Speaker 1: Second date up dated? How soon is too soon to
Speaker 1: ask someone to move in with you?
Speaker 2: WHOA, that's a huge question.
Speaker 1: It is the first twenty minutes of a date too early.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go out on a limb there, Jeff and
Speaker 3: say yes, absolutely.
Speaker 1: Wow, Judge, Okay, Okay. That has nothing to do with
Speaker 1: our listener Corey in his date. It's just a personal
Speaker 1: question that I've been having for myself. But I'm curious
Speaker 1: to your horra's thoughts on it. Corey. And your opinion
Speaker 1: is twenty minutes too early to hand someone the key
Speaker 1: to your apartment? Yeah, just trying to get an idea
Speaker 1: of the type of dater or you. Are you a
Speaker 1: snails paced type of guy or jumping to love quickly?
Speaker 1: Feel like he's twenty four minutes? Okay? Yeah, you like
Speaker 1: to play it medium, gotcha? But uh, tell us about
Speaker 1: the date that you went on recently? Who's the girl
Speaker 1: you met?
Speaker 4: I met a girl named Melanie, Okay, and honestly, she's
Speaker 4: like the prettiest girl I've ever gone out with. I
Speaker 4: don't know, and dating is hard, yeah a lot. I
Speaker 4: don't meet people easy. So I tried these apps, and
Speaker 4: I think most of them don't work. But I did
Speaker 4: get to talking to Melanie, and she has curly blonde hair,
Speaker 4: and she's like the perfect height, what is.
Speaker 2: The perfect tight? I'm just curious for you.
Speaker 1: Different for everyone, you know, like five three, Yeah, that's perfect.
Speaker 4: And I really liked that she didn't have fake eyelashes.
Speaker 4: I just like a girl to be like her natural self,
Speaker 4: to ask her if she's.
Speaker 1: Getting highlights, because no, let's just physical stuff. Tell us
Speaker 1: about the date that you went on. Where did you
Speaker 1: take her?
Speaker 4: Well? I found a neat place to go to dinners
Speaker 4: because I thought we'd had some good food and talk
Speaker 4: and I thought everything had gone well. And then I
Speaker 4: got uncomfortable. I wasn't sure, so I googled, like, how
Speaker 4: do you know if you had perfect date?
Speaker 2: Is this after we dealt with the date when you're googling.
Speaker 1: Or you're googling this at the table, like the next day, okay,
Speaker 1: the next day, you were unsure how it really went.
Speaker 4: So there were four questions and I went through them.
Speaker 4: So like the first one says was I comfortable? And
Speaker 4: and I was like, I had a really good chair,
Speaker 4: so I was physically comfortable.
Speaker 1: What that means.
Speaker 2: I think comfortable sharing right and being yourself.
Speaker 4: I would say, yes, I was not ten. And then
Speaker 4: the next one is did I laugh? And I mean
Speaker 4: I never had like the huge Big Bang Theory kind
Speaker 4: of laugh, but I chuckle.
Speaker 1: You laughed big at the Big Bang Theory. Huh oh yeah,
Speaker 1: ok yeah, yeah, I don't know now that you say that,
Speaker 1: I don't think that you've laughed with us once. No,
Speaker 1: I just don't think we're funny. But you did laugh
Speaker 1: with her at all?
Speaker 2: He giggled.
Speaker 4: I yeah I did, and so I think that's a pass.
Speaker 4: I go check mark on that one.
Speaker 1: Okay, what's next?
Speaker 4: And then it's did she ask me any questions?
Speaker 2: Uh? Huh?
Speaker 4: So she did? Like I ordered chicken with no onions
Speaker 4: and she was like, wow, so you really don't like onions,
Speaker 4: And like, I mean she asked me other stuff too.
Speaker 1: It's deep. She wants to get to know you.
Speaker 2: Sounds like a big conversation.
Speaker 1: He's like, I don't answer those questions on the first date. Okay?
Speaker 1: Is that the whole list?
Speaker 4: Well, and then the very last one was after the date,
Speaker 4: do you feel excited? And it' said excited means you
Speaker 4: want to sing a bop or dance or you call
Speaker 4: a friend and I did celtics excited. But then tomorrow
Speaker 4: came and uh, and she's not texting me back. I'm like,
Speaker 4: I'm excited, but maybe she isn't. I don't know what happened.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean, you sound like a pretty analytical guy.
Speaker 3: Were you able to come off you think as natural
Speaker 3: and show off like some personality.
Speaker 2: On the date?
