WEBVTT - The Karol Markowicz Show: New Year's Resolutions with Michael Malice

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, and welcome back to the Carol Markowitz Show on iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not big on New Year's resolutions. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>anyone keeps to them, and that makes them largely pointless.

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<v Speaker 1>But in twenty sixteen I came up with a fairly

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<v Speaker 1>easily achievable one to take more pictures of myself by myself.

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<v Speaker 1>At the time, there was a lot of conversation around

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<v Speaker 1>women feeling this self loathing, especially women who have had babies,

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<v Speaker 1>and staying out of photographs. That wasn't really my problem.

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<v Speaker 1>I might not always love the way I look, but

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<v Speaker 1>I never shied away from pictures, especially with my kids,

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<v Speaker 1>and nights out with my husband can certainly include some selfies.

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<v Speaker 1>But in all of twenty fifteen, a year in which

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<v Speaker 1>I took several thousand pictures of my kids, I realized

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<v Speaker 1>I had a total of five pictures of just me alone. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>why do I need pictures of myself? Well, why do

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<v Speaker 1>we need pictures at all? It's nice to look back

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<v Speaker 1>and feel nostalgia and reminisce about a time worth photographing.

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<v Speaker 1>And why does every picture of me have to include

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<v Speaker 1>other people? It's not narcissism, it's individualism. I'm a mother

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<v Speaker 1>and a wife, sure, but I'm someone without them too.

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<v Speaker 1>I love looking back at photographs from years ago, Like

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<v Speaker 1>there I am at age five on my first day

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<v Speaker 1>of school, I spoke no English and had a note

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<v Speaker 1>pinned to my dress that had all of my information

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<v Speaker 1>on it. Or at sixteen, all dressed up ready to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with friends. There's the picture of me under

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<v Speaker 1>my jam Morrison poster in the horrible basement apartment I

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<v Speaker 1>lived in in my sophomore year of college. Or the

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<v Speaker 1>one of me on the Scottish border the first time

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<v Speaker 1>I ever traveled alone. There were other people there, and

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<v Speaker 1>I have pictures I treasure with them too, but the

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<v Speaker 1>ones of me by myself really tell my story. So

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<v Speaker 1>in twenty sixteen, my New Year's resolution was to take

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<v Speaker 1>more pictures of myself and continue to tell that story.

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<v Speaker 1>Some people make resolutions to eat better or work out.

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<v Speaker 1>Mine was to have some memories of myself as a

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<v Speaker 1>person without kids attached to my head. Did it work?

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<v Speaker 1>Not exactly. For one thing, it was awkward, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>to be in your late thirties and snapping selfies of yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>or worse, handing your phone to someone else and saying,

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<v Speaker 1>take a picture of me by myself. I wasn't looking

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<v Speaker 1>to become one of those girls on Instagram with dozens

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<v Speaker 1>of pictures of themselves each week, often posed in front

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<v Speaker 1>of walls with a hand on their hip. I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted some photographic evidence that I exist apart from other people. Also,

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<v Speaker 1>remember this, you're never as young as you are in pictures.

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<v Speaker 1>But now it's years later and I'm more worried about

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<v Speaker 1>the story of my life through pictures, being all very posed.

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<v Speaker 1>My husband took this really great picture of me and

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<v Speaker 1>my friend Lisa Booth recently. We were getting ready to

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<v Speaker 1>pose for a picture together, you know, one of those

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<v Speaker 1>pictures where we look at the camp with the exact

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<v Speaker 1>look we perfected, and smile the exact smile we do

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<v Speaker 1>in all the photographs, and Lisa said something funny and

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<v Speaker 1>we both started laughing. It's not a great picture, but

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<v Speaker 1>I love it so much because it's real and it's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>If you love looking back at your photographs, you need

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure to take some candid shots, not just

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<v Speaker 1>your perfect angles. Take some candid pictures of your friends

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<v Speaker 1>and have them take some of you too. Maybe when

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<v Speaker 1>you're laughing too hard, and your face is all scrunged

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<v Speaker 1>up when you're imperfect and awkward. Life isn't all great

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<v Speaker 1>lighting and perfect angles. In thirty years when we look

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<v Speaker 1>back at our lives right now, we'll appreciate remembering those

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<v Speaker 1>days as they actually were. Imperfections and all more candid shots.

