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Speaker 1: Those days are over. You don't have to say your

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Speaker 1: wear that dress to night, walk the streets for money.

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Speaker 1: You don't care if it's wrong, if it's right. Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. This is good. Mom's bad choices. I'm Erica

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Speaker 1: and Anila, and we's bad. We is back. We is back.

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Speaker 1: October twenty fourth, two thousand and eight. Team, you just

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Speaker 1: look at your phone. No, I know that because my

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Speaker 1: birthday is tomorrow. Oh yeah, it's Karka's birthday tomorrow. Can

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Speaker 1: well you're moving to day. Sorry, you're thirty again, tomorrow

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Speaker 1: thirty one. I'm proud. Okay, damn. Dreila and I are

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Speaker 1: going to ros and Sonata.

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Speaker 2: Actually it's closer to in Sonata than it's Actually, it's

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Speaker 3: I'm getting scared. Everyone's like, you're taking the kids. It's fine, Like,

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Speaker 3: be careful. I'm like, we're gonna be fine, right, Recorder

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Speaker 3: of the Day. We're not gonna be traveling at night,

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Speaker 3: crossing the border. Okay, No, we're not right, but we

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Speaker 3: are going to go out at night. We have to

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Speaker 3: see the Donkey Show. The Donkey Show, there's like a

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Speaker 3: famous thing. Okay, whatever, Well, no, do you get to

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Speaker 4: I haven't been back.

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Speaker 3: They're so pretty, so I got distracted. No, it's like

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Speaker 1: It's you're on your own.

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to see nobody being fucked by a donkey.

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Speaker 2: Curiosity actually, mere right, I don't need to see that.

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Speaker 2: Hondurans and Guatemalans and they Guatemala. Yeah, and Trump has

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Speaker 1: Could you imagine, I know, because what I heard.

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Speaker 3: I heard you in the PAH and I immediately thought, like,

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Speaker 2: And she just got her hip surgery, so she's not

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Speaker 2: she's like, I still want to come. I can help

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Speaker 2: with Iri, you know at night. I probably can't be

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Speaker 1: I mean, but.

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Speaker 2: Legally, legally she can enter. Legally, there's nothing they could do.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I just don't I just don't know if

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Speaker 1: Well it's not. That's not all what you do there?

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Speaker 1: You know, there's you can just chill.

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Speaker 1: But you know, who knows we're gonna have a like

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Speaker 2: Catoul is so much smaller than the girls.

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Speaker 1: it if you now mamas want a party too.

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Speaker 1: Which I get it. So I don't know. I'm still

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Speaker 2: Out and it's not an option to leave them here now.

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Speaker 1: No, if you ask me that one more motherfucking time,

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Speaker 2: No, but anyway, Yeah, so that's what we're doing this weekend.

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Speaker 2: And uh, someone just messaged me. Can I ask you

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Speaker 1: Bitch? I mean, what's the question? Maybe it's not personal?

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Speaker 1: DMed it to me. I'm scared.

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Speaker 2: I just say spill, I can look. Am I curious?

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Speaker 4: Okay, maybe we'll get this answer in the next ten minutes.

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Speaker 1: And I just don't know.

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Speaker 2: I always think people are trying to like ask me

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Speaker 1: Anyway. Yeah, So turning thirty one tomorrow, how does it

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Speaker 1: feel about you? Feel good? Like? I know, like for

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Speaker 3: Everybody but you, you know, so you're not obviously not

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Speaker 2: No, Okay, I feel good. I feel good about thirty one.

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Speaker 1: I do I have. I do feel like I'm getting older.

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Speaker 2: I just am more aware as time is going of

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Speaker 2: Chipping away at the at youth. I know, it's very so,

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Speaker 1: Interesting.

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Speaker 4: Other than that, what else we we're going to talk

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Speaker 2: We were just browsing through our you know, our extremely

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Speaker 2: reliable news source, the Shade Room, and we've discovered that

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Speaker 2: I saw that on the news this morning, because you know,

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Speaker 2: And have it on all day, but no, but yeah,

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Speaker 1: But clearly know I got that memo.

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Speaker 2: Look, this is oh my god, they you get all

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Speaker 3: Then you can't even we're gonna be talking about it

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Speaker 2: But like she said the album, it's actually adorable with

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Speaker 2: Sign up the Times.

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Speaker 2: by Day And I'm excited about that. I don't know

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Speaker 1: It was last Friday. I've seen him since Friday Saturday morning,

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Speaker 1: feeding a little I am trying like long distance dick

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Speaker 1: so and I, oh my god, that's why I don't

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Speaker 1: do it. I didn't sign up for this. I didn't

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Speaker 2: I know he lives downtown, and it feels like long

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Speaker 2: I don't think I shared this the first time it happened.

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Speaker 2: This was like maybe like a few weeks.

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Speaker 2: So you know, I'm dating this new guy and we

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Speaker 1: There was a term use that you're cent, you know.

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Speaker 1: So what happened again? And I'm like, I'm just like

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Speaker 2: But I think because you know, I'm still not totally

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Speaker 2: And you're like, you know, that's why you gotta wrap that,

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Speaker 1: Me and me shame shape me.

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Speaker 3: And yet they made it like it's a short video

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Speaker 3: But I'm just saying, like I realized, I'm like this

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Speaker 2: And that's to me, to me, that is, you know,

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Speaker 1: I don't have a pooping with the door open? Did

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Speaker 1: you do that? But you did that with with hell yeah,

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Speaker 2: And I'm I'm really a comfortable like nudity, Like there's

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Speaker 3: I see lots of pussies, like there are very little

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Speaker 6: like you can't take me.

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Speaker 3: I think it's there's there's both because I feel like

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Speaker 1: But so I think I think that I maybe have

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Speaker 3: But there was a mixture of things and I do

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Speaker 1: I want to remind you.

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Speaker 3: That I looked at and so I think there's a

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Speaker 3: about like having like you know, I could do anything

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Speaker 2: I'm being too much and like you can not have

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Speaker 2: if he does it like shits in.

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Speaker 3: I think it's he shops in front of me with

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Speaker 1: Do you think this.

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Speaker 2: Sol Do you think we as women put pressure on ourselves,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like stop blaming yourself for

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Speaker 1: Just cut him off?

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Speaker 2: But I mean, is that part of that part of

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Speaker 2: I think that if a guy is bitching about you

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Speaker 2: because everybody poops, it's a book. And but I haven't

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh well, like I gotta take a ship, but

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Speaker 1: But yeah, like that time we got a room and

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Speaker 2: Here, I don't want to poop in the same space,

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Speaker 2: Like I'm gonna go to the lobby.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but what Yeah, what is the timeframe of that?

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Speaker 3: I think it's like a year and I think it

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Speaker 1: Who I remember. I'm trying to think who did it first.

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Speaker 2: It's usually it's initiated by someone and then it becomes okay.

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Speaker 1: Can you just let me in.

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Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck if you're shitting, just let me.

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Speaker 2: I need to get something, and you're just like okay,

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Speaker 1: I get stage right, like can you get out? I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but yeah, I think there is some beauty in

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Speaker 3: like I'm super like I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I'm super girly in that way. I'm not extreme like

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Speaker 3: I can't do it all the time, but I do

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Speaker 3: like to remind a nigga I looks good. So, speaking

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Speaker 3: of which also when I was in Jersey. If anyone

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Speaker 2: They're not like super dark or chocolate. They most of

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00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:12,919
Speaker 2: the same color as my boob.

441
00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:15,720
Speaker 1: Did you notice we are?

442
00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:20,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, unless you're like hard but anyway, So I wore

443
00:21:20,480 --> 00:21:22,119
Speaker 3: like the seat through lace top. It's actually like a

444
00:21:22,160 --> 00:21:23,960
Speaker 3: two piece to a neckliche, and I like wore jeans

445
00:21:24,000 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 3: with it. And I put it on to see if

446
00:21:25,320 --> 00:21:26,840
Speaker 3: he was gonna like talk shit, because you know he's

447
00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:30,560
Speaker 3: super like conservative Loki and he said and I was like,

448
00:21:30,600 --> 00:21:32,360
Speaker 3: all right, whatever fuck are were going. So the next

449
00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:34,879
Speaker 3: day he was like, yeah, you know, you actually think

450
00:21:34,880 --> 00:21:36,760
Speaker 3: he should dress a certain way and we have a boyfriend,

451
00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:40,159
Speaker 3: and I'm like, I'm not with you, and why did

452
00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:41,359
Speaker 3: you say anything When I had the shit on for

453
00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:44,920
Speaker 3: twenty minutes before we left. He's like, eh, So I asked,

454
00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:46,679
Speaker 3: I don't know. I told this, so I saw him

455
00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:48,560
Speaker 3: he hold it, so I pulled.

456
00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:53,040
Speaker 1: It, and girl, he got mad that I pulled it.

457
00:21:53,520 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 1: He got mad at me. He's like, Yo, you can't

458
00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:57,200
Speaker 1: keep shipping your stuff. I put it on the Instagram.

459
00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:01,760
Speaker 1: I was like, it's my brand. I thought that's a

460
00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:02,320
Speaker 1: good question.

461
00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:05,760
Speaker 2: It was because a lot of people responded yeah, and

462
00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 2: you know why, this is why he got that because

463
00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:11,919
Speaker 2: obviously everybody's like, fuck that.

464
00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:16,600
Speaker 1: Niggas don't dictate shit. I was like, that's what I thought. Girl.

465
00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:18,639
Speaker 3: I got a lot of responses like he's trying to

466
00:22:18,680 --> 00:22:20,040
Speaker 3: manipulate you, trying to take you over.

467
00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:22,000
Speaker 1: Fuck that nigga.

468
00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:25,760
Speaker 2: Maybe I read one when he was mad as fuck,

469
00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:27,640
Speaker 2: and I was like, you don't really need to get mad,

470
00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:29,840
Speaker 2: but obviously you can't handle the truth.

471
00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:34,359
Speaker 1: But which brings us partially to today's They have a

472
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 1: two part topic today.

473
00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:41,159
Speaker 3: Do you think that once you're in a relationship A

474
00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:47,160
Speaker 3: that you should dress more conservatively or just a certain way.

475
00:22:47,359 --> 00:22:50,080
Speaker 1: Also, I have a problem posting a lot of pictures.

476
00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 2: I think my body is cool and I don't really

477
00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:54,199
Speaker 2: give a fuck, and it's not.

478
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:56,679
Speaker 3: And this is what bothers me. A lot of people.

