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Speaker 1: Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come on

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Speaker 1: But you don't at Thanksgiving? Like I got a friend

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Speaker 1: I do have some ways that people can save money

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Speaker 1: I can't friend. You can't do it. Fried chicken okay

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Speaker 1: know do like Boomerang do Boomerang for his birthday went

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Speaker 1: What you got for us? Nap too much? Chicken can

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Speaker 1: Let's go capt Dog. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Jason. Please, Yes, Jason, Hi, Jason,

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Speaker 1: My name is Remy. I'm calling with BPE TMC. I

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Speaker 1: That is vp E t MC. It's an organization we've

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Speaker 1: BP E t MC Jason is uh, black people eat

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Speaker 1: My name, my name is Remy, sir. Okay, what you

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Speaker 1: ask them they eat all time, the chicken, chicken, food,

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Speaker 1: say you want to come to me talking about a

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Speaker 1: he man, we go. Are you thinking of something? You hey, Hindu,

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Speaker 1: y'all got my number in it? Yeah, well you get sir.

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Speaker 1: We're actually we're getting numbers from the supermarket. Uh, and

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Speaker 1: How you doing? My name is Remy. I'm with BP

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Speaker 1: I'm with bp E t MC. What we're doing is

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Speaker 1: What's it? What's B what is that? What's that stand for?

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Speaker 1: Bp TMC is is uh black people eat too much chicken?

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Speaker 1: And what we're trying to do with Man, you gotta

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Speaker 1: be kidding me, man, this is this is remy sir.

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Speaker 1: We're trying to get you all to actually sign a petition.

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Speaker 1: What's going on as black people are buying too much chicken?

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Speaker 1: You gotta be kidding me. Man, Is this is a

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Speaker 1: then why are you calling me with this? Well, what

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Speaker 1: we're trying to do is we're trying to get how

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Speaker 1: do you get my number? First of all, actually we're

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Speaker 1: man called chicket man, Non me get smack one of y'all. Okay, sir.

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Speaker 1: What we're trying to do is get you guys to

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Speaker 1: going with it. We can't get tableted. Then they'll be

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Speaker 1: calling my phone with the man Hello, Hello, I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to reach the valerie a vow. That's a shame. How

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Speaker 1: I'm with BPE TMC. How you doing. I'm doing fine,

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Speaker 1: and you I'm very well. Man. Listen, what we're trying

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Speaker 1: BPE TMC. And what this is is black What is that? Uh?

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Speaker 1: That's that's Black people eat too much chicken. So what

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Speaker 1: we're doing is we're trying to get back say that

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Speaker 1: woman time for me. Black people eat too much chicken.

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Speaker 1: You see, there's been a shortage in chicken. So what

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Speaker 1: we're trying to do is get black people in chicken,

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Speaker 1: and you want to do a survey what we want?

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Speaker 1: What we want you guys to do with sign a

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Speaker 1: Why do we then make sense? We just stn't eat chicken.

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Speaker 1: You know, we eat beef, weat steak, eat fish. I don't,

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Speaker 1: So you're trying to part that off the market. Now,

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Speaker 1: why would you want to tell us not to eat chicken?

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Speaker 1: And we eat other stuff too? Why are you getting

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Speaker 1: there in front? Because this doesn't make any sense. The

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Speaker 1: doing the test study, we did realize that the black

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Speaker 1: What the bottom line is, our first study is black people,

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Speaker 1: to cut back on Eachi. Yes, study should be everybody.

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Speaker 1: This is something when should get my number from man?

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Speaker 1: We got you, We got numbers from the supermarkets that

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Speaker 1: you calling me, interrupting me about something like this. This

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Speaker 1: is this wasn't bottom line, ma'am. You don't. You don't

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Speaker 1: tell me. You're not telling me put the hair and

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Speaker 1: I can't. You don't last mine. You got lifing them

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Speaker 1: push this out? Yes, you do, calling somebody telling them

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Speaker 1: black people eat too much chicken? You and your partian.

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Speaker 1: Would you like to hear what the survey is actually saying. No,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to hear that the survey is actually

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Speaker 1: saying that. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show, Valerie, This is nephew Tommy baby from the Steawalker.

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Speaker 1: Oh and you have too much a masterpiece? Man is

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Speaker 1: the team Tommy bro bro bro bro bro Bro. You brilliant,

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Speaker 1: you brilliant man. All right, more of this crazy ignorant show.

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Speaker 1: you're not looking forward to? Sing? Who is it? My

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Speaker 1: I don't even knowing? It's Ernest? Why the whole time here? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Your mother in laws a dream. I love her, we

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Speaker 1: Mom and daddy. I got the best. I never had

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Speaker 1: a complaint. Man, we're happy. We enjoy each other. They

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Speaker 1: I love them. But her sister husband, what's wrong? I

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Speaker 1: don't know, that's what. That's what's wrong. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: So they come to dinner and they do what they doing.

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Speaker 1: We was having a prayer one time. My mom in

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Speaker 1: I ain't like this here because there's too many people.

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Speaker 1: And I didn't know half the people that was in

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Speaker 1: the circle. So and I really don't care what you're

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Speaker 1: grateful fault because dinner is ready and we can talk

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Speaker 1: about this why we eat, you know, but what has

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Speaker 1: all this beforehand? And it got around to everybody, and

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Speaker 1: this one lady took a long time, but hers was

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Speaker 1: the best. So I broke from the circle and started

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Speaker 1: clapping because I wanted to try to end it with applause, right,

427
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Speaker 1: and you're not posted a clap doing prayer. But I

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Speaker 1: just tried to wrap it up and it kept going.

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Speaker 1: And I'm holding this dude's hand now, I don't know

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Speaker 1: nothing wrong with him until it got to him and

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00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 1: he started talking about what he was grateful fault. He said,

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Speaker 1: I'm grateful for the weather and that we had the

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Speaker 1: jacket's home and that the fact that you know, everything

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Speaker 1: at the grocery store is fresh, and that we can

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Speaker 1: go go by there, and I thank you. I thank

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Speaker 1: him for my cars too that come on in the

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Speaker 1: morning and take her safe. And then I want to

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Speaker 1: thank him for the freshness of the potato chips in

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Speaker 1: the bag. Sometime now I'm sitting now, I'm looking upside

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Speaker 1: his head, but my whole body trimming because everybody got

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00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 1: their head down except Winting is looking up in full

442
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 1: blown hollow mote at me face talk. I'm over here.

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Speaker 1: My whole body is shaking. I'm laughing so hard, trying

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Speaker 1: not to blurt it out. Gives my mother in law

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Speaker 1: she holding my hand on the other side, she squeezes

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Speaker 1: my hand to try to help me through it. That

447
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 1: ain't stopping nothing. I got. Who is this man? Then

448
00:30:54,040 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 1: my other son, Steve, he opens his eyes and he

449
00:30:57,000 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 1: starts snickering. My son owns me and my son's is

450
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 1: in hollow mode. Harvey boys this to us, yil yeah,

451
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 1: and I've given him for permission that laughing stuff like that.

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00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 1: So I looked over to the left of the circle

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Speaker 1: and my wife is glaring at me with them a

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Speaker 1: little green eyes. I'm talking about glaring if you don't squit,

455
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Speaker 1: if you don't pull it together like when she said that.

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Speaker 1: And then I thank the Lord. I gotta tune up

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Speaker 1: the other Yeah, I had to let everybody head go

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Speaker 1: and leave the circle. I got a tune up. Yeah,

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00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:43,480
Speaker 1: thank god, I gotta tune up. The other day, I

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00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 1: went in my office. I'm holly, I'm holloing. Next thing,

461
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 1: I look up winting in the office with me because

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00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:54,520
Speaker 1: he couldn't handle it. The I love it. That was

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00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:57,400
Speaker 1: it I love it, So you don't want him to

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Speaker 1: come by this year? Man, Please don't, please, don't let

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Speaker 1: him speak? All right, Steve. Time for today's headlines, ladies

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen, Miss Anne Tripp, thank you very much everybody,

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Speaker 1: and good morning. This is entered put the news. Well,

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Speaker 1: let's start out with the weather, because the weather is

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Speaker 1: one of the big stories. The winter storms have fouled

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Speaker 1: up Thanksgiving travel plans for a lot of Americans. The

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Speaker 1: snow and the ice moving east. They suck a bomb

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Speaker 1: cyclone apparently from the Great Planes into the Middle East.

