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Speaker 2: talking about you know, our show growing a little bit,

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Speaker 2: But it only happens because of the thirteen, the original thirteen,

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Speaker 2: I just want to thank everybody for the hospitality. But

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Speaker 4: There were things I wanted to go line dancing. Our

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: We have lots of friends here now, you know, lots

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Speaker 2: of lots of new supporters. It's it's it's fascinating. But anyway,

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Speaker 2: I'm going one way or another. I will return home tomorrow.

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Speaker 2: It's time, you know, it's time. This business trips lasted

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Speaker 2: too long. Well, I think, well, Kiki's coming here tonight

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Speaker 2: to go to dinner with me for Valentine's Day, so

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Speaker 3: I'll have the elk for two please.

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Speaker 2: Yeahky do you like uh? Do you like elk meat?

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Speaker 2: Because I know just where to go.

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Speaker 3: I can't say I doon.

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Speaker 1: I got that too.

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Speaker 2: Guys, most Americans aren't buying into the Valentine's State hype.

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Speaker 2: It turns out, well, I mean I think there's hype, right,

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Speaker 2: I mean everywhere you go this time of year, it's

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Speaker 3: In Saint Valentine's Valentine.

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Speaker 2: He was, yeah, Well, a new survey shows it nearly

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Speaker 2: two third. It gets your own segment for you. Kylen's

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Speaker 2: fun fact doesn't work as well. A new survey shows

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Speaker 2: that nearly two thirds of people sixty four percent, I

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Speaker 2: think the holiday is overrated. However, there are, of course,

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Speaker 2: plenty of people who take Valentine's State pretty seriously. In fact,

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Speaker 2: they talk to two thousand people. One in six say

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Speaker 2: this year could actually make or break their relationship.

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Speaker 1: So here's what I want to know. I'm going to

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Speaker 1: go on with the rest of the stories.

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Speaker 2: But eight five five five three five, whether it's this

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Speaker 2: Day for you a test? Because we were talking about

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Speaker 1: It's like, dude, get something.

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Speaker 2: Go get a card, get it a little you know whatever,

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Speaker 1: Don't fall for that.

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Speaker 2: Don't fall for the She doesn't want to be acknowledged

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Speaker 2: on a holiday about love and I love her or him,

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Speaker 2: people who don't like Valentine's Day. My sister, on the

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Speaker 2: other hand, it's her favorite holiday. Oh cute, and so

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Speaker 2: But he knows, he knows the assignment. But I just

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Speaker 2: wonder if and for you guys has Valentine's Day? And

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Speaker 2: I think I know the answer. But as Valentine's say,

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Speaker 5: Not a make or break? But it's it's it's it's something. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: How is a big tiam going to make the effort

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Speaker 5: You better order something, you know, like he can order

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Speaker 1: You get the dog, do something.

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Speaker 5: Okay, you gotta put in some type of effort over

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Speaker 5: the top, but it's something.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, But it's the same. It's the same with the

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Speaker 6: That's the right point, yeah, because then that would be

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Speaker 6: like a form of uh like resentment, right, because you're

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Speaker 6: already like questioning, am I going to get anything? And

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Speaker 6: then you don't, and then that kind of answers your question.

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Speaker 2: But you can be annoyed if you don't get a

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Speaker 2: card or something for Valentine's say, but you're not breaking

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Speaker 2: up with someone simply because they didn't. You're breaking up

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Speaker 2: with them because they're they were an idiot, or like

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Speaker 2: And that was the tipping point, because I'm sorry if

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Speaker 2: I if I don't bring you. If we're in a

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Speaker 6: I don't think you'd forget though, if you were in

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Speaker 3: It's definitely something you clock like.

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Speaker 4: I think it's not okay, I'm gonna break up with

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Speaker 4: you over this, but I think it's something that you

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Speaker 4: you're like, Okay, that was interesting. Let me see if

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Speaker 4: about me in any way. But definitely not over Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 4: But I've had Valentine's where I've been like, hmm, okay,

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Speaker 4: that's interesting. Let's put that in my pocket.

