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Speaker 1: What's up? What's up is slip service? I mean, I'm G. G. Maguire,

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Speaker 1: I'm Avian, I'm stuff in Santiago, Hi, and we're drinking

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Speaker 1: right now. And I'm a SAP. You are not a

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Speaker 1: SAP's family our fiance. Yea. So you guys did end

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Speaker 1: up getting married? We did? We did? We did. It's

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Speaker 1: here we did. Didn't you wear your ring to night? Congratulations?

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Speaker 1: Many gun, there's plenty of there's plenty of men who

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Speaker 1: don't wear the ring? What how would how would you

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Speaker 1: feel about that? A lot of life? He was like, no,

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Speaker 1: how would she didn't? How would you feel that she

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Speaker 1: didn't wear her ring? Oh that's not what I mean.

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Speaker 1: That's just like me saying I'm not gonna change my

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Speaker 1: last name because I don't know. We haven't had a

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Speaker 1: conversation about that. It's different, so it's not okay. Then

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Speaker 1: what's the point of me buying the ring? If you're

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Speaker 1: not gonna win, what's the point that's getting married? If

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to change my last name? You think

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Speaker 1: you have to change your last night. I don't think

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Speaker 1: And sometimes even if you change your last name. It

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Speaker 1: might just be something that you do on paper, like

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Speaker 1: your Angela ye right, so you have a different platform.

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Speaker 1: People know you and you're my last part of your brand. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you got a Jane to say on it. I don't

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Speaker 1: want to have to get a new change. You get

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Speaker 1: married to a man named Jenkins, then you're not gonna

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Speaker 1: hyphen it Jenkins. You It depends on the last name.

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Speaker 1: Some people got sucked up last year. But what does

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Speaker 1: it matter. It's not like people are going to approach

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Speaker 1: you with that name. You're always You're always gonna be

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Speaker 1: Angela e. Right. You still have to use it, right,

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Speaker 1: and use it for what paper is one thing, but

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Speaker 1: we just drink it. So you write it on paper,

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Speaker 1: but you just still go out. I don't know, I

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Speaker 1: haven't really thought that hard. A Celebrities that still go

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Speaker 1: by there have been married. I know two guys that

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Speaker 1: watching is that why? I'm coming? Like jewelry like rings?

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Speaker 1: But I'm like, how does that define marriage? But around

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Speaker 1: would bother me if he didn't want to ring right now,

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Speaker 1: it will bother me. Like, okay, what if the last

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Speaker 1: name is fucker na na, no stop me, Florence Santiago

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Speaker 1: fire already in the middle, Like, I don't want to

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Speaker 1: I think that you can change your last name to ye,

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Speaker 1: Come on with it. That's going backwards. I don't see.

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Speaker 1: of things with you, guys and your relationship before you

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Speaker 1: got married. What do you do if you don't like

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Speaker 1: your man's best friend at or a period, Like let's

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Speaker 1: just say you know, and we're gonna ask open this

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Speaker 1: when it's like he don't like you, you don't like him,

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Speaker 1: but that's the closest person to him, because I know

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Speaker 1: It's done. It's either me or him, and that's it.

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Speaker 1: And I've done it before and I'll do it again.

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Speaker 1: I don't care because honestly, you know, when you're in

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Speaker 1: a relationship, you have to put your relationship first. And

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Speaker 1: and you're not hanging out with him no more, and

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Speaker 1: that's it. You can talk to him, maybe invite him

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Speaker 1: make one of my friends dance with him at my wedding.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but it's I mean, he could be there,

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Speaker 1: found out that he was best friends with a rat,

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Speaker 1: Different to him, either you're gonna hang out with rats

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Speaker 1: It's different. What if they have a relationship, But if

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Speaker 1: doesn't mean that you throw them away, but maybe y'all

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Speaker 1: And he told him. He kept it real with him,

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Speaker 1: So he's like, Oh, I'm gonna bring my friend through.

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Speaker 1: I know what you fee to tell him to go

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00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:04,719
Speaker 1: ahead and sneak one in, you know, early early morning.

424
00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:08,359
Speaker 1: That was night. That mons time to wake up for

425
00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:12,160
Speaker 1: school twenty minutes prior to and you know, your body

426
00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:14,520
Speaker 1: gets used to waking up at a certain time, so

427
00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:19,080
Speaker 1: it's like when you're sleep, you're natural body, like you're

428
00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:21,280
Speaker 1: just waking up. I'm like, no, like the kids werena

429
00:21:21,280 --> 00:21:23,359
Speaker 1: wake up in like twenty minutes. And he want to

430
00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:26,440
Speaker 1: tell you, man, she woke up and heard a knock

431
00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:28,639
Speaker 1: on the door. I felt like I heard something a

432
00:21:28,680 --> 00:21:34,399
Speaker 1: little bit, so thank god, I just you know, we

433
00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:43,359
Speaker 1: just got done. And then knock at the door, Mom, Mom,

434
00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:50,080
Speaker 1: are you okay? When he said it like, y'all my stump.

435
00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:53,919
Speaker 1: When she said that, my stumma, I said, it sounds

436
00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:59,400
Speaker 1: like you're in pain and the and this is the thing.

437
00:21:59,440 --> 00:22:02,959
Speaker 1: When she she not that what I said. She So

438
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:05,080
Speaker 1: we sat there for a second and then she knocked

439
00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:10,359
Speaker 1: a little like I know. So I'm like, yeah, babe,

440
00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:13,000
Speaker 1: what's up. She was like, are you okay? I'm like

441
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:20,040
Speaker 1: this food starts laughing. Was in a car accident not

442
00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:22,440
Speaker 1: too long before that, so she knew that my ankle

443
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:24,320
Speaker 1: was kind of a little bit. So she was like,

444
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:28,479
Speaker 1: what what were you You sound like you're in Your

445
00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:37,640
Speaker 1: dad was just sashing my ankle and it just hurt.

446
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:41,240
Speaker 1: She wasn't in an accident. She probably would have this

447
00:22:41,359 --> 00:22:44,679
Speaker 1: the thing, how many times when you are younger, something happened,

448
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 1: you kind of dusted it off, and now that you're older,

449
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:49,719
Speaker 1: you like, okay, man, she's gonna be thirty years old

450
00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:59,320
Speaker 1: and be like, yeah, now, let me ask you this.

451
00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:01,640
Speaker 1: So the girls that they're going to have his last name,

452
00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:06,120
Speaker 1: last name, absolutely okay. They already go by his last

453
00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:09,040
Speaker 1: name at school, like technically with the register it's still

454
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:12,200
Speaker 1: their old last name because it hasn't Actually they actually

455
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:14,520
Speaker 1: can't wait for their last name of change. They're like,

456
00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:17,080
Speaker 1: they asked me to wait and change mind. They love

457
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 1: them so together. Oh that sweet he asked me to

458
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:22,639
Speaker 1: wait to change, Mama, I ain't wait now after you

459
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 1: got married, and um, are there things that you hadn't

460
00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:27,679
Speaker 1: done in the bedroom before that, you were like you

461
00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 1: waited for the marriage? Did you wait for anything or

462
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:31,480
Speaker 1: y'all had did it? All of that? I feel like

463
00:23:31,520 --> 00:23:34,119
Speaker 1: she she like before we got married. I feel like

464
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:36,399
Speaker 1: there was like things like oh, I'm waiting, I'm waiting

465
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:38,119
Speaker 1: for the for mayors to bring this out on you.