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Speaker 1: If you Middle East, Midwest, and if you look at

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Speaker 1: TV some of the TV pictures of what's going on there,

475
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Speaker 1: you would think it's January or February, as are usual

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Speaker 1: for this the biggest travel week for US residents. The

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Speaker 1: roads are really heavy, the lines along at the airports.

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Speaker 1: Expect some delays and cancelations. Get out early, if you

479
00:32:39,600 --> 00:32:42,640
Speaker 1: haven't left yet for Grandma's house, get out early now

480
00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 1: early is the thing, and that no matter how you're going,

481
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 1: whether you're traveling by car or by rail or by air,

482
00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:52,080
Speaker 1: just get out there. And it continues. First it was

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Speaker 1: the House Intelligence Committee, now the House Judiciary Committee is

484
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Speaker 1: appearing to launch his own impeachment hearings into the president

485
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Speaker 1: to president's actions regard in Ukraine, listed to begin next

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Speaker 1: week on December fourth. The House Intelligence Committee is to

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Speaker 1: issue its impeachment reports sometime after this week, and the

488
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Speaker 1: House Oversight Committee is suing US Attorney General William Barr

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Speaker 1: and Common Secretary Wilbur Ross over internal documents about the

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Speaker 1: Trump administration's effort to get a citizenship question on that

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty census. The administrations refused to release complete copies

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Speaker 1: of emails to the Congress that indicate that the Trump

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Speaker 1: that people had a real reason for pushing for it.

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Speaker 1: The three federal courts had permanently blocked any citizenship question

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Speaker 1: by the way from appearing on the census forms, in

496
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Speaker 1: part because the judges said they found the administration supposed

497
00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 1: the justification for adding a census question bogus and shady.

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Speaker 1: According to a new report, death rates in the US

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Speaker 1: are up for people between the ages of twenty five

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Speaker 1: and forty years of age. Those higher death rates due

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Speaker 1: to suicide, drug overdoses, liver disease, murder, and a dozen

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Speaker 1: other causes. So overall, life expectancy in the US has

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Speaker 1: been driven down for three consecutive years. Study publishing a

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Speaker 1: journal of American Medical Association concludes that despite spending more

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Speaker 1: in healthcare than any other country, that the US has

506
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Speaker 1: still seen really an increase of mortality and failing life

507
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Speaker 1: expectancy for those between the ages of twenty five and

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Speaker 1: sixty four. So now it's eating while black. A white

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00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:19,320
Speaker 1: cop stopped and detained a black man for eating a

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Speaker 1: sandwich on the San Francisco Bay Area platform. Bart Police

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Speaker 1: acclaiming that mister Steve Foster broke the state law by

512
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Speaker 1: eating while waiting for a train on November fourth. However,

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Speaker 1: his girlfriend, who filmed all of it, said that the

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Speaker 1: sign say eating is prohibited on the trains, not on

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Speaker 1: the platform. The white cop calls for back up, and

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Speaker 1: you know how they can behave some of them. And finally,

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Speaker 1: today is National Pie Interface to day. Better a pie

518
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Speaker 1: interface today than tomorrow. That's going to be in your stomach.

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Speaker 1: Now back to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening

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00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 1: to show everybody given time, you're gonna be at your friends,

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Speaker 1: how you're gonna be at your mama's house, you gonna

522
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:00,840
Speaker 1: be at religive house, whatever you learn to get you

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Speaker 1: in the living room, outside, on the porch or whatever.

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Speaker 1: Have these conversations, Shirley play Junior, Yeah, you had these conversations.

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Speaker 1: Well you have none of the information, right, You can't

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00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 1: remember Dan have him all the time asking people who

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Speaker 1: even down something like this, What was that guy's name

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00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:26,279
Speaker 1: that she was with last year? You know the one

529
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: that used to lounge Darneil, wasn't it dark Nail? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I remember him. You know what I remember about him?

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Speaker 1: Who you asking again? Oh? The goat to j down

532
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Speaker 1: at the lounge, stay down at the lounge, Junior trying

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Speaker 1: to say he was down at the loud. Yeah, he

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00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 1: had one arm. He had one arm. I remember, you

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Speaker 1: can mix it. He can mix it. Though he was

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Speaker 1: I liked him though. He was good. He was he

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00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,319
Speaker 1: was He was a nice guy. He was real. They

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00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:10,399
Speaker 1: called him Red two dollars one red. One red called

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00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:14,719
Speaker 1: him one red because he had one on one. I'm red. Yeah,

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00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:20,400
Speaker 1: you're right, I can relate. How you How are you

541
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 1: doing with your arms? I'm worried that I'm not gonna

542
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:27,760
Speaker 1: cut this turkey right on Thursday. That's gonna be my problem.

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Speaker 1: If you know you can take I heard now I

544
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:33,880
Speaker 1: heard you could take to any gas station in town

545
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Speaker 1: and they will carve your turkey for you if you

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Speaker 1: buy five dollars with the gas. What's that five lottery

547
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 1: tickets and five lotteries? Yeah, what's that boy name? They'll

548
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:48,440
Speaker 1: be out there cutting the turkeys at the gas. Yeah,

549
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:51,920
Speaker 1: he'll be outside. He'll be outside cutting up your turkey. Yea, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: do it? Yeah yeah, the red half red is red.

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00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:04,120
Speaker 1: It is DJ red. That's what he do. He so

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00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:09,120
Speaker 1: because he with the one all Yeah, well, you know, Tommy,

553
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 1: that's an option. That's just saying yeah, just saying, well, everybody, dad,

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Speaker 1: you have it. Those are some of the stupid conversations.

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00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:37,800
Speaker 1: Nobody nod, Yeah, I have a happy Thanksgiving. You're listening.

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00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 1: Getting together with family for Thanksgiving can definitely be stressful,

557
00:37:45,280 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 1: really a stressful time for some people. Some families, all

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00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 1: those extended relatives in one place with different opinions, you know,

559
00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:54,359
Speaker 1: they're bound to set off a few fights. So most

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00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:56,839
Speaker 1: people just tend to be careful of what they say.

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00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 1: They tend to be, you know, a little leary of

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Speaker 1: what's not gonna be in my house. That's what I

563
00:38:04,400 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 1: was gonna ask you. So are there some subjects that

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00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:08,879
Speaker 1: you're told that are totally off limits, that you don't

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00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:10,840
Speaker 1: bring up or you just do whatever because no, this

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Speaker 1: is my house. I say what I want to say,

567
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:14,879
Speaker 1: but I tear what. I don't allow in my house

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Speaker 1: anybody to just pray, like over the food. You mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I picks who pray like Pop Bridges, like Marjorie Daddy,

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Speaker 1: he could pray over the food. I don't like other

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Speaker 1: people coming to the house. That happened one time, Marjorie

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Speaker 1: whole family was that do you ever pray? Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: pray it'd be so short that we eat everybody my

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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving prayers saying as my grace. You know what's But Steve,

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Speaker 1: how do you handle that? Because if somebody's there and say,

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Speaker 1: well can I can I bless the food? Steve say no. No,

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Speaker 1: I say no, Pop Bridges bless it? Go head pop

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00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:56,319
Speaker 1: and he jumped right in. It's pretty simple that ain't

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Speaker 1: now We had this lady. She told me, I want

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Speaker 1: my husband and bless the food. He does a good

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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving prayer not over here. Was he a pastor? I

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Speaker 1: don't know what it was, but he ain't hind to

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00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:07,759
Speaker 1: do it up in him. You didn't give him a

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Speaker 1: chance because no, I don't know what it is those

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00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 1: people that are not pastors that but they ministers and

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00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:14,319
Speaker 1: they don't get the rid of pre see right there,

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00:39:14,600 --> 00:39:17,959
Speaker 1: ministers all that he got a really good Thanksgiving prayer?

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Speaker 1: What does that mean? My cousin? Wasn't this damn Turkish names? Yeah?

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00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:25,680
Speaker 1: He was an elder at our church and he prayed

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00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 1: too long? So long? Yes, so, I mean so long,

591
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 1: and you couldn't. Every time you thought he was gonna stop,

592
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 1: he kept going. All he was doing was taking a breath.

