WEBVTT - You've Got Decisions: Help! I'm Failing as a Bull!

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome everybody to another episode.

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<v Speaker 2>Of Horrid BLEG. This is you, Ols.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm your girl, Mandy baka pacticeawn AKAA, Peggy Bundy aka

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<v Speaker 1>Pegan Marco ak A that bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, everybody, we are in Atlantern. I kind of like

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<v Speaker 2>want to start telling people where we're at when we

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<v Speaker 2>start recording. I think that'll be fun.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fine with it, even though they'd be clocking our Instagram,

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<v Speaker 1>so they're gonna be like, damn, this bitch recorded this

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<v Speaker 1>bat three months ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, it only sucks if there's a break up, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that was my thing about this year.

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<v Speaker 2>I was in a relationship for two months, longer than

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<v Speaker 2>I really was in a relationship publicly, and that kind

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<v Speaker 2>of sucked because then when I finally got onto my

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<v Speaker 2>Breakfast Club launched it, well not Breakfast Club launched it,

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<v Speaker 2>but when I finally got to like explaining like what

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<v Speaker 2>I was doing, it was like, whoa bitch? Why O nigga?

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<v Speaker 2>And it was like, so we broke up two months ago?

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<v Speaker 3>Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, they y'all weren't able to keep up on the

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<v Speaker 1>day to day, or the month to month, or the

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<v Speaker 1>week to week on what was in my pussy and

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<v Speaker 1>who was in my heart?

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<v Speaker 2>Like, let me leave bitches, old bab Actually, the only

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<v Speaker 2>thing I did I do. I just didn't want to

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<v Speaker 2>talk about it until I was ready to talk, cause

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<v Speaker 2>it's like I have to process my oh bit wals tea.

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<v Speaker 3>What is the t oh, bitch, this tea so long?

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<v Speaker 2>Let me make sure we can stop it right here. No, bitch, don't.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna give them the tea because you know this

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<v Speaker 1>is what they get when they get to hear the

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<v Speaker 1>beginning of an episode.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna tell y'all a little bit, Okay, tell us

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<v Speaker 2>a little bit, extend the extend the story a little

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<v Speaker 2>bit to where you have to cut it off and

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<v Speaker 2>tell people to come to scribe. Okay, Now what I

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<v Speaker 2>will tell you is, I'm gonna tell you the crazy

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<v Speaker 2>tea when we stop, because I respect this girl, and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna okay, you respect him, but you still

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<v Speaker 2>gonna tell tea to you to them? Bitch, No, No,

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<v Speaker 2>that's probably should be straight. Okay, Okay, Okay, So New

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<v Speaker 2>York Fashion Week comes, Okay, I go to the Purple

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<v Speaker 2>Party my boy Andre Power Hostede Dickerson. I go there

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<v Speaker 2>every year this year, it was playing, yeah, shout out,

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<v Speaker 2>there's a bus.

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<v Speaker 3>I saw the I saw the pictures.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh this is the bus that uh.

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<v Speaker 1>Lama was like, I want to know the well we

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<v Speaker 1>recorded in New York after fashion Week. He was like, wait, wait, wait, wazy,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know the fashion week to the bus?

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<v Speaker 2>Is this the bus thing? He didn't get on, so

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<v Speaker 2>they try to get on the bus. Okay, there's a wait.

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<v Speaker 2>Explain explain this for people who ever got to New

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<v Speaker 2>York Fashion Week. Okay, New York Fashion Week, every party

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<v Speaker 2>is everywhere. This is a block party that was on

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<v Speaker 2>Howard and Lafayette. Yep. That's what made me thing to

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<v Speaker 2>get at the mercery that night. Purple was a clothing brand,

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<v Speaker 2>and honestly, I had to way too much for New

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<v Speaker 2>York Fast Week. I keep saying this. I have a podcaster.

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<v Speaker 2>It clearly must be dead. I got invited to way

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<v Speaker 2>too much ship. One of the parties that I got

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<v Speaker 2>invited to, I'll say, oh, the list is going downhill.

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<v Speaker 2>But Purple is really cool because not a super exclusive one.

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<v Speaker 2>You can pull up, it's on you well and it's

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<v Speaker 2>an urban brand.

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<v Speaker 4>M hm.

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<v Speaker 2>But what's cool about this is it's a block party.

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<v Speaker 2>So the bus is the ips Okay, whatever you're man,

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<v Speaker 2>just loaded. I'm trying to say this in a way

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<v Speaker 2>that is respecting her because it was a moment. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we wait, we listening. We do judge, bitch, Just make

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<v Speaker 2>it that I have nothing to judge this girl far Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>On the bus okay, the bust is small. The top.

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<v Speaker 2>Andre's DJing me and my man brought him some coffee

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<v Speaker 2>because he was flying from somewhere else the night before.

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<v Speaker 2>I see Sean dickersoning every time, and fine.

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<v Speaker 3>Sean, that's the white boy out Like, now, who is

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<v Speaker 3>Sean talking to?

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<v Speaker 2>Who is Sean talking to you? Josie? Because I saw

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<v Speaker 2>john Zy was out there too, Oh bitch Johnson, fine, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know you was all over her. I was like, girl,

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<v Speaker 2>call damn Donnie. Other cake of fucking looking at my

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<v Speaker 2>nigga and I we we've be dancing anyway. Let's talking

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<v Speaker 2>to old Day's current girlfriend. No wait, well if I

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<v Speaker 2>do not remember, how did you? I was going to say,

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<v Speaker 2>how do you know this is this current girl? Of

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<v Speaker 2>course I know she looks like they already got two years. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so oh wait, the bitch that he dated after you,

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<v Speaker 2>he was with for two years. Yes, okay, Okay, So

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<v Speaker 2>I tapped my day and I said, oh shit, that's

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<v Speaker 2>he's like, oh wow. So there was a small part

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<v Speaker 2>of me that wanted me to say something to her really,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think it's because I just saw him, but

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<v Speaker 2>I felt this inkling to speak to her, and I said,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, let me not ruin the night? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>what inkling you had?

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<v Speaker 3>What was he going to say to her? Well?

