1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: Look, may oh, I see you. 2 00:00:04,640 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 2: Look over there is that culture Yes, lost, dang lost. 3 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 2: Culturista's calling we're here lucky us or something or something. 4 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:18,919 Speaker 1: Well, the tour is called Lucky. 5 00:00:18,720 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 2: Me, Lucky everybody. They went like that. 6 00:00:24,800 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, sorry, I mean well, I I was very slow 7 00:00:30,160 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: to the draw, and I kind of I'm sorry to myself. 8 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 2: You've already upset. 9 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:35,920 Speaker 1: Now I've already upset. 10 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:38,520 Speaker 2: We have to earn back the trust. 11 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:39,520 Speaker 1: We've got to earn back the trust. 12 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 2: Well, how about this. I've been streaming the album NonStop. 13 00:00:42,840 --> 00:00:46,160 Speaker 2: I love it. It's like you didn't know how much you missed. 14 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 2: And then, of course Spotify does the thing where it's 15 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:50,919 Speaker 2: like if you look at the if you go on 16 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 2: the top ten stream, it's like we're getting these new bops. 17 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 2: And then suddenly you'll just hear, well, there's a suggestion, 18 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:01,520 Speaker 2: of a lyrical suggestion, let's go back back to the beginning, 19 00:01:02,200 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 2: at which point you have no choice but to do that. 20 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:09,600 Speaker 1: Uh, we've it's been documented on this program. It has 21 00:01:09,800 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 1: that the lyric of back to when the Earth, the sun, 22 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: the stars. 23 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:18,400 Speaker 2: All aligned kind of like today. 24 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's poetry, that's subways did not align for me. 25 00:01:24,000 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, anybody know what I'm talking about? 26 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 1: Can I get an amen? 27 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 2: Did you have a subway problem today? Yes? 28 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:33,840 Speaker 1: Oh you're asking that, you're asking putting it to the room. Yeah, 29 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:35,759 Speaker 1: of course, but it's fine, it's New York. 30 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:36,640 Speaker 2: You. 31 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 1: I don't want I don't really want our guests to 32 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:41,319 Speaker 1: have to like really weigh in on this because it's 33 00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 1: like it's it's I think it's a space that is 34 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: beneath her. But to have the the remix of Come 35 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:55,040 Speaker 1: Clean on at the club at like, oh, like, I've 36 00:01:55,080 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 1: never known more joy and you've never. 37 00:01:57,280 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 2: Seen no I I've dead asked. 38 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've never been happier in my life, stone cold, sober. 39 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: It's four am. I'm sober, trust me. And I've never 40 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 1: felt more joy. 41 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:12,079 Speaker 2: I never felt more joy. Just connecting about famed Los 42 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:15,919 Speaker 2: Angeles eatery Cosa Vega with our guests just now, and 43 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 2: she might get me to do something called Buda, which 44 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 2: I mean the guest is spelled b O n d A. 45 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 1: Nope, she's shaking her hand. 46 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 2: Okay, well let's call that. And more is going to 47 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:30,959 Speaker 2: be revealed on this episode. This is truly, I mean, 48 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 2: every I know, everyone that listens to this podcast has 49 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 2: waited for this day. We certainly have. You've seen her 50 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 2: everywhere lately, because who wouldn't want to celebrate this moment 51 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 2: like back in HD, which I was like, I was 52 00:02:45,080 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 2: like seeing she did a concert last night and her initials, 53 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 2: I'm like, great, yeah. 54 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: No better two letters together. You're happy to see HD. 55 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:57,119 Speaker 2: Actually Mr is on my socks. Mister Maggie Rogers sent 56 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:59,079 Speaker 2: me these socks. Oh that's cute. And because we're the 57 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 2: only people with MR. But we're not talking about MR. Today. 58 00:03:01,800 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 2: We're talking about HD. 59 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:08,400 Speaker 1: We're talking about a legend in the culture, a paragon. 60 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 1: We're so happy she's here. Everyone welcome. 61 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 3: I'm feeling great about myself. 62 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:16,200 Speaker 2: Prepare lock in. 63 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 3: Thank you guys for that. I'm so excited to be here. 64 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:20,120 Speaker 1: Thank you. 65 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 2: Oh. 66 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:24,560 Speaker 3: Okay, it's a German word, I believe, or it's like 67 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 3: a German maybe it was born in Germany. The concept 68 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:30,920 Speaker 3: of the workout bunda b U n d A with 69 00:03:31,000 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 3: the two little dots on top of the and I 70 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:36,720 Speaker 3: think you need to say it liked there you. 71 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 2: Go, okay, Well it did live inside me. I think 72 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 2: maybe I put too much sauce on Bunda. 73 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 3: I liked it. 74 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, how they. 75 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 3: The show was awesome. It was a you know, it 76 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 3: was a cute like radio scaled down kind of little 77 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 3: fan experience, and it was great. 78 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, I'm gonna come in hot 79 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 1: with this question. Okay, okay, so lucky me, first tour 80 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: since dignity. Yeah, you're as a parent, first tow as 81 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 1: a parent. Yeah, what are you preemptively annoyed about logistically 82 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: traveling with the family. 83 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 3: I'm absolutely terrified too. I'm going to tell you a 84 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:22,839 Speaker 3: quick story. I'm trying not to like make it too long. 85 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 3: I was in rehearsals and surprises are tough for me, Like, 86 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 3: of course I love a surprise. We're talking like a present, 87 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 3: so excited Astrologically, I'm a libra. 88 00:04:32,360 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 2: Okay, yes, I. 89 00:04:34,920 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 3: Need to have understanding understood of everything, and we understand 90 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:40,799 Speaker 3: and then I can be really excited for the surprise. 91 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 3: But like, I've got to process it first. And so 92 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 3: my my husband and my tour manager stopped rehearsals and 93 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:50,560 Speaker 3: they were like, we have a surprise. You got to 94 00:04:50,560 --> 00:04:52,679 Speaker 3: come outside. I come outside. We're walking down the street. 95 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 3: I see a giant tour bus and I was like, 96 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 3: is this the surprise? And they're like, yes, like, let's 97 00:04:58,000 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 3: go check it out because this is going to be 98 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 3: where we're living for eights during the summer. And I 99 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 3: was like I walked inside, I was like, there's no kitchen. 100 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 3: I know, there's just like slots for beds. Four of 101 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 3: us are going to be four kids, sorry, lots of 102 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:16,760 Speaker 3: other adults. But like what it was? Panic all panic said. 103 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 1: In So then I relate to this completely as a 104 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:24,719 Speaker 1: libra rising. Okay, how do you express that without being 105 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:27,200 Speaker 1: like thank you? This is so exciting? But also, where 106 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 1: the hell is the kitchen? 107 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 3: Okay? I had like a huge, like fake smile pastward 108 00:05:31,160 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 3: on my face and I was just like, I love 109 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 3: the slot. I'm looking for the storage. Like kids come 110 00:05:36,839 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 3: much so much shit. 111 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 2: Yeah. 112 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:41,599 Speaker 3: And also there's like no pooping on the bus. I'm like, 113 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:43,359 Speaker 3: little kids just whenever they have to. 114 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:46,080 Speaker 1: I know, you got a poop on the bus, Well 115 00:05:46,120 --> 00:05:46,559 Speaker 1: you can't. 116 00:05:46,839 --> 00:05:49,839 Speaker 3: It's a rule. It's a rain rule. So I'm like, 117 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 3: how many times are we going to be stopping throughout 118 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 3: the night. It's all terrifying. 119 00:05:53,400 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 2: What are the age ranges? 120 00:05:55,160 --> 00:05:55,480 Speaker 3: Okay? 121 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 1: Two to thirteen, yeah, come on, Wikipeda, almost. 122 00:05:58,560 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 3: Fourteen yeah, I have a fourteen year old son this month, 123 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:04,359 Speaker 3: and a five year old this month, and then a 124 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 3: seven and a two. It's gonna be fun. We're gonna 125 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 3: figure it out. That thing's going to be everywhere, literally, 126 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:16,839 Speaker 3: crumbs everywhere, guns n' roses everywhere. Yeah, exactly, that's right, 127 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:18,799 Speaker 3: trashing tour bus. Yeah. 128 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 2: I loved the video that you did with your son. 129 00:06:24,080 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 2: That was so good. 130 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 3: He's so cute. I mean when he was punking my jersey, 131 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:32,039 Speaker 3: I thought he was gonna be like, that's cool, and 132 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:34,600 Speaker 3: he was like, that's not it, that is not it. 133 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:37,920 Speaker 3: I was like, rude, rude, so rude. 134 00:06:38,400 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 1: When the cameras in their face, they want to embarrass 135 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: the parents. I think that's what it is. I think 136 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:43,720 Speaker 1: that's the kid same. 137 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 3: All I want to do is embarrass him, to watch 138 00:06:45,760 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 3: him get shy. 139 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 2: And well you kind of got there. You were like 140 00:06:48,440 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 2: you like my music. You were. 141 00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 1: Because it's mommy and daddy's music. 142 00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:58,919 Speaker 3: Not his dad. But yeah, he likes matth too. Yeah, 143 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:00,479 Speaker 3: he's really into a hip hop you know. 144 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 2: Okay, Oh, I was thinking back to when we were 145 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 2: like because obviously like walk down Memory Lane, it was 146 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 2: like you and then all this like hardcore like rap 147 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 2: and R and B were the charts. It was like 148 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 2: that was like, what was coexisting on that at the time? 149 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 3: Okay, who was like jaw Rule? 150 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 2: This was like no, no, this. 151 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:26,800 Speaker 3: Job Rule Radio is amazing on Spotify. 152 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:29,480 Speaker 2: I gotta just ride that out. 153 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:32,600 Speaker 3: It's a real happy, like yeah, flopping through this day 154 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:33,640 Speaker 3: kind of vibe, of course. 155 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 1: And jaw Rule was on Matt TV as a guest once. Okay, 156 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:42,760 Speaker 1: she was legitimately great. He was, yes anyway, but it was. 157 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 2: Okay, this is the time. 158 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 3: I'm like, was he in front of me on the 159 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:46,760 Speaker 3: charts or blow me on? 160 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:51,000 Speaker 2: It was always about jaw Rule and Hilary Das you 161 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 2: know what I mean. It was like jockeying for position. 162 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 3: I remember, I don't remember what album it was, maybe 163 00:07:57,440 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 3: not Dignity, I don't know. Mary J. Blige was like 164 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 3: ahead of me, and then the next week I got 165 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:05,440 Speaker 3: ahead of her, and I remember it being like, yes, 166 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 3: you also like love Mary J. 167 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 2: It's like it's a thing of like you have so 168 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 2: much respect. You're like, god, I'm so happy to do 169 00:08:12,320 --> 00:08:13,760 Speaker 2: all in the charts. But Mary J. 170 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:15,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like. 171 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: That's real love. That's like, that's that's Mary J. Blige. 172 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:25,280 Speaker 1: But I feel like I feel like now, the the 173 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: concept of charts to me, you're on top of it, 174 00:08:28,080 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: you're in like a you keep track of it. I 175 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: don't really care, but of course I'm not on the 176 00:08:33,559 --> 00:08:35,839 Speaker 1: other side of it where I'm like you have people 177 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 1: from the label or whoever, like. 178 00:08:37,520 --> 00:08:39,719 Speaker 2: Yeah, what is the thing with charts now? Is that 179 00:08:39,840 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 2: is it like of paramount importance to labels and is 180 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:44,800 Speaker 2: it important to you? Like how do you feel about 181 00:08:44,800 --> 00:08:45,840 Speaker 2: the charting of it all? 182 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:48,760 Speaker 3: I think I if I said I didn't care, it 183 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 3: would be a lie. Yeah, but I have never that's 184 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 3: never been even like like radio singles. I never had 185 00:08:56,920 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 3: like a ton of love there. So mine was always 186 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 3: like fan connection and like touring, so the fans showed 187 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 3: up for me. I toured a whole bunch and like that. 188 00:09:10,040 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 3: That business like got very massive for me quickly. I 189 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:18,319 Speaker 3: I do care. You want your work to be like observed, 190 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:21,600 Speaker 3: But I don't think it's it's that important. And I 191 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:23,440 Speaker 3: think a lot of things come into play, you know, 192 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 3: like every like every industry now it's a thing. But 193 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 3: the labels are excited when you know it's doing well. 194 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 3: It's it's hard. It's a hard industry. So yeah, any 195 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 3: kind of like accolade or exciting number that you land 196 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:39,439 Speaker 3: on is great for morale. 197 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:41,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, Well okay. The thing that we can 198 00:09:41,679 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 1: liken it too is like this this little show breaks 199 00:09:46,760 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 1: into like the top eighty every now in fifty fifty, 200 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 1: you can get up there. But I so maybe, so 201 00:09:54,960 --> 00:09:57,560 Speaker 1: maybe just to like to make this about me for 202 00:09:57,600 --> 00:10:02,320 Speaker 1: a second, I think it's I'm with you. It's like 203 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 1: it's nice. I would be lying if I was saying 204 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:08,480 Speaker 1: it didn't matter. But the like the connection among the 205 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:11,240 Speaker 1: listenership and the fans in the community is is I 206 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:13,320 Speaker 1: would take that over. 207 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 3: I agree with that. No, I agree with that because 208 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 3: that stuff comes and goes and you see it for 209 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 3: a week, you know, and it's just it can be 210 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 3: a great splash. But other than that, like the meat 211 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 3: is like the connection and the people that are showing up, 212 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 3: and that's the reason why you do it, right, You're 213 00:10:28,600 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 3: doing it because you love it. 214 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:32,440 Speaker 2: And yeah, have you remained connected to people that you 215 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:35,080 Speaker 2: like recognize from like way back that have that were 216 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:37,760 Speaker 2: fans And then like now you're like, I wonder if 217 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 2: you do any shows now and you're like, oh my god, wait, 218 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 2: hold on a second. 219 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:42,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, like I definitely do this. 220 00:10:42,280 --> 00:10:43,200 Speaker 2: There's those people. 