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Speaker 1: You know what bothers me that hole taking food out

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Speaker 1: the house at the end, just wrapping up tubs and

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Speaker 1: tubs of food. People getting their little to gold plates.

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Speaker 1: How am I gonna eat on Friday? Tommy? You need

597
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Speaker 1: to cook some How am I gonna do? That's right, Tommy?

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Speaker 1: How is she gonna eat? Also? You mean people that

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Speaker 1: are invited to dinner, Tommy, and they get it to

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Speaker 1: go plate? You know, you know, one plate, okay, cool,

601
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Speaker 1: But when I see you loading up three or four

602
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Speaker 1: plates a fall, and it's just come on, man, really

603
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:17,719
Speaker 1: y'all starving over there? They may be pretty much okay, well,

604
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: but this high work at our house because you know,

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00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:25,360
Speaker 1: usually Marjorie know what I like, She'll put that in

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00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:29,879
Speaker 1: the other refrigerator and the other refrigerator. Oh okay, I'm

607
00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 1: now in the argument for me to get to that.

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00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:36,759
Speaker 1: Huh man, how many refrigerators at your house? The one

609
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Speaker 1: in the kitchen, the one in the kitchen? You know,

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Speaker 1: how much refrigerator? Car Man, I can't wait to be that.

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Speaker 1: Let me, since you're talking about our one refrigerator, how

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00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 1: many in your house? Wait? Hold ups, let's ask new money.

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Speaker 1: Who come on, Hollywood, come on? How many? How many refrigerators?

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Speaker 1: Just a simple question. Okay, I can't break it down,

615
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:22,319
Speaker 1: but I just like five, five refrigerators. Let me explain, Carl. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you got some splaining. It's three of those undercounter ones. Okay,

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Speaker 1: uh huh so, and then it's two big refrigerator one

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Speaker 1: one in the kitchen and went to me undercat still

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Speaker 1: a lot, Tommy, so ice everywhere? Huh what does that

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Speaker 1: mean under the counter like a wine refrigerator. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: a smaller refrigerator. It's oh, beverage refrigerator. Yeah, it's a

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Speaker 1: small one. You got one in nine Oh, he ain't countered.

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Speaker 1: I ain't count. You didn't count. You didn't know, Steve.

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Speaker 1: That was part of the time. I go five, Tommy's

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Speaker 1: got five? Okay. Everything on the show is a competition.

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Speaker 1: How many do you have? Steve is foe in the kitchen.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know who's counting, Richard. We ain't even got

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00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 1: out the kitchen. You y'all like Bill? Hi? All right?

629
00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:29,359
Speaker 1: Listen up next, it is the nephew with the prank

630
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 1: phone call for the day. We will be right back

631
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:38,160
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to morning show coming up at

632
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:40,680
Speaker 1: the top of the hour, right about four minutes after.

633
00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 1: It's today's Strawberry Letters. Right now, though, it is the nephew.

634
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:47,200
Speaker 1: He is here with today's prank phone call. What you

635
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 1: got given with cousin Benji? Thanks given with cousin Benji.

636
00:42:55,280 --> 00:43:02,719
Speaker 1: Y'all a ready listen to it? Hello? Hello? Who is

637
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:06,840
Speaker 1: this Missus Clinton? Who is this? This Beisy? I'm colleague?

638
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:10,319
Speaker 1: Is missus Purvis there? Um? You know she's not here

639
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:12,880
Speaker 1: right now, but this is her daughter? Um? Is there

640
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 1: a problem? Oh? No, this this this bends you. This

641
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:23,120
Speaker 1: Mama Mama Lorid's nephew. Who is this again? This Blenda Mama,

642
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:26,240
Speaker 1: Mama lod Mamma lord jo Ain't it Ain't it correct?

643
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 1: Mama Lord's and miss Persis? Okay, I'm beings you. I'm

644
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 1: I'm her nephew from the other side of the family.

645
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:35,919
Speaker 1: You say your name Wasna Blends. Okay, we'll tell y'all

646
00:43:35,920 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 1: supposed to get in and we should be there by

647
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 1: the afternoon. Okay. Uh is missus Purvis is? She is

648
00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 1: your mama making the dresses? Yeah, she's making enough for

649
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 1: about forty five people. We actually, um, this was discussed

650
00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:52,799
Speaker 1: about a month ago, right y'all on the y'all they

651
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 1: had the um conference call, the conference good family had

652
00:43:55,960 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 1: the conference call, right, yes, sir? Okay, Nah, listen, what

653
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:03,719
Speaker 1: reason why they got me to call? They wanted me

654
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 1: to go in and call, and I was trying to

655
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 1: give me this pervious she's not there. No, she's not here.

656
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:12,759
Speaker 1: What's wrong? Uh? Okay, they're not gonna they're not gonna

657
00:44:12,840 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 1: need her to do them to do the dressing. And

658
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:17,560
Speaker 1: why wouldn't they need to do dress. She's gonna make

659
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 1: it for ten years. We just we just discussed it.

660
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:22,719
Speaker 1: So what do you mean they say that they got

661
00:44:22,800 --> 00:44:25,200
Speaker 1: somebody down here that's gonna do the dressing, especially since

662
00:44:25,320 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 1: y'all traveling, y'all ain't got to bring it, you know,

663
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 1: and be traveling with it. But they got somebody gonna

664
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 1: do the dressing. Okay, Well, first of all, how are

665
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:35,800
Speaker 1: you you're you're BENI what is your name? That was

666
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:38,440
Speaker 1: not my name, Benjamin? But they called me Benji. But

667
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:42,040
Speaker 1: but but like I say, uh, I'm on the other

668
00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 1: side of a fact, I ain't on y'all side. Okay. Well,

669
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 1: I'm still trying to kick out. Why are you calling me?

670
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 1: Because she's been making a dressing for ten years, like

671
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 1: I said, and I mean, it's been discussed. So I

672
00:44:53,040 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 1: don't even know why why you're calling me. I don't

673
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 1: even know you. Okay, Well, what I'm trying to explain

674
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:00,399
Speaker 1: to you this right here, is that they got so y'all,

675
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:03,360
Speaker 1: y'all ain't got to worry with bringing the dressing. They

676
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:06,200
Speaker 1: got somebody gonna bring They got somebody down here that's

677
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 1: gonna cook it, so and otherwhere with you know, if

678
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 1: you can tell Miss Prayervish ain't got to worry about

679
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:13,320
Speaker 1: the dressing this year. I'm so you want me to

680
00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 1: tell my mama after she'd been making dressing for ten

681
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 1: years that y'all say, y'all ain't worried about she shouldn't

682
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:21,160
Speaker 1: have to make this year because we're driving there. We

683
00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:24,800
Speaker 1: drs every year. So I'm not gonna do that to her. So,

684
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:27,000
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't I don't even know who you

685
00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 1: are to be calling me anyway. Why didn't somebody calling

686
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:32,879
Speaker 1: me that I don't know regarding it? Okay, okay, you're

687
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 1: good the right, I am blended. All right. Listen, let

688
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 1: me say this because I don't mind saying what everybody thinking,

689
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:42,239
Speaker 1: but most people don't want to say. Let me just

690
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 1: say this right here. Really, what's going on is just

691
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:48,840
Speaker 1: right here. A lot of people in the family you know,

692
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:53,600
Speaker 1: don't really don't don't really lighten Miss prayer of his

693
00:45:53,760 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 1: dressing Deni Benjamin hu He, So be let me bring

694
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:04,759
Speaker 1: you something there. My mama gonna make it dressing, you

695
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:08,440
Speaker 1: gonna kiss it, and we ain't bringing that home, littles,

696
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:10,920
Speaker 1: So you can tell your family that I said that

697
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:14,520
Speaker 1: because you understand me. I mean, for first of all,

698
00:46:14,600 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 1: you got to understand that I'm bringing news that that

699
00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:19,480
Speaker 1: people didn't don't voted on, and this is what everybody

700
00:46:19,560 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 1: want to do, don't nobody, Well, why did knee holes

701
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 1: we had a meeting dressing? She didn't making me ten

702
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:28,279
Speaker 1: years ain't nobody had been saying nothing, and a guess

703
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 1: what when I'm up in the house, nobody had better

704
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 1: not be walking up and through that. I'm talking about

705
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 1: my mamma either, And you know I'm gonna eat it. Okay,

706
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:38,440
Speaker 1: we'll see right there. Why why if people don't like

707
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,280
Speaker 1: the dressing, Glinda, why do you want to make submit

708
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 1: everybody to having to eat it if they don't like it?

709
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:46,040
Speaker 1: You don't eat this? I don't know. I don't know.

710
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:48,279
Speaker 1: You won't calling me no, well, I don't know, no

711
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:52,040
Speaker 1: Benjamin Benjie who out the heir? I through my mama,

712
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 1: lord's nephew from the other side of the family exactly,

713
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 1: and they don't know yet, Okay, and really really to

714
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:01,200
Speaker 1: the bad all that, I don't know you but I'm

715
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:03,719
Speaker 1: but but I'm but I'm man enough, I'm man enother

716
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 1: car you and tell you what we're gonna do it whatere.

717
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 1: We ain't gonna do what I know. I ain't. I

718
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 1: said it, wanting I repeat it again. She gonna make

719
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:15,200
Speaker 1: that transfics. You gonna eat it and we're gonna round.

720
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 1: Beh that name. Okay, okay, right there, listen, And I

721
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:21,719
Speaker 1: know this might be hard for you to understand what

722
00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 1: you grew up with liking. Everybody else might not like

723
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:27,759
Speaker 1: n say what you want to. I ain't gonna even

724
00:47:27,760 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 1: remember you like. So you ain't like it because you

725
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:34,359
Speaker 1: ain't done around. But she make it dress it now.

726
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:37,120
Speaker 1: First of all, when y'all get down here, it's gonna

727
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:40,279
Speaker 1: already be some mo dressing here, okay, okay, and she

728
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 1: gonna make country and sense and we're gonna see down

729
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:45,680
Speaker 1: and yeah, I'm gonna eat and he ain't. It's it's

730
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:47,360
Speaker 1: not even end of me discuss no friends and that

731
00:47:47,560 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 1: I said I can say, because your name's gonna hurt

732
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 1: my mama feeling. Okay, there ain't nobody to try. That's

733
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:54,399
Speaker 1: why I'm trying to tell you to tell her don't

734
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:56,879
Speaker 1: make it nah, so she won't even bring it down.

735
00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 1: We an't gonna get anyway. Look, I'm gonna say this

736
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 1: here because every dealer you ain't really understanding what I'm

737
00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:05,680
Speaker 1: saying to you. I'm gonna say it as clear as

738
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 1: I can say. If y'all come down here with that dress,

739
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:12,760
Speaker 1: I'll promise you we already got dressing. Mate. We're throwing

740
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:15,600
Speaker 1: that dressing in the trash so everybody can get the

741
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:18,759
Speaker 1: dressing that we made fund him Floy Blake. That's what

742
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 1: we're doing. Please let me find something in you. I'm

743
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:25,360
Speaker 1: gonna be undressing patrolled, and if I find out you,

744
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 1: then tough my mama. Dressing in the trash, it's gonna

745
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:30,719
Speaker 1: be something. If we're gonna set that out, I'm not

746
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 1: playing with you. That's what's so funny to me. I'm

747
00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:37,919
Speaker 1: gonna call. Ain't tell me we're hiding it cold. Ain't

748
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:40,680
Speaker 1: knowing falling up. The callers are telling us to bull

749
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:43,880
Speaker 1: but now they're gonna set She'll stupid because when me,

750
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 1: I don't even know she'll come. I can't. They said

751
00:48:47,360 --> 00:48:51,040
Speaker 1: you you the band in the world, But Benji Bene,

752
00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:54,279
Speaker 1: I don't even know you're wrapping. I'm telling you now,

753
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:57,480
Speaker 1: I'm telling that playing with you. I'm telling you ever

754
00:48:58,040 --> 00:49:00,759
Speaker 1: my mama feeling, it's gonna be something. And then and

755
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, y'all gonna be y'all down there. You'll

756
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:09,160
Speaker 1: call me y'all have one. Let me say I say

757
00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:11,880
Speaker 1: something else to you. I wish you would. Can I

758
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:15,520
Speaker 1: tell you what else they were saying. They wanted me

759
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:19,239
Speaker 1: to tell you this, Glenda, this is nephew. Tell me

760
00:49:19,400 --> 00:49:24,439
Speaker 1: from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Your cousin Sheila got

761
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 1: me the frank phone call. You tell me fine? You

762
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:40,680
Speaker 1: about to make me say it off? What the man?

763
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:43,200
Speaker 1: This same kidle will see it wasn't gonna be. No.

764
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:46,719
Speaker 1: He remade it because I'm gonna have my brother's warm.

765
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:51,880
Speaker 1: Then you y'all pay. But tell me, Hans, give me

766
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:56,800
Speaker 1: what's gonna be canceled? Many question before I let you go?

767
00:49:57,680 --> 00:50:01,720
Speaker 1: What is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio

768
00:50:01,960 --> 00:50:09,160
Speaker 1: show in the land Steve Harvey Morning Show, Oh, don't

769
00:50:09,239 --> 00:50:15,319
Speaker 1: play with man? Than Holiday Comedy Jam coming your way.

770
00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:18,319
Speaker 1: That's Earthquake, Dandy Brown Kids, Junior Space and hosted by

771
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:21,279
Speaker 1: yours truly nephew Tommy. That's the Holiday Comedy Jam. It's

772
00:50:21,360 --> 00:50:24,800
Speaker 1: Friday d Sent of the twentieth at the met in Philadelphia.

773
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:29,600
Speaker 1: That's w D A S and Live Nation all wrapped

774
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 1: up in the one Holiday comedy Jam. I can hear

775
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 1: the jingle bells now. So to dress for that, do

776
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:37,120
Speaker 1: you have to have your sleeves cut out of the

777
00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 1: right side of your jacket and your s because you

778
00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 1: had your shoulders. No, I'm asking suit out of nothing.

779
00:50:46,719 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that, especially man. All right, listen, thank you,

780
00:50:50,200 --> 00:50:52,839
Speaker 1: Tommy coming out more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show

781
00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

782
00:50:57,320 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 1: All right. Time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen.

783
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:03,280
Speaker 1: And if you need advice on dating, on relationships, on sex,

784
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:07,240
Speaker 1: on work, on parenting, and more, please submit your Strawberry

785
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 1: letter to Steve Harvey FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. Okay,

786
00:51:11,760 --> 00:51:14,000
Speaker 1: we could be reading your letter live on the air,

787
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:17,239
Speaker 1: just like we're gonna read this one right here, right now.

788
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:20,880
Speaker 1: It's the time. Buckle up and hold on tight. We

789
00:51:21,160 --> 00:51:26,919
Speaker 1: got one to date, Y'allberry Letter subject looking for Love

790
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:32,359
Speaker 1: in all the Wrong Places. Hello, Shirley and Steve. I'm

791
00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:35,120
Speaker 1: a twenty year old black woman who comes from a

792
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:38,960
Speaker 1: very loving and caring family that carries themselves in a

793
00:51:39,080 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 1: very classy and respectful way. I've been taught since I

794
00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:44,680
Speaker 1: was a little girl that men will treat you the

795
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:47,840
Speaker 1: way you allow them to treat you. I'm coming to

796
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:50,960
Speaker 1: you all because I need help. I can't find a

797
00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:53,759
Speaker 1: man that wants to be in a serious relationship with me,

798
00:51:54,440 --> 00:51:57,440
Speaker 1: and I know about ninety percent of the blame can

799
00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:01,200
Speaker 1: be put on me. I have no limits when it

800
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:05,200
Speaker 1: comes to sex. I'm very sexually active. I have sex

801
00:52:05,280 --> 00:52:08,759
Speaker 1: with men on first dates, hell, even first encounters. I'm

802
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:12,279
Speaker 1: a very easy woman. Nine times out of ten, I

803
00:52:12,480 --> 00:52:16,360
Speaker 1: don't use protection and I've never had an STD, but

804
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:19,440
Speaker 1: I know it's going to happen one day. Nobody in

805
00:52:19,600 --> 00:52:22,480
Speaker 1: my family even sees me this way. They know I'm

806
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:25,759
Speaker 1: not a virgin because of the pregnancy scares. I don't

807
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:28,439
Speaker 1: bring these men to my family to meet them. Hell,

808
00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:30,839
Speaker 1: they don't even stay that long. Most of them are

809
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:34,440
Speaker 1: one night stands. I've slept with about forty men. I've

810
00:52:34,560 --> 00:52:38,759
Speaker 1: had threesomes. I even let their homeboys have relations with

811
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:41,800
Speaker 1: me if they ask. And the bad part about it,

812
00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:44,680
Speaker 1: I can't even tell you why I do it. I'm

813
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:47,480
Speaker 1: getting older and my parents are asking me when they

814
00:52:47,520 --> 00:52:49,799
Speaker 1: are going to meet or at least see the men

815
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:52,799
Speaker 1: I'm dating, and I hate lying to them. I'm not ugly.

