Speaker 1: Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No
Speaker 1: Sinners Podcast with your host. Now funk that with your
Speaker 1: low glasses. Malone, He's good. The simple made strawberry, the lime.
Speaker 1: The blueberry tastes good, especially with tequila. Um, Tequila don't
Speaker 1: really taste good. You know what. Actually some tequila like
Speaker 1: it does tastes good. Like it does. It gives it
Speaker 1: like a little like kick to the lemonade. Tequila tastes
Speaker 1: good with juice. It does. Juice tastes good. That's tequila
Speaker 1: tastes good. No, but the lemonade. Okay, So I don't
Speaker 1: usually drink petrone because I had like my patrone days, right,
Speaker 1: So I got some patrone this weekend, and so I
Speaker 1: was like, okay, let me mix it with this lemonade.
Speaker 1: And so I mix it with the I'm like, this
Speaker 1: tastes good. It was. It was good. It has like
Speaker 1: a different The patron does have a different They have
Speaker 1: a different It has a different taste than like because
Speaker 1: I had Don Julio like the other weekend. So like,
Speaker 1: I'm weekend tequila tastes bad. Maybe to you. I've never
Speaker 1: tasted tequilla chill tequila depending it does, but not all
Speaker 1: chill tequila, not all. So y'all lined that tequila tastes
Speaker 1: y'all saying liquor tastes good. We said tequila liquor. Some
Speaker 1: liquor tastes good, but cards like rum tastes good. It
Speaker 1: tastes rum tastes good. You want to try, you can't
Speaker 1: even because you don't even know how anything tastes right now.
Speaker 1: So I don't even know. I just think it's a
Speaker 1: part of enough people to understand that it's a part
Speaker 1: of this big lie where everybody just lie for some
Speaker 1: reason and just be lying, like how wealthy black people
Speaker 1: lie by how much money they make. It's just lies
Speaker 1: that the black community seem to just tell some know
Speaker 1: some liquor. Liquor does not taste good. Rum is sweet,
Speaker 1: and it tastes good. It tastes sweeter than other liquors.
Speaker 1: But favor it's good. You mean it's flavored with other
Speaker 1: things that taste no matter, it's still liquor taste good
Speaker 1: on the core. Liquor. Yeah, that's so desperate. Whatever, man,
Speaker 1: Hey man, you don't want to drink it, it's fine.
Speaker 1: We like it tastes good to us. You got some
Speaker 1: in here, somewhere. Hey, I'm not I'm not driving. Why
Speaker 1: is that what you got from that? Because you're saying
Speaker 1: it's not how you got whatever? What are you talking
Speaker 1: about it? I don't why you haven't really realized at
Speaker 1: this point, I realized it, trust me. I told you, wait, wait,
Speaker 1: what are you saying? The lesson in the d D
Speaker 1: Y was because really, it's not to drink and drive,
Speaker 1: Like is not to drink. Oh, it's not to drink
Speaker 1: and dry. To be honest, I really just think that
Speaker 1: it's just silly that y'all sit around and poison yourself
Speaker 1: that fun like you poison yourself for a certain amount
Speaker 1: of time right where it sits around. It throws off
Speaker 1: your i Q with throws off your equilibrium. Somehow you're
Speaker 1: trying to convince somebody that you're having fun. Fucking retarded.
Speaker 1: It be fun sometimes? What else is spin around the circle?
Speaker 1: That's not fun? Around the circle? Just start walking around.
Speaker 1: That's not fun. That's like being drunk. No, it's not.
Speaker 1: But I don't think to get drunk. I don't drink.
Speaker 1: I can tell you why because I always look at
Speaker 1: y'all and you walk like you dizzy. Be that that
Speaker 1: girl I've it has happened when I was younger, but
Speaker 1: as a grown woman. No, I don't drink what you
Speaker 1: ain't grown enough to be grown to be. Listen, I
Speaker 1: am grown grown, but you ain't. You ain't that far
Speaker 1: enough to where you should be talking about when I
Speaker 1: was a young woman. Oh, yes, yes I am. I
Speaker 1: can hope. We got one. We got another one coming.
Speaker 1: We're gonna share this one, y'all. Just a hype. We're
Speaker 1: a good height, y'all. Just know, because it's just one day.
Speaker 1: I want you to just be so honest. And what
Speaker 1: I'm trying to do with y'all, like the whole point
Speaker 1: of no ceilings, outside of exploring these caves of conversation
Speaker 1: with the community, is also to get y'all to actually
Speaker 1: be real for one day in your life. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: A lighter thank you. But if you really think about it,
Speaker 1: that's what drinking all is. When somebody poisoning theirselfs poisoning
Speaker 1: their bloodstream, thinning it out right to be lightheaded, and
Speaker 1: the observe of all the sugar. So it's it's a
Speaker 1: combination of being dehydrated in dizzy. I don't know about dizzy,
Speaker 1: but I definitely dehydrated. I know why I'd be like
Speaker 1: some water. So it's like you're saying when you're saying
Speaker 1: you want to drink, it's like I'm trying to poison myself.
Speaker 1: And I still have yet to figure out quite a
Speaker 1: real reason. Because people be like drink to happen. I
Speaker 1: mean you can drink with I mean there's wine, sip wine,
Speaker 1: and they don't have to be like not everybody drinks
Speaker 1: like turn up. Why can't you just relax? Some people
Speaker 1: just keep some time? You can't? How the fund can't
Speaker 1: you relax? What do you mean do you relax all
Speaker 1: the time when I want to? If I tell my
Speaker 1: body to really it's my body. You mean to tell
Speaker 1: me you need help to tell you it's just no,
Speaker 1: it's just it helps. It's just you like poisoning yourself.
Speaker 1: I like the feeling when I drink a glass of wine,
Speaker 1: the way it makes me feel. You can't make yourself
Speaker 1: feel like that, naturally I might be able to. But
Speaker 1: the wine is good. It tastes good too. Hmm. It's okay, frogs,
Speaker 1: it's okay. Sometimes we just carry your lives, Like why
Speaker 1: do you date people younger than you? Um, what's that about?
