WEBVTT - #53 - Jake Owen 0:00:01.040 --> 0:00:03.720 All right, Welcome to episode fifty three, The Bobby Cast 0:00:04.320 --> 0:00:07.400 in the House, with Jay going, I'm gonna see you. 0:00:07.760 --> 0:00:10.360 It's good to be here. Man. You text me about 0:00:10.360 --> 0:00:12.399 an hour and a half ago saying you're bringing juices over. 0:00:13.119 --> 0:00:16.520 I don't see any juices. Well, I saved the story 0:00:16.560 --> 0:00:20.400 to tell you because, um, I've had a crazy day today, 0:00:20.440 --> 0:00:23.320 so I woke up or I was excited about this. 0:00:23.440 --> 0:00:25.639 I will tell you to just like kind of see 0:00:25.640 --> 0:00:27.880 you outside of the whole realm of you never been 0:00:27.880 --> 0:00:30.520 to my house, huh. I haven't lived here very long either, 0:00:30.640 --> 0:00:33.360 though I haven't. But something too is like I think too, 0:00:33.479 --> 0:00:36.199 like about going into the show on your show, as 0:00:36.200 --> 0:00:39.320 great as it is, like like you know today, like 0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:40.960 I showed up here, like I don't have anybody with me, 0:00:41.200 --> 0:00:43.040 you know what I mean, with all due respected people 0:00:43.080 --> 0:00:46.000 around me and in the label and stuff like sometimes 0:00:46.440 --> 0:00:48.120 for all of us artists, I think I speak on 0:00:48.159 --> 0:00:50.080 behalf of it. Was like you sometimes go to that 0:00:50.120 --> 0:00:51.680 show and like you've got so many people around you 0:00:51.680 --> 0:00:53.519 and they're trying to tell you things like you don't know, 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:55.360 like you've never done this before, Like I don't know 0:00:55.480 --> 0:00:57.400 you or you know what I'm saying, and it always 0:00:57.400 --> 0:00:59.840 seems like it's kind of you mentioned long form earlier 0:00:59.880 --> 0:01:04.600 with more of a short form kind of short interviewee 0:01:04.640 --> 0:01:06.440 kind of thing. It's never really that comfortable. So I 0:01:06.440 --> 0:01:08.080 was looking forward to getting comfortable in your chair at 0:01:08.120 --> 0:01:10.680 your home, man and chatting with you. It's a thunderstorming 0:01:10.680 --> 0:01:15.120 outside too, so the ambiance is there. Juice story, So 0:01:15.240 --> 0:01:17.360 all I know is about I better go, Jake since 0:01:17.360 --> 0:01:19.440 me at Texas. Hey, I'm coming over. Yeah, I'm gonna 0:01:19.440 --> 0:01:21.880 stop and get you some men. You know, no good fruit? 0:01:22.760 --> 0:01:25.800 Do you like grapefruit juice? And I reply back, not really, 0:01:26.319 --> 0:01:30.160 but do you mean quote grapefruit juice? Because then not really, 0:01:30.520 --> 0:01:33.520 which was funny. But see what my mom raised me. 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:36.760 When you go to someone's home, uh you know, it's 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:39.000 like nice to take a gift. And I was like, well, 0:01:39.040 --> 0:01:41.880 you're a healthy guy, and I like juices, and I 0:01:41.880 --> 0:01:43.679 had to go there anyways, garps and juice today. I 0:01:43.680 --> 0:01:47.640 thought you'd like some juice. I like grapefruit juice just 0:01:47.680 --> 0:01:49.800 be I'm a Florida guy, like that citrus. But they 0:01:49.840 --> 0:01:51.800 sometimes a grape frutjuice can get a little acidic, so 0:01:51.840 --> 0:01:54.840 they throw that mint in there. To offset it. They 0:01:54.840 --> 0:01:57.000 make them in a nice craft, so I had her 0:01:57.000 --> 0:01:59.560 make a grapefruit have they She said, you have not 0:01:59.600 --> 0:02:02.840 tried charcoal water, which I highly recommend. Wait, who said, 0:02:02.960 --> 0:02:05.680 how does somebody know what I've had? Uh, well, there's 0:02:05.720 --> 0:02:08.640 a girl there that owns the place, and I guess 0:02:08.720 --> 0:02:10.760 not at a few other people have gone there before 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:12.720 and picked you up some juices. And I said, have 0:02:12.760 --> 0:02:15.040 you ever had has he ever taken some of the 0:02:15.080 --> 0:02:17.320 charcoal water? She said, I don't think he has. So 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:21.240 I had you a thing of mint charcoal water, and 0:02:21.280 --> 0:02:23.760 then cash you milk, which is great. I'm not sure 0:02:23.760 --> 0:02:25.160 if you're a cash you guy, but I figured to 0:02:25.200 --> 0:02:28.440 give you a different choice. And where are all these toys? 0:02:28.600 --> 0:02:30.520 It's like, you know I was gonna get you for Christmas? 