WEBVTT - Trash, Class and Anal Plugs

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<v Speaker 1>Rocks. You don't have food food on the red night.

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<v Speaker 1>Those days are over. You don't have to say your

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<v Speaker 1>body to the Knights Rock sad. You don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>wear that dress to night, walk the streets for money.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't care if it's wrong, if it's right. Hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome back. This is good. Mom's bad choices. I'm Erica

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<v Speaker 1>and Anila, and we's bad. We is back. We is back.

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<v Speaker 1>October twenty fourth, two thousand and eight. Team, you just

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<v Speaker 1>look at your phone. No, I know that because my

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<v Speaker 1>birthday is tomorrow. Oh yeah, it's Karka's birthday tomorrow. Can

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<v Speaker 1>well you're moving to day. Sorry, you're thirty again, tomorrow

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<v Speaker 1>thirty one. I'm proud. Okay, damn. Dreila and I are

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<v Speaker 1>going to ros and Sonata.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually it's closer to in Sonata than it's Actually, it's

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<v Speaker 2>like in between both.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm getting scared. Everyone's like, you're taking the kids. It's fine, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>be careful. I'm like, we're gonna be fine, right, Recorder

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<v Speaker 3>of the Day. We're not gonna be traveling at night,

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<v Speaker 3>crossing the border. Okay, No, we're not right, but we

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<v Speaker 3>are going to go out at night. We have to

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<v Speaker 3>see the Donkey Show. The Donkey Show, there's like a

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<v Speaker 3>famous thing. Okay, whatever, Well, no, do you get to

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<v Speaker 3>know what it is? I just I know, listen what

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<v Speaker 3>the Donkey Show is. This bitch is getting fucked by

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<v Speaker 3>a Donkey live.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to see that ship. It's the Blue Jay,

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<v Speaker 1>I know.

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't been back.

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<v Speaker 3>They're so pretty, so I got distracted. No, it's like

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<v Speaker 3>the thing you do with Tea Wana. I don't want

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<v Speaker 3>to do that at all and not see the Donkey Show.

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<v Speaker 1>It's you're on your own.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to see nobody being fucked by a donkey.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's pretty beasty.

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<v Speaker 2>Curiosity actually, mere right, I don't need to see that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm having hesitations about bringing floor because you know, there's

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<v Speaker 2>like a there's like a caravan of people coming from

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<v Speaker 2>Guatemala and Honduras that are approaching the border. They know

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<v Speaker 2>they know that they're coming. They're seeking asylum in the

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<v Speaker 2>United States. And it's like a caravan of.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of.

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<v Speaker 2>Hondurans and Guatemalans and they Guatemala. Yeah, and Trump has

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<v Speaker 2>sent US military to the border to basically meet them,

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<v Speaker 2>greet them, stop them. I don't know and you know

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<v Speaker 2>Floor is from Guatemala. She does have her green card

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<v Speaker 2>and she has her passport. But I just am nervous

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<v Speaker 2>about any sort of issue happening.

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<v Speaker 1>Could you imagine, I know, because what I heard.

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<v Speaker 3>I heard you in the PAH and I immediately thought, like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not trying to like, I don't have to beat

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<v Speaker 3>up any border control and Trump with the way they're acting.

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<v Speaker 2>And she just got her hip surgery, so she's not

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<v Speaker 2>really one hundred percent well, which she was fine, like,

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<v Speaker 2>she's like, I still want to come. I can help

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<v Speaker 2>with Iri, you know at night. I probably can't be

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<v Speaker 2>like running around the beach during the day.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Legally, legally she can enter. Legally, there's nothing they could do.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I just don't I just don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>they're gonna hold her up. I know that legally she can,

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<v Speaker 2>she'll be essentially hopefully she'll be fine, but I'm just

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<v Speaker 2>worried about what the hold up process, especially because it

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<v Speaker 2>says she's Guatemalan. I mean, I'm sure that there's people

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<v Speaker 2>daily that cross that are Guatemalan and legal, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>legal citizens of the US.

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<v Speaker 3>I totally get it. I think that I wouldn't fuck

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<v Speaker 3>with that shit either. But the selfish part of me says,

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<v Speaker 3>what are we gonna do at night? And I am

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<v Speaker 3>it's fast, but I feel like, you don't go to

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<v Speaker 3>Rosebeda unless you're going to like hangover party.

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<v Speaker 1>Well it's not. That's not all what you do there?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, there's you can just chill.

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<v Speaker 4>There's such a thing as chilling on the beach.

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<v Speaker 1>Nope, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, no, no, there is there is ever whose birthday

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<v Speaker 5>isn't bait. I'm sorry, I'm just not eve gonna get

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<v Speaker 5>fucked up now.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to have fun. I do, and I am

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<v Speaker 1>conflicted about it. I just don't. I just would hate to.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't want anything to go wrong. Should we

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<v Speaker 1>google it? I googled it because.

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<v Speaker 2>Her husband was like said that she needed some other

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<v Speaker 2>form of paperwork to cross the border even if she

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<v Speaker 2>is a has a green card.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe if y'all are listening, someone let.

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<v Speaker 2>Guide us by by tomorrow that she has her green

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<v Speaker 2>card and she has her passport. But her husband was

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<v Speaker 2>saying she needs some other new document to cut to

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<v Speaker 2>enter back of the US. And I looked it up

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<v Speaker 2>and there was no document, Like I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>it's like a temporary visa. Like I don't really understand.

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<v Speaker 2>I know that when you get to the border, everyone

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<v Speaker 2>we all need some sort of we have to pay

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<v Speaker 2>like twenty dollars or something for some sort of document

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<v Speaker 2>to get in an hour or some ship, some dumb ship.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm not gonna lie. As soon as you're like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it's going to run, I was like yeah, fuck yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And then you're like, we gonna bring the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like what really?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like like why is it because of the party

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<v Speaker 2>aspect or because of the safety aspect?

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<v Speaker 1>Both? Huh? Mostly the party aspect.

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<v Speaker 3>It causes canoor well when I think of there, I

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<v Speaker 3>just think like, yeah, I get sucked up.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, who knows we're gonna have a like

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<v Speaker 1>a complete.

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<v Speaker 2>Volunteered talking to her about it, they's like, girl, if

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<v Speaker 2>you want to go out, I'll watch the kids.

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<v Speaker 3>I was going to suggest that I don't want need

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<v Speaker 3>you to be mad at me and feel left out,

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<v Speaker 3>but this.

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<v Speaker 2>Catoul is so much smaller than the girls.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I guess they'll figure it out. Fuck

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<v Speaker 1>it if you now mamas want a party too.

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<v Speaker 2>I know mostly bad I'm trying to get a wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to go and she's scared to go to our two kids.

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<v Speaker 1>Which I get it. So I don't know. I'm still

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about it. I have to tomorrow to figure.

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<v Speaker 2>Out and it's not an option to leave them here now.

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<v Speaker 1>No, if you ask me that one more motherfucking time,

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<v Speaker 1>just ask me. Friend to me.

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<v Speaker 2>No, but anyway, Yeah, so that's what we're doing this weekend.

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<v Speaker 2>And uh, someone just messaged me. Can I ask you

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<v Speaker 2>a quick personal question? What the fuck is quick?

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<v Speaker 1>Bitch? I mean, what's the question? Maybe it's not personal?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe what is a question? I don't know. She just

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<v Speaker 1>DMed it to me. I'm scared.

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<v Speaker 2>I just say spill, I can look. Am I curious?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, maybe we'll get this answer in the next ten minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>And I just don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I always think people are trying to like ask me

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<v Speaker 2>questions firstly baby daddy questions because his people will be

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<v Speaker 2>in my DMS, so stop it.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway. Yeah, So turning thirty one tomorrow, how does it

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<v Speaker 1>feel about you? Feel good? Like? I know, like for

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<v Speaker 1>thirty usually have like a slight nervous breakdown.

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<v Speaker 3>Everybody but you, you know, so you're not obviously not

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<v Speaker 3>having a breakdown.

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<v Speaker 2>No, Okay, I feel good. I feel good about thirty one.

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<v Speaker 1>I do I have. I do feel like I'm getting older.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't feel old.

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<v Speaker 2>I just am more aware as time is going of

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<v Speaker 2>this concept of aging. You know, I was looking at

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<v Speaker 2>pictures of myself, you know, Facebook memories, and I was like, damn,

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<v Speaker 2>started to see.

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<v Speaker 1>A little a little different, little.

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<v Speaker 2>Chipping away at the at youth. I know, it's very so,

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<v Speaker 2>it's ever so slight, but only I'm probably the only

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<v Speaker 2>one that notices. But I see it, and I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>that's interesting, Botos, that's the la.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting.

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<v Speaker 4>Other than that, what else we we're going to talk

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<v Speaker 4>about some current events.

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<v Speaker 2>We were just browsing through our you know, our extremely

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<v Speaker 2>reliable news source, the Shade Room, and we've discovered that

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<v Speaker 2>Obama and Hillary. Oh I have not discovered that the

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<v Speaker 2>sham well, I just you you discovered on the Shade Room.

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<v Speaker 1>Three.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw that on the news this morning, because you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I watched CNN every morning and MSNBC.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't watch. I don't watch them. I just peek

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<v Speaker 1>at them. I used to like sit there.

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<v Speaker 2>And have it on all day, but no, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>bomb got sent to to Hillary. The Clinton's and Obama

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<v Speaker 2>the Obama's and Time Warner Kamala Kamala Harris's office in

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<v Speaker 2>New York, as well as Time Warner, which you know

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<v Speaker 2>they it's home to CNN. So clearly it was a

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<v Speaker 2>very left. It was targeted towards the left and Democrats

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<v Speaker 2>of no, no, no, imagine that the with what their mail

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<v Speaker 2>goes through before it gets to them. But yeah, people

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<v Speaker 2>are crazy. I mean, when you have a president that

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<v Speaker 2>is making people feel like the other side parentheses of

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<v Speaker 2>quotation marks, air quotes not parentheses, is its like against you,

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<v Speaker 2>like you know, you breed hate and this is what happens,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean, Like we're so divided and

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<v Speaker 2>we have such a president that it's just all about divisiveness,

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<v Speaker 2>which so crazy, Like you know, it's one thing to

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<v Speaker 2>have different views and different parties, but just to be

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<v Speaker 2>so like and tie the other party, it's just really crazy,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. But that I'm not surprised it's happened. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>actually surprised that didn't hasn't happened sooner? I'm sure you

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<v Speaker 2>know what, and I'm sure it has happened.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't hear everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I was hoping that someone's in a bottom of

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<v Speaker 2>the White House.

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<v Speaker 1>But clearly know I got that memo.

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<v Speaker 2>Look, this is oh my god, they you get all

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<v Speaker 2>those old things behind her, don't look at your phone

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<v Speaker 2>while we're recording.

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<v Speaker 3>Then you can't even we're gonna be talking about it

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<v Speaker 3>that people can't see a little girl. She just showed

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<v Speaker 3>me a picture of a little girl Halloween costume as Sissy.

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<v Speaker 2>But like she said the album, it's actually adorable with

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<v Speaker 2>all the TVs and stuff in the background. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 2>that happened, which, yeah, you know, sign up the Times,

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<v Speaker 2>Sign up the Times.

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<v Speaker 1>What is.

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<v Speaker 2>Going on a date tonight with Happy Bay from my

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<v Speaker 2>by Day And I'm excited about that. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>where we're going. But I haven't seen him in almost

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<v Speaker 2>a week really maybe less than like maybe it's been

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<v Speaker 2>like five days.

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<v Speaker 1>It was last Friday. I've seen him since Friday Saturday morning,

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<v Speaker 1>feeding a little I am trying like long distance dick

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<v Speaker 1>so and I, oh my god, that's why I don't

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<v Speaker 1>do it. I didn't sign up for this. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>think this is gonna be in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>I know he lives downtown, and it feels like long

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<v Speaker 2>distance dick shit shit. Speaking of which hopefully tonight. Today

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<v Speaker 2>we had me and Jamil had breakfast, and I was

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<v Speaker 2>very conscious about what I ate because tell everyone, please.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think I shared this the first time it happened.

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<v Speaker 2>This was like maybe like a few weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>Ago, but I thought I told you, but apparently I

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<v Speaker 1>told everybody else.

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<v Speaker 2>So you know, I'm dating this new guy and we

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<v Speaker 2>have been having little sleepovers and I was spent that

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<v Speaker 2>at his house and we were cuddling, like you know,

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<v Speaker 2>asked to crutch as you do when you're cuddling naked,

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<v Speaker 2>and with the possibility it was naked.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it no barrier.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, you know, were sleeping comfortably, which

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<v Speaker 2>by the way, I'm not a big I like to cuddle,

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<v Speaker 2>but usually I break I break.

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<v Speaker 1>It up at some point in the middle of the

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<v Speaker 1>night because I g got not with happy day.

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<v Speaker 2>We'd be cuddling hard all we wake up and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>like still embraced.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that cancer.

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<v Speaker 2>I wake up and I'm still embraced. Me and young

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<v Speaker 2>baby like I'm like sweating, but I'm still there.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh god, this is the most emo cuddling shit I've

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<v Speaker 3>ever participated.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, we were cuddling and bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>I woke myself up midfart, and I I felt like

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<v Speaker 2>him move a little bit, but I wasn't sure if

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<v Speaker 2>like he woke up, but I did was like, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, please don't move because I didn't want like

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<v Speaker 2>the fart to travel up.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean, Like were blankets. We were

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<v Speaker 1>like naked, no blankets because we were hot, but we

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to cuddle still, and I like immediately started sweating.

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<v Speaker 2>Profusely because I was so nervous, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh my god, oh my god, oh my god. And

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<v Speaker 2>then I was like, oh my god, stop sweating. Just

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<v Speaker 2>go to sleep, go to sleep, like, but I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>you're sleep still, like he didn't wake up, and then.

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<v Speaker 1>It happened again.

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<v Speaker 2>And then after that I could not sleep anymore, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was so embarrassed and I just like act like

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<v Speaker 2>it didn't happen.

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<v Speaker 1>So then the next time, which was this last time,

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<v Speaker 1>well it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 2>The next time it was, you know a few times

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<v Speaker 2>later on Saturday morning, I'm sleeping and this time we're cuddling,

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<v Speaker 2>but his hand is.

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of like kept cupping my ass, and again woke

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<v Speaker 1>myself up.

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<v Speaker 2>Like oh, it was one of those airy ones. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, and I woke up, like my eyes like

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<v Speaker 2>shot open. I was like, and I felt his hand

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<v Speaker 2>like he wanted to move I knew that time, but

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<v Speaker 2>I think I woke come up and like he wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to move it, but he didn't want to embarrass me.

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<v Speaker 1>What kind of farts are you playing? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>And actually that night I was really conscious too. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, let me not eat any dairy nothing like.

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<v Speaker 2>And I've been full vegetarian, you know, And so I'm thinking, like.

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<v Speaker 1>What full vegetarian for how many days? While? Did he

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<v Speaker 1>know you'd be wine? I'm not mine? Well? I did

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<v Speaker 1>have yeah, see always wait, I had, I had, I had.

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<v Speaker 3>I had some California where the fake ass vegetarian clams

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<v Speaker 3>the other day.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so vesgetarians last whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, for the most part ninety I've been way better

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<v Speaker 2>than I usually am.

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<v Speaker 1>There was a term use that you're cent, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, this is good.

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<v Speaker 2>He came up with that's a good because he's actually

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<v Speaker 2>a real vegetarian.

