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Speaker 1: Hi.

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Speaker 2: I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson.

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Speaker 1: We wanted to do something that highlighted our.

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Speaker 2: Relationship and what it's like to be siblings. We are

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Speaker 2: a sibling.

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Speaker 1: Ravalry No, no, sibling. Don't do that with your mouth.

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Speaker 2: Revely.

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Speaker 1: That's good, Oliver Hudson.

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Speaker 2: That is me, Oliver Hudson.

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Speaker 3: Today we have something I'm actually really excited about our

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Speaker 3: guests today because this is an insane story.

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Speaker 2: It's an insane story, and it's going to be one

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Speaker 2: of the most insane podcasts. Just a warning, trying to

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Speaker 2: understand who is who and who's talking is going to

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Speaker 2: be difficult, but we're going to figure it out well,

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Speaker 2: and Kate will tell you why.

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Speaker 4: Well.

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Speaker 3: Today we have Brittany and Brianna Dan. We'll ask her

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Speaker 3: to pronounce this Dan Sliers and Josh and Jeremy Sallyers Sailers.

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Speaker 3: We're going to ask them to do this too, to

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Speaker 3: pronounce their names. And they are twins, identical twins married

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Speaker 3: to identical twins. Interesting, fascinating. I can't even wait to

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Speaker 3: get into it. I think this is going to be

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Speaker 3: really fun, but we're going to have to I don't

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Speaker 3: know how we're going to do. I think we have

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Speaker 3: to say their names. I think I have to be like,

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Speaker 3: how did it feel? And you're gonna be like Brianna,

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Speaker 3: and then I'm gonna be like Josh, and then you

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Speaker 3: make Jered. Also, I'm going to Brittany and Brianna and

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Speaker 3: Josh and Jeremy. Like even the names.

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Speaker 1: What were their parents thinking?

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Speaker 2: Let's just call them JB's, the J's and the beasts.

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Speaker 2: You know me?

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Speaker 3: Now we have to separate them because we want to

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Speaker 3: know their stories anyway.

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Speaker 1: I can't need to get into this.

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Speaker 2: No, I know, I know, and and we'll talk about

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Speaker 2: it's so interesting because the girls.

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Speaker 1: Their lives are parallels. This is what they wanted.

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Speaker 2: They were looking to find. This that they wanted to

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Speaker 2: marry a set of identical twins.

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Speaker 3: I think that's what happens when sisters are like so

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Speaker 3: close and they love each other so much, which I

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Speaker 3: wouldn't know because I was only raised with all of

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Speaker 3: you know what.

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Speaker 2: Everyone's going to be all cheery about this, this union.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to get into the the nitty gritty. It's

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Speaker 2: to like what the issues are. I want to know.

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Speaker 2: I want to know.

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Speaker 3: Well, let's see first, if they're willing, they share. They're here,

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Speaker 3: they're here, let's bring them on. This is so much fun.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, you're so excited to be here. Thanks

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Speaker 5: for having us.

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Speaker 6: Kate.

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Speaker 5: We wore yellow for you, yes, and you, but we

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Speaker 5: got stopped, and How to Lose Guy in Ten Days

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Speaker 5: came out and you were wearing your yellow cover. We

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Speaker 5: got stopped everywhere we went and people were like, your

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Speaker 5: trip is Kate Hudson and we're going to meet her

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Speaker 5: one day.

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Speaker 1: Oh cute, Well, here we are.

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Speaker 3: Maybe next time we will actually be in person, which

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Speaker 3: would be even better. But it's so funny because I

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Speaker 3: was just telling a story about how to Lose a

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Speaker 3: Guy in Ten Days because I were, you know, we

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Speaker 3: put some lights on and then I.

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Speaker 1: Start to get hot.

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Speaker 2: She sweat.

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Speaker 3: I sweat really easily, and so I started, of course,

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Speaker 3: putting tissue under my armpits. And then it reminded me

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Speaker 3: of the scene and how to Lose a Guy in

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Speaker 3: Ten Days with Catherine Hahn when I take Matthew to

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Speaker 3: therapy and I put the tissues under my arms, which

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Speaker 3: outfit and so and then it.

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Speaker 1: Ended up in the movie. And so that's where we're

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Speaker 1: just talking about.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so hold on, I want to set this scene

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Speaker 2: up for a second. We got Brittany and Brianna or Brianna,

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Speaker 2: which one? Brianna and Brittany. Okay, so let's set this up.

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Speaker 3: You are identical twins, Brittany, Brianna, Brianna, Brianna Brianna.

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Speaker 1: And then how do you pronounce your last name?

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Speaker 5: Were the Sallyars twins? Saliers is our last.

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Speaker 3: Name, Sallyars. So Brittany and Brianna. Yes, then you end

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Speaker 3: up meeting and marry, marrying Josh and Germany. God, you

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Speaker 3: are also identical twins.

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Speaker 2: That's it, there's this, The stage has been set.

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Speaker 1: Yes, So, ladies, where are you from? Where were you

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Speaker 1: born and raised?

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Speaker 5: We were born in Florida, but we grew up primarily

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Speaker 5: in Delaware.

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Speaker 1: And do you have other siblings?

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Speaker 5: We do, so we're the oldest of four and we

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Speaker 1: And they are not twins.

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Speaker 5: They're not twins.

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Speaker 3: Did you ever hear from your parents what it felt

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Speaker 3: like when they knew that they were going to have

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Speaker 3: identical twins?

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Speaker 1: And did they know right away?

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Speaker 5: You know, they they were shocked. They were shocked. They

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Speaker 5: always thought it would be really cool to have identical twins,

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Speaker 5: and they found out that we were coming, so they

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Speaker 5: do not know what it's like to have only one child,

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Speaker 5: since we're the oldest. And our dad was in the navy.

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Speaker 5: He flew in the navy, and he had like the

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Speaker 5: story goes that he had some like big test or

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Speaker 5: something the next the next day and our mom like

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Speaker 5: calls and tells him the news. I'm not just like pregnant,

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Speaker 5: it was up, you know, just like his world had

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Speaker 5: just changed, and he like bailed the examine, like the

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Speaker 5: profet and the show instroductor, and they gave him another

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Speaker 5: chance because they were like, oh my god. They're like

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Speaker 5: this dude needs something.

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Speaker 1: Really, They're like, he needs a day.

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Speaker 2: They had some compassion, meaning like, holy shit, this guy's

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Speaker 2: having twins. We need to test him.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's so funny, especially like did and and you.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know the technology at the time.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure they could tell they were identical as well.

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Speaker 5: Right, Yes, they knew that they were having identical twins

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Speaker 5: before we were where we were born?

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Speaker 1: Isn't that wild?

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Speaker 3: You know, my one of my very very close friends

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Speaker 5: We welcome them to the twins and multiple families.

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Speaker 1: Yay, there are neighbors and we were like when when

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Speaker 1: we all found out, everyone was like holy shit, and

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Speaker 3: It took him like a couple of months to recover

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Speaker 3: from the fact that not only then he started thinking

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Speaker 6: And he'll be a sort of tying ribbon or string.

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Speaker 6: I think that's a common thing for the babies, because

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Speaker 6: you know, they all look very similar. But you know,

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Speaker 6: I think it's possible that a lot of twins had

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Speaker 6: been mixed up at that stage. Sure, and you know,

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Speaker 6: just went along the rest of their lives as the

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Speaker 6: other person. It's true. I have no doubt it's happening.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh my gosh, yeah.

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Speaker 3: And so and so Okay, So, Jeremy and Josh, where

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Speaker 7: We were born in Knoxville, Tennessee, and from there we moved.

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Speaker 6: To several places.

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Speaker 7: Our dad was in the Air Force, so we went

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Speaker 7: from Tennessee to Alaska, to New York, Arizona, and then

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Speaker 2: So both your parents were both your fathers were in

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Speaker 7: We also have two siblings. Only our two sis are older.

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Speaker 7: We have older brother and older sister.

