WEBVTT - Ep 79 "Toxic Bae"with TaylorMade Speaks 0:00:03.080 --> 0:00:07.120 We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who 0:00:07.280 --> 0:00:13.640 talks back. What's up, y'all is a j thank you 0:00:13.680 --> 0:00:16.400 for tuning in for a new episode that we talked back. 0:00:16.480 --> 0:00:20.880 I show dedicated to you niggas and these holes. Hey, y'all, 0:00:20.920 --> 0:00:23.320 it's official, tam bam. I don't know if I love 0:00:23.400 --> 0:00:25.599 y'all this week because y'all didn't see me a single 0:00:25.640 --> 0:00:30.600 cash at for my birthday, So I'm junking. I still 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:33.080 love y'all. I know money tight. I know money tight 0:00:33.200 --> 0:00:35.519 right now? Shire a loaf of brad ten dollars. You've 0:00:35.520 --> 0:00:38.080 seen that. They a lot of brad about to be 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:42.199 ten dollars. Girl. Look, I'm glad I've been off carves. Now. 0:00:42.240 --> 0:00:43.919 I did go out to eat over the weekend and 0:00:44.240 --> 0:00:48.080 ate for croissants, But then how you off carves if 0:00:48.120 --> 0:00:52.839 you had? I know, Look, I had been doing really 0:00:52.880 --> 0:00:56.040 good the whole last I want to say, maybe three 0:00:56.080 --> 0:01:01.840 weeks no carbs and just car fist on Saturday. But look, 0:01:01.840 --> 0:01:04.840 I'm gonna be honest with you, bitch. Okay, remember the 0:01:04.880 --> 0:01:06.360 last time he was a corn and you was eating 0:01:06.400 --> 0:01:10.039 a piece of chocolate cake. The next day, I went 0:01:10.080 --> 0:01:13.160 and got me a boy knows from uh from public 0:01:13.280 --> 0:01:15.840 and I literally was sitting on the goddamn kick out 0:01:15.959 --> 0:01:18.479 for I don't know, maybe ten minutes, the beating about 0:01:18.520 --> 0:01:21.440 buying the kick mix up brownie mix, like I really 0:01:21.560 --> 0:01:24.760 wanted that. Boy. You know, it's like these little uh 0:01:24.920 --> 0:01:29.160 it's like a little chocolate, little hazel nut orange that 0:01:29.280 --> 0:01:31.560 looked like paint on the side. Yes, I love them. 0:01:31.600 --> 0:01:33.880 They're so good. I put him in the freezer there 0:01:33.920 --> 0:01:36.680 from Italy, so I trust them. It ain't an American 0:01:36.760 --> 0:01:40.280 me little snack. I love him. Girl, you sound like baby. 0:01:40.319 --> 0:01:44.120 They's in Italy and they put the chocolate on it, 0:01:44.200 --> 0:01:48.919 and they gotta put it in the freezer. I love cold. 0:01:48.960 --> 0:01:54.880 I like cold chocolate. How is your birthday? Weekend? Tell 0:01:54.960 --> 0:01:58.200 us about it was so much fun, so I um 0:01:58.360 --> 0:02:00.920 food down the Atlanta. I was my best friend. It 0:02:01.000 --> 0:02:04.040 was her birthday on the sixth, So at the nine 0:02:04.320 --> 0:02:09.240 six six, UM we hung out. We went to just 0:02:09.400 --> 0:02:11.720 had dinner at St. K and then we went to 0:02:11.960 --> 0:02:15.800 UH couple of clubs, club hop, a couple of sections. 0:02:15.880 --> 0:02:20.680 You know, nothing too crazy, come all right, little something, 0:02:20.720 --> 0:02:24.679 a little something. The Sunday we went to um, what's 0:02:24.720 --> 0:02:28.280 the name of that place? Blue Martini for their Sunday brunch. 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:31.080 Hung out there a couple of hours, and then that 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:35.440 night I went to a couple of bars again influence. Um, 0:02:37.600 --> 0:02:39.680 I want to call the ship, but it ain't call that. 0:02:39.720 --> 0:02:46.040 It's Sheba Sheba live on the African spot. Yeah, Shiva 0:02:46.160 --> 0:02:48.920 in living room. So that was nice. We had a 0:02:48.919 --> 0:02:51.959 good time and I fell in love with that song. 0:02:52.639 --> 0:02:56.640 Uh I go chiyo. You know what I'm talking about, 0:02:57.280 --> 0:02:59.960 block up burner burner, block up burner boy, burner ball 0:03:01.639 --> 0:03:05.320 and it's got Tona Braxton, Right, Tony Braxton. He sampled 0:03:05.320 --> 0:03:07.760 Tony Braxton song, So I want to go look at 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:11.560 that and he's paying her sixty and royalties for that song. 0:03:13.600 --> 0:03:16.799 Go ahead, Tony, get your back up. Yeah all right, 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:19.959 I loved you. I had a good time. I'm tired now, 0:03:20.400 --> 0:03:24.400 and typically Monday morning I'll be hungover, but this Monday 0:03:24.200 --> 0:03:26.640 I wasn't because I had did so much over the weekend. 