221 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm like, you're still here. I can't believe 222 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:50,439 Speaker 3: we're still here. It's profound, it is full, it is 223 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 3: and the amount of people that are showing up to 224 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:55,959 Speaker 3: the shows with like literal old polaroids from my Meet 225 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:57,839 Speaker 3: and greet used to be, you get a polaroid picture 226 00:10:57,880 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 3: and you say hi and you leave, so they have 227 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 3: the polaroid picture. Yeah, and it's really sweet. 228 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 2: That's the best. And also for them, I mean for everyone. 229 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 2: I feel like on this album you're dealing with like 230 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 2: like you turn around and you're like, oh my god, yeah, 231 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 2: we are talking about our boyfriend who's now dating someone 232 00:11:13,960 --> 00:11:16,679 Speaker 2: that looks like twenty one twenty two years old. It's 233 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 2: like we actually did grow up and now have these 234 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 2: things in common too, huh. I just love songs that 235 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:23,559 Speaker 2: just let your X know you have their number. 236 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:25,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I have the receipts. 237 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:28,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I actually know that you're out there like 238 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 2: doing the doing the cliche stuff. 239 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, and why are you doing Okay, clearly the 240 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 3: outside we're you're not doing You're not doing great. 241 00:11:37,840 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. Do you ever hear it's like topical? 242 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 3: You're like, this is topical. 243 00:11:41,160 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, my kink is Karma by Chapel Row. 244 00:11:42,960 --> 00:11:47,319 Speaker 3: I'm obsessed, obsessed, obsess. My kids love it, and I 245 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:51,200 Speaker 3: am like, can we share this? Yes? I don't you 246 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 3: know that they don't really like read too much into lyrics, 247 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:55,719 Speaker 3: but they say all the words. 248 00:11:55,720 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 1: Like that happened, And so then as a parent, you're 249 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 1: like listening to this, You're listening to your kids talk 250 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:10,000 Speaker 1: about like these really deep concepts. These are concepts like 251 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 1: but it's nice to like that they're just detached from 252 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 1: it though. Yeah. 253 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:18,960 Speaker 3: May May's favorite song on my record, the one that 254 00:12:19,000 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 3: she always requests is Holiday Party. Oh I love It 255 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:26,319 Speaker 3: starts out with like in my head you live another 256 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:29,440 Speaker 3: life where you fuck all my friends. Like it's very 257 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 3: just like a very heady can I say that, of course, 258 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 3: a very heady song about like anxiety and you making 259 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 3: up what you know must be true even though it's not. Anyway, 260 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 3: she just blows to the lyric and I'm like, you know, 261 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 3: we're in the arts, so there's a time and a place. 262 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 263 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 3: Also, we have a teenager in the house. We have 264 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 3: a big spread of kids. I always joke that like 265 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:59,199 Speaker 3: none of the moms at school will want their kid 266 00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 3: to be friends with the baby because she's the fourth child. 267 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 3: She's going to know all the things the fastest, the earliest. 268 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:10,160 Speaker 3: You know, she's gonna be the ones spreader than yourself. 269 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:14,840 Speaker 2: Charge. But someone has the charge. They do, they do. 270 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 3: But I feel like if it was my first child 271 00:13:17,920 --> 00:13:21,080 Speaker 3: and I, like Luca had like all the kid glove handling, 272 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:23,720 Speaker 3: that I would be like, stay away from that child 273 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 3: has all the siblings and knows all the things, you 274 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 3: know what I mean. So, but yeah, we handle lyrics 275 00:13:30,920 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 3: like that because we try to have a lot of 276 00:13:33,679 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 3: conversations in our house and just skirt around, you know, 277 00:13:36,440 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 3: some of the ones that they're not ready for yet. 278 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:42,360 Speaker 3: But art is art, and you know, we're constantly listening 279 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:45,920 Speaker 3: to music and writing and doing this thing, so they've 280 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 3: got to be exposed to it, of course. 281 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:47,720 Speaker 2: I think. 282 00:13:48,160 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 3: I think some of the serious ones on the record, 283 00:13:51,120 --> 00:13:53,560 Speaker 3: which was like giving head in the back of the 284 00:13:53,559 --> 00:13:57,200 Speaker 3: bar or whatever, people came for me so hard and 285 00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 3: they were like, do you do that in front of 286 00:13:58,640 --> 00:13:59,439 Speaker 3: your children? 287 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:04,320 Speaker 1: I was like this, no, yeah, yeah, bring them in. 288 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:07,440 Speaker 2: That's a parasocial thing, though, I think I really do, 289 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:10,640 Speaker 2: and I feel like you must experience that to such 290 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:14,440 Speaker 2: a degree, because like when someone feels like they know you, 291 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 2: they get a little bit more like their guard goes 292 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:19,840 Speaker 2: up about themselves about something like that, because we don't 293 00:14:19,840 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 2: contextualize like for any of these pop girls in terms 294 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 2: of lyrics like that. But I feel like when someone 295 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 2: because they don't have kids, maybe I projection happens when 296 00:14:31,400 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 2: you've grown up with the person, you know what I mean, Yes, 297 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 2: you must feel. 298 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 3: That way for sure. Yeah, there's parts of my I 299 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 3: mean I've said this before, but there's parts of my 300 00:14:40,920 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 3: identity to people that haven't grown because of the character 301 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:44,479 Speaker 3: hasn't grown. 302 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:47,160 Speaker 1: Parts of your identity that haven't grown. 303 00:14:47,280 --> 00:14:50,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, like in people's minds, yeah, yes, that they're like, oh, 304 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 3: she's that from Cinderella story or Lizzy or whatever, you know, 305 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 3: and that character never grows up. So like I can't right, 306 00:14:57,480 --> 00:14:57,760 Speaker 3: you know. 307 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 2: That is It's an interesting thing. Like I remember, like 308 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:04,760 Speaker 2: a few years ago, like when the Lizzie macguiree but 309 00:15:04,920 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 2: was happening. I was so on your side when you 310 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 2: were like, we have to have this person be an 311 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 2: adult woman. 312 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, what do we think? 313 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 4: I know? 314 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I mean just it was the only thing 315 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 3: that made sense to me, was like I gotta be 316 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 3: doing thirty year old things. 317 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 1: Not fourteen. Yeah. 318 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 2: Also, there's been an app this this press store. There's 319 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 2: been an absence of love for younger and I just 320 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:29,880 Speaker 2: want to say shame on everyone, because that was a 321 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:31,640 Speaker 2: great American television series. 322 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 3: Did you happen to see the clip of on my Instagram? 323 00:15:35,400 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 3: You weren't watching My Stories this morning? You kidding? 324 00:15:38,480 --> 00:15:40,360 Speaker 2: I was streaming the album this morning. 325 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 3: As I have to say that I appreciate it that 326 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 3: we'll take all the streams we can get bad. She 327 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 3: cares my one of my best years friends in life 328 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:52,520 Speaker 3: I made on that show. It's Molly Bernard. She's the redhead. Yes, Lauren, 329 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:56,200 Speaker 3: she was at my show last night, absolutely going off 330 00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:59,520 Speaker 3: and some fan caught it on camera and it's so cute. 331 00:16:00,160 --> 00:16:00,920 Speaker 4: The best. 332 00:16:03,520 --> 00:16:07,040 Speaker 2: Runs a pop star, I know because because she hadn't 333 00:16:07,040 --> 00:16:07,760 Speaker 2: been able to see that. 334 00:16:08,040 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 3: No, that's no, she's only seen me and my mother 335 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:14,960 Speaker 3: bearing my child bearing years and very different than that 336 00:16:15,160 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 3: part of my past. 337 00:16:16,040 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 2: It was. It's so back though, Like I mean, when 338 00:16:19,040 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 2: you came in, the first thing we got to you 339 00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 2: was how great you were on the tonight show and 340 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 2: you said you had fun doing it. 341 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:26,720 Speaker 3: I did I'm having a lot of fun. I mean, 342 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:30,160 Speaker 3: the amount of work is crazy. Yeah, and there are 343 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:31,080 Speaker 3: days where you're. 344 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:34,680 Speaker 2: Like, of course, now you're going to go do hot 345 00:16:34,720 --> 00:16:38,000 Speaker 2: ones I know, which I'm so excited about, but I'm terrified. 346 00:16:38,040 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 3: And then the kicker of it all is I'm getting 347 00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:42,120 Speaker 3: on a plane after. 348 00:16:42,320 --> 00:16:46,400 Speaker 1: Oh so this is you can poop on the plane, 349 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:47,320 Speaker 1: not like a bus, but. 350 00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:49,520 Speaker 3: I don't want to. 351 00:16:50,560 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 2: There there comes a point where everyone gets to it, 352 00:16:54,000 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 2: like a certain point where you're like, Okay, all my life, 353 00:16:57,000 --> 00:16:59,200 Speaker 2: I've not pooped on the plane. Today's the day. 354 00:16:59,280 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 3: Today's the day. And then you meet. 355 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 2: Yourself in that moment and then you move forward. 356 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:06,800 Speaker 3: I'm I'm I will keep you posted on what. 357 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 2: We see. The thing about taking a workout class together though, 358 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:16,600 Speaker 2: is that is the greedy Quad. 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We got dinner for someone last 375 00:18:09,600 --> 00:18:12,479 Speaker 1: night who was waiting in line at the bathroom at 376 00:18:12,480 --> 00:18:13,080 Speaker 1: some event. 377 00:18:12,880 --> 00:18:16,000 Speaker 3: And then I hate waiting in the worst. 378 00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:18,919 Speaker 1: She goes in and there's like the seed is like 379 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:23,440 Speaker 1: dappled and stuff, and then she goes yeah, and then 380 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 1: she was like in her mind, she was like, that 381 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 1: wasn't her, It was the person before and she, like 382 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:33,399 Speaker 1: everybody else before him, squad discovered and squatted, you know 383 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:34,040 Speaker 1: what I mean. 384 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:38,200 Speaker 3: And like, I have this weird thing that people follow 385 00:18:38,240 --> 00:18:39,560 Speaker 3: me to the bathroom my entire life. 386 00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I would imagine, yeah, yeah. 387 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:45,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, so I would, even if it wasn't mine, clean 388 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:47,520 Speaker 3: it because I don't want people thinking it was me. 389 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:52,439 Speaker 3: I do the same thing tons of toilet paper. It's 390 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:57,200 Speaker 3: spotless and then sometimes fatless. When yes, correct, I feel 391 00:18:57,200 --> 00:18:59,160 Speaker 3: the same way. I will even wipe down the countertop 392 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:04,680 Speaker 3: sometimes big thing. And then the other thing is what 393 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 3: if it was an unruly flusher that sprayed the suf, 394 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 3: Oh forget it. 395 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 1: It's the hard times. 396 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:10,840 Speaker 3: I like to give people the benefit of the doubt. 397 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:12,720 Speaker 3: If I can't see the color, I'm like, well it 398 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:13,600 Speaker 3: was the flusher. 399 00:19:13,920 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, tonight's show was phenomenal. You were saying earlier, like 400 00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:20,359 Speaker 1: unlike other things. Because we relate to this, it's like, oh, 401 00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:22,600 Speaker 1: that was actually fun, and you're saying you're having fun. 402 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:26,680 Speaker 1: You able to identify like the different thing this time, 403 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 1: like this go around, like what is making it fun? Okay? 404 00:19:30,160 --> 00:19:33,200 Speaker 3: One, I have a dream team sent from God. I'm 405 00:19:33,280 --> 00:19:36,440 Speaker 3: like loving everyone that's around me right now and that 406 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 3: feels really good. Not that it's been like bad before, 407 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 3: but just this is like I'm having fun. We hang 408 00:19:45,160 --> 00:19:48,880 Speaker 3: like we try to, you know, pepper in fun, normal 409 00:19:48,960 --> 00:19:53,800 Speaker 3: things that aren't just constantly like work and fluff. I'm 410 00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 3: so tired of glam and I love my glam getting 411 00:19:57,680 --> 00:20:00,879 Speaker 3: makeup and hair done. Right now, I'm just like I know, yeah, 412 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:05,600 Speaker 3: you dissociate, and complaining about that sounds so nade because 413 00:20:05,680 --> 00:20:07,680 Speaker 3: I know friends that would be like I would love 414 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:09,800 Speaker 3: to have my glammed on every day. But there's something 415 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:12,239 Speaker 3: about being stuck in the chair and unable to do 416 00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:15,439 Speaker 3: anything during that time that you're just like, feel really crappy, 417 00:20:15,560 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 3: especially as a parent. If I'm sitting in my house 418 00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:19,920 Speaker 3: and I want to be around so my kids feel 419 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:22,639 Speaker 3: like I'm around that day and I'm getting glammed, I 420 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 3: feel like it's so tragic. I feel like they must. 421 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 3: I'm desperate for them to not look back and be like, 422 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 3: mommy got glammed all the time. 423 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:33,920 Speaker 2: My memories of my mother where she was upstairs. 424 00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 3: And yes, yeah, that bounce me a little bit. Never wait, 425 00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:42,399 Speaker 3: can we bounce to can we bounce back to fallin 426 00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:47,040 Speaker 3: for a second? Yes, this crazy like leg moment, But 427 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:49,520 Speaker 3: let's zoom in on a picture from the leg at 428 00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:53,439 Speaker 3: some point, you guys, I have a sock mark, But 429 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 3: that doesn't sum up me trying to exist as a 430 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:01,720 Speaker 3: pop star in Hollywood? Is my sock mark? 431 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 2: That first of all, the sock mark, no one was 432 00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:07,159 Speaker 2: ever gonna notice it because you know what was on point? 433 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 2: Your haiography cheer agraphy on ten at the Tonight Show. 434 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 3: Okay, that happened fast, the wind the right. 435 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:19,040 Speaker 2: Light and it happened. It really like the hair landed. 436 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:22,200 Speaker 2: And then of course we got the classic iconic we're 437 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 2: on all fours and we give perfect That was really 438 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:28,520 Speaker 2: well done than you can. 439 00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 1: I ask you, walking around in a house that's falling 440 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:33,240 Speaker 1: apart while it's raining, is that a callback? 441 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:36,000 Speaker 3: It was this slight It was a slight callback. We 442 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:40,280 Speaker 3: we grabbed a moment, well a little nod. 443 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:43,320 Speaker 1: To the past that Hoss was fucked up and falling apart. 444 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:44,800 Speaker 1: I was like, girl, get out of there. 445 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 3: The director built had his crew, by the way, we 446 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:50,280 Speaker 3: filmed that right before Christmas, so there was like not 447 00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 3: that many people around who wanted to work, and he 448 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:57,399 Speaker 3: got this like skeleton crew together and they built that 449 00:21:57,520 --> 00:22:00,399 Speaker 3: house just like a four wall house. So we're in 450 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:04,719 Speaker 3: like Pomona amongst like mustard greens, and the house actually 451 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:06,960 Speaker 3: like fell apart. It was really cool, like on purpose. 452 00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:10,840 Speaker 3: It was like gagged, like rigged like that. I was like, whoa, 453 00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:14,679 Speaker 3: this still happens. People spend this money sometimes. 