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<v Speaker 1>So what happened again? And I'm like, I'm just like

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<v Speaker 1>nervous now.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just like wondering, is this like a thing do

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<v Speaker 2>I just be fartening my sleep, and I just all

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<v Speaker 2>these years and I didn't know about it. Like maybe

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<v Speaker 2>like my ex just like got used to it, or

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<v Speaker 2>he's a really hard sleeper, so he probably would have slept.

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<v Speaker 1>Through all my farts.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think because you know, I'm still not totally

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<v Speaker 2>comfortable sleeping at someone's house, like I'm not still a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit on edge, like I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Not full sleep. So I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I just feel like today I have to be very

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<v Speaker 2>conscious of my I'm gonna just drink water, eat, I

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<v Speaker 2>had some eggs, you know, Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I want to share something. She's like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>not eating cheese, and like never mind.

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<v Speaker 2>But I just feel like if it happens again, like

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<v Speaker 2>something needs to be said, right, like yeah, like I'd

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<v Speaker 2>have to say something, like better to just laugh it

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<v Speaker 2>off than to like sit there nervously for fresely sweating,

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<v Speaker 2>hoping that knowing he's awake.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, obviously he's the fucks with me.

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<v Speaker 3>But like, but okay, that's a good question because like

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<v Speaker 3>where is the timeline Because my last relationship, I know,

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<v Speaker 3>the nigga, like fifteen years, so like there was it

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<v Speaker 3>was we needed boundaries, but there were none, like I

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<v Speaker 3>don't want to talk to you while you're taking a shit,

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<v Speaker 3>but in a new relationship, like when does that go

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<v Speaker 3>out the door? Like there's a point because even for me,

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<v Speaker 3>like first of all, short hair, BedHead, short hair is

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<v Speaker 3>not cute, like and then you want to wake up

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<v Speaker 3>and have morning stuff and then you have to get

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<v Speaker 3>on top and they're like looking at you and you're

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<v Speaker 3>looking like shit.

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<v Speaker 2>And you're like, you know, that's why you gotta wrap that,

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<v Speaker 2>wrap it up, wrap it up.

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<v Speaker 1>Me and me shame shape me.

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<v Speaker 3>And yet they made it like it's a short video

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<v Speaker 3>of me giving him head and the first thing I

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<v Speaker 3>saw was my hair.

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<v Speaker 1>Is like, oh god, look terrible. But then I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>little skills are popping though.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm just saying, like I realized, I'm like this

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<v Speaker 3>lash and I must really fun with him. I must

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<v Speaker 3>really be getting comfortable because I wasn't thinking about my.

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<v Speaker 1>Hair when I'm like riding you or like giving you hand.

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<v Speaker 2>And that's to me, to me, that is, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>ury entering into a comfortable like level peeing with the

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<v Speaker 2>door open, right, Wow, I'd be here pooping with the

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<v Speaker 2>door Yeah I haven't, but I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have a pooping with the door open? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you do that? But you did that with with hell yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>like there was like to look at my butt? Is

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<v Speaker 1>there something? Is there a buffet? There was no?

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm I'm really a comfortable like nudity, Like there's

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<v Speaker 2>a little thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm an ath a Tissian.

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<v Speaker 3>I see lots of pussies, like there are very little

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<v Speaker 3>things that can gross me out.

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<v Speaker 6>Do you think that keeping the sexiness do you think

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<v Speaker 6>that's like maybe entering in this to this relationship like

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<v Speaker 6>that's something that you'll do differently, or do you think

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<v Speaker 6>like you can't take me.

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<v Speaker 1>At my words?

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's there's there's both because I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>in my last relationship, be partially because I fell out

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<v Speaker 3>of love and partially because I was just like a

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<v Speaker 3>new mom, that there was a period where I was

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<v Speaker 3>like not really trying to be cute and I'm looking like,

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<v Speaker 3>oh my god, how does anyone like you?

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<v Speaker 1>But so I think I think that I maybe have

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<v Speaker 1>gotten too comfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>But there was a mixture of things and I do

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<v Speaker 3>I like to be like, I'm not extreme, but I

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<v Speaker 3>want to be cute.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to remind you.

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<v Speaker 3>That I looked at and so I think there's a

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<v Speaker 3>there's like I think there's something really intimate and beautiful

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<v Speaker 3>about like having like you know, I could do anything

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<v Speaker 3>in front of you and you're comfortable with me and

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<v Speaker 3>uncomfortable with you. But I also think there is a

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<v Speaker 3>thin line and there's like a balance between just let

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<v Speaker 3>yourself go.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm being too much and like you can not have

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<v Speaker 2>been before him putting on a full person make up

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<v Speaker 2>and slipping back in like hello, good morning. But what

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<v Speaker 2>if he does it like shits in.

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<v Speaker 1>Front of you.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's he shops in front of me with

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<v Speaker 3>the door open all the time, and I think it's

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<v Speaker 3>easier for a guy to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think this.

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<v Speaker 2>Sol Do you think we as women put pressure on ourselves,

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<v Speaker 2>because I know we've gotten a lot of women writing

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<v Speaker 2>in and even like of course we've all felt like

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<v Speaker 2>this too, that like it's like oh my god, like

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<v Speaker 2>he fell out of love or like he wasn't maybe

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't fill with this, but like I know, I

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<v Speaker 2>felt like maybe I could have done this more, or

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<v Speaker 2>like I could have dressed sexy, tried. Maybe I shouldn't

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<v Speaker 2>have shit that time with the door open. You know

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<v Speaker 2>what I mean, like, is that is that part of

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<v Speaker 2>that bigger conversation than we have or we say like

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<v Speaker 2>fuck that, Like no, he didn't cheat on you because

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<v Speaker 2>you didn't dress sexy or because you've gained that weight,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean, Like stop blaming yourself for

0:18:49.359 --> 0:18:51.320
<v Speaker 2>what he for his action, but maybe don't you for

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<v Speaker 2>taking a shit with the door open?

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<v Speaker 1>Just cut him off?

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<v Speaker 2>But I mean, is that part of that part of

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<v Speaker 2>now that whole thing? I think those are separate things.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that if a guy is bitching about you

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<v Speaker 2>farting and pooping, he needs to grow the fuck up

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<v Speaker 2>because everybody poops, it's a book. And but I haven't

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<v Speaker 2>pooped in front of the young bay.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Oh well, like I gotta take a ship, but

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go close the door. I'm not general with the

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<v Speaker 1>door open.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll go use the other bathroom. Yeah, like I'll go

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<v Speaker 2>if there's another bathroom to be used. Yea.

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<v Speaker 1>But yeah, like that time we got a room and

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<v Speaker 1>sh I was like, fuck.

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<v Speaker 2>Here, I don't want to poop in the same space,

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<v Speaker 2>Like I'm gonna go to the lobby.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but what Yeah, what is the timeframe of that?

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<v Speaker 3>Like no, well, no, it just depends on That's what I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think, like with my ex when when it turned but.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's like a year and I think it

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<v Speaker 3>It also thinks it depends on the person, like.

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<v Speaker 1>Who I remember. I'm trying to think who did it first.

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<v Speaker 2>It's usually it's initiated by someone and then it becomes okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it starts with farts because you're like they're funny,

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<v Speaker 2>and then slowly it turns into like I need to

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<v Speaker 2>get in the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you just let me in.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't give a fuck if you're shitting, just let me.

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<v Speaker 2>I need to get something, and you're just like okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess, and then then you cross that threshold and

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<v Speaker 2>suddenly you're shitting with the door open.

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<v Speaker 1>I get stage right, like can you get out? I

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<v Speaker 1>can't focus?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but yeah, I think there is some beauty in

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<v Speaker 3>a little mystery. I really enjoy like looking pretty and

0:20:26.320 --> 0:20:30.800
<v Speaker 3>like getting sexy and like going on dates and stuff

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<v Speaker 3>like I'm super like I'm not.

0:20:32.200 --> 0:20:34.439
<v Speaker 1>I'm super girly in that way. I'm not extreme like

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<v Speaker 1>I forget.

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<v Speaker 3>I can't do it all the time, but I do

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<v Speaker 3>like to remind a nigga I looks good. So, speaking

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<v Speaker 3>of which also when I was in Jersey. If anyone

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<v Speaker 3>has to notice or doesn't know me, I dress like

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<v Speaker 3>a Gucci I really enjoy it, Like I really enjoy

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<v Speaker 3>see through shirts because I don't think I have a

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<v Speaker 3>rest of huge boobs. And also, God knew that I

0:21:03.520 --> 0:21:06.480
<v Speaker 3>was gonna be Pucci. So my nipples actually like a

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<v Speaker 3>camouflage really well with the rest of my boob.

0:21:08.400 --> 0:21:11.040
<v Speaker 2>They're not like super dark or chocolate. They most of

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<v Speaker 2>the same color as my boob.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you notice we are?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, unless you're like hard but anyway, So I wore

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<v Speaker 3>like the seat through lace top. It's actually like a

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<v Speaker 3>two piece to a neckliche, and I like wore jeans

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<v Speaker 3>with it. And I put it on to see if

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<v Speaker 3>he was gonna like talk shit, because you know he's

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<v Speaker 3>super like conservative Loki and he said and I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>all right, whatever fuck are were going. So the next

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<v Speaker 3>day he was like, yeah, you know, you actually think

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<v Speaker 3>he should dress a certain way and we have a boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm like, I'm not with you, and why did

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<v Speaker 3>you say anything When I had the shit on for

0:21:41.359 --> 0:21:44.920
<v Speaker 3>twenty minutes before we left. He's like, eh, So I asked,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. I told this, so I saw him

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<v Speaker 3>he hold it, so I pulled.

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<v Speaker 1>It, and girl, he got mad that I pulled it.

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<v Speaker 1>He got mad at me. He's like, Yo, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>keep shipping your stuff. I put it on the Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, it's my brand. I thought that's a

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<v Speaker 1>good question.

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<v Speaker 2>It was because a lot of people responded yeah, and

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<v Speaker 2>you know why, this is why he got that because

0:22:09.560 --> 0:22:11.919
<v Speaker 2>obviously everybody's like, fuck that.

0:22:12.880 --> 0:22:16.600
<v Speaker 1>Niggas don't dictate shit. I was like, that's what I thought. Girl.

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<v Speaker 3>I got a lot of responses like he's trying to

0:22:18.680 --> 0:22:20.040
<v Speaker 3>manipulate you, trying to take you over.

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<v Speaker 1>Fuck that nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe I read one when he was mad as fuck,

0:22:25.840 --> 0:22:27.640
<v Speaker 2>and I was like, you don't really need to get mad,

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<v Speaker 2>but obviously you can't handle the truth.

0:22:31.440 --> 0:22:34.359
<v Speaker 1>But which brings us partially to today's They have a

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<v Speaker 1>two part topic today.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think that once you're in a relationship A

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<v Speaker 3>that you should dress more conservatively or just a certain way.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, I have a problem posting a lot of pictures.

0:22:50.240 --> 0:22:52.600
<v Speaker 2>I think my body is cool and I don't really

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<v Speaker 2>give a fuck, and it's not.

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<v Speaker 3>And this is what bothers me. A lot of people.

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<v Speaker 3>He was like saying it's for retention, and that's not

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<v Speaker 3>why I do. It's because like I like to be naked.

0:23:02.680 --> 0:23:05.240
<v Speaker 3>If I could be naked right now, I would get undressed.

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<v Speaker 3>And that is just my personality and it always has been.

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<v Speaker 3>So like it offends me when someone comes to me

0:23:12.400 --> 0:23:13.800
<v Speaker 3>and is like you just want attention, And then I

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<v Speaker 3>have to think to myself, like am I.

0:23:15.080 --> 0:23:17.000
<v Speaker 2>Doing it because I want attention? But no, that's really

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<v Speaker 2>not it. And everybody dresses a certain way for different reasons.

0:23:20.440 --> 0:23:24.040
<v Speaker 2>But question for everybody else, what.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think? I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to ask you when you were saying do

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<v Speaker 2>you do you think you do it for attention? When

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<v Speaker 2>when you when you post a photo and I'm not

0:23:33.359 --> 0:23:35.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm asked. I'm actually just asking you do I don't

0:23:35.359 --> 0:23:36.680
<v Speaker 2>want you to think I'm judging it at all, because

0:23:36.680 --> 0:23:37.879
<v Speaker 2>you know, I was the first one to post your

0:23:37.920 --> 0:23:42.720
<v Speaker 2>naked photo. But when you post your photo, Doe, you

0:23:42.920 --> 0:23:45.920
<v Speaker 2>are you posting it because you're like, I look good,

0:23:46.119 --> 0:23:48.640
<v Speaker 2>people need to see this ship or are you posting

0:23:48.680 --> 0:23:52.719
<v Speaker 2>it because you want likes? Or like I think it's

0:23:53.400 --> 0:23:55.800
<v Speaker 2>I like the picture picture, this is a cool picture.

0:23:55.960 --> 0:23:57.760
<v Speaker 2>It's because yeah, because I don't think it has to

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<v Speaker 2>be that deep now if everyone makes it, repost is

0:24:00.760 --> 0:24:02.440
<v Speaker 2>so deep, you know, honestly.

0:24:02.040 --> 0:24:03.679
<v Speaker 1>Like the pictures, I think I like the hotness and

0:24:03.720 --> 0:24:04.640
<v Speaker 1>get the lowest legs.

0:24:04.640 --> 0:24:06.800
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, what the fun is that annoying? You're like, damn,

0:24:06.880 --> 0:24:08.200
<v Speaker 2>this is a good one. Yeah, and then like you

0:24:08.200 --> 0:24:10.320
<v Speaker 2>don't think I'm keeping this is where I look like that. Yeah,

0:24:10.400 --> 0:24:14.959
<v Speaker 2>that's my thought, but obviously not I think that. Uh.

0:24:15.480 --> 0:24:17.359
<v Speaker 2>Ok I ask a question, do you think I dressed

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<v Speaker 2>like ouci? I think you're I think you can pull

0:24:20.440 --> 0:24:23.159
<v Speaker 2>off fuccie because you're tiny. Okay, so so it almost

0:24:23.160 --> 0:24:25.600
<v Speaker 2>looks it looks it looks I feel like if I

0:24:25.720 --> 0:24:27.440
<v Speaker 2>wore some of the things you wore, I would look

0:24:27.480 --> 0:24:28.119
<v Speaker 2>like a slut.

0:24:28.560 --> 0:24:31.159
<v Speaker 1>Oh, and I think it looks hot fat and you

0:24:31.200 --> 0:24:32.240
<v Speaker 1>look you do it?

0:24:32.320 --> 0:24:34.800
<v Speaker 2>Does it's fucked up that my it's fucked up even

0:24:34.800 --> 0:24:37.480
<v Speaker 2>that my brain thinks that way, you know what I mean,

0:24:37.520 --> 0:24:39.680
<v Speaker 2>because that's what society has trained us, that like, if

0:24:39.720 --> 0:24:42.480
<v Speaker 2>you have too much, if you're too much, and I

0:24:42.520 --> 0:24:44.240
<v Speaker 2>can't just stay away from that too, because just because

0:24:44.240 --> 0:24:45.720
<v Speaker 2>you're bigger than me, does I mean you can't rock

0:24:45.760 --> 0:24:46.600
<v Speaker 2>with the funk you want to rock?

0:24:46.680 --> 0:24:49.000
<v Speaker 3>I think there's a way to go about like sexy dressing.

0:24:49.040 --> 0:24:50.080
<v Speaker 3>I think there's like a thing.

0:24:50.040 --> 0:24:51.040
<v Speaker 1>That compliment your body.

0:24:51.160 --> 0:24:54.119
<v Speaker 3>Yeahhi a trashy sexy and like you look like a

0:24:54.119 --> 0:24:56.720
<v Speaker 3>shipper that's off, and I think there's like, you know,

0:24:57.080 --> 0:24:58.600
<v Speaker 3>I'm channeling my Inhanna.