466
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:42,400
Speaker 1: And then I was like she she brought them out,

467
00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 1: but they were she did them so like flawlessly. I

468
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 1: was like, I feel like like I almost feel like

469
00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:57,439
Speaker 1: play like I'm just now on a surprise. Like we

470
00:23:57,520 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 1: would have sex and he'd just be like yeah, I'd

471
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:01,000
Speaker 1: be like you out, that was something that wait till

472
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,760
Speaker 1: you married me. So he always something was coming and

473
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 1: he's you know, big Thompson never was like he knew

474
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:12,960
Speaker 1: something was coming, but he come a cocky so he

475
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:15,399
Speaker 1: was like, I'm a DJ. I didn't had it all.

476
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 1: Now get on that road. You know what she's called

477
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 1: that g P Good pussy energy. Okay GP, that's that

478
00:24:23,960 --> 00:24:26,879
Speaker 1: good pussy energy. Well you know yeah, she came with

479
00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 1: it after the after the all, so what was with it?

480
00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:30,880
Speaker 1: Like what is it? What did you do that? Like

481
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:35,159
Speaker 1: you know, like I think a whole another, like thinking

482
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 1: her throat opened up, you got a whole another. I

483
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,119
Speaker 1: feel like I was here, you know what I'm saying.

484
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:50,920
Speaker 1: She's like, you know what, and I'm not. I'm not married,

485
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:52,600
Speaker 1: never been married. But you know what, I what I

486
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 1: calculate from that, just because I'm a freak um is

487
00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:59,159
Speaker 1: that she is the sense of security, the sense that

488
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 1: she know like she know, like you know, like all right,

489
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 1: he might have been a relationship, but now this forever,

490
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 1: like this be us, so no holst bards. I'm I'm

491
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:16,919
Speaker 1: about to just let me right a little stuff like

492
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 1: when we get ready to have sex, like if he's

493
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:23,320
Speaker 1: already down there, like I can take his underwear off

494
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 1: of my feet and he's already like what I couldn't

495
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:34,320
Speaker 1: drink make girls, And I think I opened up more,

496
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:37,359
Speaker 1: you know, because like before, you know, I hate pussy.

497
00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:39,960
Speaker 1: But then like after you know, we got married, like

498
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:42,960
Speaker 1: you gotta spread it open, you gotta yeah, you gotta

499
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,880
Speaker 1: get in there, you know. You know what that's smart.

500
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 1: You should only teach your husband pussy because your boyfriend

501
00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:53,440
Speaker 1: might break up with you and be anybody somebody. Women

502
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:55,480
Speaker 1: also have to learn, you know, how to do that

503
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:57,440
Speaker 1: for a man too. If you you can be great

504
00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:00,119
Speaker 1: and be giving this one man the business, but his

505
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 1: sensatual spots might not be the same on the next person.

506
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,640
Speaker 1: And so like women sometimes have this thing like I'm

507
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:08,359
Speaker 1: gonna figure that out. I don't want to ask. I

508
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:10,920
Speaker 1: have no filter. Do you like this? What's your favorite?

509
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 1: It's been certain times we're watching TV and i' be like, hey,

510
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 1: put your pants, let me say you some real quick.

511
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 1: He'd be like, what's trying to doctor? One time, I

512
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:19,280
Speaker 1: remember we were in the middle of and TV. He's like,

513
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 1: we were lasting. I'm like, I made him get my

514
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 1: iPhone before and like cut the flashlight on, like have

515
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:28,439
Speaker 1: you ever really seen a pussy before? And he's like,

516
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:31,359
Speaker 1: oh my god, what I think he was like, he

517
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 1: was like and he got a flashlight and he was

518
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:40,720
Speaker 1: he was like, come on, a natty lesson not even know.

519
00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:51,359
Speaker 1: I'm just like you talk and it's not just about yeah.

520
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:54,200
Speaker 1: But we talked about everything, like you know, you beat

521
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:55,720
Speaker 1: the process. I many women don't even know what the

522
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 1: right at all, And I think that's what makes sex better,

523
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 1: letting and allows you to be more comfortable when you

524
00:27:02,160 --> 00:27:05,920
Speaker 1: could talk about anything, You talk about anything and express

525
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:08,640
Speaker 1: yourself like I was talking about that earlier where I'm

526
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:13,160
Speaker 1: vocal now in bedroom like nah, do it like this?

527
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:15,520
Speaker 1: Or I want to try this on you, like I

528
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,879
Speaker 1: don't mind shooting my shot first. I don't at all

529
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,120
Speaker 1: really made us connect as much as we do now.

530
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:26,919
Speaker 1: Like we started out like talking, Like we spent nights

531
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 1: and nights and nights like talking and hours and hours

532
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,960
Speaker 1: and hours just because I got out a previous relationship.

533
00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 1: She was in the previous relationship, and like, what am

534
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,359
Speaker 1: I doing wrong? Like why I'm why these things not working?

535
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. So when I started, you

536
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,400
Speaker 1: know what, I'm just gonna let her have it, like

537
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 1: anything she asked questions. I'm going to tell the truth communication,

538
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,959
Speaker 1: I'm gonna communicate. I'm gonna make sure she feels comfortable.

539
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:51,359
Speaker 1: I'm gonna make sure that she knows, hey, this is

540
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:53,880
Speaker 1: who I am, instead of like it later coming out

541
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 1: you know, six months down the road. But that's also

542
00:27:57,080 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: healing for you. But it's a transparency that you get

543
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 1: to walk around with. Like as women, I think in

544
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 1: the beginning of a relationship, men kind of like us more.

545
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:10,120
Speaker 1: Once we start to like a dude, we like them.

546
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 1: And my thing was, I'm gonna make sure he liked

547
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:14,400
Speaker 1: me more than I like him. That's what I wanted

548
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 1: to didn't do that, so um I gave I let

549
00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:22,680
Speaker 1: him keep all my good stuff before I gave him

550
00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 1: all my bad stuff with still being transparent. I would

551
00:28:26,040 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 1: purposely ask him uncomfortable questions that I knew would no

552
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:31,159
Speaker 1: man want to answer, just to see how he was

553
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:36,120
Speaker 1: gonna like. He's a DJ and if we've been in Dallas,

554
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:38,440
Speaker 1: he gotta you know, he gotta pass. My thing was,

555
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:40,560
Speaker 1: should nobody else ever tell me something before? You don't

556
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 1: give a damn what the hell it is? Don't have

557
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 1: me out here looking stupid. So I could be in

558
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:48,320
Speaker 1: a room and I could know that by somebody else's

559
00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 1: body language, like, oh, you don't talk to her. She

560
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 1: she don't like, but you before, and he'll just be like,

561
00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:58,800
Speaker 1: like at first he would be like, huh, I'm like,

562
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 1: you did, did you? I want to see how he

563
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 1: gonna respond, she says, how you know it's true? But

564
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 1: even in the bedroom, I would ask him intimate, deep

565
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 1: and detailed questions about women he's been with you ever

566
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:14,720
Speaker 1: had a girl has done this? Which one of them?

567
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 1: Or who was better between this one and this? I

568
00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 1: want to see what you know, I'm good. I want

569
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 1: to spice it up. I want to see how you're

570
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 1: gonna answer it. Did y'all ever dress out in the bedroom?