454 00:22:15,080 --> 00:22:17,560 Speaker 2: I love that it was gagged like that. That is 455 00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:20,240 Speaker 2: a new expression. You just created like the house was 456 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:20,959 Speaker 2: gagged up. 457 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:21,680 Speaker 3: Gagged up. 458 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:27,639 Speaker 2: Maybe title of app gagged up? Wait market? Yes, I 459 00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 2: wanted to ask one of my favorite parts of the 460 00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:31,000 Speaker 2: whole album is your blank sample? 461 00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:32,200 Speaker 1: Yeah? 462 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:34,920 Speaker 2: It was an inspired choice. I want to know how 463 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:35,280 Speaker 2: this came. 464 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:39,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, Well blink is when I like close my 465 00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 3: eyes and I think about getting my driver's license and 466 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 3: like my first taste of freedom, blink was on the radio. 467 00:22:46,119 --> 00:22:47,400 Speaker 1: You're feeling this, yeah feeling. 468 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:54,359 Speaker 3: So it's a real nostalgic wink. And and then I 469 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:57,520 Speaker 3: actually Matt had the idea to sample that song, and 470 00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 3: I was like, one, yes, So how do we do that? 471 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,720 Speaker 3: How do we do we just pay them? Do they 472 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:07,200 Speaker 3: have to approve it? Can they say no? After I've 473 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 3: like fallen in love with this song and We've written 474 00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:12,479 Speaker 3: this beautiful like love song to my best friend and 475 00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,440 Speaker 3: he's like, will we just give them all the publishing? 476 00:23:14,680 --> 00:23:16,720 Speaker 2: Like okay, they can just have it. 477 00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 3: They just have it, And it was like worth it 478 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,639 Speaker 3: enough to me to have on the record because I'm 479 00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:23,520 Speaker 3: I live for that song. Yeah, it does something. 480 00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 1: They're all so sweet. Have you have you ever like 481 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:27,240 Speaker 1: connected with Mark Hoppins. 482 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:33,560 Speaker 3: They're so nice I run into Mark at Sushi the Valley. 483 00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:35,960 Speaker 3: Of course, often I feel like I'm driving off the 484 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:39,680 Speaker 3: road constantly on Ventura because I like to redesign what 485 00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:43,199 Speaker 3: I would put, how I would design this strip of 486 00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:46,480 Speaker 3: the valley. I'm like, we could use this there. That 487 00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:49,199 Speaker 3: should be a private club, that should be like that 488 00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:53,919 Speaker 3: motel that's off of Cold Water and like Ventura, I'm like, 489 00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:56,959 Speaker 3: can't we make this like a cool dinner club and 490 00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,399 Speaker 3: have Like I just like to redesign everything. 491 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 2: You really should be mayor Yeah, And I'm. 492 00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,359 Speaker 3: Like, how has this survived here for so long? This 493 00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 3: went out of here? 494 00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 2: I have these questions and then the good stuff leaves us, 495 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:09,880 Speaker 2: like oil Can Harry's. 496 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,560 Speaker 3: Oil Can Harry's was such a vibe. 497 00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:15,080 Speaker 2: It was the definition. 498 00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:16,520 Speaker 3: Of don't try to bring your drink on the dance floor. 499 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,280 Speaker 3: The people that go there every night are like, no, no, 500 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:20,720 Speaker 3: get your drink off the dance floor. 501 00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:22,720 Speaker 2: Okay, So you were up in oil Can Harry's. 502 00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:24,639 Speaker 3: Yes, Yes, I was. 503 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:28,240 Speaker 2: What what were your what were your years of of 504 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:31,639 Speaker 2: this ten years ago? Like ten years ago? Okay? 505 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 1: That was the peak. 506 00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 2: That was like I feel like I don't want to. 507 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:38,120 Speaker 3: Walk into oil Can Harries and then it's like massive, 508 00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:40,480 Speaker 3: what I know this is hiding in here. 509 00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:43,160 Speaker 2: I've had some of my best like shouldn't have made 510 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:46,359 Speaker 2: out with that person? Makeouts there? Yeah, and now I 511 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:47,119 Speaker 2: never will again. 512 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:51,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. See you need these spaces. You should open this 513 00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:52,880 Speaker 1: up in on that strip. 514 00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:54,840 Speaker 3: New oil can hair like Hillary. 515 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,280 Speaker 2: Presents oil can Harry's two point Oh, like that's it, 516 00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 2: that's I could see it all gagged. 517 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:05,560 Speaker 3: Up then gagn that's my llcu. 518 00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:08,840 Speaker 1: Wait, I have a question about tonight show. Just to 519 00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 1: go back to this, Okay, okay, this is my question. Okay, 520 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:17,080 Speaker 1: because you're changing the lyrics because it's television from you know, 521 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:18,320 Speaker 1: giving head kissing your neck? 522 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:20,679 Speaker 3: Yes, did you giggle at that? 523 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:21,639 Speaker 2: I think giggle. 524 00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:23,840 Speaker 1: I was like, oh, that's a great tasteful like alt, 525 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:28,280 Speaker 1: but I am always terrified as the songwriter, singer person 526 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 1: while there's a camera in my face, I'm going to 527 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:33,800 Speaker 1: sing the like the the the uncensored lyric. 528 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:35,040 Speaker 3: Can I tell you what helped me? 529 00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 1: Yes? 530 00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:41,280 Speaker 3: So I did this every time. I great and it 531 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:45,720 Speaker 3: helped me. That's not something I like, typically domonic queen 532 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:49,520 Speaker 3: when I'm performing that song because I'm not singing that lyrics. 533 00:25:49,520 --> 00:25:54,639 Speaker 3: So I like did like you indicated, Yes, I indicated. 534 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:56,840 Speaker 1: And then with myself a mental note said, do you 535 00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:58,080 Speaker 1: still say touching myself? 536 00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:01,000 Speaker 3: I did because I was like the amount of jerk 537 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,280 Speaker 3: off jokes that like comedians have probably had any show, 538 00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:05,640 Speaker 3: like come on, you're gonna let me do it? 539 00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 1: See when you when you fight for it, they just 540 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:10,200 Speaker 1: they just want to see you fight. And then and 541 00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:10,600 Speaker 1: then once. 542 00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 2: I'm spy, Yeah, but you're You're not like I would 543 00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:17,159 Speaker 2: be terrified. 544 00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,480 Speaker 3: We're so funny. Of course, when you were trying to 545 00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:22,720 Speaker 3: figure out what the alt was for giving you head, 546 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:29,360 Speaker 3: we were like kissing your friend of the other ones. Yeah, 547 00:26:29,560 --> 00:26:33,080 Speaker 3: it was like that changes the whole of the concept of. 548 00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 2: It is funny when you kids bopify everything and it 549 00:26:38,119 --> 00:26:39,080 Speaker 2: becomes like. 550 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:41,479 Speaker 3: Kids bopify, that's really what it is. 551 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:46,320 Speaker 2: The kids popify the album I have I've had to do. 552 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:49,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, but kids popyfy is like a level below that 553 00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 1: are beyond that where it's like it's about sleepovers and 554 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 1: snacks and you. 555 00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 3: Know, sleepovers anymore bow and it's a sleep under No 556 00:26:57,680 --> 00:26:59,680 Speaker 3: unless their kids sleep over at anyone's house anymore? 557 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:00,680 Speaker 2: Is that true? 558 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:01,080 Speaker 3: Really? 559 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:03,280 Speaker 2: I was going to say, look, I don't know because 560 00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:05,280 Speaker 2: I will say, what has changed and let me know 561 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,400 Speaker 2: if you think this is true. Well, everything, well everything, yes, 562 00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:09,600 Speaker 2: but Halloween. 563 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 3: Oh like your kid, you can't just dive into your candy. 564 00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:14,280 Speaker 2: No. I feel like what it is is it's like 565 00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:18,440 Speaker 2: but I will say, our friend Jared lives in Studio City, 566 00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,240 Speaker 2: so it is actually really cute over there because it's 567 00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 2: like the mecca for Halloween and like trick or treating. 568 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:25,800 Speaker 2: But it just felt like for a few years there. 569 00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:27,359 Speaker 2: I don't know if it's because people were a little 570 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,520 Speaker 2: bit looking at each other's sideways a little bit because 571 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:32,320 Speaker 2: of our you know, you know, political and social reality, 572 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:35,000 Speaker 2: but it felt like trick or treating took a dive, 573 00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:37,480 Speaker 2: like kids were not like hid in the neighborhood like 574 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:39,040 Speaker 2: they used to do. I used to run with my 575 00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:41,360 Speaker 2: little sack, like going by myself. 576 00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:44,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a different time, but our parents have always 577 00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 3: said it's a different time now, and now we're saying 578 00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:49,639 Speaker 3: it and it's just like I think something happens, but 579 00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:52,920 Speaker 3: it is like it's I would never send my kids out. Well, 580 00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:55,160 Speaker 3: Luca goes out with his friends now, and I don't 581 00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:56,760 Speaker 3: know how much like trick or treating they're doing. They're 582 00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:57,320 Speaker 3: just hanging out. 583 00:27:57,600 --> 00:27:58,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're just hitting the town. 584 00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:01,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, but like we can track him on his phone, 585 00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:04,840 Speaker 3: so right, you know. But like the girls, like we're 586 00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:07,520 Speaker 3: trick or treating with them, and you know, we do 587 00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:10,080 Speaker 3: that really lame thing where basically we like take their 588 00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:12,600 Speaker 3: candy away the next day and do it with that. 589 00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:17,840 Speaker 3: They call it eat it. No, they call it a 590 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,000 Speaker 3: switch witch. 591 00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:20,840 Speaker 1: Or switch with a switch. 592 00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:24,360 Speaker 3: With where you the kids get to have their fun 593 00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,720 Speaker 3: with the candy. Yeah, the night and they get to 594 00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:28,439 Speaker 3: like go ham and we let them. We're not a 595 00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:32,920 Speaker 3: household that's like restrictive. So but but if they put 596 00:28:32,960 --> 00:28:38,920 Speaker 3: their Halloween candy bucket like outside, the like witch comes 597 00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:41,720 Speaker 3: and like leaves them you sure stuffy or a toy 598 00:28:41,800 --> 00:28:43,240 Speaker 3: or whatever and takes like the candy. 599 00:28:43,440 --> 00:28:44,960 Speaker 2: There's a value trade. 600 00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:48,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I we have a lot of treats throughout 601 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,239 Speaker 3: the week, and I realize that treats are just like 602 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:56,040 Speaker 3: you know, it's fun, but I'd rather it be an 603 00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:58,280 Speaker 3: experience that we're going out to like get a treat 604 00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 3: and like do it with people that we have with. Yeah, 605 00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 3: then just like dipping into a bag of candy for 606 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:05,400 Speaker 3: the next month, because. 607 00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:08,880 Speaker 1: That that's like stoner culture. We're not gonna We're not 608 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:09,760 Speaker 1: We're not doing all that. 609 00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:12,520 Speaker 2: In the family, we're doing all that, doing all that. 610 00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:14,360 Speaker 1: I think it's time to ask the question. 611 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 2: We have to ask the question. The question, the question. 612 00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:19,960 Speaker 2: This is the central question of lost culture. This is 613 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:22,800 Speaker 2: the big one. Hillary Duff, what was the culture that 614 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 2: made you say culture was for you? 615 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:30,320 Speaker 3: I have given this question so much thought. I knew 616 00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,520 Speaker 3: it and I was like, what angle do I approach 617 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,760 Speaker 3: because there are so many? There are so many, and we're. 618 00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:37,800 Speaker 2: Willing to hear all angles. 619 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:43,960 Speaker 3: Yes, Oh, I have one prepared. I'm going to say. 620 00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,080 Speaker 1: The Spice Girls, thank God for you. 621 00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:48,600 Speaker 2: You've done it. 622 00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:52,560 Speaker 3: As someone else said the Spice Girls. 623 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,600 Speaker 2: In the history of the show, I feel like probably, 624 00:29:53,840 --> 00:29:54,560 Speaker 2: but not today. 625 00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:59,360 Speaker 3: So of course I wanted to be Baby Spice. But 626 00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:02,600 Speaker 3: the Spice Girls. For me, it was my first concert 627 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:10,240 Speaker 3: and the first time I saw women and all their different. 628 00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:12,640 Speaker 2: Vibes and like celebrating each other. 629 00:30:12,760 --> 00:30:16,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, but like their expressions like sporty, push this that. 630 00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:17,960 Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, And you can be 631 00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 3: all of them. It just depends on the day how 632 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,080 Speaker 3: you wake up feeling. You could feel like one of 633 00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 3: the Spice Girls. And I was like limited to And 634 00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:29,720 Speaker 3: then we started coming out to California and like would 635 00:30:29,800 --> 00:30:33,640 Speaker 3: hit Melrose and then I could basically like imitate all 636 00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:36,800 Speaker 3: of their wardrobe. And there was a store in Santa 637 00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:40,760 Speaker 3: Monica called Wild Pear, and I could. My mom wouldn't 638 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:42,880 Speaker 3: let me buy any of the really like high slutty 639 00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,760 Speaker 3: shoes because I was, of course nine, you were, yet 640 00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:49,640 Speaker 3: I would try. It was like almost like Payless, how 641 00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:53,680 Speaker 3: they have like boxes of shoes out, but they were 642 00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:56,880 Speaker 3: high heels platforms and I could like strap them on 643 00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:59,040 Speaker 3: and like go for a walk and right be like 644 00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:01,160 Speaker 3: I'm a fucking spy scirll right now, because. 645 00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:03,920 Speaker 2: That was such a huge part of the Spice Girls 646 00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:07,640 Speaker 2: thing was the platform yeah, and. 647 00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:10,160 Speaker 3: The platform sneaker, so like I could get that on 648 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,520 Speaker 3: Melrose and my mom let me have them and it 649 00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:16,520 Speaker 3: was so fun. I was like hair makeup, All the 650 00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:19,520 Speaker 3: inspiration you needed was like within the Spice Girls. Yeah, 651 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 3: and then Spice World happened. 652 00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:22,720 Speaker 1: And then Spice World happened. And this is this is 653 00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:27,120 Speaker 1: well documented as well, but like if baby is number one, 654 00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:31,160 Speaker 1: who who is the more the most frequent sort of 655 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,080 Speaker 1: person that you were would identify with in other moments 656 00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:35,800 Speaker 1: because you're you're you're waking up one day like most 657 00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:38,160 Speaker 1: of the time your baby. Yeah, do you feel like 658 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:40,400 Speaker 1: you have I feel like you're Also maybe. 