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<v Speaker 1>for a second date update from a guy named Dan,

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<v Speaker 1>and Dan only waited four days after his date to

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<v Speaker 1>get in touch with us. Okay. Normally, yeah, yeah, Normally

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<v Speaker 1>people wait like a week, two weeks, several years before

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<v Speaker 1>they'll unlist our help. It's actually yeah, it's happened multiple times.

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<v Speaker 1>But Dan needs instant gratification. Okay, And I'm just gonna say, Dan,

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<v Speaker 1>you're coming across a little bit needy and it's turning

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<v Speaker 1>me on. It's that instant gratification. I just want to

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<v Speaker 1>figure it out before the line goes cold. Yeah, Jeff,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I thought. I'm just saying it's working. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Maybe she doesn't feel the same way

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<v Speaker 1>that I do. You like clinging, but who do you

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<v Speaker 1>need to get ahold of? Tell us her name? Because

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<v Speaker 1>if you're checking in with us after four days. A

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<v Speaker 1>problem means you've called her upwards of like forty times, no,

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<v Speaker 1>like three times. Yeah, anybody in the room believed we'll

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<v Speaker 1>do the radio map on one. You multiplied by fifty six? Yea.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's her name? Her name is Jody? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>And how'd you meet Jody? We met on a dating app? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what'd you like about her? So? I just like how

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<v Speaker 1>she was like put together, because you know a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people are just in their yoga pants on the apps,

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<v Speaker 1>but she was actually like well dressed, put together. And

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<v Speaker 1>then like when we met up in person, she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>wear any makeup and still look good, you know, which

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<v Speaker 1>I like and appreciate that. It's not she I tries,

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<v Speaker 1>but isn't like too obsessed about it. Okay, most girls

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<v Speaker 1>would never I don't want a date without makeup. Well

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<v Speaker 1>the girls I'm into. Yeah, Okay, what'd you guys end

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<v Speaker 1>up doing for your date? Well, we decided to just

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<v Speaker 1>hang out and grab a drink, because you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>never know what people are like in person and all that. Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>what does that mean? You don't know what people are

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<v Speaker 1>going to be like in person? So you know, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>our photos are like three years and forty five pounds ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe the guy's a crazy person, so you meet in public.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what everyone had those experiences. Hasn't everyone on a

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<v Speaker 1>dating nap had those experiences? Yeah, yeah, you're making me

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<v Speaker 1>sound weird. I'm not the weird one here. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I think that that's safe. One drink isn't a

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<v Speaker 1>huge commitment. It's half an hour tops. If things aren't

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<v Speaker 1>going well, yeah, exactly. But things were going well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we're drinking at the bar. I'm like, brilliant. The skim boarding,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what that was. It's like surfing, but instead

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<v Speaker 1>of being in the water, you're on the sand and

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<v Speaker 1>run towards the water and then like drop the board

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<v Speaker 1>and hop on right right. It's like I always thought

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<v Speaker 1>that was boogieboarding or whatever, but it's differently on bowie.

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<v Speaker 1>If let's just start running and throw the board on

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<v Speaker 1>the sands, on the wet sand and go into the ocean,

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<v Speaker 1>it looks like it's more painful when you fall. It's

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<v Speaker 1>definitely not fun when you fall. But I would agree

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<v Speaker 1>with that. Impressed well if she'd never heard of it, So,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I showed a couple of videos. Then I

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<v Speaker 1>started actually asked the bartender for like an old cardboard

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<v Speaker 1>box and started demonstrating it in the bar. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>little room. You demonstrated skimboarding in the bar, like slow

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<v Speaker 1>most I didn't actually go anywhere, you know, but just

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<v Speaker 1>the mechanics of it, like you run, dropped and slide.

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<v Speaker 1>What was her response to that? She would up to it.

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<v Speaker 1>And then after a couple of times I did it,

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<v Speaker 1>she decided to do it. But then like she started

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<v Speaker 1>falling over, but I caught her, you know, like it

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of yeah, that worked out her when you

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<v Speaker 1>caught her or what'd you do? We had a nice

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<v Speaker 1>eye contact moment, you know, kind of huggy, grippy, but

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<v Speaker 1>didn't grippy. Sounds like things were going well, yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And then a little while later I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what about coming over to my place to watch a movie?

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<v Speaker 1>And she was totally down with it. Okay, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking maybe a movie, maybe something else, right, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>because nobody ever just means movie. Yeah. How did things

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<v Speaker 1>go back at your place? It started out good, we

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<v Speaker 1>started watching a movie, but like my place was a

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<v Speaker 1>little dirty. Maybe I didn't believe in myself that night

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<v Speaker 1>before I left, I didn't like clean up, right, I

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<v Speaker 1>know that's gonna happen anyway. Oh, I see. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like it always works that way though, right, Like it's

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<v Speaker 1>like when you go out and you're a woman and

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<v Speaker 1>you don't shave your legs, you're like, A, well, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna lead to anything, and then you're like, dang it,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not so Harry. I mean, it sounds like a

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<v Speaker 1>match made in heaven. Like you didn't clean your apartment,

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't put on makeup or try at all, Like

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't seem like this, but my god, like I

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<v Speaker 1>hadn't done the dishes in the trash and like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, like fifteen twenty minutes in, I felt her

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<v Speaker 1>notice it really like the five definitely changed. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>say anything about it? No, Before I even could, she

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<v Speaker 1>just started going like, I'm getting tired. I gotta go,

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<v Speaker 1>but I definitely want to come back and we'll finish

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<v Speaker 1>the movie and other time. Well that seems a legit though,

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<v Speaker 1>but she never called back. I feel she's totally blowing

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<v Speaker 1>me off. Okay, weird. So what do you think it is?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a messy apartment, but I usually I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not messy at all. But that's the crazy thing. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just that was the one time that I didn't clean

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<v Speaker 1>that day, you know, and for that week, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>work a lot and didn't get a chance to clean up.

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<v Speaker 1>And I guess I should always believe in myself. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good place to start. Yeah, I know. But

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<v Speaker 1>there's nothing more depressing than when you clean up right

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<v Speaker 1>before a date and then you come home alone to

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<v Speaker 1>spotless apartment. You're like, well, that was a double waste

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<v Speaker 1>of time. Rubs it in your face. Yeah, that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I never can do bro. I feel you, man, You

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<v Speaker 1>and jose are kindred spirits. So all right, well we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to play a song. We'll come back and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>call Jody for you and try and get you your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Okay, all right, maybe you can convince

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<v Speaker 1>her I'm not a slob. I mean, you're asking a

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<v Speaker 1>lot for me. You're still really playing that needy role here.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll try our best. All right, we're gonna do that next.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're just tuning in for the second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>we're on the phone with one of our listeners named Dan.

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<v Speaker 1>And Dan most people would probably look at your date

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<v Speaker 1>and point out all the red flags. Oh you know,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm not going to do that, Okay, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to call attention to the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>you're anti women wearing yoga pants, or that you set

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<v Speaker 1>a one drink limit for yourself at the bar for

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<v Speaker 1>some reason, or your unusually dirty apartment. And I'm especially

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<v Speaker 1>not going to harp on the fact that it's only

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<v Speaker 1>been four days since you met this woman and now

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<v Speaker 1>you're asking a radio station to contact her for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to point those things out. But what

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<v Speaker 1>I will point out is that you, sir, have one

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<v Speaker 1>of the best, and I really mean this one of

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<v Speaker 1>the best phone connections that we've ever heard show. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's something no amount of red flags can never take

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<v Speaker 1>away from you. Thank you. I appreciate that. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>is clear, It's very clear. Yeah, I know that's like

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<v Speaker 1>five bars, right, Yeah, I think so, Dan, just checking.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, is there anything else that we need to

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<v Speaker 1>know that you're leaving out? Because sometimes people do that

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<v Speaker 1>with us. Look, I understand how you could twist us,

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<v Speaker 1>but like, here's the deal, right, Like I like her,

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<v Speaker 1>Like who skimboards in a bar? You know, Like she's cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Plus honestly, like I only watched a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>the movie with her before she left, and I want

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<v Speaker 1>to see the end of the movie. I will say,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's a good sign. It's a good sign

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<v Speaker 1>of a devoted person if you're actually willing to not

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<v Speaker 1>finish a movie without someone else. Yes, Dan, you're definitely

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<v Speaker 1>one of our most devoted callers that we've ever had

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<v Speaker 1>calling for a second date update. I think that's a compliment.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the biggest compliment I can give. Or it's just there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, So we're gonna call Jody for you and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update. Okay, are you ready? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready? Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak

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<v Speaker 1>to Jody? Please? Who's calling? Is this Jody? Who's calling?