0:03:26.680 --> 0:03:29.639 Sunday night, I was kind of like, I can't know more. 0:03:29.800 --> 0:03:37.839 I realized I'm Auntie. Was sorry, y'all. Look I don't 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:42.480 do much. I went bike riding. Let me tell you 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:45.000 all about me. I'm gonna be honest women, and I 0:03:45.040 --> 0:03:46.680 know maybe there might be a lot of women that 0:03:46.720 --> 0:03:49.320 feel like me. I don't want to do ship when 0:03:49.360 --> 0:03:53.840 my psycho come on, Okay, I really don't want to 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:58.040 do anything. I literally hardly leave the house and I 0:03:58.160 --> 0:04:01.680 knew and then be swell up like I just didn't. 0:04:01.880 --> 0:04:06.160 Sorry my friend, I missed your birthday festivity. Yeah, I 0:04:06.240 --> 0:04:10.600 was feeling away that he was not there. Other bitches 0:04:10.640 --> 0:04:13.640 with you. How many was it? It was like ten, 0:04:14.480 --> 0:04:20.000 that's a lot. I should have been twelve. I'm sorry, 0:04:20.000 --> 0:04:24.200 my friend. I love you, dude. Like next year, don't 0:04:25.640 --> 0:04:27.680 don't be missing next year because we're gonna be on 0:04:27.680 --> 0:04:29.640 the show. I'm gonna start it off like yeah, it's 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:31.720 tam bam, and I ain't fucking with this bitch right 0:04:31.760 --> 0:04:39.800 here today I got one strike. Yes you usually come. Yeah, 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:42.200 can I get a little like a little great in 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:46.000 the past this year, getting one grace past this year? 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:51.760 That's it. That's see. Look what we got going on 0:04:51.800 --> 0:04:54.520 in stupid internet news this week, Lin, A lot of 0:04:54.520 --> 0:04:59.520 scupid ship happened. So apparently there's this place called sessing 0:04:59.560 --> 0:05:03.400 Me Street, place for children where black kids are being 0:05:03.400 --> 0:05:07.520 discriminated against. Uh there is a video. Well it started 0:05:07.560 --> 0:05:10.760 with one video where these two little black girls were 0:05:11.160 --> 0:05:15.080 desperately holding their arms out to hug the muppet Rosita, 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:20.080 and Rosita basically says no period after she has just 0:05:20.160 --> 0:05:23.719 hugged some white children. And the look on those kids faces, 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:27.919 they looked just like very sad, you know, discouraged because 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:31.040 this muppet would not show them any love. And apparently 0:05:31.360 --> 0:05:33.560 it's been going on where all these fucking muppets, all 0:05:33.560 --> 0:05:37.600 these videos are circulating of little black kids being denied 0:05:38.520 --> 0:05:40.880 the love that they want from their beloved muppets from 0:05:40.920 --> 0:05:45.240 Sesame Street because it's some probably some racist crackers inside 0:05:45.320 --> 0:05:50.840 Rosita's body. So I got I saw the video, I 0:05:50.839 --> 0:05:52.839 saw then initial video, and I guess the mama probably 0:05:52.839 --> 0:05:55.200 put it out there and make sure she wasn't tripping. Girl, 0:05:55.480 --> 0:05:59.760 you are not tripping. And exactly because apparently there's been 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:02.360 don't know to three other videos that have come out 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:06.240 of them blatantly you know, not wanting to touch black kids. 0:06:06.240 --> 0:06:10.279 And