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Speaker 2: And then uh yeah, looking at this text two two four,

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Speaker 2: It'll always be a test. My baby daddy gets me

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Speaker 2: stuff for Valentine's Day as the mother of his child.

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Speaker 2: So if he can my future boyfriend can.

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Speaker 3: He says, I want to hear more about that relationship.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I kind of do too.

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Speaker 2: Let's get her on the phone please, because that Yeah,

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Speaker 2: is he still gonna do that when you have a

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Speaker 2: doing that because you're the mother of his child or

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Speaker 2: because he still wants to be.

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Speaker 3: With you want his family back? Yeah, she just knows.

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Speaker 3: I never met this man. She knows you are.

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Speaker 2: But what he what did he do to what disrupt

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Speaker 2: his family? I'd like to know what did this man do?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 3: We need answers.

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Speaker 2: Someone else said, not attest, just an excuse to go

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Speaker 1: Is Valentine's teak?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah that's nice, make it whiskey. But I agree.

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Speaker 1: I do love that.

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Speaker 2: Someone said they saw commercial with us on NBC. We

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Speaker 2: have commercials, Yes we do. We do editing to one

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Speaker 2: of them. Wait a minute, stop it. Our TV commercials

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Speaker 2: are being edited by you. Yes, we don't even have

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Speaker 2: like a TV commercial person. I am that person. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 2: oh good lord.

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Speaker 3: So she puts her beret on, gets a cigarette.

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Speaker 2: She gets a cigarette with one of those long holders,

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Speaker 2: you know, like like like a Corilla Deville or whoever

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Speaker 2: you know, the long like take anything. Yeah, Oh, there's Emily.

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Speaker 2: Let's talk to Emily. Pauline. This is the woman.

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Speaker 1: Emily.

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Speaker 7: Hi.

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Speaker 1: Hi, So you are that girl.

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Speaker 2: You are that girl who's ex baby current baby daddy,

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Speaker 2: former ex. I guess whatever is still buying you Valentine's presence? Why?

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Speaker 7: I don't know. I don't know what.

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Speaker 1: Did he want to be with?

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Speaker 7: You talked about like relationships and like it's not gonna

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Speaker 7: happen between us, and we're both fine with that.

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Speaker 3: I'm assuming maybe he's not, but it seems like he is.

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Speaker 3: And yeah, he still gets me. Valentine's a gift every year.

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Speaker 5: I'm go ahead, go ahead, it's just gonna ex. Is

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Speaker 5: he in a new relationship? No, okay, I'm sure if he.

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Speaker 7: Was, he wouldn't be doing this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think you're right. Would you take him back?

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Speaker 2: I mean, why, why isn't it a thing?

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Speaker 7: I don't know that's on him? Because I've tried for

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Speaker 7: the sake of my son, and we were best friends

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Speaker 7: before I got pregnant, and you know, things kind of

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Speaker 7: fell apart, but we rekindled and yeah, no, it just

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Speaker 7: it's not on his radar. I've come to terms with it.

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Speaker 7: So now I'm just like all right, like let's just

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Speaker 7: move on. And but he still gives me Valentine's Day gifts.

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Speaker 2: Emily, I'm so confused because he's buying you Valentine's Day

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Speaker 2: gifts but he doesn't want to be with you romantically.

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Speaker 1: Like that's that's I don't get that.

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Speaker 3: My therapist is just as confused as you are.

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Speaker 2: It's almost like some kind of weird breadcrumbing like once

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Speaker 2: a year, I just want to I just want to

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Speaker 2: remind you that I'm here, and I you know, I

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Speaker 2: once cared for you enough to be with you, but

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Speaker 2: now I kind of care but not enough to be

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Speaker 2: with you, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it.