0:24:58.920 --> 0:25:00.360
<v Speaker 2>No, like the other day you were wearing a really

0:25:00.359 --> 0:25:03.520
<v Speaker 2>cute shirt and it was just a shirt and you

0:25:03.560 --> 0:25:04.119
<v Speaker 2>had boots on.

0:25:04.600 --> 0:25:08.680
<v Speaker 1>But like if I wore that shirt.

0:25:06.480 --> 0:25:09.840
<v Speaker 2>Like that shirt would have to be about four more

0:25:09.840 --> 0:25:12.520
<v Speaker 2>inches longer because of all this ass that I had

0:25:13.520 --> 0:25:16.520
<v Speaker 2>almost and you have asked. You actually have really good ass.

0:25:16.960 --> 0:25:23.600
<v Speaker 2>It's like unexpect unexpected ass whenever Jimmy listen to bathing.

0:25:23.640 --> 0:25:30.920
<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, damn, that's a mass. But uh, it's

0:25:31.000 --> 0:25:34.399
<v Speaker 2>just yeah, I don't. I mean I think that, uh,

0:25:36.359 --> 0:25:36.960
<v Speaker 2>you show off.

0:25:36.880 --> 0:25:40.200
<v Speaker 1>Your body, you know, and I don't. I don't take

0:25:40.240 --> 0:25:42.520
<v Speaker 1>offense to it at all at all. I don't. I

0:25:42.520 --> 0:25:45.119
<v Speaker 1>don't think that you dress like a hoe. No, what

0:25:45.200 --> 0:25:46.600
<v Speaker 1>is what defines a hoe? Right?

0:25:46.640 --> 0:25:48.960
<v Speaker 2>And then then that's a whole other conversation, like what

0:25:49.000 --> 0:25:50.080
<v Speaker 2>defines hoe dressing?

0:25:50.119 --> 0:25:50.760
<v Speaker 1>And then we get them.

0:25:50.800 --> 0:25:53.159
<v Speaker 2>I feel like we're like talking about Amber rosas slowalk

0:25:53.160 --> 0:25:55.000
<v Speaker 2>and I don't want to do that, but I feel

0:25:55.000 --> 0:25:59.200
<v Speaker 2>like I feel like in a relationship.

0:25:59.760 --> 0:25:59.840
<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually, as a matter of fact, when I was in

0:26:03.280 --> 0:26:05.000
<v Speaker 2>a relationship, I would like when when I was in

0:26:05.000 --> 0:26:07.040
<v Speaker 2>my last relationship, I would dress up, when I'd be like,

0:26:07.080 --> 0:26:08.520
<v Speaker 2>is this too much? She's like and you would always

0:26:08.520 --> 0:26:10.440
<v Speaker 2>say this is the one not he has. There's many

0:26:10.600 --> 0:26:14.880
<v Speaker 2>good qualities about my ex, a lot of bad ones too, but.

0:26:14.880 --> 0:26:16.639
<v Speaker 1>He would he would always say, you're with me. What

0:26:16.680 --> 0:26:18.359
<v Speaker 1>the fuck is where? Whatever the fuck you want, and

0:26:18.440 --> 0:26:21.640
<v Speaker 1>you're with me. You could walk.

0:26:21.760 --> 0:26:24.679
<v Speaker 2>Around with your nipples out and it doesn't matter because

0:26:24.800 --> 0:26:25.480
<v Speaker 2>you're my woman.

0:26:25.800 --> 0:26:28.000
<v Speaker 1>And I leave you, who's gonna be with me?

0:26:28.240 --> 0:26:31.000
<v Speaker 2>Needs to kind of like get that because a first

0:26:31.040 --> 0:26:35.680
<v Speaker 2>of all, in reality, nobody, male or female, low key,

0:26:36.320 --> 0:26:40.320
<v Speaker 2>nobody really wants to date someone that nobody else wants.

0:26:41.119 --> 0:26:41.359
<v Speaker 1>You.

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<v Speaker 3>When I go out and look at my guy and

0:26:43.600 --> 0:26:46.840
<v Speaker 3>I see bitches looking, I'm like, yeah, bitch, that's my

0:26:47.280 --> 0:26:53.399
<v Speaker 3>keep right, stay high. Yeah that's enough. Yeah, okay, okay.

0:26:54.520 --> 0:26:56.840
<v Speaker 3>But I'm also like free loving and shit. But I

0:26:56.880 --> 0:27:00.840
<v Speaker 3>think I think it's something really sucks about a man

0:27:00.880 --> 0:27:03.439
<v Speaker 3>that's confident and she wants to show you off and

0:27:03.560 --> 0:27:05.399
<v Speaker 3>is like, yeah, I'm with this is my bitch, and

0:27:05.400 --> 0:27:07.120
<v Speaker 3>that's what I told him. He's like, yeah, you get

0:27:07.160 --> 0:27:10.040
<v Speaker 3>he said. This is what he said. You get unwarranted attention.

0:27:10.800 --> 0:27:13.240
<v Speaker 3>And I'm like that's as the first of all, it's dark.

0:27:13.320 --> 0:27:16.119
<v Speaker 3>You can't see my nipples through this lace in the club,

0:27:16.200 --> 0:27:19.159
<v Speaker 3>and if you can, like, oh well, doesn't mean you

0:27:19.200 --> 0:27:21.080
<v Speaker 3>could grab my tit like you know what I mean?

0:27:21.240 --> 0:27:23.960
<v Speaker 1>Like has not have people not seen a tit before?

0:27:24.640 --> 0:27:27.400
<v Speaker 1>It's just we as women get unwarned attention all the time.

0:27:28.720 --> 0:27:31.159
<v Speaker 1>I could be wearing a fucking paper bag. But it's me.

0:27:31.359 --> 0:27:34.119
<v Speaker 1>It's not this nipple. It's I have energy.

0:27:34.280 --> 0:27:35.480
<v Speaker 2>Like if you go out to me, if I go

0:27:35.560 --> 0:27:37.280
<v Speaker 2>to the club ten, I'm gonna make ten friends.

0:27:37.320 --> 0:27:38.080
<v Speaker 1>It's hands down.

0:27:38.160 --> 0:27:41.320
<v Speaker 3>No matter what I dance, I smile, I'm nice, and

0:27:41.359 --> 0:27:43.520
<v Speaker 3>it's the energy that's like I'm friendly and bubbling, and

0:27:43.560 --> 0:27:45.560
<v Speaker 3>I think people take to that and gravitate towards me.

0:27:45.640 --> 0:27:48.240
<v Speaker 1>So I don't really think it's necessarily.

0:27:49.160 --> 0:27:51.080
<v Speaker 3>Like my boobs are out and even I've been out

0:27:51.080 --> 0:27:53.480
<v Speaker 3>with a bitch and she's a slut and she even

0:27:53.560 --> 0:27:56.479
<v Speaker 3>no matter what she wore, she just seeps sled out

0:27:56.520 --> 0:27:58.520
<v Speaker 3>of her board and like we would go out and

0:27:58.520 --> 0:28:00.800
<v Speaker 3>she would get slut attention, and I'm like, hang out

0:28:00.800 --> 0:28:03.320
<v Speaker 3>with this bitch anymore. But there is you know, like

0:28:03.359 --> 0:28:06.600
<v Speaker 3>there's there's a sophisticated way to you know, wear whatever

0:28:06.600 --> 0:28:07.000
<v Speaker 3>the fuck you.

0:28:07.000 --> 0:28:09.680
<v Speaker 2>Want to wear. I think he wants, Like you said,

0:28:09.720 --> 0:28:12.240
<v Speaker 2>every person does want their part, like want someone who

0:28:12.320 --> 0:28:15.600
<v Speaker 2>is wanted. But maybe there's like a level to the one,

0:28:15.640 --> 0:28:18.200
<v Speaker 2>Like there's a level, there's a limit to like this attention.

0:28:18.400 --> 0:28:21.800
<v Speaker 2>He wants the attention not because your nipples.

0:28:21.440 --> 0:28:26.240
<v Speaker 1>Are out, but just because you're pretty, which is which

0:28:26.280 --> 0:28:27.640
<v Speaker 1>is almost worse. I always think.

0:28:27.680 --> 0:28:30.760
<v Speaker 3>I also think what attracts you for men, what attracts

0:28:30.760 --> 0:28:33.240
<v Speaker 3>them to you, well a lot of times with the

0:28:33.280 --> 0:28:35.320
<v Speaker 3>same things that they will hate about you later. And

0:28:35.400 --> 0:28:38.720
<v Speaker 3>I think with me particularly, like I'm like people are

0:28:38.880 --> 0:28:41.600
<v Speaker 3>like engaged in in my openness and my freeness and

0:28:41.600 --> 0:28:44.960
<v Speaker 3>then I'm sexually in tune, and then like once you

0:28:45.040 --> 0:28:47.040
<v Speaker 3>lock me down, you're like, oh no, no, don't do

0:28:47.120 --> 0:28:49.680
<v Speaker 3>those things. And it's like kind of conflicting. But it's

0:28:49.680 --> 0:28:51.800
<v Speaker 3>like either got to take me or leave me, because

0:28:51.840 --> 0:28:55.440
<v Speaker 3>this is it. And I am a huge I'm huge

0:28:55.520 --> 0:28:59.600
<v Speaker 3>on the movement of like profeminine free the nipple, like

0:29:00.160 --> 0:29:02.800
<v Speaker 3>our bodies are way bigger and more than just like

0:29:03.040 --> 0:29:06.560
<v Speaker 3>for your fucking visual pleasure and grabbing and just no

0:29:06.600 --> 0:29:08.880
<v Speaker 3>matter what I wear, don't think you can fucking grab me.

0:29:09.120 --> 0:29:12.480
<v Speaker 3>I'm totally a huge advocate on all of those things.

0:29:12.920 --> 0:29:14.840
<v Speaker 3>This is my natural body. I think it's not fair

0:29:15.080 --> 0:29:17.280
<v Speaker 3>that guys can wear just trunks and girls can't just

0:29:17.280 --> 0:29:18.280
<v Speaker 3>wear bikini bottoms.

0:29:18.320 --> 0:29:20.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't think that's fair at all. I think it's sexist,

0:29:21.000 --> 0:29:23.240
<v Speaker 2>and I just that's that's.

0:29:23.080 --> 0:29:24.200
<v Speaker 1>How I feel. That's my movement.

0:29:24.280 --> 0:29:25.880
<v Speaker 2>This is what I'm gonna post, and this is what

0:29:25.880 --> 0:29:27.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna wear, and if you can't get with it,

0:29:27.520 --> 0:29:28.160
<v Speaker 2>suck my deck.

0:29:29.760 --> 0:29:32.680
<v Speaker 1>So wait, how did so how did the conversation end

0:29:32.760 --> 0:29:35.200
<v Speaker 1>with that? Like, did you resolve it? He got mad?

0:29:35.240 --> 0:29:37.080
<v Speaker 2>I put post to the poll and like I s

0:29:37.120 --> 0:29:40.560
<v Speaker 2>read one person's response. He got furious, probably because they

0:29:40.560 --> 0:29:40.960
<v Speaker 2>were right.

0:29:42.480 --> 0:29:45.040
<v Speaker 1>We got over it. He was fine, But then so

0:29:45.080 --> 0:29:46.480
<v Speaker 1>that was when I was out there. I bore the alpha.

0:29:46.560 --> 0:29:48.239
<v Speaker 1>We talked about it, and I was like, first of all,

0:29:48.280 --> 0:29:48.760
<v Speaker 1>just because.

0:29:48.560 --> 0:29:50.160
<v Speaker 2>I'm a mom doesn't mean I have to dress a

0:29:50.160 --> 0:29:51.920
<v Speaker 2>certain fucking white because that was mentioned and I don't

0:29:51.920 --> 0:29:52.400
<v Speaker 2>like that shit.

0:29:53.600 --> 0:29:57.000
<v Speaker 1>And then secondly, oh, I got home.

0:29:56.840 --> 0:29:59.160
<v Speaker 3>And then I posted my my I posted picture chopolate.

0:29:59.200 --> 0:30:00.880
<v Speaker 3>I was naked, but like I put, I put a

0:30:00.880 --> 0:30:04.840
<v Speaker 3>stripe over my nipples, but your camouflage anyway, and he

0:30:04.920 --> 0:30:07.719
<v Speaker 3>got like mad again I about the like I want likes,

0:30:07.720 --> 0:30:09.120
<v Speaker 3>I'm not getting paid for this, and I'm like, I

0:30:09.200 --> 0:30:11.600
<v Speaker 3>just like the fucking picture, dude, and like he tried

0:30:11.600 --> 0:30:13.840
<v Speaker 3>to retaliate by like pocusting on his story, so I'm

0:30:13.880 --> 0:30:17.320
<v Speaker 3>like sexy photo and I was like, first of all, no,

0:30:17.600 --> 0:30:20.400
<v Speaker 3>this is thirsty and I think his friends make fun

0:30:20.400 --> 0:30:20.640
<v Speaker 3>of him.

0:30:20.640 --> 0:30:22.760
<v Speaker 2>And he took it down, but he saw the picture.

0:30:22.880 --> 0:30:24.760
<v Speaker 2>He did he showed it to me. Oh yeah, he

0:30:24.840 --> 0:30:27.000
<v Speaker 2>was trying to be he was trying to be spiteful.

0:30:27.520 --> 0:30:32.080
<v Speaker 2>I thought it was funny and he was successful. He

0:30:32.120 --> 0:30:34.600
<v Speaker 2>got hit like the thirsty bitches you know, you know,

0:30:34.720 --> 0:30:36.800
<v Speaker 2>commented the d m s because he'd probably be.

0:30:36.760 --> 0:30:37.479
<v Speaker 1>Like, wait, what's going on?

0:30:37.520 --> 0:30:40.080
<v Speaker 2>He never posted like what the first of all guys

0:30:40.080 --> 0:30:42.320
<v Speaker 2>that takes nude selfies.

0:30:42.040 --> 0:30:45.160
<v Speaker 1>Or like promote it's not it's not it's not cute.

0:30:45.240 --> 0:30:47.560
<v Speaker 1>It comes off a little bisexual. I don't like it.

0:30:48.040 --> 0:30:50.920
<v Speaker 1>Don't unless I request it. Yeah, unless you're my man, Yeah,

0:30:51.240 --> 0:30:57.640
<v Speaker 1>but I just so yeah, I think that.

0:30:59.000 --> 0:31:06.640
<v Speaker 2>I mean, if you can't, Okay, I got the question,

0:31:14.200 --> 0:31:16.160
<v Speaker 2>So the girl are you gonna read? So the girl

0:31:16.240 --> 0:31:20.320
<v Speaker 2>who messaged me earlier? My dan says, Lol, did you

0:31:20.320 --> 0:31:22.360
<v Speaker 2>get a boob job? If so, please tell me where

0:31:22.400 --> 0:31:24.480
<v Speaker 2>you went? If not, what is your workout regimen? You

0:31:24.520 --> 0:31:29.280
<v Speaker 2>look so great? But what would my workout regimen? She

0:31:29.320 --> 0:31:29.920
<v Speaker 2>didn't know where to go?

0:31:30.120 --> 0:31:35.040
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she was like where witch were? The answer is yes,

0:31:35.280 --> 0:31:38.280
<v Speaker 1>I did get my boobs done, and they're bobs. They

0:31:38.280 --> 0:31:40.760
<v Speaker 1>really are bob. Let me let me see.

0:31:41.400 --> 0:31:44.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they're really squishy, they feel fucking real as fun.