571
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 1: Dress up. Yeah, like that little stuff though your favorite

572
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 1: she got this little look get up. Man, it's like

573
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 1: she's got a little change and everything hanging and everything

574
00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 1: now like change. So I purposely asked, like I can

575
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 1: get changed, and I want you to crawl around, which

576
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:51,680
Speaker 1: you can like look, motherfucker, Like that's too much. But

577
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 1: I like to do stuff like we take a shower

578
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:57,200
Speaker 1: together almost every single night. So I'll purposely like take

579
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 1: a little extra time in the bathroom because I know

580
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 1: he's okay, he's gonna get out the shower, hen a

581
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 1: brush his teeth. He's fun to go to the prayer closet,

582
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:05,480
Speaker 1: So he'll go to the prayer closet because we go

583
00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 1: we have a prayer closet in our bedroom, and we

584
00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:09,680
Speaker 1: go in that prayer closet together every single night. So

585
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 1: I let him get in the prayer closet first. Now

586
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 1: nobody say the Lord said we can have sex, right,

587
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 1: and so we ain't done in the prayer. So I'll

588
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 1: put on something like I got a couple little different,

589
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 1: little little little situation. I'll put that on and like

590
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:33,520
Speaker 1: this last time, this was recent. It was this one

591
00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 1: outfit that literally covered like the whole body but it

592
00:30:36,120 --> 00:30:38,040
Speaker 1: was like mesh and it had holes in it and

593
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:40,640
Speaker 1: like this little piece went around my fingers. So whenever

594
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:42,720
Speaker 1: we get to the prayer closet, yeah, it had the

595
00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 1: nipples out. Yeah. So when he has to grab my hand,

596
00:30:47,600 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 1: because when we hold hands in the prayer close, we

597
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:50,720
Speaker 1: have like a sponge in between our hands. And he

598
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 1: grabbed my hand, I could feel like a what's this

599
00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:56,520
Speaker 1: on her? So we finished praying, and because he got

600
00:30:56,520 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 1: in there before I did, he got done before I did.

601
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 1: So he raised up and I'm down here and it's like, okay, lord,

602
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:04,200
Speaker 1: I'm going to tap out, not because my my focus

603
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:06,120
Speaker 1: ain't here, so let me finish this. I finished my

604
00:31:06,160 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 1: prayer and as soon as he was like, I'll see

605
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 1: you in the prayer class like this, it was dark

606
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 1: stuff like yeah that's cute. Yeah, I just got it

607
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 1: on after letutiful. Yeah, I'm saying it will change your

608
00:31:22,120 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 1: life right now, I'm talking and prayer. I'm sure about

609
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 1: myself us for me and him though, like we pray

610
00:31:31,880 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 1: morning to night and we prayed together separately, if that's something.

611
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 1: Sometimes if somebody pisces off and she gets a phone call,

612
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 1: somebody her starts to go up, said Bagel. Getting the

613
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:46,160
Speaker 1: prayer classes. So that's that's gorgeous. Wait, I'll excuse me.

614
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,400
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't need to interrupt you. Me like

615
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 1: I've been moving closest to my faith over like the

616
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 1: past three or four years, and I've been trying so

617
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:57,880
Speaker 1: hard not to have Jesus talk on the service, and

618
00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 1: you know that there was a moment that everything was well,

619
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:04,840
Speaker 1: you know, Jesus, listen Jesus that So I've been trying

620
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 1: so hard. So it's really refreshing to hear you guys

621
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 1: talk about Pross. With the Kobe Bryant situation was so

622
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 1: when Kobe passed, like that hit me. It hit And

623
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 1: as soon as I heard about that baby, I almost

624
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: a mother when when he because he told me about Kobe,

625
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 1: and like ten minutes after he was in the bathroom

626
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 1: when he told me about the Gianna Park. When he

627
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: came back, like I was just sitting there on mine,

628
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 1: I couldn't. I blacked out. I said, I gotta just

629
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: see this prayer classes. I got to and it was

630
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:33,200
Speaker 1: just something so and every prayer class that doesn't have

631
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 1: to be the same. You know, we got certain words

632
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 1: in there and I will hold onto my words, or

633
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 1: I'll hold onto my sponge. I just took a a

634
00:32:39,880 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 1: bathroom rug, cut it into a rectangle, and we put

635
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:44,000
Speaker 1: it under our knees when we get on the prayer classes.

636
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 1: How important was it for you guys to individually find

637
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 1: somebody that like was able to do that, like pray

638
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 1: or believe in God? Because I did have an ex

639
00:32:53,000 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 1: that I didn't believe in God at all. I don't see,

640
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:56,960
Speaker 1: I don't think it word. I wouldn't be able to

641
00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 1: do somebody. I mean I couldn't. I could understand people's

642
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 1: perspect there is in a sense of like feeling like

643
00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:05,280
Speaker 1: you know you as a person, you have to also

644
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:09,680
Speaker 1: put in work to change yourself right in your life. Um,

645
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 1: But for me, I was just like I want someone

646
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 1: that believes in the higher power because I know I do.

647
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 1: So after a while, I realized, like wow, that that

648
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 1: didn't work for me, So why do you not believe

649
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 1: in God? Was it like his family? I guess he

650
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:27,760
Speaker 1: just went through his own things that that he tried

651
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 1: to pray through, and he realized that he kind of

652
00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 1: had to work out of that those situations himself, you know,

653
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 1: like on his own and and you know, I know

654
00:33:38,080 --> 00:33:40,560
Speaker 1: a lot of people that do question religion, right, Like

655
00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 1: that's not like my brother. My brother is atheist and

656
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 1: I love him. But the only reason I love him

657
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 1: is because he's my brother questioning religion and believe people

658
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 1: don't know how he's as like my God. He just

659
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:01,480
Speaker 1: believes we were here and we I And that's that's

660
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 1: where my brother he believes in evolution rights here. But

661
00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: even an evolution, there had to be something that started

662
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 1: something right, So like it had to make like, you know,

663
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 1: there's a lot of scientology and everything that people that

664
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 1: get into it, but a lot of people feel like,

665
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: you know a lot of things that in the Bible

666
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:23,280
Speaker 1: aren't right or they're made up or man made the Bible.

667
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:25,799
Speaker 1: That's cool and everything, But I think for us it

668
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 1: was more of a spiritual thing, like we weren't really

669
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 1: so worried about, you know, zing organized religion. Like me,

670
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,720
Speaker 1: Like me personally, I've always been about like self, empower

671
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,160
Speaker 1: myself better than like I'm gonna try to make myself

672
00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 1: as the best version of myself I possibly can. And

673
00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:44,360
Speaker 1: she when we met up, it was like, oh you

674
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 1: do done with that too? Okay, but like and so yeah,

675
00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:49,360
Speaker 1: it was It was just a connection like chemistry that

676
00:34:49,400 --> 00:34:51,520
Speaker 1: we had that we just knew, like, hey man, we're

677
00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:53,240
Speaker 1: about to go out here and get it. Let's do it.

678
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 1: And it helps you prosible because you believe in what if.

679
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 1: Brandon was like, can I come sit in the prayer

680
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 1: classes with you and we work through this. I gotta

681
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:05,480
Speaker 1: like you to pray for you. I don't gotta like

682
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,880
Speaker 1: you to not want you to do better like my

683
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:11,240
Speaker 1: and I think the real Let me just be transparent

684
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:14,560
Speaker 1: about the Brandon thing. Another reason at that time why

685
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:18,320
Speaker 1: that situation hit me so hard. My best friend in

686
00:35:18,360 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 1: the beginning of our relationship was just like Brandon, and

687
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:26,319
Speaker 1: everybody was telling me the same things that some of

688
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:28,319
Speaker 1: us are telling him about that situation. Now, what I

689
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 1: will say she was more toxic than Brandon, and she

690
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:35,799
Speaker 1: was more painfully inflictive towards me than Brandon is towards him.