0:02:30.919 --> 0:02:34.040 We no, no, But here's the this is the thing, man. 0:02:34.120 --> 0:02:35.920 And I thought about like making up an excuse as 0:02:35.960 --> 0:02:37.239 to like why could and then I'm like, this is 0:02:37.240 --> 0:02:42.240 the honest truth. So I called her that's upset it 0:02:42.240 --> 0:02:44.840 all up? Was ready to go there today. Well, my dog, 0:02:45.000 --> 0:02:46.560 I thought, ran off because I was in the studio 0:02:46.639 --> 0:02:49.000 doing some singing in my house and I looked everywhere 0:02:49.000 --> 0:02:53.160 for him. Gotten drove down the road was screaming, and uh, 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:56.160 he was locked in my bathroom downstairs in the in 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:58.640 the garage. She locked himself in there, which I never 0:02:58.680 --> 0:03:00.040 looked in there. So I searched for an hour, so 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:03.880 I was behind time at this point. Then I literally 0:03:04.280 --> 0:03:06.679 can't find my wallet, so there was no way I 0:03:06.720 --> 0:03:08.960 could go to the place and actually pay for the juices. 0:03:09.160 --> 0:03:11.760 But couldn't you as Jay Going, the guy they know, 0:03:12.080 --> 0:03:14.680 the country star, say hey, let me just put this 0:03:14.720 --> 0:03:16.320 on my and I don't expect you to do it, 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:18.200 but I'm just saying no. I thought about that, but 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:20.960 I was like, man, that's even weirder than just being honestly. 0:03:21.000 --> 0:03:22.640 They're telling you that I can't find I mean right 0:03:22.720 --> 0:03:24.399 right now, I'm gonna be honest, like it's a weird 0:03:24.480 --> 0:03:26.399 feeling not knowing where your wallet is. Oh, you don't 0:03:26.400 --> 0:03:28.760 know what what it right now. I've looked forward for like 0:03:28.800 --> 0:03:30.600 a day. You'll find it, you know what I mean. 0:03:30.880 --> 0:03:34.480 But when I find it, I'll get you some you 0:03:34.520 --> 0:03:36.600 know what's gonna be a day though, is over the 0:03:36.640 --> 0:03:39.480 threshold of you'll find it. Yeah, But I checked my 0:03:39.520 --> 0:03:43.200 debit card and there's been no activity. I don't think 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:45.760 it's stolen, but if you go over a day, it 0:03:45.800 --> 0:03:48.400 means it's somewhere. It's it's out of your normal circle 0:03:48.480 --> 0:03:51.600 of cycle, right, so it's hard to just stumble upon 0:03:51.640 --> 0:03:54.320 it again unless you remember where you went. I just 0:03:54.440 --> 0:03:57.080 constantly I am losing losing things. I've told people for 0:03:57.120 --> 0:03:59.760 a long time, Like I literally a lot of times 0:03:59.800 --> 0:04:01.320 I don't don't know where my keys are, I lose 0:04:01.400 --> 0:04:04.280 my wallet, but I can remember everywhere, Like on the 0:04:04.280 --> 0:04:07.240 way over here, Snoop Dog, What's my Name? Came on 0:04:07.240 --> 0:04:10.280 on on random Shuffle and my iTunes and I was 0:04:10.320 --> 0:04:12.960 just singing every word. And it's odd that you can 0:04:13.000 --> 0:04:16.520 remember things like that, but you can't remember where to 0:04:16.520 --> 0:04:18.080 put your wallet in the same place every time you 0:04:18.080 --> 0:04:20.280 come home. I'm the opposite. I can't remember a lyric 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:22.480 to say in my life, but you have. You're meticulous 0:04:22.520 --> 0:04:25.400 about facts, and it's not even. I don't lose things, 0:04:25.480 --> 0:04:28.240 