how much of a bitch ass muffett do you 0:06:10.360 --> 0:06:12.960 have to be to try to get off on some 0:06:13.000 --> 0:06:16.400 little kids. You know what I'm saying, that's what they're doing. Like, 0:06:16.560 --> 0:06:20.560 could you imagine I would have just really upset all 0:06:20.600 --> 0:06:22.440 the children at the park because I would have been 0:06:22.480 --> 0:06:26.000 beaten Rosie the ass, Rosie the little head when we're 0:06:26.000 --> 0:06:31.360 flying across, Mommy is dead because her Muppet head is 0:06:31.400 --> 0:06:35.039 on the ground. When I tell you, I would have 0:06:35.080 --> 0:06:38.640 ruined the whole parade, like everybody for all the kids. 0:06:38.960 --> 0:06:41.800 Oh if my kids said everybody? Kids said now because Rose, 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:44.159 look at Rosie the Head rolling on the ground. But 0:06:44.240 --> 0:06:46.640 it would have been easy, though, because while she was watching, 0:06:46.960 --> 0:06:48.719 you know, marching on by. I would have just stuck 0:06:48.720 --> 0:06:58.440 my foot out Rosa. But why though, Like, can you 0:06:58.520 --> 0:07:02.119 imagine the like? Because they can't. They can't do nothing 0:07:02.120 --> 0:07:04.440 to an adults. So they're getting off on kids. Kids. 0:07:04.480 --> 0:07:07.640 You're sitting in your little Muppet break room and you're saying, yeah, 0:07:07.720 --> 0:07:11.680 I I hurt the feelings of seven black kids today. 0:07:12.080 --> 0:07:15.680 I'm so dope. Stuff like that. Yeah, and stuff like 0:07:15.720 --> 0:07:18.560 that to me translates to the classrooms, because who is 0:07:18.600 --> 0:07:20.600 your kids teacher? Your kids teacher could be doing the 0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:22.560 same thing. We've seen videos in the past where you've 0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:25.200 got a little black kid off eating by themselves and 0:07:25.240 --> 0:07:27.800 they got the whole table of white kids. You know, 0:07:27.920 --> 0:07:31.200 why is my child by by himself over here that 0:07:31.200 --> 0:07:34.840 that ship is Listen. I don't care when nobody say. 0:07:34.840 --> 0:07:38.000 I feel like the kol Klux Klan may just be 0:07:38.280 --> 0:07:42.240 like the biggest secret society in the world. You know 0:07:42.320 --> 0:07:44.280 what I'm saying. It just goes to show that there's 0:07:44.440 --> 0:07:49.200 racist in hate in every profession, even some places innocent 0:07:49.800 --> 0:07:54.400 as Sesame Street placed. It's always gonna be somebody who 0:07:54.440 --> 0:07:58.040 hates on the basis of skin color. I wonder if 0:07:58.040 --> 0:08:00.760 there was different people and each cost to him, or 0:08:00.800 --> 0:08:04.400 it was it just one person that they can identify, right, 0:08:05.480 --> 0:08:07.640 Like does one person wear the same class tum or 0:08:07.640 --> 0:08:10.320 do they come in as different muppets all the time 0:08:10.640 --> 0:08:13.280 exactly because I would like to know. And now you 0:08:13.600 --> 0:08:16.200 get to hide behind a mask. Looks like a hood 0:08:16.240 --> 0:08:18.960 to me, you see what I'm saying. While I mentioned 0:08:18.960 --> 0:08:21.360 like the schools and they're all in the day and 0:08:21.440 --> 0:08:25.080 police departments, like this ship runs really doctor's office. But 0:08:25.200 --> 0:08:27.880 don't be getting off on the low kids, I don't 0:08:27.920 --> 0:08:32.360 like that. I do not like that. Yeah, but we please. 0:08:32.520 --> 0:08:35.200 I hope someone figures out how to share who was 0:08:35.760 --> 0:08:40.439 Rosita that day, because at least we control their Instagram 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:44.120 and whatever they anything that got let's just suck it up, right, 0:08:44.320 --> 0:08:46.520 because they could very well keep their job because the 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:49.600 company is okay with that behavior. But we will never know. 0:08:49.960 --> 0:08:53.400 We'll never know who it is because they just don't 0:08:53.440 --> 0:08:57.480 take care. Don't take your black children to because they're 0:08:57.520 --> 0:09:02.240 not loved there. Nope, not at all. So what's up 0:09:02.280 --> 0:09:06.079 with um? I've read this article online y'all because I 0:09:06.080 --> 0:09:10.280 saw it initially on uh days Instagram page. So I 0:09:10.320 --> 0:09:12.240 went because you know, listen, I'm a gym and night 0:09:12.320 --> 0:09:15.440 I need all information before I passed judgment. So I 0:09:15.440 --> 0:09:18.640 saw this article and it says from Kim to Hot 0:09:18.720 --> 0:09:22.760 Cheetah girls, white people are retiring from blackness. Did you 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:25.839 read that article? I sent it to you. I might 0:09:25.880 --> 0:09:28.719 have skimmed over it. So on this article they have 0:09:28.880 --> 0:09:31.640 videos from different little white girls from TikTok, you know, 0:09:32.080 --> 0:09:35.160 showing there before and after photos there before when they 0:09:35.240 --> 0:09:38.960 used to wear big hoop airings, braids, do rags, basically 0:09:38.960 --> 0:09:41.680 when they had the black girl aesthetic to now and 0:09:41.720 --> 0:09:45.199 how their life is so much better now after they stopped, 0:09:45.200 --> 0:09:49.520 you know, acting like a black girl. And then now 0:09:49.559 --> 0:09:52.880 we see Kim K with the blonde here, Chloe has 0:09:52.960 --> 0:09:58.480 blonde here, very tan anymore exactly. M hmm. So now 0:09:58.520 --> 0:10:03.000 it's no longer a popular to be black, apparently. I 0:10:03.000 --> 0:10:05.439 don't know if I'm still enjoying it. I don't know. 0:10:05.480 --> 0:10:09.680 I can't speak for anybody else it very much. They 0:10:09.800 --> 0:10:12.680 say they went blond and lost their bb els. I 0:10:12.679 --> 0:10:15.959 don't know. I haven't been looking at Kim's ass, you know. Um. 0:10:16.040 --> 0:10:19.080 You know, Chloe has always been looking like something something. 0:10:19.320 --> 0:10:22.160 It's given much something to me. I don't know exactly 0:10:22.240 --> 0:10:24.360 what she looks like, but the chicken thing in hands, 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:28.160 you know what I think. In California, though, it's a 0:10:28.240 --> 0:10:31.560 thing to look ambiguous, like you can't. They don't want 0:10:31.559 --> 0:10:34.560 to look like any color for sure. Like she could 0:10:34.600 --> 0:10:36.760 be white, she could be black, she could be Hispanic, 0:10:36.840 --> 0:10:39.600 she could be nobody knows what she is, you know. 0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:42.319 I think that's a very much a thing in California. 0:10:43.000 --> 0:10:46.520 I don't know. But the TikTok trend is the ghetto 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:49.440 hot cheeto girls. That's what they call them black women. 0:10:49.520 --> 0:10:53.960 That's what they're calling young black girls. That's like the look. 0:10:54.360 --> 0:10:59.960 It's the ghetto che because they cheat, and black women 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:02.839 love black girls like hot cheetos. Like, so it's like 0:11:02.840 --> 0:11:05.840 a ghetto thing basically, So when they were looking that 0:11:05.880 --> 0:11:08.000 way with a black boyfriend and all that stuff, they 0:11:08.000 --> 0:11:09.840 were going through like the phase, and now they're like 0:11:09.840 --> 0:11:11.880 and I thought it was because their spray tape and 0:11:11.920 --> 0:11:15.079 be making them look orange. Look that part that too 0:11:15.320 --> 0:11:18.560 would be. I don't know, but yeah, it's it's just 0:11:18.600 --> 0:11:19.880 weird to me. And I want to have a whole 0:11:19.880 --> 0:11:22.400 show about this because I want to go into real 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:26.439 butts versus the bbls, like people who have real asks 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:28.800 and have to deal with, you know, asks in real 0:11:28.840 --> 0:11:32.240 life their whole life, like me, Yeah, exactly, I want 0:11:32.280 --> 0:11:34.280 to I want to talk about that. That's me too, bitch. 