691
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 1: So she's one of them people she doesn't have. She

692
00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 1: did not have a great grasp of self awareness. When

693
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:45,360
Speaker 1: things were going good in her life, it's girl power.

694
00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 1: But when things are going bad in her life, she

695
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:49,640
Speaker 1: had everything negative to say about something in my life.

696
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 1: She always wanted us to be in the same place

697
00:35:51,280 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 1: at the same time, and she wasn't someone that could

698
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 1: clap for her friends and when she was doing good.

699
00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 1: If I didn't have that going on in my life,

700
00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 1: I'm still speaking into you what I didn't appreciate. Her

701
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:03,840
Speaker 1: and I were both dating somebody. Their birthdays was on

702
00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:05,279
Speaker 1: the same day, and she's one of them girls just

703
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:06,839
Speaker 1: like I want to be, just like my best friend,

704
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. She met a new dude,

705
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:12,319
Speaker 1: I met him her, and that relationship started going down.

706
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:15,880
Speaker 1: She had every thing negative to say about him. She

707
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 1: let this one situation happen with her and I had

708
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 1: a personal falling out about something very meniscule, and the

709
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 1: x X dude and my baby's father were friends. My

710
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 1: baby daddy called out the blue to talk to the

711
00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 1: girls and knew all my business. Hell beat you down.

712
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 1: So but guess what, because I've seen where that was going,

713
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 1: and because I'm like, you know what, the head of

714
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 1: a snake can be cut off, I killed it right

715
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,440
Speaker 1: there on the spot. So but I had already had

716
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 1: that built up and I was already there, and when

717
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 1: he didn't do that, it pissed me off because I

718
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:51,080
Speaker 1: feel like I've done it you should have done it,

719
00:36:51,120 --> 00:36:53,400
Speaker 1: and what that was unfair? You know what I'm saying.

720
00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:55,759
Speaker 1: I think that I just felt like you should do

721
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:57,360
Speaker 1: it the way I didn't. When you don't rock for me,

722
00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:59,240
Speaker 1: how I rock for you? And there was other things

723
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 1: built into that situation, you see what I'm saying. But

724
00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 1: I still feel like women it was different and and

725
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:08,759
Speaker 1: sometimes women can want their men to do things the

726
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:12,279
Speaker 1: way they do them and vice versa, you know what

727
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:15,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying. And when and when that person doesn't respond

728
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:17,480
Speaker 1: the way you think they should respond to how you

729
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:20,239
Speaker 1: respond in the past, they're like, oh, you're not for me,

730
00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:22,360
Speaker 1: like you know, you you choosing side, and it's like, no,

731
00:37:22,440 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 1: I'm not choosing side, like I'm seeing. I'm on, I'm

732
00:37:26,239 --> 00:37:29,120
Speaker 1: stepping out and I'm seeing both sides. And in that

733
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:30,879
Speaker 1: situation where he had with a friend, like I didn't

734
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 1: tell her to not be her friends. That's something that's

735
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:37,399
Speaker 1: something I had to learn myself and and accept that

736
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:40,680
Speaker 1: not everybody's like me, Not everybody has the same heart

737
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:43,319
Speaker 1: that I have. People are not going to do the

738
00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 1: same things that I do, and just is what it is.

739
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 1: So did you ever get an apology? Yes, I had

740
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 1: an apology before the show. Back up when I say

741
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 1: that was a wound that had stitches on it and

742
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:04,839
Speaker 1: was feeling and cut that think about the show, like

743
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 1: you get the situation we were in with the show,

744
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 1: We would never be in that situation like my mom,

745
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 1: my sister, my best friend, her dad, and her two

746
00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:16,840
Speaker 1: sisters and we all in one house, no TV, no phones,

747
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:19,279
Speaker 1: no internet, you know nothing, and all we got is

748
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:25,279
Speaker 1: a whole bunch of Hennessy. Hold on, hold hold on.

749
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 1: But this is another thing that I learned from that situation,

750
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:30,839
Speaker 1: because what I always try to do is even when

751
00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:33,759
Speaker 1: I feel like you're wrong, Okay, what can I get

752
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 1: better at? Where where is my self reflection in this situation?

753
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 1: And I think that that was although I knew it,

754
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 1: it was just a life situation for me to learn

755
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:46,960
Speaker 1: and understand because I knew, but I didn't quite understand

756
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 1: women love differently than men, because even in that situation

757
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 1: in the house, I would have done things differently just

758
00:38:56,719 --> 00:39:00,319
Speaker 1: because like we love differently, you know what I'm saying.

759
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 1: And I can't expect a man to love the way

760
00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:04,160
Speaker 1: I love, no more than he can expect me to

761
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:06,200
Speaker 1: love the way that he loves. Doesn't mean, anybody loves

762
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 1: anybody less. No, how do you guys deal with that?

763
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:11,719
Speaker 1: It's me and one of my good friends. We've been

764
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 1: having this conversation for a while where men and women

765
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 1: are different. Right, in certain instances, men react differently, So

766
00:39:18,440 --> 00:39:20,400
Speaker 1: how do you guys deal with that? Is there anything

767
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:22,399
Speaker 1: that he does as a man where you're like, oh,

768
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 1: well that's a man thing. Let me just not take

769
00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:26,759
Speaker 1: it personal or vice versa. Now I tell them how

770
00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 1: I feel because although you're a man, you love differently,

771
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:32,200
Speaker 1: you understand differently. I can teach you how to love me.

772
00:39:32,920 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 1: So I'm very vocal and I think sometimes or in

773
00:39:35,840 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 1: previous relationships, I expected a man to read my mind.

774
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 1: Oh that hurt me. You didn't know that. You're not dumb.

775
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:41,279
Speaker 1: I know that you get there and it's like, you

776
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:43,359
Speaker 1: know what, sometimes like you be dumb and they don't know.

777
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 1: Just a different language. I think that men and women

778
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:49,520
Speaker 1: have or also like even when men like retract when

779
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:52,319
Speaker 1: there's an issue, they kind of like clam into their shell,

780
00:39:53,160 --> 00:39:55,360
Speaker 1: blow over, yeah, versus as a women, we like to,

781
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 1: like you said, talk about things, express ourselves and men

782
00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:00,840
Speaker 1: like to fall back. So like they're lot of differences

783
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:08,480
Speaker 1: between say, I fall back like, I get right to it.

784
00:40:09,680 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 1: I used to be a bad guy, Like I used

785
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:12,920
Speaker 1: to be like, you know what, I'm mad, I'm not

786
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 1: gonna say nothing because if I say something when i'm mad,

787
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:16,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say some ship. That's that's you know, I'm

788
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 1: gonna say something wrong. I'm gonna later on. But then

789
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 1: when me and her started dating, I was like, you

790
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:23,919
Speaker 1: know what, I'm gonna take your head on. I'm gonna

791
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 1: talk about it right now. And when it worked and

792
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:30,400
Speaker 1: you get used to that, you're like, damn, why did

793
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:31,880
Speaker 1: not do this with all these others? You know what

794
00:40:31,920 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Well, we wouldn't be here, right, we wouldn't

795
00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:43,239
Speaker 1: be here. And I want to see what y'all think

796
00:40:43,239 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 1: about this. Okay, So the story is this, one in

797
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 1: five people have ended intercourse because of their partner's sexy

798
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 1: talk turning them off, And it says a new study

799
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:55,040
Speaker 1: breaks down how and when talking dirty can actually kill

800
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:56,799
Speaker 1: the moment. So you know how you could be in

801
00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:59,280
Speaker 1: bed and y'all are like talking nasty and then somebody

802
00:40:59,320 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 1: say something and just ruins it for you in that moment.

