WEBVTT - Thats Not Enough Time ( Nikki Walton interview) 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:04.320 I mean to say, allow me to introduce my solo 0:00:04.640 --> 0:00:08.200 DJA Injury, Angela Yi and Charlomagne the Guy. Well, y'alla 0:00:08.280 --> 0:00:11.800 came a long way. I think that y'all have a 0:00:11.800 --> 0:00:14.960 certain amount of respect for you know what everybody else does, 0:00:15.120 --> 0:00:17.360 and y'all are just the best of what y'all do. 0:00:17.680 --> 0:00:20.920 This platform, the reach y'all have that you earned, make 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:23.080 space for somebody like me. You guys have a direct 0:00:23.120 --> 0:00:24.759 line to the coaches. Oh my god, I'm on the 0:00:24.840 --> 0:00:29.560 radio enco Jolomagne and DJA Empty. All I do is 0:00:29.600 --> 0:00:32.680 read about the Breakfast Club every morning. Good you guys 0:00:32.720 --> 0:00:36.279 are trending every you know, I dragged my house out 0:00:36.320 --> 0:00:38.640 of God. I'm like, uh, what happened on the Breakfast 0:00:38.640 --> 0:00:44.440 Club today? Good morning usc yo yo yo yo yo 0:00:44.520 --> 0:00:46.040 yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo 0:00:46.120 --> 0:00:47.800 yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo 0:00:47.880 --> 0:00:50.680 yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo yo. Good 0:00:50.760 --> 0:00:54.600 morning Angela Ye, Yeah, money Dandy, Cholomagne the Guy. Peace 0:00:54.640 --> 0:01:01.440 to the planet is Monday, This Monday. Back to the 0:01:01.480 --> 0:01:03.600 work week. Good morning, guys, I was your weekend? You 0:01:03.720 --> 0:01:07.560 sound tired? So that sound tight? Yeah? I know you 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:09.560 must be in a different time zone. Yeah, I was 0:01:09.640 --> 0:01:11.680 in La. I was out here for the BT Awards, 0:01:11.720 --> 0:01:13.400 so you know, it's three hours different. So it was 0:01:13.440 --> 0:01:16.200 three o'clock in the morning out here in La. I 0:01:16.360 --> 0:01:19.880 was hosting the Red Carpet and I ran into so 0:01:19.959 --> 0:01:22.240 many different people. It was actually had a great time, man, 0:01:22.280 --> 0:01:24.960 shout out to everybody at b ET. I was on 0:01:25.000 --> 0:01:26.880 it from four to five acrosse. The show started at 0:01:26.920 --> 0:01:30.840 five pm LA time. It was just great. Man. I 0:01:30.920 --> 0:01:33.200 ran into everybody. I've seen everybody you could possibly imagine, 0:01:33.280 --> 0:01:36.120 from the me goes to the baby to little Kim 0:01:36.440 --> 0:01:40.000 to Lotto. It's just we just it was just good vibes. 0:01:40.040 --> 0:01:42.080 It was good to see people out and about. Again. 0:01:42.120 --> 0:01:44.640 It wasn't packed, it wasn't rammed, it wasn't like usually, 0:01:44.800 --> 0:01:47.400 you know, red carpets usually has so many people, but 0:01:47.480 --> 0:01:49.639 it wasn't like that. It was. It was definitely trimmed 0:01:49.640 --> 0:01:51.680 down and cut down. But it was just great to 0:01:51.760 --> 0:01:54.120 see people back out and about and saying what's up 0:01:54.160 --> 0:01:56.440 and giving each other half hugs and all that. It 0:01:56.520 --> 0:01:58.320 was great to see people. So shout to the whole 0:01:58.560 --> 0:02:02.160 Beet family for having me. I had an amazing, amazing time. 0:02:02.200 --> 0:02:04.240 I'm gonna let you take over the Rumor Report for 0:02:04.320 --> 0:02:06.760 a break to talk about it. No, boy, boy, what's 0:02:06.800 --> 0:02:09.760 wrong with that? You got a lot of first hand information. 0:02:10.760 --> 0:02:13.240 You don't think that's a good idea? Yeah? I think so? Okay, 0:02:13.639 --> 0:02:15.560 How was y'all weekend? What y'all do? I was in 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:19.720 Puerto Rico. I was actually supporting my friend Ida Roger Agains. 