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Here it is Strawberry letter. 31 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 2: Subject, I caught my boyfriend spending time with his wife. 32 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 2: Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been in a relationship with a 33 00:01:34,120 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 2: man that has been separated from his wife for almost 34 00:01:37,040 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 2: a year. She has filed for divorce, and he keeps 35 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 2: dragging out the court date because he doesn't want to 36 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 2: give her the house. He and I spend all of 37 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 2: our free time together, and I've stayed at his apartment 38 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 2: many nights. There were no signs that he wanted to 39 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 2: reunite with his ex. I don't snoop or ask a 40 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 2: lot of questions. I'm more of a go with the 41 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 2: flow girlfriend. I don't even mind that they share custody 42 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 2: of a dog, because the dog loves me. Lately, my 43 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 2: boyfriend has been out later than usual after work, and 44 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:10,040 Speaker 2: when he comes in, he's already eaten. He showers and 45 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 2: falls asleep on the couch. If I am not at 46 00:02:12,840 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 2: his place, we talk until he falls asleep, which is 47 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:19,799 Speaker 2: usually early around ten pm. Two nights ago, he called 48 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 2: me after work and said he had a bad headache 49 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 2: and he was going to take it easy and relax. 50 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:27,840 Speaker 2: A couple of hours later, I gave him a call 51 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 2: to check on him. I got concerned when he didn't 52 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 2: answer my text messages or calls, and my first instinct 53 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 2: was to go check on him. I got to his 54 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:41,359 Speaker 2: apartment and his lights were on and I could hear 55 00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 2: music inside, so I knocked really hard. He didn't answer, 56 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 2: so I went to my car and I was about 57 00:02:48,280 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 2: to call his mom when I noticed his wife's car 58 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 2: parked next to his. I seen it numerous times when 59 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 2: she dropped the dog off at his house. My first 60 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:01,760 Speaker 2: reaction was to bust out her windows, but that's so 61 00:03:01,880 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 2: out of character for me. I left him a voicemail 62 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 2: message to tell him that I saw his wife's car 63 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 2: and that I was done with him. He hasn't even 64 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 2: called me back to explain or beg me to take 65 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:13,000 Speaker 2: him back. 66 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 1: He said, he hates his ex wife, so how could 67 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: he do me like this? 68 00:03:17,160 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 2: Well, true, because he's just not man enough to tell 69 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 2: you the truth, that's all. 70 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: He's not man enough to do that. Period. 71 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 2: He just wants to continue to lie and cheat and 72 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:31,359 Speaker 2: deceive you. That's it. But because he changed his actions, 73 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 2: you already know that something was up. He stopped coming by, 74 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 2: he stopped answering your calls, all that he's working late. 75 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 2: Now that's a change in his behavior, so you know 76 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 2: you know something's going on. 77 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 1: Plus you have proof. 78 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 2: You saw his wife's car out there with your own 79 00:03:48,000 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 2: eyes and that was enough for you. Well let that 80 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 2: be enough, because you need to move on with your life. 81 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 2: He's back with his wife. It's pretty obvious they're spending 82 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 2: time together. He's kicked to the curve. I know it's ugly. 83 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 2: It's painful right now, but time will heal your wounds, 84 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 2: and this too, shall pass. So stop looking for him 85 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 2: to call you and beg you back. It hasn't happened yet. 86 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 2: It's not gonna happen. He's not gonna do it. Start 87 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:17,919 Speaker 2: putting your life back together without him. He's not worth 88 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 2: all of this. And remember that unless they're completely divorced, 89 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 2: there's always that chance that they could. 