1 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:04,760 Speaker 1: Welcome everybody to another episode. 2 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 2: Of Horrid BLEG. This is you, Ols. 3 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:11,879 Speaker 1: I'm your girl, Mandy baka pacticeawn AKAA, Peggy Bundy aka 4 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 1: Pegan Marco ak A that bitch. 5 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 2: Hi, everybody, we are in Atlantern. I kind of like 6 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 2: want to start telling people where we're at when we 7 00:00:21,440 --> 00:00:22,759 Speaker 2: start recording. I think that'll be fun. 8 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:25,079 Speaker 1: I'm fine with it, even though they'd be clocking our Instagram, 9 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: so they're gonna be like, damn, this bitch recorded this 10 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: bat three months ago. 11 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:32,519 Speaker 2: Honestly, it only sucks if there's a break up, you 12 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 2: know what. 13 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 3: I think that was my thing about this year. 14 00:00:35,440 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 2: I was in a relationship for two months, longer than 15 00:00:38,560 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 2: I really was in a relationship publicly, and that kind 16 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 2: of sucked because then when I finally got onto my 17 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 2: Breakfast Club launched it, well not Breakfast Club launched it, 18 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:50,360 Speaker 2: but when I finally got to like explaining like what 19 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 2: I was doing, it was like, whoa bitch? Why O nigga? 20 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 2: And it was like, so we broke up two months ago? 21 00:00:58,960 --> 00:00:59,240 Speaker 3: Guys. 22 00:00:59,440 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 1: Sorry, they y'all weren't able to keep up on the 23 00:01:01,600 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 1: day to day, or the month to month, or the 24 00:01:03,680 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 1: week to week on what was in my pussy and 25 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 1: who was in my heart? 26 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 2: Like, let me leave bitches, old bab Actually, the only 27 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 2: thing I did I do. I just didn't want to 28 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 2: talk about it until I was ready to talk, cause 29 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:23,520 Speaker 2: it's like I have to process my oh bit wals tea. 30 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 3: What is the t oh, bitch, this tea so long? 31 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 2: Let me make sure we can stop it right here. No, bitch, don't. 32 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:32,320 Speaker 1: You're gonna give them the tea because you know this 33 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:34,240 Speaker 1: is what they get when they get to hear the 34 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:35,320 Speaker 1: beginning of an episode. 35 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:37,400 Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell y'all a little bit, Okay, tell us 36 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 2: a little bit, extend the extend the story a little 37 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 2: bit to where you have to cut it off and 38 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:44,520 Speaker 2: tell people to come to scribe. Okay, Now what I 39 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:46,960 Speaker 2: will tell you is, I'm gonna tell you the crazy 40 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 2: tea when we stop, because I respect this girl, and 41 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna okay, you respect him, but you still 42 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 2: gonna tell tea to you to them? Bitch, No, No, 43 00:01:58,320 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 2: that's probably should be straight. Okay, Okay, Okay, So New 44 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 2: York Fashion Week comes, Okay, I go to the Purple 45 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 2: Party my boy Andre Power Hostede Dickerson. I go there 46 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 2: every year this year, it was playing, yeah, shout out, 47 00:02:12,240 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 2: there's a bus. 48 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 3: I saw the I saw the pictures. 49 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 2: Oh this is the bus that uh. 50 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:20,480 Speaker 1: Lama was like, I want to know the well we 51 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 1: recorded in New York after fashion Week. He was like, wait, wait, wait, wazy, 52 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: I want to know the fashion week to the bus? 53 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 2: Is this the bus thing? He didn't get on, so 54 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 2: they try to get on the bus. Okay, there's a wait. 55 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 2: Explain explain this for people who ever got to New 56 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 2: York Fashion Week. Okay, New York Fashion Week, every party 57 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 2: is everywhere. This is a block party that was on 58 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 2: Howard and Lafayette. Yep. That's what made me thing to 59 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:45,119 Speaker 2: get at the mercery that night. Purple was a clothing brand, 60 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:46,800 Speaker 2: and honestly, I had to way too much for New 61 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:49,079 Speaker 2: York Fast Week. I keep saying this. I have a podcaster. 62 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 2: It clearly must be dead. I got invited to way 63 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:53,080 Speaker 2: too much ship. One of the parties that I got 64 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:56,359 Speaker 2: invited to, I'll say, oh, the list is going downhill. 65 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 2: But Purple is really cool because not a super exclusive one. 66 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 2: You can pull up, it's on you well and it's 67 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 2: an urban brand. 68 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 4: M hm. 69 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 2: But what's cool about this is it's a block party. 70 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:14,920 Speaker 2: So the bus is the ips Okay, whatever you're man, 71 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 2: just loaded. I'm trying to say this in a way 72 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 2: that is respecting her because it was a moment. Okay, 73 00:03:24,480 --> 00:03:27,680 Speaker 2: we wait, we listening. We do judge, bitch, Just make 74 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:31,040 Speaker 2: it that I have nothing to judge this girl far Okay. 75 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:34,399 Speaker 2: On the bus okay, the bust is small. The top. 76 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 2: Andre's DJing me and my man brought him some coffee 77 00:03:37,640 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 2: because he was flying from somewhere else the night before. 