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<v Speaker 1>I asked you first? Is this Jody? That's fairy. This

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<v Speaker 1>is Jeffrey from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Now you go? Is this Jody? Okay? Um? Yeah, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>hid Hi. We're calling you today because we're doing something

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<v Speaker 1>called a second date update. Have you ever heard of

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<v Speaker 1>that before? Maybe? I don't know, like a long time ago.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Okay, Well, just to refresh your memory.

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<v Speaker 1>It's if someone goes out on a date and afterwards

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<v Speaker 1>they're not getting a call back, they can reach out

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<v Speaker 1>to us and we'll call that person for you to

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<v Speaker 1>figure out the reason why. Oh that's so weird. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're calling you because you recently went out with a guy.

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<v Speaker 1>His name's Dan. Oh, yeah, very recently. Yeah, four days ago.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, Yeah, I just went out with him. He's eager, Jody.

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<v Speaker 1>He had a really good time with you, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>wondering how you felt about it. Um, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I am, because he did tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>what happened on the date. He said, you guys went

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<v Speaker 1>to a bar and he showed you how to what

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<v Speaker 1>was it, skin surfing? Skin board? Yeah, yeah, we did that. Yeah, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like you enjoyed that. Well you had to

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<v Speaker 1>have enjoyed it, because he said that. I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>guys went back to his apartment, So if you weren't

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<v Speaker 1>having a good time, you would have left already. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we did go back to his place to watch a movie,

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<v Speaker 1>and I mean it was fine at first, but I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I started feeling a little uncomfortable. When did those

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<v Speaker 1>uncomfortable feelings begin? I feel like we're at a six

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<v Speaker 1>great sex said, classhold a sudden. Yeah, no, he was

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<v Speaker 1>like a gentleman, right, Like, it wasn't like that. But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I wasn't there that long, and his

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<v Speaker 1>apartment is just a little weird. I didn't mention that

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<v Speaker 1>it was kind of dirty. Yeah, was that a turn off?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean a little of that maybe, But like then

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<v Speaker 1>I went and I used the restroom, and I noticed

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<v Speaker 1>that there was like this snowman soap dish, which I

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<v Speaker 1>just like thought was weird. And then when I came out,

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<v Speaker 1>I noticed that there were like these Santa figurine thing

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<v Speaker 1>on like his coffee table, and there was like Christmas

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<v Speaker 1>stuff on his mantel. And as I was coming out

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<v Speaker 1>of the bathroom, I could see like the back corner

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<v Speaker 1>of the room where we were sitting there, like and

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<v Speaker 1>there's a big Christmas tree in the corner. Now, you

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<v Speaker 1>must have been like more than one drink in if

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<v Speaker 1>you missed a Christmas tree when you walked in. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't on. Only got home obviously, Like the lights

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<v Speaker 1>are all off, but when I came out of the bathroom,

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<v Speaker 1>he had turned the light on on the Christmas tree.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like an apartment, Yeah, but it's like not

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas time, right, So I don't know who it was

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<v Speaker 1>going on, and I don't know. It was like a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of stuff, Like I kind of felt like he's

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<v Speaker 1>like a Christmas freak or something like. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it's like laziness. Maybe he just doesn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>pack the stuff up. But why would that make you

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<v Speaker 1>stop seeing somebody that you were having a good time with?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, honestly, like I haven't said no yet to

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<v Speaker 1>like going out again. Like I'm just trying to think

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<v Speaker 1>about how to like bring up that. You think it's

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<v Speaker 1>like a little weird. I feel bad that I just

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<v Speaker 1>like laughed. Maybe in a Christmas card it would get

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<v Speaker 1>across to him how you really felt. I wonder if

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<v Speaker 1>there was another we could bring it up. That's an

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<v Speaker 1>interesting point, Jose. Thank you Jeffrey, because maybe it's the

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<v Speaker 1>right time to let you know, Jody that Dan has

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<v Speaker 1>been on the other line listening this entire time and

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<v Speaker 1>wants to talk to you. What now, Yeah, he sees

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<v Speaker 1>you when he's sleeping and he knows that you're away.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't do that up on the phone. Yeah, yeah, I'm here, Hi, Jody. Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, can I ask you a question, Are

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<v Speaker 1>you like Jewish or something? Is that why the whole

0:12:17.920 --> 0:12:25.240
<v Speaker 1>thing's offending you? That's the question. It's a fair point. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not, actually, but I wouldn't say I'm offended by it.