Speaker 1: Because I brought this conversation to you, like you you
Speaker 1: dating somebody young? What does that really do for you
Speaker 1: as a grown ass woman? Like you just grown grown
Speaker 1: ass woman? I need a little last boy. No, no,
Speaker 1: why a little very nice to say, because there's a
Speaker 1: lot of younger men that are doing their ships. So
Speaker 1: a lot of the men that's doing this ship a
Speaker 1: lot of young younger men. Why are you coming out her? Like?
Speaker 1: What are you talking about for me today? As you are?
Speaker 1: You just said I'm praying you act like I'm aside, like, hey,
Speaker 1: where the young is that? I don't want to nobody
Speaker 1: if he ain't young, I'm not doing this. Said you
Speaker 1: prefer younger men. No, I did not say that. I said,
Speaker 1: I just pressed my hand up. When you said we're
Speaker 1: gonna talk about cougars, I said, that's me. She didn't
Speaker 1: say she prefers. That's her. Cougars prefer younger men. So
Speaker 1: that thing, well, I know for her, she always gets
Speaker 1: approached by younger guys. She's sure, okay, whatever, but that's
Speaker 1: who she gets approached by. So that's who she ends up.
Speaker 1: That's why I get approached by younger guys because I'm
Speaker 1: short approach you. I don't know what do you mean?
Speaker 1: Why what they approach because maybe they think that she's younger.
Speaker 1: I don't just what are you making it about? Listen,
Speaker 1: honestly don't know why they approached me. But whatever, it
Speaker 1: is what it is. But um, do you prefer to
Speaker 1: dating younger younger guys? I don't prefer it. I feel
Speaker 1: like you like it though. I mean, it can be
Speaker 1: funny if you get it. What do you get a
Speaker 1: kick out of dating younger guys? How young? How young?
Speaker 1: If somebody how many years? Okay? The youngest I've ever
Speaker 1: dated that was younger than me was like nine years
Speaker 1: younger than me. Really okay, I probably can't get right.
Speaker 1: I was just thinking she it was only too. I
Speaker 1: haven't dated that many younger guys, like I've had guys
Speaker 1: on me that was. But as far as dating like
Speaker 1: it is for sure for sure too. You mean like
Speaker 1: in a relationship, you know, we're talking about just dating
Speaker 1: and it was just just messing around or just talking
Speaker 1: to him or something. Then they'd be on me, what's up? Grandma? Whoa?
Speaker 1: They're really aggressive to us, Like, let me tell you, Okay,
Speaker 1: the guy that I ended up with that. We actually
Speaker 1: was in relationship and the first guy ever lived with
Speaker 1: was younger than he was nine years younger than me.
Speaker 1: And when I tell you this boy who he pressed me,
Speaker 1: I was like, no, you're too young, like whatever. Whenever
Speaker 1: he's like, what are you talking about? Like what the
Speaker 1: funk I could do x y, I'm like no. I
Speaker 1: I told him no so many times, so many times
Speaker 1: he was cool and I like them Fine, yeah it
Speaker 1: was hellicol And finally no he was he wasn't. My
Speaker 1: son was like five years old when this happened. Stop
Speaker 1: but that was pretty much how I went. But he
Speaker 1: ended up. We ended up let him take me on
Speaker 1: a date and it was bomb like, we had a
Speaker 1: good time. What do y'all, God'll go to see just
Speaker 1: a little? You date younger women. I date all women,
Speaker 1: and I no not, I date all women. It's different.
Speaker 1: I don't have a preference in women. I'm not. I'm
Speaker 1: not prejudiced towards any woman. All women could be a woman,
Speaker 1: older women. I don't have a preference. Okay, I don't
Speaker 1: have a preference. I don't date. I don't like night
Speaker 1: skinny girls and dark skinned girls. I don't like skinny
Speaker 1: girls and thick girls. I like women owners. It's put
Speaker 1: together the way they're supposed to be put together. Should
Speaker 1: it works out for me, it's good. Okay, Yet it's
Speaker 1: too strong, shout out. It's why I'm sorry. I had
Speaker 1: a long day. So you know, it just comes out
Speaker 1: no sailings, gl red, what's happening? Read what's happening. So
Speaker 1: tell me about that day. I went to Tucky Cheese.
Speaker 1: We just went to eat and we just had everything McDonald's.
Speaker 1: And he went to the movies. No, he was not
Speaker 1: not No, he was not cheap at all. He was
Speaker 1: holding it hey something, he had this ship together, okay, right,
Speaker 1: happy didn't play with the toy Listen. It was none
Speaker 1: of that. So you're trying to make it like I'm
Speaker 1: dealing with like little babies running around here. Not. No,
Speaker 1: they're just a little bit younger time twenties and I wasn't.
Speaker 1: I wasn't early thirties. I just I'm trying to figure
Speaker 1: this out, like this whole pride thing. Like, so for guys,
Speaker 1: I think God's day younger women be because they live
Speaker 1: vicariously through the approval of younger women. So a man
Speaker 1: that's forty five, I think he would get somebody that's
Speaker 1: twenty because it makes him feel like he still got it.
Speaker 1: What would be your reason? And to day somebody younger,
Speaker 1: like I saw a lot of talking about. She was like,
Speaker 1: oh the guy twenty one, And I'm like, live Live
Speaker 1: is old enough to be somebody's grandmother. Cheer is not
Speaker 1: old enough to be yes, like in this day and age,
Speaker 1: yes she is. But I for me, honestly, it was
Speaker 1: just funnna be real, honest, like I want to ride
Speaker 1: a roller coaster, just like they want to go like
Speaker 1: the like is to be like you want chill, Let's
Speaker 1: watch TV baby with you. Yeah, Like I don't want
Speaker 1: to go somewhere. Let's go somewhere, like go ride bike,
Speaker 1: some some ship like something like let's do something. I
Speaker 1: want to ride bike. She wouldn't get out, y'all. Y'all,
Speaker 1: y'all want to sit up and baby my back, scratch
Speaker 1: my back, scratch my back. No, But honestly, I would say,
Speaker 1: it was just it's just um in the sex, man,
Speaker 1: come on, come on, stop the sex. They'd be ready
Speaker 1: to go going all right, yeah, ready to go right.
