1 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:04,520 Speaker 1: Everybody is Bill Courtney with an army and normal folks. 2 00:00:04,559 --> 00:00:07,119 Speaker 1: And we continue now a part two of our conversation 3 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 1: with doctor Ronda Smith's class. Right after these brief messages 4 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 1: from our general sponsors. I another wants to teach survivors 5 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 1: of domestic violence how to sew, which is valuable given 6 00:00:32,520 --> 00:00:36,839 Speaker 1: there's not many seamstresshes anymore. Is that person here? No, 7 00:00:37,080 --> 00:00:38,160 Speaker 1: tell me about that, Rhonda. 8 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:43,800 Speaker 2: So that's miss shit and she, oh my gosh. Her 9 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:51,160 Speaker 2: business plan was like so good. She it was about 10 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 2: teaching people how to sew and how to upcycle like 11 00:00:54,880 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 2: thrift clothing, and it was such a good idea having 12 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 2: classes during the week for just individuals, anybody in the 13 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:06,040 Speaker 2: community that wanted. 14 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 3: To learn how to sew. 15 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 2: And that was her way of raising money for the organization, 16 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:13,280 Speaker 2: was to charge like twenty dollars a week or whatever 17 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 2: for the community members that wanted to learn how to sew, 18 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 2: and then also training the women that wanted to learn 19 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:24,960 Speaker 2: how to that might be in the abuse shelters so 20 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 2: that they could grow skill because as we know, seamstresses 21 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 2: are going out of like style, like you can't find 22 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 2: one these days hardly, it seems like, and so also 23 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 2: I think another part of her business was like a 24 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 2: boutique clothing upcycling some of the thrift clothing and making 25 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:49,840 Speaker 2: fancy with all the bleeding and like it was really 26 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 2: really such a cool idea. 27 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 1: It was very very creative. A resource center that offers 28 00:01:56,920 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: low costs to no cost mental health services and place 29 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:03,640 Speaker 1: where folks can use computer because there's no place around 30 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 1: it in Hashburg. Is that you missus Flitner? Yes, that 31 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 1: is me. Tell me about that. So I'm an older student. 32 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 4: I went to school and then I went back after 33 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 4: it was a good time for me to go to 34 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 4: be a social worker. So in my time when I 35 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 4: went to school and was in high school, we had 36 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 4: a lot of after school programs that I feel like 37 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:32,280 Speaker 4: kept the kids off the street, got them access to computers. 38 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 4: And I used to have like people that were interns 39 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 4: from USM that would come to our community centers that 40 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 4: would help us with homework, and a lot of US 41 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:44,240 Speaker 4: was just venning to them basically no therapy services because 42 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 4: it's not believing in my community a lot. So I 43 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 4: wanted to open up a low income counseling service that 44 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 4: not only provides counseling services, but also gives you an 45 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:57,399 Speaker 4: access to use a computer if you don't have one 46 00:02:57,400 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 4: in your home, and also have a full bank, all 47 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 4: in one type of program because they don't have much there, 48 00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 4: like therapy can't be very expensive, and a lot of 49 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 4: insurances don't cover it in certain expenses, and then if 50 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 4: you have Medicaid, they may not cover certain providers. So 51 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 4: I want to find a way to help the community 52 00:03:16,320 --> 00:03:19,399 Speaker 4: to get helped mentally because I feel like a lot 53 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 4: of times people are just mentally challenged. Meant when I 54 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 4: say that, meaning like they have no mental capacity to 55 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 4: understand what they have going on, like fools, scarcities, going 56 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 4: through SPS situations, and it's just I feel like it's 57 00:03:35,960 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 4: very insul for certain people, and it's an unheard of 58 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 4: thing because they believe, oh, I can't afford it, and 59 00:03:40,280 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 4: I can't afford it. So in Mississippi, especially in Haddisburg, 60 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 4: we have nothing like that, and the few places that 61 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 4: we do have, they're wait lists are like five years long. 62 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:52,280 Speaker 4: You five years before you can see a therapist in 63 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 4: your insurance doesn't cover it. So I just really feel like, 64 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:59,000 Speaker 4: being born and raised in Mississippi and Haddisburg, that this 65 00:03:59,040 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 4: will be very benefit is to the people in my community. 66 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: Well, what have you done about it? Girl? 67 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 2: I actually have had this. 68 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:09,120 Speaker 4: Doctor Smith can tell you that I've had this dream 69 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 4: since I was an undergrad. That was kind of like 70 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 4: when it was time for us to do this program, 71 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 4: I already knew what I wanted to do because this 72 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 4: is what I want to do. So I still have 73 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:19,359 Speaker 4: this play and this is still like my five to 74 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:22,159 Speaker 4: ten year gold to open this and process this. I'm 75 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 4: going to work and get a little bit of experience, 76 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:27,120 Speaker 4: but then I do really want to make this happen. 