WEBVTT - Conversations About Cougars 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:04.360 Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:07.480 Sinners Podcast with your host. Now funk that with your 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:22.600 low glasses. Malone, He's good. The simple made strawberry, the lime. 0:00:24.200 --> 0:00:30.360 The blueberry tastes good, especially with tequila. Um, Tequila don't 0:00:30.360 --> 0:00:34.559 really taste good. You know what. Actually some tequila like 0:00:34.600 --> 0:00:36.519 it does tastes good. Like it does. It gives it 0:00:36.600 --> 0:00:39.280 like a little like kick to the lemonade. Tequila tastes 0:00:39.280 --> 0:00:45.519 good with juice. It does. Juice tastes good. That's tequila 0:00:45.560 --> 0:00:49.120 tastes good. No, but the lemonade. Okay, So I don't 0:00:49.200 --> 0:00:52.919 usually drink petrone because I had like my patrone days, right, 0:00:52.960 --> 0:00:55.400 So I got some patrone this weekend, and so I 0:00:55.440 --> 0:00:58.280 was like, okay, let me mix it with this lemonade. 0:00:58.480 --> 0:01:01.200 And so I mix it with the I'm like, this 0:01:01.280 --> 0:01:03.520 tastes good. It was. It was good. It has like 0:01:03.560 --> 0:01:06.520 a different The patron does have a different They have 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:08.640 a different It has a different taste than like because 0:01:08.640 --> 0:01:11.280 I had Don Julio like the other weekend. So like, 0:01:11.319 --> 0:01:17.640 I'm weekend tequila tastes bad. Maybe to you. I've never 0:01:17.680 --> 0:01:23.600 tasted tequilla chill tequila depending it does, but not all 0:01:23.720 --> 0:01:27.959 chill tequila, not all. So y'all lined that tequila tastes 0:01:28.000 --> 0:01:31.399 y'all saying liquor tastes good. We said tequila liquor. Some 0:01:31.520 --> 0:01:34.960 liquor tastes good, but cards like rum tastes good. It 0:01:35.120 --> 0:01:39.039 tastes rum tastes good. You want to try, you can't 0:01:39.080 --> 0:01:42.440 even because you don't even know how anything tastes right now. 0:01:42.480 --> 0:01:44.920 So I don't even know. I just think it's a 0:01:44.959 --> 0:01:48.040 part of enough people to understand that it's a part 0:01:48.080 --> 0:01:50.080 of this big lie where everybody just lie for some 0:01:50.120 --> 0:01:54.160 reason and just be lying, like how wealthy black people 0:01:54.200 --> 0:01:56.880 lie by how much money they make. It's just lies 0:01:56.960 --> 0:02:00.480 that the black community seem to just tell some know 0:02:00.640 --> 0:02:04.600 some liquor. Liquor does not taste good. Rum is sweet, 0:02:04.720 --> 0:02:07.280 and it tastes good. It tastes sweeter than other liquors. 0:02:07.280 --> 0:02:11.600 But favor it's good. You mean it's flavored with other 0:02:11.680 --> 0:02:15.360 things that taste no matter, it's still liquor taste good 0:02:15.480 --> 0:02:23.120 on the core. Liquor. Yeah, that's so desperate. Whatever, man, 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:26.600 Hey man, you don't want to drink it, it's fine. 0:02:27.000 --> 0:02:32.880 We like it tastes good to us. You got some 0:02:33.200 --> 0:02:43.400 in here, somewhere. Hey, I'm not I'm not driving. Why 0:02:43.520 --> 0:02:47.600 is that what you got from that? Because you're saying 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:49.359 it's not how you got whatever? What are you talking 0:02:49.400 --> 0:02:52.840 about it? I don't why you haven't really realized at 0:02:52.840 --> 0:02:57.840 this point, I realized it, trust me. I told you, wait, wait, 0:02:57.880 --> 0:03:00.240 what are you saying? The lesson in the d D 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:03.480 Y was because really, it's not to drink and drive, 0:03:03.600 --> 0:03:07.040 Like is not to drink. Oh, it's not to drink 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:09.320 and dry. To be honest, I really just think that 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:12.120 it's just silly that y'all sit around and poison yourself 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:15.120 that fun like you poison yourself for a certain amount 0:03:15.120 --> 0:03:17.880 of time right where it sits around. It throws off 0:03:17.919 --> 0:03:20.280 your i Q with throws off your equilibrium. Somehow you're 0:03:20.280 --> 0:03:23.560 trying to convince somebody that you're having fun. Fucking retarded. 