0:31:44.680 --> 0:31:48.720
<v Speaker 3>I'm touching him right now. I'm really jealous. Actually, God,

0:31:48.880 --> 0:31:50.720
<v Speaker 3>I want some to as soon as I get my

0:31:50.760 --> 0:31:51.160
<v Speaker 3>money up.

0:31:51.440 --> 0:31:51.640
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:31:51.680 --> 0:31:54.640
<v Speaker 2>Happy Bay didn't know. He was like talking about people

0:31:54.680 --> 0:31:56.600
<v Speaker 2>with fake boob or fake bodies and ship and I

0:31:56.640 --> 0:32:00.520
<v Speaker 2>was like, well you do know these ain't I? Well,

0:32:00.520 --> 0:32:03.000
<v Speaker 2>they are mine. They fix your body so well, and

0:32:03.000 --> 0:32:04.560
<v Speaker 2>he was like, what are you serious?

0:32:04.840 --> 0:32:06.520
<v Speaker 1>It's like, yeah, they're not.

0:32:06.680 --> 0:32:09.320
<v Speaker 3>That's my biggest fear that because I'm so small that

0:32:09.440 --> 0:32:11.440
<v Speaker 3>if I get my boobs done, it would just look

0:32:11.560 --> 0:32:14.400
<v Speaker 3>round and corny. And not only am I so small

0:32:14.600 --> 0:32:15.520
<v Speaker 3>I like to dress.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:32:16.520 --> 0:32:18.040
<v Speaker 3>I think I think that if I got my boobs,

0:32:18.040 --> 0:32:21.680
<v Speaker 3>then I probably wouldn't wear sea through shirts because maybe

0:32:21.760 --> 0:32:24.080
<v Speaker 3>I would I would automatically think it would be getting

0:32:24.080 --> 0:32:26.040
<v Speaker 3>too much attention. But you know, as much as I

0:32:26.040 --> 0:32:28.040
<v Speaker 3>don't do things for attention, I have like gone, I

0:32:28.160 --> 0:32:28.959
<v Speaker 3>never wear bras.

0:32:29.000 --> 0:32:29.880
<v Speaker 1>I maybe own three.

0:32:30.000 --> 0:32:34.280
<v Speaker 2>I hate them, but there have only been a few times,

0:32:34.480 --> 0:32:35.800
<v Speaker 2>more than a few times in my life. Or like

0:32:35.800 --> 0:32:37.320
<v Speaker 2>maybe I'm not where I brought my Merson and kind

0:32:37.320 --> 0:32:39.720
<v Speaker 2>of see through and I've noticed I'm talking to someone

0:32:39.720 --> 0:32:40.640
<v Speaker 2>and I noticed.

0:32:40.320 --> 0:32:43.720
<v Speaker 3>Them notice my boobs, and then I'm like, maybe I

0:32:43.720 --> 0:32:46.880
<v Speaker 3>shouldn't have wore this because that's not the attention you're looking. Yeah,

0:32:46.880 --> 0:32:48.960
<v Speaker 3>because that really and that lets you know, like that's

0:32:48.960 --> 0:32:51.240
<v Speaker 3>really not the attention. You know, I hit them with

0:32:51.280 --> 0:32:52.000
<v Speaker 3>like the crossovers.

0:32:52.040 --> 0:32:54.720
<v Speaker 2>It starts feeling like violating because they're violating like you

0:32:54.880 --> 0:32:56.800
<v Speaker 2>just live, let me live, or like I could see

0:32:56.800 --> 0:32:57.120
<v Speaker 2>your boobs.

0:32:57.120 --> 0:32:58.840
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, nigga, I know I wore this shirt. You

0:32:58.880 --> 0:33:01.440
<v Speaker 3>don't have to announce it. Always something is like men

0:33:03.000 --> 0:33:06.160
<v Speaker 3>never seen a nipple before, Chill the fuck out. Guys

0:33:06.200 --> 0:33:10.280
<v Speaker 3>act crazy like that's the problem. With our society partially

0:33:10.320 --> 0:33:12.400
<v Speaker 3>like we're so censored, we're over censored. You never see

0:33:12.440 --> 0:33:13.640
<v Speaker 3>titties never, like you don't go to the beach and

0:33:13.640 --> 0:33:15.240
<v Speaker 3>see titties that they as soon as I see.

0:33:15.080 --> 0:33:19.200
<v Speaker 2>A little flush, niggas be acting crazy raby rape, yeah,

0:33:19.240 --> 0:33:22.760
<v Speaker 2>like calm the fuck down. Yeah. I think I think

0:33:22.840 --> 0:33:28.640
<v Speaker 2>like as far as like for me, like I my style.

0:33:28.760 --> 0:33:29.880
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what my style is.

0:33:29.920 --> 0:33:33.920
<v Speaker 2>Honestly, I think I go back and forth between sexy, like.

0:33:35.480 --> 0:33:37.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, like edgy, but I learned a lot

0:33:37.840 --> 0:33:38.320
<v Speaker 1>of black.

0:33:38.760 --> 0:33:42.360
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I've I'm not one that shows that shows my nipples.

0:33:42.480 --> 0:33:45.320
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just it's just not. I just don't not.

0:33:45.760 --> 0:33:46.320
<v Speaker 1>I just don't.

0:33:46.360 --> 0:33:49.040
<v Speaker 2>It's not because I have anything against Jamila doing it

0:33:49.120 --> 0:33:51.040
<v Speaker 2>or anyone else that does it. It's just not, well,

0:33:51.040 --> 0:33:52.680
<v Speaker 2>I do appreciate you well, I mean, I guess she'll

0:33:52.680 --> 0:33:54.320
<v Speaker 2>tell me everything. It's too much Like I have friends

0:33:54.800 --> 0:33:56.800
<v Speaker 2>and I also have really big nipples, so I just

0:33:56.800 --> 0:33:58.479
<v Speaker 2>don't think. I just don't want to. I don't need

0:33:58.480 --> 0:34:00.280
<v Speaker 2>them on display. I one needs to see these. No

0:34:00.280 --> 0:34:03.440
<v Speaker 2>one needs to see these pepperonis I have.

0:34:03.760 --> 0:34:07.400
<v Speaker 3>And you know what I notice awesome are dms that

0:34:08.360 --> 0:34:11.000
<v Speaker 3>the men's response and it was only like two and

0:34:11.040 --> 0:34:13.360
<v Speaker 3>the women's response were totally different.

0:34:14.080 --> 0:34:14.680
<v Speaker 1>So this is.

0:34:16.840 --> 0:34:19.719
<v Speaker 2>This is a guy, because I got some really good responses.

0:34:20.560 --> 0:34:25.600
<v Speaker 2>Dressing sexy is a tension seeking period low male, I say, lol,

0:34:25.719 --> 0:34:26.239
<v Speaker 2>and I don't know.

0:34:27.800 --> 0:34:28.480
<v Speaker 1>I can't help it.

0:34:28.520 --> 0:34:31.080
<v Speaker 2>Male or female people dress because they want to flaunt

0:34:31.080 --> 0:34:34.240
<v Speaker 2>what they have, be it skin and clothes. I wrote, false,

0:34:34.239 --> 0:34:36.680
<v Speaker 2>people dress how they feel. Yeah, because sometimes I want

0:34:36.719 --> 0:34:39.359
<v Speaker 2>to dress like disco sometimes just like sometimes I want

0:34:39.400 --> 0:34:41.520
<v Speaker 2>to dress like Sometimes I want to dress like dark,

0:34:41.560 --> 0:34:44.239
<v Speaker 2>slick New York edgy. Sometimes I want to dress vintagey

0:34:44.440 --> 0:34:46.240
<v Speaker 2>sometimes I want to dress like a boy.

0:34:46.360 --> 0:34:49.240
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, me too. And it literally expresses how I'm feeling

0:34:49.320 --> 0:34:52.160
<v Speaker 1>that day. And I like that. I like to dress weird.

0:34:52.160 --> 0:34:55.040
<v Speaker 3>I don't know however I'm feeling because because it may

0:34:55.120 --> 0:34:57.759
<v Speaker 3>solicit an emotion from another person, What the does to

0:34:57.800 --> 0:34:58.200
<v Speaker 3>do with me?

0:34:58.360 --> 0:34:58.560
<v Speaker 2>Right?

0:34:58.760 --> 0:34:59.600
<v Speaker 1>Right? Exactly?

0:35:00.040 --> 0:35:03.400
<v Speaker 2>Specially people dress how are they however they feel.

0:35:03.120 --> 0:35:06.239
<v Speaker 1>Good or whatever I meant. So this was.

0:35:07.880 --> 0:35:09.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So this was a whole rant from a man

0:35:09.760 --> 0:35:11.480
<v Speaker 2>that so he was going, so did you ever convince

0:35:11.520 --> 0:35:12.960
<v Speaker 2>him or no? He just kept going on and on

0:35:13.000 --> 0:35:15.440
<v Speaker 2>about help. No, I'm not here to convince people. But

0:35:15.560 --> 0:35:17.960
<v Speaker 2>like so he was steadfast in his.

0:35:18.520 --> 0:35:20.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh Jesus, yeah, a lot of texting.

0:35:22.280 --> 0:35:25.319
<v Speaker 2>I can't tell how many times I've heard women say, wait,

0:35:25.400 --> 0:35:27.839
<v Speaker 2>don't let me dress like a thought tonight, girl, I'm

0:35:27.920 --> 0:35:30.960
<v Speaker 2>dressing like this to snag a husband. Girl, I'm dressed

0:35:31.000 --> 0:35:32.960
<v Speaker 2>like a crackhead, so no one will talk to me.

0:35:33.360 --> 0:35:38.640
<v Speaker 2>I mean, it could go on with so many examples, and.

0:35:37.560 --> 0:35:39.680
<v Speaker 3>And men as well, will said, bru, I can't go

0:35:39.719 --> 0:35:42.359
<v Speaker 3>out looking like a scrubs say, man, do I gotta

0:35:42.400 --> 0:35:44.640
<v Speaker 3>go get all dressed up to chill? Do I let

0:35:44.640 --> 0:35:46.360
<v Speaker 3>me just wear that beader and some jeans so I

0:35:46.360 --> 0:35:48.000
<v Speaker 3>can flex on them well.

0:35:47.960 --> 0:35:49.279
<v Speaker 1>Well, as corny as those sound.

0:35:49.360 --> 0:35:51.960
<v Speaker 2>Both men and women dress sexy or anyway for that matter,

0:35:52.040 --> 0:35:55.600
<v Speaker 2>to solicit some kind of reaction, either knowingly or subconsciously.

0:35:55.680 --> 0:35:59.480
<v Speaker 1>Oh this is yeah. But but another thing is some

0:35:59.520 --> 0:36:02.839
<v Speaker 1>people do. Yeah. Of course I won't say yes, some

0:36:02.880 --> 0:36:07.319
<v Speaker 1>people do, but not over here. Damn. I had we

0:36:07.360 --> 0:36:09.960
<v Speaker 1>had a really good one this girl, like really, Although

0:36:10.000 --> 0:36:10.360
<v Speaker 1>I mean.

0:36:10.360 --> 0:36:12.160
<v Speaker 2>And sometimes I do dress sexy because I'm trying to

0:36:12.239 --> 0:36:15.400
<v Speaker 2>elicit a reaction. There's that time sometimes, like you said, like,

0:36:15.440 --> 0:36:18.120
<v Speaker 2>sometimes I'm like I need to remind this nigga, who

0:36:18.160 --> 0:36:21.440
<v Speaker 2>the fuck amn, like, let me show this every little

0:36:21.560 --> 0:36:24.000
<v Speaker 2>uh you know what I mean? And you know, and

0:36:24.000 --> 0:36:26.120
<v Speaker 2>that's fine too, But I don't. I don't think that

0:36:26.160 --> 0:36:28.120
<v Speaker 2>when once you get in a relationship or once you

0:36:28.160 --> 0:36:31.000
<v Speaker 2>become a mom, even the bigger picture, the bigger, the

0:36:31.040 --> 0:36:35.319
<v Speaker 2>bigger conversation, because we're both moms and you know, I know.

0:36:35.400 --> 0:36:40.080
<v Speaker 2>I felt like sometimes like even dropping off Iria to school,

0:36:40.120 --> 0:36:41.920
<v Speaker 2>like sometimes I'll be in the middle of like a

0:36:41.960 --> 0:36:43.960
<v Speaker 2>shoot at Beauty Wonder and I have all this makeup

0:36:44.040 --> 0:36:47.200
<v Speaker 2>on from like a and like maybe I just have

0:36:47.200 --> 0:36:49.640
<v Speaker 2>a taked up on, Like They're like, where the who

0:36:49.719 --> 0:36:51.680
<v Speaker 2>is where is she going? Who is she trying to impress?

0:36:51.719 --> 0:36:53.440
<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, bitch, I'm working. You know what, You're

0:36:53.440 --> 0:36:57.319
<v Speaker 2>trying to press nobody right right. But it's just like

0:36:57.400 --> 0:37:03.680
<v Speaker 2>I think more the reaction that the negative reaction that

0:37:03.920 --> 0:37:06.760
<v Speaker 2>you get from what you wear from other people.

0:37:07.000 --> 0:37:08.960
<v Speaker 1>I feel like it's jealousy.

0:37:09.239 --> 0:37:11.239
<v Speaker 2>I think I think people and int and their own

0:37:11.320 --> 0:37:16.960
<v Speaker 2>insecurities about themselves. Yeah, and I think that, yeah, it's projection.

0:37:17.080 --> 0:37:19.799
<v Speaker 2>You're projecting your personal opinion on me and that has

0:37:19.800 --> 0:37:21.799
<v Speaker 2>nothing to do with me. And so you're making me

0:37:21.960 --> 0:37:24.120
<v Speaker 2>feel And I told him that you're making me feel

0:37:24.160 --> 0:37:25.399
<v Speaker 2>like I should like.

0:37:25.440 --> 0:37:29.960
<v Speaker 3>I am like, my what my my like, I'm trying

0:37:29.960 --> 0:37:31.959
<v Speaker 3>to get attention, and you're trying to make me feel

0:37:31.960 --> 0:37:33.879
<v Speaker 3>bad for it, when, in fact, like I wasn't even

0:37:33.880 --> 0:37:37.360
<v Speaker 3>thinking that way.

0:37:38.000 --> 0:37:39.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and I think everybody needs to shut the fuck

0:37:39.560 --> 0:37:40.520
<v Speaker 1>up and stay in their lane.

0:37:41.200 --> 0:37:44.560
<v Speaker 2>But this other girl said, I said, is dressing sexy

0:37:44.560 --> 0:37:46.600
<v Speaker 2>automatically a matter of seeking male attention?

0:37:46.680 --> 0:37:47.040
<v Speaker 1>As girls?

0:37:47.120 --> 0:37:49.480
<v Speaker 3>I would have to see how she's dressing compared to

0:37:49.520 --> 0:37:54.719
<v Speaker 3>his version of less sexy. I'm like, right, I need examples.

0:37:55.680 --> 0:37:56.000
<v Speaker 1>I said.

0:37:56.040 --> 0:37:57.640
<v Speaker 2>This thing got me scroll on my own page trying

0:37:57.680 --> 0:38:00.480
<v Speaker 2>to calculate my sexy wardrobe is the ship with my

0:38:00.560 --> 0:38:01.480
<v Speaker 2>sexy wardrobe is?

0:38:01.520 --> 0:38:05.319
<v Speaker 1>And shit, yeah, I mean I guess it's just like

0:38:05.360 --> 0:38:08.480
<v Speaker 1>a personal preference, a personal line or whatever.

0:38:09.560 --> 0:38:13.520
<v Speaker 2>But now, do you feel like you have to dress

0:38:13.520 --> 0:38:15.640
<v Speaker 2>a certain way when you're out with Luna?

0:38:15.880 --> 0:38:18.000
<v Speaker 1>Like? Would you not? Not? Would you not? Would you

0:38:18.080 --> 0:38:19.759
<v Speaker 1>think twice about something you're wearing if you were out

0:38:19.760 --> 0:38:21.440
<v Speaker 1>with Luna? No? I know you wouldn't.

0:38:21.560 --> 0:38:23.760
<v Speaker 2>This This bitch, this bitch on her at Luna's birthday

0:38:23.760 --> 0:38:26.320
<v Speaker 2>party last year. She was dressed like it was like

0:38:26.360 --> 0:38:29.799
<v Speaker 2>a Mermaid party. Theinged this bitch had like she had

0:38:29.800 --> 0:38:32.440
<v Speaker 2>all like the highest stilettos I've ever seen in the backyard,

0:38:32.760 --> 0:38:36.080
<v Speaker 2>backyard barbecue through see through skirt and a bikini.

0:38:36.160 --> 0:38:37.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna post the picture a bikini.

0:38:37.960 --> 0:38:39.840
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna post I have I have her story shot

0:38:39.920 --> 0:38:41.400
<v Speaker 2>like this bitch, when you were in a stair three

0:38:41.480 --> 0:38:44.359
<v Speaker 2>year old support, I still have it like this.

0:38:44.360 --> 0:38:48.640
<v Speaker 1>Bitch, I was like, okay to me to get it well.

0:38:48.680 --> 0:38:51.840
<v Speaker 3>But a part of that is that dude, like my

0:38:51.960 --> 0:38:54.000
<v Speaker 3>kid is gonna be the number one person who knows me,

0:38:54.080 --> 0:38:56.520
<v Speaker 3>number one. Like, I'm not gonna be like Banana Republic

0:38:56.560 --> 0:38:58.400
<v Speaker 3>on Monday through Friday and on the weekend.

0:38:58.480 --> 0:39:00.880
<v Speaker 1>Get the fucking houci gear out. This is yo, mama.

0:39:01.239 --> 0:39:03.840
<v Speaker 1>You think Mariah carries like unhooching it up when she

0:39:03.920 --> 0:39:06.560
<v Speaker 1>had kids. No, but this is just it. And you

0:39:06.600 --> 0:39:10.920
<v Speaker 1>all know this is how I get down. So fuck everybody.

0:39:11.040 --> 0:39:14.719
<v Speaker 1>Take it or leave it? Yeah, take it or leave it.

0:39:15.000 --> 0:39:18.719
<v Speaker 1>There's no such thing as mom gear. There is, though not.

0:39:19.560 --> 0:39:21.880
<v Speaker 1>I refuse to be a part of that time. I

0:39:21.880 --> 0:39:25.040
<v Speaker 1>feel like there is a mom wardrobe. I hate it.

0:39:25.480 --> 0:39:29.160
<v Speaker 1>Whoever made it up it's like yoga pants. No, that's

0:39:29.440 --> 0:39:30.200
<v Speaker 1>it's an l a mom.

0:39:31.000 --> 0:39:33.239
<v Speaker 2>These are kind of like mama jeans, like did do

0:39:33.280 --> 0:39:35.239
<v Speaker 2>you remember the snl S kid when they're like mom

0:39:35.320 --> 0:39:37.480
<v Speaker 2>jeans and it's like the food but right here, No,

0:39:40.400 --> 0:39:41.560
<v Speaker 2>it's so there's a mom.

0:39:41.600 --> 0:39:45.040
<v Speaker 1>These are kind of mom jeans. But there's like it's

0:39:45.160 --> 0:39:45.720
<v Speaker 1>so funny.

0:39:45.719 --> 0:39:48.960
<v Speaker 2>You should you should you toom?

0:39:50.120 --> 0:39:53.600
<v Speaker 1>Have you ever had a guy bitch to you about

0:39:55.480 --> 0:39:56.600
<v Speaker 1>your wardrobe? No?

0:39:58.080 --> 0:40:02.600
<v Speaker 2>Actually I think several one won my ex before this ex,

0:40:02.840 --> 0:40:05.759
<v Speaker 2>but he was so insecure about everything. He always thought

0:40:05.760 --> 0:40:07.799
<v Speaker 2>I was cheating on him. You always thought I was

0:40:07.840 --> 0:40:11.040
<v Speaker 2>fucking someone, even my girlfriends, Like my girlfriends spent the

0:40:11.080 --> 0:40:12.520
<v Speaker 2>night one time, and he's like, did you sleep with her?

0:40:12.600 --> 0:40:13.719
<v Speaker 1>I was like, are you kid?

0:40:14.200 --> 0:40:17.000
<v Speaker 2>That was my ex that I was everybody, everybody. I

0:40:17.040 --> 0:40:20.960
<v Speaker 2>was fucking everyone, like the old lady from down the street.

0:40:21.239 --> 0:40:23.480
<v Speaker 1>And this was even before I'd even like ever slept

0:40:23.480 --> 0:40:25.879
<v Speaker 1>with a woman before. And I was like, what now,

0:40:26.719 --> 0:40:27.680
<v Speaker 1>so him?

0:40:27.760 --> 0:40:30.960
<v Speaker 2>But that was purely clearly based out of insecurity. But no,

0:40:31.040 --> 0:40:33.360
<v Speaker 2>I really I haven't. But also I mean, like I

0:40:33.360 --> 0:40:35.719
<v Speaker 2>said before, like I don't I don't think I think

0:40:35.760 --> 0:40:39.240
<v Speaker 2>I dress. I think if people do think I dress sexy.

0:40:39.360 --> 0:40:42.000
<v Speaker 2>It's not because I actually reveal a lot. It's just

0:40:42.000 --> 0:40:43.360
<v Speaker 2>because my body is curvy.

0:40:43.560 --> 0:40:45.120
<v Speaker 3>And you know what, I think it is to the

0:40:45.280 --> 0:40:50.640
<v Speaker 3>kind of people that we are, particularly myself, I there's

0:40:50.640 --> 0:40:54.200
<v Speaker 3>something sexual about me in general.

0:40:55.320 --> 0:41:00.000
<v Speaker 1>About themselves me, I'm just sexy. I just oose sex opage.

0:41:00.320 --> 0:41:03.279
<v Speaker 2>You know how many times I've been told that. I've

0:41:03.320 --> 0:41:04.560
<v Speaker 2>been told, like you just why are you trying to

0:41:04.600 --> 0:41:06.279
<v Speaker 2>be sexy? I'm like, I just got in the pool, bitch,

0:41:06.800 --> 0:41:08.960
<v Speaker 2>what are you talking about? I just got out the pool.

0:41:09.000 --> 0:41:09.560
<v Speaker 2>What are you talking about?

0:41:09.600 --> 0:41:11.120
<v Speaker 1>It's like you just shant to be sexy, And I'm

0:41:11.120 --> 0:41:11.360
<v Speaker 1>like no.

0:41:11.600 --> 0:41:15.040
<v Speaker 2>But sometimes when that like, I'm comfortable in my sexuality

0:41:15.040 --> 0:41:18.280
<v Speaker 2>and that comes out a lot of different ways. And

0:41:18.440 --> 0:41:20.799
<v Speaker 2>when that's like coming out, it doesn't really matter what

0:41:20.920 --> 0:41:22.799
<v Speaker 2>you wear. And especially if you're comfortable with having certain

0:41:22.840 --> 0:41:26.240
<v Speaker 2>kind of conversations, if you know, just certain things and

0:41:27.120 --> 0:41:32.160
<v Speaker 2>people are people feel discomfort with that comfortability, and yeah,

0:41:32.200 --> 0:41:33.680
<v Speaker 2>I think there's some type of jealousy.

0:41:33.680 --> 0:41:34.680
<v Speaker 1>And I've also been told I'm.

0:41:34.600 --> 0:41:36.680
<v Speaker 2>Way too friendly, which she and I am, I mean

0:41:36.719 --> 0:41:37.920
<v Speaker 2>friends everywhere playing.

0:41:37.760 --> 0:41:41.840
<v Speaker 1>Parenthood like the DMV.

0:41:43.520 --> 0:41:47.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeahs not I would agree or are too friendly sometimes,

0:41:47.640 --> 0:41:49.880
<v Speaker 2>But then again, I had resting, but apparently I am

0:41:49.880 --> 0:41:51.080
<v Speaker 2>a bitch or a wrestling bitch face.

0:41:51.160 --> 0:41:53.160
<v Speaker 1>I wish I could adopt some of a resting bitch face.

0:41:54.080 --> 0:41:55.720
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I would go to the club with the intention

0:41:55.840 --> 0:41:58.120
<v Speaker 2>of looking mean, and then I forget once I get

0:41:58.120 --> 0:42:00.560
<v Speaker 2>one thing at tequila and I've made.

0:42:00.200 --> 0:42:02.120
<v Speaker 1>Friends with the intention of looking at me.

0:42:02.200 --> 0:42:03.600
<v Speaker 3>Yea, I'll be like, I'm gonna be less. You're right,

0:42:03.600 --> 0:42:06.799
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, I need to be less friendly. Guys storry talking.

0:42:06.800 --> 0:42:08.759
<v Speaker 3>I'm the girl at the club, like the guy you

0:42:08.760 --> 0:42:10.520
<v Speaker 3>don't want. But obviously I think you're friendly.

0:42:10.560 --> 0:42:14.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't mean, I don't necessarily mean like friendly and

0:42:14.680 --> 0:42:17.360
<v Speaker 2>like meeting new people. I think that you're too forgiving

0:42:17.840 --> 0:42:21.319
<v Speaker 2>with people me personally, but I care what people's feel.

0:42:21.320 --> 0:42:22.960
<v Speaker 2>This like a guy who can follow well Bobby one

0:42:23.000 --> 0:42:25.360
<v Speaker 2>drake and can follow me around the club. And I'm like, oh,

0:42:25.440 --> 0:42:29.040
<v Speaker 2>I think that. Yeah, I think that you definitely are

0:42:29.080 --> 0:42:32.359
<v Speaker 2>friendly and with random people. But I think it's I

0:42:32.440 --> 0:42:34.680
<v Speaker 2>like that because then I get to hear the stories afterwards,

0:42:34.680 --> 0:42:35.719
<v Speaker 2>like planned parentheadgirl.

0:42:37.200 --> 0:42:40.240
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, you're just open.

0:42:40.360 --> 0:42:43.640
<v Speaker 2>You're just open, and you know that's a gift, that's

0:42:43.640 --> 0:42:45.440
<v Speaker 2>a gift that a lot of people don't have, you

0:42:45.520 --> 0:42:47.239
<v Speaker 2>know what I mean, I wish I had. I wish

0:42:47.239 --> 0:42:49.880
<v Speaker 2>I had more of it. I think spending time with you,

0:42:49.920 --> 0:42:51.719
<v Speaker 2>I'm learning more of it. I definitely learn things from

0:42:51.760 --> 0:42:54.600
<v Speaker 2>you all the time. But I just feel like, I

0:42:54.640 --> 0:42:58.239
<v Speaker 2>think that you just have to be careful to not

0:42:58.360 --> 0:43:00.719
<v Speaker 2>let any sort of man dim that light from you,

0:43:00.800 --> 0:43:03.840
<v Speaker 2>because they will because they a lot of it, are

0:43:03.880 --> 0:43:06.400
<v Speaker 2>insecure and perceive it a certainly, and I think like

0:43:07.120 --> 0:43:11.080
<v Speaker 2>they can't handle it. It's funny because I was having

0:43:11.160 --> 0:43:15.160
<v Speaker 2>this conversation with Happy Bay and I love calling him

0:43:15.200 --> 0:43:20.440
<v Speaker 2>that he was saying because he's so happy, you know

0:43:20.480 --> 0:43:23.520
<v Speaker 2>what I mean, And and he was saying that someone

0:43:23.520 --> 0:43:25.880
<v Speaker 2>of his friends was like, man, it's going to take

0:43:25.880 --> 0:43:28.640
<v Speaker 2>a really special woman to be with you because you

0:43:28.760 --> 0:43:31.480
<v Speaker 2>attract so much attention.

0:43:31.760 --> 0:43:35.240
<v Speaker 1>And you know, maybe it's a can't women and men.

0:43:35.200 --> 0:43:37.120
<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean, but especially it's going to

0:43:37.160 --> 0:43:39.400
<v Speaker 2>be it's gonna be hard for women because of the

0:43:39.440 --> 0:43:42.360
<v Speaker 2>women that you attract. You know, it's she'll have to

0:43:42.400 --> 0:43:45.560
<v Speaker 2>be very secure, She'll have to be understanding and understand

0:43:45.640 --> 0:43:47.879
<v Speaker 2>that this is who you are, and it's either you

0:43:47.960 --> 0:43:52.240
<v Speaker 2>are going to find that person that's understanding, or you're

0:43:52.320 --> 0:43:54.520
<v Speaker 2>gonna dim your light so that you can make someone

0:43:54.560 --> 0:43:57.719
<v Speaker 2>feel comfortable. And I was like, wow, that's interesting, and

0:43:57.760 --> 0:43:58.320
<v Speaker 2>that's true.

0:43:58.480 --> 0:43:58.919
<v Speaker 1>It's true.

0:43:58.960 --> 0:44:00.440
<v Speaker 2>I look at him and I think and and I'm

0:44:00.440 --> 0:44:01.880
<v Speaker 2>conscious of it too. I'm like, I don't want I

0:44:01.880 --> 0:44:04.600
<v Speaker 2>don't want to be that person, like, yeah, go to you.

0:44:05.200 --> 0:44:07.520
<v Speaker 3>Anyone's like evolution and that's who they are, and that

0:44:08.040 --> 0:44:10.319
<v Speaker 3>I've become more conscious of that because I know I'm

0:44:10.360 --> 0:44:13.240
<v Speaker 3>a particular I'm not for everybody. And in my last relationship,

0:44:13.239 --> 0:44:14.759
<v Speaker 3>like I haven't been in that relationship, and then someone

0:44:14.840 --> 0:44:16.160
<v Speaker 3>tells you you look.

0:44:16.239 --> 0:44:18.759
<v Speaker 2>So different from that from when I saw you. Then

0:44:19.040 --> 0:44:22.160
<v Speaker 2>I had a client recently and I had met her

0:44:22.200 --> 0:44:26.400
<v Speaker 2>previously and I did her lashes and she was like we're.

0:44:26.239 --> 0:44:27.680
<v Speaker 3>Talking and I was like, yeah, I'm not dating that

0:44:27.719 --> 0:44:29.919
<v Speaker 3>person anymore. And she's like, that's crazy because I could

0:44:29.920 --> 0:44:32.880
<v Speaker 3>tell you look different. You look lighter, you look happier,

0:44:33.320 --> 0:44:35.319
<v Speaker 3>you look like you're like you didn't look that way

0:44:35.360 --> 0:44:36.200
<v Speaker 3>when I met you before.

0:44:36.280 --> 0:44:39.960
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, but that's because people. Relationships can really.

0:44:39.880 --> 0:44:42.640
<v Speaker 3>Dim some fucking light if you let them, and you people,

0:44:42.719 --> 0:44:45.040
<v Speaker 3>we should be like super conscious of that, like obviously

0:44:45.080 --> 0:44:48.040
<v Speaker 3>there's compromise, but like, who you are is who you are,

0:44:48.800 --> 0:44:51.800
<v Speaker 3>and if people can't handle that, don't ever allow someone

0:44:51.880 --> 0:44:55.320
<v Speaker 3>to like remove remove those core things in you.