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:39.319 I gotta asked the loot me, but I want to talk. 0:11:39.360 --> 0:11:41.640 I want to have a whole episode about that because 0:11:41.720 --> 0:11:44.720 you know, that wasn't the beauty standard at one point, 0:11:44.840 --> 0:11:46.760 and what it seems now it's like y'all trying to 0:11:46.800 --> 0:11:49.080 take it back to another standard. Well, we know that 0:11:49.120 --> 0:11:52.160 black women have been in offices in school and it's 0:11:52.200 --> 0:11:55.760 always deemed inappropriate for us to wear certain things because 0:11:55.760 --> 0:11:57.840 of how our body shape. I went through that my 0:11:58.000 --> 0:12:00.680 entire life. I can't help it, you know what I'm saying. 0:12:00.679 --> 0:12:02.720 But it's sort of what we couldn't wear leggings in 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:06.160 high school, but the white girls could. I'm saying, yeah, 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:08.599 so like it would have to like you had to 0:12:08.600 --> 0:12:11.640 be a certain inch from your knee for you to 0:12:11.760 --> 0:12:14.400 wear it, and like I would feel like in school, 0:12:14.440 --> 0:12:16.880 like white girls could wear short shorts in me and 0:12:16.960 --> 0:12:19.480 not get in trouble. But if I did, I would 0:12:19.480 --> 0:12:22.319 get in trouble. And then who's that's not your fault. 0:12:22.320 --> 0:12:24.240 It's the grown men not looking at you that got 0:12:24.240 --> 0:12:26.800 a problem with it, or it's the women that's reporting 0:12:26.800 --> 0:12:31.640 it because the grown men, teachers, principal, whoever looking at you. Yeah, 0:12:31.760 --> 0:12:35.400 that that is not a child's problem. Right, But for 0:12:35.440 --> 0:12:39.920 whatever reason, black people can't just exist. We can't exist 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:43.240 in a way that everybody else exists without being seen, 0:12:43.440 --> 0:12:46.240 you know, in a sexual way. You know, black women, 0:12:46.400 --> 0:12:49.800 we just can't. So we're not seen as little girls. 0:12:49.800 --> 0:12:52.600 We're always seen as adults. Are Black boys get seen 0:12:52.679 --> 0:12:55.120 as adult men and it can literally be twelve year 0:12:55.440 --> 0:13:01.360 old babies. Bas So, yeah, they're a band and in blackness, apparently, 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:04.400 I don't know, I've always made go head on with 0:13:04.480 --> 0:13:08.400 your ass. I don't give listen exactly, gonna be just fine. 0:13:09.679 --> 0:13:12.120 I've always made the joke that the Kardashians made it 0:13:12.160 --> 0:13:14.240 okay for a little white girls, so like black boys. 0:13:14.679 --> 0:13:17.640 I really feel like they helped push that agenda, right, 0:13:17.679 --> 0:13:21.200 so maybe okay to like white men so we can 0:13:21.280 --> 0:13:28.600 have our You only want that swag, girl, They always 0:13:28.800 --> 0:13:33.439 everybody want that swag. Wait, speaking of the goddamn Kardashians, 0:13:33.520 --> 0:13:39.960 Tristan boy, your boy, he just kneed. I'm just I 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:42.000 was proud of trusting, just for living in his truth. 0:13:42.080 --> 0:13:44.800 At least be the whole that you always meant to be, 0:13:45.080 --> 0:13:47.880 like you know you've been holding to stop doing it discreetly, 0:13:47.960 --> 0:13:51.560 just be outside. Yes, man, listen, I don't know. I 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:54.200 do not feel bad for Chloe because you get them, 0:13:54.240 --> 0:13:55.640 you keep them how you get them in. That's the 0:13:55.679 --> 0:13:58.720 saying that man had a pregnant girlfriend at the time 0:13:59.160 --> 0:14:02.080 when you quired him, right, Okay, so now they just 0:14:02.120 --> 0:14:03.400 they have a baby on the way, They have a 0:14:03.440 --> 0:14:07.400 boil in a way via surrogant. And this dude was 0:14:07.440 --> 0:14:10.440 just out the country with another chick, just holding hands, chilling. 