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This 19 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:51,479 Speaker 2: is apparently where people are at this women, I guess 20 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 2: specifically trying to find a date. 21 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 1: Now. 22 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 2: I just want to say, and I'm gonna be that 23 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 2: guy and I don't like to argue this way or 24 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 2: I don't like to, you know, position this way. But 25 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:05,960 Speaker 2: if a guy did this, he's a total creep. M okay, 26 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:08,520 Speaker 2: But apparently if a girl does this, then we're good. 27 00:01:08,600 --> 00:01:10,839 Speaker 3: Dating scene is getting so bad in New York City 28 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:14,960 Speaker 3: that I am seeing on TikTok there are girls going 29 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:16,400 Speaker 3: into Midtown during. 30 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 4: The week and stealing finance bros. 31 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:23,119 Speaker 3: Salads for lunch and then looking their name up from 32 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:27,400 Speaker 3: the salad order on LinkedIn and then messaging them through 33 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 3: there and being like, hey, my god, so sorry grabs 34 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 3: your solid Like, let me just make it up to 35 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,479 Speaker 3: you and buy a new one. And that's how they're 36 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 3: like sliding it, which honestly smart. Why are we stealing 37 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 3: men's salads? 38 00:01:39,040 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 1: Like that's you have? 39 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 2: But we have no idea who this man is. I mean, 40 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 2: I guess you run, he's a finance I suppose it's 41 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 2: an end but I mean, you know, okay, but if 42 00:01:47,360 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 2: I grab you know, Jake chad Z's, you know, lunch, 43 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 2: and then I got to go home, And first of all, 44 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 2: what it's a bad lunch. What if you're the guy 45 00:01:56,520 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 2: who he likes raisins and grapes in his salad and 46 00:01:59,600 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 2: nuts in his salad. He likes one of those kind 47 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 2: of Waldorf. You ever had a what was it called 48 00:02:04,520 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 2: a Waldorf? It's like it's like Mayo. No, it's yogurt, raisins, 49 00:02:09,520 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 2: nuts and marshmallows. You ever had one of those? 50 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 1: It's so good to me. 51 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 2: There's marshmallows in it's a sound that has a yogurt 52 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 2: and marshallows. 53 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: I don't know, is it a Waldorf? 54 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 4: I mean like ambrosia? 55 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe, I don't know. One if the guy has 56 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 2: bad tastes of salad and he's an idiot and he's 57 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 2: not cute, and he's that cute. Now you got this 58 00:02:27,960 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 2: bad salad, you stole it. You ruined somebody else's day 59 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:32,639 Speaker 2: because their lunch isn't there. 60 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 5: Oh you're right Waldorf? Sorry, okay, sure, thank I didn't 61 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 5: never had that. And then I mean, come on, like, 62 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:43,440 Speaker 5: I don't I don't know. I don't think this is 63 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 5: a great strategy. I mean, what are the odds that 64 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 5: you're gonna get a good looking guy's salad who's single 65 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 5: and receptive, right, and it's a good sound. 66 00:02:52,880 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 6: It sounds like, yeah, well that that would be hard. 67 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:56,880 Speaker 6: It sounds like they just want someone who makes a 68 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 6: lot of money. That's how desperate. We're getting in New York. 69 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:00,840 Speaker 6: It's very thirsty. 70 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't. I don't know how I would respond 71 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:04,280 Speaker 1: to this. I don't. I don't know. 72 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:08,000 Speaker 2: Exactly respond well maybe, but then if I found out, Okay, 73 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 2: so if it were like an accident, because you know me, 74 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:14,680 Speaker 2: I'm into the happenstance, you know, yeah, I'm into like 75 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 2: the Hallmark movie sort of thing. So I still believe 76 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 2: I'm going to meet someone at an airport. 77 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 1: I really do. And you guys don't agree with me. 78 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 2: But the airport's not only a horny place, but it's 79 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 2: the kind of place where you meet someone who's I 80 00:03:26,320 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 2: don't know, that's that's where, that's where love stories begin 81 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,800 Speaker 2: in the airport. I believe this every time I go 82 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 2: to the airport a get on a flight. I look 83 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 2: around and I survey my surroundings and I see what 84 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 2: might be available to me, you know, and what could 85 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 2: be There was a very very hot girl that was 86 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 2: one like I was on the aisle and she was 87 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 2: on the other aisle on the flight back from South Paulo, Brazil. 