 1: question for you. Do you wish you and your spouse

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01:09:28,760 --> 01:09:32,840
Speaker 1: would actually argue more? Or have you ever ended a

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01:09:32,880 --> 01:09:35,160
Speaker 1: relationship because there was no conflict at all, It was

1095
01:09:35,280 --> 01:09:45,960
Speaker 1: just too much love and affection. No, please, stee soon

1096
01:09:47,000 --> 01:09:50,800
Speaker 1: as soon as you say something to him, you disagree

1097
01:09:50,840 --> 01:09:54,679
Speaker 1: with his answer is getting some papers. Draw Are you serious?

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01:09:54,800 --> 01:10:00,240
Speaker 1: Are you serious? Too much out of this reship? Is

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01:10:00,320 --> 01:10:06,920
Speaker 1: that fast? Can be quick? Getting that? Really? Jay? Yeah?

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01:10:08,600 --> 01:10:12,320
Speaker 1: He out? I'm out out. I don't know who wants

1101
01:10:12,360 --> 01:10:15,600
Speaker 1: an argument? But this woman, what's wrong with her? Exactly?

1102
01:10:16,160 --> 01:10:20,200
Speaker 1: She's a problem staying what real love is. She's got

1103
01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:23,600
Speaker 1: a different view. She saw somebody getting cussed out of

1104
01:10:23,720 --> 01:10:28,439
Speaker 1: views something. I want that. Yeah, that's probably yeah, she

1105
01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:31,320
Speaker 1: said that something. Yeah, I want to get cussed out.

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01:10:32,560 --> 01:10:36,080
Speaker 1: Too much love and affection. I've never heard a woman

1107
01:10:36,400 --> 01:10:42,080
Speaker 1: who wants conflict. Who want that? Unless he's ultra cleanly.

1108
01:10:43,040 --> 01:10:46,080
Speaker 1: She did say she felt choked by his love. She

1109
01:10:46,240 --> 01:10:50,200
Speaker 1: felt choked by it? You mean she just rather just

1110
01:10:50,400 --> 01:10:57,080
Speaker 1: be choked. He cooked, he cleaned, He cooked, he clean,

1111
01:10:57,200 --> 01:11:06,280
Speaker 1: He loved her passionately and completely. This sounds like a romance, Joe. Yeah,

1112
01:11:06,560 --> 01:11:09,000
Speaker 1: he said he never yelled at me or turned me down.

1113
01:11:11,000 --> 01:11:15,080
Speaker 1: Never yet, baby, you need to be who are you?

1114
01:11:15,880 --> 01:11:19,280
Speaker 1: He never turned you down? Oh my god? So this

1115
01:11:19,520 --> 01:11:25,639
Speaker 1: is the opposite of an abusive relationship. Extreme He cooking

1116
01:11:25,720 --> 01:11:31,479
Speaker 1: and cleaning, girl, Please, Yeah, I cook, I'm not gonna clean.

1117
01:11:35,479 --> 01:11:41,400
Speaker 1: He swept, well, I'll leave the spot on a stove

1118
01:11:41,520 --> 01:11:45,479
Speaker 1: in a heartbeat. Wow, this this, I mean, women say

1119
01:11:45,520 --> 01:11:48,120
Speaker 1: all the time they want a good man. Women complain

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01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:50,519
Speaker 1: all the time. And he never helps me around the house.

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01:11:51,160 --> 01:11:55,240
Speaker 1: I don't. We never spend enough time together. He's not affectionate,

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01:11:55,360 --> 01:12:07,320
Speaker 1: he's not romantic. Help you pack? But Jay, Now, one

1123
01:12:08,160 --> 01:12:11,160
Speaker 1: time she said something, she's out. You're done. Well. I

1124
01:12:11,160 --> 01:12:14,080
Speaker 1: don't take talking back. I don't let us talking back.

1125
01:12:15,160 --> 01:12:19,080
Speaker 1: See what we're doing there? That her daddy, you're her dad,

1126
01:12:19,479 --> 01:12:27,120
Speaker 1: her husband, you're her man? Jack your daddy, say, uh, Dad,

1127
01:12:27,280 --> 01:12:36,680
Speaker 1: say we don't do back, We just do phone. I've

1128
01:12:36,760 --> 01:12:40,440
Speaker 1: never heard of this before. But Jay, we can't disagree.