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<v Speaker 2>I knews they broke up, and I felt for her

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<v Speaker 2>because I know he's a piece of shit and I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know what he did, but I know he did something. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>Hour and a half goes by for the first time

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<v Speaker 2>in my life, just as long as I was partying hard,

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<v Speaker 2>broke all inclusive photos for y'all partying hard. Duh. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know what canned cocktail I was drinking, but I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, it wasn't cut water, it was high news something. Bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm lick. Now they're playing dad, I see you know

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<v Speaker 2>the piano dads Okay, and then I feel a tap

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<v Speaker 2>on my back and she says, hey, can I talk

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<v Speaker 2>to you for a second. So I'm like this bitch,

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<v Speaker 2>like can't do a bump. I was like, I said, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>are we I don't know if I said this, but

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<v Speaker 2>am I brain? I'm like, are we good?

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<v Speaker 3>Like sure?

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<v Speaker 2>Because you ain't know if she wanted like smoke right?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I can talk hold you, I ain't gonna hold you.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what ma, What you mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Can we talked?

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<v Speaker 2>Is we good?

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<v Speaker 1>Or all?

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<v Speaker 2>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>For me?

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<v Speaker 1>It's like it if a bitch want to talk to me,

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<v Speaker 1>especially about a nigga, and we know we got a

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<v Speaker 1>nigga in common, bitch, how what what's the energy.

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<v Speaker 3>You bringing to me?

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<v Speaker 2>Because you're not gonna ruin my knaves. It was just

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<v Speaker 2>very like neutral, but it's only can be neutral first

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<v Speaker 2>and then bitch can right. So my nigga next to you,

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<v Speaker 2>he's looking at me like ship right. So let me

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<v Speaker 2>just tell you all the phases of the conversation first

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<v Speaker 2>that he saw afterwards, Okay, I talk to her thirty minutes.

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<v Speaker 2>That's waiting long here in a party, bitch. Maybe it

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<v Speaker 2>was only twenty, but it was intense. So I go

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<v Speaker 2>up to him to apologize to him because I realized

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<v Speaker 2>I left him so long. So after the thing happened,

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<v Speaker 2>which I'll tell you all about. I go up to him.

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<v Speaker 2>I said it, damn baby, I'm so sorry. He's like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>you're good. Let's get off the bus. Let's let's go.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I thought he had attitude, He's like, let's just go.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, are you mad? He's like, no, I want

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<v Speaker 2>to hear.

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<v Speaker 4>This.

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<v Speaker 2>He'll tell off this bus. I'm trying to hear what happened? Bigga?

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<v Speaker 4>You know who she is?

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<v Speaker 2>He said, Yo, you started standing up, then you had

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<v Speaker 2>your hands on your shoulders, then you was sitting down.

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<v Speaker 2>Did I see you cry? What the fuck? Like, let's

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<v Speaker 2>go talk. You went through like the four phases of

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<v Speaker 2>grief in front of you.

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<v Speaker 5>What the y'all was talking about?

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<v Speaker 2>So she starts off by saying, okay, I read, but

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<v Speaker 2>not the book. And she said I knew nothing about him.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought I knew him. I knew nothing. She said.

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<v Speaker 4>He told me other women were your idea. He told

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<v Speaker 4>me he didn't want to do X y Z. He

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<v Speaker 4>told me he wasn't even in a serious relationship with you.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm like, what, So I said to her, respectfully, how

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<v Speaker 4>could you believe that?

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<v Speaker 3>If you know?

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, well, I realize now maybe he said that

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<v Speaker 2>because I've been talking about this nigga. She's like, he

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<v Speaker 2>just maybe wanted me to think he wasn't that close

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<v Speaker 2>to you. And in my brain, I'm like, dog, if

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<v Speaker 2>she would have known this was my nigga, she would

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<v Speaker 2>have just clicked off Horrible and heard everything.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait wait wait he made it seem like y'all weren't

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<v Speaker 1>that serious, so in her mind she like didn't think that.

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<v Speaker 1>You word, bro, there's like an archive of three years

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<v Speaker 1>of information about listen.

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<v Speaker 2>To a nigga? If they like, oh, went a lily

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<v Speaker 2>wear like that? Okay, like whatever, You're just gonna maybe

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<v Speaker 2>what You just.

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<v Speaker 1>And now here's You've Got Decisions if.

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<v Speaker 2>You would like to have us answer your questions. If

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<v Speaker 2>terrible throatfle guess what You've got Decisions. Happy hump Day, everybody,

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back for another YGD. This is a special edition

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<v Speaker 2>of a live YGD. We are starting this episode off

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<v Speaker 2>with Guy. You'll hear a third voice from Andy and

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<v Speaker 2>I and the rea we're doing this is honestly, you

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<v Speaker 2>inspired this guy. The story was so damn good on

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<v Speaker 2>our Patreon towel hall horrible to still over there? Did

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<v Speaker 2>I say, you know what, what if we got everybody

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<v Speaker 2>seeing you were one of the first people that wrote us,

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<v Speaker 2>So what is going on with your ass?

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<v Speaker 5>All right, y'all? So I started. I talked to another couple.

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<v Speaker 5>I was talking to him back in September.

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<v Speaker 6>Everything was moving smoothly, and then it gets to He asked,

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<v Speaker 6>when was the last time you came. I said, like

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<v Speaker 6>three days ago. He said, ooh, he's looking for somebody

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<v Speaker 6>who hasn't come in weeks.

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<v Speaker 5>She wants to get filled up.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, okay, okay, wait, wait, wait, we need a

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<v Speaker 2>little backstory for the people that have never heard you.

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<v Speaker 3>Where did you meet this couple?

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<v Speaker 2>What role are you playing with them? How does all

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<v Speaker 2>this come.

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<v Speaker 3>About for you?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay? So I I use Reddit.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm gonna say right here, I use Reddit to be

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<v Speaker 6>a bull and engage with lifestyle couples.

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<v Speaker 5>It is something that I enjoy. I don't like getting

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<v Speaker 5>paid for it.

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<v Speaker 6>I do it solely because I enjoy giving other people

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<v Speaker 6>pleasure and helping them achieve what they want to achieve.

