1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief Love Officer, 2 00:00:04,120 --> 00:00:07,760 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Ready, Steve, yep, All right, here we go 3 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 1: Linda and John's Creek. Linda writes, I've been divorced for 4 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: almost a year, but I can't stop sleeping with my 5 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 1: ex husband. He cheated on me, and I think maybe 6 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:20,000 Speaker 1: I should have tried to work on our marriage instead 7 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: of divorcing him. 8 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:24,119 Speaker 2: He can have sex with anybody now, So why me? 9 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 3: Well, I think I hear a little bit of you 10 00:00:28,840 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 3: answering your own question in here. 11 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:35,519 Speaker 4: Why me? Yeah, you have to ask yourself why me? 12 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 3: Because is it that you want proof that you still 13 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:42,800 Speaker 3: got it? Is it that you won't proof that you 14 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 3: know it wasn't cause you wasn't good enough? 15 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:48,200 Speaker 4: Okay, so now you got to proof. 16 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 3: But you divorced him because you didn't like the dis 17 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 3: trust and the way it made you feel after you 18 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 3: found out. That's why you divorced him. But still, yeah, 19 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 3: he can have sex with anybody and he still is. 20 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:07,560 Speaker 4: Right. I don't know if you understand. 21 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:09,960 Speaker 3: What's happening to here, lady, but it's just more of 22 00:01:10,040 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 3: the same. He's still having sex with other people and 23 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 3: you now he just discovered Wow, you found out and 24 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 3: you still okay with having sex? Yeah, he gonna take 25 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 3: that too. Now, somebody is not the smart person in 26 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 3: this question. It ain't him, It ain't me and Shirley, 27 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:37,680 Speaker 3: it ain't the colo. 28 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 2: Uh ding ding ding ding ding yep. So do you 29 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 2: think she regrets it? 30 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: Though? When she says she should have tried to work 31 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: on a marriage instead of divorcing him. 32 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 4: He didn't. 33 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, he didn't think working on the marriage was worth it. 34 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 3: Let me get this divorce. Still, come over there. If 35 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 3: I can get a divorce, come over there and get 36 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 3: it and then leave and still do what I want 37 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 3: to do. I think, Man, how good of a deal 38 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 3: is that? Yeah, somebody has got to stop making this 39 00:02:08,880 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 3: a good deal for him, and only one person can 40 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:12,800 Speaker 3: do that. 41 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 2: All right, Linda and John's Creek? 42 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:15,760 Speaker 4: All right? 43 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 2: Moving on to Jacob and Lamert Park. 44 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:20,920 Speaker 1: Jacob writes, I was dating two ladies this summer, and 45 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:24,079 Speaker 1: I decided to see one of them exclusively. The other 46 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:28,560 Speaker 1: lady moved to another city, and now she's engaged. I 47 00:02:28,600 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 1: feel like she was dating the dude while she was 48 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 1: dating me. Would I be out of line to ask her? 49 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 4: Hey, bro, what difference doing make? Right? 50 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:43,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, bruh, you made the decision to date. 51 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 4: The other one. 52 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, moved, she. 53 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 3: Moved out of town and now engaged to another. Even 54 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 3: if she was dating the other dude while you was 55 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:57,399 Speaker 3: dating her, wouldn't you dating the other girl? 56 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,959 Speaker 4: See? Y'all know how y'all don't understand. 57 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:07,079 Speaker 3: That if you do something to somebody, Come on, yeah, 58 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 3: you don't think they got the right to do it. 59 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:11,720 Speaker 2: To you, Right, it's a two way street. 60 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't think that can happen to you? 61 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 2: Or she can last Steve like you said she was, 62 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 2: Were you dating him? 63 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 3: No? 64 00:03:22,440 --> 00:03:31,079 Speaker 4: Which? All right? 65 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: Moving on to and Aurora Evett writes, My male friend 66 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:37,880 Speaker 1: and I are intimate on so many levels, yet he 67 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: still introduces me as his friend. He even went to 68 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 1: get an STD screening so we don't have to use protection. 69 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 1: He swears he's not dealing with other women, So why 70 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: can't I be his girlfriend? 71 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 4: Why can't you be his girlfriend? Because you're just his friend? 72 00:03:57,680 --> 00:03:58,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? 73 00:03:58,560 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 4: And y'all an intimate on many levels? 74 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? 