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Speaker 6: So it's probably a little bit worse for our dad

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Speaker 6: and now it's going to be a fourth. I'm sure

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Speaker 6: that was traumatic. Well that's from me when I think

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Speaker 7: You know a lot of people thought maybe we would

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Speaker 7: have twins, you know, twins, Mary, twins. Really they're going

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Speaker 7: to have a couple of sets of twins, and you

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Speaker 7: know that sounds awesome. But then once you have one,

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Speaker 7: and you know you've gone through that for a little bit,

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Speaker 7: be it would be wild, that'd be a lot more.

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Speaker 3: That's that is that is a lot now now growing up,

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Speaker 3: did you feel like did you when you were able

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Speaker 3: to know that being an identical twin is a rarity,

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Speaker 3: that it's a special thing. Did you feel that when

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Speaker 3: you always feel that whoa you know, quality of like

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Speaker 3: walking through life right with each other.

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Speaker 2: You're like a celebrity at birth basically because people are like.

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, oh you do think feeling that you're

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Speaker 7: talking about as far as like everybody kind of oh wow,

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Speaker 7: look at this. Yeah, you feel that it's kind of

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and you guys just decided to double up on

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Speaker 3: that by marrying identical twins.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, right, right, So it's now it's just like more

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Speaker 5: of what we because people would ask us that like

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Speaker 5: for the rest of your life? And you go out

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Speaker 5: and it is magnified now, But there was always something

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Speaker 5: from when we were little. People would kind of like

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Speaker 5: all of us said, it's it's celebrity on a smaller scale,

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Speaker 5: especially when you're identical twins, because people stare, people ask

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Speaker 5: invasive questions that are just you're used to, and people

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Speaker 5: take pictures and so yeah, that was that was definitely

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Speaker 5: going on when we were little. Yeah, I feel like

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Speaker 5: age that it could make you instantly popular, and it

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Speaker 5: could also do the opposite and make you instantly an outcast.

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Speaker 3: Can we rewind to people taking pictures? I need to understand,

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Speaker 3: Like someone just randomly will go up to you and

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Speaker 2: Why are you and why did you do it? Like

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Speaker 2: a Southern.

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Speaker 3: I think I just heard Tennessee and I went right

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Speaker 3: to like, you know, I heard like knox Vale, and

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Speaker 3: then it just went like.

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Speaker 2: This, yeah, I heard Russian.

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Speaker 6: Can I take.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: It's a mix of many.

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Speaker 1: No, I think that does what happened.

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Speaker 3: I just clicked into Nashville. So they just come up

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Speaker 3: and they literally asked to take a picture, and they

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Speaker 3: just like, I wonder what they do with it.

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Speaker 2: It's a question. Look, you're twins.

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Speaker 1: You really show it to well.

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Speaker 2: To be totally straight up, if I was out to

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Speaker 2: lunch and I saw you guys having lunch together, the

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Speaker 2: four of you, and then like you like kiss sugar,

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Speaker 2: you're kissing your I'd be like, holy shit, man, look

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Speaker 2: like yeahs.

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Speaker 6: When we go out, people stare and what like even

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Speaker 6: taking pictures of the four of us together. I understand

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Speaker 6: that totally because it's unusual. You know, I definitely don't

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Speaker 6: see it very often, so it's understandable.

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Speaker 3: No, it's right because like if you guys walk all

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Speaker 2: You guys, You guys should fuck with everyone and you

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Speaker 6: Well, we do have our own identities.

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Speaker 2: But but but you choose to wear the same clothes,

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Speaker 5: Clothes make you an individual. So we are no more

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Speaker 6: I think it just makes makes it easier just getting ready.

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Speaker 2: And just what if one of what if one of

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Speaker 6: Like we would compromise for that. The trip is not

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Speaker 7: That's another kind of struggle, I guess, is just trying

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Speaker 2: And then yeah, that's an interesting that's an interesting question actually,

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Speaker 6: I think you know, in in each one of our research,

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Speaker 5: So on a very deep level. To go along with that,

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Speaker 6: Right, Look at like the spouse protection factor. That's a

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Speaker 1: Basically, you both have a just set up you have.

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Speaker 3: Let's get into that a little bit, because it's very unmatched.

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Speaker 3: I mean there's a lot. I mean you are very

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Speaker 3: Not only are you both married to each other's siblings

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Speaker 1: Depth, like how did well? First of all, how did

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, because I read about it.

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Speaker 2: I read about the girls were like like I would.

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Speaker 1: Never want to live with Oliver.

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Speaker 3: Let me just like, let's start with that, like it

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't think so. You'd have way more fun.

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Speaker 1: You got rid of all your stuff.

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Speaker 2: You'll be fun.

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Speaker 6: Knew that that the potential was there. Yeah, find it

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Speaker 6: Yeah, there's a lot of a lot of fact.

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Speaker 5: So we're sitting in the gymnasium the orientation at this

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Speaker 2: Me let me stop real quick, because usually you're looking

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Speaker 6: We'll pack up, we'll go home. We had to work

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00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:55,000
Speaker 6: the next day, so we were ready to go. So

445
00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:57,640
Speaker 6: we were heading out of the hotel through the main

446
00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:00,760
Speaker 6: lobby as the girls were coming into the hotel. So

447
00:22:00,840 --> 00:22:03,000
Speaker 6: we were just the four of us, you know, alone

448
00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:05,639
Speaker 6: and that spot, and we asked if we could get

449
00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:07,920
Speaker 6: a picture with them, just hoping to get a picture

450
00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 6: at least, and uh, then we started talking to each

451
00:22:10,600 --> 00:22:13,720
Speaker 6: other and we naturally split off in pairs at that time,

452
00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:17,200
Speaker 6: you know, were we just kind of gravitated toward one another.

453
00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:18,760
Speaker 6: So it was a match off.

454
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:22,080
Speaker 7: Into two conversations, and it just happened to be that

455
00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:24,840
Speaker 7: they're they're the first born twins and Brittany and out

456
00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:28,120
Speaker 7: of the second one, we're five minutes apart.

457
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:29,600
Speaker 6: They were also five minutes apart.

458
00:22:30,560 --> 00:22:33,440
Speaker 2: Wow. So so that's kind of beautiful in a way

459
00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:36,639
Speaker 2: because it was almost this sort of unconscious sort of

460
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:39,520
Speaker 2: split off where it was like I think a lot.

461
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,560
Speaker 6: Of people wonder how that works. Yeah, but yeah it was.

462
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:43,639
Speaker 7: It was the group, you know, the four of us

463
00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:47,320
Speaker 7: talking and then it just broke into two conversations. So

464
00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 7: it's hard to say exactly at what point in the

465
00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:52,000
Speaker 7: conversation that happened, but right, and.

466
00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:55,160
Speaker 5: Then it did happen, And I think that's the first

467
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:59,159
Speaker 5: time we're interacting and talking. Is it is that is happening?

468
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:02,840
Speaker 5: Then it's individual. Well then it was definitely Jeremy and

469
00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:04,880
Speaker 5: Brian over here, Brittany and Josh over there.

470
00:23:04,960 --> 00:23:08,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, and and so then how did you exit that moment?

471
00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 3: Like did that continue into like, oh, let's have a drink,

472
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:13,639
Speaker 3: let's continue this night, or was it like did you

473
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:18,160
Speaker 3: exchange numbers? Like then what was your first date altogether?

474
00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:19,480
Speaker 3: Like what how does this work?

475
00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:22,760
Speaker 2: What's crazy is they have the same phone number. Yeah,

476
00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 2: that's right.

477
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 6: So we got back to Tennessee, we drove back, we

478
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 6: got home, and Josh sent Brittany a message on Facebook

479
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:36,720
Speaker 6: or something I think, and saying that we couldn't wait

480
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 6: to see them next year at the festival, and Brittany said,

481
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 6: why wait till next year? And so me and Josh

482
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:47,960
Speaker 6: drove to Virginia from Tennessee because they were living in Virginia.