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<v Speaker 6>This specific couple, I saw them post. I said, shoot,

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<v Speaker 6>let me send a little message. They had pictures of

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<v Speaker 6>the girl on there. Shoot them a message. The next day,

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<v Speaker 6>he hits me back. He said, all right, cool, let's

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<v Speaker 6>talk more. Let's walk picks. We start talking, then the

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<v Speaker 6>whole When was the last time you came? I said two,

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<v Speaker 6>three days. I said, she wants weeks. Months later, I

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<v Speaker 6>see them post again.

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<v Speaker 5>I hit him back up.

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<v Speaker 6>I said, you still looking. I haven't come in a

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<v Speaker 6>week and a half. Let's see if we can get

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<v Speaker 6>something going. He said, cool.

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<v Speaker 5>We send verifying pick where if my use name their username,

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<v Speaker 5>bringing on a piece of paper in a picture of

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<v Speaker 5>my chest.

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<v Speaker 3>I stuck.

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<v Speaker 6>Got over, he says. Bet sends me his phone number.

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<v Speaker 6>I get his phone number. I text one there immediately,

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<v Speaker 6>things are moving smoothly. He sends me his address. Now,

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<v Speaker 6>I gotta be careful when people send address, so I

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<v Speaker 6>check on Zilla to see if that house is actually

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<v Speaker 6>lived in.

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<v Speaker 2>It's lived in, I say, wait, wait, wait, is that

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<v Speaker 2>how people should be verified.

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<v Speaker 6>If my experience, yes, because there's something that people try

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<v Speaker 6>to do, especially on Reddit, where they will they will

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<v Speaker 6>put posts out there with fake pictures and then you

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<v Speaker 6>reply and they'll send you to an address that nobody

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<v Speaker 6>is living in, and as soon as you get there,

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<v Speaker 6>they will cut the chat and they will stop responding.

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<v Speaker 5>They will block it.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow.

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<v Speaker 6>There, it has happened to me one time, and from

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<v Speaker 6>that point I will be absolutely careful.

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<v Speaker 5>Every other time they will verify. I will verify and

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<v Speaker 5>it's cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, okay, so you check a load to verify

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<v Speaker 2>before you're going over there. That's your safety precaution.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, yes, so make sure it is it has lived in.

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<v Speaker 6>I looked through the pictures. I'm like, all right, if

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<v Speaker 6>I walk in there, will I be able to get

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<v Speaker 6>out quick?

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<v Speaker 3>I can't.

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<v Speaker 6>So we don't end up meeting for another five days.

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<v Speaker 6>So now it's a Wednesday. They said, hey, come through,

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<v Speaker 6>So it's ten pm.

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<v Speaker 5>I get over there.

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<v Speaker 6>On the way there, he's like, hey, can you pick

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<v Speaker 6>up some drinks? YadA, YadA, YadA. I said, absolutely not,

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<v Speaker 6>absolutely not.

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<v Speaker 3>Why was that an absolutely not? Why would you not

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<v Speaker 3>want to set the sea for me.

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<v Speaker 5>If I'm going to your house you're hosting, okay, yes,

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<v Speaker 5>don't ask.

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<v Speaker 6>Me to pay for something to join your Yes, but

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<v Speaker 6>I bring weed, that is my thing. I don't bring

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<v Speaker 6>drinks yet, I don't.

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<v Speaker 5>Need to drink.

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<v Speaker 6>Bring in something, yes, but you shouldn't ask me to

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<v Speaker 6>go out of my way and pay. He did a

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<v Speaker 6>good thing by saying if it's on the way.

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<v Speaker 3>How can I unders say it? Is that just a

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<v Speaker 3>rule for you? Because to me that's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Because if I'm a woman and I'm about to have

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<v Speaker 2>two men, I would like that both men cater to

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<v Speaker 2>the scene. Absolutely, Well, you're catering, well, he's the third.

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<v Speaker 1>Technically, I mean, I guess to the couple, yes, but

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<v Speaker 1>as a woman, that's where I'm putting myself in the

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<v Speaker 1>woman scenario.

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<v Speaker 3>As I'm you know, like, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Would like to know that both men cared for me

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<v Speaker 1>as the woman to set the scene as well. Not

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<v Speaker 1>that you're coming to please me and my partner, but

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<v Speaker 1>just as a woman. If I'm doing the psychology jump

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<v Speaker 1>ropes of being with two men, I guess that's where

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<v Speaker 1>I would like both men to want to cater to

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<v Speaker 1>the scene.

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<v Speaker 3>That's all yeah, okay, okay, continue, but you bring the weed.

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<v Speaker 3>You just don't want to bring the drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're still kind of adding to the scene and

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<v Speaker 1>whatever makes you feel comfortable, got it.

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, So I bring weed because that is my thing.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't like to drink, and if they were drinking,

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<v Speaker 6>that's fine. I get there, we open the door. We

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<v Speaker 6>meet it's a stuper tall brown guy, like South Indian dude.

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<v Speaker 6>Was not expecting that. Didn't expect them to be that tall.

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<v Speaker 6>He was a good six to three. I'm not over

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<v Speaker 6>six foot. Okay, it's a little bit shorter, just like okay.

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<v Speaker 6>And it's a white girl, so it's a mixed couple.

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<v Speaker 5>I walk in there.

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<v Speaker 6>They have drinks already on the table. I'm just like,

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<v Speaker 6>and they have cups out. It looks like they've already drank.

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<v Speaker 6>As somebody who's walking into your house. I'm not gonna

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<v Speaker 6>ask for none of your stuff. So we're just standing

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<v Speaker 6>there for a second. Then I say, all right, y'all

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<v Speaker 6>want to go smoke. We go outside, finish smoking, get

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<v Speaker 6>back inside, immediately, sit on the couch. I go use

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<v Speaker 6>the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 5>I come back. They're setting up the PS five and

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just like, are we about to play a game?

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<v Speaker 5>And I'm upset.

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<v Speaker 6>Because I'm sitting there because I'm just like, why are

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<v Speaker 6>you prolonging this? Because it's you said you wanted to

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<v Speaker 6>get straight to it in the hole in the messages.

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<v Speaker 6>He didn't give up that information, but he said that

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<v Speaker 6>we get in there. I'm sitting on the couch. I

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<v Speaker 6>sit right next to her. He sits on the far side.