90 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 1: Get back together. There's all of all that chance. Come on, nephew, you. 91 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 4: Wouldn't have known nothing if it wouldn't have been for 92 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:33,040 Speaker 4: that dog. That's the only reason why you know all 93 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:35,960 Speaker 4: this evidence is because of this dog. Because when she 94 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 4: dropped the dog off, you saw her car. That's the 95 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:41,479 Speaker 4: only reason why you know her car cause of this doll. 96 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 4: And they share joint custody. I don't know no black 97 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:47,080 Speaker 4: people that share some joint custody by no damn doll. 98 00:04:47,360 --> 00:04:49,839 Speaker 4: But anyway, it is what it is. Maybe that's the 99 00:04:49,920 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 4: new thing now. But anyway, he don't want I'm not 100 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 4: gonna say he don't want you no more, but he 101 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 4: ain't quite sure if he don't want his wife no more, 102 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:01,480 Speaker 4: he's still he walking the lying all right. And yeah, 103 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 4: when you went by the house and banged on the dough, 104 00:05:04,040 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 4: you want to hear from somebody because women always want 105 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:10,120 Speaker 4: to hear it. Yes, they was in there doing it. Okay, 106 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 4: they was doing it while you was knocking on the dough. 107 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:15,359 Speaker 4: I'm sorry. You need to know this. You need to 108 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 4: hear it from someone that knows they was in nept 109 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 4: doing it while you was knocking on that dough. 110 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 3: And that's why. 111 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 4: And when people are doing it, they don't answer the 112 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:26,080 Speaker 4: dough and that's why. But let me ask you this, 113 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:28,160 Speaker 4: why why are you finish go in and get in 114 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:30,720 Speaker 4: the carr car. His mama, what did you but you 115 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 4: roll with them? You the roll with the flow girlfriend. 116 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 4: But now you calling anybody? You the guy in your 117 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:38,479 Speaker 4: in your car late at night and rolled over there 118 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:38,920 Speaker 4: and see. 119 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 3: What's going on? Read worry it? Boy? What what? She 120 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 3: wasn't worried. She was curious. 121 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 2: That's not he told me. He wasn't feeling well. He 122 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 2: told her that she was worried. You ain't go over 123 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 2: there with no soup. 124 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:53,400 Speaker 4: You ain't over there with no soup and some and 125 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 4: some nice uh thorough flu You ain't go over there 126 00:05:56,880 --> 00:05:57,160 Speaker 4: with that. 127 00:05:57,240 --> 00:05:59,719 Speaker 3: No, you went over there to see. That's what you 128 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 3: want to do it. 129 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 4: You knocked on that door and when you guess what, 130 00:06:03,080 --> 00:06:04,200 Speaker 4: nobody answered the door. 131 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:07,360 Speaker 3: That's when you really see. Yes, they were doing it. 132 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:12,640 Speaker 4: Okay, And and and listen, back together, just chill if 133 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 4: you just chill, well, no, let's not even chill. 134 00:06:15,360 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 3: He don't want you. You don't want you, and he. 135 00:06:18,440 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, back together, Well, I. 136 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 4: Don't even know if he want her. He just over 137 00:06:23,240 --> 00:06:26,159 Speaker 4: up for the time being. Really okay, I'm just letting 138 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 4: you know that. And he probably don't you want the 139 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 4: dog he don't know what he wants right now. 140 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:33,760 Speaker 2: You don't know what he wants out of it. 141 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 3: It's not the dog fault, but I'm just saying he confused. 142 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 4: He confused. He don't know what he wants. He don't 143 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:39,560 Speaker 4: want the girlfriend. He don't know if he wants the wife, 144 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:41,280 Speaker 4: him and the dog. 145 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:42,239 Speaker 3: You don't know what he wants. 146 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:43,040 Speaker 4: All right. 147 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 2: We'll have part two of the Strawberry Letter coming up 148 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 2: at twenty three minutes after the hour. The subjects that 149 00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:50,599 Speaker 2: caught my boyfriend spending time with his wife. 150 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:53,760 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 151 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:55,840 Speaker 1: hard Morning Show. 152 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:58,719 Speaker 2: All right, we have to recap today's Strawberry letter. The 153 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 2: subject that caught my boyfriend friend spending time with his wife. 154 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:04,039 Speaker 2: A young lady wrote this letter. She's been in a 155 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:08,680 Speaker 2: relationship with a man that has been separated from his 156 00:07:08,720 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 2: wife for almost a year now, not quite a year. 157 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 2: The wife filed for divorce and he kept He keeps 158 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 2: dragging out the court date because he she says, he 159 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 2: doesn't want to give her the house. So the lady 160 00:07:21,480 --> 00:07:24,880 Speaker 2: who wrote the letter says the husband and her spend 161 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 2: all of their free time together. She stated at his 162 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 2: apartment night times, there were no signs, no signs whatsoever 163 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 2: that he was still into his ex or he wanted 164 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 2: to reunite with his ex. She's not the snooping kind. 165 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:39,800 Speaker 2: She's just kind of a go with the flow type 166 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:40,880 Speaker 2: of girlfriend, she said. 167 00:07:41,240 --> 00:07:42,880 Speaker 1: But lately. 