Speaker 1: When I was a young it was now I would
Speaker 1: have not been your old ass by yourself. What I
Speaker 1: would have had, for sure, I would have for sure
Speaker 1: I had some younger bitches too, that you add some
Speaker 1: of your ladies because you for sure at that age
Speaker 1: where it's like, no, I wasn't like I was still
Speaker 1: what do you mean what you're trying to say? You
Speaker 1: ain't quite like twenty? Um, I was quite like thirty. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: I just don't work. That's that when you got a
Speaker 1: bad like your thirty in the real twenties different, so
Speaker 1: you know some bullshit. No, I ain't doing that. We're
Speaker 1: not doing that. I'm just saying nine years. That's a
Speaker 1: big difference. That's like when I tell y'all it took
Speaker 1: so long. I remember he was like today, that bring
Speaker 1: so many toys. How did you end up just saying, okay,
Speaker 1: let's let's get you guys moving in together. They lived together,
Speaker 1: they got a place together, his toys, toys. All that
Speaker 1: man did was worked and made sure I was straight
Speaker 1: and like and he worked out, And all you wanted
Speaker 1: to do was just make sure I was good. I'm
Speaker 1: not talking. I don't want to talk about that. It literally,
Speaker 1: I'm not about that. No crime moment. Why I did
Speaker 1: she turned no, because like, y'all, remember what's that song
Speaker 1: when it it's like it was donell John's song was
Speaker 1: like when you don't you really didn't want to be Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like we had everything like that age. You just
Speaker 1: don't treat them bad. Oh how I feel so sad
Speaker 1: now that I want to because but I just need
Speaker 1: time to see it wasn't for the little movie you
Speaker 1: like this type of ship? Oh my god, no, Bobby,
Speaker 1: don't do it. No, no, no, no, So let me
Speaker 1: ask you a question. Silly, So you like because you
Speaker 1: did kind of reference yourself as a cougar and y'all
Speaker 1: find that cool? Well, it was because it's it's like
Speaker 1: jokes always makes fun of me about that. That's why
Speaker 1: I said that. And I'm sure somewhere alone the line
Speaker 1: you feel like, y'all still god, that's why you know? Honestly,
Speaker 1: I don't now, yeah you still do. My dude is
Speaker 1: seven years I just thought about that. That's a grown
Speaker 1: ass man right there. Why Why would he why were we?
Speaker 1: Why were he wet? What? Yeah? What youre trying to say?
Speaker 1: Mature woman? Thank you, mature woman? What he already listening?
Speaker 1: He already got kids. All that ship. We're good like
Speaker 1: you don't mat I don't get when he had him
Speaker 1: long as he don't want me to have any So
Speaker 1: like what I'm saying is I'm saying is when you
Speaker 1: don't listen, if you don't want to have kids, she
Speaker 1: don't listen, Like if you are why I mean, he
Speaker 1: already got dating a personating a person. What do you mean,
Speaker 1: young guys, I'm not listen this this this this relationship
Speaker 1: right here, that ship took that just was like, oh wow,
Speaker 1: it was It was basically I met him, we talked
Speaker 1: for a split second, and then like I just got
Speaker 1: super busy and we just kind of like lost touch
Speaker 1: and then we ran into each other again type ship.
Speaker 1: But honestly, he's my best friend, Like I could tell
Speaker 1: him anything, Like he's supportive, he's just a really good dude. Like,
Speaker 1: so ship, why wouldn't I like? And it's hard when
Speaker 1: you um a woman like myself trying to work all
Speaker 1: the time and do certain things like if a man
Speaker 1: don't understand your drive, it's really hard. So when you
Speaker 1: meet someone, I don't care how old you are, Like
Speaker 1: if you care yourself in a certain manner and you
Speaker 1: treat me with respect, and we're we have that mutual
Speaker 1: liken like, no he's not he's not that ye that
Speaker 1: not like that, but you know what I mean by that,
Speaker 1: like he I'm his queen, like we we rocked. I
Speaker 1: don't care to say whatever you want, Like if you
Speaker 1: guys my age or older, like as long as you
Speaker 1: cool and we have some type of chemistry. I really
Speaker 1: don't why you don't think you have chemistry with older guys.
Speaker 1: You don't realize I'm not a I don't flirt I'm
Speaker 1: the worst. I will sit there and won't know nick
Speaker 1: if you do not say, hey, I'm trying to talk
Speaker 1: to you girl, I will literally be there like oblivious.
Speaker 1: Ask her, she will tell you. So I don't know
Speaker 1: what it is. I guess the younger guys have been
Speaker 1: more aggressive as far as like, hey you that is
Speaker 1: I won't give a funk. I'm just said. But that's
Speaker 1: my point is that's probably the change that needs to
Speaker 1: be made in your life now. Shout out to the
Speaker 1: Shout out to the young boy that you got right.
Speaker 1: Not flirtatious, but nobody should over pursue you to get
Speaker 1: your attention. It's not that good I'm saying, not like
Speaker 1: you're not that good, but it's not that good. It's
Speaker 1: like a relationship is a lot of work between two people.
Speaker 1: And if you make somebody put the sound messed up
Speaker 1: because you know, you know what I'm saying, because I'm
Speaker 1: not putting down saying great is not a wonderful woman,
Speaker 1: not just ridiculous, outstanding lady. But I'm saying the reason
Speaker 1: you keep running to the shout out to this little
Speaker 1: young dude. Got Now you stand up and doing stuff.
Speaker 1: Then we're gonna get on this knee eventually. But I'm
Speaker 1: sure you got to grow up a little bit more.
Speaker 1: Else that's a little bit more, And I'm cool with
Speaker 1: that because I'm enjoying this moment right now, Like I'm
Speaker 1: not sure, Hey, how long? How long can somebody date
Speaker 1: you without actually proposing? That's a good question, Like one
Speaker 1: is too long? Thought about that when it's too long?
Speaker 1: Would you be like this? Ni is still because I
Speaker 1: think women are not honest, And what I like to
Speaker 1: do on those seilings and what I hope to do
Speaker 1: further is give women a safe space to be honest. Now,
Speaker 1: I'm still gonna make fun of you personally, but it's
Speaker 1: a safe space because it's I really do sympathize with
Speaker 1: the calls. It's okay to laugh at some of our
Speaker 1: don't see you guys like I don't know, like what
Speaker 1: could you like could you be with them? My Let's
Speaker 1: say it's a good relationship and you with a guy
Speaker 1: for ten years, then this nick is still don't want
Speaker 1: to marry me? Damn, I would question it, like how many?
