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Speaker 1: This is the most dramatic podcast ever and iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 1: Chris Harrison and Lauren Zema coming to you from the

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Speaker 1: home office in Austin, Texas. We are excited to team

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Speaker 1: up for today's interview because we both know and genuinely

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Speaker 1: like this guest so much that we wanted to do

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Speaker 1: this together. It is Pilot Pete Day. Peter Webber, who

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Speaker 1: is on Hannah Brown's season of the Bachelorette. Left broken hearted,

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Speaker 1: but then he became the star of his own show.

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Speaker 1: He was our bachelor and ended kind of well. Didn't

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Speaker 1: go well, ended well.

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Speaker 2: From an entertaining perspective, great television, didn't end great for Peter.

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Speaker 2: To refresh your memory, this was Madison, Pruett, Hannah and

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Speaker 2: sless Kelly Flanagan was involved and it all kind of

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Speaker 2: crash landed. I hate to say, but Peter is doing

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Speaker 2: so well and we're so excited to talk to him.

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Speaker 1: Peter Weber joins us now. And it has been too

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Speaker 1: long since I have seen you, my friend. How have

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Speaker 1: you been?

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Speaker 3: I've been good man, it has it's been it's been

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Speaker 3: a minute. I think what was the last time is

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Speaker 3: when you were moving out of out of West Westlake.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean that was Oh my gosh, you came

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Speaker 4: over with Kelly flanagain.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I forgot about that.

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Speaker 1: We had a glass of wine on our back patio.

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Speaker 1: It was Lauren and I and you and Kelly. You

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Speaker 1: guys kind of came and hit out and we just

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Speaker 1: sat and had a nice bottle of wine, and yeah,

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Speaker 1: that was the last time we saw you.

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Speaker 3: Do you remember when I would I'd fly my drone

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Speaker 3: over to your house from my house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do you remember that? We were like two kids.

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Speaker 1: It was like so so people that don't know Peter

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Speaker 1: lives in this thing called first neighborhood. I lived in

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Speaker 1: this little neighborhood called the Trails. We were up in

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Speaker 1: Westlake Village. Actually, bizarrely, as the crow flies, probably five

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Speaker 1: miles from the Bachelor Mansion is where Peter grew up

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Speaker 1: and where I lived. And if you you could almost

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Speaker 1: hit a golf ball from my back deck to Peter's

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Speaker 1: house and he would fly his drone and so he

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Speaker 1: would call or text me and I would walk out

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Speaker 1: and there'd be a drone right off my deck. And

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Speaker 1: it was it was we were like two kids with

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Speaker 1: walkie talkies. It's almost my brother and I we had

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Speaker 1: the soup cans with the strings. It's like Peter Peter

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Speaker 1: hear me. So yeah, we were like eight year olds.

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Speaker 3: I got I gotta find that because I recorded I

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Speaker 3: had that footage somewhere, so I gotta find that.

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Speaker 5: I walked out there.

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Speaker 1: It was it was really bizarre.

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Speaker 4: Wow, were you naked?

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Speaker 1: I was buck gass naked.

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Speaker 5: Yes, actually, we're not going to reveal that footage.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, dude, so so not much has changed since

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Speaker 1: the last time we saw you.

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Speaker 3: No, I mean a loe. Yeah, let's see. So I

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Speaker 3: was still living back. Yeah, I was living at home

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Speaker 3: and was like with my parents out there. I moved

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Speaker 3: out to UH to New York, New York City in

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Speaker 3: January of twenty one, and yeah, I've just been here

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Speaker 5: Been out here for about a year. Just renew my lease.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna be here at least one more year, and

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Speaker 3: just living the dream man flying for United based out

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Speaker 3: to Europe, about to Asia, India, South Africa. So really

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Speaker 3: really enjoying that, yeah, and just enjoying living in city.

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Speaker 2: But Peter, you're such a warm person. And I really

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Speaker 2: mean this. I was thinking about that because, by the way,

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Speaker 2: will pandemic time like threw us all off. I don't

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Speaker 2: know it was years, but was it. It feels like

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Speaker 2: no time has passed. But I just still feel it

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Speaker 2: doesn't feel like it's been that long, like I was wishing.

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Speaker 2: I was thinking today, I'm like, oh, yeah, well, I

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Speaker 2: forgot Peter couldn't come to the wedding.

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Speaker 4: Was that because you were filming Traders?

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Speaker 3: No, And I was so close. I was in Dallas

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Speaker 3: for another wedding I had to go to. Yeah, it

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Speaker 2: I know, I wish we'd seen you at the wedding,

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Speaker 2: But it doesn't feel like it's been that long. But

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Speaker 2: I was watching you on Traders. I was telling Chris this,

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Speaker 2: and by the way, I loved you on Traders. You

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Speaker 5: But I thank you.

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Speaker 4: It was such a different Peter.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, maybe it has been a couple of years,

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Speaker 2: because you seemed so grown up to me. You seemed

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Speaker 2: Like do you feel quite different now than you did

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Speaker 5: Absolutely? Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 3: And I mean I think I owe a lot of

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Speaker 3: that to honest in my experience, like getting into reality

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Speaker 3: I think a lot of that Also just moving to

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Speaker 3: But I've been, you know, super fortunate and and just

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Speaker 3: really enjoyed this time.

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Speaker 5: And I've had a lot of time on my own.

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Speaker 3: I've been by myself, you know a lot, and I

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Speaker 3: really never had, I guess, that opportunity until I came

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Speaker 3: heard that that kind of reception from a lot of people,

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Speaker 3: so I take it as a positive thing, and I

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Speaker 1: Cutting that ambilical cord. There is something about safety and

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Speaker 1: and whether it's your mom, dad, whatever, just you're at home, right.

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Speaker 1: It's and it's the friendly confines of you grew up

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Speaker 1: Growing when you were out on your own. Moving to

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Speaker 1: to speak. So it had to have been a good

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Speaker 5: It was great.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and listen, I definitely had you know, I think

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Speaker 5: The average person. Mom.

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Speaker 4: I forgot. Mom used to make breakfast for your dates.

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Speaker 2: I forgot about that barb God, what an kind of television.

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Speaker 1: I should have said, he cut the am barbical cord.

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Speaker 5: No, it was. It was great.

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Speaker 3: I mean, the good thing about when I was living

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Speaker 5: Still, I was gone at least half the.

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Speaker 3: getting comfortable into your own skin. Definitely was the move

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Speaker 5: This is I am obsessed with it out here.

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Speaker 3: It's funny like I feel like a lot of people,

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Speaker 3: Everyone thinks I'm crazy for doing that, all my colleagues,

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Speaker 3: and specifically this year, I've been saying, I don't know

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Speaker 2: Wow, look at and by the way I meant it

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Speaker 2: in the most complimentary way you want.

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Speaker 4: I know, Wow, So how do you feel like you've changed?

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Speaker 2: Like, there was one thing you said on Traders at

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Speaker 5: Well it was.

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Speaker 2: So that made me wonder was Peter just super stressed

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Speaker 4: Maybe it's both. How do you feel like you've changed totally?

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Speaker 3: So going back to that comment, I think, you know,

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Speaker 3: I just I love to reflect and I and I

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Speaker 3: But reflecting on my experience with The Bachelor, I I

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Speaker 3: At least I felt to, you know, give a certain

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Speaker 3: I showed exactly that I wasn't so much in that

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Speaker 3: And that's kind of just that's always been in my nature.

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Speaker 3: But I've definitely grown from that. And and I was

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Speaker 3: And I think I've done not just on you know,

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Speaker 3: to kind of change and evolve into something different about

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Speaker 5: My core and who I am and in my heart.