0:02:19.720 --> 0:02:22.519 She's filming her HBO Max special, as well as some 0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:25.120 behind the scenes stuff. It was funny because we went 0:02:25.160 --> 0:02:27.320 out there to see her perform. She did an amazing job. 0:02:27.440 --> 0:02:30.320 It was really nice to be out there, but we 0:02:30.360 --> 0:02:31.840 didn't know the opening acts. We're all going to be 0:02:31.919 --> 0:02:36.160 in Spanish, so for about an hour, I was not 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:38.200 knowing too much about what's going on. I was catching 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:40.640 some words here and there. Did you go to Puerto 0:02:40.680 --> 0:02:44.440 Rico for two days? Wow? Okay, yeah, I mean in 0:02:44.480 --> 0:02:47.040 Puerto Rico right there? Right, it's like with two hours, 0:02:47.320 --> 0:02:49.480 it's three's than three hours, it's like three and a 0:02:49.520 --> 0:02:54.320 half hours. Yeah. My daughter turned thirteen this weekend. Man, 0:02:54.400 --> 0:02:58.120 I I'm old ajo, I'm telling you, I'll be forty 0:02:58.200 --> 0:03:00.840 three tomorrow. Got a got a thirteen year old in 0:03:00.919 --> 0:03:04.560 the house. So my weekend was just you know, spent 0:03:05.240 --> 0:03:08.679 doing birthday parties and brunches, Like my daughter had a 0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:11.000 whole low hole at the crib. And I just got 0:03:11.080 --> 0:03:16.519 put on to the whole uh controversy between Olivia Rodrigo 0:03:16.600 --> 0:03:22.760 and Sabrina Carpenter and Joshua Bassett. And I'm just sitting 0:03:22.760 --> 0:03:25.799 there like, what the hell are y'all talking about? But 0:03:26.680 --> 0:03:29.440 you know, you learn something new every day, you know, 0:03:30.120 --> 0:03:32.600 you know, Olivia Rodrigo is a big deal out here, 0:03:32.639 --> 0:03:36.560 and these a these tween screech I have no idea. 0:03:37.720 --> 0:03:40.400 I don't know. I don't know what, man, I don't 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:44.440 know it. It's funny to hear us parents sitting around 0:03:44.960 --> 0:03:48.600 discussing the drama of these artists that our kids are 0:03:48.760 --> 0:03:51.760 listening to, you know what I mean. And and in 0:03:51.880 --> 0:03:56.000 the in the anxiety and depression and in securities that 0:03:56.160 --> 0:03:58.840 these these artists haven't expressing them music. It was just 0:03:58.960 --> 0:04:01.480 it was just it was just interesting. So Courtney Love 0:04:01.560 --> 0:04:05.480 was beefing with Olivia Roger Goes Courtney Love, Yes, Courtney Loved, 0:04:07.480 --> 0:04:09.840 Hell's going recording Your Love When I came from That 0:04:09.960 --> 0:04:15.440 wasn't discussed, daughter, bring the generations together, that wasn't discussed. 0:04:15.520 --> 0:04:18.800 This weekend. Okay, but yeah, I'm old as hell. I'll 0:04:18.800 --> 0:04:22.200 be forty three tomorrow, thirteen year old of the crib. 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:26.520 This is what it is. Okayous, sound a little positive 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:30.480 you I'm happy to be. I'm not. I'm more than 0:04:30.520 --> 0:04:32.600 happy to be here. But you know, it's just a 0:04:32.640 --> 0:04:34.840 lot to digest. That's all. It's cancer season. We are 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:37.560 dropping the clues bombs was cancers, damnage. I'm not gonna 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:40.640 crying today. All I might and if I do, and 0:04:41.279 --> 0:04:43.240 I'll hug you. You're not here to hug me, sir, 0:04:43.480 --> 0:04:45.839 dust take put on. I'm not going to cry by marriage, 0:04:46.360 --> 0:04:49.160 but I'll be. I'll be. I'll be here tomorrow. Okay, 0:04:49.160 --> 0:04:51.040 I'm coming up. I don't know when the last time 0:04:51.080 --> 0:04:53.000 I've been to work on my actual born day, but 0:04:53.040 --> 0:04:55.320 I'll be here tomorrow, so you can hug me tomorrow. 0:04:55.720 --> 0:04:59.120 All right, you're gonna be back tomorrow, yes, sir? Okay, yes, sir. 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:02.960 All right, Well let's get the show right, Yes, sir, 0:05:03.200 --> 0:05:10.479 your birthday, birthday, Well, let's get the show. Crack your 0:05:10.520 --> 0:05:12.520 front page news. What we're talking about, Well, let's talk 0:05:12.520 --> 0:05:17.320 about this Florida cando that collapsed the building, and we'll 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:19.440 give you an update on how many people they have 0:05:19.640 --> 0:05:23.440 confirmed are dead and how many people are missing. Really sad. 0:05:24.000 --> 0:05:26.000 All right, we'll get into that next. It's the Breakfast Club. 0:05:26.040 --> 0:05:32.320 Go on, Hey, hey, hey, Borning. Everybody is DJ Envy, 0:05:32.440 --> 0:05:35.200 Angela Yee, Charlomagne the guy. We are the Breakfast Club. 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:39.680 Let's get in some front page news. Now. Over the 0:05:39.760 --> 0:05:43.360 weekend NBA Sunday, the Bucks beat the Hawks one thirteen, 0:05:43.560 --> 0:05:46.919 one h two. Now, they said Trey Young got injured. 0:05:46.960 --> 0:05:48.520 They said he didn't leave the game. He tried to 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:51.000 hold it out. Buddy, he wasn't the same. Yeah, he 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:54.200 had thirty five points, but the Bucks did when they 0:05:54.279 --> 0:05:56.800 lead the series two to one. Now, I said Bucks 0:05:56.839 --> 0:05:59.960 in six. But if ty Trey Young is hurting anyway, 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:03.080 shape or form, Bucks in five. All right, for what 0:06:03.160 --> 0:06:05.480 else we got? Ye, Well, let's talk about that condo 0:06:05.600 --> 0:06:09.840 building that collapsed in Florida and the coastal town of 0:06:09.920 --> 0:06:12.720 Serf Side, Florida. Families are waiting for news right now 0:06:12.760 --> 0:06:15.200 about their loved ones. So far, nine people are dead, 0:06:15.839 --> 0:06:18.960 one hundred and fifty two people are unaccounted for, and 0:06:19.040 --> 0:06:21.880 one hundred and thirty four people are accounted for. In 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:25.279 that collapse of the Champlain Tower South As of Sunday night, 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:28.240 the missing people are from at least nine different countries, 0:06:28.279 --> 0:06:32.480 including six Latin American countries, different faith communities. There's rescuers 0:06:32.520 --> 0:06:34.920 from Israel that have come in. Rescuers from Mexico are 0:06:34.960 --> 0:06:37.880 expected to arrive today. They were able to carve out 0:06:37.960 --> 0:06:41.880 trenches and contain a deep rooted fire and they've been 0:06:41.960 --> 0:06:44.760 trying to pull victims out as crews are using all 0:06:44.839 --> 0:06:47.400 kinds of equipment to locate the people who are missing. 0:06:47.680 --> 0:06:50.880 They're also using DNA to identify some of the victims. 0:06:50.920 --> 0:06:52.480 They said, it hasn't been easy, but they have to 0:06:52.600 --> 0:06:55.920 rely on that. They've been getting DNA samples from family members, 0:06:56.000 --> 0:06:58.480 so everybody's participated and provided that so they can do 0:06:58.640 --> 0:07:02.440 rapid DNA testing on site for bodies now while rescuers 0:07:02.520 --> 0:07:05.400 are continuing their efforts. They said there's new details about 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:08.560 the integrity of that structure. There was an engineering report 0:07:08.960 --> 0:07:12.480 from more than two years ago with significant cracks and 0:07:12.560 --> 0:07:14.760 breaks in the building. They said, we are deeply troubled 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:17.240 by this building collapsed and are working closely with the 0:07:17.360 --> 0:07:21.400 investigating authorities to understand why this structure failed. They also 0:07:21.520 --> 0:07:24.360 said The developers of the Miami Condo Tower were once 0:07:24.360 --> 0:07:26.840 accused of paying off local officials to get permits for 0:07:26.920 --> 0:07:29.480 the site. It needed fifteen million dollars in repairs to 0:07:29.520 --> 0:07:32.000 bring it to code, according to a new report, and 0:07:33.320 --> 0:07:36.560 so they're investigating that as well. It was also undergoing 0:07:36.640 --> 0:07:39.920 fifteen million dollars in renovations to pass a required forty 0:07:40.000 --> 0:07:42.040 years certification when it collapsed. You know, it was built 0:07:42.120 --> 0:07:45.800 in nineteen eighty one, and so that's what's happening. I 0:07:45.920 --> 0:07:47.320 know a lot of us are going through things in 0:07:47.400 --> 0:07:48.920 our lives, but a lot of us need to thank 0:07:48.960 --> 0:07:50.600 God we're not going through that. I wouldn't want to. 0:07:50.840 --> 0:07:53.240 I wouldn't want to be an individual who was in 0:07:53.400 --> 0:07:55.240 that condo when it collapsed. And I wouldn't want to 0:07:55.280 --> 0:07:59.200 be a family member, a friend wondering if my people's 0:07:59.240 --> 0:08:02.480 are allowed dad, or what's happening Like that's a different 0:08:02.560 --> 0:08:05.600 level of trauma. So I'm sending healing energy to everybody 0:08:05.720 --> 0:08:08.520 involved in that situation, because that's horrible. The first victim 0:08:08.640 --> 0:08:11.600 was identified Friday at Stacey Faing fifty four. I remember 0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:13.840 the little boy who was pulled out from the rubble alive, 0:08:14.240 --> 0:08:16.080 and they couldn't find He was trying to find his 0:08:16.200 --> 0:08:21.440 mom and she was still missing. That was yeah, whatever, yea, 0:08:21.520 --> 0:08:24.200 somebody failed that building. Somebody failed those people in that building. 0:08:24.240 --> 0:08:27.080 They have agencies and people are supposed to go around 0:08:27.160 --> 0:08:29.760 from building the building every year to check the everything 0:08:29.840 --> 0:08:31.560 or the building, and the fact that it was in 0:08:31.720 --> 0:08:34.160 that bad condition that they didn't get everybody out is 0:08:34.920 --> 0:08:37.000 troubling to me. And is there enough money to go 0:08:37.120 --> 0:08:40.439 around when it comes to compensation for those families and 0:08:40.559 --> 0:08:42.439 everybody else, right, because this has got to be a 0:08:42.640 --> 0:08:46.959 multi billion dollar type of situation. Right. I'm sure he 0:08:47.040 --> 0:08:50.199 has insurance, but I can't see covering it all at 0:08:50.320 --> 0:08:52.360 not at all. And I wonder what insurance cover And 0:08:52.480 --> 0:08:54.880 knowing that, you know, he was getting warnings about the 0:08:54.920 --> 0:08:56.679 building and he knew the building wasn't up to part, 0:08:56.720 --> 0:08:58.280 but he didn't do anything about it, I wondered what 0:08:58.360 --> 0:09:01.400 insurance even covered it. That's true? All right, Well that 0:09:01.679 --> 0:09:04.440 is your front page news, all right, get it off 0:09:04.559 --> 0:09:07.360 your chest. Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. 0:09:07.400 --> 0:09:09.320 If you need to vent phone lines and wide open 0:09:09.360 --> 0:09:12.160 again eight hundred five eight five one oh five one, 0:09:12.240 --> 0:09:14.080 call us right now. It's the breakfast club. Good morning 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:22.480 the breakfast club. Yeah, wake up, wake up, wakes You're 0:09:22.480 --> 0:09:26.360 time to get it off your chest, man of blass. 0:09:26.440 --> 0:09:28.920 We want to hear from you on a breakfast club. Hello. 0:09:29.040 --> 0:09:34.679 Who's this? Hey? Soundre sock. Ain't heard from you in 0:09:34.720 --> 0:09:37.160 a minute. What's happening? Um? I just bought my first 0:09:37.240 --> 0:09:42.600 home on Friday. Congratulate, congratulations, Thank you guys. So now 0:09:42.600 --> 0:09:44.760 I'm ready for an investment property in Brooklyn, which is 0:09:44.800 --> 0:09:49.720 the place after Okay, listen, I got some investment properties 0:09:49.720 --> 0:09:53.839 in Brooklyn too. It's you know, it's a lie. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:09:54.040 --> 0:09:57.319 back but yes, living in Maryland is nice. But I 0:09:57.440 --> 0:10:00.720 love Brooklyn, Bronan will always take my heart. Welcome, Congratulations, 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:03.439 What we got? What we got planned next month for 0:10:03.760 --> 0:10:07.319 Minority Mental Health Month, Black Mental Health Month. Well, I 0:10:07.520 --> 0:10:10.120 have my process. So if anybody wants to find out, 0:10:10.360 --> 0:10:13.240 we have, you know, black therapy for black men I 0:10:13.360 --> 0:10:16.360 think is not as big as it needs to be. Oh, 0:10:16.400 --> 0:10:21.200 I agree wholeheartedly. Dot org and that's a great resource 0:10:21.320 --> 0:10:24.360 for people therapy for black men. Dot org. Okay, we're 0:10:24.360 --> 0:10:29.040 gonna send people there. Yes, absolutely, all right, queen, alright, 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:33.160 congrats again. Alrighty mama, congrats on the house. Hello, who's 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:37.160 this yo? What's the vibes? Mellow? What's the vob mellow? 