Speaker 1: How long in between do you think it's time? I
Speaker 1: dont want to ask you because you in the middle
Speaker 1: some ship, so I don't fun that nigh up like
Speaker 1: that they're a low rider, So what's too far? Like
Speaker 1: how long? I said, at least a couple of years too?
Speaker 1: I told you guys, he got that hold up bron
Speaker 1: like who you don't think of you for two years?
Speaker 1: He don't think to yourself like there's lots of people
Speaker 1: that in relationships from over two years and they're you know, good,
Speaker 1: Like honestly, I would want it to come naturally and
Speaker 1: want that or he I would want that to be
Speaker 1: organically like something that he wants to do. I wouldn't
Speaker 1: not how you wanted to go. I'm asking you with
Speaker 1: your brain, my brain. I'm definitely not. I'm definitely not
Speaker 1: this is my thing. I'm definitely not gonna shack it
Speaker 1: with you feel like, no, five damn years and you not? Um, Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I think five years is too long because how long
Speaker 1: is too long? Were not in your personal situation because
Speaker 1: how long is too long? Yeah? Where you kind of
Speaker 1: starting to question yourself where you think three years? I think, yeah,
Speaker 1: he might not be shirt like what's going on? Yeah,
Speaker 1: because you should know? Like I mean, I feel like,
Speaker 1: but when you like, is that why somebody with date
Speaker 1: younger man? Like why would why would allalla man? Right,
Speaker 1: y'all have vagiants y'all y'all both day and younger men?
Speaker 1: Why would you want a younger man? For real? Now,
Speaker 1: I could get it if you want a younger man
Speaker 1: because you want to just have sex. And you got
Speaker 1: this little little young nigga horny he just always that
Speaker 1: makes sense for you or play? But for real whitness
Speaker 1: like you were just talking to right, You're like, oh,
Speaker 1: when you get a young boy, y'all go on all
Speaker 1: these days you go ride bikes and chucky cheese and
Speaker 1: a real you and a for real relationship with your Yeah.
Speaker 1: But but what I'm saying is right, So I get it.
Speaker 1: When you get a younger guy for fun, right, but
Speaker 1: you know, as you grow up, even right now, even
Speaker 1: though it's certain things that you grow up and this
Speaker 1: ship like cool now, these bikes ain't cool every other weekend.
Speaker 1: It's real. Ship got to happen round here, championship got
Speaker 1: to get cleaned up. So it's dope when you're playing.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying, when ship get real? Like when does
Speaker 1: it become serious? Like when? Like that's what I don't understand,
Speaker 1: Like why would a cougar? What are you gonna do
Speaker 1: with a young boy? For real? I mean it's like
Speaker 1: I think you have to want to take care of
Speaker 1: the time. Most cougars normally, like if they are dealing
Speaker 1: with a younger guy, honestly is they're not tripping. They
Speaker 1: trying to get married. They're already over. Yeah, so they're
Speaker 1: not tripping. They want the good time. They want to
Speaker 1: be able to just to like have like a younger
Speaker 1: guy to look at and ship. You know what I mean,
Speaker 1: You ain't gotta look at like no wrinkles and ship
Speaker 1: like hey you know this young guy, come out, take
Speaker 1: your shirt off and you know ship. I'm thinking about it.
Speaker 1: Oh lord, stop, but you feel what I'm saying, like
Speaker 1: you know, I'm glad. Wow, I'm glad you baby all ego,
Speaker 1: they're older than eighteen, they're illegal. Definitely it should be
Speaker 1: over what's worse? What's worse a man that's twenty five
Speaker 1: year old dating a seventeen year old in California where
Speaker 1: it's illegal, or a woman that's fifty year old dating
Speaker 1: a man that's twenty one year old where it's legal.
Speaker 1: What's worse? Damn fifty praise? They came. We would have
Speaker 1: to just speak down on a woman. Did you just
Speaker 1: say fifty, Anthony? But do you really feel bad? Leg
Speaker 1: They don't matter how I feel about it, but said so,
Speaker 1: white people approve of it because that's what legal is.
Speaker 1: White people approve of it. In the mid and seven,
Speaker 1: I said, if you're twenty, if you met a twenty
Speaker 1: five year old man and his girlfriend was seventeen, what's
Speaker 1: worse that ort three year old woman with a twenty
Speaker 1: year old man and the fact that it's taking all
Speaker 1: this it's got to be. I think it's that like
Speaker 1: the guy in the Only I hate doing this because
Speaker 1: everybody I date older. No I know girls, I know
Speaker 1: we date older. But when you think about all the
Speaker 1: ship like that we shouldn't have been, we should seventeen,
Speaker 1: we shouldn't have been because it was like all you
Speaker 1: want to do is fun, like you like them blows
Speaker 1: niggers about the teen Well, I don't know. Now it's
Speaker 1: different a lot of people having seven years seventeen, Like
Speaker 1: I literally we had just lost my virginity. So I'm
Speaker 1: not I'm I can't. Really I didn't. I didn't start
Speaker 1: early kind of the cooler. Yeah, so you know she didn't.
Speaker 1: I shouldn't be dating nobody that, you know, sexual experience
Speaker 1: and older. Most of the time, you don't think the
Speaker 1: lady that's forty three got more sexual experience. But I'm
Speaker 1: just saying she may not have had, yeah, but three
Speaker 1: years probably got it. I'm not something about probably whoa
Speaker 1: you're talking about? Probably, Well, I say not. Every forty
Speaker 1: something year old is, you know, experienced in text year
Speaker 1: old experience. They could be more experienced than a forty
Speaker 1: three year old. Listen, I know someone why I don't
Speaker 1: know what you're looking over there, because let me let
Speaker 1: me give him an example. Listen, I have I know
Speaker 1: someone that met her Listen, met her husband at age seventeen. Okay,
Speaker 1: I know her too, at age seventeen. They got married
Speaker 1: like about like in the twenties, but they had their
Speaker 1: first shot at nineteen. She was with that man all
Speaker 1: the way up until her fucking forties. Yep. Okay, so
Speaker 1: now she's starting to date now. So there's certain people
Speaker 1: that don't have all that experience just because of that.
Speaker 1: That's what I was thinking about. Why would you say
Speaker 1: that about somebody seventeen? And what are you talking about?
Speaker 1: I just literally said a seventeen year old girl, I know,
Speaker 1: because you can make an excuse for the old lady.
Speaker 1: I'm not making excuse. I'm just so so why you
Speaker 1: didn't have the same compassion when I just said so
Speaker 1: many five seventeen he may go have that much sexual
Speaker 1: experience kids too. But the only thing is, I'm just
Speaker 1: saying because she's she's under age. I'm just standing up
Speaker 1: in California. What about the Nevada year older year older?
Speaker 1: And Nevada sixteen more states in the United States of
Speaker 1: America the legal age of consent every age. Every state
Speaker 1: has their own age. It's more than thirty states with
Speaker 1: the legal age of consent sixteen. Nevada is one, Washington
Speaker 1: is another one. And they're both on the West coast. Damn,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think anything's wrong with the cougar situation.
Speaker 1: But I mean, if I had to pick the two
Speaker 1: old with his young boy, I mean, you know what,
Speaker 1: that's funny that cougar sugar daddy and cougar. Like a
Speaker 1: sugar daddy's found on a cougar or some kind of
Speaker 1: celebrated thing. Y'all just have needed the fuck. Ain't nobody
Speaker 1: found No, nobody's sugar daddy? That is plentiful. Where is he?
Speaker 1: I'm just playing stop sugar babies early had a lot
Speaker 1: of my mind today. I'm sorry, or I'm okay with
Speaker 1: double standards. I just would like people to accept that
Speaker 1: there are two standards. No, I get it. So I
Speaker 1: just like I said, if a man twenty five and
Speaker 1: his girls have a team, they're pretty much close to
Speaker 1: the same as far as um versus they are because
Speaker 1: men mature much later. Like I think I had this
Speaker 1: conversation with the Hume girl, and I was explaining to her,
Speaker 1: women mature faster, but they peak sooner. Being mature for long,
Speaker 1: girl to take longer, but to keep happening longer. Like
Speaker 1: if you meet a woman at thirty eight, you know
Speaker 1: the same ship at thirty eight that she know a fifty,
Speaker 1: she'll be saying the same shift thirty eight to fifty.
Speaker 1: I swear it out. She got the same game, you know,
Speaker 1: like how you meet the old man. He'll start telling
Speaker 1: you a nigga sits here, has some old man game
Speaker 1: that only nigga sees. You know, a woman at sixty
Speaker 1: know the same ship she knew at thirty eight, same ship. Girl,
Speaker 1: you gotta get a nigger that paid them bill, same
Speaker 1: same ship. They'll be saying the same ship. Men start
Speaker 1: telling you all kind of like you got to look
Speaker 1: a little different, sunny, let's start putting that ship. The
Speaker 1: poems and ship and rhyming. You can't worry about the
Speaker 1: ass until you get the cash they started. So I
Speaker 1: think when the mature sooner, but I think they peak earlier.
Speaker 1: I think me and mature later. But it's a it's
Speaker 1: a gradual growth for a long time. For a long
Speaker 1: time they growing in and uh maturity and wisdom. So
Speaker 1: I think men, yeah, definitely later, take a long time too.
Speaker 1: I really I've seen a man say that, I've seen
Speaker 1: a brother out the mass. Nori Muhammed he said, you
Speaker 1: don't really become a grown man to you with forty
Speaker 1: and I just thought, like, man, that sounds crazy. Till
Speaker 1: I turned four and I was like, oh, I see
Speaker 1: it is completely different. Have you ever dated a woman
Speaker 1: older than you once? How many years? Like a year?
Speaker 1: That's nothing. She was older, but not like when you
Speaker 1: were younger. Never older women. Nothing. Women used to fly
Speaker 1: with me, but I just I'm not into that. Wasn't
Speaker 1: feeling it now, Like I don't even really like younger women.
Speaker 1: When I was about thirty four, I was sleeping with
Speaker 1: the girl I was twenty one, and I mean how
Speaker 1: you felt about the sex? I was there, but it
Speaker 1: was like everything is I couldn't stand her. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: remember he was talking. I couldn't literally stand her. And
Speaker 1: it was the sex was awesome, You're thrown and ran
Speaker 1: and ship that ship was cool, but everything else about
Speaker 1: life talking to her was hard. So that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: At my mature age or at your mature age, I
Speaker 1: don't know how I couldn't talk to nobody eight years
Speaker 1: younger than me. They just wouldn't have the maturity, That's
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Like he's just been through I think
Speaker 1: it's because he's been through so much that it's not. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I met women that was full out prostitutes for years
Speaker 1: and they just don't have enough wisdom and maturity to
Speaker 1: talk to me, Like it's just my mind is too
Speaker 1: far along. And don't get me wrong, fucking it's cool,
Speaker 1: but eventually, man, I mean, you have had the best piso.
Speaker 1: Come on, man, how much how much better could pussy get?
Speaker 1: How much better? How much better can? How much better? Can?
Speaker 1: Might be some astronomical shit out there? And you just
Speaker 1: don't have women suck my dick upside down to my
Speaker 1: women on handstand sucking my dick like I didn't have
Speaker 1: some crazy I've had white women. You know, white women
Speaker 1: suck your dick like it is their pleasure, like it
Speaker 1: is like the greatest thing that you've ever allowed to do. Really,
Speaker 1: they suck your dick with another passion, like thank you
Speaker 1: master for letting me suck your dick. It's like unbelievable.
Speaker 1: So whatever, the best part of sex is, I pretty
Speaker 1: much had it without going past the boundaries of ridiculousness.
Speaker 1: I mean, but you might just be into somebody that's older. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that I'm just saying, what could what
Speaker 1: the funk would I be talking? So can we talk
Speaker 1: about let's talk about some relationships that where there's older
Speaker 1: people in relationships, because I have one where I'm like,
Speaker 1: they've been together for a while and so there's something
Speaker 1: that's definitely keeping them together. I don't know, maybe she
Speaker 1: like pushing him on a swing? What but what you
Speaker 1: mean pushing him on a swing? See? I think see
Speaker 1: looks at it like they're just they're um, you know,
Speaker 1: they're just immature. Like you're picking people that are just
Speaker 1: like super because they're thirty and like fifty. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: like the maturity that it's the fifty ye old woman.
