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Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back podcast, the production of iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Networks Talk Talk Talk.

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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion to talks.

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Speaker 3: What's up, y'all? Thank you for tending then for a

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Speaker 3: new episode of We Talk Back, a show dedicated to

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Speaker 3: you dreamers and chasers.

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Speaker 2: This show co host a j Holiday. What's up, damn y'all?

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Speaker 2: This is Insomnia Long. That's my name today in Somnia Long.

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Speaker 2: I'm not tam Bam because I'm motherfucking sleepy. I did

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Speaker 2: not sleep all night like, not a wink, not a

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Speaker 2: wink asleep.

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Speaker 3: Why you gotta baby?

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Speaker 2: This show is dedicated to you niggas at host today

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Speaker 2: because that's how I'm feeling. Why you ain't sleep? My

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Speaker 2: mind just would not shut off. I did everything that

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Speaker 2: puts me to sleep. I I masturbated like three times.

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Speaker 2: I closed my eyes and thought about Drake. I got

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Speaker 2: up and did like some exercise. I got up and read.

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Speaker 2: Nothing worked. Nothing worked. I stayed up all night and

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Speaker 2: before I knew it, so I started to doze off

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Speaker 2: like four and then I hear Bella crying, so I

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Speaker 2: get up to see what's wrong. She does shit up

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Speaker 2: her cage like I'm talking about disgusting shit, and her

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Speaker 2: paws are all dirty. So now I got to clean

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Speaker 2: her up, clean the cage out, clean the bathroom floor

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Speaker 2: because now the bathroom floor has poop on it, so

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Speaker 2: now I have to mop. So finally I get back

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Speaker 2: in the bed. I'm still laying there with my mind

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Speaker 2: on whatever. It just won't I think I masturbated again

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Speaker 2: after that. You just didn't want nothing, had shitty gloves. No,

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Speaker 2: I'm cleaned up by now. Obviously I didn't go back

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Speaker 2: to bed with shit anywhere, silly. And then six o'clock

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Speaker 2: she did it again. Six am, she did it again.

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Speaker 2: She pooped up again. So and then it was starting

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Speaker 2: to get ready for work.

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Speaker 3: Are you Are you drinking like energy drinks and stuff

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Speaker 3: like that? Are too much coffee during the day because

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Speaker 3: I'll do it to you.

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Speaker 2: No, So typically I just have one cup of mushroom

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Speaker 2: coffee in the morning. That's what I've been having all year,

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Speaker 2: and it hasn't done that to me.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know, girl, try meditation. I use this

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Speaker 3: app call sinc tuition. I think I've mentioned it here

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Speaker 3: on we talked back before. But y'all if y'all got

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Speaker 3: a problems sleeping and shit like that, or just trying

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Speaker 3: to get into meditation. That shit works like for real,

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Speaker 3: for real, but it might sound like somebody walking in

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Speaker 3: your house though it sounds.

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Speaker 2: I tried brown noise. I tried meditation on YouTube. I

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Speaker 2: tried everything. Last night, I just could not sleep. It

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Speaker 2: was my sleep. I ge, it's really bad. Ever since

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Speaker 2: I got back from La.

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Speaker 3: M I don't know, man, what aside from that? How

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Speaker 3: was your weekend? Cha?

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Speaker 2: My weekend was okay. I mess was flaring a little

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Speaker 2: bit this weekend. It was that's a conversation for another episode.

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Speaker 2: Saturday night, I saw one of my friends message me

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Speaker 2: and she was like, Hey, I have to take my client.

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Speaker 2: I'm trying to secure this client and his plus one

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Speaker 2: isn't coming. Would you like to come with us to

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Speaker 2: see Kat Williams. So I went with them to see

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Speaker 2: Kat Williams other weekend and he was fucking hilarious. He

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Speaker 2: was so good. Tory Hart, she did okay, she you

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Speaker 2: know that joke at the end that's supposed to be

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Speaker 2: that big ha ha. It bombed real bad. I mean

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Speaker 2: it did. She'll get better, yeah, as she go. But

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Speaker 2: she had some funny moments. I mean, all her comedy

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Speaker 2: was about him, but that's fair because all his comedy

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Speaker 2: I'm not mad at that. But it was a really

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Speaker 2: good show. If Kat Williams is coming your way, y'all

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Speaker 2: should go see him. He's really funny. And he did

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Speaker 2: not talk about nobody. I mean, he did talk about people,

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Speaker 2: but not the people that we thought he was gonna

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Speaker 2: talk about.

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Speaker 3: Did he talk about Kevin Hart, He didn't know.

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Speaker 2: He didn't talk about like any comedians, politicians, and sh

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Speaker 2: talked about the election. Y'all gotta go see it. I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna tell you, I don't want.

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Speaker 3: To always talk about politics, that's all asking.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, he definitely talked about politics. And he talked

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Speaker 2: about you know, being in this world and now's a

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Speaker 2: time where you literally could be anything you want to be, Like,

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Speaker 2: it's the best time to be alive. And then he

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Speaker 2: literally put a video of a kid. I didn't laugh

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Speaker 2: at this part. I want my soul wanted to, but

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Speaker 2: I just stared in the sky of a kid, a

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Speaker 2: blind kid playing football. He's like, y'all were living in

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Speaker 2: this poor baby was just running all over the field.

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Speaker 3: Looking ship for that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: This weekend was Saint Jude Hospital Annual Celebrate a Hope,

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Speaker 3: So I joined everybody down in Memphis, Tennessee, the most

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Speaker 3: filthiest city in America, Sorry Memphis. Well, I just want

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Speaker 3: to know where is the suburbs, where are the nice areas?

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Speaker 3: And of course I did not take none of them

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Speaker 3: towards this. Actually I did tour the campus, the actual

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Speaker 3: hospital campus, which is really nice. But it was a

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Speaker 3: good time. We got to try to find some type

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Speaker 3: of way to implement some of their initiatives in the

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Speaker 3: show possibly And you know, the sneaker ball that they

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Speaker 3: had last year was super clunked. This year, child they

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Speaker 3: had Dougie Fresh Tweet performed, Eric Benney performed. Oh it

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Speaker 3: was lit and.

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Speaker 2: It looked like a good time. It looked like a

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Speaker 2: good time.

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Speaker 3: They had like a little seventies party on Friday night.

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Speaker 3: But aside from all the fun stuff, the kids that

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Speaker 3: they had come speak. You know, I'm gonna tell y'all,

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Speaker 3: I was tired of crying.

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Speaker 2: You did.

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Speaker 3: Yes, this year they had like little boxes of Saint

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Speaker 3: Jude Hospital and Napkins on your table just because they

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Speaker 3: know they're gonna make your ass cry off fucking weekend.

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Speaker 3: But you know, the research that the hospital is doing,

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Speaker 3: it's a good thing. I have my reservations about some stuff,

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Speaker 3: but for the most part, cancer exists, and we need

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Speaker 3: people around the clock trying to figure out all these

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Speaker 3: different diseases. Man, so you can care kids at least.

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Speaker 3: You know, all these kids seem like they'd get hundred

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Speaker 3: years older. Like the way they talk, you would think

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Speaker 3: they're way older than they actually are. It's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Well, maybe their soul is older.

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Speaker 3: That's what I be thinking. I feel like that that

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Speaker 3: like they might be older spirits yep show.

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Speaker 2: You guys, it is the first day of Black History Month,

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Speaker 2: and you know every year we're going to do a

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Speaker 2: Baddie who talks back to celebrate our female Black history.

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Speaker 2: And I, you know, I was thinking about it, and

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Speaker 2: I was like, who should we start this year off with?

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Speaker 2: And who better than Coretta Scott King? Since everybody won

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Speaker 2: a Coretta, I need y'all to know some of the

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Speaker 2: things about her. You know why she was so special.

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Speaker 2: She wasn't just Martin Luther King's wife. She had accolades

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Speaker 2: and things that she did on her own. She took

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Speaker 2: an early stand on the Vietnam War just after doctor

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Speaker 2: King was killed, so weeks after he was killed, she

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Speaker 2: was doing his speech about in an unpopular opinion at

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Speaker 2: the time, so she was by herself saying that this

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Speaker 2: war is wrong and calling on Linda B. Johnson to

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Speaker 2: the speech only weeks after Martin Luther King had been murdered.

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Speaker 2: She also is the reason why there's an MLK Day altogether.

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Speaker 2: She started the King Center, and she called for nationwide

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Speaker 2: celebrations in support of Martin Luther King and states beginning

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Speaker 2: to pass their bills making King's birthday and national holiday.

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Speaker 2: And it took a year because John Conyers and Edwards

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Speaker 2: Brooks from Massachusetts Republicans, they're introduced to bill to honor him,

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Speaker 2: but it wasn't recognized until she started calling on all

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Speaker 2: the states to start recognizing her husband period. So that's

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Speaker 2: how we yes they did, Yes they did. She went

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Speaker 2: on to meet with Wynnie Mandela after Nelson Malandela was

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Speaker 2: meaningful moments of her life. And she took a stand

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Speaker 2: on people living with HIV and AIDS in the lgbt

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Speaker 2: one of the first advocates for LGBTQ and HIV and

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Speaker 2: a's survivors or people living with that. So she has

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Speaker 2: done many many things. Coretta Scott King, we salute you.

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Speaker 2: You are a battie who talks back.

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Speaker 3: Happy Black History Month. I guess.

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Speaker 2: You guess why?

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Speaker 3: You guess you know it's all It's year round for me, chill,

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Speaker 3: but you know this is our time February. Let me

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Speaker 3: drop this eminem before we get in the stupid internet

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Speaker 3: news messy uh messy memes. So uh this is from Twitter.