78 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 2: I see Sean dickersoning every time, and fine. 79 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:43,240 Speaker 3: Sean, that's the white boy out Like, now, who is 80 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 3: Sean talking to? 81 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 2: Who is Sean talking to you? Josie? Because I saw 82 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 2: john Zy was out there too, Oh bitch Johnson, fine, yeah, 83 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 2: I don't know you was all over her. I was like, girl, 84 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 2: call damn Donnie. Other cake of fucking looking at my 85 00:03:56,800 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 2: nigga and I we we've be dancing anyway. Let's talking 86 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 2: to old Day's current girlfriend. No wait, well if I 87 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 2: do not remember, how did you? I was going to say, 88 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 2: how do you know this is this current girl? Of 89 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:13,800 Speaker 2: course I know she looks like they already got two years. Okay, 90 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:16,720 Speaker 2: so oh wait, the bitch that he dated after you, 91 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 2: he was with for two years. Yes, okay, Okay, So 92 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 2: I tapped my day and I said, oh shit, that's 93 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:28,039 Speaker 2: he's like, oh wow. So there was a small part 94 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 2: of me that wanted me to say something to her really, 95 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 2: and I think it's because I just saw him, but 96 00:04:33,880 --> 00:04:35,720 Speaker 2: I felt this inkling to speak to her, and I said, 97 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 2: you know what, let me not ruin the night? Yeah, 98 00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 2: what inkling you had? 99 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:40,160 Speaker 3: What was he going to say to her? Well? 100 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:43,159 Speaker 2: I knews they broke up, and I felt for her 101 00:04:43,200 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 2: because I know he's a piece of shit and I 102 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:46,559 Speaker 2: don't know what he did, but I know he did something. Okay, 103 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:49,360 Speaker 2: Hour and a half goes by for the first time 104 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 2: in my life, just as long as I was partying hard, 105 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 2: broke all inclusive photos for y'all partying hard. Duh. I 106 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 2: don't know what canned cocktail I was drinking, but I 107 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:02,960 Speaker 2: was like, it wasn't cut water, it was high news something. Bitch. 108 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 2: I'm lick. Now they're playing dad, I see you know 109 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 2: the piano dads Okay, and then I feel a tap 110 00:05:11,040 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 2: on my back and she says, hey, can I talk 111 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 2: to you for a second. So I'm like this bitch, 112 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 2: like can't do a bump. I was like, I said, uh, 113 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 2: are we I don't know if I said this, but 114 00:05:30,279 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 2: am I brain? I'm like, are we good? 115 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:32,359 Speaker 3: Like sure? 116 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 2: Because you ain't know if she wanted like smoke right? 117 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 2: Because I can talk hold you, I ain't gonna hold you. 118 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 2: That's what ma, What you mean? 119 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:41,600 Speaker 3: Can we talked? 120 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 2: Is we good? 121 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 1: Or all? 122 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 2: Right? 123 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 3: For me? 124 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 1: It's like it if a bitch want to talk to me, 125 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:48,160 Speaker 1: especially about a nigga, and we know we got a 126 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:50,960 Speaker 1: nigga in common, bitch, how what what's the energy. 127 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:51,160 Speaker 3: You bringing to me? 128 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:52,800 Speaker 2: Because you're not gonna ruin my knaves. It was just 129 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 2: very like neutral, but it's only can be neutral first 130 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:58,000 Speaker 2: and then bitch can right. So my nigga next to you, 131 00:05:58,120 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 2: he's looking at me like ship right. So let me 132 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 2: just tell you all the phases of the conversation first 133 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:07,719 Speaker 2: that he saw afterwards, Okay, I talk to her thirty minutes. 134 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 2: That's waiting long here in a party, bitch. Maybe it 135 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:13,160 Speaker 2: was only twenty, but it was intense. So I go 136 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:15,760 Speaker 2: up to him to apologize to him because I realized 137 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 2: I left him so long. So after the thing happened, 138 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 2: which I'll tell you all about. I go up to him. 139 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 2: I said it, damn baby, I'm so sorry. He's like, no, 140 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 2: you're good. Let's get off the bus. Let's let's go. 141 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 2: Like I thought he had attitude, He's like, let's just go. 142 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 2: I'm like, are you mad? He's like, no, I want 143 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 2: to hear. 144 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:31,600 Speaker 4: This. 145 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:33,719 Speaker 2: He'll tell off this bus. I'm trying to hear what happened? Bigga? 146 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:34,840 Speaker 4: You know who she is? 147 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 2: He said, Yo, you started standing up, then you had 148 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 2: your hands on your shoulders, then you was sitting down. 149 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:42,240 Speaker 2: Did I see you cry? What the fuck? Like, let's 150 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 2: go talk. You went through like the four phases of 151 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 2: grief in front of you. 152 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 5: What the y'all was talking about? 153 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 2: So she starts off by saying, okay, I read, but 154 00:06:56,800 --> 00:07:05,800 Speaker 2: not the book. And she said I knew nothing about him. 155 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 2: I thought I knew him. I knew nothing. She said. 156 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 4: He told me other women were your idea. He told 157 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:19,560 Speaker 4: me he didn't want to do X y Z. He 158 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 4: told me he wasn't even in a serious relationship with you. 159 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 4: I'm like, what, So I said to her, respectfully, how 160 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 4: could you believe that? 161 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 3: If you know? 162 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 2: She's like, well, I realize now maybe he said that 163 00:07:35,560 --> 00:07:39,720 Speaker 2: because I've been talking about this nigga. She's like, he 164 00:07:39,920 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 2: just maybe wanted me to think he wasn't that close 165 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:46,200 Speaker 2: to you. And in my brain, I'm like, dog, if 166 00:07:46,280 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 2: she would have known this was my nigga, she would 167 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 2: have just clicked off Horrible and heard everything. 168 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 1: Wait wait wait he made it seem like y'all weren't 169 00:07:55,480 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 1: that serious, so in her mind she like didn't think that. 170 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 1: You word, bro, there's like an archive of three years 171 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 1: of information about listen. 172 00:08:06,320 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 2: To a nigga? If they like, oh, went a lily 173 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 2: wear like that? 