1
00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:04,800
Speaker 1: I put with Alexia Napolla and Mari saw Patton an

2
00:00:04,800 --> 00:00:09,920
Speaker 1: iHeartRadio podcast. Okay, let's get this started, all right, bro

3
00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:13,400
Speaker 1: hot cheat man, how do you feel about our trailer

4
00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:16,920
Speaker 1: Season six of the Real Housewives of Miami that dropped

5
00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:17,560
Speaker 1: last week?

6
00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:22,400
Speaker 2: Can I just say two words to describe it?

7
00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:26,560
Speaker 1: It depends on what they are. I'm just gonna say

8
00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:29,720
Speaker 1: I it can't be the F word because they threw

9
00:00:29,840 --> 00:00:30,120
Speaker 1: a lot.

10
00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:34,360
Speaker 2: That's all I'm going to say. I have nothing else

11
00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:34,639
Speaker 2: to say.

12
00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:38,639
Speaker 1: But I before you surprised at at any of the scenes,

13
00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:43,639
Speaker 1: at any of the ladies, the free actions. I mean,

14
00:00:43,680 --> 00:00:45,559
Speaker 1: it's a teaser, so of course they're going to pick

15
00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:46,080
Speaker 1: all the juice.

16
00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:49,559
Speaker 2: Wasn't surprised because I was there and I saw all

17
00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:51,720
Speaker 2: of it with my own eyes. I felt that the

18
00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:55,760
Speaker 2: selection could have been a little less vulgar. But that's

19
00:00:55,880 --> 00:00:57,800
Speaker 2: just me just saying.

20
00:00:59,880 --> 00:01:04,680
Speaker 1: I wasn't participated in the vulgarity I did.

21
00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:08,360
Speaker 2: I I had a moment that I was embarrassed about

22
00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:12,280
Speaker 2: and ashamed about, but I didn't think that was gonna

23
00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:17,000
Speaker 2: be the theme. I wow, you know it was the

24
00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:19,720
Speaker 2: theme throughout so extra what do you think?

25
00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:23,399
Speaker 1: Well, I'm not surprised because, like I said, it's a

26
00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:26,640
Speaker 1: teaser and that's the purpose of it. They're gonna, you know,

27
00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:30,560
Speaker 1: make it crazy and and and wild and crazy like

28
00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:34,360
Speaker 1: we we do obviously do those things, but we're when

29
00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:37,040
Speaker 1: we're together. So it's not like they didn't happen, and

30
00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:39,000
Speaker 1: it's just like the way they all piece it together.

31
00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:40,880
Speaker 1: I thought they did a phenomenal job, you know. I

32
00:01:40,880 --> 00:01:43,479
Speaker 1: think that that's what unfortunately, people like to see. They

33
00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:44,720
Speaker 1: like to see the craziness.

34
00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:49,640
Speaker 2: But it sounds like the only vocabulary and conversations we

35
00:01:49,680 --> 00:01:50,720
Speaker 2: had were F bombs.

36
00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:53,120
Speaker 1: We had a lot more. That was like word of

37
00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:54,920
Speaker 1: the day, right, that was the word of the day.

38
00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:57,600
Speaker 1: It was word of the three months that we were filming. Yeah,

39
00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:00,120
Speaker 1: it was the only thing that was said. Well, I

40
00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:01,880
Speaker 1: think that I think we did take a lot more,

41
00:02:02,480 --> 00:02:04,960
Speaker 1: but wait, edited in a way, got a lot more

42
00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:07,880
Speaker 1: than the F right. Well, you know what, the viewers

43
00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:09,640
Speaker 1: will have to tune in and watch and see what

44
00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:12,480
Speaker 1: more was said. Right, it started off or ended off

45
00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:14,760
Speaker 1: with the F word, but we definitely had more dialogue.

46
00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:18,359
Speaker 2: It was a lot more in between the F words,

47
00:02:18,800 --> 00:02:19,480
Speaker 2: and it was good.

48
00:02:19,919 --> 00:02:22,640
Speaker 1: It's good stuff. Yeah, But I don't know about you.

49
00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:24,400
Speaker 1: But I think that it kind of like rubs off.

50
00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:27,359
Speaker 1: By the way, I think that is the best word

51
00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:30,360
Speaker 1: in the English language, Like that's the best word. Getting

52
00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:31,760
Speaker 1: know how many connels word.

53
00:02:32,200 --> 00:02:34,600
Speaker 2: It's a strong word. It makes you feel like you're.

54
00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:37,400
Speaker 1: Really making it kind of like applies to everything you

55
00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:39,520
Speaker 1: can use it. It's always like in context and you're

56
00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:42,480
Speaker 1: always using it correctly, and it's very powerful.

57
00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:47,120
Speaker 2: I think, or better, they're more powerful. Right when you

58
00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:48,160
Speaker 2: said your.

59
00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:56,880
Speaker 1: Words are funny, I wasn't going to say the word. Remember,

60
00:02:56,919 --> 00:03:00,240
Speaker 1: we're like we're criticizing the fact that that was went

61
00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:01,919
Speaker 1: on in the trailer, So I don't want to say

62
00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:04,720
Speaker 1: those words now. But I feel like it's the best

63
00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:07,040
Speaker 1: word in English language, and of course in Spanish we

64
00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:09,760
Speaker 1: have a lot of equivalent words and they actually feel better.

65
00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:11,720
Speaker 2: This sol is a really good word too.

66
00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:16,120
Speaker 1: It gets the point across, right, Yeah m hm, okay, So,

67
00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:18,000
Speaker 1: so should we moan on on and talk about another

68
00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:27,120
Speaker 1: toll in the franchise? Okay, well, I think we're supposed

69
00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:28,600
Speaker 1: to talk about Tamra.

70
00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:34,360
Speaker 2: Oc I've been rooting for Tom Raw but she's feeling me.

71
00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:39,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So Orange County Housewife Tamra Judge shocks fans

72
00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:42,320
Speaker 1: when she told her boss, which is our boss as well,

73
00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:46,800
Speaker 1: Andy Cohen, to shut the f up most research reunion,

74
00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:49,720
Speaker 1: right right. I think Tamorra, will you on our show

75
00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:51,960
Speaker 1: because I feel like we may be dropping some f

76
00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:56,080
Speaker 1: bombs also? But was it okay? And was that the

77
00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:58,880
Speaker 1: craziest thing that you think that anybody could do in

78
00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:01,800
Speaker 1: that position to call, you know, your boss the effort

79
00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:04,240
Speaker 1: or to tell him to shut up? You feel about that?

80
00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:07,280
Speaker 2: I think that there's probably crazier things, like spilling some

81
00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:09,440
Speaker 2: of their naughty tea that they don't want anybody to know,

82
00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:13,080
Speaker 2: but like to call. I mean, I don't know a

83
00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:15,160
Speaker 2: job on the planet where you can tell your boss

84
00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:16,760
Speaker 2: to shut up and you still have a job the

85
00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:17,240
Speaker 2: next day.