77 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:31,440 Speaker 1: And had this Purt Mississippi, I love that. That is awesome. 78 00:04:31,640 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 1: I wish you the best to walk Ronda. When you 79 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 1: hear all of these different ideas, and this is just 80 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 1: a sampling of the people that you were teaching and 81 00:04:46,680 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 1: working with on a semester by semester basis, and I 82 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:54,640 Speaker 1: know you're a fan of the show. So you listen 83 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: to an army in normal folks all the time when 84 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 1: you when you when you balance the young, bright, energetic, 85 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 1: passionate minds that you spend time with in school against 86 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:16,799 Speaker 1: the backdrop of so much of what we hear from 87 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 1: social media, the news, the infighting in DC, what seems 88 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 1: and feels to be so dysfunctional and so polarized and 89 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 1: so debilitating to our culture. You know, what do you 90 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 1: feel when you when you when you see and hear 91 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:44,800 Speaker 1: these stories against that backdrop on a daily basis. 92 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 2: Well, I hope that I have encouraged them to ignore 93 00:05:51,560 --> 00:05:59,240 Speaker 2: that garbage and go for it, because that's what we 94 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:01,800 Speaker 2: hear in social media and all that it's not always 95 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:04,040 Speaker 2: the truth. And I think I've said this many many 96 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 2: times in class. We've got to stop depending on government 97 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:15,160 Speaker 2: for what we need and start doing it as communities 98 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 2: and taking care of each other, just ourselves. And you know, 99 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 2: that's the only way I think that we can continue 100 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 2: to make a difference. We can't put all of our 101 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 2: eggs in one basket, you know. We you know a 102 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:35,839 Speaker 2: lot of nonprofits and a lot of funding comes from 103 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:39,640 Speaker 2: government grants, and so it's hard to depend on that. 104 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 2: And so I think I've said that in class a lot. 105 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:47,159 Speaker 2: Would y'all agree? I think I said that y'all have 106 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:52,159 Speaker 2: to find the money somewhere, right, figure it out. We've 107 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:53,119 Speaker 2: got to figure it out. 108 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 1: I don't know, just sitting here for this hour, we've 109 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 1: been together other. As I hear well first, as I 110 00:07:03,320 --> 00:07:07,719 Speaker 1: see the smiles and the head nods and listening to 111 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 1: the bright ideas and the hope in each of your voices, 112 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:18,240 Speaker 1: I find myself encouraged because although this is what each 113 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 1: of you do for a living and will be doing 114 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:23,680 Speaker 1: for a living in terms of social work, and all 115 00:07:24,440 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 1: these ideas over here really don't have anything to do 116 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 1: with making money or a living. It's outreach and social impact. 117 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 1: What I would like to hear for just one or 118 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:43,240 Speaker 1: two of you, what why social work? I mean, if 119 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 1: you've gotten your undergraduate and your graduate degree, clearly you've 120 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 1: could have gone into economics or accounting or pick another field, 121 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 1: because let's be honest, social work doesn't pay what some 122 00:07:55,560 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: of the other fields do, given the records of time 123 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 1: an expense of your education. So why social work? Ailey? 124 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: Why social work? Anybody? Why? So? 125 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 2: So? 126 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 3: I am from a very very small town in Alabama, 127 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:17,960 Speaker 3: in Chuka County. I graduated high school with twenty four 128 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 3: other people, twenty three to twenty four. And my aunt 129 00:08:21,440 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 3: is she's a social worker. She has a clinical license. 130 00:08:24,280 --> 00:08:26,720 Speaker 3: So you know, as I was, you know, like moving 131 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 3: through like junior senior year of high school, and everybody 132 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 3: was like, Mailey, what are you gonna do? Where are 133 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 3: you gonna go? You know, like like what like what's 134 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 3: the plan from here on out? And I was like, well, 135 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:39,400 Speaker 3: I don't know, not real sure, but my aunt, know 136 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:42,199 Speaker 3: worship are closed, Like she lives next door, just came 137 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:44,079 Speaker 3: back for a week long trip. Whether We've always been 138 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 3: very close, and she worked for CPS for many years 139 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:51,439 Speaker 3: and a lot of nights, a lot of times I 140 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 3: would you just go over to her house, you know, 141 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:55,560 Speaker 3: go places with her and we would just talk. You know, 142 00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 3: we would talk a lot about the things she did 143 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:01,560 Speaker 3: and how she was able to to make changes in 144 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 3: people's lives. 