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<v Speaker 6>At this point, I think he's a cup, so I'm

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<v Speaker 6>because they're asking for somebody more dominant.

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<v Speaker 5>I sit there. I tap her like, I said, how

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<v Speaker 5>are you doing? How are you feeling? He says I'm good,

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<v Speaker 5>then starts rubbing up on me. I'm so I'm seeing.

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<v Speaker 5>We're just trying to get going, right.

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<v Speaker 6>You start sucking. She starts sucking my dick. He's just

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<v Speaker 6>sitting there watching the TV and just glancing over at us,

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<v Speaker 6>and just like guard cool, I start eating her out.

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<v Speaker 6>Then I go put her in mission not missionary doggie

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<v Speaker 6>on the couch and then she yells to him, well

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<v Speaker 6>not even a yell, it was a snap.

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<v Speaker 5>She said take that off, and she just starts pulling

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<v Speaker 5>his pants off.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm just like, okay. Then she starts sucking his dick

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<v Speaker 6>while I'm fucking him. While I'm sucking her, I start

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<v Speaker 6>getting tired because I'm going for a good thirty minutes

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<v Speaker 6>on the couch, and I said, all right, hop on,

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<v Speaker 6>thinking she is going to hop on top start riding.

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<v Speaker 6>He lays on the side, starts sucking my deck and

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<v Speaker 6>he does the weakest strokes inside of her, just small

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<v Speaker 6>and short.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm just like okay.

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<v Speaker 6>Then she's acting all dainty and she says, can I

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<v Speaker 6>ride you? And I said okay, cool. Then they start

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<v Speaker 6>leading me into the bedroom. I'm laying on the bed.

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<v Speaker 6>She starts riding. That goes on for a good ten minutes.

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<v Speaker 6>Then out of nowhere, he says, you want to pull

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<v Speaker 6>out the straps. I said okay, but he was talking

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<v Speaker 6>to her. He says okay. Then he starts reaching under

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<v Speaker 6>the bed while she's still riding me. And then we

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<v Speaker 6>transitioned and he had these you know those customers strapped

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<v Speaker 6>to the bed for quills raising ankles.

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<v Speaker 5>Pulls that out.

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<v Speaker 6>We both set her up in that. Then I keep

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<v Speaker 6>sucking her like that. He's just laying on the top,

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<v Speaker 6>laying on there by the head post by her head.

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<v Speaker 6>He's just watching and he's just talking. He's just like, hey, yeah, Wed,

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<v Speaker 6>look at how she's accepting that. YadA YadA, YadA, YadA,

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<v Speaker 6>YadA YadA. Keeps talking, talking to me. Okay, I'm just

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<v Speaker 6>like okay. Then she says and I come asking him,

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<v Speaker 6>so I'm just like, hold on, hold on, hold on.

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<v Speaker 6>I thought it was a cut hot wife situation. That

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<v Speaker 6>what she said right there, just changing to a stag

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<v Speaker 6>vixen situation.

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<v Speaker 2>Now we need to know what is kuk hot wife?

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<v Speaker 2>What's stag vixen?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, cuck hot wife is where stag vixen and cut

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<v Speaker 6>hotwife are basically in the same in this specific aspect,

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<v Speaker 6>where the male goes out and finds another of finds

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<v Speaker 6>a bull to engage with their person. In the cut scenario,

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<v Speaker 6>the cut doesn't really participate. He is usually there's some

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<v Speaker 6>sort of humiliation factor. That's what I was getting from

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<v Speaker 6>the hole take your pants off in the beginning. Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>as soon as she says, can I come to him?

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<v Speaker 6>That's where I'm like, oh, this is a stag vixen

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<v Speaker 6>because the stag is taking a more active role in

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<v Speaker 6>the whole process, and it's not really about the humiliation.

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<v Speaker 5>It's also about him stiff having that Well, it may

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<v Speaker 5>not even be that. It might they have a dom

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<v Speaker 5>sub pre existing relationship.

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<v Speaker 6>That's why I was trying to deduce in the moment,

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<v Speaker 6>and because we smoked, I'm focusing on all the mechanics

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<v Speaker 6>of the situation rather than the actual motion of the situation. Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>And so I see that's where I kind of messed up.

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<v Speaker 6>I think that is one of my three mistakes. And

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<v Speaker 6>why didn't go Well, this sounds like it's going.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it does, doesn't it. That's what I thought. So

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<v Speaker 5>it keeps going.

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<v Speaker 6>I've gone on for like forty five minutes. Then he

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<v Speaker 6>taps me out, he starts fucking her. Then he comes

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<v Speaker 6>and I immediately go back in there. While he's fucking her,

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<v Speaker 6>she's sucked on my dick and she's like pulling me

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<v Speaker 6>into like choker with it.

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<v Speaker 5>I think.

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<v Speaker 6>So I'm just like, okay, trying to get that dominance factor.

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<v Speaker 6>He comes, I come in, I keep going, and this

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<v Speaker 6>goes on for a total of like two hours until

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<v Speaker 6>the next bad part happens. You pull out for two hours,

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<v Speaker 6>it was fun for like three and a half. Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>And I would take what is in the weed? No, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 6>I take so if you were guys, remember from the

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<v Speaker 6>the town hall story, I couldn't get it up right

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<v Speaker 6>this time. I came ready. I had the bluetooe before

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<v Speaker 6>on the drive. It was thirty minute drive, not a

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<v Speaker 6>nad Okay, yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Now now so you took the blue choe to be

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<v Speaker 3>sure that you could stay hard.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, you are now.

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<v Speaker 3>Two and a half hours in.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, what's happening now?

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<v Speaker 3>That makes it go wrong?

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<v Speaker 5>So I pull out.

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<v Speaker 6>So every thirty forty minutes, I will pull out, start

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<v Speaker 6>eating her, pussy fingering her because I would get tired

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<v Speaker 6>and needed to give my legs some time to regain

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<v Speaker 6>whatever sensibility. Drink some water to give her some water, right,

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<v Speaker 6>but keep eating her pussy finger in her to make

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<v Speaker 6>sure she's still getting something and it's not just dead.