1129
01:12:40,560 --> 01:12:44,639
Speaker 1: We can't agree you talking back to me, you would

1130
01:12:44,680 --> 01:12:47,559
Speaker 1: have been gone. But we don't like what you're saying. Jay,

1131
01:12:47,720 --> 01:12:50,800
Speaker 1: we have a right to say. Yeah you do like

1132
01:12:50,920 --> 01:12:55,559
Speaker 1: somebody's daddy. Yeah, baddy, I'm just gonna pack you up.

1133
01:12:55,800 --> 01:13:00,200
Speaker 1: That's all I'm gonna tone. No, j Yeah none, man, Wow,

1134
01:13:00,680 --> 01:13:04,760
Speaker 1: All right, coming up, more music, more fun, more chauvinism,

1135
01:13:04,960 --> 01:13:09,000
Speaker 1: sound like Yeah. At twenty minutes after the hour, right

1136
01:13:09,040 --> 01:13:14,000
Speaker 1: here on this Steve Harvey Morning Show, you're listening to show,

1137
01:13:16,280 --> 01:13:20,920
Speaker 1: So listen to this story. Guys, A meat manufacturing company

1138
01:13:21,000 --> 01:13:26,280
Speaker 1: experienced a glitch in its payroll recently and accidentally paid

1139
01:13:26,320 --> 01:13:29,600
Speaker 1: a worker three hundred times his salary, and now they

1140
01:13:29,680 --> 01:13:32,720
Speaker 1: can't seem to find the guy. The worker expected his

1141
01:13:32,880 --> 01:13:36,000
Speaker 1: usual monthly check of five hundred and forty five dollars,

1142
01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:39,120
Speaker 1: but instead received a check for more than one hundred

1143
01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:43,120
Speaker 1: and eighty thousand dollars. Now when he noticed, yeah, when

1144
01:13:43,160 --> 01:13:46,320
Speaker 1: he noticed the mistake, he alerted his manager, who told

1145
01:13:46,400 --> 01:13:48,280
Speaker 1: him to go to his bank and repay the money.

1146
01:13:48,680 --> 01:13:51,760
Speaker 1: But he never did and the company can't find him.

1147
01:13:52,040 --> 01:13:54,920
Speaker 1: They tried to reach him for several days and eventually

1148
01:13:55,000 --> 01:13:59,640
Speaker 1: received a letter from his attorney informing them of his resignation.

1149
01:14:01,280 --> 01:14:05,160
Speaker 1: Yeah you roll, baby. He hasn't been heard from since.

1150
01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:08,000
Speaker 1: The company has filed a complaint with the police, but

1151
01:14:08,160 --> 01:14:11,240
Speaker 1: no arrest has been made. So the question to you

1152
01:14:11,439 --> 01:14:14,880
Speaker 1: guys is what would you do in this situation if

1153
01:14:14,920 --> 01:14:18,800
Speaker 1: you got paid three hundred times your salary? Oh, I'm out.

1154
01:14:20,320 --> 01:14:22,320
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, I will die in front of you

1155
01:14:22,560 --> 01:14:25,840
Speaker 1: right there. You would think I'm gone, fly out, roll

1156
01:14:26,040 --> 01:14:30,360
Speaker 1: me out the dough. Pardon I'm gone, junior. I call

1157
01:14:30,479 --> 01:14:33,040
Speaker 1: in him. I will call see how y'all doing. How

1158
01:14:33,080 --> 01:14:43,680
Speaker 1: do I want to show dough Hell's not coming back. Boy,

1159
01:14:43,760 --> 01:14:50,519
Speaker 1: y'all stay boy three hundred times? You'll pay? All right,

1160
01:14:50,520 --> 01:14:52,840
Speaker 1: we'll have more, Thanks, guys. We'll have more of the

1161
01:14:52,880 --> 01:14:55,479
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up. We'll do a round

1162
01:14:55,520 --> 01:14:57,519
Speaker 1: of would you rather at thirty three minutes after the

1163
01:14:57,600 --> 01:15:01,240
Speaker 1: hour right after this you're listening, She's a Steve Harvey

1164
01:15:01,320 --> 01:15:04,479
Speaker 1: Morning Show. All right? Time now guys for would you rather?

1165
01:15:04,640 --> 01:15:08,080
Speaker 1: Here we go? Would you rather be the ugliest person

1166
01:15:08,280 --> 01:15:13,840
Speaker 1: in the room? Or would you rather or would you

1167
01:15:14,000 --> 01:15:17,160
Speaker 1: rather be the least funny person in the room? There

1168
01:15:17,240 --> 01:15:20,880
Speaker 1: you go? Are you going, Tommy, I'm gonna be like that.

