WEBVTT - It’s No Eras Tour 0:00:00.560 --> 0:00:04.760 Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ret An iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.440 --> 0:00:12.200 Hello everybody, we are scrubbing. 0:00:11.480 --> 0:00:16.840 It scrubbing in on this fun Monday. 0:00:17.040 --> 0:00:19.239 Yeah. You know, it's weird because like some of the 0:00:19.320 --> 0:00:23.759 days here are overcast, but it's still very hot and humid. 0:00:24.360 --> 0:00:27.360 But in my mind, I think clouds means cold. So 0:00:27.440 --> 0:00:30.040 I'm like ready to get cozy, really get into the 0:00:30.080 --> 0:00:30.760 fall spirit. 0:00:30.800 --> 0:00:32.440 And then I walk outside and that's what you're. 0:00:32.360 --> 0:00:35.240 Gonna do today, Just cozy on up by the television. 0:00:35.880 --> 0:00:38.960 No, probably not. I have some returns to make it Target. 0:00:39.159 --> 0:00:41.519 I keep going to Target. I buy things that I 0:00:41.520 --> 0:00:43.400 feel like, you're gonna make my house look cute, and 0:00:43.400 --> 0:00:45.080 then I get home and they don't work, and I 0:00:45.159 --> 0:00:48.760 keep having to go on return which it's very uncomfortable 0:00:48.800 --> 0:00:51.520 for me. Why, I don't know. I don't. I don't 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:54.520 like for people to think that I'm like using stuff 0:00:54.560 --> 0:00:55.440 and then bringing it up. 0:00:56.000 --> 0:00:58.480 That's why I love the online shopping, because I'll just 0:00:58.640 --> 0:01:00.400 you just return it online. You go toe yes and 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:00.840 give it to them. 0:01:00.880 --> 0:01:04.800 It's like, not, see, I just waste so much money 0:01:04.840 --> 0:01:07.800 that way because I just won't return it. Oh, because 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:12.200 I just I'll credit myself. I'll credit my laziness for that. 0:01:12.480 --> 0:01:15.360 Yeah, I'm like the Queen of the buy in return. 0:01:15.600 --> 0:01:18.039 Yeah, you love to like shop. Oh, speaking of, how's 0:01:18.080 --> 0:01:21.240 the wedding dress shopping going? For the guest shopping going 0:01:21.280 --> 0:01:22.440 for Dean and Kalin's wedding? 0:01:22.480 --> 0:01:27.959 You know, Mountain Sheet. It's not totally Tanya's vibe. But 0:01:28.160 --> 0:01:30.200 I love a challenge. If it doesn't challenge you, it 0:01:30.240 --> 0:01:34.600 doesn't change you. And so I have found two dresses. 0:01:34.800 --> 0:01:37.160 I decided I'm not going to try and go balls 0:01:37.240 --> 0:01:40.040 the walls and get cowboy boots in a hat. Okay, 0:01:40.560 --> 0:01:43.640 I'm going to get two different dresses. Okay, one for 0:01:43.680 --> 0:01:46.000 the wedding and one for the welcome party, one for. 0:01:46.000 --> 0:01:48.920 The money, two for the show. Three of us. 0:01:49.080 --> 0:01:54.200 Ready the watch you go someone? 0:01:54.640 --> 0:01:58.040 It's okay, don't I see that You're not as huge 0:01:58.080 --> 0:02:03.520 champagne problem I've made? 0:02:03.720 --> 0:02:07.800 She said, Okay, anyways, So yeah, I think I have 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:10.040 my outfits and I'm feeling pretty good about them. 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:14.240 That's so great. So Haley also was just absolutely perplexed 0:02:14.280 --> 0:02:18.440 by Mountain Chic. If you can imagine my sweet lesbian 0:02:18.560 --> 0:02:22.040 pop singer from La. 0:02:21.240 --> 0:02:24.600 Haley and I are just more in common than you 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:25.200 would think. 