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Speaker 3: But I would say that's the biggest change I would see,

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Speaker 3: I would say for myself for sure up to this point.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's very interesting people that come from our show

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Speaker 1: translate to other shows very well. A, they're very beloved.

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Speaker 5: That's so true, Chris.

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Speaker 1: But it's something about you, how I guess the mental

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Speaker 1: gymnastics and emotional gymnastics we put you through on the

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Speaker 1: Bacher Bacherrette. You know, whether Tanna Brown and Tyler went

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Speaker 1: off to do that Special Forces thing, you've done, Traders

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Speaker 1: already did Traders. What is it do you think about

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Speaker 1: boot Camp Bachelor that prepares you for these other shows?

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Speaker 5: So well, that's a great question because you're you're spot on.

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Speaker 3: It's it's there's been a lot of success from the show,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I played hard. I played really hard. I wasn't

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Speaker 5: For whatever reason. I didn't realize people thought I was

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Speaker 4: I never thought you were dumb. You're a pilot.

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Speaker 4: God, Peter, you were in such a good place.

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Speaker 1: hung out by myself in Brisbane for like six days

438
00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:22,120
Speaker 1: when you two was there, went and saw you two

439
00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:22,760
Speaker 1: concert place.

440
00:19:22,800 --> 00:19:24,720
Speaker 2: Well that's when you went to that YouTube concert alone.

441
00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:27,800
Speaker 2: You went to a YouTube concert alone instead of hanging

442
00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:28,199
Speaker 2: out with you.

443
00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:29,640
Speaker 4: What a choice.

444
00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:31,720
Speaker 5: That's why we didn't get close on the show. Bro,

445
00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:33,920
Speaker 5: here's me for you.

446
00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:36,600
Speaker 1: No, it was me, not you. Yeah, I was k

447
00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:38,679
Speaker 1: I was in a dark place. It was weird, weird times.

448
00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:40,760
Speaker 3: You want to talk about that one of the hardest

449
00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:42,119
Speaker 3: parts and that it was with you?

450
00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:45,000
Speaker 5: Oh my god, I can I ask you a question?

451
00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:45,280
Speaker 3: Yeah?

452
00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:46,560
Speaker 5: You a lot to answer stuff.

453
00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:51,200
Speaker 3: Hell, yeah, honestly you really are of course, Okay, I've

454
00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:54,399
Speaker 3: always wondered this. Yeah, because you went to the hardest

455
00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:56,560
Speaker 3: part I ever went through where I like I was,

456
00:19:56,800 --> 00:19:57,840
Speaker 3: I was ready to concede.

457
00:19:57,920 --> 00:19:59,879
Speaker 5: I was like, I have nothing left to get strength.

458
00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:04,240
Speaker 3: Gone was the finale day when we're out at the

459
00:20:05,600 --> 00:20:07,720
Speaker 3: that like really beautiful setup right for the engage.

460
00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:12,240
Speaker 1: The most secluded place I've ever been, drove.

461
00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:13,359
Speaker 5: For like an hour in the middle of nowhere to

462
00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:14,480
Speaker 5: get there, now insane.

463
00:20:14,520 --> 00:20:16,920
Speaker 1: We put you by a pond. Yeah, and so I

464
00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:20,080
Speaker 1: came in. I came in and you were a mess.

465
00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:24,280
Speaker 3: Well yeah, but then what you told me just completely

466
00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:27,359
Speaker 3: destroyed me. And I think and then they even used it.

467
00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:28,800
Speaker 3: I mean, I know it was good TV, but they

468
00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:31,119
Speaker 3: used it to open up the season. But it was

469
00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,640
Speaker 3: like that line of you know, obviously I'd been going

470
00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:35,720
Speaker 3: through so much up to that point, and then you

471
00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:37,919
Speaker 3: tell them that Hannah and now doesn't know if she

472
00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:39,640
Speaker 3: wants to even show up, doesn't know if she wants

473
00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:42,000
Speaker 3: to come. And at that point, again, I can be

474
00:20:42,040 --> 00:20:46,240
Speaker 3: so brutally honest now, like I you know, I I.

475
00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:46,040
Speaker 5: There was pressure.

476
00:20:46,040 --> 00:20:47,879
Speaker 3: I probably should not have, you know, I shouldn't have

477
00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:50,800
Speaker 3: proposed to Hannah, and like I can honestly say that, and.

478
00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:54,000
Speaker 5: I got caught all caught.

479
00:20:53,880 --> 00:20:55,960
Speaker 3: Up in it for sure. But when you were saying

480
00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:58,640
Speaker 3: that to me, in my mind, I'm battling so much

481
00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:00,840
Speaker 3: here of can I is this the nything to do? Like,

482
00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:03,119
Speaker 3: I just feel so much pressure, I'm stressed out of

483
00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:06,200
Speaker 3: my mind. I'm exhausted, you know, what am I supposed

484
00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:07,280
Speaker 3: to do here? And then you told me that line

485
00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:08,720
Speaker 3: about how she doesn't even know if she wants to

486
00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:10,200
Speaker 3: come now at this point, and then I just I

487
00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:11,920
Speaker 3: think that's when I left, and like I think I

488
00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:14,720
Speaker 3: almost passed out. And uh that yeah, that you guys said,

489
00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:16,679
Speaker 3: have taken like that one of the houses there just

490
00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:17,840
Speaker 3: like lay on the bed because it was so.

491
00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:18,920
Speaker 5: Hot out outside as well?

492
00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:22,240
Speaker 3: Was that actually did they tell you to do that

493
00:21:22,640 --> 00:21:24,440
Speaker 3: or did she actually tell you that?

494
00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:26,359
Speaker 5: Was that for TV? Or what I've always wondered.

495
00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:28,359
Speaker 1: Number One, she did not tell me. I did not

496
00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:30,360
Speaker 1: talk to her. They would They would never. A producer

497
00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:33,119
Speaker 1: would never allow me to talk to her. A producer

498
00:21:33,160 --> 00:21:35,119
Speaker 1: told me one of them, and I forget who was it,

499
00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:37,000
Speaker 1: one of the executive producers, you know, just like three

500
00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:40,120
Speaker 1: or four of them. So what would have happened then

501
00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:44,000
Speaker 1: is I would have come into town. They would have

502
00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:47,160
Speaker 1: told me probably day of when I got there, this

503
00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:49,560
Speaker 1: is what's happened. You need to go out there and

504
00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:55,320
Speaker 1: tell Peter this is what she said. And then what then?

505
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:55,640
Speaker 5: Then?

506
00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:58,080
Speaker 1: What would happen is I would follow my heart and

507
00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:00,360
Speaker 1: my then I would just try to help any way

508
00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:02,280
Speaker 1: I could. So when I told you, and I think

509
00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:03,800
Speaker 1: we were outside when I told you, right, and it

510
00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:05,920
Speaker 1: was it was like one hundred and ten degrees we

511
00:22:05,960 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 1: are You might as well have shot this on the

512
00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:10,520
Speaker 1: on the sun. We're in the Sahara desert.

513
00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:12,439
Speaker 5: Up and suit it up.

514
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:15,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, suit it up, and we're by a pond. It

515
00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:17,800
Speaker 1: was really bizarre. And there was one house that had

516
00:22:17,920 --> 00:22:21,000
Speaker 1: aired air conditioning and you were starting to get faint,

517
00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:22,600
Speaker 1: and so we went in there. I remember you laying

518
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:24,680
Speaker 1: on the bed and we were just talking and we

519
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:27,359
Speaker 1: were just at that point talking. But no, how it

520
00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:29,399
Speaker 1: would have worked was executive producers would have told me.

521
00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:32,080
Speaker 1: I basically had my marching orders. I went out and

522
00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:35,080
Speaker 1: told you, and honestly, not knowing if it was true

523
00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 1: or false, I don't know. I trusted them to tell me.

524
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,479
Speaker 5: Yeah the truth, Okay.

525
00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:43,000
Speaker 3: I just had always wonder that because obviously she did

526
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:45,639
Speaker 3: show up. But yeah, I just remember, like, man, was

527
00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:48,560
Speaker 3: that because that would have hurt if it was like

528
00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 3: if that was done just for TV. At that point,

529
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:54,320
Speaker 3: I was like please, like I would hope they wouldn't

530
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:56,000
Speaker 3: have done that to me In that moment, just because

531
00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:58,320
Speaker 3: that was one of the that was the hardest.

532
00:22:58,400 --> 00:23:01,080
Speaker 5: Hardest part of that was that was I was just curious.

533
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:02,119
Speaker 1: That was absolutely good.

534
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:05,080
Speaker 2: Wait, I'm not remembering was there footage of her saying

535
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 2: she wasn't going to show up? Like was it true

536
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:08,679
Speaker 2: that she wasn't going to show up? And have you

537
00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 2: ever talked to her about it? I can't remember this.

538
00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:16,080
Speaker 5: There was no footage.

539
00:23:15,720 --> 00:23:19,040
Speaker 3: I remember I briefly like asked her something about it

540
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 3: because we were doing a like one of those hero

541
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:24,280
Speaker 3: shots after like we climbed up on this big rock

542
00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 3: and we had like the glass of champagne and like

543
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,040
Speaker 3: you know, cheers into like the end of the season

544
00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:32,120
Speaker 3: and like love and happiness and all that. And I honestly,

545
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:34,159
Speaker 3: I don't think I really brought it up to her

546
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,360
Speaker 3: again after that, just because I just kind of put

547
00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:39,560
Speaker 3: it behind me. I think she like vaguely asked her

548
00:23:39,600 --> 00:23:41,360
Speaker 3: was like no, like I was. I was. They had

549
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:42,639
Speaker 3: me like in a studio or in one of the

550
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,520
Speaker 3: houses for like a couple hours, but.

551
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,359
Speaker 5: Didn't get into too much detail. And that's on me.

552
00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:49,040
Speaker 3: And I really don't know actually why I didn't dive

553
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,080
Speaker 3: into that more with her, But I was just always curious.

554
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:52,040
Speaker 1: I'm going to get to the poll now.

555
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 4: We need to know.

556
00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:55,320
Speaker 2: I mean, I find Peter as I talked to him

557
00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 2: about these things more and you can tell me if

558
00:23:56,960 --> 00:24:02,119
Speaker 2: I'm misrepresenting this, babe. But you were produced to a

559
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 2: certain extent, it's like you, meaning Chris, you were aware.

560
00:24:06,160 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 2: You've been doing the show for years, and you're like

561
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,359
Speaker 2: aware of their tactics at this point, obviously one hundred

562
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 2: times more than someone knew who's coming in as a

563
00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:15,959
Speaker 2: contestant or a lead. But at the same time, you

564
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 2: don't know what you don't know, Like you have to

565
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:21,439
Speaker 2: just trust that your producer's telling you this person feels

566
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:24,120
Speaker 2: this way, because obviously you can't be like, well, roll

567
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:25,880
Speaker 2: the tape and show me everything, and I'm and Chris

568
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:28,560
Speaker 2: isn't there for everything. So to a certain extent, you

569
00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 2: have to like trust what the executive producer is telling you,

570
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 2: but you also can't guarantee and some little part of

571
00:24:33,880 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 2: your brain has to wonder are they lying?

572
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:35,439
Speaker 4: I don't know?

573
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:36,800
Speaker 1: And we would walk through it, you know, I would

574
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 1: ask you if they told me this is what you know, Hey,

575
00:24:39,280 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 1: we need you to say this. I'd be like, Okay,

576
00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:44,399
Speaker 1: well you know this is going to crush him or

577
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:46,040
Speaker 1: we might lose him and this might be the end

578
00:24:46,080 --> 00:24:47,439
Speaker 1: of the show. Are you guys aware that you know,

579
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 1: are we okay with this? And what I would also

580
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:53,119
Speaker 1: try to do, as you know, kind of host slash

581
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 1: producer because you always had that producer hat, because once

582
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:58,400
Speaker 1: I go into a scene with you, then it's kind

583
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:00,199
Speaker 1: of on me, you know, and I'm like, Okay, what

584
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 1: do you guys want out of this? What's the end goal?

585
00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:06,320
Speaker 1: Like is it to you know, obviously drama and the

586
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:10,240
Speaker 1: that is part of the goal, but also what is

587
00:25:10,280 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 1: our end result? Like are you okay with if Peter's

588
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 1: done and we just the show's over? And so you know,

589
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,080
Speaker 1: I do fire those questions back to try and like

590
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:22,680
Speaker 1: get a vibe of like what do you guys want

591
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:24,960
Speaker 1: out of this? What's the point? And there's things where

592
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:26,879
Speaker 1: they would push me too far or I think they

593
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:30,199
Speaker 1: would do something inappropriate where if I felt like it

594
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:35,400
Speaker 1: was real and it was honest, even if it was tough,

595
00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,440
Speaker 1: I would be okay with it. But if it crossed

596
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:40,879
Speaker 1: that line of just that ethical line, Like there was

597
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 1: stuff with Colton that I wouldn't say or do, or

598
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:45,719
Speaker 1: there was certain things that came to mind where I'm like, no,

599
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 1: I'm not going to say that on Life TV. I

600
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:51,120
Speaker 1: don't think that's fair. You know, even with your mom.

601
00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 1: There was stuff with your mom on the Live show

602
00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:55,440
Speaker 1: where they kind of wanted me to be harder or tougher,

603
00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:57,640
Speaker 1: and I'm like, no, like, that's this is his life,

604
00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:01,159
Speaker 1: you know, I take everyone got the picture.

605
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 5: Yeah.

606
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:04,640
Speaker 3: I remember hearing from one of the producers once they're

607
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:06,600
Speaker 3: kind of explaining they're really honest with me, and they're like,

608
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 3: and again, I get it, because this is it's it's

609
00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:11,160
Speaker 3: a it's a TV show. It's entertainment at the forefront

610
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 3: for everyone that's watching. But it was interesting. It was

611
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 3: like the an ideal season, one of the producers told me,

612
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:21,560
Speaker 3: was to have, you know, seventy five percent of it

613
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 3: where we can kind of churn up some drama and

614
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 3: make very difficult moments and.

615
00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:27,000
Speaker 5: Make opportunities for really good TV.

616
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 3: And but you do it to a certain extent where

617
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:33,400
Speaker 3: you can get that far along the show with maintaining

618
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 3: that level of just suspense and drama and all all

619
00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 3: the good stuff that people love to watch, but then

620
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 3: still the last twenty five percent be able to pull

621
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,639
Speaker 3: out that great love story and have it not be

622
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 3: affected too much with you know, you know, too much

623
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 3: maybe toxic here there or whatever it is affecting the

624
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 3: relationship to really give it a chance to kind of

625
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:52,119
Speaker 3: prosper in the real world. And it's and I remember

626
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:53,920
Speaker 3: them even saying like, it's a fine balance. And you

627
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:55,600
Speaker 3: obviously they're really good. They're good at what they do,

628
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:59,640
Speaker 3: and so that's you know, they've had really successful seasons

629
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 3: for that reason. But I always thought that was super interesting.

630
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 1: Do you know, ironically, do you know what the term

631
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 1: for that that they used. It's called landing the plane.

632
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 5: You want to push the turbulent flight, you want.

633
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:14,679
Speaker 1: To push the envelope. And this, I'm being dead serious,

634
00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 1: this is what we would call it landing the plane.

635
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 1: You want to push the envelope as far as you

636
00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 1: possibly can, but still land the plane. Wow, that's you

637
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 1: don't want everybody to sleep in the back. You want

638
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 1: you want the turbulence, you want a rocky road, but

639
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:29,679
Speaker 1: you also want to land at Lagordia.

640
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 3: And then the applause at the end for the landing,

641
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 3: What the hell you guys clapping and.

642
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 1: We all know, of course, you know, the plane's on autopilot.

643
00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 1: You're not really flying you were.

644
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 5: I just can't flying that whole damn season.

645
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:47,840
Speaker 2: Peter, your season was so good. I'm feeling nostalid. God,

646
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:50,119
Speaker 2: I missed that. It was such a good season, and

647
00:27:50,160 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 2: I mean that just from an like entertaining and I

648
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:55,040
Speaker 2: didn't know that you felt like it destroyed you though

649
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 2: I'm soaking that in. Did that make you hesitant to

650
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 2: go and do Traders and do any other shows?

651
00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 5: Yeah?

652
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,439
Speaker 3: I don't actually really think I've ever really told anyone that.

653
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 3: I mean close friends and everything, but like I'm not

654
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 3: like on a podcast or anything. And I guess destroyed

655
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 3: is like that's a strong word. Just again, very very

656
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:15,880
Speaker 3: low moments is something I would is how I would

657
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 3: describe what I went through. But I think no. With Traders,

658
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 3: it had just been so many years removed. It also

659
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 3: had nothing to do with love, which was great, and

660
00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:27,960
Speaker 3: I was like, you know what, maybe maybe I just

661
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 3: wasn't cut out for the whole love dating aspect. But

662
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:33,879
Speaker 3: you know, competition wise, that's always right up my alley,

663
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,639
Speaker 3: and I've always really been into that and always thrived

664
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:38,440
Speaker 3: in that environment too, just from you know, sports and

665
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:39,440
Speaker 3: high school and all that stuff.

666
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 5: But no, none of that.

667
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 3: None of those feelings really made me hesitant towards the traders.

668
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 3: It was it was funny that I remember, like the

669
00:28:46,920 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 3: first couple of days showing up and you know, for me,

670
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 3: like right, I had been removed for a couple of years,

671
00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:53,479
Speaker 3: so you're out of like this the comfort zone of

672
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 3: you seeing all these cameras around and the mics and everything,

673
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 3: and just like the sets and all.

674
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 1: That doing im interviews and.

675
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I almost you don't forget it, but kind of

676
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 3: got rusty with it. And I remember like the first

677
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 3: couple like the first day, I was like, I know

678
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 3: I've done this, I know I can do.

679
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 5: This, but I don't really feel comfortable yet.

680
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 3: Like I got to get my bearings back and it

681
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 3: quickly came back, and again the show was just it

682
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:18,880
Speaker 3: was It was stressful in other ways, but it was just.

683
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:21,680
Speaker 5: So damn fun Like I had the time of my life.

684
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 3: So there was never a moment from like why like

685
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 3: there was no low moments even when I got like banished.

686
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 5: It was it was just I appreciated the.

687
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 3: Competition of the game so damn much that I didn't

688
00:29:30,720 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 3: even worry about it like that.

689
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:48,360
Speaker 1: But I'm curious did you to piggyback off LZ? Was

690
00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 1: that low point exacerbated? Like did you feel like you

691
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: were abandoned by the show and kind of left on

692
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 1: your own? Or was it because of the response from

693
00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 1: the viewers? What do you feel gut you so much?

694
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:01,560
Speaker 1: What was it?

695
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 3: I think so for me, I a lot of people

696
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 3: always are surprised by this, but like me at my

697
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 3: core truly and I'll always be this way, Like I

698
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 3: am definitely a more reserved person. I've always described myself

699
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 3: as like a shyer person, and of course that makes

700
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 3: no sense to people when they say when they say, oh,

701
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 3: you've been on you know, a couple of these shows,

702
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 3: But I've also I've done that for a reason. I've

703
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 3: always been a believer in pushing yourself to do things

704
00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 3: to make yourself uncomfortable again and going back to the

705
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 3: whole growth aspect, I think that's what helps you get

706
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 3: to those points in the most efficient way. And so

707
00:30:37,960 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 3: as much as I was uncomfortable a lot of the cases,

708
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 3: I was okay with that. But again going back to

709
00:30:44,120 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 3: like how I've just I've always been more of a

710
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:49,880
Speaker 3: private person, a shyer guy, more reserved, and then you

711
00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 3: get you know, your life changes overnight. And when it's

712
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:55,479
Speaker 3: all positive reception, it's great. It's easy to take that in.

713
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 3: But then when it kind of turns on you, that's

714
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 3: when that's when it tests you and it gets really difficult.

715
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 3: And so for me, you know, it was just it

716
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 3: was it was a mix of everything. It was. The

717
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 3: biggest one was I felt like almost I I just

718
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 3: had let myself down, you know, like I had put

719
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 3: so much into I wanted it so bad, and you know,

720
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 3: the end result wasn't what I wanted. And then you

721
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 3: mix in everyone in their mother's opinion about you as well,

722
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 3: and if it's negative stuff, that just it. No one's

723
00:31:22,360 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 3: meant for that, no or no one's like you can't

724
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 3: prepare yourself for that until you kind of go through it.

725
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 3: And so not being able to escape that for a

726
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 3: while and almost have like a I don't know, like

727
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 3: almost have a way to like prove them wrong or anything.

728
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 3: Like you can't really kind of fight back towards it.

729
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:38,800
Speaker 3: You just kind of have to take it. And so

730
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:41,840
Speaker 3: it was just a period of like feeling like powerless.

731
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 3: There was you didn't have much control over the situation.

732
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 3: And if there was a narrative that was trying to

733
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 3: be spun. You just kind of had to like go

734
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:49,440
Speaker 3: with it and accept it, even though you knew the

735
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 3: truth and the people close to you, and that's all

736
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 3: it really matters, truly at the end.

737
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 5: Of the day.

738
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:55,760
Speaker 3: But it was just that that period of trying to

739
00:31:55,880 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 3: adapt to that and become okay with it, that's what

740
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 3: was just difficult.

741
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:02,080
Speaker 5: It was new.

742
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 3: But again, I really do when I want to say

743
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 3: that I appreciate that period, I really do, because, like

744
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:10,960
Speaker 3: I said, I'll never forget that, and I can always

745
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 3: go back to that and I can see how far

746
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 3: I've come. And you know, if I ever you know,

747
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:16,560
Speaker 3: hopefully I don't face anything like that again in my life.

748
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:18,240
Speaker 3: But if I do, I know that I have the

749
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 3: strength and like the kind of like the battle scars

750
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 3: to get through.

751
00:32:20,720 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 1: It sounds like we all went through something very similar.

752
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 4: Well, I think that was honestly, I think so. I

753
00:32:27,120 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 4: think that was the.

754
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,280
Speaker 2: Great button on your whole career, babe, is that you

755
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:32,440
Speaker 2: kind of went through what the show does to everyone.

756
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:34,200
Speaker 4: It's deeply ironic.

757
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:34,600
Speaker 1: Great irony.

758
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 5: Isn't that that ironic? Right? That's wild? Actually if you

759
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 5: think about that.

760
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 2: Well, That's something I've never said out loud before, but

761
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 2: which I've been thinking for a couple of years.

762
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, how many years, Chris did you do it?

763
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: Nineteen years? Nineteen years?

764
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 2: That's why he was going to see you two alone, Peter.

765
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 2: He's so burnt out.

766
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 1: But you knew, you know, I I knew that dog

767
00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 1: would come back to bite me at some day. But

768
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:02,120
Speaker 1: then you kind of forget, like I knew early on.

769
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 1: So when they sued Bob Guiney and he was in

770
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,720
Speaker 1: a band, he was The Bachelor, and then they wanted

771
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:12,280
Speaker 1: to do a talk show with them, they were shooting

772
00:33:12,280 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 1: a pilot for a talk show and he was doing

773
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:17,320
Speaker 1: his band. He was in his band, Fat Amy, and

774
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:19,800
Speaker 1: they released an album. So he had a record deal

775
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 1: prior to The Bachelor, So who's he was trying to

776
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:24,400
Speaker 1: honor this record deal. And then of course when he

777
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 1: did The Bachelor, he became so famous and it was huge. Well,

778
00:33:27,160 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 1: he was still trying to do both, and Warner and

779
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 1: ABC whoever was got really pissed off and got upset,

780
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:35,960
Speaker 1: and you know, long story short, they sued Bob Guiney

781
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 1: for like a ton of money, and I just remember thinking,

782
00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 1: he's our hero. He's our star. If they're willing to

783
00:33:43,880 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 1: go after him, why wouldn't they go after me?

784
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:51,480
Speaker 5: That like planted the seat in your head early days.

785
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 1: This is early days. Bob was like, what number three

786
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 1: on the list? Wherever I go? And I just always

787
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:57,080
Speaker 1: stuck in the back of my mind, I'm like, if

788
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 1: they're willing to go after him, they'll go after me.

789
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 1: It's just a business. It's a business. You're a rounding

790
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:06,520
Speaker 1: error to them. It doesn't matter. And so I always try.

791
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 1: You know, it's impossible not to emotionally get involved in

792
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:11,360
Speaker 1: this stuff. You did it one season, I did it

793
00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:15,280
Speaker 1: for nineteen years, So yes, you have to get emotionally involved.

794
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 1: It's part of you. But at the same time, I

795
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:21,839
Speaker 1: always tried to remember, this can come back, and then

796
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:25,920
Speaker 1: it did, the great irony.

797
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,400
Speaker 3: Do you think you were ready that like in your mind?

798
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 3: Don't know if you ever talked on this before, but

799
00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 3: were you getting ready to the point to like leave

800
00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 3: anyways or were you still just right in the wave

801
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 3: or where were you out of that?

802
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 1: Both? No? I was Lauren and I talked because we

803
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 1: were already dating. We were talking about I was my

804
00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:46,960
Speaker 1: contract was up, we were starting a new negotiation for

805
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:48,400
Speaker 1: a new deal. I think they had offered me a

806
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 1: five year deal, and so we were in the middle

807
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:56,360
Speaker 1: of negotiations when all this happened, and I'm like, do

808
00:34:56,440 --> 00:34:59,840
Speaker 1: I step away, like it's been nineteen years, Maybe I

809
00:34:59,880 --> 00:35:02,319
Speaker 1: just get to twenty and I call this, you know,

810
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 1: maybe just sign a one year deal and just be done.

811
00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 1: It's like it's it's kind of run its course. My

812
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 1: heart's not in it like it used to be. And so,

813
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:14,799
Speaker 1: you know, Laura, as Laura knows, I was emotionally struggling

814
00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 1: with what to do. But at the same time, you

815
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:19,440
Speaker 1: don't want to be ungrateful. It's a great job. It's

816
00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,120
Speaker 1: changed my life and I'm very grateful for it. So

817
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, you don't want to be that

818
00:35:24,200 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 1: jerk that just walks away from something fantastic, And you know,

819
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 1: do I just need a little time? Do I need

820
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 1: a little break? So I was fighting with all that

821
00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 1: when it all went.

822
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:34,239
Speaker 2: Well, we've never said any of this out loud, Peter,

823
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 2: it's all happening today. He's never said that's literally just

824
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 2: saying that for the first time that, yes, he was,

825
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,799
Speaker 2: it's all happening. We're flying the plane Peter up land

826
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 2: the plane.

827
00:35:43,200 --> 00:35:46,560
Speaker 5: Baby, Okay, I'm gonna grease it on. Don't worry guys.

828
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:51,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean at the time, I will say this,

829
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 2: I always felt, because.

830
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:57,239
Speaker 4: Of where things are at with his contract, that they

831
00:35:57,320 --> 00:35:59,240
Speaker 4: were really using.

832
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 2: Capitalizing off of what happened actually for a lark in

833
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,640
Speaker 2: the beginning very much they were trying to like get

834
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 2: him for cheaper, like I think they were when everything happened,

835
00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:15,839
Speaker 2: they were like, oh, good, something's gone a little wrong

836
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:16,359
Speaker 2: for him.

837
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 4: Let's lean into it.

838
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,719
Speaker 2: Let's make it worse because then when we re sign him,

839
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,839
Speaker 2: we can get a big discount. And so I think

840
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 2: that's what was happening in the beginning, and then things

841
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 2: for various reasons and choices, really spiraled out of control.

842
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 2: But that was why in the beginning no one was

843
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 2: like coming to his defense because they were trying to

844
00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 2: leverage him in contract negotiations. So that's what I always thought. Yeah,

845
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 2: but crazy times, and here we are now. By the way, Peter,

846
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:43,799
Speaker 2: I was just going to say, I think a huge

847
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:45,560
Speaker 2: part of the reason you're in such a healthy place

848
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 2: now you did the smart thing. You kept your normal job,

849
00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 2: you went back to it, and that is so smart

850
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:54,359
Speaker 2: to do. I was thinking, like, why does it feel

851
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:55,799
Speaker 2: like it's been so long since I've seen him? Oh,

852
00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:59,319
Speaker 2: because he's not at like every single Bachelor event, doing

853
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 2: every podcast, like living like you're like living a normal

854
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 2: life still, which is smart to be, Like, I'm going

855
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:06,759
Speaker 2: to stay grounded even though you're.

856
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:07,279
Speaker 4: Up in the air well.

857
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 1: I think that was part of your thing, was maybe

858
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:14,080
Speaker 1: the silver lining of your show going into the pandemic,

859
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 1: was you really didn't have a choice. It's like, well,

860
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:19,360
Speaker 1: there's nothing to do or not. There are no appearances,

861
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:21,360
Speaker 1: so I'm going to keep flying. And I know the

862
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 1: dream was to be, you know, flying for United, which

863
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 1: you made that dream come true and you got to

864
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:29,000
Speaker 1: fly with your dad, which was such a cool thing.

865
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 1: You and I talked to Oh my god, you and

866
00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 1: I talked a lot about that moment and the fact

867
00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:34,400
Speaker 1: that you and your dad got to realize that and

868
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:37,120
Speaker 1: before he retired, you guys were in the cockpit together.

869
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 1: It was just so cool. But what I'm interested how

870
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 1: many times when someone's on a United flight they find

871
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 1: out Pete is our pilot, and like, what that does?

872
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 4: How many phone numbers have you gotten on your planes?

873
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:50,839
Speaker 5: Peter?

874
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:52,440
Speaker 4: That's what I want to.

875
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 5: Know a lot.

876
00:37:57,080 --> 00:38:00,120
Speaker 1: Is it true that he was on cocktail Napkins was

877
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:02,840
Speaker 1: at nine to eleven recent they started locking cockpit doors?

878
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 1: Was because you know of Peter? Yeah, because of Peter.

879
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 2: Okay, I have to ask you about a rumor. Are

880
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:08,040
Speaker 2: you on dating apps?