1169
01:15:21,360 --> 01:15:29,080
Speaker 1: I'm with y'all. That's what I thought you've been over here.

1170
01:15:30,520 --> 01:15:34,160
Speaker 1: The only confusion is in your mind. What you want

1171
01:15:34,160 --> 01:15:36,920
Speaker 1: to be a R b ugliest person in the room

1172
01:15:37,000 --> 01:15:39,120
Speaker 1: or the least funniest person in the room. What you

1173
01:15:39,240 --> 01:15:45,080
Speaker 1: want to be? That's not an option? Okay, all right,

1174
01:15:45,400 --> 01:15:47,599
Speaker 1: I think we're clear on that one. Would you rather

1175
01:15:47,720 --> 01:15:50,519
Speaker 1: have dinner with your ex or live in a tiny house?

1176
01:15:53,760 --> 01:15:57,280
Speaker 1: Be in a tiny house on the corner of the

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01:15:57,520 --> 01:16:02,120
Speaker 1: Wolf's the tiny house? With that point you the only

1178
01:16:02,240 --> 01:16:06,439
Speaker 1: thing I got to sit on. Yeah, put me in

1179
01:16:06,760 --> 01:16:12,200
Speaker 1: there and shut the dope. What about you, Junior, I

1180
01:16:12,320 --> 01:16:17,160
Speaker 1: send in the tiny house with no windows. House. You're

1181
01:16:17,160 --> 01:16:19,000
Speaker 1: all in the tiny house, all right, We'll go to

1182
01:16:19,120 --> 01:16:26,519
Speaker 1: tiny jail, Shirley, some little tiny hand, Shirley, I live

1183
01:16:26,600 --> 01:16:36,320
Speaker 1: in a tiny tiny house house. Would you rather take

1184
01:16:36,400 --> 01:16:39,719
Speaker 1: cold showers for three months? Or would you rather connect

1185
01:16:39,760 --> 01:16:42,439
Speaker 1: your phone in the car? You know when you're when

1186
01:16:42,479 --> 01:16:45,479
Speaker 1: you're with your gonna be shriveled up every day looking

1187
01:16:45,520 --> 01:16:49,920
Speaker 1: like a prone Oh day, I'm prone, baby. I'm gonna

1188
01:16:49,920 --> 01:16:53,519
Speaker 1: connect my phone. Yeah, I ain't up to nothing. I'm good. Oh,

1189
01:16:53,640 --> 01:17:01,439
Speaker 1: I can connect it. But I'd rather shribble up on

1190
01:17:01,560 --> 01:17:05,200
Speaker 1: your phone. Hey, dog, But I'm gonna tell you I

1191
01:17:05,240 --> 01:17:08,000
Speaker 1: got some partners that call where I go. Dog, I'm

1192
01:17:08,040 --> 01:17:09,680
Speaker 1: going to speak in the car with my girl. I

1193
01:17:09,840 --> 01:17:12,640
Speaker 1: have to tell him that. Yeah, you have immediately got

1194
01:17:12,720 --> 01:17:14,479
Speaker 1: some partners where I have to say that too. I

1195
01:17:14,640 --> 01:17:16,599
Speaker 1: have to say that too, all right, and it beat

1196
01:17:16,600 --> 01:17:18,760
Speaker 1: the random thought because I gotta go ahead short, would

1197
01:17:18,800 --> 01:17:21,680
Speaker 1: you guys, brother a sixteen hour road trip in an

1198
01:17:21,880 --> 01:17:26,920
Speaker 1: RV or a four hour flight on Spirit airline. I'm

1199
01:17:26,960 --> 01:17:29,640
Speaker 1: gonna see the sights on that RV. We gonna we're

1200
01:17:29,640 --> 01:17:31,719
Speaker 1: gonna get on this road for sixty I'm gonna geting

1201
01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:35,080
Speaker 1: in that RV for sixteen hours. You're stopping, the truck

1202
01:17:35,160 --> 01:17:39,599
Speaker 1: stops all that. You're only on Spirit for four hours.