and when I do, I know where I lost them, 0:04:28.360 --> 0:04:30.400 Like I can go, oh, you know what, I lost 0:04:30.400 --> 0:04:31.960 my keys? Where would I have lost my keys? And 0:04:32.000 --> 0:04:33.840 I can go right to them without no one can't 0:04:33.880 --> 0:04:37.400 do that. It's weird. Get parts of the brain, Yeah, 0:04:38.040 --> 0:04:39.760 but it's odd. I can remember things back when I 0:04:39.839 --> 0:04:42.839 was a kid, I mean, like detailed things, and my 0:04:42.880 --> 0:04:44.279 mom even to this dale say like, how do you 0:04:44.320 --> 0:04:47.279 remember that? I don't know. Isn't a funny remember phone 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:49.919 numbers though, like as a kid, like I remember my 0:04:49.920 --> 0:04:56.359 best friends phone number. You don't have his parents might 0:04:56.440 --> 0:05:02.440 do that. Okay, well still somebody has that number, probably um, 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:04.880 but yeah, I remember all. We don't have to though. 0:05:04.880 --> 0:05:07.080 Now I don't know directions for the most part, because 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:09.120 I have a GPS in my car, and it's like 0:05:09.200 --> 0:05:11.360 I don't know how to get places because I usually 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:14.839 just let it take me. It's the world. The world's 0:05:14.880 --> 0:05:17.320 getting too easy, and when it all goes down like 0:05:17.360 --> 0:05:20.000 Walking Dead style, We're all gonna be really screwed. It's 0:05:20.000 --> 0:05:22.280 the people that remained think it's down like that. Of 0:05:22.320 --> 0:05:24.920 course I love those shows because I would love for 0:05:24.960 --> 0:05:26.880 the world to end while I'm on it. Are you 0:05:26.880 --> 0:05:28.680 one of those people? I didn't see a bumper stick 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:33.200 around your car down there? Zombie like zombie? Nope? All 0:05:33.240 --> 0:05:35.279 I think this is what I hope. I hope the 0:05:35.320 --> 0:05:39.640 world ends while I'm here. Why because think about how 0:05:39.680 --> 0:05:44.200 many Yeah, it would be awesome. No, think about how 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:47.680 lucky you would be it's like palm trees and sunshine 0:05:47.720 --> 0:05:49.480 and stuff like that, and that's cool and you're gonna 0:05:49.480 --> 0:05:51.720 to experience that right now. But think about how many 0:05:51.760 --> 0:05:54.200 people did not get to experience into the world. All 0:05:54.279 --> 0:05:56.560 the people didn't get to experience that. You get to 0:05:56.600 --> 0:05:59.440 experience the final We're gonna die anyway, Like we're just 0:05:59.520 --> 0:06:02.039 a bullying in the earth time just I mean not 0:06:02.080 --> 0:06:05.320 even a blink. What it's like this goodbye in that 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:07.880 one blink you get lucky enough in that one blink 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:09.440 of a twenty four hour cycle. I don't know if 0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:12.680 I want to see that, Like already I'm paranoid right now, 0:06:12.760 --> 0:06:15.200 I can't find my wallet. It's the challenge I thought of, 0:06:15.480 --> 0:06:20.479 like the world ending is is that that does lots 0:06:20.520 --> 0:06:23.240 to me. I'm fascinated annoying, where like I don't want 0:06:23.720 --> 0:06:26.800 that's that's that is the thing to her to have 0:06:26.839 --> 0:06:29.680 a full, beautiful life that she hasn't had yet. So 0:06:30.000 --> 0:06:33.000 but think about the real competition that it is. Think 0:06:33.000 --> 0:06:35.200 about the competition to be just to live, like I 0:06:35.279 --> 0:06:39.680 live for competition all sorts, like oh I love it, 0:06:39.760 --> 0:06:44.320 Like that's the ultimate competition, the struggle for life against 0:06:44.360 --> 0:06:46.240 everyone all the time, and I would love to be 0:06:46.279 --> 0:06:47.400 a part of it. So you want to be a 0:06:47.440 --> 0:06:50.960 part of like last Man Standing of life. If it's 0:06:51.000 --> 0:06:53.360 a game show, I'm like, who cares? I mean, I'd 0:06:53.360 --> 0:06:54.680 like to win it, like to win the extra money. 