0:03:23.919 --> 0:03:30.440 It be fun sometimes? What else is spin around the circle? 0:03:30.639 --> 0:03:33.280 That's not fun? Around the circle? Just start walking around. 0:03:33.320 --> 0:03:35.920 That's not fun. That's like being drunk. No, it's not. 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:38.640 But I don't think to get drunk. I don't drink. 0:03:39.480 --> 0:03:41.560 I can tell you why because I always look at 0:03:41.600 --> 0:03:47.120 y'all and you walk like you dizzy. Be that that 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:50.880 girl I've it has happened when I was younger, but 0:03:51.480 --> 0:03:54.560 as a grown woman. No, I don't drink what you 0:03:54.600 --> 0:03:58.040 ain't grown enough to be grown to be. Listen, I 0:03:58.080 --> 0:04:01.000 am grown grown, but you ain't. You ain't that far 0:04:01.120 --> 0:04:02.400 enough to where you should be talking about when I 0:04:02.440 --> 0:04:05.320 was a young woman. Oh, yes, yes I am. I 0:04:05.360 --> 0:04:08.280 can hope. We got one. We got another one coming. 0:04:08.480 --> 0:04:13.000 We're gonna share this one, y'all. Just a hype. We're 0:04:12.960 --> 0:04:17.280 a good height, y'all. Just know, because it's just one day. 0:04:17.320 --> 0:04:20.000 I want you to just be so honest. And what 0:04:20.040 --> 0:04:22.560 I'm trying to do with y'all, like the whole point 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:26.680 of no ceilings, outside of exploring these caves of conversation 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:30.279 with the community, is also to get y'all to actually 0:04:30.360 --> 0:04:32.960 be real for one day in your life. Oh my gosh, 0:04:33.440 --> 0:04:41.159 A lighter thank you. But if you really think about it, 0:04:41.200 --> 0:04:44.520 that's what drinking all is. When somebody poisoning theirselfs poisoning 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:48.680 their bloodstream, thinning it out right to be lightheaded, and 0:04:48.800 --> 0:04:50.440 the observe of all the sugar. So it's it's a 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:54.760 combination of being dehydrated in dizzy. I don't know about dizzy, 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:58.240 but I definitely dehydrated. I know why I'd be like 0:04:58.800 --> 0:05:01.400 some water. So it's like you're saying when you're saying 0:05:01.440 --> 0:05:03.640 you want to drink, it's like I'm trying to poison myself. 0:05:03.680 --> 0:05:06.000 And I still have yet to figure out quite a 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:08.440 real reason. Because people be like drink to happen. I 0:05:08.440 --> 0:05:12.679 mean you can drink with I mean there's wine, sip wine, 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:16.520 and they don't have to be like not everybody drinks 0:05:16.520 --> 0:05:19.920 like turn up. Why can't you just relax? Some people 0:05:19.960 --> 0:05:23.680 just keep some time? You can't? How the fund can't 0:05:23.680 --> 0:05:26.360 you relax? What do you mean do you relax all 0:05:26.400 --> 0:05:30.800 the time when I want to? If I tell my 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:32.839 body to really it's my body. You mean to tell 0:05:32.839 --> 0:05:35.440 me you need help to tell you it's just no, 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:39.240 it's just it helps. It's just you like poisoning yourself. 0:05:39.400 --> 0:05:42.200 I like the feeling when I drink a glass of wine, 0:05:42.200 --> 0:05:44.160 the way it makes me feel. You can't make yourself 0:05:44.200 --> 0:05:46.839 feel like that, naturally I might be able to. But 0:05:46.920 --> 0:05:52.280 the wine is good. It tastes good too. Hmm. It's okay, frogs, 0:05:53.040 --> 0:05:57.520 it's okay. Sometimes we just carry your lives, Like why 0:05:57.560 --> 0:06:02.480 do you date people younger than you? Um, what's that about? 0:06:02.520 --> 0:06:05.240 Because I brought this conversation to you, like you you 0:06:05.360 --> 0:06:07.720 dating somebody young? What does that really do for you 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:11.440 as a grown ass woman? Like you just grown grown 0:06:11.480 --> 0:06:14.800 ass woman? I need a little last boy. No, no, 0:06:15.040 --> 0:06:18.080 why a little very nice to say, because there's a 0:06:18.080 --> 0:06:21.120 lot of younger men that are doing their ships. So 0:06:21.440 --> 0:06:23.360 a lot of the men that's doing this ship a 0:06:23.360 --> 0:06:28.880 lot of young younger men. Why are you coming out her? Like? 0:06:29.960 --> 0:06:34.880 What are you talking about for me today? As you are? 0:06:34.960 --> 0:06:37.160 You just said I'm praying you act like I'm aside, like, hey, 0:06:37.240 --> 0:06:39.880 where the young is that? I don't want to nobody 0:06:39.920 --> 0:06:42.320 if he ain't young, I'm not doing this. Said you 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:45.040 prefer younger men. No, I did not say that. I said, 0:06:45.080 --> 0:06:46.680 I just pressed my hand up. When you said we're 0:06:46.680 --> 0:06:50.720 gonna talk about cougars, I said, that's me. She didn't 0:06:50.720 --> 0:06:54.960 say she prefers. That's her. Cougars prefer younger men. So 0:06:55.000 --> 0:06:57.760 that thing, well, I know for her, she always gets 0:06:57.760 --> 0:07:01.720 approached by younger guys. She's sure, okay, whatever, but that's 0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:04.640 who she gets approached by. So that's who she ends up. 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:07.920 That's why I get approached by younger guys because I'm 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:11.680 short approach you. I don't know what do you mean? 0:07:11.800 --> 0:07:14.440 Why what they approach because maybe they think that she's younger. 0:07:15.520 --> 0:07:20.360 I don't just what are you making it about? Listen, 0:07:20.440 --> 0:07:23.040 honestly don't know why they approached me. But whatever, it 0:07:23.160 --> 0:07:26.560 is what it is. But um, do you prefer to 0:07:26.640 --> 0:07:30.440 dating younger younger guys? I don't prefer it. I feel 0:07:30.480 --> 0:07:32.880 like you like it though. I mean, it can be 0:07:32.880 --> 0:07:37.520 funny if you get it. What do you get a 0:07:37.600 --> 0:07:43.360 kick out of dating younger guys? How young? How young? 0:07:43.440 --> 0:07:45.880 If somebody how many years? Okay? The youngest I've ever 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:48.720 dated that was younger than me was like nine years 0:07:48.720 --> 0:07:55.720 younger than me. Really okay, I probably can't get right. 0:07:56.160 --> 0:08:05.840 I was just thinking she it was only too. I 0:08:05.840 --> 0:08:09.040 haven't dated that many younger guys, like I've had guys 0:08:09.120 --> 0:08:11.720 on me that was. But as far as dating like 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:14.400 it is for sure for sure too. You mean like 0:08:14.440 --> 0:08:16.720 in a relationship, you know, we're talking about just dating 0:08:16.760 --> 0:08:18.720 and it was just just messing around or just talking 0:08:18.720 --> 0:08:24.160 to him or something. Then they'd be on me, what's up? Grandma? Whoa? 0:08:24.640 --> 0:08:27.680 They're really aggressive to us, Like, let me tell you, Okay, 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:29.920 the guy that I ended up with that. We actually 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:31.840 was in relationship and the first guy ever lived with 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:33.599 was younger than he was nine years younger than me. 0:08:33.720 --> 0:08:36.720 And when I tell you this boy who he pressed me, 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:39.280 I was like, no, you're too young, like whatever. Whenever 0:08:39.280 --> 0:08:41.520 he's like, what are you talking about? Like what the 0:08:41.520 --> 0:08:45.120 funk I could do x y, I'm like no. I 0:08:45.120 --> 0:08:47.600 I told him no so many times, so many times 0:08:47.640 --> 0:08:50.680 he was cool and I like them Fine, yeah it 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:56.080 was hellicol And finally no he was he wasn't. My 0:08:56.160 --> 0:08:58.040 son was like five years old when this happened. Stop 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:03.720 but that was pretty much how I went. But he 0:09:03.840 --> 0:09:06.160 ended up. We ended up let him take me on 0:09:06.160 --> 0:09:07.600 a date and it was bomb like, we had a 0:09:07.600 --> 0:09:13.240 good time. What do y'all, God'll go to see just 0:09:13.440 --> 0:09:16.800 a little? You date younger women. I date all women, 0:09:18.320 --> 0:09:23.760 and I no not, I date all women. It's different. 0:09:23.800 --> 0:09:26.920 I don't have a preference in women. I'm not. I'm 0:09:26.920 --> 0:09:31.040 not prejudiced towards any woman. All women could be a woman, 0:09:31.080 --> 0:09:37.160 older women. I don't have a preference. Okay, I don't 0:09:37.200 --> 0:09:39.400 have a preference. I don't date. I don't like night 0:09:39.440 --> 0:09:41.360 skinny girls and dark skinned girls. I don't like skinny 0:09:41.360 --> 0:09:44.760 girls and thick girls. I like women owners. It's put 0:09:44.800 --> 0:09:47.480 together the way they're supposed to be put together. Should 0:09:47.520 --> 0:09:51.199 it works out for me, it's good. Okay, Yet it's 0:09:51.240 --> 0:10:01.840 too strong, shout out. It's why I'm sorry. I had 0:10:01.880 --> 0:10:05.320 a long day. So you know, it just comes out 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:13.320 no sailings, gl red, what's happening? Read what's happening. So 0:10:13.400 --> 0:10:17.240 tell me about that day. I went to Tucky Cheese. 0:10:18.960 --> 0:10:23.640 We just went to eat and we just had everything McDonald's. 0:10:23.800 --> 0:10:25.520 And he went to the movies. No, he was not 0:10:25.520 --> 0:10:29.120 not No, he was not cheap at all. He was 0:10:29.160 --> 0:10:32.760 holding it hey something, he had this ship together, okay, right, 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:35.920 happy didn't play with the toy Listen. It was none 0:10:35.920 --> 0:10:37.760 of that. So you're trying to make it like I'm 0:10:37.840 --> 0:10:40.959 dealing with like little babies running around here. Not. No, 0:10:41.360 --> 0:10:46.200 they're just a little bit younger time twenties and I wasn't. 0:10:48.600 --> 0:10:55.240 I wasn't early thirties. I just I'm trying to figure 0:10:55.240 --> 0:10:58.280 this out, like this whole pride thing. Like, so for guys, 0:10:58.320 --> 0:11:00.559 I think God's day younger women be because they live 0:11:00.679 --> 0:11:04.880 vicariously through the approval of younger women. So a man 0:11:05.000 --> 0:11:07.600 that's forty five, I think he would get somebody that's 0:11:07.720 --> 0:11:11.000 twenty because it makes him feel like he still got it. 0:11:11.920 --> 0:11:14.280 What would be your reason? And to day somebody younger, 0:11:14.480 --> 0:11:15.959 like I saw a lot of talking about. She was like, 0:11:16.040 --> 0:11:18.840 oh the guy twenty one, And I'm like, live Live 0:11:18.960 --> 0:11:22.400 is old enough to be somebody's grandmother. Cheer is not 0:11:22.440 --> 0:11:28.840 old enough to be yes, like in this day and age, 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:33.360 yes she is. But I for me, honestly, it was 0:11:33.400 --> 0:11:36.240 just funnna be real, honest, like I want to ride 0:11:36.240 --> 0:11:40.520 a roller coaster, just like they want to go like 0:11:40.040 --> 0:11:42.880 the like is to be like you want chill, Let's 0:11:42.880 --> 0:11:46.839 watch TV baby with you. Yeah, Like I don't want 0:11:46.840 --> 0:11:49.840 to go somewhere. Let's go somewhere, like go ride bike, 0:11:49.960 --> 0:11:53.880 some some ship like something like let's do something. I 0:11:53.920 --> 0:11:56.720 want to ride bike. She wouldn't get out, y'all. Y'all, 0:11:56.880 --> 0:12:03.560 y'all want to sit up and baby my back, scratch 0:12:03.640 --> 0:12:08.679 my back, scratch my back. No, But honestly, I would say, 0:12:08.720 --> 0:12:13.240 it was just it's just um in the sex, man, 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:17.679 come on, come on, stop the sex. They'd be ready 0:12:17.679 --> 0:12:25.240 to go going all right, yeah, ready to go right. 