1 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:19,360 Speaker 1: Hello, and welcome's my favorite murder. 2 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:20,160 Speaker 2: That's Georgia Hart. 3 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:20,960 Speaker 1: Start, that's Kary. 4 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:24,759 Speaker 2: The minisodes. Yeah, we knew that it was the MINIESOD. Yeah, 5 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 2: if you're listening to minisodes, you don't need to know 6 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 2: who we are. What's important is the email. 7 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: For some reason, we're not going to tell you who 8 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 1: this is. It's a secret when it's a minisode. Okay, 9 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 1: you go first. Okay, hitchhiking story to the women that 10 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,920 Speaker 1: have gotten me through it all. I want to start 11 00:00:40,960 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 1: off with a confession. I'm not even that into true crime. 12 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 1: I am still, however, a Day One listener, not because 13 00:00:48,120 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 1: of my obsession with true crime, but because of my 14 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 1: obsession with each of you and the inspiring friendship you share. 15 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 1: I am being so serious when I say that this 16 00:00:56,080 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: is the only podcast I listened to my mom, and 17 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 1: I've listened to every episode at least three times. 18 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 2: Wow. 19 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,000 Speaker 1: But in the interest of everyone's time, let's get into it. 20 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:09,400 Speaker 2: Every episode three times doesn't like true crime. We need 21 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 2: to send this person a gift pasketay. 22 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 1: Truly, Jesus, like a rat alday or something. 23 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, so sorry. 24 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 1: The year is twenty eleven. I'm in sixth grade and 25 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 1: It's my first time taking the school bus alone. My 26 00:01:20,959 --> 00:01:23,679 Speaker 1: divorced and working mother had just started the four am 27 00:01:23,760 --> 00:01:26,520 Speaker 1: shift at her job at our local grocery store, so 28 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:29,400 Speaker 1: it was now my responsibility to make sure I woke up, 29 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:32,400 Speaker 1: fed myself, and made it to the bus stop before 30 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: the six forty five pickup. Why do we make children 31 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:37,240 Speaker 1: wake up so fucking early? 32 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 2: Get them ready for factory work, That's what it's all about. 33 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 1: It's sickening to me. 34 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:45,720 Speaker 2: Bell's early morning stop at everyone. It's based on like 35 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 2: farm hand Wyeah. It's like you gotta be up before 36 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 2: the sun is up. 37 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, like half of my issues with school, 38 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 1: I think we're because I was so fucking tired because 39 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:55,200 Speaker 1: we had to get up at six in the morning. 40 00:01:55,320 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 2: The most trouble I ever got into was I think 41 00:01:57,560 --> 00:01:59,919 Speaker 2: I was a junior and I got up, took a shower, 42 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 2: and I remember because my mom had knew bath sheets, 43 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 2: so they're really big, so I had one in my 44 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 2: hair and one around my body, and I sat back 45 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 2: down on my bed, fell over and went back to sleep, 46 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 2: and she came by because she was always trying to 47 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 2: get to work, yeah, and was like, God, damn it. 48 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 2: But I was like, obviously there was something going on 49 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 2: with my system that. 50 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:21,760 Speaker 1: My child is tired. That's not something you should get 51 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: in trouble for. 52 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,079 Speaker 2: Why am I so tired? Could you figure it out? 53 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 2: You work at a goddamn hospital. 54 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 1: I would fall asleep in class every fucking day in 55 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: like fourth grade, and no one said shit about it. 56 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: That's not okay. 57 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 2: Maybe I'm anemic, Maybe I have anmic. 58 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: Maybe I have sleep apne out Hey, I do have 59 00:02:36,440 --> 00:02:38,359 Speaker 1: sleep apnea. And I found out when I was fucking thirty, 60 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:41,359 Speaker 1: Like what they have add Oh, yeah I do too. 61 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 2: Yeah? 62 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:42,600 Speaker 1: What the fuck? 63 00:02:42,680 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 2: Everyone sugar sensitivity and I'm filled with corn pops before 64 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 2: I come to school. 