Speaker 4: I mean, like, what do you how would you do that? Like?
Speaker 4: What do you mean? No?
Speaker 3: Did you like talk about your interests or make jokes?
Speaker 3: Were you self deprecating it all?
Speaker 1: Did you bring any like flair to the date, like
Speaker 1: something a little bit out of the box. I maybe
Speaker 1: tried the disappearing finger trick on her.
Speaker 2: Wait a minute, that's flair.
Speaker 4: Well, we just had dinner. There was no fingers thing.
Speaker 1: I mean, the fingers.
Speaker 2: Chicken with no onions. Is that not flair enough?
Speaker 1: He does the hand motion and she's like, what where
Speaker 1: did your finger go?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 1: My goodness, that sparks something. So how long has it
Speaker 1: been since you and Melanie went on that date?
Speaker 4: It's been like five days?
Speaker 2: Okay, all right? And no response at all.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. Maybe she didn't feel as
Speaker 4: excited as I did.
Speaker 2: Maybe man, Brook is yawning.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Brook can't stand to be on the phone. You
Speaker 1: can't see me. Let anyway you can tell Brooke is
Speaker 1: really invested in this. When we come back, we're gonna
Speaker 1: call Melanie.
Speaker 2: Not you, man. It's just early, that's all.
Speaker 1: We're gonna do our best for you, I promise when
Speaker 1: we try and get your second date update right after this. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: thing anyone listening to me second date update.
Speaker 3: You're in the middle of a second date update update,
Speaker 3: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing
Speaker 3: right after you here Part two.
Speaker 1: If only our man Corey would have brought his checklist
Speaker 1: along on the date with him instead of waiting until
Speaker 1: afterwards to do it.
Speaker 2: That would be a good idea job.
Speaker 1: Well, then maybe they could have checked each other's boxes together.
Speaker 2: Maybe she's a box checker too.
Speaker 1: Could be because Corey says he doesn't date a lot,
Speaker 1: but he managed to lock down a dinner with a
Speaker 1: woman named Melanie. Yeah that's the mel Yep, Yeah, got
Speaker 1: confused for a second. But the thing about Melanie is
Speaker 1: she's our natural no fake eyelashes and the perfect tight
Speaker 1: of foot three. He couldn't think of any missteps or
Speaker 1: mistakes or missed opportunities that happened during the date. The
Speaker 1: only miss is him missing her after it's all over.
Speaker 1: So we're going to try and reconnect them here in
Speaker 1: just a second. Corey, how you feeling?
Speaker 4: Oh nervous?
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 3: We concentrate it a lot on her like physical appearance.
Speaker 3: What did you like about her personality?
Speaker 4: Yeah? I mean she's kind and she's nice, and I
Speaker 4: like that about her.
Speaker 2: All right, So.
Speaker 1: Don't force Brooke to make you find things about her
Speaker 1: personality that you will if you like her for her looks.
Speaker 1: That's totally accepted.
Speaker 3: We're calling this person. It's good to know we're calling
Speaker 3: a kind, nice person.
Speaker 1: We're all going to put on our best, kind nice
Speaker 1: faces for this phone call and try and get you
Speaker 1: a second day.
Speaker 4: You ready, I think? So?
Speaker 2: All right? You got this, buddy?
Speaker 1: Here we go.
Speaker 5: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hey is this Melanie?
Speaker 4: Yes?
Speaker 1: Hey Melanie? What's up? You're on the radio right now
Speaker 1: with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: By Hey, Melanie, how you doing show?
Speaker 5: Okay? Okay, I know, Oh wait, what do you know?
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, you can't believe you guys are calling me.
Speaker 5: I don't really know what's happening, but I did recent
Speaker 5: me a text wait from minutes ago from Corey.
Speaker 1: He texted what what?
Speaker 2: What did he say?
Speaker 5: He kind of just like warned me that no, you
Speaker 5: guys were going to do this.
Speaker 1: Yeah wait wait wait wait wait, you just ruined it.
Speaker 1: That's the whole point.
Speaker 4: I know.
Speaker 2: But that might be good for her. That shows that
Speaker 2: he cares about you.
Speaker 3: And what did not like surprise you with these types of.
Speaker 1: Supposed to give her a heads up.
Speaker 5: I don't know what's going on. I just he just
Speaker 5: told me, you guys are gonna call me.
Speaker 4: So okay, Okay, that's all.
Speaker 1: So what we're doing here is called a second date update.
Speaker 1: That's where we try and help listeners who've been out
Speaker 1: on a date to figure out the reason why they're
Speaker 1: not getting a second meet up.