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<v Speaker 1>In twenty twenty four, Happy New Year. Coming up next

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<v Speaker 1>in interview with Michael Malice. Join us after the break, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>and welcome back to the Carol Markowitz Show on Iheartraate Video.

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<v Speaker 1>My guest today is Michael Malice. Michael is the host

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<v Speaker 1>of Your Welcome podcast and the author of several books,

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<v Speaker 1>most recently The White Pill, A Tale of Good and Evil.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks so much for being on, Michael.

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<v Speaker 2>I like how you're checking your notes to read the

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<v Speaker 2>intro as if we're not friends.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to. I don't want to mess up

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<v Speaker 1>the name of your book, Oh White Pill, the Red Pill.

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<v Speaker 1>Who knows, I don't even know all the pills have

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<v Speaker 1>read it. It was really good?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, okay, all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, I'm not you know, I'm not quite as experience

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<v Speaker 1>as you. Well, thank you so much for being on.

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<v Speaker 1>Happy New Year, SNOD and any New Year's resolutions.

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<v Speaker 3>I think about this a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think news resolutions are things that you should

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<v Speaker 2>look back in your previous year that you did right

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<v Speaker 2>and kind of be like, let's stick with this because

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<v Speaker 2>that's working right. So I think that because that's the

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<v Speaker 2>kind of resolution you could stick with. So I what

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<v Speaker 2>has worked for me really well in the past year

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<v Speaker 2>was being completely vicious to people who deserve it on

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<v Speaker 2>social media. And I resolved, and I've been very successful

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<v Speaker 2>with it, and I resolved to be even more ruthless

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<v Speaker 2>and merciless.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, most people choose to be nicer.

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<v Speaker 2>But that's that's why you have work for you, really,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's why you had to write the book.

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<v Speaker 3>You have to write because people are nice.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true too. So we have kind of similar origin stories.

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<v Speaker 1>Both born in the former Soviet Union. Both grew up

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<v Speaker 1>in Brooklyn. You moved to Texas shortly before I moved

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<v Speaker 1>to Florida. How's that been going.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, it's just epic.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm really happy that I'm here, you know, I was

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<v Speaker 2>just this is going to be the most like Brooklyn

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<v Speaker 2>Jew conversation ever. But I have a buddy of mine.

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<v Speaker 2>He's trapped in Los Angeles. Said he's in a bad situation,

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<v Speaker 2>And I was just looking at real estate and you

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<v Speaker 2>could get a nice two bedroom here to buy for

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<v Speaker 2>like I think it was like two hundred thousand or

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<v Speaker 2>two fifty. And it's just like so crazy to me

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<v Speaker 2>that you know, in Brooklyn price is what's that going

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<v Speaker 2>to be? Like seven hundred thousand minimum. So like the

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<v Speaker 2>fact that Austin, even though it is exploding, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>the fact that Austin, even though it is exploding, is

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<v Speaker 2>still affordable. The fact that everyone's coming here, everyone comes.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm surprised you haven't come through here yet, to be honest,

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<v Speaker 2>Like it's become such a waystation for so many pe I've.

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<v Speaker 1>Went to Dallas a few times, but not Austin.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm surprised, So you'll be here at Have you.

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<v Speaker 1>Made friends, like not like internet? Have you made friends

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<v Speaker 1>not like internet friends, but like situational friends, neighbors and

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of thing?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, no, no, no, no no, no no no no.

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<v Speaker 2>So like I am very opposed to a Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>like the idea of being again we're born in the

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<v Speaker 2>Soviet Union. The idea of being friends with my neighbors

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<v Speaker 2>is something that I'm extremely opposed too. I remember once

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<v Speaker 2>and It was a Russian neighbor my first apartment back

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<v Speaker 2>from college, and they were upstairs from me, and like

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<v Speaker 2>I saw them in the hall.

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<v Speaker 3>They're like, we don't hear you, we don't see you.