65 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:51,200 Speaker 1: I'm a lad drink soda. Okay, that's let's digress, shall we. 66 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:55,440 Speaker 1: But that's our that's our platform, that's our problem. Look 67 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 1: at us now. I don't wake up till eleven o'clock 68 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:00,640 Speaker 1: every day. I arrived at the bus stop on time, 69 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:02,920 Speaker 1: proud of my new found agency, and I began to 70 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 1: wait and wait and wait. After about fifteen minutes, I 71 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:08,920 Speaker 1: began to panic. I fucked up my first day of 72 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:11,239 Speaker 1: taking care of myself, and now I had no way 73 00:03:11,240 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: to get to school. Had the bus come earlier than usual. 74 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:17,079 Speaker 1: Is the pickup spot different from last year? My young 75 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:19,519 Speaker 1: mind raced as I thought of the consequences of missing 76 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 1: school because I couldn't get to the bus stoup on time. 77 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 1: As I sat sobbing on the sidewalk outside of our 78 00:03:24,840 --> 00:03:27,800 Speaker 1: apartment complex, a man pulled his car over and asked 79 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: if I was okay. Yes, I responded, cautiously, since it 80 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 1: is twenty eleven after all, and stranger daser had been 81 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 1: instilled in me. Since I could remember what's wrong, he asked, 82 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:41,280 Speaker 1: since I was clearly in distress, I've missed the school bus, 83 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:45,000 Speaker 1: I responded, sheepishly, foolishly aware of the danger I was in. 84 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:47,520 Speaker 1: Maybe it was the fact that he claimed to work 85 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 1: at our apartment complex and then it says textbook serial 86 00:03:50,440 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: killer lie. Or maybe it was because he scolded me 87 00:03:53,360 --> 00:03:56,440 Speaker 1: the moment I accepted to never do this again. But 88 00:03:56,560 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 1: for some unknown reason, I trusted this random man to 89 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: drive me to school. Oh shockingly, I arrived at school unscathed. 90 00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 1: He says, do you want to ride? She says okay. 91 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: He gets in the car and he goes. 92 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 2: Never do this, Never do this again. 93 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 1: You're so lucky. I'm fucking normal. 94 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 2: That's what happened long ago when my ex and I 95 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 2: picked up these two like thirteen year olds at a 96 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 2: gas station at one am. We're driving up to pet 97 00:04:19,200 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 2: Luma and they were standing around trying to make phone calls, 98 00:04:22,720 --> 00:04:24,720 Speaker 2: and there was all these men that I could they 99 00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:27,119 Speaker 2: were just watching them at this and I was like, girls, 100 00:04:27,160 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 2: what are you doing? Why are you here this late? 101 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 2: And they're like, all ride left us and I'm gonna 102 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:33,760 Speaker 2: get into the car. Never get into anyone's car, but 103 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 2: get into my car. And I was like, do you 104 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:38,159 Speaker 2: know miss Kilgareff over at Lose Sutton And they were like, 105 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 2: oh yeah. So it was like, oh my god, thank 106 00:04:40,720 --> 00:04:41,600 Speaker 2: god it was Nevado. 107 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, like the middle of nowhere. 108 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 2: I was so mad at these girls. 109 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 1: I was just like, what are you doing? 110 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:47,279 Speaker 2: What are you doing? What are you doing? 111 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:52,040 Speaker 1: Luckily they got you shamed. I had done something so risky, 112 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:53,960 Speaker 1: but really I wouldn't have to deal with the ridicule 113 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 1: of missing the bus. On my first attempt, I shoved 114 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 1: my anxiety aside and reached for the entrance to my school, 115 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: but it was locked, as it turns out. As it 116 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 1: turns out, I actually hadn't missed the bus due to 117 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 1: my own twelve year old negligence. That particular Monday happened 118 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,559 Speaker 1: to be a two hour late start, meaning the bus 119 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 1: I sobbed over would be arriving an hour and a 120 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:15,880 Speaker 1: half from the moment of my realization, not only had 121 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 1: I risked my life because of a clerical error, but 122 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:21,279 Speaker 1: I was now stranded at school. I ultimately walked to 123 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 1: my friend's house that lived near the school, and the 124 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:26,720 Speaker 1: rest of the day went accordingly, But holy fuck, I 125 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 1: risked being abducted for what. Middle school insane SSDGM and 126 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: don't risk your life from middle school Vanessa. 