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Speaker 3: I found this tweet and this girl says a nigga

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Speaker 3: and a Nike suit and some Aaron Max's ain't never

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Speaker 3: asked me, what do you bring to the table. That's

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Speaker 3: a brunch boot nigga question. I agree, Yeah, them niggas

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Speaker 3: wild turn on necks and blazers on.

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Speaker 2: What kind of shoes your nigga had on that time?

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Speaker 3: Oh Chelsea boots? Yeah, that nigga ain't never asked me

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Speaker 3: what I bring to the table either, So there's that part.

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Speaker 3: Because most of the time he would have on an

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Speaker 3: Adidas track suit.

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Speaker 2: I like, I like like them Nike tech suits because

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Speaker 2: them dick prints be dick print.

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Speaker 3: Yes, came me give me some great sweatpants.

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Speaker 2: I loved about. Like, that's my gift for at Christmas time.

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Speaker 2: Let me get you a Nike tip bribe every time,

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Speaker 2: every time little Central hoodie and the Nike tick some sneakers,

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Speaker 2: the match child.

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Speaker 3: Let's get into the stupid ind ofnet news now, all right,

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Speaker 3: Nicki Minaj ruined the whole fucking weekend. She ruined it, okay,

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Speaker 3: So she okay, She's not okay, She's not okay, and

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Speaker 3: she is the hit dog that's been howling all fucking

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Speaker 3: weekend after Meg the Stallion dropped her single Hiss on

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Speaker 3: Friday at twelve midnight, and Megan Dadian also went on

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Speaker 3: a breakfast club you know, via a telephone call, and

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Speaker 3: she said, all hit dogs on Hauler. I'm not talking

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Speaker 3: about anybody in particular, but if he feel us about you,

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Speaker 3: bitch is about you. So she dropped the line in

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Speaker 3: the song saying these bitches ain't mad at Meghan, Ain't

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Speaker 3: mad at Meghan's law, That's all she said. So that

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Speaker 3: was enough for Nicki Minaj to go on a rant,

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Speaker 3: a seventy two hour rant. And then also on Sundays,

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Speaker 3: she dropped some Bigfoot disc that she already had in

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Speaker 3: a cut for Megan to stallion. So that also indicates that, bitch,

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Speaker 3: you did have a smoke with that girl. How you

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Speaker 3: already got a disc track ready? Because she was playing

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Speaker 3: the shit on the live she was on for seventy

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Speaker 3: two hours.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that shit was crazy, first of all Meghan's last.

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Speaker 2: So I had to go do some research on that

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Speaker 2: because the father of the child, a young child, ten

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Speaker 2: year old baby named Megha, had been murdered by her

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Speaker 2: neighbor who was a sex offender. And this is before

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Speaker 2: sex offenders were required and that's how the law became.

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Speaker 2: So he's offended by the song or you know, him

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Speaker 2: using her daughter. But I feel like, you know, it

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Speaker 2: brings more awareness to the law, you know, instead of

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Speaker 2: him being upset. You know, that's just bringing more you know,

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Speaker 2: So okay, I get it. The song was good. I

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Speaker 2: Why ain't so mad? Why is these ladies so mad?

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Speaker 3: Nicki Minaj is doing what I believe Little Kim did

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Speaker 3: a tweet from her suggesting that the family needs to

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Speaker 3: Why did y'all let them name that law after your child?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? They'll never win that one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's I don't even think they have a lawsuit.

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Speaker 2: So that's fine. It's the lyrics about her dead mom

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Speaker 3: That's just what it is like. They they you cool

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Speaker 2: Today Lan your mama Grave.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like just disgusting.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this I hope somebody beat the ass.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that girl is under a spiritual attack. Man, I

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Speaker 3: don't know what the hell. Who the hell Mega Stallion.

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Speaker 3: I'm pissed off on the other side of this thing.

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Speaker 3: But she has been having all types of issues since

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Speaker 2: She says, I ain't playing with y'all pussy, So why

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Speaker 3: People, Well, I don't like how they doing MEGANE. Stallion

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Speaker 3: And you know, for Nicki Minaj to be a woman,

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Speaker 3: I'm stole a magde Stallion on that Tory Lane shit. Okay,

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Speaker 3: no she didn't. He didn't put a bullet in her foot,

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Speaker 3: but it's proven that she had bullet fragments in her foot.

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Speaker 3: The whole thing is, why are you shooting at a woman,

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Speaker 3: based on your track, recketing your family, people can draw

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Speaker 3: you can get mad at a one little hitter, quit

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Speaker 3: a line, two words shit that mega stagion said, you

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Speaker 3: might need to do some reflection. You need do some reflecting.

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Speaker 3: Excuse me because.

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Speaker 2: I went, I went and looked up the what he

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Speaker 2: got in trouble for her husband, Nicki Minaj, And he

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he was fifteen and sixteen at the time. Like

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Speaker 3: knew kids, and he served his time. And I'm not

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Speaker 3: we all been young in school, should be happening. People

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Speaker 3: be doing stuff and people regret stuff sometimes. I'm not

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Speaker 3: saying that's what it was. It could very well be that,

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Speaker 3: because that's why he's suggested right over time, right, that's.

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Speaker 2: What I was looking at. I was like, damn, I

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Speaker 2: thought he just did something to thirty years ago. He

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he was a kid.

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Speaker 2: He's definitely being unfairly persecuted as like an adult child

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Speaker 2: molestor when he was just a kid himself. But this

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Speaker 2: the decisions that they make very young, can still dictate

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Speaker 2: how their life goes as an adult. So they have

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Speaker 2: to start making wise decisions right now, absolutely, because the

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Speaker 3: And so Nikki's defending her husband because this is a

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Speaker 3: thirty year old case, but your brother just got sentenced

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Speaker 3: within the last five years for getting a fourteen year

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Speaker 3: old pregnant. So regardless of what the head dog is hollering,

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Speaker 3: this to me earlier today. So her name is Gail

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Speaker 3: Louis Lewis. Yeah, so when I saw the pitch, I'm like,

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Speaker 3: Georgia her name was Gail's I had to like go

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Speaker 3: but no, that's not her anyway. So Gail has been

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Speaker 3: Everybody looking confused because they've now been separated for two years.

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Speaker 3: So this is still this girl's old man and there's

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Speaker 3: Gail and her husband are still going through a divorce.

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Speaker 3: So Gail went through story time on TikTok child and

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Speaker 3: is trying to get on Real Housewives of Atlanta and

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Speaker 3: this is why this is happening. I don't know how

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Speaker 3: So I don't know. Now TikTok done started diving into

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Speaker 3: this bitchus life and basically saying, bitch, you keep him,

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Speaker 3: which is why she even started dating a changing. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but she said the nigga was fat, and she ain't

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Speaker 3: because he breaking.

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Speaker 2: He took care of He took good care of her. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: took good care of her. Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you something. I would have I would

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Speaker 2: taking my young nigga on trips like yeah, to play

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Speaker 3: And you know, and pisses me off. Like I'm reading

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Speaker 3: women get cheap. This the random shit men like to say, right,

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Speaker 3: And this is why I'm always like, men leave the relationship.

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Speaker 3: Women just do the paperwork right, So men really feel like, oh,

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Speaker 3: He had been in a relationship with this younger woman

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Speaker 3: He was basically she just saw.

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Speaker 2: Her name start Alne.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I can imagine like living a hole up double

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Speaker 3: fucking life. That shit gotta be exhausting. This nigga got

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Speaker 3: to be a Scorpio because when I tell y'all, Scorpios

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Speaker 3: on two foulk flaged relationships like it ain't shit, bitch,

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Speaker 3: everybody piscey is too. I had a pison try to

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Speaker 3: put me in a thrupple, and that's the word.

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Speaker 2: A throuple.

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Speaker 3: Try to move me in all the type of shot like, nah, nigga,

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Speaker 3: if you in that type of time, you got to

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Speaker 3: pay for me to live someplace else. I am not

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Speaker 3: trying to be in the house with yo, bitch. I

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Speaker 3: don't like women, and even if I did, would make

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Speaker 2: Than she wanted a divorce, she was all hurt. I

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Speaker 2: would have definitely had me a new nigga, same flight,

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Speaker 2: the same flight you took to Paris. I would being

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Speaker 2: on the same flight on the same time, just a

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Speaker 2: different day with somebody else.

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Speaker 3: So the side check. Her name is Sabrina Hutton, so

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Speaker 3: you know she's still with this guy. And the video

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Speaker 3: that's going viral then at the airport again is because

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Speaker 3: they've been separated. So like, bitch, why are you running

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Speaker 2: I'm about to turn this into a chick.

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Speaker 3: Nigga exactly, even man exactly.

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Speaker 2: But that's a scary part though, like because you know,

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Speaker 2: when you're getting older as a woman and there's these

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Speaker 2: version of her mm hmm. So it's like he trade

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Speaker 2: you in for the newer bottle.

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Speaker 3: That's real cheating. When a man go get a woman

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Speaker 3: that resembles you, Like, that's really cheating. I need you

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Speaker 3: to go get a different looking bitch, Like you have

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Speaker 3: a type. I'm the prototype, right and you like cheating

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Speaker 3: with people who resemble me, Like that's in real life cheating.

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Speaker 2: It's like getting a car and you're driving to twenty

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Speaker 3: And you know it's so sad because women automatically start,

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Speaker 3: you know, questioning themselves and it's not and never have

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Speaker 3: it never has anything to do with a woman. This

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Speaker 3: is a choice this man is making to cheat, like

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Speaker 3: it was his choice, and he did it for a

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Speaker 3: very long time without you finding out about.

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Speaker 2: It, and he was still like, I love you, baby,

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Speaker 2: would have been like, I love you baby too. My

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00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:16,159
Speaker 2: flight laying at seven, so I'll see you when I

434
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,040
Speaker 2: get home. I hate you couldn't go on my truth

435
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:18,359
Speaker 2: with me.