168 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 2: Her boyfriend, the husband, has been, you know, making excuses like, 169 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 2: you know, he comes over later and later, or he 170 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 2: doesn't come over at all, he stays at work late. 171 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 2: You know, he had a headache, he couldn't he was 172 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 2: just going to go to bed and all of this. 173 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 2: So she got worried one day and she went over 174 00:08:03,320 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 2: there to his house to check on him because he 175 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 2: said he wasn't feeling well, he had a headache. We'll 176 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 2: come to find out. There it's loud music playing, the 177 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 2: lights are all on, and then she notices the wife's 178 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 2: car in the driveway, so he didn't answer the door. 179 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:21,680 Speaker 2: So she's suspecting they're back together, and she wants to know. 180 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 2: She said they're done, so she wants to know why 181 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:27,400 Speaker 2: he hasn't called to beg her back, and he said 182 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 2: he hated his ex wife. 183 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:32,679 Speaker 1: So what is this all about, Junior? What you got? 184 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:36,080 Speaker 5: Because I'm just going to give you an equation. 185 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: You know, math have a lot of equations in her size. 186 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, let me let me just let you know. Wife 187 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 5: is greater than girlfriend. Just right there. Wife is greater 188 00:08:49,600 --> 00:08:53,079 Speaker 5: than girlfriend. She outright you why she know about you? 189 00:08:53,240 --> 00:08:55,240 Speaker 5: She ain't worried about you, And I can't believe you 190 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 5: over he had the girlfriend. One of why he's spending 191 00:08:57,400 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 5: time with the wife, the nerve of you to ask 192 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 5: why he's spending time. I'll tell you what us they're going. 193 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:05,719 Speaker 5: They in there playing age town a loud knocking the 194 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:08,479 Speaker 5: boots because wife is greater than girlfriend. 195 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:10,079 Speaker 3: That's not a problem. 196 00:09:12,559 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 5: They in the body rocket. Yeah, they're not worried about 197 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:19,680 Speaker 5: you because wife is greater than girlfriend. 198 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:21,320 Speaker 1: You think you think that's. 199 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 5: Something they're gonna be doing some more stuff that you're 200 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 5: gonna be mad at. You're feelna be mad a long 201 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 5: time because I'm telling what you're gonna do when they 202 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 5: take that trip to Cancun. And because wife is greater 203 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 5: than girlfriend, I can't believe he took her. 204 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 3: Took his wife. 205 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 2: U huh. 206 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:37,679 Speaker 1: The wife file for divorce. 207 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 5: Yeah that't that don't matter because but it's the wife 208 00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:43,240 Speaker 5: filed for divorce is greater than the girlfriend. See what 209 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 5: you're gonna do when he buy her another call? Because 210 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 5: the wife is greater than the girlfriend. I don't know 211 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:49,800 Speaker 5: why you're sticking. 212 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 3: Around asking questions. What you're gonna do he upgrade her ring? 213 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 5: Wife is greater than girlfriend? 214 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:57,719 Speaker 3: Hey, how about he going back to church with her? 215 00:09:58,000 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 5: I bet you're gonna be upset then because wife is 216 00:10:00,280 --> 00:10:02,559 Speaker 5: greater than girlfriend. I don't see why you are mad. 217 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:04,400 Speaker 5: What you're gonna do when they take a ski trip 218 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:07,280 Speaker 5: to Tennessee? You're gonna be mad for a while because 219 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 5: the wife is greater than the girlfriend. 