1203
01:17:41,360 --> 01:17:44,680
Speaker 1: Got a fight for five we get you know who

1204
01:17:44,800 --> 01:17:48,200
Speaker 1: else on that plane though? That's the probably Spirit, it's

1205
01:17:48,280 --> 01:17:52,200
Speaker 1: the other customers. Yes, it's four hours of that, especially

1206
01:17:52,280 --> 01:17:54,160
Speaker 1: me sitting back. Then, I don't tell you what funny

1207
01:17:54,240 --> 01:18:00,599
Speaker 1: thing I've seen you on Family few. We'll be back

1208
01:18:00,640 --> 01:18:02,360
Speaker 1: with the last break of the day and a forty

1209
01:18:02,439 --> 01:18:05,000
Speaker 1: nine minutes after the hour, of course, Steve Harvey, we'll

1210
01:18:05,040 --> 01:18:08,120
Speaker 1: have some closing remarks for us right after this. You're listening,

1211
01:18:11,120 --> 01:18:13,240
Speaker 1: all right, Steve. Here we are last break of the

1212
01:18:13,360 --> 01:18:16,400
Speaker 1: day on this Thursday. It's been a good day. Yeah,

1213
01:18:16,400 --> 01:18:19,560
Speaker 1: it has. On a personal level, we're ready for it.

1214
01:18:19,880 --> 01:18:25,679
Speaker 1: Everybody experiences what I'm about to talk about. Everybody has

1215
01:18:25,800 --> 01:18:28,520
Speaker 1: some form of it. It could be in a relationship,

1216
01:18:29,120 --> 01:18:35,720
Speaker 1: a loving relationship, a sexual relationship. It could be in

1217
01:18:35,920 --> 01:18:40,439
Speaker 1: a you know, a job relationship. It could be in

1218
01:18:40,520 --> 01:18:45,840
Speaker 1: a coworker relationship. It could just be anything, man, it

1219
01:18:45,880 --> 01:18:51,040
Speaker 1: could be anything at all. So let's let's talk about it.

1220
01:18:52,280 --> 01:18:54,200
Speaker 1: Let's let's let's talk about this for a minute, because

1221
01:18:54,240 --> 01:18:56,280
Speaker 1: here's what I want you all to think about it.

1222
01:18:58,000 --> 01:19:01,639
Speaker 1: And somebody sent this to who works at the radio station,

1223
01:19:01,800 --> 01:19:07,240
Speaker 1: donned young lady that's in charge about social media. It's

1224
01:19:07,479 --> 01:19:11,280
Speaker 1: a post board, and it really got me to thinking

1225
01:19:11,320 --> 01:19:16,040
Speaker 1: because it's so true. Life is too short to be

1226
01:19:16,200 --> 01:19:25,080
Speaker 1: waiting on somebody to act right. Touch the nerve, Touch

1227
01:19:25,200 --> 01:19:28,800
Speaker 1: the nerve. Life is too short to be waiting on

1228
01:19:29,080 --> 01:19:34,280
Speaker 1: somebody to act right. You know, the clock is ticking,

1229
01:19:35,439 --> 01:19:37,360
Speaker 1: and I don't know if you know this, man, but

1230
01:19:37,560 --> 01:19:41,800
Speaker 1: time just time flies by sometime, especially if you have

1231
01:19:41,880 --> 01:19:44,240
Speaker 1: a job that you don't mind going to, that you enjoy,

1232
01:19:44,320 --> 01:19:47,280
Speaker 1: if you if you're working in your life's ambition, if

1233
01:19:47,320 --> 01:19:50,360
Speaker 1: you're following your dreams, if you're chasing your dreams, if

1234
01:19:50,400 --> 01:19:54,160
Speaker 1: you're pursuing something of value. You noticed, time has a

1235
01:19:54,240 --> 01:19:56,720
Speaker 1: tendency to get away from you a little bit, you

1236
01:19:56,800 --> 01:19:59,360
Speaker 1: know what I mean. And it's like, you know, man,

1237
01:19:59,400 --> 01:20:03,040
Speaker 1: you go along when you go wow, okay, cool man,

1238
01:20:03,120 --> 01:20:05,360
Speaker 1: we gotta get it together, but we just keep running

1239
01:20:05,360 --> 01:20:08,040
Speaker 1: out of daylight and all of this right here, and

1240
01:20:08,120 --> 01:20:10,479
Speaker 1: it just gets to a point where you just realize, man,

1241
01:20:10,920 --> 01:20:12,920
Speaker 1: life kind of gets away from you a little bit,

1242
01:20:13,200 --> 01:20:17,280
Speaker 1: so you gotta start thinking. Man, life is too short

1243
01:20:17,360 --> 01:20:20,760
Speaker 1: to be waiting on somebody to act right. And I'm

1244
01:20:20,800 --> 01:20:25,360
Speaker 1: not just talking about in a relationship like you married

1245
01:20:25,479 --> 01:20:29,880
Speaker 1: or something like that, which is another one. But my goodness, man,

