1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater only on the Jubile Show. 2 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:07,520 Speaker 2: Gwinn is on the phone today for to Catch a 3 00:00:07,600 --> 00:00:11,039 Speaker 2: Cheater and she's been married to her husband John for 4 00:00:11,119 --> 00:00:13,040 Speaker 2: two years, but now she thinks something might be going on, 5 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:14,319 Speaker 2: so we'll see if we can help her out. 6 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 3: Gwinn, what's going on? Why do you think your husbands cheating? 7 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:22,239 Speaker 4: Well, it's been you know, a good two years so far, 8 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 4: and I've got. 9 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: A clothing business that's really just taken off, so I 10 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:28,160 Speaker 1: can spend. 11 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 4: A little bit of time at home. 12 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:33,599 Speaker 1: And my husband, John, he just started culinary school and 13 00:00:33,680 --> 00:00:37,200 Speaker 1: he's working his butt off and he's always had. 14 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:39,879 Speaker 5: A drive for it. He's totally excited about it, and 15 00:00:39,920 --> 00:00:41,400 Speaker 5: I want to be there to support him in any 16 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 5: way I can. 17 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:44,559 Speaker 1: And I'm also really glad that I can support him 18 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:46,200 Speaker 1: while he finishes school. 19 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 5: You know. So again, things have been pretty good. 20 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 1: It's just that ever since he started these classes in school, 21 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 1: she hasn't been necessarily absent when it comes to us, 22 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:03,280 Speaker 1: but like a little bit more standoffish, you know, like 23 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 1: he's super focused and wants a little bit more than 24 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 1: just finishing the school. 25 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 5: He wants to just knock it out of. 26 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:13,479 Speaker 1: The park and he's just focused on everything other than us, 27 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:18,040 Speaker 1: you know. And there's also this you know, other dynamic 28 00:01:18,040 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 1: where there's this girl in this class named April. 29 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:25,160 Speaker 5: She's cute, mousey and sort. 30 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 4: Of the arts, you know, and I know he likes her. 31 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 5: You know. 32 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:33,760 Speaker 1: She actually came over one night, you know, so they 33 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:36,759 Speaker 1: could work on a project for school together, and they 34 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:40,319 Speaker 1: made this amazing seared fish and you know. 35 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 4: It was really good, so hard to be mad, but 36 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 4: you know. 37 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: While they were cooking together, they seemed a little cozy, 38 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 1: you know, and. 39 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 5: It just it's sort of sent off some alarms in 40 00:01:51,680 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 5: my head. 41 00:01:52,320 --> 00:01:55,960 Speaker 1: Like I was like, that's a little bit too cozy 42 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:58,280 Speaker 1: for my taste, you know, get your hands off, my mate. 43 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 1: So I let it go, you know, but just decided 44 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: it's a good idea to. 45 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 5: Maybe keep an eye on that. 46 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 1: And then I started to notice that he was getting 47 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:10,840 Speaker 1: these weird texts at like all hours, you know, sometimes 48 00:02:10,840 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 1: even late at night. And I don't want to be 49 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 1: the jealous type and like immediately jump to conclusion, but 50 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: in the back of my mind, I'm like, I know 51 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: it's that girl. 52 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:19,679 Speaker 4: I know it is. 53 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 5: Oh. So I asked him one night, like where are 54 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 5: these texts coming from? Who is this? You know? We 55 00:02:25,400 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 5: were watching a movie and I was like, I can't 56 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 5: take it anymore. I just need to know. And he 57 00:02:30,160 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 5: got really annoyed, like she you know. 58 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,799 Speaker 1: When I asked, he you know, and he's like, look, 59 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:38,119 Speaker 1: it's this April. She's got some school stuff she sent 60 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: me and you know, it's nothing, no big deal. So 61 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:43,320 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, you know again, I didn't want 62 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 1: to start a random fight. Didn't want to be like 63 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 1: the total jealous type, not just two years into the marriage. 