WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Check Marks The Spot

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up dated? How soon is too soon to

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<v Speaker 1>ask someone to move in with you?

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<v Speaker 2>WHOA, that's a huge question.

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<v Speaker 1>It is the first twenty minutes of a date too early.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna go out on a limb there, Jeff and

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<v Speaker 3>say yes, absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, Judge, Okay, Okay. That has nothing to do with

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<v Speaker 1>our listener Corey in his date. It's just a personal

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<v Speaker 1>question that I've been having for myself. But I'm curious

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<v Speaker 1>to your horra's thoughts on it. Corey. And your opinion

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<v Speaker 1>is twenty minutes too early to hand someone the key

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<v Speaker 1>to your apartment? Yeah, just trying to get an idea

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<v Speaker 1>of the type of dater or you. Are you a

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<v Speaker 1>snails paced type of guy or jumping to love quickly?

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<v Speaker 1>Feel like he's twenty four minutes? Okay? Yeah, you like

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<v Speaker 1>to play it medium, gotcha? But uh, tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>the date that you went on recently? Who's the girl

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<v Speaker 1>you met?

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<v Speaker 4>I met a girl named Melanie, Okay, and honestly, she's

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<v Speaker 4>like the prettiest girl I've ever gone out with. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know, and dating is hard, yeah a lot. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't meet people easy. So I tried these apps, and

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<v Speaker 4>I think most of them don't work. But I did

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<v Speaker 4>get to talking to Melanie, and she has curly blonde hair,

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<v Speaker 4>and she's like the perfect height, what is.

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<v Speaker 2>The perfect tight? I'm just curious for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Different for everyone, you know, like five three, Yeah, that's perfect.

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<v Speaker 4>And I really liked that she didn't have fake eyelashes.

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<v Speaker 4>I just like a girl to be like her natural self,

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<v Speaker 4>to ask her if she's.

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<v Speaker 1>Getting highlights, because no, let's just physical stuff. Tell us

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<v Speaker 1>about the date that you went on. Where did you

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<v Speaker 1>take her?

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<v Speaker 4>Well? I found a neat place to go to dinners

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<v Speaker 4>because I thought we'd had some good food and talk

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<v Speaker 4>and I thought everything had gone well. And then I

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<v Speaker 4>got uncomfortable. I wasn't sure, so I googled, like, how

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<v Speaker 4>do you know if you had perfect date?

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<v Speaker 2>Is this after we dealt with the date when you're googling.

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<v Speaker 1>Or you're googling this at the table, like the next day, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>the next day, you were unsure how it really went.

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<v Speaker 4>So there were four questions and I went through them.

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<v Speaker 4>So like the first one says was I comfortable? And

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, I had a really good chair,

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<v Speaker 4>so I was physically comfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>What that means.

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<v Speaker 2>I think comfortable sharing right and being yourself.

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<v Speaker 4>I would say, yes, I was not ten. And then

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<v Speaker 4>the next one is did I laugh? And I mean

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<v Speaker 4>I never had like the huge Big Bang Theory kind

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<v Speaker 4>of laugh, but I chuckle.

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<v Speaker 1>You laughed big at the Big Bang Theory. Huh oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>ok yeah, yeah, I don't know now that you say that,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that you've laughed with us once. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't think we're funny. But you did laugh

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<v Speaker 1>with her at all?

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<v Speaker 2>He giggled.

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<v Speaker 4>I yeah I did, and so I think that's a pass.

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<v Speaker 4>I go check mark on that one.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what's next?

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<v Speaker 4>And then it's did she ask me any questions?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh? Huh?

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<v Speaker 4>So she did? Like I ordered chicken with no onions

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<v Speaker 4>and she was like, wow, so you really don't like onions,

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<v Speaker 4>And like, I mean she asked me other stuff too.

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<v Speaker 1>It's deep. She wants to get to know you.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds like a big conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, I don't answer those questions on the first date. Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that the whole list?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, and then the very last one was after the date,

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<v Speaker 4>do you feel excited? And it' said excited means you

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<v Speaker 4>want to sing a bop or dance or you call

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<v Speaker 4>a friend and I did celtics excited. But then tomorrow

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<v Speaker 4>came and uh, and she's not texting me back. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm excited, but maybe she isn't. I don't know what happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean, you sound like a pretty analytical guy.