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:27.520 When I was a young it was now I would 0:12:27.520 --> 0:12:30.760 have not been your old ass by yourself. What I 0:12:30.800 --> 0:12:32.199 would have had, for sure, I would have for sure 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:34.960 I had some younger bitches too, that you add some 0:12:35.000 --> 0:12:37.120 of your ladies because you for sure at that age 0:12:37.160 --> 0:12:39.320 where it's like, no, I wasn't like I was still 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:41.360 what do you mean what you're trying to say? You 0:12:41.400 --> 0:12:46.040 ain't quite like twenty? Um, I was quite like thirty. No, no, no, 0:12:46.080 --> 0:12:47.920 I just don't work. That's that when you got a 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:50.920 bad like your thirty in the real twenties different, so 0:12:50.960 --> 0:12:53.480 you know some bullshit. No, I ain't doing that. We're 0:12:53.520 --> 0:12:58.760 not doing that. I'm just saying nine years. That's a 0:12:58.760 --> 0:13:01.600 big difference. That's like when I tell y'all it took 0:13:01.720 --> 0:13:06.199 so long. I remember he was like today, that bring 0:13:06.400 --> 0:13:10.720 so many toys. How did you end up just saying, okay, 0:13:10.920 --> 0:13:15.480 let's let's get you guys moving in together. They lived together, 0:13:15.720 --> 0:13:22.600 they got a place together, his toys, toys. All that 0:13:22.640 --> 0:13:25.560 man did was worked and made sure I was straight 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:29.960 and like and he worked out, And all you wanted 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:32.679 to do was just make sure I was good. I'm 0:13:32.720 --> 0:13:40.200 not talking. I don't want to talk about that. It literally, 0:13:41.679 --> 0:13:45.160 I'm not about that. No crime moment. Why I did 0:13:45.600 --> 0:13:49.520 she turned no, because like, y'all, remember what's that song 0:13:49.600 --> 0:13:51.599 when it it's like it was donell John's song was 0:13:51.640 --> 0:13:55.320 like when you don't you really didn't want to be Yeah, 0:13:55.640 --> 0:14:02.520 it's like we had everything like that age. You just 0:14:02.640 --> 0:14:06.720 don't treat them bad. Oh how I feel so sad 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:16.960 now that I want to because but I just need 0:14:17.120 --> 0:14:35.040 time to see it wasn't for the little movie you 0:14:35.080 --> 0:14:38.080 like this type of ship? Oh my god, no, Bobby, 0:14:38.120 --> 0:14:42.120 don't do it. No, no, no, no, So let me 0:14:42.120 --> 0:14:47.480 ask you a question. Silly, So you like because you 0:14:47.560 --> 0:14:50.080 did kind of reference yourself as a cougar and y'all 0:14:50.240 --> 0:14:52.440 find that cool? Well, it was because it's it's like 0:14:52.600 --> 0:14:56.320 jokes always makes fun of me about that. That's why 0:14:56.320 --> 0:14:58.400 I said that. And I'm sure somewhere alone the line 0:14:58.440 --> 0:15:01.160 you feel like, y'all still god, that's why you know? Honestly, 0:15:01.240 --> 0:15:08.000 I don't now, yeah you still do. My dude is 0:15:08.080 --> 0:15:13.360 seven years I just thought about that. That's a grown 0:15:13.360 --> 0:15:18.320 ass man right there. Why Why would he why were we? 0:15:20.160 --> 0:15:28.040 Why were he wet? What? Yeah? What youre trying to say? 0:15:28.440 --> 0:15:32.600 Mature woman? Thank you, mature woman? What he already listening? 