86
00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:20,240
Speaker 1: Basically, it doesn't exist. I mean, we'll see what the

87
00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:23,440
Speaker 1: outcome is, you know. I think that what people forget

88
00:04:23,839 --> 00:04:27,400
Speaker 1: is that no matter you know, Angie's very cool and

89
00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:29,120
Speaker 1: he's super cool, and we feel like we can talk

90
00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:31,120
Speaker 1: to him about anything, and you know, he asks us

91
00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:33,839
Speaker 1: a lot of things that are very personal and we

92
00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:35,600
Speaker 1: kind of he's so easy to talk to that you

93
00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:38,680
Speaker 1: don't even realize it. But with that same token, it's

94
00:04:38,720 --> 00:04:41,400
Speaker 1: like you you forget that you're that that's your boss

95
00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:43,640
Speaker 1: and that you're that's your work. I'm so you're sitting

96
00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:46,359
Speaker 1: there and the environment, like, you know, their their backdrop

97
00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,640
Speaker 1: was a beach, and they're probably having drinks and you know,

98
00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:51,839
Speaker 1: and it becomes the moment that you forget that and

99
00:04:51,880 --> 00:04:54,680
Speaker 1: obviously there's no excuses but that you know, she she

100
00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:56,680
Speaker 1: she lost it and you she just said, you know,

101
00:04:56,720 --> 00:04:59,520
Speaker 1: shut the fuck up. And at the same time, I

102
00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:03,359
Speaker 1: feel that Fianza, you know, I don't know what the

103
00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:06,000
Speaker 1: word in English is, she's comfortable with.

104
00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:08,560
Speaker 2: Him, comfortable with him with her.

105
00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:10,800
Speaker 1: She feels comfortable with him, and you know, they have

106
00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:13,760
Speaker 1: a friendship even though he's our boss, and you know,

107
00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:16,680
Speaker 1: he's easy to talk to. And sometimes you get confused

108
00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:20,680
Speaker 1: and like, I'm sure she's regretting it, but you know,

109
00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:23,560
Speaker 1: it happened. And I think that sometimes it's like the

110
00:05:23,600 --> 00:05:25,720
Speaker 1: other way around, you know. I think that Antie gets

111
00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:29,200
Speaker 1: unfortunately criticized a lot of times for treating for talking

112
00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:31,720
Speaker 1: to the ladies in a certain way or asking them

113
00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:34,040
Speaker 1: certain questions, and now he was like on the other

114
00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:38,840
Speaker 1: side of it. Obviously he's never been rude or disrespectful,

115
00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:40,880
Speaker 1: you know, to any of the ladies and used any

116
00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:43,840
Speaker 1: of that kind of language. But I was surprised that

117
00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:46,640
Speaker 1: that they left it in there and they didn't edit it. Well,

118
00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:47,800
Speaker 1: were you surprised about that?

119
00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,960
Speaker 2: So that's the part that I think is interesting. I

120
00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:54,440
Speaker 2: feel like they almost liked it, and they left it

121
00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:56,120
Speaker 2: on purpose because they liked it.

122
00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:58,159
Speaker 1: I don't know if that she called that she called

123
00:05:58,200 --> 00:06:00,039
Speaker 1: her boss an f wort, Well, they didn't like it

124
00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:03,400
Speaker 1: wouldn't be there. It wouldn't be there if they know,

125
00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:06,000
Speaker 1: I know, But can you can get it guessing that

126
00:06:06,200 --> 00:06:09,200
Speaker 1: he was a guess he and the network were okay

127
00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:11,039
Speaker 1: with it and they liked it, because why would you

128
00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:12,400
Speaker 1: leave it in there if you didn't like it?

129
00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:13,920
Speaker 2: And it was so awful, and.

130
00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:16,400
Speaker 1: Just maybe trying to prove a point, like maybe he's

131
00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:18,080
Speaker 1: trying to prove a point, like do you see what

132
00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:20,240
Speaker 1: I have to deal with? Like now it's like the

133
00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:21,920
Speaker 1: other side, you know, because I think he does get

134
00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:23,440
Speaker 1: a lot of heat a lot of times about how

135
00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:26,880
Speaker 1: the way he treats women on these shows, and on

136
00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:30,160
Speaker 1: this side, it's she, you know, treating him, and you know.

137
00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:32,320
Speaker 2: I'm just curious to see if she's gonna have a

138
00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:36,120
Speaker 2: job what do you think she gonna still have a job,

139
00:06:36,120 --> 00:06:37,680
Speaker 2: because that is really like.

140
00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:42,120
Speaker 1: Setting a precedent obviously to be to be put on

141
00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,479
Speaker 1: pause again. I mean she was on pause for a

142
00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:46,120
Speaker 1: long time. I mean not for a long time for

143
00:06:46,200 --> 00:06:48,480
Speaker 1: like she was on she came back.

144
00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:50,920
Speaker 2: And then she was fast forwarded and given like two

145
00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:54,479
Speaker 2: oldimate Girl's trip traders come back to Orange count like

146
00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:56,760
Speaker 2: they gave her the world that red carpet right out,

147
00:06:56,800 --> 00:06:57,320
Speaker 2: like she was.

148
00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:00,560
Speaker 1: It was like, well, I think I like her, and

149
00:07:00,760 --> 00:07:04,800
Speaker 1: I like her myself, and and I think she, you know,

150
00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:08,039
Speaker 1: is very comfortable, you know, and they put her, like

151
00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:10,600
Speaker 1: you said, in a position where she came back very strongly,

152
00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:13,960
Speaker 1: and they gave her all these shows. So she has

153
00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:17,040
Speaker 1: that friendship, like I mean, I read Andy's diaries, you know,

154
00:07:17,080 --> 00:07:19,480
Speaker 1: I read his book, and he talks a lot about Tamra,

155
00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:22,520
Speaker 1: So you know, we we don't know, like behind the scene,

156
00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:24,320
Speaker 1: you know, what kind of a friendship he may have

157
00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:27,200
Speaker 1: with her, And she felt comfortable, you know, to say

158
00:07:27,240 --> 00:07:29,280
Speaker 1: something like that. I mean, I think it's crazy, right,

159
00:07:29,320 --> 00:07:31,880
Speaker 1: but you know, I guess that's it's okay, you know what,

160
00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:33,160
Speaker 1: we'll see what it is.

161
00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:36,280
Speaker 2: Part of me thinks that they were in cahoots, because

162
00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:38,840
Speaker 2: how would they just let that happen and leave it there.

163
00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:42,240
Speaker 2: Maybe they planned it and they orchestrated it that she

164
00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:45,160
Speaker 2: would blow up and say these things and then they

165
00:07:45,240 --> 00:07:45,720
Speaker 2: leave it there.

166
00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:48,840
Speaker 1: Oh, this is reality TV, bro, Those things don't have

167
00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:51,320
Speaker 1: to if we don't don't orchestrate. Because if we don't

168
00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:54,880
Speaker 1: work with people that orchestrate every word and move with

169
00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:56,640
Speaker 1: You and I look at each other half the time

170
00:07:56,640 --> 00:07:59,520
Speaker 1: and laugh like, really, this doesn't all be good for

171
00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:01,560
Speaker 1: any of them. Well, I don't know how that would

172
00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:04,320
Speaker 1: be good for any of them. I honestly don't think

173
00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:08,960
Speaker 1: that that was reheard. It's so odd, I think it,

174
00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:11,280
Speaker 1: you know, but this is what proves that you can't,

175
00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:14,120
Speaker 1: you know, you always have to have like that distance

176
00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:17,680
Speaker 1: and that separation from your boss in the employees, you know,

177
00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:19,560
Speaker 1: and there were you know, and even like I said,

178
00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:22,160
Speaker 1: the reunion is work. It's worked for Tamera, it's worked

179
00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:25,320
Speaker 1: for Andy. At the same time, they're like the in

180
00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:28,520
Speaker 1: the setting of a beach, they're having drinks. Then you know,

181
00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:32,240
Speaker 1: the environment gets does get herself between the women. So

182
00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:35,440
Speaker 1: it just happened. I mean, it just happened like that.

183
00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:37,960
Speaker 1: So I don't I don't think it was planned, but

184
00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:40,440
Speaker 1: you know, and then again, like you said, it could

185
00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:43,680
Speaker 1: have been. But this, definitely I would like to see.

186
00:08:43,679 --> 00:08:45,160
Speaker 1: I want to see the outcome. I want to see

187
00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:46,640
Speaker 1: what's going to happen. I want to see if she's

188
00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:48,640
Speaker 1: going to be penalized for that.