0:06:54.680 --> 0:06:56.520 They'll be fine. You want to be the last guy 0:06:56.600 --> 0:06:58.400 on earth? I want to be one of the guys 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:02.200 running a village. It's like dominant eating Really. Oh that 0:07:02.200 --> 0:07:04.400 that thrills me. I mean, I get I like that 0:07:04.440 --> 0:07:06.440 you're honest about that. I would love it. I mean, like, 0:07:06.480 --> 0:07:09.080 I've never thought of it that way. If I have 0:07:09.120 --> 0:07:10.640 to I eat, I eat a human in a second. 0:07:10.880 --> 0:07:13.560 I just know that I want to win, and I 0:07:13.560 --> 0:07:15.920 want to win everything that I do. And that's the 0:07:16.120 --> 0:07:20.680 ultimate no no, But that's the ultimate competition. We're basically animals. 0:07:21.840 --> 0:07:26.400 We've been were domesticated very much. So imagine we're not anymore. 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:30.360 All of a sudden, GPS, no cell phone, it's off, 0:07:30.400 --> 0:07:34.120 no power. Can you imagine what we would turn into animals? Again? 0:07:34.160 --> 0:07:36.920 We turn into dogs and here we go, who's the 0:07:36.960 --> 0:07:39.360 strongest and smartest dog. I might not be the strongest, 0:07:39.360 --> 0:07:42.400 but let's see how smart I really am? Oh man, 0:07:43.760 --> 0:07:46.280 I would love it. I've had many conversations about this. 0:07:46.480 --> 0:07:48.800 That's that's like my fantasy is the end of the 0:07:48.800 --> 0:07:51.280 world and I'm here because we have different fantasies. Man, 0:07:51.400 --> 0:07:56.400 we do. We're messed up in different ways. Um, I'm 0:07:56.440 --> 0:07:58.920 drinking amano as water because I didn't get anything. Do 0:07:58.960 --> 0:08:00.680 you mind telling me a little bit of like amino 0:08:00.720 --> 0:08:03.040 acids for a second. Yeah, because I don't sleep well. 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:06.840 They help with sleeping. They Yeah. Basically from what I've 0:08:06.920 --> 0:08:09.680 learned and listen, every single fitness person I've ever met 0:08:09.720 --> 0:08:11.360 in my life has different theories on every single thing. 0:08:12.160 --> 0:08:14.120 You kind of collect what you believe and you kind 0:08:14.120 --> 0:08:16.040 of read science a bit and didn't do what work 0:08:16.200 --> 0:08:18.280 you and you find what works with your body. It's 0:08:18.320 --> 0:08:22.280 also with people and weight and muscle. Everybody's different. There 0:08:22.320 --> 0:08:25.160 just isn't an answer to how to get skinny or 0:08:25.200 --> 0:08:28.000 how to get but what what does amino acids do? Really? 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:31.320 As opposed to like I guess, you're depleting them while 0:08:31.360 --> 0:08:33.640 you're working out, so you're just adding them back into 0:08:33.679 --> 0:08:36.599 your system basically, and it's nothing where it's making me 0:08:36.640 --> 0:08:38.520 any better. It's just trying to help all the suck 0:08:39.000 --> 0:08:41.800 because it's I suck. Because I don't sleep. I feel 0:08:41.800 --> 0:08:44.800 like you need sleep. Man. It's the single most important thing. 0:08:44.960 --> 0:08:48.840 Like it literally is more than working out in order. 0:08:48.880 --> 0:08:53.600 It's sleep, eating good and working out. How many hours 0:08:53.600 --> 0:08:56.760 of sleep you get heda you think like it'll be 0:08:58.760 --> 0:09:00.959 this is my issue. Tell me be in bed tonight. 0:09:02.280 --> 0:09:03.760 I'm in the middle of riding my second book, so 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:05.400 I'll have to write. And this is one of the 0:09:05.400 --> 0:09:07.560 Bobby Cast. It takes my days and makes them later. 