Speaker 1: She's still way more mature to him. A thirty still
Speaker 1: got so much longer. Togo in sixty niked forty and
Speaker 1: sixty the discount at guineas forty and sixty hundred and
Speaker 1: sixty six. Yeah, I can maybe thirty eight, thirty nine
Speaker 1: and maybe fifty eight nine. I think that's that couple.
Speaker 1: I think that the eight year old woman in the
Speaker 1: thirty maybe like thirty six and maybe like fifty two.
Speaker 1: Why the funk have my thirties where I wanted? Who
Speaker 1: is fifty two. That's fine enough at my age that
Speaker 1: I want right now that I would look at it
Speaker 1: like she's fine enough for me to even consider. I
Speaker 1: don't think I know nobody. No, I wouldn't Honey barely Gold.
Speaker 1: She's fine for old lady, but she is an older lady.
Speaker 1: I mean she's older, but she looks good. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: it's like, that's not cool that older lady when you
Speaker 1: hurt that. I wouldn't hit Holly Baby. I would not
Speaker 1: hit Alli Bess overs Over. I missed that. I don't
Speaker 1: want that age be Oh my god, age, I'm not
Speaker 1: talking ship. I just don't want that. That David Justice
Speaker 1: that ran through that thing eric By beat her up. Now,
Speaker 1: I want that thing. She didn't meant that. If them see,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you another thing about glasses. I'm wanted
Speaker 1: them type of niggas that learned. Like if other niggas
Speaker 1: keep throwing your way, I know something wrong, Like how
Speaker 1: Eric but erict go and be high fight he was,
Speaker 1: but not a thing right, be cussing it everything ages. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's like Kim sucking you up. Wait a minute, why
Speaker 1: is Kim abusing to be certain people? Now? Bobby Brown
Speaker 1: sucking you up. Okay, Chris Brown, maybe shout out to
Speaker 1: see be okay them. Nick's got angry at you. But
Speaker 1: Kim Maxwell Maxwell is abusing you. You got to be
Speaker 1: a bullshit bitch. Maxwell abusing you. She dated Maxwell. I'm
Speaker 1: just like Maxwell. Every They got these somber songs and
Speaker 1: was the base he you don't know how his first
Speaker 1: son is outside of the earthly and it's just all
Speaker 1: nicer ship and she's just doing it. He just gotta
Speaker 1: be like he had like a problem. So she probably
Speaker 1: caught him. And why why sex problems? You know, we
Speaker 1: gotta sex problem. You don't want to That's what he said. Problem.
Speaker 1: This was like the whole thing he went to counseling
Speaker 1: or they were doing the thing that was I don't
Speaker 1: know what was her. It's not her, it's her eventually.
Speaker 1: Sometimes it is just them. Sometimes we agree. Sometimes it
Speaker 1: could to be, but like is she don't get me wrong.
Speaker 1: I see the women I will sleep with first on Hollyberry.
Speaker 1: I will not see what Holly Berry at this age, Angela,
Speaker 1: I would do it. No, no, no, you're a long
Speaker 1: no play not Angela. Yeah, because she's fine, she's been
Speaker 1: You've been fine for forty years. You're just different. That's
Speaker 1: been been fine forty fifty years. She's been fine for
Speaker 1: a long time, and being is talking. She is a
Speaker 1: little buff, but that's because she's still in good shape.
Speaker 1: She stays in shape. That's why she got that that
Speaker 1: melon and glow like that hotboy. That that old lady hot.
Speaker 1: And I wouldn't be with this lady, but I wouldn'tail
Speaker 1: her down to the ground one time for the best,
Speaker 1: for the measure, do you ass for sure? Yeah? The
Speaker 1: best Mary J. Blige, No, because she would ride a
Speaker 1: fun up song. Oh guys, Mary J. Blige is still fuckable,
Speaker 1: man mages own. I'm not gonna say hot. She is
Speaker 1: like she I wouldn't say hot, but she is a
Speaker 1: beautiful she's beautiful older woman. She she's got beautiful over
Speaker 1: time too. She was funked up looking at first, she
Speaker 1: looked like somebody. Actually she actually find her now. She
Speaker 1: ever was like young Mary Jake was like because she
Speaker 1: had been was like real, like regular. She came out
Speaker 1: that she was more like back then. She used to
Speaker 1: look crazy, but Mary j now like Mary j is
Speaker 1: actually one of the few women in the industry that
Speaker 1: got finer and older yeah, young married, I want to
Speaker 1: get young play No, Jada look crazy. They didn't cut
Speaker 1: up on her face and ships Will. I'm glad we
Speaker 1: don't marry her. That was the best thing happened to
Speaker 1: her life because she was gonna throw it away and
Speaker 1: she's trying to throw it away now. So see, she
Speaker 1: wouldn't got to look Trey songs gay. I mean, you
Speaker 1: know what, didn't really come out that he was gay August.
Speaker 1: He didn't didn't come out because he was promoting. Why
Speaker 1: would you promote you gay? Did did it? I don't know?
Speaker 1: I think did it drop the actual like video because
Speaker 1: he was premiering or promoting. Why the funk would you
Speaker 1: say that? If you're not that's the type of young
Speaker 1: niggas Jada, We'll be talking to me something like what
Speaker 1: this probably like his brother somebody is like, I love you,
Speaker 1: you helped me, like, you know, change my life. How
Speaker 1: would you even say that? I know why that would
Speaker 1: say that? It's you got Will Smith? How did you
Speaker 1: date that nigga? See, that's the type of people I
Speaker 1: think of when I think of a cougar lady like that.
Speaker 1: Just don't make horrible decisions. That's a cooler Yeah, that
Speaker 1: would be a cooler, but wouldn't talk. I wouldn't give
Speaker 1: prime Jady. Yes, this j the hell no, no, this
Speaker 1: Jady gets no work. M hm. So you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying that, Like, I was just thinking about that,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, why would I even put that out there?