436
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:22,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, man, I'm definitely a one upper.

437
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:26,360
Speaker 2: I'd be fucking some thirty five year old fitness trainer.

438
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:29,280
Speaker 3: Like that's why y'all get these niggas something to deal with.

439
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 3: It ain't no way I'm gonna beat the only one

440
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:35,919
Speaker 3: crying broken hearts was made for two, bitch. When you cry,

441
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:41,359
Speaker 3: I cried. We cried together. That's what Lomo said. You

442
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:43,840
Speaker 3: saw he's a nice looking man now, so obviously like

443
00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 3: she was taking good care of him. She was like,

444
00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 3: I earned everything I have. I was wiping his ass

445
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 3: when he was sick, like obviously he might have been

446
00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:52,920
Speaker 3: sick prit during COVID and shit, shit, when he got better,

447
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,080
Speaker 3: he went and took his bitch to Paris.

448
00:23:55,200 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 2: Right as soon as I get better, baby, were going away.

449
00:24:00,000 --> 00:24:06,480
Speaker 3: A laughing sorry Gil gil Lewis. Yeah, Twitter, let me

450
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:09,120
Speaker 3: this one last little piece, because remember we had episode

451
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 3: just recently about being a girl's girls, and if you

452
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:15,120
Speaker 3: are habitual sidebitch, you are not a girl's girl. So

453
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 3: Sabrina tweeted recently saying, we are black women with the

454
00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:23,640
Speaker 3: fists different shades of black. We build, We don't tear

455
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,679
Speaker 3: down other black women. We have felt the pain of

456
00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:29,120
Speaker 3: being torn down, and we have decided that we will

457
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 3: be deliberate about building each other. And then I can't

458
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:38,600
Speaker 3: even see what else fishes says anyway, that's a side bitch.

459
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 3: Tweet to tweet, I am that people don't even believe

460
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 3: what they.

461
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:48,520
Speaker 2: Say, right, and then fucking that girl man for years

462
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 2: and years and years. But can you be like for

463
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 2: you can't? I guess maybe she for all women and

464
00:24:54,320 --> 00:25:01,840
Speaker 2: stuff for that one right, for all black women except.

465
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 3: Gail Shan fuck bitch's name, Gail.

466
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 2: That's how she felt, y'all.

467
00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 3: Rent A Center is now renting out Jordan's shoes for

468
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:16,199
Speaker 3: nineteen dollars and ninety nine cents a week, with a

469
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 3: buy it now price tag of five hundred and twenty

470
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:21,640
Speaker 3: five dollars.

471
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:25,160
Speaker 2: How do you feel about that, Tim, Renais Center been

472
00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:30,200
Speaker 2: taking advantage of poor people for forty years. Goddamn it.

473
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:32,960
Speaker 2: That's It's so sad because there's a black mom or

474
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 2: a black dad who wants to give their kids what

475
00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 2: the other kids have, and the kids love the Jordan

476
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:41,919
Speaker 2: sneakers and they're gonna do it, and they're gonna get raped.

477
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 2: I mean, you don't never pay a right price for

478
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:47,160
Speaker 2: any of that shit at Rena Center, Right, you get

479
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:50,520
Speaker 2: a couch, your couch be sent seven thousand dollars for

480
00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 2: a little seat. After you finish painting it off.

481
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 3: So y'all know that when you do like renter Center,

482
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 3: like the buy now, paid later thing, that interest adds up.

483
00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 3: So you could do the buy now for these sneakers

484
00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:04,760
Speaker 3: for five hundred and twenty five dollars, but if you

485
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:08,920
Speaker 3: do the monthly payment of the weekly payment of nineteen

486
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:13,879
Speaker 3: ninety nine a week, you'll end up spending one thousand dollars,

487
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:17,400
Speaker 3: one thousand and fifty dollars for a pair of Jordan's.

488
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:24,840
Speaker 2: One thousand dollars. Yes, oh Lord, have mercy. And it's

489
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:26,560
Speaker 2: somebody gonna do it because they just want to give

490
00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 2: their baby some shoes.

491
00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 3: I don't think nobody buying, no motherfucking j is from

492
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 3: in a center. I don't even try.

493
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:33,880
Speaker 2: I promise you, I promise you somebody. Yeah, I don't

494
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:35,160
Speaker 2: even know if the Jordan's is real.

495
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, that Jordan probably got like a little bubble belly.

496
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:42,160
Speaker 2: On him doing the split in the air. Jordan didn't

497
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 2: do that, Like, who is that?

498
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:47,360
Speaker 3: Wilin?

499
00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:52,200
Speaker 2: Don't do that, guys, just give him some new balance.

500
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:55,680
Speaker 3: So shame all right, y'all listen, when we get back

501
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 3: from this break, I want to talk about something I

502
00:26:57,800 --> 00:27:01,159
Speaker 3: had a lot of good conversation this weekend, and I

503
00:27:01,280 --> 00:27:04,440
Speaker 3: realized there's two types of people in this world. There's

504
00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:09,640
Speaker 3: the blockers and the non blockers.

505
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:11,120
Speaker 2: And I'm a blocker extraordinail.

506
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 3: We'll be back after this break, all right, So we're back, y'all.

507
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 3: I want to talk about the psychology of blocking people.

508
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:29,240
Speaker 3: Y'all heard, Tammy says she was a blocking extraordinary. Our

509
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 3: producer Taylor makes fun sized tea. She says she's the

510
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 3: queen of so people brag about how many people they

511
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 3: block and how quick they block, and I feel like

512
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 3: it's a power trip personally. That's how I feel about blocking,

513
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:50,120
Speaker 3: people say. After some conversations this weekend, one girl says

514
00:27:50,119 --> 00:27:53,159
Speaker 3: she got her fucking mama blocked and she unblocked her

515
00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:57,679
Speaker 3: daddy before. So have you ever blocked your family members? Tammy?

516
00:27:57,720 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 3: In the midst of being a person who's blocking.

517
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 2: I've never. I've never blocked any of my bit.

518
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:13,040
Speaker 3: Came from bitch. That's how you feel when you're going

519
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 3: to block somebody's Typically.

520
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:19,320
Speaker 2: I'm in bitch bo when I'm blocking somebody like bitch

521
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:25,400
Speaker 2: that blocked bitch, so mother fucking heart pussa as home.

522
00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 3: But uh, I never.

523
00:28:28,359 --> 00:28:31,120
Speaker 2: Blocked any of my family members, no matter how mad

524
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 2: I've gotten at them or I never even blocked women.

525
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 2: It just be niggas that getting blocked. Honestly, I can't

526
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:41,480
Speaker 2: think of one woman I've ever blocked. I've just men

527
00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 2: get blocked in my On my side, I would block

528
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 2: a nigga, It'll be bubbles coming across the screen which

529
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 2: me and they typing block bitch, You'll never send that

530
00:28:51,320 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 2: message to me. Ho, So I blocked them like that,

531
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 2: But uh, that's it.

532
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:00,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've never blocked like. I would never block my

533
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:03,680
Speaker 3: family member because I mean, I would feel horrible if

534
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 3: something would happen and they couldn't reach out to me, right,

535
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:10,720
Speaker 3: So I would never block family niggas. I have definitely

536
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 3: definitely blocked men. My ex in particular, I had to

537
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 3: wait for that nigga to message me from his one

538
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 3: hundred and eighty thousand Instagram pages so that I can

539
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 3: block every single one of them. And so to this day,

540
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 3: I feel like somebody messaging me and I feel like

541
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:30,880
Speaker 3: it's him. My intuition says it's him fucking with me

542
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 3: still on the Internet. I don't know. I might be tripping.

543
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 3: I might just be shell shocked a little bit, but

544
00:29:36,400 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 3: some people are deserving of being blocked. I feel like,

545
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 3: if you're in a relationship though with somebody, and you

546
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 3: don't plan on breaking up with that person, I don't

547
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:54,080
Speaker 3: think it's okay to block. I feel like it's abusive

548
00:29:54,720 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 3: to block your significant other if you plan on unblocking him.

549
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 2: Yeah it is. It is abusive if you just blocking

550
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 2: them so they can't communicate with you, and then unblock

551
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 2: them when you're ready to communicate this file.

552
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:10,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's fucked up. So I feel like that's when

553
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:12,920
Speaker 3: it becomes like a power trip. You know what I'm saying.

554
00:30:13,560 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 2: I have, I have. I ain't gonna even front though.

555
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:19,040
Speaker 2: I have blocked the nigga and then unblocked them so

556
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 2: I can say, ain't another thing, motherfucker, and then I

557
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 2: see what I'm saying and then block them again.

558
00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 3: Now I've definitely blocked somebody in the midst of them responding.

559
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:32,640
Speaker 3: That's my favorite, Like especially random weirdos on the internet,

560
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 3: Like if they be don sense some whack shit, I'm

561
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,600
Speaker 3: a censorship back and you can see when they're responding

562
00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:40,959
Speaker 3: and you just hit block while they're responding. I like that.

563
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 2: I love that.

564
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:44,560
Speaker 3: I blocked strangers all day long, but people I love,

565
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 3: even if we're trying to work through some shit, I

566
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 3: don't really want to block you. I know sometimes women

567
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 3: like we want to see that he trying to get

568
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 3: in contact with us.

569
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 2: Right?

570
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 3: If I block you yet, the only way you're gonna

571
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:02,040
Speaker 3: get in contact with me is via cash app okay, hell, PayPal.

572
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 3: You can send your message in the subject title, right,

573
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 3: and I don't take no motherfucking dollars neither.

574
00:31:09,360 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 2: I unblocked the nigga after he came in bed for

575
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 2: me to unblock him. Come on and blocked men block me, man,

576
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,520
Speaker 2: I've taken them off the block list, but eventually they

577
00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 2: end up right back the fuck there.

