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Speaker 2: Just wait the Cheeta coming. Okay, don't kiss me off.

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Speaker 2: Are we might what if we the background music for

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Speaker 1: If somebody is listening to us while they're doing.

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Speaker 3: You can choose the like. You won't just cutting people out.

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Speaker 3: But outside of that, we're matching today.

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Speaker 2: We are we are mashing with our yaggy girl, yaggy world,

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Speaker 1: Like I don't know what you did or what you

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Speaker 2: That purple outfit I had.

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Speaker 3: And it ain't gonna be no cheet ofcrpet.

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Speaker 2: But I'm saying they don't have to worry about not

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Speaker 2: Just wait, did she the comeing, Okay, don't kiss me off.

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Speaker 3: She might put it in her office. You know, I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm not putting cheta put a little cheta printed, But

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna get another drink machine. Put that in my office.

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Speaker 2: I like animal prints a little bit.

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Speaker 3: To wear with clothes.

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Speaker 2: Animal prints in your house, I don't know. I like them.

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Speaker 2: Cow hide rugs, Okay, maybe that's maybe that's the country

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Speaker 3: Because I have a cowhide rug and I did it right.

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Speaker 2: I'm not mad. I like a little cowhide rug. I'm

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, that's a little rustic farmhouse.

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Speaker 2: I like that. I know. I know. Chita Cheetah was

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Speaker 2: Did you write it? These days? Did you? I've seen

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Speaker 3: That's who I am.

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Speaker 2: But I also would have made straight a's because it

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Speaker 2: just I feel like the environment, how could you not

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Speaker 2: Oh God, I'm glad you.

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Speaker 1: Said that, because we have to have a serious conversation.

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Speaker 2: Bitch had Paisley Prince and all type of shit in

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Speaker 3: But do you know what we have to seriously talk about.

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Speaker 1: Y'all know I'm a girl's girl, i am, but we

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Speaker 1: I will say, it's like it be surprising me, you

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Speaker 3: I'm comfortable.

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Speaker 2: It's my sanctuary. That's what we call it, the sanctions.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. Like I did bad in eighth

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Speaker 2: and lay on my chase. Yes, I had in a dream, bitch,

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Speaker 2: Mickey Mouse was waiting on that chase for you. Bit.

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Speaker 2: I had a crate and a dream and an ike

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Speaker 2: A gift card. That's what I'm saying. But you can't

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Speaker 2: sitting in the corner. Yeah, and luckily that never happened

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Speaker 2: We had community bathrooms. You know.

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Speaker 1: The worst thing I hate is, though I don't care

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Speaker 2: It's kind of like a pet peeve of mine. I

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Speaker 2: gotta let that. What do you mean, because the steam

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Speaker 2: to go to the club and then it's something Yeah,

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Speaker 2: now you got to go wrap it up. Or you

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Speaker 1: White, or you like, sometimes you gotta wipe that puss

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you gotta take a little hole bag to her fantasy.

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Speaker 2: But you could also use your kuchi wise, use your

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Speaker 2: refreshed dell. I'm gonna wipe that and wipe that thing

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Speaker 2: they gonna think, shower, Hey, you gotta get it hot.

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Speaker 2: You'nt smelling so fresh, so clean?

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Speaker 1: But can I since we're talking about women in hygiene

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Speaker 1: and stuff like that, I'm not hiding no more when

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Speaker 1: I need a pad or a tampon from somebody either.

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Speaker 1: I know you don't use those products anymore, but you

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Speaker 1: do you have a pad?

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Speaker 2: Hand it to me? I asked the girl for a

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Speaker 2: I said, Girl, give me that goddamn pad. I actually

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Speaker 2: need a diaper, bitch, That's what my flow was heavy.

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Speaker 2: Why do we have to hide the fact that I

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Speaker 2: used to wear that diaper? It was a very traumatic

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Speaker 2: time for me. But people don't know. I had thought,

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Speaker 2: because you're used to be sleeping in the bed with

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Speaker 2: me with a diapery. It's before me and Leix really

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Speaker 2: like this, before we could afford a super hotel room. Yes,

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Speaker 2: if y'all have.

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Speaker 1: Ever had five boys, you know how serious it is.

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Speaker 1: It was so like No. I didn't know then though,

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Speaker 2: And then she would But I asked him me, do

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Speaker 2: I want to change you? You should have changed my diapers? No,

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Speaker 2: you ain't no baby, Google gotta you ain't no motherfucking baby.

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Speaker 2: You ain't my baby. I'm not about to change on diaper.

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Speaker 2: What the fuck.

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Speaker 1: I just felt like, as friends, if I needed you

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Speaker 2: Have just wow and get bled on. He was gonna

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Speaker 2: bleed on me. No, I wasn't. I was gonna hold

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Speaker 2: it in. Not we blood and I know that we

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Speaker 2: like the real but no, I do think that we

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Speaker 1: Like if a girl needs a pad, just headed to her.

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Speaker 1: Who cares? If these men are uncomfortable, nobody cares. Nobody cares.

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Speaker 2: Hear me the pad.

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Speaker 1: Everybody has a period, I mean not everybody, but y'all

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Periods are normal. Why do I

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Speaker 2: Men know that we have periods, so they don't care,

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Speaker 2: y'all be literally shutting y'all insides and y'all be going crazy, yes,

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Speaker 2: and they be mad at you because you can't fuck them.

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Speaker 2: You're like, man, this beach on her period again.

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Speaker 3: He said the same thing. He was like, you know,

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Speaker 1: Is like crazy because on top of paying bills, on

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Speaker 1: being a mother, on top of doing all this, you

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Speaker 2: And the only other alternative is being pregnant or menopause.

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Speaker 2: Them the only other alternatives to having a period every

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Speaker 2: right or menopausal? Right?

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Speaker 3: Right, that's it.

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Speaker 1: It's just a lot. It's a lot. It's a lot,

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Speaker 1: and I'm just I'm not for it.

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Speaker 2: So I'm or his directed me, which is worse because

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Speaker 2: when people get his direct me, it puts them into

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Speaker 2: early menopause. What are you doing? And why is it

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Speaker 2: I said, okay, baby, I'm just issue. I like a

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Speaker 2: littleh well said, excuse me, shy, do you know where

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Speaker 2: I can find some booty? What was that from? So

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Speaker 2: let's move on. Let's move on, let's let's get we

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Speaker 2: are okay. So the first.

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Speaker 3: Topic Drey, What are we talking about today?

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Speaker 2: For the first topic, we're talking about should we be

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Speaker 2: goes into what we were just talking about. Should we

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Speaker 2: wash our mouths when we're talking to our men, Should

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Speaker 2: we in general be meaning to me m hm? Or

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Speaker 2: should we keep being nice? I personally my best friend

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Speaker 2: shout out to o Lyne. She had a tweet that

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Speaker 2: went viral a few weeks ago. Were is crazy a

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Speaker 2: little bit? She is a little bit, but she had

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Speaker 2: went viral because she has said me and love mean bitchies,

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Speaker 2: like be mean to niggas. They like this. She like

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Speaker 2: the women who are nice to them, you always gonna

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Speaker 2: end up getting the short end of the stick. And

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Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, I understand it. It's just like that

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Speaker 2: Swain got shet. I'm thinking of getting rid of all

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Speaker 2: of mine. I'm gonna get rid of all my sheep.

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Speaker 2: I might because they love it. They gonna boo, they

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Speaker 2: gonna build you back up. I don't want to. It's like, yes,

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Speaker 2: niggas love the bitchwaang got sheet and they love mean bitchies.

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Speaker 2: Think about your favorite nigga and think about the beach too.

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Speaker 2: Was the meanness to him that he probably told you

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Speaker 2: about and all the stuff he did for her m

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Speaker 2: keeping you ain't never had, you ain't never dealt with

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Speaker 2: means to him and then he was doing the most

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Speaker 2: Like I guess I could say that for myself, Like

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Speaker 2: I feel like I done dealt with dudes and like

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Speaker 2: I really was cool on them, Like I really wasn't

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Speaker 2: fucking with him, and they thought I was playing hard

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Speaker 2: to get. They thought I was playing, Oh, you want

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Speaker 2: me to chase you? Actually I want you to leave

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Speaker 2: me the fuck alone. But it's making you go harder.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, now I do agree with that, because men

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Speaker 1: do like to chase.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Is it to chase though, or is it to

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Speaker 2: conquer or tame or a tame because sometimes I feel

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Speaker 2: like it's more trying to conquer and tame a woman

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Speaker 2: than really just chasing her. Like they want what they

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Speaker 2: feel like they can't has, and it's a little excitement

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Speaker 2: for them, just a little bit like person matter you yell,

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Speaker 2: you raise your voice. I feel like they like that

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Speaker 2: she got a little bite. It's all crazy because I've

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Speaker 2: worked to.

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Speaker 3: Get away from that.

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Speaker 2: But what I have learned in my older age too,

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Speaker 2: I do believe.

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00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:18,040
Speaker 3: That men like me and women and I do.

435
00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:18,639
Speaker 2: I don't care.

436
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:20,680
Speaker 1: I don't care what the narrative is online because this

437
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:24,000
Speaker 1: is not a male versus female conversation, the man versus

438
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:27,040
Speaker 1: woman no more. But I will say it's in the

439
00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 1: proof is in the pudding, just like women like assholes,

440
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:33,320
Speaker 1: and it's the same thing, you know. But what I've learned,

441
00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:36,879
Speaker 1: if I have to put on this facade right and

442
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:38,280
Speaker 1: be like, you know what, I'm gonna be a bitch

443
00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:39,560
Speaker 1: to him so he can do what I want him

444
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:41,200
Speaker 1: to do, then this is not for me. Now back

445
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:42,800
Speaker 1: in the day I used to be okay with it,

446
00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:46,960
Speaker 1: I cannot. I'm not a naturally I am. I can

447
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:50,760
Speaker 1: be a bitch, I can. I know that, But naturally

448
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,840
Speaker 1: I do enjoy being nice and having fun. So if

449
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:55,560
Speaker 1: I have to start being bitchy to you, do I

450
00:22:55,680 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 1: really want you around? So it's like, you can be

451
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:04,720
Speaker 1: bitchy and have your way, But that's too much. I

452
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:07,520
Speaker 1: wanna have fun, like how I feel with my friends.

453
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:09,800
Speaker 1: I have a good time with my fucking friends.

454
00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:11,280
Speaker 2: And we're nice and.

455
00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:16,120
Speaker 1: We're living and we're If you don't give me that feeling, honestly,

456
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:19,000
Speaker 1: I'm cool. I get why so many older women are

457
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,240
Speaker 1: choosing to be by themselves, though, because we have to

458
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:23,119
Speaker 1: be a bitch in order to get.

459
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 3: Things out of a man.

460
00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:25,680
Speaker 2: As I half. If I got to do all that,

461
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:30,480
Speaker 2: I'm cool. I don't know I be feeling like what

462
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:37,960
Speaker 2: about that? Deep though, I always feel like I understand.

463
00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:42,600
Speaker 2: I always feel like I understand why women want to

464
00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:45,920
Speaker 2: be single until I think about the fact that you

465
00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:51,119
Speaker 2: ain't getting no deed have a special friend. I do

466
00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 2: have a little friend for years. That is her little friend.

467
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:57,160
Speaker 3: That's her little friend.

468
00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:58,120
Speaker 2: That's her man.

469
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:00,440
Speaker 3: Legally, that's her little friend.

470
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 2: That's her little friend. Legally, that's her man. Now all together,

471
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:10,400
Speaker 2: how you know that they might be common law married? Law? Will?

472
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 1: If they were common law married then that would it

473
00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:14,400
Speaker 1: came out a long time ago?