816
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:56,240
Speaker 1: I'm not an ugly young woman. I'm overweight, but not huge.

817
00:52:56,600 --> 00:52:59,120
Speaker 1: I think I have good qualities and I'm worth settling

818
00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 1: down with. I need help bad? Can you please give

819
00:53:02,600 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 1: me advice? There's so much in this letter. I mean,

820
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 1: don't we don't even have time? This is so sad,

821
00:53:09,239 --> 00:53:10,960
Speaker 1: you know. I mean, first of all, you're you're a

822
00:53:11,239 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 1: twenty year old young woman. You know you think you

823
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:19,000
Speaker 1: have good qualities. I'll just start there. You said that

824
00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:22,239
Speaker 1: at the end, and you're worth settling down with. But

825
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:24,960
Speaker 1: I just don't see how you can possibly believe that

826
00:53:25,000 --> 00:53:28,279
Speaker 1: about yourself. I don't you know who lives a life

827
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:32,480
Speaker 1: that you do and feel this way about themselves? You know,

828
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 1: to me, you're a classic case of someone who doesn't

829
00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:38,840
Speaker 1: value themselves, even though you think you do, but you don't.

830
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 1: You know, anyone who values themselves wouldn't do this. And

831
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:45,279
Speaker 1: you know you're living playing a dangerous game. You're not

832
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 1: using any protection. It's almost like you're inviting this. You're

833
00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:54,600
Speaker 1: waiting for this to happen. You know that's not cool anyway.

834
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:58,839
Speaker 1: I mean, you have the lowest of the low when

835
00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:01,120
Speaker 1: it comes to self esteem, and you just you don't

836
00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 1: have any self esteem. You know, if you thought you

837
00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:05,759
Speaker 1: had these good qualities that you talk about in your

838
00:54:05,840 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 1: letter and you're worth settling down with, why isn't anybody

839
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:11,800
Speaker 1: settling down with you. Have you thought about that? You know,

840
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:14,080
Speaker 1: why on earth would you be giving yourself away like

841
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:16,560
Speaker 1: this if you thought you had some good qualities. What

842
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:19,520
Speaker 1: has happened to you in your life? You know? Were

843
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 1: you abused as a child? You know, you're you're right,

844
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 1: you definitely need help. And you've been pregnant how many

845
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 1: times pregnancy scares? This is crazy? I mean, you're playing

846
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 1: such You're you're playing with your life. You're playing life

847
00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:35,239
Speaker 1: or death games here. It's like Russian Roulette that you're

848
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 1: playing with your life. This is so serious, and the

849
00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:39,480
Speaker 1: one true statement you made in your letter is that

850
00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:43,640
Speaker 1: you need help. You absolutely lutely need help. You know,

851
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:45,960
Speaker 1: you're only twenty years old. You can fix this, you

852
00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:50,040
Speaker 1: can correct this. You haven't had any STDs and you

853
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:54,120
Speaker 1: haven't had any pregnancies. I mean you carried through you know.

854
00:54:54,280 --> 00:54:56,920
Speaker 1: But anyway, you need to get some professional help. You

855
00:54:57,080 --> 00:55:03,239
Speaker 1: need to get some professional help. Steve Big Dog, it's

856
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:10,840
Speaker 1: sad um. I'm just gonna say this before we go

857
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:16,359
Speaker 1: to break. Here's the deal. I can't find a man.

858
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:21,920
Speaker 1: That's what this letters are about. I can't find a man.

859
00:55:23,320 --> 00:55:26,120
Speaker 1: Earth Wind and Fire has a song can't hide love.

860
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:28,560
Speaker 1: And in the middle of the song it says you

861
00:55:28,760 --> 00:55:33,759
Speaker 1: can't give what you never had. Now I'm saying that

862
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:37,440
Speaker 1: to say this, you can't find a man because you

863
00:55:37,560 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 1: ain't found yourself. See, I don't know, I don't know

864
00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:45,359
Speaker 1: how women think that a man is gonna complete them.

865
00:55:46,800 --> 00:55:50,120
Speaker 1: You walk into a relationship complete. A man comes into

866
00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:54,439
Speaker 1: your life, and a woman comes into your life to compliment. Yeah,

867
00:55:55,080 --> 00:55:58,040
Speaker 1: but you have to complete yourself. Nobody can come along

868
00:55:58,080 --> 00:56:00,920
Speaker 1: and complete you. You are your own work in progress.

869
00:56:01,840 --> 00:56:06,640
Speaker 1: You are yourself. Can can't a body make you happy?

870
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:12,040
Speaker 1: But you you find happiness with a person, But can't

871
00:56:12,040 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 1: abody make you happy? That's all I have time to

872
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:19,760
Speaker 1: say right now. When we come back, though, I'm getting

873
00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:21,920
Speaker 1: right into the nuts and bolts of this right here.

874
00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:23,799
Speaker 1: So if it's any twenty year old woman out here

875
00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:26,040
Speaker 1: that's wondering about this thing called sex, I'm going to

876
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:29,440
Speaker 1: really give it to you today from the male perspective.

877
00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 1: You've got to You've got to think of yourself better

878
00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 1: than this. We'll be right back. You're listening, um um,

879
00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:44,920
Speaker 1: young young lady, twenty year old, I need help. I

880
00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:47,200
Speaker 1: can't find a man that wants to be in a

881
00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:51,520
Speaker 1: serious relationship with me. First of all, I said, you know,

882
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:55,319
Speaker 1: you don't even know yourself yet. But here's here, let's

883
00:56:55,360 --> 00:56:57,440
Speaker 1: go a little bit more. I can't find a man

884
00:56:57,560 --> 00:56:59,719
Speaker 1: that wants to be in a serious relationship with me.

885
00:57:00,840 --> 00:57:06,400
Speaker 1: Are you serious? You can't. You cannot possibly expect a

886
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:12,120
Speaker 1: man to take you serious? True, you're not serious about yourself.

887
00:57:13,239 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 1: We are men. We recognize this instantly. If you don't

888
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:21,760
Speaker 1: take yourself seriously, if you don't seriously protect your body,

889
00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:25,480
Speaker 1: if you don't seriously show value for yourself, if you

890
00:57:25,600 --> 00:57:28,560
Speaker 1: don't seriously make a man have to consider you as

891
00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:31,880
Speaker 1: valuable as you think you are. If you seriously don't

892
00:57:31,960 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 1: have none of that working, how can you seriously expect

893
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:41,720
Speaker 1: a man to get in a serious relationship with you

894
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:47,960
Speaker 1: when you're not even serious about yourself? This Shirley has

895
00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:50,240
Speaker 1: said it all about self esteem and all this here,

896
00:57:50,520 --> 00:57:52,720
Speaker 1: got all that, all of that is very very true.

897
00:57:54,800 --> 00:57:57,840
Speaker 1: You know, maybe I don't know. I'm not a clinical guy.