88 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 2: I don't know what her story was. I never really 89 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 2: got it. I think language may have been a barrier 90 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,160 Speaker 2: there too, but she was good looking. You never know, 91 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 2: it could have been that could have been missus Fred. 92 00:03:56,440 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 2: Yeah you know, I could have been said and Abu 93 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 2: I got to her all the time, yeah you know, 94 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 2: and and chow chow. 95 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:10,760 Speaker 1: All the time. But anyway, what are the odds though that? Okay? 96 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 2: So I would get the LinkedIn message, I would be like, 97 00:04:12,840 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 2: this is so cute, Oh my god, she's good looking. 98 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:16,600 Speaker 2: She got my salad first of all. I would never 99 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:19,040 Speaker 2: it would have been like a gigantic sandwich of some 100 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 2: like four meals. 101 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 1: Breakfast, I got your team's lunch. It would have been 102 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:23,919 Speaker 1: like that was all for me. 103 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 2: But anyway, and then and then I would have I 104 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:28,320 Speaker 2: would have been been, this is so cute, and then 105 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:30,240 Speaker 2: we maybe would have gone out, and then I would 106 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:32,560 Speaker 2: have gone on TikTok and found out this is just something. 107 00:04:32,560 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 2: It's his strategy. It wasn't cute, it wasn't happenstance, it 108 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 2: wasn't meant to be. You wouldn't care how many time. 109 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:40,160 Speaker 1: Did you do this? 110 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 2: And you know, to come upon me, and then I 111 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:45,240 Speaker 2: would I would find it less sincere and I would 112 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:48,120 Speaker 2: be upset about it, right because it's it's just simply 113 00:04:48,120 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 2: a game. 114 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:50,520 Speaker 7: Yeah, they're gonna start locking up the salads now, like 115 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:53,279 Speaker 7: at Walgreens, like the soap. 116 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 2: Yes, it's yes, I have my salad. Some man has 117 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:57,599 Speaker 2: to come around unlock it and hand it to me. 118 00:04:57,720 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 4: It's crazy running for everybody. 119 00:05:00,279 --> 00:05:01,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't, I don't. I don't know. 120 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:05,920 Speaker 2: But if a guy, if a guy did this and 121 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:08,720 Speaker 2: it wasn't an accident, we would get killed. It would 122 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 2: be gross. I'm sorry, it's true, it would be. It 123 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:13,719 Speaker 2: would be it would be thirsty, it would be gross, 124 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:17,839 Speaker 2: it would be intrusive, it would it would be violating, 125 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 2: and maybe because maybe men have just made that reputation 126 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 2: for ourselves by being those things. And I'm you know, 127 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 2: taking not personally taking credit, but yeah, I think a 128 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 2: lot of nice things have been ruined for the guys 129 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 2: who are well intentioned. 130 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 4: That's a good point. 131 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't think this. 132 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 2: Would go over very well if if if dudes were 133 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 2: doing this consistently, I think women would be like, first 134 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:38,880 Speaker 2: of all, worre's my salad? 135 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 1: That's what I would mean about it. 136 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 2: Yes, like that was a good salad I ordered and 137 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 2: it was like twenty four dollars. 138 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 6: Yes, just out like we're very specific keiking eye. But 139 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 6: what we want in there, you know. 140 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 2: I understand that. I understand it. One a week and there, 141 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:53,760 Speaker 2: and they're eighty four dollars. 142 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:56,240 Speaker 4: On Tuesday is a salad day and I take that 143 00:05:56,400 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 4: very serious. 144 00:05:56,880 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 2: That's what I mean because you had to save up 145 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 2: hope right right in order to get it. But that's 146 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 2: I guess that's where we're at. Have you guys ever 147 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:06,920 Speaker 2: done anything well? Jason's been dating the same person for 148 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 2: eighty seven years and he moved in correct, as we 149 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 2: learned yesterday in the in the Tangent or off their 150 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,839 Speaker 2: Uncentered podcast, he is a U haul lesbian I am 151 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:17,919 Speaker 2: because he went on one date and then lived. 