Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show,
Speaker 1: Jake is on the phone today for to catch a
Speaker 1: Cheater and he thinks that his girlfriend, Madeline might be
Speaker 1: cheating on him. They've been together for a year, and
Speaker 1: I guess they just moved in together. How long would
Speaker 1: you move in with Madeline, Jake?
Speaker 2: I've been with her over a year and then like
Speaker 2: like you said, yeah, yeah, and we recently moved in
Speaker 2: together about a month ago.
Speaker 3: About a month ago, Okay, So when did you start
Speaker 3: noticing changes, I guess, or like start suspecting her of
Speaker 3: cheating on you?
Speaker 2: I guess within the past the past couple of weeks
Speaker 2: or past two weeks, Like she hasn't really been home
Speaker 2: and she's always thinks he like working late, or she's
Speaker 2: at her friend's house even like on the week days,
Speaker 2: which is weird. And then for me, like the real,
Speaker 2: the real big like red slag is like she she
Speaker 2: doesn't want to be like intimate with me, and so
Speaker 2: like because I think something's going on.
Speaker 3: So she just always was like down before.
Speaker 2: Not to this experient where it's like like she doesn't
Speaker 2: want to even like kiss, and like I would ask
Speaker 2: her like what's up, and she would just say that
Speaker 2: she's tired or if she just wants to hang out
Speaker 2: with her friends, and like there shouldn't be an issue
Speaker 2: with that, and I mean I guess yeah.
Speaker 1: And so she was always affectionate before you guys moved
Speaker 1: in together.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, definitely more affectionate than nothing, that's for certain.
Speaker 4: Like it's it's it's it.
Speaker 2: Just feels off it and it kind of feels sudden.
Speaker 4: I don't know, it just okay, right.
Speaker 3: Intuition is a real thing that can definitely mess with
Speaker 3: your head too. So when you asked her about it?
Speaker 3: Have you asked her about it straight up?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I wouldn't say straight up. I just
Speaker 2: kind of like alluded to it.
Speaker 4: She picked up on.
Speaker 2: It and then like was you know, I kind of
Speaker 2: defensive and I don't know, but I haven't asked her
Speaker 2: like directly.
Speaker 3: It's a conversation to have, especially when you don't have proof.
Speaker 3: Then you know, is there anything else?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 2: I mean it it's just like when you're when you
Speaker 2: know you've been with someone for a year and then
Speaker 2: like you move in together and then things just change
Speaker 2: so drastically. Just it feels like something off and I
Speaker 2: think there may be someone else involved.
Speaker 4: Oh do you think that maybe?
Speaker 1: Now, this is just a stretch.
Speaker 3: I've never actually lived with anybody, so please correct me
Speaker 3: if I'm out of pocket on this. But like, do
Speaker 3: you get sick of the person you know right when
Speaker 3: you move in with them and you're together all the time.
Speaker 3: It's kind of like a honeymoon phase. You guys have
Speaker 3: been together for a year. Maybe she's just feeling like
Speaker 3: she doesn't have her space anymore and it's a little smothered.
Speaker 2: I mean, I might think it's like I'm all about
Speaker 2: like space just to say, you know, you know, you
Speaker 2: need to go hang out with so and or, But
Speaker 2: like it's constant and then when I like want to
Speaker 2: hang out with her, then it's like there's no room
Speaker 2: for me.
Speaker 4: So I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't know how to feel.
Speaker 1: Okay, do you feel like she's attracted to you anymore
Speaker 1: or not attracted to you anymore?
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't want to say no, But it
Speaker 2: doesn't feel like it right now.
Speaker 1: I've been there before. Man, that sucks. It's a little flaggy,
Speaker 1: for sure, Yeah, for sure. And so and when you
Speaker 1: ask her about it, she just says that she's just
Speaker 1: tired and stuff like that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just like just you know, I mean, I get it.
Speaker 4: You know, she's a hard working, you know, old woman.
Speaker 2: But like it's just we we made time before and
Speaker 2: now things are different. I don't know, it just it
Speaker 2: just feels weird.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, we'll try to figure it out for you. You
Speaker 1: already told us a grocery store she's a reward a
Speaker 1: rewards card member at so we'll do the usual. We'll
Speaker 1: call up and pretend to be from the grocery store
Speaker 1: and say that every single month, we choose one rewards
Speaker 1: card member at random who gets free flowers delivered anywhere
Speaker 1: to anybody that they want from our Florida department. We'll
Speaker 1: see if she sends us to you or to somebody else. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: sounds good play, son, Come back get your to Catch
Speaker 1: a Cheater next if you're just joining us for to
Speaker 1: Catch a Cheater. Today, Jake is on the phone and
Speaker 1: he thinks that his girlfriend of a year might be
Speaker 1: cheating on him. They just moved in together a month ago.
