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Speaker 1: I think it's because I'm way too I'm inquisitive to

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Speaker 1: I can find out about you. I'm a very curious person,

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Speaker 1: and so I find out from this woman. I don't

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Speaker 1: even know how it came up. I think she was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I have a Delta Buddy pass, which you and there's

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Speaker 1: Either you have a pass, an individual pass given to

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Speaker 1: In this case, though she's listed as somebody's domestic partner,

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Speaker 1: it's almost you're the same as the employee the way

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Speaker 3: Because I've gotten buddy passes because my friend's mom works

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Speaker 4: But that's like the best one you can get.

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Speaker 1: Has she been named his domestic partner for a long time.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, like, you're sleeping with this guy obviously, right,

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Speaker 1: same thing. But this is all I'm gonna say. Nothing.

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Speaker 1: Nothing's happening anymore. So at one point she slept with

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Speaker 1: this domestic partner, So she must.

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Speaker 2: Have some bomb dignity.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I mean, and but why would you do that

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Speaker 1: even if it were friendly, I still don't think that

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Speaker 2: It's like, well, because my ex is on it. That

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Speaker 1: I mean, can you imagine if I don't know, like,

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Speaker 1: But he did get me thinking about what, like, what

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Speaker 1: But my thing is like, I don't know if I

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Speaker 2: Back with me, you know what I mean? Like we're

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Speaker 1: No, you don't get to keep that after you break

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Speaker 1: This text says the same thing. You can't constantly change

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Speaker 2: Oh girl, yes.

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Speaker 4: You know mine.

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Speaker 3: I will have a free lawyer for the rest of

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Speaker 2: High page, How are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm great? What benefit are you still receiving from an ex?

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Speaker 5: He is still paying for free ad free music for me,

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Speaker 1: Let me ask you this page if you charge stuff

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Speaker 1: on it? Would he say anything?

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Speaker 5: I don't think he would because he does still try

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Speaker 1: So yeah, because if I yeah, if I if your

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Speaker 1: I mean. But I think that this is his way

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, I don't use it, but I just

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Speaker 5: I still have it there.

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Speaker 2: I well, I want to use it.

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Speaker 1: I'm well because you have no intention to get back

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Speaker 1: to him, because you have integrity, and RUFO doesn't.

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Speaker 2: Thank you. Have a good day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, glad you called. Thank you for listening. Hey Amber,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Good morning, Hi Amber. What benefit are you

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Speaker 1: still receiving from an ex?

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Speaker 2: So my divorce is.

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Speaker 5: Just finalized in July, and I still have my phone

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Speaker 5: totally paid for for this company?

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Speaker 1: Do you think that does he have any control that way?

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Speaker 1: Do you think he's doing that on purpose so he

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Speaker 5: I honestly, that has definitely crossed my mind because he

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Speaker 5: definitely was that kind of person. But I'm taking it. Man.

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Speaker 5: We've got four kids and I was staying home on

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Speaker 5: for sixteen years, so switching that over it's been a

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Speaker 5: slower process for me, and I'm going to take advantage

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Speaker 5: of the fact that it's one less last to carry.

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Speaker 2: Noway, good for you, Amber. I'm just I'm paranoid.

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Speaker 1: I would I would figure somebody was doing that to

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Speaker 1: to check out who I was texting, or you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, you do against me? Yeah? Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: it's all good. It's over now, so yeah, yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 1: Hamber enjoyed the single life. It's it's okay, it's not bad.

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Speaker 5: I thank you.

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Speaker 2: You'll be all right.

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Speaker 5: I'm enjoying it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's all right, super convincing. I have a great day.

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Speaker 4: He says.

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Speaker 2: It's a cris And I don't.

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Speaker 1: Know how old she is, but that must be wild.

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Speaker 1: I mean, can you imagine any more than ten years?

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Speaker 1: It's a whole different thing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's really not.

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Speaker 3: Though it's I was in a seven year relationship and

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Speaker 4: I feel like people make it sound so bad. It's scary.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't know what to do, Like I wouldn't know the.

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Speaker 4: No, why how do you get hit on?

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Speaker 2: And girl?

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Speaker 4: You know how to flirt back?

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Speaker 1: If it was scary, it's it's just different. It's really different. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Tis you right there?

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Speaker 4: He on his way to be a single?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Man, Yeah, I don't know you guys, I mean frand

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Speaker 2: It's like it's a little I'm still talking to the Russian.

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Speaker 2: I think I think she might be legit. I'm not sure.

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Speaker 1: I mean, she was wearing a lion sweatshirt in one

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Speaker 1: of the pictures that she's because you know, I made

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Speaker 1: her send that she was four fingers.

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Speaker 2: She's from Michigan. Supposedly.

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Speaker 4: It's not a scammer. No one would choose that this Russians.

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Speaker 1: From Michigan, apparently, but I made her hold up four fingers,

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Speaker 1: the scammers have like women on the ready to do

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Speaker 1: whatever you ask him to do. And I'm like, well,

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Speaker 1: that that makes sense. I can see that. But why

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Speaker 4: All the NFL teams of scammers not picking the Lions.

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Speaker 4: Please don't ever believe that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go, unless it was one of those

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Speaker 1: like donated switch. You know what her sweatshirt said, Lions

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Speaker 1: super Bowls.

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Speaker 2: I know she's not real.

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Speaker 1: Let me see that sweatshirt Chicago Bears champion. Okay, I

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Speaker 3: Where in Michigan does she say she's from, because I think,

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Speaker 3: help you detroight?

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Speaker 4: Well, ask her to get more specific, and I can

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Speaker 4: Chicago's in Detroit.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll see. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I think it's maybe I'll like what I'll have a

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Speaker 1: Whatever, she starts cutting down my organs, she'll run more

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