803
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:04,279
Speaker 1: Has that ever happened to you? And what kind of

804
00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:07,800
Speaker 1: things do you guys say to each other in the bedroom.

805
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 1: He's never said anything that has turned me off. He's

806
00:41:11,800 --> 00:41:16,280
Speaker 1: done something and pissed me. Be healed. Any think it's funny,

807
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:19,280
Speaker 1: but when I say it's not fun like laughing so clearly,

808
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:24,319
Speaker 1: so like I'm the overly six, Like my sex job

809
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 1: is way hard, and he's like I can have sex

810
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:27,319
Speaker 1: every day, three four times a day and would not

811
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 1: get tired. I don't know what's the birthday. I'm a scorpio.

812
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 1: Hold on. So like with her, I feel like I

813
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 1: gotta like sanction the sex out, like, okay, we did

814
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:44,080
Speaker 1: it three times this week, give me to three days

815
00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:47,080
Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna put you on punishment. You sit

816
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:49,239
Speaker 1: down for a minute and then let it ran back

817
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,279
Speaker 1: like she's like two or three times a day. But

818
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:54,640
Speaker 1: my thing is when he say what he won't he

819
00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:57,719
Speaker 1: gets it? No if hey, because if I don't do it,

820
00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:01,960
Speaker 1: they're Susie and Beth, Lilian and Ashen like there's all

821
00:42:02,000 --> 00:42:03,839
Speaker 1: types of people. So yeah, I ain't gonna never give

822
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:05,799
Speaker 1: you space. Me and him can be in the car

823
00:42:06,320 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 1: and on the way home and I'm like, babeen, I

824
00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:09,319
Speaker 1: cat home. I want here tonight, I want you want

825
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 1: you get hit And guess what he want to do

826
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 1: it that day, not the next day, day three. So

827
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:18,399
Speaker 1: i'm he had done this and I have been telling

828
00:42:18,440 --> 00:42:20,400
Speaker 1: him what I wanted to do and could I initiate

829
00:42:20,440 --> 00:42:22,280
Speaker 1: it and get it done yet? But it's the principle.

830
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:26,320
Speaker 1: I told you hold on to finish this because he

831
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:29,040
Speaker 1: when I say pissed me off, he kissed me off.

832
00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 1: So it's been like four days. I haven't been throwing

833
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 1: hands and been saying little stuff. Most of the time

834
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:36,680
Speaker 1: I either sleep in something sattin or nothing at all.

835
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:40,759
Speaker 1: So we're in the bed and we're laying and he initiates,

836
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:43,799
Speaker 1: but he does it like half fast. He's playing with me.

837
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 1: It's not funny. He's playing with me. He's funny. So, babe,

838
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 1: you want me to crawl over there on you, don't you?

839
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:56,479
Speaker 1: And then he hold on, hold on. He wasn't nice,

840
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:58,400
Speaker 1: but it's been other times. He's hot. Don't say that

841
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 1: to me like it's a like. Then when he gets

842
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 1: on top of me, like he's tired, but he's also playing.

843
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:08,120
Speaker 1: And when he when I said, you know what, you're good,

844
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 1: he was like, nah, girl, you know I'm just playing,

845
00:43:10,239 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 1: said get the like, stop it, I ain't playing, man.

846
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 1: I think like I was three D sixty five days.

847
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:24,319
Speaker 1: I probably DJ three hundred out of those days, right, like,

848
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 1: so that's not an excuse. But at that moment, I

849
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 1: was tired of me. I'm just like, I don't like,

850
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:34,759
Speaker 1: you don't have to tell me you want say, just

851
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:37,399
Speaker 1: do it, like, just go for it, Like I don't

852
00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 1: like the announcements, Just do it, Like then why don't

853
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:44,360
Speaker 1: you just do what made you not doing? Two days prior?

854
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:51,280
Speaker 1: Exactly when she said ext I was probably tired because

855
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:53,040
Speaker 1: you like, if you're not too tired to go out

856
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:58,399
Speaker 1: in DJ, right, but see sometimes but I also kind

857
00:43:58,400 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 1: of like for her to wait sometimes because she'd be

858
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 1: so ready and I'm like, I'm gonna how you wait

859
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:10,719
Speaker 1: for me? And it's not torture, it's just you know,

860
00:44:11,680 --> 00:44:22,480
Speaker 1: but what he's doing. Have you ever had somebody in

861
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 1: the bedroom say weird things to you, like you're a

862
00:44:24,719 --> 00:44:28,439
Speaker 1: bad little girl or like something like that completely makes

863
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:30,759
Speaker 1: you be like, I gotta give me whole baby talk

864
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 1: like I would have smeck no, no, please, not a

865
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:40,640
Speaker 1: little booty. I shouldn't rest feed him, you know what

866
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:46,480
Speaker 1: I mean? For drink drink. He was actually doing the

867
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 1: baby talk while sucking on my bride. Yo, I swear

868
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:59,240
Speaker 1: the baby talk the baby too, So we were cutting

869
00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:07,120
Speaker 1: on my two of them. Question, you had a baby,

870
00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:09,959
Speaker 1: You know when your milk drops in your breast every

871
00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 1: time you have sex, even if you don't breastfeed in

872
00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 1: the beginning, that milk comes to handle it. You don't

873
00:45:15,719 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 1: like that, y'all handle having milk all over during I

874
00:45:19,120 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 1: was seventeen, I don't even know. Yeah, and my um

875
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:25,840
Speaker 1: for me, the milk came out for like two years,

876
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 1: like it was like glands, like like if I squeezed it,

877
00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:31,840
Speaker 1: you could see it will come out. Was that happened

878
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:36,120
Speaker 1: when he was doing the baby's home? No, no, no, no, no, no, no,

879
00:45:43,600 --> 00:45:47,839
Speaker 1: he was. He was doing he was leaking for two years.

880
00:45:47,840 --> 00:45:51,279
Speaker 1: He kept saying he was doing a baby talk to

881
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:56,880
Speaker 1: get that milk. That's what he Honestly. My daughter is

882
00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:58,959
Speaker 1: twenty three years old, so I was pregnant a really

883
00:45:58,960 --> 00:46:01,719
Speaker 1: long time ago. I don't remember. I just remember them

884
00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 1: being really big, like I have breast and plans right now.

885
00:46:04,239 --> 00:46:06,880
Speaker 1: But I was originally like a thirty four A And

886
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:09,920
Speaker 1: I remember like after having my daughter for weeks and

887
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:12,359
Speaker 1: months after that. I was just like a big at

888
00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:14,680
Speaker 1: sea cup for a while before it all dried out

889
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 1: and then here we are. But I guess all I remember, though,

890
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 1: I don't remember new milk or leaking or new postpartum

891
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:23,439
Speaker 1: or nothing. I did. I sped my son. I brought

892
00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 1: friend my son for like eight nine months, which was

893
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:31,280
Speaker 1: hard at breast, fine for breast for like eight nine minutes.