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<v Speaker 3>Were you able to come off you think as natural

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<v Speaker 3>and show off like some personality.

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<v Speaker 2>On the date?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, like, what do you how would you do that? Like?

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<v Speaker 4>What do you mean? No?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you like talk about your interests or make jokes?

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<v Speaker 3>Were you self deprecating it all?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you bring any like flair to the date, like

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<v Speaker 1>something a little bit out of the box. I maybe

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<v Speaker 1>tried the disappearing finger trick on her.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait a minute, that's flair.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we just had dinner. There was no fingers thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, the fingers.

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<v Speaker 2>Chicken with no onions. Is that not flair enough?

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<v Speaker 1>He does the hand motion and she's like, what where

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<v Speaker 1>did your finger go?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>My goodness, that sparks something. So how long has it

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<v Speaker 1>been since you and Melanie went on that date?

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<v Speaker 4>It's been like five days?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right? And no response at all.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. Maybe she didn't feel as

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<v Speaker 4>excited as I did.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe man, Brook is yawning.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Brook can't stand to be on the phone. You

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<v Speaker 1>can't see me. Let anyway you can tell Brooke is

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<v Speaker 1>really invested in this. When we come back, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call Melanie.

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<v Speaker 2>Not you, man. It's just early, that's all.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna do our best for you, I promise when

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<v Speaker 1>we try and get your second date update right after this. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thing anyone listening to me second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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<v Speaker 3>and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing

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<v Speaker 3>right after you here Part two.

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<v Speaker 1>If only our man Corey would have brought his checklist

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<v Speaker 1>along on the date with him instead of waiting until

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<v Speaker 1>afterwards to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>That would be a good idea job.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, then maybe they could have checked each other's boxes together.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe she's a box checker too.

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<v Speaker 1>Could be because Corey says he doesn't date a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>but he managed to lock down a dinner with a

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<v Speaker 1>woman named Melanie. Yeah that's the mel Yep, Yeah, got

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<v Speaker 1>confused for a second. But the thing about Melanie is

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<v Speaker 1>she's our natural no fake eyelashes and the perfect tight

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<v Speaker 1>of foot three. He couldn't think of any missteps or

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<v Speaker 1>mistakes or missed opportunities that happened during the date. The

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<v Speaker 1>only miss is him missing her after it's all over.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're going to try and reconnect them here in

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<v Speaker 1>just a second. Corey, how you feeling?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh nervous?

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>We concentrate it a lot on her like physical appearance.

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<v Speaker 3>What did you like about her personality?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? I mean she's kind and she's nice, and I

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<v Speaker 4>like that about her.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't force Brooke to make you find things about her

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<v Speaker 1>personality that you will if you like her for her looks.

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<v Speaker 1>That's totally accepted.

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<v Speaker 3>We're calling this person. It's good to know we're calling

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<v Speaker 3>a kind, nice person.

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<v Speaker 1>We're all going to put on our best, kind nice

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<v Speaker 1>faces for this phone call and try and get you

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<v Speaker 1>a second day.

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<v Speaker 4>You ready, I think? So?

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<v Speaker 2>All right? You got this, buddy?

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go.

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<v Speaker 5>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is this Melanie?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Melanie? What's up? You're on the radio right now

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<v Speaker 1>with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>By Hey, Melanie, how you doing show?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay? Okay, I know, Oh wait, what do you know?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my gosh, you can't believe you guys are calling me.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't really know what's happening, but I did recent

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<v Speaker 5>me a text wait from minutes ago from Corey.

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<v Speaker 1>He texted what what?

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<v Speaker 2>What did he say?

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<v Speaker 5>He kind of just like warned me that no, you

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<v Speaker 5>guys were going to do this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah wait wait wait wait wait, you just ruined it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the whole point.

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<v Speaker 4>I know.

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<v Speaker 2>But that might be good for her. That shows that

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<v Speaker 2>he cares about you.

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<v Speaker 3>And what did not like surprise you with these types of.

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<v Speaker 1>Supposed to give her a heads up.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what's going on. I just he just

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<v Speaker 5>told me, you guys are gonna call me.

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<v Speaker 4>So okay, Okay, that's all.