220 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 4: Simple as that. 221 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 1: I don't I don't see how you how you mad? 222 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:14,400 Speaker 3: He what if he buy a new car? 223 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:15,880 Speaker 1: What you gonna do then? 224 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:18,719 Speaker 5: Because it's his wife, he has to take care of her. 225 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:22,320 Speaker 5: It's his wife greater than girlfriend? That you ma'am? You 226 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 5: man could stop asking these questions that and look look 227 00:10:25,840 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 5: that car you saw in the part of lot. 228 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 3: He could say that was that? Ain't the only one 229 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 3: they made with? 230 00:10:30,679 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 5: What you say in the prank timming that they throw 231 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:33,200 Speaker 5: the blue came. 232 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:39,000 Speaker 3: The white car? You have no idea? 233 00:10:40,720 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, what is you tripping forth? 234 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 5: He's spending time with his wife, not another girl. His 235 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 5: wife and his wife outranks girlfriend. You think surely you 236 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 5: think he ain't told his wife about his girlfriend. 237 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:55,040 Speaker 3: She ain't saw it. Bring the dog over there? 238 00:10:55,080 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, so it doesn't matter to him. 239 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:00,920 Speaker 3: He got he got the white and got the girlfriend. 240 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 6: What is it? 241 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:06,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, Tom, the dog know everything that's going on. If 242 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:09,120 Speaker 4: you talk to the dog. Yeah, if you get a 243 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:11,280 Speaker 4: conversation with the dog, he's gonna let you know everything 244 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 4: that happens house. 245 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:16,439 Speaker 3: The dog know anything, and a dog like you. So 246 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:17,600 Speaker 3: why don't you just ask the dog? 247 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 5: We'll till me. Yeah, she over here Monday, Wisday, Fridays, 248 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:23,560 Speaker 5: that's when she comes. You over here on Saturday and Sundays. Yeah, 249 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:26,640 Speaker 5: she'd be over here. Yeah. 250 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 1: So I like the fact that she said she was. 251 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:31,240 Speaker 2: She told him she was done with him, So just 252 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 2: be done and move on with your life. 253 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 1: That's it, it's over. Move on. 254 00:11:37,000 --> 00:11:41,080 Speaker 4: She But why do why do females and y'all just 255 00:11:41,080 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 4: tell me this? Why do ladies never just say I'm 256 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 4: done and keep it moving? Why do they have to 257 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 4: always have this this button up of closure to it. 258 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: That's what we like. We like closure, we like. 259 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:53,200 Speaker 3: But you're not gonna get that. 260 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:59,440 Speaker 2: You got closure, not all Yeah, right, I can move 261 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 2: on whatever by But she's saying honor to move. 262 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:07,600 Speaker 4: On, right, But she's saying she's done. But at the end. 263 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:10,400 Speaker 4: But at the end, what is she saying? Why is 264 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:12,200 Speaker 4: he not big and for me back? Why is he 265 00:12:12,240 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 4: not see? 266 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 3: What? What? 267 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:16,400 Speaker 2: What's her ego? That's her ego talking. You do want 268 00:12:16,480 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 2: him to beg you back? You know you do want that. 269 00:12:19,360 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 2: That is her ego talking. But the best thing she 270 00:12:21,679 --> 00:12:24,040 Speaker 2: can do for herself is to move on, be done 271 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 2: with him, Like she said, that's it. 272 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:29,480 Speaker 6: That's right, it's over, and she cares about him. Yeah, 273 00:12:29,559 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 6: that part with women. We care if there's a chance, 274 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:36,679 Speaker 6: if there's a chance or an opportunity that this relationship 275 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 6: it can be fixed or we can work on it 276 00:12:40,080 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 6: if she wants to. Then that's a part too where 277 00:12:42,800 --> 00:12:45,480 Speaker 6: women try because of the time invested. Women are about 278 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 6: all this time that I put in and again it's 279 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 6: time back. That's something that we do a lot and 280 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 6: because men don't do that. 281 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, that's it. 282 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 3: Surely you'll be mad. Wait can they spend time at Disney? 283 00:12:58,000 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 3: You really be mad? 284 00:12:59,160 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 2: All right? Look. Paster comments on today's Strawberry letter at 285 00:13:02,120 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 2: Steve BARBFM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the 286 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:09,079 Speaker 2: Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app. You can 287 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 2: download it right now. Now coming up at forty six 288 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:15,480 Speaker 2: minutes after the hour, it's Junior and Sports Talk. Right 289 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:19,280 Speaker 2: after this, you're listening to Harvey Morning Show