474
00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:16,440
Speaker 2: How would we know it's common law?

475
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:21,200
Speaker 3: Oh oh you just said common law. Yeah, it's not

476
00:24:21,440 --> 00:24:21,760
Speaker 3: like on.

477
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:25,639
Speaker 2: Paper, it's common law law. Been together for all this time,

478
00:24:26,160 --> 00:24:29,880
Speaker 2: and we've decided which we married. That's really what common

479
00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 2: law marriage is. It's like we that's my husband and

480
00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck if we didn't go see

481
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:36,920
Speaker 2: it in front of a pasta or we didn't sign

482
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:39,480
Speaker 2: no paperwork. We've been together for twenty years. That's my husband,

483
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,119
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna tell people that's my husband. That's what

484
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:42,920
Speaker 2: Kamon Law married.

485
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Speaker 4: You.

486
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:45,480
Speaker 1: You're right, You're one hundred percent right. But I just

487
00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 1: feel like she got a little friends.

488
00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 2: That is her man, y'all. But I love these and

489
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 2: tell me how y'all feel, because it's sidebar a little bit.

490
00:24:55,000 --> 00:25:01,200
Speaker 2: But I feel like black people celebrities can not tell

491
00:25:01,280 --> 00:25:04,360
Speaker 2: people their business, Like you have to keep people out

492
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 2: of the loop of your business to really like become

493
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 2: a superstar in the black community. Oh white people, they

494
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:14,280
Speaker 2: really thrive by showing all of their business and telling

495
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:16,959
Speaker 2: people everything. I feel like one of the main reasons,

496
00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:20,480
Speaker 2: like one of the main allures about Oprah is that

497
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:24,720
Speaker 2: we don't know anything about her personal life like we

498
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,639
Speaker 2: know about her instead mean we know that that's being

499
00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 2: her men at.

500
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Speaker 3: The beginning of the time.

501
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:32,160
Speaker 2: Okay, so they were engaged.

502
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:35,879
Speaker 5: Though they call each other spiritual partners. The spiritual partner, I.

503
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 3: Got a spiritual partner.

504
00:25:37,720 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 2: They were engaged in the nineties. We're low Key married.

505
00:25:41,280 --> 00:25:43,800
Speaker 5: They were engaged in the nineties, and they ultimately decided

506
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:46,359
Speaker 5: marriage wouldn't work for them, as their interpretations of the

507
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 5: roles of husband and wife would have clashed. Winfrey's career

508
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:52,640
Speaker 5: in personal life. Wow, I think she just ain't trying

509
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 5: to cut that check.

510
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:54,440
Speaker 2: I think that too.

511
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 1: But that's true though, because you're never going to catch

512
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:01,120
Speaker 1: up to Oprah win here, so let's not even try

513
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 1: to put labels on it.

514
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 2: So I'm not mad at that. Yeah, I just feel

515
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:09,440
Speaker 2: like you gotta keep a little mystery the thing. Like,

516
00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:11,400
Speaker 2: That's why I'm saying, how do we know what's really

517
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:13,920
Speaker 2: going on between the folks? We don't. All we know

518
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 2: is that they never been married. But we don't know

519
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:20,000
Speaker 2: how she's been breaking him off or break him off

520
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 2: real bad. We don't know. I want to know what

521
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:24,440
Speaker 2: they got going on.

522
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:26,400
Speaker 1: I want to make a point to what you were saying,

523
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:28,400
Speaker 1: because I talked about this on Love lex pe last week.

524
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:31,000
Speaker 1: So it's crazy that you said that, because you said

525
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:31,960
Speaker 1: black people.

526
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:32,800
Speaker 3: Do not get the.

527
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:38,160
Speaker 1: Luxury of telling all their business and being successful because

528
00:26:38,200 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 1: you can't. But I'll tell you why though, because I

529
00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:45,679
Speaker 1: feel like in the black community, if a black woman

530
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:48,920
Speaker 1: gets into her relationship and he ends up being a

531
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:52,240
Speaker 1: horrible person, and she has babies for this person whatever

532
00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:53,240
Speaker 1: gets married, and it's.

533
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 2: Like ha ha, I told you so.

534
00:26:55,880 --> 00:27:00,920
Speaker 1: And you can literally get taken down just by being

535
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 1: connected to somebody, Like you could be married to a

536
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:06,479
Speaker 1: man who ends up being horrible, and then they'll connect

537
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:08,200
Speaker 1: you to him. Even if you left him and you

538
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: don't talk to him no more, they'll be like, well,

539
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 1: he did this, you knew about it x y Z.

540
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:15,080
Speaker 1: But if any other race does, they'll be like, oh,

541
00:27:15,160 --> 00:27:18,159
Speaker 1: my gosh, I know she didn't know y'all. She's a

542
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:22,879
Speaker 1: single mother now, single mother, and other races looks like, oh,

543
00:27:22,960 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 1: she's so strong, she is powerful. Oh my god, I

544
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,360
Speaker 1: cannot believe she's doing this on her own. Thank god,

545
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:30,879
Speaker 1: they don't know that. But Black women, Oh, she's a

546
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 1: single mother. We're your baby daddy. Yet, oh he must

547
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 1: have left. You must have been annoying, you must have

548
00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 1: It's such a different narrative. Single mother is baby mama

549
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:42,639
Speaker 1: for black women. Yes, immediately there's a thing going on

550
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,520
Speaker 1: on TikTok right now. It was a girl, I don't

551
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:49,040
Speaker 1: know her name, she's a baseball wife, and she was

552
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:51,080
Speaker 1: talking about how she had to go to the hospital

553
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 1: that she's having her first child at and she was

554
00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 1: embarrassed because her husband couldn't make it, and she was like,

555
00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 1: I didn't want people to look at me like a

556
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:02,479
Speaker 1: single mother. So all the single mothers have been rallying

557
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:06,119
Speaker 1: up for her against her, like, how dare you say this?

558
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 1: You don't know what it took to be a single mother.

559
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:11,760
Speaker 1: My husband passed or you know, he cheated on me,

560
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 1: I got a divorce, and they're like, you know, but

561
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 1: it's like, damn, I wish people would do that for

562
00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:16,720
Speaker 1: black women, you.

563
00:28:16,760 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying. So you're one hundred percent right?

564
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:26,919
Speaker 2: Why no, Because I'm just saying, y'all, y'all don't understand.

565
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:28,879
Speaker 2: I'll really be sitting and thinking about stuff, and I

566
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 2: read a lot of books, and I just read a

567
00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,119
Speaker 2: lot of articles and like me falling down black holes

568
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:37,080
Speaker 2: on Google, like reading information when you really think about it, Like,

569
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:41,400
Speaker 2: one of the most successful families right now is the Kardashians.

570
00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 2: Like they're super successful. They're billionaires, and they literally made

571
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 2: so much money from just like showing everything to the

572
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 2: world on their reality show, Like they didn't hold nothing back.

573
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 2: They didn't hold nothing back us know. I mean, of course,

574
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 2: I'm sure it's things that we see don't know, because

575
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 2: they do to a certain extent, control the narrative. But

576
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 2: they have put their lives on display for us so

577
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 2: white and have become unarguably the most successful prominent family

578
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 2: when it comes to like having a reality show, yes, agreed,

579
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:21,920
Speaker 2: building an empire, agreed. Then you think about people like,

580
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,160
Speaker 2: for example, I was thinking about this the other day, like,

581
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 2: and I love Young Jock because he came on the show.

582
00:29:27,880 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 2: Young Jock is somebody that I know, shout out to him,

583
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 2: I fuck with him, I respect him. But Young Jock

584
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 2: went on loving hip hop and like all his at

585
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 2: one point he was like unarguably one of the biggest

586
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:44,240
Speaker 2: rappers out. He ended up going on loving hip hop

587
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 2: and showcasing his personal life and his busneys. And then

588
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 2: people started feeling like they could play you to the

589
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 2: point that like a nigga used you as the intro

590
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:58,240
Speaker 2: line to the hottest song of the summer in twenty

591
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 2: twenty two, twenty twenty one, whenever that was you couldn't

592
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 2: go nowhere and not hear that broke like Jock with

593
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 2: that dog like bed because I feel like in a

594
00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 2: black community, nobody take you serious. Once everybody knows your business,

595
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 2: it's like, oh, like, don't take that nigga serious. We

596
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 2: know what's going on with him, and it knocks down

597
00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 2: your superstar level Versus in a white community. I feel

598
00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 2: like they could do that and like it really like

599
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 2: elevates you want versus over here. It knocks you down

600
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 2: a few notches. And I feel like one of the

601
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 2: main reasons that Beyonce is who she is, don't nobody know.

602
00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 2: We still don't know what happened in that elevator Michael Jackson.

603
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 2: Think about the fact that who y'all ever heard doesn't

604
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 2: say it that they fucked Michael Jackson dirty Diana? But

605
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 2: who is dying? But who the fuck is dirty Diana?

606
00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:48,880
Speaker 2: Who is Diane? We still don't know who Blank your

607
00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 2: mama is?

608
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 1: Oh we do?

609
00:30:52,720 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 2: Who the hell is Billy Jean? Not his lover Debbie who? Okay,

610
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 2: I don't know, Michael want anyway, did you ever see

611
00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 2: that video on my sixth hundred pround Life where the

612
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,120
Speaker 2: lady was her name Leashanda, I don't know her name.

613
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:17,960
Speaker 2: The lady that be singing all the time, she was

614
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:21,720
Speaker 2: the birthday. Yeah, yeah, she was on six Pround Life. Yeah,

615
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 2: I don't see. I didn't know where she came from.

616
00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:26,000
Speaker 2: That's where she came from, Okay. And then she started

617
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 2: doing the birthday songs and stuff, and it was like

618
00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 2: a clip from the episode that her mama was like,

619
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 2: because don't know mother, No, no, mother, want no big

620
00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 2: fat ass daughter. Yet, why would you say that about

621
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 2: your child? So now me and Shade kind of got

622
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 2: these east Side jokes when we said about everything. What

623
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 2: does this have to do with what we say them?

624
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 2: I don't forgot who was talking about. What was we

625
00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:56,160
Speaker 2: just talking about? We were talking about Michael Jackson and

626
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 2: she was like, don't know Michael Jackson, want no big

627
00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:05,800
Speaker 2: fast I am. So this is what I have. This

628
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:10,160
Speaker 2: is what I sep. That's why I said I had

629
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 2: to get brought back. It's this drink.

630
00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 1: That's But no, I do agree because that was a

631
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 1: great comparison with young Job. I feel the same way.

632
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:26,040
Speaker 1: Y'all gonna get mad at me in the comments.

633
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 3: It's the drek. What else is gonna be mad about?

634
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 1: When how they do watch Jazzy with Cam right, I

635
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 1: feel like they judge her off of her.

636
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 2: Baby daddy, not who she is.

637
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 1: Now. You may have what you think about Kim and

638
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 1: things like that, but why are we Because are we

639
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 1: judging Kim kardashing off of Kanye, Because if we're talking

640
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:46,120
Speaker 1: about it, Kanye.

641
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 2: Is way worse than Cam. But but he wasn't when

642
00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 2: she got with him.

643
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: I mean, I see where you're going, but Cam, the

644
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 1: things that he says is just more so of like,

645
00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 1: you don't agree with how he runs his relationship. Kanye's

646
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 1: political views and everything has been wild.

647
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:06,280
Speaker 3: For a very long time.

648
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:10,680
Speaker 2: He wasn't wrong though on his political views. Oh when

649
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 2: he back in the day when he said.

650
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: George Bush doesn't care about black people, that's.

651
00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:16,560
Speaker 2: When he was and that's behind him. We was like crazy,

652
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 2: will Yeah, but that changed really quick when you wore

653
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 2: that Maga hat. Things started getting a little weird.

654
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 1: But I will say this, but at the end of

655
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 1: the day, let me tell you what's gonna happen. Though

656
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 1: Kim left Kanye right and we're still Kim is still

657
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:35,840
Speaker 1: very successful. If Jazzy and Kim break up, she is

658
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:39,800
Speaker 1: not going to get the same love and people rallying

659
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 1: around her that Kim got. And I'm not wishing that

660
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 1: on Jazzy and Kim I'm not That's what I'm saying.

661
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 2: I'm agreeing with you. It's unfair. Yeah, I one percent

662
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,040
Speaker 2: agree with you. You're not wrong. She not because she

663
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 2: played exactly. That's literally it it is. It's not it's

664
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 2: not fair, it's crazy. And so that's why I like

665
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 2: And the whole reason like I'm having this conversation with

666
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:02,480
Speaker 2: you was because I was having a conversation with somebody

667
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 2: and it was like, I feel like, you know, like

668
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 2: when we have conversations, I can really tell like your

669
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 2: growth and how you look at things differently over the

670
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,319
Speaker 2: past three four years, and how you'll be like, oh,

671
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:15,239
Speaker 2: I probably shouldn't have been in this situation or I

672
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 2: handled this situation wrong. But they was like, but I

673
00:34:18,239 --> 00:34:19,879
Speaker 2: feel like you don't really say that on por Minds,

674
00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 2: And I was like, I don't feel like I need to.

675
00:34:22,480 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 3: I think it's shows, So I.

676
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:25,800
Speaker 2: Think it shows. But I also don't feel like I

677
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 2: need to just talk about everything that goes on in

678
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 2: my personal life on the show, because all I've ever

679
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 2: seen the dude is be detrimental agree to the black

680
00:34:36,440 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 2: people in the same space as trying to do the

681
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 2: same things as letting people know too much of your

682
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:45,359
Speaker 2: business ain't never did nothing, in my opinion, and make

683
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:49,040
Speaker 2: you look crazy and not work in your favorite It's

684
00:34:49,120 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 2: best to keep as much as you can to yourself

685
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 2: and just let them see the personality and let them

686
00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 2: see what they're here for. The entertainment. Yeah, I'm here

687
00:34:57,080 --> 00:35:00,399
Speaker 2: in the same I am here to entertain my life.

688
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 2: Don't need to be under our microscope, even if I

689
00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:04,640
Speaker 2: do have to take the hard lists, like and I

690
00:35:04,680 --> 00:35:06,279
Speaker 2: would love to be able to share more of this

691
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:09,320
Speaker 2: stuff with people, but unfortunately for us, we don't have

692
00:35:09,440 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 2: the same grades. Like people are gonna scrutinize it. All

693
00:35:12,560 --> 00:35:14,239
Speaker 2: we can do is sit on the phone with each other.

694
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:15,080
Speaker 3: And crabby, that's all.

695
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 2: And that's what we do. And then we get on

696
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:23,120
Speaker 2: like she all good. What We're gonna sit on this

697
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:25,359
Speaker 2: couch and be like what's up y'all.

698
00:35:26,160 --> 00:35:28,359
Speaker 3: We got to though, because you're right, we don't get

699
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 3: that luxury.

700
00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:32,319
Speaker 2: We don't, and we gotta just always keep that in mind.

701
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:33,799
Speaker 2: But you know what luxury we do get.

702
00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 3: We get a drink of the week, because.

703
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:44,839
Speaker 5: I mean, like, yeah, that's how I like it, all right.

704
00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 5: So we got some products around so I was getting

705
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 5: a little inspired. So we're gonna call this one her

706
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:55,320
Speaker 5: fantasy all right, So you can have whatever spirit of choice.

707
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:57,960
Speaker 5: We got some tequila or vodka in these, We have

708
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:01,439
Speaker 5: some apparol, we have some elder our liquor, a little

709
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:03,960
Speaker 5: bit of lemon juice, some angle store of bitters, and

710
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,439
Speaker 5: then I added a little bit of sparkling grapefruit on top,

711
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 5: just to give it a little bit of carbonation, a

712
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 5: little bit of that effortvest sence to it. So it's

713
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 5: kind of meeting like a little bit of bitter, but

714
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 5: it's strong because we only.

715
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 2: Got liquor in it. The only non liquor is the limon.

716
00:36:17,000 --> 00:36:18,839
Speaker 3: Okay, this is really good.

717
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:21,640
Speaker 5: Like it because it's you know, I don't like a

718
00:36:21,760 --> 00:36:25,320
Speaker 5: sweet drink, yeah, and you like grapefruit. Ooh, given it

719
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:27,399
Speaker 5: some of that grapefruit. Those grapefruit notes.

720
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:29,920
Speaker 1: I like, he's a man about to get my fantasy

721
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:33,319
Speaker 1: box today. I can't wait to finish film in the day.

722
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:35,800
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you.

723
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:38,360
Speaker 2: I'm trying to not be judgy. Don't be judging. I

724
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:38,719
Speaker 2: don't care.

725
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 1: So I told y'all I love these wipes, right, I'm

726
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:45,040
Speaker 1: glad they sent us a box.

727
00:36:45,120 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go wipe this thing off and go see

728
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:52,360
Speaker 2: my man. You I am. It's everywhere. Wipe too. You

729
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:59,360
Speaker 2: can do it everywhere, booty hole, every That's what I

730
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 2: love about it. And if you got time, if you

731
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:08,320
Speaker 2: can stop by a sync, you can use the refresh

732
00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 2: you clearly ain't at the time.

733
00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 3: I don't got this time.

734
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:17,840
Speaker 2: Let's get to it. Let's get to it. I'd be

735
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 2: having time to stop. Hie. Oh they're still comment on

736
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 2: that clip. But anyway, shout out to her fantasy box

737
00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 2: because baby, they be having me all the way together.

738
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:32,000
Speaker 2: That's why he can't stop.

739
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:33,400
Speaker 3: Blowing blowing up my phone.

740
00:37:33,760 --> 00:37:40,120
Speaker 2: She seen me calling us. That's how he be. I

741
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 2: believe me. Okay, this was going I ain't gonna lot

742
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,879
Speaker 2: to She could and make me feel like topic too,

743
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 2: So uh, let me let me scroll my own cards.

744
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 3: You know we're professional. We got cards over here.

745
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:58,200
Speaker 1: What's an artist or a song that everyone loves but

746
00:37:58,360 --> 00:38:02,279
Speaker 1: you absolutely hate and refuse.

747
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 2: To listen to?

748
00:38:03,840 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 1: Okay, I think there's a lot of people these days

749
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 1: that can speak out. But I think there's classic records

750
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:16,759
Speaker 1: like what like more so classic records because I don't

751
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 1: like to get into the.

752
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:19,360
Speaker 3: Stand wars like, we're not gonna do that.

753
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 1: Like people like Oh, people love Beyonce, don't like people

754
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: don't like Rihanna, people don't like Cardi, they don't like Nikki,

755
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 1: they don't like it. We're not talking about it because

756
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:30,880
Speaker 1: y'all don't like stuff because you don't like that person.

757
00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:35,320
Speaker 1: And a lot of times you won't like this artist,

758
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 1: not because you don't like them, but because you're a

759
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:42,839
Speaker 1: fan of the other person. Y'all opinions don't matter. We're

760
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,880
Speaker 1: talking about This song is literally two packs of ass.

761
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 1: You know a song I'm finna say, and you agree

762
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 1: with me, closer to my dree.

763
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:54,200
Speaker 3: That shit stinks.

764
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:57,160
Speaker 1: You're not getting closer to your dreams. You're actually about

765
00:38:57,200 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 1: to fail. And I'm a hater, so I'm laughing.

766
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 2: You're I don't turn that ship off. You ain't wrong, Queen,

767
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 2: turn it off, you ain't wrong. I hate every time

768
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:12,440
Speaker 2: I'm at a fucking party because they be playing that

769
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:15,439
Speaker 2: ship at brunches in day parties. I'd be like, bitch,

770
00:39:15,760 --> 00:39:20,879
Speaker 2: where the fuck is the migo? Where the future? Why

771
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 2: are you playing? How is it go? I thought it was?

772
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 2: I don't know, bitch, I don't know all I know is,

773
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:37,320
Speaker 2: don't play that hit at my brunch party. It's no

774
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 2: shade to her, and it ain't. It's nice. I swear

775
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 2: to God this night. But I just girl, I love

776
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:49,799
Speaker 2: to listen to this when I clean up my house. Well, bitch,

777
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,840
Speaker 2: that's you. I personally, you play at my house is

778
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 2: gonna be dirty. I personally love to listen to a

779
00:39:55,239 --> 00:40:00,600
Speaker 2: little bun bee okay in my house. Okay, get down,

780
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:02,840
Speaker 2: you know, get down in the boards and the crimp.

781
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:08,400
Speaker 2: Black community is just gonna be so disappointed. What is

782
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 2: it that song by that man I can't stop love.

783
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 2: I don't like that. Ya you don't like him? I don't.

784
00:40:21,680 --> 00:40:22,879
Speaker 2: I didn't say I don't like him.

785
00:40:23,520 --> 00:40:23,839
Speaker 3: I didn't.

786
00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 2: I don't like him. Kim kill Jess put a capture.

787
00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:32,040
Speaker 2: It's him, Kim is him. I don't like that song. Okay,

788
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:35,920
Speaker 2: that's fair that I be so tired of. Okay, I'm

789
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:39,600
Speaker 2: special with all the black community. Oh girl, go risk

790
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:49,319
Speaker 2: taken up not fever, because I mean they literally might

791
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 2: not wake up.

792
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 1: Okay, y'all gonna get mad when I'm in the club

793
00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 1: and they play this song. I get so mad because

794
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:00,520
Speaker 1: it's like, give.

795
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:03,840
Speaker 3: It up delicious man, I got this sweat.

796
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 2: I have imagined my because I'm a still swag. I

797
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 2: don't like it. No, I hate it.

798
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:16,479
Speaker 1: I hate swag surfing the club you wild, I can't

799
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:19,759
Speaker 1: it just don't hit like it used to.

800
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 2: Real. I think they've played it out. It's too much.

801
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 3: I will do it.

802
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:25,839
Speaker 2: I'm with you, Dre. I'm still gonna do it. I'm

803
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:30,120
Speaker 2: a It is like I'm a millennial. Yeah, it was

804
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 2: all time to shine twenty When did they come out

805
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 2: twenty eleven, twenty twelve? It was a long time ago. Enough. Yeah,

806
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:40,920
Speaker 2: I'm still and they's very nostalgic for me.

807
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:42,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, I love it.

808
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 2: Some moments time I can't. I can't get into it.

809
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:49,480
Speaker 5: I have one what the black community is also gonna

810
00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 5: hate me?

811
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 2: Family Affair by Mary J. Blish hater ration, holiration. I

812
00:41:55,000 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 2: thought she was gonna say, by the sisters, it's a

813
00:41:57,160 --> 00:42:05,040
Speaker 2: family fat like andration and dancery. I don't like it. Oh,

814
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:11,440
Speaker 2: I can't agree with you. I don't like Yeah, then

815
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 2: I'm flipped them Carls was bouncing that influenced the generation

816
00:42:16,400 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 2: with them flips, I agree, he birthed the nation. She

817
00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:26,399
Speaker 2: sure did. It's like, but this is why I can't.

818
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 2: I can't. This is why I'm high. That's another one.

819
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:33,759
Speaker 2: I turned that all this ship that just made me

820
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,319
Speaker 2: think about that she This is why I'm hog turned

821
00:42:36,320 --> 00:42:36,640
Speaker 2: it off.

822
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 6: This is why, this is why, this is why I'm hot.

823
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:47,880
Speaker 6: Su I'm hot because don't fly because you're not. This

824
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:50,439
Speaker 6: is That's why this is why I'm hot.

825
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 3: That ship stinks.

826
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 2: But back then it was hard because don't act like

827
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 2: you wasn't in your house. This is why, this is why,

828
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 2: this is why I'm It.

829
00:43:00,800 --> 00:43:01,680
Speaker 3: Wasn't shit hot.

830
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 2: It was given room temperature. Bitch, it wasn't hut at all.

831
00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 2: That was a good song back in the day. Okay,

832
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 2: I'll give it to you back in the day. But yeah,

833
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 2: you was right. Shit was asked just like you know,

834
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:16,239
Speaker 2: it's a few songs that have just.

835
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:21,399
Speaker 1: Okay, I say, I see Okay. So there's a thing

836
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:25,200
Speaker 1: y'all know. I'm on TikTok heavily. So there's this a

837
00:43:25,560 --> 00:43:28,160
Speaker 1: trend going on right now and people are like rapping

838
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 1: to tea pains chopped and screwed, and they're telling.

839
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:32,760
Speaker 3: People what they're doing wrong.

840
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:36,320
Speaker 1: So there's this girl going back and forth with Lizzo,

841
00:43:36,480 --> 00:43:38,880
Speaker 1: right and what I've noticed is like a lot of

842
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:42,960
Speaker 1: people be like saying this about Lizzo's music and they

843
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 1: feel like, oh, I can't get into it. But y'all

844
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: have to realize Lizzo makes music for her audience, and

845
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:52,239
Speaker 1: I think she does it well because you know where

846
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,799
Speaker 1: a lot of artists mess up at is they start

847
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:57,319
Speaker 1: making music for their audience. They seek success, then they

848
00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:00,880
Speaker 1: want to start let me experiment. No, bit, you're not

849
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 1: ready to experiment. Keep feeding your audience. I'm pretty sure

850
00:44:04,560 --> 00:44:06,000
Speaker 1: there's a lot of things we want to talk about

851
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 1: on Poor Minds, but we gotta feed the audience.

852
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:11,799
Speaker 3: But we still have a fun time doing it fed

853
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 3: the audience.

854
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,520
Speaker 2: You know, So why is Lizo going back and forth

855
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:18,320
Speaker 2: with this lady because the lady said that she was

856
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:22,399
Speaker 2: off beat and she going back and forth with her. Yeah. Yeah,

857
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:23,120
Speaker 2: but it's funny.

858
00:44:23,160 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 1: It's like a funny thing, and like they're going back

859
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 1: and forth and the people like, are y'all flirting? It's

860
00:44:27,800 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 1: kind of funny though, but it's not like a bad thing.

861
00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 1: But it's just like, I think y'all need to realize

862
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:35,840
Speaker 1: that sometimes some music isn't for you. This is the

863
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:39,400
Speaker 1: first time I've talked about music that I hate outside

864
00:44:39,440 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 1: of Troy's songs in Eminem and.

865
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:45,280
Speaker 2: You ain't all with Tree songs and Eminem because we're.

866
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 3: Not doing again. We're not doing this again. We're not

867
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 3: doing this again. They've been eating me up for months, and.

868
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:53,359
Speaker 2: They should because you sound ridiculous. The only great take

869
00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:58,399
Speaker 2: that you had today was going GAI. First of all,

870
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 2: that's the only the air.

871
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:02,520
Speaker 1: Let me clear the air right now for all the

872
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:04,080
Speaker 1: eminem stands out there.

873
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 2: I never said his music was always asked. I said

874
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 2: it didn't.

875
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 1: Age well, meaning I liked it at one point in time,

876
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:18,680
Speaker 1: and the way your brain works that you remember things,

877
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 1: so of course I'm gonna remember all the lyrics because

878
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:22,279
Speaker 1: I used to sing the songs because when I was

879
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:25,160
Speaker 1: twelve it was hot five just like you said, this

880
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 1: is why I'm hot.

881
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 3: I know the words still because I was rapping it

882
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 3: back then.

883
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:31,839
Speaker 2: After you just trying to act like you would sing,

884
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:33,480
Speaker 2: but I was. I knew it.

885
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 1: But at thirty six years old, I'm just not listening

886
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 1: to his music.

887
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 2: We're not gonna click this.

888
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 1: All I'm saying is y'all been eating me up for

889
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:42,319
Speaker 1: months in my comments, like please give me a break.

890
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:44,279
Speaker 1: I said it was good at one point, it just

891
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:46,680
Speaker 1: didn't age well. You know what aged well?

892
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:47,800
Speaker 2: Song cry?

893
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:51,320
Speaker 3: I can't see it coming down my eyes. But I

894
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:52,840
Speaker 3: gotta let this song.

895
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:55,800
Speaker 2: Cry because that's relatable across all ages.

896
00:45:55,880 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 1: This with the lyrics, the beat, everything, everything, it's timeless.

897
00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:13,160
Speaker 2: Were still crying, jay Z were still ya I can't

898
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 2: drink No look good fantasy yo, one of my favorite

899
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 2: jay Z song. Yeah that is yeah. You know what's

900
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:35,080
Speaker 2: funny is that you should do that when we have gigs,

901
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:37,560
Speaker 2: when you be trying to get in the studio, but

902
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:39,239
Speaker 2: you don't even do that. I don't know why you're

903
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:41,440
Speaker 2: doing that for me. I can't get you no studios.

904
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 2: I don't want to make a song with nobody but you.

905
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:47,800
Speaker 2: And what I'm gonna do rap, Yes, I could wrap this.

906
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. Dude, No gotta move. We gotta

907
00:46:53,600 --> 00:46:55,920
Speaker 2: move on. We're doing this again. We keep stretching.

908
00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 1: So now okay, so but before we move on, let

909
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 1: us know what is a song or a popular artist

910
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:03,200
Speaker 1: or a popular song that y'all just don't like.

911
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:04,840
Speaker 3: Let us know in the comments. I'm really interested.

912
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 2: I'm interested to know too. I'm curious to know shout

913
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 2: out to Cocktail Kick and y'all make sure y'all gonna

914
00:47:11,680 --> 00:47:16,040
Speaker 2: get that game. Now it's time to get into the

915
00:47:16,239 --> 00:47:21,799
Speaker 2: big bowld B bow a bow Bow Bow Bow Bow.

916
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 1: So this segment of the bed is sponsored by of course,

917
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 1: y'all see her fantasy boxes in the building with us.

918
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:32,799
Speaker 1: We have all their good products. I'm telling you, if

919
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:35,800
Speaker 1: that thing ain't as sweet as it should be, you

920
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 1: need to go to her fantasy box. They're gonna get

921
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 1: you right.

922
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:40,479
Speaker 2: I mean literally everything. They have all type of washes,

923
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 2: they have to refresh jill. They have the other yummy

924
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 2: jail good for you you're about to get into me.

925
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 2: They got it everywhere. The odor ring, which is good

926
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:52,840
Speaker 2: to just you know, make you smell good, freshen you

927
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 2: up after the gym. I like security in my gym

928
00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 2: bag personally. And then they also have the body splash oils.

929
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:01,720
Speaker 2: They have supposits, whoes, they have horror fi a pills,

930
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:04,279
Speaker 2: anything that you need slippery bodies, even if you having

931
00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:06,400
Speaker 2: problems getting wet slippery.

932
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:10,360
Speaker 3: Excuse me, y'all want to know how I saved up

933
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 3: my money to get you.

934
00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 2: I could use some of that tonight. That's what I'm

935
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:22,839
Speaker 2: saying we're getting okay. Gunned his thing. That's a great song.

936
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:29,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, bought the house and I was able to stack

937
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 1: up my money because I was wiping and giving.

938
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:37,440
Speaker 2: Them that I was getting okay.

939
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:40,520
Speaker 1: So anyways, shout out to her fantasy box in the building.

940
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:43,640
Speaker 1: But what a bad topic today. Do you tell your

941
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:47,479
Speaker 1: girlfriends everything about your sex life?

942
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:50,960
Speaker 2: Like some women tell every detail? Right, Oh, his dick

943
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:54,239
Speaker 2: was small, his dick was big. Uh, it was good.

944
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 1: He couldn't do it, he didn't have no rhythm. But

945
00:48:57,600 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 1: other women just be like, I'm not telling my friends that.

946
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 1: Like what makes you choose what friends you tell what to?

947
00:49:07,160 --> 00:49:10,240
Speaker 2: I don't know. I think for me, it's just become

948
00:49:10,360 --> 00:49:12,920
Speaker 2: a maturity thing, and I just feel like your friends

949
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 2: don't need to know everything. But when I was younger,

950
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 2: I didn't give a fuck. I used to tell my

951
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 2: friends a lot of stuff just because at the end

952
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:24,160
Speaker 2: of the day, like, who cares the reason to me

953
00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 2: why older women will tell their daughters and their nieces

954
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:31,520
Speaker 2: and stuff. Don't tell people your bees is because if

955
00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 2: you tell her how good his dick is or how

956
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:36,640
Speaker 2: good the sexy is, she might steal your man. One

957
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:38,360
Speaker 2: of my friends still in my man ain't never been

958
00:49:38,400 --> 00:49:41,040
Speaker 2: a fear of mine, So I don't care about telling

959
00:49:41,080 --> 00:49:43,719
Speaker 2: them my bees. I'm not worried about that because I'm

960
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:47,239
Speaker 2: confident enough in myself, in my relationship rise to my

961
00:49:47,400 --> 00:49:50,920
Speaker 2: man to know that, Like, even if one of my

962
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:53,640
Speaker 2: friends did try some sheit, my man ain't going and

963
00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 2: I just got to cut you off because you're you're

964
00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 2: weird though, But like that's just not a fear of mine.

965
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:01,640
Speaker 2: I feel like that's what friendship is for. Like you're

966
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 2: supposed to share stuff with your friends. I have had

967
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:07,080
Speaker 2: some funny ass conversations with my friends about six I

968
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:09,800
Speaker 2: have had some serious conversations. I have had some scary

969
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 2: conversations as far as like like pregnancy and stuff package no,

970
00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 2: like no bitch, pregnancy scares and stuff like I think

971
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:22,440
Speaker 2: we exactly what the fuck you wrong with this speech?

972
00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:31,400
Speaker 2: What at least once an episode? What at least you

973
00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:37,920
Speaker 2: did it? Because what? But no, Like, I feel like

974
00:50:38,080 --> 00:50:40,879
Speaker 2: that is what womanhood is about. It's about sharing, It's

975
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 2: about having conversations. I mean, I don't know, so how

976
00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:44,280
Speaker 2: how do you feel? I agree?

977
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:46,960
Speaker 5: I feel like if you can't trust your friend, like

978
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:48,719
Speaker 5: if you feel like your friend is gonna snake you,

979
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:50,600
Speaker 5: or you don't want to share that information because she's

980
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:51,719
Speaker 5: gonna use it against you, then.

981
00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:53,799
Speaker 2: That's really not your friends. Yeah, but I think I've

982
00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:56,960
Speaker 2: learned a lot about sex and being comfortable with sex

983
00:50:57,440 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 2: through having those conversations transparently with my friend. It's like,

984
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:02,239
Speaker 2: what you doing? How you sucking? Because I didn't know,

985
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:05,919
Speaker 2: Like my mom didn't teach me that time to teach

986
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 2: you a little more like walk you through that, and you.

987
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 5: Feel a little more comfortable to kind of explore and

988
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 5: ask more questions.

989
00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:13,880
Speaker 2: I agree.

990
00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:16,200
Speaker 1: I feel like there's never been a conversation. First of all,

991
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:18,040
Speaker 1: there's never been a conversation I've had with a friend

992
00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:19,680
Speaker 1: and she'd be like, oh, I fuck this nigga and

993
00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 1: his dick was so good, and I'd be like, oh

994
00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:21,680
Speaker 1: let me let.

995
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,799
Speaker 2: Me Yeah, it's just ain't crabcakes. This is a man.

996
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:26,680
Speaker 3: What the fuck are you talking about?

997
00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:29,320
Speaker 2: What do we you know what I'm saying, Like it

998
00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:32,839
Speaker 2: gets a little weird. I have never had a common wrong.

999
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:35,120
Speaker 2: I have a real though, like I've never it's not

1000
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 2: one size fits all. I'm not like because also, what

1001
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:41,279
Speaker 2: is good to you might not be good to me,

1002
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:44,480
Speaker 2: And am I really willing to mess up my friendship

1003
00:51:44,640 --> 00:51:48,200
Speaker 2: to test it out. No, like that's so weird.

1004
00:51:48,640 --> 00:51:50,640
Speaker 1: Once you tell me that you have had sex with

1005
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 1: a man and y'all are dating and you really like him,

1006
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 1: Oh he's off rip, that's broke, Like, that's that's my

1007
00:51:57,680 --> 00:52:00,600
Speaker 1: bro we ain't never, don't don't say no weird, don't

1008
00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 1: do nothing weird because I'm stitching. I'm a rat, Like

1009
00:52:04,000 --> 00:52:07,719
Speaker 1: like Drea's neighbor, I'm a rat. So I just think

1010
00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 1: that when it's never. If I don't share something with

1011
00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:14,480
Speaker 1: somebody that's my close friend that I've done sexually, it's

1012
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:15,920
Speaker 1: not because like I'm embarrassed.

1013
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:18,640
Speaker 3: It's just like, oh I gotta sit it down. We

1014
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:20,520
Speaker 3: gotta have a little tie drink before.

1015
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:22,839
Speaker 2: Hello, what I did? Now? Because sometimes I done did

1016
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:27,479
Speaker 2: some shit. That's two for you. Yeah, I'm not gonna

1017
00:52:27,520 --> 00:52:28,319
Speaker 2: lie I did something.

1018
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:30,600
Speaker 1: So something happened to me the other day that was

1019
00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:32,520
Speaker 1: so freaky. I said, you know what, I need to

1020
00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:34,320
Speaker 1: keep this to myself. I'm not ready to share this

1021
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:34,960
Speaker 1: with the class.

1022
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:35,319
Speaker 3: Yep.

1023
00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:37,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna share it with the class eventually. But

1024
00:52:37,920 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 2: I got it. I got the process this shit. Yeah,

1025
00:52:40,280 --> 00:52:45,600
Speaker 2: yeah it went down. Sometimes it goes down, it goes down.

1026
00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:48,720
Speaker 2: I don't know. To me, it's more about bonding and laughs,

1027
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:53,919
Speaker 2: like just having a good time, like having conversations, we out,

1028
00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:56,320
Speaker 2: we having drinks. Are we having a girls night and

1029
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:58,319
Speaker 2: we just talking about our week? We talk about girl

1030
00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:01,360
Speaker 2: this is what I did last night. I don't necessarily

1031
00:53:01,400 --> 00:53:03,800
Speaker 2: even feel like it's about bragging and stuff, because I

1032
00:53:03,880 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 2: do feel like some women and that's when they get

1033
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 2: a little weird. Some women do be telling a friends

1034
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:09,240
Speaker 2: stuff to be like bragging.

1035
00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:12,160
Speaker 3: But how you bragging on dick? Dick is the easiest

1036
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:15,560
Speaker 3: thing to get or a freaky like I don't know.

1037
00:53:15,760 --> 00:53:18,239
Speaker 2: I feel like, do you think Dick is easy to get?

1038
00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:20,560
Speaker 2: I feel like DC ain't good. Deck ain't easy to get.

1039
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:22,120
Speaker 2: Quality deck ain't easy to eat.

1040
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:22,520
Speaker 3: It's not.

1041
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:25,440
Speaker 1: But what I'm qual quality Dick is not. But it

1042
00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:27,360
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with you as a person.

1043
00:53:27,840 --> 00:53:29,600
Speaker 2: So you can be the shittiest.

1044
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:31,640
Speaker 1: Woman in the world getting quality Dick. You can be

1045
00:53:31,719 --> 00:53:34,759
Speaker 1: the best woman in the world getting trash dick. Some

1046
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:37,560
Speaker 1: niggas got good Dick. If some niggas don't, they gonna

1047
00:53:37,600 --> 00:53:39,800
Speaker 1: give you the quality Dick because he just got something.

1048
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:43,400
Speaker 2: Quality Dick will be attached to the worst person in

1049
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 2: the world. So sometimes when I think of quality, Dick,

1050
00:53:46,560 --> 00:53:50,839
Speaker 2: I'm thinking more and so about the person's Like, it's

1051
00:53:50,960 --> 00:53:53,440
Speaker 2: quality deep if it's attached to a quality person. And

1052
00:53:53,520 --> 00:53:55,120
Speaker 2: that's what I was. Because you like to make love.

1053
00:53:55,880 --> 00:53:58,479
Speaker 2: You're talking about sweet sweet love. That's what you're talking about.

1054
00:53:58,600 --> 00:53:58,959
Speaker 2: I mean.

1055
00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:07,800
Speaker 1: Less getting enough had just so week can make sweet love.

1056
00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:12,400
Speaker 2: It was the last time you made love, girl, Like

1057
00:54:12,520 --> 00:54:16,440
Speaker 2: two weeks ago you was making sweet sweet thing. I'm ashamed.

1058
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:20,000
Speaker 2: I don't be ashamed of it. Don't be ashamed. I

1059
00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:21,879
Speaker 2: shouldn't have because I backtracked.

1060
00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:26,400
Speaker 3: Sometimes you gotta make sweet love ye the Blue Corn movie.

1061
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 2: But then way because then now your feelings we all

1062
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,799
Speaker 2: like you be like, oh my god, I love him again.

1063
00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 2: You never stopped. That's what's crazy about it. But sometimes

1064
00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:37,600
Speaker 2: when you make sweet love, you be like, oh I

1065
00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:38,239
Speaker 2: love him again.

1066
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:39,960
Speaker 3: It ain't again, bit you never stopped.

1067
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 2: So what's too much to share? Like Kinks play by play,

1068
00:54:45,560 --> 00:54:46,479
Speaker 2: Like you don't need.

1069
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 1: To tell me every little thing that he said and did,

1070
00:54:49,640 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 1: but you can tell me, Like there's a difference between

1071
00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:55,120
Speaker 1: being like, oh, girl, we had anal sex last night

1072
00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:57,800
Speaker 1: versus girl, we had ama unn he stuck it in

1073
00:54:57,920 --> 00:54:59,920
Speaker 1: and it hurt and it started bleeding a little bit because.

1074
00:54:59,680 --> 00:55:02,799
Speaker 2: It cut my bootyhole. Yeah, you don't have to tell

1075
00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:05,760
Speaker 2: me all that. Then I had to get her fantasy

1076
00:55:05,800 --> 00:55:07,200
Speaker 2: box and I had to wipe it up because you know,

1077
00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:07,719
Speaker 2: the mess was.

1078
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:09,520
Speaker 3: You ain't got to do all that, but you can

1079
00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:12,120
Speaker 3: give me a little you know, we did aim last night.

1080
00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:15,160
Speaker 1: It was it got a little crazy, got a little message. Yeah,

1081
00:55:15,400 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 1: but you don't have to go with specific details.

1082
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:20,239
Speaker 2: And from what I've learned from my married friends, they

1083
00:55:20,560 --> 00:55:23,319
Speaker 2: try not to embarrass their significant others. So if it's

1084
00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:26,040
Speaker 2: anything that like will portray them in a negative light,

1085
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:28,719
Speaker 2: they usually keep that to themselves as private and they

1086
00:55:28,840 --> 00:55:31,359
Speaker 2: just don't share all of that information too, because that's

1087
00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:32,920
Speaker 2: how they protect their relationship.

1088
00:55:33,000 --> 00:55:33,200
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1089
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:37,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think there's lines where it's like funny and

1090
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:39,759
Speaker 1: it's like oh ha ha, and then there's like okay,

1091
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:41,719
Speaker 1: you're taking sh it too far, takes.

1092
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:44,880
Speaker 2: Me so good, I say blah blah blah, or I

1093
00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:50,320
Speaker 2: need to less a wat time, and I'm just saying like,

1094
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:54,839
Speaker 2: I don't know, it's really your good friend and y'all

1095
00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:57,839
Speaker 2: are cool and you trust them. I don't necessarily feel

1096
00:55:57,840 --> 00:55:59,239
Speaker 2: like it's too much that you could heal. But like

1097
00:55:59,280 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 2: I do agree with hot on the embarrassing part, Like

1098
00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:05,080
Speaker 2: I can say nothing that's embarrassing, Like I think, in

1099
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:07,480
Speaker 2: a relationship till this, I don't care.

1100
00:56:07,480 --> 00:56:09,520
Speaker 1: If you've been married for ten years, fifteen years, been

1101
00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:12,560
Speaker 1: in a relationship ten years, fifteen years, whatever, You're gonna

1102
00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:14,560
Speaker 1: still have some embarrassing moments in the bed and it

1103
00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:16,960
Speaker 1: may be funny. Y'all may handle it different, but I

1104
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:18,040
Speaker 1: don't need to tell y'all that.

1105
00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 2: So have y'all ever regretted sharing too much with your friends?

1106
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:24,919
Speaker 1: That's why I said what I said the other week

1107
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:26,239
Speaker 1: when I was like, I don't know how to be

1108
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:29,439
Speaker 1: a fifty percent friend and one hundred percent friend. Thank God,

1109
00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:33,800
Speaker 1: I have never had a friendship that I'm in no,

1110
00:56:34,760 --> 00:56:38,000
Speaker 1: because my friends aren't weird. People are weird. Those people

1111
00:56:38,040 --> 00:56:40,960
Speaker 1: become friends with weird those they do I have. I

1112
00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 1: am so blessed, by the grace of God. I don't

1113
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:46,239
Speaker 1: have any weirdo friends. So everything that I share with

1114
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:49,719
Speaker 1: y'all's like, ooh, girl, you crazy, and I never hear

1115
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:52,360
Speaker 1: about it again unless I bring it up.

1116
00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:53,520
Speaker 3: They're not like, but.

1117
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:55,759
Speaker 2: Lex you remember when you told me you busted that

1118
00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:59,279
Speaker 2: booty hole because you was hungry. We got to tell

1119
00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:01,480
Speaker 2: people I need to rama noodles in a little Briton.

1120
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:06,440
Speaker 2: I thought that was between us and the family.

1121
00:57:06,640 --> 00:57:09,360
Speaker 1: Well you know, if that's why I can't surround myself

1122
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:12,439
Speaker 1: with weird those, I can't do it. Have you ever

1123
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:14,759
Speaker 1: regretted sharing things with a friend?

1124
00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:19,600
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, but you learn though I did, but it

1125
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:22,240
Speaker 2: was somebody I had to learn. Like I be thinking

1126
00:57:22,320 --> 00:57:24,560
Speaker 2: people be my friends and they don't really be my friends.

1127
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:26,920
Speaker 2: And I feel like that has come with wisdom and age,

1128
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 2: Like at this point I be knowing who my friends

1129
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 2: are and who I can tell certain stuff to and

1130
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:34,600
Speaker 2: who I can't. Just because we'd be having a good

1131
00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:38,040
Speaker 2: time together and you're a nice girl, and you know

1132
00:57:38,440 --> 00:57:40,880
Speaker 2: we've been having good conversations and we've been friends for

1133
00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:42,800
Speaker 2: a few months, that don't mean I could really confide

1134
00:57:42,840 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 2: in you, like right, So yeah, I have regretted it,

1135
00:57:46,200 --> 00:57:48,360
Speaker 2: just because I told somebody something before Andy and they

1136
00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:52,360
Speaker 2: told like it got back to the men. Now that's

1137
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 2: a messy bee Liz for drama. Yeah, ended up getting

1138
00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:59,840
Speaker 2: back to him. What I said was she was just

1139
00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:03,200
Speaker 2: missy as fuck. And she had her own personal agenda.

1140
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:05,520
Speaker 3: I think I remember what situation you were talking about.

1141
00:58:05,640 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, she had her own personal agenda with that situation.

1142
00:58:08,320 --> 00:58:11,760
Speaker 2: So you know it ended up not but it didn't

1143
00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:14,400
Speaker 2: really matter that much because I mean, we still get

1144
00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:18,280
Speaker 2: fucking with after that. She said, I can't leave alone.

1145
00:58:18,880 --> 00:58:21,439
Speaker 2: She's too good. I don't matter that she was talking

1146
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:24,960
Speaker 2: about me, and don't give a fuck. I know, my

1147
00:58:25,080 --> 00:58:27,960
Speaker 2: big bab bitch, you ain't getting me, noughty.

1148
00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:34,400
Speaker 3: Okay, moving on to the item of the week.

1149
00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:37,360
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm actually really excited about this item of the

1150
00:58:37,400 --> 00:58:41,760
Speaker 1: week because let me tell y'all something about me Andrea

1151
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:44,160
Speaker 1: and poor minds before we get into this, because we

1152
00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:46,040
Speaker 1: have entered a new era of doing like item of

1153
00:58:46,040 --> 00:58:47,760
Speaker 1: the weeks with different items because this is what y'all

1154
00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:50,880
Speaker 1: have requested because every week we talk about you know,

1155
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:54,120
Speaker 1: either mused beauty or rich Look Hair, and y'all were like,

1156
00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:56,640
Speaker 1: we want to actually see some products. But the thing

1157
00:58:56,760 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 1: about it is we have to actually like the product

1158
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:01,800
Speaker 1: if you're featured on the show, right, you know what

1159
00:59:01,800 --> 00:59:04,600
Speaker 1: I'm saying. So like every time y'all see us doing

1160
00:59:04,680 --> 00:59:07,560
Speaker 1: an ad, whether it's paid or not, these are products

1161
00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 1: that we actually use and swear about because I think

1162
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:14,600
Speaker 1: that I'm over that era of seeing influencers, podcasters, anybody

1163
00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 1: promote a product that they actually don't stand by.

1164
00:59:17,800 --> 00:59:19,000
Speaker 2: And I will say.

1165
00:59:20,520 --> 00:59:22,240
Speaker 3: This Kendle smells amazing.

1166
00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 1: This is the newest collection by c Freemen. And when

1167
00:59:28,360 --> 00:59:32,320
Speaker 1: I tell y'all that laundry day life, I.

1168
00:59:32,400 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 2: Love laundry day. And then I also love the fact

1169
00:59:34,720 --> 00:59:37,400
Speaker 2: that these CBD infused I feel like, you know, it's

1170
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:40,480
Speaker 2: very calm. It brings a sense of calm over you.

1171
00:59:40,640 --> 00:59:42,960
Speaker 2: It just like fields your house up feels your space.

1172
00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:45,040
Speaker 2: Because right now we have it in the studio. Yes,

1173
00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:48,480
Speaker 2: and it smells amazing in here, like I wish that

1174
00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:52,680
Speaker 2: y'all could scratch a snews. I'm telling y'all it smells

1175
00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:57,800
Speaker 2: like laundry day for real. Like when I walk in

1176
00:59:57,840 --> 00:59:59,280
Speaker 2: my laundry room and I open that door, its just

1177
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:01,720
Speaker 2: like a burst. Ooh, this smells so fresh and clean.

1178
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:03,080
Speaker 3: That's what that smells like.

1179
01:00:03,320 --> 01:00:05,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, Now we have the Sadin sheets too, Saturn sheet.

1180
01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:10,360
Speaker 1: Now we have the Sadin sheets too. Saturn sheet smells good.

1181
01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:12,320
Speaker 1: It smells good.

1182
01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:15,520
Speaker 2: But this laundry day, that's our fave. Laundry day is

1183
01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:18,000
Speaker 2: our favor, but satin sheets is amazing as well. I

1184
01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:19,880
Speaker 2: feel like you can't go wrong with either sins. So

1185
01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:22,120
Speaker 2: y'all need to make sure that y'all go to Home

1186
01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:25,000
Speaker 2: by Sea Freeman dot com. Y'all.

1187
01:00:25,080 --> 01:00:28,200
Speaker 3: Candles, Yes, get you a candle. One thing about it.

1188
01:00:29,160 --> 01:00:34,120
Speaker 1: Y'all know Drea's house is always extremely clean. My house

1189
01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:36,720
Speaker 1: is always extremely clean. But having a clean house with

1190
01:00:36,880 --> 01:00:39,720
Speaker 1: no smell good, it doesn't hit the same. If you

1191
01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:41,600
Speaker 1: don't have candles in your house, I know you are

1192
01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:43,520
Speaker 1: temporary cleaning ass bitch. Yeah.

1193
01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:45,040
Speaker 2: I love for people to walk in my house and

1194
01:00:45,120 --> 01:00:48,120
Speaker 2: be like, oh, it's smell good in here. And they

1195
01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:50,480
Speaker 2: say that every time. Every time. You not why because

1196
01:00:50,520 --> 01:00:53,480
Speaker 2: I got Home by Sea Freeman That's why. Yeah, And

1197
01:00:53,600 --> 01:00:56,960
Speaker 2: then they be like, now I feel like I want

1198
01:00:57,000 --> 01:01:02,720
Speaker 2: to take a little nail. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I

1199
01:01:02,840 --> 01:01:03,120
Speaker 2: love it.

1200
01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:07,040
Speaker 1: Home by Sea Freeman dot com, Lincoln and about yo, y'all,

1201
01:01:07,200 --> 01:01:08,080
Speaker 1: that's the item of the week.

1202
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:11,600
Speaker 2: Go get y'all. Some candles support the business. This is

1203
01:01:11,680 --> 01:01:15,640
Speaker 2: a bomb mass candle and their instagram is home h

1204
01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:18,400
Speaker 2: y'all m e Underscore by Seve Freeman.

1205
01:01:18,920 --> 01:01:20,680
Speaker 3: Yes, go follow them, y'all.

1206
01:01:22,080 --> 01:01:25,160
Speaker 2: What we got next? Dre Okay, So now it's time

1207
01:01:25,360 --> 01:01:33,120
Speaker 2: to get into the by a Love. So what you've

1208
01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:35,240
Speaker 2: been listening to licks? Oh my gosh.

1209
01:01:35,680 --> 01:01:40,000
Speaker 1: So I'm so excited because y'all know we had Queen

1210
01:01:40,040 --> 01:01:44,040
Speaker 1: Naje on the show, and I'm not gonna lie. I

1211
01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:47,400
Speaker 1: haven't heard the song yet, so I'm maybe doing a

1212
01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 1: pre bop of the week. But by this by the

1213
01:01:50,760 --> 01:01:53,080
Speaker 1: time this drops, it'll be out. But you know how,

1214
01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:55,000
Speaker 1: sometimes you hear a snippet and you be like, I

1215
01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:56,440
Speaker 1: am so ready for this.

1216
01:01:57,320 --> 01:01:58,320
Speaker 3: I am so ready for this.

1217
01:01:58,400 --> 01:02:01,040
Speaker 1: So Queen Naja has a song dropping call Rain, and

1218
01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:02,479
Speaker 1: it sounds so good.

1219
01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:04,320
Speaker 2: It sounds so good.

1220
01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:06,160
Speaker 1: I think a lot of times people try to play

1221
01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:09,720
Speaker 1: with Queen because you know, she did the YouTube. She

1222
01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:12,520
Speaker 1: was a content creator at first, but we forget how

1223
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:15,480
Speaker 1: talented this woman really is. And when I tell y'all

1224
01:02:15,520 --> 01:02:17,480
Speaker 1: that snippet I heard, I cannot.

1225
01:02:17,200 --> 01:02:18,200
Speaker 3: Wait to hear the song.

1226
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:21,720
Speaker 2: She looks good too, like she has.

1227
01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 1: Been posting like little clips of her like shooting the video. Y'all,

1228
01:02:25,400 --> 01:02:27,400
Speaker 1: when y'all do rollouts, This is to all the artists,

1229
01:02:27,440 --> 01:02:29,919
Speaker 1: because I'm a music stand. When y'all do rollouts, stop

1230
01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:33,439
Speaker 1: dropping music with no video whenever she drops this song,

1231
01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:37,200
Speaker 1: the video is dropping too. When I hear a song,

1232
01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:39,160
Speaker 1: I want to see the video because what are you feeling?

1233
01:02:39,960 --> 01:02:42,160
Speaker 1: Because how are you singing the song? Because the way

1234
01:02:42,200 --> 01:02:43,880
Speaker 1: you singing it may be different from the way I'm

1235
01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 1: interpreting it. So I saw that she was shooting the

1236
01:02:46,480 --> 01:02:49,320
Speaker 1: video the other day. This is how you do a rollout.

1237
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:52,400
Speaker 1: Let's bring back proper rollouts. Beyonce got y'all thinking that

1238
01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:54,120
Speaker 1: y'all can just drop music in the middle.

1239
01:02:53,880 --> 01:02:57,400
Speaker 3: Of the night. Y'all can't do what Beyonce do. Okay,

1240
01:02:58,160 --> 01:02:59,600
Speaker 3: let's bring back proper.

1241
01:03:00,520 --> 01:03:03,520
Speaker 2: She gave us years of rollouts, years of is just

1242
01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:04,040
Speaker 2: dropping me.

1243
01:03:04,560 --> 01:03:07,040
Speaker 1: So by the time, like I said, this drops, hopefully

1244
01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:08,840
Speaker 1: I'll have heard the whole song. But I heard the

1245
01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:11,360
Speaker 1: snippet of rain by Queen, and I'm really excited. I'm

1246
01:03:11,360 --> 01:03:12,360
Speaker 1: really excited for the drop.

1247
01:03:12,520 --> 01:03:14,480
Speaker 3: So okay, as a Queen note.

1248
01:03:14,200 --> 01:03:16,040
Speaker 2: A girl, you know we love you over here we

1249
01:03:16,200 --> 01:03:20,000
Speaker 2: do so. Yes, So Mariah is a Scientist came out

1250
01:03:20,040 --> 01:03:24,360
Speaker 2: with a new album, Yes Heart Soul Simperately, and I

1251
01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:26,920
Speaker 2: like the album as a whole. I feel like it's

1252
01:03:26,920 --> 01:03:29,280
Speaker 2: a good album. But my favorite song is Easy to

1253
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:34,560
Speaker 2: Crime featuring Kelly Ucci, she's sample. I'm not sure that's

1254
01:03:34,600 --> 01:03:40,680
Speaker 2: a good question. Okay, I don't really know. Okay, I

1255
01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:44,280
Speaker 2: don't know. That's just the name of the song. But

1256
01:03:44,440 --> 01:03:46,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know, because you know, sometimes the

1257
01:03:46,360 --> 01:03:49,120
Speaker 2: way people sample, so if you can't really necessarily tell

1258
01:03:49,480 --> 01:03:51,640
Speaker 2: right off the rip, but I don't think so okay,

1259
01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:54,920
Speaker 2: But yeah, so is it a crime? Mariah the Scientists

1260
01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:58,520
Speaker 2: and Kelly Ucci's it's such a good song, like it's

1261
01:03:58,560 --> 01:04:01,040
Speaker 2: it's for the real love, It's what the real love is.

