WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Treadmill Fail

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels Second Date Update. Today's Second Date Update is

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<v Speaker 1>one of those days where you get an email in

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<v Speaker 1>and it's so interesting that you just want to find

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<v Speaker 1>out what happened. We got an email into the show

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<v Speaker 1>from a dude named Michael, and all that says is

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<v Speaker 1>that he met a girl at the gym and tried

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<v Speaker 1>to think of an interesting way to introduce himself and

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<v Speaker 1>it almost ended up in the hospital. WHOA, So I

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<v Speaker 1>want to know what happened? What's up, Michael? How are

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<v Speaker 1>you good? How you doing? I think you succeeded in

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<v Speaker 1>the interesting category because everybody wants to know. Okay, um,

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<v Speaker 1>should I just tell you maybe tell us about the

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<v Speaker 1>girl a little bit. What's her name? Her name is Brittany,

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, I met her at the gym. And had

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<v Speaker 1>you seen her a couple of times? Or was this

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<v Speaker 1>the first time running into her at the gym? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen her for a while and she's like incredibly beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>And I mean I listened to you guys show a

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<v Speaker 1>lot and they know a lot of people are you know,

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<v Speaker 1>say that they've dating this beautiful girl and that. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think that this girl is probably like next level,

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<v Speaker 1>like beyond anything. Are you trying to brag right now?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you just excited? I'm not trying to rag since

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<v Speaker 1>she's not calling you back obviously. Okay, all right, So

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<v Speaker 1>as you tried to talk to her before the incident

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<v Speaker 1>that almost put you in the hospital, No, I hadn't.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is like I've seen a lot of guys

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<v Speaker 1>try to talk to her like walk up, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>try to whatever, and she's not rude, but just like

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<v Speaker 1>gets rid of them, you know, is always just like

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<v Speaker 1>keeps serve self to herself. Oh my god, you have

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<v Speaker 1>been stalking this girl to Jim, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>it's stalking. She's hard not to notice and anyway, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's what I've seen. So I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be one of those guys. I didn't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>just the next in line to strike out. So I

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<v Speaker 1>was like just trying to think of something I could

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<v Speaker 1>do to ideally make her laugh, which seems like the

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<v Speaker 1>best way to get a girl interested, you know, absolutely, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right on with it. So what do you do?

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<v Speaker 1>You you fart on the treadmill next to her. No,

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<v Speaker 1>what I did was she was on the treadmill and

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<v Speaker 1>while she was working up. I jumped on the treadmill

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<v Speaker 1>and started running behind her. Yeah, and I was like, oh, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't see you there. Maybe you can go a

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<v Speaker 1>little faster. That's great, that's so funny. That's dangerous. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I like, dude, this treadmill is not big enough for

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<v Speaker 1>you to be right behind me. Yeah. I would have

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<v Speaker 1>to think scary for her as well. This is weirdo

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<v Speaker 1>doing funny. I thought it was really funny, but her

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<v Speaker 1>first reaction was definitely a little scared. Yeah, and I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like flipped around and turned backwards. So I

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<v Speaker 1>got my back door running, you know. Um, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was just being funny. I thought, you know, it

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<v Speaker 1>was gonna be cool. But our feet got tangled. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>and we both like went flying. What a fail? And

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<v Speaker 1>you were able to still somehow score a date with

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<v Speaker 1>her after this? Yeah, well that's the crazy part. So,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she was super pissed and I had to

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<v Speaker 1>like talk to the gym supervisor. I got a warning,

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<v Speaker 1>and I mean it was like pretty disastrous. But when

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<v Speaker 1>I went outside, like fifteen minutes later, she was standing

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<v Speaker 1>there and she was kind of like, you know, she

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<v Speaker 1>was up that she thought she was like I could

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<v Speaker 1>have gotten hurt, and she was right, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry about the way I did it, but I

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<v Speaker 1>did it because I think you're really pretty and I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know how to talk to you, and yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of sweet. Well it obviously got her too. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe she fell for it. But okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know she fell for it. Maybe maybe I got

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<v Speaker 1>the a for effort. I don't know, but I basically

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<v Speaker 1>was like, let's just let me buy you a drink.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go, let's go, like, you know, hang out for

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<v Speaker 1>a minute. And she agreed. So we ended up going

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<v Speaker 1>to the bar down the street and it was really nice.

