Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels Second Date Update. Today's Second Date Update is
Speaker 1: one of those days where you get an email in
Speaker 1: and it's so interesting that you just want to find
Speaker 1: out what happened. We got an email into the show
Speaker 1: from a dude named Michael, and all that says is
Speaker 1: that he met a girl at the gym and tried
Speaker 1: to think of an interesting way to introduce himself and
Speaker 1: it almost ended up in the hospital. WHOA, So I
Speaker 1: want to know what happened? What's up, Michael? How are
Speaker 1: you good? How you doing? I think you succeeded in
Speaker 1: the interesting category because everybody wants to know. Okay, um,
Speaker 1: should I just tell you maybe tell us about the
Speaker 1: girl a little bit. What's her name? Her name is Brittany,
Speaker 1: And yeah, I met her at the gym. And had
Speaker 1: you seen her a couple of times? Or was this
Speaker 1: the first time running into her at the gym? No,
Speaker 1: I've seen her for a while and she's like incredibly beautiful.
Speaker 1: And I mean I listened to you guys show a
Speaker 1: lot and they know a lot of people are you know,
Speaker 1: say that they've dating this beautiful girl and that. But
Speaker 1: I think that this girl is probably like next level,
Speaker 1: like beyond anything. Are you trying to brag right now?
Speaker 1: Are you just excited? I'm not trying to rag since
Speaker 1: she's not calling you back obviously. Okay, all right, So
Speaker 1: as you tried to talk to her before the incident
Speaker 1: that almost put you in the hospital, No, I hadn't.
Speaker 1: The thing is like I've seen a lot of guys
Speaker 1: try to talk to her like walk up, you know,
Speaker 1: try to whatever, and she's not rude, but just like
Speaker 1: gets rid of them, you know, is always just like
Speaker 1: keeps serve self to herself. Oh my god, you have
Speaker 1: been stalking this girl to Jim, I don't know if
Speaker 1: it's stalking. She's hard not to notice and anyway, but
Speaker 1: that's that's what I've seen. So I didn't want to
Speaker 1: be one of those guys. I didn't want to be
Speaker 1: just the next in line to strike out. So I
Speaker 1: was like just trying to think of something I could
Speaker 1: do to ideally make her laugh, which seems like the
Speaker 1: best way to get a girl interested, you know, absolutely, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're right on with it. So what do you do?
Speaker 1: You you fart on the treadmill next to her. No,
Speaker 1: what I did was she was on the treadmill and
Speaker 1: while she was working up. I jumped on the treadmill
Speaker 1: and started running behind her. Yeah, and I was like, oh, sorry,
Speaker 1: I didn't see you there. Maybe you can go a
Speaker 1: little faster. That's great, that's so funny. That's dangerous. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I like, dude, this treadmill is not big enough for
Speaker 1: you to be right behind me. Yeah. I would have
Speaker 1: to think scary for her as well. This is weirdo
Speaker 1: doing funny. I thought it was really funny, but her
Speaker 1: first reaction was definitely a little scared. Yeah, and I
Speaker 1: kind of like flipped around and turned backwards. So I
Speaker 1: got my back door running, you know. Um, and you know,
Speaker 1: I was just being funny. I thought, you know, it
Speaker 1: was gonna be cool. But our feet got tangled. Oh
Speaker 1: and we both like went flying. What a fail? And
Speaker 1: you were able to still somehow score a date with
Speaker 1: her after this? Yeah, well that's the crazy part. So,
Speaker 1: I mean she was super pissed and I had to
Speaker 1: like talk to the gym supervisor. I got a warning,
Speaker 1: and I mean it was like pretty disastrous. But when
Speaker 1: I went outside, like fifteen minutes later, she was standing
Speaker 1: there and she was kind of like, you know, she
Speaker 1: was up that she thought she was like I could
Speaker 1: have gotten hurt, and she was right, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry about the way I did it, but I
Speaker 1: did it because I think you're really pretty and I
Speaker 1: didn't know how to talk to you, and yeah, that's
Speaker 1: kind of sweet. Well it obviously got her too. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I can't believe she fell for it. But okay, I
Speaker 1: don't know she fell for it. Maybe maybe I got
Speaker 1: the a for effort. I don't know, but I basically
Speaker 1: was like, let's just let me buy you a drink.
Speaker 1: Let's go, let's go, like, you know, hang out for
Speaker 1: a minute. And she agreed. So we ended up going
Speaker 1: to the bar down the street and it was really nice.