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<v Speaker 2>You call this a neighbor, And I'm like, that's the

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<v Speaker 2>ideal when I don't hear you and I don't see you.

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<v Speaker 3>Especially in Brooklyn.

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<v Speaker 2>That's like the problem with the neighbors is that you

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<v Speaker 2>hear them too much, right, Like they're playing the music,

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<v Speaker 2>they're partying, they're knocking things around. So I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to know my neighbors. And no, I think all my

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<v Speaker 2>friends are like they're not Internet friends in that we're

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<v Speaker 2>only friends on the Internet, but they're friends, and that

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<v Speaker 2>they all have like some kind of platform that's there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>what's exciting about Austin is there's a lot of cross

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<v Speaker 2>pollination here because you have the bitcoin people, you have

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<v Speaker 2>the comedians, you have the podcasters, you have the biohackers,

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<v Speaker 2>you've got the like white people, stuff like cold plunges,

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<v Speaker 2>and everyone cross pollinates and that makes it really exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you wish you got out of New York earlier? No?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I think if you are committed to something that

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<v Speaker 2>means a lot to you, like a marriage, right, you

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<v Speaker 2>should really make sure before you leave that I tried

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<v Speaker 2>everything I could. Otherwise you'd be like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I quit too early. I could have done this,

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<v Speaker 2>I could have done that. You'd have some kind of regrets.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I guess that's right. But like New York was

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<v Speaker 1>falling apart for a while, do you feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>know what pushed you out? Ultimately?

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<v Speaker 3>I think first there were several It was several.

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<v Speaker 2>It had to be several things, right, because that one

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<v Speaker 2>thing is going to be like I'm out of here.

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<v Speaker 2>So first of all that it was like a murder

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<v Speaker 2>mystery because my friends got picked off one by one

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<v Speaker 2>they moved away, and I didn't realize until I left

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<v Speaker 2>how lonely it had gotten the fact that all my

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<v Speaker 2>favorite establishments were like destroyed one at a time, so

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<v Speaker 2>there was no place for me to go. And then

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<v Speaker 2>a buddy of mine just she had this quote, she goes,

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<v Speaker 2>why am I funding my own oppression? And it's like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>what am I thinking here? So when I saw what

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<v Speaker 2>I could afford here, I have like like a huge

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<v Speaker 2>house like which I could never afford. Like Carol, you

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<v Speaker 2>appreciate this as a Brooklyn night. To have stairs in

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<v Speaker 2>my house is like a miracle, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just like, oh my god. You know I have

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<v Speaker 2>stared at my house so like that. To have that,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a big deal.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you live like a public life? Do you get

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<v Speaker 1>recognized a lot? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Fair amount.

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<v Speaker 2>But everyone's very very cool. I've never had an annoying experience.

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<v Speaker 2>They're really because I have a reputation of being I

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<v Speaker 2>can't say the word on the show, but I have

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<v Speaker 2>a reputation.

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<v Speaker 3>So people are often scared to talk to you say

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<v Speaker 3>the word. Well, it's insufferable tat so I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Scared to talk to you right now.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's so it's a good thing because then people

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<v Speaker 2>don't get too uh like like chummy, which I really

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<v Speaker 2>don't like. So they're very everyone's very very nice. I

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<v Speaker 2>talk to people in the gym all the time, or

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<v Speaker 2>you know, if I runs down the street, and it's

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<v Speaker 2>really fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you feel like more of an immigrant there? I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel like once you leave New York, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the immigrantness that maybe faded into the background becomes more forward.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that less of an immigrant here than New

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<v Speaker 2>York because whenever I'm here, whoever I surround myself with,

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<v Speaker 2>I never have to bite my tongue, Whereas in New York,

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<v Speaker 2>especially like media circles, you never know who you're talking to,

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<v Speaker 2>and you don't know if tomorrow they're going to go

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<v Speaker 2>on their tumbler or on their sub stack and write

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<v Speaker 2>some kind of visionism of the experience we just had

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<v Speaker 2>the night before, which has happened.

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<v Speaker 3>To me and a lot of people in New York.

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<v Speaker 2>Circles, especially the circles you and I travel in, are

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<v Speaker 2>literally like quite mentally ill, and they can pass as normal.