483
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 6: We were in Tennessee at the time, so it was

484
00:23:50,040 --> 00:23:52,480
Speaker 6: like a seven hour drive or so, and drove out

485
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 6: there and all four of us went on this double

486
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:59,600
Speaker 6: date together. And yeah, it was cool.

487
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:02,359
Speaker 5: When like guys would just like they'll just do it

488
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:04,359
Speaker 5: those in the car and drive to see you and like,

489
00:24:04,359 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 5: what can happen all those hours?

490
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:09,160
Speaker 2: Who made the first move first, who like kissed too first?

491
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 5: Maybe by like an hour? Right? I remember that this

492
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 5: sounds funny because this we wouldn't do it like this

493
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:20,399
Speaker 5: when we were dating singletons, but like all four of

494
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:23,439
Speaker 5: us kind of like pile on to you know, we

495
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 5: went to Twin Lakes first, Well, we went to Twin Lakes,

496
00:24:25,520 --> 00:24:28,040
Speaker 5: but I'm saying, like when we got to the point

497
00:24:28,080 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 5: of like the first kiss or like holding hands for

498
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 5: the first time, so our first movie, all four of

499
00:24:33,119 --> 00:24:35,399
Speaker 5: us are kind of there together, like watching our first

500
00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:37,640
Speaker 5: movie if I remember Chris right, right, guys right.

501
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 2: And then.

502
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:42,800
Speaker 5: Then it's like then we're going off like each couple,

503
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 5: but like the actual date and everything was together. But

504
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:50,360
Speaker 5: we found out that Josh did kiss Brittany and then

505
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:53,200
Speaker 5: Jeremy did kiss me, and so we beat them to

506
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:54,879
Speaker 5: it by just a little bit. We always think that

507
00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 5: Jeremy and I was just like when we were born first,

508
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 5: and so they kiss first.

509
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 2: That is so cute, so real quick, I want to

510
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:07,680
Speaker 2: go back. Singleton? Is this what I am?

511
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:10,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's what you guys are saying. I believe it

512
00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,920
Speaker 6: still says it on your birth certificate under uh yeah

513
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:17,920
Speaker 6: what your birth is categorized as singleton or twin. Wow.

514
00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:21,679
Speaker 2: Wow I always I always thought I was just a simpleton.

515
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: Well you you are that.

516
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 2: Wow, this is I just learned something. I'm a Singleton.

517
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 2: That's cool.

518
00:25:32,160 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 5: Got to love it.

519
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:48,399
Speaker 3: I'm trying to figure out, like how do you walk

520
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 3: through life being so it would be like, you know

521
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:56,400
Speaker 3: what happens when one couple gets in a fight and

522
00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:58,800
Speaker 3: like or like was there.

523
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:01,399
Speaker 1: A moment where maybe.

524
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:04,000
Speaker 3: One couple was feeling it more in the beginning than

525
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:07,399
Speaker 3: another couple and then like like did someone want to

526
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:09,200
Speaker 3: get married earlier than the other.

527
00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:10,160
Speaker 1: Like, how does this all?

528
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 2: I guess, because right, because timing almost has to work

529
00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 2: out perfectly. Yeah, oh I want to get married. Are

530
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 2: you asking? Are you going to ask her to marry you?

531
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:19,600
Speaker 2: Like yeah, yeah I am, well I'm going to do

532
00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 2: it too, like okay, you know, or I'm not ready yet,

533
00:26:22,680 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 2: you know. I mean, these are real human questions that

534
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 2: have to sing.

535
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:27,920
Speaker 6: And we knew that we were going to get married

536
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 6: to them when we first met them. We actually told

537
00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:33,160
Speaker 6: their mom that when we got back from that trip.

538
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:35,119
Speaker 7: Yeah, we said, we said that to each other on

539
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:38,720
Speaker 7: the way home, told our mother that we found these

540
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 7: twins and we were going.

541
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:43,320
Speaker 6: To get married to them eventually. Yeah.

542
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,040
Speaker 7: Then it was just about getting them to want to

543
00:26:46,040 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 7: marry us after that.

544
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:53,639
Speaker 2: Was there wherever any reservations between any of you guys,

545
00:26:53,680 --> 00:26:55,879
Speaker 2: meaning like oh god, I know you're and it was

546
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:59,880
Speaker 2: just so synergetic, synergetic, like synergetic.

547
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:02,359
Speaker 6: Yeah, it just there wasn't. I just I don't do

548
00:27:03,080 --> 00:27:04,119
Speaker 6: any kind of doubts.

549
00:27:04,680 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 5: No, the stars it was just the stars just aligned perfectly,

550
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 5: I mean, and the timing aligned, as you said, for

551
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,160
Speaker 5: all four of us, because right, a lot of things

552
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 5: do have to align, right, We all four have to

553
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 5: be single, right, no one can be married obviously I

554
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,680
Speaker 5: want the same things and be ready and then heaven

555
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 5: we were all on the same page, right.

556
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:27,360
Speaker 1: So did you get married together?

557
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:28,280
Speaker 8: Yeah?

558
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:36,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, So we did a proposal. So for the proposal,

559
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,480
Speaker 6: it was at Twin Lakes State Park, where we had

560
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:42,000
Speaker 6: our first state and we told the girls that they

561
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,760
Speaker 6: were doing a commercial for the wedding venue that they

562
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:46,639
Speaker 6: had there, so they had to wear like a gown

563
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 6: or something they were wear to a wedding, and we

564
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:53,240
Speaker 6: wore a suit and uh so we had Inside Edition

565
00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,040
Speaker 6: was there to film it, and they filmed a couple

566
00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 6: of fake scenes of us at the park, and then

567
00:27:58,160 --> 00:28:00,399
Speaker 6: we got to this pavilion that we played out some

568
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:04,639
Speaker 6: rose petals and both of us dropped one knee at

569
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 6: the same time, asked at the same time, and and

570
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 6: they said yes at the same time.

571
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 2: The same ring.

572
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 4: Same yeah, custom custom ring.

573
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, it's both to infinities, you know, twine cool.

574
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 7: But we got married six months after that at the

575
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:29,480
Speaker 7: festival where we met, uh in the town square in

576
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 7: front of all the other twins.

577
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 3: Uh, twin professional, this feeling, aren't there moments like even

578
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:40,719
Speaker 3: just hearing this, like and and and I say this

579
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 3: in the in the most loving way, where you're like,

580
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 3: I'm feeling like there's too much twinning happening, Like don't

581
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 3: you have moments where you're like, I don't I want

582
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:56,080
Speaker 3: something to be mine, like alone, you know, outside of this,

583
00:28:56,600 --> 00:29:00,480
Speaker 3: outside of the foursome, because you know you also were together.

584
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 1: Correct, Yeah, I said, We.

585
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:06,600
Speaker 5: Went through that a bit before we met them. So

586
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 5: we went through fighting with each other. Usually it was

587
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 5: over guys we didn't like each other's boyfriends or right.

588
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 5: To be clear, we didn't fight because we wanted the

589
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 5: same guy, we thought because we didn't like we didn't

590
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 5: like they were dating or there was some weird just yeah. Yeah.

591
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:23,680
Speaker 5: Part of it was that we were scared that the

592
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 5: other one was going to ruin the twin dream for

593
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 5: the two of us, Right, you're getting too serious, and

594
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:32,000
Speaker 5: that now you'll blow our shy of finding you know,

595
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 5: identical twins that can really happen, and to go back

596
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:36,840
Speaker 5: and forth with you know whoever. It was like, well,

597
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 5: you're going to ruin it. And so we did a

598
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:41,240
Speaker 5: lot of fighting before we met them. We actually get

599
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 5: along better now that very true.

600
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 6: It also made our relationships stronger, the two of us.

601
00:29:48,000 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 6: You know, we fought growing up and stuff too, like everybody,

602
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 6: I guess, but yeah, since we met, I think, yeah,

603
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 6: we were. It's just better for all of us. I

604
00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 6: think all of us are better twins now.

605
00:29:58,760 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I guess.

606
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 3: Also, so you have someone who really truly understands what

607
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 3: your entire childhood was like. And also, I mean I

608
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 3: would assume that the connection.