578
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,000
Speaker 3: How would you feel if you unblock somebody only to

579
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 3: find out that they have you now blocked? What?

580
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 2: I'm confused because you blocked them because nobody blocks you. Right.

581
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:40,440
Speaker 3: That's where he confessed he'd never been blocked.

582
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 2: I've never been blocked.

583
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 3: You above block reproach.

584
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 2: You know, I have been blocked by one person that

585
00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 2: I know I'm not sure about. You know who else?

586
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:53,480
Speaker 2: It might be some other people, But guess what, I

587
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 2: didn't know because I ain't want to talk to your

588
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 2: motherfucking ass anyway, you know that part.

589
00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 3: Okay, I got one big matter of fact, I got

590
00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 3: one person that got me blocked, which is an ex

591
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 3: best friend of mine, which I don't know why you

592
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 3: got me blocked. I'm not even checking for your life.

593
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 3: I didn't realize she had me blocked. T maybe two

594
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 3: years after we stopped speaking, somebody sent me a link

595
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 3: to her page and without really explaining what it was,

596
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:19,479
Speaker 3: and I clicked on the link and I'm like, what

597
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 3: is this because I guess I'm blocked from whatever it

598
00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:23,840
Speaker 3: is that you sending me because I can't see the

599
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:27,960
Speaker 3: person's page. But apparently it was her fucking crusty ass girl. Hey,

600
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 3: and I was I have been blocked by men's girlfriends,

601
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 3: So do you have any guys that you're blocked? But

602
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 3: he isn't the one who actually did it. It's like, whoever,

603
00:32:42,280 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 3: the girlfriend is some random person. I had a white

604
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 3: lady block me about a nigga. One time I met

605
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 3: this nigga at the MTB National Tire and Battery. I

606
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 3: was getting all change and we just Instagram friends, like instantly,

607
00:32:57,240 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 3: like just chatting on Instagram every day for about a year.

608
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 3: And I had said something to him about having that

609
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 3: white girlfriend, when like all of a sudden, now he

610
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 3: got a girlfriend, right, and it's a white girl. His

611
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:11,360
Speaker 3: baby mama was a white girl too, so I knew

612
00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 3: he was in the white women. So I was just

613
00:33:13,680 --> 00:33:16,200
Speaker 3: fucking with him about now having another white girl. I'm like, damn,

614
00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:18,560
Speaker 3: you don left the other white girl. You had a baby,

615
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:20,240
Speaker 3: You had a baby with this white girl, and you

616
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:24,920
Speaker 3: left her for this older white lady. So apparently the

617
00:33:24,960 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 3: bitch sat of messages, the wife's sat of messages, and

618
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 3: I didn't realize who the fuck it, well, not wife,

619
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 3: but now a new girlfriend. I didn't realize who her

620
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 3: man was, but she messaged me from her page. I

621
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,200
Speaker 3: didn't realize who the fuck she was talking about. But

622
00:33:38,240 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 3: then I tried to go like message, I'm like, hey,

623
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 3: your bitch messaging me on Instagram and I was blocked.

624
00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:50,760
Speaker 3: So I've definitely gotten blocked from people from the woman.

625
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 2: Or she made that nigga blocking that part.

626
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 3: So then, yeah, I got blocked, but I wasn't trying

627
00:33:58,840 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 3: to get him or nothing like that.

628
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think. I can't think of a time

629
00:34:05,000 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 2: where I got blocked, except for all that one girl.

630
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:13,439
Speaker 2: We were friends for a long time, and we got

631
00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:17,000
Speaker 2: into it and I threatened her. I told you that story.

632
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 2: I ain't gonna tell the listeners.

633
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 3: Ain't hurting what happened. Just summarize it.

634
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:28,800
Speaker 2: Okay, So my friend, she was my friend, and how.

635
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:29,799
Speaker 3: Long your friend?

636
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 2: We started? We became friends in the first grade. We're

637
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:37,840
Speaker 2: adults by this time, right, She's living in Atlanta. I

638
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:40,440
Speaker 2: came to spend the weekend because I was moving to Atlanta,

639
00:34:40,560 --> 00:34:43,720
Speaker 2: and I was like going on like interviews for jobs.

640
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:45,960
Speaker 2: And before I came, she was letting me know that

641
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,440
Speaker 2: her money was fucked up, so she wasn't gonna be

642
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 2: able to do anything. And at that time, I was

643
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 2: dealing with somebody who had a lot of money, so

644
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 2: I was like, my money, your money, no worries, We're

645
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 2: gonna do all the things. Bought her clothes, got her

646
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:03,080
Speaker 2: some bone, did her hair like, bought us food, like

647
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,319
Speaker 2: I really, you know, I'm showing love. I'm staying at

648
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:09,759
Speaker 2: her house. It's all good. We're friends. She had some

649
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,920
Speaker 2: dude coming over to she had money for weed, so

650
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:14,800
Speaker 2: she had bought her some weed. And I'm not smoking

651
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 2: because I'm obviously trying to get employed. So I'm not partaking.

652
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:21,440
Speaker 2: And she comes in the room and asks me, can

653
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:25,160
Speaker 2: I buy her some cigars? And this dude was on

654
00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 2: the way to come smoke with her, and I was like, well,

655
00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 2: wy don't you ask old Buddy to get it? He

656
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:31,160
Speaker 2: on the way here. She's like, I don't want to

657
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 2: ask him for that, but you want to ask me?

658
00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 2: You want to ask me all this shit. I just

659
00:35:37,040 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 2: spent a lot on you at this point, so old

660
00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 2: Buddy comes over and I go out in the kitchen

661
00:35:44,000 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 2: and she says, so, I'm like, damn, I ain't got

662
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:47,200
Speaker 2: no guards. I was like, oh, can you stop and

663
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 2: grab some could you go run and grab some guards?

664
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:52,360
Speaker 2: And she was he was like yeah and left. And

665
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 2: then she got so mad at me that I did that.

666
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 2: She was like, I told you I didn't want to

667
00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:58,319
Speaker 2: ask him for nothing. I was like, you didn't ask him.

668
00:35:58,360 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 3: I did.

669
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 2: I I accident for you, bitch. So then they smoked,

670
00:36:07,080 --> 00:36:09,920
Speaker 2: they did whatever they did. I was like in another room,

671
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 2: and then it was like eleven o'clock at night. She

672
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 2: comes to the room and it's like, I'm about to leave,

673
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:19,839
Speaker 2: so what you about to do? Like, basically, I gotta

674
00:36:19,880 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 2: get out of her house. Yo, and it was poor

675
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:28,920
Speaker 2: and rain and I lived three hours away, so like

676
00:36:28,960 --> 00:36:31,040
Speaker 2: we got into a screaming match. I left her house

677
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 2: or whatever. But I told her all the money that

678
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:36,120
Speaker 2: I spent on her this weekend, I'm gonna need it

679
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:37,880
Speaker 2: back in full. I was gonna be her ass.

680
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 3: And she blocked you.

681
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:45,280
Speaker 2: She sent me a cashier's check for like six hundred

682
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:48,239
Speaker 2: dollars or something like that, and then it bought me.

683
00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:55,800
Speaker 3: That's fair, bitch ruing me my money first though, Yeah,

684
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:59,640
Speaker 3: that's a fair I guess it's a fair blocking. But girl,

685
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:01,759
Speaker 3: she's be embarrassed, Like how you letting this man have

686
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 3: access to your pussy? You can't get a ninety nine

687
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:05,959
Speaker 3: cent pack of blunts from him?

688
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:08,200
Speaker 2: Right? And then why you used applying.

689
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,279
Speaker 3: The weed and coochie and probably the condoms too, or

690
00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 3: maybe you're letting the nigga fuck you wrought it? You

691
00:37:12,200 --> 00:37:14,800
Speaker 3: can't ask for a pack of blunts.

692
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:17,279
Speaker 2: And I fed you. I'm the one who fed you

693
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,359
Speaker 2: that night. I'm the one who, like I did all

694
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:20,759
Speaker 2: these things, and you're gonna put me out in the

695
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:23,760
Speaker 2: rain because I asked a nigga for a cigar for you.

696
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:28,479
Speaker 2: I ain't even smile with y'all, you know, like, bruh girl,

697
00:37:28,520 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 2: fuck you. Yeah, it's still fuck you to this day too.

698
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:35,480
Speaker 3: Like that's how I feel about anybody who used to

699
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 3: be friends with It's fucking fuck y'all people, man, just

700
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:42,360
Speaker 3: goddamn wardos. Get my homegirl who got one my eggshone?

701
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 3: Girl who got me blocked? It's just so weird, like

702
00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:48,240
Speaker 3: nobody's checking for your life, ma'am. Mind you my page

703
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:50,799
Speaker 3: is open because I don't got nothing to high, like

704
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:54,359
Speaker 3: I want you to see me. There's that part and

705
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:57,719
Speaker 3: I and knowing her mentally, like her mental I know

706
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:01,960
Speaker 3: she's looking. I'm not going to block you. You got

707
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 3: me blocked all while you probably lurking on my shit

708
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:09,400
Speaker 3: right anyway, there has to be like some type of

709
00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 3: psychology behind blockers. I actually found an article on psych

710
00:38:13,640 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 3: mechanics dot com. It's the psychology of blocking and unblocking.

711
00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:21,120
Speaker 3: It says human are a social species. Among the most

712
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 3: profound human needs are the need to belong and feel included.

713
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 3: This is like blocking people on social media. I feel

714
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:31,799
Speaker 3: like strangers should get blocked if you harassing me, Like

715
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:35,640
Speaker 3: that's the only repercussion we kind of got. It's just

716
00:38:35,680 --> 00:38:37,759
Speaker 3: the block your ass cush you out and block you.

717
00:38:38,520 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 3: It says, blocking someone on your phone is a modern

718
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:44,560
Speaker 3: form of social exclusion. It's a way of communicating to

719
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:46,840
Speaker 3: the block person, I don't want you in my life.

720
00:38:47,239 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 3: I don't want anything to do with you. Getting blocked

721
00:38:49,560 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 3: by someone you care about can be very hurtful and humiliating.

722
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:58,279
Speaker 3: It can make the one depressed. It can make the

723
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:01,240
Speaker 3: one maybe it meant someone. It can make someone feel

724
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:06,800
Speaker 3: depressed and lose their self worth. Social exclusion is painful.

725
00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:10,280
Speaker 3: Why would you want to block someone? The answer is simple,

726
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 3: they're causing you pain. So in a relationship, if you're

727
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:18,040
Speaker 3: not planning on leaving that person immediately, is not okay

728
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 3: to just be blocking and unblocking them. You know what

729
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 3: I'm saying, Because if you block me, I'm not talking

730
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 3: to you no more. I'm not waiting for you to

731
00:39:26,160 --> 00:39:29,520
Speaker 3: unblock me so I can finish where we left off.

732
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 3: You're not going to be able to reach me no more.

733
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:35,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's fuck you, and that's what I would expect.

734
00:39:35,920 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 2: If I block you, it should be fucked me after that,

735
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:43,879
Speaker 2: go go away, get period.

736
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:47,480
Speaker 3: So they're inflicting harm on you, so you want them

737
00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:51,800
Speaker 3: out of your life. It's perfectly valid self protective measure measure.

738
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 3: Everyone should be able to choose the people they want

739
00:39:54,640 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 3: in their lives. But again, like I said, it becomes

740
00:39:57,520 --> 00:40:03,760
Speaker 3: abusive when you blocking and then unblocking people blocking. Yeah,

741
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:07,239
Speaker 3: all people in your life can be categorized into two categories,

742
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 3: blocked and unblocked. People you've blocked, you've blocked for a reason.

743
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:19,480
Speaker 3: They've caused you inconvenience and pain. The people you've not blocked,

744
00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:21,880
Speaker 3: you've chosen to keep me alive. They add value to

745
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:24,840
Speaker 3: your life. Like many things of life, things are always

746
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:29,359
Speaker 3: black and white. There's gray areas. So somebody blocking you

747
00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 3: just to because they think that they are more special

748
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:38,360
Speaker 3: for some reason, weirdo weirdo behaviors. I guess that's the

749
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:43,799
Speaker 3: gray area. Possibly, when you're unsure whether or not to

750
00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:45,880
Speaker 3: keep a person in your life, you may keep blocking

751
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 3: and unblocking them. Your confused actions are reflection of your

752
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 3: confused mind. Now, a variety of situations can lead to

753
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:56,080
Speaker 3: this type of indecision. Let's go over some of them.

754
00:40:56,360 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 3: Blocking an unblocking an acquaintance slash friend. You know, someone

755
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:03,719
Speaker 3: you've added to your contact list, you've talked to a

756
00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:07,360
Speaker 3: couple or maybe a few times maybe your friends, but

757
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 3: not that close. But you're still unsure whether or not

758
00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:13,799
Speaker 3: to deepen your relationship with this person. The situation may

759
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:17,239
Speaker 3: lead to you, excuse me, the situation may lead you

760
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:19,440
Speaker 3: to block and unblock them. So recently, I had a

761
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:23,560
Speaker 3: conversation with my homegirl on Sunday because she said, this guy,

762
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:26,359
Speaker 3: she she's known him, right, but they just recently ran

763
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 3: into each other again. And she said she blocked him

764
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 3: because she hasn't been on a date with this guy yet,

765
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:35,279
Speaker 3: even when she knew him from before. Like you know

766
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 3: how somebody tried to holler at you, y'all chat it

767
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 3: up a little bit, and then y'all kind of lose contact.

768
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:42,440
Speaker 3: So this is now them reconnecting. She saw him at

769
00:41:42,480 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 3: event at an event, so she said she, well, she

770
00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 3: went out to dinner with a homeboy and it's actually

771
00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 3: this this person is actually a mutual friend of ours too,

772
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:55,280
Speaker 3: just to her our friend, right, So she was out

773
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 3: to dinner with him. So the guy then texts her

774
00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 3: and was like, hey, what you got going on? Like

775
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:01,839
Speaker 3: you out in the boutance. She was like, yeah, I'm

776
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 3: out to dinner with a friend. So he then text

777
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 3: her and said, oh, you want a date, So she

778
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:12,399
Speaker 3: texts back, no, Lol, I am out with a man,

779
00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 3: but it's my friend. We're at dinner. So the guy

780
00:42:15,760 --> 00:42:18,799
Speaker 3: then says, oh, okay, you want a date, So she

781
00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:21,840
Speaker 3: says She kind of stopped responding after that, but he

782
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:25,960
Speaker 3: continues to like badger her about whether or not this

783
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 3: male acquaintance is a date or not. This is somebody

784
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 3: who had never taken her out on a date. Why

785
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 3: are you overly concerned?

786
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 1: Right?

787
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 3: So, and then this is a conversation via text exactly,

788
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:42,480
Speaker 3: So she just blocked him. She had the conversation with

789
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:47,200
Speaker 3: another friend, and her other friend didn't understand why she

790
00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:50,879
Speaker 3: blocked him. That is toxic behavior. And if somebody's doing

791
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 3: that to you in the beginning of relationship, it's going

792
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 3: to end the way it started. Right, Absolutely, that person

793
00:42:57,160 --> 00:43:02,400
Speaker 3: has control issues because here you who are you? Yeah? Like,

794
00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:04,240
Speaker 3: as soon as I give you my number, that's pussy

795
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:09,839
Speaker 3: on reserve. Like and if I were on a date,

796
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:12,480
Speaker 3: how could you? What could you do?

797
00:43:13,280 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 2: Like? This ain't a date, but tomorrow there I do

798
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:16,240
Speaker 2: have a date.

799
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 3: Right, So she blocked him. I feel like that is

800
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 3: very appropriate. Hm. I'm definitely not about to go back

801
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:25,839
Speaker 3: and forth that you via text message, like we don't

802
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 3: have nothing going on yet, Like.

803
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:31,879
Speaker 2: I don't need for you nothing.

804
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's a maniac, big red flag. Let's see your

805
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 3: partner blocking in it. Blocking in a romantic relationship is

806
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:47,640
Speaker 3: usually done by partners with an avoidant attachment style. In

807
00:43:47,719 --> 00:43:50,919
Speaker 3: the past, I wouldn't say I have avoidant attachment styles,

808
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 3: because I do like the address shit head on even

809
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 3: more so now more than ever. But if I feel

810
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 3: like I've said enough and you still want to go

811
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:03,160
Speaker 3: on and on and on and on and on about

812
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 3: this thing and it's causing me mental anguish, I just

813
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:11,760
Speaker 3: might block your ass. I just might block you until

814
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 3: I'm in a better headspace because you're violating my boundaries

815
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:18,280
Speaker 3: at this point, because you want to allow me time

816
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:23,600
Speaker 3: to regroup, right You're trying to force me, force a response,

817
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 3: or force more conversation out of me. That's just isn't there.

818
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:28,520
Speaker 3: I just don't have the capacity for it right now.

819
00:44:29,080 --> 00:44:30,479
Speaker 3: So Yeah, I'm gonna have to block you.

820
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,239
Speaker 2: Now. I done block the nigga that I knew that

821
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 2: if I kept allowing him access to me, he was

822
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:38,680
Speaker 2: still gonna get my pussy. Like I had to like

823
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 2: block him like.

824
00:44:41,480 --> 00:44:42,399
Speaker 3: As soon as you hear his.

825
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I had like soul ties and connections to

826
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 2: him that just was like irrefutable. And I was just like,

827
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 2: I got to block this nigga because I'm never gonna

828
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:55,160
Speaker 2: leave him alone if I don't. I definitely had to

829
00:44:55,160 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 2: block people like that.

830
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 3: He tried. Wasn't calling you, he was. He was calling you, akuccie.

831
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 3: That's what that was about. There blocked him, mm hmm. No.

832
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:08,759
Speaker 3: The couch was like, no, let him stay. But I

833
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:10,040
Speaker 3: had to block her.

834
00:45:10,840 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 2: I had to block.

835
00:45:12,560 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 3: Get It says when a relationship gets too close for them,

836
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:24,040
Speaker 3: they use blocking as a deactivating strategy to meet their

837
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:27,720
Speaker 3: space needs. However, not all avoidance do that. Some understand

838
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 3: that blocking is an extreme step. A friend once complained

839
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 3: that her boyfriend blocked her when he was at work

840
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 3: and then unblocked her when he had to talk to her.

841
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 3: I told her blocking is an extreme step. Yeah, you what,

842
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:42,600
Speaker 3: you will be single by the time you clock out,

843
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:45,520
Speaker 3: bitch right, pardon me.

844
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 2: Blocking me at you know what, I don't like what

845
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:52,759
Speaker 2: a motherfucker have. Do not disturb on. That's like a

846
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,480
Speaker 2: formal blocking in my head. I will call back, you

847
00:45:55,480 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 2: know when it says you know the second time you

848
00:45:57,760 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 2: go through, I'm calling twice, bitch.

849
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 3: Well, I have mine set up that way, so then

850
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 3: you know, because you can keep it to where nobody's

851
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 3: calls can come in. But I do have a set

852
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:10,359
Speaker 3: to where if somebody calls more than once, it'll allow

853
00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 3: a call to come through.

854
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 2: This I'm assuming my thin every time I'm a call twice,

855
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 2: every time I.