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<v Speaker 3>But then you don't know who you're dealing with.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's a lot easier here in that context in Austin, when.

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<v Speaker 1>You're writing your books, like, do you find them? I

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<v Speaker 1>found The White Pillar very hard to read, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, I mean, I found I liked all of

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<v Speaker 1>your books. I love your writing, you know, I'm a

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<v Speaker 1>big fan, and I wish i'd read more like I

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<v Speaker 1>wish you wrote more often. I wish you were like

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<v Speaker 1>a regular columns because I really really do enjoy your work.

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<v Speaker 1>But do you find it difficult like to write about

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<v Speaker 1>you know, murder, torture, all the things that you cover

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<v Speaker 1>in your books.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I just taught an eight hour course for Peterson

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<v Speaker 2>Academy Jordan Peterson about the rise and fall the Soviet Union.

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<v Speaker 3>And there's this one particular.

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<v Speaker 2>Story of Peter Fector who was shot trying to cross

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<v Speaker 2>the Berlin Wall when he was eighteen years old by

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<v Speaker 2>the East Germans, and they he took him an hour

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<v Speaker 2>to die.

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<v Speaker 3>He was bleeding out and.

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<v Speaker 2>They later said he was a fascist, you know, like

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<v Speaker 2>it was just this really, and we have his picture

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<v Speaker 2>and we have the video of them carrying his body.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think it was like ten minutes for me

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<v Speaker 2>to get through this story, and I kept breaking down

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, I don't know what I'm going

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<v Speaker 2>to do. It was almost like the opposite, like sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>when you get the giggles and you're like, holy crap,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't stop, and then you're like now I'm laughing

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<v Speaker 2>that I'm laughing, and it's like like how do I

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<v Speaker 2>get out of this?

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<v Speaker 3>And I just I don't know how I did it.

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<v Speaker 3>It was horrible.

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<v Speaker 2>And I even told the class, I'm like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>you write something because you want it to be powerful,

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<v Speaker 2>and then you're like lecturing from it and it is

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<v Speaker 2>powerful and like, now you're a prisoner of your own accomplishment.

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<v Speaker 2>So it was it was I don't know how I

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<v Speaker 2>got through that course. It was a nightmare.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you find White Pill like tougher because it was

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<v Speaker 1>more personal or was it just as hard as like

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<v Speaker 1>your book on North Korea?

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<v Speaker 2>It was much harder because it was much longer in

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<v Speaker 2>terms of the carnage, the amount, and the degrees and

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<v Speaker 2>the types, and the fact that all of it was

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<v Speaker 2>being defended in the West, and the fact that it

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<v Speaker 2>was personal and there was much more of what they

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<v Speaker 2>did to children than in the North Korea stuff, where

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<v Speaker 2>the children almost kind of like secondary whereas here they

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<v Speaker 2>were targeted.

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<v Speaker 3>And when you have the quotes from.

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<v Speaker 2>Westerners being like this is great, and some of these people,

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<v Speaker 2>these organizations are still in power.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, it was a lot, lot tougher.

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<v Speaker 2>Because it's so many more countries for so much, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean, for such a longer period.

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<v Speaker 3>In ways, it was even more brutal.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think is our largest cultural societal problem

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<v Speaker 1>in the US. I feel like it's related to a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of things you cover in the book, But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd love your take. What do you think is our

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<v Speaker 1>big issue.

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<v Speaker 3>The universities, hands down, no question.

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<v Speaker 2>You solve that problem, everything else will be Domino's. I

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<v Speaker 2>have been calling for this for a very long time.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm hardly unique in that regard.

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<v Speaker 2>Just this morning, Ben Shapiro was tweeting out that you know,

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<v Speaker 2>they're not salvageable.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not just gonna be a little bit of chink

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<v Speaker 3>around the edges.

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<v Speaker 2>The fact that right people are targeting the universities now,

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<v Speaker 2>people who I agree with, the good kind of people,

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<v Speaker 2>is happening faster than I'd hoped for, and that makes

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<v Speaker 2>me very optimistic. And I think what I'm also optimistic

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<v Speaker 2>about is if you look at politicians right, anyone who's

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<v Speaker 2>running for office, they're going to have to have a

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<v Speaker 2>thick skin because.