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<v Speaker 6>I pull out a stretch back. Got the nastiest cramp

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<v Speaker 6>in my abb the nastiest cramp. So I'm sticking four

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<v Speaker 6>fingers and massaging it down the middle, drinking water while

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<v Speaker 6>they're just cuddling up at the bed, because I'm just

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<v Speaker 6>like I maybe I can get this to go away.

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<v Speaker 6>Drink all of my water and look in my back

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<v Speaker 6>no mustard packet. So I say just like this to them.

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<v Speaker 5>I say, y'all got mustard because I'm still high as hell?

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<v Speaker 2>Mustard?

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<v Speaker 5>What? Because I have a cramp. They're like, oh, what

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<v Speaker 5>you need mustard for?

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<v Speaker 6>I said, And I say it just like this, I said,

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<v Speaker 6>I just called the nastiest fucking cramp in my ass.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait?

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<v Speaker 5>Wait, wait, is this some.

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<v Speaker 3>Old folk shit that I don't know?

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<v Speaker 5>Wait?

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<v Speaker 3>Mustard helps with cramps us.

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<v Speaker 6>There, pickle juice, salt. Those are the three things. If

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<v Speaker 6>you got a cramp, you take those, and you drink

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<v Speaker 6>some water and massage it. Your cramp will go away.

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<v Speaker 3>Mustard, pickle juice, or salt or salt.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, nigga. If someone came to fuck me and my partner,

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<v Speaker 2>it's say, can I get some mustard? I'd be always

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<v Speaker 2>gonna drip us in mustard and kill us. Right.

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<v Speaker 5>So they were like, She's like, no, no, we don't

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<v Speaker 5>have mustard or anything else. I said, y'all got pickle juice? No, no,

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<v Speaker 5>we don't have that. I should have known. I should

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<v Speaker 5>have known they didn't have that. And I rolled my

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<v Speaker 5>eyes in my head and I'm just like, do y'all

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<v Speaker 5>have salt?

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<v Speaker 2>He leaves.

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<v Speaker 5>She's just like rubbing my leg. YadA, YadA, YadA. He

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<v Speaker 5>goes in, grabs some salt shaker, pour it on my hand,

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<v Speaker 5>I lick it, pour some on my hand, lick it,

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<v Speaker 5>Drink some water, massage. Cramp goes away instantly, back in it.

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<v Speaker 5>So now it is like one am. It started fucking

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<v Speaker 5>some more. It's one am and they're like, I still

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<v Speaker 5>have not come yet. And the remember, the big thing

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<v Speaker 5>of the being was she wants to get filled up.

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<v Speaker 5>She wants to get cream pied. He is a teacher.

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<v Speaker 6>She had to get up in five hours, and so

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<v Speaker 6>I had to get up at six o'clock, so five

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<v Speaker 6>hours as well. I'm just thinking, I cannot stay here

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<v Speaker 6>and stay the course until I come. I cannot do that, guys,

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<v Speaker 6>based guy.

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<v Speaker 3>You're at this point, this is two stories. Well where

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<v Speaker 3>you fell short? My guy?

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<v Speaker 5>Yep, yep.

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<v Speaker 6>I've never usually not coming is not a problem in

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<v Speaker 6>a big sense like this, but it was the whole

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<v Speaker 6>thing of here.

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<v Speaker 5>So I start.

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<v Speaker 6>So she's like, all right, I want you to come.

0:22:52.400 --> 0:22:54.000
<v Speaker 6>He's saying, I want you to fill her up, fill

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<v Speaker 6>her up deep. And so I'm about to come, and

0:22:57.400 --> 0:23:00.240
<v Speaker 6>it's a missionary and I'm doing the longest strug to

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<v Speaker 6>get the most sensation for myself. And then he proceeds

0:23:04.320 --> 0:23:06.359
<v Speaker 6>to start trying to make out with me and she

0:23:06.760 --> 0:23:12.040
<v Speaker 6>bites the fuck out of my chin. No, no, blood

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<v Speaker 6>doesn't break skin, and I lose it instantly. I'm just like,

0:23:17.320 --> 0:23:20.399
<v Speaker 6>and then I have to do the old faithful I

0:23:20.480 --> 0:23:21.440
<v Speaker 6>started breathing heavy.

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<v Speaker 2>You think that I.

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<v Speaker 5>You can't, but this is what I say.

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<v Speaker 6>I said, fuck say just like that, I'll a fucking

0:23:35.280 --> 0:23:44.920
<v Speaker 6>my orgasm but not fucking coming. It was the high brain.

0:23:45.200 --> 0:23:46.960
<v Speaker 6>It was the high brain that made me say it.

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<v Speaker 6>But it made so much sense. I'm just like, Okay,

0:23:50.520 --> 0:23:54.040
<v Speaker 6>this is how I'm gonna do it. And then and

0:23:54.200 --> 0:23:56.960
<v Speaker 6>I just and then I I'm at the edge of

0:23:57.000 --> 0:23:59.200
<v Speaker 6>the bed. They're still cuddling, and we're there for like

0:23:59.400 --> 0:24:01.920
<v Speaker 6>maybe five I have more minutes because they're thinking maybe

0:24:01.960 --> 0:24:03.480
<v Speaker 6>he's just gonna come back up and do it again.

0:24:03.840 --> 0:24:05.480
<v Speaker 6>And I think to myself, all right, I'm gonna leave,

0:24:06.640 --> 0:24:12.560
<v Speaker 6>and I walk myself out. Next day, he says, hope

0:24:12.600 --> 0:24:13.439
<v Speaker 6>you enjoyed her pussy.

0:24:13.560 --> 0:24:16.240
<v Speaker 5>She was very sore. She appreciated that. YadA YadA, YadA.

0:24:17.160 --> 0:24:21.400
<v Speaker 5>I respond. He leaves me on delivered the next day.

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<v Speaker 5>So it's two days later a Friday, another post and

0:24:25.240 --> 0:24:29.040
<v Speaker 5>read it looking for another book, and I'm just like, fuck, haang.