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Happy hump Day, everybody, 184 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 2: Welcome back for another YGD. This is a special edition 185 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:56,959 Speaker 2: of a live YGD. We are starting this episode off 186 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 2: with Guy. You'll hear a third voice from Andy and 187 00:08:59,000 --> 00:09:01,679 Speaker 2: I and the rea we're doing this is honestly, you 188 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 2: inspired this guy. The story was so damn good on 189 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:08,480 Speaker 2: our Patreon towel hall horrible to still over there? Did 190 00:09:08,559 --> 00:09:11,520 Speaker 2: I say, you know what, what if we got everybody 191 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:13,800 Speaker 2: seeing you were one of the first people that wrote us, 192 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 2: So what is going on with your ass? 193 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 5: All right, y'all? So I started. I talked to another couple. 194 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 5: I was talking to him back in September. 195 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 6: Everything was moving smoothly, and then it gets to He asked, 196 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 6: when was the last time you came. I said, like 197 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:39,880 Speaker 6: three days ago. He said, ooh, he's looking for somebody 198 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:40,920 Speaker 6: who hasn't come in weeks. 199 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:42,200 Speaker 5: She wants to get filled up. 200 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 2: I said, okay, okay, wait, wait, wait, we need a 201 00:09:45,400 --> 00:09:48,319 Speaker 2: little backstory for the people that have never heard you. 202 00:09:48,880 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 3: Where did you meet this couple? 203 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 2: What role are you playing with them? How does all 204 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 2: this come. 205 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:54,319 Speaker 3: About for you? 206 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 5: Okay? So I I use Reddit. 207 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:00,199 Speaker 6: I'm gonna say right here, I use Reddit to be 208 00:10:00,520 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 6: a bull and engage with lifestyle couples. 209 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:06,199 Speaker 5: It is something that I enjoy. I don't like getting 210 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:06,800 Speaker 5: paid for it. 211 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:10,080 Speaker 6: I do it solely because I enjoy giving other people 212 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:12,600 Speaker 6: pleasure and helping them achieve what they want to achieve. 213 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 6: This specific couple, I saw them post. I said, shoot, 214 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 6: let me send a little message. They had pictures of 215 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:23,839 Speaker 6: the girl on there. Shoot them a message. The next day, 216 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 6: he hits me back. He said, all right, cool, let's 217 00:10:25,760 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 6: talk more. Let's walk picks. We start talking, then the 218 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 6: whole When was the last time you came? I said two, 219 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:38,640 Speaker 6: three days. I said, she wants weeks. Months later, I 220 00:10:38,720 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 6: see them post again. 221 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:40,800 Speaker 5: I hit him back up. 222 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 6: I said, you still looking. I haven't come in a 223 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:44,559 Speaker 6: week and a half. Let's see if we can get 224 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 6: something going. He said, cool. 225 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:52,680 Speaker 5: We send verifying pick where if my use name their username, 226 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 5: bringing on a piece of paper in a picture of 227 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 5: my chest. 228 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 3: I stuck. 229 00:10:55,920 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 6: Got over, he says. Bet sends me his phone number. 230 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 6: I get his phone number. I text one there immediately, 231 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:09,800 Speaker 6: things are moving smoothly. He sends me his address. Now, 232 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 6: I gotta be careful when people send address, so I 233 00:11:12,080 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 6: check on Zilla to see if that house is actually 234 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 6: lived in. 235 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:17,439 Speaker 2: It's lived in, I say, wait, wait, wait, is that 236 00:11:17,600 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 2: how people should be verified. 237 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:24,079 Speaker 6: If my experience, yes, because there's something that people try 238 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 6: to do, especially on Reddit, where they will they will 239 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 6: put posts out there with fake pictures and then you 240 00:11:30,920 --> 00:11:34,000 Speaker 6: reply and they'll send you to an address that nobody 241 00:11:34,080 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 6: is living in, and as soon as you get there, 242 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 6: they will cut the chat and they will stop responding. 243 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:40,599 Speaker 5: They will block it. 244 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 2: Wow. 245 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:45,480 Speaker 6: There, it has happened to me one time, and from 246 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 6: that point I will be absolutely careful. 247 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 5: Every other time they will verify. I will verify and 248 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:52,520 Speaker 5: it's cool. 249 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:00,839 Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, so you check a load to verify 250 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:02,960 Speaker 2: before you're going over there. That's your safety precaution. 251 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 6: Okay, yes, so make sure it is it has lived in. 252 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:10,240 Speaker 6: I looked through the pictures. I'm like, all right, if 253 00:12:10,360 --> 00:12:11,880 Speaker 6: I walk in there, will I be able to get 254 00:12:11,920 --> 00:12:12,320 Speaker 6: out quick? 255 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 3: I can't. 256 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:19,400 Speaker 6: So we don't end up meeting for another five days. 257 00:12:19,520 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 6: So now it's a Wednesday. They said, hey, come through, 258 00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:24,439 Speaker 6: So it's ten pm. 259 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:25,319 Speaker 5: I get over there. 260 00:12:26,520 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 6: On the way there, he's like, hey, can you pick 261 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:31,559 Speaker 6: up some drinks? YadA, YadA, YadA. I said, absolutely not, 262 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:33,079 Speaker 6: absolutely not. 263 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:35,959 Speaker 3: Why was that an absolutely not? Why would you not 264 00:12:36,040 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 3: want to set the sea for me. 265 00:12:38,520 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 5: If I'm going to your house you're hosting, okay, yes, 266 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 5: don't ask. 267 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:49,920 Speaker 6: Me to pay for something to join your Yes, but 268 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:53,079 Speaker 6: I bring weed, that is my thing. I don't bring 269 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 6: drinks yet, I don't. 270 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:54,200 Speaker 5: Need to drink. 