881
00:38:08,040 --> 00:38:09,320
Speaker 4: What are you doing? I heard that you were on

882
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:09,920
Speaker 4: dating apps?

883
00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 1: Well, first of all, are you single?

884
00:38:11,560 --> 00:38:15,759
Speaker 5: Yes? I am single. I am on Hinge and I've

885
00:38:15,800 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 5: never gotten.

886
00:38:16,280 --> 00:38:18,919
Speaker 3: Accepted to riots kind of like a funny running joke

887
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:21,800
Speaker 3: with all my friends, but I've never got the invite

888
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:22,240
Speaker 3: for that.

889
00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:25,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, funny. Oh so, and is this a promotional deal

890
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 1: or are you like I'm on Hinge?

891
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:30,960
Speaker 5: No, like I'm legit. Listen. I've never been that kind

892
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:31,400
Speaker 5: of person.

893
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 3: I've heard everything like, but I've never been that person that,

894
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:38,600
Speaker 3: oh you know, that's beneath like nothing, nothing's beneath anyone in.

895
00:38:38,560 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 5: My opinion, right, I agree.

896
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:42,400
Speaker 3: I know I went on like a show, right, a

897
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 3: very successful dating show. But I also have no issue

898
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 3: going on Hinge. And if it ultimately is, if that's

899
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:50,799
Speaker 3: the like my brother he met he re met his

900
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 3: now wife, my sister in law, Christine, through Hinge. They

901
00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 3: actually went to high school for two years but never

902
00:38:55,239 --> 00:38:57,680
Speaker 3: talked anyways. Years later reconnected on Hinge. So that's a

903
00:38:57,680 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 3: success story. I've always thought, if I'm meet my wife,

904
00:39:00,680 --> 00:39:03,920
Speaker 3: the woman of my dreams through Hinge, so be it.

905
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 1: If you meet the woman in your dreams in any

906
00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 1: way for me? Who cares?

907
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 3: How?

908
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:09,640
Speaker 1: Who cares that you got there?

909
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 2: By the way, I've heard nothing good about Riyah, but

910
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,160
Speaker 2: I know a lot of people who have met on Hinge.

911
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:16,400
Speaker 2: I give props to Hinge. I think it's the most

912
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 2: successful one. I feel like just from stories I hear,

913
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 2: so like, how's it going, how's it going on Hinge?

914
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's going good.

915
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:26,680
Speaker 1: That's a ringing endorsement.

916
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 5: I'm definitely no, I'm definitely.

917
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:31,359
Speaker 3: I'm definitely you know, dating, I'm definitely putting myself out

918
00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:35,800
Speaker 3: there a lot more kind of you know. It's funny, Chris,

919
00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:38,399
Speaker 3: I think about this day a lot. I remember when

920
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 3: remember we were driving around west Lake and we were

921
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 3: going all like the spots like my first job at Costco, and.

922
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:45,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, they had us miked up and you and I

923
00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 1: were alone in the car.

924
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:49,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, yes, yeah, and we were just like driving a

925
00:39:50,000 --> 00:39:51,920
Speaker 3: cool spots like from growing up. But then you like

926
00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 3: aspect really what you're looking for. I remember specifically we

927
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:56,480
Speaker 3: were on we were about to merge, left going on

928
00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 3: Canaan and I think to go out to the mansion,

929
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 3: and I was like, oh, I just want, you know,

930
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 3: like I'm looking for like my best friend and all that,

931
00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:05,880
Speaker 3: and which I obviously am. But I think I've realized

932
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 3: I've always said like I want, you know, I want

933
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:08,720
Speaker 3: that sweetheart.

934
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 5: I feel like I have a big heart.

935
00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:12,400
Speaker 3: And you know, to give to someone as well, and

936
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:16,440
Speaker 3: I want that reciprocated. But on top of that, I

937
00:40:16,480 --> 00:40:18,520
Speaker 3: also kind of realized too, like I do I want

938
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:20,719
Speaker 3: a little bit of fire in that as well, and

939
00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 3: like I've never actually really been honest with that, I

940
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 3: guess to myself, but I do need a little bit

941
00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 3: a little bit of that obviously not too much to

942
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 3: the point, you know where it gets a little out

943
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:33,680
Speaker 3: of hand, but because ultimately I really realized, like I

944
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 3: am craving so much just to find a relationship that

945
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:38,960
Speaker 3: really just brings me peace and I can really just

946
00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 3: like dive into that like head first and really let

947
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 3: something beautiful grow. But I just always remembered, for whatever reason,

948
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 3: you asked me exactly what I'm looking for, and throughout

949
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:49,880
Speaker 3: the years, I'm like, really, what am I looking for him?

950
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:51,120
Speaker 5: Like this or like that?

951
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:53,800
Speaker 3: And it just goes back to that. But yeah, I

952
00:40:53,800 --> 00:40:55,960
Speaker 3: think I have a good idea of what I'm looking for.

953
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:58,960
Speaker 3: I'm dating, Like I said, nothing serious right now, but

954
00:40:59,200 --> 00:40:59,720
Speaker 3: you know hopeful.

955
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:01,680
Speaker 1: Well I can tell you as I'm sitting next to

956
00:41:01,719 --> 00:41:07,280
Speaker 1: this one. Being challenged is important. Someone yeishes you, someone

957
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:11,239
Speaker 1: who challenges you makes you better and doesn't just say yes,

958
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:14,919
Speaker 1: you're great, Yes you're right. Nobody needs a yes man.

959
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 4: Peter, you too are very similar.

960
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 2: I don't know if you ever felt this way with Chris,

961
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 2: but I'm realizing it now, like you saying the people

962
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 2: pleasing thing that is Chris, And we've talked a lot

963
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 2: about how like I think a quality can often be

964
00:41:26,080 --> 00:41:27,879
Speaker 2: a blessing and a curse, Like something that's so.

965
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:29,799
Speaker 4: Great about you, but if you take it too far,

966
00:41:30,000 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 4: it hurts you.

967
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 2: Right Like it's awesome that you care about other people,

968
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:34,480
Speaker 2: but then when you take it too far, it hurts you.

969
00:41:35,000 --> 00:41:37,919
Speaker 2: And I don't think you've it sounds like you both

970
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:40,319
Speaker 2: kind of need a similar person, like someone who's going

971
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:42,440
Speaker 2: to be your best friend but challenge you to not

972
00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:43,319
Speaker 2: do those things.

973
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:46,400
Speaker 1: But you I don't think it takes a really great

974
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 1: psychiatrist to realize we both have very strong moms.

975
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:52,440
Speaker 4: Oh yep, that's it.

976
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 5: That's that's true as well.

977
00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:58,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's why that fire, you.

978
00:41:58,440 --> 00:41:59,320
Speaker 5: Know what exactly.

979
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,680
Speaker 3: And I think I've have always maybe shied away from that,

980
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 3: but recently I'm like, no, I want that. Like you said, challenge,

981
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:07,319
Speaker 3: I need someone that just like I want someone that's

982
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 3: smarter than me. I want someone that really is going

983
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:10,759
Speaker 3: to like push me that way. And I don't know,

984
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:12,799
Speaker 3: I just I never really looked at like that, But

985
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:14,760
Speaker 3: ultimately I want peace.

986
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:16,760
Speaker 5: That's that's really the biggest thing.

987
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:18,560
Speaker 1: For God six man. Just you want some peace.

988
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:21,360
Speaker 2: But Hannah Brown was fiery, and you liked Hannah, so

989
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:23,320
Speaker 2: I feel like, yeah, you've done that a little before.

990
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 3: That's why I was about to leave the show for

991
00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:28,719
Speaker 3: her one hundred percent. And obviously that never happened. But yeah, Hannah,

992
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:31,839
Speaker 3: Hannah exactly, that's she had that. She definitely had that.