479
00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:59,760
Speaker 3: He was like saying it's for retention, and that's not

480
00:22:59,800 --> 00:23:02,280
Speaker 3: why I do. It's because like I like to be naked.

481
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 3: If I could be naked right now, I would get undressed.

482
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:09,640
Speaker 3: And that is just my personality and it always has been.

483
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:12,359
Speaker 3: So like it offends me when someone comes to me

484
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:13,800
Speaker 3: and is like you just want attention, And then I

485
00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:15,120
Speaker 3: have to think to myself, like am I.

486
00:23:15,080 --> 00:23:17,000
Speaker 2: Doing it because I want attention? But no, that's really

487
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:19,840
Speaker 2: not it. And everybody dresses a certain way for different reasons.

488
00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:24,040
Speaker 2: But question for everybody else, what.

489
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,560
Speaker 1: Do you think? I mean?

490
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:29,359
Speaker 2: I wanted to ask you when you were saying do

491
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:31,040
Speaker 2: you do you think you do it for attention? When

492
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:33,320
Speaker 2: when you when you post a photo and I'm not

493
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:35,320
Speaker 2: I'm asked. I'm actually just asking you do I don't

494
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:36,680
Speaker 2: want you to think I'm judging it at all, because

495
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:37,879
Speaker 2: you know, I was the first one to post your

496
00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:42,720
Speaker 2: naked photo. But when you post your photo, Doe, you

497
00:23:42,920 --> 00:23:45,920
Speaker 2: are you posting it because you're like, I look good,

498
00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:48,640
Speaker 2: people need to see this ship or are you posting

499
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:52,719
Speaker 2: it because you want likes? Or like I think it's

500
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:55,800
Speaker 2: I like the picture picture, this is a cool picture.

501
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:57,760
Speaker 2: It's because yeah, because I don't think it has to

502
00:23:57,800 --> 00:24:00,760
Speaker 2: be that deep now if everyone makes it, repost is

503
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:02,440
Speaker 2: so deep, you know, honestly.

504
00:24:02,040 --> 00:24:03,679
Speaker 1: Like the pictures, I think I like the hotness and

505
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:04,640
Speaker 1: get the lowest legs.

506
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:06,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, what the fun is that annoying? You're like, damn,

507
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:08,200
Speaker 2: this is a good one. Yeah, and then like you

508
00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 2: don't think I'm keeping this is where I look like that. Yeah,

509
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:14,959
Speaker 2: that's my thought, but obviously not I think that. Uh.

510
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:17,359
Speaker 2: Ok I ask a question, do you think I dressed

511
00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:20,400
Speaker 2: like ouci? I think you're I think you can pull

512
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:23,159
Speaker 2: off fuccie because you're tiny. Okay, so so it almost

513
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:25,600
Speaker 2: looks it looks it looks I feel like if I

514
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:27,440
Speaker 2: wore some of the things you wore, I would look

515
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:28,119
Speaker 2: like a slut.

516
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:31,159
Speaker 1: Oh, and I think it looks hot fat and you

517
00:24:31,200 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 1: look you do it?

518
00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 2: Does it's fucked up that my it's fucked up even

519
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:37,480
Speaker 2: that my brain thinks that way, you know what I mean,

520
00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:39,680
Speaker 2: because that's what society has trained us, that like, if

521
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 2: you have too much, if you're too much, and I

522
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:44,240
Speaker 2: can't just stay away from that too, because just because

523
00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 2: you're bigger than me, does I mean you can't rock

524
00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 2: with the funk you want to rock?

525
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 3: I think there's a way to go about like sexy dressing.

526
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:50,080
Speaker 3: I think there's like a thing.

527
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:51,040
Speaker 1: That compliment your body.

528
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:54,119
Speaker 3: Yeahhi a trashy sexy and like you look like a

529
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 3: shipper that's off, and I think there's like, you know,

530
00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 3: I'm channeling my Inhanna.

531
00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:00,360
Speaker 2: No, like the other day you were wearing a really

532
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 2: cute shirt and it was just a shirt and you

533
00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:04,119
Speaker 2: had boots on.

534
00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:08,680
Speaker 1: But like if I wore that shirt.

535
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:09,840
Speaker 2: Like that shirt would have to be about four more

536
00:25:09,840 --> 00:25:12,520
Speaker 2: inches longer because of all this ass that I had

537
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:16,520
Speaker 2: almost and you have asked. You actually have really good ass.

538
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 2: It's like unexpect unexpected ass whenever Jimmy listen to bathing.

539
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:30,920
Speaker 2: So I'm like, damn, that's a mass. But uh, it's

540
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:34,399
Speaker 2: just yeah, I don't. I mean I think that, uh,

541
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 2: you show off.

542
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:40,200
Speaker 1: Your body, you know, and I don't. I don't take

543
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 1: offense to it at all at all. I don't. I

544
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:45,119
Speaker 1: don't think that you dress like a hoe. No, what

545
00:25:45,200 --> 00:25:46,600
Speaker 1: is what defines a hoe? Right?

546
00:25:46,640 --> 00:25:48,960
Speaker 2: And then then that's a whole other conversation, like what

547
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 2: defines hoe dressing?

548
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 1: And then we get them.

549
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:53,159
Speaker 2: I feel like we're like talking about Amber rosas slowalk

550
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,000
Speaker 2: and I don't want to do that, but I feel

551
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:59,200
Speaker 2: like I feel like in a relationship.

552
00:25:59,760 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 1: No.

553
00:26:01,320 --> 00:26:03,240
Speaker 2: Actually, as a matter of fact, when I was in

554
00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 2: a relationship, I would like when when I was in

555
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 2: my last relationship, I would dress up, when I'd be like,

556
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 2: is this too much? She's like and you would always

557
00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:10,440
Speaker 2: say this is the one not he has. There's many

558
00:26:10,600 --> 00:26:14,880
Speaker 2: good qualities about my ex, a lot of bad ones too, but.

559
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 1: He would he would always say, you're with me. What

560
00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:18,359
Speaker 1: the fuck is where? Whatever the fuck you want, and

561
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:21,640
Speaker 1: you're with me. You could walk.

562
00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:24,679
Speaker 2: Around with your nipples out and it doesn't matter because

563
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 2: you're my woman.

564
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 1: And I leave you, who's gonna be with me?

565
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 2: Needs to kind of like get that because a first

566
00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:35,680
Speaker 2: of all, in reality, nobody, male or female, low key,

567
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:40,320
Speaker 2: nobody really wants to date someone that nobody else wants.

568
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:41,359
Speaker 1: You.

569
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 3: When I go out and look at my guy and

570
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 3: I see bitches looking, I'm like, yeah, bitch, that's my

571
00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:53,399
Speaker 3: keep right, stay high. Yeah that's enough. Yeah, okay, okay.

572
00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:56,840
Speaker 3: But I'm also like free loving and shit. But I

573
00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:00,840
Speaker 3: think I think it's something really sucks about a man

574
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:03,439
Speaker 3: that's confident and she wants to show you off and

575
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 3: is like, yeah, I'm with this is my bitch, and

576
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,120
Speaker 3: that's what I told him. He's like, yeah, you get

577
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 3: he said. This is what he said. You get unwarranted attention.

578
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 3: And I'm like that's as the first of all, it's dark.

579
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:16,119
Speaker 3: You can't see my nipples through this lace in the club,

580
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:19,159
Speaker 3: and if you can, like, oh well, doesn't mean you

581
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 3: could grab my tit like you know what I mean?

582
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 1: Like has not have people not seen a tit before?

583
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:27,400
Speaker 1: It's just we as women get unwarned attention all the time.

584
00:27:28,720 --> 00:27:31,159
Speaker 1: I could be wearing a fucking paper bag. But it's me.

585
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:34,119
Speaker 1: It's not this nipple. It's I have energy.

586
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 2: Like if you go out to me, if I go

587
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:37,280
Speaker 2: to the club ten, I'm gonna make ten friends.

588
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:38,080
Speaker 1: It's hands down.

589
00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 3: No matter what I dance, I smile, I'm nice, and

590
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,520
Speaker 3: it's the energy that's like I'm friendly and bubbling, and

591
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 3: I think people take to that and gravitate towards me.

592
00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 1: So I don't really think it's necessarily.

593
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:51,080
Speaker 3: Like my boobs are out and even I've been out

594
00:27:51,080 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 3: with a bitch and she's a slut and she even

595
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:56,479
Speaker 3: no matter what she wore, she just seeps sled out

596
00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 3: of her board and like we would go out and

597
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 3: she would get slut attention, and I'm like, hang out

598
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 3: with this bitch anymore. But there is you know, like

599
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 3: there's there's a sophisticated way to you know, wear whatever

600
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:07,000
Speaker 3: the fuck you.

601
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,680
Speaker 2: Want to wear. I think he wants, Like you said,

602
00:28:09,720 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 2: every person does want their part, like want someone who

603
00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:15,600
Speaker 2: is wanted. But maybe there's like a level to the one,

604
00:28:15,640 --> 00:28:18,200
Speaker 2: Like there's a level, there's a limit to like this attention.

605
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 2: He wants the attention not because your nipples.

606
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 1: Are out, but just because you're pretty, which is which

607
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:27,640
Speaker 1: is almost worse. I always think.

608
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 3: I also think what attracts you for men, what attracts

609
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:33,240
Speaker 3: them to you, well a lot of times with the

610
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 3: same things that they will hate about you later. And

611
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 3: I think with me particularly, like I'm like people are

612
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 3: like engaged in in my openness and my freeness and

613
00:28:41,600 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 3: then I'm sexually in tune, and then like once you

614
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:47,040
Speaker 3: lock me down, you're like, oh no, no, don't do

615
00:28:47,120 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 3: those things. And it's like kind of conflicting. But it's

616
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 3: like either got to take me or leave me, because

617
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 3: this is it. And I am a huge I'm huge

618
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 3: on the movement of like profeminine free the nipple, like

619
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,800
Speaker 3: our bodies are way bigger and more than just like

620
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 3: for your fucking visual pleasure and grabbing and just no

621
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 3: matter what I wear, don't think you can fucking grab me.

622
00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 3: I'm totally a huge advocate on all of those things.

623
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 3: This is my natural body. I think it's not fair

624
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 3: that guys can wear just trunks and girls can't just

625
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:18,280
Speaker 3: wear bikini bottoms.

626
00:29:18,320 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 2: I don't think that's fair at all. I think it's sexist,

627
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,240
Speaker 2: and I just that's that's.

628
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 1: How I feel. That's my movement.

629
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:25,880
Speaker 2: This is what I'm gonna post, and this is what

630
00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:27,520
Speaker 2: I'm gonna wear, and if you can't get with it,

631
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:28,160
Speaker 2: suck my deck.

632
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 1: So wait, how did so how did the conversation end

633
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 1: with that? Like, did you resolve it? He got mad?

634
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:37,080
Speaker 2: I put post to the poll and like I s

635
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 2: read one person's response. He got furious, probably because they

636
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 2: were right.

637
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:45,040
Speaker 1: We got over it. He was fine, But then so

638
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:46,480
Speaker 1: that was when I was out there. I bore the alpha.

639
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:48,239
Speaker 1: We talked about it, and I was like, first of all,

640
00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 1: just because.

641
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 2: I'm a mom doesn't mean I have to dress a

642
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 2: certain fucking white because that was mentioned and I don't

643
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:52,400
Speaker 2: like that shit.

644
00:29:53,600 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 1: And then secondly, oh, I got home.

645
00:29:56,840 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 3: And then I posted my my I posted picture chopolate.

646
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 3: I was naked, but like I put, I put a

647
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 3: stripe over my nipples, but your camouflage anyway, and he

648
00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:07,719
Speaker 3: got like mad again I about the like I want likes,

649
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:09,120
Speaker 3: I'm not getting paid for this, and I'm like, I

650
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 3: just like the fucking picture, dude, and like he tried

651
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:13,840
Speaker 3: to retaliate by like pocusting on his story, so I'm

652
00:30:13,880 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 3: like sexy photo and I was like, first of all, no,

653
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:20,400
Speaker 3: this is thirsty and I think his friends make fun

654
00:30:20,400 --> 00:30:20,640
Speaker 3: of him.

655
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:22,760
Speaker 2: And he took it down, but he saw the picture.

656
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 2: He did he showed it to me. Oh yeah, he

657
00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:27,000
Speaker 2: was trying to be he was trying to be spiteful.

658
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:32,080
Speaker 2: I thought it was funny and he was successful. He

659
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 2: got hit like the thirsty bitches you know, you know,

660
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 2: commented the d m s because he'd probably be.

661
00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:37,479
Speaker 1: Like, wait, what's going on?

662
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 2: He never posted like what the first of all guys

663
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,320
Speaker 2: that takes nude selfies.

664
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: Or like promote it's not it's not it's not cute.

665
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 1: It comes off a little bisexual. I don't like it.

666
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 1: Don't unless I request it. Yeah, unless you're my man, Yeah,

667
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 1: but I just so yeah, I think that.

668
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 2: I mean, if you can't, Okay, I got the question,

669
00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 2: So the girl are you gonna read? So the girl

670
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 2: who messaged me earlier? My dan says, Lol, did you

671
00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:22,360
Speaker 2: get a boob job? If so, please tell me where

672
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:24,480
Speaker 2: you went? If not, what is your workout regimen? You

673
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 2: look so great? But what would my workout regimen? She

674
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 2: didn't know where to go?

675
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, she was like where witch were? The answer is yes,

676
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 1: I did get my boobs done, and they're bobs. They

677
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 1: really are bob. Let me let me see.

678
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're really squishy, they feel fucking real as fun.

679
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 3: I'm touching him right now. I'm really jealous. Actually, God,

680
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 3: I want some to as soon as I get my

681
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 3: money up.

682
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

683
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 2: Happy Bay didn't know. He was like talking about people

684
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 2: with fake boob or fake bodies and ship and I

685
00:31:56,640 --> 00:32:00,520
Speaker 2: was like, well you do know these ain't I? Well,

686
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 2: they are mine. They fix your body so well, and

687
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 2: he was like, what are you serious?

688
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:06,520
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, they're not.

689
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 3: That's my biggest fear that because I'm so small that

690
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 3: if I get my boobs done, it would just look

691
00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 3: round and corny. And not only am I so small

692
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:15,520
Speaker 3: I like to dress.

693
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 1: I don't know.

694
00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 3: I think I think that if I got my boobs,

695
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:21,680
Speaker 3: then I probably wouldn't wear sea through shirts because maybe

696
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 3: I would I would automatically think it would be getting

697
00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 3: too much attention. But you know, as much as I

698
00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 3: don't do things for attention, I have like gone, I

699
00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:28,959
Speaker 3: never wear bras.

700
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 1: I maybe own three.

701
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 2: I hate them, but there have only been a few times,

702
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 2: more than a few times in my life. Or like

703
00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 2: maybe I'm not where I brought my Merson and kind

704
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 2: of see through and I've noticed I'm talking to someone

705
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:40,640
Speaker 2: and I noticed.

706
00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:43,720
Speaker 3: Them notice my boobs, and then I'm like, maybe I

707
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 3: shouldn't have wore this because that's not the attention you're looking. Yeah,

708
00:32:46,880 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 3: because that really and that lets you know, like that's

709
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:51,240
Speaker 3: really not the attention. You know, I hit them with

710
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 3: like the crossovers.

711
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 2: It starts feeling like violating because they're violating like you

712
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 2: just live, let me live, or like I could see

713
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 2: your boobs.

714
00:32:57,120 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 3: I'm like, nigga, I know I wore this shirt. You

715
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:01,440
Speaker 3: don't have to announce it. Always something is like men

716
00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 3: never seen a nipple before, Chill the fuck out. Guys

717
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 3: act crazy like that's the problem. With our society partially

718
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 3: like we're so censored, we're over censored. You never see

719
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 3: titties never, like you don't go to the beach and

720
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:15,240
Speaker 3: see titties that they as soon as I see.

721
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 2: A little flush, niggas be acting crazy raby rape, yeah,

722
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 2: like calm the fuck down. Yeah. I think I think

723
00:33:22,840 --> 00:33:28,640
Speaker 2: like as far as like for me, like I my style.

724
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 1: I don't know what my style is.

725
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 2: Honestly, I think I go back and forth between sexy, like.

726
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 1: I don't know, like edgy, but I learned a lot

727
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 1: of black.

728
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 2: Sometimes I've I'm not one that shows that shows my nipples.

729
00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: I mean, I just it's just not. I just don't not.

730
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:46,320
Speaker 1: I just don't.

731
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 2: It's not because I have anything against Jamila doing it

732
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 2: or anyone else that does it. It's just not, well,

733
00:33:51,040 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 2: I do appreciate you well, I mean, I guess she'll

734
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 2: tell me everything. It's too much Like I have friends

735
00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 2: and I also have really big nipples, so I just

736
00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:58,479
Speaker 2: don't think. I just don't want to. I don't need

737
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 2: them on display. I one needs to see these. No

738
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 2: one needs to see these pepperonis I have.

739
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 3: And you know what I notice awesome are dms that

740
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 3: the men's response and it was only like two and

741
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:13,360
Speaker 3: the women's response were totally different.

742
00:34:14,080 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 1: So this is.

743
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:19,719
Speaker 2: This is a guy, because I got some really good responses.

744
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 2: Dressing sexy is a tension seeking period low male, I say, lol,

745
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 2: and I don't know.

746
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:28,480
Speaker 1: I can't help it.

747
00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 2: Male or female people dress because they want to flaunt

748
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:34,240
Speaker 2: what they have, be it skin and clothes. I wrote, false,

749
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 2: people dress how they feel. Yeah, because sometimes I want

750
00:34:36,719 --> 00:34:39,359
Speaker 2: to dress like disco sometimes just like sometimes I want

751
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 2: to dress like Sometimes I want to dress like dark,

752
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 2: slick New York edgy. Sometimes I want to dress vintagey

753
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:46,240
Speaker 2: sometimes I want to dress like a boy.

754
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:49,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, me too. And it literally expresses how I'm feeling

755
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:52,160
Speaker 1: that day. And I like that. I like to dress weird.

756
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 3: I don't know however I'm feeling because because it may

757
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 3: solicit an emotion from another person, What the does to

758
00:34:57,800 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 3: do with me?

759
00:34:58,360 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 2: Right?

760
00:34:58,760 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 1: Right? Exactly?

761
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:03,400
Speaker 2: Specially people dress how are they however they feel.

762
00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 1: Good or whatever I meant. So this was.

763
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:09,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, So this was a whole rant from a man

764
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:11,480
Speaker 2: that so he was going, so did you ever convince

765
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 2: him or no? He just kept going on and on

766
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:15,440
Speaker 2: about help. No, I'm not here to convince people. But

767
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 2: like so he was steadfast in his.

768
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:20,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh Jesus, yeah, a lot of texting.

769
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:25,319
Speaker 2: I can't tell how many times I've heard women say, wait,

770
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:27,839
Speaker 2: don't let me dress like a thought tonight, girl, I'm

771
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:30,960
Speaker 2: dressing like this to snag a husband. Girl, I'm dressed

772
00:35:31,000 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 2: like a crackhead, so no one will talk to me.

773
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 2: I mean, it could go on with so many examples, and.

774
00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 3: And men as well, will said, bru, I can't go

775
00:35:39,719 --> 00:35:42,359
Speaker 3: out looking like a scrubs say, man, do I gotta

776
00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:44,640
Speaker 3: go get all dressed up to chill? Do I let

777
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:46,360
Speaker 3: me just wear that beader and some jeans so I

778
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 3: can flex on them well.

779
00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:49,279
Speaker 1: Well, as corny as those sound.

780
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 2: Both men and women dress sexy or anyway for that matter,

781
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 2: to solicit some kind of reaction, either knowingly or subconsciously.

782
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:59,480
Speaker 1: Oh this is yeah. But but another thing is some

783
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:02,839
Speaker 1: people do. Yeah. Of course I won't say yes, some

784
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:07,319
Speaker 1: people do, but not over here. Damn. I had we

785
00:36:07,360 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: had a really good one this girl, like really, Although

786
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:10,360
Speaker 1: I mean.

787
00:36:10,360 --> 00:36:12,160
Speaker 2: And sometimes I do dress sexy because I'm trying to

788
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:15,400
Speaker 2: elicit a reaction. There's that time sometimes, like you said, like,

789
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 2: sometimes I'm like I need to remind this nigga, who

790
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 2: the fuck amn, like, let me show this every little

791
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 2: uh you know what I mean? And you know, and

792
00:36:24,000 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 2: that's fine too, But I don't. I don't think that

793
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 2: when once you get in a relationship or once you

794
00:36:28,160 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 2: become a mom, even the bigger picture, the bigger, the

795
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:35,319
Speaker 2: bigger conversation, because we're both moms and you know, I know.

796
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 2: I felt like sometimes like even dropping off Iria to school,

797
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:41,920
Speaker 2: like sometimes I'll be in the middle of like a

798
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 2: shoot at Beauty Wonder and I have all this makeup

799
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 2: on from like a and like maybe I just have

800
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 2: a taked up on, Like They're like, where the who

801
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:51,680
Speaker 2: is where is she going? Who is she trying to impress?

