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Speaker 1: Never been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred show. Mark. Hey you doing Mark? How

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Speaker 2: are you very well?

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Speaker 1: Welcome to our show. It's waiting by the phone. Tell

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Speaker 1: us about I have your email here, but tell us

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Speaker 1: about your day with Amber and tell us everything and

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Speaker 1: where you guys stand as well?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 3: Cool? So I met her at a bar. We were

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Speaker 3: just hanging out with I was hanging out with my friends,

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Speaker 3: she was hanging out with hers, but we ended up talking.

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Speaker 3: We ended up exchanging numbers. We're supposed to meet up

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Speaker 3: for drinks, and she didn't show.

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Speaker 2: Up, didn't show them at all, didn't even.

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Speaker 3: Show up at all. Now she won't respond to my

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Speaker 3: calls or my text or anything. And you know, I

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Speaker 3: thought she was great. She was attractive, she was personable,

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Speaker 3: she seemed interesting. But now the no show, I don't

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Speaker 3: get it.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 1: So we're not even talking about getting ghosted after a date.

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Speaker 1: Like you guys met and talked and planned a date,

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Speaker 1: You show up and then she doesn't.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just gooded me up. But now you know, now

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Speaker 3: I'm worried. I'm like wondering if she's okay, or is

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Speaker 3: she married? Is she in the this protection program?

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Speaker 2: You know, I assume you've reached out.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, plenty of times. It's just nothing.

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Speaker 1: Mark wants to know. In fact, there was never even

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Speaker 1: a date. He met a woman and then she never

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Speaker 1: showed up for the date, So what's the deal. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: sus Hamber, Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm calling

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Speaker 1: for the Fred's Show, the morning radio show. The whole

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Speaker 1: crew is here, and I do have to tell you

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Speaker 1: that we are on the radio right now, and I

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Speaker 1: would need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 2: Is it okay if we chat for just a second?

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Speaker 4: I guess, I mean, what is this in regards.

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Speaker 2: To I'll take I guess is a yes? Thank you.

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Speaker 1: We're calling about a guy who reached out to us

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Speaker 1: named Mark. He says, you guys met at a bar

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Speaker 1: and planned a date that you never showed up for.

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Speaker 1: Do you remember this guy?

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, So what happened?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, this got to be a story here what happened?

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Speaker 1: Because he says you met and he says that you

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Speaker 1: had a date and then he went to the date

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Speaker 1: and you didn't show up and he can't get a

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Speaker 1: hold of you now, and you want to and he

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Speaker 1: wants to know why.

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Speaker 2: So can you tell us why. I mean, I mean I.

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Speaker 4: Liked him at first, you know, I was interested at first,

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Speaker 4: but he lied about his profession to me.

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Speaker 1: He lied about his profession. What did he say and

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Speaker 1: what does he do? Well?

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Speaker 4: He said, he's in beverage distribution, beverage distribution, and like, look,

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Speaker 4: he's good looking, you know, like I thought he had

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Speaker 4: a nice job. Whatever.

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Speaker 1: So you're talking to the bar and you're attracted to him,

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Speaker 1: and he's you know, he looks I don't know, put together.

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Speaker 1: And he said, I'm in beverage distribution, okay, and you

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Speaker 1: don't know what that means, but it sounds good.

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Speaker 2: And so how did you find out that? What that matter?

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Speaker 2: What does that mean?

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Speaker 4: Okay? So you know two days later, I actually walked

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Speaker 4: into Starbucks to get a coffee during a break at work,

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Speaker 4: and oh no, the bark was standing there behind the

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Speaker 4: taking coffee. He was a barista.

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Speaker 2: Like that's.

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Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, but like you made up a fancy title,

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Speaker 4: it's pretty good.

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Speaker 1: Let me say, I forgot to mention. I forgot to

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Speaker 1: mention that Mark. Uh, Mark's on the phone. Mark, Come on, man,

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Speaker 1: it is.