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<v Speaker 3>They know they're going to be attacked and what's coming

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<v Speaker 3>for them.

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<v Speaker 2>They maybe they won't know what else going to look like.

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<v Speaker 2>They people are going to go after you, and you're

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<v Speaker 2>gonna have to smile a nod. And also people agree

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<v Speaker 2>with you are crazy. You're going to come up to

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<v Speaker 2>you in the campaign trail and be like, oh, you

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<v Speaker 2>know why you're talking about bigfoot and you have to

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<v Speaker 2>be like yeah, yeah, right, like that's the thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Like, as a politician you have to be a bit

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<v Speaker 3>of a pony.

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<v Speaker 2>And journalists are going to be a good conversationalists, quick

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<v Speaker 2>on their tongue often, you know, they're going to be

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<v Speaker 2>able to be articulate and defend themselves to some extent.

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<v Speaker 2>They're going to have their peers, you know, who you

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<v Speaker 2>could commiserate with. But the professors are the lowest to

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<v Speaker 2>the low and they're the weakest, the most vulnerable because

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<v Speaker 2>they're completely cocooned. No one is there to take shots

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<v Speaker 2>of them. They have tenure, so they're in a sense

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<v Speaker 2>isolated and defenseless. So the fact that when they are

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<v Speaker 2>currently and hopefully vastly increasingly escalated targeted, they're really not

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<v Speaker 2>going to know what's hitting them and them watching them

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<v Speaker 2>squeal for mercy is going to be absolutely delicious. And

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<v Speaker 2>it started happening in social media. It's just like my pornography.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we're going to take a quick break and be

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<v Speaker 1>right back on the Carol Marcowitch Show. A lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people in the White Pillar do end up changing their

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<v Speaker 1>minds about the Soviet Union, even though they you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it takes them a while, and a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>don't change their minds. A lot of people, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>stay committed to the end that this nothing bad is

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<v Speaker 1>going on. But you know, I'm encouraged by the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that there are a lot of people in your book

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<v Speaker 1>who you document having their minds changed, And do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like that's what's happening now in the US.

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<v Speaker 2>I am very skeptical of these like Wittiker Chambers types

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<v Speaker 2>who you know, are on the side of pure evil

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<v Speaker 2>and then see the light and then kind of like

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<v Speaker 2>become a snitch.

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<v Speaker 3>Like they have their purpose.

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<v Speaker 2>But I will always be a little suspicious of them

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<v Speaker 2>because when things are so demonic and you kind of

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<v Speaker 2>don't don't like you're you know, like how human beings

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<v Speaker 2>have evolved that when we were on sociopaths, like the

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<v Speaker 2>hair in the back of our neck like stands up

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<v Speaker 2>a bit like that we have some kind of Spidey sense.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you're if you're at that level when you

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<v Speaker 2>are like on the side of evil and you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>they're even more evil than I thought. It's like I

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<v Speaker 2>don't have much use for you, or like I have

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<v Speaker 2>used for you, but it's gonna be very arm's length.

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<v Speaker 3>What I'm most excited about is.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I always say that we don't need a majority,

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<v Speaker 2>we need an alternative. And I would just encourage people

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<v Speaker 2>listening to this to imagine if Elon had bought Twitter

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<v Speaker 2>before COVID, and how different the COVID regime would is,

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<v Speaker 2>assuming he survived the pressures. How different the role I

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<v Speaker 2>would have been. If you had one site, one prominent

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<v Speaker 2>site where there was some element of discussion and debate allowed,

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<v Speaker 2>it would have been a very very different story. Now

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<v Speaker 2>it may have played out the same in that they

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<v Speaker 2>would have won, but point being, it would not have

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<v Speaker 2>been the same dance throughout. So that is the kind

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<v Speaker 2>of thing where I'm hopeful for nor am I thinking,

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<v Speaker 2>by the way, that Elon might is an angel, but

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<v Speaker 2>you know there's problems with Twitter. You know, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>agree with him and everything, But the point is there

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<v Speaker 2>is still a space now, you know. The one of

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<v Speaker 2>my greatest accomplishments of twenty twenty three was getting Roseanne

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<v Speaker 2>bar back on Twitter. And that was just very important

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<v Speaker 2>morally because it's one thing for them to take an

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<v Speaker 2>l it's another thing to have one of their wins

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<v Speaker 2>reversed because then when you start losing ground, it gets

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<v Speaker 2>scary and demoralizing.