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:27.919 It's so funny because like I'll be telling her something 0:02:27.960 --> 0:02:30.840 and she'll like lovingly, she loves you. Like she the 0:02:30.880 --> 0:02:33.080 other day said something really sweet. She was like, you know, 0:02:33.200 --> 0:02:35.840 Robbing and Tanya their family, And I was like, oh, 0:02:35.880 --> 0:02:38.000 but she'll go, I'll tell her something said. She's like, 0:02:38.040 --> 0:02:42.560 Tanya is crazy, and I'm thinking that feels too familiar. 0:02:44.760 --> 0:02:46.440 Calling kettle black thank you. 0:02:46.639 --> 0:02:50.400 Anyway, She's like, what do you mean mountain chic? Like 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:53.080 I have to wear cowboy boots or cowboy hat and 0:02:53.080 --> 0:02:55.920 I'm like, no, they just said like you can, so 0:02:56.120 --> 0:02:58.880 you know, it's kind of like the vibe is world mountain, 0:02:59.240 --> 0:02:59.440 you know. 0:03:00.200 --> 0:03:04.720 And she got so stressed out. So she's like, well, 0:03:04.720 --> 0:03:05.519 what am I gonna wear? 0:03:05.680 --> 0:03:07.480 What am I gonna wear? And I'm so stressed out. 0:03:07.520 --> 0:03:09.720 I don't get the rules of like going to weddings, 0:03:09.760 --> 0:03:13.040 Like she doesn't understand like why she can't just wear. 0:03:14.360 --> 0:03:16.840 Whatever she wants, Like, yeah, she doesn't get. 0:03:16.680 --> 0:03:18.800 That there's like an aesthetic that they want for their photos. 0:03:18.840 --> 0:03:23.320 I'm assuming totally, And I go, if we ever get married, 0:03:23.560 --> 0:03:26.000 there will be rules for what I expect people to 0:03:26.040 --> 0:03:29.800 wear to the wedding. Really yeah, I want what though, 0:03:30.320 --> 0:03:34.880 Like if I say whether it's like cocktail or black tie, 0:03:34.920 --> 0:03:37.800 I'm just like, don't show up in jeans, Like. 0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:39.200 Sorry, show up to jeans. 0:03:39.560 --> 0:03:42.440 ID. If you don't get people boundaries, they'll do whatever 0:03:42.440 --> 0:03:42.800 they want. 0:03:42.920 --> 0:03:44.560 No one's showing up in jeans. 0:03:44.640 --> 0:03:47.640 Listen, I'm dating someone who would show up in jeans though. 0:03:48.360 --> 0:03:51.720 So anyways, I go, Luckily, you are dating a woman 0:03:52.080 --> 0:03:54.840 who has a lot of dresses and a lot of outfits, 0:03:54.880 --> 0:03:57.160 and we can find something that you felt good about. 0:03:57.200 --> 0:03:59.200 So we did a whole thing, went through my closet, 0:03:59.280 --> 0:04:01.840 found an outfit for her, So I think she's set. 0:04:01.960 --> 0:04:04.840 I tried to buy her boots that were not cowboy 0:04:04.880 --> 0:04:08.640 boots but like boots, and she couldn't believe that the 0:04:08.720 --> 0:04:11.960 point her foot's supposed to fit in a pointing does. Though. 0:04:13.480 --> 0:04:16.799 We do have to find some shoes, but otherwise we're 0:04:17.160 --> 0:04:18.000 there's progress. 0:04:18.160 --> 0:04:21.239 Yeah. I really can't wait to get to that weekend 0:04:21.279 --> 0:04:24.200 to see how that unfolds. Between the four of us 0:04:24.200 --> 0:04:27.479 with one bathroom, it's gonna be interesting. 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:29.800 We just make a rule where if someone needs to go, 0:04:30.040 --> 0:04:32.960 we go, Hello, everyone, could you please step out of 0:04:33.000 --> 0:04:36.560 the cabin. I have some business to attend. To No. 0:04:36.720 --> 0:04:39.320 I think anyone that has to go number two goes 0:04:39.360 --> 0:04:40.120 to the lobby. 0:04:41.480 --> 0:04:42.720 What lobby, I. 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:44.880 Don't know, the lobby, lodge. There's gonna be some sort 0:04:44.880 --> 0:04:45.400 of lobby. 0:04:45.440 --> 0:04:47.760 You're telling me that I can't go in the privacy 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:49.120 of the own cabin. I have to go to where 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:49.880 the public is. 0:04:50.040 --> 0:04:52.680 Yes, the cabin is way too small for it to 0:04:52.720 --> 0:04:53.920 be stinking. 