1 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 1: West Epics. Angela yet slip service and the ladies are excited. 2 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: All right, we arep listen, Lurya and g McGuire. We 3 00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:15,360 Speaker 1: got Jackie Christie here with us today from Basketball Wives. 4 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,200 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for having me, Angela. Look at 5 00:00:18,280 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: Jackie trying to be um. You already know. But before 6 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 1: you got here, we were talking about you when we 7 00:00:26,920 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 1: were talking about how nice of us to see somebody 8 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:34,880 Speaker 1: in a solid marriage, right absolutely, you know, especially on television, 9 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:38,320 Speaker 1: and somebody that whose husband actually likes having him around. Okay, 10 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:43,440 Speaker 1: can you guys believe nowadays on the show called Basketball 11 00:00:43,479 --> 00:00:48,200 Speaker 1: Wives or year the only wife? Well, listen, my taking jazz, 12 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:52,559 Speaker 1: That's not what I meant currently right now, I'm the 13 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 1: only one Brandy. Brandy's a wife too, But they are 14 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 1: they back together? Um? You know what they didn't. I 15 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 1: don't think she the show. I mean, I know she 16 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 1: saw her but in the opening credits, you know she's 17 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: not not this or not this season, but eventually maybe. 18 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: So how do you keep things fresh? Though? I know 19 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:12,959 Speaker 1: that's a question. I'm sure probably people ask you all 20 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 1: the time, but how do you keep things fresh? Like? 21 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: I know I hear stories all the time about people 22 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 1: who are married and they just stop having sex, they're 23 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 1: not interested anymore. How do you make sure that still 24 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 1: you know what the intimate is. Intimacy is there. That's 25 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: why I wrote this book too, because it was to 26 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:32,240 Speaker 1: help couples and just people looking for a relationship. Intimacy 27 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 1: is not just about sex. It's also about communication, conversation. 28 00:01:36,200 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: I want to feel appreciated. You know, from morning tonight. 29 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: A woman wants to feel like, you know, she's special 30 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:43,560 Speaker 1: when she wants to feel like she looks good and 31 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: feels good. But if all of a sudden, you're doing 32 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: her all day and then at night you just want 33 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:50,760 Speaker 1: to have sex, it starts making making them feel objectified, 34 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: and you know, the fire starts burning out. They start 35 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: getting bored, they start wanting something else. Then that other 36 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 1: man comes into their life and compliments them and this 37 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: and that, and intimacy starts before you know, and she 38 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 1: said over him, and then don't let him breathe on 39 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 1: your neck or something. Next thing, you know, all them 40 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 1: feelings start coming back, and then the sex is the 41 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:15,400 Speaker 1: bomb because you really want it with your mate, like 42 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 1: you're getting it somewhere else, and you start confusing yourself 43 00:02:17,840 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 1: with thinking you're in love with that person in the 44 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:22,079 Speaker 1: relationship Falters, do you ever go through like a dry 45 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: Did you ever go through a dry spell where y'all 46 00:02:24,160 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 1: just weren't having sex? I always hear this, but my 47 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 1: friends have been in long term relationships, like we never 48 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 1: have sex anymore. You know what, We didn't because we're 49 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 1: both freaks. We both love to be intimate with each other, 50 00:02:35,440 --> 00:02:37,800 Speaker 1: and we have this thing where we can talk about 51 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 1: anything and we fantasize too. That's another thing that I 52 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 1: think couple should do more of, and I talk about 53 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 1: it in my book as well. It's fantasizing and it 54 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,400 Speaker 1: makes everybody feel like they're not missing anything, you know 55 00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 1: what I mean. You have to be able to be 56 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 1: open or with your partner and with your maide and 57 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:54,680 Speaker 1: have respect and trust too. You know, they have to 58 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 1: not want to veer outside of that relationship. But I 59 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 1: can tell Doug if I find somewhere attractive or this 60 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 1: and that other, And it's really that intimacy that we 61 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: share together that helps us go to another level mentally. 62 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: If you're there, the sex is the bomb. So he 63 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:13,799 Speaker 1: doesn't get mad though you're like, oh, I think someone's right. 64 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 1: I want to be that's right, that's right, and you 65 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: have to do that, you have to have that open communication. 66 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 1: But it like okay, because I never really tell, like 67 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 1: my boyfriend, if I find somebody else attractively, I'd be scared. 68 00:03:34,000 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 1: But I just felt like, that's my time. My girls, 69 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 1: Like I never would tell my boyfriend like he looks good, 70 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:42,440 Speaker 1: he's a good look guy. Yeah, you know. And people 71 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 1: are surprised because they're like, Jackie, will you picture you 72 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 1: this over protective, you know, jealous type, And I'm like, 73 00:03:48,040 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 1: it's not even like that. Like we and we started 74 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 1: years and years ago. We've been married twenty one year, 75 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 1: so we right in our first two years of marriage. 76 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 1: We was in Hawaii one time and we were just 77 00:03:57,360 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 1: sitting on the couch in the hotel room, chilling and 78 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 1: eating and drinking wine, and we just started talking openly 79 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 1: about things, and I wanted him to share with me 80 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: his past. What was your best relationship, what was the 81 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 1: best sex, who was it with, Why do you feel 82 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 1: you felt that way and all of that. We started 83 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 1: our conversations like that and it just developed into being 84 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:15,839 Speaker 1: able to be open about everything, and it just took 85 00:04:15,880 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: us to another level. He was like Dialne Dine. I 86 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:23,479 Speaker 1: was a little jealous at first because he tells you 87 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,719 Speaker 1: other people, because yeah, if I asked you that question, 88 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 1: you better saying okay, that's what I'm saying. I felt 89 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:31,719 Speaker 1: like that, but I fought the urge because I was like, 90 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 1: with a man, it's hard enough to get him to 91 00:04:33,720 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: open up. So I didn't let him see it. But 92 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,919 Speaker 1: I was kind of like, ouch o her, why But 93 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,159 Speaker 1: then it just it just drove me to be the 94 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 1: best motivation there it is, I better get on there, 95 00:04:46,400 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: reverse cowgirl, let me find the top. Now, what about 96 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:57,160 Speaker 1: him telling you about you know, women that like he's 97 00:04:57,160 --> 00:05:01,000 Speaker 1: she's hot. I would definitely in my younger years if 98 00:05:01,040 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: I was single. No, he he it's a turn off 99 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 1: for me. Dougs in his forties. We're still young. We're 100 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:08,799 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. We just gets it popping. 101 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:11,840 Speaker 1: And if like Halle Berry, he thinks she's beautiful everybody 102 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 1: that's like yeah, but what about somebody attainable like that? 103 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: You know, random that's like a random check. Yeah, it 104 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 1: could be a girl down the street, or if you know, 105 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:22,720 Speaker 1: if I haven't seen him in a couple of days, 106 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 1: say he's gone with the team. Because he travels with 107 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 1: the team right now, And I say, did you see 108 00:05:26,480 --> 00:05:28,839 Speaker 1: anybody sexy on the road? Which she looked like, what 109 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:31,360 Speaker 1: was she built? Like that kind of thing. It's interesting 110 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:34,040 Speaker 1: for us, it's intriguing. It's like a different kind of 111 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 1: release for us. But if he was like, man, I 112 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: think Evelyn is so sexy, I would laugh if he 113 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 1: thought was. But I mean, I'm I'm I'm, you know, 114 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: secure enough in myself that I wouldn't worry about Evelyn 115 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: too much. But he doesn't get like a hall pass 116 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 1: or anything that you're like, I don't think he even 117 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 1: wants that, because when you can be open with your 118 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: mate and your everything to them, it's like kind of like, man, 119 00:05:57,680 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 1: it takes that whole thing out of it. And I 120 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:01,599 Speaker 1: know what he wants, I know what he needs, and 121 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 1: I'm there to fulfill that and vice versa. So we 122 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:06,839 Speaker 1: kind of we're happy now. I was reading my friend 123 00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:09,920 Speaker 1: Laney has been writing for this magazine right she has 124 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 1: a communist magazine. She's to work at Penthouse, so she 125 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:14,480 Speaker 1: talks a lot about sex, and she talks about how 126 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:17,479 Speaker 1: masturbating is really good for you, and they say it 127 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 1: releaves a lot of stress for some guys that can 128 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 1: prevent like colon cancer, all kinds of things. So when 129 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:26,160 Speaker 1: Doug is not traveling, are you big on masturbating? Definitely? 130 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 1: We can do that together with each other. That's another 131 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 1: thing that's very sexy. You know. Yeah, you do that 132 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 1: with each other because it also opens up communication, intimacy. 133 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 1: You drop all of those shields that we have around us, 134 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:40,599 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, and you're able to experience 135 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 1: sex on a higher level. See how often do you 136 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 1: ladies masturbate? I just read one out now. I'm not 137 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 1: every day, but like regularly. You think it makes sex better? 138 00:06:58,040 --> 00:07:00,920 Speaker 1: I do, really Yeah. I used to do it a 139 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:04,360 Speaker 1: lot and then I just stopped and you got a 140 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:08,720 Speaker 1: long as it's not about this, I'm not gonna lie. 141 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 1: I started to feel like a perv, especially spurts, like 142 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 1: when I want to messurate for a lot, a lot, 143 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:16,440 Speaker 1: a lot, and then I'm just like all right. Only 144 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:21,560 Speaker 1: I feel so because you masturbate before you have sex, 145 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 1: you know you can, but if you know you about 146 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 1: TV weather, But I don't want to come before I 147 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 1: have sex because I feel like, I know this is 148 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: very dutious, but I feel like if I come, I 149 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: kind of like I don't want to have like you're good. Yeah, 150 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 1: this is my fit right here, lady like you like 151 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 1: warms and you warm it up. We were just talking 152 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 1: about ladies article about masturbation. Here, you gotta take a 153 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 1: look at this. She has her column in this magazine 154 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: strip Lvy Las Vegas Different. This is a nice magazine. 155 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:04,200 Speaker 1: It is wait, I gotta subscribe to this. I like it. Yeah, 156 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: this is nice. Yeah, you were, cousin Leaney. I was 157 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 1: talking about some of your previous articles about masturbation and 158 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 1: how masturbation is really good for you. So we were 159 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:14,120 Speaker 1: talking about how frequently met we masturbate, and you've had 160 00:08:14,160 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 1: some weird you know, some weird experiences about guys masturbating. 