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<v Speaker 1>So what we're doing here is called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>That's where we try and help listeners who've been out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date to figure out the reason why they're

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<v Speaker 1>not getting a second meet up.

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<v Speaker 2>He said, you haven't texted them back.

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<v Speaker 5>I haven't.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, So that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>You're allowed to not call someone back. But it would

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<v Speaker 1>help him if he could get a reason or figure

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<v Speaker 1>out if something was wrong about the date because he's

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<v Speaker 1>just unsure.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay. So we were talking about TV and he

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<v Speaker 5>got really really excited about a TV show and I'm

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<v Speaker 5>not even remembering what it was, because I don't even

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<v Speaker 5>know what it's all. And then he just said, Helen

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<v Speaker 5>Hunt is so unappreciated.

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<v Speaker 3>And haven't I thought you were going to say Big

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<v Speaker 3>Bang Theory? Because he brought up with us that he

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<v Speaker 3>was a fan of Big Bang Theory.

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<v Speaker 1>Helen Hunt.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you remember her?

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<v Speaker 3>She was like a nineties actress that was in a

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<v Speaker 3>bunch of sitcoms.

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<v Speaker 5>You cannot bring Big Bank Theory up. He brought a

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<v Speaker 5>TV show I've never heard of, got very intense and animated.

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<v Speaker 5>He got very very excited about it. You just hands

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<v Speaker 5>a lot, But.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't you kind of like hi, when people dork out

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<v Speaker 3>over things that they like, you know, he just he

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<v Speaker 3>finally found something to show you that.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, fun, It wasn't that. I honestly, I like a

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<v Speaker 5>little bit more reserved men.

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<v Speaker 2>I just do okay. So he was too excited.

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<v Speaker 1>When we talked to him. He did not seem super

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<v Speaker 1>high energy a favorite TV show.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a good point.

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<v Speaker 5>It's too excitable.

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<v Speaker 1>He's too excited about Well, let's put that into the

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<v Speaker 1>test because I gotta let you know, Melanie that Corey

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<v Speaker 1>is actually on the other line listening right now, and

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<v Speaker 1>wanting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>No, he's not.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that's how this works. That is wild, Corey.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think about what she said? That you're

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<v Speaker 1>too much for her, You're too animated.

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<v Speaker 2>I am still in shocked.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't understand. Honestly, I was just trying to be

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<v Speaker 4>nice and I thought I was probably boring. I probably

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't exciting him at all.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm glad he said it.

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't want to say it, but like after your

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<v Speaker 3>review of the date, that's what it sounded like to

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<v Speaker 3>me too, even waiting to say that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, Broke.

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<v Speaker 1>Apparently you were wrong. Apparently he was way over the

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<v Speaker 1>top exciting.

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<v Speaker 4>This is confusing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, maybe you can help clear it up for him, Melanie,

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't think it's matching with what you said.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and you you are so nice. It was just

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<v Speaker 5>a little too much for me. And that's it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>look you right now, I mean, you put me on

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<v Speaker 5>the radio extreme.

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<v Speaker 4>I can tone it back if you want. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 4>would like to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, just hear how he said that you'll be asleep

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<v Speaker 3>if you tone it back anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I get it. I can get excited about things,

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<v Speaker 4>but not to date.

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<v Speaker 1>Me.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, well, you know what you're telling us a little crazy,

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<v Speaker 5>So just suddle yourself a little.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait you're saying right now, he's sounding crazy.

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<v Speaker 5>Getting a little looked up. I can kind of hear

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<v Speaker 5>it in his voice.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, maybe Corey, can you tone it down a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit when you talk to her? Here happened?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I've been told that. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>I think this isn't the first.

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<v Speaker 1>Time I tell you that.

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<v Speaker 4>This is why dating so hard. You never know what

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<v Speaker 4>people want.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it is shocking. I mean, I will say, Melanie.

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<v Speaker 3>In Corey's defense, he's listening to you, he's taking in

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<v Speaker 3>what you're he's not he's not even upset about what

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<v Speaker 3>you said.

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<v Speaker 5>I get that. I just for my personal preference, I

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<v Speaker 5>just like don't want to be with somebody that's that

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<v Speaker 5>animated and like so out of control like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's something that Corey can work on. He can

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<v Speaker 1>take some classes or something.

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<v Speaker 2>Before the date.