898
00:57:57,840 --> 00:57:59,280
Speaker 1: I don't know how to say that. I could just

899
00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:03,360
Speaker 1: talk about is right here? You know, Um, I'm I'm

900
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:08,040
Speaker 1: a very easy woman. Uh, and I use unprotected sex,

901
00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:10,680
Speaker 1: but I've never had an STD. But I know it's

902
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:15,960
Speaker 1: gonna happen one day. Okay, excuse me. You know that

903
00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:19,000
Speaker 1: you're going to get an STD one day, but you're

904
00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:22,880
Speaker 1: continuing to have sex with no protection. There are too

905
00:58:23,000 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 1: many stupid people in this world. You're being very naive

906
00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:32,160
Speaker 1: and ignorant and playing with your life, and so is

907
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:37,720
Speaker 1: the man or boy. This is ridiculous for you to

908
00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 1: know these things. See for you to write this letter,

909
00:58:41,000 --> 00:58:44,160
Speaker 1: it's just a cry for help because this is stuff

910
00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:47,320
Speaker 1: that you know. I can't joke with you because, man,

911
00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:51,520
Speaker 1: if you were my daughter, I would be mortified at this. Okay,

912
00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:56,080
Speaker 1: now here's here's the here's the next line that I

913
00:58:56,160 --> 00:58:59,080
Speaker 1: want to focus on. I have one night stands. I've

914
00:58:59,080 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 1: slept with about four men. I've had threesomes. I even

915
00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:05,520
Speaker 1: let their homeboys have relationships with me if they ask.

916
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:09,400
Speaker 1: And the bad part about it is I can't even

917
00:59:09,520 --> 00:59:13,400
Speaker 1: tell you why I do it, right Yeah? Yeah, well okay,

918
00:59:13,600 --> 00:59:16,160
Speaker 1: I can tell you why you do it because you

919
00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:22,200
Speaker 1: don't have any value of self. You've devalued yourself. Somewhere

920
00:59:22,280 --> 00:59:25,880
Speaker 1: down the line, something that's happened that makes you think

921
00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:29,560
Speaker 1: you need to have sexual these men to get approval

922
00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:32,480
Speaker 1: or acceptance something that's happened in your life. Maybe, like

923
00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 1: Shirley says off the Air, maybe you had have been

924
00:59:36,320 --> 00:59:40,200
Speaker 1: molested in your past, or maybe you think this is

925
00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:43,880
Speaker 1: the way to do it and you're not worth anything else.

926
00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:48,959
Speaker 1: Why would you want to be treated rotten? Why would

927
00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:52,560
Speaker 1: you want it? Why would you want a man to

928
00:59:52,800 --> 00:59:56,800
Speaker 1: treat you stink? Why would you want that for yourself?

929
00:59:57,080 --> 00:59:59,920
Speaker 1: And at twenty, when you've got your whole life in funny,

930
01:00:00,960 --> 01:00:06,920
Speaker 1: So you know, I think I have good qualities and

931
01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:12,560
Speaker 1: I'm worth settling down with. Okay, here's the bonus chapter

932
01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:15,800
Speaker 1: to the book. I think I have good qualities and

933
01:00:15,920 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 1: I'm worth settling down with. Here's a light bulb moment

934
01:00:19,680 --> 01:00:22,840
Speaker 1: for your ladies that you already know, but in case

935
01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:29,160
Speaker 1: you didn't hear it is men only. Men only settled

936
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:36,560
Speaker 1: down with women who are settled down themselves. Can I

937
01:00:36,680 --> 01:00:40,400
Speaker 1: just tell you that about us? Wow? Men only settled

938
01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:45,520
Speaker 1: down with women who are settled down themselves. We not

939
01:00:46,000 --> 01:00:51,040
Speaker 1: marrying the wild pony, were not hooking up with the

940
01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:56,160
Speaker 1: loose freak. You ain't fitting to get us to settle

941
01:00:56,280 --> 01:01:03,520
Speaker 1: down at settled down yourself. Every man that called in

942
01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:05,880
Speaker 1: that day, seventy five percent of them said they would

943
01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:08,439
Speaker 1: respect a woman who was celebrate. If that's who they wanted,

944
01:01:08,640 --> 01:01:10,960
Speaker 1: they'd hang in the wood. And but then you think

945
01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:12,840
Speaker 1: he lying what I bet he out. Well, now he's

946
01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:14,720
Speaker 1: saying it was gonna be easy. But at least they

947
01:01:14,760 --> 01:01:18,000
Speaker 1: said they'll respect you because you respect yourself. But now

948
01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 1: you don't respect yourself, but you want some respect from

949
01:01:21,200 --> 01:01:23,800
Speaker 1: a man. You don't take yourself serious, but you want

950
01:01:23,800 --> 01:01:27,280
Speaker 1: a man to treat you seriously. You loose booty all

951
01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:30,520
Speaker 1: day long, but you want a man to just respect yours,

952
01:01:30,680 --> 01:01:33,720
Speaker 1: yours only. But you passing it out like they skittles

953
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:38,160
Speaker 1: on a coffee table. But now you want somebody to

954
01:01:38,280 --> 01:01:40,560
Speaker 1: come along and treat you like a candy bar, an

955
01:01:40,600 --> 01:01:44,880
Speaker 1: individual candy bar in its own wrapper. But you passing

956
01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:48,760
Speaker 1: out tail like you skittles in a bowl on a

957
01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:54,680
Speaker 1: coffee table. Please notice about men. Men only settled down

958
01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:58,840
Speaker 1: with women who are settled down themselves. We're not taking

959
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:02,800
Speaker 1: you to our house to tame you. We're not introducing

960
01:02:02,880 --> 01:02:08,040
Speaker 1: you to our mama as we tame. No, you are not.

961
01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:12,400
Speaker 1: And so young lady, you need prayer, you need some

962
01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:16,920
Speaker 1: self esteem, You need some counseling. You should go to

963
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:20,680
Speaker 1: a local church and talk to somebody and get some counseling.

964
01:02:21,200 --> 01:02:24,960
Speaker 1: You need a moral change over in your life. This

965
01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:27,560
Speaker 1: is simply moral right here. You need to go to

966
01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:30,640
Speaker 1: church and sit down and learn about God and what

967
01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:33,440
Speaker 1: God really created you for and what He wants of

968
01:02:33,520 --> 01:02:35,840
Speaker 1: you and what He expects from you. And God did

969
01:02:35,880 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 1: not create you to be of servitude to a bunch

970
01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:42,000
Speaker 1: of men and be a dumping ground for sperm. That

971
01:02:42,280 --> 01:02:45,640
Speaker 1: is not how God created you. I'm telling you like that,

972
01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:47,560
Speaker 1: at one point in time, you got to talk to people.

973
01:02:47,640 --> 01:02:53,840
Speaker 1: Really no more. Listen, post your comments on Today's Strawberry

974
01:02:53,920 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 1: Letter and Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook, and

975
01:02:57,160 --> 01:02:59,680
Speaker 1: check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. All right,

976
01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:02,760
Speaker 1: come up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right

977
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:08,120
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to Steve Show. Because Thanksgiving is

978
01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:10,760
Speaker 1: the food focused holiday. There's a ton of food planning,

979
01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:15,160
Speaker 1: food shopping, and food prep that happens before Thanksgiving rolls around,

980
01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:17,240
Speaker 1: and the longer you wait to do it, the more

981
01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:20,720
Speaker 1: frantic it can feel. I'm gonna do it all on winds,

982
01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:23,200
Speaker 1: but I'm telling you whensday, they gonna be out of

983
01:03:23,240 --> 01:03:29,120
Speaker 1: them big elbowls for macaroni. They replenish after the big

984
01:03:29,240 --> 01:03:34,400
Speaker 1: weekend rush and then Monday Tuesday they replenish on Windsday.

985
01:03:34,680 --> 01:03:37,480
Speaker 1: So the truck coming. Okay, I'm just I'm just just,

986
01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:39,920
Speaker 1: I'm just you know, all I know of my grandmother

987
01:03:39,960 --> 01:03:44,160
Speaker 1: ain't missed a Thanksgiving. Yeah, food be day. I don't know. Well,

988
01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:50,440
Speaker 1: my mama shopped all year long for cranberry sauce. They

989
01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:53,680
Speaker 1: have everything, they lined up in the pantry. Yes, nobody,

990
01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:58,640
Speaker 1: so you know, I don't really Yeah, I kind of go.