856
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:18,120
Speaker 3: Know people put their phone and do not to stir

857
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 3: my shit going at nine to twenty five pm and

858
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:21,520
Speaker 3: I'd be trying to see it.

859
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:24,400
Speaker 2: My sister I was like, what if it's an emergency,

860
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:26,839
Speaker 2: She's like called nine one one, right.

861
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,279
Speaker 3: I can't do nothing for you, no way, especially if

862
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:31,400
Speaker 3: we're in the same vicinity. I'm not in the same area.

863
00:46:31,440 --> 00:46:32,239
Speaker 3: What can I do for you?

864
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 2: Oh no, but something.

865
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 3: That's control, Okay, So let's go to ego. It says

866
00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:43,400
Speaker 3: more reasons ego Blocking someone makes you feel powerful and

867
00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:47,680
Speaker 3: boost your ego. You feel like a king who exiled

868
00:46:47,840 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 3: a meek subject from his kingdom. People obsessed with power

869
00:46:51,920 --> 00:46:55,759
Speaker 3: and control may more likely block others when a relationship

870
00:46:55,800 --> 00:46:58,440
Speaker 3: starts to go south. Blocking someone before they block you

871
00:46:58,600 --> 00:47:00,400
Speaker 3: is a way to get the upper hand on the

872
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 3: other person. I'll exclude them before they exclude me. That's

873
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:06,440
Speaker 3: what I feel about blocking for real. It is an

874
00:47:06,440 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 3: ego trip. Oh that because to be the self proclaimed

875
00:47:10,120 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 3: queen of blocking its weird oh behavior to me, Taylor.

876
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:21,480
Speaker 2: I definitely want off you by blocking you while you typing?

877
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:28,400
Speaker 2: I will What was it? What was that? No?

878
00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:29,600
Speaker 3: Absolutely nothing?

879
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:36,719
Speaker 2: But okay, so I know that's toxic as fun, but

880
00:47:36,800 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 2: only if it's deserving. I don't be blocking with somebody

881
00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:42,400
Speaker 2: pouring out their heart and I'm like, that's it. I

882
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:43,960
Speaker 2: don't want to hear anymore.

883
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:48,240
Speaker 3: So this an article actually says power trip is the

884
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:55,080
Speaker 3: psychological blocking of someone about your ego, and I agree.

885
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 3: It says delete and block. That's the first piece of

886
00:47:57,239 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 3: advice given when you need to move on. But what's

887
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 3: the psychology of blocking someone? What does it achieve? How

888
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:11,399
Speaker 3: long is you're block list? Right now? I just got

889
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 3: one person.

890
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:16,000
Speaker 2: As long as I am tall, my shit, as long

891
00:48:16,040 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 2: as I am tall. It's people. I don't even know

892
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 2: who the fuck number it is on that list. There's

893
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 2: so many numbers on that list, Like, I don't even

894
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:27,000
Speaker 2: know who this is, but whoever it is, good Riddan's motherfucker.

895
00:48:27,000 --> 00:48:28,759
Speaker 3: Y'all tell me, I give a nigga her number at

896
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 3: block it immediately. That is so fucking where, Like why

897
00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 3: you even give him the number? You're on no problems because.

898
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:38,359
Speaker 2: Sometimes niggas be scary. Yeah, Like if I give you

899
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,600
Speaker 2: a nigga a man my number and I don't want

900
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:44,440
Speaker 2: to talk to it's because I'm intimidated and I'm like, Okay,

901
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 2: this nigga he could hit me. I feel like he's violent.

902
00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 2: Let me just go ahead and you know, oblige give

903
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 2: him the number and then when I walk away block.

904
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:02,000
Speaker 3: Some of these niggas be scary. Yeah, but he's still

905
00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 3: got the number, Like he could still reach out to

906
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:06,360
Speaker 3: you if he was persistent enough, he could still figure

907
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:08,600
Speaker 3: out how to ring that phone. So I just rather

908
00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:10,200
Speaker 3: not give you my number that that's not all.

909
00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:14,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't be wanting to go back and forth

910
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:18,000
Speaker 2: sometimes with the scary ones. And then I used to

911
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:19,960
Speaker 2: give him fake number, but then they'll call a dale

912
00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:21,000
Speaker 2: right then it's like.

913
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 3: Oh shit, exactly, that's the way. How do men not

914
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:27,080
Speaker 3: think that that type of shit is weird?

915
00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 2: Yes, it's crazy.

916
00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:32,920
Speaker 3: One of my friends, Why y'all think that's normal?

917
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:37,279
Speaker 2: Fourth of July? We was in the grocery store and

918
00:49:37,920 --> 00:49:40,360
Speaker 2: this guy tried to get her number, and she was

919
00:49:40,440 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 2: kind of rude to him. I will say, like she

920
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 2: wasn't the nicest on how she let him down. She

921
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 2: was like, look at you and look at me. That's

922
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:50,360
Speaker 2: what she told that nigga, And he punched her in

923
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:52,799
Speaker 2: the face and broke her nose right there in the

924
00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:53,479
Speaker 2: Harris Teeter.

925
00:49:54,560 --> 00:50:00,719
Speaker 3: Yes, did y'all call the police? Yeah, get arrested. And

926
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 3: he left, He left the site.

927
00:50:02,719 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 2: He left out the store. Yeah, he got away.

928
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 3: What did he look like for her to say that?

929
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:16,319
Speaker 2: Nothing? He wasn't together, He was not together. She's a

930
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:18,759
Speaker 2: really pretty girl, but don't it's not okay to be

931
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:22,200
Speaker 2: nasty and rude to people. But that didn't warrant a

932
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:25,239
Speaker 2: broken nose, though, And ever since then, I was like,

933
00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:26,400
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna be nice.

934
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, man, Because the male ego is very fragile. The

935
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:32,760
Speaker 3: thing is is that you have to know your hollow level.

936
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:35,920
Speaker 3: Why did you think you can roll on me? You

937
00:50:36,000 --> 00:50:39,560
Speaker 3: saw me, You see me, and you see you. So

938
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:43,360
Speaker 3: her saying that to him push it into perspective so

939
00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:45,520
Speaker 3: much so he ain't has ship to say that bitch,

940
00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 3: that nigga was like, it's OJT on the job training

941
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:50,839
Speaker 3: for this bitch right now in middle of Harris Tee

942
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:51,920
Speaker 3: then Star.

943
00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 2: The grocery store on fourth of July.

944
00:50:54,320 --> 00:50:56,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would have ran to the car and I

945
00:50:56,440 --> 00:51:00,399
Speaker 3: probably would be in prison right now for killing that nigga. Yes,

946
00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:02,719
Speaker 3: you're not about to hit me, but you be like

947
00:51:02,840 --> 00:51:05,000
Speaker 3: she was in so much shock, I mean, blood pouring

948
00:51:05,080 --> 00:51:05,680
Speaker 3: from her face.

949
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:09,279
Speaker 2: She's like, you know, like I just got hit, Like

950
00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 2: for real.

951
00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:13,719
Speaker 3: You obviously abused women. Also, you out here trying to

952
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 3: find new victims. And she saw him for exactly.

953
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:18,359
Speaker 2: Who he was mm hmm.

954
00:51:18,840 --> 00:51:25,640
Speaker 3: Obviously exactly because trash he was. He was trash, so she,

955
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:28,799
Speaker 3: I mean, regardless of why. I feel like she had

956
00:51:28,800 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 3: to take a punch for it. But I don't know,

957
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 3: maybe to save another woman's life, I don't know, somehow

958
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:41,000
Speaker 3: mm hmm. Well you didn't. You ain't trying to jump

959
00:51:41,000 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 3: on him. I was stuck.

960
00:51:43,239 --> 00:51:49,120
Speaker 2: Everybody was like, and now I'm just trying to help her.

961
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:50,160
Speaker 2: I would have fuck on.

962
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:52,360
Speaker 3: Got hit with my friend man because I'm trying to

963
00:51:52,440 --> 00:51:55,200
Speaker 3: hit him. I'm trying, I'm trying to do something to him.

964
00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 3: I'm trying to.

965
00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:58,680
Speaker 2: Get out of him. He punched her and got up

966
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:01,319
Speaker 2: out of there, and us was just standing there looking

967
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:05,840
Speaker 2: at her like, what the fuck just happened? It just

968
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:08,239
Speaker 2: happened too fast. Hmmmmm mm m.

969
00:52:10,040 --> 00:52:12,400
Speaker 3: All right, so this article says the block the block

970
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:16,360
Speaker 3: action is extremely powerful. It doesn't give anyone an explanation.

971
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:20,400
Speaker 3: It leaves unresolved business and what if you happen to

972
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:25,359
Speaker 3: see them on the streets afterward? Awkward? Right? So yeah,

973
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:27,319
Speaker 3: when I don't feel like I guess not for me,

974
00:52:27,600 --> 00:52:29,800
Speaker 3: but I feel like that's another reason why people block.

975
00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:33,600
Speaker 3: They don't want to explain themselves. They don't want to

976
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:37,600
Speaker 3: have to even fix what the actual issue is. They

977
00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:39,759
Speaker 3: just block so they don't have to deal with it.

978
00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:44,280
Speaker 3: So if it's also a form of escapism as well,

979
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:47,919
Speaker 3: because I mean, you can't deal with confrontation at all.

980
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:51,359
Speaker 3: Like I said earlier, I'll have the conversations with once

981
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:53,400
Speaker 3: I feel like I've talked enough. And you know a

982
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:55,840
Speaker 3: lot of times men will act like they don't understand

983
00:52:55,840 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 3: what the fuck you're saying. Now you feel like you're

984
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,280
Speaker 3: going crazy because you've been talking in circle, saying the

985
00:52:59,880 --> 00:53:02,359
Speaker 3: same shit over and over again, and he acting like,

986
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:05,120
Speaker 3: what what you mean?