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<v Speaker 1>He makes it sound like a cartoon care Corey, can

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<v Speaker 1>can you talk to her in a calm, controlled manner

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<v Speaker 1>to prove to her that you're the man she wants

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<v Speaker 1>you to be.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not sure I agree with what you said. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know that I need to be on medication or

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<v Speaker 4>here you're.

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<v Speaker 2>Pushing back against No, I was joking. That was me, Corey.

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<v Speaker 2>I was joking about being sedated.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, now's your chance, Corey to talk to Melanie a

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<v Speaker 1>little improved, to her that you're the right guy.

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<v Speaker 4>Melanie would be a little quieter. I just think you're really

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<v Speaker 4>pretty to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Hear that, Melody?

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<v Speaker 5>That's so sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>What other calm things would you like to say to her?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay? Can we try this again?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you feeling the growth here already? Melanie? I think

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<v Speaker 1>we're taking steps towards a calmer, more even keel version

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<v Speaker 1>of Corey here.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, I know that's what you're hearing, but you guys,

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<v Speaker 5>that's not what I'm hearing.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's still too intense for you.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you meeting men that are more calm than this?

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<v Speaker 2>I know I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, this is my truth and I'm living in it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, bro, keep your judgments over. There's fascinating, Melanie. We

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<v Speaker 1>all respect you and what you want for yourself, that's

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<v Speaker 1>totally up to you. But we would love to send

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<v Speaker 1>you out on another date with Corey on our dime.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're up for it. If not, that's okay pretty please.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, if they just get us off this air,

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<v Speaker 5>we can try, we can try again.

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<v Speaker 4>All right.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I want to be excited for you, Corey, but

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that would backfire against us. So this

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<v Speaker 1>is good.

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<v Speaker 4>Hooray, don't there.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's let's try it a little try, a little lighter, Corey.

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<v Speaker 4>Hooray.

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<v Speaker 1>Congratulations Corey, you're now finally ready to date a real woman.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like this is what would happen if MPR

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<v Speaker 2>did second dates.

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<v Speaker 5>I know, freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>That call happened months ago, And despite all of the

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<v Speaker 1>skeptics and all of the doubters, Corey and Melanie are

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<v Speaker 1>both back today to give us a second date up

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<v Speaker 1>date update.

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<v Speaker 2>Please tell it with skydiving.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome back to the show.

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<v Speaker 5>You too, Hi guys?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey, was that a little too much for ye?

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<v Speaker 1>Corey? Are you there?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Yeah? Hello, Okay Corey?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? And why'd you guys email us for

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<v Speaker 1>an update?

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<v Speaker 4>Here?

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<v Speaker 5>We just trying to let you guys know that it's

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<v Speaker 5>going good.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, updates? So wait, you're dating dating?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? And after hearing the second date up big back

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<v Speaker 5>from the radio. Yeah, yeah, I did. I do realize

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<v Speaker 5>I was being kind of extra okay, a little needy

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<v Speaker 5>on the I want him to be himself. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>want him to be weird. I don't want to control him,

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<v Speaker 5>you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Funny, he hasn't said anything.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, can I say something? Is that okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>You don't have to ask me.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh no, I just it's nice and I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>I'm finding my voice and uh yeah, it's greatship.

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<v Speaker 1>Corey.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean the answer is basically yes, but you know

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<v Speaker 4>it's it's nice because I'm feeling like I can really

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<v Speaker 4>be myself.

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<v Speaker 1>As long as Melanie allows it. Yeah, I do think.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say a lot of people listening were definitely

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<v Speaker 1>skeptical that this relationship would work out between you two. Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>even us in the room, we're a little bit skeptical

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<v Speaker 1>about it.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, honestly, I just want you guys to know that

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<v Speaker 5>he is really amazing and I wanted to thank you guys,

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<v Speaker 5>especially for convincing me to keep it going and making

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<v Speaker 5>it work.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's good. Happy and Corey are you happy?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you happy to be strong armed into this relationship?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, I'm a rock star, right.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a good feeling. Okay. Well, best of lucky to

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<v Speaker 1>keep us updated on your blossoming relationship. Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and you know that Big Bang Theory show is

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<v Speaker 5>actually pretty good. So I just wanted to let

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<v Speaker 1>You get Okay, yeah, Coy, you Rockstar's rookie Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning.