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Speaker 1: your favorite store. Second date Update. We got an email
Speaker 1: for a second date update from a guy named Dan,
Speaker 1: and Dan only waited four days after his date to
Speaker 1: get in touch with us. Okay. Normally, yeah, yeah, Normally
Speaker 1: people wait like a week, two weeks, several years before
Speaker 1: they'll unlist our help. It's actually yeah, it's happened multiple times.
Speaker 1: But Dan needs instant gratification. Okay, And I'm just gonna say, Dan,
Speaker 1: you're coming across a little bit needy and it's turning
Speaker 1: me on. It's that instant gratification. I just want to
Speaker 1: figure it out before the line goes cold. Yeah, Jeff,
Speaker 1: that's what I thought. I'm just saying it's working. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe she doesn't feel the same way
Speaker 1: that I do. You like clinging, but who do you
Speaker 1: need to get ahold of? Tell us her name? Because
Speaker 1: if you're checking in with us after four days. A
Speaker 1: problem means you've called her upwards of like forty times, no,
Speaker 1: like three times. Yeah, anybody in the room believed we'll
Speaker 1: do the radio map on one. You multiplied by fifty six? Yea.
Speaker 1: So what's her name? Her name is Jody? All right,
Speaker 1: And how'd you meet Jody? We met on a dating app? Okay,
Speaker 1: what'd you like about her? So? I just like how
Speaker 1: she was like put together, because you know a lot
Speaker 1: of people are just in their yoga pants on the apps,
Speaker 1: but she was actually like well dressed, put together. And
Speaker 1: then like when we met up in person, she didn't
Speaker 1: wear any makeup and still look good, you know, which
Speaker 1: I like and appreciate that. It's not she I tries,
Speaker 1: but isn't like too obsessed about it. Okay, most girls
Speaker 1: would never I don't want a date without makeup. Well
Speaker 1: the girls I'm into. Yeah, Okay, what'd you guys end
Speaker 1: up doing for your date? Well, we decided to just
Speaker 1: hang out and grab a drink, because you know, you
Speaker 1: never know what people are like in person and all that. Sure,
Speaker 1: what does that mean? You don't know what people are
Speaker 1: going to be like in person? So you know, maybe
Speaker 1: our photos are like three years and forty five pounds ago.
Speaker 1: Maybe the guy's a crazy person, so you meet in public.
Speaker 1: That's what everyone had those experiences. Hasn't everyone on a
Speaker 1: dating nap had those experiences? Yeah, yeah, you're making me
Speaker 1: sound weird. I'm not the weird one here. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean I think that that's safe. One drink isn't a
Speaker 1: huge commitment. It's half an hour tops. If things aren't
Speaker 1: going well, yeah, exactly. But things were going well, you know,
Speaker 1: we're drinking at the bar. I'm like, brilliant. The skim boarding,
Speaker 1: you know what that was. It's like surfing, but instead
Speaker 1: of being in the water, you're on the sand and
Speaker 1: run towards the water and then like drop the board
Speaker 1: and hop on right right. It's like I always thought
Speaker 1: that was boogieboarding or whatever, but it's differently on bowie.
Speaker 1: If let's just start running and throw the board on
Speaker 1: the sands, on the wet sand and go into the ocean,
Speaker 1: it looks like it's more painful when you fall. It's
Speaker 1: definitely not fun when you fall. But I would agree
Speaker 1: with that. Impressed well if she'd never heard of it, So,
Speaker 1: you know, I showed a couple of videos. Then I
Speaker 1: started actually asked the bartender for like an old cardboard
Speaker 1: box and started demonstrating it in the bar. There's a
Speaker 1: little room. You demonstrated skimboarding in the bar, like slow
Speaker 1: most I didn't actually go anywhere, you know, but just
Speaker 1: the mechanics of it, like you run, dropped and slide.
Speaker 1: What was her response to that? She would up to it.
Speaker 1: And then after a couple of times I did it,
Speaker 1: she decided to do it. But then like she started
Speaker 1: falling over, but I caught her, you know, like it
Speaker 1: was kind of yeah, that worked out her when you
Speaker 1: caught her or what'd you do? We had a nice
Speaker 1: eye contact moment, you know, kind of huggy, grippy, but
Speaker 1: didn't grippy. Sounds like things were going well, yeah yeah.
Speaker 1: And then a little while later I was like, hey,
Speaker 1: what about coming over to my place to watch a movie?