802
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:53,440
Speaker 2: And I'm like, bitch, I'm working. You know what, You're

803
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:57,319
Speaker 2: trying to press nobody right right. But it's just like

804
00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 2: I think more the reaction that the negative reaction that

805
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:06,760
Speaker 2: you get from what you wear from other people.

806
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:08,960
Speaker 1: I feel like it's jealousy.

807
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,239
Speaker 2: I think I think people and int and their own

808
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:16,960
Speaker 2: insecurities about themselves. Yeah, and I think that, yeah, it's projection.

809
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:19,799
Speaker 2: You're projecting your personal opinion on me and that has

810
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:21,799
Speaker 2: nothing to do with me. And so you're making me

811
00:37:21,960 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 2: feel And I told him that you're making me feel

812
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:25,399
Speaker 2: like I should like.

813
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:29,960
Speaker 3: I am like, my what my my like, I'm trying

814
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:31,959
Speaker 3: to get attention, and you're trying to make me feel

815
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:33,879
Speaker 3: bad for it, when, in fact, like I wasn't even

816
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 3: thinking that way.

817
00:37:38,000 --> 00:37:39,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think everybody needs to shut the fuck

818
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 1: up and stay in their lane.

819
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 2: But this other girl said, I said, is dressing sexy

820
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 2: automatically a matter of seeking male attention?

821
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 1: As girls?

822
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 3: I would have to see how she's dressing compared to

823
00:37:49,520 --> 00:37:54,719
Speaker 3: his version of less sexy. I'm like, right, I need examples.

824
00:37:55,680 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 1: I said.

825
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:57,640
Speaker 2: This thing got me scroll on my own page trying

826
00:37:57,680 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 2: to calculate my sexy wardrobe is the ship with my

827
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:01,480
Speaker 2: sexy wardrobe is?

828
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:05,319
Speaker 1: And shit, yeah, I mean I guess it's just like

829
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 1: a personal preference, a personal line or whatever.

830
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 2: But now, do you feel like you have to dress

831
00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 2: a certain way when you're out with Luna?

832
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:18,000
Speaker 1: Like? Would you not? Not? Would you not? Would you

833
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:19,759
Speaker 1: think twice about something you're wearing if you were out

834
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:21,440
Speaker 1: with Luna? No? I know you wouldn't.

835
00:38:21,560 --> 00:38:23,760
Speaker 2: This This bitch, this bitch on her at Luna's birthday

836
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:26,320
Speaker 2: party last year. She was dressed like it was like

837
00:38:26,360 --> 00:38:29,799
Speaker 2: a Mermaid party. Theinged this bitch had like she had

838
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 2: all like the highest stilettos I've ever seen in the backyard,

839
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 2: backyard barbecue through see through skirt and a bikini.

840
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:37,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna post the picture a bikini.

841
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:39,840
Speaker 2: I'm gonna post I have I have her story shot

842
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:41,400
Speaker 2: like this bitch, when you were in a stair three

843
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:44,359
Speaker 2: year old support, I still have it like this.

844
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:48,640
Speaker 1: Bitch, I was like, okay to me to get it well.

845
00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:51,840
Speaker 3: But a part of that is that dude, like my

846
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:54,000
Speaker 3: kid is gonna be the number one person who knows me,

847
00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:56,520
Speaker 3: number one. Like, I'm not gonna be like Banana Republic

848
00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 3: on Monday through Friday and on the weekend.

849
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:00,880
Speaker 1: Get the fucking houci gear out. This is yo, mama.

850
00:39:01,239 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 1: You think Mariah carries like unhooching it up when she

851
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 1: had kids. No, but this is just it. And you

852
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:10,920
Speaker 1: all know this is how I get down. So fuck everybody.

853
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 1: Take it or leave it? Yeah, take it or leave it.

854
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:18,719
Speaker 1: There's no such thing as mom gear. There is, though not.

855
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:21,880
Speaker 1: I refuse to be a part of that time. I

856
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 1: feel like there is a mom wardrobe. I hate it.

857
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 1: Whoever made it up it's like yoga pants. No, that's

858
00:39:29,440 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 1: it's an l a mom.

859
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,239
Speaker 2: These are kind of like mama jeans, like did do

860
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 2: you remember the snl S kid when they're like mom

861
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 2: jeans and it's like the food but right here, No,

862
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 2: it's so there's a mom.

863
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:45,040
Speaker 1: These are kind of mom jeans. But there's like it's

864
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:45,720
Speaker 1: so funny.

865
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:48,960
Speaker 2: You should you should you toom?

866
00:39:50,120 --> 00:39:53,600
Speaker 1: Have you ever had a guy bitch to you about

867
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:56,600
Speaker 1: your wardrobe? No?

868
00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 2: Actually I think several one won my ex before this ex,

869
00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:05,759
Speaker 2: but he was so insecure about everything. He always thought

870
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:07,799
Speaker 2: I was cheating on him. You always thought I was

871
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 2: fucking someone, even my girlfriends, Like my girlfriends spent the

872
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 2: night one time, and he's like, did you sleep with her?

873
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 1: I was like, are you kid?

874
00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 2: That was my ex that I was everybody, everybody. I

875
00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 2: was fucking everyone, like the old lady from down the street.

876
00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:23,480
Speaker 1: And this was even before I'd even like ever slept

877
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:25,879
Speaker 1: with a woman before. And I was like, what now,

878
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 1: so him?

879
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 2: But that was purely clearly based out of insecurity. But no,

880
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:33,360
Speaker 2: I really I haven't. But also I mean, like I

881
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:35,719
Speaker 2: said before, like I don't I don't think I think

882
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:39,240
Speaker 2: I dress. I think if people do think I dress sexy.

883
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 2: It's not because I actually reveal a lot. It's just

884
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:43,360
Speaker 2: because my body is curvy.

885
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 3: And you know what, I think it is to the

886
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 3: kind of people that we are, particularly myself, I there's

887
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:54,200
Speaker 3: something sexual about me in general.

888
00:40:55,320 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 1: About themselves me, I'm just sexy. I just oose sex opage.

889
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:03,279
Speaker 2: You know how many times I've been told that. I've

890
00:41:03,320 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 2: been told, like you just why are you trying to

891
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 2: be sexy? I'm like, I just got in the pool, bitch,

892
00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:08,960
Speaker 2: what are you talking about? I just got out the pool.

893
00:41:09,000 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 2: What are you talking about?

894
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 1: It's like you just shant to be sexy, And I'm

895
00:41:11,120 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 1: like no.

896
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 2: But sometimes when that like, I'm comfortable in my sexuality

897
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:18,280
Speaker 2: and that comes out a lot of different ways. And

898
00:41:18,440 --> 00:41:20,799
Speaker 2: when that's like coming out, it doesn't really matter what

899
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:22,799
Speaker 2: you wear. And especially if you're comfortable with having certain

900
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:26,240
Speaker 2: kind of conversations, if you know, just certain things and

901
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 2: people are people feel discomfort with that comfortability, and yeah,

902
00:41:32,200 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 2: I think there's some type of jealousy.

903
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:34,680
Speaker 1: And I've also been told I'm.

904
00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 2: Way too friendly, which she and I am, I mean

905
00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:37,920
Speaker 2: friends everywhere playing.

906
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:41,840
Speaker 1: Parenthood like the DMV.

907
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 2: Yeahs not I would agree or are too friendly sometimes,

908
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:49,880
Speaker 2: But then again, I had resting, but apparently I am

909
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 2: a bitch or a wrestling bitch face.

910
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 1: I wish I could adopt some of a resting bitch face.

911
00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:55,720
Speaker 2: Sometimes I would go to the club with the intention

912
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 2: of looking mean, and then I forget once I get

913
00:41:58,120 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 2: one thing at tequila and I've made.

914
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 1: Friends with the intention of looking at me.

915
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 3: Yea, I'll be like, I'm gonna be less. You're right,

916
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:06,799
Speaker 3: I'm like, I need to be less friendly. Guys storry talking.

917
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 3: I'm the girl at the club, like the guy you

918
00:42:08,760 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 3: don't want. But obviously I think you're friendly.

919
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 2: I don't mean, I don't necessarily mean like friendly and

920
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:17,360
Speaker 2: like meeting new people. I think that you're too forgiving

921
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:21,319
Speaker 2: with people me personally, but I care what people's feel.

922
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:22,960
Speaker 2: This like a guy who can follow well Bobby one

923
00:42:23,000 --> 00:42:25,360
Speaker 2: drake and can follow me around the club. And I'm like, oh,

924
00:42:25,440 --> 00:42:29,040
Speaker 2: I think that. Yeah, I think that you definitely are

925
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:32,359
Speaker 2: friendly and with random people. But I think it's I

926
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 2: like that because then I get to hear the stories afterwards,

927
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 2: like planned parentheadgirl.

928
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:40,240
Speaker 1: But yeah, you're just open.

929
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 2: You're just open, and you know that's a gift, that's

930
00:42:43,640 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 2: a gift that a lot of people don't have, you

931
00:42:45,520 --> 00:42:47,239
Speaker 2: know what I mean, I wish I had. I wish

932
00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,880
Speaker 2: I had more of it. I think spending time with you,

933
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:51,719
Speaker 2: I'm learning more of it. I definitely learn things from

934
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 2: you all the time. But I just feel like, I

935
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 2: think that you just have to be careful to not

936
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:00,719
Speaker 2: let any sort of man dim that light from you,

937
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:03,840
Speaker 2: because they will because they a lot of it, are

938
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 2: insecure and perceive it a certainly, and I think like

939
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 2: they can't handle it. It's funny because I was having

940
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 2: this conversation with Happy Bay and I love calling him

941
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:20,440
Speaker 2: that he was saying because he's so happy, you know

942
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:23,520
Speaker 2: what I mean, And and he was saying that someone

943
00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:25,880
Speaker 2: of his friends was like, man, it's going to take

944
00:43:25,880 --> 00:43:28,640
Speaker 2: a really special woman to be with you because you

945
00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:31,480
Speaker 2: attract so much attention.

946
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:35,240
Speaker 1: And you know, maybe it's a can't women and men.