127 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 2: Vanessa, the pressure of doing the bus correctly, it's not 128 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 2: on you. It's so awful, and especially then when you're like, 129 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 2: because the first thing they said was ridicule. 130 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 1: I'm going to get in trouble. You're going to get 131 00:05:48,600 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 1: in trouble for not getting their own time, But you're 132 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:52,479 Speaker 1: also gonna be in trouble if you accept a ride 133 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 1: from someone. 134 00:05:53,120 --> 00:05:56,480 Speaker 2: It's so much pressure for a young mind who can't 135 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 2: handle that love. That's how you know they're young. 136 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:02,159 Speaker 1: Isn't logical, doesn't know like a to B two C. 137 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 2: Can't go if the bus isn't here. It's not my 138 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:07,280 Speaker 2: fault totally, and I don't have to solve the fact 139 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 2: that the bus isn't here. I just go back home 140 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:11,600 Speaker 2: and go the bus never came, right, But they don't 141 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 2: know that that's what a fourteen year old would do, 142 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:17,039 Speaker 2: right with twelve year old Nope, Oh my god. 143 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 1: This is why I could never have children. I could 144 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 1: just couldn't let them go out into the world. I'd 145 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 1: be like, I haven't taught you everything. 146 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:25,600 Speaker 2: You're at work typing. I'm getting a weird feeling. 147 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 1: I wonder if she's out in the world. 148 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 2: I hope she's not crying in a man's car somewhere. Okay, 149 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna read it. The subject line of this 150 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 2: it says, Dear Karen and Georgia. I grew up in 151 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:40,680 Speaker 2: a small coal town in northeastern Pennsylvania, right outside of Scranton. Yes, 152 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,159 Speaker 2: like the office. My dad grew up in that same 153 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 2: small town. In the seventies and eighties. He was friends 154 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,359 Speaker 2: with a kid named Joe Alicio who just didn't seem 155 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:50,560 Speaker 2: quite right. My dad will be the first to tell 156 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 2: you that he got into a lot of trouble as 157 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:54,360 Speaker 2: a teen, but will also tell you that this kid 158 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:58,440 Speaker 2: was on a different level animal abuse, setting fires, et cetera, 159 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 2: et cetera. Long story short. Nineteen eighty one, when he 160 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 2: was fifteen years old, Joe killed two children, Cheryl and 161 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 2: Christopher Ziemba. They were eight and four years old, and 162 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 2: then he rolled their bodies into a carpet and dumped 163 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,200 Speaker 2: them down a mine shaft up in the mountains behind 164 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 2: my dad's childhood home. Oh my god, the entire town 165 00:07:19,680 --> 00:07:22,480 Speaker 2: went looking for these children. My grandma tells me that 166 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 2: she can still hear the townspeople yelling their names and 167 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 2: not hearing anything back. And guess who was part of 168 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 2: the search party. That's right, Joe. The part that gets 169 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 2: me is when they found the bodies. Christopher was wearing 170 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 2: his favorite Superman T shirt and Joe had recently tried 171 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 2: to claim that Cheryl's death was an accident and that 172 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 2: he killed Christopher out of panic. He tried to appeal 173 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 2: his life sentence but got turned down. He will not 174 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 2: be eligible for parole until twenty forty one. Thanks for 175 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:55,160 Speaker 2: everything you do. I saw you in Denver recently and 176 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 2: it made my year SSDGM THCs. 177 00:07:58,480 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 1: Okay man, those are the stories like your town just 178 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 1: never gets over. No, it stays with everyone. The entire 179 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 1: town's looking for a brother and a sister. Yeah, I 180 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 1: mean awful. Oh my god. That's like when I picked 181 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 1: her the seventies and eighties. I'm like, well, everyone was 182 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:14,520 Speaker 1: just looking for missing children. 183 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 2: Yes, all the time, and always baffled and kind of like, 184 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 2: what's going on and. 185 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 1: Why would this happen? Yeah, let's blame satanists. 186 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 2: Way, let's blame satanists because the idea of the guy 187 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 2: that did it is in the search party is beyond 188 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:32,679 Speaker 2: comprehension until what the last fifteen years. 189 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 1: Because you don't understand what evil looks like. It looks 190 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 1: like everyone else, It looks like you and me. This 191 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 1: is an or so we thought story. Hey MFM crew, 192 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 1: I've always wanted to tell the story, and now is 193 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:50,439 Speaker 1: my time. In twenty twenty, I met my husband David 194 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 1: during the pandemic. We both got COVID right after meeting 195 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:56,679 Speaker 1: and quarantined together for two weeks. Being sick like that 196 00:08:56,760 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 1: after just a few weeks of knowing each other was 197 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:01,680 Speaker 1: so crazy, but we made it out live. After a 198 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:03,520 Speaker 1: few weeks of getting better, we decided to go for 199 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 1: a three day weekend trip to an airbnb in a 200 00:09:06,000 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 1: little town in West Virginia. On our second day there, 201 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:11,679 Speaker 1: I was lying down near a window and saw a dog. 202 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 1: It was really cold, so I went outside to see 203 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,680 Speaker 1: if the dog had a collar. He did have a collar, 204 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 1: but he was filthy and didn't seem like he had 205 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:21,560 Speaker 1: a tag. My husband and I stayed with this dog 206 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 1: outside for most of the day and thought about bringing 207 00:09:24,040 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 1: him inside. There was a walkable grocery store nearby, so 208 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 1: I headed there to get the dog some food. The 209 00:09:30,120 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 1: cashier saw me looking at dog food and said, is 210 00:09:32,679 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 1: Axel over there? He likes to play with all the 211 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:38,720 Speaker 1: tourists that come by. I'm starving. 212 00:09:38,920 --> 00:09:40,320 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm just a lazza dog. 213 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:44,440 Speaker 1: I'm Axel. She then showed me pictures of Axel and 214 00:09:44,520 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: other dogs that like to come around frequently. Oh my god, 215 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:50,839 Speaker 1: the suckers at the airbnb, the fucking coastal Elite. 216 00:09:50,559 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 2: Where they're just kind of like, if you make your 217 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 2: eyes wide enough, you'll get a full dinner in the 218 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:54,920 Speaker 2: rightddle of the day. 219 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:58,560 Speaker 1: Tail between legs, you're golden. Oh my god. She called 220 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 1: him a street dog gang. She also told me that 221 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 1: Axel is almost taken by a previous couple who were 222 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:06,520 Speaker 1: staying at that Airbnb, but they ended up leaving him behind. 223 00:10:06,880 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 1: She told me he had an owner, a Penny Somethings. 224 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 1: I can't remember the exact name. I bought dog food 225 00:10:12,559 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 1: and dog shampoo wash. Because he was dirty. My husband 226 00:10:15,400 --> 00:10:17,959 Speaker 1: and I took the dog inside, gave him a warm bath, 227 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 1: and gave him dinner. That's like my ideal vacation. Find 228 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 1: a stray dog. 229 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 2: Find a couple that will bathe you and dine you. 230 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 1: That's actually went around. Yeah, I love it. We gave 231 00:10:30,360 --> 00:10:33,000 Speaker 1: him dinner. We hung out with this one blue eyed 232 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: dog for the rest of the evening. We found a 233 00:10:35,320 --> 00:10:37,560 Speaker 1: kid outside an Airbnb, and, like Lake Arra had once 234 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:40,240 Speaker 1: it's us, we let him stay inside, even though it 235 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 1: was against the Airbnb rules. Now it was the final 236 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 1: day of our trip and we had to decide what 237 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 1: to do about Axel. He was still there and not 238 00:10:47,280 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 1: looking to be leaving or walking back to his home. 239 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 1: My husband and I talked about taking him, but were 240 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:54,880 Speaker 1: worried he wouldn't get along with our other dog, Murphy. 