189
00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:52,720
Speaker 2: That the outcome is going to be very interesting.

190
00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:55,120
Speaker 1: Because you know what, it kind of like sets the bar.

191
00:08:55,400 --> 00:08:58,360
Speaker 1: So it's like, Okay, now she can do that. You

192
00:08:58,400 --> 00:08:59,800
Speaker 1: know what, are reunits coming on?

193
00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:02,880
Speaker 2: We're all going to collabor him.

194
00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:05,719
Speaker 1: I love Andy. I'm just saying I only want to

195
00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:07,800
Speaker 1: give him hugs and kisses. Yeah, I know him. I

196
00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:12,360
Speaker 1: could never. I could never actually, you know, he I

197
00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:14,560
Speaker 1: don't know. I would love to interview him and say,

198
00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:16,640
Speaker 1: how did you feel? Right, because I feel like he's

199
00:09:16,679 --> 00:09:18,640
Speaker 1: always been like on the other side, and he's always

200
00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:20,079
Speaker 1: the one that has to bring the peace. I think

201
00:09:20,120 --> 00:09:22,920
Speaker 1: he handled it very well, and I think he was

202
00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:25,680
Speaker 1: probably in just as much shock as everyone else that

203
00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:26,040
Speaker 1: was sitting.

204
00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:29,080
Speaker 2: He certainly kept it moving like a professional, that's for sure.

205
00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:31,559
Speaker 1: He is. He's great at what he does. He's very

206
00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:33,920
Speaker 1: good at what he does. Good for you, Andy, Yeah,

207
00:09:34,320 --> 00:09:38,560
Speaker 1: we love Andy. Yeah, And I didn't like that that happened.

208
00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:40,360
Speaker 1: But then again, like I said, I think it's like

209
00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:41,280
Speaker 1: too much confianta.

210
00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:46,040
Speaker 2: But there's like what you're saying that what precedent is

211
00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:47,960
Speaker 2: that setting? How far is this going to go? Now

212
00:09:48,000 --> 00:09:50,360
Speaker 2: they're going to start like punching him and tell him

213
00:09:50,360 --> 00:09:53,839
Speaker 2: to shut up and people, you know, no, it can

214
00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:57,079
Speaker 2: only escalate from there if you don't like put some

215
00:09:57,200 --> 00:09:59,960
Speaker 2: ground rolls down right again.

216
00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:01,640
Speaker 1: And I'm just I mean, I don't know if that's

217
00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:04,160
Speaker 1: why they left it in there so we can see,

218
00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:06,640
Speaker 1: you know that these things, you know, do happen and

219
00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:11,440
Speaker 1: let's see what the repercussions are or I don't know

220
00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:14,320
Speaker 1: any other reason why they would leave something like that

221
00:10:14,720 --> 00:10:17,760
Speaker 1: in there, right. But now again, you know, everybody that

222
00:10:17,880 --> 00:10:19,920
Speaker 1: was sitting there, you know, this is reality TV and

223
00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:21,680
Speaker 1: this is how it happened. So I think that that's

224
00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:23,360
Speaker 1: why this is one of the reasons why they did

225
00:10:23,440 --> 00:10:26,520
Speaker 1: leave it in there, because it's what happens. Yes, the

226
00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:30,000
Speaker 1: reunion is edited, but at the same time, this was

227
00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:32,520
Speaker 1: real time. This is what came out of my mouth

228
00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:35,480
Speaker 1: and this is what happened there. Have you ever cussed

229
00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:37,320
Speaker 1: out one of your bosses? Have you ever said any

230
00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:38,079
Speaker 1: boss that you've had.

231
00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:40,080
Speaker 2: I don't remember the last time I had a boss.

232
00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:42,840
Speaker 1: I got out home made boss I got at home.

233
00:10:43,160 --> 00:10:44,280
Speaker 2: No, never, I never.

234
00:10:44,360 --> 00:10:46,839
Speaker 1: You've always worked for yourself. Now, But when you were

235
00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:49,360
Speaker 1: a teacher, did you tell your principal I worked.

236
00:10:49,120 --> 00:10:51,440
Speaker 2: For myself for so long. I don't remember before that.

237
00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:52,839
Speaker 2: But I know I would have never done a thing

238
00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:53,920
Speaker 2: like that. I'm too polite.

239
00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:56,600
Speaker 1: Maybe behind their back you were talking shit, but not

240
00:10:56,679 --> 00:10:57,240
Speaker 1: in their face.

241
00:10:57,640 --> 00:11:01,920
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't remember. Maybe I could.

242
00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:04,920
Speaker 1: Think, yeah, I've always gotten along with my bosses, so

243
00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:07,920
Speaker 1: I've never I've never had to say something like that,

244
00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:10,560
Speaker 1: you know, I I'd rather just get up and leave

245
00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:14,439
Speaker 1: or whatever. But definitely I've always respected my superiors right.

246
00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:17,120
Speaker 2: And I had a lot of Oh my god, I

247
00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:19,040
Speaker 2: must have had one hundred women work for me when

248
00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:21,280
Speaker 2: I had the PR firm, between the different offices and

249
00:11:21,360 --> 00:11:24,520
Speaker 2: over the years, and you know, and they were grumpy

250
00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:27,160
Speaker 2: because PR is tough, and if you're you need to

251
00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:29,280
Speaker 2: be a bitch to be good. And I don't think

252
00:11:29,440 --> 00:11:30,559
Speaker 2: any of those girls, I.

253
00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:32,719
Speaker 1: Say you were so good at it, think did any

254
00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:34,840
Speaker 1: of it? Did any of your employees tell you to

255
00:11:35,080 --> 00:11:35,520
Speaker 1: f off?

256
00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:38,719
Speaker 2: I do not recall anyone telling me to shut up.

257
00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:41,280
Speaker 2: But you know, they asked me for a lot of

258
00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:43,720
Speaker 2: other things. Can I borrow your clothes? I need a

259
00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:45,600
Speaker 2: man care, I need a pedicare. I need a blowout.

260
00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:47,520
Speaker 2: Can you pay for my makeup? I want to sell

261
00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:49,280
Speaker 2: house membership. Make sure you pay for that.

262
00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:53,679
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna shine. Oh that's nice, squeezing.

263
00:11:56,200 --> 00:11:58,920
Speaker 2: And then they'd be really mean. But when they wanted something,

264
00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:01,160
Speaker 2: they come over and hug me and pet me and

265
00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:02,960
Speaker 2: tell me they love me, and then they hit me

266
00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:04,360
Speaker 2: with something like the kids.

267
00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:08,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that wives do that to do their husband.

268
00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:09,600
Speaker 2: So I gotta work on that.

269
00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:17,079
Speaker 1: I'm terrible like that.

270
00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,760
Speaker 2: I know it's so much easier if I just buy

271
00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:22,120
Speaker 2: something myself, and the ask sport. I'd rather just do

272
00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:22,720
Speaker 2: it myself.

273
00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:37,640
Speaker 1: I'll just buy it myself exactly. Speaking of I mean,

274
00:12:37,880 --> 00:12:41,920
Speaker 1: can Jada Pinkett Smith do or say anything more than

275
00:12:41,960 --> 00:12:44,880
Speaker 1: what she said? She's got a lot to say in

276
00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:45,600
Speaker 1: her book.

277
00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:48,880
Speaker 2: This one always comes out with a book for money.

278
00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:52,200
Speaker 2: She always has she has.

279
00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:54,000
Speaker 1: A lot of money. I don't even think anymore that

280
00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:58,320
Speaker 1: it's so much about the money. Come on, I think

281
00:12:58,360 --> 00:13:01,079
Speaker 1: so for I always like to say it's for the money.