1262
01:04:01,680 --> 01:04:03,560
Speaker 2: You gonna listen to it and be like, oh my god.

1263
01:04:03,680 --> 01:04:06,400
Speaker 2: At one point in my life, I remember feeling this

1264
01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:10,240
Speaker 2: way about a man, because men will really take you

1265
01:04:10,320 --> 01:04:13,440
Speaker 2: down there. And I feel like Mariah the Scientist does

1266
01:04:13,480 --> 01:04:16,640
Speaker 2: a really good job of capturing that, and like her

1267
01:04:16,760 --> 01:04:19,960
Speaker 2: pen game is crazy. You have to really listen to

1268
01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:23,480
Speaker 2: the words or really even go sometimes read the lyrics

1269
01:04:23,560 --> 01:04:26,800
Speaker 2: of her songs and see what she really saying, because yeah,

1270
01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:30,520
Speaker 2: she really is a voice for the girls. But it's

1271
01:04:30,560 --> 01:04:31,000
Speaker 2: a good song.

1272
01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:33,080
Speaker 1: I really like, I can't play with Mara the Scientists

1273
01:04:33,160 --> 01:04:35,680
Speaker 1: pen you can. It's very deep and it's deeper than

1274
01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:36,640
Speaker 1: what people realize.

1275
01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:39,400
Speaker 2: And I think her music career is gonna go very far.

1276
01:04:39,520 --> 01:04:41,600
Speaker 2: But even like at one point, if she decides that

1277
01:04:41,680 --> 01:04:43,560
Speaker 2: she doesn't actually want to be an artist anymore, she

1278
01:04:43,680 --> 01:04:46,160
Speaker 2: has a very promising career being like a writer and

1279
01:04:46,240 --> 01:04:53,960
Speaker 2: a producer a dream mm hmm. The words, it'd be

1280
01:04:54,040 --> 01:04:57,400
Speaker 2: the words. Some people just know how to put words

1281
01:04:57,440 --> 01:04:59,640
Speaker 2: together in such like an eloquent way.

1282
01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:05,160
Speaker 1: Like the way I put the whole as nigga together, okay,

1283
01:05:05,800 --> 01:05:08,440
Speaker 1: and it just flows off the tongue. It'll make you

1284
01:05:08,520 --> 01:05:09,160
Speaker 1: feel something.

1285
01:05:10,360 --> 01:05:12,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

1286
01:05:12,800 --> 01:05:15,080
Speaker 3: I hear you, but you don't feel me.

1287
01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:18,840
Speaker 2: I mean you know, I just feel like whole ass nigga.

1288
01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:21,959
Speaker 1: That's soul, but it ain't like because it's got different

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Speaker 1: whole as nigga. Okay, because you playing, but you'll be saying,

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Speaker 1: but I'm in a different moment.

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Speaker 2: Whole a nigga. That's how you always say it, But.

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Speaker 3: It depends what that you catch me on. So you

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Speaker 3: ain't caught me on a good day.

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Speaker 2: You can't say whole ass niggas an ah, whole ass

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Speaker 2: nigga like it's no nice way.

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Speaker 3: It is a nice way to say it because you

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Speaker 3: know how to be like, bitch, please.

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Speaker 2: You a whole as niggle my face. You didn't feel

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Speaker 2: like I really meant you as a whole ass nigga.

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Speaker 2: I don't know they call me ass nigga'nna take it

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Speaker 2: a person. If I said it like that, you wouldn't

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Speaker 2: think gonna be for real. It's three bad words, whole

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Speaker 2: ass and nigga. That's like a triple insult. Somebody say

1304
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Speaker 2: bitch bitch, just one word Bitch's you crazy? You as nigga,

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01:06:20,680 --> 01:06:26,280
Speaker 2: that's like bitch ass nigga, that's three insul And in

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Speaker 2: the way you said you'd be like Debo, woe.

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Speaker 1: Ass nigga who because niggas be whole ass niggas for

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01:06:34,280 --> 01:06:36,120
Speaker 1: free ass niggas, freaky.

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Speaker 3: Ass niggas for real, you assisting nine go niggas.

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Speaker 2: Would be freaky ass damn niggas be freaking What is

1311
01:06:41,440 --> 01:06:42,880
Speaker 2: wrong with y'all? I had a man, I had a

1312
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Speaker 2: block this morning on Instagram. I don't even know you.

1313
01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:53,200
Speaker 2: Why you sending me pictures of your penis literally full flash.

1314
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Speaker 1: I'm just opening like I like to open my messages

1315
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Speaker 1: like I just because I like to respond to people.

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Speaker 3: I am an engaged person.

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Speaker 1: But honestly, I'm getting to the point where like, I

1318
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Speaker 1: can't even talk to y'all because what am I opening?

1319
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Speaker 2: Why would you do that?

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Speaker 1: That's disrespect It's disrespectful because I beat y'all ass when

1321
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Speaker 1: I see you don't get an I fights niggas.

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Speaker 2: Baby. He said, you need to see this meat, gonna

1323
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Speaker 2: bring it to your front doorstep. You gonna see this deep,

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Speaker 2: shut up, I know you want this. That was a

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Speaker 2: good song. I don't ask me that, damn because Kindrick

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Speaker 2: and Drago's going bar for ball. I feel like Drake's

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Speaker 2: verse was better. Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: Personally, Okay, it was a great song. But what do

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Speaker 1: you think I think that it was a great song.

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Speaker 1: What do you think girl song?

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Speaker 3: Kendrick lumpma ca me just think so you like?

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Speaker 2: I respect it? Okay, moving on, So y'all know it's

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Speaker 2: time to get into our favorite segment of the show,

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Speaker 2: which is pour your heart out. You know, if you

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Speaker 2: send us show testimonials. I was like, we haven't got

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Speaker 2: a testimonial in a long time, right, probably.

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Speaker 1: Want something bad, like giving bad advice or someone been like,

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Speaker 1: you messed up my life.

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Speaker 2: But maybe that's the testament to our growth, because we

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Speaker 2: don't be fucking people life up no more. We've been

1344
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Speaker 2: giving him good advice. We don't grow all right question them. Awe, Hey, ladies.

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Speaker 2: I dated a guy from work and things didn't work out.

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01:08:33,520 --> 01:08:36,679
Speaker 2: We broke up his call last April on the fourth.

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01:08:36,960 --> 01:08:39,880
Speaker 2: He married someone else this year, ironically on the fourth

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01:08:39,960 --> 01:08:43,160
Speaker 2: of April, and unfortunately, we still see each other once

1349
01:08:43,200 --> 01:08:45,800
Speaker 2: a week. I've cut ties with him since he got married,

1350
01:08:45,840 --> 01:08:48,000
Speaker 2: but we recently went out to celebrate one of our

1351
01:08:48,120 --> 01:08:51,720
Speaker 2: colleagues farewell and he was quite flirtatious with me. This

1352
01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:54,200
Speaker 2: is the second time we've interactedly since he got married,

1353
01:08:54,240 --> 01:08:58,000
Speaker 2: and both times he's he's been flirtatious. This time, though,

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01:08:58,560 --> 01:09:01,000
Speaker 2: I realized I'm still being much in love with him.

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01:09:01,400 --> 01:09:03,560
Speaker 2: I don't know what to do, to be honest, I

1356
01:09:03,680 --> 01:09:05,800
Speaker 2: want to move on, but haven't been able to date

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01:09:05,880 --> 01:09:08,360
Speaker 2: since we broke up. I cannot seem to get over

1358
01:09:08,479 --> 01:09:10,320
Speaker 2: this person, and I feel like that part of my

1359
01:09:10,439 --> 01:09:14,080
Speaker 2: life is still at a standstill. You want him more

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01:09:14,120 --> 01:09:16,160
Speaker 2: because he's married, and because you can't have him.

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01:09:16,240 --> 01:09:20,080
Speaker 3: You don't really love him. It's a we want what

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01:09:20,200 --> 01:09:21,519
Speaker 3: we can't have type of things.

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Speaker 1: Y'all stop talking for a reason, and we tend to

1364
01:09:25,040 --> 01:09:29,200
Speaker 1: romanticize everything, especially women. Men do this too, but I

1365
01:09:29,280 --> 01:09:32,599
Speaker 1: can only speak from a woman's standpoint. Obviously, you don't.

1366
01:09:32,439 --> 01:09:33,080
Speaker 2: Want this man.

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01:09:33,280 --> 01:09:35,040
Speaker 1: You just want him more because you feel like he's

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01:09:35,120 --> 01:09:37,920
Speaker 1: off limits. And I think that that's something that you

1369
01:09:38,080 --> 01:09:41,120
Speaker 1: have to work on internally to understand why. You know,

1370
01:09:41,360 --> 01:09:43,640
Speaker 1: we need to start wanting things that are for us

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01:09:43,720 --> 01:09:44,320
Speaker 1: that God.

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01:09:44,280 --> 01:09:44,720
Speaker 2: Sent to us.

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Speaker 3: This is not sent by God. This is not a

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01:09:46,880 --> 01:09:49,519
Speaker 3: situation that you want to be involved in.

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01:09:49,600 --> 01:09:51,880
Speaker 2: He's married, yeah, And I feel like you also got

1376
01:09:52,000 --> 01:09:54,679
Speaker 2: to keep in mind it's something to be said about

1377
01:09:54,800 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 2: you dating somebody first and him marrying someone else. So

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01:09:58,479 --> 01:10:00,519
Speaker 2: I feel like if youse the toy, if you was

1379
01:10:00,560 --> 01:10:02,160
Speaker 2: the person he wanted to be with, he would have

1380
01:10:02,280 --> 01:10:04,800
Speaker 2: chose you, and to me, that would be enough piece

1381
01:10:04,920 --> 01:10:07,080
Speaker 2: for me to be able to move on from a situation.

1382
01:10:07,240 --> 01:10:10,200
Speaker 2: It's just knowing like you chose You could have chose me,

1383
01:10:11,200 --> 01:10:12,920
Speaker 2: but you chose to be with somebody else because you

1384
01:10:12,960 --> 01:10:15,000
Speaker 2: said it was his call to y'all broke up and

1385
01:10:15,080 --> 01:10:17,040
Speaker 2: then he ended up getting with this other girl marrying

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01:10:17,080 --> 01:10:19,439
Speaker 2: her within a year. He never wanted you like that,

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01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:24,360
Speaker 2: so I just would move on and get overy. I

1388
01:10:24,439 --> 01:10:27,000
Speaker 2: know that sounds a little harsh, but I mean sometimes

1389
01:10:27,040 --> 01:10:29,160
Speaker 2: as women as we have to do because he's clearly

1390
01:10:29,280 --> 01:10:31,360
Speaker 2: moved on, and of course me and are gonna flirt.

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01:10:32,479 --> 01:10:36,479
Speaker 2: Flirting is like low key harmless. Well my opinion, it

1392
01:10:36,800 --> 01:10:38,160
Speaker 2: depends on who it is.

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01:10:38,520 --> 01:10:41,160
Speaker 1: I think that it's harmless. I do agree with you

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01:10:41,280 --> 01:10:43,800
Speaker 1: on that, but some people feel like that's overboard. But

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01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:47,920
Speaker 1: I also think it's also breadcrumbs. I think his flirting

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01:10:48,400 --> 01:10:51,360
Speaker 1: that's something deep when he probably is not even thinking.