Speaker 1: But after like thirty minutes, she looked at her phone
Speaker 1: and was like, you know, I really got to go,
Speaker 1: and she left and that was it. And now I'm like,
Speaker 1: you know, she won't text me back, she's ghosting me,
Speaker 1: and I don't know what to do, no idea why.
Speaker 1: I really don't. I mean, like I would have understood,
Speaker 1: you know, before she didn't want to talk to me.
Speaker 1: We kind of like had a moment. We went out
Speaker 1: and it was like going somewhere, And that's why I'm
Speaker 1: so baffled. I really don't know what happened. Yeah, she
Speaker 1: still went out with you after maybe risking a concussion
Speaker 1: or broken bone or something, and then all of a
Speaker 1: sudden at your date, she just ghosts. That's weird. So wait,
Speaker 1: you haven't seen her at the gym either. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I haven't seen her there. It's been a week and
Speaker 1: she's not been there like the times that I've been there. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: she definitely had switched up her gym schedule because she
Speaker 1: doesn't want to see you. Yeah, what do you do? Man? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean the fact that I almost kill her might
Speaker 1: be it. Yeah, I guess you're right. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, and then call her
Speaker 1: and get your second day up date. Thank you, hang
Speaker 1: on brooking jubil in the morning date if you're just
Speaker 1: joining us for today's second date. Update. This dude name
Speaker 1: Michael is on the phone and he wants to call Brittany,
Speaker 1: and he almost killed Brittany at the gym, and now
Speaker 1: he's wondering why he's not getting a call back. It's
Speaker 1: not quite that serious, but he did see Brittany at
Speaker 1: the gym for a long time, a girl that he
Speaker 1: wanted to talk to, and Finally, one day, he got
Speaker 1: up the nerve and thought he'd be funny, so he
Speaker 1: jumped on the treadmill at the same time, I started
Speaker 1: to try to be creative, ended up falling off and everything.
Speaker 1: But did go out on a date, and then shortly
Speaker 1: endo that date, she just ended it and took off,
Speaker 1: like half an hour in and he hasn't heard from
Speaker 1: her since. See. I feel like, Michael, you were expecting
Speaker 1: too much. I think this was actually a pity date
Speaker 1: by Brittany. What I mean. Granted, you're the one that
Speaker 1: injured her, but it's a weird thing that women do
Speaker 1: when we're like, oh, but he feels bad, so I
Speaker 1: feel bad for him, and I don't want him to
Speaker 1: feel bad. I don't think it was a total pitty date.
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I have something to offer, I think,
Speaker 1: But this point, I'm just like trying to figure out
Speaker 1: why she's ghost to me. It just doesn't make any
Speaker 1: sense to me, you know, to go out with me
Speaker 1: and then just like bail like that. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: Dollar phone him right now. I'll get her on the
Speaker 1: phone and see if we can find out what happened. Okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Brittany please, yeah,
Speaker 1: this is she. Hey Brittany, how are you? This is
Speaker 1: Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: have you ever heard of it before? Ever heard of
Speaker 1: what before? Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm not sure?
Speaker 1: All right, it sounds like you just woke up. Are
Speaker 1: you tired? Yes? I'm sorry about that. Well, so we're
Speaker 1: calling you because we actually got an email from one
Speaker 1: of our listeners who asked us to call you. Okay,
Speaker 1: still not registering, is it? Well? No, I'm I'm I'm
Speaker 1: in tregue. Okay. His name is Michael. Oh all right,
Speaker 1: and you met Michael at the gym recently, yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: and then you went out with Michael on a date
Speaker 1: after and left pretty quick into it and you haven't
Speaker 1: contacted him since. That is correct? Okay? Cool. Well, Michael
Speaker 1: emailed us because he wants to know what went wrong.
Speaker 1: Oh well, I mean it was just like I wasn't
Speaker 1: really sure how I felt, you know, I just couldn't
Speaker 1: really deal deal with it. First dates are weird, you know,
Speaker 1: so did you? This was my theory? Okay. My theory
Speaker 1: is is that you went out with him as a
Speaker 1: pity date because he told us about the whole treadmill
Speaker 1: fiasco where he injured both you and him. Initially it
Speaker 1: kind of was, you know, I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: such a weird guy and all I I'll just go
Speaker 1: out with him and get him off my back. But
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm not really sure how I feel
Speaker 1: about him, and I felt really awkward. I had to
Speaker 1: leave during the wait during the drinks that you guys
Speaker 1: were having, you felt awkward. Yeah, I'm I'm still like
Speaker 1: kind of going through like a break up, if you will,
Speaker 1: sort of. I'm kind of sensitive. So it was going
Speaker 1: really well, and I'm just so surprised that I liked him,
Speaker 1: you know, And I don't know if I'm ready to,
Speaker 1: you know, move forward with a guy that I might like.