145 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 1: And I, you know, after. 146 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 3: Babysitting when I was in high school, and you know, 147 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 3: I loved the kids, you know, I loved being able 148 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 3: to be such a huge part of their life. But 149 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 3: the kids, said I babysat, they had really good lives, 150 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 3: a simple fact. And and like the people that I 151 00:09:20,200 --> 00:09:22,439 Speaker 3: went to high school with, and all of my friends 152 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:24,040 Speaker 3: from high school and just the people I knew and 153 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:27,840 Speaker 3: around town, like we all had really good lives. Like 154 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:30,840 Speaker 3: me personally, like I got a car as soon as 155 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 3: I turned sixteen. I never had to worry about, you know, 156 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 3: if if our power bill was going to be able 157 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 3: to be paid this month, or where my next meal 158 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 3: was going to come from. That was just not a 159 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:43,239 Speaker 3: thing that I ever really had to think about. Thankfully, 160 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 3: I was very blessed to live that kind of life, 161 00:09:45,600 --> 00:09:48,960 Speaker 3: still am to this day. And then so when I 162 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 3: went to Southern mess, you know, started out in my 163 00:09:50,800 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 3: freshman year, it was like the fall of twenty twenty. 164 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:55,839 Speaker 3: So we were like, you know, kind of in the 165 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 3: minst of COVID, in the middle of everything, all the craziness, 166 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:03,520 Speaker 3: and I just started seeing a lot more that not 167 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 3: everybody was as fortunate as I was. Not everyone was 168 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:09,839 Speaker 3: able to play sports in high school and have both 169 00:10:09,920 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 3: parents and grandparents there to support them. Not everyone. Not 170 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:16,560 Speaker 3: everyone got a car fro when they turned sixteen, something 171 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:19,360 Speaker 3: that I thought was just like a norm, you know, 172 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:23,840 Speaker 3: quickly learned was not, and quickly learned just how blessed 173 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:25,960 Speaker 3: I have been in my life and that not everybody 174 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:29,680 Speaker 3: has that opportunity. So, you know, I went into Southern 175 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 3: miss did not have a major declared, did not declare 176 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:34,960 Speaker 3: a major until I was you know, at the end 177 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:39,079 Speaker 3: of us no middle of my sophomore a year of college, 178 00:10:39,800 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 3: and my advisor, sweetest Melody Davison, she was like, Baily, 179 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 3: like we got to do something. And so I was, 180 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 3: you know, talked a lot with my aunt, talked with 181 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:49,959 Speaker 3: my mom. I was like, you know what, I'm just 182 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 3: gonna do social work. I'm just you know, gonna declare 183 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:55,440 Speaker 3: that as my major because like there's like i have 184 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 3: nowhere else to go, Like I've taken all the basics, 185 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 3: the pre for best anything alone. Then I've got to 186 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:08,880 Speaker 3: do something. And so in that spring of our sophomore year, 187 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 3: we started the social work program, you know interrosocial Work, 188 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:16,280 Speaker 3: all the things. And I started meeting people, started meeting 189 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 3: people like missus Rachel Lahaski and doctor Smith, and I 190 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 3: was like, this is where I'm supposed to be. Yeah, 191 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:24,960 Speaker 3: I met people like Laura and Tara and Sasha. We 192 00:11:25,000 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 3: all did, we were all in undergrad together. I was like, 193 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:30,959 Speaker 3: these are these are my people? Like, this is where 194 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 3: I'm supposed to be. And then you know, just moving 195 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 3: through the program, meeting more people, making more connections and 196 00:11:37,640 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 3: you know, a's beginning a socialort program. I was like, 197 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:42,560 Speaker 3: is this what I'm really supposed to be doing? Like 198 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 3: something it's just not clicking like it's supposed to. Like 199 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:49,600 Speaker 3: this doesn't feel right. But then, you know, the more 200 00:11:49,640 --> 00:11:52,559 Speaker 3: time I spent in the program and in the classroom, 201 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:54,880 Speaker 3: and you know, with all the people on this meeting 202 00:11:54,960 --> 00:12:00,640 Speaker 3: right now, it just quickly became solidified to me that yeah, this, 203 00:12:00,640 --> 00:12:03,640 Speaker 3: this is it for me. Like i'might get aggravated, and 204 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:05,840 Speaker 3: you know with some of the assignments and you know, 205 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 3: I'm I'm gonna have days where I'm discouraged. But I mean, 206 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 3: doesn't everyone And you know, here we are five years later. 207 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 3: I've got a master's degree waiting only in Mississippi to 208 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 3: push my license through so I can go to work 209 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 3: as they Laura over there waiting on sand Mississippi, and 210 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 3: I don't have that feeling of is this right anymore? 