282
00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:04,760
Speaker 1: I think in her case, mental you're.

283
00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:08,080
Speaker 2: Telling your dirty laundry to everybody's story because you know

284
00:13:08,160 --> 00:13:09,760
Speaker 2: why if you don't want some money.

285
00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:13,000
Speaker 1: People once well, I'm just saying, well, first of all,

286
00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:14,559
Speaker 1: I don't think there's a lot of money in books

287
00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:17,200
Speaker 1: unless you sign a deal like Britney Spears signed the

288
00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:20,400
Speaker 1: deal with Simon and Schuster for fifteen million dollars. So

289
00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:23,640
Speaker 1: that is an incentive and a motive. I don't know Jada's,

290
00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:26,080
Speaker 1: you know, I don't know her motive. If of a

291
00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,360
Speaker 1: publishing house reached out to her and she worked out

292
00:13:28,400 --> 00:13:32,240
Speaker 1: a deal, that's completely different. But I think that with

293
00:13:32,480 --> 00:13:35,880
Speaker 1: my experience, I find that a lot of people especially

294
00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:39,120
Speaker 1: memoirs and about women. By the way, I'm probably going

295
00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:41,960
Speaker 1: to read it because I love to read women's memoirs.

296
00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:44,160
Speaker 1: I like memoris also really the kind of books that

297
00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:47,480
Speaker 1: I like to read based on real people and real truths.

298
00:13:47,559 --> 00:13:51,480
Speaker 1: And I feel that when people actually sit down and

299
00:13:52,400 --> 00:13:55,880
Speaker 1: put their thoughts, you know, on paper, and they start writing,

300
00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:58,720
Speaker 1: is very therapeutic and it's very healing. And this woman

301
00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:01,560
Speaker 1: is in a lot of termo like in her life

302
00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:02,480
Speaker 1: and in her thoughts.

303
00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:05,120
Speaker 2: Was this something that you were hoping about and thinking

304
00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:07,240
Speaker 2: about like I want to hear Jada Pinkett story or

305
00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:08,640
Speaker 2: it just came out of the balloon, and now you're

306
00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:10,560
Speaker 2: interested because it's out there, because.

307
00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:12,600
Speaker 1: I wasn't you waiting, you know, Like I said, I've

308
00:14:12,640 --> 00:14:16,040
Speaker 1: read a lot of different women memoirs like Michelle Obama,

309
00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:21,880
Speaker 1: Jennifer Lopez, Kelly Rippa, who else, Mariah Carey, I mean,

310
00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:25,600
Speaker 1: for whatever reason. And you know, Jada is a very

311
00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:29,280
Speaker 1: she is a very good actress. I've always loved Will Smith,

312
00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:32,000
Speaker 1: you know, I grew up watching his shows, his movies,

313
00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:35,760
Speaker 1: and I always admired them as a couple. You know,

314
00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:39,440
Speaker 1: Hollywood couples have always like caught my attention because it's

315
00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:41,640
Speaker 1: been a little bit different for obviously, you know, the

316
00:14:41,680 --> 00:14:44,520
Speaker 1: traditional couples and people that we know, so the fact

317
00:14:44,560 --> 00:14:47,200
Speaker 1: that they have been together for so many years, you know,

318
00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:50,040
Speaker 1: and had supposedly made it always kind of like caught

319
00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:53,080
Speaker 1: my attention. And it was two people that I that

320
00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:56,160
Speaker 1: I liked. I thought she was very talented actress. I liked,

321
00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:58,080
Speaker 1: you know, I don't remember the one thing she's been in.

322
00:14:59,000 --> 00:14:59,640
Speaker 2: What was she in?

323
00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:02,120
Speaker 1: Well, I don't remember the names of the movies, but

324
00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:04,560
Speaker 1: she has had a lot of roles and you thought

325
00:15:04,560 --> 00:15:06,760
Speaker 1: she was great. I don't think they've been leading roles

326
00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:09,880
Speaker 1: like will Smith, not like a leading role like will Smith.

327
00:15:10,280 --> 00:15:16,040
Speaker 1: But she's had a lot of secondary roles, and I

328
00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:18,240
Speaker 1: mean I've always like admired her and I'm interested, you know,

329
00:15:18,320 --> 00:15:22,560
Speaker 1: I'm interested when people sit down and remember the truth. Yeah. Well,

330
00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:24,880
Speaker 1: I don't read people's books because they're pretty. I'm not

331
00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:27,960
Speaker 1: interested in people because they're pretty. But in my case,

332
00:15:28,080 --> 00:15:32,160
Speaker 1: I'm interested when people finally want to say the truth.

333
00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:35,480
Speaker 1: And I feel like a lot of people leave this

334
00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:37,920
Speaker 1: world and never say the truth. They take their secrets

335
00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:40,000
Speaker 1: to the grave and to the cemetery, and they never

336
00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:42,560
Speaker 1: their family and not even with themselves they know the truth.

337
00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:47,040
Speaker 1: But I admire and respect the fact that finally she's

338
00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:50,600
Speaker 1: sitting down with herself and with her thoughts. Some people

339
00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:53,200
Speaker 1: might think it's crazy, but you know, you're not in

340
00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:55,400
Speaker 1: anybody's head, and we're not in anybody's head, so we

341
00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:57,760
Speaker 1: don't know that with the emotions and what she's feeling

342
00:15:57,800 --> 00:16:01,160
Speaker 1: and thinking, and if it's going to help her, good

343
00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:01,480
Speaker 1: for her.

344
00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:03,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, if it helps her, good for her.

345
00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:06,360
Speaker 1: Sometimes, you know, when there's people talking about you all

346
00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:09,680
Speaker 1: the time, finally you're like, you know what to say? Now,

347
00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:11,160
Speaker 1: I'm the one that's going to sit down and I'm

348
00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:12,720
Speaker 1: going to say the truth. Some people are ready to

349
00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:14,840
Speaker 1: do it. Some people will live in a lie all

350
00:16:14,880 --> 00:16:17,600
Speaker 1: their lives and will never come to truth, not even

351
00:16:17,640 --> 00:16:19,280
Speaker 1: with themselves, and they'll believe their lives.

352
00:16:19,600 --> 00:16:21,800
Speaker 2: I don't think she's being one hundred percent truthful, though,

353
00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:23,720
Speaker 2: because she's saying like here that this.

354
00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:25,240
Speaker 1: What what do you want her to say?

355
00:16:25,320 --> 00:16:28,840
Speaker 2: That she thought the Will Smith slap with Chris Rock

356
00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:29,640
Speaker 2: was a skit.

357
00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:33,000
Speaker 1: So did I, bro I thought that was a skid too.

358
00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:35,440
Speaker 2: If you don't if you don't know, if you don't

359
00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:38,120
Speaker 2: know your man by now, then I mean, come on.

360
00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:42,360
Speaker 1: If she was in shock, listen to me. Listen, a

361
00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:44,480
Speaker 1: lot of women don't know their men. Okay, so just

362
00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:45,000
Speaker 1: stop with that.

363
00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:45,280
Speaker 2: Okay.

364
00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:49,200
Speaker 1: First of all, they're separated in twenty sixteen. The show

365
00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:54,440
Speaker 1: was a year later. Shock they she was more in

366
00:16:54,520 --> 00:16:57,640
Speaker 1: shock that Will Smith got up and said my wife.

367
00:16:57,840 --> 00:16:59,880
Speaker 1: She was more in shock that he referred to her

368
00:17:00,120 --> 00:17:01,000
Speaker 1: as his wife.

369
00:17:01,120 --> 00:17:07,200
Speaker 2: But they showed up, that they.

370
00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:08,480
Speaker 1: Showed up as partners, as a date or whatever their marriage.