0:04:53.760 --> 0:04:56.839 Bring popery and we're in matches and we're. 0:04:57.080 --> 0:04:59.080 Yeah, uh huh lobby. 0:04:59.160 --> 0:05:00.680 Well, then I'll go with you. Well in there, but 0:05:00.720 --> 0:05:02.760 I'm not going to the lobby where all these stranger 0:05:02.839 --> 0:05:03.800 dangers are. 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:06.320 I'm not going to know everyone I know. 0:05:06.640 --> 0:05:08.680 Yeah, it's fine, I don't want to do We need 0:05:08.720 --> 0:05:09.680 to make rules. 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:10.600 I know. 0:05:10.680 --> 0:05:12.480 But we have to agree on the rules. Because I'm 0:05:12.520 --> 0:05:13.440 trying to make a rule. 0:05:13.480 --> 0:05:14.800 We should have a vote like survivor. 0:05:16.000 --> 0:05:18.920 I think everyone's going to agree with me, so well, 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:19.360 we'll see. 0:05:19.400 --> 0:05:22.280 Okay, but that's where too to announce the world. Hello, everyone, 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:24.320 please leave. This is what I'm doing. 0:05:24.400 --> 0:05:25.719 We all are in the same position to. 0:05:27.600 --> 0:05:31.720 Have mistake. The most vulnerable in this Robbie should do 0:05:31.760 --> 0:05:33.000 all of his business outside. 0:05:33.040 --> 0:05:35.200 Probably you said he was going to go the woods. 0:05:35.240 --> 0:05:40.520 Yeah, but the other thing is that, well, I did 0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:43.640 buy the mirror I bought. We bought like individual mirrors 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:45.680 that like our travel size and light up so that 0:05:45.720 --> 0:05:48.880 we can door make up without feeling were fighting over 0:05:48.920 --> 0:05:49.960 the bathroom. 0:05:50.000 --> 0:05:50.760 The one bathroom. 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:53.800 Yeah, so it'll be as close to camping as I 0:05:53.880 --> 0:05:56.799 will probably ever get. Because I'm so scared of bears. 0:05:57.360 --> 0:05:58.320 Did you know this about me? 0:05:58.600 --> 0:05:58.920 No? 0:06:00.400 --> 0:06:03.240 Very like never come up in all these years of 0:06:03.320 --> 0:06:03.840 this show. 0:06:03.880 --> 0:06:09.960 This is like a newfound fear where I realized that 0:06:10.520 --> 0:06:11.720 they're near by us. 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:15.000 So I've actually never been to Aspen, and I are 0:06:15.040 --> 0:06:16.840 there bears just like roaming around. 0:06:17.640 --> 0:06:22.159 Yeah, Colorado has a lot of bears. Oh so does California. 0:06:22.400 --> 0:06:23.520 We're in Bear County. 0:06:23.640 --> 0:06:26.840 Actually, I would imagine that they're not staying near the 0:06:27.040 --> 0:06:28.120 lodge area. 0:06:28.400 --> 0:06:31.679 I'll throw this in. All I did was search bears Aspen. 0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:33.760 The first thing that comes up. Aspen is centered in 0:06:33.920 --> 0:06:38.400 prime bear habitat, and Aspen police are frequently summoned to 0:06:38.440 --> 0:06:39.960 situations involving bears. 0:06:41.000 --> 0:06:42.200 My stomach just straws. 0:06:43.760 --> 0:06:45.120 Why am I not scared of a bear? 0:06:45.760 --> 0:06:48.880 They seek? Yeah, I think you're ignorant. 0:06:49.000 --> 0:06:51.040 I am like, I'm thinking of what's his name Fuzzy 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:54.240 Wuzzy was a bear. Fuzzy Wuzzy had no fuzzy. 