0:14:10.679 --> 0:14:12.400 I mean, she looked like Chloe from the back. I 0:14:12.440 --> 0:14:15.000 don't know, you gotta type or it could have been 0:14:15.080 --> 0:14:18.040 damn Kim Kake like, this is the same look and 0:14:18.080 --> 0:14:20.840 the way that Kim kardashi In is shading her sister 0:14:21.000 --> 0:14:24.040 is were to me, have a conversation with Chloe. Let 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:25.440 her know that you do not want to be in 0:14:25.560 --> 0:14:28.360 a committed relationship. This is the problem with some men, 0:14:28.480 --> 0:14:31.920 like you can't sign women up for monogamy and no 0:14:32.120 --> 0:14:35.360 that's not what you want. You can find somebody that 0:14:35.360 --> 0:14:38.040 would be okay with whatever it is that you want 0:14:38.080 --> 0:14:43.560 in a relationship. Do not trick people into monogamy. But girl, 0:14:43.760 --> 0:14:46.480 she didn't get tricked because yeah, that man had a 0:14:46.520 --> 0:14:50.400 woman when you got him, So Kim said, Girls can 0:14:50.400 --> 0:14:52.920 see the difference between two hundred shades of new lipstick, 0:14:53.080 --> 0:14:58.240 but they can't see red flags. You're talking to your sister. 0:14:59.120 --> 0:15:04.640 She she's always shading Chloe. She is. I don't like that. 0:15:04.760 --> 0:15:07.360 Don't do that to me. I would never do my 0:15:07.440 --> 0:15:10.400 sister like that. I guess it's almost like, girl, you're 0:15:10.400 --> 0:15:14.320 still being stupid, that's it. But but because y'all are 0:15:14.400 --> 0:15:17.640 so public figures, don't embarrass your own sister like that. 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:20.400 She already embarrassed enough. I'm sure she is. You know, 0:15:21.240 --> 0:15:25.360 do some crazy things and you love motherfucker. You'd be 0:15:25.400 --> 0:15:27.400 putting up with ship that she wouldn't normally put up with, 0:15:28.560 --> 0:15:31.160 So I do I you know, I sympathize with Chloe 0:15:31.240 --> 0:15:35.640 a little bit in that aspect, but having your sister 0:15:35.720 --> 0:15:38.480 being the one who helping to embarrass you on the internet, 0:15:39.040 --> 0:15:41.240 I had to. I had to beat up Kim. I 0:15:41.280 --> 0:15:47.960 had to go over and set her come outside him. 0:15:48.320 --> 0:15:50.160 I want to talk to you real quick. I ain't 0:15:50.160 --> 0:15:55.320 gonna do nothing. Do you think it's a situation where you, like, 0:15:55.520 --> 0:15:58.440 maybe maybe Kim tried to because I can almost imagine 0:15:58.480 --> 0:16:00.480 if I'm trying to tell you something about your dude 0:16:00.560 --> 0:16:03.080 over and over and over again, and we know how 0:16:03.120 --> 0:16:06.520 defensive women can be about their men. Okay, could it 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:10.280 be a situation where Chloe might have disrespected him? And now, Kim, 0:16:10.320 --> 0:16:12.840 don't give a fuck. You don't disrespect me about this 0:16:12.920 --> 0:16:16.480 dude who ain't never did you right at all? I 0:16:16.520 --> 0:16:18.640 told your ass not to have another baby with him, 0:16:18.680 --> 0:16:21.960 this and the third like and maybe not publicly, it's 0:16:22.000 --> 0:16:25.640 the public aspect for me, yeah, because I'm already embarrassed 0:16:26.360 --> 0:16:28.680 and now you're out here talking about two hundred shades 0:16:28.680 --> 0:16:32.320 and new lipstick. Girl, I'll be to a at my house. 0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:38.480 Shame because I'm gonna love you and we still assisted, 0:16:38.560 --> 0:16:40.000 but we're gonna have to You're gonna have to catch 0:16:40.040 --> 0:16:45.400 the faith though. Yeah, you're gonna catch these hands. So 0:16:45.680 --> 0:16:48.080 y'all just then, f I I I showed today is 0:16:48.120 --> 0:16:51.040 going to be about toxic relationships. We actually have a 0:16:51.080 --> 0:16:54.960 toxic relationship therapist on He helps people break up within 0:16:55.000 --> 0:17:00.200 thirty days. That's his job, all right, um, But there's 0:17:00.200 --> 0:17:03.880 a video online it's this guy, so he is. His 0:17:04.000 --> 0:17:07.600 name is Emory Andre Tate the Third. He's a four 0:17:07.680 --> 0:17:11.080 time kickboxing world champion. I don't know if he saw it, Tam, 0:17:11.119 --> 0:17:13.600 but it looks like he was doing like a podcast 0:17:13.800 --> 0:17:17.320 or something. But he was