75 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:07,119 Speaker 4: And oh newsflash, y'all ain't friends. 76 00:04:08,560 --> 00:04:10,000 Speaker 2: You always say that. 77 00:04:10,640 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 3: You're not friends. It was never the arrangement. It's never 78 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:18,280 Speaker 3: what he wanted it to be. So you decided because 79 00:04:18,320 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 3: you wanted something, you tried to. 80 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:20,840 Speaker 4: Give it a label. 81 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 3: Were friends, and we intimate. He went and got an 82 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:33,360 Speaker 3: STD check because you ain't his only friend, right that 83 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 3: wick has been in more than one candle? 84 00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:40,720 Speaker 2: Whoa? Is it clear to you now? 85 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 4: Yes? 86 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 2: Whoa? Yeah, she wants to be his girl, though she 87 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 2: wants to be his girlfriend. That's the label that she 88 00:04:46,839 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 2: wants a girlfriend. 89 00:04:48,040 --> 00:04:50,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, it ain't happen. Yeah, well go ahead and tell 90 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 4: that to yourself. 91 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, what should she do? 92 00:04:55,839 --> 00:05:00,880 Speaker 3: Well, see, you have to demand exclusivity, So go in 93 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:01,919 Speaker 3: there and tell him. 94 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 4: That and see how that work out. 95 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 3: And then I told you he's not seeing anyone else, 96 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:12,599 Speaker 3: that that is a lie. 97 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:17,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, he swears, he swears he's not dealing with any 98 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 1: other women. 99 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 3: And the blood tests so we can do this without protection. 100 00:05:23,080 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, this particular okay. 101 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 4: And that's the world we live in today. 102 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 3: And I was having a conversation with a buddy of 103 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 3: mine the other day and he was telling me because 104 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 3: he said, he broke up with this girl and he's 105 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 3: out there dating again. And he just said, man, it's 106 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 3: different out here, And I said, well, but it's still 107 00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:45,359 Speaker 3: a lot of good women out there. Man, I'm sorry. 108 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 3: I hate to tell you now it ain't. But now, man, 109 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 3: they different. Now they all they all you know, gold diggers, 110 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 3: they're they're not all of them. 111 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:53,640 Speaker 4: Not, I said, listen. 112 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 3: But like I learned this off the end and thatt though, 113 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 3: all women are expensive, all of the you just gotta 114 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 3: find one you can afford and go lock it in. 115 00:06:10,200 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a good lesson to learn early on late 116 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:16,039 Speaker 1: in life. 117 00:06:16,080 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 2: It doesn't matter when I'm here empty handed. 118 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 4: All right? 119 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 2: Last one? 120 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:24,240 Speaker 1: Steve Ellen and Dothan Ellen writes, I'm dating a forty 121 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:26,599 Speaker 1: four year old cry baby and we watch a lot 122 00:06:26,640 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 1: of movies together and he beats me crying on the 123 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:32,920 Speaker 1: mushy scenes. I suggest we watch action movies or comedies, 124 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 1: but he prefers the dramatic movies. Should I be happy? 125 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 1: Should I be happy that I have a sensitive man? 126 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:39,840 Speaker 2: What do you think? 127 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 3: Well, here's what you have to watch out for. There 128 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 3: are sensitive men and it's okay. 129 00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:46,279 Speaker 2: Huh. 130 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:52,240 Speaker 3: There are emotional men, and that's okay. You can't be both. 131 00:06:53,080 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 3: You cannot have both. And I'm not sure if you 132 00:06:56,600 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 3: understand whether your man is being sensitive or he's emotional. Now, 133 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:07,440 Speaker 3: if this, if this trait that he has is alarming 134 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 3: to you, then that's a red flag because if your 135 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 3: woman is sitting up there and she can't find nothing to. 136 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 4: Cry about, but your man do. 137 00:07:20,480 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 3: That, that's a red flag because in the area of support, 138 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:28,920 Speaker 3: when you do need the time to be a woman, 139 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 3: when you do reach that moment where I'm just gonna 140 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:37,920 Speaker 3: be a girl today, and he over there standing on 141 00:07:37,960 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 3: first base before you get there. 142 00:07:40,720 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 4: I'm over here. 143 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 2: All right, thank you, clo. 144 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 4: And that's the problem. 145 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 2: We gotta go. 146 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 1: Coming the hour, we have some entertainment news for you 147 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 1: right after this. 148 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 2: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.