Speaker 1: Like one like girl, you older her life, she just
Speaker 1: had a hold stranger ship, she just dealt with. She
Speaker 1: like funk all that. Like, let her have her fun?
Speaker 1: What's wrong with her? Have a little fun right now?
Speaker 1: Stop hating ergy fun? Yeah, let her have her fun.
Speaker 1: Get trains and one year old is funny? Yes? Why
Speaker 1: do you have to get a train? Talking about you?
Speaker 1: Adding on having sex with a one year old is funny? Y'all?
Speaker 1: You think that's fine for her? If that's what she said,
Speaker 1: that she her live her life? Did she say twinter?
Speaker 1: Did she really say twinnes? Young dude? It was she
Speaker 1: did not? First off, y'all defended. Now y'all thinking like,
Speaker 1: hold did this really say? You know? So I'm just
Speaker 1: going off what you just said. Right now. All I'm
Speaker 1: saying is I just think y'all just make crazy decisions.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna get into the double standards because I
Speaker 1: think we have to sets of standards. I thought we've
Speaker 1: always had double standards, and I'm okay with that. So
Speaker 1: I expect y'all to approve of an older lady dating
Speaker 1: some young boy and to disapprove of an older man
Speaker 1: dating some young lady, even though it would make sense
Speaker 1: the other way, because women mature faster, so they a
Speaker 1: woman is probably mature as a man. Most men thirty eight,
Speaker 1: not me, but most men versus preferred. How much older
Speaker 1: were they? Seven to ten years? That's not bad. Did
Speaker 1: somebody old? Um? No, yes, Beijan Nome that he can't
Speaker 1: get right Beijing. I'm sorry, I didn't know she's talking. No,
Speaker 1: the old freak, the old freak o ship. So I
Speaker 1: think he was probably like twenty maybe like that's cold now,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Gives And he was, he
Speaker 1: was betful, he was he was an athlete, he played
Speaker 1: in the NFL, So I didn't even know that he
Speaker 1: was the age that he was. I was surprised, like, whoa,
Speaker 1: he was like keeping up and more younger than the
Speaker 1: guys that was my age. I was like, so you know,
Speaker 1: you know, freak oh freak oh free in the NFL free.
Speaker 1: He was he got a ring. He really he don't
Speaker 1: play on, but he did get a rig out hall
Speaker 1: of fame. The hall of fame got do just stupid
Speaker 1: thinking did not say that. Man. Man, Now, I never
Speaker 1: really dated older women. I've never really been in the
Speaker 1: younger women. Like I do attract more younger women, but
Speaker 1: that's because they don't really know me. They then they
Speaker 1: meet me, then they really like me. But it'd be like,
Speaker 1: you're not ready for what I would be on. So
Speaker 1: like younger women attract because of what I do and
Speaker 1: how I was living my life, So you would attract
Speaker 1: younger women. But come on, man, you didn't think about me.
Speaker 1: I be reading books and ship. Ya gonna do with that? Honestly,
Speaker 1: if if me and my dude weren't friends before books
Speaker 1: to the ladies and ship, I don't think. Maybe you're
Speaker 1: reading books and ship about tooky and ship to hears
Speaker 1: she like this thing is reading the book. But see,
Speaker 1: that's why I like dating older guys because they always
Speaker 1: always learned something like you know, I loved it. So
Speaker 1: brit don't want to learn, Yes, you want to learn
Speaker 1: how to swear? You play call of duty? No, I
Speaker 1: don't play no video. Yeah, none of that Pizza Rose
Speaker 1: the baby would if you wanted me to what you need?
Speaker 1: You need something having fun. It's fun, but no, honestly
Speaker 1: it's real because because marriage ain't fun and real relationships
Speaker 1: ain't fun. Let's be honest. It's work. It's not fun.
Speaker 1: It's not it's definitely work. It's word or so one
Speaker 1: is worked. Fun. It's never fun. But I feel like
Speaker 1: if you that you can have fun with that person,
Speaker 1: like you have those times where I mean it's a miserable,
Speaker 1: but fun and miserable are to Okay, it's not bad.
Speaker 1: The thing about a really dope, real relationship is you
Speaker 1: start valuing things that you never valued in your life
Speaker 1: before small things somebody bringing you some food you should
Speaker 1: women women struggle with gratitude, And I know I just
Speaker 1: generalized ship, but it's true. Women like are insatiable and
Speaker 1: my nigg always talk about that. So y'all struggle with
Speaker 1: Gratitude's it's never the small things, only the small things
Speaker 1: that you feel that everybody else know about, which means
Speaker 1: just a big thing. So I think it comes to
Speaker 1: a space when or you get into a real relationship,
Speaker 1: you have to learn how to value the smaller things,
Speaker 1: things that you never paid attention to. No, I agree
Speaker 1: with that, like ship that comes from surety for us,
Speaker 1: because as I'm getting older, I'm like, I love all
Speaker 1: the little ship, like I love thoughtfulness, and just like
Speaker 1: I just love it, but thoughtfulness and it's even more
Speaker 1: simpler than we even make it. Maybe little ship like
Speaker 1: little things I love now, like little things I love women.
Speaker 1: I definitely realized women just don't give a fuck. We
Speaker 1: do care. It's like that, it's not it's not you
Speaker 1: don't care, Like what have what have you done for me? Lately?
Speaker 1: It's probably the realist woman's song ever wrote. That's like
Speaker 1: w I s M. What's in It for Me? Radio?
Speaker 1: Janet Jackson, what have You Done for Me? That's the
Speaker 1: number one woman song. That's really how women are. So
Speaker 1: that's why it would be the enemy of gratitude. It's
Speaker 1: always about what's now. It's not always about that. You know,
Speaker 1: you have those moments, moments you have you know you
Speaker 1: do start to appreciate those small things, you know, as
Speaker 1: with maturity, because yeah, when you're younger, it's like you
Speaker 1: don't see that. That's why I really think one of
Speaker 1: the most immature things women promote to each other. It's
Speaker 1: gonna sound crazy, it's traveling. What's wrong with traveling when
Speaker 1: we want to go on trips? Immature things that women
Speaker 1: promote to each other, when we go on trips with
Speaker 1: each other, with our guys, with our husbands, traveling in general.