211 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 3: Because like I know, if this is it for me? 212 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 3: So oh, come along long with an explation. 213 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:36,920 Speaker 2: Sorry about that, but yeah. 214 00:12:36,559 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 1: We'll be right back. Doctor Small, you know, to hear 215 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:55,240 Speaker 1: all of this and to know that our little show 216 00:12:55,880 --> 00:13:00,360 Speaker 1: has played a small part in the curriculum, that you're 217 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:05,960 Speaker 1: assigned to all of your students, and that they it 218 00:13:05,960 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 1: feels like they all have a heart to serve their community. 219 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: Obviously they're going to be those a living, but it's 220 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:18,840 Speaker 1: a calling as much as as a job. What is 221 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 1: it that you want our listeners to know about this 222 00:13:22,960 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 1: generation of folks, these weird aged young people who don't 223 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 1: know anything. You know, like people from my generation may say, 224 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:36,200 Speaker 1: but what is it you? What is it you would 225 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:39,839 Speaker 1: like our listeners know about this generation of people you're 226 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:43,520 Speaker 1: putting out into into society. 227 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 2: I would say, we need not worry. 228 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:53,160 Speaker 1: Wear in good hands. Fear not, huh, fear not. 229 00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 3: We're in good hands. 230 00:13:55,679 --> 00:13:59,200 Speaker 2: Because they do have the heart. There is no doubt 231 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 2: about that. They may look at their phones one hundred 232 00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:10,559 Speaker 2: times a day, but it's okay because they have the heart, 233 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 2: they have the smart like, they're very very intelligent, they're driven. 234 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:20,280 Speaker 2: Just to see how hard that they have worked to 235 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 2: attain their goals. Man, it gives me goost bumps to think, 236 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:29,880 Speaker 2: like every time I go to graduation and hooting impeding ceremonies, 237 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 2: like I can't help but cry just because of to 238 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 2: see the culmination of all work that they have put 239 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:39,480 Speaker 2: in too just to meet the goals that they sept 240 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:42,000 Speaker 2: for themselves. And then what I love most of all 241 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 2: is to see what happens after graduation. 242 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 1: But hold on, everybody tells me this generation is spoiled 243 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:53,480 Speaker 1: and wants instant gratification because they've grown up with cell 244 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 1: phones and they're aloof they don't know how to have 245 00:14:56,760 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 1: their personal conversations because everything's been done on it Pewter screen. 246 00:15:01,560 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 1: And you know what a bunch of what a bunch 247 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:07,600 Speaker 1: of goof falls is what I'm told about these folk. 248 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 2: Well, I mean I just heard some really good conversation 249 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 2: just in the last hour. 250 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, me too. 251 00:15:15,920 --> 00:15:20,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I've spent a lot of hours. 252 00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 1: Well for those of you, if those of you want 253 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 1: to go dig deep into the shop talks, I did 254 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 1: one at the very beginning with about seven quotes of 255 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 1: what a generation said about the previous generation, and I'll 256 00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 1: screwed up an awful they were. And the first quote 257 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 1: was from Plato. So this generational fear of these young 258 00:15:47,040 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 1: people coming up behind us will never be as good 259 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:52,680 Speaker 1: as our generation only started about three thousand years ago. 260 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:56,720 Speaker 1: So I think we're gonna be Okay, we've met you. 261 00:15:56,800 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 3: From the hippie generation. Weren't you me? 262 00:15:59,600 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 1: I don't. I was born I was. I was an 263 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 1: eighties kid. So I've read your high school in mid eighties. 264 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 1: So yeah, I was. I was that kind of guy. Yeah. 265 00:16:10,840 --> 00:16:16,520 Speaker 1: And I'm sure that the generation in front of me, 266 00:16:17,040 --> 00:16:19,680 Speaker 1: when we were running around with Waltman's on our head, 267 00:16:20,160 --> 00:16:24,160 Speaker 1: yeah and uh and playing video games with our quarters 268 00:16:24,320 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 1: and and all of that, we were the last of 269 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 1: the humanity. I'm certain of it. 270 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that rock and roll almost got us rock 271 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:33,960 Speaker 3: and roll. 272 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:38,960 Speaker 1: That was bad too. Guys, thank you so much for 273 00:16:39,200 --> 00:16:43,080 Speaker 1: sharing your stories. Thank you so much for giving us 274 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:46,480 Speaker 1: a little insight as to what little dybd park. Maybe 275 00:16:46,560 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 1: an episode or two of Shop Talk on Army and 276 00:16:49,360 --> 00:16:52,360 Speaker 1: Normal Folks where one of our guests has done to 277 00:16:53,440 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 1: maybe inspire but help at least shape some of your future. 