947
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 2: You know what I mean, but especially it's going to

948
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:39,400
Speaker 2: be it's gonna be hard for women because of the

949
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:42,360
Speaker 2: women that you attract. You know, it's she'll have to

950
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:45,560
Speaker 2: be very secure, She'll have to be understanding and understand

951
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:47,879
Speaker 2: that this is who you are, and it's either you

952
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:52,240
Speaker 2: are going to find that person that's understanding, or you're

953
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:54,520
Speaker 2: gonna dim your light so that you can make someone

954
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 2: feel comfortable. And I was like, wow, that's interesting, and

955
00:43:57,760 --> 00:43:58,320
Speaker 2: that's true.

956
00:43:58,480 --> 00:43:58,919
Speaker 1: It's true.

957
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:00,440
Speaker 2: I look at him and I think and and I'm

958
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 2: conscious of it too. I'm like, I don't want I

959
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 2: don't want to be that person, like, yeah, go to you.

960
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 3: Anyone's like evolution and that's who they are, and that

961
00:44:08,040 --> 00:44:10,319
Speaker 3: I've become more conscious of that because I know I'm

962
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:13,240
Speaker 3: a particular I'm not for everybody. And in my last relationship,

963
00:44:13,239 --> 00:44:14,759
Speaker 3: like I haven't been in that relationship, and then someone

964
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 3: tells you you look.

965
00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:18,759
Speaker 2: So different from that from when I saw you. Then

966
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:22,160
Speaker 2: I had a client recently and I had met her

967
00:44:22,200 --> 00:44:26,400
Speaker 2: previously and I did her lashes and she was like we're.

968
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:27,680
Speaker 3: Talking and I was like, yeah, I'm not dating that

969
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:29,919
Speaker 3: person anymore. And she's like, that's crazy because I could

970
00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:32,880
Speaker 3: tell you look different. You look lighter, you look happier,

971
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:35,319
Speaker 3: you look like you're like you didn't look that way

972
00:44:35,360 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 3: when I met you before.

973
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 1: And I'm like, but that's because people. Relationships can really.

974
00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 3: Dim some fucking light if you let them, and you people,

975
00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:45,040
Speaker 3: we should be like super conscious of that, like obviously

976
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 3: there's compromise, but like, who you are is who you are,

977
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:51,800
Speaker 3: and if people can't handle that, don't ever allow someone

978
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:55,320
Speaker 3: to like remove remove those core things in you.

979
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:57,279
Speaker 1: Like even for me, I have to remind myself even

980
00:44:57,280 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 1: with my.

981
00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 3: Very like conservative friends or whatever, like just because you

982
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 3: don't understand how I move or what I choose to

983
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:07,800
Speaker 3: wear or how like, don't don't give me your negative

984
00:45:07,840 --> 00:45:10,479
Speaker 3: opinion because you people may not even realize they're giving

985
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 3: it to you from a place of misunderstanding.

986
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:19,520
Speaker 1: So yeah, that's important. Yeah, I don't know. I don't

987
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:23,239
Speaker 1: take away. Don't take away happy vase shine, No, absolutely not.

988
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 1: That's like why I love him. I think it is

989
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:27,920
Speaker 1: a cancer thing, you know, like it's a June cancer,

990
00:45:28,000 --> 00:45:31,319
Speaker 1: July cancer. Yeah, I think it's a June cancer thing. Yeah.

991
00:45:31,320 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 2: That's why I'm so attracted to him because of that,

992
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 2: and because he can he can just walk into a

993
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:44,120
Speaker 2: room and just embrace everyone.

994
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:44,960
Speaker 1: I love that.

995
00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:50,360
Speaker 2: You know, have you you have to like or like

996
00:45:50,480 --> 00:45:52,880
Speaker 2: who gonta be there?

997
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:54,799
Speaker 1: How long are you? I'm listening to the car?

998
00:45:57,040 --> 00:46:00,880
Speaker 2: Why by Like, can you just be fun normal and

999
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 2: say hi to people like a goddamn adult? This is

1000
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:06,239
Speaker 2: not high school and you do not have beef with

1001
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:08,399
Speaker 2: anybody at the party, Okay, you not need to bring

1002
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 2: your homeboys so you can feel No, the whole thing

1003
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:13,440
Speaker 2: is that they don't know anybody, and that's where people

1004
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:15,799
Speaker 2: start to feel uncomfortable. And I get it because I like,

1005
00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:18,680
Speaker 2: I am socially awkward and I'm moody, and I'm moody bitch.

1006
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:24,960
Speaker 2: Some days, like I want to be you know, sometimes

1007
00:46:25,000 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 2: I can, you know, move through a room so easily

1008
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 2: meet everyone, talk to everyone, and then some days I

1009
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:34,640
Speaker 2: feel like I can't. And it's not it's not even moody,

1010
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:36,920
Speaker 2: it's just sometimes I just feel like suddenly my like my,

1011
00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:40,480
Speaker 2: I have social anxiety, and sometimes my social anxiety will

1012
00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:42,720
Speaker 2: kick in and I'll feel uncomfortable or something will trigger

1013
00:46:42,760 --> 00:46:43,719
Speaker 2: me to make me feel like.

1014
00:46:43,960 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 1: You think it's weed, No, because sometimes there's been times

1015
00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 1: I have to smoked weed and then I get way

1016
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:50,600
Speaker 1: too in my head and around a group of people

1017
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:54,759
Speaker 1: and I'm like overthinking, like people perceiving me. Yeah, of

1018
00:46:54,800 --> 00:46:55,480
Speaker 1: course there's that.

1019
00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:58,319
Speaker 2: But I think even without smoking weed, I've seen the

1020
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 2: shift in me, and it's usual I've tried to like

1021
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 2: be aware of like what is it that makes me

1022
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:07,880
Speaker 2: more open than other times. And I think some of

1023
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 2: it is obviously the people in the room, right, and

1024
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:14,240
Speaker 2: then it can just be something that happened to me earlier.

1025
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:20,480
Speaker 2: I'm really bad at like separating. Like I think I've

1026
00:47:20,480 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 2: gotten better, but like I'm bad. I used to be

1027
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:25,640
Speaker 2: really bad at like bringing whatever happened earlier.

1028
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:26,719
Speaker 1: With me all throughout my day.

1029
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:28,960
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like not releasing it. Like something one bad

1030
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:30,879
Speaker 2: thing happens and it can shift your whole mode. Yeah,

1031
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:34,640
Speaker 2: like today something like like kind of like I woke

1032
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 2: up this morning feeling really great, and then something kind

1033
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:41,359
Speaker 2: of like made me feel really weird, and then something

1034
00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 2: else made me feel weird, and then I went to

1035
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:44,680
Speaker 2: the gym and I was like, you're not gonna I

1036
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:46,640
Speaker 2: was like having a conversation with myself. I was like,

1037
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:49,279
Speaker 2: you're not doing this today, bitch, you're not bringing this shit.

1038
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 1: You have to go.

1039
00:47:50,120 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 2: You're bucking up with Mila, You're doing some really great shit,

1040
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:54,680
Speaker 2: Like no, you're not doing this.

1041
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 1: And I was able to let it go.

1042
00:47:57,040 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 2: And that's like I've come a long way with that

1043
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:00,640
Speaker 2: because I haven't always been able to do that, and

1044
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:02,680
Speaker 2: it's still it's still to be tested. How I do

1045
00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:05,440
Speaker 2: that in a relationship, because I will say, like I

1046
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 2: used to, I would in my past and my own

1047
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:09,640
Speaker 2: past relationship, I would take out whatever the days shipped

1048
00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:12,319
Speaker 2: onto my my partner. Whereas, like I have to say,

1049
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:14,080
Speaker 2: my ex never did that to me. He really didn't

1050
00:48:14,120 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 2: like if he had a fucked up day, like he

1051
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:19,319
Speaker 2: wouldn't come home with it. Yeah, I do that.

1052
00:48:19,360 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 1: I would do that. It's easiest to take out the

1053
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 1: people you love. Yeah, of course it's important to be

1054
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:27,439
Speaker 1: conscious of that with our kids too, But I can't.

1055
00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 2: But I've never been the type that even if I

1056
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:31,600
Speaker 2: wasn't a socially awkward, I'm not.

1057
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:33,359
Speaker 1: You don't need a babysit me. I'll figure it out.

1058
00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:34,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'll be quiet.

1059
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:36,839
Speaker 2: I'll be quiet in the corner and I'll be good,

1060
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:40,720
Speaker 2: like I'm totally fine. Or I'll meet some one arobabalyst,

1061
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:44,760
Speaker 2: meet one person. I'm you know, we're not gonna. I'll

1062
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 2: never ever say can we go? I hate I will

1063
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,439
Speaker 2: leave by myself if I will not say that. No, No,

1064
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 2: that's one thing I will say. Despite everybody young, Day's

1065
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:57,800
Speaker 2: actually really nice guy. I know everyone got the wrong impression.

1066
00:48:57,800 --> 00:49:00,400
Speaker 2: Everyone's like it's young thing. I think that's why he

1067
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:03,319
Speaker 2: was mad. He knew I was like people, of course

1068
00:49:03,320 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 2: they do. But one thing I will say, much like

1069
00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:10,760
Speaker 2: happy Bait, I could take this thing anywhere. He's happy.

1070
00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 2: People like him. He's funny. He can like we can

1071
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:16,440
Speaker 2: go to a party and like split the room and

1072
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:19,120
Speaker 2: it's good. And I enjoyed that, you know what I'm saying.

1073
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 2: Like in that sense, I'm like, thank god, he's like

1074
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:23,960
Speaker 2: a friendly normal guy, you know, like you don't have

1075
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:25,439
Speaker 2: there's not all this other like shit.

1076
00:49:26,280 --> 00:49:28,600
Speaker 1: So that, Yeah, that's a big that's a big deal

1077
00:49:28,640 --> 00:49:28,880
Speaker 1: for me.

1078
00:49:29,920 --> 00:49:34,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, should we talk about what the girl the only

1079
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:36,400
Speaker 2: because I didn't pick up my kid from school in

1080
00:49:36,440 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 2: about twenty minutes, So pull up, pull pull.

1081
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:40,960
Speaker 6: Up the question?

1082
00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 1: Okay she said it was It wasn't all. Oh, it's

1083
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:48,239
Speaker 1: a topic. It was a topic suggestion and it was

1084
00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:52,160
Speaker 1: in our DMS. Right, yeah, shit was it. We need

1085
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:53,839
Speaker 1: to be able to title lease, I need we need

1086
00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 1: to star them.

1087
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 2: Oh it's her, it's her, she said, Hey, guys, love

1088
00:49:57,600 --> 00:50:00,399
Speaker 2: your podcast. Can you address the epidemic of mod men

1089
00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:02,839
Speaker 2: wanting their assholes? Eight just want to hear your guys

1090
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 2: opinion slash discussion on the topic hashtag fellow stoner Mom

1091
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:11,640
Speaker 2: or to the fellow Stoner Mom's listening power to you,

1092
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:14,800
Speaker 2: I am surprisingly very not high right now.