Speaker 1: And she was totally down with it. Okay, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm thinking maybe a movie, maybe something else, right, okay,
Speaker 1: because nobody ever just means movie. Yeah. How did things
Speaker 1: go back at your place? It started out good, we
Speaker 1: started watching a movie, but like my place was a
Speaker 1: little dirty. Maybe I didn't believe in myself that night
Speaker 1: before I left, I didn't like clean up, right, I
Speaker 1: know that's gonna happen anyway. Oh, I see. I feel
Speaker 1: like it always works that way though, right, Like it's
Speaker 1: like when you go out and you're a woman and
Speaker 1: you don't shave your legs, you're like, A, well, it's
Speaker 1: not gonna lead to anything, and then you're like, dang it,
Speaker 1: it's not so Harry. I mean, it sounds like a
Speaker 1: match made in heaven. Like you didn't clean your apartment,
Speaker 1: She didn't put on makeup or try at all, Like
Speaker 1: it didn't seem like this, but my god, like I
Speaker 1: hadn't done the dishes in the trash and like I
Speaker 1: don't know, like fifteen twenty minutes in, I felt her
Speaker 1: notice it really like the five definitely changed. Did you
Speaker 1: say anything about it? No, Before I even could, she
Speaker 1: just started going like, I'm getting tired. I gotta go,
Speaker 1: but I definitely want to come back and we'll finish
Speaker 1: the movie and other time. Well that seems a legit though,
Speaker 1: but she never called back. I feel she's totally blowing
Speaker 1: me off. Okay, weird. So what do you think it is?
Speaker 1: I think it's a messy apartment, but I usually I'm
Speaker 1: not messy at all. But that's the crazy thing. It's
Speaker 1: just that was the one time that I didn't clean
Speaker 1: that day, you know, and for that week, I didn't
Speaker 1: work a lot and didn't get a chance to clean up.
Speaker 1: And I guess I should always believe in myself. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's a good place to start. Yeah, I know. But
Speaker 1: there's nothing more depressing than when you clean up right
Speaker 1: before a date and then you come home alone to
Speaker 1: spotless apartment. You're like, well, that was a double waste
Speaker 1: of time. Rubs it in your face. Yeah, that's why
Speaker 1: I never can do bro. I feel you, man, You
Speaker 1: and jose are kindred spirits. So all right, well we're
Speaker 1: going to play a song. We'll come back and we'll
Speaker 1: call Jody for you and try and get you your
Speaker 1: second date update. Okay, all right, maybe you can convince
Speaker 1: her I'm not a slob. I mean, you're asking a
Speaker 1: lot for me. You're still really playing that needy role here.
Speaker 1: We'll try our best. All right, we're gonna do that next.
Speaker 1: If you're just tuning in for the second date update,
Speaker 1: we're on the phone with one of our listeners named Dan.
Speaker 1: And Dan most people would probably look at your date
Speaker 1: and point out all the red flags. Oh you know,
Speaker 1: but I'm not going to do that, Okay, all right.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to call attention to the fact that
Speaker 1: you're anti women wearing yoga pants, or that you set
Speaker 1: a one drink limit for yourself at the bar for
Speaker 1: some reason, or your unusually dirty apartment. And I'm especially
Speaker 1: not going to harp on the fact that it's only
Speaker 1: been four days since you met this woman and now
Speaker 1: you're asking a radio station to contact her for you.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to point those things out. But what
Speaker 1: I will point out is that you, sir, have one
Speaker 1: of the best, and I really mean this one of
Speaker 1: the best phone connections that we've ever heard show. And
Speaker 1: that's something no amount of red flags can never take
Speaker 1: away from you. Thank you. I appreciate that. Yeah, it
Speaker 1: is clear, It's very clear. Yeah, I know that's like
Speaker 1: five bars, right, Yeah, I think so, Dan, just checking.
Speaker 1: I mean, is there anything else that we need to
Speaker 1: know that you're leaving out? Because sometimes people do that
Speaker 1: with us. Look, I understand how you could twist us,
Speaker 1: but like, here's the deal, right, Like I like her,
Speaker 1: Like who skimboards in a bar? You know, Like she's cool.
Speaker 1: Plus honestly, like I only watched a little bit of
Speaker 1: the movie with her before she left, and I want
Speaker 1: to see the end of the movie. I will say,
Speaker 1: I think that's a good sign. It's a good sign
Speaker 1: of a devoted person if you're actually willing to not
Speaker 1: finish a movie without someone else. Yes, Dan, you're definitely
Speaker 1: one of our most devoted callers that we've ever had
Speaker 1: calling for a second date update. I think that's a compliment.
