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Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels Second Date Update. Today's Second Date Update is

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Speaker 1: one of those days where you get an email in

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Speaker 1: and it's so interesting that you just want to find

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Speaker 1: out what happened. We got an email into the show

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Speaker 1: from a dude named Michael, and all that says is

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Speaker 1: that he met a girl at the gym and tried

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Speaker 1: to think of an interesting way to introduce himself and

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Speaker 1: it almost ended up in the hospital. WHOA, So I

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Speaker 1: want to know what happened? What's up, Michael? How are

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Speaker 1: you good? How you doing? I think you succeeded in

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Speaker 1: the interesting category because everybody wants to know. Okay, um,

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Speaker 1: should I just tell you maybe tell us about the

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Speaker 1: girl a little bit. What's her name? Her name is Brittany,

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Speaker 1: And yeah, I met her at the gym. And had

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Speaker 1: you seen her a couple of times? Or was this

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Speaker 1: the first time running into her at the gym? No,

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Speaker 1: I've seen her for a while and she's like incredibly beautiful.

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Speaker 1: And I mean I listened to you guys show a

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Speaker 1: lot and they know a lot of people are you know,

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Speaker 1: say that they've dating this beautiful girl and that. But

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Speaker 1: I think that this girl is probably like next level,

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Speaker 1: like beyond anything. Are you trying to brag right now?

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Speaker 1: Are you just excited? I'm not trying to rag since

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Speaker 1: she's not calling you back obviously. Okay, all right, So

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Speaker 1: as you tried to talk to her before the incident

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Speaker 1: that almost put you in the hospital, No, I hadn't.

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Speaker 1: The thing is like I've seen a lot of guys

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Speaker 1: try to talk to her like walk up, you know,

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Speaker 1: try to whatever, and she's not rude, but just like

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Speaker 1: gets rid of them, you know, is always just like

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Speaker 1: keeps serve self to herself. Oh my god, you have

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Speaker 1: been stalking this girl to Jim, I don't know if

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Speaker 1: it's stalking. She's hard not to notice and anyway, but

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Speaker 1: that's that's what I've seen. So I didn't want to

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Speaker 1: be one of those guys. I didn't want to be

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Speaker 1: just the next in line to strike out. So I

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Speaker 1: was like just trying to think of something I could

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Speaker 1: do to ideally make her laugh, which seems like the

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Speaker 1: best way to get a girl interested, you know, absolutely, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're right on with it. So what do you do?

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Speaker 1: You you fart on the treadmill next to her. No,

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Speaker 1: what I did was she was on the treadmill and

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Speaker 1: while she was working up. I jumped on the treadmill

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Speaker 1: and started running behind her. Yeah, and I was like, oh, sorry,

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Speaker 1: I didn't see you there. Maybe you can go a

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Speaker 1: little faster. That's great, that's so funny. That's dangerous. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I like, dude, this treadmill is not big enough for

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Speaker 1: you to be right behind me. Yeah. I would have

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Speaker 1: to think scary for her as well. This is weirdo

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Speaker 1: doing funny. I thought it was really funny, but her

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Speaker 1: first reaction was definitely a little scared. Yeah, and I

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Speaker 1: kind of like flipped around and turned backwards. So I

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Speaker 1: got my back door running, you know. Um, and you know,

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Speaker 1: I was just being funny. I thought, you know, it

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Speaker 1: was gonna be cool. But our feet got tangled. Oh

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Speaker 1: and we both like went flying. What a fail? And

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Speaker 1: you were able to still somehow score a date with

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Speaker 1: her after this? Yeah, well that's the crazy part. So,

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Speaker 1: I mean she was super pissed and I had to

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Speaker 1: and I mean it was like pretty disastrous. But when

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Speaker 1: have gotten hurt, and she was right, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry about the way I did it, but I

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Speaker 1: did it because I think you're really pretty and I

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Speaker 1: didn't know how to talk to you, and yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: kind of sweet. Well it obviously got her too. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I can't believe she fell for it. But okay, I

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Speaker 1: don't know she fell for it. Maybe maybe I got

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Speaker 1: the a for effort. I don't know, but I basically

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Speaker 1: was like, let's just let me buy you a drink.

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Speaker 1: Let's go, let's go, like, you know, hang out for

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Speaker 1: a minute. And she agreed. So we ended up going

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Speaker 1: But after like thirty minutes, she looked at her phone

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Speaker 1: and she left and that was it. And now I'm like,

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Speaker 1: and I don't know what to do, no idea why.