Speaker 1: And I don't know, I'm just sort of a mess
Speaker 1: right now em emotionally. But you can tell that you
Speaker 1: liked him that much just from that experience. Yeah, we
Speaker 1: like had a lot in common, and like we started
Speaker 1: like finishing each other's sentences, and yeah, I just I
Speaker 1: was taken aback at how like attracted to him. I
Speaker 1: became throughout just like that half hour, and the feelings
Speaker 1: were kind of overwhelming. That I was. I had to
Speaker 1: excuse myself. Wait how long? How long have you are? Wait?
Speaker 1: Are you single right now? Are you still in a relationship? Oh? No,
Speaker 1: I am single, but like I had a fiance and
Speaker 1: it was very messy and it's only been about five
Speaker 1: six months or so, and I just I promised myself
Speaker 1: that I wouldn't date anyone for at least a year
Speaker 1: to really get over this guy, you know, to be
Speaker 1: fully open and available for a new relationship, and you know,
Speaker 1: wouldn't be fair to Michael, you know, to be in um,
Speaker 1: you know, to date someone when I'm like this, so
Speaker 1: you can still do stuff with him, you know. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's a good way to get over a breakup. Well,
Speaker 1: that's the thing I'm you know, I felt like this
Speaker 1: could be a really special guy in my life and
Speaker 1: I'm really not ready for that. So I really need, like,
Speaker 1: you know, a year to heal and be available. And
Speaker 1: it's only been about six months or so. So okay,
Speaker 1: So you just wanted to tell him, he just wants
Speaker 1: to tell him that he's got to wait six months
Speaker 1: if she wants another date. Kind of probably, I feel like,
Speaker 1: I feel like that is so emotionally responsible of you.
Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah, you know, you really are aware of
Speaker 1: where you're at in the healing process. And this guy's
Speaker 1: obviously not just a rebound guy, correct, And you know,
Speaker 1: I don't know if he feels that way about me
Speaker 1: or anything. And I'm just like, whoa, this is happening
Speaker 1: way too fast, and so I don't know, it's a
Speaker 1: little embarrassing. But oh that's so sweet. Well I was saying,
Speaker 1: we could tell him that, and I think you could
Speaker 1: probably just do it yourself though, because he's actually on
Speaker 1: the other line listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1: If you're not serious, Are you serious, Michael Brittany, How
Speaker 1: are you feeling? Sorry about that? Awkward laugh? I that's
Speaker 1: not fair. I didn't know you were on the line.
Speaker 1: I wow. I mean, I'm just like blown away right now.
Speaker 1: I really just thought that you didn't want to see
Speaker 1: me again. I current believe. I'm really sorry. I just
Speaker 1: I didn't really know how to process everything that was
Speaker 1: going on. And you know, obviously now you know everything
Speaker 1: I've been going through. So it's just you know, I'm sorry. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she wants to see you again, just in six months.
Speaker 1: I mean, I hear what you're saying, and that makes sense.
Speaker 1: But at the same time, it's like, i'd really like
Speaker 1: to see you again, and if you had a good
Speaker 1: time and feel the same way about me, it's kind
Speaker 1: of crazy not to at least hang out, you know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just I don't think it would be fair to
Speaker 1: you either, because I'm not, you know, completely one hundred
Speaker 1: percent there yet I'd still be thinking about my ex
Speaker 1: and you know not, you know, I don't want to
Speaker 1: bring any like crap from that relationship into this. So
Speaker 1: it's just I'm trying to be responsible and careful with,
Speaker 1: you know, my emotions. For sure. I hear what you're saying.
Speaker 1: That's really good that you're like processing that. At the
Speaker 1: same time, though, it's like so rare that you meet somebody.