609
00:30:10,680 --> 00:30:14,440
Speaker 1: It's almost like, Okay, I might, I might, I might.

610
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 3: You know, I might not get this right, but yeah,

611
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 3: I might destroy this metaph Yeah we're.

612
00:30:22,280 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 2: Keeping this in no matter what to say.

613
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 1: Now, well, it's like, let me put it this way.

614
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:28,800
Speaker 2: It's like, we don't change it.

615
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 1: I won't.

616
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:34,719
Speaker 3: Okay, when you have a child as a singleton, and

617
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:37,480
Speaker 3: you have a child and you're married, once you have

618
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:40,600
Speaker 3: that child, it's like, you'll never love anything more than

619
00:30:40,600 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 3: that child. And if that relationship doesn't work and you

620
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 3: end up in another relationship, that person has to know

621
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 3: that there's nothing that will ever come in between me

622
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 3: and my son or my daughter. And I would think

623
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 3: that when you come into the world with a twin,

624
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:01,240
Speaker 3: and especially an identical twin, that can connection that you

625
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 3: basically came into the world with that and if anything

626
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 3: and anyone knows, like like your first and foremost, like

627
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 3: it's different from me with Oliver, like a man would

628
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 3: come before Oliver if you were my identical twin and

629
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 3: we had that like depth of connection, we came in

630
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:19,480
Speaker 3: the world together and we did.

631
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 2: I mean, so you're saying that identical twins have better,

632
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:28,160
Speaker 2: like deeper, more meaningful relationships and than singleton singleton siblings.

633
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 1: I think maybe that.

634
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 3: Well, it's it's more like a depth of like an identity,

635
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 3: like an understanding, a really deep understanding. You go through

636
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:38,760
Speaker 3: everything together this you know, you go to school together,

637
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:42,719
Speaker 3: you're in the same grade together, you're going through puberty together.

638
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:47,400
Speaker 3: Like everything you're doing is together. And then it's like

639
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 3: if some random guy or girl comes in and then

640
00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 3: kind of fucks with that relationship, then then it's problematic

641
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:58,080
Speaker 3: for the one thing that matters to you most, which

642
00:31:58,120 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 3: is your sibling.

643
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, your identify very.

644
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 5: Well said, very well said. I think that is absolutely right,

645
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 5: and we've tried to kind of explain that to people

646
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:10,560
Speaker 5: who have the question. It's when we all became parents.

647
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 5: Of course, it was new and everything, but I don't

648
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 5: think we were new to the feeling that you just described.

649
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:22,000
Speaker 5: That is a feeling we have always had. Right then

650
00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:25,720
Speaker 5: you love this person. And also I think I was

651
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 5: more probably more careful and safe like my whole life.

652
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 5: You know, some people become parents and they stop, I

653
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 5: don't know, Yeah, going skydiving and things. We always had

654
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:40,160
Speaker 5: that because I had to live for my twin and

655
00:32:40,240 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 5: vice versa, and Josh and Jeremy understand that and have

656
00:32:43,680 --> 00:32:44,280
Speaker 5: that with each other.

657
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 6: That's right.

658
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 3: It's like it's like it's like when you guys are

659
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:52,160
Speaker 3: going through something as sisters. I'm sure they give I

660
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:55,800
Speaker 3: would assume that they have a deep understanding of the

661
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 3: kind of space that you need to work out whatever

662
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:00,360
Speaker 3: it is that you're going through, saying.

663
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 6: Never any arguments between like me and him are arguing

664
00:33:03,520 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 6: or they're arguing. We know, to basically just kind of

665
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:08,960
Speaker 6: stay out of it more or less.

666
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 2: What the work itself out.

667
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:13,080
Speaker 6: You know, on its own. You don't need to get

668
00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 6: involved in that, you know. Yeah, the twins way to

669
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 6: do that, I think good way to like make up

670
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 6: after fighting and things like that.

671
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:26,440
Speaker 7: Yeah, normally just carry on about your business and don't really.

672
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 6: Say anything else.

673
00:33:29,680 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 1: Live in the same house.

674
00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, which is awesome business. We have a

675
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 6: that we that we run together and we live on

676
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:41,280
Speaker 6: site here.

677
00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 2: Cool.

678
00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:43,200
Speaker 1: Oh I see, oh cool?

679
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 2: Who is the better bedrooms identical?

680
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:50,080
Speaker 6: But I think there's just a little bit bigger.

681
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 5: I think you guys have the bigger one, Jeremy, You're right,

682
00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 5: I think they did.

683
00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 2: But what about the bathroom?

684
00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:58,360
Speaker 5: Own bathroom?

685
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 6: They have a better bathroom also.

686
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 5: Thank you, you guys have been met that they have

687
00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:04,480
Speaker 5: the better back. We have the bigger back. I don't

688
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:07,760
Speaker 5: know if it's better, but yeah. We are fortunate in

689
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:11,359
Speaker 5: that we live on site at this huge property, so

690
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 5: we know that's you know, we can share the ballroom,

691
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, there is space, They're not

692
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 5: right on top of each other, and I think that

693
00:34:18,360 --> 00:34:22,279
Speaker 5: is helpful and important. We do get although it's like

694
00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:24,839
Speaker 5: this huge mansion and we'll all be like, you'll find

695
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:27,799
Speaker 5: it's like all these rooms, all these rooms to go in,

696
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:29,400
Speaker 5: and we'll all be kind of like right here in

697
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:31,160
Speaker 5: one little space half the time.

698
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 1: And how many kids do you have? Just the one?

699
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 5: Each couple, you know, has one little boy and we

700
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 5: raised them together. And I wanted to say so I

701
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 5: had heard Kate Oliver that you had mentioned that like

702
00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:51,279
Speaker 5: you maybe have different parenting styles and that you kind

703
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:53,960
Speaker 5: of take turns being like the fun uncle or whatever,

704
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,839
Speaker 5: and then there's like the you know aunt, Kate, and

705
00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 5: I thought that was so interesting because it made me think,

706
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 5: I'm like that with our other nieces and nephews. But

707
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 5: with Brittany and Josh's child, I'm not looking to be

708
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 5: the fun aunt. I'm looking I'm another parent, yes, and

709
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:15,719
Speaker 5: so it's like a different feeling. It's we're raising the babies.

710
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 2: Both are children, you know, and yeah, they're they're more

711
00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:26,000
Speaker 2: they're genetically more brothers and brothers than they are cousins.

712
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:31,400
Speaker 3: Wow, that's right, their DNA is they're saying.

713
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 2: Right. So wait, so they have two moms and two

714
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 2: dads basically genetically I smell us Cab.

715
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:46,920
Speaker 6: His son he has blonde hair like the girls, and

716
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 6: there's son Jet has dark hair like us. So it's

717
00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:51,839
Speaker 6: like one of the one of them and one of them.

718
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: I mean they're basically going to be their brothers. I

719
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:58,800
Speaker 1: mean they're literally so we raised them as brothers.

720
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:01,839
Speaker 5: When they refer to each other, they say, you know.

721
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:04,839
Speaker 2: Do they call you both mom and both dad?

722
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 6: It's mommy and mommy and daddy and Doda, so.

723
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 5: Like Ammy's for aunt.

724
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 2: Mommy and Amy got it, and so do they did they?

725
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:17,120
Speaker 2: How old are they?

726
00:36:17,160 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 5: Brother so just barely turned three and about to turn.

727
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 2: Three, so they're little. So so as far as biology goes,

728
00:36:25,000 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 2: they don't. They think of this as one big, happy

729
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,480
Speaker 2: unit rather than like, that is my mother and that

730
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 2: is my my.

731
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 6: Sometimes still say to two daddies or two mommies, they'll

732
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 6: acknowledge it.

733
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:38,319
Speaker 1: This is.

734
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:41,840
Speaker 2: Oh my god. I know, as long as everyone's on

735
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 2: the same page. Imagine if everyone was not on the

736
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 2: same page, complete chaos. You almost Yeah, you have to kind.