993
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: Okay, two things then in hindsight, And I don't know

994
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 1: how honest we can be because obviously you don't know,

995
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: but do you wish a you had just left the

996
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:47,880
Speaker 1: show for Hannah b and and second, do you resent

997
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 1: the fact that because I've heard you in interviews say

998
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 1: that you were kept away from Kelly, do you wish

999
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:54,799
Speaker 1: you'd had a better true shot at Kelly. While we

1000
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 1: were taping your season.

1001
00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:58,919
Speaker 3: I remember vividly telling her like, I don't care about

1002
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 3: all this. If you really want to like give this

1003
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:03,480
Speaker 3: a shot with me. This is a wild way to start,

1004
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:06,000
Speaker 3: but let's do it. And you know, she had her

1005
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:07,800
Speaker 3: contract at the time with the Answer with the Stars,

1006
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:10,600
Speaker 3: and it just it wasn't going to happen. But those

1007
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:13,279
Speaker 3: weren't just like soft like bogus words. I was what

1008
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:14,280
Speaker 3: I meant what I said.

1009
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:16,440
Speaker 4: But do you wish you to happen?

1010
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 5: I listen. I truly believe everything happens for a reason.

1011
00:43:21,880 --> 00:43:24,440
Speaker 3: And I always go back to that saying that I

1012
00:43:24,480 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 3: said on this show many times, you know, the one

1013
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:27,799
Speaker 3: that my mom has always told me of the hall,

1014
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 3: like whatever is meant for you is coming for you,

1015
00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:34,360
Speaker 3: is gonna be years and nothing can be done to

1016
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:34,840
Speaker 3: change that.

1017
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:36,800
Speaker 5: So that's my life philosophy.

1018
00:43:36,840 --> 00:43:38,480
Speaker 3: And I'll never be hung up too much on a

1019
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:41,800
Speaker 3: door that's closed, because I always have that positive outlook

1020
00:43:41,840 --> 00:43:44,279
Speaker 3: that it's because something else is coming down the line,

1021
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:46,799
Speaker 3: and it's preparing me for that, so to answer no.

1022
00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 3: But in that moment, I met what I said and

1023
00:43:49,800 --> 00:43:54,799
Speaker 3: with Kelly. If I wouldn't have gotten so close to

1024
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:58,120
Speaker 3: Kelly and dated her for so long after, I probably

1025
00:43:58,120 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 3: would have had those thoughts.

1026
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:01,000
Speaker 5: But I don't don't feel like they're like.

1027
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:02,840
Speaker 3: We got to know each other extremely We dated for

1028
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:04,239
Speaker 3: on and off for about three years, so there was

1029
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:07,120
Speaker 3: nothing that I was like missing that the show could

1030
00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 3: have offered. It would have been really fun because her

1031
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:10,440
Speaker 3: and I got along so well, and it would have

1032
00:44:10,440 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 3: been cool to see that dynamic play out on the

1033
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:13,279
Speaker 3: show more.

1034
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:15,759
Speaker 5: But no, I don't regret that.

1035
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:17,160
Speaker 4: Okay, I have a must ask.

1036
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 2: We've brought up your mom now, and god, she's one

1037
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 2: of the best people I've ever seen on television. How

1038
00:44:22,640 --> 00:44:25,920
Speaker 2: much is mom now involved in dating? Is she helping

1039
00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:28,759
Speaker 2: you on Hinge? What is Barb doing? How involved is she?

1040
00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:33,640
Speaker 5: No, my mom is not helping me on Hinge? No

1041
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:37,600
Speaker 5: she's not. Think No, it's been No, it's great.

1042
00:44:37,640 --> 00:44:40,919
Speaker 3: My parents are extremely supportive and it's really cool because

1043
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 3: they you know, I'm thirty two, not that I'm crazy

1044
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:46,440
Speaker 3: old here, but you know, a lot of my friends.

1045
00:44:46,440 --> 00:44:47,840
Speaker 3: The majority of my friends from high school, all of

1046
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 3: them are all settled down, married, multiple kids now at

1047
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 3: this point, so I'm on second wives, you know whatnot.

1048
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:54,399
Speaker 5: But it's cool.

1049
00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:57,040
Speaker 3: My parents haven't really ever put that pressure, like since

1050
00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:58,600
Speaker 3: I've come to New York, Like they're letting me do

1051
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 3: my thing. They're letting me go figure this out for myself.

1052
00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 3: Like obviously we'll talk and I'm very open with my family.

1053
00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:05,799
Speaker 3: I'm very close and I love you know, sharing good

1054
00:45:05,800 --> 00:45:07,760
Speaker 3: news and if I met someone that was really special,

1055
00:45:07,800 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 3: like I'll you know, the first people I.

1056
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:09,839
Speaker 5: Share that with.

1057
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:12,960
Speaker 3: But I really appreciate that they haven't like put any

1058
00:45:13,000 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 3: pressure on me, you know, at thirty two and having

1059
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:17,319
Speaker 3: you know, maybe all these ups and downs with the relationships,

1060
00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 3: like even though it hasn't worked yet, Like I know,

1061
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,359
Speaker 3: they're my biggest fans and they're in my corner, and

1062
00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:23,440
Speaker 3: you know, they can't wait to welcome in whoever it

1063
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 3: is to our family and kind of complete it.

1064
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 5: So very very happy I can say that I.

1065
00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 2: Know there were the rumors about Ecken Soue, which in

1066
00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 2: part was because this is part of why I bring

1067
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 2: up Barb, because Barb was hanging with Ecken soue.

1068
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:38,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, that was just Ecken is amazing.

1069
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 3: Ecken and I there was a lot of rumors of

1070
00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 3: us dating and all that, but she had that was

1071
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:43,879
Speaker 3: about she had come out to uh we were doing

1072
00:45:43,920 --> 00:45:46,840
Speaker 3: the reunion episode for the Traders out in LA and

1073
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 3: so she she's from London, so she has went out

1074
00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:50,720
Speaker 3: a couple of days prior and we were a good friends.

1075
00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 3: So they connected and they went out with Christie, my

1076
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 3: sister in law. But no, nothing's going.

1077
00:45:57,040 --> 00:45:58,400
Speaker 1: On up a couple of times.

1078
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 4: Not a big deal since you're back in that.

1079
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:03,880
Speaker 2: He's like, no, for the record, since you're back in

1080
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 2: the reality TV world. Now, anybody else if you like,

1081
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 2: if they came your way, are there any like crushes

1082
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:11,600
Speaker 2: you have of people out there who, oh maybe I

1083
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:12,839
Speaker 2: would date this person.

1084
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:16,239
Speaker 5: Like specifically it's on TV right now as well, like

1085
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:16,839
Speaker 5: reality TV.

1086
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 4: Sure, anybody floating out there.

1087
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:23,720
Speaker 3: I'm gonna say, I'm gonna answer no on that, because

1088
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:25,520
Speaker 3: there there is something right now that's kind of just

1089
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:27,080
Speaker 3: started that I'm really excited about.

1090
00:46:27,320 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 1: So excellent, excellent. Oh I love this from Hinge.

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Speaker 5: No no comment on that, but yeah.

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Speaker 4: It's Phaedra, isn't it it's.

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Speaker 3: You got good, you are good. It's it's that it's

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Speaker 3: that green cloak in that turret. Man, it really got me.

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Speaker 3: But uh no, there's something I'm really excited about.

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Speaker 4: And uh so it is someone from another reality show.

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Speaker 5: No, not from not from TV, not from hinge, not

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Speaker 5: not from any.

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Speaker 4: Of that excellent, not someone famous.