371
00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:11,879
Speaker 2: But nobody else knows about that. We only know.

372
00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:15,320
Speaker 1: Nobody have to know, right, But why does anybody? Well,

373
00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:18,000
Speaker 1: there's always been rumors, Like she says, you know, when

374
00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:20,120
Speaker 1: you're that kind of a couple and your eyes are

375
00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:21,160
Speaker 1: always on you.

376
00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:24,880
Speaker 2: They sapped back. There were rumors because she was having

377
00:17:24,880 --> 00:17:27,360
Speaker 2: an affair with a guy for like four years and

378
00:17:27,440 --> 00:17:29,720
Speaker 2: he said it was okay. Yeah, yeah, But that's why

379
00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:33,080
Speaker 2: they were rumors because people knew about it. It wasn't

380
00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:33,439
Speaker 2: made up.

381
00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:36,800
Speaker 1: There's always been rumors, right, Well, there's always been rumors

382
00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:42,160
Speaker 1: because what happened is that since the beginning that these

383
00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:45,640
Speaker 1: two got together, they never had a traditional marriage. They

384
00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:47,879
Speaker 1: never said their marriage was perfect, they never said their

385
00:17:47,880 --> 00:17:50,720
Speaker 1: marriage was a conventional one. They've always been very open

386
00:17:50,880 --> 00:17:55,240
Speaker 1: about who they are, right, but obviously with certain boundaries

387
00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:58,480
Speaker 1: because regardless, people have always thought certain things about them.

388
00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:01,800
Speaker 1: They thought that she's gay, that he gay, that they're swingers.

389
00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:05,680
Speaker 1: That've been repeatedly been asked that question. Right, So it's

390
00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:07,600
Speaker 1: kind of like they played around with it. They took

391
00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:09,720
Speaker 1: it as a joke. They were playful about it. But

392
00:18:09,920 --> 00:18:12,120
Speaker 1: a lot of things have transcribed, I'm sure in their

393
00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:15,560
Speaker 1: life as a couple and individually that they haven't shared.

394
00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:18,120
Speaker 1: But ye got momain Doka, You're like, you know what,

395
00:18:18,280 --> 00:18:19,800
Speaker 1: I want to seek a way of lie, Like now

396
00:18:19,920 --> 00:18:21,800
Speaker 1: is when I'm going to write my book. And if

397
00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:23,080
Speaker 1: you want to know me and you want to know

398
00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:25,679
Speaker 1: more about this by didn't read it. But people in

399
00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:28,680
Speaker 1: this world just want to criticize you if you shut

400
00:18:28,760 --> 00:18:30,480
Speaker 1: up and you don't say anything, you keep on lying

401
00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:32,600
Speaker 1: about it, or you're such a liar, or this and

402
00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:34,639
Speaker 1: the other. And then if you finally sit down with

403
00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:36,320
Speaker 1: your thoughts and you want to write a book and

404
00:18:36,320 --> 00:18:38,240
Speaker 1: you want to tell it all because it's helping you,

405
00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:42,359
Speaker 1: you're healing, it's therapeutic, you still get criticized.

406
00:18:42,920 --> 00:18:46,280
Speaker 2: Son, who knows if it would have been better to

407
00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:46,919
Speaker 2: say nothing.

408
00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:51,600
Speaker 1: It depends on the individual. Some people, like I said,

409
00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:53,960
Speaker 1: will take their secrets and their lives, you know, to

410
00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:56,240
Speaker 1: the grave and they'll never share things like that. And

411
00:18:56,320 --> 00:18:58,879
Speaker 1: somebody like her and so many other people. I mean,

412
00:18:58,920 --> 00:19:01,040
Speaker 1: if you read memoirs, that's what they're supposed to be.

413
00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:04,720
Speaker 1: You know, everybody's life is different. But you know, I'm

414
00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:06,600
Speaker 1: just telling you because I'm going to write my memoir,

415
00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:07,760
Speaker 1: are you going to read my book?

416
00:19:08,560 --> 00:19:10,919
Speaker 2: I lived it?

417
00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:15,679
Speaker 1: You know you don't because you know what when I

418
00:19:15,720 --> 00:19:18,320
Speaker 1: met you, I was in my twin in my early thirties,

419
00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:20,600
Speaker 1: and I had a life before, like since I was

420
00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:22,680
Speaker 1: you know, and everybody, there's a reason why we are

421
00:19:22,720 --> 00:19:25,439
Speaker 1: the way that we are. And again, I'm not writing

422
00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:27,919
Speaker 1: the book for you. I'm writing it for me. And

423
00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:30,080
Speaker 1: I feel like Jade Out was doing the same thing.

424
00:19:30,440 --> 00:19:34,080
Speaker 1: She wrote this book for herself. Obviously. Unfortunately, you know,

425
00:19:34,359 --> 00:19:36,560
Speaker 1: she is married to Will, so of course she's going

426
00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:38,840
Speaker 1: to talk about Will. But if you see, she talked

427
00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:42,560
Speaker 1: about Tupac. She talked about how Tupac was her soul

428
00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:45,320
Speaker 1: mad and how she never had any chemistry with him,

429
00:19:45,320 --> 00:19:47,840
Speaker 1: but she talked about him. He's my soul mad too,

430
00:19:48,440 --> 00:19:50,120
Speaker 1: write I feel like he would be your soul mad.

431
00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:52,480
Speaker 2: That's why I named my dog after him.

432
00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:54,000
Speaker 1: But did you have chemistry with him?

433
00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:57,520
Speaker 2: I never met you? Do you see your side could

434
00:19:58,080 --> 00:20:01,000
Speaker 2: keep it a chemistry and a good time.

435
00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:05,000
Speaker 1: You'll get to Oka see yeah, you'll get tocussin yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

436
00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:08,400
Speaker 1: but yeah, and then she says, and then talking back

437
00:20:08,440 --> 00:20:11,280
Speaker 1: about the slap, she says that Chris Rock had asked

438
00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:14,040
Speaker 1: her out on a date, you know, that year when

439
00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:17,119
Speaker 1: she was separated with with Will, and there were rumors

440
00:20:17,160 --> 00:20:19,040
Speaker 1: because there's always been rumors about them.

441
00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:21,320
Speaker 2: Well, they've been apart, so you know, I'm what seven

442
00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:23,720
Speaker 2: eight years now years?

443
00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:28,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, it doesn't even matter. Yeah, there's always rumors about

444
00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:31,480
Speaker 1: people even while they're married. So I imagine being separated, right,

445
00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:36,520
Speaker 1: So do you feel different now, like about the slap?

446
00:20:37,000 --> 00:20:41,200
Speaker 1: Knowing that Will Smith knew that Chris Rock had asked

447
00:20:41,240 --> 00:20:44,560
Speaker 1: his wife out on a date while there were rumors

448
00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:45,960
Speaker 1: of them being separated.

449
00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:47,600
Speaker 2: A and B.

450
00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:51,080
Speaker 1: If you know, if you think that about my wife,

451
00:20:51,240 --> 00:20:52,880
Speaker 1: you know, and you're making fun of her for having

452
00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:55,159
Speaker 1: alopecia or her hair loss, why would you want to

453
00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:56,040
Speaker 1: go out on a date with her.

454
00:20:56,320 --> 00:20:59,520
Speaker 2: I think that he made a dig because he was

455
00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:03,480
Speaker 2: scorn she turned him down. She was saying they were

456
00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:06,399
Speaker 2: living apart. His name Chris, Chris Rock. Apparently they were

457
00:21:06,440 --> 00:21:08,920
Speaker 2: living apart. I guess a lot of people in Hollywood

458
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:12,119
Speaker 2: knew it. She was dating this other boy. What was

459
00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:13,840
Speaker 2: his name, Amistad.