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<v Speaker 1>But after like thirty minutes, she looked at her phone

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<v Speaker 1>and was like, you know, I really got to go,

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<v Speaker 1>and she left and that was it. And now I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, she won't text me back, she's ghosting me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know what to do, no idea why.

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<v Speaker 1>I really don't. I mean, like I would have understood,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, before she didn't want to talk to me.

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<v Speaker 1>We kind of like had a moment. We went out

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<v Speaker 1>and it was like going somewhere, And that's why I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so baffled. I really don't know what happened. Yeah, she

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<v Speaker 1>still went out with you after maybe risking a concussion

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<v Speaker 1>or broken bone or something, and then all of a

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<v Speaker 1>sudden at your date, she just ghosts. That's weird. So wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't seen her at the gym either. Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen her there. It's been a week and

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<v Speaker 1>she's not been there like the times that I've been there. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she definitely had switched up her gym schedule because she

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't want to see you. Yeah, what do you do? Man? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the fact that I almost kill her might

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<v Speaker 1>be it. Yeah, I guess you're right. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, and then call her

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<v Speaker 1>and get your second day up date. Thank you, hang

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<v Speaker 1>on brooking jubil in the morning date if you're just

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<v Speaker 1>joining us for today's second date. Update. This dude name

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<v Speaker 1>Michael is on the phone and he wants to call Brittany,

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<v Speaker 1>and he almost killed Brittany at the gym, and now

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<v Speaker 1>he's wondering why he's not getting a call back. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not quite that serious, but he did see Brittany at

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<v Speaker 1>the gym for a long time, a girl that he

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to talk to, and Finally, one day, he got

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<v Speaker 1>up the nerve and thought he'd be funny, so he

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<v Speaker 1>jumped on the treadmill at the same time, I started

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<v Speaker 1>to try to be creative, ended up falling off and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>But did go out on a date, and then shortly

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<v Speaker 1>endo that date, she just ended it and took off,

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<v Speaker 1>like half an hour in and he hasn't heard from

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<v Speaker 1>her since. See. I feel like, Michael, you were expecting

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<v Speaker 1>too much. I think this was actually a pity date

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<v Speaker 1>by Brittany. What I mean. Granted, you're the one that

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<v Speaker 1>injured her, but it's a weird thing that women do

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<v Speaker 1>when we're like, oh, but he feels bad, so I

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<v Speaker 1>feel bad for him, and I don't want him to

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<v Speaker 1>feel bad. I don't think it was a total pitty date.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, I have something to offer, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>But this point, I'm just like trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>why she's ghost to me. It just doesn't make any

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<v Speaker 1>sense to me, you know, to go out with me

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<v Speaker 1>and then just like bail like that. All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>Dollar phone him right now. I'll get her on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and see if we can find out what happened. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Brittany please, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is she. Hey Brittany, how are you? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>have you ever heard of it before? Ever heard of

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<v Speaker 1>what before? Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm not sure?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, it sounds like you just woke up. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you tired? Yes? I'm sorry about that. Well, so we're

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<v Speaker 1>calling you because we actually got an email from one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners who asked us to call you. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>still not registering, is it? Well? No, I'm I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>in tregue. Okay. His name is Michael. Oh all right,

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<v Speaker 1>and you met Michael at the gym recently, yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you went out with Michael on a date

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<v Speaker 1>after and left pretty quick into it and you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>contacted him since. That is correct? Okay? Cool. Well, Michael

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us because he wants to know what went wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh well, I mean it was just like I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>really sure how I felt, you know, I just couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>really deal deal with it. First dates are weird, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>so did you? This was my theory? Okay. My theory

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<v Speaker 1>is is that you went out with him as a

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<v Speaker 1>pity date because he told us about the whole treadmill

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<v Speaker 1>fiasco where he injured both you and him. Initially it

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<v Speaker 1>kind of was, you know, I'm like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>such a weird guy and all I I'll just go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him and get him off my back. But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I'm not really sure how I feel

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<v Speaker 1>about him, and I felt really awkward. I had to

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<v Speaker 1>leave during the wait during the drinks that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>were having, you felt awkward. Yeah, I'm I'm still like