737
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:53,800
Speaker 3: Of all really have like me, like mommy, mommy, emmy

738
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 3: meetings like you guys have to all like sit down,

739
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:00,319
Speaker 3: especially as they get older, because look, they're both gonna

740
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 3: have very they're gonna be very different even though they're

741
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,399
Speaker 3: well or maybe not, maybe not, but.

742
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:08,799
Speaker 1: It's going to be interesting, like so interesting.

743
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,239
Speaker 5: A lot of examples of it.

744
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:14,319
Speaker 7: Either, I mean, yeah, yeah, we don't. We don't have

745
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,320
Speaker 7: anything to look at. So yeah, that seems like a

746
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:17,839
Speaker 7: good way to do it, because.

747
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:22,160
Speaker 3: I mean, and let's project yourself into the future a

748
00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:25,080
Speaker 3: little bit you've got like a pre teen. They're starting

749
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:27,120
Speaker 3: to act out a little bit. They're a little stinky

750
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:30,560
Speaker 3: and rough and crazy. Let's just say maybe they won't

751
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 3: be We'll see, but like.

752
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 2: Who's going to be the disciplinary and.

753
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 1: More like tough.

754
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 2: Mom?

755
00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 5: Hmmm, have to be honest because they can't parent shop.

756
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 5: That's gonna be you don't allow parents parents shopping. So

757
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 5: I'd say maybe Brianna would maybe be naturally ever so

758
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 5: slightly more strict, but like in a Merry pop in

759
00:37:57,160 --> 00:38:01,319
Speaker 5: strict way. Maybe I would be a touch more laid back.

760
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:03,319
Speaker 5: But I think it's pretty even and we will make

761
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 5: sure we're on the same page. So there's no parent

762
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 5: shopping parent.

763
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 2: Parent of shopping meeting like, oh, you give me ask

764
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 2: the other one.

765
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't. I never heard that. I haven't heard

766
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:18,560
Speaker 1: I love that is going to give you the Oh

767
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 1: my god.

768
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 2: I think that's almost just a primal thing that happened

769
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 2: from when we early was around. I mean it's like, oh,

770
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 2: Dad said no, all of a sudden, you know, I'll

771
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:30,880
Speaker 2: hear wild to be like, hey, mom, like can i

772
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, I just said, know.

773
00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:39,240
Speaker 3: Ronnie does that all, but Ronnie does the more. Ronnie

774
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 3: goes in for the drama. She comes up to me crying,

775
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:48,600
Speaker 3: I can't have this, Like she goes in, right, it's

776
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:49,719
Speaker 3: not even an ask.

777
00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:53,520
Speaker 2: So is there any Is there? The first of all

778
00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 2: was thing with the kids for a second, you know,

779
00:38:57,040 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 2: is there any do They not? Some times know who's

780
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:04,160
Speaker 2: who or we It's just innate instinctual they get it.

781
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:07,919
Speaker 6: There's a page. Yes they have. They have been tricked.

782
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:10,760
Speaker 2: Before they have, which is really funny.

783
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 5: But they usually know. If they're tired, like they see

784
00:39:14,280 --> 00:39:17,360
Speaker 5: one of us from the side, they'll get confused, but

785
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 5: they usually know who'se Ammy, who's whose Mommy, who's daddy,

786
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 5: who's Doda? And so they get so stunned with themselves.

787
00:39:25,160 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 5: There's been a few times when they have mixed us up.

788
00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:30,280
Speaker 5: It's like they think it's so funny and they realize,

789
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 5: like I thought you were.

790
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:36,439
Speaker 2: So I have a traumatic experience. I'm going to share

791
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 2: with you that my mom was doing this movie called Protocol,

792
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 2: and she had these sort of doubles and and the

793
00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:49,839
Speaker 2: double they look they dress her and look exactly like her,

794
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. And I remember because I

795
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,840
Speaker 2: was little, and I remember going up to my mother

796
00:39:56,400 --> 00:40:00,359
Speaker 2: and having some sort of an emotional situation, and I

797
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:03,399
Speaker 2: like grabbed him like mom, and this woman who looked

798
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 2: just like my mom from behind, like turned towards me

799
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:09,879
Speaker 2: and looked down. He's like, yeah, she.

800
00:40:09,840 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 1: Didn't sound like that. I don't know where it was.

801
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 2: A man, but I remember that moment because it was

802
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 2: like shocking to me, you know what I mean that

803
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 2: I was sort of emoting to this person who then

804
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 2: turned out not to be my mother. I still have trauma, but.

805
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:32,680
Speaker 1: Oliver gets trauma easily.

806
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:36,279
Speaker 3: It just sort of just anything seems to be a

807
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:37,400
Speaker 3: traumatic existence.

808
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 2: So do you guys, is there any pressure to always

809
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 2: be together?

810
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:45,040
Speaker 6: You know what I mean?

811
00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:48,759
Speaker 2: Like, like, if you guys look, life is long and

812
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:52,040
Speaker 2: relationships can be difficult. I know that you guys say

813
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 2: relationships aren't work or or shouldn't be work for you guys,

814
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 2: you know, you know, which is an interesting way to

815
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,800
Speaker 2: think about it. Like I think relationships do take work,

816
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:05,319
Speaker 2: but not in a bad way.

817
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 6: They do. It's not fair to say that they don't

818
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 6: take it any work. But it shouldn't be. I mean,

819
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 6: it's not miserable work, you I mean, no, it is,

820
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 6: of course, yeah, but it's you know, it's happy work.

821
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:20,680
Speaker 2: Right right, you know, it's good, you're just saying.

822
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:25,279
Speaker 5: The other piece is that we had Look, we did

823
00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 5: meet to we were all already we had already hit thirty.

824
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:30,839
Speaker 5: When we all met, we had all been dating singletons,

825
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:33,759
Speaker 5: you know, and so we had been through relationships where

826
00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:37,279
Speaker 5: the twin thing was was work. It was such work

827
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:40,840
Speaker 5: because I always felt pressure. Honestly, it wasn't pressure to

828
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:44,560
Speaker 5: like be together. It was like pressure to not be

829
00:41:44,719 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 5: with Brittany because maybe I was dating someone and some

830
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:51,040
Speaker 5: are understanding, but like maybe they didn't like that that

831
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,239
Speaker 5: was my other half. And so then I almost felt

832
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,920
Speaker 5: like I had to sort of like not for tend,

833
00:41:56,080 --> 00:42:00,400
Speaker 5: but like appease them in the relationship. So I would

834
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:02,680
Speaker 5: feel like I couldn't be with my twin as much

835
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 5: because I needed to like be with them because they

836
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:05,439
Speaker 5: need it.

837
00:42:05,360 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 3: There right now, so that they felt like they were

838
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:08,919
Speaker 3: a priority for you.

839
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 5: Yes, And it was such a and so now it's

840
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 5: like easy.

841
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 2: So I just just as a side note, when you

842
00:42:17,640 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 2: guys say singleton, I feel less than It makes me

843
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:29,799
Speaker 2: feel like subhuman, like I when you're sings, I'm like,

844
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 2: oh my god, like I feel that's why you're an

845
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 2: outcast yeah, I feel like I feel like an outcast.

846
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:35,800
Speaker 2: I feel bad about myself.

847
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:38,479
Speaker 6: But we mean it in.

848
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:39,640
Speaker 5: The nicest way possible.

849
00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:45,520
Speaker 2: A non twin, non twin, I like a singleton.

850
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 3: There was a word here that I want to I

851
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:48,919
Speaker 3: want to make real quick.

852
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:49,239
Speaker 1: Yeah.

853
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 2: So just getting back to that, like, do you feel

854
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:54,640
Speaker 2: pressure to always be together? Meaning if one of you

855
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:56,480
Speaker 2: guys as a couple it's like, oh my god, it's

856
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:58,760
Speaker 2: not working. I'm not saying that would ever happen, but again,

857
00:42:59,120 --> 00:42:59,919
Speaker 2: the relationshiphip.