460
00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:19,000
Speaker 1: Austin Austin the name of the boy, August, August August.

461
00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:24,080
Speaker 2: She was dating August, having a relationship with four four years.

462
00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:28,320
Speaker 2: And the husband was okay with it. He was fine

463
00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:30,240
Speaker 2: with it, he approved it, so.

464
00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:32,199
Speaker 1: He was a family friend. He was actually friends with

465
00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 1: the son.

466
00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:35,359
Speaker 2: And that stuff gets up.

467
00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:39,199
Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, wait he approved anything, he approved it.

468
00:21:39,280 --> 00:21:42,800
Speaker 2: No, he was okay with it. Will was okay and

469
00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:45,080
Speaker 2: he approved Will thought he was cute. You approved the

470
00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:48,400
Speaker 2: relationship that a four year relationship. People find out Chris

471
00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:51,120
Speaker 2: Rock was like, oh, Will sharing his wife with people,

472
00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:53,240
Speaker 2: Let me get in on that, you know, And I

473
00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:54,720
Speaker 2: guess she turned him down. I don't know how I

474
00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 2: knit it up. And you know, I guess now he

475
00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:00,280
Speaker 2: tried to take a dig. He was feeling spiteful, and

476
00:22:00,400 --> 00:22:03,840
Speaker 2: you know, there's a lot of tension going on there, right,

477
00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:04,640
Speaker 2: that's what I think.

478
00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:07,359
Speaker 1: I'm glad, Okay, fine, Yeah, well, yeah, there was a

479
00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:08,920
Speaker 1: lot of tension obviously.

480
00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:12,480
Speaker 2: With Chris was scorned and I think he got.

481
00:22:12,280 --> 00:22:14,920
Speaker 1: To take a lot of tension. Yeah, there was a

482
00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:19,040
Speaker 1: lot of tension between Will and Jada too. But can

483
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:21,920
Speaker 1: you imagine that they're like separated and this man still

484
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 1: gets up and slaps the guy. I mean, what man

485
00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 1: does that? That's what proved that he really has feelings

486
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:28,120
Speaker 1: and the door.

487
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 2: I have to tell you, the relationship is very odd

488
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:32,840
Speaker 2: to me. It's odd that they live upon.

489
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:33,639
Speaker 1: It's odd to me.

490
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,200
Speaker 2: He lets her have a relationship with someone to see

491
00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:39,680
Speaker 2: from me, and they share together on red carpets for

492
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:41,760
Speaker 2: tend they're still together, but they don't live together. But

493
00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:43,640
Speaker 2: he lets her see other people. But then he gets

494
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:47,040
Speaker 2: mad if someone references her like the whole thing is very.

495
00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 1: Confusing, right, well, I mean the whole thing is something

496
00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:53,119
Speaker 1: that only day two can understand, because they obviously are

497
00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:56,119
Speaker 1: the ones that are were living in it. And you know,

498
00:22:56,240 --> 00:23:00,040
Speaker 1: they probably had some kind of not an agreement, but

499
00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,439
Speaker 1: because I don't like to use the word agreement, but

500
00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:04,719
Speaker 1: what I'm trying to say is they probably had a conversation.

501
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:08,399
Speaker 2: I agree when you say agreement, there's something there. There's

502
00:23:08,440 --> 00:23:09,440
Speaker 2: something right.

503
00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 1: As far as they had a conversation and they said, listen,

504
00:23:13,720 --> 00:23:17,040
Speaker 1: I'm tired of trying to make this work. It's not working.

505
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:20,879
Speaker 1: Maybe separating and going to live in different houses and

506
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:24,080
Speaker 1: having time on our own is going to make us better.

507
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:28,520
Speaker 1: And what happened was sometimes to say these things. No,

508
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,680
Speaker 1: they live in the same neighborhood and everything they live

509
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:33,080
Speaker 1: like close by. But what I'm trying to say is

510
00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:37,040
Speaker 1: that sometimes you do things like that, and it's probably

511
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:39,399
Speaker 1: like the conversation with short term like we'll do it

512
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,359
Speaker 1: three months, six months, even like a year. Up to

513
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 1: a year is okay, like, and I can kind of

514
00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:46,119
Speaker 1: relate to that up to like a year. After a

515
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:48,919
Speaker 1: year is way too long. After a year, you figured

516
00:23:48,960 --> 00:23:50,680
Speaker 1: out either this is going to work out, we want

517
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 1: to stay together or you know what, I'm loving the

518
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:55,639
Speaker 1: single life, so peace, peace out, and I'm going on

519
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 1: with my life. Right. But with these two, it's so

520
00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,600
Speaker 1: weird because they just love each other. There's so much

521
00:24:00,640 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 1: And I'm not even saying that this is love for me,

522
00:24:02,760 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 1: because you know what, get it, my man? Like, you know,

523
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 1: I don't think.

524
00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:10,440
Speaker 2: It's I think I think that's financial.

525
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:14,120
Speaker 1: And for you everything's money. Well you're always talking about listen,

526
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:16,640
Speaker 1: he has a lot and without him, how much more

527
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 1: money do you want? How much more money? Like they're

528
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:22,440
Speaker 1: both I mean, he's such a wealthy man.

529
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:25,240
Speaker 2: Well and he probably doesn't want to split with his money,

530
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 2: and she probably wants to put that book out there

531
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 2: to say, hey, this is what we're gonna be doing

532
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,320
Speaker 2: with our life and you can't judge us because we chose.

533
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,000
Speaker 1: That's when we're not getting divorced, That's what I'm saying.

534
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:38,400
Speaker 1: They're not getting they're gonna go live together again. That's

535
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:40,320
Speaker 1: how much they love each other, and that's how crazy

536
00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:40,680
Speaker 1: they are.

537
00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:44,200
Speaker 2: They're gonna get a baby, and then when there's another affair,

538
00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:45,760
Speaker 2: they're gonna be like, well, we told you this is

539
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:47,919
Speaker 2: our lifestyle. You can't judge us. They're just putting it

540
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:49,720
Speaker 2: out there so no one judges them, and they're and

541
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:50,879
Speaker 2: keep doing what they want to do.

542
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:53,639
Speaker 1: I don't think it has anything to do with money.

543
00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 1: I think that they're just these two individuals that are

544
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 1: have this unconditioned, know crazy love. Is that a healthy love?

545
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 1: Is that the kind of love I want? Know? Is

546
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 1: it the kind of marriage that I want to? Know?

547
00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:10,000
Speaker 2: Crazy together? In almost eight years? They don't even want

548
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:10,639
Speaker 2: to live together.

549
00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,440
Speaker 1: Thought that they've been together for twenty five years, Marisol,

550
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:16,479
Speaker 1: they they took a seven year break.

551
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:22,480
Speaker 2: That break, Yeah, I don't want a relationship like that that.

552
00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:24,120
Speaker 2: I don't relate to them. I'm just saying I don't

553
00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 2: relate ships.

554
00:25:24,640 --> 00:25:26,879
Speaker 1: It's not a relationship. I mean from not not a

555
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 1: relationship either. I mean it's not a marriage and it's

556
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 1: not a relationship. They took a break and with that

557
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 1: being said, they're getting back together, so she'll be writing

558
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 1: her next book telling us how they got back together,

559
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:40,400
Speaker 1: and you know, they've healed and they're working on being

560
00:25:40,440 --> 00:25:44,560
Speaker 1: better people and being better as husband book topics. You

561
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:46,719
Speaker 1: know what, they have my blessing, you know what. I

562
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:49,640
Speaker 1: just want people to love each other and and respect

563
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 1: each other. And if they can figure it out on

564
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,440
Speaker 1: how to stay together and be you know, in love

565
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:57,200
Speaker 1: and respect each other, good for them.