271 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:58,839 Speaker 6: Bring in something, yes, but you shouldn't ask me to 272 00:12:58,960 --> 00:13:00,959 Speaker 6: go out of my way and pay. He did a 273 00:13:01,000 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 6: good thing by saying if it's on the way. 274 00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:05,719 Speaker 3: How can I unders say it? Is that just a 275 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 3: rule for you? Because to me that's okay. 276 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:12,880 Speaker 2: Because if I'm a woman and I'm about to have 277 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 2: two men, I would like that both men cater to 278 00:13:16,760 --> 00:13:20,959 Speaker 2: the scene. Absolutely, Well, you're catering, well, he's the third. 279 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 1: Technically, I mean, I guess to the couple, yes, but 280 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:27,439 Speaker 1: as a woman, that's where I'm putting myself in the 281 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:28,160 Speaker 1: woman scenario. 282 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 3: As I'm you know, like, I. 283 00:13:30,360 --> 00:13:33,520 Speaker 1: Would like to know that both men cared for me 284 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: as the woman to set the scene as well. Not 285 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:38,839 Speaker 1: that you're coming to please me and my partner, but 286 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 1: just as a woman. If I'm doing the psychology jump 287 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 1: ropes of being with two men, I guess that's where 288 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:47,079 Speaker 1: I would like both men to want to cater to 289 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:47,440 Speaker 1: the scene. 290 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 3: That's all yeah, okay, okay, continue, but you bring the weed. 291 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:52,400 Speaker 3: You just don't want to bring the drinks. 292 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:54,839 Speaker 1: So you're still kind of adding to the scene and 293 00:13:54,920 --> 00:13:56,559 Speaker 1: whatever makes you feel comfortable, got it. 294 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:01,440 Speaker 6: Yes, So I bring weed because that is my thing. 295 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 6: I don't like to drink, and if they were drinking, 296 00:14:04,280 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 6: that's fine. I get there, we open the door. We 297 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 6: meet it's a stuper tall brown guy, like South Indian dude. 298 00:14:11,280 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 6: Was not expecting that. Didn't expect them to be that tall. 299 00:14:13,640 --> 00:14:15,439 Speaker 6: He was a good six to three. I'm not over 300 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 6: six foot. Okay, it's a little bit shorter, just like okay. 301 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 6: And it's a white girl, so it's a mixed couple. 302 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 5: I walk in there. 303 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:25,960 Speaker 6: They have drinks already on the table. I'm just like, 304 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 6: and they have cups out. It looks like they've already drank. 305 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:32,560 Speaker 6: As somebody who's walking into your house. I'm not gonna 306 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 6: ask for none of your stuff. So we're just standing 307 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:37,320 Speaker 6: there for a second. Then I say, all right, y'all 308 00:14:37,360 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 6: want to go smoke. We go outside, finish smoking, get 309 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:46,920 Speaker 6: back inside, immediately, sit on the couch. I go use 310 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:47,560 Speaker 6: the bathroom. 311 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:50,760 Speaker 5: I come back. They're setting up the PS five and 312 00:14:50,840 --> 00:14:52,560 Speaker 5: I'm just like, are we about to play a game? 313 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 5: And I'm upset. 314 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 6: Because I'm sitting there because I'm just like, why are 315 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 6: you prolonging this? Because it's you said you wanted to 316 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:04,560 Speaker 6: get straight to it in the hole in the messages. 317 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:06,840 Speaker 6: He didn't give up that information, but he said that 318 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 6: we get in there. I'm sitting on the couch. I 319 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 6: sit right next to her. He sits on the far side. 320 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:16,360 Speaker 6: At this point, I think he's a cup, so I'm 321 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 6: because they're asking for somebody more dominant. 322 00:15:18,800 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 5: I sit there. I tap her like, I said, how 323 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 5: are you doing? How are you feeling? He says I'm good, 324 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 5: then starts rubbing up on me. I'm so I'm seeing. 325 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:30,400 Speaker 5: We're just trying to get going, right. 326 00:15:30,480 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 6: You start sucking. She starts sucking my dick. He's just 327 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:37,200 Speaker 6: sitting there watching the TV and just glancing over at us, 328 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:41,560 Speaker 6: and just like guard cool, I start eating her out. 329 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 6: Then I go put her in mission not missionary doggie 330 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 6: on the couch and then she yells to him, well 331 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:48,640 Speaker 6: not even a yell, it was a snap. 332 00:15:48,720 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 5: She said take that off, and she just starts pulling 333 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 5: his pants off. 334 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 6: I'm just like, okay. Then she starts sucking his dick 335 00:15:56,440 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 6: while I'm fucking him. While I'm sucking her, I start 336 00:16:00,920 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 6: getting tired because I'm going for a good thirty minutes 337 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 6: on the couch, and I said, all right, hop on, 338 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 6: thinking she is going to hop on top start riding. 339 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 6: He lays on the side, starts sucking my deck and 340 00:16:15,640 --> 00:16:19,840 Speaker 6: he does the weakest strokes inside of her, just small 341 00:16:19,920 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 6: and short. 342 00:16:20,360 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 5: I'm just like okay. 343 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 6: Then she's acting all dainty and she says, can I 344 00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 6: ride you? And I said okay, cool. Then they start 345 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 6: leading me into the bedroom. I'm laying on the bed. 346 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:33,480 Speaker 6: She starts riding. That goes on for a good ten minutes. 347 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:36,680 Speaker 6: Then out of nowhere, he says, you want to pull 348 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:41,720 Speaker 6: out the straps. I said okay, but he was talking 349 00:16:41,760 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 6: to her. He says okay. Then he starts reaching under 350 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 6: the bed while she's still riding me. And then we 351 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 6: transitioned and he had these you know those customers strapped 352 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 6: to the bed for quills raising ankles. 353 00:16:55,600 --> 00:16:56,280 Speaker 5: Pulls that out. 354 00:16:57,240 --> 00:16:59,440 Speaker 6: We both set her up in that. Then I keep 355 00:16:59,480 --> 00:17:02,440 Speaker 6: sucking her like that. He's just laying on the top, 356 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 6: laying on there by the head post by her head. 357 00:17:05,760 --> 00:17:10,439 Speaker 6: He's just watching and he's just talking. He's just like, hey, yeah, Wed, 358 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:13,240 Speaker 6: look at how she's accepting that. YadA YadA, YadA, YadA, 359 00:17:13,280 --> 00:17:17,600 Speaker 6: YadA YadA. Keeps talking, talking to me. Okay, I'm just 360 00:17:17,720 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 6: like okay. Then she says and I come asking him, 361 00:17:23,359 --> 00:17:24,720 Speaker 6: so I'm just like, hold on, hold on, hold on. 362 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 6: I thought it was a cut hot wife situation. That 363 00:17:30,040 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 6: what she said right there, just changing to a stag 364 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 6: vixen situation. 