987
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:08,080
Speaker 2: You're focusing on one small part of what you're saying.

988
00:53:08,520 --> 00:53:15,959
Speaker 3: Block blow okay, and it says it's blocking about ego.

989
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 3: The whole blocking thing is up our trip, all about ego.

990
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:21,839
Speaker 3: Surely there's a better way to handle personal issues than

991
00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:25,480
Speaker 3: simply blocking them from ay from your cyber life and

992
00:53:25,560 --> 00:53:28,680
Speaker 3: expecting that to be it. Now, there is one situation

993
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:31,239
Speaker 3: for which blocking is perfect. If someone is harassing you,

994
00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:35,279
Speaker 3: causing you pain and upset, or leave you or they

995
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 3: won't leave you alone. In that case, go ahead and

996
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 3: block all you like. That psychology of blocking in this

997
00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:44,239
Speaker 3: case gives you the power back. It allows you a

998
00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:47,239
Speaker 3: sense of relief and peace of mind and stops your

999
00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:50,480
Speaker 3: days from being ruined as a result of messages and

1000
00:53:50,600 --> 00:53:53,280
Speaker 3: unwanted posts on social media. Feece. So this is regards

1001
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:54,400
Speaker 3: to social media.

1002
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:57,920
Speaker 2: Do you have like stalkers? I can say that word

1003
00:53:58,200 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 2: stalkers on social media?

1004
00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:06,040
Speaker 3: Who people that just I try to be I have

1005
00:54:06,200 --> 00:54:09,000
Speaker 3: a few people blocked who are sending some really weird shit.

1006
00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:12,359
Speaker 3: So no, I don't think I have any right now,

1007
00:54:12,400 --> 00:54:17,120
Speaker 3: and I try to not create any. Sometimes it's impossible

1008
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:19,920
Speaker 3: because a lot of people be they be, they create

1009
00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:22,640
Speaker 3: shit about you in their minds and there's nothing you

1010
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:23,319
Speaker 3: can do about it.

1011
00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:28,319
Speaker 2: Bruh, bruh. I got about three different niggas that be

1012
00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 2: in my DM saying crazy shit, and I'll be like,

1013
00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:34,960
Speaker 2: I'll be back and forth about should I block them

1014
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 2: or should I be able to watch where these motherfucker's

1015
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:41,879
Speaker 2: at right, you know, I'll be back and forth about

1016
00:54:41,920 --> 00:54:44,680
Speaker 2: which one I should be, cause niggas literally be in

1017
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 2: there talking to theyself. Listen, if you messaging somebody and

1018
00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 2: they ain't never said nothing back, and you continue to

1019
00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:58,560
Speaker 2: have conversation, you might need to see mental care, Like, seriously,

1020
00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:01,240
Speaker 2: why are you continuing to talk to yourself in somebody

1021
00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:02,160
Speaker 2: dms as? Wow?

1022
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:05,440
Speaker 3: And even in real life, I occasionally run into those

1023
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 3: type of people. I'll say it happens to me like

1024
00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:10,120
Speaker 3: once every two years. You fuck wand and give your

1025
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:12,880
Speaker 3: phone number to a dude, and it's like he's calling

1026
00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:15,560
Speaker 3: you back before you can call him back. Like y'all

1027
00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:18,480
Speaker 3: have had a conversation, you say, hey, let me hit

1028
00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 3: you back, and they're calling you back within thirty minutes

1029
00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:26,319
Speaker 3: or so before you can even call them back. Red

1030
00:55:26,360 --> 00:55:29,919
Speaker 3: flag that type of shit or text you day after

1031
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:32,759
Speaker 3: day after day after day after day when you're not

1032
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:36,960
Speaker 3: responding to them and they continue to text every single day,

1033
00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:41,279
Speaker 3: talking to themselves and your DMS or via text. I

1034
00:55:41,320 --> 00:55:44,000
Speaker 3: meet people like that and that as a mental health issues.

1035
00:55:44,040 --> 00:55:47,040
Speaker 3: I don't know exactly what it's called, cycle, whatever it is,

1036
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:50,799
Speaker 3: but yeah, that's a problem. It says, Yes, you might

1037
00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:53,080
Speaker 3: feel a sense of relief if they've been a real

1038
00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:59,360
Speaker 3: nuisance in your life and other means haven't worked. But overall,

1039
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:01,399
Speaker 3: it's a day then a cut off point. It makes

1040
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:04,000
Speaker 3: you feel like you found the ultimate solution. The problem

1041
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:07,480
Speaker 3: is you haven't really have you. Let's assume this person

1042
00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:10,040
Speaker 3: is local to you. The chances of you bumping into

1043
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:14,160
Speaker 3: one another at some stage are pretty high. What will

1044
00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:16,919
Speaker 3: you say to them? If you do? Will you say

1045
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:19,960
Speaker 3: anything at all? No? If I blocked you, I'm not

1046
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 3: saying nothing to you if I seen in public, like,

1047
00:56:21,760 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 3: that's so weird.

1048
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 2: Right you never existed?

1049
00:56:25,840 --> 00:56:28,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like now you're just some nigga that I used

1050
00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:29,480
Speaker 3: to know. That's why I blocked you.

1051
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 2: I don't even I'm sorry to who's this man? I'm

1052
00:56:33,719 --> 00:56:36,319
Speaker 2: sorry to this man, kiky palmer voice. I don't even

1053
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:39,080
Speaker 2: know who you are, sir. The real reason.

1054
00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:43,480
Speaker 3: I'd be wanting people to know I'm ignoring them. See,

1055
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:45,600
Speaker 3: when you block somebody and they're hitting you up, you

1056
00:56:45,680 --> 00:56:47,359
Speaker 3: don't know if they're hitting you up or not, and

1057
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 3: they don't know whether or not you're getting the messages.

1058
00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:52,799
Speaker 3: But if you're not getting like a little bunks back,

1059
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:55,680
Speaker 3: you know you're not blocked, and you know I'm seeing

1060
00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 3: your messages, So you know that I'm consciously ignoring your

1061
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 3: monkey ass. That's that That feeds my ego, knowing that

1062
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:07,600
Speaker 3: you know that I don't fuck with you. I'm not

1063
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:08,080
Speaker 3: gonna block.

1064
00:57:08,160 --> 00:57:10,960
Speaker 2: See, that's definitely that's definitely huge ego. I want you

1065
00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:14,560
Speaker 2: to eliminate. I don't even want to see any inkling

1066
00:57:14,600 --> 00:57:16,000
Speaker 2: of your existence anymore.

1067
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:26,840
Speaker 3: And bye bye blockmastering. I don't like blocking. Don't block me, bitch,

1068
00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:28,320
Speaker 3: I'm coming to your motherfucking house.

1069
00:57:29,520 --> 00:57:32,920
Speaker 2: I don't block women. I've never I never felt the

1070
00:57:32,920 --> 00:57:35,200
Speaker 2: need of block a woman me that.

1071
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:37,920
Speaker 3: I think women just have a little bit more emotional intelligence.

1072
00:57:38,240 --> 00:57:40,960
Speaker 3: We be having to block men because they really be

1073
00:57:41,040 --> 00:57:46,440
Speaker 3: losing it. I'm pretty sure some men who we we

1074
00:57:46,560 --> 00:57:50,280
Speaker 3: don't know women how men know them. So I wouldn't

1075
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Speaker 3: have a reason to block a woman. I'm not interested

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Speaker 3: in women in that way.

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Speaker 2: Taylor says blocking is energy protection. So and I concur

1078
00:58:04,320 --> 00:58:07,160
Speaker 2: I guess I got to protect my energy from these

1079
00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 2: energy ciphers. Yeah, ye oh.

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00:58:12,440 --> 00:58:15,520
Speaker 3: So one last piece of this conversation, this is the

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00:58:15,600 --> 00:58:19,760
Speaker 3: difference between ghosting and blocking. It's worth mentioning that ghosting

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00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:23,000
Speaker 3: and blocking are two different things. When you go someone,

1083
00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:25,680
Speaker 3: you might still be friends with them and they can

1084
00:58:25,880 --> 00:58:29,480
Speaker 3: get They can probably still see the activity on your fees.

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00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:32,800
Speaker 3: But you cut off contact with them by simply not speaking,

1086
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 3: you become a virtual ghost. In our opinion, ghosting is

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00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 3: worse than blocking. It's like leaving a carrot dangling in

1088
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:44,720
Speaker 3: the air. You're giving them something but not going the

1089
00:58:44,760 --> 00:58:48,440
Speaker 3: whole way. So maybe I'm a ghoster. You're also literally

1090
00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 3: ignoring messages, and that is literally the worst being ghost

1091
00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:55,680
Speaker 3: It makes you furious. It's a pitting me of rudeness.

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00:58:56,720 --> 00:59:00,880
Speaker 3: Of course, blocking is literally ending all contact and visibility

1093
00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:06,280
Speaker 3: of any activity you post online the lot you're invisible

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00:59:06,320 --> 00:59:09,200
Speaker 3: to them, at least in online world. The difference is

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00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:12,640
Speaker 3: that the difference in excuse me, The difference is that

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00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:17,880
Speaker 3: the psychology of blocking someone is a literal full stop.

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00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:21,640
Speaker 3: So maybe I need to block completely then mm hmm.

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00:59:21,920 --> 00:59:24,920
Speaker 3: Some motherfuckers don't get a shit twisted right.

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00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:28,440
Speaker 2: Just you be wanting them to know you see, I

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00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:30,400
Speaker 2: don't want to see you. I don't want to see

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00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:31,440
Speaker 2: you anymore.