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<v Speaker 1>God, do you need to be like do you desire

0:24:40.280 --> 0:24:42.800
<v Speaker 1>to be a bull? Or is this something that you're

0:24:42.840 --> 0:24:46.000
<v Speaker 1>just practicing? And I only asked that because in both

0:24:46.160 --> 0:24:49.920
<v Speaker 1>instances where you're a bull, you didn't deliver. On one

0:24:50.000 --> 0:24:52.200
<v Speaker 1>time you couldn't get hard and on this time you

0:24:52.280 --> 0:24:57.320
<v Speaker 1>couldn't come. So are you actually enjoying this or you

0:24:57.560 --> 0:25:01.600
<v Speaker 1>just like being in the midst of it? Like psychologically,

0:25:02.400 --> 0:25:03.320
<v Speaker 1>are you enjoying?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>So at the end, once all of that was happening

0:25:08.680 --> 0:25:10.239
<v Speaker 6>with the whole redded thing, I had to sit there

0:25:10.280 --> 0:25:13.000
<v Speaker 6>and be like, do I actually enjoy doing this? That

0:25:13.320 --> 0:25:16.080
<v Speaker 6>I realized at that point sex does not matter to me,

0:25:17.160 --> 0:25:19.920
<v Speaker 6>the fact I was living off of the fact that

0:25:20.000 --> 0:25:23.120
<v Speaker 6>she was enjoying that she was coming. However, he said

0:25:23.240 --> 0:25:25.639
<v Speaker 6>eight or nine times, it was definitely more than that,

0:25:26.280 --> 0:25:29.240
<v Speaker 6>because I was counting my head and that in and

0:25:29.359 --> 0:25:31.159
<v Speaker 6>of itself was doing enough for me.

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<v Speaker 2>So you really like the actual act of and it's

0:25:36.640 --> 0:25:39.520
<v Speaker 2>couple related. You like pleasing, but when it couples.

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<v Speaker 5>In it, yes, it is. I like that I like

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<v Speaker 5>in the brain. My fantasy with couples is because I'm

0:25:49.520 --> 0:25:54.359
<v Speaker 5>a switch. I am a switch. If I'm fucking the wife,

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<v Speaker 5>I would love it if the husband is like, do this,

0:25:58.160 --> 0:25:58.440
<v Speaker 5>do that?

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<v Speaker 3>Do this?

0:25:59.520 --> 0:25:59.720
<v Speaker 2>Do that?

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<v Speaker 6>Like directing the whole thing like that is the kink

0:26:02.440 --> 0:26:04.440
<v Speaker 6>that I have, my biggest kink. I've never found a

0:26:04.480 --> 0:26:05.920
<v Speaker 6>couple who can actually do that.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you communicate this.

0:26:07.760 --> 0:26:10.680
<v Speaker 1>To the couples that are interested in you coming in

0:26:10.760 --> 0:26:11.960
<v Speaker 1>to fulfill their fantasy?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you not sharing what actually pleases.

0:26:15.720 --> 0:26:16.280
<v Speaker 2>You with them?

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<v Speaker 6>That's a big thing that pleases me is giving oral

0:26:20.440 --> 0:26:22.280
<v Speaker 6>That is something that I always communicate up front.

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<v Speaker 5>You're not communicating.

0:26:24.800 --> 0:26:27.840
<v Speaker 3>You're not communicating that you want to be told what

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<v Speaker 3>to do by the cook.

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<v Speaker 5>You just know only because I know that can be

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<v Speaker 5>a deal breaker for people.

0:26:37.840 --> 0:26:40.920
<v Speaker 3>Would be able. If it's a deal breaker, I would say,

0:26:41.000 --> 0:26:42.600
<v Speaker 3>that's the thing that's not.

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<v Speaker 2>The couple for you that would write you to come,

0:26:45.840 --> 0:26:48.280
<v Speaker 2>that would get you to like get your kink at

0:26:48.320 --> 0:26:49.920
<v Speaker 2>the end of the bargain. Now, granted, I know in

0:26:50.000 --> 0:26:54.000
<v Speaker 2>many scenarios with doms, coming isn't part of what they're doing.

0:26:54.119 --> 0:26:56.880
<v Speaker 2>And to me, this is kind of dom sub role

0:26:56.960 --> 0:26:59.400
<v Speaker 2>because you're coming in with someone's partner, they're watching, etc.

0:27:00.000 --> 0:27:04.359
<v Speaker 2>A little bit of dominant right right, I'm wondering have

0:27:04.520 --> 0:27:10.160
<v Speaker 2>you ever posted an ad that specifically said your fantasy

0:27:10.359 --> 0:27:11.520
<v Speaker 2>and had the couples hit.

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<v Speaker 6>You on occasion? Yes, but when on Reddit, it is

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<v Speaker 6>very hard. It is very hard as a single male

0:27:21.960 --> 0:27:23.880
<v Speaker 6>to attract a couple. It's very difficult.

0:27:27.000 --> 0:27:27.440
<v Speaker 5>At you.

0:27:29.800 --> 0:27:33.080
<v Speaker 6>I've tried Field, but in so much work required in

0:27:33.200 --> 0:27:36.440
<v Speaker 6>doing it that in the chance in the times that

0:27:36.520 --> 0:27:38.960
<v Speaker 6>I've opened the app and started doing it, that I'm

0:27:39.000 --> 0:27:41.320
<v Speaker 6>just like, this is not to my liking.

0:27:41.560 --> 0:27:43.119
<v Speaker 5>This interface just bothers me.

0:27:43.720 --> 0:27:45.920
<v Speaker 1>The interview I bother you, but even you saying it's

0:27:45.920 --> 0:27:49.440
<v Speaker 1>a lot of work to me, you were showing up though,

0:27:49.520 --> 0:27:52.360
<v Speaker 1>but not pleasing couples because you're not being bang right

0:27:52.920 --> 0:27:54.919
<v Speaker 1>and the things that turn you on.

0:27:55.000 --> 0:27:58.119
<v Speaker 2>In order for you to perform. So yeah, Field may

0:27:58.240 --> 0:28:00.640
<v Speaker 2>seem like a lot more work because people.

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<v Speaker 3>Able to communicate what they want.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you're entering this lifestyle, guy, I would say

0:28:05.480 --> 0:28:08.919
<v Speaker 1>that you need to be upfront because you're wasting these

0:28:09.000 --> 0:28:13.359
<v Speaker 1>couples times that's what you're like, and then for you

0:28:13.440 --> 0:28:15.760
<v Speaker 1>to go online and see that the same.