894
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:33,719
Speaker 1: Lever had sex with the kids in the bed. But

895
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:36,760
Speaker 1: he bit he like bit on me. Used to be like, no,

896
00:46:37,000 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 1: but I didn't have sex when I was pregnant with him. Yeah, okay,

897
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:44,879
Speaker 1: not with somebody else. No, I'm not act had sex

898
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:47,799
Speaker 1: about you were pregnant. No, well no, well I'm talking

899
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 1: about like tours that end like big pregnant. Okay, Like,

900
00:46:50,320 --> 00:46:54,400
Speaker 1: doesn't that help? I was third master, Yeah I was.

901
00:46:54,440 --> 00:46:56,439
Speaker 1: I was hoping that would, which is why I wanted

902
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:58,439
Speaker 1: to do it. He was didn't want to do it, though,

903
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 1: But when it got to a certain actually made me

904
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:06,320
Speaker 1: go out into labor, saying me that, like, once the

905
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:08,879
Speaker 1: doctor cleared you to have sex, your baby is still

906
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 1: a baby. Your baby never been in the bed, and

907
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 1: y'all got it on, like oh yeah, it was different.

908
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:17,719
Speaker 1: I still lived at home mom. When when my son

909
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 1: was a little newborn, you know, we were all together

910
00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 1: and you know, we might have had real fast while

911
00:47:23,239 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 1: he was sleeping in the bed. And I'm not gonna

912
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:33,239
Speaker 1: lie that biggest because like know anything that baby. But

913
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:37,839
Speaker 1: remember eight, Like I feel no, but I actually went

914
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:40,400
Speaker 1: into labor having sex because I was a monster when

915
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:42,760
Speaker 1: I was pregnant. I just could not have stopped having sex.

916
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:44,480
Speaker 1: Like I would wake him up in the middle of night,

917
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:46,319
Speaker 1: like come on, let's go. I would be mad at him,

918
00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:51,719
Speaker 1: like that's what I'm trying to because my sex drive

919
00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:53,200
Speaker 1: is going to go up even more when I get

920
00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:57,840
Speaker 1: When you get pregnant, yeah, man, she keeps talking about this,

921
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:06,840
Speaker 1: I want already happened. I went into labor having sex,

922
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:11,399
Speaker 1: like right when we finished, I got the contractions. Oh yeah, yeah,

923
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:20,520
Speaker 1: I got the contractions and the baby. Yeah. Once I

924
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:22,840
Speaker 1: did the same thing I wished the first time, and

925
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:24,719
Speaker 1: my mother was like what My mother was like, what

926
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 1: are you doing? Like you don't even know what you're doing.

927
00:48:27,520 --> 00:48:31,359
Speaker 1: And I was like right, and she's like, bite down

928
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:33,319
Speaker 1: on your teeth and do the right way. You don't

929
00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 1: messed us off. Oh we're good and like you do.

930
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:39,680
Speaker 1: I swear I didn't hear nothing. All I could here

931
00:48:39,800 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 1: was my mother. That's it, my mom and my ear

932
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 1: Like you're doing it wrong, do it the right way?

933
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:49,720
Speaker 1: What's sex different after having kids the first time? Because,

934
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 1: like I said, with me and my son's father, we

935
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:55,440
Speaker 1: got pregnant five months into our relationship. We ended up

936
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:58,200
Speaker 1: staying together for eight years, but we we got pregning

937
00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:00,719
Speaker 1: five months into our relationship. So we basically we got

938
00:49:00,719 --> 00:49:03,000
Speaker 1: to know each other while I was pregnant, you know

939
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:06,320
Speaker 1: what I mean. And we were just having sex, mad sex.

940
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:09,319
Speaker 1: We were always like rabbits, always having sex. That's how

941
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 1: we got pregnant. So so you know exactly, you know

942
00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:15,880
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So so you know, they give you

943
00:49:15,920 --> 00:49:18,960
Speaker 1: thirty days. You can have sex after thirty days after

944
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:22,040
Speaker 1: you give birth. So we're like counting the days. We're

945
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 1: like counting the days. And on that first thirtieth day,

946
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:27,720
Speaker 1: like yes, we could do it, and it was whack.

947
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:35,400
Speaker 1: It was horrible. It just didn't feel It's just six weeks. Yeah, no,

948
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:41,440
Speaker 1: we waited thirty days. Yeah, yeah, you were ready. You

949
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:43,880
Speaker 1: weren't ready. I didn't hurt, it didn't hurt. It just

950
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:48,520
Speaker 1: didn't feel healed. But yeah, with my oldest daughter, I

951
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 1: had sex right around the same time that you did.

952
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:53,360
Speaker 1: But the reason mine was so painful I had in

953
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 1: a psotomy with her. Oh my doctor gave me a

954
00:49:57,680 --> 00:50:08,560
Speaker 1: brand new couchie to brush out the box. It was

955
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 1: complete and the necessarily, Jay, did you know about all this?

956
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:20,160
Speaker 1: Like do you know these? Yeah? I mean she talks

957
00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 1: about stuff like this all the time, Like we're wearing

958
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 1: the random strangers and everything and everything. So I'd be like, oh,

959
00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:29,880
Speaker 1: you got a brand new and out the box, so

960
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:34,880
Speaker 1: you know. Like like with her, everything is like like

961
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 1: she's like that's one thing that really attracts me to her,

962
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:41,279
Speaker 1: Like she's awesome mom, Like she loves her kids are

963
00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:43,759
Speaker 1: kids like no other. Like when I first met her,

964
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:46,960
Speaker 1: it was like she she thought that was gonna scare

965
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:50,319
Speaker 1: me away, like we were the way. Yeah, she tried

966
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 1: to run me off and we met well, she says

967
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:57,920
Speaker 1: we met before. But the thing about her is like

968
00:50:58,000 --> 00:50:59,719
Speaker 1: every time she changed her here she looked like a

969
00:50:59,760 --> 00:51:04,560
Speaker 1: totally different person. I met it before. Everybody that everybody

970
00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:06,960
Speaker 1: says that. So when I met her and she so

971
00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:09,239
Speaker 1: the next time I met her, she's like we met before.

972
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know you Like, She's like, no,

973
00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 1: when I had my old box exactly like the first. So,

974
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:21,759
Speaker 1: you know, like she ended up coming to a fight

975
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:25,360
Speaker 1: party I was doing, and you know, after the fight party,

976
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:27,800
Speaker 1: we ended up going Uh. I was like, hey, what

977
00:51:27,800 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 1: are you about to do? And she was like, you know.

978
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 1: I told her she was trying to go to some

979
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 1: other spot and I was like, we're not going there.

980
00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 1: We're going to this new spot. So we got there

981
00:51:38,600 --> 00:51:40,719
Speaker 1: and there was a line. I'm like, She's like, I'm

982
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:44,400
Speaker 1: not waiting. No, line said, I don't, no, no, no,

983
00:51:44,560 --> 00:51:47,240
Speaker 1: she said, there's a big line here. I'm not waiting

984
00:51:47,280 --> 00:52:17,000
Speaker 1: on line general pop we do is oh never mind? Okay, yeah,

985
00:52:19,960 --> 00:52:23,719
Speaker 1: line and now a girl standing in the line of

986
00:52:23,800 --> 00:52:29,160
Speaker 1: the bathroom type of lines let me, I'm just gonna

987
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:33,400
Speaker 1: sit my drink. We had already met six weeks before.