566
00:25:57,840 --> 00:25:59,120
Speaker 2: I'm not that interested in it.

567
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,120
Speaker 1: No, Well, the whole world is my love because everybody's been.

568
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,359
Speaker 2: Talking because she's gone on every talk show, so you

569
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:06,320
Speaker 2: have no choice but to listen about it. But if

570
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:07,920
Speaker 2: she didn't go to talk, she didn't write a book,

571
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 2: nobody would care and nobody would be listening.

572
00:26:11,040 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 1: But that's like everything, right, I mean everything we you know,

573
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 1: we people talk about is things that we see on

574
00:26:17,080 --> 00:26:19,120
Speaker 1: TV or on social media. When you write a book

575
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 1: or whatever gets attention. But I think that this topic

576
00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: has gone a lot of attention.

577
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 2: You can have to because everyone's like, you guys have

578
00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 2: lived together for seven years, and you let you have

579
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:31,400
Speaker 2: a relationship with someone for four years and then there's

580
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,359
Speaker 2: that scandal at the oscars. It none of it makes sense.

581
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 1: But what about people that do a marige. So people

582
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,040
Speaker 1: they're so, you know what, they took a break and

583
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 1: they weren't together. There's people that are married and allow this. Yeah,

584
00:26:41,480 --> 00:26:43,720
Speaker 1: there's people that are married, you know, married couples right

585
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 1: now that they cheat on each other and they're still married.

586
00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:47,680
Speaker 1: But they live on the same roof and they live

587
00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 1: in the same house, and they don't live in the

588
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:51,119
Speaker 1: same bedroom, and they don't have sex, and they live

589
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:52,440
Speaker 1: in separate lives in the same house.

590
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 2: But these two live in different houses and nobody knows.

591
00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:57,639
Speaker 1: So who cares. So you want to live with the person,

592
00:26:57,680 --> 00:26:59,680
Speaker 1: it's okay if you live together, it would have been okay,

593
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 1: there were stay together and that just be true to

594
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,560
Speaker 1: your relations People that live under the same roof and

595
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 1: have separate lives.

596
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:09,360
Speaker 2: I think that's unfortunate. And I know you wouldn't want

597
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 2: to live like that and I wouldn't either.

598
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:13,440
Speaker 1: Well, no, that well, that's why I've been divorced two times.

599
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:15,439
Speaker 1: So yeah, thank you very much. So I don't believe

600
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 1: in that. But what I'm trying to say is that

601
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:21,560
Speaker 1: sometimes you take a break. I mean, there's a lot

602
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,840
Speaker 1: of couples that take separation or they take a break

603
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 1: or even get divorced, even legally divorced, and then later

604
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:30,080
Speaker 1: on in life get together after.

605
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,679
Speaker 2: I find that fascinating when people really the same thing

606
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 2: like that. I find that fascinating because when I'm done.

607
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: See, that's why. But that's why she's not going to

608
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 1: do it. That's why she doesn't want to get divorced,

609
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 1: because she's like, you know what, I always took the

610
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 1: vow that I was not getting divorced. I work it out.

611
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 1: No matter what, she's really working it out. That's going

612
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:54,879
Speaker 1: to work out either. And yeah, but God knows, he

613
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 1: was probably doing his thing too correctly.

614
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 2: That's what I want to know. Things you will tappen,

615
00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:02,639
Speaker 2: That's what I want to know. How's who's will? Where's

616
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:04,479
Speaker 2: will getting his listen?

617
00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 1: When one is doing it, it's because the other one's

618
00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:07,239
Speaker 1: doing it.

619
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 2: So how do we not know about that? I want

620
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 2: to know who that is. That's what I want to know.

621
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 2: I don't care about her. I want to hear about

622
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:15,960
Speaker 2: who he's doing. Who is he doing?

623
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:17,960
Speaker 1: I don't I don't think she's going to say. I

624
00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 1: think that she knows too, but she's not going to

625
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 1: go that far.

626
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:21,359
Speaker 2: And because you know that.

627
00:28:21,359 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 1: Would be him. But guess what he wrote a book too,

628
00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 1: you know, so I I now that you even say that.

629
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 1: Something that I think about them is that they're both

630
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:34,439
Speaker 1: very competitive. They're competitive with each other and you know,

631
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 1: with themselves, and they've had kind of like, you know,

632
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 1: that relationship where they're both very very competitive, and obviously

633
00:28:40,640 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 1: as an actor and an actress, he was always like

634
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:46,840
Speaker 1: the more well known one. But again, I think we're

635
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:50,280
Speaker 1: talking about this because people are fascinated by the idea

636
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 1: that they've been together for twenty six years and everybody

637
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 1: assumed that they were like the Hollywood couple and how

638
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 1: you know, they had so much love for each other,

639
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 1: which they do, and yet they had been living a

640
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 1: secret of being separated for seven years.

641
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people knew. We're just finding

642
00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 2: out because of the book. A lot of people, well, there's.

643
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 1: Always going to be rumors. But the fact that she

644
00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 1: sat down and said the truth. I respect that because

645
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 1: a lot of people keep on lying about it till

646
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:28,959
Speaker 1: the daid he dying. So you know what, good for you, Jada.

647
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 2: Next odd topic, since we're talking about odd couples, Howie

648
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 2: Mendel reveals his wife Terry gave him an ultimatum to

649
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 2: force him to finally get treatment for his OCD after

650
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 2: years of making his family miserable with his mental health condition.

651
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 2: How revealed his wife Terry, ished an ultimatum which pushed

652
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 2: him to getting treatment for his OCD. The America's Got

653
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 2: Talent Judge sixty seven opened up about his journey to

654
00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 2: self acceptance. How he admitted, I wouldn't go to a therapist.

655
00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:05,520
Speaker 2: I wouldn't see a psychiatrist. I would not talk about

656
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 2: were the word mental health at all. He'd give his family,

657
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 2: his wife, his children spray, to spray everything in the house,

658
00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:16,880
Speaker 2: and he wouldn't let them touch it anything anyway. He's

659
00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 2: been married for forty three years, and he shares that

660
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 2: the three adult children and his wife urge him to

661
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:26,000
Speaker 2: seek help. My wife gave me an ultimatum, he recalled

662
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 2: to today, got calm. She goes, I can't do this anymore.

663
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 2: I can't have the children do it anymore. And if

664
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:32,760
Speaker 2: you don't get help, that's it.

665
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 1: If there's something that you would ask your spouse to

666
00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 1: improve about themselves, what would it be?

667
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 2: So the one thing that I always ask Steve to

668
00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 2: do when he doesn't like to do is lay around

669
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:46,800
Speaker 2: and watch TV. He likes to be busy, blow the yard,

670
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 2: clorox everything, go to the grocery store, do errand's. He

671
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 2: likes to be moving, and I like to lay around and.

672
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 1: Yay Steve, yay Boober.

673
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 2: And I want Boober to lay around with me. So

674
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? Oh, I just like when

675
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 2: it's raining, I want to be inside, snuggling, just watching

676
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 2: the tube. I don't want to see Boo Bear, you know,

677
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 2: blowing the yard and doing errands. He wants to be moving,

678
00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 2: and I want to He loves to blow the yard,

679
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:16,040
Speaker 2: and I want to not be moving. That's what I

680
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 2: would change. What about you?

681
00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 1: I think would I improve about? Well? I first of all,

682
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:26,880
Speaker 1: I want to recognize that it's so hard, you know,

683
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 1: for the people that do have OCD. And I remember

684
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 1: myself sort of developing OCD at one point in my

685
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 1: life that I couldn't control some things around me. I mean,

686
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 1: it's a disorder. And it was specifically when the dad

687
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 1: went away with my kids and Peter was like four

688
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:50,920
Speaker 1: years old and three or four years old, and all

689
00:31:50,960 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 1: I would do Marisol was clean like all day long.

