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Speaker 1: Cecil On Steve Harvey FM Wrights. I got divorced from

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Speaker 1: my wife of eleven years about six months ago, and

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Speaker 1: I finally feel like I'm ready to move on and

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Speaker 1: meet new people. Last week, I've met a woman who

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Speaker 1: seems to be extremely cool. I'm not interested in getting

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Speaker 1: married again anyway. I'm just now learning about all the

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Speaker 1: toxic stuff that can go with social media. I have

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Speaker 1: eleven years of memory stored in my profile pages, and

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Speaker 1: I have zero interest in going through it all and

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Speaker 1: deleting every picture of my ex wife. However, that's exactly

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Speaker 1: what mutual friends of this new woman that I'm dating

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Speaker 1: think I should be doing. I'm still friends with my ex.

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Speaker 1: I just have no interest in being with her anymore.

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Speaker 2: None. Zero.

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Speaker 1: I have even less interest in going through eleven years

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Speaker 1: of pictures and individually deleting ones that might make someone

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Speaker 1: else feel insecure. Is this really necessary? It feels beyond

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Speaker 1: petty to me, and I have better things to do

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Speaker 1: with my time.

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Speaker 3: Wow are they your photo section of your phone?

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Speaker 1: How the social media pages?

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Speaker 2: He's saying there on his Oh.

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Speaker 3: I thought was on the phone? Oh yeah, yeah, oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: you guys should go delete that?

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Speaker 2: Oh you think you're kidding, right, you're kidding.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, surely, let me ask you a question. Do

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Speaker 3: you think I have any pictures of my ex on

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Speaker 3: my social media?

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Speaker 2: Oh no, absolutely not. Let me ask you a question,

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Speaker 2: should you have any pictures?

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Speaker 3: Okay? Now, why that's such a crazy idea that I said,

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Speaker 3: you need to delete these pictures. I'm trying to understand

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Speaker 3: why that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know what, because of the reason they're asking

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Speaker 1: him to do it.

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Speaker 2: I mean, he just met this woman.

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Speaker 1: He's got to delete all these pictures. Yeah, they're friends

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Speaker 1: of her, and he and his ex wife are still friends.

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Speaker 2: Bruh, bruh.

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Speaker 3: Don't let your pass mess up a shot at your future.

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Speaker 3: What you mean y'all still friends? What y'all get a

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Speaker 3: divorce for? Maybe they got a kid.

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Speaker 2: Yeah he didn't say that, But.

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Speaker 1: So they just can't be cool, So he can't keep

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Speaker 1: keep those pictures up.

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Speaker 2: Pictures.

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Speaker 3: Listen to me, Nobody, nobody wants to get into a

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Speaker 3: relationship with somebody with obvious baggage. We still friends. I'm

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Speaker 3: not gonna take her out of my life. That right

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Speaker 3: there is a red flag for a woman. And then

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Speaker 3: he said he's not interested in getting married right now.

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Speaker 3: I appreciate the honesty, but ladies, you gotta stop collecting

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Speaker 3: red flags. When you see a red flag, leave it

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Speaker 3: in the ground and move around it. If the man

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Speaker 3: tells you I'm not interested in marriage right now. If

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Speaker 3: a man tells you I'm still friends with my ex.

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Speaker 3: If a man tell you he don't feel like erasing

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Speaker 3: all those pictures, you don't think that's a red flag.

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Speaker 3: Now you want to get in that relationship when clearly

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Speaker 3: he ain't over the old relationship.

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Speaker 1: Well, he just says it seems beyond petty to him,

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Speaker 1: and he has better things to do with this time.

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Speaker 2: That's all he said. No, he don't. He's not busy.

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Speaker 2: You ain't that busy, dumb, He's just not. Oh wow, okay,

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Speaker 2: yeah you're not.

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Speaker 3: You listen to me. Men make time for what they want.

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Speaker 3: Ladies that, oh I don't have time for that. He

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Speaker 3: don't want to make time for that. Men make time

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Speaker 3: for everything they want. That's a factor about men.

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Speaker 2: It's the very true statement right there. Yeah, I agree

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Speaker 2: with that. Here you go, let me tell you something.

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Speaker 3: If this chick was fine and he thought he had

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Speaker 3: a future with it, he be in there racing all

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Speaker 3: that here.

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Speaker 2: He's just been completely wipe it all out. Time we'd

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Speaker 2: on a.

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Speaker 1: Whole new panem or instant, no more face Snapchat.

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Speaker 3: You ain't got no blue check on Instagram or nothing.

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Speaker 3: Just don't cut out all the little pictures.

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Speaker 2: All right? Okay, answer surprisingly, Steve. But okay, I see

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Speaker 2: your parent. He's dropping knowledge this morning.

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Speaker 3: Got it, got it.

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Speaker 2: I didn't think he was gonna say that either yours.

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Speaker 3: I mean, really, man, if you, why would you allow

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Speaker 3: your past to mess up a shot at your future?

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