659 00:31:40,240 --> 00:31:46,760 Speaker 3: The lollipops are thosebs and they were spice girls. Yes, 660 00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:49,680 Speaker 3: I would dig and dig and dig for the baby 661 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:54,040 Speaker 3: spice ones. Okay, I think the other one would be 662 00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:59,240 Speaker 3: posh for me was a later like a slow agree 663 00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:05,800 Speaker 3: now everything right, yes, But back then the two parts 664 00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:07,880 Speaker 3: of my personality was baby and sporty. 665 00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:12,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, posh was advanced humor. Yeah, go with me here. Okay, 666 00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:15,960 Speaker 2: So like when Spice World happened, I had never really 667 00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 2: been checking for posh because for me, it's like I'm 668 00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:21,480 Speaker 2: never gonna like gravitate towards an energy that's like removed 669 00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:23,920 Speaker 2: and aloof Yeah, especially at that time, I was like, 670 00:32:24,000 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 2: I'm excited. I want to be a part of things, 671 00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:27,480 Speaker 2: and look at the rest of these girls are really 672 00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:32,840 Speaker 2: going for it. But then but then watching the movie, okay, 673 00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:36,320 Speaker 2: I think my one of my answers to this question 674 00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 2: is the scene where they're like doing like an obstacle 675 00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:43,520 Speaker 2: course in the movie and it just cuts to it's 676 00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:45,880 Speaker 2: just like showing them go over the obsticle course and 677 00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:49,400 Speaker 2: then you just see Posh in heels walking along the side. 678 00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 3: I'm not playing this game. 679 00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:54,360 Speaker 2: And then all Pasha's line deliveries in the movie, like 680 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:56,200 Speaker 2: when they fall in the water and she's like this 681 00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:59,160 Speaker 2: stress is dry clean only melody. I was just like, 682 00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:05,080 Speaker 2: there's something about her prioritizing her glamour and being so 683 00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:07,280 Speaker 2: like mean to the rest of them, but that's still 684 00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 2: being their sister that I am like deeply envious of 685 00:33:11,360 --> 00:33:14,320 Speaker 2: the energy of that, Like this, you can't get me 686 00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:17,280 Speaker 2: to care. I am unbothered. Before we knew that word. 687 00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:18,720 Speaker 2: That was postpice. 688 00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:21,120 Speaker 3: I'm adding some of that to my personality right now. 689 00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:22,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, download it. 690 00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:23,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's time. 691 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:28,000 Speaker 1: But I think you also taught people to be unbothered 692 00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:31,160 Speaker 1: with so yesterday, Oh my god, thank you. I think 693 00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,760 Speaker 1: that's that is the original unbothered anthem. 694 00:33:33,960 --> 00:33:34,680 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 695 00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:36,200 Speaker 2: Really you haven't heard this before? 696 00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:41,600 Speaker 3: No, okay, you guys. Once I talked to this psychic 697 00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:43,840 Speaker 3: on the phone and she doesn't know who you are, 698 00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:48,720 Speaker 3: yes when you call, And eventually she figured it out 699 00:33:48,760 --> 00:33:51,400 Speaker 3: and she was like, are you Hillary Duff? 700 00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:53,400 Speaker 2: How did she figure it out out? Despite her ps 701 00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 2: psychic ability? Shouldn't you have known some of these people. 702 00:33:58,520 --> 00:33:59,480 Speaker 3: How did she say? 703 00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,240 Speaker 1: How did Andrew go for it? 704 00:34:02,320 --> 00:34:07,400 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, she figured it out, because, oh my god, 705 00:34:07,440 --> 00:34:11,279 Speaker 3: this is so I need to like call Angel and 706 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,120 Speaker 3: make sure she's cool with me sharing this. I'm friends 707 00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:18,000 Speaker 3: with Aaron Carter's sister Angels. We go our kids go 708 00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,680 Speaker 3: to the same school. She's a lovely, literal angel of 709 00:34:20,719 --> 00:34:23,920 Speaker 3: a person. We're very close. We talk about Aaron often. 710 00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:29,960 Speaker 3: So I call this psychic and I like to dabble. 711 00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:31,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, I as well. 712 00:34:31,760 --> 00:34:34,000 Speaker 3: Two times a year. I get a little wild hair. 713 00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:40,240 Speaker 3: We're like a little bit like the I tabble forscope okay, 714 00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 3: palm reader, cards, whatever. 715 00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:44,640 Speaker 2: I like to do, any of the its. 716 00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:48,799 Speaker 3: Give me anything that can validate, like the path I'm on, 717 00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:50,280 Speaker 3: choices I'm making. 718 00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:52,400 Speaker 1: Give your framework, yeah, give me a little, give me. 719 00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:57,160 Speaker 3: A little support. I'm not living by it like firmly. 720 00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:58,759 Speaker 3: I'm just like, let's have fun with us. 721 00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:00,120 Speaker 2: Okay, cool, Yeah, we're with you. 722 00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,400 Speaker 3: So I call her. She's so hard to get a 723 00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:07,200 Speaker 3: hold of this woman. Okay, I track her down for 724 00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:10,400 Speaker 3: three weeks. She doesn't let you pay. She's like, this 725 00:35:10,440 --> 00:35:12,120 Speaker 3: is not my job. This has been a curse for 726 00:35:12,160 --> 00:35:15,400 Speaker 3: me my whole life. Because she has the gift her family. 727 00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:17,080 Speaker 3: Other people in her family have the gift. I guess 728 00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,800 Speaker 3: when she was in school, she'd look at the teacher 729 00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:21,480 Speaker 3: and be like, you and your husband are going to 730 00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:22,000 Speaker 3: get a divorce. 731 00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:23,320 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 732 00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:26,640 Speaker 3: And then she's like and she's in trouble right, but 733 00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:30,200 Speaker 3: she's like, I saw this happening whatever, like I can't imagine. 734 00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:32,359 Speaker 3: And then I think people with that kind of gift 735 00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:33,719 Speaker 3: maybe have to get it off. 736 00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:37,359 Speaker 2: I expel it. 737 00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:41,440 Speaker 3: So she I get on the phone with her and 738 00:35:41,480 --> 00:35:45,800 Speaker 3: she's like, oh, She's like, you have like such bright energy. 739 00:35:45,840 --> 00:35:48,239 Speaker 3: I'm so excited to talk to you today. And I 740 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,520 Speaker 3: was like, oh, thank you, that's so nice. How do 741 00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:53,439 Speaker 3: we start? I don't know. Should I just start asking 742 00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 3: you questions whatever. She's like, well, people are going to 743 00:35:56,000 --> 00:36:00,360 Speaker 3: start showing up for you. And there's someone here, Aaron 744 00:36:00,719 --> 00:36:06,120 Speaker 3: A two A's Aarin And I was like, oh no, 745 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:09,520 Speaker 3: I my heart. I was like, oh my god. And 746 00:36:09,840 --> 00:36:13,359 Speaker 3: she's like I was like, is it Aaron Carter? And 747 00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:16,160 Speaker 3: she's like sure, is what the hell's he doing here? 748 00:36:16,440 --> 00:36:16,960 Speaker 1: Wow? 749 00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:20,720 Speaker 3: And I was like, well, that's my childhood boyfriend. And 750 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:26,560 Speaker 3: you know, I kind of that would make sense to me. Yeah, 751 00:36:26,600 --> 00:36:29,960 Speaker 3: and she's like, are you Hillary Duff? Like cut to 752 00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:33,200 Speaker 3: our lighter topics, and she was like, so yesterday helped 753 00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:36,719 Speaker 3: me through my breakup and I will never not love you. 754 00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:39,080 Speaker 2: It's like, oh my god, it's so funny. 755 00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:42,160 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. Anyway, Yeah, a really wild experience. 756 00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:45,240 Speaker 3: But no, I didn't know the lure behind so yesterday 757 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:46,440 Speaker 3: being what'd you call it. 758 00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:55,480 Speaker 1: The unbothered anthem? Yeah, it makes sense, yes, absolutely, at 759 00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:58,160 Speaker 1: least not today, not today. 760 00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:01,200 Speaker 2: I feel like, here's the thing, the thing about you, 761 00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:06,719 Speaker 2: like in the way that like the place that you 762 00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:09,680 Speaker 2: held in culture, and I hope that you take this 763 00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:12,680 Speaker 2: as a compliment. It's like there were so many times 764 00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:15,480 Speaker 2: where because everyone looked up to you so much, you 765 00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:19,440 Speaker 2: were like, hey, this is important to care about. Like 766 00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:22,080 Speaker 2: I was thinking on the way up here. It was 767 00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:25,479 Speaker 2: two thousand and eight, when you're a commercial for Knock 768 00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:28,200 Speaker 2: It Off. Don't Say, Don't Say Gay came out and 769 00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:31,760 Speaker 2: I remember so we graduated high school in two thousand 770 00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:35,160 Speaker 2: and eight, and I came back from school from n 771 00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:37,200 Speaker 2: YU one time and there was like one of my 772 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:41,600 Speaker 2: one of my friends older brothers, was always dogging me. 773 00:37:41,719 --> 00:37:43,480 Speaker 2: I was in the closet and he was always like 774 00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:45,880 Speaker 2: the one that was making comments and stuff. And I 775 00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:48,120 Speaker 2: remember that commercial had come out, and like there was 776 00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:49,919 Speaker 2: like a shift in the conversation that guy. 777 00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:53,240 Speaker 3: I know that I hope he gets a real issue disease. 778 00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:56,680 Speaker 2: So he's extremely I haven't check. I think I hope 779 00:37:56,680 --> 00:38:00,719 Speaker 2: he's atching wherever he is. He certainly is now. But 780 00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:03,200 Speaker 2: there was there was a moment where my and my 781 00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:05,920 Speaker 2: one friend had never stuck up for me when these 782 00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:06,399 Speaker 2: things happen. 783 00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:08,359 Speaker 3: Usually it was like that thing brother that was your 784 00:38:08,360 --> 00:38:09,480 Speaker 3: friend never stuck up for you. 785 00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:11,680 Speaker 2: To his friend, it was my girlfriend. It was like 786 00:38:11,880 --> 00:38:15,040 Speaker 2: my like like one of my girlfriends. I didn't have 787 00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:18,200 Speaker 2: a girlfriend, but like female friend. And it was her 788 00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:21,560 Speaker 2: older brother that was saying this stuff all the time. 789 00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:23,560 Speaker 2: And I remember she was like I was in the 790 00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:26,160 Speaker 2: other room and she, for the first time ever, was 791 00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,440 Speaker 2: like what do you care if he's gay? Like what 792 00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:30,839 Speaker 2: do you get? What does it matter? Like and no one, 793 00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:33,920 Speaker 2: no one was ever saying anything like that. So there 794 00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:36,120 Speaker 2: was like a turning point. Not to say that you 795 00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:39,480 Speaker 2: were single handedly because the reason why, but like I 796 00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:41,120 Speaker 2: think that, like, yeah. 797 00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:43,640 Speaker 3: Back then, it was like the word was even no one. 798 00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:47,080 Speaker 2: Was saying, yeah, this is not cool to say Everyone 799 00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,600 Speaker 2: was saying it's cool to say it. Like I remember 800 00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:51,520 Speaker 2: when we were in middle school in high school, like 801 00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:54,360 Speaker 2: Eminem was like the essentially the biggest pop star in 802 00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:56,800 Speaker 2: the world, like saying these types of things on the radio, 803 00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:59,520 Speaker 2: like it was popular to be homophone and then that. 804 00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:03,520 Speaker 2: I also remember a time when I was watching Lizzie 805 00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:07,120 Speaker 2: McGuire in my kitchen and it was the episode where 806 00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:08,520 Speaker 2: because it was just. 807 00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:12,160 Speaker 3: On TV, it was remember that time, Yeah, like we're 808 00:39:12,160 --> 00:39:14,560 Speaker 3: tuning in because it's gonna be on TV right now, yep. 809 00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:15,840 Speaker 3: And if you miss it, you miss it. 810 00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:17,359 Speaker 2: If you miss it, you miss it. And you had 811 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:18,800 Speaker 2: to you had to tune in. But I remember it 812 00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,719 Speaker 2: was the episode where Miranda was dealing with stuff with 813 00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:25,000 Speaker 2: eating yes, and my dad was watching over my shoulder 814 00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:27,520 Speaker 2: and he was just like, what is this show? He's like, 815 00:39:27,600 --> 00:39:29,480 Speaker 2: I love this show. He's like he was a pe teacher. 816 00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:31,200 Speaker 2: He's like, I want to show this to my health class. 817 00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:33,719 Speaker 2: Like there was like a lot of messages and what 818 00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:36,480 Speaker 2: you did of Phillip, because we all respected you. You 819 00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:39,200 Speaker 2: were our age, but we respected you. And when you 820 00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:42,840 Speaker 2: said things that like held meaning, we listened. 821 00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:45,920 Speaker 3: That's so nice. Thank you for saying that. Honestly, I 822 00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:48,239 Speaker 3: hear it a lot, and sometimes you know, when you 823 00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:50,879 Speaker 3: hear compliments over and over again, you're like, oh, yeah, 824 00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:53,440 Speaker 3: thank you, but like I receive what you're saying. 825 00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:56,480 Speaker 2: Well, this is different than like your hair was incredible 826 00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:59,360 Speaker 2: on the tonight show. This is that that holds value, 827 00:39:59,400 --> 00:40:02,320 Speaker 2: but this is like, it's your meaningful to our generation. 828 00:40:02,520 --> 00:40:05,160 Speaker 3: I think when you like it's nice to always like 829 00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:06,960 Speaker 3: have the compliment or somebody like this meant so much 830 00:40:06,960 --> 00:40:08,920 Speaker 3: to me. But when you get to have some framework 831 00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:11,719 Speaker 3: and like see the the picture of you and your 832 00:40:11,760 --> 00:40:13,879 Speaker 3: friend and this guy giving you the older brother giving 833 00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,719 Speaker 3: me a hard time, You're like, oh, I see how 834 00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:20,440 Speaker 3: that impacted you in a nice way and made you 835 00:40:20,480 --> 00:40:23,399 Speaker 3: not feel bad or whatever, so that it's stayed with you. 836 00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:26,920 Speaker 3: I'm starting to try to instead of try to deflect 837 00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:29,759 Speaker 3: from compliments, say thank you, I've received that. 838 00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:30,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I have. 839 00:40:30,760 --> 00:40:32,680 Speaker 1: I have that struggle too. It's it's a lebri thing 840 00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:36,000 Speaker 1: because we have to balance it out with something. I'm trying. 841 00:40:36,280 --> 00:40:38,520 Speaker 1: I'm over identifying with you as a libra. 842 00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:42,279 Speaker 3: Rising, but it's well, isn't that how. 843 00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:47,960 Speaker 1: Well? Channey Nicholas Stroller uh does your reading based on 844 00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:49,920 Speaker 1: your rising and not your son. So so so my 845 00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:51,960 Speaker 1: reading every day is Libra rising. But it's I think 846 00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:53,839 Speaker 1: it's that it's like, oh, I have to You're giving 847 00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:56,920 Speaker 1: me something positive. I have to counterwegh that. 848 00:40:58,760 --> 00:40:59,120 Speaker 2: I love. 849 00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:00,960 Speaker 1: My favorite part of the I say though, besides the 850 00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:02,560 Speaker 1: message of it is that you still end it with 851 00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:04,600 Speaker 1: I love those jeans that like cute jeans though, like 852 00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:07,640 Speaker 1: it's still complimentary. You're still showing you up to this girl. Yeah, 853 00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:09,840 Speaker 1: like like that'skirt as the top but you but these 854 00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:10,480 Speaker 1: jeans are good. 855 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:12,919 Speaker 3: That was like the young version of me. I don't 856 00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:15,200 Speaker 3: think I need to like round out with a compliment anymore. 857 00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:17,680 Speaker 3: Someone's being good. We're done here, we're. 858 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:20,000 Speaker 1: Doing Can I share my quickly, I'll just share my 859 00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:23,520 Speaker 1: first exposure to Lizzie Maguire, which was has to do 860 00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:27,799 Speaker 1: with sleepovers. Incidentally, okay, it was fifth grade, heavily still 861 00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:31,080 Speaker 1: in the closet with all these boys, I'm feeling something. 