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Speaker 1: I'm hopeful. So these are early days though, yeah, very

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Speaker 1: very very early. Earlier is because he already said he's single,

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Speaker 1: so he's still but he's he's what he is right now.

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Speaker 1: He's single but hopeful. You know how they say it's complicated.

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Speaker 1: It's not complicated. It's single and.

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Speaker 4: Hopeful, single and focus.

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Speaker 5: Great way to find it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's fun. By the way, this is the best

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Speaker 1: time of part of a relationship. It's that early days

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Speaker 1: when you're so excited and you can't wait to find

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Speaker 1: out more and you can't wait for that next chat,

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Speaker 1: the next talk.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, then let's get a cute moment on the

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Speaker 2: record for when you two end up together.

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Speaker 4: What do you like about this person?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we are extremely similar. We come from very similar backgrounds.

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Speaker 3: I'll be honest, I haven't even met her yet, but

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Speaker 3: going to be meeting soon, and there's a lot of

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Speaker 3: we have a lot of mutual friends that that think

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Speaker 3: we'd be a pretty good match. And we've just been

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Speaker 3: you know, just texting and and and on the phone.

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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Speaker 3: That's that's really it's it's it's just started. But I

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Speaker 3: know it's that's a little too soon to like be excited.

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Speaker 3: But that's just how I am.

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Speaker 1: And no, it's not.

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Speaker 5: That's something I'm excited about.

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Speaker 1: If you're not excited about, why are you doing it?

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Speaker 5: That's actual, that's true.

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Speaker 1: That's the point.

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Speaker 2: By the way, again, Peter Chris is the same way.

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Speaker 2: Like in the beginning, he was like, I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 2: he's like really all in.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, quickly I'm.

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Speaker 1: Excited like when I started. When we started dating, that's

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Speaker 1: I mean, seriously, that's I quickly realized, where did you

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00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 1: guys meet on the show? On the show, she knew

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Speaker 1: some of the people like Ben and maybe even you

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00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 1: before she knew me. It's like, so we met, well,

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Speaker 1: I really she interviewed me on the show.

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Speaker 4: For years and then can get down That makes sense.

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00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:31,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, but then and then we didn't really talk talk

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00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 1: until later and then but then when we started dating,

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Speaker 1: I really got excited. And again, that's that's how I

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Speaker 1: knew it's I think that's.

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Speaker 2: A mark of like and you tell me, Peter, maybe

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00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:41,759
Speaker 2: if it's because you feel like you've grown up a

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Speaker 2: little bit, but like when you get into your I

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00:48:44,520 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 2: think I wish I could tell my twenty something self this.

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00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:48,680
Speaker 2: When you get into your thirties, when you've had some

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00:48:48,719 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 2: like dating experience, you kind of know quicker because you

1152
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:53,840
Speaker 2: know what you're looking for more, you've made some mistakes,

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00:48:53,920 --> 00:48:55,359
Speaker 2: you figured it out, Like, do you feel like you're

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00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:57,280
Speaker 2: at that place where you could know pretty quickly?

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Speaker 3: And that's one thing to like I in the most polite,

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00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 3: respectful way, Like if it's not serving either of us,

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Speaker 3: I'm quick to kind of like I'm not I'm not

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Speaker 3: looking to waste time.

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Speaker 5: I know what i want. I'm excited for that, and

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Speaker 5: you know, I just I don't want to waste.

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Speaker 2: Anything to forward past the bullsh Well, Peter, I'm super

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Speaker 2: happy for you. The only reason I'm a little bummed

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Speaker 2: is I'll be honest. Before this podcast, we were kind

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Speaker 2: of like, as we move into the reality dating show

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00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 2: space again, is Peter Weber on the on the roster?

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Speaker 4: So I don't know.

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Speaker 5: Hopefully I am not available for that.

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Speaker 4: Really, would you ever do would you not ever do

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Speaker 4: it again?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: You would No, not if I find something before that.

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Speaker 4: If you're single.

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Speaker 1: No, if you're single. That's what we're going to end on. Hey,

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Speaker 1: in all seriousness, man number one, it was good to

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Speaker 1: catch up with you. Number two. I really am so

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Speaker 1: genuinely happy to see where you are in your life.

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Speaker 1: You just it looks like your shoulders have dropped and

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Speaker 1: you got this glow about you and you're living your

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Speaker 1: life on your terms, and I I truly love that

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Speaker 1: for you. We're we're very happy for you.

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Speaker 5: Thank you, guys.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that means a lot. I appreciate that. It's good

1183
00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:08,000
Speaker 3: to see you guys too.

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00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:10,920
Speaker 4: It's so good to see the person here. I know again.

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Speaker 2: You were the you you Raven and Adam they had

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Speaker 2: they were the wonderful tea booth sweating, but we were like,

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Speaker 2: oh I wish those three have been able to come.

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Speaker 2: That was a bummer. We wanted to see you. So

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Speaker 2: fly through Austin sometime soon and we'll take you out.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 3: I know it's when I whenever I upgrade, there will

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Speaker 3: be a good chance because I'll be back on a

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Speaker 3: seven thirty seven or airbus doing domestic flying right now.

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00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:34,040
Speaker 3: All this stuff's international, but I'm actually seeing seeing Tyler

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Speaker 3: and he's got his uh event tonight for a show

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Speaker 3: and Jason will be there.

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Speaker 5: So oh Cole, guys.

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Speaker 1: Good Bud. Tell everybody we said hello, and give him

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Speaker 1: our love and we will see you soon.

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Speaker 4: It's so good to see you. Should we feel safe

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Speaker 4: on the boeings? What do you think?

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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, yes, all right, we all get figured out,

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Speaker 5: no work.

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Speaker 1: We will talk to you soon, my friends, thanks for taking.

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Speaker 4: The time today. So good to see you.

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00:50:57,920 --> 00:50:59,719
Speaker 5: Fine of course. Likewise, guys see it.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I'm so glad we got to catch

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00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:05,759
Speaker 2: up with Pete. It's always interesting to me people come

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00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 2: on and I've noticed they like need a little like

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00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:11,120
Speaker 2: when Peter said, Chris have always wanted to ask you this,

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Speaker 2: and also I always remember this moment.

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Speaker 4: It really makes me. Honestly, we just think you're so.

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00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 2: Good at your job because you impact people so much,

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00:51:20,040 --> 00:51:23,160
Speaker 2: and they always like have a couple burning or unanswered

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00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 2: things for you.

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00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:25,480
Speaker 4: It's like they need a little therapy with you. I

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Speaker 4: think it's.

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00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 1: Things I don't realize things that you know, there's moments

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00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:31,839
Speaker 1: that because there's so many for me that I vibe

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00:51:32,120 --> 00:51:34,160
Speaker 1: aria and you never know what impacts that person or

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00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:36,319
Speaker 1: what really stood out to them. And it's interesting to

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00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:39,879
Speaker 1: me the things like I would have probably forgotten about

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Speaker 1: the time we drove around west Lake together, but obviously

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00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:44,640
Speaker 1: we had that moment and I vividly remember it now.

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00:51:44,680 --> 00:51:47,520
Speaker 1: But it's very interesting, and I love when they do

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00:51:47,600 --> 00:51:49,520
Speaker 1: have a burning question because it means it meant something

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Speaker 1: to them.

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Speaker 2: All Right, everybody, thank you so much, and we'll be

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Speaker 2: back soon because say.

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Speaker 1: It, babe, we have a lot more to talk about.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. Follow us on Instagram at the most

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00:52:00,280 --> 00:52:02,799
Speaker 1: Dramatic pod ever, and make sure to write us a

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Speaker 1: review and leave us five stars. I'll talk to you

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Speaker 1: next time.