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Speaker 7: Definitely it messes with me sometimes. I mean it did

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Speaker 7: definitely a few years ago, but I don't know. I

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Speaker 7: mean now it's just kind of like, oh, thanks, Like

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Speaker 7: maybe he's doing it because he thinks it's from my son, Like, oh, here,

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Speaker 7: give your mom a Valentine's Day gift, you're her Valentine.

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Speaker 1: Well, Emily, I feel for.

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Speaker 7: You because I come across that way.

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Speaker 2: I thought this was going to be a different story.

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Speaker 2: I thought you were going to tell me that this

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Speaker 2: dude was like pining for you still and he was

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Speaker 2: doing all these things like Valentine's gestures to get you back,

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Speaker 2: and you were like, nah, not having it.

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Speaker 1: But it turns out the dude's doing it. It's kind

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Speaker 1: of like a mind game.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no.

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Speaker 7: And I told him like, you don't have to, you

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Speaker 7: don't have to, And I mean he still does. I

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Speaker 7: don't know if maybe like his mom always did it

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Speaker 7: for them, so he does it, you know, for anyone

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Speaker 7: It's weird, but it'll always be a test because if

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Speaker 1: Happy Valentine.

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Speaker 3: The hate was real deep, so that didn't happen.

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Speaker 2: did a message you're sending is that I love you?

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Speaker 1: You are the sports reporter. Any thoughts on that?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, he should be dumped over and over and over again.

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Speaker 8: Sports reporter. A family another day, another egg story. A

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Speaker 8: family has purchased fertilized chicken eggs from Trader Joe's and

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Speaker 2: I guess, which is extreme. Now it might raise I

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Speaker 2: didn't know this. By the way, you can buy fertilized

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Speaker 2: fertilized eggs just as you would unfertilized ones, fertile eggs

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Speaker 1: I guess this is what a fertile egg is.

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Speaker 2: Even if an egg is successfully fertilized, if it's refrigerated

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Speaker 1: I didn't even know you could. I don't even know

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Speaker 2: A choice at the grocery store, right, Like, I mean,

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Speaker 2: Trader Joe's and get like potstickers in fertilized eggs.

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Speaker 3: No, that scares me.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to be buying eggs and then a

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, there's an this story right here. It reminds

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Speaker 2: an ultra luxury UFO submarine that can dive six hundred

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Speaker 2: the Triton six sixty nine AVA equipped with surround sound,

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Speaker 2: I guess it's ten feet long and sixteen feet wide

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Speaker 1: That's just not like as a dude.

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Speaker 2: Who gets claustrophobic, Like the submarine itself is claustrophobic, and

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Speaker 2: Well, cruise has like buffets, ye, well, but then you

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Speaker 6: All true, true, But it's like double dragon, you know

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Speaker 2: This is not a game. This is a like Jason,

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Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. It's Friday.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they talk better than these are the radio blogs

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Speaker 2: on the Fred Shows like riding in our diaries, except

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Speaker 1: We call them blogs. Kiki, Yes, I take it away,

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Speaker 5: So in the spirit of love, yesterday I got a

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 2: Well, if people don't know about love languages, there are

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Speaker 3: I think so.

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Speaker 4: I mean not in a bad way, like I think

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Speaker 4: But I mean correct me if I'm wrong. No, I

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Speaker 5: that's yours. You think, so I think that's your other one.

438
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Speaker 6: There's two that you can have because I feel like

439
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Speaker 6: you like receiving.

440
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Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't compliments.

441
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Speaker 6: Maybe I don't know the same thing, but I feel

442
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Speaker 6: like you also like receiving. I was like, Hey, great

443
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Speaker 6: job today, Kiki. I feel like you like that, unless

444
00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:24,760
Speaker 6: you don't know I do. I would love I would

445
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Speaker 6: love that.