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Speaker 3: Fine, and you just won't date it. Barisa. That's all

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Speaker 3: there is to it. You're too good for it.

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Speaker 2: Why don't you just say you're a bliss?

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Speaker 1: I mean, look, you didn't lie, but come on, I

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Speaker 1: kind of see where she's coming from here. You you

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Speaker 1: did make the gig seem a little more a corporate seeming,

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Speaker 1: and I agree with you. She doesn't want to date

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Speaker 1: to Barisa, and we can talk about that.

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Speaker 4: No one wants to date a liar.

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Speaker 3: Let me explain something. Poppy is a beverage that a

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Speaker 3: long distribute beverages. I'm in beverage distribute.

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Speaker 1: But when you say that, now, let's on the flip side.

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Speaker 1: When you say that mark to a woman, that's a

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Speaker 1: nice way of concealing that you're a barrista, which I

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Speaker 1: think I'm guessing you think sounds less impressive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I mean I didn't want to scare her away.

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Speaker 3: But what's wrong with day and a barrista?

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Speaker 2: In the first there's nothing. There's nothing wrong with Danny.

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Speaker 4: And you really feel that way, then why can't you

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Speaker 4: just be up front? It's like, how would you feel

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Speaker 4: if I was like, I'm a dancer and then you

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Speaker 4: go to a strip club and there I am on

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Speaker 4: the pole brou.

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Speaker 2: All right, so you felt lied to, then you felt deceived.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, if you're gonna lie about that, what

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Speaker 4: the hell else are you gonna lie about?

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Like, just tell a girls straight up what you do

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Speaker 4: and maybe it'll be benefit you because she'll like you.

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Speaker 2: For exactly that.

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Speaker 1: And this guy Marcus clever as hell, Yeah, because he

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Speaker 1: sounds like he's full of crap and I kind of

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Speaker 1: like it.

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Speaker 2: You know what you did, Mark, you know what you did.

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Speaker 3: I was just trying to so I was just trying

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Speaker 3: to solve the impact a little bit here.

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Speaker 2: But here's the interesting thing.

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Speaker 1: You would if you had not walked through the Starbucks

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Speaker 1: that day, that particular Starbucks and seen him making drinks

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Speaker 1: behind the thing that you would have gone out with did.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but you're right, Like if I had lost in

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Speaker 4: and he hit on me behind, you know, when he's

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Speaker 4: making the coffees, I wouldn't have, you know, I deterred

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Speaker 4: from a date. But the fact that I waltz in

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Speaker 4: and he's just behind the thing making coffee and meanwhile

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Speaker 4: he's telling me he's.

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Speaker 2: Very good. That's pretty good.

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Speaker 3: If you would have, if you would date me not

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Speaker 3: knowing what I do for a living, then why did

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Speaker 3: it matter?

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Speaker 2: He didn't lie?

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Speaker 4: He and you know what, like, listen to the women here,

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Speaker 4: like a what even a little white lies starting off

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Speaker 4: the rel like what do you do every time you

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Speaker 4: want to date? You tell girls this?

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Speaker 2: And then when did they find out? All right?

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Speaker 1: Look, so is there any way the amber you would

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Speaker 1: consider going out with barista Mark? Now that you know

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Speaker 1: that his distribution beverage distribution means that he's a barista,

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Speaker 1: would you consider dating him?

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Speaker 4: No, I'm sorry, I'm a tough cookie. It's just not

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Speaker 4: the lie.

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Speaker 2: It's just not worth this gold digger.

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Speaker 4: My god that you still don't get it.

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Speaker 2: Hey, you got piles of tips, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, I'm not even gonna get that.

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Speaker 2: I love you, Mark, I love you, I really do.

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Speaker 2: I mean you.

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Speaker 1: I almost said it myself. I don't think you lied.

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Speaker 1: You deceived and you got caught. But I think that's clever.

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Speaker 1: You're you're not this one. I recommend I recommend just

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Speaker 1: saying you're Barissa man Ain't nothing wrong with that?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 3: Next time,