Speaker 1: It's the biggest compliment I can give. Or it's just there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, So we're gonna call Jody for you and
Speaker 1: get your second date update. Okay, are you ready? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I'm ready? Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak
Speaker 1: to Jody? Please? Who's calling? Is this Jody? Who's calling?
Speaker 1: I asked you first? Is this Jody? That's fairy. This
Speaker 1: is Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning. Now you go? Is this Jody? Okay? Um? Yeah, yes,
Speaker 1: hid Hi. We're calling you today because we're doing something
Speaker 1: called a second date update. Have you ever heard of
Speaker 1: that before? Maybe? I don't know, like a long time ago.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Okay, Well, just to refresh your memory.
Speaker 1: It's if someone goes out on a date and afterwards
Speaker 1: they're not getting a call back, they can reach out
Speaker 1: to us and we'll call that person for you to
Speaker 1: figure out the reason why. Oh that's so weird. Well,
Speaker 1: we're calling you because you recently went out with a guy.
Speaker 1: His name's Dan. Oh, yeah, very recently. Yeah, four days ago.
Speaker 1: He said, Yeah, I just went out with him. He's eager, Jody.
Speaker 1: He had a really good time with you, and he's
Speaker 1: wondering how you felt about it. Um, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean I am, because he did tell us about
Speaker 1: what happened on the date. He said, you guys went
Speaker 1: to a bar and he showed you how to what
Speaker 1: was it, skin surfing? Skin board? Yeah, yeah, we did that. Yeah, Okay,
Speaker 1: it sounds like you enjoyed that. Well you had to
Speaker 1: have enjoyed it, because he said that. I mean, you
Speaker 1: guys went back to his apartment, So if you weren't
Speaker 1: having a good time, you would have left already. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we did go back to his place to watch a movie,
Speaker 1: and I mean it was fine at first, but I
Speaker 1: guess I started feeling a little uncomfortable. When did those
Speaker 1: uncomfortable feelings begin? I feel like we're at a six
Speaker 1: great sex said, classhold a sudden. Yeah, no, he was
Speaker 1: like a gentleman, right, Like, it wasn't like that. But
Speaker 1: I don't know, I wasn't there that long, and his
Speaker 1: apartment is just a little weird. I didn't mention that
Speaker 1: it was kind of dirty. Yeah, was that a turn off?
Speaker 1: I mean a little of that maybe, But like then
Speaker 1: I went and I used the restroom, and I noticed
Speaker 1: that there was like this snowman soap dish, which I
Speaker 1: just like thought was weird. And then when I came out,
Speaker 1: I noticed that there were like these Santa figurine thing
Speaker 1: on like his coffee table, and there was like Christmas
Speaker 1: stuff on his mantel. And as I was coming out
Speaker 1: of the bathroom, I could see like the back corner
Speaker 1: of the room where we were sitting there, like and
Speaker 1: there's a big Christmas tree in the corner. Now, you
Speaker 1: must have been like more than one drink in if
Speaker 1: you missed a Christmas tree when you walked in. Well,
Speaker 1: it wasn't on. Only got home obviously, Like the lights
Speaker 1: are all off, but when I came out of the bathroom,
Speaker 1: he had turned the light on on the Christmas tree.
Speaker 1: It was like an apartment, Yeah, but it's like not
Speaker 1: Christmas time, right, So I don't know who it was
Speaker 1: going on, and I don't know. It was like a
Speaker 1: lot of stuff, Like I kind of felt like he's
Speaker 1: like a Christmas freak or something like. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe it's like laziness. Maybe he just doesn't want to
Speaker 1: pack the stuff up. But why would that make you
Speaker 1: stop seeing somebody that you were having a good time with?
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, like I haven't said no yet to
Speaker 1: like going out again. Like I'm just trying to think
Speaker 1: about how to like bring up that. You think it's
Speaker 1: like a little weird. I feel bad that I just
Speaker 1: like laughed. Maybe in a Christmas card it would get
Speaker 1: across to him how you really felt. I wonder if
Speaker 1: there was another we could bring it up. That's an
Speaker 1: interesting point, Jose. Thank you Jeffrey, because maybe it's the
Speaker 1: right time to let you know, Jody that Dan has
Speaker 1: been on the other line listening this entire time and
Speaker 1: wants to talk to you. What now, Yeah, he sees
Speaker 1: you when he's sleeping and he knows that you're away.