690
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 1: I became so like inside my house, so obsessed, you know.

691
00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 1: It wasn't like Jowie Mandel with the sprays or anything

692
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:03,160
Speaker 1: like that as far as like the germophobics. It was

693
00:32:03,200 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 1: more like with cleanliness that every and everything had to

694
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 1: be perfect. So I don't know if that would have

695
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 1: fallen onto the umbrella of OCD, but I was so

696
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 1: obsessed with my house being spotless and little Peter being

697
00:32:15,400 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 1: like perfect, no mancheta like. I was like, oh my God,

698
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:20,200
Speaker 1: shall take it off? Oh my God. And then me

699
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 1: it was like the hair people would walk into my house,

700
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 1: I would make them take off their shoes. I would

701
00:32:25,280 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 1: get the little voluum cleaner like back then it was

702
00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 1: like you know, and I would be like in your shoes,

703
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 1: like please take it off. It was just craziness. I

704
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 1: started doing this to myself and at the same time,

705
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:35,760
Speaker 1: and then I would think about my mom and my

706
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:38,560
Speaker 1: mom's patience because my mom also treated patients with OCD

707
00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 1: because it is a mental health condition. And luckily for me,

708
00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:46,280
Speaker 1: I was just able to cure it myself and never

709
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 1: developed like Cowie's just by not being home. Like being

710
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:51,960
Speaker 1: home would drive me crazy like that, So what would

711
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 1: I do. I would leave like an intro I felt

712
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 1: that I would get inside my car, and I was like,

713
00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 1: I'm going for a drive. That's interesting, and I just

714
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 1: kind of like did that myself if I still up

715
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 1: it a little.

716
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:04,320
Speaker 2: Bit, wipe down the steering wheel.

717
00:33:05,080 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: Well back then, I mean, there wasn't even like, you know,

718
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 1: the things like today. I can't even imagine somebody today

719
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 1: having OCD with the COVID and everything that was going

720
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 1: on here, Like I can't imagine how much they suffered.

721
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 1: But this was just back in the day, and it

722
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:18,160
Speaker 1: was just like in my head. So I kind of

723
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 1: just did it like on my own. And but I

724
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:24,120
Speaker 1: really do feel for the people. And this has passed

725
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:26,400
Speaker 1: on to your kids obviously to the people that live around,

726
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 1: because it's like if you can't beat them, you join them.

727
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: So I'm sure like his wife starts cleaning with him

728
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 1: and starts like you become that person, and then you

729
00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 1: do it to your kids, like she said, like how

730
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 1: it's it's a disease. It's a horrible disease.

731
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 2: I think I have selective OCD. I'm like that in

732
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 2: the kitchen when I'm cleaning or well i'm cooking or

733
00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 2: preparing food, I'm constantly wiping my hands, drying them and

734
00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 2: then messing them up again and wiping and drying, and

735
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 2: cleaning the plants, cleaning the flocks. I'm just clean constantly

736
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,280
Speaker 2: while I'm in the kitchen. Anywhere else is a mess,

737
00:33:56,480 --> 00:33:58,760
Speaker 2: but in the kitchen, I'm really weird about it. And

738
00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:02,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, in your suitcase, yeah, my suitcases and.

739
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 1: Your slip block, your makeup bag, my God, doesn't make

740
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:08,800
Speaker 1: a bag. Next in our next, in our next trip,

741
00:34:09,160 --> 00:34:10,880
Speaker 1: I'm going to get your makeup bag and I'm going

742
00:34:10,960 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 1: to clean it.

743
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:14,320
Speaker 2: I got a bunch of new makeup bags.

744
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:15,800
Speaker 1: Oh good.

745
00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 2: What would you what would you, you know, want to

746
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:19,400
Speaker 2: change or improve about?

747
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:23,720
Speaker 1: You know, Todd's are really good partner, like home partner

748
00:34:23,800 --> 00:34:26,800
Speaker 1: like that. Like he's very organized. We're very much the same,

749
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:31,439
Speaker 1: the same way. He's very clean, you know. I mean

750
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 1: maybe I think that he loves to read, like he

751
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:36,839
Speaker 1: like he likes us alone time, which I like as well,

752
00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 1: because my alone time is kind of like boo bear,

753
00:34:39,560 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 1: like I don't sit down and relax like. I love

754
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:44,320
Speaker 1: that Todd likes to take a nap, he likes to read,

755
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 1: he likes to exercise, but he likes to do all

756
00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:50,000
Speaker 1: these things by himself. So while he's doing that I

757
00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 1: stay busy with all the things I need to do,

758
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:53,840
Speaker 1: Like I don't blow the yard because I don't have

759
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 1: a yard, but I'm not I would do that too.

760
00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:57,680
Speaker 1: But I'm always like around right doing errands, just like

761
00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:00,239
Speaker 1: just like Boober. But I think that we're really good

762
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 1: together because we both like the same things, and we

763
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:05,520
Speaker 1: both you know, like everything to be neat and organized

764
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 1: and clean.

765
00:35:06,040 --> 00:35:08,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, that's good. Yeah, And what would you do

766
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:09,840
Speaker 2: to improve yourself?

767
00:35:11,640 --> 00:35:13,759
Speaker 1: Me? Well, I'm perfect. I don't need to improve anything.

768
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:14,719
Speaker 1: I'm kidding, you know what.

769
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 2: That was my answer.

770
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:17,359
Speaker 1: I was waiting.

771
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 2: My answer.

772
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 1: No, you know what I would like to improve on myself.

773
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 1: I would like to learn to relax more to take I'm.

774
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 2: So good at that. Come to my house for relaxing classes.

775
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:32,880
Speaker 1: Maybe I should buy the house next to you and

776
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 1: we can. I don't know how to sit down. I

777
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:37,399
Speaker 1: want to learn how to be able to sit down

778
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:39,760
Speaker 1: and enjoy and not like I'm sitting here like thinking

779
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:41,360
Speaker 1: of all the things I have to do and running around.

780
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:43,800
Speaker 1: I want to make sure that I learned to relax

781
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:48,800
Speaker 1: and spend more time with myself and my family doing

782
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 1: nothing like you.

783
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 2: I want to learn how to like exercise because I

784
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 2: have never exercised and I need to. So you need

785
00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 2: to learn how to realize pretty hot.

786
00:35:57,640 --> 00:35:59,280
Speaker 1: You look pretty good for not exercise.

787
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 2: Thank God every night, Thank you for this. You know

788
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 2: this shell that you've given me that I haven't done

789
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:08,319
Speaker 2: anything to take care of. Let's start it because I

790
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 2: to it and it still looks okay. Thank you. I'm

791
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 2: hanging in gon One.

792
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 1: It's been a pleasure speaking to you and seeing you.

793
00:36:19,640 --> 00:36:22,760
Speaker 1: I'll see you tomorrow. I'll hang out a little bit together.

794
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:25,720
Speaker 2: I'll text you and yeah, I got to talk.

795
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 1: A lot of exciting things going on, so I'm happy

796
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:29,480
Speaker 1: to share them with you.

797
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:34,319
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, likewise, and we're gonna be at the Fia

798
00:36:34,400 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 2: s Latina, aren't we.

799
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 1: Yes, that's going to be singing and dancing along famous

800
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,840
Speaker 1: Latin stars with our lote artist.

801
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 2: Absolutely.

802
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:50,480
Speaker 1: Thank you guys, Thank you for listening. Hope you liked

803
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:55,440
Speaker 1: our show. I phone hi, thanks for listening.

804
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 2: Follow us on Instagram at iPort Forward Podcast.

805
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:01,600
Speaker 1: Make sure to write us a review and leave us

806
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 1: five stars. Attalueo Astella Proxima