991
01:03:59,320 --> 01:04:01,960
Speaker 1: And then it's regional too. You gotta pay attention to

992
01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:07,000
Speaker 1: where you go. You know, it's regional like and zip

993
01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 1: code regional is what I'm talking. Oh yeah, gotta get

994
01:04:14,080 --> 01:04:19,160
Speaker 1: your zip cold. Yeah, because your resources is different. Pressure

995
01:04:19,760 --> 01:04:24,480
Speaker 1: more y see out here, if you go to Bristol Farms,

996
01:04:25,040 --> 01:04:28,400
Speaker 1: they gonna have uh huh, what's that a store? What

997
01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:36,280
Speaker 1: is that little more? You know, scale got Yeah, they gonna, yeah,

998
01:04:36,280 --> 01:04:38,400
Speaker 1: they're gonna have it because they can't telling people we

999
01:04:38,480 --> 01:04:40,760
Speaker 1: ain't got no more. And it's a pretty store, you know.

1000
01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:43,040
Speaker 1: It's yeah. And I don't remember what I'm gonna do, man,

1001
01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:45,080
Speaker 1: because I don't know how I'm gonna do. My oysters

1002
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:50,320
Speaker 1: do you eat oysters on Thanksgiving? A lot of oh yeah,

1003
01:04:50,360 --> 01:04:54,040
Speaker 1: you you eat fried oysters and eggs or in something

1004
01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:59,880
Speaker 1: every No anybody saying number the eggs. Anybody said no

1005
01:05:00,680 --> 01:05:06,200
Speaker 1: ignog which I know I won't get none where I'm going.

1006
01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:10,360
Speaker 1: But I can probably get the oysters, and I can

1007
01:05:10,400 --> 01:05:13,560
Speaker 1: probably get them fried, but I don't I don't know

1008
01:05:13,640 --> 01:05:17,760
Speaker 1: who I'm gonna get these, Miss Shoeberts frozen dinner rolls

1009
01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:22,000
Speaker 1: that bake up in the oven with extra Yeah, I

1010
01:05:22,080 --> 01:05:25,280
Speaker 1: know I know this country though, But if they frozen,

1011
01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:28,400
Speaker 1: you'll put them in your suitcase and some drives and

1012
01:05:28,480 --> 01:05:30,240
Speaker 1: get away. See what I'm not fitting to do? Is

1013
01:05:30,360 --> 01:05:33,440
Speaker 1: that right there? Anybody fit to be opening up my

1014
01:05:33,560 --> 01:05:35,919
Speaker 1: poe ass looking luggage? Oh? I don't had two whole

1015
01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:38,960
Speaker 1: turkeys in mind before, see right there? See it right there,

1016
01:05:39,880 --> 01:05:44,160
Speaker 1: pu see right there? Nobody does. Let me tell you this.

1017
01:05:45,240 --> 01:05:46,720
Speaker 1: Let me tell you this. That nephew time I know

1018
01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:48,960
Speaker 1: how to pack up a turkey. He packed up a

1019
01:05:49,000 --> 01:05:57,200
Speaker 1: turkey for me. It traveled nast circuit for me. You

1020
01:05:57,360 --> 01:06:01,280
Speaker 1: have to graduate, all right, more of this crazy ignorant show.

1021
01:06:01,800 --> 01:06:05,280
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to

1022
01:06:05,680 --> 01:06:11,240
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, here's the question,

1023
01:06:11,680 --> 01:06:14,920
Speaker 1: who should host Thanksgiving dinner? We know Thanksgiving us right

1024
01:06:14,960 --> 01:06:18,360
Speaker 1: around the corner. Boy, this year's fat has gone by fast.

1025
01:06:19,520 --> 01:06:22,000
Speaker 1: The relative with the bigger house is a question or

1026
01:06:22,040 --> 01:06:26,320
Speaker 1: the relative who is the better cook? The better cook? Yeah,

1027
01:06:26,720 --> 01:06:29,640
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving us about food. I'd rather be crowded in the

1028
01:06:29,720 --> 01:06:33,440
Speaker 1: food space and we're just sitting way away from each other,

1029
01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:38,400
Speaker 1: complain eating green bean casserole. Hey, imagine where y'all trying

1030
01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:42,840
Speaker 1: to drop. There's an echo of the house is so

1031
01:06:43,040 --> 01:06:53,520
Speaker 1: big man and MGM will lose this year. It was loose,

1032
01:06:57,080 --> 01:07:01,520
Speaker 1: hush one kid, quick shaw. They're just holling across the

1033
01:07:01,640 --> 01:07:04,640
Speaker 1: big empty house. It's big, but the food ain't good.

1034
01:07:04,640 --> 01:07:07,040
Speaker 1: I'd rather be in that tight sitting the elbow to elbow,

1035
01:07:07,120 --> 01:07:15,240
Speaker 1: watching the game, addressing whisper. They sitting right next to you. Hey, man,

1036
01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:16,800
Speaker 1: if you ain't gonna eat all your hand, let me

1037
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:21,360
Speaker 1: hand that right there though. Hey, look, if you ain't

1038
01:07:21,360 --> 01:07:23,439
Speaker 1: get enough cranberry sause, I got plenty on my plate.

1039
01:07:23,480 --> 01:07:29,200
Speaker 1: Just reach on. Ok. Yeah, how about that potato pie? Man,

1040
01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:31,560
Speaker 1: we go to the project with some good food. Yeah,

1041
01:07:32,200 --> 01:07:36,200
Speaker 1: anywhere man, keep walking outside checking on your car. Keep

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Speaker 1: coming back here, just going back here, just saying you

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Speaker 1: gotta do check your car. And I'm going out here

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Speaker 1: see if everything all right. Ain't earl your turn, check

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Speaker 1: on the car. Man, ain't nothing like that, gibler graveing

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Speaker 1: man and go over the addressing that right there? Does it?

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Speaker 1: Do you know how to make that time? I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I need to. I need to. I

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Speaker 1: need to study that on with one of my aunties

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Speaker 1: and figure that I ain't got how to do that gravy.

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Speaker 1: It's an art to gray. I love dressing. Oh. Marjorie

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Speaker 1: makes the dressing every year, and all her family asked

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Speaker 1: for pans. Really she put dressing dope though, wow dope,

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Speaker 1: and we deep fried to turkey. Your son has to

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Speaker 1: build butter ball. Deep fried your son that turkey got

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Speaker 1: the only thing I used to do. Everything's giving us.

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Speaker 1: I did. I did the yam oh really stop doing that?

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Speaker 1: Why oh you don't have to anyone? No, hell no,

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Speaker 1: my mama. Oh oh yeah man man, Mama Bridges girl

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Speaker 1: say to her, um banana pudding. Let me, you don't

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Speaker 1: even understand. You throw you into something, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that shirt that shirt you know that shirt. But I've

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Speaker 1: heard him talk about her banana pudding before. Boy, let

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Speaker 1: me tell you something banana putting her strawberry cake cake.

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Speaker 1: I love strawberry cake, A blueberry cake, I said, I

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Speaker 1: loveberry cake. I'm talking about ki. What did you say,

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Speaker 1: I said, strawberry cake. Oh, I thought you said blueberry

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Speaker 1: strawberry cake. Yeah, nuts are no outside. Oh man, yummy

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Speaker 1: strawberry cake. Good? Is it just cake? A strawberry cake

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Speaker 1: with strawberry icing? When you say no, you ain't no strawberries.

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Speaker 1: It's just strawberry flavor. Okay, it's sweet, pink icing and

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Speaker 1: pink cake. Yeah, but it's got nuts all over the

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Speaker 1: outside of it. It's kind of it reminds me of

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Speaker 1: German chocolate cake, but it's all pink. Okay, favorite German

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Speaker 1: chocolate cake, that's Margie fake. It was my favorite. To

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Speaker 1: Marjorie can make a German chocolate cake and listen to me.

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Speaker 1: And I'm not saying this because I'm married to him,

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Speaker 1: because she's not listening. Her German chocolate cake tastes just

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Speaker 1: like my mama German chocolate cake. Oh that's that's major.

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Speaker 1: And if it didn't, and if it didn't, I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: say it. Would a black person make a German chocolate clake?

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Speaker 1: Ain't it a black cake? It ain't. There's no nunger

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Speaker 1: at that same man you got one, don't talk about

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Speaker 1: a black person. I like it. I like all right,

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Speaker 1: more of this crazy ignorant show. Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. M

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Speaker 1: Man boo ah cho man boot one squeet, man booth,

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Speaker 1: a man boots Ah what sweet man boot And I'm

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Speaker 1: talking about these man boots and boom man boo. Man,

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Speaker 1: I've got these man boot see them best for in

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Speaker 1: my shoes? Right? That was nigga secret needs emp. That's

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Speaker 1: a man whose size eatingly don't excile and your big

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Speaker 1: assay down. You know them well what they are solo?