988
00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:36,759
Speaker 1: We followed your other on social media, following her and

989
00:52:36,800 --> 00:52:42,600
Speaker 1: didn't remember. No, wait a minute, she slid in my

990
00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:47,160
Speaker 1: d M. She slipped, but wasn't that type of slide.

991
00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:51,360
Speaker 1: I had just got my real estate licensing texts you

992
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:56,160
Speaker 1: fucking light line. We had a mutual friend. He had

993
00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:59,239
Speaker 1: a whole girlfriend and she was dat my cousins. He

994
00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:04,839
Speaker 1: was your cousin. No more like your mom. Oh oh

995
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:08,440
Speaker 1: he killed me with this ship. Your mom and this

996
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:11,840
Speaker 1: dude's uncle divorced when he was like sixteen or seventeen

997
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:14,680
Speaker 1: years old. Cousin. They don't know each other like they

998
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:16,839
Speaker 1: knew of each other. Okay, you see what I'm saying.

999
00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:20,759
Speaker 1: He claims you that's his cousin because we had the

1000
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:24,480
Speaker 1: same last name at one point in time. Yeah, at

1001
00:53:24,480 --> 00:53:34,400
Speaker 1: one point was your cousin. Now he's not married. Okay,

1002
00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: but so, like long story short, we I take it

1003
00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:41,719
Speaker 1: to the club, were talking and everything, and she was like,

1004
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:43,279
Speaker 1: you know you're gonna fall in love. I'm gonna make

1005
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:45,280
Speaker 1: you fall in love with me. You're skipping the beginning.

1006
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:48,239
Speaker 1: We met through a mutual friend at a club. His

1007
00:53:48,440 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 1: cousin had pissed me off, so I'm like, hey, take

1008
00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:53,600
Speaker 1: me out, let's go out. Shut up. I did this.

1009
00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 1: You just want to look with the quotes. So I

1010
00:53:57,520 --> 00:54:00,160
Speaker 1: had just got into real estate. Everybody I met that

1011
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 1: night I sent the same copy and pace. Hey, nice

1012
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:04,279
Speaker 1: to meet you, Hopeully, I'll see your out of town.

1013
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:09,000
Speaker 1: I'm trying to get my business in my name from

1014
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 1: there him and I liked pictures look at him over there.

1015
00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:13,719
Speaker 1: It wasn't even like that, you know, it was just

1016
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:17,879
Speaker 1: a mutual You think he was cute, not like that.

1017
00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:20,920
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest. I gotta be one hundred sympathy transparent.

1018
00:54:21,239 --> 00:54:24,360
Speaker 1: We come from two different worlds. He's in an urban world, single,

1019
00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:28,120
Speaker 1: DJ me, I make six figures, divorce mom too. I'm

1020
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:31,839
Speaker 1: thig he was. He was, but it wasn't about money

1021
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:33,960
Speaker 1: because I'm like, I can take care of myself. Who's

1022
00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:36,200
Speaker 1: gonna be a father figure. Let me be real. I

1023
00:54:36,200 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 1: had already been through a divorce with my girl's dad.

1024
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 1: I'm thinking I'm gonna have, you know, white collar lawyer, doctor,

1025
00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:43,879
Speaker 1: somebody's a great role model. And sometimes God would deliver

1026
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 1: packages to you in a box that you don't recognize him, right,

1027
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:49,680
Speaker 1: So when I'm seeing him, no, that was not attractive

1028
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:52,759
Speaker 1: to me. So six weeks circle back around. It was

1029
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:56,040
Speaker 1: a Floyd Mayweather Coo McGregor fight. So my dude that

1030
00:54:56,120 --> 00:54:57,959
Speaker 1: I was talking to, we was already on tail again,

1031
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:01,880
Speaker 1: hadn't and really getting along, had been sick off of me,

1032
00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:04,920
Speaker 1: been talking and stuff. So I'm like, you know I'm

1033
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:06,239
Speaker 1: going out to not you just think going to piss

1034
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:07,319
Speaker 1: me off. But I ain't been sit in the house

1035
00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:10,279
Speaker 1: because he's tripping. So he had just posted, Hey, having

1036
00:55:10,280 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 1: a watch party d M if you want the location.

1037
00:55:13,040 --> 00:55:15,200
Speaker 1: So that's watched him. I seen some eyes like where

1038
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 1: is it at you? So they were cousins. After we

1039
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:30,680
Speaker 1: sat together, she asked me my name was, and she

1040
00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:32,520
Speaker 1: was like, what's your last name? And I told him

1041
00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:35,720
Speaker 1: my last name. She was like, so this is what happened.

1042
00:55:36,040 --> 00:55:39,719
Speaker 1: We went to that party. Your last name. It was different,

1043
00:55:40,680 --> 00:55:52,600
Speaker 1: different last They don't have anymore. They don't night. He

1044
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:54,960
Speaker 1: went to the club after, I mean not to the club.

1045
00:55:55,000 --> 00:55:57,160
Speaker 1: We went to the watch party to watch the fight.

1046
00:55:57,200 --> 00:55:59,640
Speaker 1: After the fight was over, I'm trying to walk out.

1047
00:55:59,640 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 1: He day one. We always kind of competed with each other.

1048
00:56:02,719 --> 00:56:04,520
Speaker 1: He told me, ill a little club you're going to whack.

1049
00:56:04,560 --> 00:56:06,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, this little nigg over here, Okay, I'm gonna go.

1050
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:08,960
Speaker 1: So we when we get to the club, I'm a lightweight.

1051
00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:12,400
Speaker 1: Even being with him for three years, I drink, yeah

1052
00:56:14,520 --> 00:56:17,200
Speaker 1: at all kind of family secrets. But we go to

1053
00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:20,000
Speaker 1: the club. I had eleven shots and three sex on

1054
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:25,320
Speaker 1: the beaches shot. That was me like shot. I'm like,

1055
00:56:27,680 --> 00:56:31,120
Speaker 1: so I ran from So the club ended that too,

1056
00:56:31,360 --> 00:56:33,840
Speaker 1: around one forty. So we start kissing in the club.

1057
00:56:34,200 --> 00:56:39,120
Speaker 1: She told me, She told me, she told me, I'm

1058
00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 1: we over here talking and everything, and this one she

1059
00:56:41,080 --> 00:56:43,319
Speaker 1: was like, I got kids. I'm like, so I go

1060
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:45,080
Speaker 1: to a page. I started liking all the pictures with

1061
00:56:45,080 --> 00:56:47,440
Speaker 1: the kids and everything. I don't get flirting in the

1062
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:50,520
Speaker 1: like OK my face, and I'm like, you need a

1063
00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 1: bad life right now. But then then she told me,

1064
00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 1: She's like, well, I bet you won't kiss me. I'm like, whatever,

1065
00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:04,600
Speaker 1: come on, came and put him off of me in

1066
00:57:04,680 --> 00:57:07,279
Speaker 1: a video. I had red lipstick. All the ships go

1067
00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:10,359
Speaker 1: to the bathroom and seen your face, So come back

1068
00:57:10,400 --> 00:57:12,880
Speaker 1: in the bath The kiss was like that girl, you know,

1069
00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:16,320
Speaker 1: we were in I'm talking about think about three to

1070
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:19,600
Speaker 1: four minutes in the club, just lip locking. I got

1071
00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 1: a group of friends watching. So I go to the

1072
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 1: bathroom and see my face. That kind of sold me up.