asked, um, you know if 0:17:17.400 --> 0:17:21.560 his girl um is allowed to go on girl's trips, 0:17:22.520 --> 0:17:25.760 and he was like, absolutely not, because you know what, 0:17:25.920 --> 0:17:28.320 I can't do anything if I'm not there. If a 0:17:28.359 --> 0:17:31.640 man tries to sleep with you, your wore making gold, 0:17:32.119 --> 0:17:34.000 she not go to the gas station, then she can't 0:17:34.000 --> 0:17:36.000 go to the there's gonna be man trying to funk 0:17:36.080 --> 0:17:37.920 all over her. D M S right now. It is 0:17:37.920 --> 0:17:40.399 a man trying to suck her, like you gotta just 0:17:41.720 --> 0:17:45.760 exactly all nine like that. He sounds like an in sale. 0:17:45.800 --> 0:17:49.160 First you're at home on Instagram, it's a nigga still 0:17:49.200 --> 0:17:51.520 trying to suck her like relax, like you just gotta 0:17:51.520 --> 0:17:54.800 trust your girl. Like but I looked on his Instagram page. 0:17:54.840 --> 0:17:56.200 If you go to the picture of him in the 0:17:56.240 --> 0:18:01.359 orange shorts, you know, I can you know while you 0:18:01.480 --> 0:18:04.920 staying home? That's what I means. No, I could. I 0:18:05.000 --> 0:18:08.200 understand why he might be intimidated by her going outside 0:18:08.240 --> 0:18:11.400 and getting fun by other people. Hold on orange shorts. 0:18:11.440 --> 0:18:20.240 Wait wait, wait, oh, there's nothing there there, There's nothing there, 0:18:22.280 --> 0:18:26.560 So I get it. Bro home. Look, my worst fair 0:18:26.640 --> 0:18:29.359 is having a son who you don't have to be 0:18:29.400 --> 0:18:31.920 like super well endowed, but like just having a son 0:18:32.359 --> 0:18:34.840 who may grow up with a super I feel like 0:18:34.840 --> 0:18:38.800 those guys have like insecurity issues and this guy is 0:18:38.800 --> 0:18:40.919 definitely displaying that. And I don't want to have to 0:18:40.960 --> 0:18:44.320 cleve with a son with insecurity issues because he played 0:18:44.320 --> 0:18:46.960 football and he see everybody else junk now and now 0:18:47.000 --> 0:18:49.880 he realizes his dick little. I don't want to deal 0:18:49.920 --> 0:18:55.240 with it. But he's well, he looks like a wealthy man, 0:18:55.320 --> 0:18:57.320 you know, he looks like he's well off. He gotta 0:18:57.320 --> 0:19:04.639 be Yeah, okay, he gotta be rich. Now, some women 0:19:04.720 --> 0:19:07.760 might like, you know a little things. We don't know 0:19:07.800 --> 0:19:09.600 that man got a little bit based on that picture. 0:19:09.640 --> 0:19:13.360 I don't want to just assume that I didn't see anything. 0:19:15.880 --> 0:19:21.119 He gotta COUCHI I'm assuming he got a that's that nice. 0:19:22.040 --> 0:19:23.880 You got gonna say that man gotta couch you. That's 0:19:23.880 --> 0:19:26.800 a grown man. Girl. You can't tell me he punching 0:19:26.800 --> 0:19:29.399 nobody in the face. This guy, he does, his energy 0:19:29.440 --> 0:19:32.680 does give um. I'm gonna beat I'm gonna beat you up. 0:19:33.680 --> 0:19:35.760 So I'm gonna because I want him to come see 0:19:35.760 --> 0:19:39.720 about me. He's gonna get this motherfucker gonna get robbed 0:19:39.720 --> 0:19:47.359 he comes see about me. That's that man. That's all. 0:19:47.400 --> 0:19:49.560 I got a lot of the break going on. There's 0:19:49.560 --> 0:19:52.160 a lot of ship going on. But that's it. Let's 0:19:52.160 --> 0:19:54.200 gonna break and we'll be right back with our expert 0:19:54.240 --> 0:19:58.359 you guys on how to leave your toxic situation. All right, 0:19:58.400 --> 0:20:07.840 we'll be right back. Listen, we gotta special guests on 0:20:07.960 --> 0:20:10.919 we talked back this week. Okay, yeah, this is my 0:20:10.960 --> 0:20:20.760 clubhouse friend, but he's also a toxic relationship. Uh specialist, Right, 0:20:22.320 --> 0:20:26.240 So are you a relationship specialist. Who who's toxic or 0:20:26.440 --> 0:20:31.120 you are you work with toxic relationships? Because I work 0:20:31.160 --> 0:20:34.920 with toxic relationship but I've been called the toxic bay. 0:20:35.760 --> 0:20:39.000 Toxic yeah, toxic bay. I don't know what that means, 0:20:39.080 --> 0:20:42.919 but that's what some of my friends call me, women friends. 