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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo our chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Taryland in Orlando. Clo Arylan writes,

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Speaker 1: how do I explain to my teenager that it's a

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Speaker 1: good thing that his dad is trying to get his

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Speaker 1: diploma when his peers are teasing him because his dad

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Speaker 1: takes classes at his high school.

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Speaker 2: Your daddy got to move in classes. There's some other

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Speaker 2: places to go. Yeah, you can't do this to your baby.

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Speaker 2: Everybody going out coming out of basketball practice, you're going

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Speaker 2: in for night classes at this say this ain't the

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Speaker 2: way this? Well, you have got to You got just

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Speaker 2: another program in another school.

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Speaker 3: Come on, many going into social studies?

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Speaker 4: All right, okay, moving on there.

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Speaker 2: Your daddy was at my desk yesterday. That's missed up, man,

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Speaker 2: Your daddy big as hell.

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Speaker 4: Oh that's so embarrassing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it really is. Your daddy. Quit sticking that gum

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Speaker 3: under the desk though.

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Speaker 2: Stop. Ah, I saw your daddy's paper. Your daddy got

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Speaker 2: a d in reading comprehension.

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Speaker 1: Here.

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Speaker 3: This ain't looking good for y'all.

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Speaker 4: Just trying to better himself.

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Speaker 3: No, it ain't no way.

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Speaker 2: One of my homies daddies could have came up to

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Speaker 2: that school to take a class.

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Speaker 3: It just ain't no way were weighing in mint.

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Speaker 1: Wow, you're sixteen and got more education than your father already.

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Speaker 3: You and your daddy shell locking the other. Dum, you

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Speaker 3: can't help nothing.

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Speaker 1: Man, all right, we're moving on. H This is from

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Speaker 1: Freddy and Lagrange. Freddie writes, I have an ex girlfriend

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Speaker 1: that I love and want to have a relationship with,

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Speaker 1: but she's got a lot of hood tendencies and she

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Speaker 1: doesn't get along with my sisters or my mom. I

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Speaker 1: don't play about them. Should I get my girl back?

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Speaker 1: Or does family come first? Bro?

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Speaker 2: You just said you don't play about them. That's what

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Speaker 2: you just said, so obviously that's your priority.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 2: She then obviously did something so hood that y'all broke

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Speaker 2: up about it. Well, is her being the hood the

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Speaker 2: problem you're having with her or your family happy the time?

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Speaker 2: And it sounds like it's his family and so which

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Speaker 2: caused attention to the breakup. And you're gonna keep breaking

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Speaker 2: up with people as long as your mom and sisters

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Speaker 2: don't like them. So just let your mom and sisters

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Speaker 2: determine who you gonna date before you date somebody else.

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Speaker 3: And that's where you at.

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Speaker 2: You stupid though the all you stupid, your mom and

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Speaker 2: your sisters probably half them ain't even any relationship. So

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Speaker 2: now you're taking relationship and advice for some people that

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Speaker 2: he got one, they sell I would reconsider.

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Speaker 4: That, Okay?

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Speaker 1: Courtney and Princeton says, I'm a thirty one year old

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Speaker 1: virgin and it's intriguing to the guy that I'm dating.

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Speaker 1: He tells everyone that he's got himself a good girl.

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Speaker 4: We've been dating a year and I'm ready to have sex.

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Speaker 4: But I don't want to lose my good girl status?

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Speaker 4: Will he think less of me? Listen?

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Speaker 1: She doesn't want to lose her good girl status? Will

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Speaker 1: he think less? Well?

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Speaker 3: Did remain a good girl?

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Speaker 1: But she's ready though she said she's ready after a year,

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Speaker 1: she's thirty one.

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Speaker 3: That's called hot ship UK and bad at the same time.

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Speaker 3: Which one you gonna do? Now?

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Speaker 4: It's sex?

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Speaker 1: Bad?

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Speaker 3: You should be married? Yeah, yes, it's bad, Shirley if

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Speaker 3: you don't want to.

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Speaker 4: But she said, I'm ready to have sex.

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Speaker 3: Okay, But she don't want to lose her good girl's status?

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Speaker 1: Right because he thinks, yeah, she's a good girl bragging

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Speaker 1: about it.

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Speaker 2: Its been so then you know he's had sex this

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Speaker 2: past in that year.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, she ain't.

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Speaker 2: She ain't.

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Speaker 4: Oh he's had sex since he's been in but not

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Speaker 4: with her.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah. Because she

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Speaker 2: thirty one. He got gotta be in his thirties. What

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Speaker 2: what thirty old man capable? He's then going a year

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Speaker 2: and a half without sex.

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Speaker 3: For what Now?

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Speaker 2: Unless he's in prison and you you his pen pal,

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Speaker 2: that's other than that.

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Speaker 3: But if he out here and this happens, you had

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Speaker 3: not have I g as I see it today, What

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Speaker 3: does this.

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Speaker 4: Go on? It?

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell me what are you saying? And you

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Speaker 2: a thirty one year old man? How you can go

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Speaker 2: on Instagram and I want nothing.

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Speaker 3: I'll tell you what.

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Speaker 4: You need to be quiet, married man, I tell you exactly.

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Speaker 3: Where to go looking. Oh yeah, I'll tell you what.

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Speaker 4: She wants to know. Will he think less of her

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Speaker 4: if she does? It?

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Speaker 2: Is listen, I don't really know that he's going to

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Speaker 2: think less of you, but that's what he's telling people.

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Speaker 3: This decision is all yours.

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Speaker 2: If it's if it's a mistake, if you're being pressured,

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Speaker 2: it's a mistake.

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Speaker 3: If it's a decision you want to do.

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Speaker 2: But first of all, you just got to ask yourself

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Speaker 2: why were you abstinate? Why were you ubstaining? If and

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Speaker 2: now and now? Why do you not want to upstain?

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Speaker 2: That's decision is yours. You know, let's just be grown

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Speaker 2: about it. You know, the Christian way is the way

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Speaker 2: to go. I've never been able to, you know, follow

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Speaker 2: that exactly, so I'm not really a good person.

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Speaker 4: You know, you had to go there.

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Speaker 3: So she was there, she was she almost did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what you don't ask him?

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Speaker 2: We got by more one more week before we just

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Speaker 2: got we both can't take it.

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Speaker 3: This gonna help.

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Speaker 2: By next Thursday, next Friday's is pretty much gonna jump off.

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Speaker 4: Going down. You're listening st. Hardy Morning Show