152 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: There already had it packed. 153 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 2: But if you guys are being as well, and I've 154 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:25,120 Speaker 2: probably I've definitely done things that would be defined now 155 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 2: as cringe but used to be considered cute or romantic. 156 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 2: And again I'm not blaming women for this, but I'm 157 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 2: saying I think guys have screwed up what could be 158 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 2: a sincere gesture from a man, because because now the 159 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 2: perception is if a stranger talks to you that that's creepy, 160 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 2: which is a shame or threatening or something. But will 161 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:51,200 Speaker 2: any of you women admit, any of you ladies admit 162 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 2: that you've done something somewhat sort of stalker ish or 163 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:59,440 Speaker 2: creepy or like set yourself up to meet the guy 164 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:00,280 Speaker 2: you wanted to meet. 165 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:04,159 Speaker 1: Hm, I man, I'm wondering maybe and if anyone wants 166 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: to admit to. 167 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 2: This eight five, five, five, nine one one oh three 168 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:08,720 Speaker 2: five have you ever like gone to the same place 169 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 2: I saw a guy at a place and then you 170 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 2: went there every day for a week or to see 171 00:07:11,960 --> 00:07:16,560 Speaker 2: if he shows up, or I don't know, somehow positioned 172 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:18,400 Speaker 2: yourself in a way that he had to bump into 173 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 2: you so you had to talk to him or anything. 174 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:22,120 Speaker 2: Have you ever done something like this to put yourself 175 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:22,800 Speaker 2: in a position? 176 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 7: I mean yeah, like I like there was a DJ 177 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 7: thought that was cute, like back in the day, like 178 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 7: back in my do. 179 00:07:28,520 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 1: You have a money mouse tattoo? 180 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 4: He did not have that tattoo. 181 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 1: A different confused them. 182 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 7: Yes, and we did an I Da'm actually about that 183 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 7: yesterday with. 184 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 4: The Mighty mouth side one of our listeners hang out 185 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 4: with it. 186 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:40,360 Speaker 6: Oh okay, it was really fun him no, no, not 187 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:42,720 Speaker 6: him himself, but he doesn't have the internet in jail, 188 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:44,520 Speaker 6: but anyway, he's sick. 189 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:48,120 Speaker 7: But like with the DJ, I thought he was cute, 190 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 7: so I would like go to the spots that I 191 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 7: knew he was DJing at, and like nothing happened, but 192 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:53,480 Speaker 7: I was like, hey, like you're kind of a cool DJ, 193 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 7: Like I don't know, I like your style, and. 194 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 4: That kind of just went from there. 195 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:59,840 Speaker 2: I figured out someone's schedule at a bar and I've gone, 196 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 2: I haven't done this in a while, but I would 197 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 2: make sure that I just happened to stop in when 198 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 2: that person was there. It worked, Yeah, it definitely worked. 199 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 2: You never done something like this though, You've never I'm 200 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 2: trying to think of another example of where you just 201 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 2: make sure that somehow done something or maybe you had 202 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:21,400 Speaker 2: to take some sort of creepy method. We'll be defined 203 00:08:21,400 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 2: as creepy today, but it worked well. 204 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 6: I've done things like this to Taylor Swift, Like I 205 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 6: befriended someone she went to high school with, just because 206 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 6: they went to high school. 207 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 1: Together and you were hoping that you two would become friends. 208 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:33,199 Speaker 4: Well, you know, I'm still in the process. 209 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 2: So you're befriending her, right, Okay, do you talk regularly? 210 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, we became online friends. She doesn't know why I'm 211 00:08:39,280 --> 00:08:39,960 Speaker 6: being her friend. 