0:44:55.440 --> 0:44:57.279
<v Speaker 1>Like even for me, I have to remind myself even

0:44:57.280 --> 0:44:57.600
<v Speaker 1>with my.

0:44:57.680 --> 0:45:02.000
<v Speaker 3>Very like conservative friends or whatever, like just because you

0:45:02.000 --> 0:45:04.600
<v Speaker 3>don't understand how I move or what I choose to

0:45:04.600 --> 0:45:07.800
<v Speaker 3>wear or how like, don't don't give me your negative

0:45:07.840 --> 0:45:10.479
<v Speaker 3>opinion because you people may not even realize they're giving

0:45:10.520 --> 0:45:14.000
<v Speaker 3>it to you from a place of misunderstanding.

0:45:15.360 --> 0:45:19.520
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, that's important. Yeah, I don't know. I don't

0:45:19.560 --> 0:45:23.239
<v Speaker 1>take away. Don't take away happy vase shine, No, absolutely not.

0:45:23.440 --> 0:45:25.680
<v Speaker 1>That's like why I love him. I think it is

0:45:25.719 --> 0:45:27.920
<v Speaker 1>a cancer thing, you know, like it's a June cancer,

0:45:28.000 --> 0:45:31.319
<v Speaker 1>July cancer. Yeah, I think it's a June cancer thing. Yeah.

0:45:31.320 --> 0:45:34.000
<v Speaker 2>That's why I'm so attracted to him because of that,

0:45:34.280 --> 0:45:40.080
<v Speaker 2>and because he can he can just walk into a

0:45:40.200 --> 0:45:44.120
<v Speaker 2>room and just embrace everyone.

0:45:44.239 --> 0:45:44.960
<v Speaker 1>I love that.

0:45:45.080 --> 0:45:50.360
<v Speaker 2>You know, have you you have to like or like

0:45:50.480 --> 0:45:52.880
<v Speaker 2>who gonta be there?

0:45:52.880 --> 0:45:54.799
<v Speaker 1>How long are you? I'm listening to the car?

0:45:57.040 --> 0:46:00.880
<v Speaker 2>Why by Like, can you just be fun normal and

0:46:01.000 --> 0:46:04.239
<v Speaker 2>say hi to people like a goddamn adult? This is

0:46:04.320 --> 0:46:06.239
<v Speaker 2>not high school and you do not have beef with

0:46:06.280 --> 0:46:08.399
<v Speaker 2>anybody at the party, Okay, you not need to bring

0:46:08.400 --> 0:46:10.520
<v Speaker 2>your homeboys so you can feel No, the whole thing

0:46:10.560 --> 0:46:13.440
<v Speaker 2>is that they don't know anybody, and that's where people

0:46:13.480 --> 0:46:15.799
<v Speaker 2>start to feel uncomfortable. And I get it because I like,

0:46:16.080 --> 0:46:18.680
<v Speaker 2>I am socially awkward and I'm moody, and I'm moody bitch.

0:46:19.040 --> 0:46:24.960
<v Speaker 2>Some days, like I want to be you know, sometimes

0:46:25.000 --> 0:46:28.640
<v Speaker 2>I can, you know, move through a room so easily

0:46:28.760 --> 0:46:31.520
<v Speaker 2>meet everyone, talk to everyone, and then some days I

0:46:31.520 --> 0:46:34.640
<v Speaker 2>feel like I can't. And it's not it's not even moody,

0:46:34.640 --> 0:46:36.920
<v Speaker 2>it's just sometimes I just feel like suddenly my like my,

0:46:37.840 --> 0:46:40.480
<v Speaker 2>I have social anxiety, and sometimes my social anxiety will

0:46:40.520 --> 0:46:42.720
<v Speaker 2>kick in and I'll feel uncomfortable or something will trigger

0:46:42.760 --> 0:46:43.719
<v Speaker 2>me to make me feel like.

0:46:43.960 --> 0:46:47.520
<v Speaker 1>You think it's weed, No, because sometimes there's been times

0:46:47.520 --> 0:46:49.120
<v Speaker 1>I have to smoked weed and then I get way

0:46:49.160 --> 0:46:50.600
<v Speaker 1>too in my head and around a group of people

0:46:50.640 --> 0:46:54.759
<v Speaker 1>and I'm like overthinking, like people perceiving me. Yeah, of

0:46:54.800 --> 0:46:55.480
<v Speaker 1>course there's that.

0:46:55.560 --> 0:46:58.319
<v Speaker 2>But I think even without smoking weed, I've seen the

0:46:58.360 --> 0:47:01.440
<v Speaker 2>shift in me, and it's usual I've tried to like

0:47:02.120 --> 0:47:04.640
<v Speaker 2>be aware of like what is it that makes me

0:47:04.719 --> 0:47:07.880
<v Speaker 2>more open than other times. And I think some of

0:47:07.920 --> 0:47:10.480
<v Speaker 2>it is obviously the people in the room, right, and

0:47:10.520 --> 0:47:14.240
<v Speaker 2>then it can just be something that happened to me earlier.

0:47:14.440 --> 0:47:20.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm really bad at like separating. Like I think I've

0:47:20.480 --> 0:47:22.960
<v Speaker 2>gotten better, but like I'm bad. I used to be

0:47:23.000 --> 0:47:25.640
<v Speaker 2>really bad at like bringing whatever happened earlier.

0:47:25.239 --> 0:47:26.719
<v Speaker 1>With me all throughout my day.

0:47:26.719 --> 0:47:28.960
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, like not releasing it. Like something one bad

0:47:29.000 --> 0:47:30.879
<v Speaker 2>thing happens and it can shift your whole mode. Yeah,

0:47:31.400 --> 0:47:34.640
<v Speaker 2>like today something like like kind of like I woke

0:47:34.719 --> 0:47:37.719
<v Speaker 2>up this morning feeling really great, and then something kind

0:47:37.719 --> 0:47:41.359
<v Speaker 2>of like made me feel really weird, and then something

0:47:41.360 --> 0:47:43.000
<v Speaker 2>else made me feel weird, and then I went to

0:47:43.000 --> 0:47:44.680
<v Speaker 2>the gym and I was like, you're not gonna I

0:47:44.719 --> 0:47:46.640
<v Speaker 2>was like having a conversation with myself. I was like,

0:47:46.640 --> 0:47:49.279
<v Speaker 2>you're not doing this today, bitch, you're not bringing this shit.

0:47:49.560 --> 0:47:50.040
<v Speaker 1>You have to go.

0:47:50.120 --> 0:47:52.480
<v Speaker 2>You're bucking up with Mila, You're doing some really great shit,

0:47:52.680 --> 0:47:54.680
<v Speaker 2>Like no, you're not doing this.

0:47:54.760 --> 0:47:56.640
<v Speaker 1>And I was able to let it go.

0:47:57.040 --> 0:47:58.680
<v Speaker 2>And that's like I've come a long way with that

0:47:58.760 --> 0:48:00.640
<v Speaker 2>because I haven't always been able to do that, and

0:48:00.800 --> 0:48:02.680
<v Speaker 2>it's still it's still to be tested. How I do

0:48:02.719 --> 0:48:05.440
<v Speaker 2>that in a relationship, because I will say, like I

0:48:05.520 --> 0:48:07.239
<v Speaker 2>used to, I would in my past and my own

0:48:07.239 --> 0:48:09.640
<v Speaker 2>past relationship, I would take out whatever the days shipped

0:48:09.640 --> 0:48:12.319
<v Speaker 2>onto my my partner. Whereas, like I have to say,

0:48:12.320 --> 0:48:14.080
<v Speaker 2>my ex never did that to me. He really didn't

0:48:14.120 --> 0:48:16.200
<v Speaker 2>like if he had a fucked up day, like he

0:48:16.239 --> 0:48:19.319
<v Speaker 2>wouldn't come home with it. Yeah, I do that.

0:48:19.360 --> 0:48:22.000
<v Speaker 1>I would do that. It's easiest to take out the

0:48:22.040 --> 0:48:25.160
<v Speaker 1>people you love. Yeah, of course it's important to be

0:48:25.160 --> 0:48:27.439
<v Speaker 1>conscious of that with our kids too, But I can't.

0:48:27.680 --> 0:48:29.640
<v Speaker 2>But I've never been the type that even if I

0:48:29.719 --> 0:48:31.600
<v Speaker 2>wasn't a socially awkward, I'm not.

0:48:31.760 --> 0:48:33.359
<v Speaker 1>You don't need a babysit me. I'll figure it out.

0:48:33.440 --> 0:48:34.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I'll be quiet.

0:48:34.880 --> 0:48:36.839
<v Speaker 2>I'll be quiet in the corner and I'll be good,

0:48:36.920 --> 0:48:40.720
<v Speaker 2>like I'm totally fine. Or I'll meet some one arobabalyst,

0:48:40.880 --> 0:48:44.760
<v Speaker 2>meet one person. I'm you know, we're not gonna. I'll

0:48:44.800 --> 0:48:47.920
<v Speaker 2>never ever say can we go? I hate I will

0:48:48.000 --> 0:48:50.439
<v Speaker 2>leave by myself if I will not say that. No, No,

0:48:50.960 --> 0:48:55.000
<v Speaker 2>that's one thing I will say. Despite everybody young, Day's

0:48:55.040 --> 0:48:57.800
<v Speaker 2>actually really nice guy. I know everyone got the wrong impression.

0:48:57.800 --> 0:49:00.400
<v Speaker 2>Everyone's like it's young thing. I think that's why he

0:49:00.440 --> 0:49:03.319
<v Speaker 2>was mad. He knew I was like people, of course

0:49:03.320 --> 0:49:07.160
<v Speaker 2>they do. But one thing I will say, much like

0:49:07.520 --> 0:49:10.760
<v Speaker 2>happy Bait, I could take this thing anywhere. He's happy.

0:49:11.120 --> 0:49:14.560
<v Speaker 2>People like him. He's funny. He can like we can

0:49:14.600 --> 0:49:16.440
<v Speaker 2>go to a party and like split the room and

0:49:16.480 --> 0:49:19.120
<v Speaker 2>it's good. And I enjoyed that, you know what I'm saying.

0:49:19.200 --> 0:49:21.520
<v Speaker 2>Like in that sense, I'm like, thank god, he's like

0:49:21.560 --> 0:49:23.960
<v Speaker 2>a friendly normal guy, you know, like you don't have

0:49:24.080 --> 0:49:25.439
<v Speaker 2>there's not all this other like shit.

0:49:26.280 --> 0:49:28.600
<v Speaker 1>So that, Yeah, that's a big that's a big deal

0:49:28.640 --> 0:49:28.880
<v Speaker 1>for me.

0:49:29.920 --> 0:49:34.359
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, should we talk about what the girl the only

0:49:34.360 --> 0:49:36.400
<v Speaker 2>because I didn't pick up my kid from school in

0:49:36.440 --> 0:49:40.520
<v Speaker 2>about twenty minutes, So pull up, pull pull.

0:49:40.400 --> 0:49:40.960
<v Speaker 6>Up the question?

0:49:41.120 --> 0:49:45.200
<v Speaker 1>Okay she said it was It wasn't all. Oh, it's

0:49:45.200 --> 0:49:48.239
<v Speaker 1>a topic. It was a topic suggestion and it was

0:49:48.280 --> 0:49:52.160
<v Speaker 1>in our DMS. Right, yeah, shit was it. We need

0:49:52.160 --> 0:49:53.839
<v Speaker 1>to be able to title lease, I need we need

0:49:53.880 --> 0:49:54.560
<v Speaker 1>to star them.

0:49:54.960 --> 0:49:57.560
<v Speaker 2>Oh it's her, it's her, she said, Hey, guys, love

0:49:57.600 --> 0:50:00.399
<v Speaker 2>your podcast. Can you address the epidemic of mod men

0:50:00.440 --> 0:50:02.839
<v Speaker 2>wanting their assholes? Eight just want to hear your guys

0:50:02.920 --> 0:50:07.520
<v Speaker 2>opinion slash discussion on the topic hashtag fellow stoner Mom

0:50:08.840 --> 0:50:11.640
<v Speaker 2>or to the fellow Stoner Mom's listening power to you,

0:50:11.760 --> 0:50:14.800
<v Speaker 2>I am surprisingly very not high right now.

0:50:15.000 --> 0:50:15.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm very sober.

0:50:15.840 --> 0:50:21.040
<v Speaker 2>It's very annoying if he didn't have any But uh so,

0:50:21.120 --> 0:50:25.680
<v Speaker 2>this epidemic that she speaks of, I haven't really encountered

0:50:26.000 --> 0:50:27.480
<v Speaker 2>it as like something that's.

0:50:27.360 --> 0:50:28.200
<v Speaker 1>I haven't encountered.

0:50:28.920 --> 0:50:31.200
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I will say the last guy that I dated,

0:50:31.360 --> 0:50:34.480
<v Speaker 2>he definitely told me that he likes a finger in

0:50:34.520 --> 0:50:38.040
<v Speaker 2>the butt, which I've never heard any black man ever

0:50:38.280 --> 0:50:40.560
<v Speaker 2>tell me openly or privately.

0:50:41.719 --> 0:50:43.759
<v Speaker 1>I don't think. I don't think I've ever had a

0:50:43.800 --> 0:50:47.040
<v Speaker 1>black man sell me. So maybe that is part.

0:50:47.120 --> 0:50:50.440
<v Speaker 2>Maybe maybe he's part of this movement, but I just

0:50:50.480 --> 0:50:53.520
<v Speaker 2>never I didn't know it was an epidemic. But maybe

0:50:53.520 --> 0:50:56.839
<v Speaker 2>it is because she's obviously encountered it. I've encountered it.

0:50:57.360 --> 0:50:58.560
<v Speaker 2>I mean I think I thought I could think a

0:50:58.560 --> 0:50:59.960
<v Speaker 2>lot of women just kind of like you, like you

0:51:00.120 --> 0:51:02.480
<v Speaker 2>kind of just like do it, see what's up?

0:51:02.760 --> 0:51:10.799
<v Speaker 1>Like let's to push their limits. Hey, Hi, I think

0:51:10.800 --> 0:51:11.320
<v Speaker 1>it's great.

0:51:11.600 --> 0:51:15.520
<v Speaker 3>I think black men should be more comfortable in exploring

0:51:15.880 --> 0:51:20.720
<v Speaker 3>like sexual things with their asks because for black eyes,

0:51:20.960 --> 0:51:22.000
<v Speaker 3>like I'm.

0:51:21.800 --> 0:51:26.360
<v Speaker 1>Gay, not good. It's not gay. I'm a vagina.

0:51:26.440 --> 0:51:27.920
<v Speaker 3>I think it's good. I think it's just like a

0:51:27.920 --> 0:51:31.919
<v Speaker 3>part of the whole conversation of just being more open

0:51:31.960 --> 0:51:34.279
<v Speaker 3>sexually and like everything is not fucking gay.

0:51:34.360 --> 0:51:36.239
<v Speaker 1>Oh I read you an article.

0:51:35.920 --> 0:51:38.319
<v Speaker 3>About that didn't need to be save it. Remember we

0:51:38.320 --> 0:51:41.319
<v Speaker 3>were talking because I ask you in the car, right, yeah,

0:51:42.160 --> 0:51:45.120
<v Speaker 3>ask play is it questioning your masculinity?

0:51:45.560 --> 0:51:47.279
<v Speaker 2>And I think that's a problem, and I think even

0:51:47.320 --> 0:51:49.040
<v Speaker 2>we have to get out of it a little bit.

0:51:49.160 --> 0:51:52.200
<v Speaker 2>But like do I want to like strap on and

0:51:52.280 --> 0:51:54.680
<v Speaker 2>fuck my guy? No, don't want to play.

