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Speaker 1: for a second date update from a guy named Dan,

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Speaker 1: and Dan only waited four days after his date to

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Speaker 1: get in touch with us. Okay. Normally, yeah, yeah, Normally

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Speaker 1: people wait like a week, two weeks, several years before

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Speaker 1: they'll unlist our help. It's actually yeah, it's happened multiple times.

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Speaker 1: But Dan needs instant gratification. Okay, And I'm just gonna say, Dan,

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Speaker 1: me on. It's that instant gratification. I just want to

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Speaker 1: figure it out before the line goes cold. Yeah, Jeff,

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Speaker 1: that's what I thought. I'm just saying it's working. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe she doesn't feel the same way

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Speaker 1: that I do. You like clinging, but who do you

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Speaker 1: need to get ahold of? Tell us her name? Because

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Speaker 1: if you're checking in with us after four days. A

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Speaker 1: problem means you've called her upwards of like forty times, no,

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Speaker 1: like three times. Yeah, anybody in the room believed we'll

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Speaker 1: do the radio map on one. You multiplied by fifty six? Yea.

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Speaker 1: So what's her name? Her name is Jody? All right,

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Speaker 1: And how'd you meet Jody? We met on a dating app? Okay,

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Speaker 1: what'd you like about her? So? I just like how

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Speaker 1: would never I don't want a date without makeup. Well

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Speaker 1: up doing for your date? Well, we decided to just

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Speaker 1: never know what people are like in person and all that. Sure,

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Speaker 1: what does that mean? You don't know what people are

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Speaker 1: our photos are like three years and forty five pounds ago.

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Speaker 1: Maybe the guy's a crazy person, so you meet in public.

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Speaker 1: That's what everyone had those experiences. Hasn't everyone on a

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Speaker 1: dating nap had those experiences? Yeah, yeah, you're making me

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Speaker 1: going well, yeah, exactly. But things were going well, you know,

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Speaker 1: And Dan most people would probably look at your date

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Speaker 1: but I'm not going to do that, Okay, all right.

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Speaker 1: you're asking a radio station to contact her for you.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to point those things out. But what

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Speaker 1: that's something no amount of red flags can never take

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Speaker 1: is clear, It's very clear. Yeah, I know that's like

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Speaker 1: Like who skimboards in a bar? You know, Like she's cool.

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Speaker 1: Plus honestly, like I only watched a little bit of

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Speaker 1: I think that's a good sign. It's a good sign

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Speaker 1: one of our most devoted callers that we've ever had

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Speaker 1: calling for a second date update. I think that's a compliment.

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Speaker 1: It's the biggest compliment I can give. Or it's just there. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm ready? Here we go. Hello, Hi, can I speak

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Speaker 1: to Jody? Please? Who's calling? Is this Jody? Who's calling?

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Speaker 1: I asked you first? Is this Jody? That's fairy. This

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Speaker 1: the Morning. Now you go? Is this Jody? Okay? Um? Yeah, yes,

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Speaker 1: hid Hi. We're calling you today because we're doing something

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Speaker 1: that before? Maybe? I don't know, like a long time ago.

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Speaker 1: figure out the reason why. Oh that's so weird. Well,

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Speaker 1: His name's Dan. Oh, yeah, very recently. Yeah, four days ago.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's like laziness. Maybe he just doesn't want to

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Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, like I haven't said no yet to

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Speaker 1: interesting point, Jose. Thank you Jeffrey, because maybe it's the

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Speaker 1: right time to let you know, Jody that Dan has

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Speaker 1: Don't do that up on the phone. Yeah, yeah, I'm here, Hi, Jody. Hi,

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, can I ask you a question, Are

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Speaker 1: thing's offending you? That's the question. It's a fair point. No,

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Speaker 1: it's only been like four days since I saw you.

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Speaker 1: eight days, next thing, you know, it's exponential growth. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm all about that, okay, But the problem obviously comes

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Speaker 1: you explain why do you have Christmas decorations up right now?

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Speaker 1: I just I like the holiday vibe, you know, like

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Speaker 1: I wasn't that the thing about the holidays. It's like

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Speaker 1: I can understand that viewpoint. It's been working for me.

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Speaker 1: even show you my reindeer. What reindeer? I have a

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Speaker 1: just fifty stuffed reindeer. That's not weird, right, Jody? Oh my,

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Speaker 1: I mean it's the whole thing is weird. I just

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Speaker 1: I mean, and on top of this, we'll also throw

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Speaker 1: tree and stocking, but can I keep the snowman soap dish? Though?

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Speaker 1: you think, Jody, don't be a scrooge. I'm okay with

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Speaker 1: the soap dish, all right? So is that a yes?

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Speaker 1: You guys are going to go out on another date? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: magic The season does exist. Holidays Now sing us out

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Speaker 1: with a Christmas tune. Here comes Dan the clause, Here

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Speaker 1: comes Santa Clause. Here Dan, I could I change Santa?

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