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<v Speaker 1>kind of going through like a break up, if you will,

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<v Speaker 1>sort of. I'm kind of sensitive. So it was going

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<v Speaker 1>really well, and I'm just so surprised that I liked him,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, And I don't know if I'm ready to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, move forward with a guy that I might like.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know, I'm just sort of a mess

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<v Speaker 1>right now em emotionally. But you can tell that you

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<v Speaker 1>liked him that much just from that experience. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>like had a lot in common, and like we started

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<v Speaker 1>like finishing each other's sentences, and yeah, I just I

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<v Speaker 1>was taken aback at how like attracted to him. I

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<v Speaker 1>became throughout just like that half hour, and the feelings

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<v Speaker 1>were kind of overwhelming. That I was. I had to

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<v Speaker 1>excuse myself. Wait how long? How long have you are? Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you single right now? Are you still in a relationship? Oh? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I am single, but like I had a fiance and

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<v Speaker 1>it was very messy and it's only been about five

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<v Speaker 1>six months or so, and I just I promised myself

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<v Speaker 1>that I wouldn't date anyone for at least a year

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<v Speaker 1>to really get over this guy, you know, to be

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<v Speaker 1>fully open and available for a new relationship, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be fair to Michael, you know, to be in um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, to date someone when I'm like this, so

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<v Speaker 1>you can still do stuff with him, you know. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good way to get over a breakup. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the thing I'm you know, I felt like this

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<v Speaker 1>could be a really special guy in my life and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really not ready for that. So I really need, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a year to heal and be available. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's only been about six months or so. So okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you just wanted to tell him, he just wants

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<v Speaker 1>to tell him that he's got to wait six months

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<v Speaker 1>if she wants another date. Kind of probably, I feel like,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that is so emotionally responsible of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. Yeah, you know, you really are aware of

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<v Speaker 1>where you're at in the healing process. And this guy's

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<v Speaker 1>obviously not just a rebound guy, correct, And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if he feels that way about me

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<v Speaker 1>or anything. And I'm just like, whoa, this is happening

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<v Speaker 1>way too fast, and so I don't know, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>little embarrassing. But oh that's so sweet. Well I was saying,

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<v Speaker 1>we could tell him that, and I think you could

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<v Speaker 1>probably just do it yourself though, because he's actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're not serious, Are you serious, Michael Brittany, How

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<v Speaker 1>are you feeling? Sorry about that? Awkward laugh? I that's

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<v Speaker 1>not fair. I didn't know you were on the line.

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<v Speaker 1>I wow. I mean, I'm just like blown away right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I really just thought that you didn't want to see

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<v Speaker 1>me again. I current believe. I'm really sorry. I just

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't really know how to process everything that was

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<v Speaker 1>going on. And you know, obviously now you know everything

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<v Speaker 1>I've been going through. So it's just you know, I'm sorry. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she wants to see you again, just in six months.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I hear what you're saying, and that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 1>But at the same time, it's like, i'd really like

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<v Speaker 1>to see you again, and if you had a good

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<v Speaker 1>time and feel the same way about me, it's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of crazy not to at least hang out, you know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I don't think it would be fair to

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<v Speaker 1>you either, because I'm not, you know, completely one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>percent there yet I'd still be thinking about my ex

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<v Speaker 1>and you know not, you know, I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>bring any like crap from that relationship into this. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's just I'm trying to be responsible and careful with,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, my emotions. For sure. I hear what you're saying.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really good that you're like processing that. At the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, though, it's like so rare that you meet somebody.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I really feel like, I mean, you're like

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<v Speaker 1>the most beautiful girl I've ever met, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>after talking to you, and like your heart is like

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<v Speaker 1>even more beautiful on the inside. I mean, I just, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that was the best compliment ever. Yeah, oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's that's really beautiful and I appreciate that, and I

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<v Speaker 1>would love to say yes, I just I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it's a good idea right now. And and like you said,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not you know, every day you meet someone so special,

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<v Speaker 1>so like I'll still you know, if we're still there

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<v Speaker 1>for each other in five six months or whatever. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, cool, Brinnan, Look you've heard everybody swooning about

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<v Speaker 1>how hearts and love and all that stuff beautiful. It is,

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<v Speaker 1>in fact that beautiful. Don't you think you should just