0:51:54.560 --> 0:51:57.719
<v Speaker 3>With it a little Yeah, I'm into it. I've never

0:51:57.719 --> 0:51:59.160
<v Speaker 3>had a guy ask me though. But I think it's

0:51:59.160 --> 0:52:02.719
<v Speaker 3>the rap music, you know, like eat the booty like.

0:52:02.640 --> 0:52:04.840
<v Speaker 1>It's groceries, you know, but it's never eat his booty

0:52:04.920 --> 0:52:06.759
<v Speaker 1>like it's grocery. That's true. It's the girl.

0:52:07.040 --> 0:52:10.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's now it's encouraging black men to explore all

0:52:11.080 --> 0:52:13.759
<v Speaker 2>holes of the woman, whereas you know, if it's even

0:52:13.800 --> 0:52:16.640
<v Speaker 2>taboo for a while, like black men were didn't.

0:52:16.480 --> 0:52:18.080
<v Speaker 1>Want eat pussy, you know what I mean. It was

0:52:18.160 --> 0:52:20.279
<v Speaker 1>like I don't do that shit, you know.

0:52:20.360 --> 0:52:22.960
<v Speaker 2>I feel like Nigga's in the nineties, even though I

0:52:23.000 --> 0:52:25.400
<v Speaker 2>was like a teenager, not even a teenager, it was

0:52:25.440 --> 0:52:28.279
<v Speaker 2>a child. But I feel like older black men don't

0:52:28.320 --> 0:52:30.839
<v Speaker 2>do it a lot, or they had that they do it,

0:52:30.880 --> 0:52:33.680
<v Speaker 2>they always did it, but they wouldn't talk about. Well,

0:52:33.680 --> 0:52:35.239
<v Speaker 2>if it's a guy who see my posim and maybe

0:52:35.239 --> 0:52:37.319
<v Speaker 2>he's he's he's too young, But don't you think that

0:52:37.320 --> 0:52:40.200
<v Speaker 2>that is like something that was it? Like do you

0:52:40.239 --> 0:52:42.080
<v Speaker 2>think that men eating pussy?

0:52:42.239 --> 0:52:45.360
<v Speaker 1>At some point? Do you remember more popular? Not more popular?

0:52:45.400 --> 0:52:47.319
<v Speaker 2>But it was like, yeah, I got more popular, but

0:52:47.360 --> 0:52:49.680
<v Speaker 2>that it was a stigma. They like that we don't

0:52:49.680 --> 0:52:51.480
<v Speaker 2>talk about it, we don't do it. Yeah right, yeah

0:52:51.600 --> 0:52:53.799
<v Speaker 2>kind of. Even one time I dated a guy like

0:52:54.000 --> 0:52:55.960
<v Speaker 2>back back from the day, like maybe like in high school,

0:52:55.960 --> 0:52:59.080
<v Speaker 2>and he expressed me, I'm self friends with them and

0:52:59.120 --> 0:53:01.640
<v Speaker 2>he's no longer like but he thought like getting ahead

0:53:01.800 --> 0:53:03.560
<v Speaker 2>was like disrespectful to the woman.

0:53:04.040 --> 0:53:06.160
<v Speaker 3>The fuck I know his I think his upbringing was

0:53:06.160 --> 0:53:07.560
<v Speaker 3>like kind of low key Christian. He has something of

0:53:07.560 --> 0:53:10.280
<v Speaker 3>my driving tattoo was satanic, But okay, yeah.

0:53:10.200 --> 0:53:13.800
<v Speaker 1>He's not a good example, no, I think. Yeah, I

0:53:14.160 --> 0:53:14.880
<v Speaker 1>also agree.

0:53:14.920 --> 0:53:16.960
<v Speaker 2>I think that I think we're in a time right

0:53:17.000 --> 0:53:22.640
<v Speaker 2>now where black people in general feel more sexually liberate,

0:53:22.760 --> 0:53:27.680
<v Speaker 2>sexually liberated because I think it's been such I think

0:53:27.680 --> 0:53:30.359
<v Speaker 2>it's taken so long because our black bodies have been

0:53:30.640 --> 0:53:34.399
<v Speaker 2>sexualized so much that I was sexualized fetishized by by

0:53:34.400 --> 0:53:38.279
<v Speaker 2>white people, that we've almost felt like we had to

0:53:38.320 --> 0:53:40.399
<v Speaker 2>like keep it to ourselves, you know what I mean,

0:53:40.520 --> 0:53:43.439
<v Speaker 2>in some capacity, and now we just feel a little

0:53:43.440 --> 0:53:47.600
<v Speaker 2>bit more comfortable talking about it, opening up about it.

0:53:49.200 --> 0:53:52.640
<v Speaker 2>I think my ex definitely was not down for the booty.

0:53:52.680 --> 0:53:54.799
<v Speaker 2>Anytime I try to touch it, you freak out, Like

0:53:54.840 --> 0:53:57.320
<v Speaker 2>even if I was just you know, kidding, joking, like

0:53:57.520 --> 0:53:58.000
<v Speaker 2>you get mad.

0:53:58.040 --> 0:53:59.840
<v Speaker 1>But I just grab the cheek. Now, the cheek is.

0:53:59.800 --> 0:54:01.759
<v Speaker 2>Fine, and the booty, the booty grab is fine. It's

0:54:01.800 --> 0:54:04.920
<v Speaker 2>just anything and going between the between the cheeks.

0:54:04.960 --> 0:54:06.840
<v Speaker 1>This ain't ain't happening. But the guy that I was

0:54:06.880 --> 0:54:09.200
<v Speaker 1>dating before, So you never ate your ex's ass, No,

0:54:10.440 --> 0:54:14.120
<v Speaker 1>do you eat ass? I have once my ex before

0:54:14.160 --> 0:54:15.840
<v Speaker 1>that it was more like we were.

0:54:15.719 --> 0:54:17.840
<v Speaker 2>Young, We're like, let's try it, like look at it,

0:54:17.960 --> 0:54:19.040
<v Speaker 2>like it was like funny, Like.

0:54:20.960 --> 0:54:23.520
<v Speaker 1>It was like, uh, did you like it?

0:54:23.680 --> 0:54:25.359
<v Speaker 2>He didn't feel good, and he was like I don't

0:54:25.360 --> 0:54:29.839
<v Speaker 2>know what freaking like teenagers you were so dumb. But

0:54:30.080 --> 0:54:32.560
<v Speaker 2>I think the guy that I was dating a few

0:54:32.560 --> 0:54:35.480
<v Speaker 2>months ago, like his openness turned me on.

0:54:35.880 --> 0:54:37.080
<v Speaker 1>He yeah, it's a turn on.

0:54:37.239 --> 0:54:39.880
<v Speaker 2>At first, I was like really like, wow, he feels

0:54:39.880 --> 0:54:40.960
<v Speaker 2>really comfortable telling you.

0:54:41.120 --> 0:54:42.879
<v Speaker 1>I know he was black, but he was kind of white.

0:54:43.480 --> 0:54:45.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, But I was just like, I think that's why,

0:54:45.680 --> 0:54:47.800
<v Speaker 3>like that is why white men. I read this in

0:54:47.880 --> 0:54:49.440
<v Speaker 3>GQ years ago and I was in high school, and

0:54:49.440 --> 0:54:52.000
<v Speaker 3>I never forgot it. Like, first of all, like scientifically,

0:54:52.080 --> 0:54:55.520
<v Speaker 3>the g spot the prostate does is an erotic nerve

0:54:55.760 --> 0:54:57.040
<v Speaker 3>ending or some shit you can come.

0:54:57.280 --> 0:55:00.279
<v Speaker 2>It's definitely in there, so it's science. But I've think,

0:55:01.000 --> 0:55:04.600
<v Speaker 2>like we said, bringing brace back to sexuality, first of all,

0:55:04.600 --> 0:55:09.799
<v Speaker 2>there's a lot of negative history with like sodomy, yeah,

0:55:09.840 --> 0:55:14.359
<v Speaker 2>and rape amongst the black community and slavery. So yeah,

0:55:14.360 --> 0:55:16.480
<v Speaker 2>that's why it's like fuck no. But I think that

0:55:16.840 --> 0:55:18.359
<v Speaker 2>white men and women.

0:55:19.640 --> 0:55:21.840
<v Speaker 3>Have the like the like they could they could do

0:55:21.960 --> 0:55:24.080
<v Speaker 3>sludy shit more openly and it be more comfortable and

0:55:24.080 --> 0:55:26.439
<v Speaker 3>they're not feeling so judged about it. And that's why

0:55:26.600 --> 0:55:29.240
<v Speaker 3>now as black people being a little bit more comfortable

0:55:29.239 --> 0:55:31.960
<v Speaker 3>to like explore, it's more it's more acceptable.

0:55:32.360 --> 0:55:38.560
<v Speaker 1>But I mean it's not gay.

0:55:39.480 --> 0:55:41.400
<v Speaker 3>We need to get out of that, and we need

0:55:41.440 --> 0:55:43.440
<v Speaker 3>to get out of that saying that, thinking that, and

0:55:43.560 --> 0:55:45.560
<v Speaker 3>you know, promoting that, And I think for men, you

0:55:45.640 --> 0:55:47.520
<v Speaker 3>definitely gonna get out of it or else I'm gonna

0:55:47.600 --> 0:55:48.160
<v Speaker 3>find you.

0:55:48.200 --> 0:55:49.200
<v Speaker 1>No, it's definitely not gay.

0:55:49.239 --> 0:55:51.800
<v Speaker 2>And ever since that, the guy I was dating was

0:55:51.840 --> 0:55:54.720
<v Speaker 2>so open about it, because I've always been open about

0:55:54.760 --> 0:55:58.239
<v Speaker 2>sharing my bodies, my body in any way that my

0:55:58.320 --> 0:55:59.320
<v Speaker 2>partner wants to repore.

0:55:59.360 --> 0:56:02.279
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's how I feel having sex. The book is open.

0:56:02.360 --> 0:56:04.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like, let's try. If I don't like it, then

0:56:04.200 --> 0:56:05.239
<v Speaker 2>you don't have to do it. I don't want to

0:56:05.280 --> 0:56:06.799
<v Speaker 2>go into any relationship. And it's like this is my

0:56:06.840 --> 0:56:11.720
<v Speaker 2>list of don't like I don't Yeah, like like, let's

0:56:11.719 --> 0:56:13.000
<v Speaker 2>just try it once. If you don't like it, If

0:56:13.040 --> 0:56:14.160
<v Speaker 2>I don't like it, we ain't got to do any

0:56:15.760 --> 0:56:18.319
<v Speaker 2>But because of that, like at first I was like, oh, this.

0:56:18.239 --> 0:56:19.759
<v Speaker 1>Is so strange that he's telling me this. What does

0:56:19.760 --> 0:56:20.080
<v Speaker 1>this mean?

0:56:20.160 --> 0:56:21.840
<v Speaker 2>I was like overthinking it. I think I've told you

0:56:21.880 --> 0:56:22.720
<v Speaker 2>about it, Like what the fuck.

0:56:22.560 --> 0:56:23.080
<v Speaker 1>Does this mean?

0:56:23.400 --> 0:56:25.239
<v Speaker 2>And then I was like, no, this is amazing, Like

0:56:25.320 --> 0:56:27.400
<v Speaker 2>he's just down and aren't we We had great sex.

0:56:27.400 --> 0:56:28.440
<v Speaker 1>It was amazing I mean it was.

0:56:28.520 --> 0:56:32.400
<v Speaker 7>Very you know what, boundless, It was soundless, boundless sex

0:56:32.520 --> 0:56:36.719
<v Speaker 7>is amazing, And now I feel like with whoever is

0:56:36.760 --> 0:56:39.080
<v Speaker 7>my next partner, I need that.

0:56:39.239 --> 0:56:44.000
<v Speaker 1>I want that, and like it's kind of a deal

0:56:44.040 --> 0:56:47.440
<v Speaker 1>breaker for me in a way. I don't have a challenge.

0:56:47.680 --> 0:56:49.839
<v Speaker 2>It's a challenge, but it's like if the challenge can't

0:56:49.840 --> 0:56:52.200
<v Speaker 2>be ever, yeah, then no, then like why I'm not

0:56:52.239 --> 0:56:54.719
<v Speaker 2>gonna I'm not gonna limit boring. It's gonna be b

0:56:55.040 --> 0:56:56.200
<v Speaker 2>what a boring sex life?

0:56:56.200 --> 0:56:56.680
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna have it.

0:56:56.680 --> 0:56:58.840
<v Speaker 2>And I'm not saying ass eating is like the is

0:56:59.480 --> 0:57:04.319
<v Speaker 2>like I don't want to borg no, but I don't

0:57:04.320 --> 0:57:05.719
<v Speaker 2>even mean to side, Like if you won't do that,

0:57:05.760 --> 0:57:06.600
<v Speaker 2>what else won't you do?

0:57:06.640 --> 0:57:07.279
<v Speaker 1>You know what I mean?

0:57:07.360 --> 0:57:10.399
<v Speaker 2>It's like and that's not to say everybody doesn't want

0:57:10.440 --> 0:57:12.239
<v Speaker 2>their ass eight. Sometimes you don't like it, and that's

0:57:12.280 --> 0:57:14.279
<v Speaker 2>fine too, but I know what I mean. But but

0:57:14.360 --> 0:57:17.360
<v Speaker 2>some people don't and that's okay, it's just not their thing.

0:57:17.480 --> 0:57:18.720
<v Speaker 2>Everyone everyone gets.

0:57:18.560 --> 0:57:21.240
<v Speaker 1>Pleasure in different ways. You know, just try it. I

0:57:21.440 --> 0:57:22.280
<v Speaker 1>totally encourage it.

0:57:22.280 --> 0:57:25.480
<v Speaker 2>I fully encourage men and women to try it, and

0:57:25.600 --> 0:57:28.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm definitely gonna try it with Happy Bay, you know,

0:57:28.200 --> 0:57:30.920
<v Speaker 2>he's not down for that, he told me, So what

0:57:30.920 --> 0:57:31.480
<v Speaker 2>are you gonna do?

0:57:31.680 --> 0:57:32.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:57:32.080 --> 0:57:34.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna have to break it down because he's pretty

0:57:34.880 --> 0:57:39.000
<v Speaker 2>fucking amazing. Yeah, that's gotta Young Bay teld me no too,

0:57:39.120 --> 0:57:42.520
<v Speaker 2>but I have a master plant. Okay that movie doesn't listen,

0:57:43.040 --> 0:57:46.040
<v Speaker 2>and like, bitch, please shut the fuck up about me, Like,

0:57:46.080 --> 0:57:47.400
<v Speaker 2>can you get an He's gonna.

0:57:47.200 --> 0:57:48.760
<v Speaker 1>Perfect just graze.

0:57:49.120 --> 0:57:52.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna start with lots of ass grabbing, so like yeah, okay,

0:57:52.440 --> 0:57:54.880
<v Speaker 2>so okay, introductory ass plant.

0:57:55.320 --> 0:57:56.520
<v Speaker 1>If you like, you know how you have a sex

0:57:56.560 --> 0:57:58.760
<v Speaker 1>there on top and you grab the ass, just go.

0:57:58.760 --> 0:58:01.760
<v Speaker 2>A little more into the crackage, just that one time

0:58:01.800 --> 0:58:03.080
<v Speaker 2>and see how I feel comfortable.

0:58:03.080 --> 0:58:05.600
<v Speaker 1>You gets like a light or like if you're giving

0:58:05.640 --> 0:58:06.240
<v Speaker 1>a head and.