862 00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:33,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, wait a minute, what's going on? But this 863 00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:35,280 Speaker 1: was it would be on TV. But it was also 864 00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:39,400 Speaker 1: my first experience with on demand where like it's like 865 00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:43,200 Speaker 1: one in the morning, we're all in this Danny Wetmore's basement, 866 00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:46,040 Speaker 1: and all these boys are like, we have to watch 867 00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:53,400 Speaker 1: the hottest girl. We're watching Lizzie McGuire. She's the hottest, prettiest, 868 00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:58,560 Speaker 1: this girl, Hillary Duff, She's so hot. So all these 869 00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:02,160 Speaker 1: nine year olds being like and so then we're putting, 870 00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:04,680 Speaker 1: we're putting, And then and then on this on their 871 00:42:04,760 --> 00:42:07,880 Speaker 1: giant home theater screen, they put on Lizzie maguire to 872 00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:11,399 Speaker 1: a video onto me and this guy's a whatever time 873 00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:12,960 Speaker 1: it is Lizzie McGuire and I'm. 874 00:42:12,719 --> 00:42:16,400 Speaker 3: Wild wild yet the pay per view and they have 875 00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:19,719 Speaker 3: no older brothers and. 876 00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:22,200 Speaker 2: Then probably earnestly watching you to we're earnestly watching and 877 00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:24,120 Speaker 2: like laughing, being like, oh my god, she's so good. 878 00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:25,840 Speaker 2: But it was my It was like it was like 879 00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:28,040 Speaker 2: a first closet moment for me where I was like 880 00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:29,759 Speaker 2: but it was safe. 881 00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:31,439 Speaker 3: Like I don't feel like she's hot like the rest 882 00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:31,719 Speaker 3: of them. 883 00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:34,040 Speaker 1: No, no, no, I was like, she's beautiful, but I 884 00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:37,200 Speaker 1: thought I'm appreciating her in a different way than these 885 00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:37,680 Speaker 1: boys are. 886 00:42:37,680 --> 00:42:44,839 Speaker 4: I'm not like like all the boys crushes on you, 887 00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:47,920 Speaker 4: on you, so we all had sound. 888 00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:54,279 Speaker 3: Effect for the straight mail. 889 00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:54,440 Speaker 1: But like I was but then I went, I'm not. 890 00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:56,359 Speaker 1: I'm not thinking the same thing these boys are. When 891 00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:58,319 Speaker 1: I look at this pretty girl, I'm thinking, oh, I 892 00:42:58,360 --> 00:42:58,920 Speaker 1: want to be. 893 00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:01,640 Speaker 3: Freshed, we want we need to go shopping together. 894 00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:04,719 Speaker 2: We're doing but I just know in twenty years we're 895 00:43:04,719 --> 00:43:09,160 Speaker 2: all going to do Bunda. I just know we're heading 896 00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:10,319 Speaker 2: to Bunda. Oh. 897 00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:13,080 Speaker 1: Anyway, So that's that's my that's my one. 898 00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:15,000 Speaker 3: You know, I really like that one. 899 00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:18,640 Speaker 2: Wait for for curiosity's sake? What are your other avenues 900 00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:21,240 Speaker 2: like in terms of the in terms of the culture 901 00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:22,800 Speaker 2: that made you said culture was for you because you 902 00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:23,600 Speaker 2: said you had so many. 903 00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:24,759 Speaker 1: You talked about Olsen twins On. 904 00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:28,560 Speaker 3: Oh yeahs were a big brother for sale for only 905 00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:29,399 Speaker 3: fifty cents only. 906 00:43:29,880 --> 00:43:32,160 Speaker 2: But just that that entire series, I'm like, they were 907 00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:35,480 Speaker 2: so adorable, so adorable. 908 00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:37,960 Speaker 3: They're for sale with their big eyes like you were, 909 00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:39,080 Speaker 3: just like I want to be you. 910 00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:41,440 Speaker 2: They had it. But that was that was your invited. 911 00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:46,160 Speaker 2: Well I got my first pair of pants from the row. 912 00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:47,760 Speaker 3: When did this happen? 913 00:43:48,200 --> 00:43:49,640 Speaker 2: This happened about four months ago. 914 00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:50,240 Speaker 1: Wow. 915 00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,239 Speaker 2: My stylust was like, and these are from the Row 916 00:43:52,360 --> 00:43:55,120 Speaker 2: And I was like, well, like I've made it. There 917 00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:56,719 Speaker 2: isn't there is a moment when you get something from 918 00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:58,359 Speaker 2: the row when you're like should. 919 00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:00,319 Speaker 1: I, Well you you're gonna have it for life. 920 00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:03,439 Speaker 3: They are life cases because. 921 00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:06,160 Speaker 1: Pieces they're sturdy. You know what they're sturdy? 922 00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:09,160 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, sturdy. Yeah. They said dirty. I was like, yeah, 923 00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:10,839 Speaker 3: A good way. 924 00:44:11,000 --> 00:44:12,360 Speaker 2: Excuse me your mouth. 925 00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:15,840 Speaker 3: What were my other options? Oh yeah, Grease. Grease was 926 00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:16,600 Speaker 3: a big one for me. 927 00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:21,360 Speaker 1: Do you ever play Sandy what I? 928 00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:24,280 Speaker 3: Or did I? Did you or I haven't ever played Sandy? 929 00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:28,520 Speaker 3: That would be a fun thing to do. Her and 930 00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:31,160 Speaker 3: the span X, Yeah, take me away. I was like, 931 00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:34,520 Speaker 3: oh my god, this I want to put high heels 932 00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:36,239 Speaker 3: on it, like strut around and it's about the it's 933 00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:38,600 Speaker 3: not the shoes. And then Michelle Peiffer did Grease Too, 934 00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:40,120 Speaker 3: which was arguably. 935 00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:43,480 Speaker 2: People have very good. 936 00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:45,120 Speaker 3: Yeah I'm not going to say better. 937 00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:47,400 Speaker 2: We're not gonna argue, but people have sat in this 938 00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:49,439 Speaker 2: chair and been like, Grease Too is better, and they'll 939 00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:49,920 Speaker 2: stand ten. 940 00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:52,719 Speaker 3: I think I prefer watching it more. I'm not sure 941 00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,600 Speaker 3: I can say better, but I enjoy watching it more. 942 00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:58,600 Speaker 3: Her Michelle fIF are so hot. I can't deal. 943 00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:03,239 Speaker 2: There's also like a theme here in like basically like 944 00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:12,080 Speaker 2: I think like women like embodying something bigger than not, 945 00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:14,879 Speaker 2: something larger than life. 946 00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:19,360 Speaker 3: Something in your face, yeah, something some yeah, turning point 947 00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:23,360 Speaker 3: in the woman's existence right coming into her own You 948 00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:24,480 Speaker 3: mean for me? The theme for me? 949 00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:27,240 Speaker 2: I mean I'm looking at I'm seeing threads. 950 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:31,600 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, okay. And the other one, which also falls 951 00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:35,480 Speaker 3: under that category is Pretty Woman. Ah, and I watched 952 00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:37,920 Speaker 3: it way too young. This was like a real crazy 953 00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:40,799 Speaker 3: thing in the nineties that I think, Well, when we 954 00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:45,040 Speaker 3: got like snowed in, we couldn't which is weird because 955 00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:46,799 Speaker 3: I live in Texas, but we couldn't leave the house 956 00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:49,319 Speaker 3: because every once in a while it like freezes over 957 00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:54,920 Speaker 3: in Texas, right, And we had this house, like this 958 00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,560 Speaker 3: country house, and there was really nothing to do there, 959 00:45:57,600 --> 00:45:59,440 Speaker 3: and Pretty Woman was on TV and my mom was. 960 00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:01,360 Speaker 2: Like, well, well this is there's the day. 961 00:46:01,239 --> 00:46:05,960 Speaker 3: We're watching it. And I was like, I'm obsessed, like 962 00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:08,600 Speaker 3: it was everything to me. And then the other avenue 963 00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:09,680 Speaker 3: was TGI Friday. 964 00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:15,240 Speaker 2: Oh ohf was massive culture, massive, massive. I can't believe 965 00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:17,520 Speaker 2: they named that. They named her after to Pega hair. 966 00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,640 Speaker 3: Her hair, Oh, her hair was everything. Yeah. 967 00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:22,640 Speaker 2: It was like Hillary Duff on The Tonight Show. 968 00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:27,920 Speaker 3: The amount of the like pounds of hair I had 969 00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:30,400 Speaker 3: on the tonight show. Oh my, I can't have gotten 970 00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:32,719 Speaker 3: really used to just like pounds of hair laying around 971 00:46:32,760 --> 00:46:33,080 Speaker 3: the house. 972 00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:35,400 Speaker 1: That's to me their memory of mommy. 973 00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:38,520 Speaker 3: Right, just extensions everywhere, not the glamor just just the extension. 974 00:46:38,800 --> 00:46:41,600 Speaker 2: Well we can only describe as to panger coated of course. 975 00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:45,799 Speaker 2: Wait uh oh god, it escaped to me. Never mind, 976 00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:48,080 Speaker 2: wait oh hold on, hold on, but see you watching 977 00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:51,440 Speaker 2: Pretty Women? Yeah, and like, look how everything turned out. 978 00:46:51,760 --> 00:46:54,240 Speaker 2: It's like, may make and listen to a song about whatever, 979 00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:56,360 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, about anxiety or about like 980 00:46:56,400 --> 00:47:02,239 Speaker 2: a mature you know song title, mature themes. It's not 981 00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:06,640 Speaker 2: going to pollute their mind, Necessarah. No. 982 00:47:06,760 --> 00:47:11,160 Speaker 3: I mean, there's always ways to have good conversations with 983 00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:14,839 Speaker 3: your kids, and I think it's totally okay to be like, hey, 984 00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:17,680 Speaker 3: I would love to explain that to you someday, but 985 00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:19,280 Speaker 3: that day's not today. 986 00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:20,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't have. 987 00:47:20,400 --> 00:47:24,920 Speaker 3: To answer every question you ask me about five questions? 988 00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:26,760 Speaker 2: Are are they questioning kids? 989 00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:30,239 Speaker 3: May May is May stops talking May May. 990 00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:31,920 Speaker 2: She's a conversationalist by trade. 991 00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:37,160 Speaker 3: Banks is not like as much of a talker until 992 00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:40,600 Speaker 3: we're having like night time, nighttime routine and like wine 993 00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:42,760 Speaker 3: down and she wants to do like rose and thorn, 994 00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:46,439 Speaker 3: and oh yeah she's and then I'll get a lot 995 00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:48,920 Speaker 3: out of her. Then may may just never stops talking. 996 00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:50,759 Speaker 3: We love her for that. 997 00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:53,960 Speaker 1: You have different styles, but like, okay, I'm just like, 998 00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:55,000 Speaker 1: just as. 999 00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:58,000 Speaker 3: An example, let's go back. But maybe this morning I'm 1000 00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:00,279 Speaker 3: facetiming her and she's like, I gotta tell you something? 1001 00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:03,000 Speaker 3: Can I tell you something? I really am like, just 1002 00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:05,040 Speaker 3: go out with that. Why do we have to ask 1003 00:48:05,040 --> 00:48:07,759 Speaker 3: the question before the question happens? And she's like, I'm 1004 00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:10,320 Speaker 3: eating a madeline. I'm eating a madeline. You gotta tell daddy. 1005 00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:12,040 Speaker 3: And she's just talking into the camera and there's like 1006 00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:13,839 Speaker 3: just crumbs coming out of her mouth. It's like a 1007 00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:17,160 Speaker 3: dry madeline. Why do I need to know that? But like, also, 1008 00:48:17,200 --> 00:48:20,400 Speaker 3: I'm obsessed with you. Keep telling me more. She's so funny, 1009 00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:24,640 Speaker 3: so funny. Okay, I got you off. 1010 00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:26,640 Speaker 1: Well no, no, no no, because this is all this is 1011 00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:29,080 Speaker 1: all pertinent because and I'm sure you've been asked that 1012 00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:31,440 Speaker 1: a million times, a million different ways. But I'm genuinely 1013 00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:36,040 Speaker 1: curious that, like about if you've grown up in like 1014 00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:39,400 Speaker 1: as a child, like being treated and handled by a 1015 00:48:39,440 --> 00:48:41,560 Speaker 1: bunch of different people, Like does that give you this 1016 00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:44,080 Speaker 1: extra dimension to like how you are as a parent, 1017 00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:46,840 Speaker 1: how you talk to children now, Like are you extra sensitive? 1018 00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:49,319 Speaker 1: You like cause you're because it seems like you're very 1019 00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:52,840 Speaker 1: keyed into like how someone that age might take in 1020 00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:55,680 Speaker 1: new information, Like we'll talk about this later, Like is 1021 00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:58,400 Speaker 1: this something that you're like internalizing that you've internalized from 1022 00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:00,680 Speaker 1: being like a child star. 1023 00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:05,040 Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know. I haven't really thought about it 1024 00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:09,480 Speaker 3: like that. I think I have four kids. Yeah, so 1025 00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:11,840 Speaker 3: I've had a lot of practice, and I like say 1026 00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:15,120 Speaker 3: sorry to Luca all the time because I'm like, we 1027 00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:20,920 Speaker 3: just fucked up. I don't know, yea, Like no, it 1028 00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:25,959 Speaker 3: just I think way too much like involvement, care care, 1029 00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:31,839 Speaker 3: you know, doing too much for you just can't help it. 1030 00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:33,520 Speaker 3: It's like this new addition to your life where you're like, 1031 00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:35,120 Speaker 3: I do everything for you now, like I have this 1032 00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:37,239 Speaker 3: thing to take care of. And then you have like 1033 00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:41,480 Speaker 3: more subsequent kids and you can't do everything for them 1034 00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:43,160 Speaker 3: and you can't always protect them and you can't be 1035 00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:45,319 Speaker 3: there for their everything, and then you just you know, 1036 00:49:45,360 --> 00:49:47,440 Speaker 3: you learn the dialogue that works for your family. Like 1037 00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:56,200 Speaker 3: some kid that main banks sometimes says curse words and 1038 00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:59,280 Speaker 3: we let her because it's so funny to old. She's seven, 1039 00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:01,640 Speaker 3: and she she only does it like she doesn't just 1040 00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:04,200 Speaker 3: want like willy nilly do it. If we're like, hey, 1041 00:50:04,239 --> 00:50:06,680 Speaker 3: say this thing, we'll do it. And it's hilarious and 1042 00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:10,560 Speaker 3: we love it. And she knows that can't happen outside 1043 00:50:10,600 --> 00:50:13,680 Speaker 3: of the household. That it she knows boundaries. If you 1044 00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:15,680 Speaker 3: have a kid that doesn't know boundaries, you obviously can't 1045 00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:17,440 Speaker 3: play that game, you know what I mean. And different 1046 00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:20,759 Speaker 3: conversation you your dialogue changes per child, and when you 1047 00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:25,760 Speaker 3: start to know your child and banks cannot stop with sugar, 1048 00:50:26,239 --> 00:50:28,239 Speaker 3: Luca will eat half a cupcake at a birthday party 1049 00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:30,880 Speaker 3: and be like I'm done. So it's just like all 1050 00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:31,800 Speaker 3: your kids are different. 1051 00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:32,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1052 00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:35,200 Speaker 2: Also, I think that like as you're talking about, like 1053 00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:38,800 Speaker 2: you know, your mom sees pretty woman on television, sees 1054 00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:40,680 Speaker 2: her daughter and is like, it don't matter, We're watching 1055 00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:41,920 Speaker 2: it because this is my favorite thing. 1056 00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:42,200 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1057 00:50:42,320 --> 00:50:44,920 Speaker 2: One of my favorite memories from when I was growing 1058 00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:47,719 Speaker 2: up is I know my dad wanted to see the 1059 00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:50,560 Speaker 2: nutty Professor to the Clumps so bad, so he said, 1060 00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:52,200 Speaker 2: get in the car, We're going to the movies and 1061 00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:54,040 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, okay, it was not up to me. 1062 00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:54,960 Speaker 2: We were just going. 