1246
01:20:30,840 --> 01:20:33,960
Speaker 1: I don't really have time for that. I don't have

1247
01:20:34,160 --> 01:20:36,479
Speaker 1: time for you to act right. I would rather surround

1248
01:20:36,640 --> 01:20:43,679
Speaker 1: my people who act like me. I would rather surround

1249
01:20:43,800 --> 01:20:47,400
Speaker 1: myself with people who add value to my life instead

1250
01:20:47,439 --> 01:20:50,760
Speaker 1: of subtracting from my life. If you got somebody in

1251
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Speaker 1: your life that's always taking and never giving, you're probably

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Speaker 1: waiting on them to act right. If you got a

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Speaker 1: person that's all he's getting something from you and never

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Speaker 1: say thank you, life is too short to be waiting

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Speaker 1: on somebody to act right. You in a relationship with

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Speaker 1: a person who constantly, and I mean constantly, does you

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Speaker 1: wrong repeatedly, and you keep expecting them to change their

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Speaker 1: behavior and there don't. Are you kidding me? Man? You

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Speaker 1: know they say that the definition of insanity is doing

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Speaker 1: the same thing over and expecting a different result. It's

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Speaker 1: insane for us to continue to wait on somebody to

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Speaker 1: act right when, first of all, you can't make nobody

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Speaker 1: act right. You can't change nobody that don't want to

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Speaker 1: be changed. So we keep getting back to this plaque

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Speaker 1: that I got set that said life is too short

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Speaker 1: to be waiting on somebody to act right. I've done

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Speaker 1: it before. I've done it with employees, I've done it

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Speaker 1: with associates, I've done it in relationships. I've done it

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Speaker 1: with my children. I mean, man, just sitting around waiting

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Speaker 1: on my children to get it. I taught it to them,

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Speaker 1: but I'm waiting on them to get it. And I

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Speaker 1: got tired of it, and I told him one time,

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Speaker 1: I said, hey, I'm done. I'm done trying to get

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Speaker 1: you to understand my position. I'm done trying to get

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Speaker 1: you to move on and let's just have a great

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Speaker 1: life together. I'm tired of you bringing up issues. I

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Speaker 1: don't let people do that to me no more. You

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Speaker 1: stop bringing up issues from the past. We've all changed,

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Speaker 1: grow up, move on now. If you want to step

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Speaker 1: back there, you want to hang onto something in the

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Speaker 1: past so you can keep talking about how miserable you are,

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Speaker 1: Go on and be miserable. But life is too short

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Speaker 1: for me to be waiting on you to act right.

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Speaker 1: So now here I am over here. This is the

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Speaker 1: way I am. If you want some of this love,

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Speaker 1: some of this guidance, some of this understanding, some of

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Speaker 1: this leadership, you need some occasional help, I'm here. But

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Speaker 1: if you want to keep dragging me over the colds

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Speaker 1: about an issue that you can't get past, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I'm no longer available for you. I'm sorry that you

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Speaker 1: can't get past it. I'm sorry that it has bothered

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Speaker 1: you for a number of years. My apologies, but obviously

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Speaker 1: my apologies ain't good enough. Have you ever had that

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Speaker 1: happen to you? Have you ever found yourself apologizing to

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Speaker 1: somebody over and over for the same thing because they

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Speaker 1: just can't seem to get past it. Life is too

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Speaker 1: short to be waiting on somebody to act right. And

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Speaker 1: I look up, man, and I just decided, Man, I

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Speaker 1: ain't doing it no more. I'm just not gonna do

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Speaker 1: it no more. I'm sorry if I've offended you, if

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Speaker 1: I hurt you, and I'm man enough to apologize, I

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Speaker 1: expect you to be mad enough or woman enough to

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Speaker 1: accept it. You don't have to forget it. I'm just

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Speaker 1: saying I'm sorry, and I'm asking for your forgiveness. But

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Speaker 1: if you ain't in a forgiving move, I'm gonna take

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Speaker 1: it to God. I'm gonna ask God to forgive me

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Speaker 1: because he will. And then I'm moving on me. And

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Speaker 1: you ain't got to talk no more. You can't get

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Speaker 1: past it. I understand, But my daddy always said, you're

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Speaker 1: gonna either get over it or you're gonna die mad. Now,

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Speaker 1: if you choose to die mad, you stay over there

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Speaker 1: and let you lead a world mad. I'm moving on.

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Speaker 1: Life is too short to be waiting on somebody to act.

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Speaker 1: Right then, my clothing room, let me drop. For all

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