0:06:55.080 --> 0:06:57.760 We'll rip you to shreds a little fuzzy Wuzzy. Here's 0:06:57.760 --> 0:07:00.480 the thing. I went. Haley and I went to Jackson 0:07:00.480 --> 0:07:03.080 Hole last year and we went on a safari and 0:07:03.120 --> 0:07:06.839 we learned so much about grizzly bears that I'm forever 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:09.400 changed because my biggest fear has always been sharks in 0:07:09.480 --> 0:07:12.040 the ocean, but I just say out the ocean. But 0:07:12.120 --> 0:07:15.400 now the bear thing. Haley's dream is to go camping 0:07:15.400 --> 0:07:19.119 in a tent. I'm like, there's no chance ever. 0:07:19.440 --> 0:07:22.679 Yeah that's happening. So where did that come from? 0:07:22.760 --> 0:07:24.200 What were we talking about. 0:07:24.000 --> 0:07:25.880 Our cabin the bears? Yeah, scared. 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:28.880 Yeah, that's the closest I'll be to camping. But I'm excited. 0:07:29.120 --> 0:07:30.000 I think it's gonna be. 0:07:31.520 --> 0:07:33.280 A really, really fun weekend. 0:07:33.320 --> 0:07:35.200 I think it's gonna be a really fun weekend. And 0:07:35.280 --> 0:07:38.240 I was stressed about the mountain chic attire. But now 0:07:38.280 --> 0:07:41.000 that I'm locked and loaded, I'm feeling pretty good. 0:07:41.080 --> 0:07:42.440 Yeah, there's no stress about that. 0:07:42.520 --> 0:07:43.840 I'm feeling like I have some swag. 0:07:44.120 --> 0:07:48.400 We haven't done a podcast since the Beyonce concert. 0:07:48.680 --> 0:07:49.960 Yes, that I did attend. 0:07:50.120 --> 0:07:53.320 Yes, we both have attended different concerts. 0:07:53.520 --> 0:07:55.080 Yes, very different. 0:07:55.040 --> 0:07:57.440 Very different. And I think we can take a break 0:07:57.480 --> 0:08:00.480 and come back and talk about those shows. 0:08:00.520 --> 0:08:18.239 Great, all right, we're back. So I did go to Beyonce. 0:08:18.440 --> 0:08:21.320 We went to the first night of the Renaissance tour, 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:24.080 which was I think Friday night. She did three nights, 0:08:25.360 --> 0:08:26.560 No Saturday night, then. 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:28.280 She did Friday, Saturday, and Monday. 0:08:29.880 --> 0:08:32.720 Are you sure she didn't do Saturday, Sunday, Monday. I 0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:33.360 think she did. 0:08:33.640 --> 0:08:35.480 Oh I'm not sure. 0:08:35.720 --> 0:08:37.240 I think we went on a Saturday night. 0:08:37.280 --> 0:08:41.880 Anyways, it was incredible, and you know what, everyone, including yourself, 0:08:42.679 --> 0:08:44.120 everyone was like, who is better? 0:08:44.200 --> 0:08:48.040 Taylor Beyonce? You can't compare them? 0:08:48.160 --> 0:08:52.400 First of all, that is actually false information, actually very 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:53.160 false information. 0:08:53.200 --> 0:08:53.720 What do you ask? 0:08:54.200 --> 0:08:56.800 I asked how the Beyonce concert? Go back find the receipts? 0:08:57.120 --> 0:09:00.360 Because I was surprised by your response. It was very judge. 0:09:00.679 --> 0:09:02.000 And I was like, first of. 0:09:02.000 --> 0:09:03.560 All, wait, what was judgy? 0:09:03.679 --> 0:09:05.280 Because I go, how was the Beyonce concert? And you 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:07.000 were like I didn't really know a lot of the songs, 0:09:07.320 --> 0:09:09.240 but I liked it or whatever, and I was like, yeah, 0:09:09.280 --> 0:09:10.880 it was no, it's no Era's tour, and what I 0:09:10.920 --> 0:09:14.280 meant by that was Taylor's tour. She gives you all 0:09:14.320 --> 0:09:16.240 the eras, so she goes and she was singing like 0:09:16.480 --> 0:09:19.319 all the main hits, and Beyonce doesn't do that. Beyonce's 0:09:19.320 --> 0:09:20.959 song is the renaissance albums. 0:09:21.280 --> 0:09:23.760 Most tours are focused on one correct. 