0:10:37.240 --> 0:10:39.959 What's the vibes? Yo? Man? So listen, I want to 0:10:40.520 --> 0:10:43.120 out very special young lady right now for me and 0:10:43.280 --> 0:10:45.079 y'all been asking me to school. While I feel like 0:10:45.120 --> 0:10:46.520 it's a whole song coming, I'm not a queen to 0:10:46.559 --> 0:10:49.920 live inside. What go ahead? She? I'm sure she loved 0:10:49.960 --> 0:10:52.760 to hear it, and I don't know if she got 0:10:52.840 --> 0:10:54.360 a man, but I feel like it's the perfect fool 0:10:54.400 --> 0:10:56.000 for it, you know what I mean. It's like I 0:10:56.760 --> 0:10:59.400 want to come to queen you and y'all, man, and 0:11:00.880 --> 0:11:05.719 even though I don't want to teach you bad? What's up? Like? No, 0:11:06.800 --> 0:11:09.920 you heard that? You said her name is mel? Yep? 0:11:10.120 --> 0:11:13.960 Where is she from? Mellow? Can I ask you a question? Now? 0:11:14.160 --> 0:11:16.920 School me? School? School your uncle, Charlottecause when you first 0:11:16.960 --> 0:11:19.880 call your ass envy, what's the vibes? And just now 0:11:20.000 --> 0:11:23.360 you said you know the voter vibes? Which one is it? Sir? Well? 0:11:23.440 --> 0:11:26.599 Happy early birthday to you, mister honorable doctor Charlotte and 0:11:26.640 --> 0:11:28.679 the garden. Thank you, thank you, thank you King, And 0:11:29.040 --> 0:11:33.920 honestly that's just what I say. My catch rate. But Mellow, 0:11:34.000 --> 0:11:36.880 I did not meet your girlfriend. Oh boy, exactly, That's 0:11:36.880 --> 0:11:39.560 why I'm true to you shooting yourself your girlfriend? How 0:11:39.600 --> 0:11:42.480 can you shoot yourseld as your girlfriend? Isn't that your girlfriend? People, 0:11:42.679 --> 0:11:45.720 what's the vibes? What's the vibe between you and your girlfriend? Mellow? 0:11:46.240 --> 0:11:50.960 He don't know. So you want me the gold woman, 0:11:51.000 --> 0:11:53.120 to get her the goal to keep it true true? 0:11:53.160 --> 0:11:54.800 Are you on? Are you on in a bad place 0:11:54.920 --> 0:11:57.520 right now? Did you do something wrong? Actually, we're in 0:11:57.640 --> 0:11:59.920 the best place we've been in the wild. Okay, that's guy, 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:02.679 But there you go. You're not necessarily shooting your shot. 0:12:02.920 --> 0:12:09.400 You are professing your love, professor, you're appreciating her, right, yeah, okay, 0:12:09.760 --> 0:12:16.079 all right, king, you know, all right, get it on 0:12:16.080 --> 0:12:18.760 a few chests. Eight hundred five eight five one o 0:12:18.880 --> 0:12:20.720 five one. If you need to vent, hit this up now. 0:12:20.760 --> 0:12:28.400 It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, the Breakfast Club. This 0:12:28.600 --> 0:12:30.280 is your time to get it off your chests, whether 0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:32.520 you're mad or blast. So you better have the same 0:12:32.559 --> 0:12:36.520 in We want to hear from you on the Breakfast Club. Hello, 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:41.880 who's this is Matt calling from Florida? Man, what's our 0:12:42.000 --> 0:12:46.640 Matt calling from Florida. How you King, Florida. It's our king. Man. 0:12:46.640 --> 0:12:50.760 I'm just grinding, man, you know, okay, every day, every day, Yes, sir, 0:12:51.440 --> 0:12:53.280 I'm calling. I want to get it off with chat man. 0:12:53.320 --> 0:12:57.360 I want to marry hand man. Okay, yea man, tell 0:12:57.440 --> 0:13:02.920 my boyfriend he's taking sir, Man. Man, whatever you got 0:13:03.000 --> 0:13:05.439 going on, man, keep it going on. Man. I love 0:13:05.520 --> 0:13:07.280 the show. I listened to every morning. Man, y'all know 0:13:07.320 --> 0:13:09.120 what y'all do. I know what you gotta do. Man, 0:13:09.320 --> 0:13:14.280 I appreciate, thank you. I was a quick shot. Okay, Hello, 0:13:14.400 --> 0:13:21.040 who's this? Yeah, what's hey? It's going on? Man. Hey, 0:13:22.559 --> 0:13:25.920 my wife is using that she only kids are getting 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:28.520 me and I'm going to work, and I'm like, well 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:30.880 I gonna work to kid. Man, don't be worried about 0:13:30.920 --> 0:13:34.520 nothing because I don't want your kids. Um, she has 0:13:34.559 --> 0:13:38.640 to control. I take the money you're making, but then 0:13:38.760 --> 0:13:41.240 when it comes the backfires, I'm gonna want to be 0:13:41.640 --> 0:13:44.280 you know, I have to take on responsiblevies and I 0:13:44.320 --> 0:13:46.319 don't feel I was like, I'm feel that she should 0:13:46.320 --> 0:13:48.840 be get able to make you know, we mean my position. 0:13:49.520 --> 0:13:52.120 He even has a household, and you think she the kids. 0:13:52.640 --> 0:13:54.760 I work, You stay home. That's it, that's how should be. 0:13:55.520 --> 0:13:58.400 You wanna wait, you want to stay home? No, I 0:13:59.080 --> 0:14:00.720 was mad. His wife just does to stay home by 0:14:02.880 --> 0:14:06.280 us against me? That because I go with work and 0:14:06.360 --> 0:14:09.880 she's feeling the kids. So anytime I do something wrong, 0:14:10.480 --> 0:14:12.760 use the money against me. Ain't something to you? She 0:14:13.160 --> 0:14:16.200 I do something wrong to you? Uh that if you don't, 0:14:16.280 --> 0:14:18.440 you don't do this, then you want to watch your 0:14:18.480 --> 0:14:21.040 kids and stay home or whether cases so makes you 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:24.800 She used the financial assist me because I'm not said 0:14:25.240 --> 0:14:28.320 primarily as she is. Well, I mean it's it's it's 0:14:28.360 --> 0:14:30.800 a fifty fifty thing, right, Like you know, you go out, 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:33.000 you work, you're able to bring money home and to 0:14:33.080 --> 0:14:36.360 provide to pay bills and everything else. And you know 0:14:36.520 --> 0:14:38.800 she holds it down with the kids. And usually women 0:14:38.840 --> 0:14:42.640 are the primary caretakers of the kids. So that's not 0:14:42.720 --> 0:14:45.920 a problem. Right. You don't like her controlling you with 0:14:46.800 --> 0:14:49.040 and that's that's never a good thing. They call that 0:14:49.160 --> 0:14:53.120 financial abuse. Actually, when somebody uses finances to make the 0:14:53.160 --> 0:14:56.160 other person feel bad or control the relationship, it's usually 0:14:56.200 --> 0:14:58.160 with the person with the money doing that though, right, 0:14:58.240 --> 0:15:00.240 I mean even though it is y'all money technically together 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:02.480 but it's usually it's usually the person bringing in the 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:05.160 money that does that, that's the abuser, right, yeah, but 0:15:05.520 --> 0:15:10.160 it's also as because you know, been cheating and uh, 0:15:10.360 --> 0:15:12.960 you know, doing stuff I shouldn't enjoy. Okay, you didn't 0:15:13.000 --> 0:15:16.040 bring all that up. Okay, you definitely didn't say, oh 0:15:16.160 --> 0:15:18.480 my gosh, sir. You just acted like she just was 0:15:18.560 --> 0:15:21.000 doing these things for no reason. It sounds like y'all 0:15:21.040 --> 0:15:24.240 have different problems and it's manifesting itself like that she 0:15:24.280 --> 0:15:26.120 don't trust you, she don't believe you really at work 0:15:26.160 --> 0:15:27.800 when you say you at work. But that's your fault. 0:15:28.160 --> 0:15:31.520 I just did one situation where I swushing every day 0:15:31.680 --> 0:15:34.320 and I end up the super club. And that year 0:15:34.400 --> 0:15:39.920 ago you said cheating. Was that cheating or was it 0:15:40.080 --> 0:15:45.200 just lying and not being We spend me with some 0:15:45.320 --> 0:15:49.640 one between the sheets twice? You cant by downplaying the 0:15:49.720 --> 0:15:51.520 first it was just one thing. You just went to 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:54.920 the strip club. Now you doesn't spent the night two times? Boy, 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:59.720 Come on, you are like I don't trust you now either, No, no, 0:16:00.120 --> 0:16:04.440 my whole oh my god, SA straighten up. Okay, but 0:16:04.520 --> 0:16:06.720 it sounds like you need to address those issues, and 0:16:06.840 --> 0:16:08.240 that's gonna get to the heart of all the other 0:16:08.280 --> 0:16:10.960 problems you have. That's where it's coming from. It's therapy. 