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<v Speaker 1>So you sound downright hopeful. Actually, like you sound more

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<v Speaker 1>hopeful than I expected.

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<v Speaker 2>I am very hopeful because if you have Denche Desuza,

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<v Speaker 2>who is like King of the Boomers, talking about like

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<v Speaker 2>false flags and you know, FBI radicalizing people and that

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<v Speaker 2>they're the bad guys, and Dan Bongino, who was a cop,

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<v Speaker 2>if you have him talking about the police, the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that it's become completely normalized to understand that our government,

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<v Speaker 2>the United States government, engages in completely depraved actions on

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<v Speaker 2>a regular basis.

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<v Speaker 3>This was not part of the Overton window five years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>And so like you think it has moved the Overton

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<v Speaker 1>window in the last five years to this. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like something really shifted in the last year, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean kind of. I don't know. I feel like people

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<v Speaker 1>are reactive. I'm not sure that they've changed overall. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that there's a lot going on in the last

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<v Speaker 1>you know, maybe year or two that I think that

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<v Speaker 1>they're reacting to. But I don't know. I guess I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not quite as hopeful as you that. For example, if

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<v Speaker 1>Elon had Twitter during COVID, yeah, it would have been

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<v Speaker 1>you know, definitely better. But pandemic two right now happens.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that we take a wildly different path.

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<v Speaker 2>There are certain states that would absolutely even if it

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<v Speaker 2>was literally like let's oppost pandemic to COVID was actually

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<v Speaker 2>as deadly as it was supposed to have been, there

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<v Speaker 2>are certain people and states that were like, I don't care,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not real. Like the fact that this growing irrationalism

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<v Speaker 2>has its pluses and its minuses, right.

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<v Speaker 1>So some of the minuses I think as people don't

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<v Speaker 1>believe anything at all about, you know, anything they're told,

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<v Speaker 1>even when it's it's reliably true. I guess that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of stuff worries me. I feel like you're less worried

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<v Speaker 1>about that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not that I'm less worried, it's that I regard

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<v Speaker 2>it as inevitable. So it's kind of like, listen, if

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<v Speaker 2>you're going to have a horse ranch, you're not prepared

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<v Speaker 2>to deal with animals that are how much a horseway

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<v Speaker 2>a ton? Like you're the one with the problem, Like

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<v Speaker 2>this is the situation. You've got a lot of horses.

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<v Speaker 2>They need a lot of food, they lead a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of space, okay, and they're going to they're going to

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<v Speaker 2>poop a lot like if you can't wrap your head.

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<v Speaker 3>Around, like get it, get out of the ranch.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you are prepared to have this kind of

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<v Speaker 2>wacky enlightenment idea that if we all sit down and

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<v Speaker 2>put all the facts forward, people are going to come

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<v Speaker 2>to the truth.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, I think you're a crazy person.

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<v Speaker 1>So do you personally feel like you've made it? You're saying,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you think that the world has gotten maybe

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<v Speaker 1>the country's gotten better in the last few years. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you think Michael Malice has made it?

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<v Speaker 2>I know that the country's gotten better so much as

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<v Speaker 2>the population in certain segments of them have gotten exponentially better.

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<v Speaker 2>I think the country has gotten much much worse in

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<v Speaker 2>many ways.

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<v Speaker 3>But I do know that I've made it. And you'll

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<v Speaker 3>appreciate this as a fellow immigrant.

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<v Speaker 1>Clarification, that's right, Yeah, you'll appreciate this as a fellow immigrant.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I own Margaret Thatcher's bookcases, so when I put

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<v Speaker 2>them in my living room, I'm like, all right, Like

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<v Speaker 2>as an immigrant, you know, to own her furniture, which

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<v Speaker 2>is kind of caitchy whatever it's old lady for bookcases.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, like I've made it, and I.