0:09:23.400 --> 0:09:25.400 So that it was not me trying to compare who 0:09:25.480 --> 0:09:28.000 was better Beyonce or Taylor. I was just saying it 0:09:28.040 --> 0:09:31.200 wasn't like the Era's tour where we're getting right. That's 0:09:31.200 --> 0:09:32.560 not comparing them. They're just saying. 0:09:32.800 --> 0:09:35.520 I think you are saying you prefer Taylor to Beyonce 0:09:35.720 --> 0:09:37.840 in this scenario because you liked the career. 0:09:38.200 --> 0:09:41.320 But I but what Becca said was I point blank 0:09:41.360 --> 0:09:43.640 said who was better Beyonce or Taylor? Did I say that? 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:44.079 You did it? 0:09:44.320 --> 0:09:47.079 Thank you? And I will say that is propaganda. That 0:09:47.320 --> 0:09:52.360 is pander. That is libelous information about a lot of people. 0:09:54.400 --> 0:09:55.679 Propaganda. 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:57.280 But I'm not right. 0:09:57.480 --> 0:10:03.560 I think that how you explained it is different how 0:10:03.559 --> 0:10:05.760 I read it, because I did read it of like, oh, 0:10:05.800 --> 0:10:07.959 it was no aras tour, but you were meaning like, oh, 0:10:08.000 --> 0:10:09.920 she did all her albums like each hit from every. 0:10:09.840 --> 0:10:12.160 Album was I didn't know so many of the songs. 0:10:12.240 --> 0:10:14.360 Tonya said, how was Beyonce? I said, she's incredible. 0:10:14.400 --> 0:10:16.400 I didn't know a lot of songs from a Renaissance albums, 0:10:16.400 --> 0:10:17.640 so there were a lot of moments where I just 0:10:17.720 --> 0:10:19.880 enjoyed and watched. But the visuals were insane and her 0:10:19.960 --> 0:10:22.400 voice and the dancers and she goes and you go, yeah, 0:10:22.400 --> 0:10:24.920 I heard it was eighty percent Renaissance. I said, yeah, 0:10:24.920 --> 0:10:27.600 I could have used a halo if I were a boy. Sorry, 0:10:27.679 --> 0:10:29.959 but she did a lot of her big songs. Yeah, 0:10:30.000 --> 0:10:32.120 And she said, yeah, definitely not an aras tour. And 0:10:32.160 --> 0:10:34.360 I said, I think if I was obsessed with Renaissance 0:10:34.400 --> 0:10:36.920 like I was with Lemonade and her older albums, I 0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:41.800 would have been like, it's same level. But I was like, honestly, 0:10:41.880 --> 0:10:44.800 not really any need to compare because they're both incredible, 0:10:45.000 --> 0:10:47.959 mega talent, contributing to women empowerment in their own right 0:10:48.000 --> 0:10:48.840 and we love to see it. 0:10:49.040 --> 0:10:50.440 What a wordy text exchange. 0:10:50.600 --> 0:10:52.720 Yeah, and also like so Judgy, I'm like, I wasn't 0:10:52.720 --> 0:10:56.400 comparing Taylor to Beyonce. Actually, thank you, get off your little. 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:59.640 High horse over there, slammery size, and I think that 0:10:59.760 --> 0:11:04.040 you read me as judge, and I read you as divisive, 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:06.520 so I think they read each other and I was 0:11:06.559 --> 0:11:09.240 more just like, yeah, it was amazing. But you know 0:11:09.520 --> 0:11:10.679 it's hard to compare. 0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:13.480 When people can say that who was better, Taylor Beyonce. 0:11:13.640 --> 0:11:16.840 It's like you can't. There's not the like, and it's 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:20.199 also your personal preference, like they're not. Yeah, I think 0:11:20.200 --> 0:11:22.560 they're on the same like playing field. 0:11:23.040 --> 0:11:28.880 Their talent is, their talent is equal. The show couldn't 0:11:28.920 --> 0:11:29.520 be more different. 