161 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 1: You said, one guy used to like to masturbate with 162 00:08:20,280 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 1: a vibrator in his but yes, not only that, but 163 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 1: with us, yes, nine volt batteries. He would take a 164 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 1: couple of nine volt batteries, put in a condom, and 165 00:08:31,480 --> 00:08:35,560 Speaker 1: then put in his butt while he masturbated. Oh my god, wait, oh, 166 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:38,079 Speaker 1: I thought the batteries are going inside the vibrator the 167 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 1: oh wait wait I just missed this whole ship, the 168 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 1: vibrator and batteries. Well, there's two separate, you know, and 169 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 1: men do it with vibrators. But I knew somebody who 170 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: used nine volt batteries because they give you a shock 171 00:08:54,800 --> 00:08:57,440 Speaker 1: of some sort of problems. He said something about the 172 00:08:57,440 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 1: heaviness of them that he read in a book that 173 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 1: it's very pleasant to They shouldn't make you feel like 174 00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:18,920 Speaker 1: you got a poops for me? Doge? I agree? But lady, 175 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:24,160 Speaker 1: this is Jackie, Jackie jack from Basketball, Wives and Lany 176 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:27,080 Speaker 1: For a long time, she's worked with Penthouse, yes, okay, 177 00:09:27,120 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 1: and so she knows everybody and everything, and she actually 178 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: has um. You guys are both authors, okay, you know 179 00:09:32,679 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 1: which I love. She's written books about how to ask 180 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 1: for a threesome, okay, threesome, ro blow jobs, a role 181 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 1: play and uh. And then I wrote a book where 182 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:47,839 Speaker 1: I interviewed a dozen high end call girls about what 183 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 1: was their secret? Why do men come back to them 184 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:53,200 Speaker 1: to pay two thousand dollars an hour? It can just 185 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 1: be sex because they can get that anywhere. So I 186 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 1: interviewed them about what it is about their what they 187 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:03,440 Speaker 1: offered in other ways than made them come back. Amazing. 188 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: I would love to read that book. Yeah. Then obviously 189 00:10:06,559 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 1: Jackie has been. She's been married to do Christie. They've 190 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:11,640 Speaker 1: been in a relationship for over twenty one years. That's amazing, 191 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:16,520 Speaker 1: thank you. And they get married every year. Thank you. 192 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:19,559 Speaker 1: How many wedding dresses? So you have all those wedding 193 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 1: dresses though, yeah, every year I get annoy one crazy, 194 00:10:26,520 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 1: I'll be like, all right, no more room for this. 195 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:35,679 Speaker 1: I have boxes of them in stories. That's crazy, Jackie. 196 00:10:35,720 --> 00:10:37,840 Speaker 1: Have you ever done role play? You know what I do. 197 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:42,720 Speaker 1: I love doing that. Anything sexual you can experience with 198 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 1: your mate, I feel like you should do. You only 199 00:10:45,040 --> 00:10:47,320 Speaker 1: live once. This is a gift to us, which is 200 00:10:47,720 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: sexual release, orgasm, sex that that whole exchange and interaction. 201 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:55,559 Speaker 1: I'm down. So you never felt, see like because I've 202 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 1: never done it and I've always said I was going 203 00:10:57,840 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 1: to and whatever, so but like a point you ever 204 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 1: just started laughing and be like what then is going 205 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 1: on here? Because I think that's what I'm scared of, 206 00:11:07,480 --> 00:11:10,040 Speaker 1: Like that that person, like the guy would just be 207 00:11:10,080 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 1: looking at me like this is not working out and 208 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 1: I'm saying it, and you'll both decide to go and 209 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:20,360 Speaker 1: do it. I think you'll both get into it enough 210 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:22,599 Speaker 1: that you just go ahead and go through with it 211 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:24,439 Speaker 1: and like what do you do like put an accent on? 212 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:26,360 Speaker 1: Like how does it work? I mean, you just gotta 213 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:28,200 Speaker 1: go to out, you got to go with the flow 214 00:11:28,280 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 1: or whatever. What's your favorite role um I would have 215 00:11:32,000 --> 00:11:46,440 Speaker 1: to probably say a French maide, yeah, or nurse. And 216 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 1: sometimes it's role play. You don't necessarily have to put 217 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: on a costume, Like you can be more spontaneous about 218 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 1: it and just start just start going in the moment 219 00:11:56,679 --> 00:11:59,120 Speaker 1: with what you say. It's about what you say, not 220 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 1: so much what you're wearing. Yeah, So why do I 221 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 1: think like the costume is the best part, Like it 222 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:12,559 Speaker 1: has to have a costume? Are I know, you're a 223 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 1: fireman if you don't have a hat. One my friend 224 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 1: on Twitter alone, she does this advice column thing and 225 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 1: she says, one girl wrote in and she had this 226 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:26,680 Speaker 1: rape fantasy and she wanted a guy. But I mean, 227 00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:30,959 Speaker 1: I know it sounds taboo to say, but if you're 228 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 1: role playing and this is like the game that you 229 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 1: want to do or whatever, obviously in real life you 230 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:39,080 Speaker 1: would never want that to happen. But I think there's 231 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:41,960 Speaker 1: a whole category important about that. Oh. I mean that's 232 00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:45,000 Speaker 1: probably one of the number one fantasies of women, and 233 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 1: it's not about the violence. It's about giving up control. 234 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 1: So it's more because all role plays about dominance and submission. Basically, 235 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 1: those are with all themes, whether it's like doctor patient, um, 236 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:04,560 Speaker 1: you know, schoolgirl, head master or whatever it is. Yeah, 237 00:13:04,880 --> 00:13:07,760 Speaker 1: it's about you know, it's not about anyone getting hurt 238 00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:11,679 Speaker 1: per se, but it's about you know, having this handsome 239 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 1: burglar break into your home and instead of burglarizing your home, 240 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:23,679 Speaker 1: you have sex. Yeah, my burglar is hot. Now. Your 241 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:27,559 Speaker 1: latest article was about how you used to go on Craigslist. Yes, 242 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:37,000 Speaker 1: and like fun dudes that you met. Yes, yes, it's 243 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 1: just like we're going back, you know, ten years. That 244 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 1: seems like said now, that seems like such a scary 245 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 1: thing to do, right, you know, but is that scarier 246 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 1: than meeting somebody in real life in the club or 247 00:13:51,440 --> 00:13:53,960 Speaker 1: in tender to me tender, it's the same thing if 248 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 1: you're gonna I mean, you see it's you know, you 249 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:58,320 Speaker 1: see his picture you hook up. I mean it was 250 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 1: the same thing, except it was that she a little 251 00:14:00,559 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 1: better because you had more time to email each other 252 00:14:03,760 --> 00:14:06,200 Speaker 1: back and forth and get a sense if this is 253 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 1: like a well balanced mental you know person or is 254 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:15,560 Speaker 1: this can you know all that you know what he 255 00:14:15,600 --> 00:14:18,559 Speaker 1: wants to do and stuff? But it definitely yes, is 256 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 1: there's some danger involved? I I don't disagree. That's was 257 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 1: part of the thrill for me, of course, was like 258 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:27,400 Speaker 1: not knowing what was going to happen. Did you have 259 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:29,240 Speaker 1: did you have to tell people? Like Okay, I gotta 260 00:14:29,320 --> 00:14:31,720 Speaker 1: let my friends know that I'm going on the State 261 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 1: be here about the fucking so like what was it? 262 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 1: Just a listen, this happened on insecure? Let's not forget 263 00:14:40,560 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 1: do you gust insecure tea? It's oh my god? But 264 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:54,920 Speaker 1: it actually happened to her on the show, right, she 265 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 1: was on I forget which sight she was doing some 266 00:14:57,680 --> 00:14:59,600 Speaker 1: online dating. It was like a tender kind of thing 267 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 1: and she I had to do a hook up and 268 00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 1: she couldn't do it though the first time she couldn't 269 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 1: have sex with the guy. She just felt awkward about it. 270 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 1: But it it was her first time and it was it 271 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:11,040 Speaker 1: was what you call a wolf James, right. Remember he's 272 00:15:11,040 --> 00:15:17,840 Speaker 1: a singer, Luke James, look James, sorry close enough, that's 273 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 1: like his Instagram name something see, so I'm not too 274 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: far off. It was Luke James and she disked him. 275 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 1: She said she didn't want to have sex with them 276 00:15:25,840 --> 00:15:31,200 Speaker 1: because she felt awkward. Right right to deal with any 277 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:34,239 Speaker 1: of this, You've never deal with any of this online dating. 278 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:36,520 Speaker 1: You never had to deal with this apps because you've 279 00:15:36,560 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 1: been married right nine six You guys, I'm lost when 280 00:15:42,800 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 1: it comes to that. But I do have some friends 281 00:15:44,320 --> 00:15:47,280 Speaker 1: that do that, and I always panicked for him because whew, 282 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:50,040 Speaker 1: do you know you're not gonna go meet this person? 283 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:52,560 Speaker 1: And luckily they haven't ran into that yet. But I'm 284 00:15:52,600 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 1: always nervous for them. But they're like, these guys are 285 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 1: so hot and da da da. So I guess it 286 00:15:57,000 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 1: has a certain level of interestingness to it because it's 287 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 1: you know, fresh, and it's, like she said, spontaneous. But 288 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 1: I don't know, I probably would be nervous. I'm scared 289 00:16:07,480 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 1: to me. But let's talk about some life experience since 290 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 1: you've done Sure, Um, they were mostly really great. A 291 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 1: lot of times you asked if I told friends like 292 00:16:19,080 --> 00:16:22,080 Speaker 1: I might BFF new I was doing it, you know, 293 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:24,360 Speaker 1: but um, A lot of times no, I would like 294 00:16:24,520 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 1: when I was bored at at Penthouse. Let's say, when 295 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 1: I was working at Penthouse. Is a slow day. You know, um, 296 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 1: like people do you go online and I would, you know, 297 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 1: meet someone and go see them on my lunch hour 298 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 1: for instance, you know, and come back. And most of 299 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:43,000 Speaker 1: the guys were very good looking, very uh, you know, 300 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:47,960 Speaker 1: pretty respectful considering um. One time though I was talking. 301 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:49,600 Speaker 1: You know that One of the tips I'd given the 302 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 1: article is if it's the talking is going on too long, 303 00:16:53,520 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 1: like like now a week's gone by and you haven't 304 00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 1: made up, there's usually something that's when something fishy is 305 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 1: going on. It's not when when some guy says, okay, yeah, 306 00:17:01,600 --> 00:17:04,119 Speaker 1: can you meet today, great, let's do Those are usually 307 00:17:04,200 --> 00:17:06,200 Speaker 1: on the level when it's like a week goes by 308 00:17:06,480 --> 00:17:08,879 Speaker 1: and like he's still talking to you, and it's the 309 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 1: conversation is explicit, like he wants the sext or whatever. Um. 310 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:15,560 Speaker 1: So one guy he's in me his picture. He's a 311 00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:17,960 Speaker 1: good looking guy, but I mean nothing crazy or anything, 312 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:21,920 Speaker 1: just averagely good looking guy and um, and I didn't 313 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:23,879 Speaker 1: hear from him, and then I heard from him, and 314 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:25,600 Speaker 1: then finally I was like for this one, I said, 315 00:17:25,960 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 1: let's meet a Starbucks. You know, I didn't want to, 316 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:31,399 Speaker 1: you know, invite now over. I said, something's weird and 317 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 1: I waited, like a half hour went by and I 318 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:36,720 Speaker 1: was gonna leave, and all of a sudden, I, you 319 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:40,159 Speaker 1: know this, this guy from India comes up to me. 320 00:17:40,200 --> 00:17:41,920 Speaker 1: When I say from India, I mean like he was 321 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:45,479 Speaker 1: not like, yeah, he'd been here, he'd hadn't been here 322 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 1: that long in accent or and he's like, hello, Laney, 323 00:17:48,720 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 1: and I said yeah, and he's like it's me, you know. 324 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:53,879 Speaker 1: And it would have been fine, except that's not the 325 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:56,359 Speaker 1: picture I got. That's not that they weren't even the 326 00:17:56,440 --> 00:18:00,359 Speaker 1: same race, they weren't the same and and I just 327 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:02,680 Speaker 1: stared at him and I was like, and I said 328 00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:06,399 Speaker 1: to him, absolutely not. And I just walked out. And 329 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:08,760 Speaker 1: he think that you would still be okay with it, 330 00:18:09,040 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 1: like it's amazing what people think they can pull off. 331 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:15,000 Speaker 1: Like that's that's probably the worst thing that happened, which, 332 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:17,400 Speaker 1: you know, it was kind of gross when you think 333 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 1: about how you've spoken to that person, like, oh, what 334 00:18:20,440 --> 00:18:23,080 Speaker 1: do you winto sexually? What are you want too? You 335 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 1: got kind of intimate and that After that, I was like, 336 00:18:26,520 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 1: don't talk that dirty to anybody at all, because you 337 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:32,200 Speaker 1: you know, could be some guy just trying to get 338 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:35,199 Speaker 1: his jollys off or you know whatever, because that did 339 00:18:35,320 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 1: feel icky. Like when I got home, I was like, 340 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:39,639 Speaker 1: I got to take a shower, and like, did you 341 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 1: have like repeat instances with some of these guys that 342 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:45,120 Speaker 1: you were meeting or was it always just a one time? Yeah, 343 00:18:45,320 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 1: there were some guys that I saw over the first 344 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 1: guy that I ever hooked up with. UM, I think 345 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:54,200 Speaker 1: instinctually I decided to look for younger guys, thinking I'd 346 00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:56,399 Speaker 1: have more control when you you know, when I my 347 00:18:56,600 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 1: first one, so it was someone who's like ten years 348 00:18:58,680 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 1: younger than me, and we had a great time. And 349 00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:03,880 Speaker 1: that's why I think I started kept doing it because 350 00:19:03,920 --> 00:19:06,159 Speaker 1: the first one was so much fun. He was a 351 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 1: really cool person. He worked in entertainment like I did, 352 00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:11,440 Speaker 1: and you know, you know, we hooked up, and I 353 00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:13,920 Speaker 1: think we hooked up for like six years on and off. 354 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:19,920 Speaker 1: Like yeah, I mean, I know it's not gonna sound nice, 355 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:22,160 Speaker 1: but like, you know, I saw him through an engagement 356 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:25,639 Speaker 1: in a marriage, and you know, when when his wife 357 00:19:25,800 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 1: was away, like I came over, you know, like his 358 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:31,639 Speaker 1: wife doesn't I'm standing there naked looking at a wedding 359 00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:35,840 Speaker 1: album and you know, like that and you know, you 360 00:19:35,920 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 1: guys look great. Now, let me see it, just like 361 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:46,080 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know if she know, Um, 362 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:48,879 Speaker 1: you don't. I didn't, you know, I didn't know. I 363 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:51,439 Speaker 1: never obviously, if I hadn't met her, I would never 364 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 1: have done that, you know, so but um, I I 365 00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 1: don't know. And I know that that's his disrespect Oh 366 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:03,120 Speaker 1: in their beds in the Yeah, it was disrespectful. That's 367 00:20:03,160 --> 00:20:05,119 Speaker 1: why I would never have thought of him as anything 368 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 1: but a hook up. Like obviously he's not a guy 369 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:10,879 Speaker 1: you want to date and get serious with and stuff. 370 00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:12,960 Speaker 1: You know, you can't do that, go to some assassinate 371 00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 1: What if she came home? Right? You never had before her? 372 00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 1: I guess, yeah, yeah, Yeah. He was such a he 373 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 1: was like, you know, this cute but nerdy, kind of nervous. 374 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:27,760 Speaker 1: He wouldn't he wouldn't have taken a chance like that, 375 00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 1: Like it would have had to be like she would 376 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 1: have shown up like two days early or something if 377 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 1: that had happened and stuff. But I saw him for 378 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:38,359 Speaker 1: a while, and you know, every so often he checks 379 00:20:38,440 --> 00:20:40,560 Speaker 1: in to see, you know, I'm married now and stuff. 380 00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:43,440 Speaker 1: He checks in to see my status, like what's it calling? 381 00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:45,960 Speaker 1: I said, still married, And he's like, think you could 382 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:50,159 Speaker 1: do an engagement in a marriage too, Yeah, sort of. 383 00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:55,800 Speaker 1: You remember the first time you went Doug hooked up? Yes, yeah, 384 00:20:56,119 --> 00:20:59,879 Speaker 1: so how long like walk us through that, because let 385 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 1: me see, I just knack you know what. It was 386 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:06,879 Speaker 1: four months into our relationship. Surprisingly, we finally decided to 387 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:08,880 Speaker 1: be intimate. And it was that I had a candle 388 00:21:08,960 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 1: downtown Seattle, overlooking the water. It was really really cool, 389 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:13,360 Speaker 1: and we were in the living room and back then, 390 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:15,840 Speaker 1: you know, the big screen TVs was like the big console. 391 00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:19,639 Speaker 1: So we were watching shanee um and now she shanis online, 392 00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 1: you know the singer, Yeah, and that's the song. Yeah. 393 00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:32,560 Speaker 1: He was like, she has such a pretty smile, this 394 00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:34,600 Speaker 1: and that, and we just we had some wine and 395 00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:36,400 Speaker 1: we ended up being intimate right there in the living 396 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 1: room on the floor. My best friend she didn't live 397 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:40,119 Speaker 1: with me, but I gave her the key and she 398 00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 1: came home and we were just like messing around under 399 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:46,920 Speaker 1: the blanket. But she was like, oh my god, on 400 00:21:47,040 --> 00:21:51,600 Speaker 1: top of us, and it was hilarious and she was like, oh, 401 00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:54,359 Speaker 1: you guys finally did it and all hilarious. So it 402 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:57,240 Speaker 1: was common. That wasn't the first time. It was amazing. 403 00:21:57,400 --> 00:21:59,159 Speaker 1: It was just what I thought it would be. It was, 404 00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:01,840 Speaker 1: you know, everything I thought he would be. Because sometimes 405 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:03,680 Speaker 1: the first time, I always feel like this, like you 406 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:06,080 Speaker 1: could have a great connection with somebody. Sometimes the first 407 00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 1: time it's a little awkward. I think so too. I 408 00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 1: never really had the first time to be the best time. 409 00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 1: No no, no no no. I had one time when 410 00:22:15,760 --> 00:22:17,640 Speaker 1: I was the best time. But I remember one time 411 00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:19,320 Speaker 1: I had the first time and I'll call and I 412 00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:22,359 Speaker 1: was like, this ship was off. She said, it was terrible, 413 00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:25,320 Speaker 1: like this is awful. It was so bad. I did 414 00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:26,879 Speaker 1: not want to have sex with him. And what did 415 00:22:26,880 --> 00:22:28,800 Speaker 1: I say? She was like, well, you know, you just 416 00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 1: probably just gotta learn each other five and then I'm 417 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:35,879 Speaker 1: not gonna lie. When we did it again, it was 418 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:38,639 Speaker 1: really good, but I mean it wasn't the best, but 419 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:42,200 Speaker 1: it was cool. But like he wasn't top five, top five, 420 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:52,600 Speaker 1: top five. He was right like flashed. But you know 421 00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 1: it was just like she's right, like in the beginning, 422 00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:59,040 Speaker 1: it's kind of like you gotta learn each other sometimes 423 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:02,440 Speaker 1: with sometimes you don't pussy right, Like there's some things 424 00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:04,680 Speaker 1: it's true. Guess what, I don't got a problem telling 425 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:07,320 Speaker 1: them right? Good, you have to tell them I'd rather 426 00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,440 Speaker 1: not think that's awkward. I don't want to have to 427 00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:13,159 Speaker 1: tell you what I will. I think men to appreciate that, really, 428 00:23:14,040 --> 00:23:16,959 Speaker 1: Oh definitely, I think men. You know. UM, A lot 429 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:19,040 Speaker 1: of times the guys have told me like, well, if 430 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:22,160 Speaker 1: you know, if women don't feel we do it enough, 431 00:23:22,280 --> 00:23:25,199 Speaker 1: let's say even like open your mouth and tell us, 432 00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 1: you know, like and and sometimes I've said, like my 433 00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:30,040 Speaker 1: annoyance is, why do I have to tell you to 434 00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:32,720 Speaker 1: go down on me when like we go down you constantly? 435 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,359 Speaker 1: You know, Like why do we have to tell you 436 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:37,960 Speaker 1: at all? You know? But but even that, but or 437 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,240 Speaker 1: if not doing it right, they're like, show me, tell me, 438 00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:41,840 Speaker 1: tell me what I am. I think of a guy 439 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:43,959 Speaker 1: was to stop me and be like, listen, this is awful, 440 00:23:44,359 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 1: this is I'm constructive. Don't put it over against what 441 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:55,639 Speaker 1: constructive is? You know what? I like, that's how you 442 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:58,960 Speaker 1: do it because you don't think that's true. You just 443 00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 1: bit me. Know. Is there anything you haven't tried that 444 00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 1: you want to? Um? Haven't tried? No, I think I've 445 00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:19,439 Speaker 1: pretty much tried everything, nailed it. I haven't done it. Yeah, well, 446 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:22,040 Speaker 1: what keeps it exciting after twenty one years? Um? I 447 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 1: would definitely. I was telling those guys intimacy being as 448 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:27,960 Speaker 1: to communicate um us wanting to feel appreciated and beautiful 449 00:24:28,000 --> 00:24:31,240 Speaker 1: all day long. It don't have to be outward sexual comments, 450 00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,879 Speaker 1: but you know, make the woman feel like she's you know, 451 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:37,200 Speaker 1: gorgeous and you want her. That's more. That's important to me. 452 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:39,840 Speaker 1: You know, I want to feel wanted and that desire 453 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 1: has to be there on both sides, and the sex 454 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:45,000 Speaker 1: will be good, the relationship will last, I feel, and 455 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:48,320 Speaker 1: everybody will feel satisfied. Where people run into problems is 456 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:52,520 Speaker 1: when there's somebody's lacking satisfication, you know, satisfication. Do you 457 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 1: guys ever watch Pouring Together? Definitely? We definitely watched that. Yeah, definitely, 458 00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:00,920 Speaker 1: and it's amazing. You know, we have tons of videos, 459 00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:05,600 Speaker 1: but there's also videos we have our own bind Where 460 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:15,520 Speaker 1: can we find those? Yeah? Definitely? So. But you have 461 00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:19,000 Speaker 1: sex differentely when you know you're filming it, um, when 462 00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:20,720 Speaker 1: we know we're framing it. Yeah, when you're feeling it 463 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:23,320 Speaker 1: like for each other? Do you have sex differently? Sex 464 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,080 Speaker 1: take together? I thought you said you have you know, 465 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:29,800 Speaker 1: we watch of other people. Okay, yeah, that's all. When 466 00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:31,320 Speaker 1: you said that, it was a joke. It was funny, 467 00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:34,320 Speaker 1: but I think I don't know if that would turn 468 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:36,760 Speaker 1: me on, Like you don't want a man dog. No, 469 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 1: I think in my mind, I'm a mind person, and 470 00:25:39,480 --> 00:25:40,840 Speaker 1: you know, I don't know if that's my sign or what. 471 00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:42,880 Speaker 1: But it's all about the mental for me. I think 472 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,640 Speaker 1: for your next anniversary, you guys should feel yourself having sex, 473 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 1: really think, oh my god, and then like he could 474 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,040 Speaker 1: have a little clip on his phone and you have 475 00:25:51,080 --> 00:25:52,680 Speaker 1: a little clip on your phone, and then when you're 476 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:55,399 Speaker 1: out together, then you can see. I think that be 477 00:25:55,480 --> 00:25:57,840 Speaker 1: had what we face time and stuff. But I don't 478 00:25:57,880 --> 00:26:01,720 Speaker 1: know about that. I'll try it, but he probably would 479 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 1: love that. I'm not gonna probably love that. See, I'm 480 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,800 Speaker 1: a mental person. I'm the type that you know they say, 481 00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:09,399 Speaker 1: if you really, really, really think hard enough, you can 482 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 1: almost have an orgasm thinking about it. Really Yeah, and 483 00:26:12,119 --> 00:26:14,000 Speaker 1: I get the chiels and all that because I'm so 484 00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:16,640 Speaker 1: into the mental part of it. I'm going to try 485 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:30,119 Speaker 1: that about him. YEA lady for you getting married, right, 486 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,679 Speaker 1: I'm sure obviously that you and your husband have had 487 00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 1: to talk about a lot of different things. Sure, the 488 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,240 Speaker 1: way he's a Donald Trump supporter, I'm not gonna Please 489 00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 1: don't kill me because the same No, he's looked well. 490 00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 1: I pulled a trick on him. Actually on election day, 491 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:51,399 Speaker 1: he didn't feel well and I said to me, no, honey, 492 00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:53,639 Speaker 1: I said, are you really gonna you know, you obviously 493 00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:56,120 Speaker 1: have a fever. I said, you know he's not gonna 494 00:26:56,160 --> 00:26:58,879 Speaker 1: win in New York anyway. You know, it's not like 495 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:00,640 Speaker 1: your votes going to count. And I said, well, don't 496 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:03,119 Speaker 1: you just sit this one out? And he goes, you're right, 497 00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 1: He's not, You're right, And so I was like, at 498 00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,480 Speaker 1: least I can say that you know, he didn't actually 499 00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 1: vote for him. I was like, I can't go to 500 00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:12,440 Speaker 1: bed with you if I know you've voted for the man. 501 00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:15,959 Speaker 1: He is awful. The funny thing is is that, um, 502 00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:19,840 Speaker 1: you know, working adult entertainment. UM, when I want to 503 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:22,879 Speaker 1: be in a relationship, I usually don't tell people right 504 00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:26,800 Speaker 1: away because it scares men off or men think you're 505 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:29,520 Speaker 1: gonna like, oh great, we're gonna have orgies and have 506 00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:31,960 Speaker 1: sex with you know, porn stars, and it's not the 507 00:27:32,040 --> 00:27:34,480 Speaker 1: case either. So UM, I just told him I was 508 00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:38,520 Speaker 1: a publicist, and I think after a month someone at 509 00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:42,360 Speaker 1: his job googled my name and went over to him 510 00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:46,000 Speaker 1: and said, oh my god, he's like this girl you're with, 511 00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:49,520 Speaker 1: he's like, she's like this and this, And he texted 512 00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 1: me and he it wasn't so much the porn. It 513 00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:54,240 Speaker 1: was I didn't tell about the books either, and he 514 00:27:54,400 --> 00:28:01,200 Speaker 1: texted me and he goes, are no, no. He texted 515 00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:03,200 Speaker 1: me and he said, um, so you wrote a book 516 00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:06,120 Speaker 1: about blow jobs. Very impressive and I said, oh my god. 517 00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:08,720 Speaker 1: And then he called me and goes, it's okay. He goes, 518 00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:11,360 Speaker 1: I'm so like impressed that you're such a self made 519 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:14,160 Speaker 1: woman and you're a businesswoman. And I know that doesn't 520 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:18,200 Speaker 1: mean right and exactly he said that too, and then 521 00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 1: I said, well life. He said that too, but um, 522 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 1: I said, well, I'm glad you. I said, this isn't 523 00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:26,440 Speaker 1: gonna be an issue, and he goes, well, it's not 524 00:28:26,600 --> 00:28:28,920 Speaker 1: like I read that you like, you know, volunteered for 525 00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:32,639 Speaker 1: the Obama campaign. And I stopped and I said what 526 00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:35,240 Speaker 1: does that mean. I just didn't even understand. And I 527 00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 1: said what do you mean by that? And he goes oh, 528 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:42,160 Speaker 1: and then he's like, yeah, I'm a Republican, like like 529 00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 1: like we had our wedding at the Women's National Republican 530 00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:49,600 Speaker 1: Club on fifth A Venue. It was beautiful, like the 531 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:52,840 Speaker 1: beautiful ballroom and everything is great, but it's like it's 532 00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:56,640 Speaker 1: like a family religion, Like they're like, you know, Abraham Lincoln, 533 00:28:56,840 --> 00:29:01,080 Speaker 1: like Republicans, Like it's it's there religion in this family. 534 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:03,760 Speaker 1: Do you guys are you a lot about that? Because oh, yes, 535 00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:10,600 Speaker 1: going on, I can imagine k Raley absolutely. I'm sure 536 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:14,560 Speaker 1: you've probably met because I know he loves horn stars. Yeah. 537 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 1: I had a couple of I had. I had a client, 538 00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:23,040 Speaker 1: you remember her, remember doctor Z. Yeah, she she had 539 00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:26,160 Speaker 1: a couple of dates with him when before after Marla, 540 00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:31,360 Speaker 1: but before Milannia, when he was single for a little 541 00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 1: window and um, you know she she told us how 542 00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:36,920 Speaker 1: like he goes, all he does talk about himself all day. 543 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,320 Speaker 1: You know, she goes, I didn't have sex with him 544 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 1: because he's so She's like, all he do was talk 545 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,800 Speaker 1: about himself. And all he did was say, like, you know, 546 00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:45,960 Speaker 1: once you sleep with me, you know I'm going to 547 00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:48,840 Speaker 1: ruin it for everyone else. You'll never want anyone but me, 548 00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:53,560 Speaker 1: you know. And he talked about his like last wife 549 00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 1: and you know she just just not a nice person 550 00:29:56,840 --> 00:30:03,200 Speaker 1: of dates. Who does that? Yeah, Okay, yeah, we don't 551 00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,320 Speaker 1: even call him president. That's so funny. We'd just be like, 552 00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:11,040 Speaker 1: I've never heard anyone outside the media state president, right, 553 00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:15,200 Speaker 1: because when Obama was like president Obama president, Like you're 554 00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 1: apparently like Donald Trump, like we know him for real, 555 00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 1: for real, like that Nike Donald Trump. Now, I know 556 00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,959 Speaker 1: people who are so scared of like online dating. They 557 00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:31,880 Speaker 1: feel like it makes him a loser. You know, I 558 00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:36,160 Speaker 1: don't want to sign up, and so just from your 559 00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:39,920 Speaker 1: own experience, oh speak on that. I totally felt that way. 560 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:43,240 Speaker 1: That's why I did Craigslist because um, my mom my 561 00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 1: sister is bothering me for years to do Match, and 562 00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,320 Speaker 1: I was like, I don't want my profile up for 563 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:55,600 Speaker 1: people to see and commercis Match. That's what I mean. 564 00:30:56,400 --> 00:31:00,480 Speaker 1: That's it actually seems like it's successful. I met my 565 00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:12,120 Speaker 1: husband on Match. That's ironically ironically, that's one. Yeah, but 566 00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:15,200 Speaker 1: you know, um yeah, when I was on Craiglist, like 567 00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:17,680 Speaker 1: I never even when I posted ads, like, I never 568 00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:23,200 Speaker 1: posted my photo. I didn't want people to know. Absolutely 569 00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:26,080 Speaker 1: you do, but I was. I was willing to risk it. 570 00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:29,240 Speaker 1: I didn't care. I didn't want people to know and um, 571 00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 1: very private about my you know, my personal life, and 572 00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:36,360 Speaker 1: I didn't want people knowing about it. So, you know, 573 00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:39,080 Speaker 1: that's why I didn't do Match. And finally, when I 574 00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:41,959 Speaker 1: just got bored, you know, after a while, especially when 575 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:45,280 Speaker 1: I started my own business. Um, it's it's just stopped 576 00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:48,560 Speaker 1: giving me the same charge. You know. It's like it 577 00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:50,920 Speaker 1: was like a drug that didn't work anymore, you know, 578 00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:54,200 Speaker 1: just I stopped getting a buzz, and my sisters like, 579 00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:56,920 Speaker 1: are gonna go and match finally? Like finally, and I 580 00:31:57,040 --> 00:31:59,360 Speaker 1: was like, okay, fine, I will. Probably has so many 581 00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:05,640 Speaker 1: people that, you know, yeah, I did. I did. Somebody 582 00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:09,000 Speaker 1: who used to date my old roommate in college actually 583 00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:12,280 Speaker 1: posted on my my photo like, hey, how are you 584 00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:16,040 Speaker 1: you know? How long was you on there before you 585 00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 1: found Mr? Right? One month? That's it, That's what I'm 586 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:28,160 Speaker 1: saying him to. He he was, he was on and 587 00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:29,800 Speaker 1: off on the No, it sounds like he was there. 588 00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:31,680 Speaker 1: He was there a while more than me. For sure. 589 00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:34,120 Speaker 1: He was there a while more than me. He was 590 00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:36,760 Speaker 1: dating several women when I met him. He just hadn't 591 00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:39,240 Speaker 1: found one that he really liked. So he kept his 592 00:32:39,360 --> 00:32:42,240 Speaker 1: profile up, you know, until he met someone that he 593 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:44,640 Speaker 1: really liked. And so I think he'd been there like 594 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 1: at least a year. I'm like, I just think I'm 595 00:32:47,400 --> 00:32:50,240 Speaker 1: so scared to like me, Like I met one person 596 00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:53,000 Speaker 1: off on Instagram before, but he was verified. I could 597 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:56,760 Speaker 1: google him. That's safe, you know, I mean, but to me, 598 00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:59,479 Speaker 1: I feel like even like guys that like if they 599 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:00,840 Speaker 1: try to tell out to me and it's like I 600 00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:03,720 Speaker 1: can't google them. I'm not saying that they have to 601 00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:05,960 Speaker 1: be like, oh, you gotta be famous or you, but 602 00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 1: I'm scared because I don't know you, like, yeah, where's 603 00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:12,160 Speaker 1: your friends? Who the fuck is who you related to? Like, 604 00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:15,360 Speaker 1: I just don't feel comfortable enough. So I think that's 605 00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:19,040 Speaker 1: kind of cool that you found your husband off of 606 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:23,040 Speaker 1: matches you were able to, Like, I wouldn't have a husband, 607 00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,480 Speaker 1: which I don't right now, and that's maybe because I 608 00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:27,880 Speaker 1: wouldn't take like a risk like that. I don't know. 609 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:30,560 Speaker 1: I was just like you though, I really was, like 610 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:33,800 Speaker 1: I thought that was the worst I really, I mean 611 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:37,280 Speaker 1: years I refused to do it, and meanwhile, I'm on Craigslist, like, 612 00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:41,120 Speaker 1: you know, having amazing sex life, but not having an 613 00:33:41,160 --> 00:33:45,080 Speaker 1: amazing relationship. Although I did actually end up living with 614 00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:47,040 Speaker 1: a guy I met off craiglist. I was going to 615 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:50,000 Speaker 1: say none of those guys ever wanted a relationship. Some 616 00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:52,080 Speaker 1: of them did, but it was you know, for me, 617 00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,240 Speaker 1: it was more about the sex anyway. You know, I 618 00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 1: had a really busy career and I wasn't lonely per se. 619 00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:00,000 Speaker 1: You know. It was when I got lonely all the sudden, 620 00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,240 Speaker 1: and that I was like, no, this isn't when I 621 00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:04,800 Speaker 1: got lonely. Is when it stopped working for me. You know, 622 00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:07,000 Speaker 1: when I wanted me to real person. But one guy, 623 00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:10,279 Speaker 1: um I did. We ended up moving and he moved 624 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:14,040 Speaker 1: in with me, like after two months and then it's 625 00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:18,920 Speaker 1: such a bad Yeah he did. He got a woman 626 00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:22,239 Speaker 1: in apartment one morning when one day, like at two 627 00:34:22,320 --> 00:34:25,000 Speaker 1: o'clock in the morning, he wakes me up on a 628 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,680 Speaker 1: Friday night, like we're sleeping and he's like, get up, 629 00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:31,120 Speaker 1: get up, and he takes me to living room. He 630 00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:32,920 Speaker 1: looks at me and he could start all of a sudden. 631 00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:34,879 Speaker 1: I don't know he he was a whack of dude, 632 00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:36,600 Speaker 1: and I didn't know, you know, I was living in 633 00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:39,640 Speaker 1: my head and he starts like ranting about all the things, 634 00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 1: started listing reasons why he doesn't want to stay in 635 00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:45,520 Speaker 1: this relationship. What was wrong with me? Just what was 636 00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:49,000 Speaker 1: wrong with me? While he's chained smoking with a nicotine 637 00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:52,719 Speaker 1: patch on his arm and pacing down, and then he 638 00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:55,319 Speaker 1: kept saying, like, what's this smell in the house too? 639 00:34:55,480 --> 00:34:59,000 Speaker 1: He's like something wrong is smells? Oh yeah, you know. 640 00:34:59,200 --> 00:35:01,759 Speaker 1: Like I I said to him, either you leave my 641 00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:04,480 Speaker 1: house right now or I'm going to It was a choice, 642 00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:10,400 Speaker 1: you know. Um, he wouldn't leave, so I left. He refused. No, 643 00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:13,759 Speaker 1: he refused to leave. So I left. And that was 644 00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:16,120 Speaker 1: your apartment. It was my apartment. It was three o'clock 645 00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:18,120 Speaker 1: in the four o'clock in the morning at this point. 646 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:20,719 Speaker 1: But I knew I wasn't gonna go sleep anyway, you know, 647 00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:23,680 Speaker 1: And I went to the city. It took a long walk, 648 00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:26,640 Speaker 1: and um, I came back, like you know, at eight, 649 00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:29,400 Speaker 1: and I said, you gotta get out of here now. 650 00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:32,480 Speaker 1: You know, I'll call the police, but you gotta go. 651 00:35:32,880 --> 00:35:35,600 Speaker 1: I would have came back with the police. Yeah, it 652 00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:37,800 Speaker 1: would have been an army with It was the toughest 653 00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:41,360 Speaker 1: part of being married. Um, the toughest part for me. 654 00:35:41,520 --> 00:35:45,120 Speaker 1: It's just the backlash I get from the public when 655 00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:47,560 Speaker 1: they started making up stories and playing games like that, 656 00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:50,160 Speaker 1: as far as just being married is the best thing 657 00:35:50,280 --> 00:35:53,240 Speaker 1: in the world. I mean, I've got my best friend, 658 00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:54,600 Speaker 1: I've got you know, if I want to go to 659 00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:57,120 Speaker 1: the movies, my husband, we're gonna go. He cooks. I 660 00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:00,360 Speaker 1: don't cook in twenty years. He's yeah, you know, but 661 00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:04,520 Speaker 1: what's the best meal he makes? You know, like his seafood. 662 00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:07,480 Speaker 1: But he can make everything, salmon to whatever. And he 663 00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:10,040 Speaker 1: was very healthy, takes good care of his body. I know. 664 00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:13,640 Speaker 1: He's a great dad to all my kids. He's just awesome. 665 00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:16,040 Speaker 1: So it's not We had did this topic the other 666 00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,080 Speaker 1: day about what's your favorite thing to eat after sex? 667 00:36:18,880 --> 00:36:20,840 Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you what the number one answer was. 668 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:23,839 Speaker 1: But after y'all tell me, I want to see if 669 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:25,480 Speaker 1: you guys get it. But what is your favorite thing 670 00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:28,960 Speaker 1: to eat after sex? I would have to probably say 671 00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:33,600 Speaker 1: raisins and almonds. And that wasn't the number one, Okay, 672 00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:43,360 Speaker 1: eating not drink because the first of all, sandwich was 673 00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 1: maybe some chips or something like that, candy, okay, and 674 00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:51,760 Speaker 1: you said sandwiches. The number one answer was pizza. Pizza. 675 00:36:52,920 --> 00:37:00,200 Speaker 1: That is going to get pizza, not going because trying 676 00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:03,360 Speaker 1: to get up and then we can eat pizza and 677 00:37:03,440 --> 00:37:06,439 Speaker 1: and do it again. And let me tell you something. 678 00:37:06,480 --> 00:37:09,239 Speaker 1: I do not eat foot in the bed ever. I 679 00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:12,799 Speaker 1: think that's disgusting. Right, So if we're gonna have sex 680 00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:14,600 Speaker 1: and then eat, we gotta go in the kitchen. The kitchen, 681 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,200 Speaker 1: the whole appropriate. I don't may that. I used to 682 00:37:19,280 --> 00:37:22,480 Speaker 1: go walk right to well when I lived with my ex. Like, 683 00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:25,800 Speaker 1: I'll walk right to the kitchen butt naked after sex 684 00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:33,520 Speaker 1: and give me some water or the water jackie? What? Like? 685 00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:36,120 Speaker 1: I know everybody knows you're married, but what do your 686 00:37:36,239 --> 00:37:40,719 Speaker 1: DM look like? Oh my gosh, I'm sure it's so 687 00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:43,440 Speaker 1: many penis pictures in the area. They actually are like 688 00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:47,400 Speaker 1: masturbating and stuff. And now you know I'm marry because 689 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,279 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't get mad at of myry. But 690 00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:52,360 Speaker 1: you give off a high sexual vibe. It is like 691 00:37:53,080 --> 00:37:58,480 Speaker 1: a very sexual like whips and chains and stripper poles 692 00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:03,480 Speaker 1: and the coole. The pole was there for so people 693 00:38:03,600 --> 00:38:06,000 Speaker 1: get that vibe from People get a sexual vibe from you. 694 00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:08,080 Speaker 1: Do you do like that S and M stuff? For real? 695 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:11,040 Speaker 1: I love everything, and I think that's really sexy. I 696 00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:13,520 Speaker 1: like the whole grabbing around the neck, all of that stuff. 697 00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:16,000 Speaker 1: It's just passion. What about getting tied up. You get 698 00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:18,160 Speaker 1: tied up. You know what. I haven't got tired, all right, 699 00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:22,919 Speaker 1: I got to do that, feel like Jackie, I haven't. 700 00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:25,919 Speaker 1: But I tie up people. I just haven't got people, 701 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:34,719 Speaker 1: she said. I tie up people tired. Need to tie 702 00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:38,520 Speaker 1: that assode? Are you with it? Though? You know what 703 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:42,160 Speaker 1: I would? But I'm a control freak, so I like 704 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:44,480 Speaker 1: to do. But that's why you need to give up something. Yeah, 705 00:38:44,719 --> 00:38:46,680 Speaker 1: maybe I will. That might be actually kind of good 706 00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:48,799 Speaker 1: for you. I think that is good for you. Next 707 00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:54,320 Speaker 1: on the checklist, you should get blind folded. A blind 708 00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:56,160 Speaker 1: phold is nice. Now. I like that one because then 709 00:38:56,160 --> 00:39:07,200 Speaker 1: you don't know what to expect, the anticipation switch. That 710 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:10,680 Speaker 1: lady as a highly sexual person, right, what's the craziest 711 00:39:10,719 --> 00:39:12,279 Speaker 1: thing that you've ever done that you look back and 712 00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:15,880 Speaker 1: you'd be like, I can't believe I did that. To 713 00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:21,000 Speaker 1: think back now, Um, I've had sex in public places 714 00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:25,200 Speaker 1: for sure, Like, uh, I've had sex like I went 715 00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,319 Speaker 1: down on a guy in the back room of a bar, 716 00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:30,960 Speaker 1: you know, thinking that no one was around trying. Yeah, 717 00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:36,560 Speaker 1: that is it's like, you know, um, you know there 718 00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:39,520 Speaker 1: was this, I mean, you know, the weird things I did. 719 00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:42,960 Speaker 1: I did because the partners I had were really into 720 00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:45,520 Speaker 1: these things and it was made them. So there was 721 00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:49,680 Speaker 1: this one guy that, um he you know, he huge, 722 00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:53,360 Speaker 1: huge dick, like too big, too big, almost look like 723 00:39:53,400 --> 00:39:58,440 Speaker 1: a literally look at a mountain, and what's his and 724 00:39:58,640 --> 00:40:01,600 Speaker 1: so handsome much the way, so handsome. So I met 725 00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:05,000 Speaker 1: him on Craig was so handsome, so nice, Like he 726 00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:07,360 Speaker 1: looked like a soap opera star. That's the kind of 727 00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:11,200 Speaker 1: handsome he was. But he always like we always finished 728 00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:14,680 Speaker 1: the same way, which was um, he always wanted to 729 00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:17,680 Speaker 1: finish with. I had a full length mirror and move 730 00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:20,759 Speaker 1: it that he'd put it in front while I was 731 00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,800 Speaker 1: sucking his balls and he was playing with my ass, 732 00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:26,439 Speaker 1: and he'd stare at himself in the mirror and that's 733 00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:31,400 Speaker 1: how he'd get off. He turned hisself on with some 734 00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:34,160 Speaker 1: with some help from yeah, but then he had to 735 00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:36,400 Speaker 1: see my ass like in the mirror too. It was 736 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,319 Speaker 1: a part of it. And it wasn't sucking his dick. 737 00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:41,960 Speaker 1: It was sucking his balls, not not his dick, his balls. 738 00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:46,200 Speaker 1: He was he was jacking off watching my ass and 739 00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:48,440 Speaker 1: then he'd like, you know, and he'd like stop and 740 00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:50,959 Speaker 1: finger me or whatever. But it was like the same 741 00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:54,920 Speaker 1: thing like right, So then of course you don't you know, 742 00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:57,440 Speaker 1: it's limited and stuff. You know, there was you know, 743 00:40:57,520 --> 00:41:00,279 Speaker 1: there were other guys that um, I definitely explore pay 744 00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:03,759 Speaker 1: you for that girl. I felt like I should have 745 00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:07,400 Speaker 1: gotten paid a lot of times, but like, why not? 746 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:14,359 Speaker 1: Just I you know what, you're not wrong, You're wrong. 747 00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:19,320 Speaker 1: You gotta be fucking for fun. You might, but you 748 00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,839 Speaker 1: know what that you can be picky choosy though, that's 749 00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:24,759 Speaker 1: the only thing. It's like, you can't you know, yeah, 750 00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:27,279 Speaker 1: I could have done that if I could have said, like, 751 00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:29,520 Speaker 1: you know, acted like it was gonna be you know 752 00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:32,240 Speaker 1: you not you you you, But when you're in escort, 753 00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:34,520 Speaker 1: you you know a lot of times you got to 754 00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:37,959 Speaker 1: do everybody. Yeah, yeah, the one wait, you can't turn 755 00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:41,240 Speaker 1: them down. You can, but you know, for some reason 756 00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:46,080 Speaker 1: it's not good for business. Like you know, let me 757 00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:50,840 Speaker 1: see a picture that's yeah, this is worth I definitely 758 00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:52,960 Speaker 1: I was calling to see if you had some open 759 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:57,600 Speaker 1: slots picture first. Let me see, right, do you have 760 00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:05,040 Speaker 1: any fetishes? Probably porn boobs? What's your point category? You 761 00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:10,320 Speaker 1: know what, I don't. I think the more forbidden it is, 762 00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:12,600 Speaker 1: it's more like going to the massage. Probably, so like, 763 00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:15,480 Speaker 1: if I go on poorn nub, I'll push masseuse. How 764 00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:19,560 Speaker 1: was you know? What's staying that? Yeah? The doctors do 765 00:42:21,600 --> 00:42:29,239 Speaker 1: very popular, very popular. Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, I'm like 766 00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:41,000 Speaker 1: getting naked too. Yeah yeah, I know this is about 767 00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:45,200 Speaker 1: to sound mad perverted, But so I got a wax 768 00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:47,239 Speaker 1: the other day and I felt like she was being 769 00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:51,719 Speaker 1: a little bit too touchy for She was robbing on 770 00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:55,560 Speaker 1: my clip and I'm like, yeah, she about you happy 771 00:42:56,560 --> 00:43:04,440 Speaker 1: very I was like, no, I was frozen. She was like, yes, 772 00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:07,080 Speaker 1: how about you? Why is she on that you have 773 00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,959 Speaker 1: any orgas? No? But I thought like she was gonna 774 00:43:10,080 --> 00:43:16,719 Speaker 1: keep going and to get wet. I don't know, No, 775 00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:18,960 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I really did think it was 776 00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:21,239 Speaker 1: a bit much. I was like, yo, you're supposed to 777 00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:23,959 Speaker 1: be on this bag on my clip. Yeah, my clip 778 00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:27,080 Speaker 1: doesn't grow here like that doesn't do that, so why 779 00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:29,359 Speaker 1: she but she like kept wiping. I was like, yeah, 780 00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,560 Speaker 1: I feel like she's trying to make me coming like 781 00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:37,160 Speaker 1: it's not okay. It was it was so it wasn't 782 00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:39,480 Speaker 1: my clip, but she was just like really caressing, like 783 00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:43,719 Speaker 1: when they wipe, thank you, really caressing and just like 784 00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:48,239 Speaker 1: and I was just laying there, not this side. You 785 00:43:49,640 --> 00:44:04,000 Speaker 1: like Comper were weird. First of all, the whole Brazilian 786 00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:07,200 Speaker 1: waxing is a little weird, so awkward. And you're like, 787 00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:13,759 Speaker 1: I made another appointment though that's name. I don't learn 788 00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:16,000 Speaker 1: the name because I'm like, yeah, if I learned their name, 789 00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:18,040 Speaker 1: this is even weird, and like, can I make sure 790 00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:23,880 Speaker 1: I have Christina appointment in one like Christina the regular? 791 00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:27,359 Speaker 1: But you know what I mean, Like it's just it's 792 00:44:27,440 --> 00:44:29,600 Speaker 1: weird to me. I don't know, it's too painful for 793 00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:33,160 Speaker 1: me to be thinking that's pleasurable because it was after 794 00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:36,839 Speaker 1: patient of them pulling off the wax hurts me more 795 00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:40,920 Speaker 1: than the actual wax doesn't hurt when after like the wax, 796 00:44:41,080 --> 00:44:43,040 Speaker 1: when she was just like cleaning everything off with like 797 00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:47,680 Speaker 1: the white bead. See she does it before me. I 798 00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:50,239 Speaker 1: see I have laser hair. It's almost like she was 799 00:44:50,320 --> 00:44:52,640 Speaker 1: rubbing the philip and it was more hair, yes, but 800 00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:56,000 Speaker 1: it was like resting and like really sensual with it. 801 00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:59,400 Speaker 1: And I was just like, that's exactly anything inside of 802 00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:07,239 Speaker 1: your vagiant a bit. What do you have done down there? 803 00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:10,040 Speaker 1: You know what, I've had the waxing done, but that's 804 00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:12,440 Speaker 1: about it. And and usually it's like a sixty year 805 00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:15,800 Speaker 1: old woman at the nail shop or something. I haven't 806 00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:18,040 Speaker 1: I haven't ran into that other one yet. Is it 807 00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:21,160 Speaker 1: so you get waxed every month? Yeah, keep it nice 808 00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:24,440 Speaker 1: and freshingly. Some people like the bush. I don't do that. 809 00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:27,080 Speaker 1: I have a bad reaction to wax, you know, always 810 00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:31,640 Speaker 1: had bumps afterwards and stuff. So yeah, so no shave, 811 00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:34,279 Speaker 1: and you'd be surprised how many girls, how many porn 812 00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:38,080 Speaker 1: star shave. They don't even wax, They just shave because 813 00:45:38,160 --> 00:45:41,560 Speaker 1: you have to also alternate, you know. Sometimes they want 814 00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:43,440 Speaker 1: you to grow it out, you know, so if you 815 00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:45,560 Speaker 1: wax and stuff, you can't. But the one thing with 816 00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:49,320 Speaker 1: my husband, like after our first time together, he I 817 00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:52,239 Speaker 1: used to be totally clean, you know, no hair at all, 818 00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:56,080 Speaker 1: and he said, can you do me a favor? He's like, 819 00:45:56,160 --> 00:46:00,040 Speaker 1: can you just grow something, just you know something, and 820 00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:02,239 Speaker 1: he goes, I just I don't know. I feel like 821 00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:05,440 Speaker 1: a pervert when I go down on you. And I said, wow, 822 00:46:05,440 --> 00:46:06,919 Speaker 1: I was just gonna ask you if you could trim 823 00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:10,080 Speaker 1: some hair like something, and he goes, no, absolutely, not 824 00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:15,160 Speaker 1: like he wouldn't trim. But yeah, is anybody in here bald? 825 00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:20,040 Speaker 1: I am me too what I'm today, but I'm bought today. 826 00:46:20,400 --> 00:46:23,919 Speaker 1: I have a strip. Yeah yeah, the little Atlantic ship. Yeah, 827 00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:28,279 Speaker 1: like I just don't understand, like what's on top of 828 00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:35,520 Speaker 1: down it's like a little flame. It's like a little 829 00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:40,680 Speaker 1: flame bowing time where they like you know what I'm 830 00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:43,520 Speaker 1: talking about in Atlanta, that one with all the temples. 831 00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:47,080 Speaker 1: So anyway, like you gotta walk around, they get all 832 00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:49,560 Speaker 1: the women in the locker room whatever where the baths 833 00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,440 Speaker 1: and stuff. I and um, I've seen this girl and 834 00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:54,960 Speaker 1: she had like a lightning bowl and I was just like, 835 00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:57,799 Speaker 1: he's probably a stripper. She definitely had a strip because 836 00:46:57,840 --> 00:47:03,520 Speaker 1: she also had ten earrings hanging from clip trip where 837 00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:06,759 Speaker 1: I had, I had a piercing above my clip and 838 00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:09,160 Speaker 1: I had a piercing in my tail. That's how she was. 839 00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:12,880 Speaker 1: I could see I couldn't do that when it was 840 00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:15,480 Speaker 1: like cling bling. So she was making sure everybody's seen 841 00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:19,719 Speaker 1: our piercings. And this was inside of the spot. Those 842 00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:23,840 Speaker 1: piercings hurt really bad. The top one didn't, but the 843 00:47:23,880 --> 00:47:26,240 Speaker 1: bottom one. I made a noise when he when he insers. 844 00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:30,680 Speaker 1: How long did it take the hill? I don't remember. 845 00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:34,360 Speaker 1: I wanted to get my nipple pears. I've heard serious 846 00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:36,320 Speaker 1: about people that have their clip peers and they have 847 00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:39,560 Speaker 1: orgasms all the time from it. Yeah, or when you're 848 00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:42,640 Speaker 1: getting oral it gets in the way. But that doesn't 849 00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:44,879 Speaker 1: give you like a yeast infection, you know, to stay 850 00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:49,160 Speaker 1: wet all day like that. You know, No, jury doesn't 851 00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:51,960 Speaker 1: do better. But my I had my nipple shackie is 852 00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:54,960 Speaker 1: like my first fair imperance. But then when I got 853 00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:57,000 Speaker 1: my second person I pluence, they were so awesome that 854 00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:58,640 Speaker 1: it would have been like putting a bumper sticker on 855 00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,719 Speaker 1: the bent least I didn't put it back in. What 856 00:48:03,360 --> 00:48:07,040 Speaker 1: have you ever? Yeah? Have you ever had anything done? No? No, 857 00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:12,440 Speaker 1: not just enaval pierce that's it, okay, just a naval piercing. 858 00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:18,000 Speaker 1: I've had no work, nothing done? You never? Yeah, classic surgery? Yeah. 859 00:48:18,080 --> 00:48:21,239 Speaker 1: I I just recently had a little something done like um, 860 00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:24,839 Speaker 1: it's called vaser like bol suction just around my mid 861 00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:26,880 Speaker 1: section like a mommy makeover. So I just had a 862 00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:30,600 Speaker 1: small one. How is that? Did you recommend it? Crazy? 863 00:48:30,840 --> 00:48:34,279 Speaker 1: I regret was yours? Um, you know what. I'm still 864 00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:37,200 Speaker 1: healing from it. It's been about three weeks and it's um. 865 00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:40,000 Speaker 1: I've actually been endorsing the company for a while. So 866 00:48:40,120 --> 00:48:41,920 Speaker 1: I finally went and did it, and that was the 867 00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:43,799 Speaker 1: first time ever in life, and I would I would 868 00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:46,640 Speaker 1: recommend it. Do you they put you out for this procedure, 869 00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:49,520 Speaker 1: definitely are asleep and this is the first place, so 870 00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:52,840 Speaker 1: you the first want to get this else where you 871 00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:55,560 Speaker 1: in pain? Yeah, you are for a few days, but 872 00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:59,400 Speaker 1: not bad like Thailand, all regular, so you didn't regret 873 00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:01,640 Speaker 1: it like that, I do this somebodyself. You know what, 874 00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:03,920 Speaker 1: for the first couple of days, you do ask yourself 875 00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:05,719 Speaker 1: like what have I done? Because you can't just get 876 00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:07,960 Speaker 1: up and go and start doing your normal stuff, but 877 00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:10,799 Speaker 1: other and it makes you lay down. And I'm a workaholic. 878 00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:12,360 Speaker 1: I'm one of those kind of people that got to 879 00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:14,440 Speaker 1: be busy. So that's the part that got me is 880 00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:17,359 Speaker 1: I'm in the bed, laying down, feet propped up, watching TV. 881 00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:21,280 Speaker 1: Yeah for about a week. Did you tell Doug ahead 882 00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:23,399 Speaker 1: of time that you were doing it? Ahead of time? 883 00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:26,200 Speaker 1: And yeah, he took me there, so he drove me there. 884 00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,000 Speaker 1: He was very supportive and then he came and got 885 00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:32,120 Speaker 1: me after and I hear I faint. You fainted. Wow, 886 00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:35,200 Speaker 1: you can probably say you want to go. Oh yeah, 887 00:49:36,200 --> 00:49:41,480 Speaker 1: jump off the support. I don't think, yes, you want 888 00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:43,840 Speaker 1: to go. You know those people that go to the 889 00:49:44,400 --> 00:49:46,560 Speaker 1: top of the buildings that the selfies like Doug would 890 00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:48,919 Speaker 1: probably like support you and like doing something. I ain't 891 00:49:48,960 --> 00:49:51,960 Speaker 1: doing it with you, but go ahead. And I know 892 00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:54,680 Speaker 1: what she's saying, because I was thinking to myself, any 893 00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:58,880 Speaker 1: to any extreme extreme you would want to go to. 894 00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:00,800 Speaker 1: I think that Doug would be right there like rooting 895 00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:02,880 Speaker 1: for you. That's just how I see you guys this relationships. 896 00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:04,919 Speaker 1: Did he ask you when can we have sex again? 897 00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:07,719 Speaker 1: He didn't. But you know, there was drains because you 898 00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:10,040 Speaker 1: have drains for about four or five days and they 899 00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:11,880 Speaker 1: are these little tubes. I didn't even know about that 900 00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:14,160 Speaker 1: in there. You know, it's just fluid and you have 901 00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:18,600 Speaker 1: the MTUM. He did all of that for me, for me, 902 00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:21,120 Speaker 1: checked on me every hour. All of that kind of 903 00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:23,839 Speaker 1: stuff just was amazing, and I was thinking, Wow, look 904 00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:26,480 Speaker 1: how blessed I really am? Right, because you know what 905 00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,320 Speaker 1: when y'all mentioned I was thinking of the Tamika Raymond 906 00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:32,640 Speaker 1: interview that I thought she said she didn't tell I 907 00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:34,920 Speaker 1: share and she just went and got it done and 908 00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:37,480 Speaker 1: then she almost died. So like when I look at 909 00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:39,680 Speaker 1: stuff like that. I'm like, uh, there goes a thing 910 00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:42,360 Speaker 1: I might have considered, like because when you think of 911 00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:45,040 Speaker 1: stuff like that, it's really scary. So like, you know, 912 00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:48,040 Speaker 1: you at no point where you like scared, like laying 913 00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:51,320 Speaker 1: in the bed the night before. I read that exact 914 00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:55,680 Speaker 1: story the video and was like, um, but then you know, 915 00:50:55,960 --> 00:50:59,440 Speaker 1: invaser is really not that hard invasive. It's not like 916 00:50:59,600 --> 00:51:02,839 Speaker 1: regular lposuction. It's a little tiny one and it goes 917 00:51:02,880 --> 00:51:04,759 Speaker 1: in and melts the fat and then you just suck 918 00:51:04,800 --> 00:51:09,080 Speaker 1: it out. So that's what he He's an expert and 919 00:51:12,040 --> 00:51:19,800 Speaker 1: baby going God, he's killing her. And his name is 920 00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:24,040 Speaker 1: Dr Freedlander. He's amazing young doctor at a Sacramento the 921 00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:26,680 Speaker 1: best studies, steal with the best. Been doing this a 922 00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:30,200 Speaker 1: long time. He does men. Women, you know he's awesome. 923 00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:31,719 Speaker 1: Are getting past he says, you're a lot more now. 924 00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:33,719 Speaker 1: Oh my god, did you see that the guy a 925 00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:37,879 Speaker 1: one on loving hip hop? He said, yeah, he said 926 00:51:37,920 --> 00:51:40,279 Speaker 1: he had light and want to ate a cheeseburger, which 927 00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:42,800 Speaker 1: I guess defeated the purpose. But the fact that he 928 00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:46,200 Speaker 1: even admitted that he had that he had life us action. 929 00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:49,520 Speaker 1: You're not as a man. Yeah, that's crazy to me. 930 00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:53,600 Speaker 1: Guys are wearing Spinks. They have their own line of spinks. Man. 931 00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:59,719 Speaker 1: I live in a very like Spanish area, and I 932 00:51:59,880 --> 00:52:03,000 Speaker 1: was on like the avenue, like the Spanish avenue, going 933 00:52:03,080 --> 00:52:05,800 Speaker 1: to the beauty supply, and I walked by the store 934 00:52:06,280 --> 00:52:08,680 Speaker 1: that sells like all the Colombian jeans and stuff, and 935 00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:13,000 Speaker 1: they had this whole display and it was like a 936 00:52:13,200 --> 00:52:19,520 Speaker 1: man like fah, like wow and everything. I was looking 937 00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:27,200 Speaker 1: at it like, yeah, you know what, I'm glad because like, 938 00:52:27,360 --> 00:52:31,360 Speaker 1: I'm so tired of seeing like trophy girlfriends and wives 939 00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:34,840 Speaker 1: with this like old fat monster of a man. It 940 00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:37,480 Speaker 1: makes me angry. It's like, come on, why do you 941 00:52:37,680 --> 00:52:39,719 Speaker 1: have all this money one instead of paying for her? 942 00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:42,279 Speaker 1: Why don't you get some ship done for yourself? You know, 943 00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:44,879 Speaker 1: why don't you? You don't care about the way you look, 944 00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:48,239 Speaker 1: but you expect beauty from other people, you know. So 945 00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:50,920 Speaker 1: I'm glad to hear that. I think it's good, right, 946 00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:54,480 Speaker 1: weren't even playing like guys really don't care about how 947 00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:56,719 Speaker 1: they look. It's like how much money they do care? 948 00:52:56,920 --> 00:53:00,600 Speaker 1: Trust me and believe guys care so much. Guys care, 949 00:53:00,719 --> 00:53:02,879 Speaker 1: like if they care about they care when they gain 950 00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:04,920 Speaker 1: a little bit of weight, they care about their hairline. 951 00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:10,120 Speaker 1: They care about there. I think that we don't care 952 00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:13,200 Speaker 1: as much, like women don't play so much importance on 953 00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:16,000 Speaker 1: how men look, but men definitely care how they look. 954 00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:18,120 Speaker 1: They care. That's why they go to the gym. I 955 00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:20,560 Speaker 1: mean some of them, not all of them, but that's 956 00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:22,920 Speaker 1: why they care about their bodies. They care about all 957 00:53:22,960 --> 00:53:27,080 Speaker 1: of those things. So, now, Jackie, percentage wise, how many 958 00:53:27,120 --> 00:53:29,560 Speaker 1: times would you say that to orgasm from sex um 959 00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:34,239 Speaker 1: in my life or just like in general, like regularly 960 00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:37,279 Speaker 1: regularly definitely, because it's that mental thing again, you know, 961 00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:40,160 Speaker 1: and if even if you're with a partner, you're with 962 00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:42,480 Speaker 1: someone and it's not the sex, isn't that good. If 963 00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:44,879 Speaker 1: you can take your mind there, you can make any 964 00:53:44,920 --> 00:53:48,120 Speaker 1: situation work for you. So you fantasize during sex, definitely, 965 00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:50,400 Speaker 1: Like what kind of things do you think about? Just everything? 966 00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:53,240 Speaker 1: Either him and me and just the intimacy we're sharing, 967 00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:55,520 Speaker 1: or it could be you know, me thinking about him 968 00:53:55,560 --> 00:53:57,560 Speaker 1: with another girl or something like that, even though that 969 00:53:57,600 --> 00:54:04,799 Speaker 1: wouldn't happen about or you know, sometimes you can think 970 00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:07,080 Speaker 1: about that, you know. But I definitely am open with 971 00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:08,839 Speaker 1: Doug and tell him about it and we can talk 972 00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:11,719 Speaker 1: about it and makes it more intense. Right, what what 973 00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:15,759 Speaker 1: would your ideal guy be to fantasize about. Oh, that's 974 00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:20,200 Speaker 1: a good one, probably be an Affleck really are you 975 00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:28,920 Speaker 1: saying now that lady from Saturday Night Live? Okay, so 976 00:54:29,400 --> 00:54:38,680 Speaker 1: you follow? What about you, Laney? Um, I definitely think 977 00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:41,359 Speaker 1: it's totally fine to think about having sex with other 978 00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:44,960 Speaker 1: people while you're having sex with your husband. Um, I 979 00:54:45,280 --> 00:54:48,719 Speaker 1: definitely do. And I think about, like you know, with 980 00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:51,959 Speaker 1: that article, like I've made spank bank memories. They're gonna 981 00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:54,799 Speaker 1: last through this marriage till we die. You know. I've 982 00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:58,200 Speaker 1: had all these experiences and I think it's totally fine 983 00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:02,120 Speaker 1: to to relive them, you know, while we're having sex. 984 00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:04,839 Speaker 1: And um, he certainly is very open, Like he'll tell 985 00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:07,680 Speaker 1: me if some you know, hot chick on the train 986 00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:10,399 Speaker 1: was talking to him or flirting with him, and he said, 987 00:55:10,440 --> 00:55:12,279 Speaker 1: I was just thinking, I can't wait to bring this 988 00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:14,960 Speaker 1: home to my wife, and I'm gonna take it out 989 00:55:15,040 --> 00:55:24,640 Speaker 1: on her. You know who knew that? Right? I did it. 990 00:55:25,080 --> 00:55:27,360 Speaker 1: That's right. That's what he always says. So you know, 991 00:55:27,520 --> 00:55:29,800 Speaker 1: it's it's totally I think we're both very open that 992 00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:32,840 Speaker 1: I want people. I want him to see that women 993 00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:35,440 Speaker 1: find him attractive. And I think a lot of men 994 00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:38,960 Speaker 1: start cheating when they don't feel women find them attractive anymore, 995 00:55:39,000 --> 00:55:41,480 Speaker 1: and they want to prove that. But Jackie has to 996 00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:45,520 Speaker 1: go because she has more things. Yeah, so I know 997 00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:48,000 Speaker 1: it's a little different than the average inter You love it. 998 00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:51,839 Speaker 1: You got to read the book. I definitely you guys. 999 00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:53,759 Speaker 1: I'm gonna seeing you. So okay, you guys address and 1000 00:55:53,800 --> 00:55:55,920 Speaker 1: I'll definitely see you. Have a book signing now right Yeah, 1001 00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:57,600 Speaker 1: I'm on my way to a book signing right now. 1002 00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:01,680 Speaker 1: That's really cool. All right, Dan, you appreciate you and 1003 00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:03,719 Speaker 1: we love you on the show because you're like my 1004 00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:09,040 Speaker 1: and I love your shoes and your shoes are gorgeous. 1005 00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:13,919 Speaker 1: Those are sexy than you. Guys. We're gonna finish with Laney. 1006 00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:20,040 Speaker 1: I'm going to talk about this dry rub. Thank you, Jackie. 1007 00:56:21,719 --> 00:56:23,640 Speaker 1: All right. Well, Jackie had to leave, but my girl, 1008 00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:27,120 Speaker 1: Laney Spires are still here. So many things have changed 1009 00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:29,879 Speaker 1: the last time you've been actually on lip service. Because 1010 00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:33,120 Speaker 1: if you were here talking about blow jobs last time, 1011 00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:35,680 Speaker 1: and we have some master blow job givers in here, 1012 00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:42,879 Speaker 1: I can see that blowjob me too. I've been called 1013 00:56:42,920 --> 00:56:46,600 Speaker 1: the goat the head masks, but how do you know that, 1014 00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:48,520 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? How do you know your 1015 00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:50,880 Speaker 1: How did you know? How did you know? Because I 1016 00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:55,920 Speaker 1: know how I knew their reaction. So like but you 1017 00:56:56,000 --> 00:57:03,680 Speaker 1: wake in, they can't let you go. But during the process, 1018 00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:07,560 Speaker 1: like but AIE's right. People think twice about breaking up 1019 00:57:07,600 --> 00:57:10,799 Speaker 1: with a woman who does that very well. I think 1020 00:57:10,800 --> 00:57:13,279 Speaker 1: twice about breaking up with a guy who's great too. 1021 00:57:13,960 --> 00:57:16,640 Speaker 1: I've never had read of anybody like I wanted to, 1022 00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:19,880 Speaker 1: like they've always tried to like come back around or something. 1023 00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:22,360 Speaker 1: But I knew because I was dating this one guy 1024 00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:25,880 Speaker 1: and he just loved head. And I feel like that's 1025 00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:28,640 Speaker 1: when I really learned how to give Like the best 1026 00:57:28,680 --> 00:57:30,800 Speaker 1: head is because I had to give it, not like 1027 00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:34,240 Speaker 1: had like he put a gun to my head, but like, yeah, 1028 00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:37,480 Speaker 1: that was his thing, you know what I mean. So 1029 00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:39,920 Speaker 1: it was like you learned how to get better if 1030 00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:42,760 Speaker 1: you want to please somebody. And I felt like after that, 1031 00:57:42,920 --> 00:57:48,160 Speaker 1: I just was a beast. Like unfortunately unfortunately, um, I 1032 00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:51,439 Speaker 1: was dating a very older guy when I was very young, 1033 00:57:51,880 --> 00:57:55,680 Speaker 1: and he had me like watching porn and like learning 1034 00:57:56,520 --> 00:57:59,919 Speaker 1: and he would like teach me. Also, you learned from porn. 1035 00:58:01,120 --> 00:58:03,600 Speaker 1: People had a lot of things from guy like we 1036 00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:05,080 Speaker 1: would watch porn and he would like, you see what 1037 00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:07,240 Speaker 1: she just didn't do that, and he would be like 1038 00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:10,800 Speaker 1: doing diamond says kind of. I learned from an older 1039 00:58:10,880 --> 00:58:14,600 Speaker 1: guy too. The first guy was with was like thirty 1040 00:58:14,720 --> 00:58:16,800 Speaker 1: one years old and I was a teenager and he 1041 00:58:17,120 --> 00:58:18,640 Speaker 1: taught me how to do every Yeah, I was like 1042 00:58:18,760 --> 00:58:26,320 Speaker 1: fifteen and he was like, lord it like a couple 1043 00:58:26,320 --> 00:58:29,120 Speaker 1: of years, but not like notes. You know what I 1044 00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:30,919 Speaker 1: was thinking about the other day. I was thinking about 1045 00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:32,840 Speaker 1: when I was in high school in tenth grade and 1046 00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:34,280 Speaker 1: I used to write to school with this girl and 1047 00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:36,280 Speaker 1: her older brother would always try to talk to me, 1048 00:58:36,360 --> 00:58:37,960 Speaker 1: and he was like a man with a job with 1049 00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:42,080 Speaker 1: a soup over. I don't know. I was in tenth grade, 1050 00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:45,560 Speaker 1: so I was fourteen, was grown right and with a 1051 00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:47,720 Speaker 1: job of a sup yeah, I mean I don't know 1052 00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:52,880 Speaker 1: how old. Yeah, he wasn't in school anymore and he 1053 00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:55,800 Speaker 1: would be going and he got me a Valentine's Day 1054 00:58:55,840 --> 00:58:58,840 Speaker 1: President was creepy. But I was like a little kid 1055 00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:02,280 Speaker 1: for real four that it was yucky. So when did 1056 00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:08,880 Speaker 1: you all finally have sucked there? Cute? But but now 1057 00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:11,280 Speaker 1: I just felt like that's such a weird thing. Like 1058 00:59:11,480 --> 00:59:15,240 Speaker 1: your little sisters. That's like that was kind of sick 1059 00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:17,800 Speaker 1: to me, you know, yeah, my situation was kind of 1060 00:59:17,880 --> 00:59:21,280 Speaker 1: like that. It was um, a guy that I was 1061 00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:25,920 Speaker 1: in the same grade with was dating my cousin and 1062 00:59:26,040 --> 00:59:28,200 Speaker 1: me and her people like it was like bestie's and 1063 00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:30,920 Speaker 1: it was his older brother and he would like to 1064 00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:32,760 Speaker 1: see me in the neighborhood and blah blah blah. And 1065 00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:35,520 Speaker 1: then eventually we just started seeing each other. But he 1066 00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:39,600 Speaker 1: taught me. He taught me first about because when I 1067 00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:42,160 Speaker 1: lost my reginally, I honest don't honestly don't think we 1068 00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:45,240 Speaker 1: did it correctly, but it was him who taught me 1069 00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:49,560 Speaker 1: everything about sex. And I just feel like it was 1070 00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:52,200 Speaker 1: so creepy back then, and you know, maybe he shouldn't 1071 00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:54,120 Speaker 1: have been teaching me the s but I honestly have 1072 00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:56,280 Speaker 1: to say that if it wasn't for him, I wouldn't 1073 00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:58,360 Speaker 1: be the woman I am to that because he kind 1074 00:59:58,400 --> 01:00:01,480 Speaker 1: of just like started it all. Don't be living with 1075 01:00:01,720 --> 01:00:06,320 Speaker 1: R Kelly. They have changed a lot, I don't think. 1076 01:00:06,360 --> 01:00:08,600 Speaker 1: I don't think even if older guys want to do 1077 01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:10,520 Speaker 1: that now, I don't think they do is the way 1078 01:00:10,560 --> 01:00:13,080 Speaker 1: they used to anymore. I think guys are too scared. 1079 01:00:13,200 --> 01:00:16,080 Speaker 1: You're going to jail. Yeah, all those shows on TV 1080 01:00:16,480 --> 01:00:22,600 Speaker 1: with the lemonade and the cookies, and I think guys 1081 01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:24,640 Speaker 1: are too scared. You know. You know you're good ahead 1082 01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:27,280 Speaker 1: if you do it to a guy that normally doesn't 1083 01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:31,440 Speaker 1: really like it. Yes, ye happened to me before. You 1084 01:00:31,520 --> 01:00:36,080 Speaker 1: Guys don't like a couple of guys' Yeah, some guys. 1085 01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:38,960 Speaker 1: Some guys can't they like it. But some guys can't 1086 01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:41,960 Speaker 1: have an orgasm. Yeah, they can't come from until. Yeah, 1087 01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:50,720 Speaker 1: it's true. You do feel so good about yourself when 1088 01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:53,840 Speaker 1: you really get someone that way. You know, you know 1089 01:00:54,040 --> 01:00:58,840 Speaker 1: the next day he doesn't want to come yeah, and 1090 01:00:59,000 --> 01:01:02,160 Speaker 1: he's like yeah, and you're like yeah, I know. But 1091 01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:06,000 Speaker 1: then you try to fun is it me? Why did 1092 01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:08,160 Speaker 1: I let him? I always feel like sex as a competition, 1093 01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:12,120 Speaker 1: it is. It's I hate when I when like if 1094 01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:14,240 Speaker 1: my boyfriend comes and I'm like, damn, we didn't even 1095 01:01:14,320 --> 01:01:19,000 Speaker 1: have sex and I got whack. That's what I'm saying. 1096 01:01:19,000 --> 01:01:21,320 Speaker 1: That's why you can't get him head today. But sometimes 1097 01:01:21,360 --> 01:01:23,200 Speaker 1: you kind of want to because it feels like when 1098 01:01:23,240 --> 01:01:25,400 Speaker 1: you know he doesn't want to, but it's like a 1099 01:01:25,640 --> 01:01:30,560 Speaker 1: feeling of like empowerment. It is empowerment just until you're 1100 01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:35,960 Speaker 1: laying a word to laying there with a wet pussy 1101 01:01:36,040 --> 01:01:38,919 Speaker 1: or nothing to do, right, he should eat your out. 1102 01:01:39,560 --> 01:01:41,880 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he's better if he ain't. He about to 1103 01:01:41,920 --> 01:01:47,960 Speaker 1: watch me? But let me turned into DJ on the 1104 01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:53,720 Speaker 1: ones and two. How many of you after sex have 1105 01:01:53,880 --> 01:02:00,360 Speaker 1: masturbated by yourself like I have? Many times? A lie, 1106 01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:03,160 Speaker 1: I really don't masturbate. It's the same you don't. I 1107 01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:05,840 Speaker 1: really don't masturbate, and I think it's because I'm lazy. 1108 01:02:07,360 --> 01:02:10,000 Speaker 1: I really do. Like I have so many toys at home, 1109 01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:12,240 Speaker 1: I don't really use them because it's like a lot 1110 01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:17,400 Speaker 1: of effort with the toys. I think y'all already know 1111 01:02:17,520 --> 01:02:21,200 Speaker 1: I don't with toys like I don't woman something we 1112 01:02:21,280 --> 01:02:23,520 Speaker 1: do have something like if they did give me I 1113 01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:26,560 Speaker 1: like the woman, I didn't use it. You should try it. 1114 01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:30,640 Speaker 1: I haven't. I just tried. It's too much effort with 1115 01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:34,400 Speaker 1: the toy I'm talking about, just like wandering down. But 1116 01:02:34,520 --> 01:02:36,439 Speaker 1: you know what I will do. I will watch porn. 1117 01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:39,080 Speaker 1: I can't just lay there and like masturbate. I have 1118 01:02:39,240 --> 01:02:41,360 Speaker 1: to like watch porn or something. But I'm always so 1119 01:02:41,480 --> 01:02:43,640 Speaker 1: tired by the time I get in my bed. I 1120 01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:46,240 Speaker 1: don't even like do anything. Does this happen to y'all? 1121 01:02:46,240 --> 01:02:49,440 Speaker 1: Because this happens to me, Like if I fucking masturbate 1122 01:02:49,560 --> 01:02:58,960 Speaker 1: the porn afterwards, if it's still on, I'm like, fucking yeah, 1123 01:03:00,040 --> 01:03:09,120 Speaker 1: But look ship important to you? Do you watch the 1124 01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:11,280 Speaker 1: same clip or do you have to like have a 1125 01:03:11,360 --> 01:03:14,160 Speaker 1: your favorite? Oh my god, One time I came across 1126 01:03:14,200 --> 01:03:16,200 Speaker 1: the same one, but I had liked it before, and 1127 01:03:16,280 --> 01:03:18,960 Speaker 1: I was like, I like new stuff, and I'm like, no, 1128 01:03:19,240 --> 01:03:23,960 Speaker 1: this one was so good. I got a couple of 1129 01:03:24,000 --> 01:03:25,840 Speaker 1: go to because ever, I just want to come real fast, 1130 01:03:25,880 --> 01:03:27,320 Speaker 1: I'll just go straight to that one, Like all right, 1131 01:03:27,320 --> 01:03:28,760 Speaker 1: I know I'm gonna like this, But you ever see 1132 01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:30,560 Speaker 1: a good one and that come to a whack one 1133 01:03:30,600 --> 01:03:34,960 Speaker 1: and you'd be mad feeling like this was not working. Next, 1134 01:03:35,040 --> 01:03:38,480 Speaker 1: this was not working. Next I came this black one. 1135 01:03:40,120 --> 01:03:43,760 Speaker 1: I didn't know. I'm still what a way? Do you 1136 01:03:43,800 --> 01:03:45,840 Speaker 1: try to prolong it or do you want to come quick? 1137 01:03:46,960 --> 01:03:50,520 Speaker 1: I try to prolong it unless you're in a rush. Yeah, 1138 01:03:51,080 --> 01:03:53,439 Speaker 1: you see, when I'm masturbating, I'm not in the rush, though, 1139 01:03:54,080 --> 01:03:59,880 Speaker 1: He'd be like, I got home later. I didn't want 1140 01:03:59,880 --> 01:04:02,080 Speaker 1: to At one feeling it just last as long as 1141 01:04:02,160 --> 01:04:04,800 Speaker 1: it can and then I let it go. Well. My 1142 01:04:04,960 --> 01:04:07,800 Speaker 1: last column, one of my last colums, I wrote about 1143 01:04:07,840 --> 01:04:10,640 Speaker 1: going through this phase where I masturbated a lot, like 1144 01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:14,120 Speaker 1: but not just at home, like at work, you know, 1145 01:04:14,320 --> 01:04:18,360 Speaker 1: on airplane, like everywhere. Like I was just like, not 1146 01:04:18,520 --> 01:04:22,880 Speaker 1: not here yet, yea. But I know I hadn't had 1147 01:04:22,920 --> 01:04:24,880 Speaker 1: serious sex I either. I just stopped to think for 1148 01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:26,800 Speaker 1: a minute, if I did it as a bathroom at 1149 01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:28,640 Speaker 1: serious X, I'm no, I haven't. I wouldn't know I 1150 01:04:28,640 --> 01:04:32,400 Speaker 1: would be too much. But I knew everyone's scheduled at Penthouse, 1151 01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:34,480 Speaker 1: so you know, I knew when the bathroom was going 1152 01:04:34,520 --> 01:04:36,920 Speaker 1: to be pretty empty and stuff, and I would usually 1153 01:04:37,000 --> 01:04:40,000 Speaker 1: go in and do that there, and you know, no 1154 01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:43,160 Speaker 1: toys or anything. You know, once you know how to 1155 01:04:43,480 --> 01:04:46,200 Speaker 1: please yourself, like it's you know, it's like during a 1156 01:04:46,240 --> 01:04:51,560 Speaker 1: commercial break, you're done, Yeah you're watching. I can't nobody 1157 01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:54,200 Speaker 1: let me like me. That's right. That's why I have. 1158 01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:56,800 Speaker 1: Relationships are great too, because you're a man knows how 1159 01:04:56,840 --> 01:04:59,320 Speaker 1: to make you come really quick, like pretty quick, like 1160 01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:01,200 Speaker 1: he knows it's gonna work. And you know that if 1161 01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:03,560 Speaker 1: you just let it happen. Sometimes you prolong it, but 1162 01:05:03,680 --> 01:05:06,040 Speaker 1: you know you could just let it happen. Everybody's happy. 1163 01:05:07,560 --> 01:05:10,880 Speaker 1: Well you are, and that's all that matters. Have you 1164 01:05:10,960 --> 01:05:13,720 Speaker 1: ever came and been like all right, I'm done. No, 1165 01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:18,320 Speaker 1: not me unless it's my unless I'm asturbating with a 1166 01:05:18,400 --> 01:05:21,880 Speaker 1: guy with a guy, No, really I have like just 1167 01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:26,520 Speaker 1: give me a minute. I just need are those intense asks, 1168 01:05:26,640 --> 01:05:31,480 Speaker 1: like your soul comes? You got to be like all right, 1169 01:05:31,480 --> 01:05:34,280 Speaker 1: wait now, I'd be like keep going. But if like 1170 01:05:34,440 --> 01:05:37,880 Speaker 1: I make myself masturbate, I can't come again like after that, 1171 01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:40,680 Speaker 1: but it's over. Yeah, if a man makes me come, 1172 01:05:40,920 --> 01:05:43,280 Speaker 1: it's kind of like had if he gives me had, 1173 01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:47,360 Speaker 1: like don't touch my clip. We could fuck like you 1174 01:05:47,440 --> 01:05:49,800 Speaker 1: could put your dicken, but like if you touch my 1175 01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:53,640 Speaker 1: clip again, like in that in those few minutes. That's 1176 01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:56,120 Speaker 1: how guys are when you actually have touched with him. 1177 01:05:56,120 --> 01:05:58,040 Speaker 1: After the time, you don't want to be touched. Look, 1178 01:05:58,400 --> 01:06:04,720 Speaker 1: yeah you have your Yeah, is definitely it is it 1179 01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:09,400 Speaker 1: is it is. It is so landy. Do you find 1180 01:06:09,440 --> 01:06:11,440 Speaker 1: that Mary sex is better than all the sex you've 1181 01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:15,520 Speaker 1: ever had? No, it is not. I mean it's great 1182 01:06:15,680 --> 01:06:18,280 Speaker 1: because I can't have sex anytime I want like that 1183 01:06:18,520 --> 01:06:20,720 Speaker 1: I like, you know, like that, I don't have to 1184 01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:23,960 Speaker 1: rely on it. I don't feel like turning you down 1185 01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:26,480 Speaker 1: like not today, babe, I don't feel like that. No, 1186 01:06:26,680 --> 01:06:29,160 Speaker 1: he I will say, like, and he's older than me too, 1187 01:06:29,480 --> 01:06:32,280 Speaker 1: and he's in his fifties, but he's up for it 1188 01:06:32,360 --> 01:06:34,760 Speaker 1: any time I want, Like any time I want. If 1189 01:06:34,800 --> 01:06:38,160 Speaker 1: I'm there, that's and that's what's great. Um. You know, 1190 01:06:38,240 --> 01:06:41,560 Speaker 1: I had to rethink things and rethink about my own 1191 01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:46,040 Speaker 1: sexuality because I got so used to equating um, newness 1192 01:06:46,200 --> 01:06:50,680 Speaker 1: and strangers and strange with with exciting sex life that 1193 01:06:50,960 --> 01:06:52,640 Speaker 1: you know, of course, once we got you know, in 1194 01:06:52,720 --> 01:06:55,160 Speaker 1: the first year, that's over with somebody, you know. So 1195 01:06:55,320 --> 01:06:58,680 Speaker 1: I had to start thinking of things differently. And I 1196 01:06:58,760 --> 01:07:01,440 Speaker 1: started getting into the fact that I could, you know what. 1197 01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:03,640 Speaker 1: I was lucky enough to found someone who's always up 1198 01:07:03,680 --> 01:07:05,680 Speaker 1: for it. So I got sort of more into like 1199 01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:08,920 Speaker 1: being almost like a femdom kind of thing where he's 1200 01:07:09,000 --> 01:07:12,400 Speaker 1: downstairs watching TV and I'll be like, come up here 1201 01:07:12,520 --> 01:07:15,120 Speaker 1: right now, like he knows that voice, and he gets 1202 01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:21,040 Speaker 1: he's like, yes, miss, it's a billionaires. Yeah, yes, billions, yes, 1203 01:07:21,160 --> 01:07:23,680 Speaker 1: yes I know the show yea and yeah, well not 1204 01:07:23,880 --> 01:07:28,040 Speaker 1: that bad, but that's but um, but it's gotten more 1205 01:07:28,160 --> 01:07:30,880 Speaker 1: like that. So I've we've definitely had hot sex. It's 1206 01:07:30,920 --> 01:07:34,480 Speaker 1: just different than than my single life sex. And there 1207 01:07:34,640 --> 01:07:37,280 Speaker 1: is one thing that you can like try new things 1208 01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:40,120 Speaker 1: with someone that you trust is opposed to. You know, 1209 01:07:40,320 --> 01:07:43,280 Speaker 1: if I wanted to, let's say, try to get choked 1210 01:07:43,320 --> 01:07:44,920 Speaker 1: out really hard, I don't know if you'd do it, 1211 01:07:44,960 --> 01:07:47,000 Speaker 1: but if I did, you know, I would trust him 1212 01:07:47,440 --> 01:07:55,240 Speaker 1: to do it and kill me. Yeah, you know, but 1213 01:07:55,400 --> 01:07:57,400 Speaker 1: you know he's you know, so there's some things that 1214 01:07:57,520 --> 01:07:59,800 Speaker 1: like he watches porn and that's you know, a lot 1215 01:08:00,040 --> 01:08:02,240 Speaker 1: he likes it. Um, but I know there are things 1216 01:08:02,280 --> 01:08:04,640 Speaker 1: that he watches on porn that I'll suggest, like you 1217 01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:07,600 Speaker 1: can do that to me, and he's like, I don't 1218 01:08:07,640 --> 01:08:11,960 Speaker 1: want to do that to you. He's like, you're my laney, listen, 1219 01:08:12,400 --> 01:08:14,360 Speaker 1: I want to do this. I'm a tramp guy, damn it. 1220 01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:17,400 Speaker 1: But then every but every so often he'll be like, 1221 01:08:17,880 --> 01:08:20,800 Speaker 1: he's like, honey, can I piss on your tits? You know? 1222 01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:23,360 Speaker 1: Then I'm like, yeah, Okay, we're back to normal again, 1223 01:08:23,600 --> 01:08:27,240 Speaker 1: you know, like we're not we're not too we're not 1224 01:08:27,439 --> 01:08:30,120 Speaker 1: too like you know, we're not too precious, you know, 1225 01:08:30,200 --> 01:08:35,120 Speaker 1: what I mean, I think that's really me neither I've 1226 01:08:35,280 --> 01:08:38,120 Speaker 1: actually been asked to pe on someone and then like 1227 01:08:38,240 --> 01:08:40,360 Speaker 1: he did in the shower. Yeah, but you know what, 1228 01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:42,400 Speaker 1: for me, I don't like to pey in front of people, 1229 01:08:42,479 --> 01:08:47,479 Speaker 1: so it is really hard for me. But it was 1230 01:08:47,640 --> 01:08:49,960 Speaker 1: not easy, like it took like he was like, come 1231 01:08:50,000 --> 01:08:52,280 Speaker 1: on the cherry up and pee and I'm like, wait, 1232 01:08:52,360 --> 01:08:55,000 Speaker 1: I'm trying, like I don't just don't look at me, 1233 01:08:55,200 --> 01:08:59,840 Speaker 1: but I shower and my my ex like he's definitely 1234 01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:02,040 Speaker 1: pete on me in the shower, but I wouldn't know, 1235 01:09:02,200 --> 01:09:05,040 Speaker 1: like I'll be here washing due and I'm like, I 1236 01:09:05,240 --> 01:09:13,280 Speaker 1: feel something a little extra vitamins discussed on me. Don't 1237 01:09:13,439 --> 01:09:15,880 Speaker 1: like that. But he's the only person that's ever done that, 1238 01:09:16,000 --> 01:09:18,240 Speaker 1: and you know, always been a shut up and it's 1239 01:09:18,280 --> 01:09:20,840 Speaker 1: always been in the shower, but I've never been like 1240 01:09:20,960 --> 01:09:22,720 Speaker 1: in the bed. And it's like, I think that if 1241 01:09:22,800 --> 01:09:24,439 Speaker 1: I had to choose to get people, and I would 1242 01:09:24,479 --> 01:09:27,360 Speaker 1: want to get in the shower because you really don't 1243 01:09:27,400 --> 01:09:33,720 Speaker 1: even like it's not even you, not nothing. You want 1244 01:09:33,760 --> 01:09:37,240 Speaker 1: to realize that in the shower still it's just down right, 1245 01:09:38,160 --> 01:09:41,559 Speaker 1: But like he's done it numerous times and I always 1246 01:09:41,600 --> 01:09:44,840 Speaker 1: annoyed me because he would just start laughing and I like, 1247 01:09:44,920 --> 01:09:52,160 Speaker 1: you're being on me exactly, you're smirking your territory here, 1248 01:09:52,240 --> 01:09:54,479 Speaker 1: but just to go around like, hey, I'm gonna be 1249 01:09:54,600 --> 01:09:57,920 Speaker 1: on you. I don't know, like even other weird not weird, 1250 01:09:58,040 --> 01:10:01,920 Speaker 1: but like freaky stuff. Like I've had him be like like, oh, 1251 01:10:02,160 --> 01:10:04,160 Speaker 1: what can we do that's different? I want you to 1252 01:10:04,240 --> 01:10:06,599 Speaker 1: be the first person I do this way and I'm 1253 01:10:06,640 --> 01:10:08,800 Speaker 1: just like, I can't think of anything like we've done. 1254 01:10:08,880 --> 01:10:11,720 Speaker 1: He's like he already knows what he wants, and he said, yes, 1255 01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:14,240 Speaker 1: I think that that's what it is. I'm like, you 1256 01:10:14,400 --> 01:10:16,680 Speaker 1: know what it is that you want? What is it like? 1257 01:10:17,240 --> 01:10:19,280 Speaker 1: But he would never tell me. He would just always 1258 01:10:19,280 --> 01:10:26,920 Speaker 1: be like figure it out, fingure it out. Finger Well, Laney, 1259 01:10:26,960 --> 01:10:32,240 Speaker 1: we appreciate you so much, and congratulations on everything forever. 1260 01:10:32,479 --> 01:10:35,639 Speaker 1: So yes, it has been. It has been. And Laney 1261 01:10:35,680 --> 01:10:37,120 Speaker 1: actually books a lot of our guess and I was 1262 01:10:37,120 --> 01:10:40,559 Speaker 1: about to say, yeah, we have Lany. I love how 1263 01:10:40,600 --> 01:10:45,240 Speaker 1: the magazine is like so cute. Yeah, Laney spies. Let 1264 01:10:45,280 --> 01:10:47,639 Speaker 1: anybody know where they can follow you. You can follow 1265 01:10:47,720 --> 01:10:50,519 Speaker 1: me on Twitter at miss Laney and my s s 1266 01:10:50,800 --> 01:10:54,040 Speaker 1: l A. I and I E. And you can check 1267 01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:56,840 Speaker 1: out my column and the magazine, which is really cool, 1268 01:10:56,960 --> 01:11:02,679 Speaker 1: Strip Las Vegas at w double dot strip lv dot com. 1269 01:11:02,960 --> 01:11:05,200 Speaker 1: And don't get her. Damn, she's a taken woman now 1270 01:11:06,400 --> 01:11:11,360 Speaker 1: unless you're on Craig Flip. Yeah. Hey, those days a 1271 01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:16,040 Speaker 1: long blood days, he said. Alright, left service