365 00:17:34,280 --> 00:17:36,760 Speaker 2: Now we need to know what is kuk hot wife? 366 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:37,840 Speaker 2: What's stag vixen? 367 00:17:38,640 --> 00:17:43,560 Speaker 6: Okay, cuck hot wife is where stag vixen and cut 368 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:46,160 Speaker 6: hotwife are basically in the same in this specific aspect, 369 00:17:46,320 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 6: where the male goes out and finds another of finds 370 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:53,880 Speaker 6: a bull to engage with their person. In the cut scenario, 371 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 6: the cut doesn't really participate. He is usually there's some 372 00:17:57,280 --> 00:18:00,600 Speaker 6: sort of humiliation factor. That's what I was getting from 373 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:03,320 Speaker 6: the hole take your pants off in the beginning. Okay, 374 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:06,920 Speaker 6: as soon as she says, can I come to him? 375 00:18:07,880 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 6: That's where I'm like, oh, this is a stag vixen 376 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:12,560 Speaker 6: because the stag is taking a more active role in 377 00:18:12,680 --> 00:18:15,240 Speaker 6: the whole process, and it's not really about the humiliation. 378 00:18:15,680 --> 00:18:19,639 Speaker 5: It's also about him stiff having that Well, it may 379 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:21,640 Speaker 5: not even be that. It might they have a dom 380 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:23,160 Speaker 5: sub pre existing relationship. 381 00:18:23,240 --> 00:18:25,040 Speaker 6: That's why I was trying to deduce in the moment, 382 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:30,200 Speaker 6: and because we smoked, I'm focusing on all the mechanics 383 00:18:30,240 --> 00:18:33,120 Speaker 6: of the situation rather than the actual motion of the situation. Okay, 384 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 6: And so I see that's where I kind of messed up. 385 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 6: I think that is one of my three mistakes. And 386 00:18:38,040 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 6: why didn't go Well, this sounds like it's going. 387 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:45,760 Speaker 5: Well, it does, doesn't it. That's what I thought. So 388 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 5: it keeps going. 389 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:50,119 Speaker 6: I've gone on for like forty five minutes. Then he 390 00:18:50,240 --> 00:18:52,600 Speaker 6: taps me out, he starts fucking her. Then he comes 391 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:55,399 Speaker 6: and I immediately go back in there. While he's fucking her, 392 00:18:55,480 --> 00:18:57,399 Speaker 6: she's sucked on my dick and she's like pulling me 393 00:18:57,520 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 6: into like choker with it. 394 00:18:59,160 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 5: I think. 395 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:02,320 Speaker 6: So I'm just like, okay, trying to get that dominance factor. 396 00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:07,359 Speaker 6: He comes, I come in, I keep going, and this 397 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:12,240 Speaker 6: goes on for a total of like two hours until 398 00:19:12,400 --> 00:19:16,720 Speaker 6: the next bad part happens. You pull out for two hours, 399 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:21,719 Speaker 6: it was fun for like three and a half. Okay, 400 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:25,639 Speaker 6: And I would take what is in the weed? No, no, no, no, 401 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 6: I take so if you were guys, remember from the 402 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:31,920 Speaker 6: the town hall story, I couldn't get it up right 403 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 6: this time. I came ready. I had the bluetooe before 404 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:37,240 Speaker 6: on the drive. It was thirty minute drive, not a 405 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:39,720 Speaker 6: nad Okay, yeah, okay. 406 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:42,840 Speaker 3: Now now so you took the blue choe to be 407 00:19:42,960 --> 00:19:44,200 Speaker 3: sure that you could stay hard. 408 00:19:44,880 --> 00:19:46,400 Speaker 5: Yes, you are now. 409 00:19:47,960 --> 00:19:49,119 Speaker 3: Two and a half hours in. 410 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 5: Yes, what's happening now? 411 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:52,200 Speaker 3: That makes it go wrong? 412 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 5: So I pull out. 413 00:19:54,920 --> 00:19:58,000 Speaker 6: So every thirty forty minutes, I will pull out, start 414 00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:00,640 Speaker 6: eating her, pussy fingering her because I would get tired 415 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:03,160 Speaker 6: and needed to give my legs some time to regain 416 00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:06,240 Speaker 6: whatever sensibility. Drink some water to give her some water, right, 417 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:08,879 Speaker 6: but keep eating her pussy finger in her to make 418 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:11,440 Speaker 6: sure she's still getting something and it's not just dead. 419 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:18,520 Speaker 6: I pull out a stretch back. Got the nastiest cramp 420 00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:22,760 Speaker 6: in my abb the nastiest cramp. So I'm sticking four 421 00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 6: fingers and massaging it down the middle, drinking water while 422 00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:27,800 Speaker 6: they're just cuddling up at the bed, because I'm just 423 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:30,200 Speaker 6: like I maybe I can get this to go away. 424 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:33,359 Speaker 6: Drink all of my water and look in my back 425 00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:37,520 Speaker 6: no mustard packet. So I say just like this to them. 426 00:20:37,880 --> 00:20:43,040 Speaker 5: I say, y'all got mustard because I'm still high as hell? 427 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 2: Mustard? 428 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:47,760 Speaker 5: What? Because I have a cramp. They're like, oh, what 429 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:48,560 Speaker 5: you need mustard for? 430 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 6: I said, And I say it just like this, I said, 431 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 6: I just called the nastiest fucking cramp in my ass. 432 00:20:53,680 --> 00:20:53,880 Speaker 4: Wait? 433 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 5: Wait, wait, is this some. 434 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:57,560 Speaker 3: Old folk shit that I don't know? 435 00:20:57,640 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 5: Wait? 436 00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:00,280 Speaker 3: Mustard helps with cramps us. 437 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:02,600 Speaker 6: There, pickle juice, salt. Those are the three things. If 438 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 6: you got a cramp, you take those, and you drink 439 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,880 Speaker 6: some water and massage it. Your cramp will go away. 440 00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:12,639 Speaker 3: Mustard, pickle juice, or salt or salt. 441 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 2: Okay, nigga. If someone came to fuck me and my partner, 442 00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:21,960 Speaker 2: it's say, can I get some mustard? I'd be always 443 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:27,000 Speaker 2: gonna drip us in mustard and kill us. Right. 444 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:30,880 Speaker 5: So they were like, She's like, no, no, we don't 445 00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 5: have mustard or anything else. I said, y'all got pickle juice? No, no, 446 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:35,879 Speaker 5: we don't have that. I should have known. I should 447 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 5: have known they didn't have that. And I rolled my 448 00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:40,440 Speaker 5: eyes in my head and I'm just like, do y'all 449 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:40,920 Speaker 5: have salt? 450 00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 2: He leaves. 