0:09:08.600 --> 0:09:11.720 So where I would probably start writing right now and 0:09:11.720 --> 0:09:13.840 write for ninety minutes of two hours, I won't start 0:09:13.920 --> 0:09:17.640 until seven. So I'll probably right till nine, work on 0:09:17.640 --> 0:09:20.920 this show till ten thirty, a late night, fall asleep 0:09:20.960 --> 0:09:25.079 round eleven, get up at three and so, and then 0:09:25.360 --> 0:09:27.800 you run all day and then uh, you know, I 0:09:27.920 --> 0:09:30.240 go all day on a normal night, try to be 0:09:30.240 --> 0:09:32.360 in bed by eight. But and then on the weekends 0:09:32.360 --> 0:09:33.920 it throws me. I tore every weekend. So I'm gonna 0:09:33.920 --> 0:09:37.160 stand up now. And so I I go to I'm 0:09:37.360 --> 0:09:40.040 the Saturday night in town oddly at the wild West 0:09:40.040 --> 0:09:43.720 Comedy Festival. Be here unfortunately the only time I don't know, 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:46.319 But I wouldn't expect anybody to. You guys, gotta work. 0:09:46.320 --> 0:09:49.200 I'll be there. I've told you that before. I love comedy, um, 0:09:49.240 --> 0:09:51.680 but then to every weekend, so I'm up till one 0:09:51.960 --> 0:09:53.800 two am on the weekends, so I never My schedule 0:09:53.800 --> 0:09:56.040 is never the same. I don't care about me. Why 0:09:56.040 --> 0:09:57.680 I'm talking about me? What do you do for fun? Man? Now? 0:09:57.720 --> 0:09:59.080 I don't you know? I'm staying in the shower. Let 0:09:59.120 --> 0:10:00.640 me tell you get a conste you have to talk 0:10:00.640 --> 0:10:02.400 about you don't? Yeah, I don't. I don't like talk 0:10:02.400 --> 0:10:04.319 about me really it, which is weird because I talk 0:10:04.360 --> 0:10:06.679 all the time, but I do it. I feel like 0:10:06.679 --> 0:10:08.360 a couple of I feel like you talk about yourself 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:09.719 all the time, but you talk about it in a 0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:17.240 way I like it. That's exactly. I haven't liked to 0:10:17.240 --> 0:10:20.440 control compliments because I don't feel comfortable getting complimented. So 0:10:20.480 --> 0:10:22.800 I'm much better. Do you like the feeling of? And 0:10:22.800 --> 0:10:25.240 then we'll get off you talk to you? But do 0:10:25.280 --> 0:10:27.280 you like the feeling of? Because there is also a 0:10:27.360 --> 0:10:30.280 very satisfying feeling, which I think that's what us as 0:10:30.400 --> 0:10:35.600 entertainers like, of almost knowing that you could fail, but 0:10:35.679 --> 0:10:39.679 the feeling of not failing is so gratifying, like, for instance, 0:10:39.720 --> 0:10:42.439 like like, do you know when you walk out there 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:44.199 in any crowd you're gonna do you know that you're 0:10:44.200 --> 0:10:46.160 gonna crush it? Are you? Like there's a chance that 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:48.880 they might not like my jokes? But I think by 0:10:48.880 --> 0:10:51.160 going i'm your competitor. You said, I'm gonna go into 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:54.960 it thinking I'm gonna crush this audience. But like, does 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:57.000 it make you uncomfortable if it like if you're out 0:10:57.000 --> 0:10:59.560 there and it's not. If I'm not uncomfortable, it's not 0:10:59.600 --> 0:11:03.280 fun to me exactly. So I go out and what 0:11:03.360 --> 0:11:06.120 I do, and what I've been doing is working this material. 0:11:06.440 --> 0:11:08.760 And the thing about stand up is you go out. 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:11.640 You I can't sit and practice it in my room. 0:11:11.679 --> 0:11:13.400 It's like not like playing guitar. If I'm gonna write 0:11:13.400 --> 0:11:15.240 a funny song, I play a funny song, I practice it. 0:11:15.360 --> 0:11:18.839 You know, fcg you know, do my little chords, play 0:11:19.000 --> 0:11:20.960 a little whatever. You have to go out and do 0:11:21.040 --> 0:11:23.360 jokes in front of people, and you have to fail 0:11:23.360 --> 0:11:26.480 a few times before it works. So if I'm not 0:11:27.120 --> 0:11:30.439 in every set, I've got some brand new stuff I'm 0:11:30.440 --> 0:11:32.920 gonna try. And I'm always a little bit nervous about 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:35.439 that new stuff because I know some of it's going 0:11:35.520 --> 0:11:37.920 to bomb hard, and it's so exciting to me to fail. 0:11:38.000 --> 0:11:40.839 Oh I love it. I love it so much like it. 