0:58:06.120 --> 0:58:07.920
<v Speaker 2>You're going and going for the balls, maybe like a

0:58:07.960 --> 0:58:12.920
<v Speaker 2>little a little a little farther up just maybe I

0:58:13.040 --> 0:58:15.280
<v Speaker 2>just my my fears that like what if he isn't prepared,

0:58:16.520 --> 0:58:17.600
<v Speaker 2>will shower first?

0:58:17.720 --> 0:58:20.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like you can make sure we both shower only things.

0:58:20.200 --> 0:58:21.720
<v Speaker 2>Maybe even get in the shower and make sure it's

0:58:21.720 --> 0:58:24.920
<v Speaker 2>scrubbed down like you do the scrap Let me baby,

0:58:25.480 --> 0:58:25.960
<v Speaker 2>you know, like.

0:58:25.920 --> 0:58:27.680
<v Speaker 1>That's another thing. This is this is like a back

0:58:27.720 --> 0:58:28.560
<v Speaker 1>to like the shitting thing.

0:58:28.560 --> 0:58:30.280
<v Speaker 3>And this is this is when you're reaching levels of

0:58:30.320 --> 0:58:34.200
<v Speaker 3>comfortability where you know it's getting serious, because yeah, I

0:58:34.280 --> 0:58:35.680
<v Speaker 3>need to like make sure the.

0:58:35.760 --> 0:58:37.000
<v Speaker 1>Ad is very clean.

0:58:37.720 --> 0:58:39.360
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I hope that's in general what you're doing,

0:58:39.400 --> 0:58:41.680
<v Speaker 3>but you know, if you're preparing to lick it, this

0:58:41.840 --> 0:58:42.720
<v Speaker 3>is very important.

0:58:43.480 --> 0:58:45.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we'll see.

0:58:45.360 --> 0:58:49.400
<v Speaker 2>This is to be continued conversation on my side currently

0:58:49.640 --> 0:58:50.920
<v Speaker 2>sexually with this person.

0:58:51.040 --> 0:58:54.160
<v Speaker 1>But I think that, Yeah, I don't know. I mean,

0:58:54.160 --> 0:58:55.920
<v Speaker 1>if young Way never lets me do it, am I

0:58:55.960 --> 0:58:56.520
<v Speaker 1>gonna die?

0:58:57.080 --> 0:58:59.920
<v Speaker 2>No? I mean in my last relationship, we never did

0:59:00.120 --> 0:59:03.480
<v Speaker 2>and it wasn't even like a it wasn't like a thing.

0:59:04.200 --> 0:59:08.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean he did it to me but all the time. Okay, yeah,

0:59:08.080 --> 0:59:10.080
<v Speaker 1>I guess if you're doing to me, I'm not kidding. Yeah,

0:59:10.520 --> 0:59:13.600
<v Speaker 1>that's enough. If somebody was unwilling.

0:59:13.400 --> 0:59:16.760
<v Speaker 4>To eat, I think he only ate my ass like

0:59:16.800 --> 0:59:17.640
<v Speaker 4>a few times.

0:59:18.680 --> 0:59:21.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm into it. It took years to get there, though

0:59:21.080 --> 0:59:23.120
<v Speaker 2>I'm into all types of freak shit. Though it took

0:59:23.160 --> 0:59:28.040
<v Speaker 2>years to get there. It feels good, No, it does

0:59:28.200 --> 0:59:30.240
<v Speaker 2>the first time someone ever did it to me, I.

0:59:30.160 --> 0:59:32.360
<v Speaker 1>Was like, oh, oh, but you have to be comfortable.

0:59:33.680 --> 0:59:35.080
<v Speaker 2>This guy was like, this was the first time we

0:59:35.120 --> 0:59:36.760
<v Speaker 2>ever had sex, and I was like, oh, this, what's

0:59:36.760 --> 0:59:39.360
<v Speaker 2>happening that that? Honestly, that sex that I had with

0:59:39.400 --> 0:59:41.400
<v Speaker 2>that person was maybe the best sex of my life.

0:59:41.440 --> 0:59:43.400
<v Speaker 2>He did things to me that I was like, well,

0:59:43.400 --> 0:59:44.120
<v Speaker 2>what else did he do?

0:59:44.640 --> 0:59:44.920
<v Speaker 1>Girl?

0:59:45.120 --> 0:59:47.080
<v Speaker 2>He did like we did sixty nine. But then we

0:59:47.160 --> 0:59:49.400
<v Speaker 2>stood up in a handstand. Oh yeah, I've done that,

0:59:49.600 --> 0:59:52.040
<v Speaker 2>like where my ass was. Yeah, he was holding your

0:59:52.240 --> 0:59:52.800
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

0:59:52.840 --> 0:59:56.120
<v Speaker 1>I was like, what how did we get here? Wow?

0:59:56.200 --> 0:59:58.040
<v Speaker 1>This is amazing aatic I've done that.

0:59:58.480 --> 1:00:01.280
<v Speaker 2>This was all on the first date. Like that kind

1:00:01.320 --> 1:00:05.120
<v Speaker 2>of is sexy too, Like, oh, there's there's levels to this. Yeah,

1:00:05.120 --> 1:00:07.280
<v Speaker 2>and you were into like if this is day one, yeah,

1:00:07.520 --> 1:00:10.960
<v Speaker 2>day thirty. Yeah, we ended it.

1:00:10.960 --> 1:00:14.480
<v Speaker 1>We ended it there. We never got there. We never

1:00:14.520 --> 1:00:14.919
<v Speaker 1>got there.

1:00:15.000 --> 1:00:20.560
<v Speaker 2>There are other problems, but but yeah, I think I

1:00:20.560 --> 1:00:23.280
<v Speaker 2>think anything you do you should put your best foot forward.

1:00:23.520 --> 1:00:31.040
<v Speaker 1>M sex included your best finger, your best looking, and you.

1:00:31.000 --> 1:00:34.000
<v Speaker 2>Should be honest about sexual compatibility, like DOSO, Like one

1:00:34.000 --> 1:00:36.280
<v Speaker 2>of the number one reasons for divorce is like not

1:00:36.320 --> 1:00:39.280
<v Speaker 2>sexually compatible. To be honest, if you like level ten freaky,

1:00:39.320 --> 1:00:41.200
<v Speaker 2>you can't You're not gonna like date a level five

1:00:41.240 --> 1:00:43.800
<v Speaker 2>freaky guy, just cut it off in the beginning.

1:00:43.800 --> 1:00:46.240
<v Speaker 1>If they can't come out of their shell, fuck them. No,

1:00:46.480 --> 1:00:47.720
<v Speaker 1>that's so true.

1:00:47.880 --> 1:00:50.680
<v Speaker 2>I'd swear that that is like that is probably one

1:00:50.720 --> 1:00:54.440
<v Speaker 2>of the biggest reasons for cheating for divorce, one of

1:00:54.440 --> 1:00:57.600
<v Speaker 2>the biggest reasons for divorce. I mean yeah, because you

1:00:57.640 --> 1:00:59.320
<v Speaker 2>fall in love with other aspects of it, and so

1:00:59.640 --> 1:01:02.080
<v Speaker 2>that's when the things you compromise. And for me, some

1:01:02.120 --> 1:01:04.560
<v Speaker 2>people think sex they can compromise for sex, and like

1:01:04.600 --> 1:01:08.080
<v Speaker 2>maybe some people can't. I have a friend who she date.

1:01:08.200 --> 1:01:13.200
<v Speaker 2>She before she married her husband. She was she was,

1:01:13.320 --> 1:01:15.040
<v Speaker 2>you know, fucked around a lot, and like was a

1:01:15.120 --> 1:01:17.960
<v Speaker 2>freaky When she met this guy, he was like perfect guy.

1:01:18.120 --> 1:01:19.920
<v Speaker 2>You're just like safe, you know what I mean. It

1:01:19.920 --> 1:01:22.320
<v Speaker 2>wasn't gonna break her heart, was going to treat her right,

1:01:22.480 --> 1:01:25.840
<v Speaker 2>could provide for her. He was handsome. But the sex

1:01:25.960 --> 1:01:28.240
<v Speaker 2>they've had, they've struggled with their sex life. They have

1:01:28.320 --> 1:01:33.720
<v Speaker 2>struggled with their sex life. And she that makes me

1:01:34.000 --> 1:01:36.280
<v Speaker 2>people not she's not happy.

1:01:36.320 --> 1:01:37.400
<v Speaker 1>I know she's not happy.

1:01:37.480 --> 1:01:39.680
<v Speaker 2>I haven't feel like that's and you know, now they

1:01:39.720 --> 1:01:45.320
<v Speaker 2>have two kids and it's I'm like, girl, and I'll

1:01:45.320 --> 1:01:49.120
<v Speaker 2>never forget my mom said to me one time, she

1:01:49.320 --> 1:01:53.720
<v Speaker 2>was like, Erica, never settle for bad sex. Like And

1:01:53.760 --> 1:01:54.880
<v Speaker 2>when she said that to me, I was like, whoa,

1:01:54.960 --> 1:01:56.840
<v Speaker 2>Like my mom never is, like she never really talks

1:01:56.840 --> 1:01:59.560
<v Speaker 2>about sex with me. When she said that, I was like, really,

1:01:59.560 --> 1:02:02.280
<v Speaker 2>this is yeah she meant that. Yeah, she meant that

1:02:02.400 --> 1:02:05.480
<v Speaker 2>ship And I was like, whoa. Okay, and that's stuck

1:02:05.520 --> 1:02:05.760
<v Speaker 2>with me.

1:02:06.320 --> 1:02:07.760
<v Speaker 1>And it's true.

1:02:07.800 --> 1:02:10.240
<v Speaker 2>And I hate to like base a whole relationship off

1:02:10.240 --> 1:02:12.120
<v Speaker 2>it because it is there is so much more to

1:02:12.240 --> 1:02:15.400
<v Speaker 2>a relationship than just sex, but it is a piece

1:02:15.440 --> 1:02:17.640
<v Speaker 2>of it. It's a large piece of it. It's how

1:02:17.640 --> 1:02:22.440
<v Speaker 2>you guys connect, you know, in an intimate way. And

1:02:22.480 --> 1:02:24.920
<v Speaker 2>I think if we could just be friends, if we're

1:02:24.920 --> 1:02:28.040
<v Speaker 2>just gonna connect mentally, right, and if you were in

1:02:28.040 --> 1:02:29.640
<v Speaker 2>a real if it's someone who really wants to be

1:02:29.680 --> 1:02:31.640
<v Speaker 2>with you, and they'll be willing to kind of like

1:02:32.000 --> 1:02:34.520
<v Speaker 2>try to please you and ask, hey, what do you

1:02:34.560 --> 1:02:36.320
<v Speaker 2>want me to do and and vice versa.

1:02:36.480 --> 1:02:37.840
<v Speaker 1>So hell, yeah, this is important.

1:02:37.880 --> 1:02:40.000
<v Speaker 2>I know a lot of like I said in one episode,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know like comfortable, comfortable love and necessarily the

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<v Speaker 2>love that you you want to set don't settle, don't

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<v Speaker 2>go safe you know, Like, I'm not saying everyone's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>have every single thing you want.

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<v Speaker 1>Absolutely likely not going to be that way.

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<v Speaker 2>But there are certain things like sex compatibility that are

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<v Speaker 2>very fucking important. You know what's important to you, And no,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe sex isn't and that's and that's fine. Then that's fine,

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<v Speaker 2>But then don't settle on the other things that are

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<v Speaker 2>important to you, you know what I mean. I know

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<v Speaker 2>sex is important to me too. I know communication is

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<v Speaker 2>important to me. I know you know a few other

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<v Speaker 2>Someone who.

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<v Speaker 1>Can take my sexy dressing and dance moves is important

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<v Speaker 1>to me.

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<v Speaker 3>Take me as I am is crazy and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>nude and free spirited as I am. So yeah, dressing,

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<v Speaker 3>sexy and ass eating concludes our topics for today. We

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<v Speaker 3>got to pick up Irin from school.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we got to go pick up the babe or

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<v Speaker 2>not my wish. She's not a baby, she's a big girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Excuse me, even though she is having one hundred milts

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<v Speaker 2>houds yesterday.

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<v Speaker 1>We are trying to we are putting together. Are we doing?

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<v Speaker 1>We need to a happy hour? Yeah, we're doing a

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<v Speaker 1>happy hour maybe like in two weeks.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh well, I'm just saying, like November there's like holidays

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<v Speaker 3>at the end of it. Okay, Well then, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>guess so, like the second week in November, we got

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<v Speaker 3>the second.

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<v Speaker 2>Week of November happy Hour. Well, we're going to figure

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<v Speaker 2>it out today.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I said it all out so that we could

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<v Speaker 3>figure it out. In fact, I think we need to

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<v Speaker 3>like make dates like maybe every other month or every month,

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<v Speaker 3>and then that there's pressure to actually yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Because fucking with us? Okay, is anybody want to be

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<v Speaker 1>our assistant in turn? Because we're slow? Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, anyway, and have a wonderful Wednesday.

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<v Speaker 1>It's actually really beautiful outside. It's nice for once.

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<v Speaker 2>We're actually recording on the day, on the day of,

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<v Speaker 2>and it's so nice outside and it's hot as fun.

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<v Speaker 1>It's beautiful. If you're on the East coast.

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<v Speaker 2>Can you hear the bird chirping in the background you're outside?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, and tune in next week to our Halloween episode.

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<v Speaker 3>We've pre recorded that. It's actually really popping. We have

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<v Speaker 3>a really cool guest. We talk about my pigeon experience.

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<v Speaker 3>We go a little bit deeper and it's very witchy.

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<v Speaker 2>So tune in keep your heads up for our half

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<v Speaker 2>the hour in a couple of weeks, and yeah, make

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<v Speaker 2>sure to follow us on at Good Mom's Underscore Bad Choices.

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<v Speaker 2>Follow us there, and then our website is www dot

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<v Speaker 2>Good Moms, Bad Choices dot com. And we also have

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<v Speaker 2>a book club on there that I created, so go there.

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<v Speaker 1>She's very proud of her book clubs. We do everything ourselves,

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<v Speaker 1>our graphics.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very excited about my book clubs app And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>she's like, did you did you?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you look at the site? Did you see that?

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<v Speaker 1>Tap at it? Did you look at it?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like I did, just because there's some really good

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<v Speaker 3>books on there.

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<v Speaker 1>She takes all day to like add one thing. Wig sucks? Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what am you going to get to add? We love wigs,

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<v Speaker 1>hate you you better? But no, you know what? And

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<v Speaker 1>square make it easier. Yeah, Square is hard. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>loves sexy. But I can't figure this shit out. I

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<v Speaker 1>told you you were like, I got it, and then

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, I give out.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, are we old not a young? Technological, technologically savvy.

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<v Speaker 1>And it gonna be nice?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, We're reaching Okay, And submit your hories and advice

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<v Speaker 2>to Advice and if you have any topics that you

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<v Speaker 2>would like us to discuss, like our wonderful listener who

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<v Speaker 2>suggested the epidemic.

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<v Speaker 1>The ass ass epidemic. Yeah, let us know because we

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<v Speaker 1>love hearing from you guys. Anyway, we'll talk to you later.

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<v Speaker 8>You don't come house to me, He goes one around

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<v Speaker 8>off and it goes to me, My boys show for me,

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<v Speaker 8>but getta in a body like Groceres, but gettabidity sells

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<v Speaker 8>to me like how to yellenes stell for me? Stopposed

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<v Speaker 8>to be if he was me.

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<v Speaker 1>So it'sposed to freak col

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<v Speaker 8>Stopposed to be, stopposed to be, stop everything like it

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<v Speaker 8>s posed today