241 00:10:55,400 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 1: We looked at each other and decided not to take Axel. 242 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:00,880 Speaker 1: We packed our things in the car and drove off. 243 00:11:01,360 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 1: We'd been driving for not thirty seconds and we realized 244 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 1: Axel was running behind the car. 245 00:11:07,440 --> 00:11:08,600 Speaker 2: Does he do that for everybody? 246 00:11:08,600 --> 00:11:10,199 Speaker 1: I don't know. We looked at each other and said, 247 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:13,640 Speaker 1: come on, babe. My husband began driving faster to see 248 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:15,560 Speaker 1: if that would stop him from running, but it made 249 00:11:15,640 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 1: Axel run even faster. That's when we decided we had 250 00:11:19,559 --> 00:11:23,319 Speaker 1: to take Axel with us. Y he clearly wanted to come. Well, 251 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 1: they're letting the dog decide. So we pull over and 252 00:11:26,280 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 1: my husband goes to the trunk to get a blanket 253 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:29,960 Speaker 1: to lie down in the back seat. He opens the 254 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:34,199 Speaker 1: back door and Axel jumps right in when suddenly a 255 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 1: rusty red pickup truck sees us and thinks our car 256 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:40,320 Speaker 1: is broken down and asks, in a Southern Appalachian accent, 257 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:43,679 Speaker 1: are y'all okay? Do you need hail? And we began 258 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 1: to explain that we were trying to get the dog 259 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:47,679 Speaker 1: into the car, and he says, in a Southern appal 260 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:51,320 Speaker 1: Atchian accent, is that my dog, Axel get in here. 261 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 1: Axel jumps out of our back seat into the red 262 00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 1: pickup truck and they set off into the sunset. 263 00:11:58,040 --> 00:11:59,400 Speaker 2: Oh, Axel Axel. 264 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 1: My husband and I are literally speechless trying to explain 265 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 1: how that just happened. Truly one of the funniest stories 266 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 1: I have to tell. It makes you laugh and cry, 267 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 1: and how many things had to line up for that 268 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 1: to even happen. Thank you all for everything, and thanks 269 00:12:12,040 --> 00:12:14,679 Speaker 1: for always speaking up about mental health and how immigrants 270 00:12:14,760 --> 00:12:19,240 Speaker 1: make this country great. SSDGM Catherine N. Do I have 271 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 1: a picture of Axel? 272 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:21,600 Speaker 2: Oh? Yes? 273 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:22,439 Speaker 1: Or nice? 274 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's a fucking hound. That's the most 275 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 3: stealable dog of all time. Immediately are you out of 276 00:12:31,600 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 3: your mind? 277 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 1: Look at that face. I guess I'm really hungry. I've 278 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 1: eaten and all I don't know. 279 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:38,200 Speaker 2: I see I'm abandoned even though this is a brand 280 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 2: new red collar. Oh my car, that is amazing. I 281 00:12:46,040 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 2: love it. Okay, okay. Subdecline of this email is the 282 00:12:50,280 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 2: time I lived in a haunted cabin Dear Karen and Georgia. 283 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 2: During my senior year in college, I did a study 284 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:59,240 Speaker 2: away program near Ashland, Oregon. We lived on a small 285 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 2: campus around by Wilderness where we lived in cabins instead 286 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:05,400 Speaker 2: of dorms. It was awesome. That kind of sounds amazing. 287 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:08,800 Speaker 2: Cabins yeah. Yeah. The area that is now our campus 288 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 2: was once a small town built around a nineteen twenties 289 00:13:11,760 --> 00:13:13,840 Speaker 2: lumber mill. The best way I can describe it is 290 00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:18,360 Speaker 2: that it feels like living on Walton's Mountain. The cabins were, Oh, 291 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 2: the Waltons. 292 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh got it, got it? 293 00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:21,720 Speaker 2: So it's like everything's better. 294 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 1: Part that TV shows the Waltons. 295 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 2: The Waltons is so old. 296 00:13:25,800 --> 00:13:27,959 Speaker 1: I think I'm like that much too young for it. 297 00:13:28,080 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 2: I was too young, Like I remember my parents watching it. 298 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 2: Just at the end they all go can I John boy, 299 00:13:34,640 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 2: can not Grandpa? And it was just the outside shot 300 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:40,360 Speaker 2: of the got It house. It was real homey. It 301 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:42,840 Speaker 2: was almost like grown up little house on the park. 302 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 1: And I was thinking, is that word? Little house on 303 00:13:44,520 --> 00:13:44,960 Speaker 1: the pridge? 304 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:47,800 Speaker 2: It was years later? Got it in a higher mountain? 