451 00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 5: She's just like rubbing my leg. YadA, YadA, YadA. He 452 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:49,960 Speaker 5: goes in, grabs some salt shaker, pour it on my hand, 453 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 5: I lick it, pour some on my hand, lick it, 454 00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:57,040 Speaker 5: Drink some water, massage. Cramp goes away instantly, back in it. 455 00:21:58,400 --> 00:22:02,680 Speaker 5: So now it is like one am. It started fucking 456 00:22:02,720 --> 00:22:05,280 Speaker 5: some more. It's one am and they're like, I still 457 00:22:05,320 --> 00:22:08,960 Speaker 5: have not come yet. And the remember, the big thing 458 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 5: of the being was she wants to get filled up. 459 00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:14,639 Speaker 5: She wants to get cream pied. He is a teacher. 460 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:19,000 Speaker 6: She had to get up in five hours, and so 461 00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,200 Speaker 6: I had to get up at six o'clock, so five 462 00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 6: hours as well. I'm just thinking, I cannot stay here 463 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:30,480 Speaker 6: and stay the course until I come. I cannot do that, guys, 464 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:31,600 Speaker 6: based guy. 465 00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 3: You're at this point, this is two stories. Well where 466 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:36,480 Speaker 3: you fell short? My guy? 467 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:37,960 Speaker 5: Yep, yep. 468 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:43,520 Speaker 6: I've never usually not coming is not a problem in 469 00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:46,760 Speaker 6: a big sense like this, but it was the whole 470 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 6: thing of here. 471 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 5: So I start. 472 00:22:50,800 --> 00:22:52,320 Speaker 6: So she's like, all right, I want you to come. 473 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:54,000 Speaker 6: He's saying, I want you to fill her up, fill 474 00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:57,320 Speaker 6: her up deep. And so I'm about to come, and 475 00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:00,240 Speaker 6: it's a missionary and I'm doing the longest strug to 476 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 6: get the most sensation for myself. And then he proceeds 477 00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:06,359 Speaker 6: to start trying to make out with me and she 478 00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:12,040 Speaker 6: bites the fuck out of my chin. No, no, blood 479 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 6: doesn't break skin, and I lose it instantly. I'm just like, 480 00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,399 Speaker 6: and then I have to do the old faithful I 481 00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:21,440 Speaker 6: started breathing heavy. 482 00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:24,639 Speaker 2: You think that I. 483 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 5: You can't, but this is what I say. 484 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:35,200 Speaker 6: I said, fuck say just like that, I'll a fucking 485 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:44,920 Speaker 6: my orgasm but not fucking coming. It was the high brain. 486 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:46,960 Speaker 6: It was the high brain that made me say it. 487 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:50,400 Speaker 6: But it made so much sense. I'm just like, Okay, 488 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 6: this is how I'm gonna do it. And then and 489 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,960 Speaker 6: I just and then I I'm at the edge of 490 00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:59,200 Speaker 6: the bed. They're still cuddling, and we're there for like 491 00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:01,920 Speaker 6: maybe five I have more minutes because they're thinking maybe 492 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:03,480 Speaker 6: he's just gonna come back up and do it again. 493 00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:05,480 Speaker 6: And I think to myself, all right, I'm gonna leave, 494 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 6: and I walk myself out. Next day, he says, hope 495 00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:13,439 Speaker 6: you enjoyed her pussy. 496 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 5: She was very sore. She appreciated that. YadA YadA, YadA. 497 00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:21,400 Speaker 5: I respond. He leaves me on delivered the next day. 498 00:24:21,600 --> 00:24:25,159 Speaker 5: So it's two days later a Friday, another post and 499 00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 5: read it looking for another book, and I'm just like, fuck, haang. 500 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:40,200 Speaker 1: God, do you need to be like do you desire 501 00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:42,800 Speaker 1: to be a bull? Or is this something that you're 502 00:24:42,840 --> 00:24:46,000 Speaker 1: just practicing? And I only asked that because in both 503 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:49,920 Speaker 1: instances where you're a bull, you didn't deliver. On one 504 00:24:50,000 --> 00:24:52,200 Speaker 1: time you couldn't get hard and on this time you 505 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:57,320 Speaker 1: couldn't come. So are you actually enjoying this or you 506 00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:01,600 Speaker 1: just like being in the midst of it? Like psychologically, 507 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:03,320 Speaker 1: are you enjoying? 508 00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:04,760 Speaker 5: Yeah? 509 00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:08,119 Speaker 6: So at the end, once all of that was happening 510 00:25:08,680 --> 00:25:10,239 Speaker 6: with the whole redded thing, I had to sit there 511 00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:13,000 Speaker 6: and be like, do I actually enjoy doing this? That 512 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 6: I realized at that point sex does not matter to me, 513 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:19,920 Speaker 6: the fact I was living off of the fact that 514 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:23,120 Speaker 6: she was enjoying that she was coming. However, he said 515 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,639 Speaker 6: eight or nine times, it was definitely more than that, 516 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:29,240 Speaker 6: because I was counting my head and that in and 517 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,159 Speaker 6: of itself was doing enough for me. 518 00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:36,560 Speaker 2: So you really like the actual act of and it's 519 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:39,520 Speaker 2: couple related. You like pleasing, but when it couples. 520 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:44,119 Speaker 5: In it, yes, it is. I like that I like 521 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:49,480 Speaker 5: in the brain. My fantasy with couples is because I'm 522 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:54,359 Speaker 5: a switch. I am a switch. If I'm fucking the wife, 523 00:25:55,160 --> 00:25:57,520 Speaker 5: I would love it if the husband is like, do this, 524 00:25:58,160 --> 00:25:58,440 Speaker 5: do that? 525 00:25:59,080 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 3: Do this? 526 00:25:59,520 --> 00:25:59,720 Speaker 2: Do that? 527 00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:02,400 Speaker 6: Like directing the whole thing like that is the kink 528 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:04,440 Speaker 6: that I have, my biggest kink. I've never found a 529 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:05,920 Speaker 6: couple who can actually do that. 530 00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:07,560 Speaker 2: Do you communicate this. 531 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:10,680 Speaker 1: To the couples that are interested in you coming in 532 00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:11,960 Speaker 1: to fulfill their fantasy? 533 00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:16,080 Speaker 3: Are you not sharing what actually pleases. 