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:44.400 That's the most thrilling thing to me is making yourself 0:11:44.440 --> 0:11:47.719 completely vulnerable on stage to bombing your brains out, Which 0:11:47.760 --> 0:11:49.840 is weird because it's such a juxtaposition of my life 0:11:50.000 --> 0:11:52.079 where I have I do not have the ability to 0:11:52.080 --> 0:11:55.800 be vulnerable to humans, but I I search for love 0:11:55.880 --> 0:11:59.080 on stage from a crowd that I know no one 0:11:59.559 --> 0:12:01.800 but in real alive. I for some reason, I've not 0:12:01.840 --> 0:12:07.600 been good at accepting love. So I think that's being 0:12:08.360 --> 0:12:10.880 and I'm trying to change it a bit. And it's 0:12:10.920 --> 0:12:13.480 tough because I don't think I don't do good at 0:12:13.559 --> 0:12:17.600 letting people in. Ever. Hey man a buddy of mine. 0:12:17.640 --> 0:12:20.319 He's a great songwriter. Speaking of songwriters, um, and his 0:12:20.400 --> 0:12:22.520 name is Jared Mullins. He wrote this new and this 0:12:22.559 --> 0:12:24.160 isn't a plug of my new single or anything, but 0:12:24.360 --> 0:12:26.040 he's a great guy and we were talking. We always 0:12:26.040 --> 0:12:28.320 talked about this, and I gotta He gave me this 0:12:28.400 --> 0:12:30.720 book that I'm gonna I gotta get the name of 0:12:30.720 --> 0:12:32.439 it and get it your way, just just you should 0:12:32.480 --> 0:12:36.120 read it. Though I can't think of the name off 0:12:36.120 --> 0:12:37.880 the top of my head. I started reading It's amazing, 0:12:37.880 --> 0:12:39.840 And that's why he read it, because he's like, man, 0:12:39.920 --> 0:12:42.520 it's a book about this guy as a comedian, and 0:12:42.880 --> 0:12:46.600 he hadn't because his life was all about being funny 0:12:46.640 --> 0:12:49.720 and and being that guy. He never found the other 0:12:49.840 --> 0:12:51.600 true side of who he was because he felt like 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:54.160 he was always a character. See, I feel the opposite. 0:12:54.280 --> 0:12:59.160 I became someone who was funny because I didn't have 0:12:59.360 --> 0:13:01.959 that other I didn't start out as the character. I 0:13:01.960 --> 0:13:04.120 couldn't find the other one. I couldn't find the other one. 0:13:04.360 --> 0:13:07.480 So I'm not a character. Well I'm not saying, I'm 0:13:07.480 --> 0:13:11.959 just saying, but yeah, interesting wondering like what if you 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:13.719 am I to someone else? You know what I mean? 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:16.280 Not that it matters, but this is deep today. It's 0:13:16.320 --> 0:13:18.200 what we do. You do the same thing, Like why 0:13:18.240 --> 0:13:20.120 in the world do we try to get on and 0:13:20.160 --> 0:13:21.480 I get on the radio and try to do my 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:23.160 little performance? Why do you get on stage? You do 0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:25.840 you performance? Like why would you do that? Why? What 0:13:25.840 --> 0:13:28.000 what are you seeking? Well? I was thinking about that 0:13:28.040 --> 0:13:30.400 a second ago. I was like, what made what made 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:33.200 you like like yeah, I think everyone thinks like yeah, 0:13:33.200 --> 0:13:35.240 I think I'm pretty funny or I'm humorous or something, 0:13:35.280 --> 0:13:37.400 but like, is it the challenge of it because you're 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:39.760 being a competitor or like, are you Like I think 0:13:39.760 --> 0:13:41.560 I'm so funny. I can walk on stage and like 0:13:41.600 --> 0:13:43.280 make people laugh because I think I'm funny. But I 0:13:43.320 --> 0:13:44.920 don't know if I'm I could be I could do 0:13:44.960 --> 0:13:48.280 that because I don't know if I'm but