858
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:04,520
Speaker 6: I guess if I, if I think about that happening,

859
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:08,600
Speaker 6: I would imagine that, Yes, you would feel pressure to

860
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:12,080
Speaker 6: work it out if you were having any any kind

861
00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:14,600
Speaker 6: of doubts otherwise you would definitely I would imagine I

862
00:43:14,600 --> 00:43:18,960
Speaker 6: would feel pressure, sure to work harder. I guess I

863
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:19,279
Speaker 6: think we.

864
00:43:19,360 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 5: Feel pressure to get the other two back together. Yeah, yeah,

865
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:25,840
Speaker 5: the other two would Yet we would parent trap ourselves

866
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:29,839
Speaker 5: and get the other two back together, all right. So yeah,

867
00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:34,480
Speaker 5: I mean we are two different marriages. If nothing's ever

868
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:36,919
Speaker 5: going to happen with with Brandon and Jeremy, but Josh

869
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:39,359
Speaker 5: and I would would stay together and we would get

870
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 5: them back together.

871
00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:43,120
Speaker 1: And you guys, it would be.

872
00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:46,319
Speaker 2: Your best do you guys talk shit about it? Do

873
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:48,680
Speaker 2: you guys talk about each other? Like I'm saying that

874
00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:52,400
Speaker 2: the girls get together and like the fucking guys, God damn.

875
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:57,200
Speaker 5: It any dynamic. Sure, so once in a while we

876
00:43:57,239 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 5: can get together, and yeah, I mean once in a while, right,

877
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 5: it's like, Gosh and like on the same team, and

878
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 5: we know it's the same for them. We hear you

879
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:07,439
Speaker 5: guys in the garage once in a while when you're

880
00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:11,480
Speaker 5: going you guys, like the couples, like if Brian has

881
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 5: been awful that day or something, and I'll get in

882
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 5: bed with Josh and be like, gosh, she's such a y,

883
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:18,440
Speaker 5: you know, and then vice versa, and he will get

884
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 5: too involved, like he'll be quietly supportive.

885
00:44:20,560 --> 00:44:21,480
Speaker 6: But it does like it.

886
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 5: But and then like there's this other third dynamic going

887
00:44:25,760 --> 00:44:27,920
Speaker 5: on with like we call it your twin law, your

888
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 5: twin in law, you know, like you're then that is

889
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:35,680
Speaker 5: like another like y where like they we both so

890
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:37,759
Speaker 5: Josh and I both know exactly what it's like to

891
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:38,840
Speaker 5: have Jeremy as a partner.

892
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, and everybody has that.

893
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 8: So, like I mean, ship talking, that's a little hard,

894
00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:50,520
Speaker 8: there's but but to your point, there is that understanding

895
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 8: that you always have someone you can go to who

896
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 8: will understand if you're struggling in a relationship with anyone

897
00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 8: else in the house.

898
00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:00,520
Speaker 2: Ye are you ever in bed like talking candide about

899
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 2: sort of the other couple, just as you do as

900
00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:05,000
Speaker 2: a married couple. And then and then be like and

901
00:45:05,040 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 2: be like, hey, they don't don't say anything. We just

902
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:09,319
Speaker 2: not say anything, you know what I mean?

903
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, some of that, yeahsion, you know, discussions about stuff,

904
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:23,120
Speaker 4: yeah yeah, And it's.

905
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:25,839
Speaker 6: Helped, you know, you get it out. I actually thought

906
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 6: that to be one of the one of the best

907
00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:30,760
Speaker 6: things about our relationship in the beginning, was finding someone

908
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 6: that was understanding about those aspects of my life. You know,

909
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 6: if I wanted to say something about him to her,

910
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 6: you know, and she would understand because she's also has

911
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:43,480
Speaker 6: a twin, and it seems like the first born twins

912
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:45,840
Speaker 6: and the second born twins, they do each have their

913
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:50,040
Speaker 6: own tendencies, so there there are some differences, so you

914
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 6: can we can understand, you know, the things that we

915
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 6: don't like about them.

916
00:45:54,440 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 3: That makes don't they say all those things? But statistics

917
00:46:00,680 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 3: about this, like the first like how does that work?

918
00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,280
Speaker 3: Like there was some like one, there's always one twin

919
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:12,719
Speaker 3: that takes more nutrients.

920
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:16,920
Speaker 6: That's interesting, that's that's definitely possible. I would imagine that

921
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:20,439
Speaker 6: probably the first born, Yeah, twin probably does.

922
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:22,759
Speaker 3: And then they get you get more of the sort

923
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:25,879
Speaker 3: of good bacteria. The first twin usually gets coming out

924
00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 3: more the good bacteria, like there's there's something and then

925
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 3: and then I mean there's some statistics with this with

926
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 3: the first and second they're just like fascinating.

927
00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 2: Do you guys think like you're more handsome than the other, Like,

928
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:39,600
Speaker 2: who do you like? You know what I mean? Are

929
00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:40,800
Speaker 2: you like better looking?

930
00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 5: No, we all think the other is like better looking.

931
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:46,839
Speaker 1: But here the thing we all.

932
00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 5: Despise when other people say one of you is the

933
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:53,440
Speaker 5: who oh who's the prettier twin? Oh, who's the more

934
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:55,280
Speaker 5: handsome twin? Oh, who's the stronger.

935
00:46:57,239 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so weird.

936
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 3: We have it.

937
00:47:00,480 --> 00:47:04,360
Speaker 5: It's it's very Yeah, it's just it's awful. So away

938
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:06,719
Speaker 5: made us resent that person. Like if they thought they

939
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 5: were getting close with like, oh, I'm going to compliment her,

940
00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:10,359
Speaker 5: you're the whatever twin?

941
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 1: Oh yea, yeah, yeah do that, it would make me

942
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:14,040
Speaker 1: the opposite totally.

943
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 2: That's obnoxious. But I do I think that secretly, you

944
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:18,880
Speaker 2: guys are like one of you is like, I think

945
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 2: I'm a little better looking. Like that. You'll never reveal

946
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 2: or say like like I like, I know I'm better

947
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:28,520
Speaker 2: looking than Kate, but I just say it. That's why

948
00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:30,480
Speaker 2: I could. That's why wouldn't be a good twin, because

949
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:31,880
Speaker 2: I wouldn't be the best looking.

950
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:36,360
Speaker 1: I think you are better looking. You're definitely Oliver definitely

951
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 1: has the best look. He needs that kind of confidence.

952
00:47:40,760 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 2: He needs to know it's all I have.

953
00:47:43,520 --> 00:47:45,960
Speaker 3: He needs to know how handsome he is because it

954
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 3: makes him feel better about everything else.

955
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:51,759
Speaker 7: And maybe when we're one hundred years old, well we'll

956
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:55,240
Speaker 7: finally admit that. Somebody will say I always thought.

957
00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:58,960
Speaker 3: Her father always said one of the things I remember,

958
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:01,120
Speaker 3: one of the few things remember about our father, and

959
00:48:01,120 --> 00:48:03,239
Speaker 3: what he said was Oliver. He goes, how's I remember

960
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 3: one time I ran into him in a supermarket. He goes,

961
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:08,360
Speaker 3: how's all He's still handsome and charming, And.

962
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:15,000
Speaker 9: I thought, Oh, that's Oliver's That's Oliver's core issue is

963
00:48:15,040 --> 00:48:18,520
Speaker 9: that dad always just said, well, if all else fails,

964
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:21,799
Speaker 9: you're handsome and charming, and you got that, that's all

965
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 9: all He's ever leaned on.

966
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:30,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm a physical tax. He is a physical physical.

967
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 6: Give him the compliments she does, like, hey, what are you?

968
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:42,960
Speaker 3: I'm a quality time and words of affirmation and gifts.

969
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 1: No, I'm really not. That's my last.

970
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:48,640
Speaker 2: Gifts is not what shows love.

971
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 1: I liked acts of service.

972
00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:51,400
Speaker 2: Are you guys the same?

973
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:56,319
Speaker 5: Yeah, we're both words of affirmation and physical touch and

974
00:48:56,640 --> 00:49:00,919
Speaker 5: followed by and Josh, where do you guys?