Speaker 1: I mean, I really feel like, I mean, you're like
Speaker 1: the most beautiful girl I've ever met, and you know,
Speaker 1: after talking to you, and like your heart is like
Speaker 1: even more beautiful on the inside. I mean, I just, oh,
Speaker 1: I mean, that was the best compliment ever. Yeah, oh no,
Speaker 1: that's that's really beautiful and I appreciate that, and I
Speaker 1: would love to say yes, I just I don't think
Speaker 1: it's a good idea right now. And and like you said,
Speaker 1: it's not you know, every day you meet someone so special,
Speaker 1: so like I'll still you know, if we're still there
Speaker 1: for each other in five six months or whatever. I
Speaker 1: was like, cool, Brinnan, Look you've heard everybody swooning about
Speaker 1: how hearts and love and all that stuff beautiful. It is,
Speaker 1: in fact that beautiful. Don't you think you should just
Speaker 1: go for it? I see your point, It's just I
Speaker 1: think that'll be too messy. I need more time to
Speaker 1: to heal and be confident and figure out like who
Speaker 1: I am as a person, and I was in a
Speaker 1: relationship for a long time. Right, one last question, And
Speaker 1: I've heard what you said. You said you're not interested
Speaker 1: until you feel like you've healed enough. But would you
Speaker 1: like to go with Michael on a second day? We'll
Speaker 1: pay for it, Brittany, Before you answer, I know you've
Speaker 1: said no to me and them asking like a whole bunch,
Speaker 1: but just please think about it. I mean, I just
Speaker 1: want to say that if we had that much of
Speaker 1: a connection after thirty minutes of hanging out, it just
Speaker 1: seems crazy to me to risk throwing that away, Like,
Speaker 1: why don't you check a couple of weeks and heal
Speaker 1: and then maybe we can get together. Yeah. Yeah, listen
Speaker 1: to him, Brittany. I mean, there's no such thing as
Speaker 1: good timing. These things always happen when you least want
Speaker 1: them too. No, I hear you, guys, and I appreciate it.
Speaker 1: It's just I promised myself a year. I think that's
Speaker 1: the you know, a good timeline to feel better, and
Speaker 1: so I just have to, you know, regretfully decline. Yeah, Brittany,
Speaker 1: I think I think you're making a big mistake because,
Speaker 1: you know, as somebody who's gone through a lot of
Speaker 1: breakups and always promise myself at the end of those
Speaker 1: that I would wait a certain amount of time. I've
Speaker 1: always jumped in, like into another relationship at about the
Speaker 1: six month mark, and you are missing You might be
Speaker 1: missing out on a really awesome breakup. Wait, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say. A jewel is such a good
Speaker 1: example of healthy relationships in this world. I fully support you, Brittany,
Speaker 1: stick it out, stick to your guns. Yeah, thanks for that, Michael,
Speaker 1: keep my phone number, and like, in six months, we
Speaker 1: can see what happened. You know, we can still see
Speaker 1: each other at the gym. Maybe. Oh man, that's too bad. Well,
Speaker 1: I will definitely call you in a few months. Oh,
Speaker 1: she said, six, not a few, stick to the rule. Yeah,
Speaker 1: broken jew in the morning, getting lots of texts and
Speaker 1: at seven eighty five to nine two that are kind
Speaker 1: of surprising everybody's saying the girl from today's second date
Speaker 1: update was just giving him a line. If you missed
Speaker 1: today a second date update, Michael wanted to call Brittany.
Speaker 1: They met at the gym, they hung out for a
Speaker 1: little while, then she left the date and hadn't talked
Speaker 1: to him. Well, we got her on the phone and
Speaker 1: she said that he was amazing, Yeah, that she liked
Speaker 1: everything about him, but she felt a strong connection, but
Speaker 1: that she also just got out of a relationship and
Speaker 1: was giving herself a year to be single before she
Speaker 1: got back into her relationship, so she wasn't ready to
Speaker 1: date yet and he could contact her in six months. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and maybe they could go out again. I mean, she
Speaker 1: had been engaged, and she said it was a messy breakup,
Speaker 1: and then it had been six months since they broken up.
Speaker 1: But she did start out the description of the date
Speaker 1: saying it started as a pity date. Yeah, she did
Speaker 1: say that, you know, I thought so too. And I
Speaker 1: was like, good for her for not caving if that's
Speaker 1: what she thinks she really needs. But that is, it's
Speaker 1: an interesting wrinkle that I didn't think of. I mean,
Speaker 1: maybe we were being naive. I don't know what the
Speaker 1: thing now, Maybe we were being naive. Or maybe our
Speaker 1: listening audience is very cynical. Yeah, that could be, and
Speaker 1: I appreciate that. Or just the world in general is like, oh,
Speaker 1: come on, that's a line. Nobody waits that long before
Speaker 1: they get into a relationship. They meet somebody they really like,
Speaker 1: you'll throw caution to the wind and you'll get back
Speaker 1: into a relationship. She's full of craps. She didn't like you.
Speaker 1: Either that or it's just a really good explanation of
Speaker 1: why there's so many dysfunctional relationships out there. Right, that's true. Remember,
Speaker 1: if you want to do a Seconday up, they don't
Speaker 1: have to do is email the show and we will
Speaker 1: call the person who didn't call you back.