278 00:16:58,520 --> 00:17:00,920 Speaker 1: Before we go, I want to throw it out to 279 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 1: y'all if anybody as a question for me, I've asked 280 00:17:04,600 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 1: all the questions. If everybody has a question for me 281 00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:11,120 Speaker 1: about any of our guests, about Shop Talk, about Army 282 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:13,199 Speaker 1: and normal folks, I want to throw it out to you. 283 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 1: And I don't do this very often, so God knows, 284 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:19,000 Speaker 1: you may ask me something I don't want to answer. 285 00:17:19,000 --> 00:17:23,159 Speaker 1: But if anybody does have any questions before we end, 286 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 1: it's an open mic, go for it. I have one, Yeah, 287 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:30,399 Speaker 1: go for it. 288 00:17:30,440 --> 00:17:32,919 Speaker 5: Well, you've interviewed a lot of people and people that 289 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:36,359 Speaker 5: have made small change and big change in people's lives. 290 00:17:36,680 --> 00:17:39,440 Speaker 5: What do you think the common denominator is in those 291 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:46,000 Speaker 5: individuals that like pushes them forward and you know, they 292 00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:49,439 Speaker 5: like make their dreams come true and you know, do 293 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:51,879 Speaker 5: things for others? Like what is that common denominator in 294 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 5: people that use spoken with that question? 295 00:17:54,840 --> 00:18:02,360 Speaker 1: And I think there's actually two. One is certainly a passion. 296 00:18:04,200 --> 00:18:08,639 Speaker 1: I haven't interviewed a single guest that hadn't had a genuine, 297 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:15,800 Speaker 1: deep seated passion about what they were involved in. And 298 00:18:15,800 --> 00:18:20,200 Speaker 1: and I think that the lesson there is if it's 299 00:18:21,400 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 1: if you're engaged in something that doesn't really feel like work, 300 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:27,760 Speaker 1: you're probably going to be pretty good at it. And 301 00:18:27,800 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 1: whether that's what you do for a living, or what 302 00:18:30,560 --> 00:18:34,919 Speaker 1: you do in your community, or your relationships. You know, 303 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 1: I think all of us have had relationships for that 304 00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:40,720 Speaker 1: felt like work, and those are probably not the most 305 00:18:40,800 --> 00:18:45,040 Speaker 1: healthy things. But all of our guests about the work 306 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:51,960 Speaker 1: that they were doing sound passion. And now many times 307 00:18:51,960 --> 00:18:55,960 Speaker 1: that passion was because they were maybe be overcoming some 308 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 1: dysfunction in their own lives. Sometimes that passion is just 309 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 1: because they possessed an order amount of empathy toward a 310 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:07,959 Speaker 1: particular group of people or situation. Some because they just 311 00:19:08,359 --> 00:19:11,600 Speaker 1: see a need and felt called to fill it. But 312 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 1: for whatever reason, I think every single guest has passion 313 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:22,280 Speaker 1: about what they're interested in, really deep seated. This matters 314 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 1: to me. Passion. And the second, and maybe the more 315 00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 1: difficult is they all overcame a fear of failure. I 316 00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:37,879 Speaker 1: think one of the greatest barriers to success is the 317 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:40,679 Speaker 1: fear to fail. And I think we need to remember 318 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:45,160 Speaker 1: him that. I think Abraham Lincoln ran for fourteen offices, 319 00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:48,880 Speaker 1: but he only won one race. He literally won one. 320 00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:51,680 Speaker 1: It was one for fourteen and political races, and he 321 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 1: changed our country. I think the fear of failure manifests 322 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:03,440 Speaker 1: itself in a couple of different ways. One is, you know, 323 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:05,600 Speaker 1: if I'm going to start a business and I'm going 324 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 1: to take all of the money I have and I'm 325 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:12,400 Speaker 1: going to mortgage my house. If my business fails, I'm 326 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 1: going to lose everything. And that's a real fear. And 327 00:20:18,280 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 1: if the fear of that prohibits you from ever trying 328 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 1: to reach a goal, then that fear of failure is 329 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:30,960 Speaker 1: the greatest barrier to success because you can never start. 330 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:34,680 Speaker 1: You can never find success if you don't try. Another 331 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 1: piece of fear of failure is societal fear. For instance, 332 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:46,560 Speaker 1: what if you do start that garden in town and 333 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 1: nobody shows up to help, and yeah, oh look, you 334 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:55,040 Speaker 1: just largest covered your lips went, Oh my gosh. I mean, 335 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:57,560 Speaker 1: what if nobody shows up to help. What if the 336 00:20:57,600 --> 00:21:01,160 Speaker 1: people that can pay don't. You've got a garden out 337 00:21:01,160 --> 00:21:04,480 Speaker 1: there with some people working in it for the free produce, 338 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:07,320 Speaker 1: But where's the money gonna come from? Wow, it's a 339 00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:11,679 Speaker 1: lot of work because weeds grow in gardens, and you 340 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:14,960 Speaker 1: got to have the space, and then you gotta have tools, 341 00:21:15,000 --> 00:21:17,480 Speaker 1: and then you gotta have water, and you gotta probably 342 00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 1: have to have some fertilizer. And if nobody shows up, 343 00:21:21,000 --> 00:21:22,920 Speaker 1: then it's on you to pick it. And I mean, 344 00:21:22,960 --> 00:21:25,520 Speaker 1: if you think about it, my gosh, what an awesome 345 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:30,640 Speaker 1: responsibility and what an enormous amount of work. Gosh, it's 346 00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:35,000 Speaker 1: a great idea, but man, all that stuff, I just 347 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:38,159 Speaker 1: don't we want to begin in the first place. Well, 348 00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 1: I can guarantee you this, there's never going to be 349 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:46,840 Speaker 1: an urban garden in Hattiesburg. If there's fear of failure 350 