0:16:11.000 --> 0:16:15.440 But you're saying me, I've worked on it. Y'all work together. 0:16:15.680 --> 0:16:18.440 Y'all definitely got to work on it together. Y'all definitely 0:16:18.440 --> 0:16:20.920 got to work on it together. But you know, the 0:16:21.000 --> 0:16:23.960 best apology is change behavior, and you know, trust is 0:16:24.000 --> 0:16:26.080 just something that you know you're gonna have to build 0:16:26.160 --> 0:16:31.040 up with time. Did this happen happening in twenty sixteen, 0:16:31.160 --> 0:16:34.200 twenty seventeen, Lord, have mercy, that's a long time. But 0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:35.920 once again, you can't tell her when you get over it. 0:16:35.960 --> 0:16:39.240 But y'all should go to some therapy. Brother, I mean hopefully. 0:16:39.600 --> 0:16:42.960 You know I'm want to change. You know, I'm on 0:16:43.080 --> 0:16:45.360 the breath of stuff. I'm want to change. Don't want 0:16:45.360 --> 0:16:47.880 to be a better husband for the father I know 0:16:47.960 --> 0:16:51.560 I meant in the past, but please starting I like that. 0:16:51.840 --> 0:16:54.200 I like that. That's the first step. That's the first 0:16:54.240 --> 0:16:56.920 step to real change. But y'all need some therapy or something. Bro, 0:16:57.040 --> 0:16:59.880 let's sit down with a couple's counselor. Man. I got 0:17:00.000 --> 0:17:02.480 out figuring this out, king, get it off your chest. 0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:05.040 Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If 0:17:05.040 --> 0:17:06.240 you need to vent, you can hit us up now. 0:17:06.280 --> 0:17:08.160 We got rumors on the way, yes, and we're gonna 0:17:08.200 --> 0:17:11.040 kick it off for Envy's b E T Awards. Okay, 0:17:11.160 --> 0:17:13.720 give us the t DJ env Oh my goodness, all right, 0:17:13.720 --> 0:17:15.760 we'll get into that next. It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, 0:17:16.160 --> 0:17:30.600 the Breakfast Club. Listen. Oh it's yes. So we are 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:33.440 gonna start it off with Teraji, as you know, she 0:17:33.600 --> 0:17:36.200 hosted the BT Awards. It's also billed as the Year 0:17:36.320 --> 0:17:39.040 of the Black Woman to honor black women. You know, 0:17:39.160 --> 0:17:41.840 Queen Latifa was presented with the Lifetime Achievement Awards. So 0:17:42.000 --> 0:17:45.880 here is Teraji with the opening. It's twenty twenty one, 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:50.440 and we are celebrating the Year of the Black Woman. 0:17:51.520 --> 0:17:53.520 Look at us, thone, look at us, look around the room, 0:17:53.600 --> 0:17:57.359 look at this power. Celebrating black women isn't a fat 0:17:57.600 --> 0:18:01.240 or trend. It's a forever mood, okay, And there is 0:18:01.359 --> 0:18:03.960 more than enough room for all of us to thrive 0:18:04.560 --> 0:18:07.439 because can't nobody be me like me? And can't nobody 0:18:07.520 --> 0:18:11.800 be you like you? And tonight I'm getting my sisters 0:18:11.840 --> 0:18:14.960 their flowers. And I told we Et, I want all 0:18:15.080 --> 0:18:19.359 queens in the front Row, so give them Mere Flowers Alright. 0:18:19.440 --> 0:18:23.480 Album of the Year Jasmine Sullivan with Hotel, very very 0:18:23.760 --> 0:18:27.159 very very very deserving. That is absolutely the album of you. 0:18:27.480 --> 0:18:30.760 Best female R and B pop artist her I Love 0:18:30.840 --> 0:18:33.520 HER's new album too, Haven't All Right. Best Male R 0:18:33.560 --> 0:18:36.800 and B pop artist Chris Brown. Best group Bruno Mars 0:18:36.840 --> 0:18:39.920 and Anderson pack was Silk Sonic. Best collab was Whop 0:18:40.040 --> 0:18:42.560 Cardi B featuring megan Na Stallion. Best Male hip hop 0:18:42.680 --> 0:18:45.640 artist was Little Baby. Best Female was Megan the Stallion. 