1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:02,480 Speaker 1: Second date update date. 2 00:00:03,360 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 2: I'm not sure if you remember this, but a few 3 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 2: months ago, one of our listeners named Michael did an 4 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:12,120 Speaker 2: awkward Tuesday phone call because he had this female friend 5 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 2: who was complaining to him about how lonely she was 6 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 2: all the time. Yeah, so he wanted to convince his 7 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 2: best friend to date her just to get miss sad 8 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:21,599 Speaker 2: face out of his hand. 9 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:24,280 Speaker 3: I do remember that. I can't remember how it turned out, 10 00:00:24,280 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 3: but I remember it. 11 00:00:25,000 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 1: That doesn't really matter. 12 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 2: I guess we did a good enough job helping him 13 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 2: with that situation that Michael now trusts us completely, so 14 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:34,720 Speaker 2: much so that almost a year later, he wants us 15 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:39,240 Speaker 2: to do a second date update far Michael, it's. 16 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:40,520 Speaker 1: Good to have you back on the show. 17 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 4: Dude, Hey, it's great to be back. Thanks for Does 18 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:44,959 Speaker 4: it feel to. 19 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:47,199 Speaker 3: Lower your standards of advice this lie? 20 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 4: Well, I think you guys are going to help me out. 21 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 2: Oh oh, it is our honor and privilege to be 22 00:00:54,200 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 2: able to assist you with your love life today, Michael, 23 00:00:56,600 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 2: So tell us what's going on. 24 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 4: I want you to know that before I started, even 25 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 4: before I had you guys help me advice with my friend, 26 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:07,400 Speaker 4: I was in a long relationship before them. It ended messy. 27 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:10,600 Speaker 4: So I was definitely taking a long break from dating. 28 00:01:10,600 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 4: But now I'm back out there. 29 00:01:11,959 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, I'm so all right. 30 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:16,040 Speaker 4: I mean, I'm finally got on the apps. But why 31 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 4: I need your advice is somebody I met in real life, 32 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 4: not on the apps. 33 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 3: Oh that's fun. How'd you do that? 34 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 4: Well? Her name's Meghan, and I met her at the 35 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:26,919 Speaker 4: grocery store. 36 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:30,640 Speaker 5: That's like such a stereotype. People say the best place 37 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 5: to meet a chick? 38 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 3: Did they really say? 39 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:34,559 Speaker 5: I don't know why, but they. 40 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:36,920 Speaker 3: Say that the store. 41 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:41,320 Speaker 2: It's so romantic at the grocery store, especially when they 42 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 2: have the thunder over by the produce section. 43 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:51,559 Speaker 1: Rainstorm. Dude, how did you need Meghan? There? 44 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 4: Just we caught each other's eyes, and then we kept 45 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 4: finding each other in almost every eye. 46 00:01:56,800 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 3: Oh I needed bread. That's kind of cute. 47 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, to the point where like she jokingly had to 48 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:07,960 Speaker 4: ask me, are you following me? With a smile. 49 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:11,920 Speaker 6: I I'll tell you when women say that, it's like 50 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:13,399 Speaker 6: joking but also. 51 00:02:15,400 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 1: One spray. 52 00:02:16,760 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 4: Yeah all right, you know, I asked her right back though, 53 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:23,799 Speaker 4: are you following me? And that that started off like 54 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 4: a small conversation. We just talked about what was in 55 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 4: our cart, you know. 56 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:31,639 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you're gonna make tacos tonight. 57 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 6: Huh. 58 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 1: Yeah. You guys went deep on that first convo. Oh 59 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:35,480 Speaker 1: my god. 60 00:02:36,080 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, and that led to me asking for her number. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 61 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 4: I got her number. 62 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 2: Well that lets make you feel really confident after, like 63 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:48,640 Speaker 2: you said, you went through that tough breakup for like 64 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 2: a year ago. Finally going out into the world and 65 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 2: meeting somebody that you connect with instantly. 66 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 3: What have people been complaining about? This is so easy? 67 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 1: It didn't lead to an actual date. 68 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 7: It did. 69 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, and there was no ghosting involved. 70 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:08,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, look how jaded we all are in this room. 71 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 1: You really met again? Oh my god. 72 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:18,240 Speaker 4: Well you're jumping ahead. There was some ghosting, so okay, yeah, 73 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 4: I mean we we did meet up. I suggested we 74 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 4: go out for dinner and like at a restaurant, just to 75 00:03:22,560 --> 00:03:26,080 Speaker 4: get to know her more. But she countered with just like, 76 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:28,239 Speaker 4: I don't feel like going out. Can we just watch 77 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 4: a movie? And I said sure, and she suggested my place. 78 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 6: Is it? Or I mean like you because I feel 79 00:03:36,720 --> 00:03:38,440 Speaker 6: like it's a good sign for just like a one 80 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:40,200 Speaker 6: night hangout situation. 81 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 3: It's not a good sign if you're I just meant. 82 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 5: It's a good sign that she's comfortable enough to come 83 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 5: to you. 84 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 1: She stole Brooks line. I think it's so how did 85 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: it go? 86 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:55,800 Speaker 4: I felt very comfortable and relaxed. We just all we 87 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 4: ended up doing was just watching a movie, had a 88 00:03:58,040 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 4: couple of drinks. 89 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 1: You guys fool around. 90 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 4: That's no, didn't leave any of that. 91 00:04:02,800 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 3: That's okay, it's the first hangout. 92 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 2: Okay, this is a books hang out. 93 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 3: You're not wrong, jeff So. 94 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 4: Then I thought the night would go a little longer, 95 00:04:11,800 --> 00:04:13,600 Speaker 4: but she said she had to go and get something 96 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 4: from her car real quick. She's like, I got to 97 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:17,800 Speaker 4: run in my car real quick. I didn't even think 98 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 4: of it. I was having a good time, and that's 99 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 4: when she just never came back. 100 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 3: Lead whoa. 101 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 6: I feel like that's something Alexis would do, Like she 102 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:29,720 Speaker 6: just doesn't know how to. 103 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 3: I really would. 104 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 1: Literally dip out, like, oh. 105 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 5: Wait, I looved it. 106 00:04:35,160 --> 00:04:37,280 Speaker 6: It when you're king someone at a second bar, like 107 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 6: a restaurant to a bars like see you there. 108 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a little concerning, though. Did you reach out 109 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: to her afterwards? 110 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 7: Yeah? 111 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,159 Speaker 4: I was concerned. I'm like, I hope no one snatched 112 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:49,400 Speaker 4: her up or something like he did. I called, I 113 00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:52,159 Speaker 4: even called the number, I mean, no reply for quite 114 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 4: a bit, and then she finally got back to me, 115 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 4: and all she just sent the text over and it 116 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:01,480 Speaker 4: just said, hey, sorry, it's not going to work out 117 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 4: between us. That was it. 118 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:05,919 Speaker 5: And we're so jaded. You're reight because I think that's polite. 119 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, that's nice, but into his face. 120 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 2: But it's weird that there's no explanation for why exactly 121 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:20,240 Speaker 2: after she invited herself to hang out at your apartment. 122 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 6: But I don't feel like your own explanation after only 123 00:05:22,920 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 6: one hangout. 124 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:24,680 Speaker 3: Jeff like that. 125 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 5: That's a good point too. 126 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 3: It's not like that's the same like they But we 127 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 3: want it? Do you do you want to see her again? 128 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:35,159 Speaker 4: I just want to know what was the turn off 129 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:38,480 Speaker 4: because I'm confused. Was it my apartment? Was it something 130 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 4: I did? I don't know. 131 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 3: I like that you're blaming yourself. That's a good start. 132 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:43,719 Speaker 5: Okay, this might. 133 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 4: To me being embarrassed. Who care, Let's find out what 134 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 4: I did so I can you know you're if. 135 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 2: There's something wrong that you're doing, it's good to know 136 00:05:51,240 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 2: it up ahead of time. So let's come back. We're 137 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:57,239 Speaker 2: gonna call Meghan for you, Michael. Oh so weird Brooks 138 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:59,080 Speaker 2: husband and Brook's best friend's name. 139 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:01,280 Speaker 1: Don't think about that when we do. 140 00:06:01,240 --> 00:06:06,919 Speaker 2: Our next fall year and you took her line. Second 141 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:11,239 Speaker 2: date update right after this hold on second date update. 142 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:18,360 Speaker 2: It was the comeback after the romantic setback, followed by 143 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 2: a slight drawback. Okay, because our listener Michael finally got 144 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 2: back into the dating game after going through a tough 145 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:28,560 Speaker 2: breakup about a year ago. Didn't find his match online though, 146 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 2: found her in the grocery store holding two big candilopes. 147 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:38,479 Speaker 1: At least that's Jose's dream of how they met. 148 00:06:38,520 --> 00:06:41,479 Speaker 2: But her name was Megan, and eventually they arranged a 149 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:44,159 Speaker 2: little Netflix and chill night back at Michael's apartment, which 150 00:06:44,240 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 2: went really well. 151 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 3: And her idea that very important. 152 00:06:50,000 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 2: Things kind of fell apart though when she said she 153 00:06:51,880 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 2: had to grab something from her car and never returned. 154 00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 3: Yes, I'm wondering if. 155 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 6: She was hoping for something more that never was materializing. 156 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 3: You didn't, Yeah, yeah, watched the whole movie. 157 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:07,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was was the had to grab something from 158 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 2: the car thing a lie? 159 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 1: Alexis says, yes, from experience, but we. 160 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 3: Don't know that, yes, we do. 161 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 1: We don't know anything for sure. 162 00:07:16,440 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 2: We do know it's not a good signed on what. 163 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 1: A lie is. 164 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:26,760 Speaker 6: She didn't want to be there, okay, that she lied, yes, 165 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 6: but again. 166 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 1: We don't know. 167 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 2: We just know it's not a good sign. Also, not 168 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 2: a good sign. Megan texted him days later, confirming it's 169 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 2: not gonna work. 170 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 3: That's why I know after all those things, Jeff, I think. 171 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 2: It's very we needed to be impartial people in the 172 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 2: middle here. Isn't that right, Michael? You want an impartial 173 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 2: audience like I am. 174 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 4: Very hopeful that I'm gonna get something positive out of this. 175 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 4: It will be an easy correction to make. 176 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 3: I think your positivity is really sweet. 177 00:07:53,680 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 1: Do you hear the condescending. 178 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not hopeful to get another day out of this. 179 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 4: It's not like trying to get back with me. I 180 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 4: just wanted to become better at dating. 181 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 3: Okay, And that's sweet. 182 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 2: It is sweet that you think you can get better. Okay. Well, 183 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 2: we're all going to try our best for you here, Michael. 184 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 2: Let's call Meghan for you and see if she answers 185 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 2: and what she has to say. Here we go, Hello, Hi, 186 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 2: we're looking to talk with Meghan speaking. 187 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:38,640 Speaker 8: Oh okay, Meghan, Hey, hello, you're awfully I'm a group 188 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 8: phone call. 189 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, because I don't know if you realize you're on 190 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 2: the radio right now with a show called Brook and 191 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:44,680 Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the morning. 192 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:46,520 Speaker 7: Are you serious? 193 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 3: Yes, the show? Meghan? 194 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:53,560 Speaker 7: Hi, guys, I guess okay. 195 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 1: I don't know how to deal with this positivity on 196 00:08:56,080 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 1: the other end. We don't normally get this. 197 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 3: We got two positive people that we've talked to. 198 00:09:00,920 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 1: That's true. You don't know this, Megan. 199 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 2: But earlier the other positive person we spoke to was 200 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 2: a guy named Michael that you went on a date with. 201 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:11,040 Speaker 4: Are you serious? 202 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 2: Yes? 203 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 5: We love his energy too. 204 00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:19,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh my god, you sound excited. 205 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 7: But well, I don't know what Okay, wait, you said Michael, 206 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 7: like Michael called you. 207 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 4: Yeah. 208 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, because we're doing something called a second date update, 209 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 2: we're trying to help him figure out if when you 210 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 2: two hung out and did Netflix over at his apartment, 211 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 2: if something went wrong during that night, cause. 212 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 6: Well he knows something went wrong because you left and 213 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:43,120 Speaker 6: didn't come back. 214 00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 2: Well, we don't know what the problem was, if it 215 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:48,439 Speaker 2: was on your end, if it was something he did. 216 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:52,439 Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, I cannot believe this is happening. 217 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:55,920 Speaker 1: A limited times, so we need to have you believe sooner. 218 00:09:57,200 --> 00:09:58,920 Speaker 1: So start to believe. You're on the radio. 219 00:09:58,960 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 4: Now. 220 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:01,600 Speaker 3: Are you excited to hear Michael's name again? 221 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:12,760 Speaker 8: I don't know if I excited Okay, Okay, embarrassed? Absolutely 222 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 8: why I thought it was? 223 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:17,200 Speaker 3: What happened? 224 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 7: Okay, I don't even know where to begin at. I 225 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 7: really don't even know if. 226 00:10:21,720 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 6: I show you know, we love humiliating stories. We are 227 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:30,079 Speaker 6: walking embarrassments to everyone that we know, like you were 228 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 6: in the right company. 229 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 2: We're really just trying to help out Michael because he's 230 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:37,520 Speaker 2: really concerned feeling like he did something wrong on the date. 231 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:41,040 Speaker 7: Yeah, so let me just say, I've never done anything 232 00:10:41,080 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 7: like this before. 233 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 1: What do you mean, Alexi says that on the first 234 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 1: date too. 235 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:53,679 Speaker 7: Seriously, guys, I'm a good person, I promise. 236 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 3: What are you talking about with anything? 237 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 7: Okay? So, so I kind of didn't bump into Michael 238 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 7: at the grocery store, like not by accident. 239 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 3: What do you mean what? 240 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 7: I don't know if he told you, like we met 241 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 7: in a grocery store or not. 242 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:16,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, you said you guys like randomly kept bumping into 243 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 2: each other kind of multiple times in the store. 244 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:25,559 Speaker 7: Yeah, well, I'm kind of like, I know his ex girlfriend. Yeah, 245 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 7: like we're in a book club together, so you know, 246 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 7: we're girl pals. We chill, we talk, you know. 247 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 6: And wait, so you saw him in the grocery store 248 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 6: by chance or you went there because you knew he 249 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 6: was gonna be there. 250 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, I kind of followed him there because oh why. 251 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:45,199 Speaker 7: He basically was like banking one day, and she was like, 252 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 7: my ex boyfriend won't give me back my guitar, So 253 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:54,720 Speaker 7: my thing leads to the next and yeah, so we 254 00:11:55,040 --> 00:11:58,800 Speaker 7: kind of set up to, you know, run into Michael 255 00:11:58,960 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 7: as they store. 256 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:02,440 Speaker 6: The whole thing was a setup so you could go 257 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:04,320 Speaker 6: in and steal her guitar back. 258 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 3: He could you leave with the guitar. 259 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 7: I didn't steal anything. That's her Oh y yeah. 260 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 2: If that's what she says, is this one really happens 261 00:12:14,640 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 2: at book club? 262 00:12:15,400 --> 00:12:16,440 Speaker 1: You don't read any books. 263 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 6: Yes, you do the book for like fifteen twenty minutes, 264 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:20,680 Speaker 6: you discuss it. 265 00:12:20,600 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 1: And then you plut revenge against all of your ex 266 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 1: for the rest of the time. 267 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 6: I mean, if it needs to happen, it needs to happen. 268 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:29,240 Speaker 6: I mean, she's not getting revenge. She's just trying to 269 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:33,080 Speaker 6: get her guitar back. That's different. I have had reconnaissance 270 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 6: missions like this myself. 271 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:38,200 Speaker 2: I know that's like another twenty minute long story that 272 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:40,960 Speaker 2: we don't need to get into the important thing that 273 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 2: we need to get to here. Megan is letting you 274 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 2: know that Michael is actually on the other line right 275 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:47,599 Speaker 2: now listening to this conversation. 276 00:12:48,400 --> 00:12:51,559 Speaker 7: Way, it's fine. 277 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:53,200 Speaker 3: I mean, it's not like you're ever going to see 278 00:12:53,240 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 3: him again. 279 00:12:53,880 --> 00:12:56,800 Speaker 1: Well, no, it kind of ruins your plan. 280 00:12:56,840 --> 00:12:58,360 Speaker 3: What do you mean, didn't she already get the guitar? 281 00:12:58,679 --> 00:12:59,880 Speaker 1: Michael? Are you hearing this? 282 00:13:00,600 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? 283 00:13:01,440 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 4: I do not know what to say right now. It's mineyful. 284 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry, I really am. 285 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 4: That's unbelievable. Tell me, is a guitar from my house? Gone? 286 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:20,280 Speaker 7: Yeah, I slipped it outside the door when I went 287 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 7: to the bathroom. 288 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:24,600 Speaker 1: That's so, I mean, devious coming. 289 00:13:25,080 --> 00:13:27,880 Speaker 3: But Jeffery is like, does you're stunned? 290 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 1: I'm I'm shocked. 291 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 2: I didn't see this coming because, I mean, what is 292 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:32,400 Speaker 2: the history of the guitar? 293 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:33,560 Speaker 1: Whose guitar is it? 294 00:13:33,600 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 4: It's my exes? Yeah, like. 295 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:38,320 Speaker 1: On it. 296 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:40,319 Speaker 4: It was a gift. I just held onto it. You 297 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:42,480 Speaker 4: know it was a messy end. I don't want to 298 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 4: get into it at all, but I'm trying to get better, 299 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:46,040 Speaker 4: Try to get better. 300 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:47,880 Speaker 6: When you say it's a messy breakup, this makes it 301 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 6: a messy Yeah, you're not helping. 302 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 3: You are the issue. 303 00:13:52,360 --> 00:13:54,679 Speaker 2: Like some woe hold like onto the sweaters from their 304 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:57,920 Speaker 2: ex boyfriends and try he holds onto his ex girlfriend's 305 00:13:57,920 --> 00:13:58,920 Speaker 2: guitar and cries and do. 306 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:02,840 Speaker 3: It, which is offensive, dirty old sweatshirt. 307 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm sorry, man. She just said like basically, you've 308 00:14:06,040 --> 00:14:08,840 Speaker 7: kept making excuses, so I wanted to help her out. 309 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:12,880 Speaker 4: I just do want to see her kind of thing. 310 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:15,760 Speaker 4: It wasn't really about keeping it out of spider or anything. 311 00:14:17,760 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 7: I will say, like, you are a really nice guy, 312 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 7: Like you were really fitible, you were really cordial, You 313 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 7: didn't try anything crazy, and you're. 314 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 2: Not even mad hearing about this like elaborate plan to 315 00:14:28,560 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 2: get the guitar back out from under your nose. 316 00:14:31,080 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 4: It's more amazing that you pulled it off than why 317 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 4: would I be angry about that. 318 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 3: I'm amazing you didn't notice missing. 319 00:14:37,440 --> 00:14:44,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, well he doesn't, he doesn't, But is there still 320 00:14:44,280 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 2: like was there ever a romantic connection between YouTube Megan 321 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:48,000 Speaker 2: and Michael. 322 00:14:48,200 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 3: You're going to make that happen, Isn't. 323 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 1: That the goal of this call? 324 00:14:51,240 --> 00:14:51,360 Speaker 6: Uh? 325 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 7: Sorry, Michael, I'm actually engaged. 326 00:14:54,600 --> 00:15:00,680 Speaker 5: So you guy, because you're engaged, know about it's. 327 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:07,400 Speaker 7: Yeah, he knows all about it, and he thinks it's hilarious. 328 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 4: And oh my god, I'm happy I didn't make a move. 329 00:15:12,040 --> 00:15:15,320 Speaker 2: So yeah, okay, Well, clearly there's no connection between the 330 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 2: two of you. But Megan, Michael did want to get 331 00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:21,720 Speaker 2: some dating advice out of this segment. Do you have 332 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 2: any that you want to share with him to maybe 333 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:24,880 Speaker 2: help him out going forward? 334 00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:28,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, Michael, you definitely got to be more aware of 335 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:30,560 Speaker 7: your surroundings and don't bring people to your house. 336 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 1: Okay, that's you. 337 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:36,480 Speaker 3: Notice one stopped you to a grocery store. 338 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 1: Just assume everybody wants to steal something from you. 339 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:47,000 Speaker 2: Oh wow, that is a hard real first date, Michael, 340 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:49,080 Speaker 2: back in the dating world after a year. 341 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 1: This is set up to get your guitar out of 342 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:54,280 Speaker 1: your apartment. 343 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:55,480 Speaker 4: Lesson learned here. 344 00:15:57,800 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's rookie Jeffrey in the morning. 345 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 2: Man. At this point, if you're him, do you trust 346 00:16:03,640 --> 00:16:06,640 Speaker 2: anybody in the dating worlds going forward? At this point, 347 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:09,040 Speaker 2: Are you just go straight to online dating with criminals 348 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 2: in prison? 349 00:16:09,720 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 7: Oh? 350 00:16:10,200 --> 00:16:10,400 Speaker 8: Man? 351 00:16:10,560 --> 00:16:12,800 Speaker 3: I mean, is there trust left in the dating world? 352 00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 5: Wow? 353 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 3: Current? 354 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:16,040 Speaker 6: I mean I think that he you know, he was 355 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 6: the one last shred of hope that we had and 356 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 6: that's gone. 357 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 2: That happened to me and I met somebody and found 358 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:24,880 Speaker 2: out it was all just a scam to steal from 359 00:16:25,120 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 2: my apartment. That's where I'd be headed. Fellonflings dot com. 360 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:32,440 Speaker 2: I'm logging on and taking the easy way out. You're 361 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 2: gonna steal from me anyway, might as well just tell you. 362 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:36,160 Speaker 1: I want to just know. 363 00:16:37,000 --> 00:16:39,080 Speaker 3: I ended that feeling like it was all his fault. 364 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:44,040 Speaker 3: He should have returned her stuff. Yeah that was a lesson. 365 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:47,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, that for sure was a problem. 366 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 2: But it's also not great to like create a whole 367 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 2: ruse about a romantic date and lead a guy on 368 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:53,480 Speaker 2: just to steal from him. 369 00:16:53,560 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 3: Well, if he's not giving a guitar back, I say, 370 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:57,400 Speaker 3: do what you gotta do, That's what I say. 371 00:16:57,840 --> 00:17:01,320 Speaker 2: Justified, according to absolutely got a little something for themselves 372 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 2: out of there. 373 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:02,000 Speaker 5: Luckily. 374 00:17:02,040 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 1: That's why the good news is he didn't seem devastated 375 00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 1: by it. He was actually impressed that they were able 376 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 1: to pull it off, and he laughed. 377 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:10,400 Speaker 5: He was like, well, I mean, I don't even play guitar. 378 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 3: It's like, why wasn't he giving it back. 379 00:17:16,640 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 2: Something good came of it in the very end, and 380 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:21,680 Speaker 2: hopefully we can bring some positivity to your dating life. 381 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 2: If you email us, we'll call that person who's not 382 00:17:24,200 --> 00:17:26,040 Speaker 2: calling you back. Go check out all of our second 383 00:17:26,080 --> 00:17:28,560 Speaker 2: date updates wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey 384 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:30,520 Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,