nobody until 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:53.599 that you do it. And I sucked, and I love sucking, 0:13:54.040 --> 0:13:56.560 and you can you can isolight that clip if you want. Yeah, 0:13:56.720 --> 0:13:58.719 but I love it was so thrilling to me to 0:13:58.760 --> 0:14:00.720 be bad at something and to why to myself grow 0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:03.880 and get better. And I guess that's cool. It's like 0:14:03.920 --> 0:14:06.480 the self fulfillment of getting better at something. I'm telling 0:14:06.520 --> 0:14:09.200 you it's the best, like going out and just bombing. 0:14:10.320 --> 0:14:12.319 Let's see, like five or six weeks ago, had a 0:14:12.360 --> 0:14:14.800 really bad show and I came off stage and I 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:18.520 was just like, Oh, it feels so awful that it 0:14:18.520 --> 0:14:20.440 felt it felt so good? Well, can I ask you? 0:14:20.480 --> 0:14:22.280 I mean, probably the worst thing that anyone that's a 0:14:22.320 --> 0:14:24.000 stand up, because I have a few of my friends 0:14:24.000 --> 0:14:25.840 that here's the thing about me being a stand up, 0:14:25.880 --> 0:14:27.480 Like I don't even consider myself a real Do I 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:29.920 go and do stop comedy? Actually? But do you like 0:14:30.000 --> 0:14:31.880 sit there and go so this guy like you're not 0:14:31.920 --> 0:14:35.280 telling jokes like that's more of life stuff. It's funny. Yeah, No, 0:14:35.400 --> 0:14:37.920 I write jokes like, but I don't. There are guys 0:14:37.960 --> 0:14:39.840 that picked their whole career and do that, do that. 0:14:40.200 --> 0:14:42.160 It would be like me consider myself a musician because 0:14:42.200 --> 0:14:44.040 I go play two thousand people a night for the 0:14:44.120 --> 0:14:46.880 raging idiots. I'm not a musician. I'm just an entertainer. 0:14:47.000 --> 0:14:48.840 Do I get up and play songs and dude? And 0:14:48.880 --> 0:14:50.360 then do I do I do stand up? Yeah? Do 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:52.360 I do a radio shop? I'm not really great at 0:14:52.400 --> 0:14:54.880 any of them, but they're all challenging to me, and 0:14:54.920 --> 0:14:57.680 I love them. I'm a I'm a radio guy who 0:14:57.720 --> 0:14:59.840 also probably a TV guy too, I could say, but 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:02.960 I'm not like there are real standing there are real 0:15:02.960 --> 0:15:05.000 stand ups. And I don't consider myself in that same 0:15:05.840 --> 0:15:08.240 vain because I haven't put in the hours of just 0:15:08.320 --> 0:15:10.680 going on the road for five nights a week and 0:15:11.040 --> 0:15:15.040 dirty clubs like I started in theaters. But's it, Let's 0:15:15.040 --> 0:15:17.640 see how good this goes for ten minutes and it 0:15:17.760 --> 0:15:21.960 sucked and that was it and they got better that's cool, 0:15:22.240 --> 0:15:24.520 and then didn't and you know, things miss and I 0:15:24.640 --> 0:15:26.560 love it when they don't. I love it when what 0:15:26.600 --> 0:15:29.760 was the weirdest show? Who was terrible? Was there anything bad? 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:32.000 You think? Like? Did you like read? You like left? 0:15:32.000 --> 0:15:34.400 And you were like waiting for reviews to pop up? 0:15:34.560 --> 0:15:37.440 Or I do that. I don't worry about reviews because 0:15:37.440 --> 0:15:40.040 I feel like we're regardless, it's gonna be bad. I 0:15:40.080 --> 0:15:42.560 feel like everybody dislikes me, just generally in the world, 0:15:43.160 --> 0:15:45.520 and I have to convince every person to like me 0:15:45.600 --> 0:15:49.080 because everyone likes here. But this is how I feel 0:15:49.120 --> 0:15:54.840 that everyone dislikes me because I've grown up being different 0:15:54.880 --> 0:15:57.400 than everybody else. Was the poorest kid. I was a 0:15:57.400 --> 0:16:00.840 white kid in a black neighborhood. I was the dirty kid. 0:16:01.040 --> 0:16:02.760 I was the southern accident kid trying to be on 0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:04.960 the radio that you should have never been on pop stations. 