446
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Speaker 5: I don't know if I I think I would be

447
00:19:27,080 --> 00:19:29,040
Speaker 5: okay if I didn't have it, you know what I'm saying.

448
00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:31,679
Speaker 5: Like I would, I would tell myself good job. But

449
00:19:31,720 --> 00:19:34,800
Speaker 5: then here quality time. Nope, leave me alone. That's only

450
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Speaker 5: that there's no acts of service, is cool?

451
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Speaker 2: You know?

452
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Speaker 5: I like when my cars cleaned the driveway shovel, you know,

453
00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:44,040
Speaker 5: stuff like that. But yeah, I think you might be

454
00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:46,560
Speaker 5: right on the money with receiving gifts, So maybe that's mine.

455
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Speaker 3: What is everybody else's love length.

456
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Speaker 2: Paulie, And I would guess yours is the same as mine,

457
00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:51,680
Speaker 2: which is words of affirmation.

458
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Speaker 6: Yeah, it doesn't work as much on me anymore, maybe

459
00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:55,919
Speaker 6: because like now my frontal lobe is a little more

460
00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:58,960
Speaker 6: about loved animal, so like, I feel like I kind

461
00:19:58,960 --> 00:19:59,920
Speaker 6: of started shifting.

462
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Speaker 1: It's weird, but minus physical touch.

463
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Speaker 6: Really, I'm always touching Hobby and he's not that guy

464
00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:07,720
Speaker 6: like he does not want to be touched, so like

465
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Speaker 6: it's always like a fight of like, babe, not right now.

466
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Speaker 3: I don't want to be smothered.

467
00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:13,440
Speaker 6: I don't want to be this and I love touching.

468
00:20:13,040 --> 00:20:16,040
Speaker 3: People like I love touching you guys, and just pass

469
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Speaker 3: its true school like morning.

470
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Speaker 6: Yeah, I do like touch.

471
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Speaker 3: It's weird. I gotta stop. Maybe that's how you show love. Yeah, yeah,

472
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Speaker 3: I show love that way.

473
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna say quality time.

474
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Speaker 3: Cal, I don't know about that. That's cool.

475
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Speaker 1: I I feel like I don't even know you anymore,

476
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Speaker 1: any of you. I'm like you guys.

477
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Speaker 4: I think it's either words of affirmation or physical touch,

478
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Speaker 4: but only sometimes.

479
00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:51,200
Speaker 3: But that is how I show like I'm a.

480
00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:55,119
Speaker 4: Big toucher like touch, but I think it's words of

481
00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:56,120
Speaker 4: affirmation as well.

482
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Speaker 1: Yeah, Jason, what are you? Then? I won't guess because

483
00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:01,840
Speaker 1: I guess I'm not getting it right.

484
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Speaker 8: I think it's acts of service both ways. Like I

485
00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:10,960
Speaker 8: think I show people that I love and care about them,

486
00:21:10,960 --> 00:21:12,680
Speaker 8: but like doing things for them.

487
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Speaker 1: I agree with that.

488
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Speaker 8: Yeah, And it's weird because I don't like people doing

489
00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:20,840
Speaker 8: things for me unless Mike does something for me. Like

490
00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:23,760
Speaker 8: so I don't know if there's like a differentiation between

491
00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:26,399
Speaker 8: like you know, your partner versus like friends or whatever.

492
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Speaker 8: But like if he does something for me, like like

493
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Speaker 8: he said, like fix the car or whatever, then like

494
00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 8: that's like how I'm like, Okay, he does care.

495
00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:34,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know. Yeah, so I don't.

496
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Speaker 2: Know how words of affirmation all day long, all day long,

497
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:44,840
Speaker 2: And how do you show m Not physical touch?

498
00:21:45,200 --> 00:21:46,959
Speaker 3: No, No, probably not.