0:15:32.640 --> 0:15:34.920 He already got kids. All that ship. We're good like 0:15:34.960 --> 0:15:38.280 you don't mat I don't get when he had him 0:15:38.320 --> 0:15:39.640 long as he don't want me to have any So 0:15:39.720 --> 0:15:42.520 like what I'm saying is I'm saying is when you 0:15:42.640 --> 0:15:45.280 don't listen, if you don't want to have kids, she 0:15:45.400 --> 0:15:49.040 don't listen, Like if you are why I mean, he 0:15:49.040 --> 0:15:52.680 already got dating a personating a person. What do you mean, 0:15:53.640 --> 0:15:57.320 young guys, I'm not listen this this this this relationship 0:15:57.400 --> 0:16:01.560 right here, that ship took that just was like, oh wow, 0:16:01.600 --> 0:16:05.240 it was It was basically I met him, we talked 0:16:05.240 --> 0:16:08.040 for a split second, and then like I just got 0:16:08.080 --> 0:16:11.640 super busy and we just kind of like lost touch 0:16:11.760 --> 0:16:14.680 and then we ran into each other again type ship. 0:16:14.840 --> 0:16:18.240 But honestly, he's my best friend, Like I could tell 0:16:18.280 --> 0:16:22.200 him anything, Like he's supportive, he's just a really good dude. Like, 0:16:22.280 --> 0:16:27.120 so ship, why wouldn't I like? And it's hard when 0:16:27.120 --> 0:16:30.080 you um a woman like myself trying to work all 0:16:30.080 --> 0:16:32.080 the time and do certain things like if a man 0:16:32.120 --> 0:16:34.520 don't understand your drive, it's really hard. So when you 0:16:34.560 --> 0:16:37.240 meet someone, I don't care how old you are, Like 0:16:37.280 --> 0:16:41.320 if you care yourself in a certain manner and you 0:16:41.360 --> 0:16:43.800 treat me with respect, and we're we have that mutual 0:16:44.040 --> 0:16:51.320 liken like, no he's not he's not that ye that 0:16:51.960 --> 0:16:54.280 not like that, but you know what I mean by that, 0:16:54.320 --> 0:16:58.800 like he I'm his queen, like we we rocked. I 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:10.560 don't care to say whatever you want, Like if you 0:17:10.680 --> 0:17:13.080 guys my age or older, like as long as you 0:17:13.240 --> 0:17:16.560 cool and we have some type of chemistry. I really 0:17:16.600 --> 0:17:23.840 don't why you don't think you have chemistry with older guys. 0:17:25.960 --> 0:17:29.840 You don't realize I'm not a I don't flirt I'm 0:17:29.880 --> 0:17:32.560 the worst. I will sit there and won't know nick 0:17:33.080 --> 0:17:36.639 if you do not say, hey, I'm trying to talk 0:17:36.680 --> 0:17:43.200 to you girl, I will literally be there like oblivious. 0:17:43.640 --> 0:17:45.959 Ask her, she will tell you. So I don't know 0:17:46.000 --> 0:17:47.840 what it is. I guess the younger guys have been 0:17:47.840 --> 0:17:50.919 more aggressive as far as like, hey you that is 0:17:51.160 --> 0:17:53.320 I won't give a funk. I'm just said. But that's 0:17:53.640 --> 0:17:56.840 my point is that's probably the change that needs to 0:17:56.880 --> 0:17:58.800 be made in your life now. Shout out to the 0:17:58.840 --> 0:18:00.600 Shout out to the young boy that you got right. 0:18:00.960 --> 0:18:06.520 Not flirtatious, but nobody should over pursue you to get 0:18:06.560 --> 0:18:10.880 your attention. It's not that good I'm saying, not like 0:18:11.000 --> 0:18:12.920 you're not that good, but it's not that good. It's 0:18:12.960 --> 0:18:15.080 like a relationship is a lot of work between two people. 0:18:15.280 --> 0:18:17.439 And if you make somebody put the sound messed up 0:18:17.880 --> 0:18:22.920 because you know, you know what I'm saying, because I'm 0:18:22.960 --> 0:18:25.359 not putting down saying great is not a wonderful woman, 0:18:25.359 --> 0:18:31.840 not just ridiculous, outstanding lady. But I'm saying the reason 0:18:31.920 --> 0:18:33.720 you keep running to the shout out to this little 0:18:33.720 --> 0:18:39.479 young dude. Got Now you stand up and doing stuff. 