Speaker 2: He said, you haven't texted them back.
Speaker 5: I haven't.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So that's okay.
Speaker 1: You're allowed to not call someone back. But it would
Speaker 1: help him if he could get a reason or figure
Speaker 1: out if something was wrong about the date because he's
Speaker 1: just unsure.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay. So we were talking about TV and he
Speaker 5: got really really excited about a TV show and I'm
Speaker 5: not even remembering what it was, because I don't even
Speaker 5: know what it's all. And then he just said, Helen
Speaker 5: Hunt is so unappreciated.
Speaker 3: And haven't I thought you were going to say Big
Speaker 3: Bang Theory? Because he brought up with us that he
Speaker 3: was a fan of Big Bang Theory.
Speaker 1: Helen Hunt.
Speaker 2: Do you remember her?
Speaker 3: She was like a nineties actress that was in a
Speaker 3: bunch of sitcoms.
Speaker 5: You cannot bring Big Bank Theory up. He brought a
Speaker 5: TV show I've never heard of, got very intense and animated.
Speaker 5: He got very very excited about it. You just hands
Speaker 5: a lot, But.
Speaker 3: Don't you kind of like hi, when people dork out
Speaker 3: over things that they like, you know, he just he
Speaker 3: finally found something to show you that.
Speaker 5: Yeah, fun, It wasn't that. I honestly, I like a
Speaker 5: little bit more reserved men.
Speaker 2: I just do okay. So he was too excited.
Speaker 1: When we talked to him. He did not seem super
Speaker 1: high energy a favorite TV show.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good point.
Speaker 5: It's too excitable.
Speaker 1: He's too excited about Well, let's put that into the
Speaker 1: test because I gotta let you know, Melanie that Corey
Speaker 1: is actually on the other line listening right now, and
Speaker 1: wanting to talk to you.
Speaker 5: No, he's not.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's how this works. That is wild, Corey.
Speaker 1: What do you think about what she said? That you're
Speaker 1: too much for her, You're too animated.
Speaker 2: I am still in shocked.
Speaker 4: I don't understand. Honestly, I was just trying to be
Speaker 4: nice and I thought I was probably boring. I probably
Speaker 4: wasn't exciting him at all.
Speaker 2: I'm glad he said it.
Speaker 3: I didn't want to say it, but like after your
Speaker 3: review of the date, that's what it sounded like to
Speaker 3: me too, even waiting to say that.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, Broke.
Speaker 1: Apparently you were wrong. Apparently he was way over the
Speaker 1: top exciting.
Speaker 4: This is confusing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe you can help clear it up for him, Melanie,
Speaker 1: because I don't think it's matching with what you said.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and you you are so nice. It was just
Speaker 5: a little too much for me. And that's it. I mean,
Speaker 5: look you right now, I mean, you put me on
Speaker 5: the radio extreme.
Speaker 4: I can tone it back if you want. Yeah, I
Speaker 4: would like to you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, just hear how he said that you'll be asleep
Speaker 3: if you tone it back anymore.
Speaker 4: I mean, I get it. I can get excited about things,
Speaker 4: but not to date.
Speaker 1: Me.
Speaker 5: Okay, well, you know what you're telling us a little crazy,
Speaker 5: So just suddle yourself a little.
Speaker 1: Wait you're saying right now, he's sounding crazy.
Speaker 5: Getting a little looked up. I can kind of hear
Speaker 5: it in his voice.
Speaker 1: Okay, maybe Corey, can you tone it down a little
Speaker 1: bit when you talk to her? Here happened?
Speaker 4: Okay, I've been told that. I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: I think this isn't the first.
Speaker 1: Time I tell you that.
Speaker 4: This is why dating so hard. You never know what
Speaker 4: people want.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it is shocking. I mean, I will say, Melanie.
Speaker 3: In Corey's defense, he's listening to you, he's taking in
Speaker 3: what you're he's not he's not even upset about what
Speaker 3: you said.
Speaker 5: I get that. I just for my personal preference, I
Speaker 5: just like don't want to be with somebody that's that
Speaker 5: animated and like so out of control like that.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's something that Corey can work on. He can
Speaker 1: take some classes or something.
Speaker 2: Before the date.
Speaker 1: He makes it sound like a cartoon care Corey, can
Speaker 1: can you talk to her in a calm, controlled manner
Speaker 1: to prove to her that you're the man she wants
Speaker 1: you to be.