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:06.160 And I got a country and all of a sudden, 0:16:06.200 --> 0:16:08.200 I wasn't country enough, when I'd always been to country, 0:16:08.440 --> 0:16:11.680 and when a cowboy had I was. I've never ever 0:16:11.800 --> 0:16:14.520 been in a place where I've been the liked person, 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:17.480 so I've always felt like the guy that's fighting. That's 0:16:17.520 --> 0:16:20.360 just punching underwater. And so like my whole life, and 0:16:20.400 --> 0:16:23.000 so it's built into me that nobody likes me ever, 0:16:24.280 --> 0:16:27.160 and so I have to convince people like one one one, 0:16:27.200 --> 0:16:29.400 And I know I walked a room and it's not true. 0:16:29.440 --> 0:16:31.920 And I know, like my brain says it's not true, 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:33.560 but my heart says it is. I walked into the room. 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:36.760 Everybody hates me and I have and I know that. 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:39.520 Like when I say those words, it sounds stupid, logically stupid, 0:16:39.920 --> 0:16:43.400 but that's how I feel because it's just how it's 0:16:43.440 --> 0:16:47.920 been my whole life. They do. But I'm also nuts 0:16:48.560 --> 0:16:53.640 and I have. I know that, and that's okay, and 0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:57.200 that's that's okay. And so you know, I've been a 0:16:57.200 --> 0:17:00.240 lot of therapy and what therapy therapy had It made 0:17:00.240 --> 0:17:02.200 me least done that. Man, but I thought about it 0:17:02.240 --> 0:17:05.960 and it made me lest nuts. It's made me see 0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:08.680 that I'm nuts and use tools to go, oh, this 0:17:08.720 --> 0:17:10.920 is you being crazy right now, take a step back. 0:17:11.320 --> 0:17:13.840 Relationship right now. I have trouble sometimes because it's going 0:17:13.880 --> 0:17:16.000 great and it starts to be too good. I'm like, Okay, 0:17:16.240 --> 0:17:18.120 something's gonna go wrong. I'm gonna kill it. I gotta 0:17:18.160 --> 0:17:21.600 kill this thing. And I go, whoa, you're an adult 0:17:21.640 --> 0:17:24.160 man now too. You're not nineteen anymore. So I say 0:17:24.200 --> 0:17:26.879 to myself, you have a great relationship with a great human. 0:17:27.240 --> 0:17:32.920 Don't have this up and after just pull back and 0:17:32.960 --> 0:17:35.879 look at it that way. But you should. I love therapy. 0:17:36.880 --> 0:17:39.240 I loved it. Excuse my interruptions, Like, you can get therapy. 0:17:39.240 --> 0:17:41.480 I remember, it's like therapy. Nobody from small talk, and 0:17:41.520 --> 0:17:44.600 I'll go to therapy. So I went therapy. I was like, whoa, 0:17:44.640 --> 0:17:47.440 I can tell somebody like my whatever and they don't 0:17:47.440 --> 0:17:50.840 really care, and they'll just give you an opinion with 0:17:51.400 --> 0:17:54.200 nothing like they don't care, they have they don't see 0:17:54.200 --> 0:17:56.639 you out later and they don't worry about your attitude. 0:17:56.680 --> 0:18:01.520 Six pm. Interesting. I was like, it's awesome. So I 0:18:01.880 --> 0:18:04.959 embraced it. But yeah, whatever, it's good to see you. 0:18:06.480 --> 0:18:08.800 I got Let me talk. Let me talk about sleep 0:18:08.920 --> 0:18:10.800 number for one second. So spring is in the air. 0:18:10.840 --> 0:18:13.760 It's spring cleaning time. And think about when you clean 0:18:13.800 --> 0:18:16.280 your house and you're scrubbing your baseboards and you're doing 0:18:16.359 --> 0:18:18.840 all this stuff around that you don't normally do. Think 0:18:18.880 --> 0:18:20.679 about your bed and where you spend a lot of 0:18:20.680 --> 0:18:23.040 your time, probably more than anywhere else except where your bed. 0:18:23.400 --> 0:18:25.639 And think about your pillows and your mattress. When's the 0:18:25.720 --> 0:18:27.960 last time that you replace that? You know you can 0:18:27.960 --> 0:18:30.920