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Speaker 1: Spicy la la. I twenty females started working with a

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Speaker 1: started hanging out more, and eventually we started dating without

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Speaker 1: really good opening line of communication with my family, so

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Speaker 1: I wasn't in a rush to tell them things about

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Speaker 1: my personal life. A couple of my friend and that

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Speaker 1: was enough for me At the time. His parents and

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Speaker 1: siblings knew, so it wasn't a complete secret. Fast forward

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Speaker 1: and it had been roughly five to six months and

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Speaker 1: things were fine. It was a couple of nights before

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Speaker 1: my twenty first birthday. One day he invited me to

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Speaker 1: go to. I asked my mom to watch my son,

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Speaker 1: Who's to Mail Messiah while I went out. She threw

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Speaker 1: the biggest fit and mocked me, asking why I wanted

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Speaker 1: to go, telling me I just wanted to be sneaky

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Speaker 1: and do adult things. She wasn't watching my child for

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Speaker 1: me just so I could have fun. Side note, I

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Speaker 1: never even asked my mom to watch him even when

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Speaker 1: I worked, so it wasn't like I was taking advantage

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Speaker 1: of her. She also had just moved to our state,

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Speaker 1: so she hadn't had much bonding time with him. I

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Speaker 1: didn't understand why she had to say all of that

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Speaker 1: dinner in a movie. I let it go and texted

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Speaker 1: him to tell him. His mom offered to keep my son,

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Speaker 1: but I kindly declined. I had planned on not going,

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Speaker 1: which was okay. Then my grandfather called and said he

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Speaker 1: would watch him. My grandfather and I have the best

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Speaker 1: relationship and I confide in him about almost everything, so

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Speaker 1: plans were back on. We went out to eat and

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Speaker 1: and didn't. We get to the movies and we're about

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Speaker 1: thirty minutes into the movie when Josh's phone starts to

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Speaker 1: go off constantly. It was my mother. She was telling

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Speaker 1: him how we think we're slick, how I'm not responding

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Speaker 1: to her, how I'm taking advantage of my grandfather, how

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Speaker 1: I need to be home being a mother, and how

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Speaker 1: he allowed me to even be out at night knowing

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Speaker 1: he showed me, and he responded with she's a great,

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Speaker 1: hard working mom who deserves it three hour break occasionally.

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Speaker 1: Then he turned his phone off. How did she get

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Speaker 1: his number, you ask? I have no clue, but at

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Speaker 1: the time I didn't even think about it. Girl, You

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Speaker 1: what do you mean?

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Speaker 3: If I was that was the right respect with someone,

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Speaker 3: and my mom started to text them. My first thought

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Speaker 3: was would be like, how do you have my mom's number?

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Speaker 1: Well, sometimes your your mom can be.

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Speaker 2: Crafty, mother's cool, but mothers are spies too.

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Speaker 1: You know the the uh. The response was querfect, it's great,

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Speaker 1: it was respectful, and it backed up op. I silently

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Speaker 1: cried for a second in disbelief that my mom would

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Speaker 1: say that, plus other unmentionable things about me. This wasn't

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Speaker 1: the first time. He looked over and wiped my tears

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Speaker 1: and we finished the movie. The next day I saw

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Speaker 1: my mom where she had a few slick things to say,

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Speaker 3: What this man?

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Speaker 1: This man? I honestly was happy. So much was being

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Speaker 1: done for me, not to mention. At midnight leading into

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Speaker 1: twenty first. Yeah, so I did end up yarfin aka

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Speaker 1: back to my birthday. For dinner, he and my mom

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Speaker 3: Oh, but how did he get your mom's number? Why

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Speaker 3: did you never question that?

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Speaker 4: Who?

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Speaker 1: I'm not finding out how he got your mom's number number?

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Speaker 1: One thought, well, I mean, wait, maybe it was to

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Speaker 5: How did he get it?

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Speaker 1: He asked, who her? Oh, think of it?

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Speaker 2: I'm not an owl an owl.

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Speaker 1: So after the breakup, we communicated occasionally, just to check in.

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Speaker 1: He was my friend before anything else. It wasn't a

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Speaker 3: But see you, I see you.

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Speaker 1: I don't think too much of it, so whatever. She

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Speaker 1: I instantly regret it. I see so many messages and pictures.

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Speaker 2: Oh, my goodness, sure she had gone to his house.

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Speaker 1: Oh he had gone to hers. Oh there were messages

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Speaker 1: of him defending me to her at first, and then

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Speaker 1: anything to say. This too weird, but and keud go.

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Speaker 1: all of the times she berated me in front of him,

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Speaker 1: so I went to my aunt's house and explained what

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Speaker 1: no questions asked. From the jump, they sided with me.

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Speaker 1: I tried to hack her page and his. I understand

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Speaker 1: that this was wrong, but I wanted proof before I

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Speaker 1: confronted them. You're a pro hacker, and this we already

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Speaker 3: That's that is that is proof you can you can

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Speaker 3: enter the premises.

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Speaker 1: Enter the premises. Yeah, free and clear, Free and clear, Okay.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to read and figure out when all of

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Speaker 1: this started. Still up my aunts, I texted my mom's

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Speaker 1: best friend, who was also my godmother at the time.

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Speaker 1: I asked her if she knew and explained what I saw.

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Speaker 1: She tells me she knew she was talking to someone,

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Speaker 1: and that she told me she was. Let me check

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Speaker 1: and see if I still have the pictures, she shed me.

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Speaker 1: She does, She sends them to me, and what do

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Speaker 1: you know, it's pictures of Josh. She apologized profusely, saying

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Speaker 1: she didn't know it was the same guy, how long

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Speaker 1: she knew about them, which had been months, blah blah blah, blah,

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Speaker 1: blah blah blah. At that point I didn't need any proof.

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Speaker 1: I sent my mom a text that read along the

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Speaker 1: lines of you are disgusting to not only date, but

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Speaker 1: was with. Not only that, you hit it and berated

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Speaker 1: me and acted like I was this terrible person. You

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Speaker 1: are a bottom of the barrel scum and I will

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Speaker 1: not forgive this and you decided it was cool to

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Speaker 1: show pictures of him to your friends like it wouldn't

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Speaker 1: get back to me. Have a good one sent blocked.

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Speaker 1: Whoo whoa hey, when your mom like gets with your

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Speaker 1: ex blocker, time to blocker.

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Speaker 3: You're blocked block dang man, what a response?

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Speaker 1: What a response? That was the response, the all time,

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Speaker 1: an all time response in this situation. Yea all star.

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Speaker 1: So I still had another text to send, but to Josh,

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Speaker 1: who was actively working on getting back together, my message

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Speaker 1: to him was very sol l my mom. You and

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Speaker 1: my mom had the spicy relations. You saw how she

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Speaker 1: treated me. I confided in you, and I was there

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Speaker 1: for you through everything. Joke is literally on me. Guess

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Speaker 1: what this one's on you because I'm pregnant scent blocked.

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Speaker 2: Wait what wait I don't know whoa whoa wait.

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Speaker 1: She was pregnant?

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, op, I just want to have a like

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Speaker 3: a side with you. I don't Gurley, Gurley, we already

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Speaker 3: have one kid. Maybe we should invest in some contraceptive.

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Speaker 1: Maybe let's learn how to, Maybe.

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Speaker 3: We should learn how to.

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Speaker 1: Safe safe, spicy, great spicy, better where you're lay spicy?

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Speaker 2: You know it's very crazy. What if, what if? What

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Speaker 2: if the X and the mom have a kid? Oh no.

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Speaker 1: Ah ah.

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Speaker 3: Ah, kid is Opie's sibling and also Opie.

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Speaker 1: What a complex family tree that's gonna be.

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Speaker 2: Do we call that kid? Uh? Lucifer?

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Speaker 4: My dad's dating, My grandma is also.

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Speaker 3: My niece.

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Speaker 2: My brain, my brain can't handle that one. Let's just kid,

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Speaker 2: finish the story.

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Speaker 4: Grandpa, Dad, uncle, Grandpa.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Yes, I was pregnant. I had known for a

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Speaker 1: couple of days and was holding on to it until

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Speaker 1: I saw him that weekend. After my doctor's appointment, I

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Speaker 3: There is pettiness, there's divorce, there's craziness, and there's just

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Speaker 3: This woman told me that she left my stepsister at

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Speaker 1: Not inviting people who act like actual villains are important events.

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Speaker 3: my dad's marriage. One day in January, Lilith comes home

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Speaker 3: from work and makes my dad a big steak dinner.

439
00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:41,479
Speaker 3: As she puts it on the table in front of him,

440
00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:43,080
Speaker 3: she says, by the way, I'm cutting my job and

441
00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:44,840
Speaker 3: you're gonna support me. I'm just going to focus on

442
00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:46,520
Speaker 3: the farm you bought for me and make and sell

443
00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:48,399
Speaker 3: my farm goods. If you don't like it too bad.

444
00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:51,680
Speaker 3: Without commenting back, my dad eats the dinner, then goes

445
00:20:51,680 --> 00:20:54,560
Speaker 3: into his office, prints out a piece of paper, comes back,

446
00:20:54,880 --> 00:20:56,880
Speaker 3: sets the paper on the table in front of her,

447
00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:59,640
Speaker 3: and says, that's your half. I want a divorce.

448
00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:06,080
Speaker 1: They and a half years there it is, He said,

449
00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:10,040
Speaker 1: I don't care if I'm a Catholic. I can't take

450
00:21:10,119 --> 00:21:12,040
Speaker 1: it. It's over. He says.

451
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 3: If I'm going to hell for this.

452
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:17,320
Speaker 1: I was already there. I'm going to hell for this.

453
00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:18,199
Speaker 1: Better than this.

454
00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:22,280
Speaker 3: What began next was the most ridiculous pettiness I think

455
00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:25,280
Speaker 3: I have ever experienced for starters. Neither one of them

456
00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:27,520
Speaker 3: wanted to give up the Sleep Number bed, so they

457
00:21:27,520 --> 00:21:30,359
Speaker 3: both slept in it, and my dad continued continued to

458
00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:34,000
Speaker 3: sleep unclothed every night because that's what he did, like,

459
00:21:34,119 --> 00:21:34,879
Speaker 3: I can't stop.

460
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Speaker 1: I know we're divorced. I'm taking the bed now, I'm

461
00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:43,400
Speaker 1: taking the bed. Well, we'll see who gives up first.

462
00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:46,879
Speaker 1: I'm gonna stop showering and sleep with no clothes.

463
00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,680
Speaker 3: Using the sleep Number remote, Lilith cranked up his side

464
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:51,520
Speaker 3: of the bed to the heartest setting and then hid

465
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Speaker 3: the remote. She told me about this, and I told

466
00:21:53,720 --> 00:21:55,760
Speaker 3: my dad. He found the remote, fixed the bed, but

467
00:21:55,840 --> 00:21:57,680
Speaker 3: left the remote where she hit it so she would

468
00:21:57,680 --> 00:22:00,200
Speaker 3: continue to think she won and continued to sleep deep

469
00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:02,000
Speaker 3: unclothed on his side of the bed.

470
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Speaker 1: You know that he's pulled that same trick so many times.

471
00:22:05,880 --> 00:22:08,159
Speaker 3: He had a hot tub and a pool. She dumped

472
00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:10,480
Speaker 3: a massive amount of dirt into the filter, hoping to

473
00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:12,720
Speaker 3: break the pump for the pool and hot tubs since

474
00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:14,960
Speaker 3: they were connected. The house has always been in my

475
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:16,919
Speaker 3: dad's name because he bought it before he met her,

476
00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 3: and he made way more money than her, so she

477
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,040
Speaker 3: hid eggs around the house so that they would go

478
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 3: bad after she moved out. She also shoved meat into

479
00:22:23,840 --> 00:22:26,200
Speaker 3: the freezer holes of the fridge, which my dad never

480
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:28,720
Speaker 3: found out about because he passed away a couple of

481
00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 3: years after the divorce, but Crystal and I found out

482
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,160
Speaker 3: when he had the power to his house shut off

483
00:22:33,240 --> 00:22:36,440
Speaker 3: and maggots suddenly started coming out of the empty freezer

484
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:38,399
Speaker 3: freezer holes.

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Speaker 1: How do you shove meat in the freezer holes? Help?

486
00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 1: Who is this woman? Help?

487
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Speaker 3: He gave her the farm that she loved and asked

488
00:22:47,200 --> 00:22:49,520
Speaker 3: him to buy in exchange for her not getting his house,

489
00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:53,200
Speaker 3: but she refused to move out. Their pettiness continued into February,

490
00:22:53,359 --> 00:22:57,000
Speaker 3: when she did the unforgivable. She picked up Crystal from

491
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Speaker 3: the school one day after band practice. Crystal was sixteenth

492
00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:01,919
Speaker 3: the same point in high school, and they were driving

493
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:04,680
Speaker 3: home together, taking one of the more remote roads.

494
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:07,000
Speaker 1: Lilith was grilling.

495
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:09,920
Speaker 3: Crystal, basically fishing for anything she could use against her dad,

496
00:23:10,000 --> 00:23:12,280
Speaker 3: and she was doing a bang up job. She had

497
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:16,919
Speaker 3: Crystal in tears. Whatever Crystal said set Lilith off, and

498
00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:18,880
Speaker 3: she stopped the car in the middle of the strawberry

499
00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:21,320
Speaker 3: field and told Crystal to get out and walk home.

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Speaker 1: Mind you, it was already.

501
00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 3: Dark outside and cold, with no lights on that part

502
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 3: of the road and a good two miles from the house,

503
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:32,680
Speaker 3: two miles with no payphones, no sidewalk, and no other

504
00:23:32,760 --> 00:23:35,119
Speaker 3: people Crystal could have asked for help. Cristel did not

505
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,479
Speaker 3: have a cell phone back then or a jacket, and

506
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:40,879
Speaker 3: cried the whole way home, terrified of every car that

507
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:43,640
Speaker 3: passed by, which would have been about one car every

508
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Speaker 3: five minutes on that road.

509
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Speaker 1: Send this lady to jail, Send her to jail.

510
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, this is child day for real. Good Dad was pissed.

511
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 3: He had Crystal stay at her grandmother's house and got

512
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,280
Speaker 3: an emergency court date within a couple of days, he

513
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 3: told the judge that Lilith was a danger to his daughter,

514
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:05,440
Speaker 3: and the judge agreed go The judge ordered Lilith to

515
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:10,480
Speaker 3: move out in seven days period. Dad abandoned the house

516
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:13,280
Speaker 3: during the seven days, as did Crystal. Well, Lilith did

517
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:16,560
Speaker 3: the petty little pranks mentioned before. During that seven days,

518
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 3: Dad came home one day to find his truck backed

519
00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:21,439
Speaker 3: up in the parking lot with a backcatch open. The

520
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,639
Speaker 3: truck had one of those camper covers, and when he

521
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 3: looked in the back of the truck, his movie collection

522
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:28,720
Speaker 3: was piled as high as the tailgate in the truck.

523
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:31,720
Speaker 3: He has been collecting VHS movies for fifteen years and

524
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:34,399
Speaker 3: they were his pride and joy. He'd had them sorted

525
00:24:34,400 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 3: by actor and built special shelves for them. As he

526
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 3: was standing there, Lilith came out with another pile of arms,

527
00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:43,280
Speaker 3: saw him, looked him in the eye, and then shucked

528
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:45,360
Speaker 3: the videos into the back of the car. Dad ran

529
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 3: to the house and saw that there were only two

530
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:49,959
Speaker 3: short shelves left of his two thousand plus video collection.

531
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Speaker 3: He grabbed an armful and ran out to the truck

532
00:24:52,400 --> 00:24:54,199
Speaker 3: and threw it in the back, and so did she.

533
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:57,080
Speaker 3: They continued to do this until all the videos were

534
00:24:57,119 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 3: off the shelves. Then when they were done, he turned

535
00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 3: to her and said, now let's go get your DVD player.

536
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:05,160
Speaker 3: And he said and she said okay and ran back

537
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:07,960
Speaker 3: into the house. What is he having?

538
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,240
Speaker 1: Like a breakdown?

539
00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:13,320
Speaker 3: Dad closed the hatch on the truck, got in and

540
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:16,480
Speaker 3: drove away with his movie collection, just laughing his butt off.

541
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: No, that's what it was. Oh he was. He was

542
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 1: like trying to steal all his movies. And then he's like,

543
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 1: all right, I'll help you. Yeah, let's get all the

544
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,719
Speaker 1: movies in the truck. Oh, now all the movies are okay,

545
00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:30,719
Speaker 1: go get the DVD player. And then as soon as

546
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:34,919
Speaker 1: you went inside, he just said h and then he

547
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:35,680
Speaker 1: drove off.

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00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,800
Speaker 3: You silly, silly woman. He was a real estate agent

549
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:40,920
Speaker 3: at the time and he had listed a house only

550
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:43,360
Speaker 3: a couple blocks away. He parked the truck there, then

551
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:45,480
Speaker 3: walked back for his car, only to see a cop

552
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:48,120
Speaker 3: car there. He went around the corner, called the cops himself,

553
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 3: was met by an officer and explained the divorced situation.

554
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 3: The police officer went with them, and Lilith immediately started

555
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 3: screaming he stole my movie collection. Dad said, that's my

556
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:01,199
Speaker 3: movie collection, to which she replied, community.

557
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:04,400
Speaker 1: Property, community property, community property.

558
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:07,760
Speaker 3: Dad's police officer told told Dad to go into the

559
00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 3: house and get his belongings while he explained to the

560
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,480
Speaker 3: other officer what Dad had told him. A few minutes later,

561
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 3: Dad came out with his sword collection in his arms,

562
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 3: and Lilith started screaming, those are my sword. Dad just

563
00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:22,600
Speaker 3: looked at her and snidely said, community property.

564
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 1: I wish I could.

565
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:25,439
Speaker 3: Say that that had been the end, but it was

566
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:30,240
Speaker 3: a long and petty divorce. Now for the lies, Lilith.

567
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,359
Speaker 2: Told, First, one foremost, this dad's really cool.

568
00:26:33,080 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 3: I mean, besides the fact that he stayed with this

569
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 3: woman for nine and a half years.

570
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 2: He's got tenacity. This guy's got a vh VHS collection

571
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:46,200
Speaker 2: for like two thousand, like movies that's crazy in alphabetical

572
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 2: order by actor and or actress crazy. And he's got

573
00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 2: swords but everything.

574
00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 1: You know who has one of those?

575
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:55,880
Speaker 2: Oh sick your grandpa.

576
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:56,920
Speaker 1: No.

577
00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:00,560
Speaker 3: Now for the lies, Lilith told, Dad and I figured

578
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 3: out everything as we compared stories during the divorce. There

579
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:06,399
Speaker 3: were a lot of lies, but the craziest one to

580
00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:08,360
Speaker 3: me was how she told everyone that she had been

581
00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:11,399
Speaker 3: in a coma when Emma was around four years old.

582
00:27:11,560 --> 00:27:14,040
Speaker 3: She had pictures of Emma with short hair and said that.

583
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:15,240
Speaker 1: Was when I was in a coma.

584
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 3: Emma freaked out and ripped out all of her hair

585
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:19,480
Speaker 3: and I had to cut it short. Now, mind you,

586
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 3: when I met my husband, he had actually been in

587
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:24,120
Speaker 3: a coma when he was a teenager from a car accident,

588
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:26,800
Speaker 3: and he has a track scar on his neck, which

589
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:30,640
Speaker 3: is somewhat common for coma patients. Lilith did not have one,

590
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 3: but I figured it must have been a different kind

591
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 3: of coma. She said she couldn't wear watches because coma

592
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:38,760
Speaker 3: patients had their magnetic poles altered from the coma, so

593
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 3: watches would just not work on her.

594
00:27:41,400 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 1: What what.

595
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 3: I didn't question it because I didn't really know anything

596
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 3: about coma's and I didn't really care enough to look

597
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:52,280
Speaker 3: into it. But my husband can wear watches, he just

598
00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 3: doesn't like to. She told me she ended up in

599
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:57,199
Speaker 3: the coma when her ex husband attacked her, But she

600
00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,119
Speaker 3: told my dad and my aunt that she put herself

601
00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:01,439
Speaker 3: in the coma when she shearing one of her goats

602
00:28:01,440 --> 00:28:04,200
Speaker 3: cut her arm and bled out which we didn't even question,

603
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:07,000
Speaker 3: even though she has no scars on her arms. As

604
00:28:07,040 --> 00:28:09,479
Speaker 3: these things came to light, I reached out to Emma's

605
00:28:09,560 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 3: dad because I had gotten Emma's phone number by then.

606
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 3: I asked Emma's dad if Lilith had ever been in

607
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 3: a coma, and he replied, if she was, where was Emma?

608
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:20,640
Speaker 3: I thought, good answer, right, so I asked Lilith's mother,

609
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:24,119
Speaker 3: who replied, if she was, where was Emma? And where

610
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:26,640
Speaker 3: are you guys? Because you should be listening to full

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00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:29,280
Speaker 3: episodes with stories just like this. Just go to Apple Podcast,

612
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:33,320
Speaker 3: Spotify or your favorite podcast app. It's true story time, Okay, storytime,

613
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 3: there's a little bit after this insane story.

614
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Speaker 1: Those are the craziest lies. Maybe I've ever heard so insane.

615
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 1: I was in a coma and my polls reversed, so

616
00:28:41,200 --> 00:28:42,480
Speaker 1: watches don't work.

617
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 2: Like what was time Traveler's wife?

618
00:28:45,720 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 1: Also, were you in a coma or not? I didn't

619
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:54,959
Speaker 1: seem so oh like? And also how do you end

620
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 1: up this way? How do you end up so just

621
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 1: freaking crazy?

622
00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 3: So yeah, craziness, But I'm a peace pleasers, so I

623
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,120
Speaker 3: was still trying to be your friend despite all of that,

624
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:06,720
Speaker 3: until she tried to accuse my father of hitting her,

625
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 3: and even had the neighbors call an ambulance after she

626
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 3: attacked my dad and sister on the front lawn one day.

627
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 3: When she did that, I knew what her next play

628
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 3: was to accuse my dad of in hopes of winning everything,

629
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 3: and I was done. I told her not to call

630
00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:22,040
Speaker 3: me again, and that was the last I heard from her.

631
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:24,600
Speaker 3: I do know, however, that she spread rumors about us

632
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:28,080
Speaker 3: to anyone who would listen. According to her, Emma passed away,

633
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 3: which must have been strange. When Emma moved back to town

634
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 3: after my dad's the people saw her Crystal became a

635
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:35,360
Speaker 3: spicy sleep worker.

636
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:36,440
Speaker 1: So not true.

637
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:40,000
Speaker 3: And I am constantly being by my husband, who I've

638
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,520
Speaker 3: been married to for twenty two years now. So yeah,

639
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 3: this was a long time ago, but I still laugh

640
00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 3: about it. And that is the end of the story.

641
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:51,719
Speaker 1: Oh my god, A long time ago in a life

642
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:53,480
Speaker 1: that is now far far away from.

643
00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:56,480
Speaker 3: Please, I hope that you never have to see that

644
00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 3: lady again.

645
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 1: It crazy to think, like, just be driving down the

646
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 1: street and then this woman is like in the car next. Yeah,

647
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 1: this insane. Well I could just be like right around

648
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:07,920
Speaker 1: the corner from me just being like, one day, I'm

649
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 1: gonna steal all those movies back. I'll get those swords.

650
00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 4: It's the last thing I do.

651
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 1: I'll get those sawds. I'll get my enchanted swords back

652
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:21,440
Speaker 1: if it's the last thing I do. But man, Oman,

653
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 1: that was the end of that story. Hey, it's johnio

654
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 1: og host here. We're gonna get back to the stories.

655
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Speaker 1: But he's a quick three minute break of ass from

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Speaker 1: our sponsors. My fiance's brother and his girlfriend called us

657
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Speaker 1: disrespectful because we got engaged without their permission.

658
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Speaker 4: I don't need your permission.

659
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Speaker 1: I twenty four female, have been with my partner, twenty

660
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 1: five male for one year. At New Year's we got

661
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:46,959
Speaker 1: engaged and we're so happy. We have a wonderful relationship,

662
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,760
Speaker 1: and everything seemed to be falling into place like a

663
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 1: fairy tale. He gets along really well with my mom,

664
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Speaker 1: and I get along really well with his. By the way,

665
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Speaker 1: this comes from user throwaway they nuts and if you

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Speaker 1: want to submit your own stories, go to the r

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Speaker 1: slash Okay storytime submurd it. So unfortunately, my partner, we

668
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 1: shall call Mark, has an older brother, twenty six male,

669
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 1: we shall call him Rick, who has a girlfriend twenty

670
00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 1: six female Penny. A month ago, Penny cornered Mark and

671
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 1: basically told him he was making a terrible mistake by

672
00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 1: getting engaged to me. Then question whether he had thought

673
00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:22,440
Speaker 1: it through.

674
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 3: Have you thought about the fact that no one asks

675
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 3: for your opinion?

676
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:26,600
Speaker 1: Close your mouth.

677
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 3: You're doing a lot of this. I want you to do.

678
00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 1: This, Penny, question whether Mark had thought it through getting

679
00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 1: married to me? Why? Here are their reasons. One, Mark

680
00:31:35,880 --> 00:31:40,120
Speaker 1: should have asked Rick for brotherly guidance and permission before

681
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 1: getting engaged, because Rick is the older brother and has

682
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 1: more experience with women. That doesn't make any sense. They

683
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 1: seem to think it was disrespectful to get engaged without

684
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:53,600
Speaker 1: letting Rick know first. Number two, Rick and Penny have

685
00:31:53,640 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 1: been dating for two years. We have only been dating

686
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:58,680
Speaker 1: for one year. They're acting as if they should get

687
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:01,880
Speaker 1: the privilege of getting engaged first. No, they are always

688
00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 1: on the verge of breaking up and constantly fight and

689
00:32:04,040 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 1: have no intention of getting engaged anytime soon. Three. I

690
00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 1: currently don't have a job. I was employed full time

691
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:12,840
Speaker 1: for eight years starting at fifteen. I had to stop

692
00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 1: working for a while due to medical issues. They say

693
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 1: Mark is getting taken advantage of financially, even though I'm

694
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 1: on a pension and pay bills and rent, not to

695
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 1: mention doing one hundred percent of the washing, the cleaning,

696
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:27,120
Speaker 1: the ironing, the cooking, and the laundry. Number four, we

697
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 1: moved in together before they did. They currently live apart

698
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 1: because Penny's family are very strict Christians Pentecostals, but we

699
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:37,080
Speaker 1: are living together before they are, and therefore we are

700
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 1: disrespecting them. Five Penny said that she gets the feeling

701
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 1: that I do not like her. This is one hundred

702
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:47,120
Speaker 1: percent true. I don't like her at all, but I've

703
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 1: tried to keep this to myself as much as possible

704
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 1: so as not to rock the boat or cause friction.

705
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 1: I didn't want to upset Mark or his brother. I

706
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:59,080
Speaker 1: tried to believe that she wasn't unlikable, or that I

707
00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 1: had misinterpreted it, But after twelve months of continuous witchiness,

708
00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 1: I don't think this is the case. Here are some

709
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,360
Speaker 1: of the reasons why I dislike Penny. Number one, she

710
00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 1: has continuously made comments about my weight. I'm not skinny,

711
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,720
Speaker 1: but neither is she. Yet she seems to think that

712
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 1: it's okay to make comments about what I eat and

713
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 1: what I wear. She even made comparisons between me and

714
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 1: Mark and Rick's mother, who is large. Not only is

715
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,280
Speaker 1: this insulting to me, but it's insulting to their mother,

716
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 1: who I get along with very well. Number two. She

717
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:32,400
Speaker 1: comes from a giant, strict Pentecostal family. She basically believes

718
00:33:32,440 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 1: that divorce is evil, and because my parents are divorced,

719
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 1: I get the impression that she sees me as less

720
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Speaker 1: of a person.

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00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:41,240
Speaker 3: Oh, I see her as less of a person because

722
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 3: she's mean.

723
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 1: I see you as a creature from the black lagoon.

724
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:48,760
Speaker 1: Mark and Rick's parents are also divorced, and she has

725
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 1: voiced her opinion of them as well. She said that

726
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 1: it was their mother's duty to do what her husband

727
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 1: says and to keep the family together. Never mind why

728
00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,880
Speaker 1: they divorced. That's just her view. That's a trash review.

729
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 1: Number three. She also has eight sisters and a brother.

730
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:05,440
Speaker 1: I am an only child. She told me that only

731
00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 1: children are mentally underdeveloped because they don't get the same

732
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:11,480
Speaker 1: mental stimulation. I have never once heard this in my

733
00:34:11,680 --> 00:34:15,080
Speaker 1: entire life. Number four, before even meeting me, she went

734
00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 1: onto Mark's Facebook and looked through my photos and in

735
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 1: front of Mark called me ugly and made ill grouse

736
00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 1: comments and then told him to stop dating me. Is

737
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 1: she Jimmy Hoffer because I'm about to make her disappear?

738
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Speaker 1: Number five. Whenever I see Mark's family for lunch or

739
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:32,719
Speaker 1: afternoon tea, I bring a plate of something. I think

740
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 1: it's good manners. If I'm going somewhere for a meal,

741
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,800
Speaker 1: I think it's polite to bring something along to share.

742
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:41,239
Speaker 1: Penny has made several comments to me about trying too

743
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:45,279
Speaker 1: hard and trying to outdo her. Number f which I

744
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:47,880
Speaker 1: think me a free spirit who's going on adventures than

745
00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 1: you who stays that home all dan eats.

746
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 3: Me a person who minds their own business.

747
00:34:53,280 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: You a creature from the Black Lagoon, and me a

748
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:59,680
Speaker 1: kung fu master who can put their fist through sola plexus.

749
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Speaker 3: You ooh, a tiger who's escaped from the most guarded

750
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:07,759
Speaker 3: prison in the world, and me a kung fu master named.

751
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:10,759
Speaker 1: Po Number G. She talked in a baby voice all

752
00:35:11,160 --> 00:35:16,320
Speaker 1: the time. It's you teach me perches it You me, me,

753
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:19,480
Speaker 1: I please be away who goes an adventuance, and you,

754
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:22,399
Speaker 1: who stays at home and eat. Is that She said

755
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:25,400
Speaker 1: that Rick likes to pull the brother's honor card and

756
00:35:25,480 --> 00:35:28,120
Speaker 1: says that as an older brother, he should do things

757
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:31,360
Speaker 1: first and be in charge. What are you five? I

758
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:33,720
Speaker 1: think this is ridiculous, as they are a year apart

759
00:35:33,760 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 1: and their lives and where they want to go in

760
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 1: life are completely different to one another. Mark is very

761
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:40,799
Speaker 1: passive and pretty much does whatever people tell him to

762
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:42,600
Speaker 1: do because he doesn't want to cause a stir or

763
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 1: offend people. He's a very kind and easygoing person, which

764
00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:48,440
Speaker 1: I love, but at times he's too easygoing to the

765
00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:50,839
Speaker 1: point where he gets pushed around and taken advantage of.

766
00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 1: And I feel like they know this and are using

767
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 1: it to their advantage. He has a red flag girl

768
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 1: jellyfish spine. We don't like it.

769
00:35:57,239 --> 00:35:58,760
Speaker 3: You just gotta get him away from these people.

770
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 1: When I move, you oof, When I push, you pull.

771
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 1: When you say bad stuff to me, I say stop it.

772
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:09,320
Speaker 1: Mark and Rick's mother is lovely and I get along

773
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 1: with her really well. She's in a tough position because

774
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 1: it's her two sons fighting and she has to be

775
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:16,839
Speaker 1: careful not to look like she's ganging up on one

776
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:19,880
Speaker 1: or the other. She said she cannot commit to taking sides,

777
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 1: which I totally agree with, but she is basically one

778
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 1: hundred percent on our side off the record.

779
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 3: If you're on someone's side off the record, just get

780
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:28,880
Speaker 3: on the record. Man, Why can't you be on the record,

781
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 3: because I've had people be like, I'm on your side

782
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 3: off the record. Get on the record and your neutrality.

783
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 1: Penny has said a lot of nasty things to her

784
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 1: as well, so she's not unaware of the sort of

785
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 1: person she is. After cornering Mark and telling him everything

786
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:46,080
Speaker 1: that I mentioned above, Mark came home to me understandably

787
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:48,319
Speaker 1: very upset. When he came home and told me what

788
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: had happened. I was furious and hurt. I was so

789
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 1: angry that they had behaved like that, and so angry

790
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 1: because of how upset Mark was. It has been a

791
00:36:57,200 --> 00:36:59,239
Speaker 1: month and they seem to think they did everything right

792
00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:01,919
Speaker 1: in our totally blameless Mark has spoken on the phone

793
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,840
Speaker 1: with his brother and it has ended in arguments. I

794
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 1: have zero contact with them, and if I had my way,

795
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:11,880
Speaker 1: it would remain this way. I have lost all respect

796
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:13,840
Speaker 1: for the both of them and I have no desire

797
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 1: to have them around. Unfortunately, it is Mark's brother and

798
00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:19,919
Speaker 1: he feels we need to sort things out with them.

799
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 1: So this Easter weekend we've planned to catch up so

800
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:25,759
Speaker 1: we can talk to them about how it made us

801
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:28,560
Speaker 1: feel and why they have overstepped their boundaries.

802
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:30,360
Speaker 3: Talk about our feelings, Oh.

803
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 4: You will talk about your feel weeks?

804
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:34,840
Speaker 3: How about the feeling of my fists in your face?

805
00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:38,280
Speaker 1: So we are apparently seeing them tomorrow, and I feel

806
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 1: sick to my stomach about it. I know that Mark

807
00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:43,880
Speaker 1: keeps telling me that he is one hundred percent on

808
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 1: my side and supporting me, but it doesn't always feel

809
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 1: that way, because even though they've been so hurtful and nasty,

810
00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:52,879
Speaker 1: he's trying too hard to be chummy with them when

811
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 1: they do speak. Yet, Can we stop being chummy with people?

812
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:58,440
Speaker 3: Why don't we gotta be chummy with people who are

813
00:37:58,480 --> 00:37:59,200
Speaker 3: bad to us?

814
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 1: I agree? Why do we have to do that to me?

815
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 1: This is making them think that they've behaved correctly and

816
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:08,239
Speaker 1: that me being upset is on my fault and I'm overreacting.

817
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:10,560
Speaker 1: I feel like he wants to bury his head in

818
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 1: the sand and pretend nothing has happened, but I just

819
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:16,560
Speaker 1: cannot do that. I am scared that when we meet them,

820
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 1: I will be a sitting duck and get attacked by them,

821
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 1: and anything I say about how I feel will be

822
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:24,719
Speaker 1: shot down just like a goose. While Mark sits there

823
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:27,399
Speaker 1: and says nothing to support me because he doesn't want

824
00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 1: to get into an argument.

825
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:31,360
Speaker 4: Hey, don't talk to my wife like that.

826
00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:35,360
Speaker 1: I mean my fiance. I don't want to get into

827
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 1: an argument either, but it seems almost unavoidable. What can

828
00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:41,840
Speaker 1: I say when we see them tomorrow? I feel like

829
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:44,919
Speaker 1: everything just whirls around in my head and I can't

830
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:47,080
Speaker 1: straighten any of it out. Write it down, baby girl.

831
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:50,080
Speaker 1: I don't believe that I will ever feel comfortable around

832
00:38:50,080 --> 00:38:54,160
Speaker 1: them or want them over in our home. Can anyone

833
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:57,279
Speaker 1: give me a different perspective? Sorry for the rambling, and

834
00:38:57,280 --> 00:39:01,280
Speaker 1: we have an update. So my perspective would be clearly,

835
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:05,359
Speaker 1: your your siblings have like a weird complex about like

836
00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:07,839
Speaker 1: your brother needs to be the first guy to get

837
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:11,719
Speaker 1: married and whatever like that is all nonsense. If you

838
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 1: and your partner love each other and want to get

839
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 1: married right now, there's no reason. There is no bro code,

840
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:20,359
Speaker 1: there is no brother law that would prevent you from

841
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 1: doing that. So don't listen to them. They're bathing like

842
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 1: five year olds, Sophia, bite them, whole complete spectrum of

843
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:32,240
Speaker 1: takes there. We got a nuanced opinion and bite them. Update.

844
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:34,520
Speaker 1: This really blew up more than I expected it to.

845
00:39:34,920 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 1: So when I left you guys yesterday, Mark and I

846
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,080
Speaker 1: were going to meet Poisonous Penny and Rick the Wiena

847
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 1: to talk in the morning. I was getting ready to leave,

848
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 1: make up, hair, all that good stuff. Mark popped down

849
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 1: to the local supermarket grab some Easter eggs to give

850
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 1: to his mom and grandma. I have my phone on

851
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 1: the bathroom bench and it started to ring, a ring ring.

852
00:39:53,680 --> 00:39:56,960
Speaker 1: It was Rick. I didn't pick up because he has

853
00:39:57,000 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 1: never called me, and I didn't know what to do

854
00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:01,359
Speaker 1: or say. It's pretty the same procedure as every other

855
00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:04,360
Speaker 1: phone call. I texted Mark and told him, and he

856
00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 1: rang me immediately and said, for God's sake, if they

857
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:10,600
Speaker 1: ring again, don't pick up. They've just blasted me in

858
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 1: the middle of the grocery aisle, so don't pick up.

859
00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:15,240
Speaker 1: Mark was shopping and got a call from Rick's number.

860
00:40:15,400 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 1: He picked up and they were both on loudspeaker.

861
00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:19,879
Speaker 3: Oh no, not, I'm in the grocery store. You can't

862
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:21,959
Speaker 3: have a fight like that on the grocery store. That's

863
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 3: like that pig from sing doing a whole dance number

864
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:25,800
Speaker 3: in the grocery store.

865
00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:29,319
Speaker 1: Penny seemed very agitated and asked something about when we

866
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:31,799
Speaker 1: were meeting. Mark said that if they were not going

867
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:33,560
Speaker 1: to be in good moods, it might not be the

868
00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:36,319
Speaker 1: best to meet. We could just rearrange to another time

869
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 1: when they were all calm. She blasted him with calling

870
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:44,080
Speaker 1: us both cowards who were hiding, and sarcastically telling him

871
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:47,600
Speaker 1: he was such a big man. Oh yeah, you're such

872
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 1: a big mean No, obviously we didn't go to meet them.

873
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 1: Last night, I got a message on Facebook from Penny saying, oh, Pee,

874
00:40:57,239 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 1: it's time you confront the issues you have with me.

875
00:41:00,239 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 1: There's been a lot of talk about you being upset

876
00:41:02,560 --> 00:41:05,479
Speaker 1: with me, but I haven't heard a single thing about it.

877
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:07,960
Speaker 1: Come directly from you. From now on, if you have

878
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:10,719
Speaker 1: a problem with me, take it up directly with me.

879
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:13,279
Speaker 1: It's not fair on Mark's family and I have to

880
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:16,160
Speaker 1: deal with your issues. It's very distressing for that. You're

881
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:19,640
Speaker 1: gonna get bit Unfortunately I didn't see the message until

882
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:22,400
Speaker 1: this morning, when she also sent I'll come to you

883
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:24,279
Speaker 1: to sort this out. I can come over to your

884
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 1: house if that suits you. Don't let her bite you,

885
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 1: You bite her first off, No coming to my house.

886
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:31,359
Speaker 1: Certainly doesn't suit me as if I would let her

887
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 1: come into my home. Secondly, since when was this just

888
00:41:34,160 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 1: about me? Yes, she has been worse to me than

889
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,240
Speaker 1: to Mark, but she still has been a total witch

890
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:44,360
Speaker 1: to the both of us regarding our relationship, I replied, Penny,

891
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 1: I think both Mark and I are fully justified for

892
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:49,640
Speaker 1: not wanting to speak with you, considering you all behavior.

893
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 1: You have been rude and offensive at every opportunity, and

894
00:41:52,680 --> 00:41:55,360
Speaker 1: quite frankly, you have both had enough. I have avoided

895
00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 1: messaging you directly up till now out of respect to Mark,

896
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:01,200
Speaker 1: as we are both involved in together and he does

897
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:03,280
Speaker 1: not want me to blast you with a torrent of abuse.

898
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:06,320
Speaker 1: You did, you dropped the torrent. I was so furious

899
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 1: with you and Rick at your behavior. You both need

900
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:11,239
Speaker 1: to grow up and learn respect for others. Yesterday, your

901
00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:13,520
Speaker 1: behavior was yet to get childish. I was ready to

902
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:15,319
Speaker 1: leave to finally meet you and give you a piece

903
00:42:15,320 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 1: of my mind when Mark came home saying the whole

904
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:21,000
Speaker 1: thing was off because you screamed down the phone at him.

905
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 1: How big of you as for coming over to my house,

906
00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 1: I do not think so. You've criticized everything about me

907
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 1: Oh yes, Penny, I'm well aware of what you've said

908
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,359
Speaker 1: behind my back. Thank you. And if you think I'm

909
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 1: inviting you into my home, you have another thing coming.

910
00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:36,799
Speaker 1: When you and Rick decide to behave like adults. You

911
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 1: know where we are, and until then, don't talk to me.

912
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 1: Don't come by my house. I have better things to

913
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:44,759
Speaker 1: do with my time. By the way, if you have

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918
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:04,320
Speaker 1: complete archive twelve hundred hours. I know it's hot headed,

919
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:07,760
Speaker 1: but I just couldn't help it. I just can't believe

920
00:43:07,880 --> 00:43:11,239
Speaker 1: what a nutter she is, sweet Jabis. She seems to

921
00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 1: think that it's all just me being uppity, but it

922
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 1: involves all of us. Even though I feel I've been

923
00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 1: attacked more than Mark, Mark is just as hurt as

924
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:23,360
Speaker 1: I am. The only good thing to come out of

925
00:43:23,400 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 1: all this is that Mark is now prillopist. I felt like,

926
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 1: although he said he was there for me before, he

927
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: was in doubt and wanted to sit on the fence

928
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 1: for a bit, but now that she's blasted him directly,

929
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:37,399
Speaker 1: he's got his back up too, and that is the

930
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:40,600
Speaker 1: end of the story. Bit her. My conclusion is, get

931
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: married and don't even associate with these psychos anymore. They're

932
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:47,800
Speaker 1: terrible and they're irrational, and bite them, bite their ankles.

933
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:51,840
Speaker 5: My brother and his pregnant girlfriend insulted my husband in

934
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 5: our own home, so I punted them out.

935
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:55,919
Speaker 1: You're gonna make your baby all rotten if you keep

936
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:57,320
Speaker 1: acting so spoiled.

937
00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:00,920
Speaker 5: A twenty eight female knows the sound. It's terrible, but

938
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:03,520
Speaker 5: please bear with me. My brother, twenty four Mail, is

939
00:44:03,560 --> 00:44:05,879
Speaker 5: the only son in our family, and I don't know

940
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 5: about anywhere else, but in an Asian family, it is

941
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:12,360
Speaker 5: basically a given that he was treated better than my

942
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 5: older sister and me growing up. By the way, this

943
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:18,719
Speaker 5: comes from Throwaway eighty nine ninety three eight and if

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945
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946
00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:26,000
Speaker 5: right after my brother graduated high school, and our beloved

947
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 5: mother decided it was a good idea to make my

948
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:31,360
Speaker 5: sister and me pay for his college tuition because my

949
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:34,600
Speaker 5: father paid for our tuition when we graduated. For the record,

950
00:44:34,680 --> 00:44:37,160
Speaker 5: I don't make tons of money. It's above average, but

951
00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 5: I'm not exactly swimming in cash. Plus I work long

952
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 5: hours the economy these days. Black I said this snow.

953
00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 5: Now I'm married, I propose to this beautiful man twenty

954
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 5: eight mil let's go queen. And I've known him since

955
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 5: middle school. After he got into a terrible accident that

956
00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:56,239
Speaker 5: caused him to lose all of his motor skills. He

957
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:58,360
Speaker 5: was in a coma for about two weeks, and I

958
00:44:58,400 --> 00:45:00,720
Speaker 5: swore that if he woke up, I marry him.

959
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 1: So I did.

960
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:03,800
Speaker 5: I'm a woman of my word, after all. He also

961
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:06,400
Speaker 5: lost his job because of the accident, but he still

962
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:09,799
Speaker 5: has income from his investments, and his parents gifted him

963
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:12,400
Speaker 5: one of their properties to rent out afterwards. The dude's

964
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:14,920
Speaker 5: kind of set up. That's a blessing. Yes, his parent

965
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 5: is loaded with capital l Even without financial trouble, I

966
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:22,680
Speaker 5: still watched him fall into a deep slum, struggling with

967
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 5: depression because he's been robbed of everything he knew, his job,

968
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:30,239
Speaker 5: his active outdoor hobbies. He couldn't walk for almost a year.

969
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,640
Speaker 5: To this day, he still can't stand up or walk

970
00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:36,200
Speaker 5: for long, even with his cane. He was in a

971
00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:39,920
Speaker 5: dark place until about a month ago before our wedding. Now,

972
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:42,359
Speaker 5: almost a year into our marriage, I can see the

973
00:45:42,440 --> 00:45:45,320
Speaker 5: light starting to come back into his eyes after getting

974
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 5: really into cooking and baking, to the point where we

975
00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:51,319
Speaker 5: revamped our entire kitchen to fit a bigger oven and

976
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:54,839
Speaker 5: store all of his baking equipment. He's actively researching on

977
00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 5: how to get a permit to start a bakery, and

978
00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:00,399
Speaker 5: I love seeing it, even after three weeks of eating

979
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:03,440
Speaker 5: sourdough bread for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. Back to my brother,

980
00:46:03,560 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 5: the twenty four mal, he and his girlfriend got pregnant

981
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:10,279
Speaker 5: by accident. He's currently job hunting, having graduated two years ago.

982
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:12,840
Speaker 5: He started a business right after college. But yeah, you

983
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 5: probably know how that goes. It felled after he spent

984
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:18,560
Speaker 5: almost all the money our father left us his three

985
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:21,719
Speaker 5: children as an inheritance. That calls the rift between him

986
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 5: and my oldest sister. I don't blame my sister for

987
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 5: being furious, because he also spent her share of the

988
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:30,600
Speaker 5: inheritance after paying his tuition. And if you know anything

989
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:34,360
Speaker 5: about Asian families, you know the oldest daughter as the hardest.

990
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 5: He's also not really grey on terms with their mother

991
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:40,800
Speaker 5: because of the unplanned pregnancy. She's not exactly against his girlfriend,

992
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:44,320
Speaker 5: but she's not thrilled either. However, he's still the golden child,

993
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:47,359
Speaker 5: and that's why she asked me, her newly a wet daughter,

994
00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 5: to let my brother and his girlfriend stay in our

995
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 5: house until he finds a job. I saw a thing

996
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:56,000
Speaker 5: that people that graduated from Harvard now twenty five percent

997
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:58,759
Speaker 5: of them don't have a job, losers. I asked my

998
00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 5: husband if I could rent one of the rooms he

999
00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 5: owns to accommodate them. My husband, being the absolute angel

1000
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 5: he is, said that since what he owned aren't exactly

1001
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:10,640
Speaker 5: suitable for long term living with the baby, you'd see

1002
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:13,120
Speaker 5: if he could remodel one. They could move in it

1003
00:47:13,160 --> 00:47:15,359
Speaker 5: once it was ready and only start paying rent once

1004
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:17,279
Speaker 5: my brother got a job. In the meantime, they could

1005
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:20,239
Speaker 5: stay in our upstairs guest room. Okay, a good situation here.

1006
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 5: I've read stories about situations like this being recipes or disasters,

1007
00:47:24,560 --> 00:47:26,800
Speaker 5: and dang, I should have listened.

1008
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:29,480
Speaker 1: You should have listened, But now you're in the new life,

1009
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 1: or you didn't listen, now you have to deal with

1010
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:32,359
Speaker 1: the consequences.

1011
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:35,919
Speaker 5: They moved in sometime before Christmas. Both of them did

1012
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:38,840
Speaker 5: the bare minimum around the house. They washed their dishes,

1013
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:41,800
Speaker 5: only the small ones like plates and glasses and bowls,

1014
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:43,839
Speaker 5: leaving the pots and pans out for us to clean.

1015
00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:46,040
Speaker 1: I was just being considered. I didn't want to ruin

1016
00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:48,400
Speaker 1: your pots and pans. I don't know how you like

1017
00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 1: cleaning your pots and pans. I wasn't going to clean

1018
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:51,240
Speaker 1: it for you.

1019
00:47:51,360 --> 00:47:54,799
Speaker 5: Those are literally the hardest one to clean.

1020
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:56,760
Speaker 2: This is hitting hard for really.

1021
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 5: They did their own laundry, but that was it. They

1022
00:47:59,600 --> 00:48:03,560
Speaker 5: rated a pantry and fridge without ever restocking anything. Some days,

1023
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 5: I didn't even get a taste of my husband's bait goods.

1024
00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 5: They eat the ones he specifically set aside for me.

1025
00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 5: What you mean I had to wash dishes that I

1026
00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:15,879
Speaker 5: knew my husband didn't use, even after pulling two consecutive

1027
00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:20,439
Speaker 5: shifts at the hospital, I'm a freaking resident. They never

1028
00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:24,040
Speaker 5: vacuum the second floor where they stayed, never helped take

1029
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:26,040
Speaker 5: out the trash, even though they filled.

1030
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:26,800
Speaker 1: It to the brim.

1031
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 5: I usually helped them with it whenever I got time,

1032
00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 5: But I had seen my husband taking out trash multiple

1033
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:34,000
Speaker 5: times when I just got home.

1034
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:36,800
Speaker 4: Sounds like somebody's not pulling their weight around the house.

1035
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:37,399
Speaker 1: Now.

1036
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:39,799
Speaker 5: I don't expect them to clean the whole house, but

1037
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:43,839
Speaker 5: come on, watching my husband limp around his cane washing

1038
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:46,080
Speaker 5: dishes and taking out the trash while they did nothing.

1039
00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:50,920
Speaker 5: That's just rude, especially when they're living rent free. First

1040
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:53,359
Speaker 5: of all, my mom said that my brother and I

1041
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 5: should have sat down and like talked about what we wanted,

1042
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:57,480
Speaker 5: but were so stubborn that we just kind of like

1043
00:48:57,560 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 5: lived together and didn't really talk about anything like that.

1044
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 5: But low key, you need to probably be like, we're

1045
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 5: letting you live for re free. Could you please do

1046
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:07,960
Speaker 5: x y z? Like set expectations. I think that's really

1047
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:08,799
Speaker 5: where I'm missing here.

1048
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,040
Speaker 1: I don't even think is could you please? Could you please?

1049
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 1: Almost sounds like a request. It's like you're living here

1050
00:49:13,040 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 1: for free, I need you to do x y Z.

1051
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:21,680
Speaker 1: That's not a request requirement.

1052
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:23,839
Speaker 5: Sometimes when I go home, I can help clean around

1053
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:26,000
Speaker 5: the house I need to, And the other times I

1054
00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:27,239
Speaker 5: make my little brothers do it.

1055
00:49:27,320 --> 00:49:29,399
Speaker 1: If I had something to boss around, Oh my god,

1056
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 1: and I give them credit. I'll be like, yo, mom,

1057
00:49:32,200 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 1: look what the boys did?

1058
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:35,880
Speaker 5: They get the credit? I'm like facilitating behind the scenes.

1059
00:49:36,000 --> 00:49:38,879
Speaker 5: Of course, I confronted them with a very watered down

1060
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 5: and gentle version of bro, you won't get a job

1061
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:44,280
Speaker 5: if you can't help take out the trash and sist

1062
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:47,400
Speaker 5: you're pregnant, but you can't at least wash the dishes

1063
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 5: you've used. Both of you have two hands. You can

1064
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:52,839
Speaker 5: wash the cooking utensils you use to make food. TeamWorks

1065
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:55,920
Speaker 5: makes the dream work. They slightly got better after that.

1066
00:49:56,160 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 5: Now they washed all their dishes, but don't bother putting

1067
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 5: them back in the but hey, progress sounds like you

1068
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 5: need to give him the full orange juice.

1069
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 1: They've made some progress, right, I mean they're washing all

1070
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:09,879
Speaker 1: their dishes now.

1071
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:13,360
Speaker 5: Now here's the breaking point. During Chinese New Year, my

1072
00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:16,440
Speaker 5: mother and oldest sister came to visit. My husband went

1073
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 5: all out with his cooking. I helped cleaning the entire

1074
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:21,280
Speaker 5: house and prep the other guests room for my family.

1075
00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 5: That's when I realized the second floor haven't been vacuumed

1076
00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 5: in ages. My brother and his girlfriend didn't come out

1077
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:30,719
Speaker 5: of their room until my family arrived. We changed greetings,

1078
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:33,520
Speaker 5: gave my mother her New Year's bow. That's when all

1079
00:50:33,600 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 5: heck broke loose.

1080
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:35,960
Speaker 1: My brother with.

1081
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 5: Confidence straight out of his colon, actually said it was

1082
00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 5: time for my husband to get a real job again

1083
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:43,719
Speaker 5: because he can walk.

1084
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:46,239
Speaker 1: Now, little trash person, get in here. It's time for

1085
00:50:46,280 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 1: you to go home to your trash can.

1086
00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:50,319
Speaker 5: Let's say, like this brother was like actually having a

1087
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:52,239
Speaker 5: hard time actually looking for jobs, and you didn't know.

1088
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:52,560
Speaker 1: What to do.

1089
00:50:52,719 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 5: I'd be like, husband, make a cooking YouTube channel and

1090
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 5: have this guy edit for you. He's smart, he's young,

1091
00:50:57,600 --> 00:51:00,640
Speaker 5: he could figure it out. Boom, that's good. This guy

1092
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 5: is literally should be at the bottom of the sea

1093
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:08,400
Speaker 5: with all of the like mean looking fish around him. Dude,

1094
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:10,759
Speaker 5: Like what, maybe you should take out the trash and

1095
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:12,400
Speaker 5: take yourself with it. And you've always known how to walk,

1096
00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:14,400
Speaker 5: and you haven't gone through the things that your husband

1097
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 5: has gone through. He added that he's younger but working

1098
00:51:17,120 --> 00:51:19,880
Speaker 5: hard to find a job. Then he really added the

1099
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 5: words no offense.

1100
00:51:21,400 --> 00:51:23,600
Speaker 1: No fans before saying cooking his.

1101
00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:26,920
Speaker 5: Weird hobbies for a big guy six' three like, him

1102
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:29,239
Speaker 5: and also he doesn't really have the talent for.

1103
00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:30,720
Speaker 1: It at least he's doing.

1104
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:34,239
Speaker 5: Something at least he's actually striving to do something with

1105
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 5: his life and working hard at something real quick. STORYTIME

1106
00:51:37,880 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 5: i did a basketball training with my coach and he

1107
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 5: had another one.

1108
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:44,279
Speaker 1: Of his students. There he was like. FOURTEEN i was

1109
00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:44,920
Speaker 1: like twenty.

1110
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:47,399
Speaker 5: Four and like the kid was doing it and he's,

1111
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:47,959
Speaker 5: Like i'm locked.

1112
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:48,479
Speaker 1: In i'm locked.

1113
00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:50,600
Speaker 5: In coaches, like, oh you look like you're locked, in

1114
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:52,160
Speaker 5: and he's, like, No i'm just trying.

1115
00:51:52,160 --> 00:51:53,840
Speaker 1: Hard And i'm, like what's wrong with trying?

1116
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:56,359
Speaker 5: Hard what's wrong with? That he's, like, No i'm just trying.

1117
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 5: Hard i'm, like, dude that's a good. Thing don't let

1118
00:51:58,000 --> 00:51:59,800
Speaker 5: people tell you that's a bad. THING i feel like

1119
00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:02,680
Speaker 5: my generation and younger generations trying hard is a bad.

1120
00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:04,719
Speaker 5: Thing trying hard is, like, oh you're trying to do too.

1121
00:52:04,760 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 1: Much trying hard is, cool.

1122
00:52:06,239 --> 00:52:08,239
Speaker 5: Dude if you literally try her in this, generation you

1123
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:10,320
Speaker 5: are gonna be more successful than most of the people

1124
00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:13,840
Speaker 5: in This, anyways his girlfriend chimed, in saying she feels

1125
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:16,760
Speaker 5: like my husband is more feminine than she is because

1126
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:18,719
Speaker 5: he takes care of the house and cooks better than she.

1127
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:21,960
Speaker 5: Does of, course the bar is somewhere Below satan's. Throne

1128
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:24,840
Speaker 5: if she had the. Standard she even said that she

1129
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:27,600
Speaker 5: and my Brother kat's asking my husband why he's still

1130
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:30,920
Speaker 5: at home when it's been years since his, accident and

1131
00:52:30,960 --> 00:52:32,440
Speaker 5: That i'll leave him soon if.

1132
00:52:32,280 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 1: He keeps being cooped up in the.

1133
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:37,680
Speaker 5: House she then whined about my husband always just smiled

1134
00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 5: at them and never. RESPONDED i think even my brother

1135
00:52:40,320 --> 00:52:44,120
Speaker 5: realized she's messed, up because he quickly, backbaitled saying only

1136
00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 5: once or, twice thanks for. Coming we'll give you some,

1137
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:49,120
Speaker 5: leftovers but you gotta leave. Now you're gonna have to

1138
00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:51,480
Speaker 5: go back home with. Mom you know What i'm, saying, Though, hey.

1139
00:52:51,360 --> 00:52:52,960
Speaker 1: CAN i talk to you out for a, second And

1140
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:53,680
Speaker 1: i'm just gonna.

1141
00:52:53,719 --> 00:52:55,919
Speaker 5: Go where does this even come?

1142
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:58,759
Speaker 1: From people just don't know when to shut their stupid.

1143
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:02,600
Speaker 5: TRAPS i just stood, up took both their plates and

1144
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:04,560
Speaker 5: told them to pack up and. LEAVE i couldn't even

1145
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:06,800
Speaker 5: look at my. HUSBAND i was so pissed and ashamed of.

1146
00:53:06,880 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 5: Them took every ounce of self control not to curse

1147
00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:12,080
Speaker 5: them out right then and. There they SAID i was

1148
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:15,279
Speaker 5: being too sensitive over harmless. Comments my mother tried to

1149
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,920
Speaker 5: diffuse the, situation saying my brother and his girlfriend meant

1150
00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:20,320
Speaker 5: well that their comments didn't come from a bad. Place

1151
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:23,640
Speaker 5: even pointed out that my husband didn't seem, offended So she,

1152
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:25,719
Speaker 5: asked why ruin a good, day WHICH i.

1153
00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:27,280
Speaker 1: Ignored the day's already.

1154
00:53:27,320 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 5: Ruined they ruined THAT i even handed them my car

1155
00:53:29,840 --> 00:53:32,160
Speaker 5: keys BECAUSE i just wanted them. Gone they left with

1156
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:35,200
Speaker 5: my oldest. Sister after giving my husband a half hearted.

1157
00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 5: Apology she told me they stayed at a motel before

1158
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:41,160
Speaker 5: returning to my mother's. House next, day my oldest sister

1159
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:43,480
Speaker 5: came by to pick up my brother's. Stuff she laughed

1160
00:53:43,520 --> 00:53:45,960
Speaker 5: a lot about the whole er, deal and she's the

1161
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:47,680
Speaker 5: only one who THINKS i did the right. Thing my

1162
00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:50,040
Speaker 5: husband said he was GLAD i defended, him but he

1163
00:53:50,120 --> 00:53:52,279
Speaker 5: never took their comments to heart because he KNOWS i

1164
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:55,560
Speaker 5: love what he's, doing so he, SUGGESTED i may have

1165
00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 5: been a little. Harsh by the, way you will never

1166
00:53:58,040 --> 00:53:59,520
Speaker 5: be harsh to. Us if you go to your favorite

1167
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:03,440
Speaker 5: podcast right after the story search, up, okay story, time and,

1168
00:54:03,520 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 5: boom there.

1169
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:06,839
Speaker 1: Will be stories just like these. Ones that's, right all?

1170
00:54:06,920 --> 00:54:09,080
Speaker 1: Right any last, THOUGHTS i think you know she stood

1171
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 1: on the. Business literally throw these people into, space no,

1172
00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:16,080
Speaker 1: suits no, technology just a good old fashioned right into.

1173
00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:17,680
Speaker 1: Space that's ALL i have to say about.

1174
00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 5: That, no they're gonna WATCH kyu for Ten today's at

1175
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:20,799
Speaker 5: point five.

1176
00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:23,799
Speaker 1: Speed they have two, screens one Is kyu and one Is,

1177
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 1: cayu but it's In. Mandarin and they have one headphone

1178
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:30,240
Speaker 1: in each ear turned up to, ten and they're watching

1179
00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:31,760
Speaker 1: it at one point seven to five.

1180
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:33,680
Speaker 5: Speed and actually the speed, changes it's.

1181
00:54:33,800 --> 00:54:34,719
Speaker 1: Variable that's your.

1182
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:37,960
Speaker 5: Punishment my mother later told me their words weren't a

1183
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:41,280
Speaker 5: good enough reason to punt out my struggling brother and pregnant.

1184
00:54:41,320 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 5: Girlfriend she really emphasized the pregnant. Part sorry struggling brother

1185
00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:49,480
Speaker 5: and pregnant. Girlfriend she, SAID i could have just scolded

1186
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:52,720
Speaker 5: them LIKE i did over the. Dishes, yep he tattled

1187
00:54:52,719 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 5: about that. TOO i still don't Think i'm the a

1188
00:54:55,280 --> 00:54:58,640
Speaker 5: hole or. Overreacting i'm still pissed, off to be, Honest

1189
00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 5: but Now i'm having second thought because even my husband

1190
00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:02,959
Speaker 5: was so chill about.

1191
00:55:02,960 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 1: It so AM i the a. Hop, guys your husband's

1192
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:07,600
Speaker 1: just a chill dude that doesn't have any bearing on

1193
00:55:07,800 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 1: like you right.

1194
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:12,000
Speaker 5: Now your husband is a grateful man that literally is

1195
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:13,839
Speaker 5: so grateful for everything that he has that he has

1196
00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 5: no reason to complain that's.

1197
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:18,200
Speaker 1: Him couldn't possibly because he's got a beautiful family and

1198
00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:20,920
Speaker 1: except for the extended ones they. Sucked those children are.

1199
00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:22,160
Speaker 1: Horrendous does that make.

1200
00:55:22,040 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 5: You feel like what went wrong as a? Parent if

1201
00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:26,839
Speaker 5: you have, two you, know kids that are doing all

1202
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:27,839
Speaker 5: right and one.

1203
00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:30,279
Speaker 1: Kid IF i did have, KIDS i would think of the.

1204
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:32,759
Speaker 1: Kid i'd be LIKE i, do which is WHY i

1205
00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 1: Know i'm not.

1206
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:35,839
Speaker 5: Ready do you ever think your mom thinks about?

1207
00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:38,719
Speaker 1: That of Course i've thought that. Before be, honest we've

1208
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 1: all at some point been, like, man my parents must be,

1209
00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:43,960
Speaker 1: like what is wrong with this thing THAT i? Made?

1210
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:47,520
Speaker 1: Yeah So i'm not ready for that at. All, hey It's,

1211
00:55:47,520 --> 00:55:49,400
Speaker 1: sam your og host. Here bring it back to the.

1212
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:52,120
Speaker 1: Stories but here's three minutes bads from our. Sponsor my

1213
00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:57,400
Speaker 1: sister stole and ruined my wedding. DRESS i am not

1214
00:55:57,719 --> 00:55:58,400
Speaker 1: sending them an.

1215
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:01,600
Speaker 5: Invitation well maybe you got a different, dress a backup.

1216
00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:04,880
Speaker 1: Dress SO i am a twenty eight year old for,

1217
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:08,399
Speaker 1: mail and my Sister amy is thirty. Eight when we were,

1218
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:11,200
Speaker 1: younger our parents told us they had money saved for

1219
00:56:11,320 --> 00:56:13,840
Speaker 1: us to use when we got. Married amy has been

1220
00:56:13,880 --> 00:56:18,279
Speaker 1: married and divorced four times to four different. Men let's

1221
00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:21,000
Speaker 1: go that's a lot of. Money the first time she got,

1222
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 1: married she was only a few weeks away from graduating

1223
00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:26,600
Speaker 1: high school but dropped out To mary husband number, one

1224
00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:29,399
Speaker 1: which you don't need to drop out of high school to get,

1225
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:31,399
Speaker 1: married you freaking. Idiot maybe if you would have stayed

1226
00:56:31,400 --> 00:56:32,800
Speaker 1: in high, school you would have learned. That by the,

1227
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:36,480
Speaker 1: way this comes from USER xxi throw up glitter xx

1228
00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:39,279
Speaker 1: and if you want to submit your own, stories go

1229
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 1: to our slash showcase story. Times i've read it. Failed

1230
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 1: NOW i have to be careful with certain details because

1231
00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 1: if my parents Or amy KNEW i posted, this they

1232
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 1: would be. Infuriated BUT i really need to know IF

1233
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:54,920
Speaker 1: i am the booty hole in this. Situation long story.

1234
00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 1: Short now That i'm engaged and getting, MARRIED i ASSUMED

1235
00:56:58,120 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 1: i would be paying for most of the. Wedding the

1236
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:02,200
Speaker 1: only THING i really wanted help with was the wedding.

1237
00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:05,000
Speaker 1: Dress WHEN i talked to my mom about, it she

1238
00:57:05,120 --> 00:57:07,399
Speaker 1: told me there wasn't any money left Because amy had

1239
00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:11,279
Speaker 1: needed it four divorces and changing her name, back and her.

1240
00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:16,440
Speaker 1: Weddings i'm not trying to be entitled or, spoiled but

1241
00:57:16,520 --> 00:57:19,800
Speaker 1: it seems extremely unfair that my sister got to have

1242
00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:24,000
Speaker 1: four huge, weddings including a thirty four thousand dollar honeymoon

1243
00:57:24,280 --> 00:57:27,440
Speaker 1: for one of, them WHILE i got. NOTHING i chalked

1244
00:57:27,440 --> 00:57:30,959
Speaker 1: it up as a. Loss another important, DETAIL i wasn't

1245
00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 1: invited to any Of amy's four. Weddings i'm adopted and

1246
00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:39,120
Speaker 1: she's my adoptive parents' biological. Daughter favoritism was always, played

1247
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:42,680
Speaker 1: and she bullied me relentlessly when we were. Kids despite,

1248
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:45,160
Speaker 1: THAT i still wanted her at my. WEDDING i have

1249
00:57:45,200 --> 00:57:47,000
Speaker 1: a small group of, friends so when it came to

1250
00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:49,680
Speaker 1: picking out my wedding, DRESS i Wanted amy to be.

1251
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:53,880
Speaker 1: There everything was. FINE i picked out my, dress and

1252
00:57:53,920 --> 00:57:58,240
Speaker 1: then the gates of the flaming lake of fire broke.

1253
00:57:58,280 --> 00:58:01,280
Speaker 1: OPEN i had my dress heying in my, closet protected

1254
00:58:01,320 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 1: in a plastic garment. Bag and then my fiance's, mom

1255
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:07,280
Speaker 1: who lives In, texas a twenty hour drive away from,

1256
00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:10,160
Speaker 1: us got very sick and broke her. Hip she needed

1257
00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:12,440
Speaker 1: someone to care for, her so my fiance AND i

1258
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:15,400
Speaker 1: went To texas and stayed there for about a. Month before,

1259
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:18,800
Speaker 1: LEAVING i Asked amy if she could watch my cats and,

1260
00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:21,720
Speaker 1: rabbit just feed them and check in on them while we're.

1261
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 1: Gone she. Agreed fast forward to when we finally get.

1262
00:58:25,120 --> 00:58:27,080
Speaker 1: Home as soon as we walk, IN i have an

1263
00:58:27,120 --> 00:58:31,240
Speaker 1: awful gut feeling that something is. WRONG i check around

1264
00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:35,120
Speaker 1: the house and nothing seems. Stolen the animals are, okay

1265
00:58:35,240 --> 00:58:36,760
Speaker 1: and then it hits. ME i go to check on

1266
00:58:36,840 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 1: my dress and it's. GONE i started freaking. OUT i

1267
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:46,360
Speaker 1: started freaking out and tell my. Fiance he asks where

1268
00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:48,000
Speaker 1: did you have it? Last AND i tell him it

1269
00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:51,160
Speaker 1: was in the extra bedroom closet hanging. Up we start searching,

1270
00:58:51,200 --> 00:58:55,320
Speaker 1: everywhere and THEN i start Calling amy straight to. VOICEMAIL

1271
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:58,320
Speaker 1: i call, again, OOH i. SMELL i even try calling

1272
00:58:58,600 --> 00:59:02,240
Speaker 1: from my fiance's phone in case she blocked, me but still.

1273
00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:04,920
Speaker 1: Voicemail all are we pulling up to? You pull? Up

1274
00:59:04,920 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 1: hop out at the after? Party? YEP i call my.

1275
00:59:07,080 --> 00:59:10,800
Speaker 1: Parents they Think i'm being, ridiculous Insisting amy would never

1276
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:13,760
Speaker 1: steal my wedding. DRESS i feel Like i'm being gas,

1277
00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:17,400
Speaker 1: lit And i'm absolutely. FIERES a few days, Later amy

1278
00:59:17,400 --> 00:59:19,920
Speaker 1: finally teks, Me, hey can you go ahead and pay

1279
00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:22,320
Speaker 1: me for babysitting the cats and the? RABBIT i, reply,

1280
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:25,000
Speaker 1: yeah but FIRST i need to know what the frick kapp'

1281
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:29,200
Speaker 1: off friakin'. Dress. Dude she acts, confused pretending not to

1282
00:59:29,320 --> 00:59:33,240
Speaker 1: know What i'm talking. About what's a. Dress what is

1283
00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:36,000
Speaker 1: that like a shirt that's also pan so.

1284
00:59:36,200 --> 00:59:38,440
Speaker 5: WEIRD i didn't know the difference between a dress and

1285
00:59:38,480 --> 00:59:39,000
Speaker 5: a skirt for a.

1286
00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:41,400
Speaker 1: While now we have security, cameras one in the front,

1287
00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:44,440
Speaker 1: yard one in the. Backyards SO i check the footage

1288
00:59:44,480 --> 00:59:48,720
Speaker 1: and guess. WHAT i See amy carrying out the dress

1289
00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:51,720
Speaker 1: in her stupid little, hands and still it's in its

1290
00:59:51,720 --> 00:59:55,200
Speaker 1: plastic covering on a hangar euro. STEP i immediately send

1291
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:57,640
Speaker 1: her the video and TEXT i know you took my.

1292
00:59:57,760 --> 01:00:01,440
Speaker 1: Dress she's a little stupid, idiot is? It her, Response,

1293
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:04,920
Speaker 1: OH i just wanted to make sure you paid me

1294
01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:07,680
Speaker 1: for babysitting the, animals and Then i'll bring your dress

1295
01:00:07,720 --> 01:00:11,520
Speaker 1: back your. Psycho SO i pay her and then she, says,

1296
01:00:11,600 --> 01:00:13,520
Speaker 1: OKAY i can bring the dress to you sometime this.

1297
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:16,320
Speaker 1: WEEK i wait and wait and, wait, girl you're. Waiting

1298
01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:20,320
Speaker 1: show up to the door with a, hammer bang bang bang.

1299
01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:23,680
Speaker 1: Bang she's taking your wedding dresses. Collateral, yeah freaking, right

1300
01:00:23,760 --> 01:00:26,400
Speaker 1: she's lying to. You she's lying to. You she took

1301
01:00:26,440 --> 01:00:29,640
Speaker 1: your dress because she's a sick. Freak, yes show up

1302
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:32,880
Speaker 1: at her house with a blowtorch and cut the door

1303
01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:35,360
Speaker 1: off of its. Hinges what the? Heck what are we

1304
01:00:35,400 --> 01:00:39,400
Speaker 1: doing waiting? Around take? Action she keeps making. Excuses i'm,

1305
01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:42,880
Speaker 1: Busy i'm at work and not how the car's not.

1306
01:00:43,040 --> 01:00:44,480
Speaker 4: Working the car's in the.

1307
01:00:44,520 --> 01:00:48,040
Speaker 1: Shop excuse after your. EXCUSE i finally call my parents

1308
01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:50,520
Speaker 1: again and tell them what's going. On that's when my

1309
01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:54,480
Speaker 1: mom accidentally spills the. Truth, now my mom is terrible

1310
01:00:54,520 --> 01:00:56,880
Speaker 1: at lying and tends to say things she. Shouldn't she

1311
01:00:56,920 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 1: slips up and says That amy accidentally got the dress,

1312
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:03,160
Speaker 1: dirty tried to wash it in the washing machine and

1313
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:07,400
Speaker 1: completely ruined. It you've had four, weddings you know how

1314
01:01:07,440 --> 01:01:10,160
Speaker 1: wedding dresses. Go why are you doing this when she's

1315
01:01:10,200 --> 01:01:13,919
Speaker 1: gotten divorced four? Times it wipes her. Memory she has

1316
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:16,760
Speaker 1: no memory of her. Wedding she did this on. PURPOSE

1317
01:01:17,080 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 1: i hope you. UNDERSTAND i hope we all. Understand she

1318
01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:22,080
Speaker 1: didn't ruin the dress act fit that way because she's a,

1319
01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:26,640
Speaker 1: cruel spiteful. Idiot And, ope you have too much. Chill

1320
01:01:26,640 --> 01:01:28,160
Speaker 1: you need to wake up and choose a little bit

1321
01:01:28,200 --> 01:01:30,680
Speaker 1: of vio L e N. Ce at this, Point i'm.

1322
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:35,160
Speaker 1: PANICKING i, ask what do you? Mean mom stumbles over

1323
01:01:35,160 --> 01:01:37,440
Speaker 1: her words and finally, says, well you need to call

1324
01:01:37,480 --> 01:01:39,760
Speaker 1: her and working. Out i'm sure she didn't mean.

1325
01:01:39,840 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 5: To you literally have been calling her for.

1326
01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:45,560
Speaker 1: Days, fine maybe she didn't mean, to but she still

1327
01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 1: needs to replace my, dress, which, girl you are. RIGHT

1328
01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:51,840
Speaker 1: i Call amy and tell her she needs to pay

1329
01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:54,200
Speaker 1: me back for a new, dress and she starts.

1330
01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:54,440
Speaker 4: Crying on the.

1331
01:01:54,440 --> 01:01:55,400
Speaker 3: Phone But i'm so.

1332
01:01:55,600 --> 01:01:58,480
Speaker 1: Stupid she's saying sorry and she doesn't want me to hate,

1333
01:01:58,520 --> 01:02:00,800
Speaker 1: her and she has no. Money blah blah blah blah.

1334
01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:01,640
Speaker 1: Blah conspiracy.

1335
01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:04,840
Speaker 5: Theory she is ruining your dress because you are in

1336
01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:07,680
Speaker 5: a happy marriage and she cannot stand the thought of

1337
01:02:07,720 --> 01:02:11,080
Speaker 5: it because she's been in four unhappy marriages and she's.

1338
01:02:11,200 --> 01:02:15,200
Speaker 1: JEALOUS i call my parents again and say she doesn't

1339
01:02:15,240 --> 01:02:18,400
Speaker 1: have the. Money what AM i supposed to? DO i

1340
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:19,560
Speaker 1: can't afford another.

1341
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:21,640
Speaker 5: Dress just get married, Again just.

1342
01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:25,080
Speaker 1: Do An Adam sandler With jim short basketball, SHORTS t shirt.

1343
01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 1: Hoodie all, right on a real, level who? Cares would

1344
01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:30,240
Speaker 1: you get married in jeans AND t shirt.

1345
01:02:30,000 --> 01:02:32,600
Speaker 5: If it was my last thing on earth AND i

1346
01:02:32,720 --> 01:02:34,600
Speaker 5: had to marry the love of my.

1347
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:36,800
Speaker 1: Life, absolutely it's not your last day on. Earth but

1348
01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:40,240
Speaker 1: the dress is spontaneously. Combusted all your wedding clothes spontaneously

1349
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:42,160
Speaker 1: combusted on all you have our jeans AND t? Shirt

1350
01:02:42,200 --> 01:02:43,840
Speaker 1: do you still do the? Wedding? Yes or? No? No

1351
01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:46,040
Speaker 1: one my? Girl she got a backup. Dress my mom

1352
01:02:46,120 --> 01:02:48,080
Speaker 1: keeps telling ME i need to forgive her and that

1353
01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:50,520
Speaker 1: it was an, accident and she even says maybe you

1354
01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:53,120
Speaker 1: weren't meant to have that. Dress sometimes things happen for a.

1355
01:02:53,160 --> 01:02:56,880
Speaker 1: Reason at this, Point i'm beyond, frustrated SO i start

1356
01:02:56,880 --> 01:03:00,560
Speaker 1: a go fund. ME i post On facebook explain what,

1357
01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:04,760
Speaker 1: happened hoping for some. Help almost, immediately my parents call

1358
01:03:04,880 --> 01:03:06,160
Speaker 1: me screaming.

1359
01:03:05,760 --> 01:03:08,400
Speaker 3: That i'm Embarrassing amy and she's really up.

1360
01:03:08,560 --> 01:03:11,040
Speaker 1: Thah they Say i'm embarrassing them too and need to

1361
01:03:11,120 --> 01:03:13,560
Speaker 1: let it, go Forgive amy and stop making a big

1362
01:03:13,680 --> 01:03:15,920
Speaker 1: drama out of. IT i end up taking down the gofund.

1363
01:03:16,000 --> 01:03:18,000
Speaker 1: Me it wasn't up for more than a day AND

1364
01:03:18,080 --> 01:03:21,280
Speaker 1: i hadn't even raised. Anything But i'm still. Furious, nah

1365
01:03:21,280 --> 01:03:25,240
Speaker 1: that's a good like. Campaign, yeah my idiot's sister ruined

1366
01:03:25,280 --> 01:03:27,680
Speaker 1: my wedding. DRESS i guess she forgot how wedding dresses

1367
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:30,919
Speaker 1: work after being married four different. Times say, lobby will

1368
01:03:30,960 --> 01:03:34,760
Speaker 1: you help me buy a new dreas for? Me? Please,

1369
01:03:35,160 --> 01:03:38,040
Speaker 1: Okay i'm mad that my parents didn't save any money for,

1370
01:03:38,160 --> 01:03:40,040
Speaker 1: me And i'm mad That amy stole my. Dress i'm

1371
01:03:40,040 --> 01:03:41,880
Speaker 1: mad that she ruined, it And i'm mad that no

1372
01:03:41,920 --> 01:03:44,360
Speaker 1: one is doing anything to replace. It AM i wrong

1373
01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:46,360
Speaker 1: for wanting her to pay for a new? Dress does

1374
01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:48,520
Speaker 1: that make me a bad? Sister AM i the a? Hole?

1375
01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:50,840
Speaker 5: Loki you're being soft in your. Sister just gonna be.

1376
01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:54,120
Speaker 1: Real you need to get, hard go. Harder what does

1377
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:56,600
Speaker 1: that look, Like. Dakota it looks like what it feels

1378
01:03:56,680 --> 01:03:59,920
Speaker 1: to chew five. Gum for the love Of, god stop

1379
01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:03,600
Speaker 1: being the. Victim call the, police report your dress, stolen

1380
01:04:03,680 --> 01:04:06,720
Speaker 1: show the police the, video and sue your sister for

1381
01:04:06,800 --> 01:04:10,240
Speaker 1: the cost of replacing your dress and, damages and do

1382
01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 1: not allow any of these steving buttholes anywhere near you

1383
01:04:14,400 --> 01:04:18,440
Speaker 1: or your. Wedding you're grown up, now act like, It opie.

1384
01:04:18,520 --> 01:04:21,720
Speaker 1: REPLIES i really wanted to handle it without the, police

1385
01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:24,640
Speaker 1: BUT i guess you're. WHITE i have to at this,

1386
01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:26,640
Speaker 1: point and now we have an. UPDATE i said it

1387
01:04:26,640 --> 01:04:28,400
Speaker 1: in that voice Because opie's being up a little. Baby

1388
01:04:28,520 --> 01:04:29,600
Speaker 1: what would you do in this? Situation?

1389
01:04:29,680 --> 01:04:32,200
Speaker 5: Riley at the, beginning if she did not answer my,

1390
01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:34,400
Speaker 5: Calls i'm going to her house and getting.

1391
01:04:34,440 --> 01:04:35,680
Speaker 1: Answers, yeah that's WHAT i was.

1392
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:37,720
Speaker 5: Saying if she got it, dirty she was trying on the.

1393
01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:40,000
Speaker 1: DRESS i don't even think she got it dirty on.

1394
01:04:40,080 --> 01:04:41,920
Speaker 1: ACCIDENT i think whatever she did in the, dress she

1395
01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:42,160
Speaker 1: did it on.

1396
01:04:42,280 --> 01:04:44,919
Speaker 5: Purpose i'm going to her house and demanding it. Back

1397
01:04:45,000 --> 01:04:46,720
Speaker 5: how do you accidentally get the dress?

1398
01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:48,160
Speaker 1: Dirty what did you? Do you put it on and

1399
01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:51,200
Speaker 1: then you made? Coffee are you a complete? Buffoon you?

1400
01:04:51,440 --> 01:04:54,640
Speaker 1: Moron to be, honest ANYTIME i wear anything, WHITE i

1401
01:04:54,680 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 1: always stain it SO i can kind of. Empathize but

1402
01:04:57,040 --> 01:04:59,520
Speaker 1: at the same, TIME i wouldn't be stealing anyone's wedding

1403
01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:03,440
Speaker 1: dress and trying it. On sick freak. UPDATE i called

1404
01:05:03,480 --> 01:05:05,760
Speaker 1: my parents and my sister and had a three way

1405
01:05:05,800 --> 01:05:08,360
Speaker 1: call and explain that unless she replaced the dress or

1406
01:05:08,400 --> 01:05:09,960
Speaker 1: pay me, BACK i was going to place a police.

1407
01:05:09,960 --> 01:05:13,080
Speaker 1: Report my sister started crying and my parents said That

1408
01:05:13,160 --> 01:05:16,120
Speaker 1: i'm being. Immature stop being a baby and seer. Sister

1409
01:05:16,200 --> 01:05:18,040
Speaker 1: they SAID i need to stop and said family is.

1410
01:05:18,080 --> 01:05:20,280
Speaker 1: Family SO i, said Then i'm doing a go. Fundme

1411
01:05:20,360 --> 01:05:22,400
Speaker 1: those are the, options and by the, way you have

1412
01:05:22,440 --> 01:05:25,520
Speaker 1: an option to listen to full episodes with stories just

1413
01:05:25,560 --> 01:05:29,520
Speaker 1: like this On iHeart, radio On, spotify On apple. Podcasts

1414
01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:32,040
Speaker 1: all you got to do is Search Okay storytime and

1415
01:05:32,080 --> 01:05:35,120
Speaker 1: you will find twelve hundred hours worth of stories to listen.

1416
01:05:35,200 --> 01:05:38,240
Speaker 1: To let's finish this story. Off my parents said, fine

1417
01:05:38,520 --> 01:05:41,080
Speaker 1: But sarah expect them to pitch, in and then told

1418
01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:42,960
Speaker 1: my sister she should pay whatever she can afford to

1419
01:05:42,960 --> 01:05:45,040
Speaker 1: help replace the. Dress amy says she will try to

1420
01:05:45,040 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 1: pay it off a little bit at a, time since

1421
01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:49,960
Speaker 1: she gets paid every two. Weeks at this, POINT i

1422
01:05:50,040 --> 01:05:53,240
Speaker 1: don't even. Care all that matters Is i'm getting married

1423
01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:55,680
Speaker 1: to the love of my. LIFE i don't have to

1424
01:05:55,760 --> 01:05:58,040
Speaker 1: have a fancy, dress blue jeans and A t. Shirt

1425
01:05:58,200 --> 01:06:00,320
Speaker 1: but my parents and my sister will not be invited

1426
01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:03,520
Speaker 1: to my. Wedding good, job there we. Go keep that spine.

1427
01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:05,880
Speaker 1: Firm it's a good THING i haven't mailed out the

1428
01:06:05,880 --> 01:06:08,520
Speaker 1: invitation yet because my parents And amy won't be getting.

1429
01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:13,080
Speaker 1: One and that is the. End what a, wonderful wonderful.

1430
01:06:13,120 --> 01:06:16,160
Speaker 1: Time you had a perfect response to the, situation which

1431
01:06:16,160 --> 01:06:17,720
Speaker 1: IS i don't even need a fancy. Dress i'm get

1432
01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:19,040
Speaker 1: married to the love of my. Life it's more the

1433
01:06:19,040 --> 01:06:21,400
Speaker 1: principal she ruined. It she's gonna have to pay for.

1434
01:06:21,440 --> 01:06:24,920
Speaker 1: It and then, yeah completely go low to no contact

1435
01:06:25,200 --> 01:06:28,680
Speaker 1: with the sister and maybe the. PARENTS i, mean you're

1436
01:06:28,720 --> 01:06:31,200
Speaker 1: getting married and your sister had four marriages and four.

1437
01:06:31,200 --> 01:06:33,280
Speaker 1: Divorces they paid for all of, it and they're, like, oh,

1438
01:06:33,360 --> 01:06:34,080
Speaker 1: sorry we can't help.

1439
01:06:34,160 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 5: You it's like FAST fo with. College if you apply,

1440
01:06:36,760 --> 01:06:37,520
Speaker 5: earlier you get more.

1441
01:06:37,560 --> 01:06:38,760
Speaker 1: Money but that is the end of that