Speaker 1: Don't do that up on the phone. Yeah, yeah, I'm here, Hi, Jody. Hi,
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, can I ask you a question, Are
Speaker 1: you like Jewish or something? Is that why the whole
Speaker 1: thing's offending you? That's the question. It's a fair point. No,
Speaker 1: I'm not, actually, but I wouldn't say I'm offended by it.
Speaker 1: I just thought it was weird. Um, Can I ask
Speaker 1: a question? You had a radio station call me? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I might have been an over overreaction. I mean, it's
Speaker 1: it's only been like four days since I saw you.
Speaker 1: Were like, I don't yea once it's like five six days.
Speaker 1: A second day isn't going to happen. So I just
Speaker 1: wanted to figure it out either way. I will say
Speaker 1: I'll back Dan on that because honestly, Jody, be honest,
Speaker 1: were you actually going to call him back? I honestly
Speaker 1: was still thinking about it. That's honestly. Think the less
Speaker 1: the chances are you calling him, it goes six, seven,
Speaker 1: eight days, next thing, you know, it's exponential growth. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm all about that, okay, But the problem obviously comes
Speaker 1: from the Christmas decorations inside Dan's apartment. So Dan, can
Speaker 1: you explain why do you have Christmas decorations up right now?
Speaker 1: I just I like the holiday vibe, you know, like
Speaker 1: it improves my spirit and attitude. You know, if I'm
Speaker 1: having a bad day, I turn on the lights, it
Speaker 1: feels a little happier. Dude, totally all year law, I mean,
Speaker 1: I wasn't that the thing about the holidays. It's like
Speaker 1: a special time of year. If you make it twelve
Speaker 1: months the out of the year, then it's not special anymore.
Speaker 1: I can understand that viewpoint. It's been working for me.
Speaker 1: I mean, this was the first year I've gotten year round,
Speaker 1: but I've definitely gotten six months before, you know, And
Speaker 1: if we're putting cards on the table, like I didn't
Speaker 1: even show you my reindeer. What reindeer? I have a
Speaker 1: whole collection of different stuffed reindeer, you know, like fifty
Speaker 1: different ones, and it made you fifty feel better about things. Okay,
Speaker 1: just fifty stuffed reindeer. That's not weird, right, Jody? Oh my,
Speaker 1: I mean it's the whole thing is weird. I just
Speaker 1: have Christmas stuff up right now. I mean, I just
Speaker 1: to me, it's a little weird. I mean, I guess,
Speaker 1: like maybe wanting to cheer yourself up, is it like
Speaker 1: a nice idea to just have? Like I don't know
Speaker 1: about the reindeer though, but lightning. I don't understand why
Speaker 1: you're hating on Christmas like this. I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: think'st I'm not hating on it. I just like I
Speaker 1: was surprised more than anything. Okay, Well, Dan, now you
Speaker 1: know what made her feel uncomfortable? Yeah? Yeah, And Jody
Speaker 1: you know now that he's a little bit of a
Speaker 1: Christmas freak. So with now that all the feelings are
Speaker 1: out there, what do you say, Jody to go in
Speaker 1: out with Dan one more time? We'll pay for it,
Speaker 1: I mean, and on top of this, we'll also throw
Speaker 1: in a free helping of Christmas cheer on the house. Dan,
Speaker 1: can I ask you like one more question? Okay, like,
Speaker 1: would you be open to maybe just like toning it
Speaker 1: down a little bit? Like the tree? Definitely it's but
Speaker 1: maybe like the stocking, like Jody, you're getting a little
Speaker 1: ConTroll and you're trying to redecorate his entire apartment. My god,
Speaker 1: I'm with you, Jody, take it down, Dan. Okay, I
Speaker 1: guess it's been far enough away from Christmas. I could
Speaker 1: get rid of some stuff put in the closet, the
Speaker 1: tree and stocking, but can I keep the snowman soap dish? Though?
Speaker 1: I really watched when I wash my hand? What do
Speaker 1: you think, Jody, don't be a scrooge. I'm okay with
Speaker 1: the soap dish, all right? So is that a yes?
Speaker 1: You guys are going to go out on another date? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a yes? All right? All right? Look at the
Speaker 1: magic The season does exist. Holidays Now sing us out
Speaker 1: with a Christmas tune. Here comes Dan the clause, Here
Speaker 1: comes Santa Clause. Here Dan, I could I change Santa?
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