1063 00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:55,640 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1064 00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:58,120 Speaker 2: One of my favorite memories of me and my dad 1065 00:50:58,239 --> 00:51:00,120 Speaker 2: still to this day. And it was something that like 1066 00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:04,120 Speaker 2: seeped through with his personality to me, Like wasn't a 1067 00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:07,800 Speaker 2: way he was intentionally, it was just him being himself. Yeah, 1068 00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:09,040 Speaker 2: And so I feel. 1069 00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:10,239 Speaker 3: Like he's like, we're gonna do what I want to 1070 00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:11,799 Speaker 3: do because I want to do it today. And it's 1071 00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:15,480 Speaker 3: probably normally all about you guys. Get in, we're going, Yeah, get. 1072 00:51:15,280 --> 00:51:18,640 Speaker 2: In, we're going. And I remember, like I remember there 1073 00:51:18,719 --> 00:51:21,879 Speaker 2: was something too about like watching that movie with him 1074 00:51:21,920 --> 00:51:25,759 Speaker 2: and it was not quote unquote appropriate, but the allowance 1075 00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:30,319 Speaker 2: that he was giving for us to enjoy that together, yeah, 1076 00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:34,200 Speaker 2: made us feel closer. And so, your kids, how are you? 1077 00:51:34,719 --> 00:51:36,640 Speaker 2: I was, I guess I had to be like really, 1078 00:51:38,440 --> 00:51:41,040 Speaker 2: I forget exactly when that movie came out, but it 1079 00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:45,320 Speaker 2: was certainly spiritually around that area, like certainly onger than thirteen. 1080 00:51:45,440 --> 00:51:47,600 Speaker 3: When your kids get to an age where they can 1081 00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:53,440 Speaker 3: start handling more of adult life things, it's so fun. 1082 00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:54,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1083 00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:56,760 Speaker 3: One, it's really important to keep like the conversations going, 1084 00:51:57,200 --> 00:51:59,719 Speaker 3: you know, in the household, like constantly like checking in 1085 00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:05,760 Speaker 3: and normalizing topics that yeah, you know they're ready for. Yeah, 1086 00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:08,880 Speaker 3: but when you can start enjoying content of the world 1087 00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:12,000 Speaker 3: that's like more adult and have their takes on it, 1088 00:52:12,080 --> 00:52:16,320 Speaker 3: and it's so moving. Honestly, I love it. And Luca 1089 00:52:16,320 --> 00:52:20,080 Speaker 3: and I watched a bunch of movies this year. What 1090 00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:23,600 Speaker 3: did we just watch? We watched Hamnet and oh wow, 1091 00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:26,520 Speaker 3: I know, and it was he was really into it. 1092 00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:29,319 Speaker 3: He likes a period piece. Wow, I can't get Matt 1093 00:52:29,360 --> 00:52:32,279 Speaker 3: to watch a period piece. So that was really fun. 1094 00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:33,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, sophisticated. 1095 00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:36,160 Speaker 3: And the other thing that I did that was, like 1096 00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:38,400 Speaker 3: your dad is I've started to make him watch a 1097 00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:43,080 Speaker 3: holiday with holiday movie with me every year and this 1098 00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:46,040 Speaker 3: year we did the Holiday and he really enjoyed it. 1099 00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:47,200 Speaker 1: That's so sweet. 1100 00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:48,880 Speaker 3: I know, I know it's fun. 1101 00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:52,000 Speaker 2: Especially you got to get those things in there too. 1102 00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:54,319 Speaker 2: Before Like I just remember like being a fourteen year 1103 00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:57,160 Speaker 2: old boy, like and that's when and I don't know 1104 00:52:57,160 --> 00:53:00,760 Speaker 2: how different it is now, but like other their boys 1105 00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:03,800 Speaker 2: start to become like it's it's that's when the toxic 1106 00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:07,279 Speaker 2: masculinity looms and it doesn't have to be something that 1107 00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:11,480 Speaker 2: people indulge in. And again, generation generationally we are different, 1108 00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:14,160 Speaker 2: but I do remember that time, and I have like 1109 00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:18,279 Speaker 2: a lot of like like compassion for the kid that 1110 00:53:18,320 --> 00:53:21,080 Speaker 2: I was, but also all the other kids, the boys 1111 00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:23,759 Speaker 2: around me, because it's like the world is yelling at 1112 00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:25,239 Speaker 2: you to be a certain way. You don't want to 1113 00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:28,160 Speaker 2: be that way. You want to be sensitive, like you 1114 00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:32,839 Speaker 2: want to actually have access to and display of all 1115 00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:36,040 Speaker 2: your emotions. It's just it can get loud when you 1116 00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:37,800 Speaker 2: have a culture telling you this is the way the 1117 00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:38,960 Speaker 2: boys are supposed to act. 1118 00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:42,600 Speaker 3: It's absolutely infuriating. And now parents have to deal with 1119 00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:47,279 Speaker 3: social media and like a constant stream of like like 1120 00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:50,440 Speaker 3: Luca has YouTube. Is it called shorts? 1121 00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:50,800 Speaker 1: Sorts? 1122 00:53:51,080 --> 00:53:51,400 Speaker 3: YouTube? 1123 00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:51,960 Speaker 2: Shorts? Right? 1124 00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:54,839 Speaker 3: And that's his version of like social media, And it's 1125 00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:58,879 Speaker 3: just like the things are you know, You're just you're 1126 00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:01,759 Speaker 3: it's just the converse, because you're like, okay that they're 1127 00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:05,000 Speaker 3: getting this fed directly into their brains and their brains 1128 00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:07,080 Speaker 3: aren't as strong as ours yet and mine's not even 1129 00:54:07,080 --> 00:54:09,120 Speaker 3: that strong anymore. When I see stuff, I'm. 1130 00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:11,279 Speaker 1: Like, ooh, yeah, yeah, it's just. 1131 00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:16,279 Speaker 3: A wild information dump on them. That wasn't something that 1132 00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:18,719 Speaker 3: we had to deal with back then, Thank god, thank god. 1133 00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:19,799 Speaker 2: Can you imagine I can't. 1134 00:54:19,880 --> 00:54:22,280 Speaker 3: I mean, we're the last of them, I know. Yeah, 1135 00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:26,440 Speaker 3: we're the last of the people that don't didn't have that, Yeah, 1136 00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:28,520 Speaker 3: and it's really hard to keep it away from your 1137 00:54:28,719 --> 00:54:29,240 Speaker 3: your kids. 1138 00:54:29,560 --> 00:54:31,520 Speaker 1: But you know, but hearing you talk about like get 1139 00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:33,600 Speaker 1: in the car, we're going to the movies, and talking 1140 00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:36,560 Speaker 1: about to go back to the bus, I think that's 1141 00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:39,759 Speaker 1: like the antidote to any anxieties you have about them, 1142 00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:42,719 Speaker 1: like consuming that because it's like, no matter how I'm 1143 00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:45,400 Speaker 1: sure it'll be challenging throughout the tour, like have everybody 1144 00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:48,239 Speaker 1: in the slots or whatever, but like you will, you 1145 00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:50,759 Speaker 1: will probably I'm not telling you how to feel, but 1146 00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:53,080 Speaker 1: you will probably look back on this moment and be 1147 00:54:53,120 --> 00:54:57,000 Speaker 1: like really grateful, and it'll be so fond and like, 1148 00:54:57,080 --> 00:54:58,640 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, like we grew up for like a 1149 00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:00,840 Speaker 1: couple of months on this silly little vehicle. 1150 00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:05,680 Speaker 3: I also feel like Matt and I get stronger every 1151 00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:11,400 Speaker 3: time we get faced with something quite crazy like packing up. 1152 00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:13,920 Speaker 3: You know, for kids, Luca won't be there the whole time. 1153 00:55:14,000 --> 00:55:16,120 Speaker 3: He's a teenager now and he's like deep into soccer, 1154 00:55:16,160 --> 00:55:19,120 Speaker 3: so he'll be like in and out. But like you know, 1155 00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:24,120 Speaker 3: packing up a bus filled with kids and possibly animals, 1156 00:55:24,160 --> 00:55:28,279 Speaker 3: and you know, and and we I feel like we 1157 00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:31,040 Speaker 3: level up every time we tackle something like that, and 1158 00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:35,399 Speaker 3: it's such a beautiful, like notch on the belt. So 1159 00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:38,240 Speaker 3: I'm looking forward to it. And back on the topic 1160 00:55:38,280 --> 00:55:41,760 Speaker 3: of you know, social media and our kids like getting 1161 00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:45,799 Speaker 3: information from their friends or pressures from their friends or whatever. 1162 00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:50,479 Speaker 3: We do this thing in our house, and I feel 1163 00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:52,560 Speaker 3: like it's so important to just have your little family 1164 00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:55,800 Speaker 3: quirks and stick to them and make your kids do it. 1165 00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:59,080 Speaker 3: We on the weekends, we'll just start singing the song 1166 00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:02,439 Speaker 3: in the house, Matt and I it's Amanda Tory Family Walk, 1167 00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:07,360 Speaker 3: Amanda Tory Family Walk. And we just and everyone's like, no, 1168 00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:10,760 Speaker 3: we live in the hills, so it's not an easy walk. Yeah, 1169 00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:13,439 Speaker 3: We'll like get the dogs and we make everyone go, 1170 00:56:13,680 --> 00:56:17,000 Speaker 3: and just like the conversations that happen are so nice 1171 00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:19,399 Speaker 3: and everyone enjoys it by the end, but no one 1172 00:56:19,400 --> 00:56:20,480 Speaker 3: wants to go in the beginning. 1173 00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:24,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know that's part of the process too. 1174 00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:27,200 Speaker 2: Now we have to act like we're put upon right 1175 00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:32,840 Speaker 2: the walk in the hills. 1176 00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:33,040 Speaker 3: Like people would like to go on a walk with you. 1177 00:56:33,040 --> 00:56:35,120 Speaker 3: You don't have any idea. 1178 00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:37,120 Speaker 2: Actually are people that are going to be doing a 1179 00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:40,880 Speaker 2: meet and greet specifically to hang what twelfth of the 1180 00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:42,800 Speaker 2: time you're going to get with me during this walk. 1181 00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:45,560 Speaker 3: And a polaroid and a polaroid and polaroid? 1182 00:56:45,560 --> 00:56:48,160 Speaker 2: Will everyone in the family come to m S G though? 1183 00:56:48,560 --> 00:56:51,759 Speaker 3: I think come. Yeah, Luca lived in New York with 1184 00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:55,640 Speaker 3: me when I was shooting Younger, so he loves he 1185 00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:59,440 Speaker 3: loves Brooklyn and he'll have to. He wants to come 1186 00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:01,239 Speaker 3: for them as show. That's just a big deal. 1187 00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:04,160 Speaker 2: That's such a huge deal. You did play MSG back 1188 00:57:04,160 --> 00:57:04,520 Speaker 2: in the day. 1189 00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:06,800 Speaker 3: I think I only played it for like a jingle. 1190 00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:10,920 Speaker 2: So it's your first time headlining and selling at Mathison 1191 00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:11,680 Speaker 2: Square Gardens. 1192 00:57:11,800 --> 00:57:18,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so cool. It's awesome. It's awesome. 1193 00:57:18,360 --> 00:57:20,920 Speaker 2: I just feel like, what what it must feel like, 1194 00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:22,560 Speaker 2: or what it's going to feel like to go out 1195 00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:26,840 Speaker 2: there after like being like, you know, living a different 1196 00:57:26,880 --> 00:57:28,760 Speaker 2: life for so long. It's going to be it's an 1197 00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:30,480 Speaker 2: extra special experience. 1198 00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:33,560 Speaker 3: The muscle memories in there. But I also am so 1199 00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:37,760 Speaker 3: mean now that it's nice to have those two people 1200 00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:40,680 Speaker 3: like collide is wake up. 1201 00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:43,560 Speaker 1: In the setlist come thank God? 1202 00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:47,960 Speaker 2: Because I always am saying London Paris, maybe Tokyo when 1203 00:57:47,960 --> 00:57:52,080 Speaker 2: we're booking the trip. I mean that's like, that's just 1204 00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:54,680 Speaker 2: that's just part of those are always the. 1205 00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:57,440 Speaker 1: Because to maybe because it's just kind of far. London 1206 00:57:57,440 --> 00:58:00,600 Speaker 1: and Paris makes sense together because they're in Paris. 1207 00:58:00,640 --> 00:58:03,400 Speaker 2: Maybe Tokyo is the hardest left. It's like, wow, we 1208 00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:08,880 Speaker 2: were in London in Paris, but maybe. 1209 00:58:08,840 --> 00:58:09,160 Speaker 3: Away. 1210 00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:12,040 Speaker 2: What day is the Madison Square Garden August? 1211 00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:16,680 Speaker 1: It's August something the publicist, I don't know. 1212 00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:22,200 Speaker 3: We have to google that. I can't keep dates. You're 1213 00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:27,280 Speaker 3: you're doing everything. Wait, did Matt Wright on the album? 1214 00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:29,000 Speaker 3: Besides roommates? What else did you write on the album? 1215 00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:29,920 Speaker 3: We wrote the whole album? 1216 00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:31,800 Speaker 1: Why did I think it was just roommates? 1217 00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:34,000 Speaker 2: No, we wrote the whole the whole thing, Okay. And 1218 00:58:34,080 --> 00:58:35,840 Speaker 2: you can tell because I'm a fan of his work. 1219 00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:39,120 Speaker 2: I love his stuff with Carly Ray, I know, I mean, 1220 00:58:39,280 --> 00:58:40,720 Speaker 2: like he's really really. 1221 00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:44,560 Speaker 3: Carly Ray record. Yeah, actually the one after. 1222 00:58:46,080 --> 00:58:50,280 Speaker 2: She's had so many I'm a huge Ray. But like 1223 00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:52,480 Speaker 2: you're like you're referencing the Japanese house and like the 1224 00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:54,040 Speaker 2: album and it's like what do I I'm curious, Like 1225 00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:55,680 Speaker 2: what are you and Matt listening to in the house 1226 00:58:55,760 --> 00:58:57,720 Speaker 2: like among you, because I feel like you were both 1227 00:58:57,920 --> 00:59:02,560 Speaker 2: from these very wonderful, big like through. 1228 00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:04,200 Speaker 1: Lines and music that are meaning together now in it's 1229 00:59:04,240 --> 00:59:07,320 Speaker 1: like lush but still sparse like pop, like it's I 1230 00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:09,040 Speaker 1: love this album so much in the way that like 1231 00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:11,720 Speaker 1: talk about like how you guys arrived together at this. 1232 00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:15,320 Speaker 3: I think sonically we were one looking at my old 1233 00:59:15,360 --> 00:59:18,600 Speaker 3: catalog a lot, so I feel like in Weather for 1234 00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:23,200 Speaker 3: Tennis you pick up some of that, very like Hillary 1235 00:59:23,240 --> 00:59:28,280 Speaker 3: Duff Leaning Lane, But some of the things we were 1236 00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:32,840 Speaker 3: listening to was like the Japanese House, the nineteen seventy. 1237 00:59:32,440 --> 00:59:37,880 Speaker 1: Five, It's it's all in that world, like the Yeah, like. 1238 00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:43,160 Speaker 3: Even Harry's House for me, not so much taking inspiration 1239 00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:45,480 Speaker 3: from that, but I loved putting that record on for 1240 00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:47,920 Speaker 3: the first time and being like, oh I can just 1241 00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:52,280 Speaker 3: like this is just a fantastic soundtrack live in it. Yes, Yeah, 1242 00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:54,240 Speaker 3: I'm like I could be hosting a dinner party and 1243 00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:55,880 Speaker 3: that's happening. I could be in my car solo and 1244 00:59:55,920 --> 00:59:57,400 Speaker 3: this has happened. Like it was just a very like 1245 00:59:58,560 --> 01:00:02,920 Speaker 3: Presen sushi restaurant, and then the rest was like really 1246 01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:06,920 Speaker 3: trying not to listen to too much outside music, and 1247 01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:10,360 Speaker 3: we have so many kids that it's not hard to 1248 01:00:10,400 --> 01:00:13,320 Speaker 3: not do that because they kind of will steer the ship. 1249 01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:16,360 Speaker 1: And it's lots of like Taylor. 1250 01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:19,800 Speaker 3: Cracy Abrams and Taylor and Kat's Eye and things I 1251 01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:22,200 Speaker 3: love yea, yeah, but you know, I was not going 1252 01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:24,640 Speaker 3: to go on the album necessarily. No, we really tried 1253 01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:30,000 Speaker 3: to stay in like a Hillary Dufflin that's almost forty. 1254 01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:33,439 Speaker 2: I loved that it does. It does feel like it's 1255 01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:36,720 Speaker 2: still like it speaks to a little bit that pop 1256 01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:40,440 Speaker 2: rock thing that you were so like emblematic of. 1257 01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:42,959 Speaker 3: I feel like that it's dreamier. There's like a veil 1258 01:00:43,040 --> 01:00:43,840 Speaker 3: of dreamy on top. 1259 01:00:43,960 --> 01:00:48,560 Speaker 2: It's like a nostalgic filter over that sound, but more contemporary. 