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Speaker 1: Does everybody else you'll t t needs a run? Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 1: h white squeet too white squeet man boo and talking

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Speaker 1: about these man boo man boo man, I've got these manoo.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Everybody's Thanksgiving time. You're

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Speaker 1: gonna be at your friend's house, You're gonna be at

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Speaker 1: your mama's house. You're gonna be a relatives house. Whatever

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Speaker 1: you're going to get you in the living room, outside

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Speaker 1: on the porch or whatever. Have these conversations, Shirley play

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Speaker 1: junior dummy. You these conversations. Well you have none of

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Speaker 1: the information, right, You can't remember dad to have him

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Speaker 1: all the time asking people who down something like this?

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Speaker 1: What was that guy's name that she was with last year?

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Speaker 1: You know, the one that used to be DJ down

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Speaker 1: at that lounge, Darneil. Wasn't it dark Nail? Yeah? Oh

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Speaker 1: yeah he was. I remember him. You know what I

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01:13:26,920 --> 01:13:33,479
Speaker 1: remember about him? Who you ask London again? Oh the god?

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Speaker 1: She was JJ down at the lounge, Stay down at

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Speaker 1: the lounge, Junior trying to say he was down at

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Speaker 1: the loud. Yeah, he had one Um, he had one arm.

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Speaker 1: I remember, you can mix it, he could mix it.

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Speaker 1: He was. I liked him though. He was good. He

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Speaker 1: was he was he was a nice guy. He was real.

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Speaker 1: They called him red too though, one red, one red,

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Speaker 1: call him one D because he had one on one.

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Speaker 1: I'm red. Yeah, you're right, I can relate. How how

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Speaker 1: are you doing with your arm? I'm worried that I'm

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Speaker 1: not gonna cut this turkey right on Thurday that's gonna

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Speaker 1: be my problem. If you know you can take I

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Speaker 1: heard now, I heard you could take to any gas

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Speaker 1: station in town and they will carve your turkey for

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Speaker 1: you if you buy five dollars with the gas. What's that?

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Speaker 1: Five lottery tickets and five lotteries? Yeah, what's that boy name?

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Speaker 1: They'll be out there cutting the turkeys at the gas. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he'll be outside. He'll be outside cutting up your turkey. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: do it? Yeah, yeah, yeah with the red half the red.

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Speaker 1: It's red. It's DJ red. That's what he do. Do

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Speaker 1: he up turkey? He so because he put the one

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Speaker 1: on the one. Yeah. Well you don't tell me that

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Speaker 1: that's an option, just saying yeah, just saying, well, everybody,

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Speaker 1: jad you have it. Those are some of the stupid conversations,

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Speaker 1: isn't nobody? No? Don't y'all have a happy Thanksgiving? All right?

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Speaker 1: Tom When we come back, Last Break of the Day

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Speaker 1: and Steve's closing remarks, you don't want to miss him.

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Speaker 1: We'll be back at forty nine after you're listening show,

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Speaker 1: Last Break of the Day. Steve Harvey take us away

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Speaker 1: with some insightful closing remarks. I know you have some

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Speaker 1: for us today. Well, you know, um, I think it's imperative.

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Speaker 1: Yesterday we talked about how hate is so counterproductive. Um well,

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Speaker 1: let's talk about something today that is productive. And that's

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01:16:04,960 --> 01:16:13,120
Speaker 1: one of the major of principles of success. I don't

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Speaker 1: know if people understand the real value of dreams and visions.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if people understand the real value of

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Speaker 1: writing it down. You know, having dreams and visions is

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Speaker 1: one thing. It's the writing it down part that solidifies

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Speaker 1: it and makes it more doable and concrete. And the

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Speaker 1: reason I'm saying that is because writing your visions down

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Speaker 1: everything you want on a piece of paper, or creating

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01:16:49,680 --> 01:16:53,559
Speaker 1: a vision board isn't just a principle of success. Well,

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Speaker 1: it is very much a principle of success. But it's

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Speaker 1: a scripture. It's actually in the Bible. He God has

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Speaker 1: laid out for us exactly how to have the best

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Speaker 1: life possible for you. He's already laid that out. He

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Speaker 1: gave us words of encouragement. He gives us wisdom, he

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01:17:17,600 --> 01:17:21,559
Speaker 1: gives us understanding. That's what Proverbs is all about, That's

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Speaker 1: what the Psalms is about. He gives you an examples

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Speaker 1: of people overcoming throughout the Bible. He gives you examples

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Speaker 1: of what real faith can do. He has, He shows

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Speaker 1: you seasons of what can happen to people. But one

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Speaker 1: of the things Harbecah two and two says, write the

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Speaker 1: vision and make it plain, so that he who reads

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Speaker 1: it will run to it. And even though it terry,

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Speaker 1: terry means take a long time, wait for it, for

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Speaker 1: surely it will come at an appoint to time. It's

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Speaker 1: so important man, that you as people, that we as

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Speaker 1: people never forget the significance and the importance of writing

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Speaker 1: our goals and our visions, our wants, our dreams, our hopes,

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Speaker 1: our yearnings down. It is imperative that you write it down.

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Speaker 1: It's not it's not anything that should be taken lightly.

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Speaker 1: This is very, very real. It can change your life.

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Speaker 1: It really really can, man, It can do so much

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Speaker 1: for you. Because see where you are now, it's temporary.

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Speaker 1: You've got to understand that. But you've got to have

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Speaker 1: a dream and a vision to get out of that

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Speaker 1: place so you can move on to your next space.

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Speaker 1: All of us are being tested on some form, shape,

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Speaker 1: or fashion. All of us are being tested on some level.

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Speaker 1: All of us. Ain't nobody Scott free of the test

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Speaker 1: of life. But man with the dream and vision that

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Speaker 1: Herbeckah two and two, writing the vision and making it plain,

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Speaker 1: it can get you into your season a lot sooner.

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Speaker 1: Bishop Getty sent me something. Bishop gettys is minister down

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Speaker 1: in the Carolinas who came on my show once and

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Speaker 1: we've become friends every since. And he sent me something

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Speaker 1: one day, and he told me, he said, never judge

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Speaker 1: somebody based on the season. Are y'all listening? Never judge

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Speaker 1: someone based on the season. He told me. He said,

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Speaker 1: one season, David was a shepherd, the next season he

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Speaker 1: was a king. One season, Ruth was working in the field,

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Speaker 1: the next season she was owning the same feeld. One season,

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Speaker 1: Mordecai was sitting outside the king's palace. The next season

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Speaker 1: he was inside the palace. And what he was saying

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Speaker 1: to me was, we serve a god who turns things around,

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Speaker 1: and that is the God of unmerited favor. You can't

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Speaker 1: judge somebody based on the season. You don't know who

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Speaker 1: you talking to. You don't know what God gonna do

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Speaker 1: for this person. You don't know what this person written down.

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Speaker 1: You don't know what this vision this person has for herself,

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Speaker 1: And you don't know what kind of grace God gonna

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Speaker 1: put on this person. So like we would talk about

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Speaker 1: on the radio show. We were talking about have you

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Speaker 1: gotten more than you thought? Or did you get everything

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Speaker 1: you ever wanted? A lot of this stuff I have,

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Speaker 1: I ain't even see. I didn't know it was nothing

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Speaker 1: to want. I didn't know to want certain things because

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Speaker 1: I didn't know certain things existed. But he gave it

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Speaker 1: to me anyway, because he has this theme called grace.

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Speaker 1: But what has helped me a great deal along the way,

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Speaker 1: it's writing down everything on paper, making notes in my iPhone,

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Speaker 1: having vision boards. It has completely turned my life around.

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Speaker 1: It'll do the same thing for you because of a

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Speaker 1: scripture Rebecca two and two. Write to vision and make

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Speaker 1: it play period. It can change your life. If somebody

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Speaker 1: told that to me, I try that, I really would.

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Speaker 1: Those are my clothes remarks to day. Drop it like

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Speaker 1: it's they don't go right there. Hey, y'all have a

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Speaker 1: great weekend day. You hit them straight since you've ball

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Speaker 1: you golfing the damn going out today? Hit them around,

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