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01:10:51,120 --> 01:10:52,519
Speaker 3: About the conversation that he had.

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01:10:52,560 --> 01:10:55,080
Speaker 1: Because a lot of times people would think you're being

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01:10:55,120 --> 01:11:00,439
Speaker 1: flirting and you're really just being nice. Exactly he really

1400
01:11:00,479 --> 01:11:02,839
Speaker 1: flirting or what's he being nice? But when you like somebody,

1401
01:11:03,200 --> 01:11:05,240
Speaker 1: somebody be like, oh hey, how you doing. You look

1402
01:11:05,360 --> 01:11:07,519
Speaker 1: nice today, and you'll be like, oh my god, girl,

1403
01:11:07,520 --> 01:11:09,200
Speaker 1: he want me so bad, he.

1404
01:11:09,280 --> 01:11:12,760
Speaker 2: Want me so damage like he ow my deck who

1405
01:11:12,880 --> 01:11:14,639
Speaker 2: Tom like he was you know what I'm saying.

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01:11:14,680 --> 01:11:17,200
Speaker 1: So I think it's like I don't really know what

1407
01:11:17,400 --> 01:11:19,640
Speaker 1: that flirting was, but it could be that he was

1408
01:11:19,840 --> 01:11:23,439
Speaker 1: seriously flirting. But either way, flirting is breadcrumbs because, like

1409
01:11:23,520 --> 01:11:25,559
Speaker 1: Drea said, it's harsh to.

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01:11:25,600 --> 01:11:26,680
Speaker 3: Say, but he didn't choose you.

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01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:30,000
Speaker 2: He didn't and he could have right, he could happen,

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01:11:30,040 --> 01:11:31,400
Speaker 2: he didn't. So I think the best thing you can

1413
01:11:31,439 --> 01:11:34,679
Speaker 2: do is move on. And marriage is permanent. Like Aniza

1414
01:11:34,720 --> 01:11:36,559
Speaker 2: picked somebody to be their wife and he like, oh,

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01:11:36,560 --> 01:11:39,120
Speaker 2: I'm a marry hood he really sure that he don't

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01:11:39,160 --> 01:11:46,120
Speaker 2: want you, making am I wrong? Can't get clearer, It

1417
01:11:46,200 --> 01:11:49,920
Speaker 2: can't get clearer, like I'm legally binding myself to these persons.

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01:11:49,960 --> 01:11:52,479
Speaker 2: And I don't know what y'all know about divorces, but like,

1419
01:11:52,880 --> 01:11:56,240
Speaker 2: getting divorced is not necessarily an easy process. So like

1420
01:11:56,320 --> 01:11:58,439
Speaker 2: for somebody to be like, oh, I'm a marry this woman,

1421
01:11:58,800 --> 01:12:02,400
Speaker 2: he's clearly making me very plain and simple to you

1422
01:12:02,520 --> 01:12:07,560
Speaker 2: that like she don and you so just let it go.

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01:12:07,760 --> 01:12:10,080
Speaker 2: See a little flirting here and there, that don't mean

1424
01:12:10,200 --> 01:12:13,519
Speaker 2: she because he probably would even fuck if you let him.

1425
01:12:14,080 --> 01:12:15,680
Speaker 2: That don't mean he gonna leave his wife though.

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01:12:16,680 --> 01:12:20,000
Speaker 3: All right, So question number tip M.

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Speaker 2: You know what, Tom, before we wrap this up, I'm

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01:12:23,200 --> 01:12:27,320
Speaker 2: getting shot over here. Girl. I knew he was gonna

1429
01:12:27,360 --> 01:12:31,479
Speaker 2: say that, but diddo I was exclusive with a guy

1430
01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:32,360
Speaker 2: for six months.

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01:12:32,640 --> 01:12:36,360
Speaker 3: It was a messy situation because he was my exes op,

1432
01:12:37,400 --> 01:12:41,200
Speaker 3: but I was still talking to my ex anyways.

1433
01:12:41,560 --> 01:12:45,240
Speaker 1: After six months, I got a hey girl text and

1434
01:12:45,400 --> 01:12:48,280
Speaker 1: basically he was on the same ship as he was

1435
01:12:48,400 --> 01:12:51,000
Speaker 1: with me and her, and she gave me all the

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01:12:51,120 --> 01:12:55,479
Speaker 1: receipts and everything. However, he got mad and blocked her

1437
01:12:55,680 --> 01:12:58,040
Speaker 1: and said he just wants to be with me and

1438
01:12:58,160 --> 01:12:59,760
Speaker 1: he doesn't know why he did that.

1439
01:13:00,520 --> 01:13:03,320
Speaker 2: Maybe he's sick. Should I leave him? I don't know

1440
01:13:03,400 --> 01:13:06,799
Speaker 2: if he cares or leave it since we're not properly together.

1441
01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:15,479
Speaker 2: I just feel like would be wrong with people, Like

1442
01:13:15,560 --> 01:13:17,479
Speaker 2: how do y'all be just dating people for so long

1443
01:13:17,560 --> 01:13:21,080
Speaker 2: and not stay in boundaries? I agree, I even know

1444
01:13:21,160 --> 01:13:25,120
Speaker 2: whether we together or not? A sad and I also think, oh,

1445
01:13:25,200 --> 01:13:26,880
Speaker 2: go ahead, Well, I was just gonna say. I feel

1446
01:13:26,920 --> 01:13:30,679
Speaker 2: like knowing that will naturally prevent a lot of things

1447
01:13:30,760 --> 01:13:33,719
Speaker 2: from happening, Like if you and this person are sure

1448
01:13:33,800 --> 01:13:36,040
Speaker 2: that y'all are solidified and y'all are in a relationship

1449
01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:37,519
Speaker 2: and this is what it is and this is what

1450
01:13:37,560 --> 01:13:40,640
Speaker 2: we're doing. This is my man, I'm his girl. A

1451
01:13:40,720 --> 01:13:43,679
Speaker 2: lot of like it won't be so much great area,

1452
01:13:43,920 --> 01:13:46,120
Speaker 2: and you won't have to wonder because I don't know.

1453
01:13:46,360 --> 01:13:49,760
Speaker 2: In that situation, I kind of feel like, is he

1454
01:13:49,880 --> 01:13:52,400
Speaker 2: wrong if y'all ain't really together, not really.

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01:13:53,760 --> 01:13:54,200
Speaker 3: Agreed.

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01:13:54,479 --> 01:13:56,120
Speaker 2: And also it's been six months.

1457
01:13:56,160 --> 01:13:59,720
Speaker 1: I just feel like you don't know somebody in six months,

1458
01:13:59,760 --> 01:14:01,280
Speaker 1: but you should at least know what you want and

1459
01:14:01,320 --> 01:14:02,519
Speaker 1: what you want to build towards.

1460
01:14:02,680 --> 01:14:03,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I feel like.

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01:14:04,000 --> 01:14:06,519
Speaker 1: Six months is still the honeymoon stage. Why y'all going

1462
01:14:06,600 --> 01:14:09,840
Speaker 1: through mess in the first six months like that should

1463
01:14:09,880 --> 01:14:12,799
Speaker 1: be the blissful Oh my god, he's so perfect still,

1464
01:14:13,840 --> 01:14:17,200
Speaker 1: So I would say move on and let it go personal.

1465
01:14:17,520 --> 01:14:21,000
Speaker 2: Because I don't I don't necessarily think he wrong. Y'all

1466
01:14:21,120 --> 01:14:25,840
Speaker 2: not together. It's never been put on paper concrete that

1467
01:14:26,040 --> 01:14:26,800
Speaker 2: like this, my man.

1468
01:14:27,720 --> 01:14:29,599
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, because I'll let it be known.

1469
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Speaker 2: Will you be making assumptions with the old people say,

1470
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Speaker 2: make an ass out of you and me when you

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Speaker 2: assume No, that's right. Yeah, let's close this out with

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Speaker 1: like short form content, y'all. Make sure y'all follow me

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Speaker 1: on Facebook and Snapchat. My snap chat is LEXP zero five.

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Speaker 1: I have a series right now going on called LEXPTV.

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Speaker 1: So I'm updating my house and showing y'all all my renovations.

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Speaker 1: So I know a lot of y'all be nosy and

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Speaker 1: all that good stuff. So I'm renovating my house. So

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Speaker 1: make sure y'all follow.

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Speaker 3: Me on Facebook, in on Snapchat XP zero five, and

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Speaker 3: I think that's it.

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Speaker 2: Let's take this shot. Take the shots and shout out

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Speaker 2: to uh just being beautiful black and proud, sad loud,

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Speaker 2: and shout out to so Mixy and shout out to

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Speaker 2: so Mixy in the building period. We'll see y'all next week, y'all.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh, Monday, you and your man had an inaugumen, y'all

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Speaker 2: always arguing about something. And Tuesday, that Tuesday morning, it

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Speaker 2: Zarna had you laid for work and you gotta deal

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Speaker 2: with your bus. And then on Wednesday, your sister says

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Speaker 2: she ain't gonna babysit it on Thursday and it's a

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Speaker 2: seven time flaking on you. But she would look forward

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Speaker 2: to Friday because you know when you get home, I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna be there because I'm your week in love. You

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Speaker 2: don't have come on you get home because I'm your

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Speaker 2: weekend love. Sell theophone and whatever you got on is

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Speaker 2: coming off. I'll pick you up, I'll lay you down.

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Speaker 2: Fridays and Saturdays.

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Speaker 3: You need me around because i'm your week lover.

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Speaker 2: So go ahead and sleep in and I'll make sure

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Speaker 2: you have a good week. And relax. Now I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: run at bubble bath. You could put your feet up,

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Speaker 2: feed up. Don't you worry about the same. The baby's

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Speaker 2: at your mama's house. Got a hundred candles and roses. Baby,

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Speaker 2: I ain't playing no games. Sit on this moment at

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Speaker 2: my MoU Sit down on the sofa while I cook

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Speaker 2: you a meal a and when we're done, we'll go

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Speaker 2: and have some fun in the bedroom. Because I know

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Speaker 2: you're looking forward to your week in love.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to call.

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Speaker 2: I'll be at your dome when you get home because

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Speaker 2: i'm your weeked love. Please don't ins phone and whatever

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Speaker 2: you got on, it's coming off. Wat's off. I pick

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Speaker 2: you up, I lay you down. Fridays and Saturdays you

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Speaker 2: need me around because I'm your weekend love. Go ahead

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Speaker 2: and sleep and I'll make sure you have a good

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Speaker 2: week like the queen that you walk as you deserve it.

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Speaker 2: Girl says you deserve me. Girl, hope you know that

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Speaker 2: to me, you're a super sorrow met you service girl?

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Speaker 2: Wanna be a servant baby. Let's need a couple head

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Speaker 2: to go and get away, just closure. I said, you

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Speaker 2: don't have to leave your place. I'll be your comfort.

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Speaker 2: You won't need another because I'll give you everything you need. Girl,

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Speaker 2: I'm your week in love. You don't have to call.

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Speaker 2: I'll be et your doll when you get homes I'm

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Speaker 2: your week gett love and sell the phone and whatever

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Speaker 2: you go on, it's coming in off girl.

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Speaker 4: I'll pick you up, lay your time, gave me your

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Speaker 4: rounds off your weeked love, So go ahead and sleep

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Speaker 4: then and know make sure you have a good weekend.

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Speaker 2: How to make sure you have a good weekend? Have

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Speaker 2: a good weekend, bitch e bis

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Speaker 1: Bis turn