1093
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:15,760
Speaker 1: I'm very sober.

1094
00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 2: It's very annoying if he didn't have any But uh so,

1095
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:25,680
Speaker 2: this epidemic that she speaks of, I haven't really encountered

1096
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:27,480
Speaker 2: it as like something that's.

1097
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:28,200
Speaker 1: I haven't encountered.

1098
00:50:28,920 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 2: Okay, I will say the last guy that I dated,

1099
00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 2: he definitely told me that he likes a finger in

1100
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 2: the butt, which I've never heard any black man ever

1101
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:40,560
Speaker 2: tell me openly or privately.

1102
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:43,759
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think I've ever had a

1103
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 1: black man sell me. So maybe that is part.

1104
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:50,440
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe he's part of this movement, but I just

1105
00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 2: never I didn't know it was an epidemic. But maybe

1106
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:56,839
Speaker 2: it is because she's obviously encountered it. I've encountered it.

1107
00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 2: I mean I think I thought I could think a

1108
00:50:58,560 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 2: lot of women just kind of like you, like you

1109
00:51:00,120 --> 00:51:02,480
Speaker 2: kind of just like do it, see what's up?

1110
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:10,799
Speaker 1: Like let's to push their limits. Hey, Hi, I think

1111
00:51:10,800 --> 00:51:11,320
Speaker 1: it's great.

1112
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:15,520
Speaker 3: I think black men should be more comfortable in exploring

1113
00:51:15,880 --> 00:51:20,720
Speaker 3: like sexual things with their asks because for black eyes,

1114
00:51:20,960 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 3: like I'm.

1115
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:26,360
Speaker 1: Gay, not good. It's not gay. I'm a vagina.

1116
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:27,920
Speaker 3: I think it's good. I think it's just like a

1117
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:31,919
Speaker 3: part of the whole conversation of just being more open

1118
00:51:31,960 --> 00:51:34,279
Speaker 3: sexually and like everything is not fucking gay.

1119
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:36,239
Speaker 1: Oh I read you an article.

1120
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:38,319
Speaker 3: About that didn't need to be save it. Remember we

1121
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:41,319
Speaker 3: were talking because I ask you in the car, right, yeah,

1122
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:45,120
Speaker 3: ask play is it questioning your masculinity?

1123
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:47,279
Speaker 2: And I think that's a problem, and I think even

1124
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:49,040
Speaker 2: we have to get out of it a little bit.

1125
00:51:49,160 --> 00:51:52,200
Speaker 2: But like do I want to like strap on and

1126
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:54,680
Speaker 2: fuck my guy? No, don't want to play.

1127
00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:57,719
Speaker 3: With it a little Yeah, I'm into it. I've never

1128
00:51:57,719 --> 00:51:59,160
Speaker 3: had a guy ask me though. But I think it's

1129
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:02,719
Speaker 3: the rap music, you know, like eat the booty like.

1130
00:52:02,640 --> 00:52:04,840
Speaker 1: It's groceries, you know, but it's never eat his booty

1131
00:52:04,920 --> 00:52:06,759
Speaker 1: like it's grocery. That's true. It's the girl.

1132
00:52:07,040 --> 00:52:10,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's now it's encouraging black men to explore all

1133
00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:13,759
Speaker 2: holes of the woman, whereas you know, if it's even

1134
00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:16,640
Speaker 2: taboo for a while, like black men were didn't.

1135
00:52:16,480 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 1: Want eat pussy, you know what I mean. It was

1136
00:52:18,160 --> 00:52:20,279
Speaker 1: like I don't do that shit, you know.

1137
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:22,960
Speaker 2: I feel like Nigga's in the nineties, even though I

1138
00:52:23,000 --> 00:52:25,400
Speaker 2: was like a teenager, not even a teenager, it was

1139
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 2: a child. But I feel like older black men don't

1140
00:52:28,320 --> 00:52:30,839
Speaker 2: do it a lot, or they had that they do it,

1141
00:52:30,880 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 2: they always did it, but they wouldn't talk about. Well,

1142
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:35,239
Speaker 2: if it's a guy who see my posim and maybe

1143
00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:37,319
Speaker 2: he's he's he's too young, But don't you think that

1144
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 2: that is like something that was it? Like do you

1145
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:42,080
Speaker 2: think that men eating pussy?

1146
00:52:42,239 --> 00:52:45,360
Speaker 1: At some point? Do you remember more popular? Not more popular?

1147
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:47,319
Speaker 2: But it was like, yeah, I got more popular, but

1148
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:49,680
Speaker 2: that it was a stigma. They like that we don't

1149
00:52:49,680 --> 00:52:51,480
Speaker 2: talk about it, we don't do it. Yeah right, yeah

1150
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:53,799
Speaker 2: kind of. Even one time I dated a guy like

1151
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:55,960
Speaker 2: back back from the day, like maybe like in high school,

1152
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:59,080
Speaker 2: and he expressed me, I'm self friends with them and

1153
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:01,640
Speaker 2: he's no longer like but he thought like getting ahead

1154
00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 2: was like disrespectful to the woman.

1155
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 3: The fuck I know his I think his upbringing was

1156
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 3: like kind of low key Christian. He has something of

1157
00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:10,280
Speaker 3: my driving tattoo was satanic, But okay, yeah.

1158
00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:13,800
Speaker 1: He's not a good example, no, I think. Yeah, I

1159
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 1: also agree.

1160
00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:16,960
Speaker 2: I think that I think we're in a time right

1161
00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:22,640
Speaker 2: now where black people in general feel more sexually liberate,

1162
00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:27,680
Speaker 2: sexually liberated because I think it's been such I think

1163
00:53:27,680 --> 00:53:30,359
Speaker 2: it's taken so long because our black bodies have been

1164
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:34,399
Speaker 2: sexualized so much that I was sexualized fetishized by by

1165
00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:38,279
Speaker 2: white people, that we've almost felt like we had to

1166
00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:40,399
Speaker 2: like keep it to ourselves, you know what I mean,

1167
00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:43,439
Speaker 2: in some capacity, and now we just feel a little

1168
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 2: bit more comfortable talking about it, opening up about it.

1169
00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 2: I think my ex definitely was not down for the booty.

1170
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:54,799
Speaker 2: Anytime I try to touch it, you freak out, Like

1171
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:57,320
Speaker 2: even if I was just you know, kidding, joking, like

1172
00:53:57,520 --> 00:53:58,000
Speaker 2: you get mad.

1173
00:53:58,040 --> 00:53:59,840
Speaker 1: But I just grab the cheek. Now, the cheek is.

1174
00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:01,759
Speaker 2: Fine, and the booty, the booty grab is fine. It's

1175
00:54:01,800 --> 00:54:04,920
Speaker 2: just anything and going between the between the cheeks.

1176
00:54:04,960 --> 00:54:06,840
Speaker 1: This ain't ain't happening. But the guy that I was

1177
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 1: dating before, So you never ate your ex's ass, No,

1178
00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 1: do you eat ass? I have once my ex before

1179
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:15,840
Speaker 1: that it was more like we were.

1180
00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:17,840
Speaker 2: Young, We're like, let's try it, like look at it,

1181
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 2: like it was like funny, Like.

1182
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:23,520
Speaker 1: It was like, uh, did you like it?

1183
00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:25,359
Speaker 2: He didn't feel good, and he was like I don't

1184
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:29,839
Speaker 2: know what freaking like teenagers you were so dumb. But

1185
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 2: I think the guy that I was dating a few

1186
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:35,480
Speaker 2: months ago, like his openness turned me on.

1187
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 1: He yeah, it's a turn on.

1188
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:39,880
Speaker 2: At first, I was like really like, wow, he feels

1189
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:40,960
Speaker 2: really comfortable telling you.

1190
00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:42,879
Speaker 1: I know he was black, but he was kind of white.

1191
00:54:43,480 --> 00:54:45,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, But I was just like, I think that's why,

1192
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:47,800
Speaker 3: like that is why white men. I read this in

1193
00:54:47,880 --> 00:54:49,440
Speaker 3: GQ years ago and I was in high school, and

1194
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 3: I never forgot it. Like, first of all, like scientifically,

1195
00:54:52,080 --> 00:54:55,520
Speaker 3: the g spot the prostate does is an erotic nerve

1196
00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:57,040
Speaker 3: ending or some shit you can come.

1197
00:54:57,280 --> 00:55:00,279
Speaker 2: It's definitely in there, so it's science. But I've think,

1198
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:04,600
Speaker 2: like we said, bringing brace back to sexuality, first of all,

1199
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:09,799
Speaker 2: there's a lot of negative history with like sodomy, yeah,

1200
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:14,359
Speaker 2: and rape amongst the black community and slavery. So yeah,

1201
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:16,480
Speaker 2: that's why it's like fuck no. But I think that

1202
00:55:16,840 --> 00:55:18,359
Speaker 2: white men and women.

1203
00:55:19,640 --> 00:55:21,840
Speaker 3: Have the like the like they could they could do

1204
00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:24,080
Speaker 3: sludy shit more openly and it be more comfortable and

1205
00:55:24,080 --> 00:55:26,439
Speaker 3: they're not feeling so judged about it. And that's why

1206
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:29,240
Speaker 3: now as black people being a little bit more comfortable

1207
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:31,960
Speaker 3: to like explore, it's more it's more acceptable.

1208
00:55:32,360 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 1: But I mean it's not gay.

1209
00:55:39,480 --> 00:55:41,400
Speaker 3: We need to get out of that, and we need

1210
00:55:41,440 --> 00:55:43,440
Speaker 3: to get out of that saying that, thinking that, and

1211
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 3: you know, promoting that, And I think for men, you

1212
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:47,520
Speaker 3: definitely gonna get out of it or else I'm gonna

1213
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 3: find you.

1214
00:55:48,200 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 1: No, it's definitely not gay.

1215
00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:51,800
Speaker 2: And ever since that, the guy I was dating was

1216
00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:54,720
Speaker 2: so open about it, because I've always been open about

1217
00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:58,239
Speaker 2: sharing my bodies, my body in any way that my

1218
00:55:58,320 --> 00:55:59,320
Speaker 2: partner wants to repore.

1219
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:02,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how I feel having sex. The book is open.