212 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 1: Well she does, now, Okay, I don't know. 213 00:08:43,840 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 6: I'd like had my makeup done and then on purpose, 214 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 6: like made sure I run into a guy, you know, 215 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:49,200 Speaker 6: because you know, when you get a beat done, you 216 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 6: can't waste it. But that's like the creepiest thing I 217 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 6: can probably think of. But let me think, because maybe 218 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:55,680 Speaker 6: I'll be creepier if I remember. 219 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:56,720 Speaker 1: I'm trying to think. 220 00:08:57,960 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 2: I've probably looked people up on social media and make sure, 221 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:05,440 Speaker 2: like I've definitely I've probably friend I've probably found people 222 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 2: on social media and then just shot my shot by 223 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:12,320 Speaker 2: requesting them. And I didn't necessarily have like a reason 224 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 2: to know to do, you know, like I didn't. I didn't. 225 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 1: I wasn't invited to do that. 226 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 2: So but my thing is either you're going to accept it, 227 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:22,319 Speaker 2: and then that might mean that you want some form 228 00:09:22,360 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 2: of interaction or you're not. But you have the choice, 229 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 2: like you know what I mean, Like you have the 230 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 2: option to not friend me or not respond. 231 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:31,559 Speaker 1: I'll shoot my shot one time. I don't care. 232 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 2: Uh now, sometimes it winds up on message boards, but 233 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:36,439 Speaker 2: I don't care. I'll shoot my Well, that's another kind 234 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 2: of crappy thing is, you know, you shoot your shot 235 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:41,320 Speaker 2: and and then you just if you don't want to 236 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 2: someone to. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. Right, I've 237 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,840 Speaker 2: gotten responses, I've gotten I've gotten non responses, but like 238 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 2: I shot, you know what I mean? Because because when 239 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:51,280 Speaker 2: I was much younger, I would not talk to people 240 00:09:51,280 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 2: because I was afraid of getting rejected. And I think 241 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:56,160 Speaker 2: now it's like, oh yeah, and then people will later 242 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:59,120 Speaker 2: brag like so so and so, yeah he slipped my DMS. 243 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:01,559 Speaker 2: I didn't respond. It's like that's not cool, like love 244 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 2: to do that. 245 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:02,959 Speaker 1: It's like, wait a minute. 246 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:04,680 Speaker 2: If I'm not good enough to go out with you, 247 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 2: why am I good enough for you to brag that 248 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 2: you shot me down? 249 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:08,960 Speaker 1: Right? You know what I'm saying, Like why why would 250 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 1: that be? 251 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 2: Because, by the way, for every couple that don't work, 252 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:13,560 Speaker 2: sometimes it works. 253 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 1: So you know she did. 254 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:17,200 Speaker 2: But is that creepy? Because I feel like you have 255 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:20,560 Speaker 2: the option. But some would argue you found me on 256 00:10:20,600 --> 00:10:21,920 Speaker 2: the internet, that's. 257 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 6: What it's for. I don't that that's not creepy. Shoot 258 00:10:24,200 --> 00:10:25,839 Speaker 6: on the internet all the live long day. 259 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,959 Speaker 2: But I will say this, and guys, I'm talking to 260 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 2: no one who listens to this show would be this way, 261 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:34,600 Speaker 2: because everyone has taste, fine, fine discerning taste. Yes, but 262 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 2: if you shoot your shot, if you find if you 263 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 2: see a cute person and you're resourceful and you find 264 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 2: them and you request them, that's it. If you DM 265 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 2: them one time, something very kind, not a picture of 266 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:50,560 Speaker 2: your genitalia, like, just be nice and respectful one time. 267 00:10:50,960 --> 00:10:53,199 Speaker 2: If you do not get a response, we are done. 268 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 2: We are done. We don't continue to write over and 269 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:59,680 Speaker 2: over and then what we definitely don't do. This one's 270 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 2: a class. I've seen this one on the interweb so 271 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:05,000 Speaker 2: many times. Is once we we've written to several times 272 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:09,440 Speaker 2: and really really like released all all forms of dignity, 273 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:12,960 Speaker 2: then we start dissing the person. Yeah for not like, 274 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 2: oh you want it that hot anyway? I see this 275 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 2: with you guys all the time. They'll DM you guys. Hey, 276 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 2: you know Kaitlin, They'll shoot their shot. Then you don't respond. 