0:18:39.960 --> 0:18:42.400 Then we're gonna get on this knee eventually. But I'm 0:18:42.400 --> 0:18:44.000 sure you got to grow up a little bit more. 0:18:44.080 --> 0:18:48.000 Else that's a little bit more, And I'm cool with 0:18:48.040 --> 0:18:50.760 that because I'm enjoying this moment right now, Like I'm 0:18:50.800 --> 0:18:55.160 not sure, Hey, how long? How long can somebody date 0:18:55.200 --> 0:18:58.600 you without actually proposing? That's a good question, Like one 0:18:58.720 --> 0:19:02.600 is too long? Thought about that when it's too long? 0:19:02.880 --> 0:19:05.040 Would you be like this? Ni is still because I 0:19:05.080 --> 0:19:07.000 think women are not honest, And what I like to 0:19:07.000 --> 0:19:08.959 do on those seilings and what I hope to do 0:19:09.000 --> 0:19:11.879 further is give women a safe space to be honest. Now, 0:19:11.920 --> 0:19:15.280 I'm still gonna make fun of you personally, but it's 0:19:15.320 --> 0:19:18.320 a safe space because it's I really do sympathize with 0:19:18.359 --> 0:19:21.320 the calls. It's okay to laugh at some of our 0:19:21.840 --> 0:19:26.200 don't see you guys like I don't know, like what 0:19:26.320 --> 0:19:27.880 could you like could you be with them? My Let's 0:19:27.880 --> 0:19:29.320 say it's a good relationship and you with a guy 0:19:29.400 --> 0:19:33.119 for ten years, then this nick is still don't want 0:19:33.119 --> 0:19:38.120 to marry me? Damn, I would question it, like how many? 0:19:38.160 --> 0:19:40.480 How long in between do you think it's time? I 0:19:40.480 --> 0:19:41.800 dont want to ask you because you in the middle 0:19:41.840 --> 0:19:44.639 some ship, so I don't fun that nigh up like 0:19:44.760 --> 0:19:49.600 that they're a low rider, So what's too far? Like 0:19:49.680 --> 0:19:57.000 how long? I said, at least a couple of years too? 0:19:57.400 --> 0:19:59.320 I told you guys, he got that hold up bron 0:20:00.400 --> 0:20:02.359 like who you don't think of you for two years? 0:20:02.359 --> 0:20:05.200 He don't think to yourself like there's lots of people 0:20:05.240 --> 0:20:08.960 that in relationships from over two years and they're you know, good, 0:20:09.000 --> 0:20:12.280 Like honestly, I would want it to come naturally and 0:20:12.359 --> 0:20:14.399 want that or he I would want that to be 0:20:14.520 --> 0:20:16.280 organically like something that he wants to do. I wouldn't 0:20:16.400 --> 0:20:19.399 not how you wanted to go. I'm asking you with 0:20:19.520 --> 0:20:22.880 your brain, my brain. I'm definitely not. I'm definitely not 0:20:23.480 --> 0:20:25.680 this is my thing. I'm definitely not gonna shack it 0:20:25.800 --> 0:20:31.600 with you feel like, no, five damn years and you not? Um, Yeah, yeah, 0:20:31.640 --> 0:20:33.560 I think five years is too long because how long 0:20:33.680 --> 0:20:36.960 is too long? Were not in your personal situation because 0:20:37.040 --> 0:20:38.800 how long is too long? Yeah? Where you kind of 0:20:38.880 --> 0:20:43.480 starting to question yourself where you think three years? I think, yeah, 0:20:43.920 --> 0:20:46.640 he might not be shirt like what's going on? Yeah, 0:20:46.680 --> 0:20:49.480 because you should know? Like I mean, I feel like, 0:20:50.320 --> 0:20:54.960 but when you like, is that why somebody with date 0:20:55.040 --> 0:21:00.919 younger man? Like why would why would allalla man? Right, 0:21:00.960 --> 0:21:03.320 y'all have vagiants y'all y'all both day and younger men? 0:21:04.240 --> 0:21:07.080 Why would you want a younger man? For real? Now, 0:21:07.160 --> 0:21:08.880 I could get it if you want a younger man 0:21:09.560 --> 0:21:11.760 because you want to just have sex. And you got 0:21:11.760 --> 0:21:16.280 this little little young nigga horny he just always that 0:21:16.359 --> 0:21:20.919 makes sense for you or play? But for real whitness 0:21:21.119 --> 0:21:22.439 like you were just talking to right, You're like, oh, 0:21:22.480 --> 0:21:23.879 when you get a young boy, y'all go on all 0:21:23.880 --> 0:21:28.720 these days you go ride bikes and chucky cheese and 0:21:28.760 --> 0:21:32.400 a real you and a for real relationship with your Yeah. 0:21:32.440 --> 0:21:34.199 But but what I'm saying is right, So I get it. 0:21:34.200 --> 0:21:36.399 When you get a younger guy for fun, right, but 0:21:36.480 --> 0:21:38.720 you know, as you grow up, even right now, even 0:21:38.760 --> 0:21:43.080 though it's certain things that you grow up and this 0:21:43.200 --> 0:21:45.680 ship like cool now, these bikes ain't cool every other weekend. 0:21:46.080 --> 0:21:48.280 It's real. Ship got to happen round here, championship got 0:21:48.280 --> 0:21:51.200 to get cleaned up. So it's dope when you're playing. 