0:11:29.679 --> 0:11:31.240 Yeah, but you know, I'm glad that we pulled up 0:11:31.240 --> 0:11:34.679 those receipts because slandery Susan over there was trying to. 0:11:37.320 --> 0:11:41.400 Your divisive Deborah if I'm slandering Susan. 0:11:41.679 --> 0:11:45.240 So it just trying to fable me. 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:46.440 I'm just gonna call you dad. 0:11:49.400 --> 0:11:52.840 We're I'm talking about when like you get miscar. 0:11:58.280 --> 0:12:00.400 We were just talking about this thirteen years of and 0:12:00.440 --> 0:12:02.840 I speak to you pretty well, Fable though. 0:12:02.960 --> 0:12:06.920 So the problem is I slept five hours, not even 0:12:06.960 --> 0:12:08.960 five hours after the Jonas show, and I still have 0:12:09.080 --> 0:12:13.280 not recuperated. I am son sleep and so I'm not 0:12:13.480 --> 0:12:14.800 at my sharpest right now. 0:12:15.480 --> 0:12:17.920 All that to say, Beyonce and Taylor Sush are both 0:12:17.920 --> 0:12:20.280 incredible and we love them both. 0:12:20.360 --> 0:12:22.400 And you know who else was incredible? Tell us the 0:12:22.520 --> 0:12:23.280 Jonas brothers. 0:12:23.360 --> 0:12:24.679 Tell me why they're incredible. 0:12:25.040 --> 0:12:28.000 First of all, I've been watching the brothers Jonas perform 0:12:28.080 --> 0:12:31.920 for ten years and they just are amazing. Every show 0:12:32.000 --> 0:12:34.800 hits and it's so They're so entertaining. Their songs are 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:36.760 so catchy. It just puts you in a good mood. 0:12:37.400 --> 0:12:40.600 And so I'll never say no to a Jonah's Brother 0:12:40.679 --> 0:12:43.679 show or a Jonah's Brother's party. That's my rule in 0:12:43.760 --> 0:12:46.600 life is never say no to a Jonas invite. Yeah, 0:12:47.400 --> 0:12:49.880 because I actually got invited to Joe and Sophie's wedding 0:12:49.920 --> 0:12:52.400 in Vegas and you and I said no because I 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:53.520 had to get on a flight to. 0:12:53.440 --> 0:12:54.240 Come talk to La. 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:56.800 They might still be together now if you. 0:12:56.800 --> 0:12:59.839 Had been there, because I regretted it ever since. 0:13:00.360 --> 0:13:01.320 What are you and Brad? 0:13:01.520 --> 0:13:03.679 You're the lucky We're like the lucky socks. You're the 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:04.360 lucky socks. 0:13:04.400 --> 0:13:06.720 And yeah, you were there, we were not there. So 0:13:06.840 --> 0:13:08.480 that was kind of like I made that cardinal rule, 0:13:08.559 --> 0:13:10.520 never say no to Jonahs invites. So we went to 0:13:10.559 --> 0:13:12.800 the show. There was so much crazy traffic we ended 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:17.160 up missing the first two songs. So we're sprinting to 0:13:17.240 --> 0:13:19.880 our seats and everybody's already in their seats, so like 0:13:19.920 --> 0:13:22.280 not a lot of people sprinting through the aisles. And 0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:25.559 it's so funny. I could see I could see them 0:13:25.640 --> 0:13:27.920 clock us because we were like screaming and like there 0:13:27.960 --> 0:13:29.880 was six of us or were they were? Yeah, you know, 0:13:30.600 --> 0:13:32.840 I could see them clock us. And I always I 0:13:32.920 --> 0:13:34.560 know when they see us because they kind of like 0:13:34.640 --> 0:13:37.880 smirk and stuff. And so we went to the after party. 