0:20:43.160 --> 0:20:47.040 Sounds like exactly every nigger I ever dated was toxic bag. 0:20:51.840 --> 0:20:56.159 So y'all listen. So Taylor, he's a former military police 0:20:56.240 --> 0:20:59.920 veteran and US federal agent that has a decade worth 0:21:00.160 --> 0:21:04.600 of responding to nine one one calls for domestic violence disputes. Okay, 0:21:04.640 --> 0:21:09.720 Taylor has been uh taking his past experience and it's 0:21:09.800 --> 0:21:14.560 now a world renowned relationship expert experts. Excuse me, y'all 0:21:14.560 --> 0:21:19.000 know I can't read anyway. Helping men and women exit 0:21:19.160 --> 0:21:23.879 toxic relationships, you know, and helping them find self love again, 0:21:23.920 --> 0:21:27.040 because that's what it's all about, right when someone's mistreating 0:21:27.520 --> 0:21:34.119 it's kind of an internal issue, that's dope. Listen, I 0:21:34.160 --> 0:21:36.440 need some help now. I'm trying to stop being toxic 0:21:36.480 --> 0:21:39.920 in relationships. Hey, let's do it. Let's do if you 0:21:40.000 --> 0:21:43.399 get you help right now. So I got my first question. 0:21:43.760 --> 0:21:46.040 If I'm dealing with a nigger who gives me a 0:21:46.080 --> 0:21:49.560 lot of money, but he's for the streets. Should I 0:21:49.680 --> 0:21:53.680 leave or should I stay? It depends on what you're 0:21:53.680 --> 0:21:57.040 looking for, like like what like what is your ultimate goal? 0:21:57.160 --> 0:21:59.560 Like like like like why are you attracted to this 0:21:59.720 --> 0:22:03.080 due that's from the streets, Like what what does he 0:22:03.080 --> 0:22:05.600 do to turn you on? Ah? He makes sure I'm 0:22:05.640 --> 0:22:11.040 comfortable finance. Okay, So he's a provider. So so pretty much, 0:22:11.119 --> 0:22:14.600 whether he's from the streets or not, provider is check 0:22:14.760 --> 0:22:18.080 for you. Yeah, that's very important. That's not the most 0:22:18.160 --> 0:22:21.360 important thing. I mean, it's it's very important, though, But 0:22:21.800 --> 0:22:23.959 I would rather have somebody who was a provider that 0:22:24.160 --> 0:22:27.800 wasn't for the streets. Okay, he's not, he's not my man, 0:22:28.040 --> 0:22:32.440 you know what I'm saying. He everybody man so for 0:22:32.720 --> 0:22:39.080 the streets, not in the streets, right yeah, okay, So, um, 0:22:39.119 --> 0:22:41.640 but like I said, you can find guys that's out 0:22:41.680 --> 0:22:47.320 there that are providers. Um, that's about their money, that's 0:22:47.320 --> 0:22:49.960 about their money, and that would also be able to 0:22:49.760 --> 0:22:54.400 to provide those things to you. Where they at there there, 0:22:54.440 --> 0:22:57.639 they're there, they're there. Um, they're probably not in the clubs, 0:22:57.640 --> 0:23:00.440 they're probably not on the corner. But you can find them, 0:23:00.480 --> 0:23:04.960 like at networking events, right, CEO events, Right, those guys 0:23:05.000 --> 0:23:06.639 that they're looking for a woman, they're looking for a 0:23:06.640 --> 0:23:09.159 woman that can provide at the house, that can you know, 0:23:09.200 --> 0:23:12.000 take care of kids, right, all that all that fantasy 0:23:12.080 --> 0:23:14.600 stuff that y'all want, right, And these guys don't have 0:23:14.680 --> 0:23:17.840 the time and the ability to do that, right, And 0:23:17.880 --> 0:23:19.760 so they're looking for that woman that they can take 0:23:19.800 --> 0:23:23.399 care of, right, and that could be a mother of 0:23:23.440 --> 0:23:26.159 your child or or what have you. So there's guys 0:23:26.160 --> 0:23:29.280 out there. You just gotta position yourself and be in 0:23:29.320 --> 0:23:35.040 the right place to find those individuals. See see see 0:23:35.040 --> 0:23:36.879 see a lot of the guys from the streets. I 0:23:36.880 --> 0:23:41.920 mean not he's not from the streets, he's right, But 0:23:42.000 --> 0:23:45.719 we're definitely out where did those individuals hang out. So 0:23:45.760 --> 0:23:48.200 I feel like I'm in the places where the same 0:23:48.240 --> 0:23:52.159 guys you would meet, and you know, like a networking event, 0:23:52.680 --> 0:23:56.120