1 00:00:01,280 --> 00:00:04,200 Speaker 1: Here's a question for you guys. What's something you wish 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 1: you knew before you had kids? So here's something we 3 00:00:07,920 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 1: saw on facebook. Okay, I have three kids, and there's 4 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 1: a lot I thought I knew, but I had no 5 00:00:13,720 --> 00:00:17,080 Speaker 1: idea about having kids. If I could tell my younger 6 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:19,800 Speaker 1: self one thing about having kids, I'd say that you're 7 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:22,440 Speaker 1: going to have to learn how to do some serious, 8 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 1: serious scheduling. It's all about working on their schedule, not yours. Okay, 9 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 1: as a parent, what advice do you give your friends 10 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:36,560 Speaker 1: who are about to have kids? 11 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 2: Oh? 12 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:39,519 Speaker 1: Yeah, see ahead, you can go. 13 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:48,600 Speaker 2: I recommend Falster Care right out the gate. Dog, don't 14 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:50,840 Speaker 2: even send yourself through this right here. If I hadn't 15 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 2: known what I knew, i'd have looked into Falster Cat. 16 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 2: I just wasn't not away of the program, but i'd 17 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 2: have put mine in it. How to put mine into 18 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 2: Falster Care. I just let him build character from that, 19 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:04,680 Speaker 2: you know, because I know a lot of people that 20 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 2: it came through the foster care system and have a 21 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 2: lot of drive and gut and grit know how to 22 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 2: overcome things. 23 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 3: My children. 24 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I gave him a little soft ass life. I 25 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:16,039 Speaker 2: should have put him into the program got him in 26 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 2: the system. That's my recommendation to anybody have. 27 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: Damn, you don't have kids, but you have your nephews. 28 00:01:24,080 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh man, you. 29 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 4: Uh differently disown them? Yeah, God, sure will Yeah. Yeah, 30 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 4: Because I'm gonna tell you something. It don't make no 31 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:39,560 Speaker 4: sense for this kid to be on this much medication 32 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 4: and not know nothing. 33 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 3: Them pills is real. 34 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:46,080 Speaker 4: Tell you that you have to take that pill. Don't 35 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 4: take that pill. Did eighty h D pill? If he 36 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 4: don't take that pill, you for a world of hurt. 37 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 4: I'm telling that much right now. You're in a world 38 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:54,040 Speaker 4: of hurt if you don't take that pill. Get your 39 00:01:54,080 --> 00:01:55,000 Speaker 4: ass off the couch. 40 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 3: I'm sorry. 41 00:01:55,880 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, ma'am. 42 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 3: I mean he just knew you. He didn't know you know. 43 00:01:59,360 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 4: I got a call one time. The teacher called me, 44 00:02:01,800 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 4: No lie said, could you come up here because your 45 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 4: nephew is standing on his head in the corner while 46 00:02:06,080 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 4: they're taking the test. Will get your ass in the chair, 47 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:09,080 Speaker 4: take the test with the. 48 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 3: Y I'm so sorry, ma'am. 49 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 4: I ain't supposed to be talking. 50 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:13,360 Speaker 2: Just just on him. Don't even go. 51 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 4: Don't even come on. 52 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 3: Now you have kids, give them to your Mama and 53 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:27,359 Speaker 3: daddy the first eight to ten years. Just just sit 54 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 3: back and just watch, just letting mommy and daddy handle yo. 55 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, somebody don't know about kids exactly. 56 00:02:37,480 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 3: Just give him away and sit back and watching. That's it. 57 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 3: Just give him, give them to him, and watch and 58 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:47,680 Speaker 3: see how mom and daddy do it. You wasn't watching 59 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 3: when mom and daddy was raising you, but just sit 60 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:50,639 Speaker 3: back and watch this time. 61 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 1: See how they learn yourself something. Yeah, you guys all 62 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: said the same thing, basically, give him away. 63 00:02:58,760 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 4: It's too much work. It's I said stuff no adult 64 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 4: should be saying, like, whon't you get the dog leg 65 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 4: got your mouth? He bit the damn dog, get your ass. 66 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 4: I'm sorry, y'all. He don't normally act like this. 67 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:25,520 Speaker 3: He take the pill said, oh wow, Because all you're 68 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 3: gonna hear is a bunch of he did what? 69 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:30,519 Speaker 1: Yeah? 70 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:31,080 Speaker 3: They did? 71 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 1: What? 72 00:03:33,880 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 2: What? 73 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 3: What? What? When? 74 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 2: Yeah? 75 00:03:37,400 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 1: What? 76 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 2: Yo? 77 00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:42,960 Speaker 3: Why where is he? Yeah? 78 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 4: That's it. 79 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 2: And for all of us, that's right. And for all 80 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 2: of us that have kids other than Shirley and calling 81 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 2: Sherley and Carlin would tell you, you know, raise their kids, 82 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 2: love him and all this hell and Tommy tell you truth. 83 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 3: Our philosophy doesn't work. 84 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 2: It's years of pain. First of all, your life will 85 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 2: never be the same. It's not yours anymore. Is you 86 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:16,039 Speaker 2: get to fit some of your life in around ares? 87 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 2: You got to First of all, you got to feed them, 88 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:23,560 Speaker 2: dress them, carry them, hold them everything. Then when they 89 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:25,839 Speaker 2: do learn how to walk, you got to follow behind 90 00:04:25,880 --> 00:04:27,800 Speaker 2: the ass because it ain't no telling what they fit 91 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:32,919 Speaker 2: to do with the behind, yeah, or. 92 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 4: To take the pill he had in the bus stop 93 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 4: with no paints on. Get your ass in there. 94 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 1: Put these pants on at the bus stop. 95 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 3: Just embarrassing everybody. 96 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:44,719 Speaker 1: All right, guys, thank you. 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