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 1: won't happen. So when you match passion with fear of failure, 351 00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:58,800 Speaker 1: the question is your passion greater than your fear? And 352 00:21:58,880 --> 00:22:01,879 Speaker 1: if your passion is greater than in fear, then things 353 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:05,480 Speaker 1: can happen. And certainly there's going to be failures along 354 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 1: the way, but the success is far the good that 355 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,800 Speaker 1: comes from the cess is far outweigh the failure. But 356 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:19,520 Speaker 1: if our passion is a lot greater than our fear 357 00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:23,159 Speaker 1: of failure that's prohibiting us from even trying in the 358 00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:28,600 Speaker 1: first place, well then where's the growth. So I think 359 00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:32,359 Speaker 1: all of our guests who we highlight have both a 360 00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:38,520 Speaker 1: passion and have had the courage and the temerity to 361 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:41,600 Speaker 1: put aside their fill of failure fear of failure and 362 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:45,399 Speaker 1: forge ahead anyway, And in doing so, each of the 363 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:48,560 Speaker 1: episodes will highlight all of the many lives they've affected 364 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:51,159 Speaker 1: as a result of their passion and their willingness to 365 00:22:51,200 --> 00:23:08,399 Speaker 1: overcome their film failure. We'll be right back anybody else 366 00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:12,440 Speaker 1: any other questions. 367 00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 2: What's your h I know that's going to be a 368 00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:15,880 Speaker 2: hard question, But if you had to recommend, like one 369 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:18,359 Speaker 2: epithode you someone can only listen to one epithet of 370 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,119 Speaker 2: your podcast, what episode would it be? 371 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:23,280 Speaker 1: That is not a fair question because I love them 372 00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:25,679 Speaker 1: all and all of our guests are great. But I 373 00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:32,840 Speaker 1: will tell you and and candidly, it's like it's like, 374 00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:36,679 Speaker 1: that's like asking me what's my favorite movie? Because my 375 00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:44,760 Speaker 1: favorite horror movie is absolutely The Shining, right, But The 376 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:47,639 Speaker 1: Shining is not even better than Step Brothers. It's just 377 00:23:47,640 --> 00:23:54,919 Speaker 1: Stepbrothers my favorite comedy. Right. So in fairness to my 378 00:23:55,040 --> 00:24:00,359 Speaker 1: favorite shows, there's certainly genres of our shows, right, There's 379 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:03,920 Speaker 1: there's people who started stuff, there's people you know, so 380 00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:08,280 Speaker 1: it's all different. But in general, I will tell you 381 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 1: one of my favorites, and I really hope you will 382 00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 1: all go listen to it. One of my favorites, and 383 00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:19,960 Speaker 1: maybe because it was one of my first, but also 384 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:22,919 Speaker 1: because I went there and witnessed what was going on. 385 00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:29,359 Speaker 1: Was John Ponder in Las Vegas, who was a four 386 00:24:29,480 --> 00:24:35,920 Speaker 1: or five times loster who finally got arrested for Robin Banks, 387 00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:38,959 Speaker 1: and the FBI agent that arrested him and sent him 388 00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:42,399 Speaker 1: to the federal penitentiary prayed for him by name daily, 389 00:24:43,840 --> 00:24:46,960 Speaker 1: and John sentence, which should have been in the thirties 390 00:24:47,000 --> 00:24:50,800 Speaker 1: of years, got to be seven, and he spent his 391 00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:54,480 Speaker 1: seven years in prison figuring out how to create a 392 00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:58,800 Speaker 1: reentry program that would work. And now in Las Vegas, 393 00:24:59,280 --> 00:25:02,640 Speaker 1: where there was city vision rate is typically seventy percent 394 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 1: seventy five percent, he runs a re entry program with 395 00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:09,679 Speaker 1: the CityVision rate is less than six percent. And the 396 00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:14,440 Speaker 1: secret behind his sauces he matches up of returning citizens 397 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:19,880 Speaker 1: from jail with mentors who walk with them to get 398 00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:26,080 Speaker 1: them reintroduced society. But the mentors are volunteers from the show, 399 00:25:26,320 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 1: from the Las Vegas Sheriff's Department, Las Vegas of PI, 400 00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 1: the Las Vegas So what he's doing is he is 401 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:36,840 Speaker 1: coupling up on a one on one basis law enforcement 402 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:45,439 Speaker 1: with returning prisoners returning to society. And what's happened is, 403 00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:48,920 Speaker 1: as a side benefit of keeping people from going back 404 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:53,840 Speaker 1: to jail, is law enforcement are starting to see parolleys 405 00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:57,240 Speaker 1: and convicts as human beings, and these human beings are 406 00:25:57,240 --> 00:26:00,159 Speaker 1: starting to see people who happen to be in law 407 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:03,040 Speaker 1: enforcements a job beyond the badge, as human beings, and 408 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:05,840 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, they're having a lot less poor 409 00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:11,400 Speaker 1: interactions between law enforcement and folks who interact with law enforcement. 