1260 01:00:48,920 --> 01:00:50,920 Speaker 2: And I love the way your voice sounds on it too. 1261 01:00:51,560 --> 01:00:53,880 Speaker 2: Like it's just really like I think the choices like 1262 01:00:54,000 --> 01:00:57,200 Speaker 2: are just so great, and I love the little pops 1263 01:00:57,240 --> 01:00:59,560 Speaker 2: of humor that are in there. It's just like I said, 1264 01:00:59,560 --> 01:01:00,720 Speaker 2: like it feels so me. 1265 01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:04,120 Speaker 3: It's so like me coded and and it's weird to 1266 01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:06,720 Speaker 3: say that, but it's like, you know, there's a lot 1267 01:01:06,760 --> 01:01:09,720 Speaker 3: of there's a lot of like serious themes on the record, 1268 01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:14,479 Speaker 3: but they're like disguised as like a going out night. Yeah, 1269 01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:19,240 Speaker 3: and like maybe there's like a rhinestone brawn underneath that 1270 01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:23,400 Speaker 3: oversized gesture, you know what I mean. Like it's just 1271 01:01:24,040 --> 01:01:27,160 Speaker 3: that I feel like that is very a big part 1272 01:01:27,200 --> 01:01:29,480 Speaker 3: of my personality, like oh, this is kind of happening 1273 01:01:29,520 --> 01:01:31,800 Speaker 3: in it's serious, but also like we're having a great time, 1274 01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:35,840 Speaker 3: and that I really wanted that to be expressed on 1275 01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:38,280 Speaker 3: the record because that's being an adult, right, Like we're 1276 01:01:38,280 --> 01:01:44,280 Speaker 3: handling so many things, we're moving through parts of life 1277 01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:48,760 Speaker 3: that like are new to us, and and it was 1278 01:01:48,800 --> 01:01:52,840 Speaker 3: like important for it to just be very like real 1279 01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:55,120 Speaker 3: and raw. 1280 01:01:55,480 --> 01:01:55,680 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1281 01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:57,680 Speaker 1: I feel like that's the theme of the album to me, 1282 01:01:58,040 --> 01:02:01,360 Speaker 1: is that like, oh, these are all like moments in 1283 01:02:01,440 --> 01:02:03,960 Speaker 1: between or on the way to like a bigger conversation, 1284 01:02:04,160 --> 01:02:06,600 Speaker 1: much like you know, talking like talking to the kids, 1285 01:02:06,600 --> 01:02:09,000 Speaker 1: Like we'll talk about that later. It's like I feel 1286 01:02:09,000 --> 01:02:11,120 Speaker 1: like Adult Size Medium is about that. It's like, oh, 1287 01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:14,760 Speaker 1: it's like this is kind of deteriorating, but like we 1288 01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:17,000 Speaker 1: can't really address it just yet. Or there's just a 1289 01:02:17,000 --> 01:02:18,120 Speaker 1: lot of that on the album that I think it 1290 01:02:18,200 --> 01:02:20,720 Speaker 1: like is really hard to capture that people don't really 1291 01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:24,360 Speaker 1: take the time to like focus in on it's very 1292 01:02:24,400 --> 01:02:26,120 Speaker 1: what you're describing where it's like I could put this 1293 01:02:26,160 --> 01:02:28,120 Speaker 1: on at home, you put this on in the car. 1294 01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:31,680 Speaker 1: It is it is all purpose but so specific, right, 1295 01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:33,800 Speaker 1: So it's it's really fucking good. 1296 01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:36,280 Speaker 3: Thank you so so much. Also my voice, like it 1297 01:02:36,320 --> 01:02:39,160 Speaker 3: was really fun to get on the mic again after 1298 01:02:39,440 --> 01:02:43,080 Speaker 3: ten years, like really ten years. I recorded Matt and 1299 01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:44,960 Speaker 3: I love Third Eye Blind and he was doing a 1300 01:02:45,000 --> 01:02:47,880 Speaker 3: cover and I just happened to it was during COVID, 1301 01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:49,480 Speaker 3: and I was like, are you really trying to cover 1302 01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:51,520 Speaker 3: a Third Eye Blind song and not have me sing 1303 01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:54,920 Speaker 3: on it? Like what the actual fun? And so I 1304 01:02:55,040 --> 01:02:58,640 Speaker 3: sang that but I really hadn't sang on a microphone 1305 01:02:58,680 --> 01:03:02,920 Speaker 3: in so long, and so to like arrive here and 1306 01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:06,400 Speaker 3: now and you know, write this record and just have 1307 01:03:06,480 --> 01:03:08,560 Speaker 3: my voice like I'm so much different now, I'm so 1308 01:03:08,640 --> 01:03:10,520 Speaker 3: much more in my body that I'm not like I 1309 01:03:10,560 --> 01:03:14,080 Speaker 3: don't need to seeing that note or be this thing. 1310 01:03:14,160 --> 01:03:16,320 Speaker 3: I'm just I'm just me And like, you know, I'm 1311 01:03:16,320 --> 01:03:19,840 Speaker 3: making this record because it feels good and it's just 1312 01:03:19,920 --> 01:03:23,080 Speaker 3: an absolute cherry on top that like people are connecting 1313 01:03:23,080 --> 01:03:24,160 Speaker 3: to it and like it. 1314 01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:27,439 Speaker 2: People love it, I mean us included, and like it's 1315 01:03:27,560 --> 01:03:30,720 Speaker 2: just we're very, very very happy to have a Hillary 1316 01:03:30,800 --> 01:03:33,640 Speaker 2: Duff album again, and we're so excited to see you 1317 01:03:33,680 --> 01:03:36,920 Speaker 2: at MSG. We're definitely gonna be there August. It'll be 1318 01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:39,480 Speaker 2: a hot, sweaty well, it will. 1319 01:03:43,280 --> 01:03:46,200 Speaker 3: New York when it's hot and muggy, Like, yes. 1320 01:03:46,120 --> 01:03:48,600 Speaker 2: You know what, it's the worst when you're experiencing it, 1321 01:03:48,640 --> 01:03:50,320 Speaker 2: and give me the memory. 1322 01:03:50,320 --> 01:03:51,960 Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait wait, I want more of this because 1323 01:03:51,960 --> 01:03:54,840 Speaker 1: people don't. This is thank you for being an apologist. 1324 01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:58,240 Speaker 1: See's an apologist about muggy New York because people love 1325 01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:01,680 Speaker 1: to shoot on it and I'm like, it's not We're out. 1326 01:04:01,760 --> 01:04:04,760 Speaker 3: I will tell you that there were times when I 1327 01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:07,520 Speaker 3: lived in Soho and I was shooting younger that I 1328 01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:10,280 Speaker 3: came to my apart. I got up my elevator like 1329 01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:13,840 Speaker 3: open to my apartment and I just like sat down 1330 01:04:13,880 --> 01:04:17,400 Speaker 3: and sobbed, like yeah, sometimes the humidity and he if 1331 01:04:17,440 --> 01:04:19,920 Speaker 3: you're like trying to run errands and I'm an la girly, 1332 01:04:20,080 --> 01:04:22,800 Speaker 3: so like I don't understand the concept of like shopping 1333 01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:25,480 Speaker 3: small totally, like and I would just have like so 1334 01:04:25,600 --> 01:04:27,440 Speaker 3: many bags and I'm like tough, and I'm like I 1335 01:04:27,480 --> 01:04:31,160 Speaker 3: am you're counting the steps you know, and you're just like, 1336 01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:33,560 Speaker 3: I know. 1337 01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:37,840 Speaker 2: I would I would identify as being seasonally depressed during 1338 01:04:37,840 --> 01:04:39,760 Speaker 2: August or in the summer. Back in the day. I remember, 1339 01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:41,840 Speaker 2: remember I was saying this. I was like, I think 1340 01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:45,640 Speaker 2: I get seasonal affect of disorder. When it's August in 1341 01:04:45,640 --> 01:04:46,040 Speaker 2: New York. 1342 01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:49,160 Speaker 3: Dogs come out and you're sitting outside and you're just like, 1343 01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:53,560 Speaker 3: now I'm eating alive by mosquito. It's horrible. There's something 1344 01:04:53,640 --> 01:04:57,000 Speaker 3: I do. I romanticize it because like it's tied to 1345 01:04:57,080 --> 01:04:59,640 Speaker 3: memories for me that I like, I love. 1346 01:05:00,240 --> 01:05:01,880 Speaker 2: It's like but it's like what you're just saying, it's 1347 01:05:01,920 --> 01:05:08,760 Speaker 2: like you remember fondly the nostalgia filter over you sobbing 1348 01:05:08,840 --> 01:05:11,960 Speaker 2: on a roof because because like you can't walk another step, 1349 01:05:12,320 --> 01:05:14,120 Speaker 2: and then here we are, and it's what you remember 1350 01:05:14,160 --> 01:05:14,680 Speaker 2: about it. 1351 01:05:14,680 --> 01:05:15,840 Speaker 3: It's adult size medium. 1352 01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:17,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's back. 1353 01:05:17,040 --> 01:05:20,160 Speaker 3: And you're like, I missed those nights and you're like, 1354 01:05:20,200 --> 01:05:22,680 Speaker 3: that night sucks, so and kiss so and so. Right, 1355 01:05:22,720 --> 01:05:25,520 Speaker 3: You're right, we ended like tears in a toilet. It 1356 01:05:25,520 --> 01:05:26,280 Speaker 3: was a horrible night. 1357 01:05:27,560 --> 01:05:32,240 Speaker 2: You're like, oh, but if take me back, it's so 1358 01:05:32,920 --> 01:05:34,360 Speaker 2: twenty whatever, it's the same. 1359 01:05:34,600 --> 01:05:39,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a time I think it's a tough time. 1360 01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:43,000 Speaker 2: It's time we've approached the moment. I don't think so, honey. 1361 01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:45,800 Speaker 2: It's our one minute segment that we do where we 1362 01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:48,000 Speaker 2: take a little something in culture and we just sort 1363 01:05:48,040 --> 01:05:49,680 Speaker 2: of work it. We work it out on the remix. 1364 01:05:49,760 --> 01:05:52,440 Speaker 2: With this thing, it's not necessarily a takedown, like, for example, 1365 01:05:52,520 --> 01:05:53,680 Speaker 2: the one I'm going to do today. 1366 01:05:54,120 --> 01:05:55,280 Speaker 3: Do you guys go first? 1367 01:05:55,120 --> 01:05:57,960 Speaker 2: You go first? We demo, so I go first, boone, 1368 01:05:58,000 --> 01:05:58,560 Speaker 2: and go second? 1369 01:05:58,680 --> 01:05:59,680 Speaker 3: What if you take mine? 1370 01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:01,800 Speaker 2: I don't think they're going to do this one. 1371 01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:04,800 Speaker 3: Actually, do you have notes on your phone? 1372 01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:06,560 Speaker 2: Just a timer? 1373 01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:09,160 Speaker 3: Are you cheating? 1374 01:06:09,280 --> 01:06:11,880 Speaker 2: And no, see it's not cheating if you do it. 1375 01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:13,600 Speaker 2: But I will say, I mean, we say every time. 1376 01:06:13,680 --> 01:06:15,760 Speaker 2: It tends to hit less hard when someone reads. 1377 01:06:15,520 --> 01:06:16,080 Speaker 1: Off their phone. 1378 01:06:16,160 --> 01:06:17,280 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna read off my phone. 1379 01:06:17,520 --> 01:06:18,000 Speaker 2: You're not good. 1380 01:06:18,040 --> 01:06:18,400 Speaker 1: I'll good. 1381 01:06:18,680 --> 01:06:22,120 Speaker 2: Do I want to? Yes? Well, we won't. Now, we 1382 01:06:22,120 --> 01:06:22,640 Speaker 2: won't allow it. 1383 01:06:22,760 --> 01:06:25,640 Speaker 1: We won't allow it, all right, okay something, Yeah, this 1384 01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:27,920 Speaker 1: is Matt Rodgers. I don't think so, Honey's time starts now. 1385 01:06:28,000 --> 01:06:30,320 Speaker 2: I don't think so, honey. Crossword culture, I'm sorry. I 1386 01:06:30,400 --> 01:06:31,880 Speaker 2: wake up in the morning. I don't even think about 1387 01:06:31,920 --> 01:06:34,760 Speaker 2: it today. Thank you. So much New York Times today 1388 01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:39,240 Speaker 2: last Culturistas is in the crossword, a huge honor. I 1389 01:06:39,320 --> 01:06:43,720 Speaker 2: have been texted reached out to by more people than 1390 01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:47,600 Speaker 2: if I announced my wedding, which probably will never happen. 1391 01:06:47,640 --> 01:06:50,440 Speaker 2: But the thing is, like I old friends from high school, 1392 01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:54,040 Speaker 2: like guys I used to date, like, Wow, this is amazing, 1393 01:06:54,080 --> 01:06:56,920 Speaker 2: congrats on all you've accomplished. We just want to glad award. 1394 01:06:57,000 --> 01:06:59,080 Speaker 2: And no one said any thirty seconds. But we're in 1395 01:06:59,120 --> 01:07:04,280 Speaker 2: the crossword and it's like we've given birth to like 1396 01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:07,920 Speaker 2: the of the Royal Air. And here's the thing. Bowen 1397 01:07:07,960 --> 01:07:09,880 Speaker 2: did just walk me through a cross road right before, 1398 01:07:12,240 --> 01:07:14,080 Speaker 2: and I see why it's fun. I just wish I 1399 01:07:14,080 --> 01:07:15,840 Speaker 2: could be the kind of person that woke up and 1400 01:07:15,880 --> 01:07:18,480 Speaker 2: thought of the crossword. And that is so many millions 1401 01:07:18,520 --> 01:07:20,520 Speaker 2: of people. And I just want to know where we 1402 01:07:20,680 --> 01:07:23,880 Speaker 2: diverged in the woods that I don't think of the crossword? 1403 01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:27,040 Speaker 2: And y'all do was it my parents? Should my dad 1404 01:07:27,120 --> 01:07:29,360 Speaker 2: instead of taking me to the natty professor showing me 1405 01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:32,040 Speaker 2: the crossword? I don't know, so. 1406 01:07:32,120 --> 01:07:34,040 Speaker 1: Honey, And that's one minute. 1407 01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:36,680 Speaker 3: I have so many thoughts. Go ahead, go ahead, okay, 1408 01:07:36,880 --> 01:07:40,520 Speaker 3: I it's just too hard like I'm not good enough. 1409 01:07:40,440 --> 01:07:41,919 Speaker 2: Especially the ones in the New York Times. 1410 01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:43,480 Speaker 3: On a Sunday, I know that was the one I'm 1411 01:07:43,520 --> 01:07:45,560 Speaker 3: talking about. But people wake up and do it on 1412 01:07:45,600 --> 01:07:47,240 Speaker 3: a Sunday. Ever thought to do it before bed? 1413 01:07:47,360 --> 01:07:49,200 Speaker 2: He I that's good. 1414 01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:51,520 Speaker 3: Oh, that's interesting, like a wind down. 1415 01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:54,400 Speaker 1: You know, it's cute. Might be fun for the family 1416 01:07:54,440 --> 01:07:56,600 Speaker 1: on the bus, might be fun for you at home. 1417 01:07:57,920 --> 01:08:02,600 Speaker 1: New York Times crossword puzzle Book of Mondays easy. 1418 01:08:02,840 --> 01:08:03,840 Speaker 2: Oh so so. 1419 01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:05,840 Speaker 1: But by the days of the week, you know, like 1420 01:08:05,880 --> 01:08:08,000 Speaker 1: the final boss is Sunday because it's bigger, it's not 1421 01:08:08,040 --> 01:08:12,120 Speaker 1: necessarily harder. Saturday and Friday are like really tough. Monday 1422 01:08:13,080 --> 01:08:16,040 Speaker 1: anybody can do it, Okay, truly anybody. And that's and 1423 01:08:16,080 --> 01:08:18,080 Speaker 1: that's to wean you on. That's to like because there's 1424 01:08:18,120 --> 01:08:20,840 Speaker 1: like hints that recur. There's like hints that there's like 1425 01:08:20,960 --> 01:08:22,920 Speaker 1: things that like you're like, oh, that's from like a 1426 01:08:23,000 --> 01:08:25,400 Speaker 1: month ago. Like you start to you really start to 1427 01:08:25,439 --> 01:08:27,120 Speaker 1: get people get obsessed over it. 1428 01:08:27,160 --> 01:08:27,639 Speaker 2: The culture. 1429 01:08:27,760 --> 01:08:32,719 Speaker 1: Oh, because it's slowly, like very gently brings you on board. 1430 01:08:33,280 --> 01:08:35,960 Speaker 1: I understand that it seems very daunting. I am not 1431 01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:39,160 Speaker 1: all the way there with all these diehards who love 1432 01:08:39,160 --> 01:08:40,360 Speaker 1: the crossword. 1433 01:08:40,520 --> 01:08:44,240 Speaker 3: But you get funny also the things in our culture 1434 01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:47,599 Speaker 3: that just hold the most weight to people, like the coolio, 1435 01:08:48,720 --> 01:08:52,479 Speaker 3: the coolio thing that people have that like has a 1436 01:08:52,560 --> 01:08:54,559 Speaker 3: choke hold on them, like the crossword. And you guys 1437 01:08:54,640 --> 01:08:56,000 Speaker 3: made it in the crossword. And it's all of a 1438 01:08:56,040 --> 01:08:58,320 Speaker 3: sudden You're like, did I get is it my birthday? 1439 01:08:58,320 --> 01:09:00,720 Speaker 2: What's with all these more text today then the other 1440 01:09:00,800 --> 01:09:04,519 Speaker 2: day for my birthday? No, that's not true, but it 1441 01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:08,040 Speaker 2: is a thing of I didn't realize this was so important. 1442 01:09:08,120 --> 01:09:10,479 Speaker 2: Here's what bothers me about it. So we're sitting here 1443 01:09:10,520 --> 01:09:13,800 Speaker 2: and we're doing it, and the one clue was like, 1444 01:09:14,680 --> 01:09:18,000 Speaker 2: it's like a five letter word starting with an S. 1445 01:09:18,360 --> 01:09:22,120 Speaker 2: And it was other word for pastry and a bakery. 1446 01:09:23,120 --> 01:09:24,840 Speaker 2: And I'm sitting here and. 1447 01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:25,639 Speaker 3: You already have it. 1448 01:09:26,400 --> 01:09:27,200 Speaker 2: Do you know what it is? 1449 01:09:28,200 --> 01:09:28,479 Speaker 3: I need? 1450 01:09:28,520 --> 01:09:30,120 Speaker 1: I'm just to let starts with us. 1451 01:09:30,320 --> 01:09:32,800 Speaker 2: It's scone And I'm sitting here and I'm like, well, 1452 01:09:32,840 --> 01:09:35,439 Speaker 2: of course I knew scone. And I feel like after 1453 01:09:35,479 --> 01:09:38,160 Speaker 2: every single crossword thing, if I'm doing it with someone 1454 01:09:38,240 --> 01:09:40,280 Speaker 2: and they get it first, my instinct is to want 1455 01:09:40,280 --> 01:09:42,880 Speaker 2: to be like, hey, I knew, I did know that, 1456 01:09:43,240 --> 01:09:46,000 Speaker 2: Like I do know Scone, like, don't think I don't 1457 01:09:46,000 --> 01:09:48,519 Speaker 2: know Scone and it's like that with everything. But he's 1458 01:09:48,560 --> 01:09:49,280 Speaker 2: so fast. 1459 01:09:49,920 --> 01:09:50,120 Speaker 1: I know. 1460 01:09:50,200 --> 01:09:51,800 Speaker 3: I literally looked it and I was like, you know it. 1461 01:09:51,920 --> 01:09:52,680 Speaker 2: You I saw it. 1462 01:09:52,760 --> 01:09:54,720 Speaker 3: I saw it download in your brain and I was 1463 01:09:54,760 --> 01:09:55,960 Speaker 3: like you and that. 1464 01:09:55,880 --> 01:10:01,760 Speaker 2: Can be the smart No, no, I don't know. 1465 01:10:01,920 --> 01:10:03,280 Speaker 3: I don't blame it, receive it. 1466 01:10:03,280 --> 01:10:03,960 Speaker 1: Thank you? 1467 01:10:04,080 --> 01:10:06,960 Speaker 2: Or should we say now thank you for bringing back 1468 01:10:07,000 --> 01:10:10,400 Speaker 2: now now? Because I really do think now now now 1469 01:10:10,439 --> 01:10:12,840 Speaker 2: now that's very US culturist to say now now. 1470 01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:15,679 Speaker 1: So there's no way that you're gonna do mine because 1471 01:10:16,000 --> 01:10:20,240 Speaker 1: mine is inspired by a lyric. It's not coming for you. Okay, okay, 1472 01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:23,080 Speaker 1: it's inspired. You've you've really gotten me thinking about this lyric. 1473 01:10:23,200 --> 01:10:26,719 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, this is when think so honey as time starts. 1474 01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:30,280 Speaker 1: Now, I don't think so honey. The expression dying on 1475 01:10:30,560 --> 01:10:33,880 Speaker 1: that hill, it's a lyric in weather for tennis. It's 1476 01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:35,840 Speaker 1: a great It feels out the syllables, it fills out 1477 01:10:35,840 --> 01:10:40,400 Speaker 1: the line the verse dying on that hill. How about 1478 01:10:41,439 --> 01:10:43,760 Speaker 1: dying in the peace and comfort of your own home. 1479 01:10:44,600 --> 01:10:47,679 Speaker 1: Come on, passing away in your sleep in bed. 1480 01:10:48,360 --> 01:10:51,040 Speaker 2: Dying on that hill. See, people say that's the hill. 1481 01:10:50,880 --> 01:10:53,200 Speaker 1: I'm willing to die on. But remember when we used 1482 01:10:53,200 --> 01:10:56,760 Speaker 1: to have opinions and not have steaks attached to them. 1483 01:10:59,240 --> 01:11:01,920 Speaker 2: I'm gonna die on this hill. Trader Joe's has the 1484 01:11:01,960 --> 01:11:03,519 Speaker 2: best orange chicken. 1485 01:11:04,280 --> 01:11:04,840 Speaker 1: Shut up. 1486 01:11:05,040 --> 01:11:06,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're dying. 1487 01:11:06,200 --> 01:11:11,479 Speaker 1: You're dying on that hill. Also, this isn't the Civil War. 1488 01:11:12,160 --> 01:11:15,000 Speaker 1: It might be about to be, but this isn't the 1489 01:11:15,080 --> 01:11:15,639 Speaker 1: old one. 1490 01:11:16,000 --> 01:11:20,479 Speaker 2: There's no hills, there's no everybody. Keep the hills clear 1491 01:11:20,560 --> 01:11:24,400 Speaker 2: of bodies. Seconds, Keep the hills clear. 1492 01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:28,400 Speaker 1: That might be public space, green space, public infrastructure. Keep 1493 01:11:28,439 --> 01:11:30,479 Speaker 1: the hills clear of your corpse. 1494 01:11:30,600 --> 01:11:31,479 Speaker 2: And that's one minute. 1495 01:11:31,680 --> 01:11:35,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, keep it open for the picnics, for the pics. 1496 01:11:35,240 --> 01:11:37,639 Speaker 1: But whether for tennis reminded me of that saying. 1497 01:11:37,479 --> 01:11:41,400 Speaker 3: That's so good, And I love that line in the 1498 01:11:41,439 --> 01:11:45,519 Speaker 3: songs because it does fill out everything that's needed. That's 1499 01:11:45,520 --> 01:11:48,000 Speaker 3: a song. There's not a lot of room to breathe 1500 01:11:48,000 --> 01:11:48,479 Speaker 3: in that song. 1501 01:11:49,120 --> 01:11:52,160 Speaker 2: I love how like It is a It's Mariah Carey 1502 01:11:52,160 --> 01:11:54,200 Speaker 2: ask there's a lot of like thoughts. Full album full 1503 01:11:54,240 --> 01:11:57,200 Speaker 2: of thoughts, Yes, lots of lyrics. 1504 01:11:57,360 --> 01:12:00,840 Speaker 3: Lots of lyrics. Yeah, which has kind of always been 1505 01:12:00,880 --> 01:12:05,559 Speaker 3: my music until I started going to like super Dancy genre. 1506 01:12:05,760 --> 01:12:07,920 Speaker 2: Oh remember the era that was like the dignity era. 1507 01:12:08,080 --> 01:12:11,559 Speaker 3: It was like a weird turn, but not for nothing, with. 1508 01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:16,400 Speaker 2: Love, with love everything. Also beating my heart. Oh, don't 1509 01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:18,760 Speaker 2: forget beating my heart. Before Z there was beating my 1510 01:12:18,800 --> 01:12:21,000 Speaker 2: heart and that's just true. 1511 01:12:21,120 --> 01:12:23,760 Speaker 3: Yeah. I love that one. Yeah, so very fun. That 1512 01:12:23,800 --> 01:12:26,000 Speaker 3: one's in the in the Small Rooms, Big Nerves tour. 1513 01:12:26,520 --> 01:12:29,639 Speaker 3: Oh it has to Yeah, it's been it's been fun. Okay, 1514 01:12:29,680 --> 01:12:30,200 Speaker 3: is it my turn? 1515 01:12:30,360 --> 01:12:30,599 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1516 01:12:30,640 --> 01:12:32,840 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm just realizing how long a minute is and 1517 01:12:32,880 --> 01:12:33,479 Speaker 3: it's giving me. 1518 01:12:34,200 --> 01:12:37,800 Speaker 2: No a minute, You're just realizing. No, it's always been 1519 01:12:37,840 --> 01:12:40,760 Speaker 2: sixty seconds. Nothing changed today when you came in. We 1520 01:12:40,800 --> 01:12:42,120 Speaker 2: didn't elongate a minute. 