0:28:15.680 --> 0:28:19.200
<v Speaker 3>Couple is looking for someone else. You're also kind of

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<v Speaker 3>feeling away about that. But I think that.

0:28:22.800 --> 0:28:25.000
<v Speaker 1>I think that you need to be able to communicate

0:28:25.520 --> 0:28:28.480
<v Speaker 1>what you want out of the dynamic the same way

0:28:28.560 --> 0:28:31.840
<v Speaker 1>as the couple, and if for whatever reason you can't.

0:28:33.000 --> 0:28:35.240
<v Speaker 3>Or you feel like it'll be a deal breaker for them, that.

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<v Speaker 5>Just might not be the couple for you, right.

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<v Speaker 6>I will add in this specific situation, usually I have

0:28:43.320 --> 0:28:47.000
<v Speaker 6>broader and bigger communication with older couples, like couples thirties

0:28:47.600 --> 0:28:51.160
<v Speaker 6>or older. They're more open to communication, expressing kinks and

0:28:51.200 --> 0:28:53.400
<v Speaker 6>what they like. And in those situations, yes, I do

0:28:53.560 --> 0:28:57.320
<v Speaker 6>talk about my director kink. In this specific situation, they

0:28:57.360 --> 0:28:59.800
<v Speaker 6>were a young couple and they were not giving a

0:28:59.840 --> 0:29:02.320
<v Speaker 6>lot of that communication on what they were asking for.

0:29:02.720 --> 0:29:05.520
<v Speaker 6>But in the beginning when we were texting, the most

0:29:05.600 --> 0:29:09.160
<v Speaker 6>I could get from him to say was you can

0:29:09.360 --> 0:29:12.080
<v Speaker 6>slap her ass, not too hard, just make a sound.

0:29:12.960 --> 0:29:15.400
<v Speaker 6>Don't kiss her, let her kiss you. I don't care

0:29:15.440 --> 0:29:18.400
<v Speaker 6>if it happens or not. He likes to come, she

0:29:18.600 --> 0:29:21.160
<v Speaker 6>likes to be eaten out, she likes doggy. Those are

0:29:21.200 --> 0:29:23.960
<v Speaker 6>the only things I got. Even that, though pushing and

0:29:24.040 --> 0:29:27.200
<v Speaker 6>prodding to get more than led to me being left

0:29:27.280 --> 0:29:30.600
<v Speaker 6>on delivered, and I think it was also me just

0:29:30.760 --> 0:29:35.080
<v Speaker 6>wanting to break into it and see if first experience,

0:29:35.800 --> 0:29:38.880
<v Speaker 6>we can regroup afterward and then talk more. That is

0:29:38.960 --> 0:29:40.720
<v Speaker 6>not how this one ended up going.

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<v Speaker 2>So I completely agree with you're actually having an issue

0:29:45.000 --> 0:29:47.960
<v Speaker 2>because of Reddit. Yes, So the thing about Reddit is

0:29:47.960 --> 0:29:50.880
<v Speaker 2>a lot of people are using you for the sexting aspect,

0:29:51.400 --> 0:29:53.640
<v Speaker 2>a lot of people are wanting to have this interaction,

0:29:54.200 --> 0:29:56.880
<v Speaker 2>get more pictures, but it never goes to fruition, just

0:29:56.960 --> 0:30:00.680
<v Speaker 2>like the Zillow thing that you have going, whereas fet

0:30:00.840 --> 0:30:05.240
<v Speaker 2>life field, you have someone's profile. Once your face is

0:30:05.280 --> 0:30:07.000
<v Speaker 2>out there, there's a little bit more to it, right.

0:30:08.080 --> 0:30:09.520
<v Speaker 3>I think if you're going to.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually act as a unicorn to couples as a as

0:30:13.440 --> 0:30:15.680
<v Speaker 2>a bull, isn't that what it's called? Like, I think

0:30:15.720 --> 0:30:18.680
<v Speaker 2>if you're going to go through with this, you can't

0:30:18.760 --> 0:30:22.680
<v Speaker 2>be on sites that are already anonymous. You're not going

0:30:22.720 --> 0:30:25.320
<v Speaker 2>to get the experience because the experienced people, the better

0:30:25.360 --> 0:30:27.480
<v Speaker 2>looking people, they're most likely not going to be on

0:30:27.560 --> 0:30:28.080
<v Speaker 2>the threads.

0:30:28.680 --> 0:30:30.120
<v Speaker 3>They're going to be on something where they.

0:30:30.080 --> 0:30:32.520
<v Speaker 2>Can curate it, and you're gonna end up having a

0:30:32.600 --> 0:30:34.760
<v Speaker 2>better like recipient on the other end. They're going to

0:30:34.800 --> 0:30:37.040
<v Speaker 2>be more experienced when it comes to these things to language.

0:30:37.200 --> 0:30:39.280
<v Speaker 2>Think about even the way that when you're on field

0:30:39.600 --> 0:30:41.840
<v Speaker 2>you can click a bunch of different kinks that's like

0:30:41.960 --> 0:30:45.680
<v Speaker 2>already built into the apps. So it might be work,

0:30:46.360 --> 0:30:48.440
<v Speaker 2>but you're gonna have better sex and then people will

0:30:48.640 --> 0:30:53.160
<v Speaker 2>start respecting your needs when you're in the middle of

0:30:53.920 --> 0:30:55.360
<v Speaker 2>trying to get to know them, when you're in the

0:30:55.360 --> 0:30:58.640
<v Speaker 2>middle of sex. I mean, I've had a lot of

0:30:58.680 --> 0:31:00.920
<v Speaker 2>sex on field and viol I don't know how much

0:31:01.000 --> 0:31:02.520
<v Speaker 2>that is, but I'd say I've used it on and

0:31:02.680 --> 0:31:06.000
<v Speaker 2>off since like twenty eighteen, and I haven't had a

0:31:06.400 --> 0:31:09.200
<v Speaker 2>bad experience, Like there is never anyone terrible. Maybe a

0:31:09.320 --> 0:31:12.200
<v Speaker 2>bad date or we awkward sex, but like at the

0:31:12.320 --> 0:31:13.480
<v Speaker 2>end of the day, they kind of get it.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, And I think that you're going to.