499
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Speaker 2: I would say acts of service or gift giving if

500
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:52,160
Speaker 2: I'm really into you, but I yeah, I wouldn't say

501
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:54,639
Speaker 2: I gravitate towards like I'm going to show you my

502
00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:56,320
Speaker 2: love by touching you.

503
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't like to touch I was going, you know,

504
00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:02,720
Speaker 3: for a little hug or something, and you're like, oh,

505
00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:03,520
Speaker 3: get on.

506
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:07,720
Speaker 2: My mom and my sister are the most loving people.

507
00:22:07,760 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 2: Of course I grew up with them, you know, I

508
00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:11,120
Speaker 2: grew up in a house of women, and like they

509
00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:13,560
Speaker 2: think it's funny, Like my mom will come over and

510
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:16,520
Speaker 2: like literally try and smother me. My sister's the same way.

511
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 2: They think it's hilarious because I don't not reciprocate, but

512
00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:24,040
Speaker 2: it's like it's just not my thing for some reason. Yeah,

513
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:25,760
Speaker 2: words of eff. I want people to tell me that

514
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Speaker 2: I did a good job. I want people to tell

515
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Speaker 2: me that they like me. Yeah, even if sometimes I'm

516
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Speaker 2: not likable, might be rip see.

517
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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm telling you where's the affirmation? Where's the affirmation?

518
00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:39,879
Speaker 5: And definitely gifts. So I think everybody today should text

519
00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:43,280
Speaker 5: their partner what their love language is because I think

520
00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:46,160
Speaker 5: a lot of us get in relationships and expect people

521
00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:48,639
Speaker 5: to just know how to love us, and we haven't

522
00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 5: even told them what our true love language is, especially

523
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:54,320
Speaker 5: if you're like us and we're evolving and changing.

524
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

525
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Speaker 5: Maybe when you got with Hobby it was affirmation, but

526
00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:59,639
Speaker 5: now it's touch and now I can't deal with it.

527
00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 3: You gotta tell your partner what you want. Yes, And yeah,

528
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 3: and my husband he is super what is it?

529
00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:07,480
Speaker 1: Uh? Quality time?

530
00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:08,040
Speaker 3: Okay?

531
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Speaker 6: And one thing about Paulina and Paulina is not a

532
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Speaker 6: quality time girl, quality.

533
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Speaker 3: Time as we're in on her out.

534
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Speaker 6: Yeah, we could sit in the couch and be on

535
00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 6: our phones and I could do work on my laptop.

536
00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:19,080
Speaker 6: You're here next to me. We're physically next to each other, right,

537
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:21,560
Speaker 6: physical touch. But to him, that's not quality time. Like

538
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 6: he's so about your focus in yours and I don't

539
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Speaker 6: have that to give.

540
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Speaker 4: That's a good point, Kiki, because I my boyfriend the

541
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Speaker 4: way he shows.

542
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Speaker 3: Love, his acts of service. But I always have.

543
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Speaker 4: To gently say, sometimes we're too helpful sometimes, like he

544
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 4: tried to unpack my suitcase, God bless him, but like

545
00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:38,719
Speaker 4: he put everything in the wrong place.

546
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Speaker 3: You know what I mean. Sometimes we can help too much.

547
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Speaker 4: Now I love, I love that you want to help,

548
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 4: but sometimes it's too much.

549
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I love.

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Speaker 1: Huh.

551
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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, hey, by the way, since we're talking to

552
00:23:48,320 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 2: the third person, if you could tell Paulina that I

553
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:55,960
Speaker 2: thought that words of affirmation were Paulina's things. They are

554
00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 2: just like tell me as all your teammates, like I

555
00:23:58,280 --> 00:23:59,920
Speaker 2: believe it or not, I really focus on like try

556
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Speaker 2: to do those like appeal to each of you in

557
00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:04,880
Speaker 2: the right way. And maybe this would explain why I'm

558
00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:07,120
Speaker 2: not because I don't don't have any of them right

559
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Speaker 2: Waiting by the phone.

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