534 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 2: You with them? 535 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:20,359 Speaker 6: That's a big thing that pleases me is giving oral 536 00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:22,280 Speaker 6: That is something that I always communicate up front. 537 00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:24,640 Speaker 5: You're not communicating. 538 00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 3: You're not communicating that you want to be told what 539 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 3: to do by the cook. 540 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 5: You just know only because I know that can be 541 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:37,520 Speaker 5: a deal breaker for people. 542 00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:40,920 Speaker 3: Would be able. If it's a deal breaker, I would say, 543 00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:42,600 Speaker 3: that's the thing that's not. 544 00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,280 Speaker 2: The couple for you that would write you to come, 545 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 2: that would get you to like get your kink at 546 00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:49,920 Speaker 2: the end of the bargain. Now, granted, I know in 547 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:54,000 Speaker 2: many scenarios with doms, coming isn't part of what they're doing. 548 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,880 Speaker 2: And to me, this is kind of dom sub role 549 00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:59,400 Speaker 2: because you're coming in with someone's partner, they're watching, etc. 550 00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:04,359 Speaker 2: A little bit of dominant right right, I'm wondering have 551 00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:10,160 Speaker 2: you ever posted an ad that specifically said your fantasy 552 00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:11,520 Speaker 2: and had the couples hit. 553 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:18,119 Speaker 6: You on occasion? Yes, but when on Reddit, it is 554 00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,640 Speaker 6: very hard. It is very hard as a single male 555 00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:23,880 Speaker 6: to attract a couple. It's very difficult. 556 00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:27,440 Speaker 5: At you. 557 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:33,080 Speaker 6: I've tried Field, but in so much work required in 558 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:36,440 Speaker 6: doing it that in the chance in the times that 559 00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,960 Speaker 6: I've opened the app and started doing it, that I'm 560 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,320 Speaker 6: just like, this is not to my liking. 561 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:43,119 Speaker 5: This interface just bothers me. 562 00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:45,920 Speaker 1: The interview I bother you, but even you saying it's 563 00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:49,440 Speaker 1: a lot of work to me, you were showing up though, 564 00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:52,360 Speaker 1: but not pleasing couples because you're not being bang right 565 00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:54,919 Speaker 1: and the things that turn you on. 566 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,119 Speaker 2: In order for you to perform. So yeah, Field may 567 00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:00,640 Speaker 2: seem like a lot more work because people. 568 00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:01,760 Speaker 3: Able to communicate what they want. 569 00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:05,360 Speaker 1: But if you're entering this lifestyle, guy, I would say 570 00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:08,919 Speaker 1: that you need to be upfront because you're wasting these 571 00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:13,359 Speaker 1: couples times that's what you're like, and then for you 572 00:28:13,440 --> 00:28:15,760 Speaker 1: to go online and see that the same. 573 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:19,200 Speaker 3: Couple is looking for someone else. You're also kind of 574 00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:21,320 Speaker 3: feeling away about that. But I think that. 575 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:25,000 Speaker 1: I think that you need to be able to communicate 576 00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:28,480 Speaker 1: what you want out of the dynamic the same way 577 00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:31,840 Speaker 1: as the couple, and if for whatever reason you can't. 578 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 3: Or you feel like it'll be a deal breaker for them, that. 579 00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:37,840 Speaker 5: Just might not be the couple for you, right. 580 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:43,160 Speaker 6: I will add in this specific situation, usually I have 581 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:47,000 Speaker 6: broader and bigger communication with older couples, like couples thirties 582 00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:51,160 Speaker 6: or older. They're more open to communication, expressing kinks and 583 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 6: what they like. And in those situations, yes, I do 584 00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 6: talk about my director kink. In this specific situation, they 585 00:28:57,360 --> 00:28:59,800 Speaker 6: were a young couple and they were not giving a 586 00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:02,320 Speaker 6: lot of that communication on what they were asking for. 587 00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:05,520 Speaker 6: But in the beginning when we were texting, the most 588 00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:09,160 Speaker 6: I could get from him to say was you can 589 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:12,080 Speaker 6: slap her ass, not too hard, just make a sound. 590 00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:15,400 Speaker 6: Don't kiss her, let her kiss you. I don't care 591 00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:18,400 Speaker 6: if it happens or not. He likes to come, she 592 00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:21,160 Speaker 6: likes to be eaten out, she likes doggy. Those are 593 00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:23,960 Speaker 6: the only things I got. Even that, though pushing and 594 00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 6: prodding to get more than led to me being left 595 00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:30,600 Speaker 6: on delivered, and I think it was also me just 596 00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 6: wanting to break into it and see if first experience, 597 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,880 Speaker 6: we can regroup afterward and then talk more. That is 598 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:40,720 Speaker 6: not how this one ended up going. 599 00:29:41,720 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 2: So I completely agree with you're actually having an issue 600 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,960 Speaker 2: because of Reddit. Yes, So the thing about Reddit is 601 00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:50,880 Speaker 2: a lot of people are using you for the sexting aspect, 602 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:53,640 Speaker 2: a lot of people are wanting to have this interaction, 603 00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,880 Speaker 2: get more pictures, but it never goes to fruition, just 604 00:29:56,960 --> 00:30:00,680 Speaker 2: like the Zillow thing that you have going, whereas fet 605 00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:05,240 Speaker 2: life field, you have someone's profile. Once your face is 606 00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:07,000 Speaker 2: out there, there's a little bit more to it, right. 607 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:09,520 Speaker 3: I think if you're going to. 608 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:13,400 Speaker 2: Actually act as a unicorn to couples as a as 609 00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 2: a bull, isn't that what it's called? Like, I think 610 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 2: if you're going to go through with this, you can't 611 00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:22,680 Speaker 2: be on sites that are already anonymous. You're not going 612 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:25,320 Speaker 2: to get the experience because the experienced people, the better 613 00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:27,480 Speaker 2: looking people, they're most likely not going to be on 614 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 2: the threads. 