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<v Speaker 2>Also think this is something important I think people listen to.

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<v Speaker 2>My definition of making it is really really low. My

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<v Speaker 2>definition of making it is if you have a job

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<v Speaker 2>that you enjoy, right, and you can pay your rent.

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<v Speaker 2>You could go on trips once in a while. If

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<v Speaker 2>you go out to a restaurant, you don't have to

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<v Speaker 2>think twice, and you could take your ubers and not

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<v Speaker 2>be like cra this is an issue. That's it, and

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<v Speaker 2>you don't have to be Jerry Seinfeldt made it as

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<v Speaker 2>a comedian. You could just be someone with a nice

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<v Speaker 2>one bedroom apartment, right and you have your dinners and

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<v Speaker 2>you don't have a day job.

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<v Speaker 3>That's to me. Yeah, you've made it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I you know, you're one of my favorite people.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'd love to see a missus malice, Like where

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<v Speaker 1>are we on that?

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<v Speaker 3>I don't ever meet humans like I don't leave the house.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why you should be friends with your neighbors.

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<v Speaker 2>God, could you imagine dating your neighbors? Like, my god, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess that's like what that's like some kind of

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<v Speaker 2>that's like what friends is. They didn't date, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>they date each other chand learned people do it, you know, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>yeah that's true. Yeah, but I don't know there is

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of like, yeah, like, my biggest turn off

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<v Speaker 2>is basic and I think there's a lot of that

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<v Speaker 2>here in Austin.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you could expand beyond Austin. I think those

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<v Speaker 1>the apps let you, you know, put in a mile range.

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<v Speaker 2>Well yeah, no, I have my app to twenty five miles.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's still annoying. It's it's not fun, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, still, I'm rooting for twenty twenty four, the year

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<v Speaker 1>of missus Malice. You know, I hope we make it happen.

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<v Speaker 1>And here with your best tip for my listeners to

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<v Speaker 1>improve their lives.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to preface this by saying I hate giving

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<v Speaker 2>people advice because I don't think most people are in

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<v Speaker 2>a position to receive it. You know, they want validation

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<v Speaker 2>and they're not really there to hear it. But one

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<v Speaker 2>piece of advice I do feel comfortable giving to everyone

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<v Speaker 2>is know what your boundaries are and be comfortable enforcing them,

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<v Speaker 2>because too many people feel comfortable letting other people walk

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<v Speaker 2>all over them. They feel uncomfortable saying, no, what if

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<v Speaker 2>this person hates me? What if this is problem with

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<v Speaker 2>my boss? And it's better at the problems with your

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<v Speaker 2>boss than with you, because when you get older, when

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<v Speaker 2>you meet your maker and you look back on your life,

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<v Speaker 2>are you going to be like, you know what, like

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<v Speaker 2>if I lost that job, is that such a big deal?

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<v Speaker 3>What kind of person do you want to be?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want to be a person who you don't

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<v Speaker 2>have to pitch a fit at the office, you don't

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<v Speaker 2>have to be annoying with your friends. But at certain

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<v Speaker 2>point it's like, you know what, this doesn't make me

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<v Speaker 2>comfortable and if they don't like it, that's their problem.

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<v Speaker 3>Quite literally, is their problem.

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<v Speaker 2>You have a right to your views, you have a

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<v Speaker 2>right to your life, and you have a right to

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<v Speaker 2>tell people know and you know you don't even know

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<v Speaker 2>them an explanation. You know, if Carol, if you had said,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, is there an issue we don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to talk about and I said no, and you said why,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I don't want to get into it, you

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<v Speaker 2>would be like, Okay, I respect that, and that's fine.

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<v Speaker 2>And if people don't respect that, this is not someone

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<v Speaker 2>who is. You're having a good relationship with Andrews.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. Thank you so much for being on Michael.

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<v Speaker 1>You are the best. I can't wait to read anything

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<v Speaker 1>you write. Please come again soon. Thanks so much for

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<v Speaker 1>joining us on the Carol Marcowitz Show. Subscribe wherever you

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