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:39.760 There's a lot of scarbers there by the way, a 0:13:39.760 --> 0:13:42.520 lot of starburars. Know. At the intermission during the concert, 0:13:42.520 --> 0:13:45.280 a lot of scarburs came up. But we went to 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:48.679 the after party after and the first thing Kevin said 0:13:48.840 --> 0:13:53.559 was better late than ever, and like you saw us, 0:13:53.600 --> 0:13:57.439 And we were like, yeah, we we missed the first 0:13:57.480 --> 0:13:59.000 two songs. We didn't realize they went on to eight 0:13:59.080 --> 0:14:03.040 fifteen like on the nose, and the traffic was crazy 0:14:03.080 --> 0:14:04.839 and then I had to pee really bad, so we 0:14:05.480 --> 0:14:07.160 it was yeah, we was the first two songs. But 0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:08.760 I was like, he totally clocked us. 0:14:08.800 --> 0:14:11.680 For someone who's late from time to time, Becca, is 0:14:11.679 --> 0:14:13.920 that mortifying to you to be called to the thought 0:14:13.920 --> 0:14:16.640 of being called out by the performer as being late 0:14:16.720 --> 0:14:17.280 to their show. 0:14:17.720 --> 0:14:20.160 There's a sick part of me that would feel like 0:14:21.560 --> 0:14:22.640 honored that they saw me. 0:14:22.800 --> 0:14:24.200 Yeah, yeah, for sure. Yeah yeah no. 0:14:24.280 --> 0:14:26.400 But this is the best part is he was we 0:14:26.400 --> 0:14:28.440 were talking about how hot it was like in LA 0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:31.280 and I was like, he was saying, He's like, I 0:14:31.320 --> 0:14:33.400 didn't realize how hot it was in La right now, 0:14:33.400 --> 0:14:36.720 Like it was so hot and humid, and I know, 0:14:36.800 --> 0:14:39.640 I was dancing for ten minutes and I was dripping sweaty. 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:41.560 He goes, yeah, I could see you were holding the 0:14:41.720 --> 0:14:43.800 half the show, was holding my hair up like this, 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:46.840 like holding it up because it was so hot and sweaty. 0:14:46.920 --> 0:14:48.200 I was holding my hair up. He's like, I could 0:14:48.200 --> 0:14:48.920 see you holding your. 0:14:48.880 --> 0:14:50.840 Hair up and I was really paying attention to you. 0:14:50.960 --> 0:14:52.400 Well, yeah, I mean you should see us. We look 0:14:52.480 --> 0:14:57.320 like like a jack in the box in the crowd, 0:14:57.640 --> 0:15:00.320 you know, like just pink, just pink pong like that. 0:15:00.520 --> 0:15:03.320 You know, it's like it's very hard to miss. Brad 0:15:03.360 --> 0:15:04.320 and I you know, yeah. 0:15:04.400 --> 0:15:07.840 No. Brad said that he thinks Nick is like potentially 0:15:08.240 --> 0:15:11.320 every time he sees y'all close to filing a restraining order. 0:15:11.600 --> 0:15:13.920 No, I know, but then anytime we when we see 0:15:13.960 --> 0:15:15.960 Nick after the show, he's very sweet and he's like, 0:15:15.960 --> 0:15:18.040 it's always so good to see you guys in the crowd. 0:15:18.200 --> 0:15:20.440 And he even said he suggested he goes you guys 0:15:20.440 --> 0:15:22.320 should come to a non LA show. I think it'd 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:24.320 be really fun for you to see like a non LNS, 0:15:24.400 --> 0:15:25.160 Like look. 0:15:24.960 --> 0:15:28.600 At Nick extending the olive branch, extending the olive branch. 0:15:28.840 --> 0:15:29.360 I didn't tell. 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:32.000 Because Kevin is really the one that's like our friend 0:15:32.040 --> 0:15:36.560 and we like talk to him and it's your favorite. Yeah, okay, yeah, 0:15:36.560 --> 0:15:38.120 But I did see Joe and I gave him a hug. 0:15:38.920 --> 0:15:41.480 I didn't really say anything, any details, no, nothing, and 0:15:41.520 --> 0:15:43.360 he could tell it. I was like, I didn't even 0:15:43.360 --> 0:15:44.880 want to go up to him because I'm like, he's 0:15:44.920 --> 0:15:46.760 obviously going through it, you know. But I did give 0:15:46.800 --> 0:15:48.480 him a hug and left