1220
00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, like, let's try. If I don't like it, then

1221
00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:05,239
Speaker 2: you don't have to do it. I don't want to

1222
00:56:05,280 --> 00:56:06,799
Speaker 2: go into any relationship. And it's like this is my

1223
00:56:06,840 --> 00:56:11,720
Speaker 2: list of don't like I don't Yeah, like like, let's

1224
00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 2: just try it once. If you don't like it, If

1225
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:14,160
Speaker 2: I don't like it, we ain't got to do any

1226
00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:18,319
Speaker 2: But because of that, like at first I was like, oh, this.

1227
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 1: Is so strange that he's telling me this. What does

1228
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 1: this mean?

1229
00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:21,840
Speaker 2: I was like overthinking it. I think I've told you

1230
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:22,720
Speaker 2: about it, Like what the fuck.

1231
00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:23,080
Speaker 1: Does this mean?

1232
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:25,239
Speaker 2: And then I was like, no, this is amazing, Like

1233
00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:27,400
Speaker 2: he's just down and aren't we We had great sex.

1234
00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:28,440
Speaker 1: It was amazing I mean it was.

1235
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:32,400
Speaker 7: Very you know what, boundless, It was soundless, boundless sex

1236
00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:36,719
Speaker 7: is amazing, And now I feel like with whoever is

1237
00:56:36,760 --> 00:56:39,080
Speaker 7: my next partner, I need that.

1238
00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:44,000
Speaker 1: I want that, and like it's kind of a deal

1239
00:56:44,040 --> 00:56:47,440
Speaker 1: breaker for me in a way. I don't have a challenge.

1240
00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:49,839
Speaker 2: It's a challenge, but it's like if the challenge can't

1241
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:52,200
Speaker 2: be ever, yeah, then no, then like why I'm not

1242
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:54,719
Speaker 2: gonna I'm not gonna limit boring. It's gonna be b

1243
00:56:55,040 --> 00:56:56,200
Speaker 2: what a boring sex life?

1244
00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:56,680
Speaker 1: We're gonna have it.

1245
00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:58,840
Speaker 2: And I'm not saying ass eating is like the is

1246
00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:04,319
Speaker 2: like I don't want to borg no, but I don't

1247
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:05,719
Speaker 2: even mean to side, Like if you won't do that,

1248
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:06,600
Speaker 2: what else won't you do?

1249
00:57:06,640 --> 00:57:07,279
Speaker 1: You know what I mean?

1250
00:57:07,360 --> 00:57:10,399
Speaker 2: It's like and that's not to say everybody doesn't want

1251
00:57:10,440 --> 00:57:12,239
Speaker 2: their ass eight. Sometimes you don't like it, and that's

1252
00:57:12,280 --> 00:57:14,279
Speaker 2: fine too, but I know what I mean. But but

1253
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:17,360
Speaker 2: some people don't and that's okay, it's just not their thing.

1254
00:57:17,480 --> 00:57:18,720
Speaker 2: Everyone everyone gets.

1255
00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:21,240
Speaker 1: Pleasure in different ways. You know, just try it. I

1256
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:22,280
Speaker 1: totally encourage it.

1257
00:57:22,280 --> 00:57:25,480
Speaker 2: I fully encourage men and women to try it, and

1258
00:57:25,600 --> 00:57:28,080
Speaker 2: I'm definitely gonna try it with Happy Bay, you know,

1259
00:57:28,200 --> 00:57:30,920
Speaker 2: he's not down for that, he told me, So what

1260
00:57:30,920 --> 00:57:31,480
Speaker 2: are you gonna do?

1261
00:57:31,680 --> 00:57:32,040
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1262
00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:34,880
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to break it down because he's pretty

1263
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:39,000
Speaker 2: fucking amazing. Yeah, that's gotta Young Bay teld me no too,

1264
00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:42,520
Speaker 2: but I have a master plant. Okay that movie doesn't listen,

1265
00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 2: and like, bitch, please shut the fuck up about me, Like,

1266
00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:47,400
Speaker 2: can you get an He's gonna.

1267
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:48,760
Speaker 1: Perfect just graze.

1268
00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:52,400
Speaker 2: I'm gonna start with lots of ass grabbing, so like yeah, okay,

1269
00:57:52,440 --> 00:57:54,880
Speaker 2: so okay, introductory ass plant.

1270
00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:56,520
Speaker 1: If you like, you know how you have a sex

1271
00:57:56,560 --> 00:57:58,760
Speaker 1: there on top and you grab the ass, just go.

1272
00:57:58,760 --> 00:58:01,760
Speaker 2: A little more into the crackage, just that one time

1273
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:03,080
Speaker 2: and see how I feel comfortable.

1274
00:58:03,080 --> 00:58:05,600
Speaker 1: You gets like a light or like if you're giving

1275
00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:06,240
Speaker 1: a head and.

1276
00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:07,920
Speaker 2: You're going and going for the balls, maybe like a

1277
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:12,920
Speaker 2: little a little a little farther up just maybe I

1278
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:15,280
Speaker 2: just my my fears that like what if he isn't prepared,

1279
00:58:16,520 --> 00:58:17,600
Speaker 2: will shower first?

1280
00:58:17,720 --> 00:58:20,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, like you can make sure we both shower only things.

1281
00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:21,720
Speaker 2: Maybe even get in the shower and make sure it's

1282
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:24,920
Speaker 2: scrubbed down like you do the scrap Let me baby,

1283
00:58:25,480 --> 00:58:25,960
Speaker 2: you know, like.

1284
00:58:25,920 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 1: That's another thing. This is this is like a back

1285
00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 1: to like the shitting thing.

1286
00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:30,280
Speaker 3: And this is this is when you're reaching levels of

1287
00:58:30,320 --> 00:58:34,200
Speaker 3: comfortability where you know it's getting serious, because yeah, I

1288
00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:35,680
Speaker 3: need to like make sure the.

1289
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:37,000
Speaker 1: Ad is very clean.

1290
00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:39,360
Speaker 3: I mean, I hope that's in general what you're doing,

1291
00:58:39,400 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 3: but you know, if you're preparing to lick it, this

1292
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:42,720
Speaker 3: is very important.

1293
00:58:43,480 --> 00:58:45,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll see.

1294
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:49,400
Speaker 2: This is to be continued conversation on my side currently

1295
00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:50,920
Speaker 2: sexually with this person.

1296
00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:54,160
Speaker 1: But I think that, Yeah, I don't know. I mean,

1297
00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:55,920
Speaker 1: if young Way never lets me do it, am I

1298
00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:56,520
Speaker 1: gonna die?

1299
00:58:57,080 --> 00:58:59,920
Speaker 2: No? I mean in my last relationship, we never did

1300
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:03,480
Speaker 2: and it wasn't even like a it wasn't like a thing.

1301
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Speaker 1: I mean he did it to me but all the time. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I guess if you're doing to me, I'm not kidding. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's enough. If somebody was unwilling.

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Speaker 4: To eat, I think he only ate my ass like

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Speaker 4: a few times.

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Speaker 2: I'm into it. It took years to get there, though

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Speaker 2: I'm into all types of freak shit. Though it took

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00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 2: years to get there. It feels good, No, it does

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Speaker 2: the first time someone ever did it to me, I.

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Speaker 1: Was like, oh, oh, but you have to be comfortable.

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00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:35,080
Speaker 2: This guy was like, this was the first time we

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00:59:35,120 --> 00:59:36,760
Speaker 2: ever had sex, and I was like, oh, this, what's

1313
00:59:36,760 --> 00:59:39,360
Speaker 2: happening that that? Honestly, that sex that I had with

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Speaker 2: that person was maybe the best sex of my life.

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Speaker 2: He did things to me that I was like, well,

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Speaker 2: what else did he do?

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Speaker 1: Girl?

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Speaker 2: He did like we did sixty nine. But then we

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Speaker 2: stood up in a handstand. Oh yeah, I've done that,

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Speaker 2: like where my ass was. Yeah, he was holding your

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00:59:52,240 --> 00:59:52,800
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: I was like, what how did we get here? Wow?

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00:59:56,200 --> 00:59:58,040
Speaker 1: This is amazing aatic I've done that.

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Speaker 2: This was all on the first date. Like that kind

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Speaker 2: of is sexy too, Like, oh, there's there's levels to this. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and you were into like if this is day one, yeah,

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Speaker 2: day thirty. Yeah, we ended it.

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Speaker 1: We ended it there. We never got there. We never

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Speaker 1: got there.

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Speaker 2: There are other problems, but but yeah, I think I

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01:00:20,560 --> 01:00:23,280
Speaker 2: think anything you do you should put your best foot forward.

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Speaker 1: M sex included your best finger, your best looking, and you.

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Speaker 2: Should be honest about sexual compatibility, like DOSO, Like one

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Speaker 2: of the number one reasons for divorce is like not

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Speaker 2: sexually compatible. To be honest, if you like level ten freaky,

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Speaker 2: you can't You're not gonna like date a level five

1337
01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:43,800
Speaker 2: freaky guy, just cut it off in the beginning.

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Speaker 1: If they can't come out of their shell, fuck them. No,

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Speaker 1: that's so true.

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01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:50,680
Speaker 2: I'd swear that that is like that is probably one

1341
01:00:50,720 --> 01:00:54,440
Speaker 2: of the biggest reasons for cheating for divorce, one of

1342
01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:57,600
Speaker 2: the biggest reasons for divorce. I mean yeah, because you

1343
01:00:57,640 --> 01:00:59,320
Speaker 2: fall in love with other aspects of it, and so

1344
01:00:59,640 --> 01:01:02,080
Speaker 2: that's when the things you compromise. And for me, some

1345
01:01:02,120 --> 01:01:04,560
Speaker 2: people think sex they can compromise for sex, and like

1346
01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:08,080
Speaker 2: maybe some people can't. I have a friend who she date.

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01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:13,200
Speaker 2: She before she married her husband. She was she was,

1348
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:15,040
Speaker 2: you know, fucked around a lot, and like was a

1349
01:01:15,120 --> 01:01:17,960
Speaker 2: freaky When she met this guy, he was like perfect guy.

1350
01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:19,920
Speaker 2: You're just like safe, you know what I mean. It

1351
01:01:19,920 --> 01:01:22,320
Speaker 2: wasn't gonna break her heart, was going to treat her right,

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01:01:22,480 --> 01:01:25,840
Speaker 2: could provide for her. He was handsome. But the sex

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01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:28,240
Speaker 2: they've had, they've struggled with their sex life. They have

1354
01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:33,720
Speaker 2: struggled with their sex life. And she that makes me

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01:01:34,000 --> 01:01:36,280
Speaker 2: people not she's not happy.

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Speaker 1: I know she's not happy.