64 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 1: But it bothers me so much. And I know him 65 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 1: and he loves me, and I don't feel like she 66 00:02:55,560 --> 00:02:58,280 Speaker 1: would cheat on me. But ever since he started these 67 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: classes and hanging out with her, it's like. 68 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 5: He's turned into almost a different guy, you know. 69 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 6: I just wonder if this is one of those situations 70 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:09,280 Speaker 6: where it's like April's not clearly seeing what boundaries are 71 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 6: and is just kind of trying to make her way in, 72 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 6: and maybe she is actually flirting with your man, like 73 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 6: your read probably was right. I just I mean, what 74 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 6: are the chances you think that your man actually would 75 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 6: cross that line? And he probably feels good getting attention 76 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:24,760 Speaker 6: from somebody I mean, jubil doesn't it always feel good 77 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 6: regardless if you're in a relationship. If somebody's crushing on you. 78 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 3: I'm different with that. I don't like it. If they 79 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 3: know I'm in a relationship, I don't like it. That's true. 80 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 3: It's disrespectful. Okay. I could see that he. 81 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: Didn't bothered him very much, you know, I mean honestly, 82 00:03:39,080 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 1: like I was just like a wallpaper, I should say. 83 00:03:42,680 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 2: I'm also very unaware if people are flirting with me too, 84 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:46,480 Speaker 2: so I wouldn't even probably know. 85 00:03:46,680 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 6: Do you think that your man would know if somebody 86 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 6: was flirting with him, Gwen, I don't know. 87 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 5: Sometimes you don't know what I'm flirting with. 88 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. I'm the same way. 89 00:03:55,440 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 2: So I've been in situations like that before, Like they're 90 00:03:57,520 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 2: flirting with I'm like, what just having a conversation out? 91 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 3: Taking my shirt off? What are you talking about? 92 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 5: Right? 93 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 3: The woman always know? Yeah? 94 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 2: All right, Well we'll see if we can figure it 95 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 2: out for you. You told us what grocery store you 96 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 2: guys are awards card members at, So we'll play a song, 97 00:04:11,600 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 2: come back and then call him and pretend to be 98 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 2: from the grocery store and say that every single month, 99 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 2: one random reward card winner gets the free flowers delivered 100 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 2: from our flooral department. 101 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 3: We'll see if he sends us to you or to April, okay, 102 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,480 Speaker 3: or to somebody else. Okay, play us. 103 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 2: Song, come back, get your to Catch a Cheater next. 104 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 2: Right in the middle of to Catch a Cheater, if 105 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 2: you're just joining us, Gwinn is on the phone and 106 00:04:39,400 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 2: she thinks that her husband of two years named John 107 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 2: might be cheating. So in a second, we're going to 108 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:45,840 Speaker 2: call him and pretend to be from the grocery store 109 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 2: that they are awards card members at and say that 110 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 2: he's this month's lucky winner of thirty six long stimber 111 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 2: red roses to be delivered to anybody that he wants. 112 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 2: Will see if he sends him to Gwin, his wife, 113 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 2: or to somebody else. But before we do that, Gwinn, 114 00:04:57,400 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 2: why don't you catch everybody up on your situation? 115 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:00,360 Speaker 5: Okay? 116 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: So he started culinary school and he's really into it, 117 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: and you know, he's just sort of become a different person, 118 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 1: super focused on that, and you know, a little less 119 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 1: absence from me and the marriage, so to speak. And 120 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 1: there's always a third dynamic. You know, her name is 121 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 1: April and she's killed and our say she actually came 122 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 1: over one night and they were cooking together, and they 123 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 1: were super like communicative with each other, you know, almost physically, 124 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 1: to the point where I was like, this could be 125 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 1: a problem for me. And then all of a sudden, 126 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 1: he starts getting these texts at all hours of the night, 127 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 1: you know, NonStop. 128 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:38,520 Speaker 5: And when I asked him. 129 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 1: About it, he got super defensive and like was like, 130 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 1: it's no big deal, It's just April blah blah blah. 131 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 1: And I just feel like he's a different guy and 132 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: it's sort of suspect. 133 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 3: Well, are you ready for us to call him? 134 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 4: Yes? 135 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, here we go. 136 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:03,719 Speaker 2: Hi, this is Jorable calling from I was looking for 137 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 2: our Rewards card member name John. 138 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 5: I guess this is Hee. What can I do for John? 139 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 2: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call. 140 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:13,920 Speaker 2: I'm actually calling with some good news. Congratulations. Here this 141 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:14,680 Speaker 2: month's big winner. 142 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 5: Okay, big winner of what? 143 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 7: Oh? 144 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:20,359 Speaker 3: Every single month you might not know. 145 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 2: Every single month, we choose one Rewards Card member at 146 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 2: random to say thank you very much for shopping with 147 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 2: us and thank you for being such a loyal customer 148 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 2: by gifting you thirty six long, slim red roses to 149 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 2: be delivered from our floral department to anywhere in the 150 00:06:32,400 --> 00:06:34,800 Speaker 2: fifty United States, and a card to be delivered to 151 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 2: anybody that you want. 152 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 5: That's great, okay, So, like, do I have to come 153 00:06:39,360 --> 00:06:40,039 Speaker 5: in or like? 154 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:43,599 Speaker 2: That is one option. The other options are if you 155 00:06:43,640 --> 00:06:45,440 Speaker 2: know who you want to send them to. I can 156 00:06:45,440 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 2: also take the information over the phone. 157 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 5: Oh no, I absolutely know who I'm going to send 158 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 5: them to. 159 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:54,159 Speaker 2: Oh great, I've got my form pulled up here. First, 160 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 2: I would need the first and last name of the 161 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 2: person that you would like to send them to. 162 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 5: It's going to be cool when. 163 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 2: And is there anything you would like to put on 164 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 2: a card? Would like to send a card with it? 165 00:07:06,680 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 5: Well, so it's going to my wife. 166 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 4: Oh and I. 167 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 8: Often describe her to other people as the light of 168 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 8: my life for a reason. You know, like she is, 169 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 8: she's smart, she's beautiful, she's so supportive of me. 170 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 3: You know what happened with me? 171 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 2: I was I started taking the culinary school, and then 172 00:07:26,880 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 2: I was this other girl in the class and her 173 00:07:29,040 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 2: and I started getting hot and heavy. 174 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 8: Oh goody, I'm actually in culinary school right now. 175 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 3: That's interesting. 176 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 2: Ope, her name's not Ah, that's John. This is actually 177 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 2: this is actually the Jubil Show. It's a radio show. 178 00:07:48,160 --> 00:07:49,280 Speaker 2: My name's Jubil. Yeah. 179 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:50,080 Speaker 5: Hi, I'm Nina. 180 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 2: Hi, I'm Victoria, and your wife Gwynn is actually on 181 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 2: the phone. 182 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 5: Oh. 183 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 2: We do a segment on the show called Got You Cheater? 184 00:08:00,800 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 2: Wherever you think your significant other might be sleeping around, 185 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 2: we can try to catch them. 186 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 3: So that's what this is. 187 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 8: What so you're calling me because do you think my 188 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 8: wife is shooting? 189 00:08:12,720 --> 00:08:12,880 Speaker 5: No? 190 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 1: Actually, I was a little bit nervous because all of 191 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 1: a sudden, you have this friend April. 192 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 5: She comes over to the house. You're cozy, cozy all 193 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 5: the time, and she sends. 194 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 1: You these texts like at weird hours of the night, 195 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 1: and you get completely distracted and you're super focused on 196 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 1: finishing school. 197 00:08:30,400 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 5: And I just was a little bit nervous, to be 198 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 5: quite honest. Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry. 199 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:43,079 Speaker 8: I feel real bad that you. I wish you'd come 200 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 8: and talk to me about this before we got to it. 201 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:48,400 Speaker 1: I mean, I've asked you about the text before, and 202 00:08:48,600 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 1: I felt like you just kind of were annoyed and 203 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:52,960 Speaker 1: blew it off, you know, So, I mean I just 204 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 1: didn't know what to think honestly, because we just haven't 205 00:08:55,800 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 1: had much time for each other. 206 00:08:57,040 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 5: And you're, like I said, super focused on school, which 207 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 5: is great, but I don't want you to be super 208 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 5: focused on April. 209 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 8: I'm sorry if I came across as annoyed when you 210 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 8: were asking me about. 211 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:09,199 Speaker 5: The text messages. 212 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:12,880 Speaker 4: It's embarrassing to admit, but I didn't want you. 213 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 8: To feel disappointed in me because I've been throwing behind 214 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:20,960 Speaker 8: in class recently, and you know, like you've been so 215 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 8: supportive about me, you know, getting my assignments done and 216 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 8: doing this, and you know how much I love spend 217 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 8: time in the kitchen. I just really didn't want you 218 00:09:30,600 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 8: to feel disappointed. So I've been Yeah, I've been talking 219 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 8: to April, but you know, she's been kind of like 220 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 8: a big sister to me because she's been helping me 221 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 8: out with assignments and she's been sending me like recipes 222 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 8: and stuff like that, and you know, as much as 223 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:48,760 Speaker 8: I'm getting done in the class on my own, you know, 224 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 8: she's been like a real lifeline. 225 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 7: Right. 226 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: Well, I couldn't be disappointed in you. I mean, I 227 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 1: love you, But does April know that she's like a big. 228 00:09:57,880 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 4: Sister I mean beautiful. 229 00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 5: I mean well, I mean they're gay, so well okay, 230 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 5: I mean like like not to put her business out there, 231 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 5: but like I'm pretty certain she has no interest in me. 232 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:17,400 Speaker 2: Gwyn thought that she was kind of flirting when she 233 00:10:17,480 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 2: saw you guys hanging out. 234 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 8: No, I mean like she you know, we've been we're close, 235 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:25,240 Speaker 8: but like when you're in the kitchen, like you try 236 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:27,200 Speaker 8: to have as much fun as you can, you know, 237 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:30,679 Speaker 8: even though it's kind of like an intense environment, you know, so. 238 00:10:31,360 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 5: Like you will get playful, but like we never at 239 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 5: least for me, there's never been anything there, is it? 240 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:38,040 Speaker 7: John? 241 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 3: Your wife, he was really worried. 242 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:43,280 Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm like again, I feel bad though, because I 243 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:47,360 Speaker 8: don't want her to worry about me or with any woman. 244 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:51,000 Speaker 5: Oh good, well it sort of changes everything. 245 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 1: Knowing you know that apols preferences not men because you know, 246 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:58,960 Speaker 1: they just say flirt, but it's not real flirting. So 247 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:01,840 Speaker 1: that makes me feel so much better. You know, it's 248 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:03,840 Speaker 1: it's or what's the what's the term I'm looking for. 249 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 1: It's just it's not dangerous party platonic. Yeah, I'm sorry, 250 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 1: I you know, just doubted you. But the text thing, 251 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 1: you know, to like late at night and whatever, and 252 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:16,720 Speaker 1: you just get so distracted. 253 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 5: It just bothered me. 254 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:19,839 Speaker 4: So no, like I. 255 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 8: Said, I can, I'll be more than happy to show 256 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 8: you the text messages, but they're all just recipes. 257 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 5: You know. She's really been to help me carry through. 258 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 3: Yeah that's wrong. Yeah goodness. 259 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 4: Yeah. 260 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:39,920 Speaker 8: I mean, if anyone's a danger in the house, it 261 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:41,679 Speaker 8: would more likely be you than me. 262 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 5: Like she would be a danger because like the girl 263 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:46,679 Speaker 5: would come under her and not him. 264 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 3: I thought he was saying she was more likely to cheat. 265 00:11:49,320 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 3: I was like, that's right, I get it now. It 266 00:11:53,880 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 3: sounds like you guys are going to be. 267 00:11:55,240 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 4: Just fine, I hope. 268 00:11:57,440 --> 00:11:58,520 Speaker 5: So yeah, I'm sorry, honey. 269 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:01,679 Speaker 7: I love you again me to be you know, I 270 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 7: didn't want to be that girl, but like I love 271 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:09,240 Speaker 7: you and I'm jealous, So yeah, I. 272 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:09,839 Speaker 5: Love you too. 273 00:12:10,240 --> 00:12:12,480 Speaker 8: You know, Like I was gonna when I thought this 274 00:12:12,800 --> 00:12:15,360 Speaker 8: was hard, Flowers, I was going to tell them to 275 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 8: write that you're the spice of my life, and I 276 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:20,439 Speaker 8: mean that you know, everything about you makes me a 277 00:12:20,480 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 8: better person, make me cry, so you will show to 278 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:29,000 Speaker 8: catch a cheater