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<v Speaker 1>go for it? I see your point, It's just I

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<v Speaker 1>think that'll be too messy. I need more time to

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<v Speaker 1>to heal and be confident and figure out like who

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<v Speaker 1>I am as a person, and I was in a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship for a long time. Right, one last question, And

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard what you said. You said you're not interested

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<v Speaker 1>until you feel like you've healed enough. But would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go with Michael on a second day? We'll

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it, Brittany, Before you answer, I know you've

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<v Speaker 1>said no to me and them asking like a whole bunch,

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<v Speaker 1>but just please think about it. I mean, I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to say that if we had that much of

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<v Speaker 1>a connection after thirty minutes of hanging out, it just

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<v Speaker 1>seems crazy to me to risk throwing that away, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you check a couple of weeks and heal

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<v Speaker 1>and then maybe we can get together. Yeah. Yeah, listen

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<v Speaker 1>to him, Brittany. I mean, there's no such thing as

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<v Speaker 1>good timing. These things always happen when you least want

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<v Speaker 1>them too. No, I hear you, guys, and I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just I promised myself a year. I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>the you know, a good timeline to feel better, and

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<v Speaker 1>so I just have to, you know, regretfully decline. Yeah, Brittany,

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think you're making a big mistake because,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, as somebody who's gone through a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>breakups and always promise myself at the end of those

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<v Speaker 1>that I would wait a certain amount of time. I've

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<v Speaker 1>always jumped in, like into another relationship at about the

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<v Speaker 1>six month mark, and you are missing You might be

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<v Speaker 1>missing out on a really awesome breakup. Wait, yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say. A jewel is such a good

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<v Speaker 1>example of healthy relationships in this world. I fully support you, Brittany,

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<v Speaker 1>stick it out, stick to your guns. Yeah, thanks for that, Michael,

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<v Speaker 1>keep my phone number, and like, in six months, we

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<v Speaker 1>can see what happened. You know, we can still see

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<v Speaker 1>each other at the gym. Maybe. Oh man, that's too bad. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I will definitely call you in a few months. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>she said, six, not a few, stick to the rule. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>broken jew in the morning, getting lots of texts and

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<v Speaker 1>at seven eighty five to nine two that are kind

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<v Speaker 1>of surprising everybody's saying the girl from today's second date

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<v Speaker 1>update was just giving him a line. If you missed

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<v Speaker 1>today a second date update, Michael wanted to call Brittany.

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<v Speaker 1>They met at the gym, they hung out for a

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<v Speaker 1>little while, then she left the date and hadn't talked

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<v Speaker 1>to him. Well, we got her on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>she said that he was amazing, Yeah, that she liked

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<v Speaker 1>everything about him, but she felt a strong connection, but

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<v Speaker 1>that she also just got out of a relationship and

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<v Speaker 1>was giving herself a year to be single before she

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<v Speaker 1>got back into her relationship, so she wasn't ready to

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<v Speaker 1>date yet and he could contact her in six months. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe they could go out again. I mean, she

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<v Speaker 1>had been engaged, and she said it was a messy breakup,

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<v Speaker 1>and then it had been six months since they broken up.

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<v Speaker 1>But she did start out the description of the date

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<v Speaker 1>saying it started as a pity date. Yeah, she did

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<v Speaker 1>say that, you know, I thought so too. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, good for her for not caving if that's

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<v Speaker 1>what she thinks she really needs. But that is, it's

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<v Speaker 1>an interesting wrinkle that I didn't think of. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we were being naive. I don't know what the

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<v Speaker 1>thing now, Maybe we were being naive. Or maybe our

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<v Speaker 1>listening audience is very cynical. Yeah, that could be, and

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that. Or just the world in general is like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, that's a line. Nobody waits that long before

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<v Speaker 1>they get into a relationship. They meet somebody they really like,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll throw caution to the wind and you'll get back

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<v Speaker 1>into a relationship. She's full of craps. She didn't like you.

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<v Speaker 1>Either that or it's just a really good explanation of

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<v Speaker 1>why there's so many dysfunctional relationships out there. Right, that's true. Remember,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to do a Seconday up, they don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to do is email the show and we will

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<v Speaker 1>call the person who didn't call you back.