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00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 3: I just want you to know I'm cool, man, Like,

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00:59:35,080 --> 00:59:38,080
Speaker 3: just go away. Why why are you forcing me to

1104
00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:40,720
Speaker 3: have to take an extra action if I'm already not

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00:59:41,040 --> 00:59:43,560
Speaker 3: fucking with you? Like, why can't you take that as

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00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:43,959
Speaker 3: a hint.

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00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:47,400
Speaker 2: Some people can't take the hint, So you got to

1108
00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:50,440
Speaker 2: go on head and hint they ass to the blockless.

1109
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:55,760
Speaker 2: I block so many people, it'd be a motherfucker. I'd

1110
00:59:55,760 --> 00:59:57,919
Speaker 2: be trying to call or I'll be like, oh, oh,

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00:59:58,040 --> 00:59:59,000
Speaker 2: I got the nigga block.

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Speaker 3: You see abuse y'all me in a long time? Oh wait,

1113
01:00:07,880 --> 01:00:12,280
Speaker 3: he blocked? Talk about me too, y'all abusive? Y'all abusive?

1114
01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:15,080
Speaker 3: That's ego ship. Why are you trying to reach out

1115
01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:16,280
Speaker 3: to somebody who you blocked?

1116
01:00:17,120 --> 01:00:19,360
Speaker 2: Whatever I did, whatever I was mad about, I guess

1117
01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:22,840
Speaker 2: I'm over it at this point. Ardam forgot some ship

1118
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:26,000
Speaker 2: I was mad about. They got a nigga blocked?

1119
01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:28,760
Speaker 3: So you call like, what why block you? What happened

1120
01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:31,000
Speaker 3: last time? Like? What you did?

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01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:34,320
Speaker 2: Why are we speaking a long time, and then if

1122
01:00:34,360 --> 01:00:36,360
Speaker 2: I'm reminded, I'd be like, oh, that's right. Block.

1123
01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:40,320
Speaker 3: I had a what about homeboys? Said? A girl hit

1124
01:00:40,400 --> 01:00:42,280
Speaker 3: him up, like what's up? Why are you gonna be

1125
01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:44,360
Speaker 3: hitting me up? And he was like, bitch, you blocked

1126
01:00:44,400 --> 01:00:48,360
Speaker 3: me like she was checking him on social media, but

1127
01:00:48,400 --> 01:00:52,200
Speaker 3: he was blocked on the phone, right, that's me. That's me,

1128
01:00:52,320 --> 01:00:54,760
Speaker 3: and then reblocked the nigga once he wasn't saying what

1129
01:00:54,880 --> 01:01:01,200
Speaker 3: she wanted. I got to do better, man. Anyway, are

1130
01:01:01,280 --> 01:01:03,600
Speaker 3: y'all blockers? I want to hear from the listeners. Do

1131
01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:06,439
Speaker 3: y'all just be blocking people? That's y'all?

1132
01:01:06,640 --> 01:01:13,000
Speaker 2: Go to yep real quick? Bitch, why I will? I'm

1133
01:01:13,000 --> 01:01:15,120
Speaker 2: gonna work on not just blocking people when I'm mad,

1134
01:01:15,320 --> 01:01:18,560
Speaker 2: like they gotta be worth it because I have. I'll

1135
01:01:18,600 --> 01:01:22,120
Speaker 2: block and unblocked when I'm over it. But just men,

1136
01:01:22,920 --> 01:01:27,480
Speaker 2: sorry to you fellas. God ain't through with me yet.

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01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:29,840
Speaker 3: I would suggest, if you have a little bit of

1138
01:01:29,960 --> 01:01:32,200
Speaker 3: care about the person that you're blocking, you would try

1139
01:01:32,280 --> 01:01:40,880
Speaker 3: communication first. Try that first, and if you there's no resolution,

1140
01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:46,160
Speaker 3: there's no resolve. If you block them, do not unblock them.

1141
01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:51,080
Speaker 3: That should be a permanent decision. When you block somebody,

1142
01:01:51,240 --> 01:01:54,880
Speaker 3: it should not be used as a timeout for adult people.

1143
01:01:56,560 --> 01:02:02,400
Speaker 3: Shit me, y'all childish, y'all child to say, y'all have

1144
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:05,360
Speaker 3: value relationships.

1145
01:02:03,920 --> 01:02:06,880
Speaker 2: You need a break.

1146
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not doing it. I'm not doing that if

1147
01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:12,919
Speaker 3: I'm so fucking with you, if I'm be thinking about

1148
01:02:12,960 --> 01:02:15,760
Speaker 3: your ass later on, like, I'm not doing it.

1149
01:02:15,920 --> 01:02:16,800
Speaker 2: I don't know, I'm.

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01:02:19,240 --> 01:02:25,760
Speaker 3: You did. Oh wait, wait, wait, this is people. If

1151
01:02:25,760 --> 01:02:29,200
Speaker 3: you're struggling, or is anybody out there struggling with being blocked?

1152
01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:33,800
Speaker 3: Is being blocked by somebody you like, love a family member,

1153
01:02:33,920 --> 01:02:37,160
Speaker 3: Is it fucking with your mental health because this person

1154
01:02:37,200 --> 01:02:41,800
Speaker 3: has now blocked you out of there, blocked you from

1155
01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:46,080
Speaker 3: their lives. No, I'm talking to the listeners. Does anybody

1156
01:02:46,160 --> 01:02:50,080
Speaker 3: feel some type of way out there about having been blocked?

1157
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:57,840
Speaker 3: Let us know what celebrities got, y'all blocked? I got people.

1158
01:02:57,960 --> 01:02:59,760
Speaker 3: I got a few people blocked when we talked.

1159
01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:01,880
Speaker 2: Back because you just said some shit.

1160
01:03:03,480 --> 01:03:05,360
Speaker 3: It was maybe an episode when we was on somebody

1161
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:06,919
Speaker 3: else show. Anyway, it was a clip that we put

1162
01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:11,920
Speaker 3: up and the men was just going ham. I think

1163
01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:14,400
Speaker 3: the dating one dating while not having money. We want

1164
01:03:14,400 --> 01:03:16,640
Speaker 3: to tell our show matter of fact, empty thoughts. We

1165
01:03:16,680 --> 01:03:19,320
Speaker 3: was on empty thoughts and Niggas was mad about the

1166
01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:21,680
Speaker 3: conversation and the listen. I'm not arguing with y'all. Could

1167
01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:25,560
Speaker 3: bat have ass? Bitches, nigga bitches, I'm blocking your ass.

1168
01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:27,000
Speaker 3: I'm blocking you.

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01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:28,560
Speaker 2: I will, I.

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01:03:28,520 --> 01:03:34,920
Speaker 3: Said on Fridays, Fridays, I argue with you. So anybody

1171
01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:37,480
Speaker 3: want to argue, hit me up on Fridays. I got

1172
01:03:37,520 --> 01:03:42,200
Speaker 3: a little bit more time Friday. A nigga asked me

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01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:44,640
Speaker 3: last week because he commented on some shit, like I

1174
01:03:44,880 --> 01:03:47,480
Speaker 3: just comment on something, and why I gotta get into

1175
01:03:47,600 --> 01:03:51,400
Speaker 3: arguments with men. I'm commenting my single comment. Now here

1176
01:03:51,440 --> 01:03:54,440
Speaker 3: you are commenting on my comment and starting argument with me,

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01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:58,240
Speaker 3: and well really not starting because I didn't have to engage,

1178
01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:01,200
Speaker 3: but I did, and he was like, it's Saturday, you

1179
01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:04,080
Speaker 3: should get out. I said, actually, it's fucking Friday, and

1180
01:04:04,160 --> 01:04:07,920
Speaker 3: I got time. So if y'all want to argue, hit

1181
01:04:07,960 --> 01:04:10,479
Speaker 3: me up on Fridays between twelve and five.

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01:04:11,240 --> 01:04:13,120
Speaker 2: It just really depends on what I got going on

1183
01:04:13,160 --> 01:04:15,120
Speaker 2: in am I my period? If I'm on my period,

1184
01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:16,920
Speaker 2: you might get a little fight out of me just

1185
01:04:16,960 --> 01:04:21,000
Speaker 2: because it's fun. But for the most part, no, I'm cool.

1186
01:04:22,800 --> 01:04:26,520
Speaker 3: Last last to chop all of this up. If it

1187
01:04:26,560 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 3: helps your mental health to block somebody, then I guess

1188
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:32,520
Speaker 3: it is okay. I again, I would suggest trying to

1189
01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:35,920
Speaker 3: communicate if you actually care about this person, as opposed

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01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:41,520
Speaker 3: to using the block method as a form of time

1191
01:04:41,560 --> 01:04:42,720
Speaker 3: out abuse.

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01:04:44,400 --> 01:04:48,200
Speaker 2: As for me, insomnia along. Block these niggas out your

1193
01:04:48,240 --> 01:04:49,600
Speaker 2: life until you feel.

1194
01:04:49,280 --> 01:04:53,640
Speaker 3: Like fucking with them with Gia gaddawn and I hope

1195
01:04:53,760 --> 01:04:55,400
Speaker 3: when you do try to hit that nigga up that

1196
01:04:55,440 --> 01:04:57,240
Speaker 3: you like that you're blocked.

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01:04:57,800 --> 01:05:00,560
Speaker 2: Why would you hope that for me? See, that's some

1198
01:05:00,640 --> 01:05:01,960
Speaker 2: hater shit to say right there.

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01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:08,480
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01:05:08,520 --> 01:05:11,520
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1202
01:05:11,560 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 3: aj Holiday two point zero. Go ahead her block a lot.

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01:05:16,440 --> 01:05:19,480
Speaker 2: It's official taimband on Instagram. Follow me now, remember to

1204
01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:20,800
Speaker 2: speak now, block.

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01:05:20,600 --> 01:05:24,160
Speaker 3: These niggas and never hold your block.

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