Speaker 1: Why it's really just immature when you think about it,
Speaker 1: really has no doesn't make any sense. What is wrong
Speaker 1: with traveling? Wrong? Okay? What is immature? Why you about traveling?
Speaker 1: One place? You never go as museums? I do know
Speaker 1: you don't. Okay, alright, you don't want to travel to
Speaker 1: the museum. Most people want to travel to places where
Speaker 1: there's other people. Party. No, No, I like, I have children,
Speaker 1: so I like family trips and yeah, like when I
Speaker 1: go out of town. It's not about going somewhere like party.
Speaker 1: I like being. Maybe when you say I don't need
Speaker 1: to see nobody you ever travel, Barbie as you ever
Speaker 1: been to the Yosemite Park. You've been to Yosemite Park.
Speaker 1: Where's your semity park? You haven't been to Yosemiti Park?
Speaker 1: You ever been to Yosemit Park. I've been to the
Speaker 1: Grand Canyon. So that's that's my point. My point is
Speaker 1: sent my son to Yosemity part So we're not going
Speaker 1: for educational purposes. Were full of ship. Some people just
Speaker 1: want to go somewhere and relax. I want to go see.
Speaker 1: I want to go see. You want to go somewhere
Speaker 1: from where you were, Like, go somewhere. Different women do
Speaker 1: go to the fucking museum. We take our kids. You
Speaker 1: take your kids to museum. If you don't go to
Speaker 1: museums that full of ship, why do we all get
Speaker 1: on the front of white people line to the museum?
Speaker 1: I bet you fucking did. You didn't specified. I'm just
Speaker 1: saying I like going to art galleries and stuff like that,
Speaker 1: like with my with my man, you know, we go
Speaker 1: look at like our stuff like that. I like stuff
Speaker 1: like that. I don't know. I just go look at
Speaker 1: the art and I say, oh, I like that, want
Speaker 1: to buy that? That would look nice in my head?
Speaker 1: I'm so mad as you really think that, I mean
Speaker 1: only need to travel, don't have to travel travel place
Speaker 1: as well? He said, so you could go party parties.
Speaker 1: Why did you either go trying to relax a party
Speaker 1: the same thing? You never go in nowhere that you
Speaker 1: can't buy liquor. Part One, even though you buy liquor
Speaker 1: during the week, and you do the same during the week.
Speaker 1: You've never went. I don't do the same thing every week.
Speaker 1: It's a vacation. So vacation, I bet you do the
Speaker 1: same things you do when you're at home. No, because
Speaker 1: like when I went to Philly, I went to go.
Speaker 1: I didn't drink. You're lying. I didn't drink in Philly.
Speaker 1: You didn't drink nothing, not in Philly, nothing at all,
Speaker 1: not in Philly. But I drank when I was in
Speaker 1: Atlantic City and when I was in Jersey, but not
Speaker 1: in Philly. I didn't drink it Philly. I didn't like
Speaker 1: to believe what we left now. It's not that. It's
Speaker 1: not that, it's just sometimes when you tell the truth,
Speaker 1: like you got to think, how long I've been doing
Speaker 1: this ship that y'all finish? I went to Philly. You're
Speaker 1: not some kind of it every time that you go
Speaker 1: on vacation or you go somewhere that it's gonna be
Speaker 1: too party you to relax or party, Yes, it is
Speaker 1: to relax. You ain't nothing. You might go when you ain't.
Speaker 1: Don't send me, you take your kids, because that's why
Speaker 1: you're thinking. The kids need y'all too. That's why I said,
Speaker 1: back to the point of immaturity. You know why you
Speaker 1: take your kids places to learn because you know they're immature,
Speaker 1: so you're trying to mature them. You don't do it
Speaker 1: on your own because you're immature. You take them, like say,
Speaker 1: if they're learning, like they're learning the lesson at school,
Speaker 1: then you're gonna take them so they can learn more
Speaker 1: about that too. But Land, we do that too. So
Speaker 1: all I'm saying to you is, yes, you're not. You're
Speaker 1: not going to no place to learn. Ship God damn,
Speaker 1: I ain't even about to say nothing whatever you say.
Speaker 1: To Hawaii, I went to the zoo. That does that count?
Speaker 1: Got zoos all over the state that they don't have everything.
Speaker 1: To the Pear Harbi Hawahiti, they don't got everything in
Speaker 1: WHI tell me one they are different? Um damn them
Speaker 1: birds birds. Remember I was young. Every time they don't
Speaker 1: have flamingos on the wire. I've been to that zoo.
Speaker 1: It was like it was like, you know what else
Speaker 1: you going to to? What? You went to? The Pearl Harbors?
Speaker 1: It been. I went to North Beach. Fact here the
Speaker 1: Pearl Harbor. Listen, I don't know what years? So you
Speaker 1: just what's going somewhere? Because to put on makeup and
Speaker 1: put on my lips. But I don't remember that. But
Speaker 1: I went everybody hate the truth or whatever. I've been
Speaker 1: to the doll pineapple factory too. I want factory. You
Speaker 1: know what's the gross street from the door? Pineapple factories?
Speaker 1: No pineapples? You know why? Because I was looking to
Speaker 1: learn some ship. I went to Pearl Harbor. I know
Speaker 1: when it happened. You know what ship is? You know why?
Speaker 1: You won't know? Ship? Right there? It's right there on
Speaker 1: white Kiki's of the ship. You know why? You don't know?
Speaker 1: Because it really didn't matter. It just was another opportunity
Speaker 1: for you to go out and act like you're doing
Speaker 1: some ship. I don't know why. I don't know why.
Speaker 1: You you know why? Because I just need to retain
Speaker 1: the information. Because I did, I was excited about it.
Speaker 1: I didn't go because honestly, I just didn't. I was young.
Speaker 1: I didn't go. Hold up, hold up bar? What war?
Speaker 1: What's Pearl Harbor about? Where did it happen? Which war?
Speaker 1: It was? Ward? Ward? Um? Damn, it was the one
Speaker 1: over there. It was war word three. I don't I'm
Speaker 1: sorry my mom. Alright, ship over today. Shout out to
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