975
00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:04,319
Speaker 6: I would say my top is quality time. It is,

976
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:09,799
Speaker 6: at least from those online tests. I yeah, I would

977
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:12,560
Speaker 6: agree quality time is. It's probably the most important things

978
00:49:12,560 --> 00:49:14,400
Speaker 6: as far as love. Like we just go, you know,

979
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:17,799
Speaker 6: physical touch, words of information than quality time. I like

980
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 6: them all.

981
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:19,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, none of.

982
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 5: Us, none of us. You guys are good at acts

983
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:25,920
Speaker 5: of service though, Like you guys are very helpful, Like you.

984
00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,439
Speaker 6: Guys, I think that's my that's how I speak. Yeah,

985
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 6: that's how express.

986
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's very male.

987
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:34,799
Speaker 2: Oh oh, Aaron, my wife is acts of service Like

988
00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 2: that's good. It's crazy if I do the dishes, she

989
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 2: gets horny. Yeah, you know what I mean. Like if

990
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 2: I start doing things around the house and cleaning, like

991
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 2: you know, it's gonna be.

992
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 1: A good and I definitely don't get horny when Danny.

993
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:52,840
Speaker 2: Gets horny when she gets a gift.

994
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:03,560
Speaker 5: Oh.

995
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:09,960
Speaker 3: One thing I wanted to ask about was this word quaternary.

996
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:16,600
Speaker 1: What is it quaternary quaternary quaternary marriage. So is there

997
00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:17,919
Speaker 1: actually a term for this?

998
00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 7: Yeah, they made an actual term for twins married twins. Yeah,

999
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 7: I referred to as quaternary.

1000
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:26,279
Speaker 1: Marriage, quaternary marriage.

1001
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:29,359
Speaker 5: And so may be very clear that it's one of

1002
00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:31,279
Speaker 5: the set of twin marriage to one of the other

1003
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 5: set of twins. Two monogamous marriages. Right, that's quinary marriage.

1004
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 2: And this is where there's only three hundred, right, three

1005
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 2: hundred in the world.

1006
00:50:39,200 --> 00:50:42,640
Speaker 3: That's three hundred quaternary marriages out of eight billion people. Well,

1007
00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 3: I learned something new today. I've never known that word.

1008
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 3: I've never known.

1009
00:50:45,880 --> 00:50:49,719
Speaker 2: That, and I've never known a singleton either.

1010
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 3: And I know, what are some misconceptions that the public

1011
00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:58,240
Speaker 3: might think about this relationship.

1012
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:03,080
Speaker 6: Oh? Probably. I think a lot of people wonder, like

1013
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:07,560
Speaker 6: with us being separate in our relationships, not just for

1014
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 6: people in one relationship, if that makes sense. I think

1015
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:12,720
Speaker 6: that people like to think that.

1016
00:51:13,160 --> 00:51:15,360
Speaker 1: But that it's like polyamorous, that you guys are.

1017
00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:19,640
Speaker 2: Just like that's I was going to guess that like swap.

1018
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:21,880
Speaker 4: Now you're.

1019
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:29,400
Speaker 7: You got anything? Like the comments on everything. Yeah, it's

1020
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 7: it's constant that do you guys swap?

1021
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:37,960
Speaker 6: Have you guys ever? Like mistakenly you know, right, that

1022
00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:40,879
Speaker 6: kind of Also the codependency thing that people think maybe

1023
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:43,680
Speaker 6: that yeah, too dependent on each other, that we couldn't

1024
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:47,960
Speaker 6: survive without one another. I guess that it's unhealthy to

1025
00:51:48,040 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 6: be so dependent on each other.

1026
00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:51,360
Speaker 1: How do you feel about that?

1027
00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:54,480
Speaker 6: I I don't. I don't think that we are dependent

1028
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 6: on one another.

1029
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:59,920
Speaker 7: But we we've chosen, uh, this lifestyle together.

1030
00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:01,400
Speaker 6: You know, it's not that.

1031
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:07,279
Speaker 7: I wouldn't be able to function without it. It's just

1032
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:10,480
Speaker 7: something that that's what makes us happy, so right, and

1033
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 7: co parenting and cohabitating like this is has a lot

1034
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:15,799
Speaker 7: of benefits, you know.

1035
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:19,759
Speaker 3: It's yeah, somebody, I mean, look, we I mean, I

1036
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:21,880
Speaker 3: hate we live very close to each other. I have

1037
00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:23,560
Speaker 3: to say there was a time when our kids were

1038
00:52:23,560 --> 00:52:27,120
Speaker 3: little that we spent I mean it was really, I mean,

1039
00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:30,560
Speaker 3: we really spent so much time helping each other, you

1040
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 3: especially for me, you know.

1041
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, it's the best, it is. It's great. And

1042
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:37,879
Speaker 2: by the way, there's no fucking there's no right way

1043
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 2: to do anything, you know, if you're happy and you're

1044
00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:43,480
Speaker 2: not hurting anyone and everyone's healthy and growing up, you know,

1045
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:45,160
Speaker 2: and the way that they should and the way that

1046
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:45,600
Speaker 2: you guys.

1047
00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 6: Want it made it easier. Our lives are much easier

1048
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 6: together than it would be we were separated, because we

1049
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:52,359
Speaker 6: want to see each other a lot, of course, and

1050
00:52:52,440 --> 00:52:55,080
Speaker 6: we want kids to see each other. So you would

1051
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:57,359
Speaker 6: just be in one of those houses like you guys work,

1052
00:52:58,040 --> 00:52:59,120
Speaker 6: So it just makes more sense.

1053
00:52:59,160 --> 00:52:59,759
Speaker 2: That's so great.

1054
00:53:00,160 --> 00:53:00,840
Speaker 1: That's so great.

1055
00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:03,359
Speaker 5: I think like if we I totally agree. I think

1056
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 5: that like if we got you know, to age eighty

1057
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:09,759
Speaker 5: and I was sitting there as an eighty year old

1058
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:12,600
Speaker 5: looking back at my life, I think I would feel

1059
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:16,640
Speaker 5: a sense of such regret to have squandered this amazing,

1060
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:21,719
Speaker 5: rare gift. She's almost always a gift, not you know,

1061
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:27,480
Speaker 5: not always. It's such a rare gift, and so I

1062
00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:31,239
Speaker 5: think that there's something to sort of appreciating that and

1063
00:53:32,040 --> 00:53:34,879
Speaker 5: not squandering even a single day. And I think we'll

1064
00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:37,359
Speaker 5: get to the you know, to eighty and look at

1065
00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:42,360
Speaker 5: each other and we'll feel like at least there's that.

1066
00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:44,920
Speaker 2: That's a great ending. I love you guys. Fine, you

1067
00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:45,680
Speaker 2: guys are awesome.

1068
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:46,399
Speaker 1: You really are.

1069
00:53:46,680 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 6: This is real cool.

1070
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 3: So we usually end the podcast with our question, which

1071
00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:54,680
Speaker 3: is what is one thing that you would love to

1072
00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:58,760
Speaker 3: emulate about your sister? And then what is one thing

1073
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:03,239
Speaker 3: that you wish you could alleviate from her to make

1074
00:54:03,440 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 3: sort of optimize her life?

1075
00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:08,560
Speaker 2: And then the same question from you guys, this is

1076
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:12,719
Speaker 2: awesome actually with the See that was a good kase

1077
00:54:13,560 --> 00:54:15,319
Speaker 2: I knew, and I just didn't want to ask what

1078
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:16,399
Speaker 2: their first kiss was.

1079
00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:22,719
Speaker 1: And say your.

1080
00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:26,160
Speaker 3: Name before say and you're talking about so that people

1081
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:27,720
Speaker 3: can know who's talking.