305 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, timond place here we are. 306 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 2: Little house in the prariy was like Minnesota, I believe, Okay, 307 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:56,040 Speaker 2: And then I believed Walton's is Appalachian. 308 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:57,680 Speaker 1: Did you grow up like that? Tell us how it was? 309 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:00,200 Speaker 2: Yes? Did you make the walls of your own home 310 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 2: out of mud and clay? Please write in Okay. The 311 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:06,679 Speaker 2: cabins were where the mill workers lived and our library 312 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:10,120 Speaker 2: was their general store. Pretty rad. That's incredible. Actually, I 313 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 2: lived in a cabin with three other girls. Everything was 314 00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:14,960 Speaker 2: fine for a while, but then we started noticing strange 315 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 2: things were happening. Silverware would go missing, doors open and 316 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 2: then closed on their own. My roommate kept a flashlight 317 00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 2: in her desk drawer and opened the drawer more than 318 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 2: once to find the flashlight turned on. We would wake 319 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 2: up in the morning to find our alarm clock unplugged 320 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:31,320 Speaker 2: when we knew it had been plugged in when we 321 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:34,760 Speaker 2: went to bed. Our porch light flickered for the entire semester. 322 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:38,640 Speaker 2: Two of our professors tried to fix it with no luck. Ghosts, 323 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 2: that's not no. I spoke to two girls who did 324 00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 2: the program the year after me, and Anna told me 325 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 2: that she was coming out of the bathroom one day 326 00:14:47,440 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 2: and heard footsteps. She thought it was one of her roommates, 327 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 2: and she said she felt like someone was standing outside 328 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:55,600 Speaker 2: the door, so she yelled out, wow, very funny. Guys 329 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:57,920 Speaker 2: are just trying to hear me pee. She stepped out 330 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 2: of the bathroom and she said she got pushed backwards. 331 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 2: The force was so strong that she hit her back 332 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 2: on the bathroom sing, Oh my god. Anna lived in 333 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 2: the same bedroom in the cabin that I lived in 334 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 2: the previous year. I asked if she'd ever felt anything, 335 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 2: and she said she was doing her hair in the 336 00:15:13,560 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 2: mirror and saw a person standing behind her near the 337 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 2: bunk bed. When she screamed and turned around, there was nothing. 338 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:22,240 Speaker 1: Oh mirror ghost nightmare. 339 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 2: It's like straight out of a Blomhouse horror movie. Another 340 00:15:25,600 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 2: girl told me that she often saw a ghost when 341 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 2: she was walking home from the library at night. She 342 00:15:30,200 --> 00:15:33,800 Speaker 2: described the ghost as a lumberjack man who carried a chainsaw. 343 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 2: He never did anything to me, but I always saw him. 344 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 1: Cool. 345 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:40,240 Speaker 2: What does he have to do? Pass goodbye? Carrying a 346 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 2: fucking chainsaw at you. 347 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 1: I'm a college dropout now, goodbye, goodbye. 348 00:15:44,520 --> 00:15:48,320 Speaker 2: That's when I started jogging away from college. It makes 349 00:15:48,320 --> 00:15:50,880 Speaker 2: sense for an area that was a lumber milltown. Our 350 00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 2: professor told us that the ghost who haunts cabin Ate 351 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 2: is a lumberjack too. Maybe it's the same one. Thank 352 00:15:56,960 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 2: you for everything you do and for always bringing humor 353 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 2: to shitty situations. Love y'all, and also Anna sadly passed 354 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:10,400 Speaker 2: away in twenty twenty two. Rip Anna, SSDGM Becca, I'm 355 00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:12,080 Speaker 2: so sorry. I know, sad. 356 00:16:12,520 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 1: Wow, ghost stories. I want the push stories more than 357 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 1: the light flickering stories, you know what I mean. 358 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, because if it's like a cabin in the twenties, 359 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 2: then you're like, that's an electrical issue in middle of nowhere. 360 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 2: Just get someone out there. It's those old electrical. 