615 00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:30,120 Speaker 3: They're going to be on something where they. 616 00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:32,520 Speaker 2: Can curate it, and you're gonna end up having a 617 00:30:32,600 --> 00:30:34,760 Speaker 2: better like recipient on the other end. They're going to 618 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,040 Speaker 2: be more experienced when it comes to these things to language. 619 00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 2: Think about even the way that when you're on field 620 00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 2: you can click a bunch of different kinks that's like 621 00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:45,680 Speaker 2: already built into the apps. So it might be work, 622 00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:48,440 Speaker 2: but you're gonna have better sex and then people will 623 00:30:48,640 --> 00:30:53,160 Speaker 2: start respecting your needs when you're in the middle of 624 00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:55,360 Speaker 2: trying to get to know them, when you're in the 625 00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:58,640 Speaker 2: middle of sex. I mean, I've had a lot of 626 00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 2: sex on field and viol I don't know how much 627 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:02,520 Speaker 2: that is, but I'd say I've used it on and 628 00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:06,000 Speaker 2: off since like twenty eighteen, and I haven't had a 629 00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:09,200 Speaker 2: bad experience, Like there is never anyone terrible. Maybe a 630 00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:12,200 Speaker 2: bad date or we awkward sex, but like at the 631 00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:13,480 Speaker 2: end of the day, they kind of get it. 632 00:31:13,640 --> 00:31:15,600 Speaker 5: Yes, And I think that you're going to. 633 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:17,880 Speaker 2: Be coming in as someone that is experienced with couples. 634 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,520 Speaker 2: You need couples that are experienced too, because it also 635 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 2: muddies your experience. 636 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:27,640 Speaker 6: Yes, I completely agree. If actually there is no rebuttal 637 00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:31,040 Speaker 6: to that that personal ad No, I mean there really 638 00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:33,320 Speaker 6: is that. I fully agree with you because I've come 639 00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:37,160 Speaker 6: to the same conclusion. It's just I have to sit 640 00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:40,960 Speaker 6: here and be like, there is only so much energy 641 00:31:41,120 --> 00:31:43,240 Speaker 6: that I want to a lot to do to put 642 00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:47,080 Speaker 6: into it. That's so for this specific couple, I was 643 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:49,360 Speaker 6: not giving it to them because they weren't giving it back. 644 00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:53,160 Speaker 6: The moment that I talk to more experienced couples, we 645 00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:56,200 Speaker 6: do have that more personal It's not just the sexing thing, 646 00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:59,840 Speaker 6: but we do eventually move to telegram and it's not 647 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:02,479 Speaker 6: all about the photo exchange. It's all about what are 648 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 6: your boundaries? What are your heart knows? What is something 649 00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:07,320 Speaker 6: that you want time thing? What is something you don't 650 00:32:07,360 --> 00:32:07,960 Speaker 6: want to happen? 651 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:08,959 Speaker 3: Oh? 652 00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:09,680 Speaker 5: Do you want me to. 653 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:13,880 Speaker 6: Engage with you as the cuck, as the stag? Should 654 00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:15,440 Speaker 6: I speak to you? Should I not speak to you? 655 00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:17,200 Speaker 6: Should I only speak to her? 656 00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:21,720 Speaker 2: And if you want to start having good taales like 657 00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:24,680 Speaker 2: those things that you know how to do, you need 658 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,400 Speaker 2: a partner that's going to be doing the same. You 659 00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:28,240 Speaker 2: can't be the only one coming in with a good 660 00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:31,320 Speaker 2: dick and good communication. Agreed, And then I guess I'll 661 00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:34,160 Speaker 2: last a bit of advice for you, would be And 662 00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:36,080 Speaker 2: I talk about this in our book No Host part 663 00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:39,280 Speaker 2: You have to be okay with rejection if you feel 664 00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:42,080 Speaker 2: like you can't show up for how a couple wants 665 00:32:42,120 --> 00:32:45,760 Speaker 2: you to show up. Your immediate fear going to they're 666 00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:47,120 Speaker 2: going to leave me on red, or they're not going 667 00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:48,440 Speaker 2: to be interested, or they're going to go on to 668 00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,440 Speaker 2: the next needs to be okay, because you don't need 669 00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:53,160 Speaker 2: to be in a place where you're wasting your time 670 00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:58,320 Speaker 2: and wasting theirs, where after the experience you say, well, 671 00:32:58,400 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 2: this is where it went wrong, this is where we're 672 00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:02,120 Speaker 2: this is where we're wrong, and it wasn't a great 673 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:06,160 Speaker 2: experience because you know you left them unpleased and essentially 674 00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 2: you were too. So you just need to know what 675 00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:12,280 Speaker 2: you want and how to communicate that. And when a 676 00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:15,360 Speaker 2: couple isn't on the same page as you, be okay 677 00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:19,120 Speaker 2: with not playing with them, right, not even pulling up 678 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:22,080 Speaker 2: because you know you about to play with your own orgasm. Right. 679 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,280 Speaker 6: And for me to synthesize what you're saying, it's not 680 00:33:25,440 --> 00:33:28,440 Speaker 6: only be okay with being rejected by them, but rejecting 681 00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:31,400 Speaker 6: yourself from the situation they're no longer in it. Okay, 682 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 6: Yes I can, Yes, you understand that a. 683 00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:35,920 Speaker 2: Great way to say it. I actually want to go 684 00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:38,040 Speaker 2: and just give the date if you guys want to 685 00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,800 Speaker 2: hear more of Guy and the crazy ass story he 686 00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 2: told us, with soundbites included on what he was saying 687 00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:48,400 Speaker 2: in bed and everything. It would is from our town 688 00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:56,720 Speaker 2: hall in August August twenty seven, August twenty six. Please 689 00:33:56,840 --> 00:34:00,160 Speaker 2: go and check patreon dot com backslash Horrible Decisions Go 690 00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:04,560 Speaker 2: on there. It's audio only, but it is sonically fucking amazing. 691 00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:09,400 Speaker 3: Guy, thank you for giving us all your d of course. 692 00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:10,960 Speaker 5: Of course you've done it for years. 693 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:13,800 Speaker 3: I love it, I love it forget again. 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