him be and said a 0:15:48.480 --> 0:15:53.000 great show. But you know what's really interesting, I had 0:15:53.000 --> 0:15:55.600 a girl go off on me and my DMS about 0:15:55.680 --> 0:15:57.360 the fact that I was at the Jonas Brothers show, 0:15:57.400 --> 0:15:58.960 and she was like, how can you be a modern 0:15:59.000 --> 0:16:02.760 woman and support this guy who's spreading this narrative of 0:16:03.400 --> 0:16:05.440 a woman that is not a good mom. And he 0:16:05.480 --> 0:16:09.440 wasn't there to support her, and I was just like, respectfully, 0:16:09.560 --> 0:16:12.880 as a modern woman, I choose to love Joe and 0:16:12.920 --> 0:16:15.560 I choose to love Sophie, and I am not changing that. 0:16:15.680 --> 0:16:20.720 And also, there's so many stories out in the zeitgeist 0:16:20.800 --> 0:16:23.520 or whatever you yeah, the zeitgeist about these two, and 0:16:23.560 --> 0:16:26.600 I don't believe any of it, to be honest, And. 0:16:26.880 --> 0:16:28.920 Because if it didn't come from Joe's lips. 0:16:28.920 --> 0:16:31.920 Don't believe it, believe it. And so I just was 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:34.440 kind of give, you know, saying I'm just choosing. I 0:16:34.520 --> 0:16:37.200 like that I've known them both and I've known Joe 0:16:37.240 --> 0:16:39.600 for over a decade, and I, you know, like, I'm 0:16:39.600 --> 0:16:42.480 not letting this. I'm a Jonah's brother span And she 0:16:42.600 --> 0:16:46.520 just went off on me and then unfollowed me, Oh yeah, yeah. 0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:48.680 I was like, happy Sunday, here's Joe. 0:16:48.720 --> 0:16:52.880 By the way, I just want to say, yeah, if 0:16:52.880 --> 0:16:54.600 you don't hear from these lips, don't. 0:16:54.400 --> 0:16:55.080 Do a little blue king. 0:16:57.960 --> 0:16:59.720 But my question is, what about her lips? What if 0:16:59.720 --> 0:17:00.720 we hear from her lips? 0:17:01.640 --> 0:17:02.880 Well, I'm sure that's mine too, But I think he 0:17:02.920 --> 0:17:04.639 meant like, if you don't hear from our lips, he 0:17:04.640 --> 0:17:07.840 should have said our but yeah, you know, he's only 0:17:07.880 --> 0:17:11.040 responsible for himself. But yeah, and I like wrote like 0:17:11.040 --> 0:17:12.480 a very thoughtful response. I was like, you know, I 0:17:12.520 --> 0:17:16.000 think sometimes in divorce, you know, just two people trying 0:17:16.040 --> 0:17:18.280 their best and it doesn't work out, and there's not 0:17:18.320 --> 0:17:21.520 necessarily a villain, and we don't have to villify villainize 0:17:21.560 --> 0:17:24.480 whatever it is. Either one of them and their teams 0:17:24.520 --> 0:17:26.159 could be doing this for all we know, like they 0:17:26.160 --> 0:17:28.200 have no control, and you know, I don't know. 0:17:29.240 --> 0:17:31.440 Yeah, it's a tough situation. 0:17:31.720 --> 0:17:34.760 I don't like attacks in my DMS. I might need 0:17:34.800 --> 0:17:37.240 to like pause on reading the DMS for a beat. 0:17:37.440 --> 0:17:39.359 Oh yeah, sometimes I have to take a pause of 0:17:39.359 --> 0:17:40.280 reading DMS. 0:17:40.480 --> 0:17:43.280 It was very it was very nasty, even when I 0:17:43.320 --> 0:17:45.280 was like, I was trying to be nice with her, nasty, 0:17:45.320 --> 0:17:47.359 and then she just kept going, Okay. 0:17:47.119 --> 0:17:49.159 She did what she wanted to do. Yeah, you know, 0:17:49.320 --> 0:17:51.640 someone there's this whole mentality of just like let them. 0:17:52.040 --> 0:17:54.080 It's like someone wants to un follow you, let them. 0:17:54.400 --> 0:17:56.119 He has to talk about if someone wants to hang 0:17:56.160 --> 0:17:58.680 out without you, let them, it's just like let them. 0:17:58.800 --> 0:18:00.560 Let's talk control over what people do. 0:18:00.720 --> 0:18:03.440