361 00:16:26,560 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 3: Chords wrapped in cloths exactly. Get rid of them, and 362 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 3: they're going to start a fire, a haunted fire, haunted fire. 363 00:16:31,840 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 3: But somebody pushing you into the sink. 364 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 1: That's fucked up. Okay, here's my last one. That's short. Okay, Okay, 365 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 1: it's lighthearted to my favorite murder gals. I am currently 366 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 1: in the trenches a parenting two girls, both under the 367 00:16:48,160 --> 00:16:50,240 Speaker 1: age of two, which means most of my days are 368 00:16:50,240 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 1: spent breaking up would be baby cat fights, cleaning up 369 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:56,800 Speaker 1: crush cheerios, and listening to wheels on the bus way 370 00:16:56,840 --> 00:16:59,600 Speaker 1: too many times. The other day, my youngest daughter was 371 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:03,360 Speaker 1: extremely upset over something teething am I right and launched 372 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:06,159 Speaker 1: into a full blown miltown at the breakfast table, like 373 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:10,040 Speaker 1: first thing in the morning, and my older daughter immediately 374 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 1: rushed to her side, tried comforting her, and looked up 375 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:16,520 Speaker 1: at me with two white eyes. She uttered, maybe a 376 00:17:16,560 --> 00:17:20,200 Speaker 1: hot dog would help. I was immediately confused. These girls 377 00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 1: have never seen or even had a hot dog ever 378 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:26,720 Speaker 1: before in their short lives. But then they realized they 379 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:30,199 Speaker 1: have heard about hot dogs when we are driving in 380 00:17:30,240 --> 00:17:35,640 Speaker 1: the car listening to your podcast Stay Sexy and know that. Yes, 381 00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:41,640 Speaker 1: a hot dog always helps. Mary and two pint sized fans. Oh, 382 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:43,200 Speaker 1: maybe a hot dog would help. 383 00:17:43,359 --> 00:17:45,720 Speaker 2: Maybe I should have a hot dog and figure out 384 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:46,080 Speaker 2: what they. 385 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:47,240 Speaker 1: Are hot dogs all around. 386 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:49,359 Speaker 2: Oh that's so cute. 387 00:17:49,400 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 1: I it I love that. That's our legacy. I know. 388 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 2: Yes, let teach the children. Well, they're like, there's too 389 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:58,880 Speaker 2: many nitrates in this for you to actually eat. 390 00:17:59,000 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: You shouldn't be eating them. 391 00:18:00,000 --> 00:18:06,960 Speaker 2: I've gotten so many cute hot dog keychains, toys, you know, handstitch, crochet, 392 00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:10,399 Speaker 2: many things. Yeah, that earings, Oh so cute. And people 393 00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:13,400 Speaker 2: walking up with like hot dog print dresses on. That's 394 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 2: so good. Okay, my last one is pretty great. It 395 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:20,200 Speaker 2: starts Heidi home murdering. Nos. I am not a fitter inner. 396 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 2: I've only been concerned about standing out for two of 397 00:18:23,320 --> 00:18:26,160 Speaker 2: my fifty two years, and of course those years were 398 00:18:26,160 --> 00:18:27,800 Speaker 2: in junior high. 399 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:28,640 Speaker 1: God, it's bad. 400 00:18:29,000 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 2: It's just so bad. No one's ready. 401 00:18:31,560 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 1: Tucked my shirts into my shorts. 402 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:36,200 Speaker 2: Well, they were so big and long you had to 403 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:41,240 Speaker 2: put them somewhere. Ah. The eighties the golden age of bullying. Truly, 404 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 2: so true. 405 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:43,879 Speaker 1: That's why we're here today. 406 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 2: Truly, It's like you either bullied or you got bullied, 407 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:49,120 Speaker 2: and that those are the only two modes of existence 408 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:52,320 Speaker 2: in the eighties, when there are only four approved brand 409 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:54,359 Speaker 2: names of clothing at school, and at least three of 410 00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:57,080 Speaker 2: them involved convincing your parents to drive you three hours 411 00:18:57,080 --> 00:19:00,240 Speaker 2: over a mountain pass to a real mall oh and 412 00:19:00,280 --> 00:19:02,280 Speaker 2: then beg you to buy them the guests or a 413 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:05,920 Speaker 2: spree shirt of your choice if you could fit into it. Yes, yes, 414 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 2: and yes, I really tried to blend and go unnoticed 415 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:11,679 Speaker 2: by the cold kids. But the clothing rules kept changing, 416 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:16,680 Speaker 2: and then the Rajni Sheis moved to town. The Bogwan 417 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:20,159 Speaker 2: Tree Rajenitions Pals started their own settlement in central Oregon 418 00:19:20,200 --> 00:19:22,760 Speaker 2: in the early eighties, though the commune would later be 419 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:25,399 Speaker 2: known for more nefariouses. When I was in sixth and 420 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:28,359 Speaker 2: seventh grade, the school bullies would focus on the color 421 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:31,920 Speaker 2: palette the cult members chose to wear the Bogwan's followers 422 00:19:31,920 --> 00:19:35,240 Speaker 2: called Rajni She's only wore the colors of the sunset, 423 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:39,440 Speaker 2: capital c capitalist and suddenly wearing any shade of red 424 00:19:39,480 --> 00:19:41,359 Speaker 2: could get you on the wrong side of a dodgeball. 