1521 01:12:42,240 --> 01:12:44,680 Speaker 1: Okay, you can do it. You can do it. I 1522 01:12:44,720 --> 01:12:48,240 Speaker 1: think you've done so many harder things. Yeah, okay, this 1523 01:12:48,280 --> 01:12:49,760 Speaker 1: is Hillary defth I don't think so, honey. Her time 1524 01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:50,200 Speaker 1: starts now. 1525 01:12:50,680 --> 01:12:55,280 Speaker 3: I don't think so, honey. The boom of the robots please, 1526 01:12:55,720 --> 01:12:58,600 Speaker 3: I am not interested. I would like to talk to 1527 01:12:58,680 --> 01:13:01,559 Speaker 3: a real person on the phone. Oh I am sitting there. 1528 01:13:01,960 --> 01:13:03,479 Speaker 3: You know what's gonna happen as soon as I get 1529 01:13:03,479 --> 01:13:05,400 Speaker 3: a real human on the phone, after I've pushed every 1530 01:13:05,479 --> 01:13:10,400 Speaker 3: single button, representative, real human with a beating heart. Please 1531 01:13:11,160 --> 01:13:13,960 Speaker 3: pick up. I need you. Okay, I'm gonna be in 1532 01:13:14,040 --> 01:13:16,479 Speaker 3: Cold Water Canyon. My call's gonna drop. I'm gonna be 1533 01:13:16,640 --> 01:13:19,640 Speaker 3: put to the beginning of the line again. I just 1534 01:13:19,720 --> 01:13:22,000 Speaker 3: need to book my airline ticket. I need to talk 1535 01:13:22,040 --> 01:13:24,080 Speaker 3: to a person. Okay. The other thing that's stressful for 1536 01:13:24,120 --> 01:13:27,040 Speaker 3: me is these little robots that are delivering food in 1537 01:13:27,080 --> 01:13:29,920 Speaker 3: the bucket. They are so stressed out. They're having an 1538 01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:33,200 Speaker 3: anxiety attack. Watching them slam on the breaks every second, 1539 01:13:33,240 --> 01:13:35,479 Speaker 3: I'm like the poor thing. All of a sudden, I'm 1540 01:13:35,520 --> 01:13:37,800 Speaker 3: feeling empathy for this thing. They had to put eyes 1541 01:13:37,840 --> 01:13:38,760 Speaker 3: on it and give it a name. 1542 01:13:39,360 --> 01:13:40,120 Speaker 2: They didn't have to do. 1543 01:13:40,280 --> 01:13:42,040 Speaker 3: Why they put eyes on it and give it a name? 1544 01:13:42,200 --> 01:13:45,639 Speaker 3: I feel so it looks so isolating. That little thing's 1545 01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:48,439 Speaker 3: slamming on its breaks trying to cross the road. Kids 1546 01:13:48,439 --> 01:13:52,040 Speaker 3: are punking it, poking at it, thinking it can't defend. 1547 01:13:52,240 --> 01:13:54,400 Speaker 3: Five seconds, that's all I have left. What's happening to 1548 01:13:54,439 --> 01:13:56,639 Speaker 3: the pad tie inside of the bucket or it's been 1549 01:13:56,640 --> 01:13:58,479 Speaker 3: slamming on its breaks a hundred times? 1550 01:13:58,920 --> 01:14:05,479 Speaker 2: I don't think so, honey, that's one minute Sea. It's 1551 01:14:05,520 --> 01:14:06,439 Speaker 2: because because my. 1552 01:14:06,840 --> 01:14:08,919 Speaker 3: Other one was going to be. Why am I constantly 1553 01:14:08,920 --> 01:14:10,600 Speaker 3: getting logged out of my streaming services? 1554 01:14:10,600 --> 01:14:11,160 Speaker 2: Oh? 1555 01:14:11,280 --> 01:14:14,519 Speaker 3: No process? 1556 01:14:14,600 --> 01:14:16,120 Speaker 2: Oh forget who's that verification? 1557 01:14:16,280 --> 01:14:17,680 Speaker 3: I'm done. I can't even watch to be tonight. I 1558 01:14:17,680 --> 01:14:21,000 Speaker 3: don't remember who I am my past coode for that, 1559 01:14:21,200 --> 01:14:21,919 Speaker 3: but I remember. 1560 01:14:22,080 --> 01:14:23,439 Speaker 2: Six two seven one eight. 1561 01:14:24,400 --> 01:14:25,000 Speaker 3: What's that? 1562 01:14:25,000 --> 01:14:29,880 Speaker 2: That's my that's my one time passcode for box dot com. 1563 01:14:29,960 --> 01:14:34,080 Speaker 2: It's too much that you didn't mention the biggest threat 1564 01:14:34,640 --> 01:14:38,040 Speaker 2: to humanity in the Valley area, though, And I'm saying it. 1565 01:14:38,280 --> 01:14:41,479 Speaker 3: Tell me, way, MO, have you written in AA. 1566 01:14:41,680 --> 01:14:45,200 Speaker 2: I refuse because our best friend Jared got an away 1567 01:14:45,280 --> 01:14:48,920 Speaker 2: MO to go to a bar, and a bunch of 1568 01:14:48,920 --> 01:14:50,439 Speaker 2: our friends were at the bar and they're like, oh, 1569 01:14:50,520 --> 01:14:52,719 Speaker 2: look there's Jared in a way MO. And then Jared 1570 01:14:52,920 --> 01:14:55,840 Speaker 2: got stuck the way Mow got stuck in an intersection 1571 01:14:56,320 --> 01:14:59,719 Speaker 2: and the light changed from red to green and literally 1572 01:14:59,760 --> 01:15:01,960 Speaker 2: try was going around him the WAYMO didn't know how 1573 01:15:01,960 --> 01:15:04,080 Speaker 2: to figure it out. Yeah, so everything. He got out 1574 01:15:04,120 --> 01:15:06,280 Speaker 2: of the car and went into the high tops lost 1575 01:15:06,280 --> 01:15:09,679 Speaker 2: feelis and they were like, you that tried that WAYMO, 1576 01:15:09,760 --> 01:15:10,519 Speaker 2: tried to kill you. 1577 01:15:11,160 --> 01:15:14,080 Speaker 3: I'm not into them. I'm not into I'm not into 1578 01:15:14,120 --> 01:15:16,360 Speaker 3: all this. I want some human contact. 1579 01:15:16,360 --> 01:15:21,760 Speaker 1: I absolutely know it's it's too much. First of all, 1580 01:15:22,040 --> 01:15:24,559 Speaker 1: thank you for that. Second of all, you do not 1581 01:15:24,960 --> 01:15:28,519 Speaker 1: Hillary Duff, have to feel any empathy for the robot 1582 01:15:28,600 --> 01:15:29,720 Speaker 1: feeling anxiety. 1583 01:15:30,400 --> 01:15:34,439 Speaker 2: Don't worry. But that is because they've manipulated us into 1584 01:15:34,479 --> 01:15:37,679 Speaker 2: feeling that way because of these eyes. And one person 1585 01:15:38,120 --> 01:15:40,840 Speaker 2: takes a photo of one of these. They give them names. 1586 01:15:41,040 --> 01:15:44,639 Speaker 2: They named one after it, after me, but there's one 1587 01:15:44,720 --> 01:15:46,840 Speaker 2: named Bowen driving around West Tyley when I. 1588 01:15:46,760 --> 01:15:51,120 Speaker 3: Go get out of here. Should I sue this infringement? 1589 01:15:51,240 --> 01:15:54,080 Speaker 1: This is infringement on my name? No, I don't know 1590 01:15:54,520 --> 01:15:57,120 Speaker 1: my name is. My name is not my own? But 1591 01:15:57,320 --> 01:15:59,680 Speaker 1: isn't that weird? Though they want you to feel like, 1592 01:15:59,760 --> 01:16:01,080 Speaker 1: oh it's Wally, you. 1593 01:16:01,000 --> 01:16:06,320 Speaker 3: Know Wally, and now it's having all kinds of feelings. 1594 01:16:05,960 --> 01:16:08,599 Speaker 2: But you don't, don't have to, don't. But here's the thing. 1595 01:16:08,680 --> 01:16:11,639 Speaker 2: Does a little part of you think it's cute. 1596 01:16:12,200 --> 01:16:14,439 Speaker 3: It's a little cute, but it's just a slamming on 1597 01:16:14,479 --> 01:16:15,960 Speaker 3: the brakes that make me really sad. 1598 01:16:16,080 --> 01:16:18,280 Speaker 2: I don't like it at all. And also I don't 1599 01:16:18,320 --> 01:16:21,480 Speaker 2: think i've ever had Can you choose if your delivery 1600 01:16:21,600 --> 01:16:25,040 Speaker 2: is being on a bike or like a or you 1601 01:16:25,080 --> 01:16:25,800 Speaker 2: don't think you can choose. 1602 01:16:25,800 --> 01:16:26,800 Speaker 3: Okay, I don't think you're undy. 1603 01:16:26,880 --> 01:16:28,640 Speaker 2: No, I don't think so, honey, you can pick. But 1604 01:16:28,720 --> 01:16:31,360 Speaker 2: I just I want the autonomy here and I can't 1605 01:16:31,400 --> 01:16:34,240 Speaker 2: with the way most because they are. I don't get 1606 01:16:34,400 --> 01:16:35,879 Speaker 2: how that happened. 1607 01:16:36,280 --> 01:16:38,760 Speaker 3: You guys saw the the Jimmy Kimmel's aunt went in 1608 01:16:38,800 --> 01:16:40,320 Speaker 3: the way moo and they filmed it. Tell me you 1609 01:16:40,360 --> 01:16:44,240 Speaker 3: saw that. No, Oh my gosh. She's screaming at the 1610 01:16:44,280 --> 01:16:47,400 Speaker 3: top of her lungs and she's calling her daughter, who's 1611 01:16:47,400 --> 01:16:51,559 Speaker 3: like the producer with Kimmel or whatever. She's like, I'm 1612 01:16:51,600 --> 01:16:55,839 Speaker 3: in Nika and there's not a driver, and she's like 1613 01:16:56,000 --> 01:16:59,040 Speaker 3: losing her mind. It's so funny, and she's like grabbing 1614 01:16:59,080 --> 01:17:01,400 Speaker 3: the thing and the steering all was like turning and 1615 01:17:01,439 --> 01:17:03,040 Speaker 3: he and she's like, what, I sent the car for you, 1616 01:17:03,160 --> 01:17:06,160 Speaker 3: and she's like, I'm telling you, I'm in the car 1617 01:17:06,320 --> 01:17:08,360 Speaker 3: you sent and there's no driver. 1618 01:17:09,240 --> 01:17:11,200 Speaker 2: I only want to be in a self driving car 1619 01:17:11,240 --> 01:17:15,240 Speaker 2: if it's at Disney's California Adventure Radiator Springs Racers. 1620 01:17:15,360 --> 01:17:18,639 Speaker 3: Oh, I lied to my kid and said that they 1621 01:17:18,720 --> 01:17:21,080 Speaker 3: slowed the I know. 1622 01:17:21,040 --> 01:17:22,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you have to do that. 1623 01:17:22,040 --> 01:17:22,599 Speaker 3: Load it down. 1624 01:17:24,120 --> 01:17:26,679 Speaker 2: You have to be the parent that's like, we're getting 1625 01:17:26,720 --> 01:17:27,120 Speaker 2: on this. 1626 01:17:27,439 --> 01:17:29,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, you should see what kind of a 1627 01:17:29,160 --> 01:17:31,720 Speaker 3: fight it turns into sometimes and then you're like, I'm 1628 01:17:31,760 --> 01:17:34,439 Speaker 3: not that person, but I am right now. I know 1629 01:17:34,520 --> 01:17:39,639 Speaker 3: like that Disneyland is get yeah, yeah today? 1630 01:17:40,040 --> 01:17:42,320 Speaker 2: Are all four of them interested in doing the rides? 1631 01:17:42,840 --> 01:17:44,880 Speaker 3: No? And I scarred Lucas so bad. We had like 1632 01:17:44,920 --> 01:17:50,360 Speaker 3: a pretty big arm wrestle to get him on Scream in. 1633 01:17:50,240 --> 01:17:52,960 Speaker 2: California or what Credit coaster. 1634 01:17:54,240 --> 01:17:57,000 Speaker 3: And he wouldn't do it. He wouldn't do it, and 1635 01:17:57,040 --> 01:18:00,000 Speaker 3: he's like scarred for life that I like pressured. 1636 01:17:59,680 --> 01:18:01,360 Speaker 2: Him and did he get on it eventually? 1637 01:18:01,439 --> 01:18:05,679 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, eventually not with me, with like his cousins. 1638 01:18:05,720 --> 01:18:07,479 Speaker 3: And I was like, I'm glad you had that experience, 1639 01:18:07,479 --> 01:18:10,280 Speaker 3: but we were here three months ago. I wanted that. 1640 01:18:10,240 --> 01:18:14,000 Speaker 2: Experience when my dad took us to Universal in Orlando, 1641 01:18:14,960 --> 01:18:16,599 Speaker 2: like when I was young, like ten, and I had 1642 01:18:16,600 --> 01:18:19,080 Speaker 2: been talking about the incredible Hull roller coaster for like 1643 01:18:19,160 --> 01:18:21,920 Speaker 2: a year, like I can't wait to do it. You 1644 01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:24,599 Speaker 2: get there and I'm start sobbing and he goes no, 1645 01:18:24,920 --> 01:18:27,680 Speaker 2: and he's like, we're not doing this you because then 1646 01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:29,479 Speaker 2: we're gonna leave and you're gonna talk the whole time 1647 01:18:29,520 --> 01:18:33,639 Speaker 2: then how you didn't do it? Dragged me, dragged. 1648 01:18:33,120 --> 01:18:38,360 Speaker 3: Me the thing that the things that those people have seen. Yeah, operators, 1649 01:18:38,400 --> 01:18:41,480 Speaker 3: Oh yeah yeah. We went to Disney World for Christmas 1650 01:18:41,880 --> 01:18:44,160 Speaker 3: and it was so much fun and Banks actually got 1651 01:18:44,240 --> 01:18:46,960 Speaker 3: on a few of the little coasters, like the Slinky Dog. 1652 01:18:47,400 --> 01:18:48,400 Speaker 2: We love the Slinky Doll. 1653 01:18:48,520 --> 01:18:52,559 Speaker 3: So fun. Oh so proud himself, but we do, like, 1654 01:18:52,680 --> 01:18:54,519 Speaker 3: you know, it's a small world, like fifteen times. 1655 01:18:54,680 --> 01:18:57,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, you know, there's a lot to see a 1656 01:18:57,200 --> 01:18:58,640 Speaker 2: lot of those little guys in there. You got to 1657 01:18:58,640 --> 01:19:00,240 Speaker 2: you gotta say hello too. I want to pow dice 1658 01:19:00,280 --> 01:19:07,000 Speaker 2: to everybody for uh being pro New York community. 1659 01:19:07,200 --> 01:19:10,479 Speaker 3: Great for the skin, right, but. 1660 01:19:10,240 --> 01:19:13,320 Speaker 1: But to think of you sobbing is really tough for me. 1661 01:19:13,560 --> 01:19:16,439 Speaker 3: I think it's one of those things that makes you stronger. Yeah, 1662 01:19:16,640 --> 01:19:19,679 Speaker 3: like I living in the city is hard, so hard. 1663 01:19:19,840 --> 01:19:21,599 Speaker 3: It's not for the faint. 1664 01:19:21,760 --> 01:19:23,040 Speaker 2: No, it's not for the faint. 1665 01:19:23,000 --> 01:19:27,640 Speaker 3: But it's gives you that, It gives you that that 1666 01:19:27,720 --> 01:19:29,720 Speaker 3: grit that it grows appreciation. 1667 01:19:30,360 --> 01:19:31,920 Speaker 1: Peters grew in the city. 1668 01:19:32,200 --> 01:19:35,000 Speaker 3: She did, she did. Do you think that Kelsey Peters 1669 01:19:35,640 --> 01:19:37,280 Speaker 3: is like I. 1670 01:19:37,200 --> 01:19:38,479 Speaker 1: Think she works for Jenna Buschheger. 1671 01:19:38,600 --> 01:19:40,160 Speaker 2: Now, oh yeah, I think. 1672 01:19:40,000 --> 01:19:42,280 Speaker 3: She's loving this backstory. Let's create it now. Did you 1673 01:19:42,320 --> 01:19:46,960 Speaker 3: know that Jenna bush was my camp counselor it's what Texas, Texas, 1674 01:19:47,600 --> 01:19:48,000 Speaker 3: she was. 1675 01:19:47,960 --> 01:19:49,160 Speaker 2: Your camp counselors. 1676 01:19:49,360 --> 01:19:50,920 Speaker 3: We love her, love her too. 1677 01:19:50,880 --> 01:19:53,320 Speaker 2: She's literally out of a plus. 1678 01:19:53,400 --> 01:19:54,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's awesome. 1679 01:19:55,720 --> 01:19:56,400 Speaker 2: Texture love her. 1680 01:19:56,479 --> 01:20:00,280 Speaker 3: We've we've been on her show singing our camp song. 1681 01:20:01,160 --> 01:20:02,800 Speaker 3: So cute. 1682 01:20:02,960 --> 01:20:07,320 Speaker 2: She does for Jenna. 1683 01:20:05,280 --> 01:20:10,960 Speaker 1: She's at Jenna's imprint or something, or she helps. She 1684 01:20:11,000 --> 01:20:15,000 Speaker 1: helps with just publishing. She's like headbed. 1685 01:20:15,120 --> 01:20:18,439 Speaker 2: She books the open book podcast with Jenna Bushager. She 1686 01:20:18,640 --> 01:20:22,639 Speaker 2: is influential in the read with Jenna selections this. Yeah, 1687 01:20:22,640 --> 01:20:23,439 Speaker 2: that's what it was. 1688 01:20:23,439 --> 01:20:26,720 Speaker 3: So Kelsey for me, doesn't I don't think there's a 1689 01:20:26,760 --> 01:20:30,120 Speaker 3: lot of like personal growth that's able to happen there. 1690 01:20:30,200 --> 01:20:34,839 Speaker 3: But like in the workforce, like she's a beast, cannot 1691 01:20:34,840 --> 01:20:37,600 Speaker 3: be stopped. She's going straight to the top. But the 1692 01:20:37,760 --> 01:20:40,760 Speaker 3: personal growth is a real tough thing for her. 1693 01:20:41,120 --> 01:20:43,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, she's got a high pressure job. 1694 01:20:43,479 --> 01:20:43,759 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1695 01:20:44,040 --> 01:20:47,080 Speaker 2: Wait, before we let you go, I'm told I can't 1696 01:20:47,680 --> 01:20:51,400 Speaker 2: you can't leave without Did you play a Russian? John 1697 01:20:51,520 --> 01:20:54,640 Speaker 2: Cusack directed a film, Yes, and you played what was 1698 01:20:54,640 --> 01:20:55,559 Speaker 2: the character you played. 1699 01:20:56,640 --> 01:21:03,720 Speaker 3: She was a like a I don't want to get 1700 01:21:03,720 --> 01:21:07,160 Speaker 3: this wrong. She was a like Bulgarian pop star. 1701 01:21:09,080 --> 01:21:10,720 Speaker 1: Huge. 1702 01:21:10,800 --> 01:21:12,760 Speaker 2: He didn't direct, did he write it? 1703 01:21:12,800 --> 01:21:13,160 Speaker 3: He wrote it? 1704 01:21:13,280 --> 01:21:14,280 Speaker 2: Okay, cool, he wrote it. 1705 01:21:14,360 --> 01:21:16,120 Speaker 3: Start in it. Yeah. There was a lot of people 1706 01:21:16,120 --> 01:21:18,280 Speaker 3: in that like Ben Sir Ben Kingsley was in that. 1707 01:21:18,400 --> 01:21:19,720 Speaker 2: Yes. It was one of those things where it was 1708 01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:20,040 Speaker 2: like an. 1709 01:21:20,680 --> 01:21:21,160 Speaker 3: In that. 1710 01:21:22,760 --> 01:21:23,160 Speaker 1: Family. 1711 01:21:23,680 --> 01:21:26,000 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, and I had to put like a scorpion 1712 01:21:26,040 --> 01:21:28,200 Speaker 3: down my pants in that movie Horrific. 1713 01:21:28,439 --> 01:21:30,360 Speaker 2: It was a big it was a big growing up moment. 1714 01:21:31,960 --> 01:21:34,720 Speaker 2: We're looking for something with edge. 1715 01:21:35,600 --> 01:21:37,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's definitely parts of my career where I'm like, 1716 01:21:39,160 --> 01:21:42,080 Speaker 3: she was really trying for something and maybe she should 1717 01:21:42,080 --> 01:21:42,599 Speaker 3: have stayed home. 1718 01:21:42,960 --> 01:21:44,519 Speaker 2: But look where we up. One. 1719 01:21:45,400 --> 01:21:47,560 Speaker 3: I'm thrilled has been incredible. 1720 01:21:47,680 --> 01:21:50,320 Speaker 1: You're at Lost Coach today, she knights at the garden 1721 01:21:50,360 --> 01:21:51,800 Speaker 1: and the rest of the world. 1722 01:21:52,360 --> 01:21:55,000 Speaker 2: Luck or something. But it's so much more than that. 1723 01:21:55,160 --> 01:21:59,040 Speaker 2: It's you're such a star in every single way. We're 1724 01:21:59,160 --> 01:22:02,240 Speaker 2: so happy that you came in, Like we were just 1725 01:22:02,240 --> 01:22:03,040 Speaker 2: psyched for you. 1726 01:22:03,120 --> 01:22:06,479 Speaker 3: Well, I was looking forward to this for months and months. 1727 01:22:06,479 --> 01:22:08,439 Speaker 3: Oh thank you for having me. You guys are an 1728 01:22:08,479 --> 01:22:09,360 Speaker 3: absolute dream. 1729 01:22:09,520 --> 01:22:12,720 Speaker 2: Do you remember when we met at Vulturefest. So do 1730 01:22:12,760 --> 01:22:13,559 Speaker 2: you remember you? 1731 01:22:13,720 --> 01:22:15,400 Speaker 1: I remember, no. We were so excited. 1732 01:22:15,479 --> 01:22:17,760 Speaker 2: We were doing the interviews at Vulturefest when you guys 1733 01:22:17,760 --> 01:22:20,799 Speaker 2: came through for Younger. We were in like matching matching suits, 1734 01:22:20,920 --> 01:22:22,960 Speaker 2: and you guys came in and you were the only 1735 01:22:23,000 --> 01:22:26,360 Speaker 2: celebrity that gave us a hug the entire day. 1736 01:22:26,840 --> 01:22:27,559 Speaker 1: So thank you for that. 1737 01:22:27,600 --> 01:22:29,800 Speaker 2: I was like, I wonder iful. Ever remember that that 1738 01:22:29,960 --> 01:22:30,320 Speaker 2: was us. 1739 01:22:30,680 --> 01:22:33,240 Speaker 3: I was the only one that gave you a nice 1740 01:22:33,479 --> 01:22:33,840 Speaker 3: You were. 1741 01:22:33,720 --> 01:22:34,800 Speaker 2: The only one who just gave us a hug. 1742 01:22:34,840 --> 01:22:36,400 Speaker 1: I mean everyone was great, and like Sutton was great, 1743 01:22:36,400 --> 01:22:37,960 Speaker 1: every like everybody on the Younger House was great. 1744 01:22:37,960 --> 01:22:39,679 Speaker 3: But was it all of us? 1745 01:22:39,880 --> 01:22:40,240 Speaker 1: I think it was. 1746 01:22:40,360 --> 01:22:42,360 Speaker 2: It was I think it was Nico, it was you, 1747 01:22:42,560 --> 01:22:44,559 Speaker 2: it was Sutton. We were so like. 1748 01:22:44,560 --> 01:22:46,719 Speaker 3: Exactly one of my best Maybe. 1749 01:22:46,479 --> 01:22:48,439 Speaker 2: Debbie Major was there as well. Yeah. 1750 01:22:48,479 --> 01:22:51,840 Speaker 3: I just watched Beethoven with my kids. Oh it was 1751 01:22:51,920 --> 01:22:54,640 Speaker 3: so fun. It was so, so so fun. It was 1752 01:22:54,680 --> 01:22:57,519 Speaker 3: actually Matt's call, and he did all six of them. 1753 01:22:57,560 --> 01:22:58,960 Speaker 3: I was like, you're a better parent than me, because 1754 01:22:59,000 --> 01:23:00,360 Speaker 3: after one and two they are. 1755 01:23:00,360 --> 01:23:04,120 Speaker 2: There's six of them. They become sequels. 1756 01:23:03,520 --> 01:23:07,000 Speaker 3: Really really better. But one and two amazing, and Debbie 1757 01:23:07,040 --> 01:23:11,000 Speaker 3: steals every single Seaede like she's such as legend, she's 1758 01:23:11,040 --> 01:23:11,599 Speaker 3: the best. 1759 01:23:11,960 --> 01:23:13,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, well. 1760 01:23:12,840 --> 01:23:14,320 Speaker 3: I love that you're such a younger stance. 1761 01:23:14,400 --> 01:23:17,360 Speaker 2: Oh no, love. And also it has I'm just saying 1762 01:23:17,400 --> 01:23:19,960 Speaker 2: like it's it's gotten lost in the press tour. I know, 1763 01:23:20,080 --> 01:23:21,000 Speaker 2: and we needed it. 1764 01:23:21,880 --> 01:23:23,880 Speaker 3: But it had its moment once it like got on 1765 01:23:23,920 --> 01:23:26,280 Speaker 3: Netflix and then people like so many more people got 1766 01:23:26,280 --> 01:23:28,559 Speaker 3: eyes on it. Oh yeah, she's doing all right. 1767 01:23:28,640 --> 01:23:31,760 Speaker 2: She's you can see your residuals checks now and be like, yes, 1768 01:23:31,800 --> 01:23:32,720 Speaker 2: it's on Netflix. 1769 01:23:32,920 --> 01:23:35,080 Speaker 3: I don't think so, but really. 1770 01:23:35,760 --> 01:23:36,400 Speaker 1: Call your lawyer. 1771 01:23:39,680 --> 01:23:41,920 Speaker 2: We love you, Thank you so much for coming, Thank 1772 01:23:41,960 --> 01:23:44,880 Speaker 2: you so much for having We end every and now 1773 01:23:44,880 --> 01:23:46,599 Speaker 2: you're going to go do hot ones. Oh my god, 1774 01:23:46,680 --> 01:23:48,680 Speaker 2: we'll have to check in with you later. We end 1775 01:23:48,680 --> 01:23:52,000 Speaker 2: every episode with a song. I think we have to. 1776 01:23:52,200 --> 01:23:55,479 Speaker 2: We have to shout at the classic. Let's go back 1777 01:23:56,520 --> 01:24:01,360 Speaker 2: back to the beginning, back to win the Earth, the. 1778 01:24:01,560 --> 01:24:06,720 Speaker 5: Sun, stars, all land and for the rest of that 1779 01:24:07,760 --> 01:24:12,080 Speaker 5: we'll see you at Madison Square guards one of those days. 1780 01:24:12,520 --> 01:24:13,679 Speaker 2: What happened six by. 1781 01:24:17,520 --> 01:24:17,720 Speaker 1: Last. 1782 01:24:17,760 --> 01:24:19,840 Speaker 2: Culture Racis is the production by Will Ferrell's Big Money 1783 01:24:19,840 --> 01:24:23,360 Speaker 2: Players in iHeartRadio podcasts, created and hosted by Matt Rogers 1784 01:24:23,439 --> 01:24:26,360 Speaker 2: and Bowen Yang. Executive produced by Anna hasby A and 1785 01:24:26,400 --> 01:24:28,120 Speaker 2: produced by Becca Ramos. 1786 01:24:27,840 --> 01:24:30,000 Speaker 1: Edited and mixed by Duck Babe, and our Music 1787 01:24:30,120 --> 01:24:31,200 Speaker 2: Is by Henry Komerski