410 00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:16,800 Speaker 1: It's a incredible story. Additionally, you know Russell Butler, the 411 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:21,240 Speaker 1: dancing ups guy, is awesome. It's a US UPS guy, 412 00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:26,000 Speaker 1: and he has dealt with depression and he happens to 413 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:31,280 Speaker 1: be an incredible dancer like Ice Ice Baby. Not ballroom dance, 414 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:34,119 Speaker 1: but dancing. And this guy when he see when he 415 00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:37,640 Speaker 1: delivers packages and sees somebody that looks like their dabbers 416 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,680 Speaker 1: in the dirt or maybe a little down, he puts 417 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:44,960 Speaker 1: some music on and just dances for him. And now 418 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:48,120 Speaker 1: he's got over a million followers on TikTok and all 419 00:26:48,160 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 1: those social media things. And he came and visited for 420 00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:53,879 Speaker 1: us and dance for us. As story's phenomenal. It's just 421 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:57,720 Speaker 1: a guy. He's passionate about dancing, sees an occasional need 422 00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:02,560 Speaker 1: with somebody's a little unhappy, depressed employees, that ability where's 423 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:07,720 Speaker 1: passion is for people and just dances and put smiles 424 00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,080 Speaker 1: on people's faces. And how simple is that? 425 00:27:10,600 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 2: You know? 426 00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:13,200 Speaker 1: It costs nothing but a little bit of time. And ever, 427 00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:17,240 Speaker 1: I love that guy, and then I think of and 428 00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:22,520 Speaker 1: I think of you know, people like and Mallam and 429 00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:28,240 Speaker 1: Mallam was struggling with Bolimia and didn't know where life 430 00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:30,880 Speaker 1: was going to take her, and her father had gambled 431 00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:36,119 Speaker 1: away everything, and her therapy was running. And she was 432 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 1: running through the streets of Philadelphia one day and ran 433 00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 1: past a homeless shelter every day, and one day the 434 00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,080 Speaker 1: guy's on the porch screamed down, Hey, is all you 435 00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:47,159 Speaker 1: do all day is run around here? And Anne's a 436 00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:49,359 Speaker 1: little edgy, and she just screamed right back at him, 437 00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:50,960 Speaker 1: is all you do is set on your ass on 438 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 1: the porch all day as she ran by. But she 439 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:56,000 Speaker 1: thought about it, and she thought, you know my dad 440 00:27:57,359 --> 00:28:00,119 Speaker 1: who gambled away all of our savings, that could be 441 00:28:00,240 --> 00:28:02,800 Speaker 1: him on that homeless shelter. So the next day she 442 00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:05,480 Speaker 1: went on the homeless shelter and said, hey, I'd like 443 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:08,440 Speaker 1: to start a running club. And they're like, the only 444 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 1: time homeless people run is when it's from the police. 445 00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:16,320 Speaker 1: Nobody starts running. The homeless don't jog. So she said, 446 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:19,000 Speaker 1: just give me a shot. She held them accountable, and 447 00:28:19,040 --> 00:28:21,720 Speaker 1: she said, you know, I just figured if the one 448 00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:24,400 Speaker 1: thing you can't cheat is running, you have to keep 449 00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:26,679 Speaker 1: your feet right in front of the other. If I 450 00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:29,280 Speaker 1: can teach these guys to get up every morning at 451 00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:31,440 Speaker 1: six point thirty and be committed to running and run 452 00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,679 Speaker 1: five miles no matter what. If they can learn that 453 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:37,080 Speaker 1: skill set, maybe they can learn how to not be 454 00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:44,240 Speaker 1: homeless anymore. And this kid running from her own problems 455 00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:47,080 Speaker 1: started a thing called Back on My Feet and has 456 00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 1: served homeless people all over the country. And I think 457 00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:55,200 Speaker 1: as recently as a year ago, had been directly responsible 458 00:28:55,240 --> 00:29:01,479 Speaker 1: for seventy eight hundred previously homeless people now having jobs 459 00:29:01,480 --> 00:29:04,960 Speaker 1: at all as a result of running here. That's and 460 00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:08,720 Speaker 1: Mallem's story. They're just countless stories, over and over. The 461 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:15,720 Speaker 1: last one I'll tell you is child bedlessness. Whoever knew 462 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 1: there was a thing? And so a guy starts making 463 00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:22,080 Speaker 1: bunk beds on Christmas break and he makes his kids 464 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:25,040 Speaker 1: get off the couch because he started watching play video games, 465 00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:28,800 Speaker 1: and they build a bug bed and his garage. That's it. 466 00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,360 Speaker 1: Put it on Facebook that I ain't anything else to 467 00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:34,200 Speaker 1: do with it, and immediately it goes and he finds 468 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:36,840 Speaker 1: out all of these people in his hometown that have 469 00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,840 Speaker 1: children without beds, and so over the poor Schris breaking 470 00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:42,520 Speaker 1: his kids build five or six more bump beds and 471 00:29:42,560 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 1: give them away. It makes it makes them feel great, 472 00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:50,800 Speaker 1: and he starts Sleeping Heavenly Peace with the motto no 473 00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:54,800 Speaker 1: kid in my town sleeps on the floor. He doesn't 474 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:57,360 Speaker 1: think that children should put on their school clothes and 475 00:29:57,360 --> 00:30:00,400 Speaker 1: then use them as their mattress every day. This thing 476 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:03,480 Speaker 1: has grown to have chapters all over the country, and 477 00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:07,280 Speaker 1: they've built two hundred and seventy thousand beds virture in 478 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 1: the United States that don't have beds. But the coolest 479 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:15,400 Speaker 1: thing is our episode is