425 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 2: Not to mention the vicious chance of Rajni, she RASINII, 426 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 2: echoing for weeks. Oh God, so you're just like a 427 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:50,359 Speaker 2: twelve year old girl going to school, like I just 428 00:19:50,400 --> 00:19:53,160 Speaker 2: got this cute reddish bree shirt. Yeah, here I go. 429 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:56,199 Speaker 2: The cult was unwelcome in their tiny town of Antelope, 430 00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:58,399 Speaker 2: just over an hour from where I grew up in Bend, 431 00:19:58,880 --> 00:20:01,840 Speaker 2: but the mistrust and fish and spread all over the area. 432 00:20:01,920 --> 00:20:05,720 Speaker 2: With Rajnichi Hunter bumper stickers and parody songs on the 433 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:09,840 Speaker 2: radio about the Bogwan's right hand woman, Sheila, there didn't 434 00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:12,560 Speaker 2: seem to be a sympathetic or even neutral stance on 435 00:20:12,680 --> 00:20:16,200 Speaker 2: them anywhere in the state, of course. Not tough titties, Yeah, 436 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:19,399 Speaker 2: because you've got it. There's a race issue. There's just 437 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 2: a general new people in a country territory issue doing 438 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:26,359 Speaker 2: something not Christian, not Christian in the lead kind of 439 00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:30,200 Speaker 2: opposite and in a community way. It's all the it's 440 00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:34,000 Speaker 2: a real perfect storm in maroon. Oh except for my 441 00:20:34,040 --> 00:20:36,720 Speaker 2: girl Scout leader. Yep, she put together a field trip 442 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 2: for our troop to go visit the commune in one 443 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:41,080 Speaker 2: Saturday in nineteen eighty four. 444 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:42,400 Speaker 1: Progressive right. 445 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:46,000 Speaker 2: Finally, my curiosity would be satiated if only I could 446 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:48,000 Speaker 2: get my mom to sign the permission slip. But you 447 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:50,639 Speaker 2: know what, that woman didn't even seem to consider it 448 00:20:50,720 --> 00:20:54,240 Speaker 2: before telling me no. But but all my friends are going. 449 00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:56,760 Speaker 2: I would be the only person who didn't go. Who 450 00:20:56,800 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 2: we would be chaperone? Why you're being so close minded, mom? 451 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,639 Speaker 2: Why won't you let me go visit a cult? Her answer, 452 00:21:02,680 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 2: though seemingly random at the time, would bubble up in 453 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:07,679 Speaker 2: my memory about thirteen years later when I was planning 454 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:11,240 Speaker 2: another uncomfortable conversation with her, Why wouldn't she let me 455 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:15,119 Speaker 2: go visit the rajniche Porum? And then the mother's answer 456 00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:17,720 Speaker 2: in quotes because there were lesbians there? 457 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 1: Oh No. 458 00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:24,679 Speaker 2: Although my fomo felt fatal, I guess I wasn't that 459 00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 2: concerned about it, because I was almost thirty when I 460 00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:31,800 Speaker 2: found out zero girl Scouts went on that trip. Nobody's 461 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 2: parents signed those permissions signs. 462 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:34,800 Speaker 1: Oh. 463 00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 2: Now, when I came out to my mom in nineteen 464 00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:39,560 Speaker 2: ninety seven. She was very loving and accepting, and I 465 00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:42,400 Speaker 2: will never stop missing her since she passed ten years later. 466 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 2: But Jesus Christ, Mom, you don't need a permission slip 467 00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 2: to be a lesbian. Stay sexy and wear what feels good. 468 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:54,160 Speaker 1: Beth, that's such a great, like full circle story. Why 469 00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:56,680 Speaker 1: didn't you want me to go? Because you will become 470 00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:59,639 Speaker 1: the thing you are? Oh guess what? Yeah, I'm the 471 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:02,840 Speaker 1: thing that you didn't you want for a reason. 472 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:06,640 Speaker 2: But also did you know they also have machine guns there, right, 473 00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:09,000 Speaker 2: and all the kinds of shit you would be very 474 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:09,600 Speaker 2: worried about. 475 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,080 Speaker 1: The lesbians with machine guns are like the least of 476 00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:17,639 Speaker 1: your fucking worries, I promise you. Hey, lesbians with machine guns, 477 00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:18,640 Speaker 1: thank you for listening. 478 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:21,639 Speaker 2: We'd love to hear from you, truly would. What's going 479 00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:24,960 Speaker 2: on in Ben's let us know? 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