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01:01:37,480 --> 01:01:39,680
Speaker 2: I haven't feel like that's and you know, now they

1358
01:01:39,720 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 2: have two kids and it's I'm like, girl, and I'll

1359
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 2: never forget my mom said to me one time, she

1360
01:01:49,320 --> 01:01:53,720
Speaker 2: was like, Erica, never settle for bad sex. Like And

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01:01:53,760 --> 01:01:54,880
Speaker 2: when she said that to me, I was like, whoa,

1362
01:01:54,960 --> 01:01:56,840
Speaker 2: Like my mom never is, like she never really talks

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01:01:56,840 --> 01:01:59,560
Speaker 2: about sex with me. When she said that, I was like, really,

1364
01:01:59,560 --> 01:02:02,280
Speaker 2: this is yeah she meant that. Yeah, she meant that

1365
01:02:02,400 --> 01:02:05,480
Speaker 2: ship And I was like, whoa. Okay, and that's stuck

1366
01:02:05,520 --> 01:02:05,760
Speaker 2: with me.

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01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:07,760
Speaker 1: And it's true.

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01:02:07,800 --> 01:02:10,240
Speaker 2: And I hate to like base a whole relationship off

1369
01:02:10,240 --> 01:02:12,120
Speaker 2: it because it is there is so much more to

1370
01:02:12,240 --> 01:02:15,400
Speaker 2: a relationship than just sex, but it is a piece

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01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:17,640
Speaker 2: of it. It's a large piece of it. It's how

1372
01:02:17,640 --> 01:02:22,440
Speaker 2: you guys connect, you know, in an intimate way. And

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01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:24,920
Speaker 2: I think if we could just be friends, if we're

1374
01:02:24,920 --> 01:02:28,040
Speaker 2: just gonna connect mentally, right, and if you were in

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01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:29,640
Speaker 2: a real if it's someone who really wants to be

1376
01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:31,640
Speaker 2: with you, and they'll be willing to kind of like

1377
01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 2: try to please you and ask, hey, what do you

1378
01:02:34,560 --> 01:02:36,320
Speaker 2: want me to do and and vice versa.

1379
01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:37,840
Speaker 1: So hell, yeah, this is important.

1380
01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:40,000
Speaker 2: I know a lot of like I said in one episode,

1381
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:44,560
Speaker 2: I don't know like comfortable, comfortable love and necessarily the

1382
01:02:44,720 --> 01:02:47,880
Speaker 2: love that you you want to set don't settle, don't

1383
01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:50,560
Speaker 2: go safe you know, Like, I'm not saying everyone's gonna

1384
01:02:50,600 --> 01:02:51,960
Speaker 2: have every single thing you want.

1385
01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:55,360
Speaker 1: Absolutely likely not going to be that way.

1386
01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:59,280
Speaker 2: But there are certain things like sex compatibility that are

1387
01:02:59,400 --> 01:03:02,400
Speaker 2: very fucking important. You know what's important to you, And no,

1388
01:03:02,560 --> 01:03:05,480
Speaker 2: maybe sex isn't and that's and that's fine. Then that's fine,

1389
01:03:05,520 --> 01:03:07,040
Speaker 2: But then don't settle on the other things that are

1390
01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:08,600
Speaker 2: important to you, you know what I mean. I know

1391
01:03:08,640 --> 01:03:11,880
Speaker 2: sex is important to me too. I know communication is

1392
01:03:11,880 --> 01:03:14,720
Speaker 2: important to me. I know you know a few other

1393
01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:15,439
Speaker 2: Someone who.

1394
01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:18,120
Speaker 1: Can take my sexy dressing and dance moves is important

1395
01:03:18,160 --> 01:03:18,360
Speaker 1: to me.

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01:03:18,800 --> 01:03:21,680
Speaker 3: Take me as I am is crazy and you know,

1397
01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:30,280
Speaker 3: nude and free spirited as I am. So yeah, dressing,

1398
01:03:30,280 --> 01:03:35,240
Speaker 3: sexy and ass eating concludes our topics for today. We

1399
01:03:35,280 --> 01:03:36,520
Speaker 3: got to pick up Irin from school.

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01:03:36,600 --> 01:03:38,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, we got to go pick up the babe or

1401
01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:40,960
Speaker 2: not my wish. She's not a baby, she's a big girl.

1402
01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:44,400
Speaker 2: Excuse me, even though she is having one hundred milts

1403
01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:45,080
Speaker 2: houds yesterday.

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01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:50,520
Speaker 1: We are trying to we are putting together. Are we doing?

1405
01:03:50,640 --> 01:03:52,800
Speaker 1: We need to a happy hour? Yeah, we're doing a

1406
01:03:52,840 --> 01:03:54,400
Speaker 1: happy hour maybe like in two weeks.

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01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:57,960
Speaker 3: Oh well, I'm just saying, like November there's like holidays

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01:03:58,000 --> 01:03:59,320
Speaker 3: at the end of it. Okay, Well then, yeah, I

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01:03:59,320 --> 01:04:01,040
Speaker 3: guess so, like the second week in November, we got

1410
01:04:01,080 --> 01:04:01,640
Speaker 3: the second.

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01:04:01,400 --> 01:04:04,120
Speaker 2: Week of November happy Hour. Well, we're going to figure

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01:04:04,120 --> 01:04:04,680
Speaker 2: it out today.

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01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:06,479
Speaker 3: Well, I said it all out so that we could

1414
01:04:06,480 --> 01:04:08,000
Speaker 3: figure it out. In fact, I think we need to

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01:04:08,000 --> 01:04:10,280
Speaker 3: like make dates like maybe every other month or every month,

1416
01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:14,200
Speaker 3: and then that there's pressure to actually yeah.

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01:04:14,080 --> 01:04:17,480
Speaker 1: Because fucking with us? Okay, is anybody want to be

1418
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:22,920
Speaker 1: our assistant in turn? Because we're slow? Okay?

1419
01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:27,320
Speaker 2: Anyway, anyway, and have a wonderful Wednesday.

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01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:30,120
Speaker 1: It's actually really beautiful outside. It's nice for once.

1421
01:04:30,160 --> 01:04:32,600
Speaker 2: We're actually recording on the day, on the day of,

1422
01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:35,680
Speaker 2: and it's so nice outside and it's hot as fun.

1423
01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:37,560
Speaker 1: It's beautiful. If you're on the East coast.

1424
01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:42,880
Speaker 2: Can you hear the bird chirping in the background you're outside?

1425
01:04:44,480 --> 01:04:44,840
Speaker 1: Okay?

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01:04:45,000 --> 01:04:47,600
Speaker 3: Oh, and tune in next week to our Halloween episode.

1427
01:04:47,640 --> 01:04:49,960
Speaker 3: We've pre recorded that. It's actually really popping. We have

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01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:53,080
Speaker 3: a really cool guest. We talk about my pigeon experience.

1429
01:04:53,560 --> 01:04:55,880
Speaker 3: We go a little bit deeper and it's very witchy.

1430
01:04:56,520 --> 01:05:00,360
Speaker 2: So tune in keep your heads up for our half

1431
01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:04,320
Speaker 2: the hour in a couple of weeks, and yeah, make

1432
01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:07,960
Speaker 2: sure to follow us on at Good Mom's Underscore Bad Choices.

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01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:12,720
Speaker 2: Follow us there, and then our website is www dot

1434
01:05:12,760 --> 01:05:16,640
Speaker 2: Good Moms, Bad Choices dot com. And we also have

1435
01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:21,400
Speaker 2: a book club on there that I created, so go there.

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01:05:21,480 --> 01:05:25,920
Speaker 1: She's very proud of her book clubs. We do everything ourselves,

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01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:26,760
Speaker 1: our graphics.

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01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:29,320
Speaker 2: I'm very excited about my book clubs app And I'm like,

1439
01:05:29,520 --> 01:05:30,480
Speaker 2: she's like, did you did you?

1440
01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:31,680
Speaker 1: Did you look at the site? Did you see that?

1441
01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:33,200
Speaker 1: Tap at it? Did you look at it?

1442
01:05:33,240 --> 01:05:35,400
Speaker 3: I'm like I did, just because there's some really good

1443
01:05:35,400 --> 01:05:36,640
Speaker 3: books on there.

1444
01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:41,439
Speaker 1: She takes all day to like add one thing. Wig sucks? Hey,

1445
01:05:41,680 --> 01:05:43,880
Speaker 1: what am you going to get to add? We love wigs,

1446
01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:47,080
Speaker 1: hate you you better? But no, you know what? And

1447
01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:49,840
Speaker 1: square make it easier. Yeah, Square is hard. Yeah, it

1448
01:05:49,840 --> 01:05:51,560
Speaker 1: loves sexy. But I can't figure this shit out. I

1449
01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:52,960
Speaker 1: told you you were like, I got it, and then

1450
01:05:52,960 --> 01:05:53,960
Speaker 1: she was like, I give out.

1451
01:05:53,960 --> 01:06:00,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, are we old not a young? Technological, technologically savvy.

1452
01:05:59,800 --> 01:06:00,720
Speaker 1: And it gonna be nice?

1453
01:06:00,880 --> 01:06:05,800
Speaker 2: Okay, We're reaching Okay, And submit your hories and advice

1454
01:06:05,920 --> 01:06:09,000
Speaker 2: to Advice and if you have any topics that you

1455
01:06:09,000 --> 01:06:12,880
Speaker 2: would like us to discuss, like our wonderful listener who

1456
01:06:12,880 --> 01:06:15,360
Speaker 2: suggested the epidemic.

1457
01:06:15,000 --> 01:06:18,640
Speaker 1: The ass ass epidemic. Yeah, let us know because we

1458
01:06:18,720 --> 01:06:22,479
Speaker 1: love hearing from you guys. Anyway, we'll talk to you later.

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Speaker 8: You don't come house to me, He goes one around

1460
01:06:27,360 --> 01:06:31,000
Speaker 8: off and it goes to me, My boys show for me,

1461
01:06:31,280 --> 01:06:35,600
Speaker 8: but getta in a body like Groceres, but gettabidity sells

1462
01:06:35,600 --> 01:06:40,520
Speaker 8: to me like how to yellenes stell for me? Stopposed

1463
01:06:40,520 --> 01:06:42,200
Speaker 8: to be if he was me.

1464
01:06:42,400 --> 01:06:43,880
Speaker 1: So it'sposed to freak col

1465
01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:52,440
Speaker 8: Stopposed to be, stopposed to be, stop everything like it

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01:06:52,520 --> 01:06:53,200
Speaker 8: s posed today