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Speaker 1: I really don't. I mean, like I would have understood,

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Speaker 1: We kind of like had a moment. We went out

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Speaker 1: sudden at your date, she just ghosts. That's weird. So wait,

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Speaker 1: you haven't seen her at the gym either. Yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen her there. It's been a week and

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Speaker 1: she's not been there like the times that I've been there. Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she definitely had switched up her gym schedule because she

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Speaker 1: doesn't want to see you. Yeah, what do you do? Man? Well,

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Speaker 1: I mean the fact that I almost kill her might

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Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, and then call her

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Speaker 1: and get your second day up date. Thank you, hang

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Speaker 1: on brooking jubil in the morning date if you're just

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Speaker 1: joining us for today's second date. Update. This dude name

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Speaker 1: Michael is on the phone and he wants to call Brittany,

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Speaker 1: and he almost killed Brittany at the gym, and now

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Speaker 1: he's wondering why he's not getting a call back. It's

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Speaker 1: not quite that serious, but he did see Brittany at

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Speaker 1: the gym for a long time, a girl that he

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Speaker 1: wanted to talk to, and Finally, one day, he got

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Speaker 1: to try to be creative, ended up falling off and everything.

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Speaker 1: But did go out on a date, and then shortly

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Speaker 1: endo that date, she just ended it and took off,

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Speaker 1: like half an hour in and he hasn't heard from

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Speaker 1: her since. See. I feel like, Michael, you were expecting

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Speaker 1: too much. I think this was actually a pity date

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Speaker 1: by Brittany. What I mean. Granted, you're the one that

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Speaker 1: injured her, but it's a weird thing that women do

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Speaker 1: when we're like, oh, but he feels bad, so I

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I have something to offer, I think,

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Speaker 1: But this point, I'm just like trying to figure out

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Speaker 1: why she's ghost to me. It just doesn't make any

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Speaker 1: Dollar phone him right now. I'll get her on the

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Brittany please, yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is she. Hey Brittany, how are you? This is

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Speaker 1: Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: have you ever heard of it before? Ever heard of

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Speaker 1: what before? Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm not sure?

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Speaker 1: All right, it sounds like you just woke up. Are

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Speaker 1: you tired? Yes? I'm sorry about that. Well, so we're

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Speaker 1: calling you because we actually got an email from one

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Speaker 1: of our listeners who asked us to call you. Okay,

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Speaker 1: still not registering, is it? Well? No, I'm I'm I'm

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Speaker 1: in tregue. Okay. His name is Michael. Oh all right,

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Speaker 1: and you met Michael at the gym recently, yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and then you went out with Michael on a date

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Speaker 1: after and left pretty quick into it and you haven't

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Speaker 1: contacted him since. That is correct? Okay? Cool. Well, Michael

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Speaker 1: emailed us because he wants to know what went wrong.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, I mean it was just like I wasn't

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Speaker 1: really sure how I felt, you know, I just couldn't

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Speaker 1: really deal deal with it. First dates are weird, you know,

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Speaker 1: so did you? This was my theory? Okay. My theory

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Speaker 1: is is that you went out with him as a

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Speaker 1: fiasco where he injured both you and him. Initially it

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Speaker 1: such a weird guy and all I I'll just go

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm not really sure how I feel

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Speaker 1: kind of going through like a break up, if you will,

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Speaker 1: And I don't know, I'm just sort of a mess

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Speaker 1: right now em emotionally. But you can tell that you

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Speaker 1: liked him that much just from that experience. Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: excuse myself. Wait how long? How long have you are? Wait?

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Speaker 1: Are you single right now? Are you still in a relationship? Oh? No,

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Speaker 1: I am single, but like I had a fiance and

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Speaker 1: it was very messy and it's only been about five

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Speaker 1: to really get over this guy, you know, to be

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Speaker 1: fully open and available for a new relationship, and you know,

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Speaker 1: wouldn't be fair to Michael, you know, to be in um,

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Speaker 1: you can still do stuff with him, you know. I mean,

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Speaker 1: that's a good way to get over a breakup. Well,

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Speaker 1: that's the thing I'm you know, I felt like this

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Speaker 1: you know, a year to heal and be available. And

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Speaker 1: it's only been about six months or so. So okay,

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Speaker 1: So you just wanted to tell him, he just wants

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Speaker 1: to tell him that he's got to wait six months

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Speaker 1: if she wants another date. Kind of probably, I feel like,

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Speaker 1: I feel like that is so emotionally responsible of you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah, you know, you really are aware of

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Speaker 1: where you're at in the healing process. And this guy's

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Speaker 1: obviously not just a rebound guy, correct, And you know,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if he feels that way about me

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Speaker 1: or anything. And I'm just like, whoa, this is happening

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Speaker 1: way too fast, and so I don't know, it's a

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Speaker 1: little embarrassing. But oh that's so sweet. Well I was saying,

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Speaker 1: we could tell him that, and I think you could

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Speaker 1: the other line listening and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 1: If you're not serious, Are you serious, Michael Brittany, How

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Speaker 1: are you feeling? Sorry about that? Awkward laugh? I that's

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Speaker 1: not fair. I didn't know you were on the line.

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Speaker 1: I wow. I mean, I'm just like blown away right now.

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Speaker 1: I really just thought that you didn't want to see

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Speaker 1: me again. I current believe. I'm really sorry. I just

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Speaker 1: I didn't really know how to process everything that was

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Speaker 1: going on. And you know, obviously now you know everything

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Speaker 1: I've been going through. So it's just you know, I'm sorry. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she wants to see you again, just in six months.

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