0:21:51.600 --> 0:21:54.880 What I'm saying, when ship get real? Like when does 0:21:54.920 --> 0:21:58.040 it become serious? Like when? Like that's what I don't understand, 0:21:58.200 --> 0:22:00.560 Like why would a cougar? What are you gonna do 0:22:00.600 --> 0:22:04.080 with a young boy? For real? I mean it's like 0:22:04.280 --> 0:22:05.520 I think you have to want to take care of 0:22:05.560 --> 0:22:08.720 the time. Most cougars normally, like if they are dealing 0:22:08.760 --> 0:22:12.000 with a younger guy, honestly is they're not tripping. They 0:22:12.160 --> 0:22:14.960 trying to get married. They're already over. Yeah, so they're 0:22:15.000 --> 0:22:16.919 not tripping. They want the good time. They want to 0:22:16.920 --> 0:22:20.280 be able to just to like have like a younger 0:22:20.320 --> 0:22:21.919 guy to look at and ship. You know what I mean, 0:22:21.920 --> 0:22:25.200 You ain't gotta look at like no wrinkles and ship 0:22:25.280 --> 0:22:27.600 like hey you know this young guy, come out, take 0:22:27.640 --> 0:22:30.040 your shirt off and you know ship. I'm thinking about it. 0:22:30.040 --> 0:22:34.520 Oh lord, stop, but you feel what I'm saying, like 0:22:34.560 --> 0:22:42.400 you know, I'm glad. Wow, I'm glad you baby all ego, 0:22:44.680 --> 0:22:48.600 they're older than eighteen, they're illegal. Definitely it should be 0:22:48.600 --> 0:22:55.800 over what's worse? What's worse a man that's twenty five 0:22:55.840 --> 0:22:58.760 year old dating a seventeen year old in California where 0:22:58.760 --> 0:23:02.080 it's illegal, or a woman that's fifty year old dating 0:23:02.080 --> 0:23:04.520 a man that's twenty one year old where it's legal. 0:23:04.920 --> 0:23:13.480 What's worse? Damn fifty praise? They came. We would have 0:23:13.520 --> 0:23:15.119 to just speak down on a woman. Did you just 0:23:15.160 --> 0:23:23.840 say fifty, Anthony? But do you really feel bad? Leg 0:23:24.080 --> 0:23:26.720 They don't matter how I feel about it, but said so, 0:23:26.720 --> 0:23:29.399 white people approve of it because that's what legal is. 0:23:29.800 --> 0:23:33.080 White people approve of it. In the mid and seven, 0:23:33.200 --> 0:23:35.159 I said, if you're twenty, if you met a twenty 0:23:35.160 --> 0:23:38.240 five year old man and his girlfriend was seventeen, what's 0:23:38.240 --> 0:23:42.600 worse that ort three year old woman with a twenty 0:23:42.640 --> 0:23:48.159 year old man and the fact that it's taking all 0:23:48.200 --> 0:23:50.159 this it's got to be. I think it's that like 0:23:50.200 --> 0:23:56.119 the guy in the Only I hate doing this because 0:23:56.119 --> 0:24:05.479 everybody I date older. No I know girls, I know 0:24:05.560 --> 0:24:07.520 we date older. But when you think about all the 0:24:07.560 --> 0:24:11.640 ship like that we shouldn't have been, we should seventeen, 0:24:13.240 --> 0:24:15.600 we shouldn't have been because it was like all you 0:24:15.600 --> 0:24:16.960 want to do is fun, like you like them blows 0:24:17.160 --> 0:24:22.280 niggers about the teen Well, I don't know. Now it's 0:24:22.320 --> 0:24:25.359 different a lot of people having seven years seventeen, Like 0:24:25.560 --> 0:24:29.880 I literally we had just lost my virginity. So I'm 0:24:29.920 --> 0:24:34.320 not I'm I can't. Really I didn't. I didn't start 0:24:34.320 --> 0:24:38.919 early kind of the cooler. Yeah, so you know she didn't. 0:24:39.320 --> 0:24:43.639 I shouldn't be dating nobody that, you know, sexual experience 0:24:43.760 --> 0:24:45.960 and older. Most of the time, you don't think the 0:24:46.040 --> 0:24:49.400 lady that's forty three got more sexual experience. But I'm 0:24:49.440 --> 0:24:53.480 just saying she may not have had, yeah, but three 0:24:53.520 --> 0:24:57.560 years probably got it. I'm not something about probably whoa 0:24:57.640 --> 0:25:01.359 you're talking about? Probably, Well, I say not. Every forty 0:25:01.640 --> 0:25:07.160 something year old is, you know, experienced in text year 0:25:07.160 --> 0:25:10.720 old experience. They could be more experienced than a forty 0:25:10.760 --> 0:25:14.520