airing and a preacher who 480 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:18,480 Speaker 1: supports an orphanage in Haiti. Now he a preacher in 481 00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:22,120 Speaker 1: Florida who supports an orphanage in Haiti listens to the 482 00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 1: thing and calls orphanage in Haiti and says, have you 483 00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:28,400 Speaker 1: heard this? And the guy that runs orphans in Haiti said, oh, 484 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:30,960 Speaker 1: my gosh, this is amazing. He starts crying. We ended 485 00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:34,040 Speaker 1: up meeting him. We bring him on to talk about 486 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:36,880 Speaker 1: his orphanage in Haiti. And his orphanage in Haiti is 487 00:30:36,920 --> 00:30:39,160 Speaker 1: on a few places that has running water in a 488 00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:42,680 Speaker 1: wood shop and because they teach children, and so now 489 00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:46,800 Speaker 1: this orphanage in Haiti with their wood shop has joined 490 00:30:46,840 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 1: Sleep in Heavenly Peace, and they are now making beds. 491 00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:54,280 Speaker 1: That orphanage in Haiti is making beds for non to 492 00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:58,000 Speaker 1: orphan children in Haiti who don't have us as a 493 00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:02,880 Speaker 1: result to the Norman. So I could keep going. But 494 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:07,600 Speaker 1: there's story after story after story that show that passion 495 00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 1: and unwillingness to succumb to fear of failure, empathy and 496 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 1: a heart changes lives. And there's thousands of those stories 497 00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:24,040 Speaker 1: across our country, and we don't hear about them enough. 498 00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,680 Speaker 1: And our goal is to bring those stories to you, guys, 499 00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:31,800 Speaker 1: not only to entertain you, but hopefully inspire you to 500 00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:37,840 Speaker 1: not be afraid to start your garden in Hattisburg for 501 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 1: those who need fresh produce, or to start your facility 502 00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:49,080 Speaker 1: where a kid who doesn't have a computer can have 503 00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:54,560 Speaker 1: a computer to go to, or to start therapy with horses, 504 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:58,160 Speaker 1: where all of the other amazing ideas you guys have 505 00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:00,920 Speaker 1: come up with, and Doctor Smiths off to actually act 506 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:05,120 Speaker 1: on them, and to not only go to work and 507 00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:07,400 Speaker 1: social work and do the good work you do, but 508 00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,160 Speaker 1: also to change your community and your culture with the 509 00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,280 Speaker 1: very bright ideas that y'all have, be passionate about it, 510 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:17,480 Speaker 1: and don't be afraid to fail, because at fear of 511 00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:20,120 Speaker 1: failure would keep any of those things forever happening, and 512 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:26,480 Speaker 1: that would be a shame anybody else, Doctor Smith, do 513 00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:27,800 Speaker 1: you want to finish this up? 514 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:34,880 Speaker 2: I just want to tell everyone how extremely proud I guess. 515 00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 2: I don't know if I pulled them enough, how extremely 516 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:40,920 Speaker 2: proud I am of them for all the things that 517 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:44,680 Speaker 2: they are doing and are going to do in their 518 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:49,800 Speaker 2: careers going forward. I know Amy graduated last year and 519 00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:53,360 Speaker 2: so she's been doing for a year now, so she's 520 00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:57,000 Speaker 2: got a head start. Will he didn't get a chance 521 00:32:57,080 --> 00:33:00,800 Speaker 2: to tell but he's going on to law school. Wow, 522 00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:05,320 Speaker 2: so he wants to change things on a bigger level. 523 00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:12,320 Speaker 1: So yeah, that's guys. I'm glad we had the time together. 524 00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 1: And yeah, like I said, just talking to y'all in 525 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:20,520 Speaker 1: have this chat encourages me. And I think doctor Smith 526 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,840 Speaker 1: put it put it best. Sure not. We've got a 527 00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:26,720 Speaker 1: good group of young folks coming up that are working hard. 528 00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:29,960 Speaker 1: And if we could ignore all this stupid stuff out 529 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:33,240 Speaker 1: of TC in New York and social media and everything else, 530 00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,160 Speaker 1: and and remember our humanity, I think we're all going 531 00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,800 Speaker 1: to be fine. Thanks for involving an army and normal 532 00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:42,840 Speaker 1: folks and your education, your lives and uh now, thanks 533 00:33:42,840 --> 00:33:44,840 Speaker 1: for being a part of it with us. I don't 534 00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:48,360 Speaker 1: know when this episode is gonna gonna go, but I 535 00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,760 Speaker 1: hope you'll share it with all your friends and and 536 00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 1: help us grow this uh, this group of people who 537 00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:58,160 Speaker 1: hopefully will become a movement in our country to continue 538 00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:02,720 Speaker 1: to better our culture in our society. So Doctor Smith 539 00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:05,880 Speaker 1: and former students and young people getting out there and 540 00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:09,160 Speaker 1: making a difference. I really appreciate you joining me today. 541 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:11,960 Speaker 2: Thank you so much for having us. 542 00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:18,759 Speaker 1: Thank thank you, bye everybody, bye, thank you, and thank 543 00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:22,040 Speaker 1: you for joining us this week. 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