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought it was weird. Um, Can I ask

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<v Speaker 1>a question? You had a radio station call me? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I might have been an over overreaction. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's only been like four days since I saw you.

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<v Speaker 1>Were like, I don't yea once it's like five six days.

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<v Speaker 1>A second day isn't going to happen. So I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to figure it out either way. I will say

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<v Speaker 1>I'll back Dan on that because honestly, Jody, be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>were you actually going to call him back? I honestly

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<v Speaker 1>was still thinking about it. That's honestly. Think the less

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<v Speaker 1>the chances are you calling him, it goes six, seven,

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<v Speaker 1>eight days, next thing, you know, it's exponential growth. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm all about that, okay, But the problem obviously comes

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<v Speaker 1>from the Christmas decorations inside Dan's apartment. So Dan, can

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<v Speaker 1>you explain why do you have Christmas decorations up right now?

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<v Speaker 1>I just I like the holiday vibe, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>it improves my spirit and attitude. You know, if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>having a bad day, I turn on the lights, it

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<v Speaker 1>feels a little happier. Dude, totally all year law, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't that the thing about the holidays. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>a special time of year. If you make it twelve

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<v Speaker 1>months the out of the year, then it's not special anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>I can understand that viewpoint. It's been working for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this was the first year I've gotten year round,

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<v Speaker 1>but I've definitely gotten six months before, you know, And

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<v Speaker 1>if we're putting cards on the table, like I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even show you my reindeer. What reindeer? I have a

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<v Speaker 1>whole collection of different stuffed reindeer, you know, like fifty

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<v Speaker 1>different ones, and it made you fifty feel better about things. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>just fifty stuffed reindeer. That's not weird, right, Jody? Oh my,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's the whole thing is weird. I just

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<v Speaker 1>have Christmas stuff up right now. I mean, I just

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<v Speaker 1>to me, it's a little weird. I mean, I guess,

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<v Speaker 1>like maybe wanting to cheer yourself up, is it like

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<v Speaker 1>a nice idea to just have? Like I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>about the reindeer though, but lightning. I don't understand why

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<v Speaker 1>you're hating on Christmas like this. I don't. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think'st I'm not hating on it. I just like I

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<v Speaker 1>was surprised more than anything. Okay, Well, Dan, now you

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<v Speaker 1>know what made her feel uncomfortable? Yeah? Yeah, And Jody

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<v Speaker 1>you know now that he's a little bit of a

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<v Speaker 1>Christmas freak. So with now that all the feelings are

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<v Speaker 1>out there, what do you say, Jody to go in

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<v Speaker 1>out with Dan one more time? We'll pay for it,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, and on top of this, we'll also throw

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<v Speaker 1>in a free helping of Christmas cheer on the house. Dan,

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<v Speaker 1>can I ask you like one more question? Okay, like,

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<v Speaker 1>would you be open to maybe just like toning it

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<v Speaker 1>down a little bit? Like the tree? Definitely it's but

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<v Speaker 1>maybe like the stocking, like Jody, you're getting a little

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<v Speaker 1>ConTroll and you're trying to redecorate his entire apartment. My god,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm with you, Jody, take it down, Dan. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess it's been far enough away from Christmas. I could

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<v Speaker 1>get rid of some stuff put in the closet, the

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<v Speaker 1>tree and stocking, but can I keep the snowman soap dish? Though?

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<v Speaker 1>I really watched when I wash my hand? What do

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<v Speaker 1>you think, Jody, don't be a scrooge. I'm okay with

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<v Speaker 1>the soap dish, all right? So is that a yes?

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are going to go out on another date? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a yes? All right? All right? Look at the

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<v Speaker 1>magic The season does exist. Holidays Now sing us out

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<v Speaker 1>with a Christmas tune. Here comes Dan the clause, Here

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<v Speaker 1>comes Santa Clause. Here Dan, I could I change Santa?

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<v Speaker 1>The Danna good good Dad Moving ninety two point five