0:18:46.119 --> 0:18:49.560 Video of the Year Whop Cardi B featuring megan Na Stallion. 0:18:49.600 --> 0:18:54.000 Best new Artist was Giveon and Best Doctor Bobby Jones'. 0:18:54.080 --> 0:18:57.440 Best Gospel Inspirational Album went to Strong Guy Kirk Franklin 0:18:57.560 --> 0:19:01.520 bt Her award was Sissa Good Days. Video Director of 0:19:01.600 --> 0:19:05.119 the Year Bruno Mars and Floren Deschard and for a 0:19:05.200 --> 0:19:08.240 viewers choice of word that went to Savage Remix Megan 0:19:08.320 --> 0:19:13.320 the Stallion featuring Beyonce. Other huge moments, Cardie B is pregnant. 0:19:13.520 --> 0:19:17.200 Congratulations to her baby number two her and office. She 0:19:17.240 --> 0:19:20.960 posted a beautiful picture too of the cast of her stomach, 0:19:21.520 --> 0:19:23.600 and so they're gonna have another cute little baby. So 0:19:23.760 --> 0:19:26.680 that'll be fun. How do you name the baby culture too? No, 0:19:27.320 --> 0:19:30.760 no you don't, No, that'd be hard. Or she can 0:19:30.920 --> 0:19:35.280 name the baby whatever she wants. Me baby, I know 0:19:35.359 --> 0:19:39.959 you're used to sing that all right. Now. Another thing 0:19:40.040 --> 0:19:42.680 that happened and Bee was getting the tea on that 0:19:42.840 --> 0:19:45.359 red carpet, and he spoke to little Kim. Here's what 0:19:45.520 --> 0:19:48.000 she said. Now I have to ask, right, not gonna 0:19:48.000 --> 0:19:50.480 say who against, but would you do a versus? Yes? 0:19:50.760 --> 0:19:53.600 You would do it? Yes? Oh all right? Is there 0:19:53.640 --> 0:19:54.960 anybody that you would do it again? So are you 0:19:55.040 --> 0:19:58.800 just ready for anybody? Nick Nikki? Really I would love 0:19:58.880 --> 0:20:01.960 to see that. Yes, me too, Okay, we're not mad 0:20:02.000 --> 0:20:04.520 at that. Yeah, I mean I hope that does happen. 0:20:04.920 --> 0:20:07.000 I think that would be a wonderful verses. I was surprised. 0:20:07.040 --> 0:20:10.240 I was maybe they've been having conversations already. No, I asked, 0:20:10.280 --> 0:20:12.440 they haven't had any conversations. I definitely asked after. I 0:20:12.520 --> 0:20:14.080 was like, did y'all have y'all spoken? She was like no, 0:20:14.200 --> 0:20:16.280 but I just thought for the culture. She was like, musically, 0:20:16.320 --> 0:20:18.359 I think that would be great and I would love 0:20:18.400 --> 0:20:20.399 to see that, Kim Nikki. I think so. It almost 0:20:20.440 --> 0:20:22.520 feels like it'll end up being a generational thing to 0:20:22.640 --> 0:20:24.760 some people. But if you're a certain age, like you know, 0:20:25.000 --> 0:20:27.240 and you saw both of their waves, I feel like 0:20:27.280 --> 0:20:29.040 you'll appreciate it more. If you're young and all you 0:20:29.080 --> 0:20:31.000 know is Nikki, then you may not get it. But 0:20:31.080 --> 0:20:33.919 if you you know, you forty two like I am, 0:20:34.000 --> 0:20:36.919 you'll appreciate both because you saw both ways. Yeah, absolutely 0:20:37.080 --> 0:20:39.320 and hardcore coming up. For me, that was one of 0:20:39.359 --> 0:20:41.639 my favorite albums to this day. I could play that 0:20:42.160 --> 0:20:44.320 We Got Your Money on guys. Let's let's see right now, 0:20:44.520 --> 0:20:47.280 Nikki Kim, who are you going with? Man? I gotta 0:20:47.320 --> 0:20:49.560 sit down and go through their whole list because Nikki. 0:20:49.720 --> 0:20:52.800 First of all, Nikki's albums amazing, and then she got 0:20:52.840 --> 0:20:54.760 a lot of guest appearances. But then we can't forget 0:20:54.800 --> 0:20:57.520 that Little Kim was also part of Junior Mafia, you 0:20:57.560 --> 0:20:59.639 know what I'm saying, and she hasn't. I gotta go 0:20:59.720 --> 0:21:03.080 through it. We got money, you know, it's it's it'll 0:21:03.080 --> 0:21:04.560 be a good bet a shot. I'm not easy. That's 0:21:04.640 --> 0:21:06.520 that's that's that's not it. That's not an easy one. 0:21:06.560 --> 0:21:08.320 And that's a hard one because, like you said, it's 0:21:08.359 --> 0:21:12.000 like different times, like a different time period. Yeah, And 0:21:12.080 --> 0:21:15.000 I mean, honestly, my my, my, my fortiness makes me 0:21:15.160 --> 0:21:17.440 lean towards Kim even though you know I love I 0:21:17.480 --> 0:21:19.639