Speaker 4: I'm not sure I agree with what you said. I
Speaker 4: don't know that I need to be on medication or
Speaker 4: here you're.
Speaker 2: Pushing back against No, I was joking. That was me, Corey.
Speaker 2: I was joking about being sedated.
Speaker 1: Well, now's your chance, Corey to talk to Melanie a
Speaker 1: little improved, to her that you're the right guy.
Speaker 4: Melanie would be a little quieter. I just think you're really
Speaker 4: pretty to you.
Speaker 1: Hear that, Melody?
Speaker 5: That's so sweet.
Speaker 1: What other calm things would you like to say to her?
Speaker 4: Okay? Can we try this again?
Speaker 1: Are you feeling the growth here already? Melanie? I think
Speaker 1: we're taking steps towards a calmer, more even keel version
Speaker 1: of Corey here.
Speaker 5: Well, I know that's what you're hearing, but you guys,
Speaker 5: that's not what I'm hearing.
Speaker 1: Okay, it's still too intense for you.
Speaker 2: How are you meeting men that are more calm than this?
Speaker 2: I know I don't understand.
Speaker 5: Okay, this is my truth and I'm living in it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, bro, keep your judgments over. There's fascinating, Melanie. We
Speaker 1: all respect you and what you want for yourself, that's
Speaker 1: totally up to you. But we would love to send
Speaker 1: you out on another date with Corey on our dime.
Speaker 1: If you're up for it. If not, that's okay pretty please.
Speaker 5: You know, if they just get us off this air,
Speaker 5: we can try, we can try again.
Speaker 4: All right.
Speaker 1: Well, I want to be excited for you, Corey, but
Speaker 1: I feel like that would backfire against us. So this
Speaker 1: is good.
Speaker 4: Hooray, don't there.
Speaker 1: Let's let's try it a little try, a little lighter, Corey.
Speaker 4: Hooray.
Speaker 1: Congratulations Corey, you're now finally ready to date a real woman.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I feel like this is what would happen if MPR
Speaker 2: did second dates.
Speaker 5: I know, freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: That call happened months ago, And despite all of the
Speaker 1: skeptics and all of the doubters, Corey and Melanie are
Speaker 1: both back today to give us a second date up
Speaker 1: date update.
Speaker 2: Please tell it with skydiving.
Speaker 1: Welcome back to the show.
Speaker 5: You too, Hi guys?
Speaker 2: Hey, was that a little too much for ye?
Speaker 1: Corey? Are you there?
Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah? Hello, Okay Corey?
Speaker 1: What's going on? And why'd you guys email us for
Speaker 1: an update?
Speaker 4: Here?
Speaker 5: We just trying to let you guys know that it's
Speaker 5: going good.
Speaker 2: Okay, updates? So wait, you're dating dating?
Speaker 5: Yeah? And after hearing the second date up big back
Speaker 5: from the radio. Yeah, yeah, I did. I do realize
Speaker 5: I was being kind of extra okay, a little needy
Speaker 5: on the I want him to be himself. I don't
Speaker 5: want him to be weird. I don't want to control him,
Speaker 5: you know.
Speaker 2: Funny, he hasn't said anything.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, can I say something? Is that okay?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 5: You don't have to ask me.
Speaker 4: Oh no, I just it's nice and I feel like
Speaker 4: I'm finding my voice and uh yeah, it's greatship.
Speaker 1: Corey.
Speaker 4: I mean the answer is basically yes, but you know
Speaker 4: it's it's nice because I'm feeling like I can really
Speaker 4: be myself.
Speaker 1: As long as Melanie allows it. Yeah, I do think.
Speaker 1: I will say a lot of people listening were definitely
Speaker 1: skeptical that this relationship would work out between you two. Honestly,
Speaker 1: even us in the room, we're a little bit skeptical
Speaker 1: about it.
Speaker 5: Well, honestly, I just want you guys to know that
Speaker 5: he is really amazing and I wanted to thank you guys,
Speaker 5: especially for convincing me to keep it going and making
Speaker 5: it work.
Speaker 2: So that's good. Happy and Corey are you happy?
Speaker 1: Are you happy to be strong armed into this relationship?
Speaker 4: Hey, I'm a rock star, right.
Speaker 1: That's a good feeling. Okay. Well, best of lucky to
Speaker 1: keep us updated on your blossoming relationship. Okay.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and you know that Big Bang Theory show is
Speaker 5: actually pretty good. So I just wanted to let
Speaker 1: You get Okay, yeah, Coy, you Rockstar's rookie Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning.