1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: Brought to you by the reinvented two thousand twelve Camray. 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 1: It's ready. Are you welcome to Stuff Mom Never Told You? 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 1: From how stup works dot com? Hello, and welcome to 4 00:00:17,480 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: the podcast. This is Kristen and I'm Molly. Molly. A 5 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:23,560 Speaker 1: few weeks ago, maybe a month ago. Now I'm lost, 6 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: total and complete track of time. What happens? I wrote 7 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 1: a blog post for stuff Mom Never Told you that 8 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:35,159 Speaker 1: our blog our blog at how stuff works dot com. 9 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 1: You may have heard us talk about before. I wrote 10 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: a blog post in response to an email that we 11 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:44,239 Speaker 1: got from a younger female listener asking about how you 12 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: can break your hymen. Specifically, she had heard that riding 13 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,199 Speaker 1: your bicycle could break your hymen, and she was a 14 00:00:50,200 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 1: little concerned about it. She had not had sexual intercourse before, 15 00:00:55,960 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: considered herself there for a virgin, and uh was was 16 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: wondering whether or not she might need to stop riding 17 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:06,039 Speaker 1: her bike so much in case she she breaks that 18 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:12,000 Speaker 1: highly controversial and unnecessarily so a piece of tissue. And 19 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 1: I believe what you row in your blog was that 20 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 1: you know what, a bicycle might might stretch out the hyman, 21 00:01:17,360 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 1: Other things might We talked about horseback riding. But what 22 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: we're here to talk about today, but we didn't know 23 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:24,200 Speaker 1: at the time, or we might have advised that younger listener, 24 00:01:24,880 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 1: is Hyman's just don't matter. There are just too many 25 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:30,479 Speaker 1: myths about Hyman's and we're going to bust them all. 26 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 1: And um, don't take that as a pun because you 27 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 1: can't even bust the hyman. The Yeah, the only thing 28 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 1: that you can break about Hyman's is the mythology surrounding it. Boom. 29 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:45,480 Speaker 1: So let's talk about what the hyman is and what 30 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 1: the Hyman isn't now. I feel like what anyone who 31 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 1: looks at the Internet trying to figure out if their 32 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 1: hyman is broken the way they asked the question assumes 33 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 1: that what they think the hyman is is something like 34 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:59,960 Speaker 1: aluminum foil over tupperware. You know how you put the 35 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 1: aluminum foil over tupperware really tight so that your food 36 00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: doesn't spoil. And the ideas that when you have sex 37 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 1: um something's gonna go up and just burst through that 38 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: aluminum foil. By something, we typically mean a penis or 39 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:17,160 Speaker 1: a finger, but anatomically that is not correct. No, it 40 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 1: is that doesn't have like a liminum foil unless you 41 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 1: cut your liminum foil into crazy little shapes that don't 42 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 1: even cover the whole area of your tupperware. Before you 43 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 1: put that on the medical name for the highmen, we 44 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: should also point out is the vaginal corona and corona 45 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: might also indicate why, like you said, Molly, that aluminum 46 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 1: foil idea is totally wrong because it is more like 47 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 1: a a ring of tissue located one or two centimeters 48 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:49,080 Speaker 1: just inside the vaginal opening. It's not deep inside of 49 00:02:49,080 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: the vagina, and it consists of thin folds of mucous 50 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: tissue which may be tight or it may be a 51 00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:59,360 Speaker 1: little looser, but it is not. It does not stretch 52 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:02,239 Speaker 1: all the way a asset. Because if that were the case, 53 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:06,239 Speaker 1: when a girl experiences her monarchy, it gave her first 54 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:10,600 Speaker 1: menstrual period. Uh, she'd have a problem because all of 55 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: that blood we get backed up. And no, sorry, listeners, 56 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:14,280 Speaker 1: I'm not trying to get gross. I'm just trying to 57 00:03:14,280 --> 00:03:18,679 Speaker 1: clarify the fact that UM, if someone has an intact 58 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 1: himan as we think of it, often, she would have 59 00:03:22,680 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: to go to the doctor um because she would she 60 00:03:27,440 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: would develop a condition called he mata culpos which is 61 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 1: when all that fluid gets backed up. Yeah, I mean, 62 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:34,519 Speaker 1: if you've had a period, there is a whole or 63 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 1: an opening somewhere in your vaginal corona. And some women 64 00:03:38,400 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: aren't even born with one, you know, it can, like 65 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 1: like most things that are related to vagina, everything is 66 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 1: different for different women. For some women, that mucus sea 67 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: skin is very thin, it wears a way very quickly. 68 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 1: Some women it's not even there. Some women it might 69 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 1: be really thick, and as Kristen said, that compose a 70 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 1: medical problem because nothing can exit the vagina and nothing 71 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 1: can get into the vagina. If you know, if that 72 00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:04,600 Speaker 1: area was completely intact, and since you know, we have 73 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: to menstruate at some point, there's an opening somewhere in 74 00:04:07,560 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 1: that tissue. And also worth pointing out, this notion of 75 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 1: breaking a hyman kind of makes you think that by 76 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 1: the same token, you can't put it back together. You know, 77 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:20,239 Speaker 1: it's kind of like Humpty dumpty falling off the wall. 78 00:04:20,640 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 1: But the hyman actually heals itself very quickly. If there 79 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 1: is kind of any sort of tearing that happens to 80 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 1: that tissue, it will heal itself. It will, so you 81 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:35,720 Speaker 1: could possibly have uh penis vaginal in coourse intercourse and 82 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 1: then still have your hymen grow back. So this idea 83 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: that you know when you first have sex the hyman 84 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: is going to be broken, it's not true. But I'm 85 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 1: sure that plenty of listeners out there saying, but hold 86 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:51,919 Speaker 1: on a second, what about the pain and bleeding typically 87 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 1: associated with a female's first intercourse. It has nothing to 88 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: do with the hymen. Really, Nope, if you are and 89 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: most people don't bleed when they first have intercourse. Um. 90 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 1: I think the statistics we saw when we were researching 91 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:07,839 Speaker 1: this Christmas more than half of women on their first 92 00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:10,159 Speaker 1: sexual and of course do not bleed. And if you 93 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:12,119 Speaker 1: do have a lot of pain, it might just be 94 00:05:12,120 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 1: because your tense about having sex for the first time. 95 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:18,200 Speaker 1: You may not be properly lubricated, so it's not because 96 00:05:18,560 --> 00:05:21,599 Speaker 1: the hyman is being broken. Guys also cannot tell if 97 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 1: they are in any way touching your hyman, and even 98 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:28,040 Speaker 1: if it is still there and someone intact, they can't tell, 99 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:31,359 Speaker 1: it may just move to the side. Basically, all sorts 100 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 1: of things can be affecting your hyman all through your life, 101 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 1: particularly around puberty because you've got the menstrual flood coming 102 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:41,040 Speaker 1: out but you've also just got hormones going around your 103 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: vagina like crazy, and they can also change the shape 104 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 1: of the hyman. So also if you hear about things 105 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:50,479 Speaker 1: like virginity tests, for instance, that happen in certain cultures 106 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:53,640 Speaker 1: where in order to ensure that a woman supposedly ensure 107 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 1: that a woman has never had intercourse, she will have 108 00:05:56,160 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 1: some kind of maybe a finger examination to see if 109 00:06:01,080 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 1: the hymen is still up there. Well, guess what folks said, 110 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: test is totally bunk because you can't you can't feel 111 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 1: around for it. It's not like you said, it's not 112 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:13,360 Speaker 1: like a piece of aluminium oil just hanging out. Well, 113 00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:15,279 Speaker 1: and even if you feel skin up there, I mean, 114 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 1: like we said, the skin is not completely intact. I mean, 115 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:20,279 Speaker 1: your hymen might look like a doughnut where it's just 116 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 1: kind of ringed around the vagina and there's a big 117 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:25,919 Speaker 1: hole in the middle. It might look like, um, you know, 118 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:29,040 Speaker 1: how like when they slime people on Nickelodeon Christ and 119 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 1: how like the slime goes everywhere and makes this big splotch. 120 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 1: I don't know where you're calling with this, but it 121 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 1: can look like that. I mean, there's no uniform ship. 122 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 1: It can look like a honeycomb where it just kind 123 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:39,479 Speaker 1: of criss crosses in their holes all over the place. 124 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:42,080 Speaker 1: So feeling up around there for skin is not going 125 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 1: to tell you anything, which is why it is such 126 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:47,160 Speaker 1: um a shame and an awful thing that so many 127 00:06:47,160 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: women in countries are subjected to these virginia tests, because 128 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 1: it's not going to tell you whether woman's a virgin. 129 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 1: And unfortunately a lot of women are looking into surgery 130 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: to have their hymen replaced, which is awful because, as 131 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 1: we've said, your hymen may not even been there to 132 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:06,479 Speaker 1: begin with. Yeah. Um, doctors actually refer to this process, 133 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:09,720 Speaker 1: which only involves adding a couple of stitches inserved on 134 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 1: each side of the vaginal corona, and doctors describe it 135 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:17,720 Speaker 1: as stitching butter because the tissue is so soft and 136 00:07:17,800 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 1: so elastic. Um, so hyman a plastic really doesn't do anything. Now, 137 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 1: I mean people think that and even some women in 138 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 1: the developed world will have this surgery and that you know, 139 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:29,800 Speaker 1: the doctors say that they view it as kind of 140 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: a gift to their husband, like a re virginizing. Yeah, 141 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 1: and we've linked for for for worse, I think instead 142 00:07:35,320 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 1: of for better, the hymen to virginia because as we've 143 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 1: been discussing now for a few minutes, Christen, it really 144 00:07:40,440 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: has nothing to do with it. So the idea that 145 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 1: women are paying thousands of dollars um for their husbands 146 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 1: to experience a virginized him and it just it makes 147 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:52,080 Speaker 1: no sense. And it's like we said, not everyone bleeds 148 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 1: when they first have sex, and having this hyman surgery 149 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 1: does not guarantee that these women who might be getting 150 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 1: it for religious reasons will bleed on their wedding nights. Yeah, 151 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: and also keep this in mind, folks, the degree of tightness, resilience, 152 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 1: springing us and strength of the vaginal walls does not 153 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 1: depend on the wear and tear of the vagina, but 154 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:18,120 Speaker 1: more on individual skin and muscle tone and your general health. 155 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 1: And if you are sexually aroused or not. You know 156 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 1: that that tightness that we think of, you know, we 157 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:29,200 Speaker 1: associate with that initial intercourse is like you said, Molly, 158 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:33,880 Speaker 1: oftentimes because someone is not fully aroused or nervous intense. Hence, 159 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:37,440 Speaker 1: so for all those I mean, you only have to 160 00:08:37,480 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 1: go on the internet for like a minute to see 161 00:08:39,200 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: how many people are worried that they have lost their 162 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 1: hymen to bicycling or horseback riding, or a tampon or 163 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 1: a pap smere and does that mean they're still a 164 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 1: virgin or not? And we all just need to let 165 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:53,079 Speaker 1: that go because, as we've said, the hyman changes if 166 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 1: the hyman was ever there to begin with, and the 167 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 1: only person you can decide if you're still a virgin 168 00:08:57,400 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 1: is you, And I think that we should have really 169 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 1: take exist is good news. Yeah. I mean if I 170 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 1: were to hear this when I was, you know, a 171 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 1: young young adolescent, I mean, what what a load off. 172 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 1: You don't have to worry about it, ladies, you don't 173 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:13,439 Speaker 1: have to worry about it. But we should worry about 174 00:09:13,600 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 1: the women who are being subjected to these virginia tests 175 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 1: because it's a test that you can never pass. I mean, 176 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:23,240 Speaker 1: you can never please that that person who for religious 177 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 1: reasons wants to see, you know, blood on the sheets 178 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 1: after your first fight night because what may not happen, 179 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:32,000 Speaker 1: And it's not because a woman's had sex before, it's 180 00:09:32,040 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 1: just because himan may be gone through no fault of 181 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 1: anyone's own. Well, I think that kind of ties it up. Yeah, 182 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 1: So I think we thoroughly, thoroughly broke through to the 183 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 1: Hyman mythology we did because it was never there to 184 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:49,960 Speaker 1: begin and uh to too. Final fun facts too about 185 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 1: the word hyman. It derives from the Greek four membrane 186 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:57,320 Speaker 1: and Himan was also the Greek god of marriage. So 187 00:09:57,400 --> 00:10:01,320 Speaker 1: for so long we have just been really agonizing over 188 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 1: this incredibly pointless piece of tissue. I know. Oh yeah, 189 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 1: no one and no one knows why it exists. It's 190 00:10:07,960 --> 00:10:11,160 Speaker 1: kind of like, you know, the the vaginal appendix. Yeah, 191 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 1: it might be a vestigial, it may eventually not develop 192 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 1: on a woman anymore. And I should say that I 193 00:10:15,920 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 1: stole vaginal appendix from our producer Jerry. Yeah I can't, 194 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 1: I can't. You should copyrighted in, but I don't want 195 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:25,320 Speaker 1: to get the smack down, So again, takeaway, let go 196 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 1: of your angst. Stop googling questions about your highmen, because 197 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:31,240 Speaker 1: it really just doesn't matter. It's there, it's not it's 198 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 1: no big deal. And on that note, some listener mail. 199 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 1: This one is from Anna and it's about the cat 200 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 1: calling podcast. She writes, it reminded me of an incident 201 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:44,840 Speaker 1: that happened to my friend Jenny and I last summer. 202 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 1: We were out biking when we passed a man who 203 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:49,160 Speaker 1: cat Hollis and said something to the effect of, hey, sugar, 204 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:52,200 Speaker 1: how's it going. Jenny replies genlling back, you don't know me, 205 00:10:52,280 --> 00:10:54,360 Speaker 1: don't call me sugar. It was the first time I 206 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:56,320 Speaker 1: ever saw a girl called back to a cat collar. 207 00:10:56,360 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 1: And the man immediately responded with, I'm sorry I missed. 208 00:10:58,960 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 1: I didn't mean anything by it. Have a good day. 209 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:03,240 Speaker 1: But it was pretty interesting how quickly the man turned 210 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:06,320 Speaker 1: from wearing at us to becoming very polite. And that's true. 211 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:08,439 Speaker 1: It seems most people when they respond, have a good 212 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 1: response back. I've got an email here from Martina, and 213 00:11:11,679 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 1: this is in response to our episode on how could 214 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: you not know you were pregnant? Surprise Pregnancies? So she writes, 215 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 1: before we had pregnancy tests, use chemistry and pea sticks 216 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:25,839 Speaker 1: and all of that, women just had to know they 217 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 1: were pregnant. Isn't it biologically built into our systems to 218 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 1: recognize this ourselves. I wonder if it's another casualty of 219 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:35,560 Speaker 1: modern life that women are so out of touch with 220 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 1: their bodies that we aren't even able to recognize the 221 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 1: most basic female biological state of pregnancy. 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