1073
00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:28,920
Speaker 1: I'm like tripping right. So I'm the bathroom, I have

1074
00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:31,120
Speaker 1: a peptone. I said, hey, I'm gonna grab my purse.

1075
00:57:31,120 --> 00:57:32,680
Speaker 1: We's gonna go. She was like, when are you telling

1076
00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:35,240
Speaker 1: nobody shut then up trying to go out. I said,

1077
00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:37,240
Speaker 1: I feel I said, I'm twenty nine. I ain't ever

1078
00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:38,640
Speaker 1: been a hold my whole life. I'm gonna have a

1079
00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:42,000
Speaker 1: whole night tonight. We don't get about this club. Go

1080
00:57:42,160 --> 00:57:45,200
Speaker 1: shut the funk up. I go to my car, but

1081
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 1: it was his car, my car, his friends car. We

1082
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:49,120
Speaker 1: get to the car, I'm like, okay, give me five minutes.

1083
00:57:49,560 --> 00:57:50,920
Speaker 1: Let me just sit here for a second because I'm

1084
00:57:51,160 --> 00:57:57,160
Speaker 1: I'm drunk. So I rolled my chair back and on

1085
00:57:57,200 --> 00:58:03,160
Speaker 1: the window. At leaving, I left the window that. He

1086
00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:05,400
Speaker 1: was like, you're running from me. I was like, uh,

1087
00:58:05,680 --> 00:58:07,160
Speaker 1: we just came to the car because we wanted to

1088
00:58:07,160 --> 00:58:08,960
Speaker 1: beat the crowd. He said, So y'all wasn't gonna see by.

1089
00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:14,880
Speaker 1: You had to stay right there because I wanted to

1090
00:58:14,960 --> 00:58:18,360
Speaker 1: keep spending something. So wait, did y'all leave together that night?

1091
00:58:19,440 --> 00:58:21,680
Speaker 1: So we go across the street to get tacos. Here

1092
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:23,520
Speaker 1: he go, I don't do lines. He thought he was

1093
00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:25,160
Speaker 1: gonna get this line. They told his ask was an

1094
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:28,840
Speaker 1: our weight. So everybody leaving, and everybody had left except

1095
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 1: my cousin and one of his friends. And his friend

1096
00:58:30,400 --> 00:58:33,120
Speaker 1: won't feeling my cousin. He was like bye. So he

1097
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 1: was like, where y'all gonna go. We're gonna go get

1098
00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:37,000
Speaker 1: us something to eat. And I was like, where you stay?

1099
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:39,320
Speaker 1: And he told me where he stayed. I told him

1100
00:58:39,320 --> 00:58:40,960
Speaker 1: where I stayed. I was like, oh, we're like twenty

1101
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:43,360
Speaker 1: five minutes apart. I'll catch I'm trying to shoot him off.

1102
00:58:43,400 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 1: He was like, and I had a flight to catch them.

1103
00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:50,440
Speaker 1: I'll follow you home. Follow me. He followed me home.

1104
00:58:50,480 --> 00:58:52,120
Speaker 1: I'm thinking all three of us gonna go eat. My

1105
00:58:52,160 --> 00:58:53,440
Speaker 1: cousin was like, gir, I'm not gonna be a third

1106
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:56,840
Speaker 1: will and she left. I stayed upstairs twenty minutes, hoping

1107
00:58:56,840 --> 00:58:59,600
Speaker 1: he would just drive off. He waited, So I go

1108
00:58:59,680 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 1: down years we go to Danny's. We talked to Danny's

1109
00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:06,800
Speaker 1: for seven hours. Damn seven hours. We talked that night.

1110
00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:11,280
Speaker 1: Followed me back to my house. So then I got

1111
00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:14,840
Speaker 1: the draws cut off before we got out the car.

1112
00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:16,840
Speaker 1: I looked at him. I'm like, so you want to

1113
00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:18,840
Speaker 1: come upstairs? I said, I'm telling you right now, you're

1114
00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:26,520
Speaker 1: not sucking. You can stay. I said, I'm too shot

1115
00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:35,160
Speaker 1: shot right. It was a sex on the beach. I

1116
00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:38,120
Speaker 1: had a fight. I changed my flight, he changed. But

1117
00:59:38,200 --> 00:59:44,720
Speaker 1: listen everything happened, how we should those shots so congratulated empties.

1118
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:47,280
Speaker 1: I said that all the time. Sometimes the first you

1119
00:59:47,320 --> 00:59:49,680
Speaker 1: can have sex with somebody, you can make them way

1120
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:51,720
Speaker 1: to hear you can make them do it on the

1121
00:59:51,760 --> 00:59:55,080
Speaker 1: first night. It doesn't it doesn't make a difference. I

1122
00:59:55,080 --> 00:59:57,200
Speaker 1: met somebody in the club one time and slept with

1123
00:59:57,280 --> 00:59:59,440
Speaker 1: him the first night and we had a four year relationship.

1124
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:03,240
Speaker 1: Do you know the first night? Yeah, just don't and

1125
01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:06,720
Speaker 1: so don't get head and head man. Yeah, I was

1126
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:10,160
Speaker 1: gonna say, first of the first time game, you head first,

1127
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:12,280
Speaker 1: are the first first had and you can give him

1128
01:00:12,320 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 1: head the first time. Yeah, she pulled on the first

1129
01:00:19,600 --> 01:00:21,480
Speaker 1: on the first night. That we got sex on the

1130
01:00:21,560 --> 01:00:23,480
Speaker 1: first night. But you still gotta hold back. It's what

1131
01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:24,960
Speaker 1: you say. You got to hold back at That's what

1132
01:00:25,000 --> 01:00:28,320
Speaker 1: I said people the first night. And I was like,

1133
01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:30,640
Speaker 1: all right, I'm gonna play your game. I can invest

1134
01:00:30,680 --> 01:00:35,800
Speaker 1: in the box. All right, Well, I appreciate you all

1135
01:00:35,800 --> 01:00:39,160
Speaker 1: for coming on because and fiance, you know, we saw

1136
01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:41,400
Speaker 1: that on it, but we didn't get the full right

1137
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:47,080
Speaker 1: in the area personality. So you know, they show what

1138
01:00:47,120 --> 01:00:48,680
Speaker 1: they want to show. You notice how they do. But

1139
01:00:48,720 --> 01:00:50,520
Speaker 1: I think this was very great for people to be

1140
01:00:50,600 --> 01:00:54,840
Speaker 1: able to see very informant saving of how y'all man

1141
01:00:54,840 --> 01:01:00,000
Speaker 1: and everything good? All right, well, thank you so much, Dre.

1142
01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:03,480
Speaker 1: You appreciated family. Are we going to get updates on it?

1143
01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:07,720
Speaker 1: Like or um? We don't know, you know, we we

1144
01:01:08,000 --> 01:01:10,880
Speaker 1: we have our own little situation we're working on right now.

1145
01:01:10,960 --> 01:01:16,600
Speaker 1: So okay, yeah, we're gonna send off situation. Okay, that

1146
01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:19,360
Speaker 1: makes sense. I can see that because you'll have a

1147
01:01:19,600 --> 01:01:21,120
Speaker 1: you know, a situation that I'm sure a lot of

1148
01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:25,320
Speaker 1: people can relate to. Absolutely. Yeah, well that slips sense.