Speaker 1: So we're about to call her and pretend to be
Speaker 1: from the grocery store that she's a rewards card member
Speaker 1: at and say that. Every single month, we choose one
Speaker 1: Rewards Card member at random who gets free flowers delivered
Speaker 1: from our floral department, and we'll see if she sends
Speaker 1: those to him or to somebody else. But before we
Speaker 1: do that, Jake, why don't you catch everybody up on
Speaker 1: why you think Madeline might be cheating?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 2: Yeah, we've been together a year. We just moved in
Speaker 2: recently within a month, and then now like our whole
Speaker 2: routine has changed. She doesn't want to be intimate with me.
Speaker 2: She's always working late and hanging out with friends on
Speaker 2: even on the weekdays.
Speaker 1: All right, man, you ready to call her?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: Yeah, hello?
Speaker 2: Hi?
Speaker 1: Is this Madeline who's a Rewards Card member at? Uh?
Speaker 4: Yeah, hi, Hi, Madlan.
Speaker 1: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone
Speaker 1: call and cond of let you know the congratulations here.
Speaker 1: This must be winner.
Speaker 4: So what did I What did I win?
Speaker 1: Maybe I didn't know this, But every single month, we
Speaker 1: choose one of our loyal and great Rewards Card members
Speaker 1: to say thank you very much for being such a
Speaker 1: great customer by giving you free flowers to be delivered
Speaker 1: from our floral department anywhere in the United States. Absolutely free.
Speaker 1: You just won thirty six long stem red roses, a
Speaker 1: box of candy, and a card to be delivered to
Speaker 1: anybody that you want.
Speaker 4: Wow, okay, thanks, well, thank you. I never wear you.
Speaker 1: Thanks, So I can't say that anymore. That's the fun part.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I guess that.
Speaker 1: So here's how it works. If you know the person
Speaker 1: you want to send them to. I can take the
Speaker 1: information down in just a few minutes here over the phone.
Speaker 1: If you're not sure yet, I can set up a
Speaker 1: time to call you back.
Speaker 4: Yeah no, I can. I can do it right now.
Speaker 4: I can't get going soon anyway.
Speaker 1: So now, fine, if you could just give me the
Speaker 1: first and the last name of the person you want
Speaker 1: to send them to.
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, I want to send it to my friend Emily.
Speaker 4: Her mom just passed away, so I really hope this
Speaker 4: would absolutely make her like brighten her day. And she
Speaker 4: loves chocolate.
Speaker 1: So okay, all right, I'd love to offer you a
Speaker 1: romantic as well. That's just the red roses type thing.
Speaker 1: The other ones we can well, I'll pull have to
Speaker 1: pull up the other options for those, but I'm sure
Speaker 1: there will be different kind of flower.
Speaker 4: Oh I don't okay, I don't need a romance, one
Speaker 4: special special someone in your life or anything. So God, no,
Speaker 4: I mean if you only knew you Now, what is
Speaker 4: that supposed to mean? What? Hello? Yeah, what is that
Speaker 4: supposed to mean?
Speaker 1: That's your boyfriend?
Speaker 5: Jake?
Speaker 1: What?
Speaker 4: Jake? What? What is going on?
Speaker 1: This is actually the Jubile Show. It's a radio show,
Speaker 1: and we do a segment where if you think you're
Speaker 1: significan another might be cheating, you try to see who
Speaker 1: they send flowers to.
Speaker 4: That's what they say, Jake, you think I'm cheating, I'm cheating?
Speaker 5: Well, well what's what's what's the deal with?
Speaker 2: When he asked you about the love interest? And you're like,
Speaker 2: oh god, if you only knew, Like, what what's that
Speaker 2: all about?
Speaker 4: Because you're driving me crazy? Yeah, you want to know?
Speaker 4: You got me on the radio. You want to know.
Speaker 4: I think let's do it all right, boxed up?
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I can't stand living with you. Okay, you don't do
Speaker 4: any dishes. All you do is play video games. You
Speaker 4: never want to hang out when I'm there, So I'm
Speaker 4: kind of confused. You know why you would even bother
Speaker 4: thinking I was cheating? I mean, okay, never helped me
Speaker 4: say you never helped please. You never make a bed,
Speaker 4: You never do anything.
Speaker 5: Why Why is.
Speaker 2: This the first time that I that I can recall.
Speaker 4: You bringing this up? You've never bought this up to me, Jake?
Speaker 4: Are you brand now? Are you brand thanking now? I
Speaker 4: have talked to you about this. I have asked you.
Speaker 4: Oh hey, can you take out the garbage? Oh hey,
Speaker 4: you left your dirty underwear. Let's get the marks on
Speaker 4: them more again? Can you please put them away? I
Speaker 4: don't like seeing your underwear. You just you didn't hear me,
Speaker 4: were you? No? Don't completely direct. I have been that direct.
Speaker 4: You have been that checked out because it benefits you
Speaker 4: to pretend you don't know what I'm saying or understand,
Speaker 4: so that I do it anyway, because I can't stand
Speaker 4: to live until I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't think you say you say you're disdirect. First
Speaker 2: of all, this is the first time I'm finding out
Speaker 2: that your friend Emily's mom died. All right, Mike Doolans, Yeah, yeah, Why.
Speaker 4: Don't you tell me about that stuff? Like a busy
Speaker 4: playing Fortnite or whatever the hell it is talking to
Speaker 4: your friends on your little headset? Okay? Why would I
Speaker 4: can't even get your attention?
Speaker 2: You ex sect me to read your mind. Sometimes sometimes
Speaker 2: you're not as directed as you're saying your mee.
Speaker 4: Jake when the dishes, when you eat your food off
Speaker 4: of a plate and then you put it in the sink,
Speaker 4: or actually you even leave it just on the kitchen table. You.
Speaker 4: I mean, I don't know where you're raised in a barn,
Speaker 4: but you want me to tell you to put your
Speaker 4: played awake because I'm your mommy. Okay, do you want
Speaker 4: to go live with your mother? To live with your mommy?
Speaker 1: Do you want to live with them anymore?
Speaker 4: I don't know. Yes, I don't know because he is
Speaker 4: not the person I met in the stated for a year.
Speaker 4: It just seems as soon as we moved in together,
Speaker 4: he's turned into like this completely checked out slob that
Speaker 4: expects me to do everything. So I don't know that
Speaker 4: I want to keep living together.
Speaker 3: I mean he does bring up a good point, though, Madeline.
Speaker 3: Communication and being direct is kind of the key to communicating.
Speaker 4: I have been communicating, you know, turn that around. You
Speaker 4: know you ever heard of projection cake? That's you trying
Speaker 4: to be defensive and saying, oh, you never say anything
Speaker 4: whenever you're just not listening.
Speaker 2: I mean, you've been a little mean right now, but
Speaker 2: like my thing is, I'm being brady.
Speaker 4: You want to talk about communication, you thought it was cheating.
Speaker 4: You didn't bring that up over dinner or sit me
Speaker 4: down to have a chat about it. You call them rady.
Speaker 4: I did ask you.
Speaker 2: I asked you why why you're you know, why are
Speaker 2: you working so late?
Speaker 4: Why are so tired?
Speaker 2: Like I would ask you those things and you would
Speaker 2: just be like, I gotta work late, I gotta go
Speaker 2: to my friend's house.
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, last a few weeks, because it's pointless
Speaker 4: to tell you anything because you go with them.
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I don't know to say other didn't. I'm
Speaker 2: sorry that I haven't been doing my fair share.
Speaker 1: Of things at the house.
Speaker 4: Madam.
Speaker 2: I love you, and I you know I get it.
Speaker 2: What can I do besides verbalizing and doing what I
Speaker 2: need to do?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 4: Like? Are you are you doating? Why? I think you
Speaker 4: need to? And I appreciate your apology, and I'm glad
Speaker 4: that it seems like we're having an open dialogue now.
Speaker 4: I can't believe with the radio had to take us
Speaker 4: do it. But I need you to do the work
Speaker 4: to figure out why us moving in together has caused
Speaker 4: this behavior for you, because I can't do that for you.
Speaker 2: Okay, we'd be a little more open with our conversations.
Speaker 4: I'm open. I'll go to therapy. You want to go
Speaker 4: to therapy, because I'll go. But I'm not doing all
Speaker 4: the work to get us there.
Speaker 2: I just need to know that you are on the
Speaker 2: same page with us.
Speaker 4: Let's say, let's say we good. I mean, are you
Speaker 4: willing to go fifty to fifty and do things?
Speaker 1: Yes?
Speaker 4: Okay, we're on the same page.
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm glad things are working out. I'll put
Speaker 2: down the call of duty if maybe I can have
Speaker 2: some call of booty.
Speaker 6: Oh, I think you got to pick up the dishes
Speaker 6: laundering first before you start pushing your luck.
Speaker 1: There, we'll do it.
Speaker 4: Okay, we'll do it. Go ahead.
Speaker 2: You better bring a white glove by the time you
Speaker 2: get home, because this place is going to be like
Speaker 2: spotless nice.
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, I will.
Speaker 1: I'm glad that you weren't cheating, Medline, and hopefully you
Speaker 1: guys can work it out.
Speaker 4: No, I'm glad I wasn't cheating too.
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