277 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:23,439 Speaker 2: I see it on the text all the time. Oh 278 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 2: sweet Kalin, how I would love to do this? And 279 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:28,240 Speaker 2: they and then you don't respond because you have a 280 00:11:28,240 --> 00:11:32,560 Speaker 2: boyfriend whatever. And then and then like three texts after 281 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 2: they're like you're so hot, you're so smart, you're so good. 282 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:37,080 Speaker 1: You know what, You're an ugly bee and I hate you. 283 00:11:37,240 --> 00:11:39,560 Speaker 6: Yeah, I got the other day for not answering like 284 00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 6: fifteen messages. 285 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 4: I'm like, I just saw these you a whole. 286 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:45,559 Speaker 2: He's like, oh, you're right right, so like let's be respectful, 287 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:48,559 Speaker 2: you know. But it's funny how quickly you go from 288 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:52,440 Speaker 2: being the woman of their dreams to a witch of 289 00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 2: a human being, an awful heathen is terrible person, Gabby, 290 00:11:58,280 --> 00:11:58,719 Speaker 2: what did you know? 291 00:11:58,760 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 1: It's true? 292 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:02,960 Speaker 2: Though, don't So if we lead with those week Kaitlin, 293 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 2: you know, and then we shoot our shot, that's very nice. 294 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:09,800 Speaker 2: Good for you, and now maybe you'll get a response 295 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:11,240 Speaker 2: and maybe you won't, but we are done. 296 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:13,679 Speaker 6: I shot people downkind I don't want people to stop 297 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:14,400 Speaker 6: shooting their shot. 298 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 4: So I try really hard to like all good, like 299 00:12:17,280 --> 00:12:18,960 Speaker 4: you know what I mean, I'm really flattered. 300 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 2: And the same is true with women to men, like 301 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 2: shoot your shot, be empowered, ask for what you want. Really, 302 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 2: but if you don't get a response, or if the 303 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 2: response isn't what you want, then. 304 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 1: Then then we're done and you did it and we're good. 305 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 2: But then when it starts to get into this debate 306 00:12:34,760 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 2: or when it's like no, but really change your mind 307 00:12:36,760 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 2: and stuff. It's like, oh, boyd now hold on, like, 308 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 2: don't do that to yourself. 309 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:40,680 Speaker 1: Okay. 310 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 2: If someone doesn't think that you're there for you or whatever, 311 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:47,280 Speaker 2: you're for them or whatever, then that's their loss and 312 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 2: we move right on and we shoot our shots to 313 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 2: the next person. Hey, Gabby, Gabby, did you what did 314 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:56,559 Speaker 2: you do? You look somebody up? What is this sort 315 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:58,199 Speaker 2: of creepy method that you used? 316 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 8: Now that I think got it? This creepy. But a 317 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 8: couple of years ago, I used to work for a 318 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:07,360 Speaker 8: bank and I had a really good conversation with a guy, 319 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:10,520 Speaker 8: like he was just there for like a good fifteen minutes, 320 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 8: and when he left, I was like, man, like, that 321 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:17,840 Speaker 8: was such a good conversation. I should have just giggled 322 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:20,800 Speaker 8: my number. And then I didn't, so I still had 323 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 8: his profile up and I'm like, boy, I'm gonna shoot 324 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:28,079 Speaker 8: my shot and I did, and it was so weird 325 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:31,120 Speaker 8: because I was like, why did I do that? He 326 00:13:31,200 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 8: ended up texting me back and he goes, well, this 327 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:37,080 Speaker 8: is like my dad's phone number or something, and my 328 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 8: dad told me and I was like so embarrassed. But 329 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 8: actually it worked because we ended up going to a 330 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:46,199 Speaker 8: couple of dates after that. But now that I look back, 331 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 8: I'm like, yeah, that was really weird for me to do. 332 00:13:50,240 --> 00:13:52,600 Speaker 2: Technically, you could have gotten fired for that, right, because 333 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:57,280 Speaker 2: you were using someone's personal information for your personal game. True. 334 00:13:57,480 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 8: Yes, I guess there was like kind of like a line. 335 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:03,079 Speaker 1: Of boundary, but it works, so no harm, no foul, right. 336 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:04,679 Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean he could have like, I mean, he 337 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:06,760 Speaker 8: could have been like he could have been married or 338 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 8: something with kids and like at the end of the day, 339 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 8: like it could have been his wife who came to 340 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:11,839 Speaker 8: the bank and been like, who is this? 341 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:13,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, it could have been bad. 342 00:14:13,720 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 2: But I suppose you could have disguised it as oh, no, 343 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:17,839 Speaker 2: I was it's my job. I was checking up on 344 00:14:17,880 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 2: his experience or something like, you know, I was making 345 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 2: sure or hey he forgot something. You could have made 346 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 2: something up that was like official business. 