0:31:15.600 --> 0:31:17.880
<v Speaker 2>Be coming in as someone that is experienced with couples.

0:31:18.280 --> 0:31:20.520
<v Speaker 2>You need couples that are experienced too, because it also

0:31:20.600 --> 0:31:21.760
<v Speaker 2>muddies your experience.

0:31:22.080 --> 0:31:27.640
<v Speaker 6>Yes, I completely agree. If actually there is no rebuttal

0:31:27.680 --> 0:31:31.040
<v Speaker 6>to that that personal ad No, I mean there really

0:31:31.120 --> 0:31:33.320
<v Speaker 6>is that. I fully agree with you because I've come

0:31:33.360 --> 0:31:37.160
<v Speaker 6>to the same conclusion. It's just I have to sit

0:31:37.320 --> 0:31:40.960
<v Speaker 6>here and be like, there is only so much energy

0:31:41.120 --> 0:31:43.240
<v Speaker 6>that I want to a lot to do to put

0:31:43.320 --> 0:31:47.080
<v Speaker 6>into it. That's so for this specific couple, I was

0:31:47.200 --> 0:31:49.360
<v Speaker 6>not giving it to them because they weren't giving it back.

0:31:50.360 --> 0:31:53.160
<v Speaker 6>The moment that I talk to more experienced couples, we

0:31:53.320 --> 0:31:56.200
<v Speaker 6>do have that more personal It's not just the sexing thing,

0:31:56.720 --> 0:31:59.840
<v Speaker 6>but we do eventually move to telegram and it's not

0:32:00.160 --> 0:32:02.479
<v Speaker 6>all about the photo exchange. It's all about what are

0:32:02.480 --> 0:32:04.880
<v Speaker 6>your boundaries? What are your heart knows? What is something

0:32:05.240 --> 0:32:07.320
<v Speaker 6>that you want time thing? What is something you don't

0:32:07.360 --> 0:32:07.960
<v Speaker 6>want to happen?

0:32:08.840 --> 0:32:08.959
<v Speaker 3>Oh?

0:32:09.080 --> 0:32:09.680
<v Speaker 5>Do you want me to.

0:32:09.760 --> 0:32:13.880
<v Speaker 6>Engage with you as the cuck, as the stag? Should

0:32:13.920 --> 0:32:15.440
<v Speaker 6>I speak to you? Should I not speak to you?

0:32:16.000 --> 0:32:17.200
<v Speaker 6>Should I only speak to her?

0:32:19.600 --> 0:32:21.720
<v Speaker 2>And if you want to start having good taales like

0:32:21.920 --> 0:32:24.680
<v Speaker 2>those things that you know how to do, you need

0:32:24.720 --> 0:32:26.400
<v Speaker 2>a partner that's going to be doing the same. You

0:32:26.520 --> 0:32:28.240
<v Speaker 2>can't be the only one coming in with a good

0:32:28.280 --> 0:32:31.320
<v Speaker 2>dick and good communication. Agreed, And then I guess I'll

0:32:31.400 --> 0:32:34.160
<v Speaker 2>last a bit of advice for you, would be And

0:32:34.240 --> 0:32:36.080
<v Speaker 2>I talk about this in our book No Host part

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<v Speaker 2>You have to be okay with rejection if you feel

0:32:39.320 --> 0:32:42.080
<v Speaker 2>like you can't show up for how a couple wants

0:32:42.120 --> 0:32:45.760
<v Speaker 2>you to show up. Your immediate fear going to they're

0:32:45.760 --> 0:32:47.120
<v Speaker 2>going to leave me on red, or they're not going

0:32:47.160 --> 0:32:48.440
<v Speaker 2>to be interested, or they're going to go on to

0:32:48.520 --> 0:32:51.440
<v Speaker 2>the next needs to be okay, because you don't need

0:32:51.480 --> 0:32:53.160
<v Speaker 2>to be in a place where you're wasting your time

0:32:53.320 --> 0:32:58.320
<v Speaker 2>and wasting theirs, where after the experience you say, well,

0:32:58.400 --> 0:32:59.920
<v Speaker 2>this is where it went wrong, this is where we're

0:33:00.280 --> 0:33:02.120
<v Speaker 2>this is where we're wrong, and it wasn't a great

0:33:02.160 --> 0:33:06.160
<v Speaker 2>experience because you know you left them unpleased and essentially

0:33:06.320 --> 0:33:08.840
<v Speaker 2>you were too. So you just need to know what

0:33:09.320 --> 0:33:12.280
<v Speaker 2>you want and how to communicate that. And when a

0:33:12.320 --> 0:33:15.360
<v Speaker 2>couple isn't on the same page as you, be okay

0:33:15.480 --> 0:33:19.120
<v Speaker 2>with not playing with them, right, not even pulling up

0:33:19.240 --> 0:33:22.080
<v Speaker 2>because you know you about to play with your own orgasm. Right.

0:33:22.320 --> 0:33:25.280
<v Speaker 6>And for me to synthesize what you're saying, it's not

0:33:25.440 --> 0:33:28.440
<v Speaker 6>only be okay with being rejected by them, but rejecting

0:33:28.480 --> 0:33:31.400
<v Speaker 6>yourself from the situation they're no longer in it. Okay,

0:33:31.640 --> 0:33:33.320
<v Speaker 6>Yes I can, Yes, you understand that a.

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<v Speaker 2>Great way to say it. I actually want to go

0:33:36.160 --> 0:33:38.040
<v Speaker 2>and just give the date if you guys want to

0:33:38.120 --> 0:33:40.800
<v Speaker 2>hear more of Guy and the crazy ass story he

0:33:40.920 --> 0:33:43.840
<v Speaker 2>told us, with soundbites included on what he was saying

0:33:44.040 --> 0:33:48.400
<v Speaker 2>in bed and everything. It would is from our town

0:33:48.600 --> 0:33:56.720
<v Speaker 2>hall in August August twenty seven, August twenty six. Please

0:33:56.840 --> 0:34:00.160
<v Speaker 2>go and check patreon dot com backslash Horrible Decisions Go

0:34:00.280 --> 0:34:04.560
<v Speaker 2>on there. It's audio only, but it is sonically fucking amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>Guy, thank you for giving us all your d of course.

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