1082
00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:34,640
Speaker 5: Okay, I'm Brianna. And if I had to choose something

1083
00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:40,799
Speaker 5: that I especially admire about Brittany that I just sort

1084
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:46,759
Speaker 5: of also exhibit myself. I think she has always been

1085
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:51,800
Speaker 5: even though I was first born, she is usually first socially,

1086
00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:55,319
Speaker 5: and so she'll kind of like lead like that. She's

1087
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:59,279
Speaker 5: very glamorous, like I noticed that. Yeah, I think that

1088
00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:02,799
Speaker 5: she was like the first to, like I don't know,

1089
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:05,640
Speaker 5: get us into like make up when we were teenagers

1090
00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:08,399
Speaker 5: and that kind of a thing. And so I would

1091
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:12,880
Speaker 5: say that kind of like you leading socially is something hmmm.

1092
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:15,360
Speaker 5: I yeah, I think I would tribute to you.

1093
00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:20,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then what would you alleviate a stressor or

1094
00:55:20,239 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 2: some sort of situation in her life that would make

1095
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:25,920
Speaker 2: it better and don't say her husband.

1096
00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:34,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, in this situation, maybe like the stress of like

1097
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:40,279
Speaker 5: the world, and like there's a lot of we both

1098
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:42,680
Speaker 5: sensed like we both because we're attorneys, Like I know,

1099
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:45,320
Speaker 5: you have a really strong sense of like justice and

1100
00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:49,160
Speaker 5: if we can't, you know, we can't get that for people,

1101
00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:51,880
Speaker 5: and so you'll you'll like have the weight of like

1102
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:54,759
Speaker 5: the whole justice system on your shoulders. I feel like

1103
00:55:54,880 --> 00:56:00,319
Speaker 5: sometimes so I would take that away if I could, right,

1104
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:05,399
Speaker 5: I think that I would. I'm Brittany, and I think

1105
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:12,400
Speaker 5: that I would like Brianna's strength. The name Brianna actually

1106
00:56:12,440 --> 00:56:17,920
Speaker 5: means strong, and I think that overall, even though I

1107
00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:20,440
Speaker 5: could always beat her in chin uffs, I think overall,

1108
00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 5: just emotionally, she is stronger and I've always felt that,

1109
00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:28,040
Speaker 5: and so I would.

1110
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 6: I would.

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00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 5: I would like that for myself because I'd admire that

1112
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:36,680
Speaker 5: in Brianna. And then as far as taking away stress,

1113
00:56:37,640 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 5: We've dealt with some very stressful things with sociopaths and

1114
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 5: and that situation. But I would, I would just I

1115
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:51,880
Speaker 5: would take away I would take away also, maybe some phobias,

1116
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:54,799
Speaker 5: like just some some fears, so that we could just

1117
00:56:55,600 --> 00:57:00,800
Speaker 5: relax a bit more. I appreciate that. I love it.

1118
00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:02,919
Speaker 2: There's so much closer than we are.

1119
00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:06,000
Speaker 1: I know, so close as well.

1120
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:10,319
Speaker 3: Yes, it's a different it's a different, different kind of closeness.

1121
00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:13,520
Speaker 7: We have other siblings too, and we're very close with you,

1122
00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:16,240
Speaker 7: and it feels like we have a brother he's just

1123
00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 7: a year older.

1124
00:57:16,840 --> 00:57:18,960
Speaker 6: Than us, and we love them just as much as

1125
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:20,680
Speaker 6: different dynamics.

1126
00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:22,400
Speaker 5: But siblings are so special no matter what.

1127
00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:25,840
Speaker 3: So you're saying this is on us, so we could

1128
00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:27,800
Speaker 3: be we need to work at it harder.

1129
00:57:27,960 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 1: Is that?

1130
00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:31,520
Speaker 5: I think that you just might not realize it, but

1131
00:57:31,800 --> 00:57:32,360
Speaker 5: we can see it.

1132
00:57:32,400 --> 00:57:36,680
Speaker 1: We can see it, so we will need to work hard.

1133
00:57:38,760 --> 00:57:43,960
Speaker 5: You realize I agree. I think that you you just

1134
00:57:44,080 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 5: might not realize it, but we can see it. We

1135
00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:46,920
Speaker 5: can see it.

1136
00:57:47,600 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, but your other siblings think that you guys

1137
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:54,040
Speaker 2: love each other the most. For sure, they.

1138
00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:57,080
Speaker 5: Feel very loved because there are babies. But I just

1139
00:57:57,120 --> 00:57:59,000
Speaker 5: a different dynamic, right, identical point.

1140
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:02,280
Speaker 2: It's just a different yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, guys, what

1141
00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:02,880
Speaker 2: what what?

1142
00:58:02,880 --> 00:58:03,479
Speaker 6: What are your.

1143
00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:05,480
Speaker 2: Answers to this luscious question?

1144
00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:11,720
Speaker 6: Mm hmm. I'm Jeremy, and if there's something that I

1145
00:58:11,760 --> 00:58:16,600
Speaker 6: would emulate of Josh, it would be probably his temperament.

1146
00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:20,240
Speaker 6: I think that I'm a little more like hot headed

1147
00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:27,040
Speaker 6: or all react more or more just faster to react

1148
00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:31,000
Speaker 6: or more aggressive in my reaction. I guess, so, yeah,

1149
00:58:31,000 --> 00:58:35,000
Speaker 6: I haven't having a more even temperament. I think that

1150
00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:37,480
Speaker 6: I would like to emulate that, And something that I

1151
00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:45,120
Speaker 6: can take from him would be h mm mm hmm.

1152
00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:51,120
Speaker 6: Maybe uh. I think we both share this shyness and

1153
00:58:51,280 --> 00:58:55,040
Speaker 6: social awkwardness in that we're self conscious. Maybe I don't

1154
00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:57,400
Speaker 6: know what it is, but I think if I could

1155
00:58:57,400 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 6: take away his social anxiety mhm, that I would do

1156
00:59:01,520 --> 00:59:03,920
Speaker 6: that because it's a lot more fun in life if

1157
00:59:03,920 --> 00:59:06,800
Speaker 6: you can just be you know, open and relaxed when

1158
00:59:06,840 --> 00:59:07,680
Speaker 6: you're talking to people.

1159
00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 2: Great.

1160
00:59:10,920 --> 00:59:12,840
Speaker 6: Well, I think that.

1161
00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 7: He does a good job of, uh, kind of keeping

1162
00:59:19,800 --> 00:59:24,920
Speaker 7: things in order, like all of our you know, finances

1163
00:59:24,960 --> 00:59:27,880
Speaker 7: and things like that, and you know, there's bills all

1164
00:59:27,920 --> 00:59:29,000
Speaker 7: over the place and things like that.

1165
00:59:30,640 --> 00:59:32,240
Speaker 6: I think he does a.

1166
00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:34,840
Speaker 7: Good job keeping up with all that, make sure that's

1167
00:59:35,200 --> 00:59:37,720
Speaker 7: kept up with. I think I would like to emulate

1168
00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:46,000
Speaker 7: that more. And I guess Rether maybe taking something away,

1169
00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:48,560
Speaker 7: maybe give give a little bit more patience I think

1170
00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 7: would affect temperament, you know, So yeah, it's kind of

1171
00:59:54,160 --> 00:59:58,720
Speaker 7: taken away giving I don't know. Call out whatever you want.

1172
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:06,880
Speaker 2: So basically you're nuts. You up to handle.

1173
01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:08,760
Speaker 6: You.

1174
01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:10,040
Speaker 1: This has been wonderful.

1175
01:00:10,120 --> 01:00:12,880
Speaker 3: Thank you for joining us and.

1176
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:16,480
Speaker 1: Sharing with us. This is such an amazing story and

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01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:17,400
Speaker 1: you know.

1178
01:00:17,640 --> 01:00:20,320
Speaker 2: This has been so Thank you guys, appreciate you.

1179
01:00:20,320 --> 01:00:21,760
Speaker 6: You appreciate you so much.

1180
01:00:21,840 --> 01:00:23,520
Speaker 5: Thank you to night, Thank you so.

1181
01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:24,960
Speaker 2: Much, See you later.

1182
01:00:25,320 --> 01:00:49,440
Speaker 1: Bye,