347 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 8: Yes, yes, I mean, okay, it ended up well, but yeah, 348 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 8: definitely very odd. 349 00:14:31,560 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 2: Tell you well, fair enough, thank you, Gabby, and you're welcome, 350 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 2: have a good day. 351 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:37,080 Speaker 1: What someone do. 352 00:14:38,840 --> 00:14:42,120 Speaker 2: Memorizing people's schedules to make sure that at work when 353 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 2: you stop in is the creepy way. 354 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 1: I don't know. I say, is that is it? 355 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 2: I mean, I suppose by definition, but like, am I 356 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 2: being that? The part that the part that people seem 357 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 2: to miss is am I being creepy? Like am I 358 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 2: actually being great? 359 00:14:56,960 --> 00:14:57,160 Speaker 1: Yes? 360 00:14:57,200 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 2: That is kind of creepy, I suppose, But am I 361 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 2: being creepy? Am I going every time? Or is it 362 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 2: just like, hey, I know she's here on Thursdays, I'm 363 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:05,280 Speaker 2: stopping in. 364 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:07,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, every time would be a little much, but like. 365 00:15:07,280 --> 00:15:09,880 Speaker 2: I'm there if she works two to seven and I'm 366 00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:12,000 Speaker 2: there at one fifty nine every. 367 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:13,360 Speaker 1: Day staring at right right. 368 00:15:15,320 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 6: My friend, one of my guy friends, met a girl 369 00:15:18,520 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 6: at a wedding and it was an out of town 370 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 6: wedding and her parents were also there, and he remembered 371 00:15:23,720 --> 00:15:27,360 Speaker 6: when she just said her room number, and. 372 00:15:27,440 --> 00:15:28,600 Speaker 4: Which is very creepy. 373 00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 6: He was very drunk and knocked on the door and 374 00:15:32,000 --> 00:15:33,880 Speaker 6: she was saying her parents' room number. 375 00:15:33,960 --> 00:15:37,040 Speaker 4: Her daddy answered no, no shirt on and chased him 376 00:15:37,040 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 4: down the hallway because he was like looking for her 377 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:41,720 Speaker 4: in there. You can't do that. You can't listen to 378 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:43,360 Speaker 4: somebody's room number and knock on the door. 379 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 2: This was a lot of years ago in our different town, 380 00:15:45,600 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 2: but it is I was messing around with the girl, 381 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 2: and it was kind of more like a situation ship 382 00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:53,000 Speaker 2: before they called it that way back in the day. 383 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 2: And she was a bank teller, and I never went 384 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 2: to the bank where I didn't even know. I knew, 385 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 2: I knew which bank, I know she worked, I didn't 386 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:03,200 Speaker 2: know which location. So this kind of goes on for 387 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 2: a while, and then it stops and I'm through drive 388 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:07,680 Speaker 2: through bank and I drive through the bank and there 389 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 2: she is. She's the teller, and I was like making 390 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:11,800 Speaker 2: a deposit or something. I'm like, oh, hey, whatever, your 391 00:16:11,880 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 2: name is whatever, and then we do the deal, and 392 00:16:13,960 --> 00:16:15,280 Speaker 2: she kind of looks at me, and we do the 393 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 2: deal and then I leave and then I get this 394 00:16:16,880 --> 00:16:21,120 Speaker 2: text from her. You know you sob you terrible person. 395 00:16:21,200 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 2: You didn't tell me you were married. I cannot believe you. 396 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 2: You know, I've been having an affair this whole time. 397 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 2: I knew you, I knew that it was whatever. I go, 398 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 2: what are you talking about? Well, I've had the same 399 00:16:31,640 --> 00:16:33,880 Speaker 2: bank account since I was eight years old. My mom 400 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 2: is a co signer, or was a co signer, and 401 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:38,800 Speaker 2: we have the same last name because I have her 402 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:41,360 Speaker 2: maiden name is my legal last name. So she saw 403 00:16:41,440 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 2: my mom's name on my bank account and thought that 404 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 2: was my wife and lost your mind. I go, one, 405 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:51,520 Speaker 2: why you snoop it through my profile? And two, this 406 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:52,880 Speaker 2: is why we don't make assumptions. 407 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 1: It's my mom. My wife has a different last name.